Latest / Happen To Your Career - Meaningful Work, Career Change, Career Design, & Job Search / The Job Search Mindset Shift That Changes Everything About Where You Land

Transcript

The Job Search Mindset Shift That Changes Everything About Where You Land · Happen To Your Career - Meaningful Work, Career Change, Career Design, & Job Search

• 0:00
  Scott Anthony Barlow: You open LinkedIn, you browse through job listings, and quickly realize that most positions require outrageous years of experience. And for the ones that sound even remotely interesting, over 300 people have already applied within the first 10 minutes. So you try a company website instead. You spend an hour crafting the application.
• 0:18
  You hit submit, and either you never hear back or you get the thanks, but no thanks email. The position has been filled. Hours invested, nothing to show for it. Here's the thing, there are two kinds of job searches. One lands you a job, the other lands you a career you actually love. And the difference between them isn't luck, connections, or having the perfect resume.
• 0:40
  I'm Scott Anthony Barlow, and this is Happen To Your Career. I want us to start with the one mistake that sets everything else in motion, because if you get this one wrong, then none of the tactics matter. It's not your resume, it's not your LinkedIn profile, and it's not even who you know. It's an absence of the right mindset. Okay, so particularly, this is having a reactive mindset that you bring to your job search from day one.
• 1:07
  And for most people, it's the biggest thing that's working against them before they've ever sent a single application. What do I mean by that? Well, let's take Amelia as an example. She spent eight years as a media and communications director at a company that she loved, but then she got laid off, and within a week, she was scrolling through layoff horror stories and interviewing for positions that she didn't actually want. She wasn't looking for the right job. She was looking for any job.
• 1:34
  Amelia Johnson: Like, stop scrolling and reading everyone else's horror stories about being laid off, because that does cause panic, and that did cause me to interview for a couple positions that just were not right.
• 1:48
  Scott Anthony Barlow: Amelia's mindset for job search directly impacted her decision-making, and there's a reason that this happens almost automatically.
• 1:55
  When you lose a job, your brain registers it as a threat, not a setback, a threat. And the moment it happens, the part of your brain responsible for rational decision-making goes quiet, and the part responsible for survival takes over. You're no longer choosing, you're reacting. Psychologists call this avoidance motivation, moving away from pain as fast as possible instead of moving towards something worth pursuing.
• 2:20
  And avoidance searches almost always produce avoidance outcomes. You don't land somewhere great. You land somewhere that isn't where you were, and sometimes it's even worse, and you just don't know it yet. Every application feels like progress, and every submission feels productive, but none of it is moving you towards something.
• 2:38
  It's just moving you away from something. And the faster you move, the more likely you are to land in a version of the same place, different names, and just the same version of problems over and over again. Scrolling layoff horror stories makes it worse. The brain's negativity bias means bad news lands harder and sticks longer than good news.
• 3:01
  Surround yourself with other people's worst outcomes long enough, and your sense of what's possible quietly recalibrates downward without you ever noticing it happened. Our team worked with Amelia to stop, not to stop searching, but to stop searching from fear. Before she touched another application, we had her answer different questions first.
• 3:20
  Amelia Johnson: You can't apply for jobs until you know what companies align with the values that are your priority.
• 3:27
  Scott Anthony Barlow: That's the shift from avoidance to proactivity. Instead of running from a layoff, you're moving towards something specific. That type of search looks different from the outside, but it also produces completely different results.
• 3:40
  Four months later, Amelia took a marketing manager role at her dream company, and for the first time in months, that anxiety was completely gone. Not because the search got easier, but because it got clearer. But even with the right mindset, there's one more mistake that determines whether any of it actually works.
• 3:57
  Operating in the wrong mode. Natalie had spent five years as a trust officer in wealth management, and by the end of it, her values no longer aligned with the work. She knew she had to leave, and she also knew, in theory, that networking was important. And then she sat with that knowledge for two months and did nothing.
• 4:17
  Two months of paralysis, because the word networking makes people freeze. It sounds transactional, like using people, like walking into a room with your hand out asking for something. But the truth is, most job searches in the normal way are transactional. You see a posting, you tweak the resume, you apply through a portal, you wait, you get an automated email or nothing at all.
• 4:41
  Every step is designed to reduce you to keywords on a page. And even when that kind of searching works, it works for often the wrong reasons. Natalie's breakthrough came when she switched modes and reframed what she was doing. She stopped thinking about networking to get a job and started thinking about talking to people that she was curious about, building relationships with people that she wanted to know more about them.
• 5:05
  That was it. No ask, no agenda, just a conversation in a space that she wanted to understand. So she reached out to a college friend at a company she was interested in, and a curious conversation turned into a role. And if you think that's an anecdote, look at the numbers. Laura is another one of our clients who transitioned from flight attendant into instructional design. She literally tracked every application in her search.
• 5:31
  Laura MacDonald: The referrals that led to interviews, like, 69% of the jobs I applied for with a referral led to at least a first interview versus my cold applications where I was just applying through the career site or something like that was 8%.
• 5:49
  Scott Anthony Barlow: 69% versus 8%. That's huge. Her referrals converted to interviews at more than eight times the rate of cold applications. That's not just a small edge. It's a completely different game.
• 6:02
  Laura MacDonald: I reached out to the director on LinkedIn, and he answered and said, like, "I hope we get to meet in the second round," and now he's my boss.
• 6:09
  Scott Anthony Barlow: The way that traditional job search happens and functions and people think is expected, that's the problem. The harder you search the way that everyone has taught you to search, the faster you end up in another career that you don't love. So if you're ready to stop searching for jobs the wrong way and start creating the career and the life that you want, I would say drop in me an email directly, scott@happentoyourcareer.com.
• 6:34
  Put 'Conversation' in the subject line, and we'll connect you with the right person on our team, and we'll figure out the very best way that we can support you. Because the moment you take the first action, you stop letting your career happen to you, and you start happening to it. I'm Scott Anthony Barlow. This is Happen to Your Career. Let's go make it happen.