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Romeo In The Morning 7-14-26 · Romeo & Friends

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  Speaker 1: That was going on everybody. It's throwing me out. It's Tuesday.
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  Speaker 1: What do we talk about? We talked about love at
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  Speaker 1: first sight. Then we talked about kids in their bedtime routine.
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  Speaker 1: Who's supposed to handle that? We also got into beating
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  Speaker 1: this baker's field. He's going to be triple digits for
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  Speaker 1: a few days. How do you get out of the heat?
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  Speaker 1: How do you stay cool? Let's go well, Hey, Rome,
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  Speaker 1: I was hoping you can help me out with something.
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  Speaker 1: I know you're not talking about this right now, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm a forty three year old guy, single, never been married,
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  Speaker 1: got a good job, house, car, everything. I've been dating
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  Speaker 1: this forty five year old kind kind of like me. Single,
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  Speaker 1: never been married, no kids, just works. Scot's her own place.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's a good match. Although recently I met
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  Speaker 1: this forty five year old divorced woman who lives in
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  Speaker 1: my neighborhood. Ear and her husband split up, so we've
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  Speaker 1: been talking seeing each other at the mailbox and it
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  Speaker 1: seems like she's into me, and I was just curious, Rome,
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  Speaker 1: what do you think I should do? Oh? Short answer,
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  Speaker 1: if you have a shot, go out, go out and
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  Speaker 1: get you The forty five year old divorced woman, because well,
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  Speaker 1: first of all, why, I guess the big question is
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  Speaker 1: if you're already seeing one woman, why is this other
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  Speaker 1: woman appealing to you? And I will tell you this
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  Speaker 1: Why she's appealing to you, because she's better than the
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  Speaker 1: woman you got right now, okay, and I'll just a
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  Speaker 1: forty five year old woman who's single, never been married,
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  Speaker 1: no kids, there's something wrong with her as it pertains
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  Speaker 1: to relationships. Some man didn't or men do not want
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  Speaker 1: her for some reason. Okay, even if her reason is
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  Speaker 1: she don't need a man. But if you've been dating her,
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  Speaker 1: obviously she wants a man. Okay, So that's a red flo.
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  Speaker 1: A woman over forty who's never been married, no kids,
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  Speaker 1: isn't in a long term relationship is a red flag.
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  Speaker 1: Compared to a forty four what do you say, forty
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  Speaker 1: five year old woman who's divorced. She is the much
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  Speaker 1: bigger She is the much bigger, better catch, so to speak.
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  Speaker 1: She's got experience, she knows what she's wants. Obviously, it
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  Speaker 1: could have been him for the divorce and not her.
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  Speaker 1: He could have been the problem. She may not have
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  Speaker 1: been the problem. They know and they have a little
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  Speaker 1: more understanding when it comes to dealing with men because
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  Speaker 1: they've been married, so they get it. There's a little
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  Speaker 1: give and take there, they understand. Okay, a forty five
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  Speaker 1: year old single woman only does what she wants. She
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  Speaker 1: doesn't definitely listen to nobody else. So when you do something,
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  Speaker 1: she'll just tell you it's your fault. So if you're
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  Speaker 1: asking my opinion, go out with the forty five year
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  Speaker 1: old divorced woman because she's the one that's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: She's just gonna be better than a forty five year
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  Speaker 1: old single woman who's never been married, never had kids,
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  Speaker 1: never had any responsibility or accountability to a relationship. That's
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  Speaker 1: the other thing. The divorced woman knows what it's like
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  Speaker 1: to have an accountability to a relationship. So yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: guess that wasn't the short answer, but go with the
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  Speaker 1: go with the divorcee Read eight four two five four
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  Speaker 1: seven seven. So Rome, Oh, I was telling a guy
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  Speaker 1: just asked me about about dating advice. He was asking me,
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  Speaker 1: I guess he has an option between I guess two
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  Speaker 1: women the same age. One's never been in a relationship,
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  Speaker 1: ave never been married, no kids, the other ones divorced,
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  Speaker 1: and he was asking me. For some reason, he was
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  Speaker 1: asking me which one he should choose, And you should
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  Speaker 1: always choose the divorcee. I didn't even ask if the
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  Speaker 1: divorce he had kids, But it really doesn't matter at
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  Speaker 1: this point. But yeah, you should always choose if you
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  Speaker 1: have a choice between a single woman, between two single women,
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  Speaker 1: one's never been married, one's never been in a long
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  Speaker 1: term relationship, so to speak. Even I would even if
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  Speaker 1: you're comparing not even long term relationship, but even if
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  Speaker 1: you're comparing marriage, you know, one who's been divorced than
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  Speaker 1: one who hasn't. Yeah, you should always choose the divorcee.
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  Speaker 1: That one is always going to be better, because for
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  Speaker 1: some reason, if you're forty five and they were both
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  Speaker 1: forty five, he said, if you're forty five and single, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're the problem. You are the problem with relationships. But
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying you're not the problem with life. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not saying that you can't. You're probably you might be
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  Speaker 1: very successful in your life financially and can do it
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  Speaker 1: all on your own. But relationships you're not good at.
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  Speaker 1: That's just that's just fact. At least the divorce ee
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  Speaker 1: would have taken their shot, you know, is able to
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  Speaker 1: get a man to marry her, and maybe it's his
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  Speaker 1: fault they're divorced. Maybe she's a great woman and she's
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  Speaker 1: got more experience, she's got more accountability, she just has
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  Speaker 1: a lot more to offer than the single woman who's
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  Speaker 1: never been married. I'm just saying, if you're comparing a
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  Speaker 1: single woman to a divorce woman at the same age, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: alrighty four two five four or seven to seven Rome,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to disagree with you because those divorce
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  Speaker 1: women can be more complicated because they know what they
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  Speaker 1: want and maybe they're the reason that the marriage didn't
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  Speaker 1: work out because of them, not because of him. This
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  Speaker 1: guy could be just getting with another woman who's looking
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  Speaker 1: for a guy to take care of him, oh, take
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  Speaker 1: care of her, looking for someone else to take care
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  Speaker 1: of her, as opposed to the single woman you said,
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  Speaker 1: who has her own stuff going on and he doesn't
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  Speaker 1: need to take care of her. Yeah, I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: see what you're saying about the taking care of part,
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  Speaker 1: because what you're talking about is the financial part of it. Now,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe the divorced woman is looking for
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  Speaker 1: another guy to financially support her, but okay, you're a man,
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  Speaker 1: you can do it. I'm talking about the mental side
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  Speaker 1: of it, the attitude side of it, the accountability side
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  Speaker 1: of it. The financial stuff can all be worked out.
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  Speaker 1: That's easy. You know, money's not the problem. Money shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: be the problem in your relationship if you're out there
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  Speaker 1: looking for a woman. And we're just going to compare
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  Speaker 1: the two that he's looking at right now. Forty five
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  Speaker 1: year old single woman who he says does have her
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  Speaker 1: own job and everything. She really doesn't need a man financially,
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  Speaker 1: which is fine. A forty five year old di worst
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  Speaker 1: woman who we don't know does she need a man financially,
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  Speaker 1: we don't know. We don't know why she's divorced. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just talking about the relationship itself, outside of the financial
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  Speaker 1: aspect of it, is going to be better with the
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  Speaker 1: forty five year old divorce seat, okay, because she's been
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  Speaker 1: around the block a few more times. She knows how
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  Speaker 1: to be in a relationship, whether it be good or bad.
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  Speaker 1: She knows that there's an accountability to somebody else when
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  Speaker 1: you're in a relationship. A single woman who has her
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  Speaker 1: and I'm just going to give the single woman the
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  Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt and say, she's got a career
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  Speaker 1: and she just doesn't need anything from nobody if she
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  Speaker 1: doesn't want it. She doesn't know how to be accountable
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  Speaker 1: to a relationship. That's a red flag, especially at that age. Now,
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  Speaker 1: if you're talking about twenty five, we have a different mentality.
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  Speaker 1: But at forty five, she's not going to have an
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  Speaker 1: accountability super late. It's her way and of the highway,
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  Speaker 1: and if you don't do it her way, it's his fault. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's gonna be her mentality. So no, So I get
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  Speaker 1: what you're saying about the finances, but finance is easy.
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  Speaker 1: You're a man, you can pay for it. Hey, Rome,
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  Speaker 1: you were talking about that guy choose in between a
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  Speaker 1: single woman who's never been married or a divorced woman. Look,
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  Speaker 1: let me tell you, like this room, I'm divorced and
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  Speaker 1: my ex wife is a pain in the ass. I
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't want I wouldn't wish her on any dude. So
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  Speaker 1: don't tell that guy to go with the divorced woman.
