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Episode 66 - What is Financial Healing and Tecovery? · You Minding Your Own Business

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Speaker 1: I help people in this particular podcast when it comes
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Speaker 1: down to you minding your own business and instead of
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Speaker 1: focusing on everybody else, you are focusing on you. Now.
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Speaker 1: Healing and recovery is gonna always lead you somewhere. Okay,
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Speaker 1: It's always gonna lead you somewhere, even when you least expected,
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Speaker 1: even when you don't see it coming. Sometimes things can
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Speaker 1: knock you down to the point where you don't know
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Speaker 1: whether you're going to get back up again, Like Humpty Dumpty.
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Speaker 1: Like Jack and Jill, they went up to Hell to
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Speaker 1: what you need to heal from. This season has been
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Speaker 1: about business recovery, and I think I need to go
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Speaker 1: h A dot M A r I A M A
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Speaker 1: zero one at gmail dot com. Now, what is financial
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Speaker 1: healing and recovering me? Well, this is when you lose
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Speaker 1: your job. This is when you hate your job. This
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Speaker 1: is when you end up quitting your job and one
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Speaker 1: day you just wake up and just say, I don't
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Speaker 1: want to go to work. I don't want to work tomorrow.
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Speaker 1: I ain't trying to go to work. I ain't trying
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Speaker 1: to go You wake up one day and you realize
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Speaker 1: your whole entire life has passed you by and all
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Speaker 1: you did was work, work, work, work, work work. Now,
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Speaker 1: on the flip side of that, you could have worked
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Speaker 1: a company for a number of years and you still
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Speaker 1: ain't got a promotion. You work this job and you
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Speaker 1: still ain't been able to level up. You still are
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Speaker 1: the one that's working two or three jobs. You're mister
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Speaker 1: and misus dependable, and they keep saying to you, I'm
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Speaker 1: going to promote you, but they never do. They put
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Speaker 1: everybody else before you. As a matter of fact, they
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Speaker 1: have you training other people when it's not even your job.
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Speaker 1: But you only get paid once for one job, but
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Speaker 1: doing multiple. It could be that you went to work
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Speaker 1: and you were told old that you had to go
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Speaker 1: to a meeting. You didn't know why, and they told
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Speaker 1: you we have to let you go. We're downsizing. It's
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Speaker 1: nothing you did wrong, but your services are no longer needed.
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Speaker 1: Does any of this relate to a lot of y'all,
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Speaker 1: because I'm sure it does. There's not one person that
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Speaker 1: hasn't went through one of these three equations. Well, it's
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Speaker 1: not just that. It also can be you're married, you
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Speaker 1: are the housewife, your husband was the one going to work,
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Speaker 1: your husband comes home and tells you he lost his job,
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Speaker 1: or even you the one that told your wife you
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Speaker 1: lost your job. And now y'all are in a situation
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Speaker 1: where not only you can't pay your bills, but you
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Speaker 1: might be evicted, you might be homeless. There are some
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Speaker 1: people out here who actually are homeless for the same
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Speaker 1: situation I'm talking about. Well, healing and recovery when it
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Speaker 1: comes to that is when you have to figure out
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Speaker 1: how to get yourself back up and brush yourself back
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Speaker 1: up and put yourself back together again. Now, for some people,
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Speaker 1: they find another job and they go back to another job.
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Speaker 1: Others of you will end up starting a business. COVID
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Speaker 1: nineteen is the greatest example of this, and this was
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Speaker 1: when a lot of people started becoming content creators. A
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Speaker 1: lot of people started building businesses and brands, and it
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Speaker 1: was at all time high. Not only that, you have
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Speaker 1: a lot of big businesses that are going out of business.
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Speaker 1: Spirit is an example of that. Spirit is out of business.
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Speaker 1: You have Delta Blue that is going out of business.
