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THINGS MEN DO THAT ARE WRONG!!!!!! · Relatables

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Speaker 1: Everyone listenings with you. Guys are all children baddies. You
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Speaker 1: can have baddies babies. They could be. I don't know,
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Speaker 1: but Jake, something almost very very very embarrassing happened to
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Speaker 1: me the other day. Almost it's something or someone was
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Speaker 1: looking out for me. Got an angel, guardian Angel. I
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Speaker 1: think so, and I thought it was quite funny. Just quickly,
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Speaker 1: I'll tell it. I was out the gym the other day,
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Speaker 1: drive into the gym, you know, me drinking my pre workout.
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Speaker 1: I'm back on the hype. Yeah, what does pre workout
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Speaker 1: make you do? Usually straight away boop? Yes, I had
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Speaker 1: to go to a number two. I rushed into the
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Speaker 1: toy guys. I had to go straight to the toilet,
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Speaker 1: and I was just enjoying myself on my phone. You know,
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Speaker 1: it's me time anyway, you don't get much of it.
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Speaker 1: I go out in the trans room where all my
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Speaker 1: headphones and stuff are, and I'm getting ready to leave,
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Speaker 1: and there's a guy like in the shower and I
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Speaker 1: turned my back and like I looked back because I
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Speaker 1: didn't know what he was doing like over there. And
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Speaker 1: then I took turned back and I was about to
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Speaker 1: walk out. As I'm walking out of the door to
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Speaker 1: from the change room to the gym, this toilet paper
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Speaker 1: just falls out from behind me. And I was like,
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Speaker 1: no way, Like it was like a tail. But I
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Speaker 1: don't know what I did what. Yeah, it was just
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Speaker 1: like stuck at the top of my pants, and I
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Speaker 1: was how did you get that there? Don't I don't
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Speaker 1: know if it was pre wipe or like a white
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Speaker 1: like drop some on me. When I pulled my pants up,
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Speaker 1: I think that's what I did. And I literally literally
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Speaker 1: five second, less than five seconds from walking out of
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Speaker 1: to a full gym at like three o'clock. So someone
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Speaker 1: would have and no one would have said me. No
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Speaker 1: one would have said anything.
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Speaker 3: No one would have said.
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Speaker 1: It was a tale too. It was long, like a
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Speaker 1: solid like thirty forty centimeters.
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Speaker 3: Dude, dad, I was.
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Speaker 1: I sat. I literally I sat back down there and
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Speaker 1: I hit the tilet paper quickly because I was a
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Speaker 1: guy in the gym. And I was like, maybe it's
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Speaker 1: because I turned my body that way. I was like,
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Speaker 1: someone's looking out for me. You've believing God, Yeah, thank you.
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Speaker 2: Well I'll tell you why I don't believe because I
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Speaker 2: have a similar story.
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Speaker 1: It's crazy that you bring that up.
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Speaker 2: Okay, Ah, you're going to hate this year six Okay.
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Speaker 1: It's like the first my first week of going to
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Speaker 1: school in Australia. All right, I'm Canadian.
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Speaker 2: I'm the new kid started school in years the last
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Speaker 2: year of primary school.
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Speaker 1: Daunting, that is, dude, Okay, and no friends?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, literally, I don't really know anyone.
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Speaker 1: This might be why I don't really and I go
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Speaker 1: middle of class.
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Speaker 2: I remember, I go to the toilet it's a core
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Speaker 2: memory because it was embarrassing go to the toilet.
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Speaker 1: Uh.
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Speaker 2: And I get there and I had to take a shit.
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Speaker 2: You know, even from a young age, didn't care about taking.
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Speaker 1: Poops at school.
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Speaker 2: But there was footprints on the toilet seat, and I
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Speaker 2: was like, that's so weird, like dirty footprints from shoes.
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Speaker 2: So I put toilet paper on the toilet seat so
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Speaker 2: I didn't just sit on that.
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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, like, who wouldn't save your barcakes?
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Speaker 2: And so I do my business, go back into class
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Speaker 2: and as I'm walking in, I walk in and luckily
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Speaker 2: I got like a I had to go through the
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Speaker 2: class and then into like a computer room connecting Yeah yeah, man,
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Speaker 2: because like there was a small groups of us going
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Speaker 2: to do like a test. I think it was just
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Speaker 2: to see what level you're out or something, So there
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Speaker 2: were small groups was going to do this like, so
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Speaker 2: I had to walk through the class and then into
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Speaker 2: the computer room. And I walk into the computer room
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Speaker 2: and the teacher just taking care of us in that
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Speaker 2: little testing heart. She saw it and pulled it out.
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Speaker 1: Oh what a legend. But the whole fucking class. So
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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, she saved you and so she
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Speaker 1: sent me saved me. I don't know.
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Speaker 2: But and then I remember, I remember like once we
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Speaker 2: were done that, I remember someone was like, why do
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Speaker 2: you have toilet paper there?
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Speaker 1: And I was like oh, and I had to be
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Speaker 1: like I was just like, I don't know, man, I
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Speaker 1: was pretending to be a fairy. Oh for I. I
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Speaker 1: don't know, man proms to that teacher though, because that
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Speaker 1: could have had like pool on the other end, you
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Speaker 1: never know where it's being.
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Speaker 2: Clearly it was the one that I was touching my
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Speaker 2: little I was sitting on that I was taking a shit.
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Speaker 1: Fuck. There we go, There we go. I got saved.
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Speaker 1: You didn't, No, I didn't. I had a small bit
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Speaker 1: of embarrassment included in mine.
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Speaker 2: But that's crazy that you brought that up. That was
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Speaker 2: kind of like a memory. I never thought i'd tell you.
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Speaker 2: Probably forgot about it it. But today, what did we
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Speaker 2: want to start the episode with?
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Speaker 1: Well, look, I'm not gonna lie to you. I so
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Speaker 1: I live with my sister. Yeah we all know that now.
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Speaker 1: I live with my sister. Yes, it's a mission.
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Speaker 2: And quite often I will either my mom in Canada,
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Speaker 2: she'll call me, or even if Joanna and I go
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Speaker 2: to my parents' place for dinner or something. I quite
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Speaker 2: often feel interrogated about stuff I've been doing at the
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Speaker 2: house because Joanna obviously vents to them.
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Speaker 1: And she does it in front of the parents, and she.
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Speaker 2: She vents to them, and then and then it comes
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Speaker 2: to me, and she does she vents in front of me.
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Speaker 2: She she asked me to stop doing stuff all time too.
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Speaker 2: But like, you know, the stuff that she thinks I'm
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Speaker 2: gonna just tell her to fuck off about is the
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Speaker 2: stuff that she goes to my parents about. And then
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Speaker 2: they try to bring it up. But even I think
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Speaker 2: they're a bit scared to bring it up because I'm
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Speaker 2: going to tell them to fuck off.
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Speaker 3: So a devil child.
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Speaker 2: So what it got me thinking about was I feel
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Speaker 2: like everything thing I do is wrong. So we thought
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Speaker 2: we'd ask the IG this week, what are things guys
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Speaker 2: do that are wrong?