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  Speaker 1: The single woman has less uh less what what is
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  Speaker 1: that word? Or less baggage? The single woman is less
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  Speaker 1: baggage than a divorced woman, you think, so, I, well,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to tell me why you're divorced. A
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  Speaker 1: lot of you guys will blame your wives, your ex
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  Speaker 1: wives for your divorce, but could have hit you. I
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  Speaker 1: mean that, I'm just curious about that. But I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it was Surfaul. I'm not saying that all divorced
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  Speaker 1: women are better than single women, but I will say,
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  Speaker 1: at a certain age, when you're dating women or trying
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  Speaker 1: to be in a relationship with women, divorced women are
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  Speaker 1: better than single women over forty. Always go with the
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  Speaker 1: divorced woman, because the single woman who's never been in
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  Speaker 1: a relationship over forty has way more, way more red
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  Speaker 1: flags than the divorced woman under forty. Okay, we could
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  Speaker 1: have a different conversation, but he was talking about two
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  Speaker 1: women over forty. Okay, already foursu pop four or seven
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  Speaker 1: at seven yo? Rome, the guy who texted you about
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  Speaker 1: the woman, what does he have to offer? I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: This guy was asking me a question. I guess he's
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  Speaker 1: trying to choose between a couple of different women. They're
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  Speaker 1: both around the same age, over forty, but one has
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  Speaker 1: never been in a relationship, never been married, and well,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if she's been in a relationship, just
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  Speaker 1: never been married, right, one of these career type womens,
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  Speaker 1: I'm guessing. And the other one, he said, is a
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  Speaker 1: woman in his neighborhood who has recently gotten divorced. And
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  Speaker 1: he's asking me. Apparently he's been dating the single woman.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, they're both single, but been dating the woman
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  Speaker 1: that's never been married, and he met obviously the neighbor
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  Speaker 1: whoever she is. They've been talking for some time, I guess,
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  Speaker 1: and he's finding her a lot more interesting, so he's
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  Speaker 1: asking me about it, and I just I would always
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  Speaker 1: go with the divorced woman. Any time you're dating over
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  Speaker 1: the age of forty, go with the divorced woman, because
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  Speaker 1: she just the main specific thing is that she knows
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  Speaker 1: what it's like to be accountable to a relationship. A
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  Speaker 1: woman who's never been married does not know what it's
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  Speaker 1: like to be accountable to a relationship. She knows what
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  Speaker 1: it's like to be accountable to herself and take care
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  Speaker 1: of herself, but she doesn't know what it's like to
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  Speaker 1: be accountable to a relationship. And that's the big deal. Basically,
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  Speaker 1: the divorce, he she got a lot of she got
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  Speaker 1: a lot more under her belt than the woman who's
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  Speaker 1: never been in that position. And yeah, already four two
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  Speaker 1: five fours seven to seven roam. It all depends on
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  Speaker 1: what he really wants. If he wants to settle down,
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  Speaker 1: go with the divorced one, because more likely she wants
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  Speaker 1: to as well. If he wants a temporary fund, maybe
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  Speaker 1: go with a single one because she doesn't need one.
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  Speaker 1: A man and probably single by choice. Yeah, exactly, you're probably,
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  Speaker 1: you're probably absolutely right about that. I would agree with
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  Speaker 1: that comment. Already four two five four is seven to seven.
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  Speaker 1: A little earlier, a guy he texted me, I guess
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  Speaker 1: he was having a dilemma between a couple of different women.
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  Speaker 1: Women he's been dating one. They're both the same age
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  Speaker 1: of forty four, forty five, they said, He said, they're
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  Speaker 1: both forty five. One of them is, you know, one
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  Speaker 1: of the as he put it, one of these independent
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  Speaker 1: type women, has her own job, career, house, car, all
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  Speaker 1: that stuff. And they've been dating for a while. Apparently
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  Speaker 1: he met a woman in his neighborhood who went through
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  Speaker 1: a divorce, so she's the divorced woman in the neighborhood
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  Speaker 1: and they've been talking and he says he was asking
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  Speaker 1: what I thought between the two, and I think you
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  Speaker 1: go with the divorced woman. I think he said he
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  Speaker 1: was forty three, so he's probably looking to settle down.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't know that for sure, but he's probably
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  Speaker 1: looking to settle down. So I think what he should
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  Speaker 1: do is you go for the divorced woman, because she's
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  Speaker 1: the one that knows how to be accountable to somebody.
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  Speaker 1: She's the one that has the experience of being in
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  Speaker 1: a relationship a lot more in depth than a career minded.
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  Speaker 1: You know, a woman who's never been married or doesn't
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  Speaker 1: have kids, or that type of person has never had
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  Speaker 1: to be accountable to a relationship or anybody else, just themselves,
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  Speaker 1: so they tend to be a little more selfish. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's just the way it is already, four two, five,
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  Speaker 1: four or seven a seven. Hey Romeo, how can you
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  Speaker 1: sit there and say that the woman who's never been
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  Speaker 1: married isn't accountable. She has a job in her career,
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  Speaker 1: she knows what accountability is. Uh yeah, well, but not
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  Speaker 1: to a person. That's different. That's different when you're when
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  Speaker 1: it's just you and you don't have to listen to
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  Speaker 1: somebody else and care about their feelings. Or their wants
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  Speaker 1: or their needs or whatever it may be. A divorced
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  Speaker 1: woman has been through all that, so she knows that
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  Speaker 1: already four two, five, four or seven to seven year Rome.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe the woman uh doesn't need a man, doesn't want
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  Speaker 1: a man, and that's by choice. Well I get that,
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  Speaker 1: and that's fine. There's nothing wrong with it being bite choice.
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  Speaker 1: But obviously she's dating the guy who texted said they've
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  Speaker 1: been dating, so obviously she wants a man for something.
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  Speaker 1: But just let's be honest. And if you can't be
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  Speaker 1: honest with this lady's then I can't have a conversation
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  Speaker 1: with you. Most women who say they're single by choice,
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  Speaker 1: they're just using that as a justification because they can't
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  Speaker 1: keep a relationship. Okay, you know probably, And don't get
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  Speaker 1: me wrong, there are a percentage of women that are.
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  Speaker 1: But most women who say they're single by choice, it's
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  Speaker 1: because they can't keep a relationship. They just use that
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  Speaker 1: as a justification. Okay, I mean, at least be honest
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  Speaker 1: with yourselves. All right, I got this, and I want
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  Speaker 1: to tell I thought this was funny. Hey, Rome, Yesterday
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  Speaker 1: at my job, we were talking about how I grew
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  Speaker 1: to love my now husband, and how a lot of
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  Speaker 1: my coworkers did as well. But we had this one coworker.
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  Speaker 1: They said it was loving first sight with their husband,
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  Speaker 1: like she knew he was the one from day one.
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  Speaker 1: We ended up looking up how many Americans believe in
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  Speaker 1: love it first sight, and it was like fifty six percent. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: that's a lot of dumb ass people, right, do you
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  Speaker 1: believe in love it first sight? First of all, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna tell you this. Your coworker is a jackass. Your
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  Speaker 1: coworker is trying to make herself better than you, guys, Like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: she's better than you because she knew the love of
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  Speaker 1: her life. It was love at first sight. You guys,
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  Speaker 1: actually maybe put in a little work. Maybe he you know,
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  Speaker 1: whatever the case. Maybe it's just like high school sweethearts.
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  Speaker 1: High school sweethearts think they're better than any other relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Oh we met when we were sixteen and we've been together. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're not better. You're actually dumber because of all the
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  Speaker 1: things that you missed out on that you have to
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  Speaker 1: justify to yourself that it was some sort of loved
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  Speaker 1: first sight fate that brought you together, and you disregard
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  Speaker 1: the fact of all the things you missed out on
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  Speaker 1: because you've only had sex with one person your entire life. Okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you didn't grow together, you missed out on everything together. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's really what it is. So your coworker over here
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  Speaker 1: is trying to make herself better, feel better, or you know,
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  Speaker 1: she trying to make herself feel better at your expense.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I knew it was love at first sight. Love
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  Speaker 1: at first site does not exist. Okay, And I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: tell you lust at first sight exists. The first thing
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  Speaker 1: you see when you're looking for somebody is their outward
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  Speaker 1: physical appearance. Okay, that's not love. Those butterflies in your
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  Speaker 1: heart is not love, it's lust. Okay. Love at first
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  Speaker 1: site does not exist. And anybody that says it does
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  Speaker 1: is insecure and trying to make themselves feel better at
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  Speaker 1: your expense or trying to justify their relationship. It's okay
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  Speaker 1: for you, Like you said, it's okay for you to say,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I grew to love my husband, because
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  Speaker 1: that's what dating is, growing, getting to know, falling in love. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Anybody that says love at first sight, no, you're lying
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  Speaker 1: trying to make yourself feel better. You want to make
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  Speaker 1: everybody else think that you're better than them, and you're not,
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  Speaker 1: all righty four two, five four or seven to seven.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, there you go, all right. So I got
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  Speaker 1: this yesterday and I thought it was kind of an
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  Speaker 1: interesting topic about love at first sight. They asked me
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  Speaker 1: if I believe in love it first sight. I don't, Hey, Romeo,
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  Speaker 1: yesterday at my job, we were talking about how I
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  Speaker 1: grew to love my husband and how a lot of
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  Speaker 1: my coworkers did as well. But this one lady, one
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  Speaker 1: coworker said they had love at first sight with their husband,
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  Speaker 1: like she knew he was the one from day one,
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  Speaker 1: And that is not true. No. And first of all,
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  Speaker 1: knowing someone's the one from day one isn't love. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you just might like who they are as a person.