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Speaker 1: So yeah, this it's insane, but it's happening. Hold on
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Speaker 1: one second. I'm sorry I had to send something to
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Speaker 1: somebody anyway. But like I said, you have a lot
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Speaker 1: of businesses like bed bath and beyond that went out
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Speaker 1: of business, came out, went out of business, pay Less
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Speaker 1: went out of business. There's a lot of people that
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Speaker 1: are in big business that unfortunately have to close down
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Speaker 1: a lot of stores. The sad part about it was
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Speaker 1: spirit the employees weren't even notified. They found that on
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Speaker 1: social media. Some of these people have families, just bought
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Speaker 1: a house. Now they have no job. Some people don't
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Speaker 1: even have retirement. Some people by the time they turn
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Speaker 1: fifty are not gonna have retirement because they will constantly
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Speaker 1: let go. Now, I just got a phone call today
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Speaker 1: right about somebody calling me about a position for a
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Speaker 1: particular job. Eighteen dollars an hour. Now mind you. I
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Speaker 1: got ten years, almost eleven years of billion coding and
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Speaker 1: you just wanna give me eighteen dollars an hour eighteen
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Speaker 1: now mind you? Where I'm at now, I I probably
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Speaker 1: could make it up eighteen nineteen dollars an doll but
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Speaker 1: I couldnot make it in Florida with eighteen nineteen dollars
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Speaker 1: an hour. There's nowhere in the world where I was
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Speaker 1: at New Mind y'all. As y'all don't know, I lost
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Speaker 1: my father, Okay, and I'm back home with my mom
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Speaker 1: helping her out. Okay. Am I gonna be in North
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Speaker 1: Carolina forever? No, I'm not, but I will be here
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Speaker 1: long enough for me to make sure that she could
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Speaker 1: before I go back to my life now. I also
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Speaker 1: got a phone call today about me creating my own
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Speaker 1: travel agency. I'm so excited about that, and I pulled
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Speaker 1: the trigger on it, and I'm so happy about that
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Speaker 1: because I cannot wait to start making money off my
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Speaker 1: travel agency. So what I've been doing today is I've
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Speaker 1: been posting my vacations from when I was in Margaritaville.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna spend the whole week posting everything that I
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Speaker 1: can post so I can get ready for my trip
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Speaker 1: to Myrtle Beach. And then she said, as far as
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Speaker 1: my cruise is concerned, I might be able to change
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Speaker 1: it where I'll be able to get discounts as a
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Speaker 1: travel agent. I might be able to do that and
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Speaker 1: get paid for it. Now, mind you, Like I said,
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Speaker 1: when it comes down to healing and recovery. Financially, that
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Speaker 1: could be many different things, everything from what you did
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Speaker 1: to what is beyond your control now, depending on if
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Speaker 1: it was beyond your control, if you were manipulated, bamboozer
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Speaker 1: and letters stray, or you just stupidly messed up your finances,
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Speaker 1: that's something I can't determine. But we can talk about
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Speaker 1: each one. Because the way you go about getting back, well,
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Speaker 1: let me stop there. That's the first thing you got
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Speaker 1: to not do. Don't say the word get back. You
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Speaker 1: can't never get back anything. You can't if you let's say,
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Speaker 1: for example, somebody broke in your house, right and they
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Speaker 1: broke into your house and they took everything. Are you
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Speaker 1: gonna get back any of the stuff that you lost? No?
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Speaker 1: But will you get something new? Yes, So you will
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Speaker 1: never get back what you lost. You may not in
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Speaker 1: the next role that you get into get paid the
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Speaker 1: same amount as you did your last job. You either
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Speaker 1: donna get paid more or you gonna get paid less,
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Speaker 1: depending on what job you do. Now back to the
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Speaker 1: staff of company. Stafford Company told me that I were
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Speaker 1: for six months with the chance of extension. So in
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Speaker 1: other words, there's no I guarantee that I'm gonna get paid,
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Speaker 1: that I'm gonna get on permanent, it will just keep
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Speaker 1: on being extended. Well, guess what. That's what they're doing
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Speaker 1: in the medical field and in light industrial. Now mind you,
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Speaker 1: they're not doing this in fast food, they're not doing
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Speaker 1: this in grocery stores, and they're certainly not doing it
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Speaker 1: in retail. But they are doing it. When it comes
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Speaker 1: down to office jobs, you have to go through a
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Speaker 1: staffing company. Most of these jobs are not even hiring
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Speaker 1: for you to work for the company. Why because then
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Speaker 1: it's easier to let you go, and after you finished
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Speaker 1: working for them, you may be out of a job
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Speaker 1: like I have been since January. Now, mind you, I'm
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Speaker 1: okay as far as financially, because God is with me
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Speaker 1: every step of the way. Or whatever your religion or
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Speaker 1: what spirituality is, you're gonna be fine because you know
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Speaker 1: that God got you or whatever yahweh all lie, whatever
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Speaker 1: you want to call, the Higher Power got you. Now,
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Speaker 1: mind you. I could go back to work and I'm
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Speaker 1: just sitting here debating on that. But then I thought
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Speaker 1: about it and I was like, you know what, I
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Speaker 1: have a cruise coming up in January. Chris Brown, an
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Speaker 1: usher concert in December. Do I really want to go
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Speaker 1: back to work? The answer is no, I don't. Now,
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Speaker 1: with my travel agency, I can do that from home.