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Speaker 3: Yeah?
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Speaker 1: And the responses they were good. We were chuckling to
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Speaker 1: ourselves just having lunch before reading these pleasantly pleasantly surprised. Okay,
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Speaker 1: I don't want to go first, Sure, things men do
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Speaker 1: that are wrong? Breathe, yeah, let me be and we
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Speaker 1: breathe loudly, and I know we do yeah, it's just existing.
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Speaker 1: Let me sigh as well. Okay, while we're on the
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Speaker 1: top of let me sigh. I sign there. Things men
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Speaker 1: do that is wrong. They buy cheap cheese.
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Speaker 2: Yo. I always look for the cheese that's not sale,
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Speaker 2: the home brand on sale cheese.
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Speaker 1: That's so true. And all the girls love that Camembert
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Speaker 1: like that fancy stuff. I don't even think camember is that.
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Speaker 2: All I'm getting is just cheddar sliced, home brand, light
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Speaker 2: and tasty whatever it is.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 2: I look above a plastic cheese, A step above that
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Speaker 2: because that's not cheese.
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Speaker 1: What is that? But I don't know. I think it's
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Speaker 1: like fifty percent plastic or something. Fucking hell. Things men
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Speaker 1: do that are wrong cook us, dinner, meet our family,
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Speaker 1: stay with us every weekend, but won't date us. Oh
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Speaker 1: too many guys do that. They need to hear that,
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Speaker 1: they need to get out there. We're just friends. What
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Speaker 1: do you think we're doing. We spoke about this, We
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Speaker 1: spoke about things men do that are wrong. Ask the nudes.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw a really funny one the other day.
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Speaker 1: That's fucked. I find a funny nude. No, I saw
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Speaker 1: a funny way of a guy asking for you said
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Speaker 1: you saw a really funny nude.
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Speaker 4: I was like, come on, mate, so I can't say
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Speaker 4: that there's a girl screenshoed to snapchat message a blue
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Speaker 4: chat message, and the guy was like, my sister's getting
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Speaker 4: her nipples pierced, and I know that you have some
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Speaker 4: and they aren't fake.
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Speaker 2: And I was just wondering, like I told her that
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Speaker 2: you have someone. She asked if you could maybe send
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Speaker 2: a photo and I'll give her my phone and she's
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Speaker 2: not going to show me like I promise this.
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Speaker 1: Way. This man smart. You gotta do what you gotta do.
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Speaker 1: It's a tough world out there.
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Speaker 2: Things men do that are wrong, dressed like a little
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Speaker 2: boy until they get their heartbroken, and then all of
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Speaker 2: a sudden have good style.
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Speaker 1: Oh is that hell where we get our style from.
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Speaker 3: That's how it works.
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Speaker 1: I think, Oh, I didn't process that well. So then
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Speaker 1: I'm saying facts. We have got a heartbroken a couple
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Speaker 1: of times. Some of our friends have never got their
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Speaker 1: heart yeah.
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Speaker 3: Clear some of ourselves. Clearly.
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Speaker 2: There's a lot of guys that have never been heartbroken,
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Speaker 2: like ever, they're forty and they have never had that heartbroken.
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Speaker 1: How lucky this one's calling us out things men do
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Speaker 1: that are wrong. How they apply chapstick, Dude, I'm telling
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Speaker 1: you right now, if it's on my lips, it's applied correctly.
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Speaker 3: That's all I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: If it's on my lips, it has been applied correctly.
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Speaker 3: I just want to say, let me be fucking oh. Literally,
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Speaker 3: before I had.
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Speaker 1: A girlfriend, I thought I was fine, got through life perfectly, fine, mate,
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Speaker 1: They're just about things men do that are wrong. Wash
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Speaker 1: their face with a dirty wash cloth and have perfect skin.
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Speaker 1: That's jealousy. That is jealousy. That's jealous To be fair,
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Speaker 1: I use a clean washcloth. Yeah, no way, I only
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Speaker 1: use it like two or three times. Really hopefully it
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Speaker 1: didn't fall in the bathroom floor. Yeah. I don't even
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Speaker 1: wash my face.
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Speaker 2: When I when I shave, I will like splash some water,
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Speaker 2: dry it and then moisturize.
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Speaker 1: That's all I can. Apparently I do have a bit
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Speaker 1: of a blind pimple up here. You wouldn't even be
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Speaker 1: able to tell if you didn't say anything exactly. Mate,
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Speaker 1: I'm fucking lucky. You are very lucky. Also, love a
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Speaker 1: sweet tweet, never sugar.
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Speaker 3: I actually could eat so shit. I don't ever get
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Speaker 3: sugar pipils.
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Speaker 1: I don't even get some wet pipils. Bro. Yeh, cher's
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Speaker 1: just like test or something. Test the theory se if
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Speaker 1: you get pimples, well, to.
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Speaker 2: Be fair, like, if I did, it wouldn't be that
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Speaker 2: much because it's not like I have enough, Like I
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Speaker 2: don't get heat right now.
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Speaker 1: It's not in your genetics. Things men do that are wrong,
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Speaker 1: This one might be the best one, asking if you're
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Speaker 1: on your period when they're in a bad mood. No,
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Speaker 1: you couldn't. You couldn't.
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Speaker 3: You couldn't do that. You couldn't pay me to be like,
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Speaker 3: are you on your period?
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Speaker 1: Yes, she's just in a ship moon. You're just like wait,
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Speaker 1: wait a second, I'm not putting up with are you?
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Speaker 3: Are you on the rag?
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Speaker 4: Bro?
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Speaker 1: That's what terrible Things men do that are wrong. Run
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Speaker 1: for president? Oh yeah, that time we had a female president.
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Speaker 1: Especially everything that's gone wrong at the moment that country,
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Speaker 1: that country even now can't at the moments that shambles
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Speaker 1: it does. Yeah, it seems to be in shambles. Things
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Speaker 1: men do that are wrong. How we fold hows?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been taught by Joanna, and I don't feel
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Speaker 2: like it looks any better than the way I was
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Speaker 2: doing it.
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Speaker 1: I think folding should be a time thing. How quickly
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Speaker 1: you can do it and get it away is how
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Speaker 1: the appropriate technique should be. Also, look, you don't look
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Speaker 1: at it's in a company, you don't see it.
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Speaker 2: I think if it's in a closed copany you should
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Speaker 2: be able to throw it in unfolded.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, what's folding it doing? What's the point of
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Speaker 1: the door. Exactly?
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Speaker 3: The point of the door is Hi, the fucking shit?
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Speaker 1: God, who we folding it for? You don't undo it
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Speaker 1: as soon as you open anyway, most have already been undone.
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Speaker 1: Your saving in repetition, Yeah, I don't.
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Speaker 2: Oh God, the way the things that they value compared
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Speaker 2: to us is hilarious.
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Speaker 1: Ah. Things men do that are wrong betray oh they do?
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Speaker 1: We do? They betray the trust? Oh, so many guys do.
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Speaker 1: We're learning from this podcast, and no. Betrayal is actually
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Speaker 1: a big one.