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  Speaker 1: It's not love. You don't just love somebody the first
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  Speaker 1: second you meet them. This is so stupid. It's just
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  Speaker 1: people trying to make themselves be better than you. Like
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  Speaker 1: this whole we we have this relationship game, right, and
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  Speaker 1: the hierarchy of relationships is people who got married in
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  Speaker 1: college are people who got married, you know, out of
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  Speaker 1: high school. Supposedly they're the big winners because they didn't
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  Speaker 1: have to go through a lot of dating. They didn't
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  Speaker 1: have to meet different people. It's just like the person
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  Speaker 1: who got married in high school. They'll make fun of
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  Speaker 1: the person who maybe is on their second marriage, and
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  Speaker 1: their second marriage may be better than your marriage that
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  Speaker 1: you got in high school. But because you didn't have
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  Speaker 1: to go through one, yeah you've won, all right. And
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  Speaker 1: so we ended up looking up how many Americans believe
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  Speaker 1: in love at versaide it was fifty six percent. Well,
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  Speaker 1: what a lot of dumb ass people out there? Do
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  Speaker 1: you believe in love and first sight? Is what they
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  Speaker 1: ask me? And I don't. I don't already four two five, four,
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  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Hey, Romeo, I believe in love at
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: first sight. My wife and I met in high school.
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: We've been together for twenty five years, So I think
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: you're wrong. Being together for twenty five years has nothing
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: to do with love at first sight. And if you
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: think you're in love, if you think you meeting in
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: high school, in high school, you're a dumb ass kid.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: You don't know what love is. You're an idiot. So
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: to sit there and have the audacity to go, you
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: know what, I met my wife in high school, and
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: it was love at first sight. No, it wasn't. You
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: don't even know what love is at that age. All
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: righty four two five four seven seventh. So do you
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: believe in love at first sight? I'm gonna tell you
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: right now if you do. Yeah, we need to have
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: a conversation. Got this text message from a woman who says,
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: at my job, they were talking about how we how
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: I grew to love my husband, and how a lot
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: of my coworkers did as well. But this one woman
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: or one coworker said they had love at first sight. Roome,
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: do you believe in love it first sight? No? I
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: believe she was doing that to try to make herself
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: and her relationship look better than yours. That's all it
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: was already four two five four seven to seven? Good
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: morning to how what's going on today? What's up?
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: You're talking about love at first fight?
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: Yes? She ALRIGHTY four two four seven seven all right?
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: So love it first sight? Is it real? No, it's
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: not real. It is lust at first sight. Okay, then
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: you learned, then you get to know somebody, then you
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: fall in love with them. That all started because this
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: woman had sent me a text mess says, hey, Rome, yesterday,
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: my we were talking about how I grew to love
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: my husband now, and a lot of my coworkers did
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: as well. But there was one coworker who said, no,
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: she was loved first sight, and she's wrong. It wasn't
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: love at first sight. You said that. Your coworker said
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: that because she wants to floss on you, guys. She
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: wants to make her relationship better than your relationship, and
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: that's not true. Love at first sight don't exist unless
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: you're an insecure psychopath who has you know, daddy issues.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: What is that? What is it? What is that? Cleaner?
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: A stage five clinger? Yeah, remember when that was a thing.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: You got into a relationship too fast? Right already? Four
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: two five, four seven to seven. But no, there's nothing
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: wrong with learning to love somebody. I mean, there are
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: people that have been a relationship ships for years now
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: that will tell you, hey, I love my partner more
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: today than I did when I met them. Yeah, of
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: course you do, because you have more life together, you've bond.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: Your bond has got closer and closer over the years.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: How can you sit there and say, the first time
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: you see somebody you're in love with them. Doesn't that
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: seem a little psychotic? Already four, two, five, four or
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Rome I don't believe in love at
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: first sight, but I do believe in sex the first night.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: Hey Romeo, you're just bitter because you don't know what
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: love is. That's why you say that. Or maybe I'm
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: smarter than you and I understand how humans act with
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: each other and how you justify your lives to make
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: yourselves feel better. So I got this text message, but
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: I thought was kind of funny. It says, Hey Romeo.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Yesterday at my job, we were talking about how I
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: grew to love my husband and how a lot of
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: my coworkers did as well. But we had one coworker
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: say they had love at first sight with their husband.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: She knew he was the one from day one. We
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: ended up looking up how many Americans believe in love
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: at first sight, and it's about fifty six percent. It's
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: a lot of dumb ass people. Do you believe in
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: love it first sight? No, I don't. I believe in
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: lust at first sight. I believe you see somebody and
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: you're attracted to them, and if you mistake it for love,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: then you probably should go to therapy. But no, you
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: know who came up with love at first sight women
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: who are trying to justify the fact that they jumped
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: into bed with the dude on the first date. Those
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: are the love at first sight girls. All righty four two, five, four,
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Hey, Roam, I believe love it first
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: sight is just a myth. You can see someone for
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: the first time and feel a connection when you guys interact,
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: but that's not love. It isn't love. That's the point. Yeah,
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: you're absolutely right. It's not love. It's something and but
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: you know, it may be it may be something, but
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: it's not love. It may be lust, it may bee
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know. You just two people meet and you
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: get along, you know, think of it. Think of it
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: also in this way, like, yeah, you have you ever
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: met a person maybe it's your best friend now and
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: you have a you just you get along with each other.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: It's not love, you know. Have you guys ever gone
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: out of town, go to bars, you meet somebody, maybe
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: you meet whoever, guy, girl, whatever, couple, whatever, and you
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: guys just kind of have a rapport. It's not love
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: already four two, five, four or seven to seven? What
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: else do you send me here? Hey?
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: Rome?
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Not love it for love at first night don't exist.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: You fall in love with with with time of knowing
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: your soulmate. I was thirty years old when I fell
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: in love real love. I'm thirty seven years now and
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: I'm still in love with him, even though he went
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: his own way and me mine. Okay, okay, might want
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: to let that go, but okay, but that's what I'm saying.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: Love is a learned behavior that two people build together
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: based on life, based on experiences, based on communication, based
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: on respect, based on all these factors, and you learn
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: to trust somebody you learned. Love at first sight is
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: so ridiculous. Like I said, your coworker only said that
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: because she is she for some reason, she wants to
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: make you guys believe that her relationship is better than yours,
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: because oh, it happened immediately, and it didn't. She's lying,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: alrighty four two five four or seven to seven. So
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: lady texted me instead. Her and coworkers were talking about
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: love it first sight. She was talking how she grew
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: to love her husband, and a lot of her coworkers
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: said the same thing. But one, there's always one right
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: came out and said, no, me and my husband we
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: were love at first sight. No, you weren't stop trying
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: to make yourself out to be something that you're not.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: Like you're you know, like you won the relationship game,
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: and your coworkers the rest of them didn't because it
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: took time to fall in love with their husband, which
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: is what really happens your partner. You don't love them
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: at first, you learn to love them and by your
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: life's experiences as a relationship as a couple. Alrighty four
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: two five four or seven seven eight rom I wonder
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: if that man thinks of his love at first sight
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: or is she just psycho? Good morning? Not what's up?
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: Good mornian to Obbhin's going on?
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: Ain't no love at first site?
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: I know?
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: Okay, So when I the first time I ever saw
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: my ex husband, I knew he was the one, the
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: one I was gonna marry. But there was no love
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: there there was.
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, there was one.
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: There's less big time. It's ton't a while to get
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: that love. So obviously it wasn't love because we were divorced,
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: house we were married twenty years.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: You could still be in love. I mean, you could
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: still learn to love somebody. Divorce somebody I have.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: To learn and love somebody, because once you move in together,
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: it's a whole new faul.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: Let me ask you this question, are you still in
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: love with them?
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: I love him, I have feelings.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: But you're not in love with him.