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Speaker 1: It's mine. I can set it up and make money,
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Speaker 1: paint my bills and be good and be fine. But
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Speaker 1: here's a part about it. Am I gonna make money
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Speaker 1: off the gate? Probably not, because I have to build
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Speaker 1: an audience, which is why I started my travel blog
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Speaker 1: because I always knew I was gonna go back to it.
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Speaker 1: I used to be a travel agent, but the last
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Speaker 1: travel agency didn't really help us set up everything. We
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Speaker 1: had to do everything on our own. That was in
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Speaker 1: terms of the problem. So luckily I already have a
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Speaker 1: channel for my actual travel agency. I also have jewelry
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Speaker 1: that I have to sell and I'm about to go
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Speaker 1: through that when I in a little bit. Then I
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Speaker 1: have starting candles and body butters and skin care and
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Speaker 1: hair care. I want to get into that motivational speaking
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Speaker 1: those things. So at the end of the day, I said,
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Speaker 1: and then writing two books. So in the end, do
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Speaker 1: I need to have an income while I'm doing all
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Speaker 1: of this, Yes, that would be the only reason I'm
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Speaker 1: going back to work, just so I would have an income.
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Speaker 1: Just for that purpose. But do I have to? No,
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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I'm good as far as money.
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Speaker 1: So if I didn't want to work, I wouldn't have to.
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Speaker 1: If I didn't want to. But until I build everything
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Speaker 1: the way I want it, I would have to. And
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Speaker 1: then when I started making a certain amount, then I
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Speaker 1: would quit. Now, with financial healing and recovery, you have
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Speaker 1: to learn from your mistakes, so you do have to
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Speaker 1: go back and try to understand why is it that
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Speaker 1: every time you go work for a job you and
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Speaker 1: up losing your job. Now, that could be the following reasons.
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Speaker 1: The managers have an attitude. You're doing multiple jobs, no
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Speaker 1: work life balance, no insurance, no PTO, no retirement. You're
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Speaker 1: not getting any of those things. Now, imagine making eighteen
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Speaker 1: fifteen to eighteen dollars an hour, even thirteen even seven
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Speaker 1: twenty five, and you're trying to get retirement. How can
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Speaker 1: you put retirement in when you don't even have the
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Speaker 1: money to put into retirement. Social Security is not gonna
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Speaker 1: be that much when you retire, Okay, not that much
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Speaker 1: at all. My dad was being taxed on his retirement
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Speaker 1: and his Social security because he was making too much money.
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Speaker 1: That's the crazy part. They will tax you and you
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Speaker 1: have to file every single year. So is it worth
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Speaker 1: it working all these jobs into retirement. I'm starting to
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Speaker 1: question that because nobody is gonna make past thirty dollars
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Speaker 1: an hour before they die. The way this society is
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Speaker 1: because it isn't about anybody growing, evolving, elevating, none of that.
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Speaker 1: It's about you working for someone else and making someone
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Speaker 1: else money, when the original reason for you working a
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Speaker 1: job was to have something of your own in the
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Speaker 1: first place. If you go back in time, people used
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Speaker 1: to work based upon what their family was good at.
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Speaker 1: So if your family was good at farming, then that's
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Speaker 1: what you did. Even if you had the capabilities of
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Speaker 1: other things, you still were only supposed to be a farmer.
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Speaker 1: Anything else would be disrespect to your family. Whereas now
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Speaker 1: you have small business owners, you have people that are
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Speaker 1: trying because if you go to the TikTok shop, right,
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Speaker 1: it used to be that when TikTok was owned by
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Speaker 1: the Chinese, there was a bunch of Chinese products own there.