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Speaker 3: Trust a big one.
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Speaker 1: Mate. Things men do that are wrong, say ship that
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Speaker 1: will make me overthink.
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Speaker 2: Facts, bro, we just whoa I never even thought of that.
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Speaker 1: We make the spiraling occur? Yeah, we don't help. No,
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Speaker 1: we don't help.
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Speaker 2: And it's also probably because it's like a big old
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Speaker 2: It's probably like we'll say something and you go, look,
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Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm talking about it. I'm doing
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Speaker 2: just protect I'm just a man. Yeah, we just protect ourselves.
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Speaker 2: Things men do that are wrong violently twitch in their sleep,
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Speaker 2: like what the fuck is happening? Are you having an exorcist?
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Speaker 1: I do that? Don't girls do that?
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Speaker 3: Apparently not according to girls, they don't do it.
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Speaker 1: Like you're having a good sleep if you're in a
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Speaker 1: dream or something. I mean, I say, yeah, that's good.
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Speaker 2: My girlfriend, she fucking it's we've clearly like gotten to
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Speaker 2: a point where she doesn't give a shit about waking
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Speaker 2: me up for snoring. Now, no, no, I snare So
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Speaker 2: she doesn't give a shit about waking me up while
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Speaker 2: I'm snoring.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, And she'll literally sometimes she says she's like shaking
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Speaker 1: me and she's like what are you doing? And I'm like
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Speaker 1: what what? What? What?
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Speaker 2: And then I remember waking up one morning and I
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Speaker 2: was like, you wouldn't get your feet, like, you wouldn't
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Speaker 2: stop like touching your feet on me last night and
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Speaker 2: I was trying to pull my legs away and wouldn't
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Speaker 2: stop it. She goes, yeah, no, I was trying to
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Speaker 2: wake you up because you were snoring and I was
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Speaker 2: talking to you and I was like, I didn't.
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Speaker 1: Realize you've stored. It's pretty bad.
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Speaker 2: I can I mean, look, I can snore you definitely, Definitely,
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Speaker 2: I would.
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Speaker 1: Hate it it. I wouldn't it okay. Things men do
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Speaker 1: that are wrong. They try to fix the problem instead
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Speaker 1: of just listening and saying, damn, that sucks. I have
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Speaker 1: an issue with that. Why where if my.
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Speaker 2: Girlfriend has a problem regarding anything, I can't not think
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Speaker 2: of the solution because.
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Speaker 1: In my head about it, but you don't voice your opinion.
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Speaker 2: In my head, the solution is quite often simple, like no,
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Speaker 2: you can say that, That's what I'm saying. It's like
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Speaker 2: not to like I'm not I don't do it too often,
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Speaker 2: like she's she never really has any issues, to be honest,
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Speaker 2: But I'm talking like Joanna anyone like my mom, And
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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, look, well, I mean all you.
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Speaker 1: Have to do is just ignore it, and they're like
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Speaker 1: they're like, nah, that's just not right. Sometimes I've learned,
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Speaker 1: like the magnitude of the problem is when I employ
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Speaker 1: logic or not, Yeah, it makes it worse. Yeah, makes
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Speaker 1: it way. Well, sometimes I just like, I know what
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Speaker 1: the answer is here. I'm not using a trap. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: maybe I'm just like, know what maybe next time, tybe
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Speaker 1: it is a trap. I'm taking of a tactic here
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Speaker 1: is it?
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Speaker 2: Like?
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Speaker 1: Do next time? Anyone?
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Speaker 2: Joanna and my mama would Beth if they say, like
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Speaker 2: if they have a problem, maybe it's like, which is
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Speaker 2: the best thing to do? To be like, I don't
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Speaker 2: even know what to do. I just feel so bad
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Speaker 2: for you and give my cuddle. I think now that
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Speaker 2: they're seeing they're probably going to see this, and now
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Speaker 2: they're going to know what I'm doing.
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Speaker 1: But give it a go.
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Speaker 2: Just be like, oh baby, like I'm so sorry, Like
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Speaker 2: I wish can help, but I just can.
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Speaker 1: Give you a I could help. Yeah, that's all they
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Speaker 1: want be nurtures. I think that's right, nurture. They want
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Speaker 1: us to nurture.
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Speaker 2: I'm not the greatest nurture. Things guys do that are
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Speaker 2: wrong readjusting their crotch while they're talking to you.
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Speaker 1: The order of that, grab their balls in public.
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Speaker 3: You guys don't know how it feels.
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Speaker 1: You don't have anything to Readjust yeah, it's like your
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Speaker 1: skin's being attached to If you get a scene if
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Speaker 1: yours up in there.
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Speaker 2: That are like the perfect angle of pulling on the
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Speaker 2: hairs on your crutch and then like you have to
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Speaker 2: get out.
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Speaker 1: It's a good feeling when it's released, just humping the air.
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Speaker 1: Things men do that are wrong.
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Speaker 2: I just saw a man not on a stranger. Disgusting
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Speaker 2: what I didn't understand, And I was like, did you
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Speaker 2: see sexual assaults? Like does someone just fucking man?
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Speaker 1: Does she watched porn or something watching? Oh, picked up
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Speaker 1: stranger from the street.
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Speaker 2: Fuck, there's always a title like that where it's like
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Speaker 2: pick up a raindom from the street.
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Speaker 1: Oh, man, my last one. Things men do that are wrong.
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Speaker 1: I don't know how to talk about their feelings. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I can agree, we're getting better. Is that wrong? Yeah?
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Speaker 1: To an extent? Was it wrong that we don't know
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Speaker 1: how to?
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Speaker 2: Well?
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Speaker 1: I think that try, that's I think that's it. I
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Speaker 1: think trying is a good thing. But that's a big
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Speaker 1: that we don't know how is why we're so bad
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Speaker 1: of our mental health men especially, Yeah, I would say
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Speaker 1: so we don't try. That's why we try and normalize
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Speaker 1: even if you fail at it, just normalized trying to
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Speaker 1: talk about your feelings. Are you're feeling and not being
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Speaker 1: a group of friends where you're like, nah this, drink
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Speaker 1: beer and gamble. Yeah, you know what.
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Speaker 2: I reckon My biggest feories is with one of the
16:43
Speaker 2: reasons I wouldn't even say anything he's talk about my
16:46
Speaker 2: feelings is like, if I can't confidently validate the feeling,
16:53
Speaker 2: why would anyone else? I mean no, really, So let's
16:57
Speaker 2: say I'm feeling bad about something. Yeah, and head it's like,
17:00
Speaker 2: should I be feeling bad about this? And I'm questioning
17:02
Speaker 2: whether it's even valid? But if I'm feeling it, I mean,
17:05
Speaker 2: I guess it's valid.
17:06
Speaker 1: But the fact that.
17:07
Speaker 2: My biggest thing is is like, well, if I'm not
17:09
Speaker 2: one or its valid them, why is anyone else going
17:11
Speaker 2: to think that? Well?