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: I'm not in love with him. I would do anything
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: for that man. But he's not my husband, he's not
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: my boy.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: He's nothing to me right now.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: He's just my kid's father. But yes, I still love him.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: I will do for him.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: And then the only reason I said that is because
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: to say you're in love with somebody, which means you
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: can fall out of love with somebody and in it. Yeah.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: So anybody said there, oh it was love at first sight.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: No it wasn't because it takes you have to know
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: a person to really love them.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: Oh yep, there's no love efforts. So you saw something,
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: did That's what it is. That's all it is.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: Sad or she gave it up on the first night
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: and had to justify it. I got crankant, I love it.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: First sight is not real? What did you send me here? Hey, roam,
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: it's lust at first sight. Love can develop. Yeah, I
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: agree with that absolutely, room. So you're telling me that
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: there's no love at first sight. You're wrong, because when
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: I walk into the bar or a restaurant and see
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: them lunch specials and it says tacos her wings, it's love,
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: ready to rob, It's not love, it's hunger. Marty, How
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: what's going on?
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: Hey? What's up wrong?
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: Heveryone?
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: What it?
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: Man?
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: Hey? That lady right? You gotta want it first, you
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: know what I mean? And you know we're hav't.
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: We talked about this a long time ago where we
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: were talking how we met me and my wife. Their
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: cousin rask you know, and then she goes. I go, yeah,
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: do you know what soccer status? I said, you know, my
• 28:55
  Speaker 4: boy told me she was stalking me. And then her
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: aunt says, hold me, look sad.
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: She saw you. You fell in love with you. I say,
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: she wanted me. I said, she wasn't in love. How
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: can you fall in love with somebody beatle?
• 29:06
  Speaker 4: You know who they are and what they're about exactly.
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: He didn't like that answer, and I'm like, but we
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: fell in love with each other as a but yeah,
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: you know, but how can you love something that you
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: just could you see it? You don't love it? You
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: want it?
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Absolutely?
• 29:19
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean? Yeah, bro, so I agree
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: with that last lady. You gotta want it before you
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: love it, sure.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: All right? Really, yeah, that's basically how it works. So
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: all of you, anybody out there who's trying to just
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: like this lady who say well it was love at
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: first sight, they're just trying to make themselves feel better
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: about the relationship and trying to outdo you. You know,
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: they're trying to make themselves. Anybody that tells you that
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: is trying to make them better than you. They're trying
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: to make their relationship mean more. It's the same with
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: these people who, uh say, well we meant how will
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: high school sweethearts? How romantic? How great? See how much
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: better we are than everybody. We found each other right away.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: We didn't have to go through you know, dating or
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: anything like that. Yeah, I know you. We were a
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: bunch of insecure losers that had to stay with each
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: other because you were afraid to try the real world.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: I mean, that's really what it is. Why in the
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: hell is Seahawk Lou texting ro This is Seahawk Lou.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: That's not true, Rome. I believe in love at first sight.
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: I fell in love on first site with the barbecue
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: ribs I cooked up this weekend, Lou, Oh my god,
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: they look terrible, and then you sent me a picture
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: of it. They don't even look good at all. They
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: look overcooked, is what they look Yeah, they look overcooked
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: is what they look like? Anyway? All right? Fourteen, five,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: four or seven seven? Anyway, Love at first sight is
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: not real. I mean, it's love is a love is
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: a learned behavior. It's not something that you can I
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: don't need. It's something you feel, but you learn to
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: feel it. Okay. I mean, if you want to know
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: if I'm right or wrong, ask every woman that's been
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: cheated on, every woman that has an ex hud still
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: love them, you know?
• 30:59
  Speaker 4: All right?
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: For two, five, four or seven to seven. Hey, Romeo,
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this. I agree with you. Love
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: at first sight is not real when it comes to
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: a relationship. But love at first sight is real when
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: it comes to having a child. I could see that, Yeah,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: I could see love at first sight when you see
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: your child being born, and yeah, I could see that.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: But not when it comes to relationships, you know. But yeah, okay,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: I'll give you that one. But it's just in relationships.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: How can you love somebody you don't even know. You
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: don't know anything about love is a learned behavior. You
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: fall in love, you fall out of love. You people
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: have done it your whole lives. So don't sit there
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: in neck like you know people who do that. There's
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: two things. There's there's three things that people do. And
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: the reason they say about their relationships say they say, oh,
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: it was love at first sight because they want to
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: make themselves feel better. They want to put their relationship
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: on a pedestal and make it seem like it was
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: better than yours. The other thing is, oh, we're high
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: school sweethearts. High school sweethearts want to tell you how
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: great their relationship was and how they didn't have to
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: go through any trials or tribulations of dating, because well,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: they're high school sweethearts. They're just doing it to brag
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: and try to make themselves think, try to make their
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: relationship better than yours. They're doing it try to make
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: you feel better. And the other thing is soulmates. People
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: who say that are just just wrong. There's no such
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: thing as soulmates. But those three categories of people are
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: saying that to you to make them feel better and
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: to make you feel worse. About your relationship. They're better
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: than you, that's what they're doing. Hey, good morning, Rome.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: I just got this text message coming to Rome. Now,
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: I'm a mama three under three and I've always worked
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: the night shift. Now I have a job that is
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: a day ship. Now I'm not used to doing the
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: bedtime routine with the kids. And he said I have
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: to take over now since he has been doing it
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: for years. Well, how many years? You just said You're
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: a mama three under three? So he's only been doing
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: it for three years. I guess that's still years, right,
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: I think since he has been doing it for years,
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: by all means continue what doing? What you're doing? Romeo?
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: Plus more dads plus more dads are involved nowadays. I
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: hear stories of my aunts getting not getting any help
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: from their husbands. So what are you asking me? What
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: do I think about this? I mean my first question is,
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: as their mother, why would you not want to? Now, No,
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying you have to. I'm by no means standing,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: not by no means discounting your point about you know's
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: already doing it. Why can't dad keep his routine with
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: the kids at bedtime? But I guess my question would
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: be as their mom? Why don't you want to do that?
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: I would think that as a mother, you would want
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: to be the one to do that as opposed to dad.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: But I get it. It's a routine, a three year routine.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: Apparently that why don't you take turns? I mean, I
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: don't know what you're asking me here. You just think
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: the dad should do it. Plus more dads are involved nowadays. Okay,
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: are you the breadwinner? Does he not work? Let me
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: ask you that question. That's another factor that may play
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: into this scenario. Does he have a job or is
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: he just to stay at home? Dad? You know already
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: four two, five, four or seven to seven. I guess
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: the real question, though, is not whether he should keep
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: the routine or not, because now he wants you to
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: do it because you're available to do it now. But
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: you're saying since he's already been doing it for years,
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: he should continue doing it. But I guess my only
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: question is as their mom, and now you have the
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: availability to be there at bedtime, I'm not sure why
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: you don't want to do I get all these wild
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: text messages from people talking about what's going on at home.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: This one says good on to Rome, I'm a mama
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: three under three. I don't even know how that's possible.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: How do you have three kids under three? I've always
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: worked night shift. Now I have a job that is
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: a day shift. I'm not used to doing the bedtime
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: routine at all. The kids. Oh, now the kids. And
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: now with the kids, he said, I have to take
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: over now since he's been doing it for years. Somebody
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: needs to do the math on this. You've got three
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: kids under three? How did you have time to have
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: a job. First of all, that's three kids in three years?
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: Is that right? Am I right about that? Yeah? That's
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: a anyway, the husband says her. He says, Dad says,
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: now that you're working days, you got to do the
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: nighttime routine. He's been doing it for years. More dads
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: are involved nowadays. I hear stories of my aunties with
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: not getting any help from their husbands. But or you
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: said getting help, I mean I don't know. Like I said,
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: I don't know already four teen five, four seven to seven, room.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: The question I have is your same question. What mother
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: doesn't want to put her children to bed? I have
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: never known that to be true. I'm a mother of two.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: I always wanted to be there for my kids at
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: nighttime for some reason, just like either when they wake up.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: I don't know if it's me, the mom and me
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: or what. So that lady is just being weird rome
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: What is wrong with her? I have no idea. I
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: would think that you would be excited now that you
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: get to put your kids to bed, right, I would think,
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: But I mean, so what are you going to do
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: while you're husband is handling the nighttime routine? What is
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: your plan? Sounds a little bit selfish to me, but
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: I could be wrong. I don't know a good Morton
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: rome I'm a mama three under three, always work night shift.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: I have a job that is day shift now, and
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: I'm not used to doing the bedtime routine with the kids.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: And my husband is their husband or baby daddy whoever.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: He said I have to take over since he's been
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: doing it for years. I think since he's been doing
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: it for years, by all means continue doing what you're doing, Romeo.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: Plus mor dads are involved nowadays. I hear stories of
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: my auntie aunt say getting not getting help from their husband.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: So okay, I get it. I mean fair enough, all right?