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Speaker 1: Now recently I went on Timu and Sheene to go shopping,
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Speaker 1: and everything is an arm in the lad because of
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Speaker 1: teriffs tariffs. Vitamins used to be under ten dollars fifteen
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Speaker 1: at the most. Now it's almost twenty thirty dollars. You
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Speaker 1: can't get serious. But it is so when it comes
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Speaker 1: to recovery, even with this recession, this is it because
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Speaker 1: of the American people. It's because of a government that
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Speaker 1: basically spends money that they don't have, and we're the
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Speaker 1: ones dealing with the fallout, making the rich wealthier and
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Speaker 1: making them richer and making the poor poor and there
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Speaker 1: being no middle class. But the thing about it is,
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Speaker 1: these people voted for this. They voted for it, and
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Speaker 1: now that it's happening to them, now it's all of
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Speaker 1: a sudden, Oh well, now that's happening to us. When
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Speaker 1: are the poor people gonna fight? When are black people
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Speaker 1: gonna fight? Win? Are all the ninety two percent of
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Speaker 1: black women that voted for Kamala going to get up
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Speaker 1: and protest? Protest for? What? What was the protest for?
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Speaker 1: We did the right thing when we voted, and now
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Speaker 1: all these people that voted for this, now all of
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Speaker 1: a sudden now want to say, we want all the
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Speaker 1: people that voted for Kamala to get out in protest.
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Speaker 1: They want our protests so bad it ain't even funny
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Speaker 1: how bad they want this protest. But you might say,
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Speaker 1: what does any of this have to do with that?
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Speaker 1: It has everything to do with it. It's just like
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Speaker 1: they want you to be married, but they don't give
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Speaker 1: you the tools on how to go about being married.
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Speaker 1: They want you to have sex, but then you can't
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Speaker 1: talk about having sex because it'd be wrong talk about it.
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Speaker 1: So it's like that that old saying, look but don't touch, touch,
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Speaker 1: but don't taste. Do you remember who said that? Do
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Speaker 1: you remember when al when al Patinos said that the
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Speaker 1: Keanu reeves and the matrix and why I like to
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Speaker 1: use the matrix a lot. It's like saying, are you
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Speaker 1: gonna go down the red pill of destruction and disaster?
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Speaker 1: Or are you gonna go Are you gonna stand a
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Speaker 1: blue pill and just sit back and enjoy your piece
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Speaker 1: and quat and and leave well enough alone. Well I
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Speaker 1: choose to leave well enough alone. I choose stand a
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Speaker 1: blue pill, cause at the end of the day, everything
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Speaker 1: seems to be self destructing. It's bad when Jet Blue
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Speaker 1: is comeing out there going bankrupt. It is bad when
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Speaker 1: airplanes can't even fly because Canada is saying no, you
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Speaker 1: can't come through here. So if you trying to leave
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Speaker 1: from America to go to China or go anywhere, they're
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Speaker 1: saying you gotta go all the way around to get there.
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Speaker 1: So it's not the local flights that are being canceled,
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Speaker 1: it's the out of the country. It's tough that's being canceled.
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Speaker 1: That's what's going on, and that's crazy but not surprising.
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Speaker 1: So with everything that's going on right now, gas price
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Speaker 1: is being high, food being high, everything being high. This
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Speaker 1: is all a part of financial healing and recovery. How
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Speaker 1: do we heal from this? How do we come from this?
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Speaker 1: How do we go about anything? It's just like the
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Speaker 1: Chris Brown and Usher concert. Right people will talking about
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Speaker 1: putting credit cards in their kids' names. People will talking
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Speaker 1: about selling their housing, their cars to go to this concert.