17:13
Speaker 1: I think that's growth for you. That's also learning from
17:16
Speaker 1: girls even telling you about their problems. Their problem might
17:18
Speaker 1: not be to you that big, but to them, just
17:21
Speaker 1: by telling you it makes them feel better. And that's
17:23
Speaker 1: the same thing about your feelings. Just by you talking
17:25
Speaker 1: about it will come better. You're talking about your feelings
17:28
Speaker 1: and understanding yourself. Fucking good point. Yeah, I can't argue
17:32
Speaker 1: with that, mate.
17:33
Speaker 2: I got a come, I'm out things Guys do that
17:35
Speaker 2: are wrong, have their wingers on the toilet bowl while pooping. No,
17:41
Speaker 2: if you know someone that does that, tell ask them
17:44
Speaker 2: to get an STD check.
17:46
Speaker 1: Please tell me they don't do that. I'm just tangling.
17:48
Speaker 3: I'm a dangle.
17:50
Speaker 1: I'm a dangle.
17:50
Speaker 2: Also, anyone that tells you that, I'm telling you right now,
17:54
Speaker 2: how far up on the toilet are you sitting for
17:56
Speaker 2: it to even being able to do that? Yeah, cold
17:58
Speaker 2: winter morning here in Australia, tell you what.
18:00
Speaker 3: It's not even dangling.
18:02
Speaker 1: And if you don't have a foreskin and you're just
18:04
Speaker 1: letting your willy run raw on that toilet, that's a
18:07
Speaker 1: raw dogging. Definition of raw dogging. Someone's asks have been crazy.
18:13
Speaker 2: Okay, I've got one more things guys do that are wrong.
18:16
Speaker 2: Go to take a ship just as you've gotten ready
18:19
Speaker 2: to go out.
18:19
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we do that. Beth gets so the worst.
18:25
Speaker 1: We're just about to record, and he's like, I just
18:27
Speaker 1: got to take a ship.
18:28
Speaker 3: Hey, it comes and goes as it pleases. If it comes,
18:30
Speaker 3: I've got to go.
18:31
Speaker 1: Oh we have a meeting. And he's like, oh, let
18:32
Speaker 1: me just take a ship and ship like a sick
18:35
Speaker 1: And then then you just play. You try and talk
18:37
Speaker 1: to me when he's in there some pops up at a
18:39
Speaker 1: phone call. He's playing his tiktoks as loud as possible,
18:43
Speaker 1: like Jake, Jake, fucking like, Okay, you've got here's my
18:49
Speaker 1: Joanna's side. Here, mate, here's where I like. In terms
18:52
Speaker 1: of uh, I get upset because why is this you
18:58
Speaker 1: trying to talk about your feelings.
19:02
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I know Beth could be watching this. I
19:04
Speaker 2: don't know if she's a couple of weeks behind her.
19:05
Speaker 2: She's on point. I'm gonna say so. Sometimes Beth gets.
19:10
Speaker 1: Mad at me. She's like, if I have to poop?
19:12
Speaker 2: When we were about to love She's like, we have
19:13
Speaker 2: to leave in like three minutes, okay, And then she
19:16
Speaker 2: kind of you can tell she's a bit annoyed that
19:17
Speaker 2: I always have to ship.
19:18
Speaker 1: And I don't say anything, but I'm kind.
19:21
Speaker 2: Of like, hey, well, you got to use the bathroom
19:23
Speaker 2: for thirty minutes before we left.
19:26
Speaker 1: I say that to her. I just never say because
19:28
Speaker 1: I don't feel like arguing.
19:29
Speaker 2: Place you got to use the bathroom for like fucking
19:32
Speaker 2: one hour thirty minutes before we left. All I want
19:34
Speaker 2: is five minutes to pooh. And you're getting mad at me.
19:38
Speaker 1: That's fair. That's about it's too fair. Jeez, talk, that's
19:44
Speaker 1: talk practice talking about you feeling.
19:46
Speaker 3: I gotta let it out. I gotta let it out.
19:48
Speaker 1: Tell her how you feel?
19:49
Speaker 3: Do you feel better?
19:51
Speaker 1: I mean no, because I didn't say it to her. Yeah,
19:53
Speaker 1: it's practice, Yeah, yeah, yeah.
20:01
Speaker 3: Alrighty guys.
20:02
Speaker 2: The next segment coming up is actually a pre recorded
20:05
Speaker 2: segment with our friend Harry Quail, who you may know,
20:08
Speaker 2: who you've heard on past episode that we pranked. Actually, yeah,
20:11
Speaker 2: we franked him, so it's safe. We pre recorded this
20:14
Speaker 2: with him. He came here with samples for some jumpers, yes,
20:17
Speaker 2: and we recorded some content with him. We recorded a
20:20
Speaker 2: segment for the podcast that's going to be coming out
20:22
Speaker 2: right now as you hear this, and that this is
20:25
Speaker 2: our conversation with him. So we just want to let
20:26
Speaker 2: you know that this is a pre recorded thing.
20:28
Speaker 1: This is in relation to working with him doing his
20:31
Speaker 1: clothing brand Blues and Greens Slash Relatables Hoodies coming soon
20:36
Speaker 1: very soon, all right, guys. Up next is a bit
20:42
Speaker 1: of a monumental thing for us. I would say, Jake,
20:45
Speaker 1: it's pretty big. It's pretty big. We started this podcast
20:48
Speaker 1: coming up on two years ago, two we started in
20:51
Speaker 1: June twenty twenty twenty two. It was June, like June
20:56
Speaker 1: twenty two, twenty twenty two or something along those lines,
20:59
Speaker 1: very close to a year from there. It's we never
21:01
Speaker 1: thought it would get to where it is to this day.
21:03
Speaker 1: I don't.
21:04
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we went into it thinking just start something,
21:07
Speaker 2: and then I don't think we thought it would get
21:09
Speaker 2: where it's this, where it is this quickly.
21:11
Speaker 1: No, not at all. We're very appreciative of everyone who listens,
21:15
Speaker 1: and this is exciting for us. Jake very because we're
21:18
Speaker 1: doing something that we're doing a clothing drop with we
21:22
Speaker 1: can now call him a good friend.
21:23
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's exciting for us to release something that
21:25
Speaker 2: we haven't actually thought we could ever do, and to
21:29
Speaker 2: do it with a clothing line that we love and
21:33
Speaker 2: actually where Yeah. So I guess i'd like we want
21:36
Speaker 2: to introduce a little special guest to the episode, Harry
21:39
Speaker 2: good to be.
21:42
Speaker 1: First name Harry, last name Blues and Greens, last name
21:46
Speaker 1: Quaile Harry Quail, who is the proud.
21:51
Speaker 2: Owner of a clothing line called Blues and Greens that
21:55
Speaker 2: you guys have probably seen.
21:56
Speaker 1: Us where Yeah, we wear them all the time on
21:58
Speaker 1: the podcast and you would have seen him is always
22:00
Speaker 1: wearing the vest, always wear the hoodie. Yeah yeah.
22:02
Speaker 2: My favorite thing is the shorts, yeah, by far, and
22:05
Speaker 2: then in winter definitely, the hoodies are just you can't
22:07
Speaker 2: beat the quality. But so we love it. And so
22:10
Speaker 2: Harry's over here in our actual studio.