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: Afore two or seven to seven. I just don't understand
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: why you why you wouldn't want to do it, That's
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: all I don't get. But that's just me all right
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: before for seven to seven? Let's here, what'd you say here? Hey, Romeo,
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: you're right about all three? Love at first sight, no
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: such thing. High school sweethearts, Nope. I know a couple
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: that's been together for over thirty years since high school
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: and they don't even talk to each other anymore, but
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: still married. Soulmates Nope, because I got a type of
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: women that I like, And then there's a lot of
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: women out there that this is my type, but can
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: never be my soulmate because they're probably a better person
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: for me out there to one more blah blah blah,
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: we could better. Okay, all right, well okay, hey, rome
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: she's a stripper. What do you mean she's a stripper? Oh?
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: The woman, the mom, the mama three maybe already fourteen, five,
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: four or seven seven a rome I agree with her.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: Why doesn't the husband just continue doing what he's doing
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: if he's already doing it, he's the father of the children.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: There's no reason for her, even though she has the
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: time to do it, to start now. So she's absolutely
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: light right Romeo okay Yo, Rome. Seahawk Lou once said
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: men have it most difficult because during birth, men get
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: the uncomfortable seat and women get to lay down in
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: a bed. You guys are morons. Okay, you see why
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: I'm so successful. You idiots are not funny. And I
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: told Ray Rob they sometimes you guys just need to listen.
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: It's not like that wasn't funny at all. Sometimes you
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: guys need to just not just listen. Okay, let me
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: be funny and you just listen already. Four two five, four,
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Hey Rome, uh, it's basic math. Rome,
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: do the math. Rome, in the past thirty six months,
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: she was pregnant twenty seven months. That's how you have
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: three kids under three. Now, now do the matter at hand.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: She should be excited to put her kids to bed now.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: She should be excited about it. In my opinion, Rome, Yeah,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: I would think so. Okay, all right, So I got
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: this text message from a lady who said, I guess
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: she's got three kids under three, writing her man's been
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: doing the nightly bedtime routine because she works the night shift. Well,
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: now she got a day shift and her man's saying
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: she needs to take over since he's been doing it
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: for these years. And she was asking me what I thought,
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: why doesn't he just keep doing it? Why? I don't
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: know why you don't want to do it? That's my
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: only question. I guess Rome should Let's see, hey, Rome
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: should like she don't want to deal with the kids. Oh,
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: she don't want to sounds like she doesn't want to
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: deal with the kids. Well, maybe she doesn't, I mean,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: if she maybe, I mean, yeah, I mean that maybe.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Room This poor lady is experiencing postpartum.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: Her body hasn't fully calibrated itself from her first kid,
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: let alone the other two babies. Let's give her, give
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: her grace instead of bashing her. Well, nobody's bashing her.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: We're just trying to figure out why she doesn't want
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: to do it. And if that's your that's the reason.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm thinking nobody's gonna argue with it, right,
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: I'm just wondering why she wouldn't want to do it. So,
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: lady send me this. She says she's got three kids
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: under three, and apparently she's been working the night shift,
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: so she's never had to deal with the nighttime routine
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: now that she's working the day shift. I guess he
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: says she needs to take over the nighttime routine because
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: he's been doing it for years. She's just saying, well,
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: since you've already been doing it, you just need to
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: keep doing it, which, okay, already four two seven to
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: seven yo. Rom, I don't know if I would want
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: that lady to be the mother of my kids. Unless
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: I'm missing something here. He should just move on, find
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: himself someone else that is willing to be to be
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: bonus mom and help him with his kids. Then you
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: will see how she will start volunteering to put her
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: own kids to bed. Well, the question we didn't say
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: she didn't help with the kids. She just was talking
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: about specifically the bedtime routine. So we don't know what
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: she does for the kids right now. Okay, were not
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: what's going on?
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: What's up wrong? Sea?
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: Man?
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: Hey?
• 42:19
  Speaker 5: Man, I didn't say nothing about no pregnancy or something
• 42:22
  Speaker 5: like that. That was to me, Man, Okay, yeah, that
• 42:27
  Speaker 5: was weird. But I do think if I was on
• 42:31
  Speaker 5: that in that lady situation, I think I would be
• 42:34
  Speaker 5: excited to put my kids into bed and I.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: Well, that's just mean. Well, yeah, considering you're the stay
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: at home dad and your wife makes all the money,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: I mean, what would you what else is your option?
• 42:47
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll be like, oh heck, yeah, I could finally
• 42:49
  Speaker 5: put my kids to bed.
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: And like want to do it?
• 42:52
  Speaker 5: You know what I mean? Okay, that's how I would feeling.
• 42:56
  Speaker 5: I mean, that's just what I think.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right.
• 43:00
  Speaker 5: Anything's different, I guess I don't know.
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: What What do you think is the hardest part of
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: dealing with kids? Putting them the better? Getting them ready
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: in the morning, Getting.
• 43:10
  Speaker 5: Them ready in the morning, definitely, okay, putting them to bed,
• 43:16
  Speaker 5: you could just tell them, hey, be quiet and tell
• 43:19
  Speaker 5: them not to talk, and eventually the hall of sleep.
• 43:22
  Speaker 5: And in the morning you can't tell them, hey, go
• 43:24
  Speaker 5: get your clothes, go put on your shoes, brush your teeth,
• 43:27
  Speaker 5: go do this, you go do that. They won't do
• 43:29
  Speaker 5: it unless you're on them.
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, all right, So.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: Already fourteen by four seven assessment. Now here's the question.
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: She said that she worked nights, So does that mean
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: when she got off work, would she deal with the
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: kids morning routine? She didn't tell us that. She just
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: was talking specifically about the bedtime routine. I don't know. Hey, Romeo,
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: what's that?
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: Not much? I'm just holling in time in on mom
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: with three under three?
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, what's up?
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: Well?
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: I mean I feel like that's a shared obligation. I
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: don't really think she has a choice to dad and
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: you know, ready to make the switch, because the switch
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: was made and phone girl needs to fall in line
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: get it together.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't really know. I didn't I didn't
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: know that once one person did it, the other person
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: wasn't supposed to do it, or the fact that I
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: didn't get why she doesn't want to do it. That's
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: what I'm really say, right right, right.
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: Well, communication rules a nation, so she needs to learn
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: how to get it together and make localizing their husband.
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: This takes it easier for me.
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: This what you know.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: Otherwise she kind of sounds like they're bad. I mean,
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: as a mom of five with two under five, I
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: can all attest that sometimes I got to two year
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: old as a challenge. I gotta call that constantly, your
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: stepping for him. You know, it's not it's not the choice,
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: Like you don't get to say, oh yeah, I mean
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: if you did that life, you got that money, the
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: great mind me, that's this talk about your I don't
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: know if you say that.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know.
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: All right, well all I mean I like the way
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: she said that you don't have a choice right already?
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: Fourteen seven seven, Hey Roam, the girl's making excuses because
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: she's lazy. Life is tough, it's time, but she wants freedom. Maybe,
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: I mean, you just don't Maybe I don't know. I
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: just it's the first time I've ever heard of, Uh,
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: I think a mom not wanting to put her kids
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: to bed. That's that what really has kind of got
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: to me. But you know, maybe maybe that the last
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: person who ever text and said she had postpartum, is
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: that what that is? Maybe she has that, but it
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: would be nice to know what she was doing. She
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: did say she worked the night shift, so how was
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: she participating with the kids when she wasn't at work
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: that she didn't tell us. She just told us that
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: the bedtime routine she wants the baby daddy to keep
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: doing it. She don't want to do it. Somebody texted me,
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: Hey Roam, asked Seahawk, lou is it harder to get
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: your kids ready in the morning, or to barbecue some
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: carna sada. Well we all know the answer to that, Lou.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: It's carna sat. Lu cannot he just burns carnassat. Lou
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: burns everything. My god, that's kind of funny. Lou has
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: gotten such a bad rap for barbecuing. And it's funny though,
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: because his wife even said he's terrible at it. I
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: think we were at the Mac and Cheese Fester or somewhere,
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: and maybe it was Ruben talking to Lou and his
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: wife or somebody. Somebody was making fun of Lou for uh,
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: because he burns everything. Dude cannot barbecue, and somebody even
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: his wife said, yeah, he burns everything. I guess she guts.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: Just get used to eating it though, right, Hey, Roam
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: ask her to text back to see why she don't
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: want to put her own kids to bed. I mean,
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: that's a good question, you would think that's why. I said,
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: I don't know, but somebody did say something about postpartum,
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: so maybe that's what she's got. Maybe it's something like that.
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: Let's get to the bottom of this. I mean, yeah,
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean usually parents, I think a
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: lot of parents nowadays will kind of kind of take turns,
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: you know, either putting the kids to bed or getting
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: them ready to school, or usually it kind of works
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: out to the way. You know, if somebody, somebody works nights,
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: or somebody leaves earlier in the morning than the other,
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: maybe that other parent is obligated to handle the morning
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: or the nighttime routine, or maybe somebody goes to that
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: earlier that I don't know. It's interesting though, it is interesting.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: I wish I could get to the bottom of it.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: I would like to know though, if she does have
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: that postpartum that somebody else had mentioned, or and or
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: what does she do to participate with the kids nowadays?