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Speaker 1: The priority of it all is crazy to me. Luckily
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Speaker 1: for me, I have the money to go, so I'm good,
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Speaker 1: and got my hotel and got my flight, so were
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Speaker 1: good and got a cruise going on in January, and
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Speaker 1: ain't gonna spend two days in Miami either either when
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Speaker 1: I get there or I might stay for two days
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Speaker 1: when I leave. But I'm thinking about when I get there,
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Speaker 1: because I our cruise doesn't leave till Sunday, and I
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Speaker 1: might spend Friday and saturd in Miami. But anyway, like
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Speaker 1: I said, money is not gonna go with you when
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Speaker 1: you die, because it's not all these possessions you're gonna
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Speaker 1: get and going with you when you die. And as
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Speaker 1: somebody that is going through this currently now that my
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Speaker 1: father has passed away, trying to get stuff settled with
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Speaker 1: a house, two houses, and everything else, I'm learning a
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Speaker 1: lot about the importance of having a willing testament and
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Speaker 1: having a trust and having something put in place if
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Speaker 1: something happens. Saying that your child is not responsible for
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Speaker 1: any of your bills. Now a lot of people will
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Speaker 1: go get in the state and they'll put their selves
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Speaker 1: as the executive of the estate, not understanding that if
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Speaker 1: anything that that person owes falls on you and falls
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Speaker 1: on your credit. Matter of fact, to make to make
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Speaker 1: matters worse, I had Student Loans send me a letter
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Speaker 1: and I'm not working, and I went to try to
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Speaker 1: update my information. They told me my only option was
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Speaker 1: fifty seven dollars a month was the lowest that I
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Speaker 1: could pay till twenty forty, and I said, well, you
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Speaker 1: know what, since that's all I can afford, okay, cool,
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Speaker 1: fifty seven Dollarsand what people don't understand is when you
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Speaker 1: get away from society's standards, right, you realize that all
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Speaker 1: of this is a lie, going to school, getting an education.
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Speaker 1: It's all an illusion, which message which your consciousness. And
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Speaker 1: the crazy part is everything else gets wiped off within
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Speaker 1: seven years, but yet your student loans don't get wiped
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Speaker 1: off after seven years. Was even more crazy is on
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Speaker 1: your credit report, you will see where certain things are
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Speaker 1: taken off, but it's not showing when it comes to
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Speaker 1: student loans, it's not showing that they're crazy enough. Even
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Speaker 1: more insane, they take your actual debt that went to
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Speaker 1: the original company and now it's been moved. Mine's been
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Speaker 1: moved three times, three times, it's been moved every time.
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Speaker 1: These things, these these individual creditors, as far as the
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Speaker 1: ones that had our student loans now going through lawsuits.
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Speaker 1: They're now moving our student loans because they don't want
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Speaker 1: to pay them off, so they want to make sure
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Speaker 1: that we're not able to pay our student loans. Now
23:49
Speaker 1: what's even more crazy is majority of people are not
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Speaker 1: even in this, in the job that they went to
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Speaker 1: school for, they're not even making enough money to pay
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Speaker 1: our student loans. If they really wanted to get rid
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Speaker 1: of debt, they could get rid of debt. If they
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Speaker 1: wanted to, they could wipe everybody's credit clean and say,
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Speaker 1: you know what, we're gonna not deal with student loans
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Speaker 1: or medical bills, but anything else, credit cards, anything that
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Speaker 1: you you know that you that you pretty much made yourself. Yes,
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Speaker 1: you're responsible, but a lot. And then it was even
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Speaker 1: more crazy. And this is more of a common sense
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Speaker 1: thing to me. I'm not the one that applied for
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Speaker 1: student loans. The school did. The school applied for student loans,
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Speaker 1: and yet you want me to pay for them. Then
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Speaker 1: you got people that's paying the amount that you would
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Speaker 1: pay for a mortgage. You got people out here that
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Speaker 1: and have refinanced their house. You got people out here
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Speaker 1: that pay off their house and then sell it. Why
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Speaker 1: when you can just by the land and sit on
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Speaker 1: turn out, keep the foundation of the house and then
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Speaker 1: build on it. It's crazy to me. It don't make
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Speaker 1: no sense to me. A lot of this don't make sense.
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Speaker 1: But you know it was since my dad passed away,
25:29
Speaker 1: I've learned so much about finance I have. This is
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Speaker 1: why I'm paying off my car, because the longer you
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Speaker 1: don't pay it off, the more interest that falls on it.
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Speaker 1: Just pay it off. Just pay it off. That is
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Speaker 1: the best thing for you to do. Now. For me,
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Speaker 1: thank God for a firm. I don't know what I
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Speaker 1: would do without a firm. And now I'm about to
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Speaker 1: pay off some of my actual ones. I have about
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Speaker 1: to pay them off, and the only thing that would
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Speaker 1: be left is for some of the trips that I
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Speaker 1: had that I couldn't pay for the time that I'm
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Speaker 1: paying off now. But like I said, when you lead deserve,
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Speaker 1: not one single sanitary dime is going with you now,
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Speaker 1: one single sol bitter this property is going to you.