22:14
Speaker 1: It's good to be here in Sydney. Came along ways
22:16
Speaker 1: from Perth. From Perth, five hours, five hours. Thank you
22:20
Speaker 1: for coming on, Yeah yeah, thanks for coming on committment
22:22
Speaker 1: to the course. I pick him up from the airport
22:25
Speaker 1: and and he's come all the way.
22:27
Speaker 2: From Perth, paid for his own We didn't blow him out, right, granted, well,
22:32
Speaker 2: let's not make him look too good. His mum used
22:33
Speaker 2: to work for an airline, so he gets cheap lights, right,
22:36
Speaker 2: he gets some cheap legs. And then so I picked
22:39
Speaker 2: him uprom the airport. He's all obviously very appreciative, and
22:42
Speaker 2: we stopped to get a coffee because we're coming to
22:44
Speaker 2: an hour and a half drive from the airport to
22:46
Speaker 2: hear He's like, oh, let me buy your coffee. You're
22:47
Speaker 2: doing me a massive favor. And I was like, dude,
22:49
Speaker 2: you flew fucking five hours here.
22:51
Speaker 3: We didn't even offer to meet you halfway.
22:54
Speaker 1: I was going to get a higher car. I was
22:56
Speaker 1: just grate for that. You guys picked joke, picked me up.
22:58
Speaker 2: Yeah, look, hey you're going to run the gats mate,
23:00
Speaker 2: I said, my legs in the safety rating.
23:05
Speaker 1: In a wet I don't know if it crashed. The
23:08
Speaker 1: airbags were coming straight through from me out. Oh no,
23:12
Speaker 1: for sure.
23:13
Speaker 2: Yeah you would have been I think you would have
23:15
Speaker 2: had a dislocated hip. But what are we releasing with
23:19
Speaker 2: blues and greens Body? We're doing a hoodie hodie, which
23:22
Speaker 2: is very very exciting. Two hoodies, not as one hoodie.
23:25
Speaker 2: Body has a hoodie that he designed.
23:27
Speaker 1: And Jake has a hoodie that he designed and if
23:29
Speaker 1: you're on YouTube you can see we're wearing them. Yep.
23:32
Speaker 2: But we wanted we wanted to give little story of
23:33
Speaker 2: how we met, how we became acquainted, how the relationship started.
23:38
Speaker 1: So we only really met like a couple of hours
23:40
Speaker 1: ago we actually did. It's been like an a light
23:43
Speaker 1: online relationship for a few months now.
23:45
Speaker 2: Yeah, we've had a few faced on calls, a lot
23:47
Speaker 2: of stuff. Like we we went to Harry asking because
23:50
Speaker 2: we love this stuff. We said, we want to release stuff.
23:52
Speaker 2: We have no experience can you help us? And then
23:56
Speaker 2: we were like, the first one we'll do was let's
23:57
Speaker 2: do a collap so relatables blues and green. But you know,
24:01
Speaker 2: you even been in a relationship and someone goes like,
24:03
Speaker 2: how did you goes to meet? And it's always just
24:04
Speaker 2: kind of a bit of a power move when it's like, oh,
24:06
Speaker 2: she messaged me first.
24:07
Speaker 1: Oh he messaged me first. So Harry message just I
24:12
Speaker 1: probably message I don't think joke, probably read it. Yeah,
24:15
Speaker 1: Harry is one of our very few malee listeners, true,
24:18
Speaker 1: very true superpower over the rest of the men in
24:22
Speaker 1: that no one else has. But what was your first
24:25
Speaker 1: message to it? S wuld you say? I remember I
24:27
Speaker 1: stumbled across you guys. It was probably on your blow
24:28
Speaker 1: up stage on TikTok. I used to see you all
24:30
Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, I was very much resonated with things,
24:33
Speaker 1: you'll say, the conversation you were having, and he's here
24:35
Speaker 1: we go. We'll read out. Fourth of September eight fifty
24:39
Speaker 1: three pm. Stumbled across your pod today, been smashing the apps.
24:42
Speaker 1: Absolutely exactly what I needed in my ears. Generally, the
24:45
Speaker 1: way your brain seems to work and the way you
24:47
Speaker 1: two converse with each other, just resonates so much of me.
24:50
Speaker 1: I got my own brand at Blues and greenstot Co.
24:53
Speaker 1: Feel free to check it out. But honestly would love
24:55
Speaker 1: to send you boys some things to rep have a
24:57
Speaker 1: few dead stock line around and I think you boys
24:59
Speaker 1: would love the message of what I got and the
25:01
Speaker 1: clothes to hopefully keep out the grind, do you and
25:04
Speaker 1: outdo the rest. Life is to be lived, and I
25:06
Speaker 1: love you boys. Do that and don't let your lives
25:08
Speaker 1: be shaped by opinions or judgments of others. Blue Love Heart,
25:12
Speaker 1: what a sweet that's just pulling on the heart strings
25:14
Speaker 1: right now. It's really just aligning without I don't realize
25:18
Speaker 1: it's so deep into our just re read.
25:20
Speaker 3: It back, Well, we didn't.
25:21
Speaker 2: I honestly didn't remember because I didn't read the message.
25:24
Speaker 1: I didn't remember that that that's how we got in contact.
25:27
Speaker 2: Until before we were like, oh we should we talk
25:28
Speaker 2: about We're like, oh, have we had the relationships?
25:30
Speaker 1: And then you read that before and we were like
25:32
Speaker 1: ship like that, I reckon we should play We replied
25:35
Speaker 1: with a voice message classic from us. I reckon, we'll
25:39
Speaker 1: play it now. Harry, Audie and Jake, we appreciate your
25:45
Speaker 1: message so much. Man, your brand looks fucking sick. We're
25:48
Speaker 1: happy to wear it on a sent of some stuff.
25:51
Speaker 1: That's fine by as the message seems to a line
25:53
Speaker 1: of our goals pretty well. But yeah, we'll just do
25:56
Speaker 1: some someblim subliminal Is that right word? Subliminal? Subliminal messaging?
26:00
Speaker 1: If we were on the pod still blind, Yeah, that jeez, man,
26:04
Speaker 1: let us know.
26:08
Speaker 2: I was fresh out of watching the Barbie movie, mate,
26:10
Speaker 2: and there's this whole bar We're Ryan Ryan Goslings getting
26:14
Speaker 2: like the approval from Margot Robbie and he's like, goes
26:16
Speaker 2: it behind the dois like just give me a second,
26:19
Speaker 2: Stu Blind, And.
26:21
Speaker 3: It's just It's just I was in a mood alright.
26:24
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure were we in Bali? No, No, we
26:27
Speaker 1: weren't yet. Yeah, just before before.
26:29
Speaker 2: It must have been just before yeah, yeah, yeah, so
26:31
Speaker 2: I was fresh out of that.