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: You know, if she's not doing the bedtime routine because
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: she had been working nights, what was she doing the
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: morning time routine when she got home? I mean, what
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: was going on there? Rome Her kids won't be little forever.
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: She needs to cherish her time with them. Someday they
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: may regret that she didn't. I know, three hunder three
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: is a challenge, but what was her choice? Bedtime was
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: the time her and her husband could share, make it
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: a special time. I mean there's a lot of Yeah,
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: I don't know. The text message she sent wasn't didn't
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: give us enough information about what was really going on.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: It was us that you know, for the last three years,
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: he's been doing the bedtime routine because she's been working nights.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: She moved the days, and she just wants him to
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: keep doing it. But he wants her to do already
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: four two, four, seven to seven. Hey, roame sounds to
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: me like she is lazy. Three kids and three years.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: Where did she find time to work? Most likely he
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: started of doing all the crap for her. She had
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: the luxury of being pregnant and using that as an
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: excuse to not have to do anything. Now that has
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: an excuse to not have to do anything now she
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: thinks it's owed to her all the time, changing three
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: kids diapers at night at nighttime, that's way too much work,
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: feeding them, putting them to bed, and she's there on
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: her phone watching reels. Yeah, i'd be pissed too, plus
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: got to get up before him to work. Well, we
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: don't know that that's what she's doing. We don't know
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: what she's doing, and we just know that she We
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: just know that she's that. We just know she went
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: work at night. That's all we know. We don't know
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: how much she helped through any of that stuff. But
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: I can see how you can make that assumption. I guess,
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: what did you, Rader Rob send me? What? What in
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: the hell is Raider Rob sending me? I don't even know? Oh,
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: Raider Rob's at? Are at? Raider Rob's at? Where you at?
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: Where are you at?
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: Rob?
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: You're at? I can't Torus Catering right now? Raider Rob
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: sent me a picture from Torus Catering. Yeah, and why
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: are you there? Rob? Ask him to try the enchiladas.
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: Tries Encilada's all right already? Four two, five, four or
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: seven seven? Rome Hey, Romeo. Three kids under three is
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: a lot to deal with. All the crying at night,
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: that man is tired. She drinking wine while he do
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: all the work. Not good. We don't know what she's doing, honestly,
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: so we shouldn't say that because we just don't know
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: what she's doing. It would be nice to know, though, uh,
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: to see what's going on? Already Port Tupapa or seven
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: to seven would rate Rob? Raider Rob. Was it Taurus
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: Catering this morning for breakfast? A little minute ago? It
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: was probably still there. I told him to try the
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: enchiladas he said. What he said? What don't have any sauce? Oh?
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: That inchilada sauce that they got it. Tourus Catering is
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: very very good. I think the only one I've had
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: that may have been better was the old school, the
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: old um Mexicali, the enchilada sauce at Mexicali. But that
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: was I haven't been there in years, so I'm not
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: sure if it's still good. But it was good ten
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: twenty years ago. But yeah, Torus Catering got that inchilada sauce. Yeah,
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: you gotta try the enchiladas. Rob. And what'd you send me?
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: A story about Taco Bell and an outbreak of diarrhea?
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: What?
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: Uh it's Taco Bell? All right? All right? Uh yeah, anyway,
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: thanks for sending me that, Rob. I go to work,
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: just yeah, go to work. What did you say, Oh, Ruben,
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: what did Rubin send me? Oh? I gotta tell you
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: guys something about Rubin. By the way, Hey, Rom, I
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: didn't know that Taurus Caterine took evt no wonder way
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: to Rob was trying to invite me to lunch. Yeah, Rob, uh,
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: unfortunately or fortunately Rob's got a real job. Rob's not
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: on EVT all right, So now we gotta fight with Ruben.
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: I do gotta say something funny about Ruben though. First
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: of all, the other day when Ruben was mad because
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: I was telling him he was wrong and he was
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: calling me a hater because he was just wrong, and
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: somebody had to tell him, I got a bunch of
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: text messages about, oh Rome, why are you talking bad
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: about Ruben? Why? I thought he was your boy? Why
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: are you doing him like that? And then I got
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: a bunch of other messages saying, Ray, I'm Rob Rome.
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: He's just gonna Ruben's gonna be mad at you now,
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: blah blah. Ruben's not mad at me. I'm not mad
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: at Ruben. But we just we're friends. And if he
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: says something stupid, I'm gonna tell him me. He says
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: something stupid, all right, just like that's what friends do, right,
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: I mean, how many times you got to tell somebody
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: like I gotta tell Rubin right now, Rad to Rob
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: that EB two that e b T joke is old
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: because I know Rader Rob, and Raider Rob's got a
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: good job and uh yeah, he doing all right, So
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: that e b T don't e b T joke don't
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: work on Rob, right. I mean there's other jokes that
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: work on Rob but about being a Raider fan, but
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: not that one Romeo side that he pour point.
• 53:36
  Speaker 6: Wait wait wait wait wait wait, I gotta give way
• 53:38
  Speaker 6: some tickets. I got tickets to the to the to
• 53:40
  Speaker 6: the Hot Wheels. I got a four pack of tickets
• 53:43
  Speaker 6: to the Hot Wheels Monster Truck live at Dignity Helth Arena,
• 53:47
  Speaker 6: calling number twenty nine right now.
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: Hey morning, did I win?
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: You're called twenty nine? You gratah? Yeah? What's your name? Shane? Shane?
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: All right, Shane, let me get you four tickets to
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: the Monster Trucks over at Dignity the Health. I think
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: it's going on August twenty second and twenty third or
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: something like that. Okay, okay, I'm looking at this heat
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: right now. I'm just going to my phone, looking at
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: the weather and checking my email as I look at
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: the weather. Oh oh, they got a great deal up
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: there at uh huh oh sorry I got sidetracked. Deleno
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: Chevy sent me a deal on a car. Sorry what
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: was I talking about?
• 54:35
  Speaker 6: Oh?
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: The heat? I was looking at the weather. See this
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: is why we shouldn't have phones. You get sidetracked. This
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: why I don't ever have my phone around me, because
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: I always get sidetracked when i'm trying to talk to
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: you guys. So I'm looking at the weather and today,
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: today is supposed to be one hundred. As I drink
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: a cup of coffee, hot coffee, today, it's going to
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: be one hundred and three till Wednesday, one o four,
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: one o three on Thursday, one o two on Friday,
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: one hundred on and Sunday, Monday ninety nine, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday,
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: triple digits. So we gon't be in this heat now.
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: The heat has never bothered me, never being in Bakersfield,
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: this heat has never bothered me. But also I don't
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: work in the heat. So one of the one of
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: the things that you know, I'm sitting in a studio
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: right now. It's probably I don't know, seventy four degrees
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: right now. And I know there's a lot of you
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: guys out there in the heat. A lot of you
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: guys are you know, working in the oil fields, working
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: in the fields, working construction and whatever. I don't know,
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: a lot of you guys got service jobs where you're
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: bouncing in from house to house, jumping out of your
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: service truck. Things like that. So and Reuven, don't call
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: and tell me you're working in that heat, because I
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: know everybody knows, and there's pictures of you sitting in
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: the truck in the ac while everybody your crews are working. Okay,
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: so don't even say that. I was just talking to
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: a guy today who you know. He's a farmer, dude,
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: and whatever his business is, I guess spread or something.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but man, he's working
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: three in the morning because he's got to get that
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: done before that heat kicks in, you know. So I
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: get it. The heat's crazy. Not for me. I mean,
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: I'll go play golf today. It'll be a great time
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: to play golf because everybody's uh is afraid of the
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: heat and they'll be done by the time I get
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: out of here. So I can go play golf with
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: nobody out there and he don't bother me. But a
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: lot of you guys really do work in the heat.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: How do you beat the heat? I mean, your your
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: your body's overheated. You're going through the whole day sometimes
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: and most of the time water is not enough. It's
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: just not you know, and sometimes beers. Not even enough.
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: I tell you about uh, you know you jump in
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: the pool. I mean, what do you do? How do
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: you beat this Bakersfield heat? Already? Four two, five, four
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: or seven to seven?
• 56:51
  Speaker 2: Good morning?
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: Hey, what's up?
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: I would know how to beat the heat. I'm anoxious caregiver.
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: So I work from eleven to seven, so once I
• 56:59
  Speaker 2: go home, I stay in and then I sleep all
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: the way until about nine o'clock at night, and I
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: go to work at eleven again. So I'm I'm I
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: don't know how.
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: People beat you. Jack asked for all the people that
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: got to beat the heat. Yes, yes, talk it off.
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: I have to have my heater on me at night time.
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: That's cold. Man.
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: I'm on sweater right now my car and my AC
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: isn't even on. That's how cold.