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Speaker 1: It will go right back to the government. That's what
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Speaker 1: will happen. My old thing is sometimes keeping the things
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Speaker 1: you have can be a value. Nobody's saying you shouldn't
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Speaker 1: move up, never will say that, but you always need
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Speaker 1: to have some of the safety net. Some people do
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Speaker 1: not have a safety net, so if anything happens, they
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Speaker 1: have somewhere to go. Thank god, me and my sister do.
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Speaker 1: Thank god, our our kids do. And we could have
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Speaker 1: sat there and said, you know what, we gonna sell
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Speaker 1: this house. We gonna sell the house, and we're not
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Speaker 1: gonna keep my dad's house. We decide to keep it.
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Speaker 1: Why because we're giving our niece and nephews a safety
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Speaker 1: net so if anything happens, they have somewhere to go.
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Speaker 1: If one of them lose they job, or even all
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Speaker 1: of them lose they job, they got somewhere to go.
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Speaker 1: They have somewhere to go. So I find it funny
27:29
Speaker 1: every time I think about this to when I sit around,
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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm gonna buy something, and now I'm asking
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Speaker 1: myself what do I buying it for? So now it's
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Speaker 1: not about buying something because I want it. I'm buying
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Speaker 1: it because of the purpose for it. I'm I'm up
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Speaker 1: here looking at products that I ain't even touched yet,
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Speaker 1: which I'm about to start touching now, and I'm like,
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Speaker 1: why am I buying more stuff? And I still got
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Speaker 1: this stuff sitting up here? Because we're buying things because
27:55
Speaker 1: it's always being throwing our face to go buy something.
27:58
Speaker 1: I'm buying something that God name moning for six thousand
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Speaker 1: dollars when I can get a Gucci perse for sixty
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Speaker 1: five dollars, I can go buy me a really really
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Speaker 1: good bag from Roses and not pay nowhere net that much.
28:14
Speaker 1: Soe your priorities change when they come to financial healing,
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Speaker 1: it changes. So once you make it this time around,
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Speaker 1: you ain't going back to falling. And that's why when
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Speaker 1: you go back this time, you gonna build something that
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Speaker 1: is your safety net. You're gonna have a safety net.
28:34
Speaker 1: So why you building your business and your brand. You're
28:37
Speaker 1: gonna have a job when you okay to determine when
28:42
Speaker 1: can you quit your job? Well, when you make calculate
28:47
Speaker 1: all your bills. Calculate all your bills and then see
28:53
Speaker 1: as far as how much it's going to be per month.
28:59
Speaker 1: Once you do that, then you say, not only that,
29:04
Speaker 1: how much money are you gonna have to put back
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Speaker 1: into your business? For me, it's twenty thousand, twenty thousand.
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Speaker 1: Be good for me because there'll be enough for me
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Speaker 1: to put back on my business and enough to pay
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Speaker 1: all my bills. Now, if you could do that for
29:17
Speaker 1: a whole year, then say now thirty thousand, or every
29:21
Speaker 1: two years, thirty thousand, forty thousand, fifty thousand. When you
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Speaker 1: get to the place when you start making fifty thousand
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Speaker 1: dollars a year, and your house is paid off, and
29:32
Speaker 1: you and you live in a nice neighborhood, and you
29:34
Speaker 1: doing good and nobody knows you making money, then you're
29:39
Speaker 1: gonna be good. But when you tell everybody you start
29:42
Speaker 1: making money, that's when it become a problem. So I'm
29:44
Speaker 1: saying to y'all is as follows. I get it, I understand,
29:52
Speaker 1: I really do. But my whole philosophy and all of
29:57
Speaker 1: this is is that enjoy your life. Build something that
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Speaker 1: you can pass down to your family, Build something that
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Speaker 1: will live past you and even live past your kids.
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Speaker 1: Financial recovery is I ain't never going back to not
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Speaker 1: another job. I'm not going back to work in a
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Speaker 1: regular nine to five job. I'm not going back to
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Speaker 1: where I can't work from anywhere, even when I'm on vacation.
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Speaker 1: Meaning as follows, you think all these rich and wealthy
30:36
Speaker 1: people are in the office. No, you have what's called zoom.
30:40
Speaker 1: Now you don't even have to be in the office.
30:42
Speaker 1: You don't have to go in and physically be in
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Speaker 1: a meeting. You can do it from zoom. But yet
30:46
Speaker 1: they still want you to go in the office because
30:49
Speaker 1: of the fact of the matter of real estate. Yeah,
30:54
Speaker 1: real estate. If it wasn't for real estate, everybody could
30:58
Speaker 1: work for my mom, except if there's a need for it.