26:32
Speaker 1: I think pretty sure. It came out in September. But
26:34
Speaker 1: we're about to drop some clothing with Blues and Greens
26:37
Speaker 1: slash Harry. But do you want to tell us a
26:38
Speaker 1: little bit behind your story of how Blues and Green started? Yeah,
26:42
Speaker 1: so I started again. I'm a year behind you. So
26:44
Speaker 1: I started a year but just over a year ago today,
26:47
Speaker 1: it started as like a I felt like I was
26:49
Speaker 1: feeling a hole that I wish I had. There's always
26:51
Speaker 1: a part of me that I always wanted to do
26:52
Speaker 1: more than just a clothing brand. Like I've always wanted
26:54
Speaker 1: to I've been always passionate about mental health and the
26:58
Speaker 1: conversations around that. I've always much like you. That's why
27:01
Speaker 1: you started this podcast, right, like starting conversations with men,
27:04
Speaker 1: where I sort of wanted to market my products in
27:07
Speaker 1: that way. So a lot of what I do has
27:09
Speaker 1: some sort of underlying message in terms of my recent hood.
27:12
Speaker 1: It was like self love and I've don't think like
27:14
Speaker 1: the simple things and things that I think are important
27:17
Speaker 1: to me and aren't spoken about in the mainstream male
27:20
Speaker 1: males especially, but even just in general. So I like
27:24
Speaker 1: to have some sort of powering message what I'm doing,
27:28
Speaker 1: and also I like to be authentically me. You're like
27:31
Speaker 1: you're most of the marketing, yeah, all of the markets.
27:33
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. And I found that to be the way
27:36
Speaker 1: I wanted to create, like my community, create connectivity things
27:39
Speaker 1: like that, because I did endeavors to grow it beyond
27:43
Speaker 1: the clothing. And there's this right now, it's sort of
27:45
Speaker 1: my platform to build something that I want to build.
27:48
Speaker 1: And I'm loving it. I'm loving every bit of it.
27:49
Speaker 1: It's so so amazing. But yeah, started with it made
27:51
Speaker 1: like knitted shorts. I found like these skirts, and I
27:54
Speaker 1: like knitted women's skirts, and I was like, Man, if
27:56
Speaker 1: that was shorts, I'd so wear them. Yeah. Yeah, I've
27:58
Speaker 1: got a pair of shot. And that's how I wanted to.
28:01
Speaker 1: That was up my idea of business. I've always been
28:04
Speaker 1: business brained, and that was up my hole. I was like, oh,
28:07
Speaker 1: this is my chance in and then sort of just
28:09
Speaker 1: I dive. I dive in real quick, yeah, and just
28:12
Speaker 1: learn everything out on the go and that sort of
28:14
Speaker 1: if anything, I've taken away from that, and it's been
28:17
Speaker 1: like a metaphor moving forward with not only business but
28:19
Speaker 1: life is just like you want to do something to
28:21
Speaker 1: dive in and work it out and go as I'm
28:23
Speaker 1: sure you probably look back on your first episodes two
28:26
Speaker 1: years ago. Yeah, I don't want to talk about that,
28:29
Speaker 1: cringe out at all, but you learn along the way,
28:31
Speaker 1: go start somewhere. Yeah, now look at it like you've
28:33
Speaker 1: got your own little studio and yeah, and that's one
28:35
Speaker 1: thing we really loved about your brand is it had
28:37
Speaker 1: a meaning behind all the clothing, like you last drop
28:40
Speaker 1: with self love. Yeah, one of the shirts I have
28:42
Speaker 1: is one of your biggest goals is to have a family,
28:44
Speaker 1: which really speaks to us because at the end of
28:46
Speaker 1: the day, this podcast was to normalize men talking about
28:49
Speaker 1: their feelings and mental health. And I think the brand
28:52
Speaker 1: alignment is just really good. And I think that's why
28:54
Speaker 1: I connected with you guys so much, is like they're
28:57
Speaker 1: like the conversation that you guys have with each other,
29:00
Speaker 1: a conversations which I have and bind my relationships with
29:03
Speaker 1: with my close friends. So it was so refreshing. I
29:05
Speaker 1: found to have like two guys who looks similar to me,
29:09
Speaker 1: similar mindset, speaking on social media about these topics, and
29:12
Speaker 1: it sort of gave me that confidence and reassurance to
29:14
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like there are other people
29:16
Speaker 1: out there, because it is a lonely grind at times,
29:17
Speaker 1: you two got each other, luckily, Yeah, so you support
29:20
Speaker 1: each other and you back each other in boy at
29:21
Speaker 1: the times, there definitely days where I'm like, it's on
29:24
Speaker 1: my own and if I'm posting something, there's no one
29:26
Speaker 1: who is stupid. Jake cops it as well. We've got
29:29
Speaker 1: a security blanket.
29:31
Speaker 3: Fully, I admit that I never would.
29:32
Speaker 2: Have started a podcast without someone and then Audies and
29:35
Speaker 2: one was like, let's do it. I never even thought
29:37
Speaker 2: of it. It was his idea. Everyone knows that, everyone knows
29:39
Speaker 2: our starting story. What about like what actually drove you?
29:43
Speaker 2: What do you remember the day where you just like
29:45
Speaker 2: made the decision to take the leap, because it's like
29:47
Speaker 2: a scary thing to do.
29:48
Speaker 1: You have to design everything.
29:49
Speaker 2: And I assume there's millions of people out there that
29:52
Speaker 2: wanted to start a clothing brand and wanted to start
29:54
Speaker 2: a brand, and they do the design stage, they do everything,
29:56
Speaker 2: they plan everything, and then it comes to like actually
29:59
Speaker 2: investing in product. Yeah, it's just a scary thing and
30:03
Speaker 2: everyone to get away.
30:05
Speaker 1: So I've always, like I said, I've always wanted to
30:08
Speaker 1: do something, but it actually was a breakup. And you
30:11
Speaker 1: hear it all the time, like you go one or
30:13
Speaker 1: two ways, or you can go one or two ways,
30:14
Speaker 1: but it was like I got broken up with It
30:16
Speaker 1: was like the next day I've always like I had
30:18
Speaker 1: that idea of these shorts, and the next day actually started
30:21
Speaker 1: designing stuff and I just spent like so you found
30:23
Speaker 1: motivation from the breakup. Yeah, well so instead of we
30:26
Speaker 1: say go out of the gym, we should say started clothing,
30:29
Speaker 1: may waste your money. It was a breakup, that's I
30:34
Speaker 1: guess that's sometimes you just need a queue to do something.
30:37
Speaker 1: Sometimes people like we said, breakup, you go to the
30:39
Speaker 1: gym and you sort your physical appearance out. I very
30:42
Speaker 1: much went I like that self love, self care, mental
30:45
Speaker 1: health era where I started doing things for me and
30:48
Speaker 1: I realized that it's like it is my life and
30:50
Speaker 1: no one else can fulfill those holes, like you've got
30:54
Speaker 1: to do it yourself. I think that's what a lot
30:56
Speaker 1: of my realization came from, is that if you've got goals,
30:59
Speaker 1: if you've got something that you want to do, if
31:00
Speaker 1: you got something that you believe in, do it yourself,
31:02
Speaker 1: don't wait for someone else. And I think I was
31:04
Speaker 1: probably a cue you feel when you're in a relationship,
31:06
Speaker 1: you can feel held back. And don't get me wrong,
31:08
Speaker 1: like some of the hardest days of my life, hundred
31:10
Speaker 1: percent was like going through those breakouts, but like the
31:14
Speaker 1: best thing that ever happened to me, Like I wouldn't
31:16
Speaker 1: be sitting here today and it allowed me, like it
31:19
Speaker 1: allowed me a springboard and a queue to do something.