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: That's awesome. That is awesome. Hey, thanks for going.
• 57:37
  Speaker 3: Well?
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, beating that heat. Man, I mean, I can't believe
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: she just called to say. I mean, but I'm with her,
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: you know, like me, I'm I don't have to beat
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: the heat. That the heat does not bother me at
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: all because I am not outside. I mean, I'll go
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: play golf. And what if you one hundred and three today.
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: It won't bother me at all. Now, what's going on?
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: Wrote me on one of my secrets to keep you coold?
• 57:59
  Speaker 4: He and I wear painters jump suit and I go
• 58:02
  Speaker 4: command to underneath.
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: Oh god, okay, and that helps every now and again,
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: I'll go and sprinkle myself a little bit at the
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: water run down my body, and it helps a lot.
• 58:16
  Speaker 4: Try it.
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't never have to beat the heat,
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: so it doesn't matter if anybody needs it.
• 58:23
  Speaker 3: I know where to get the jumpsuit.
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: Well, if anybody asks, I'll let you know. Okay later
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: already four seven to seven yo, rom Oh, this is
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: a big boy. I work outside wearing a fire fire clothing,
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: hard hat, steel toed boots, wear long sleeve shirts, and
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: drink Mexican pedia. Light really helps, Okay, I mean, but
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: you gotta be honest when it comes to beating the heat.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: And we could all sit there and joke about you know,
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: Oh man, you just gotta get out and go have
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: a cold beer after work and drink plenty of water,
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: which is great, you're right, but sometimes water is not enough.
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: It just doesn't do anything for you. And cold beer
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: sometimes doesn't do anything for you, I mean jumping in
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: the pool maybe. I mean, I was just trying to
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: think of what the biggest, the most extent where I've
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: ever had to try. The heat just gets me is
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: barbecuing because I grill outside. So I'll probably grill outside tonight,
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: and for that few minutes, you gotta get away, you know,
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: once you get it back inside in the heat, you
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: got to you gotta figure out a way to cool down?
• 59:36
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: What do you do? How do you beat the Bakersfield heat?
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: How do you guys? Man? Why are you out there
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: working on that heat?
• 59:42
  Speaker 4: Man?
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: And it's rough? But the overheat? How do you stay?
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: How do you stay cool? What do you do? How
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: do you beat it? I mean it's a tough deal
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: already fourteen five, four or seven to seven year roam.
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: You're not gonna believe this. But what I do is
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: I come straight home, I get naked outside, grab me
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: a cold beer, and walk into the shower. Cold shower,
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: cold beer, roam. That's what I do, straight from the truck.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: Try it, you'll love it. Yeah, I'm not doing that. No,
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. There was no reason for me
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: to drink a cold beer in the shower. I am
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: never that hot? Already four two, five, four, seven and seven?
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, how do you beat that Baker's Field heat? Man?
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: You just dry? What do you do? I mean cold beer?
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: Sometimes you need something more refreshing than a beer, more
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: refreshing than water. I don't know. Maybe you do liquid ivs.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: Maybe you like the big boy says he does that
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: Mexican pedia light, which I can't imagine. You got to
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: keep that cold though, I don't know, man, uh, Or
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: maybe you're just used to it by now, you know
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: beating this heat? Man, Bakersfield is hot. We know. We
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: lived here for thirty plus years. Some of you live
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: your whole life. I'm gonna let's see what you said.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: How do you beat it? Though? What do you do
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: with this heat? Right? Already? Four two pop four or
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: seven to seven year old room? I'm ount in them fields,
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: working hard. I gotta wear them steal toed boots. So
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: what I do when I get home is I have
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: a basket a bucket. Oh, I have a bucket full
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: of ice. I throw some ice water. I just stick
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: my feet in there, relax with a cold beer, and
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: then I go take a shower and it works good. Yeah,
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: I mean you gotta do what you gotta do, right
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: already four two pop four or seven to seven room.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: It's funny how every year everyone complains about the heat,
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: and yet they still live here after thirty years. And
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: you must be getting soft in your old in your
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: old age, because I can remember you tell people the
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: same thing I said, deal with it or move Now.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: I still say that I just told you. Are you
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: not listening? I just told you I'm gonna go out
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: and play golf in this heat today. I don't have
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: no problem with the heat. I think anybody that complains
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: about the heat is a joke. And then when I
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: see those silly ass stories about the national news of
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: how there's a heat wave in New York or a
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: heat waves somewhere, No, I think they're all a bunch
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: of I think they're a joke. So I don't know
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: what you're talking about. I'm not soft. The heat does
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: not bother me at all. Like I said, I'm gonna
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: spend three hours, three and a half hours playing golf
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: today in this heat, and what's it going to be?
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: One hundred and three? And I wait for the heat
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: so that I could so that all the other soft
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: ass people aren't there, and I can just go out
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: there by myself. It works out great, all right, eight
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: four two by four seven to seven yo, roam. I
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: just deal with it. I've been building houses in Delano
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: every year the same weather. So just man up and
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: think about how good that cold beer gonna hit you
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: on the way home. On the way home, Hey, don't
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: be drinking and driving. Okay, oh well it is Delano,
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: but no, all right, I mean, you know what the
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: crazy thing is, and I do like I do like
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: to talk about this. The crazy thing is that in
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: this heat, though, there are some things that quench your
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: thirst and some things that don't. Water ice cold water
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: sometimes doesn't work. Even ice cold beer sometimes doesn't work.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: You have to get something, you know. That's why I
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: always talk about Sonic. For some reason, Sonic and their ice.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: Sonic's ice just hits you different. Why I have no idea.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: If you water is not if ice cold water is
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: not helping you, right now, go get you some Sonic
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: water with that ice. That ice just hits you different.
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: For some reason. I don't know if they put something
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: in it, I don't know what it is, but it
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: just hits you different, you know, And I'm with you guys.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: Sometimes ice cold beer, and I'll tell you, you know, when
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: you got ice floating on the top, Sometimes that ice
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: cold beer gets it done, but sometimes it doesn't. And
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: it's just crazy how it does not hit the spot.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: So sometimes you got to go get them more heat though.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: Sometimes like I drink, I drink these things over at
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: social House, these drinks called strawberry fields, and they're basically
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: whisky straw like a whisky strawberry type drink, and they
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: are so freaking refreshing that it's amazing, you know. They're
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: just sometimes in the heat, the traditional things don't work.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: The agua frescas, the water. I mean, you gotta drink them,
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: you know, big boy says the Mexican pedia Lite. Hopefully
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: he's got that ice down. You gotta drink him because
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: you gotta stay hydrated. But sometimes they just don't quite
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: hit the spot. But that sonic ice that hits the
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: spot every time for some reason. So when it comes
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: to beating this heat, especially, a lot of you guys
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: are out there working in it all day long, or
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: some of you service guys are out there running around
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: all day long, you know, back and forth, in and
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: out I know that heat gat you man, that you
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: could overheat. You just can't roan. What I like to
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: do when it gets really hot is make a stop
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: and get a little also watermelon juice pop, chase it
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: with the water and eat cucumbers. Oh that's a good idea.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: That's a good idea. A little that that little little
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: so will cool you down. Do you get the ones
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: with tequila in them? Do they still make the little
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: rosas with tequila in them? All right? I'm just saying, okay,
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: all right? E four two five four seven seven. Hey,
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: you have a cheese fan. You know what's refreshing is
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: icy or slushy? All those icy slush puppies are the best.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: I'm about to get one right now on my company
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: work time. Where are you gonna get a slushy at today?
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: They still make those? Where do you even get those at? All? Right?
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: Eight four two five four seven to seven? A nice
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: good cold watermelon? Also, that is what I use a
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: lot to cool off that just I don't know why.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: So we're talking about beating the heat. What do you do?
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: How do you do it? I mean a lot of
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: you guys are out there working in it. A lot
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: of you guys, get off working, man, you overheated, right, Hey, Rome,
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: a Mexican Mexican pedia light, a sugar free red bull,
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: and a heen together refreshing, both hydrating and energy. So
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: you mix a red bull the pedia light, it's a
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: the heen. Okay that uh okay, I guess that's how.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know how you came up with that combination,
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: but all right, Rome, the big stick ice pop works bombed.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: You know what's funny, and I don't see it a lot,
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: so I'm glad you said that. But that works. By
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: the way, if you were out running around, you're hot,
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: grabbing a popsicle, grabbing a cold ice cream for some reason,
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: well probably because it's ice cream, but you wouldn't believe
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: how it'll cool you off because I like those. You
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: guys don't think I'm eight, but I still like those
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: push pops, you know, So, yeah, are those dub bars
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: for some reason?
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 2: Man?
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: Those things are the or the what's the other one?
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: The what's the ice cream cone one? What's that called?