31:02
Speaker 1: If there's a need for you in that office, then
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Speaker 1: you need to be in there. But if there's no
31:06
Speaker 1: need for you to be in the office, then there's
31:07
Speaker 1: no need for you to be there. I'm just saying so.
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Speaker 1: At the end of the day, like I said, when
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Speaker 1: you ain't up one morning and you say I don't
31:20
Speaker 1: want to go to work, I'm tired of getting up.
31:24
Speaker 1: I'm tired of not being able to go to doctor's appointments.
31:26
Speaker 1: I'm tired of not being able to pick my kids
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Speaker 1: up from school. I'm tired of making this job my
31:31
Speaker 1: whole entire life. When you lose your job and you
31:36
Speaker 1: end up homeless, or you barely getting by paying your bills,
31:41
Speaker 1: or you lost your job because it's your fault, and
31:46
Speaker 1: you say that you deserve better, that's where you're healing.
31:51
Speaker 1: Financially begins when you realize all these people you've been
31:57
Speaker 1: spending money on, all these people you've been to't care
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Speaker 1: off your dime, and they not returning what you give them.
32:09
Speaker 1: You test people by making it seem like you ain't
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Speaker 1: got no money, you'll see how many people are your
32:14
Speaker 1: true friends and you can count on five fingers how
32:17
Speaker 1: many of them will be out of thousands of thousands. So,
32:23
Speaker 1: like I said, financial recovery is in multiple different facets.
32:28
Speaker 1: Also when it comes to your family members and leeches
32:31
Speaker 1: and vampires that sucked the life out of you. So
32:35
Speaker 1: this podcast isn't just for people that are basically essentially
32:42
Speaker 1: losing their jobs. It's also for people that have lost
32:46
Speaker 1: their jobs because they were fired for no reason, laid off,
32:52
Speaker 1: people that actually lost their job because they actually they fault.
32:56
Speaker 1: But either way it go. Financial recovery ain't no joke either.
33:03
Speaker 1: Building a business is not easy being able us to
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Speaker 1: not have a bunch of haters trying to tear down
33:09
Speaker 1: what you do, people trying to destroy what you got
33:12
Speaker 1: going on. That's another part when you have people sabotaging
33:17
Speaker 1: your growth. When you have a husband that don't want
33:20
Speaker 1: his wife to work, so he goes to her job
33:23
Speaker 1: to try to get her manager, to her own the
33:25
Speaker 1: owner of the company to make the quick, make her
33:27
Speaker 1: quit or fire her. When you got people that's trying
33:31
Speaker 1: to stop you from building something, stealing your ideas, So
33:36
Speaker 1: there's many different facets of financial recovery, and we'll get
33:40
Speaker 1: into each and every last one of them separately. I
33:46
Speaker 1: can do a season on each one of them, and
33:48
Speaker 1: that's what I plan to do. So we're gonna start
33:51
Speaker 1: with the ones that lost their jobs willingly. Then we're
33:56
Speaker 1: gonna start with the ones that lost their job because
34:02
Speaker 1: it was out of their control, and the ones that
34:05
Speaker 1: lost their job because it's their fault. And then financial
34:09
Speaker 1: when it comes to family, when it comes to spouses,
34:13
Speaker 1: when it come to being Captain, saber Hose, Biller Bears,
34:15
Speaker 1: bill A Dolls, see full of people please. Yeah, there's
34:18
Speaker 1: a lot to unpack here. So I created this podcast
34:23
Speaker 1: about your healing, and we're gonna start financial here and
34:29
Speaker 1: the importance of you minding your own business versus worrying
34:31
Speaker 1: about everybody else and what everybody else got going on
34:34
Speaker 1: and what everybody else is doing. So with that being said,
34:37
Speaker 1: I appreciate y'all, I love y'all, and I appreciate support.
34:42
Speaker 1: I can't wait for y'all to hear the upcoming guests
34:44
Speaker 1: on the podcast about business and about healing and recovery
34:49
Speaker 1: from a business perspective and financial perspective. And with that
34:53
Speaker 1: being said, Thank you guys for joining me for this episode.
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Speaker 1: I'm your host, guys, aushin Maryama By y'all,