31:22
Speaker 1: I guess it's interesting.
31:23
Speaker 2: Yeah. I always say whenever we get maybe a dilemma
31:25
Speaker 2: or something about a breakup, it's the most cliche thing.
31:28
Speaker 2: And it's like, you feel shit right now, and I
31:30
Speaker 2: assume you felt something at the time. It was like
31:32
Speaker 2: the worst feeling in the world, right, Yeah, And it's
31:34
Speaker 2: like I felt the same. I remember going through a
31:35
Speaker 2: breakup feeling the same as worst feeling in the world.
31:38
Speaker 2: And then the day you kind of think like, oh,
31:39
Speaker 2: I haven't thought about her at all, and then you
31:42
Speaker 2: get to a point where it's like, oh, like the
31:44
Speaker 2: heartbroken version of me was doing all these things to
31:47
Speaker 2: try and fix me. And it's just like you think
31:48
Speaker 2: back and you're like, I can't of actually appreciate the heartbreak.
31:51
Speaker 1: The way I kind of see it as well. With
31:52
Speaker 1: heartbreak is like it's not necessarily the absence of the
31:55
Speaker 1: person that you miss, because when you're with someone, if
31:57
Speaker 1: you've got a healthy relationship, you still spend time away. Yeah,
32:00
Speaker 1: like the security of your future, which you just planned
32:02
Speaker 1: and you just invested so much. Yeah, it's like you
32:05
Speaker 1: you talk about everything you're going to do together, all
32:07
Speaker 1: these plants, have kids, move out, all these things. And
32:09
Speaker 1: now all of a sudden that's gone, and it's like
32:11
Speaker 1: we say, it's like they die. Yeah it is.
32:12
Speaker 2: It's like you're grieving you and yourself, and let's not lie.
32:15
Speaker 2: You're also like, funk, what if she's out there fucking
32:16
Speaker 2: other dudes? You're thinking like a girl, like we was
32:20
Speaker 2: out there sucking other girls like of course, and that's
32:23
Speaker 2: the thing where you're like, fuck, sleep at night.
32:25
Speaker 1: Ye literally, I don't know how we've ended up talking
32:29
Speaker 1: about relationships again, Like everyway, every time your podcast, no
32:33
Speaker 1: matter what, is always we pulled that back. I can
32:36
Speaker 1: round circle it though. So you mentioned starting a clothing line.
32:38
Speaker 1: It's lonely at times, at least with this collaboration, we
32:42
Speaker 1: got each other.
32:44
Speaker 3: We're only a five hour flight or.
32:47
Speaker 2: Still those free flights you get.
32:52
Speaker 1: We've come together to make some clothing and we're having
32:54
Speaker 1: a chat about mental health and both our brands, which
32:56
Speaker 1: I think is very exciting and it's hopefully motivational for
32:59
Speaker 1: anyone listening to actually listen to your dreams and do it. Yeah,
33:03
Speaker 1: where can they find you? Man? Blues and Greens. So
33:05
Speaker 1: my brand account is app Bluesinggreens dot coep on Instagram,
33:09
Speaker 1: on in scam TikTok as well, TikTok as well more
33:12
Speaker 1: into everything. I'll try and do as in scam. But yeah,
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Speaker 1: all my good stuff's there persons as well, if you
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Speaker 1: want to check that out. Yeah, Harry Key underscore and
33:18
Speaker 1: obviously all my blues and greens is pumped up over
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Speaker 1: all over there as well.
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Speaker 2: Class So if you guys want to check it out,
33:23
Speaker 2: it's all we wear it, we love it, and we
33:25
Speaker 2: buy the drops.
33:25
Speaker 1: You're going to see more of it anyway. Yeah, this
33:27
Speaker 1: is just a little preview into it all, and I'm
33:29
Speaker 1: sure coming soon we're going to be planting each other
33:31
Speaker 1: all over our social media's anyways. Awesome, that's it, Thank
33:34
Speaker 1: you very much man. Thanks all right. I bet you
33:38
Speaker 1: guys are excited for the Hoodies coming out after that.
33:41
Speaker 1: How could you not be. Got a bit of a
33:42
Speaker 1: behind the scenes of how it all worked and our
33:44
Speaker 1: relationship with Harry which is very cool. Hopefully you like him.
33:48
Speaker 1: But this Thursday, the twenty fifth of July, the Hoodies
33:51
Speaker 1: will be live. Go to our Instagram to find out
33:54
Speaker 1: all the details. But there's only a very limited quantity,
33:57
Speaker 1: so if you've got one, it's the first ever drop.
33:58
Speaker 1: If you want one, getting never making them again?
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Speaker 2: No, no, If you have one of those ones, you
34:02
Speaker 2: know you are og og og Yes.
34:05
Speaker 1: And it's also if you're in Australia freezing. I would
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Speaker 1: buy a one, would buy a thousand each.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, get one of each. There's one made one.
34:13
Speaker 1: I made one.
34:13
Speaker 3: Get your mom one, Jesus Christ.
34:22
Speaker 1: Up next is dilemmas, So if you want to submit
34:24
Speaker 1: a dilemma, it will be a link in the video
34:27
Speaker 1: or the description of the episode on Spotify. Also linking
34:31
Speaker 1: bio on Instagram. Scroll to the bottom. You'll say weekly
34:33
Speaker 1: dilemmas and where you all anonymous too, So send him
34:36
Speaker 1: whatever you need completely anonymous. We need to help, Yes
34:38
Speaker 1: we are, Hey, guys, love the potty. My dilemma is
34:41
Speaker 1: I feel as I don't attract I'm eighteen year old.
34:44
Speaker 1: I just don't get any mal attention. I feel this
34:47
Speaker 1: may be because I play AFL and have been going
34:50
Speaker 1: to the gym for two years now and have more
34:52
Speaker 1: of a mustly build, But I wouldn't say too bulky.
34:55
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm unattractive, but compared to my friend group,
34:58
Speaker 1: I am mid. Whenever we go out, consistently getting talked
35:01
Speaker 1: to by guys, even when they all have boyfriends and
35:04
Speaker 1: they turn them down. This also could be because I
35:06
Speaker 1: don't wear much makeup. I don't really dress up the
35:09
Speaker 1: nicest as I'm insecure about my body and I'm not
35:11
Speaker 1: the skinny, petite like all my friends. What do you,
35:14
Speaker 1: guys reckon I should do to feel more confident or
35:16
Speaker 1: how to attract males? By the way, I love your
35:18
Speaker 1: podcast is the best part of my day. I love
35:20
Speaker 1: you guys so much, Thank you very much. Tough, feel bad.