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about those, But they will
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: cool you off. It's crazy how that works. Hey, Rom,
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: I know you're not talking about this, but I was
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: hoping to ask you this question. I'm sitting here with
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: a couple of coworkers, three of us guys. Now, we
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: have this coworker. She had been married for like eight
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: nine years, and she has three kids. She got divorced
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: last year and now she's looking to start dating again,
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: and she's kind of been flirting with me. And I know, Rome,
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: that you've always talked about dating single moms is a
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: good idea. Now, let me just specify, Rome. She does
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: have her own money. She makes good money here where
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: we work, and her ex husband has good money, so
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: he pays child support, so she's doing well. She doesn't
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: need any money from me. What do you think, Rome,
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: My boys here are telling me it's a bad idea. No,
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: it's a great idea. It is a I've said this
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: for years, and I'll tell you this and then if
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: you guys don't listen to me, then you're just idiots. Okay,
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: you always think that a single mom is a bad idea.
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: A single mom is a bad idea if she if
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: she needs you for financial support, if she needs you
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: to raise a kid, if she needs you, A single
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: mom is a bad idea. Most single moms at least
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: the ones that I know don't need anybody. They know
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: that they had a child with a guy that was
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: a bad decision, and they're going to work their asses
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: off to support them and their child, and all they
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: want is a guy to be with them. Some of
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: that they want, But when it comes to the divorced,
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: I mean that's even better if she's already got everything.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: She don't need you. Oh he said, by the way, robe,
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: she's smoking hot. Yeah, then you're whoever you're sitting with.
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: You said your coworkers, they're idiots. Here's the thing about
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: dating a single mom, especially when you said three she
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: has three kids. She don't need you. But guess what.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: So the first thing you said, she's smoking hot. That
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: means you know what she's gonna look like after having children,
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: which means she's always gonna be hot. She's always gonna
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: look hot. Okay, she probably didn't unless she just got
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: hot to get a man, because now she's ready to
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: be out and about again. Or was she always hot
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: and I guess she was always hot? Okay. The second
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: thing is she's not after your money, so she wants
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: to be with you, which is that's the goal to
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: be with somebody that wants you. Okay, she's gonna be
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: busy with the three kids, so she's not gonna ash
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: you to be with her all the time. She's got
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: other stuff to handle. She got three kids to take
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: care of, so she's not going to be clingy to you.
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: You know, it probably gets to the point where even
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: you'll want to hang out with her and she'll be
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: too busy. So I mean, how do you go wrong
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: with all of that? Yeah? No, go for it, bro.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know why. Don't listen to your coworkers. They're morons,
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: all right? Eight four two five four seven to seven.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: A guy just hit me up, and I guess he
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: was talking about a single mom. Him and his coworkers
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: are sitting around listening to the radio right now, and
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: one of my opinion on a single mom, I guess
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: she got three kids, and anyway, I got three kids,
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: I guess, And I guess she's smoking hot. He had
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: to tell me that she doesn't need money, but she's
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: back out there, and I guess she's kind of feeling him, right,
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  Speaker 1: And so he's talking about, you know, going out with her,
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  Speaker 1: but his buddy's at work or telling her telling him No,
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  Speaker 1: it's a bad idea. It's not a bad it's a
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  Speaker 1: great idea. You know already four two five four seven
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  Speaker 1: a seven. Rom, you couldn't be more wrong. Tell that
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  Speaker 1: dude it's a great idea first, But then what's he
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  Speaker 1: gonna do raise those kids? Then she's gonna want his money.
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  Speaker 1: Tell him just to hit it and quit it and
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  Speaker 1: move on. Wow, Okay, you know I love it when
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: you guys just send me random stuff. We'll be talking
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: about one thing and then you just send me random stuff,
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  Speaker 1: pictures and things. Come on now, you guys need to
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: get it together, all righty four two five four or
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  Speaker 1: seven a seven. Keep up with the show. Don't just
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  Speaker 1: be sending me nonsense when I'm trying to talk about
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  Speaker 1: other stuff, trying to help this dude out because he's
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: getting bad advice from his coworkers, and you guys are
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: over here trying to send me pictures of chiliverde and eggs.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: Come on now already four two five, four seven to seven.
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  Speaker 1: So Rome, what's the age difference between them? That is
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: a good question. Does that matter? I mean, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: guess they're probably around the same age. I don't know,
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: that's a good question, though. If he's uh, that's a
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: good question. I guess it does matter to an extent. Huh.
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  Speaker 1: But I I'm just saying, based on what he told me,
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  Speaker 1: if she's financially stable, she's got the three kids divorced,
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: saying one husband or one one baby daddy, she's smoking
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  Speaker 1: hot according to him, I mean, what do you got
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  Speaker 1: to lose? You know, she's not gonna take up all
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  Speaker 1: of your time because she's got three kids to raise.
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  Speaker 1: You know, she's not gonna be needy. Because she's got
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: three kids to raise, you don't got time to be
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: needy for you. So you got a little bit of
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  Speaker 1: free time on your hands. You're not always gonna be
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: with her. You're probably gonna spend most of your time
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  Speaker 1: with her when her kidskids are with their father, So
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: you just get to go out and have a good time.
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: I mean yeah, And if she's had three kids and
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: still looks smoking hot, you know she's gonna stay hot
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  Speaker 1: and she's not after your money. I mean, it sounds
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: like a good deal. So I don't know what. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know why your coworkers are telling you not to
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  Speaker 1: do it. If you if you got the opportunity. Hey, Rome,
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  Speaker 1: let me see here for the three kids, how many
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  Speaker 1: baby daddies? If only one go for it? Yeah, it
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: was only one baby daddy. She was married, Uh he said,
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  Speaker 1: married eight or nine years and they had three kids
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: or something like that didn't work out, so i'm and
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: he said that the dad's financially you know, paying child support.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: He's pretty well off. She's got whatever they work. He
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: didn't tell me where they worked, but apparently she's got
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: a legit job. So the biggest thing is in a
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: when you're dating a single mom, if money is not
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  Speaker 1: the issue, if financially takes supporting the kids is not
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: the issue, then why wouldn't you go for it? And
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: what does it matter if it's one dad? Well, I
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: guess three different dads would change your perspective a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: But look, there's a lot of single moms out there
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: right now that are they married. They married jackasses, and
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: the jackasses so now they're single, not for any fault
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: of their own. They thought they married the right man
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: and they were gonna have a happy family. So they
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: had a couple of kids and then he turned into
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: a cheater and a jackass or something like that. And
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: now they're single again. And I mean literally the best
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: possible scenario for a single guy who wants a good woman.
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: She still wants to have sex. She's not gonna take
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: up all your time because she's got kids to raise.
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: You know, she's not asking you for money. She's just
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: waiting for those those weekends or the days she ain't
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: got her kids to hang out with you and get
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: back in that dating scene. So yeah, I don't see
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: why anybody wouldn't do it. The sky textan, I guess
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: he was talking to his co worker. They work. He
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: didn't tell me where they work, so I don't know
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: if it's an office or whatever. I don't word it is,
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: but he said one of her, one of the co workers,
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: she's been divorced for a little bit and she got
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: three kids. Single mom had to point out she was
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: very hot and that he might have a shot with her.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: I guess they've been flirting or whatever. The co workers
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: are telling her that's a terrible idea to date a
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: single mom. Well, I think I've proven that it's not
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: a terrible idea. You just have to, you know, know
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: what you're working with it. You know, if she's still
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: good looking and you're into her. She's hot to you,
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: and she's not asking you to pay for a kid.
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: She got the financial stability to do that. And I mean,
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: why wouldn't you You know, she not looking for a
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: baby daddy or stepdaddy. She just sound like she's looking
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: to get back in that scene and she wants you,
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: So why wouldn't you, Jo Roam? Those co workers are jealous,
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: for sure, I bet they are. How can you not be?
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: You know, because one of the all you guys should
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: be out if you're if you're if you're a guy
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: with a job, you know, and you got some to offer,
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: and you want a woman that has some experience, that's
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: down and knows uh and and still you know, you
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: don't want somebody who's gonna suffocate you. Get you a
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: single mom because they got kids to raise, and get
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: you one with an next husband who got money so
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: that he's paying for them damn kids, and you don't
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: have to you know what I'm saying already four two, five,
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven year room. Let me tell
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: you this. I got with my girl four years ago,
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: and she's exactly what you're talking about. She had a
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: wealthy ex husband they had a couple of kids. He
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: was Oh. She was a stay at home mom though,
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: but she looks hot, She works out, she stays fit.
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: He has to pay child support alimony to her. We've
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: been dating, like I said, Room, four years. Best decision
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: I ever made. She still has to deal with the kids,
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: so I can still do my thing when I want to.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: When the kids go see their father, we hang out
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: and have a great time. Best of both worlds, Room,
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: And for some reason, she's still into sex. These single
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: moms out there be getting it done because they know
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: how to take care of a man. There you go
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  Speaker 1: thro over the morning, every morning morning four point one