35:24
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear this. Yeah, yeah, yeah, first bit
35:26
Speaker 1: of advice we're given right now, don't do anything to
35:30
Speaker 1: attract boys. Yeah, actually, good, good advice.
35:33
Speaker 3: Be you girl.
35:35
Speaker 1: Don't do anything because you want to attract guys. You
35:37
Speaker 1: should be doing these things for you, like if you
35:39
Speaker 1: want to dress without makeup, props to you. You don't
35:42
Speaker 1: need Like, you don't need that. Some girls do, some
35:44
Speaker 1: girls don't. You're going to find a guy who can
35:46
Speaker 1: appreciate you for being you. You don't need to be
35:48
Speaker 1: someone you're not just to attract a male. No. I agree,
35:51
Speaker 1: it's tough.
35:52
Speaker 2: It's like we find as humans, we find so much
35:54
Speaker 2: validation from attention from the opposite sex. Or if you're
36:00
Speaker 2: the same sex or whatever you feel like, but whatever
36:03
Speaker 2: you like. But it's so weird that why do we
36:06
Speaker 2: feel like that? Like why do we feel like we
36:09
Speaker 2: need validation from the opposite. See, it's like natural instinct.
36:11
Speaker 2: And then we go to this simple thing like all
36:13
Speaker 2: my friends get it.
36:14
Speaker 1: Why don't know? I must be ugly? That's just comparison. Yeah,
36:17
Speaker 1: Like yeah, we say like it's a saying comparison is
36:21
Speaker 1: the thief of joy, but it's so true. Yeah, I'm
36:24
Speaker 1: going to say, I don't know.
36:26
Speaker 2: I think if you just kind of like, well, to
36:28
Speaker 2: keep doing your thing, you know, and be happy if
36:32
Speaker 2: you're if you are happy doing that thing, don't start
36:35
Speaker 2: to overthink it and think like, oh, well now I
36:37
Speaker 2: need some male attention to make it like I'm happy,
36:41
Speaker 2: like to make me happy, you know what I mean.
36:43
Speaker 1: So it's like if you're happy playing AFL, going to gym, living.
36:45
Speaker 2: Your life, blah blah blah, like then you're allowed to
36:48
Speaker 2: be happy doing that. I don't think even if you've
36:52
Speaker 2: got some male attention, I don't think it's going to
36:55
Speaker 2: be what you expect. No, I think like, I don't
36:58
Speaker 2: think it's going to answer your problems, No, solve your problem.
37:02
Speaker 1: Sorry, Yeah, you're looking for validation from someone else when
37:04
Speaker 1: you she'd validate yourself, and coming from two older men.
37:10
Speaker 1: Attractive traits in women aren't necessarily like dresses or how
37:15
Speaker 1: they like. You obviously have to be physically attracted to them.
37:18
Speaker 1: But attractive traits are if you stick, if you love
37:20
Speaker 1: AFL and you're passionate about that. An attractive trait that
37:23
Speaker 1: men look for women is being passionate about things. If
37:25
Speaker 1: you're passionate about the gym, you're passionate about your hobbies,
37:27
Speaker 1: and you just do you. That's what attracts nice guys.
37:30
Speaker 1: Not wearing a skin pe dress or anything like that.
37:32
Speaker 1: Just being yourself is what it is attractive and being
37:34
Speaker 1: confident in the skin you have, not trying to be
37:37
Speaker 1: someone you're not to attract dudes. I think, yeah, no,
37:39
Speaker 1: I couldn't agree more. That's I think.
37:42
Speaker 2: Yeah, It's probably just something you have to ask yourself,
37:44
Speaker 2: like why do you want male attention because you see
37:46
Speaker 2: your friends getting it? Is that why you want it?
37:48
Speaker 2: Or like, do you genuinely just want to fuck someone?
37:51
Speaker 2: Like everyone everyone gets horny, Like if you want to
37:54
Speaker 2: fuck someone, then by all means it's not a bad
37:56
Speaker 2: reason to get some male attention.
37:57
Speaker 1: But I'm trying to think like I would also say
38:01
Speaker 1: that you should be consciously practicing what you're saying about yourself.
38:08
Speaker 1: Even in that sentences, she was saying she's mid, she's
38:11
Speaker 1: not as good looking as her friends. The world listens
38:15
Speaker 1: to what you say, and so does your brain. If
38:16
Speaker 1: you're consciously having thoughts about you, thinking that you're mid,
38:20
Speaker 1: it's not good and health if your body. You should
38:22
Speaker 1: be waking up in the morning and appreciating that you're
38:24
Speaker 1: a good looking persons and be like, oy, I look
38:26
Speaker 1: good today, like things like that. You should be confident
38:28
Speaker 1: putting those things into the world. Don't just ever say
38:30
Speaker 1: you look mid. If you if you believe you're mid,
38:32
Speaker 1: you're going to be mid. Yeah, exactly.
38:34
Speaker 2: If you genuinely are happy in your skin and you
38:37
Speaker 2: believe you're hot, then it's going to come across that
38:40
Speaker 2: you're hot.
38:41
Speaker 1: It is what it is.
38:42
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how it works, really, because you're going to
38:44
Speaker 2: then start acting the way you want to act. I
38:46
Speaker 2: don't know, like just yeah, it's like pay yourself to
38:49
Speaker 2: your friends.
38:50
Speaker 1: It's like how you what's that famous guy gets heaps
38:52
Speaker 1: of hot guy, the funny guy, funny comedian, just Dada,
38:56
Speaker 1: Ka Kardashian, Kim Kathing a shit. What's his name name? Pete,
39:03
Speaker 1: Pete Davison, Pete Davison, Yeah, Pete Davison. So, Pete Davison.
39:09
Speaker 1: I don't think is very good to look at, but
39:11
Speaker 1: you for me, No, I don't think anyone can say
39:14
Speaker 1: that he's like the best looking person ever, but he
39:16
Speaker 1: gets some very very attractive women because he's funny and
39:19
Speaker 1: confident in what he looks like. Yeah, he's a confident guy,
39:22
Speaker 1: and he comes across as super hot because of how
39:24
Speaker 1: confident is in his own skin. Perfect, perfect example. He's
39:28
Speaker 1: not classic hot, which is like anything. He's tall and skinny,
39:30
Speaker 1: probably like the AFL, not like movie star. No, no, no,
39:33
Speaker 1: And he's pulling the most attractive women in the world
39:34
Speaker 1: because he's confident in his own skin, which is what
39:36
Speaker 1: everyone should do. Fuck. Yeah, but I say, I think
39:40
Speaker 1: we get some of a good Yeah, I mean I hope. So.
39:42
Speaker 2: I think just definitely learning to love yourself, it's probably
39:45
Speaker 2: the best place to start. That's a great way to
39:47
Speaker 2: definitely learned to love yourself.
39:48
Speaker 1: Learn to love yourself. Good luck, queen, all.
39:57
Speaker 2: Right, guys, thank you for listening. Don't forget Hoodies will
39:59
Speaker 2: be released on Thursday. It's the twenty fifth, the lie.
40:02
Speaker 2: They will be released. Don't miss out.
40:04
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