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Move With Intentions · Mindless Shenaniganz

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Welcome to another episode of My Little Shenanigans.
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all that. It's in the link in the bio. Don't
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forget it. We've been here for a minute now with
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the mind games, with the mindless, with the shenanigans.
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We've been doing a lot of talking. We've been
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doing a lot of feeling. It's time to start moving
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the right way. We gonna move with intentions.
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That's what we here to do. That's what we here
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to talk about. Break down. Welcome to My Little
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not safe for any sensitive ears. So buckle up
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and let the shenanigans begin. You kept hearing
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me say, I'm going to show you, but I can tell
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you. Let's dive deeper into that. There's going
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to be some waters today, so you might need to
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put the life vest on. For those who can't swim,
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stand from afar back. Take your notes. Make sure.
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Just like anywhere else. You walk into the room.
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It's all about the presence. Intentional presence
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controls everyone. That's why they can feel you.
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Before they see you. That's how before you already
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speak. Everything is already said. Those who
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know, know. The ones you recognize who have that
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energy. You feel it. You see it. You gravitate
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towards it. And it's undeniable. Are you moving
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the same way? Or do you have to voice what's
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being said? Not because silence is weakness.
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It's a form of the greatest power that you can
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possess before reacting or anything like that.
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Making sure you're moving with attention should
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be a purpose. How many of us wake up and check
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our phones before even knowing that? Are you
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taking the first 15 anyway? You wonder or remember
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what the first 15 was. First 15. Taking that
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time when you wake up. Giving your word and praise.
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Before you do anything. Right? That first 15
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sets the tone. That sets your attention for today.
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Getting a clear mind. Giving the thanks. Giving
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their praise. Do what you do regardless of religion
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or anything that you go with. Take that first
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15 to get a clear mind. To understand what you're
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about to do when you pick up your phone. Because
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now you're walking into an element that you can't
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control except your only reaction. So now you
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better move with the right energy. Same habits,
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same environments, same mindset. And you wonder
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why nothing's changing? Let's find out. Your
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passive versus intentional living is all your
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attention and your motives. Just like when you
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first wake up. What do you do when you first
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get up out of bed, when you first open your eyes?
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Let's say you do do the first 15. Do you check
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your phone, see missed messages, or is it to
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see your missed notifications from the social
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media? You check your work email, right? If you
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have security footage, are you checking that
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to see what happened overnight? Did you miss
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something? Is your work day or are you playing
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for the day, whether it be off or you got to
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go to work? Right. Do you know what you're going
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to do before you do it? And if you don't know,
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are you planning to do it? Set the tone for the
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day. Bring your energy. To your attention and
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to your purpose. Because just like anywhere,
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when you walk into somewhere. If you're having
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a bad day, your face tore up. It's going to seep
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off you. You might not have to say anything.
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Energy before words. When you say, oh, they know
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me. I walk in there. Don't say nothing. You at
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work for the first 15 minutes. That's because
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your energy that you bring in. You ain't got
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to tell us that you overslept, left your key,
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left your badge or whatever. And you just running
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behind in this all the mess. We can feel all
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of that. People feel you before they hear you.
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Your body language. That's one of the most silent,
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dominant things you can do. You can have. Let
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somebody call you out and say something that's
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false. What's going to happen? How do you react
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to that? How do you know what's going to do,
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what you're going to do about it? Your reaction,
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your body language, it can trigger them just
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by you remaining silent, not reacting, not bothered
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by it. Because we pick and choose what we want
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to react to. We pick and choose when or how big
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our reaction window is. Somebody say something,
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you know, that's crazy. You sit there and just
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laugh. Because you know it's nonsense. But let
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them say something that is nonsense that you
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don't like. You don't want to hear. That you've
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already previously showed discomfort with. How
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you going to show your dominance then? It's important
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to make sure people know your intentions. I'm
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going to show you better than I can tell you.
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Because if you didn't hear me, you're going to
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see me. And then you're going to feel me. Intentional
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people are planning, executing, And adapting.
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How often are you doing that? That should be
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part of your first routine as well. Before you
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pick up that phone. That's a reaction. Passive
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people are scrolling, reacting, surviving. Just
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getting through the day. Right? Yeah, they taking
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it all in, but they just really going through
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the motions. You see people. Every day like that.
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For different reasons. Different elements. Just
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literally going through. Some of y 'all call
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them NPCs. Most people react. Few people desire.
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That's the difference between. Somebody that's
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passive. The body who's intentional. Try to get
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intentional. Let's work on that. Move with the
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purpose. Move with your intentions. Understand
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what they are. That's the difference. Just like.
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You like to say the hustle, right? The illusion
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of hustle. Motion or progress. Let's go a little
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bit deeper. So we glorify and amp up. Everybody
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was busy and whoop -de -whoop -de -whoo, right?
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Or that's just moving. But what's actually happening?
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Now you can say, just because you haven't seen
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it, don't mean it's not happening. True. Because
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two things can be true. And I'm not going to
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forget that because I'm going to mention that
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again. So write that down in your notes. But
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let's use it for example. You running on a treadmill
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for 10 hours. Yes, you can burn, you're getting
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what you need to, right? You're getting the physical,
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right? But physically, you're still in the same
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room. Yes, your intention is you're getting all
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the fat off, you're cutting down, you're getting
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stamina. But when it comes to you doing the same
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thing every day, now, are you doing a treadmill
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in your home? Are you going to a gym? Are you
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doing triathlon? What is your intention of running
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those 10 miles? Are you trying to get it to 15?
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Are you trying to get it to 20? Or are you just
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trying to make sure you can clear 10? This is
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the reality check behind that. You are truly
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tired because we're doing too much. Doing too
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much of the wrong things. Because the intent
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behind it. Right? Just doing a lot of moving.
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A lot of motion. Right? But where's the progress
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at? Some of us, depending on what you're doing,
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will say it's based on the numbers. Whether that
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be sales, content. Or something like that. But
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is the art getting better? Is it getting easier?
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Is the passion and thirst still there? Difference
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between your emotion and your progress. Because
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the progress might not show in the same way that
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somebody else want to validate your success.
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So make sure that what you're doing, you understand
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your intentions. If you're doing content, yes,
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you want to be consistent in posting every day,
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but make sure you also are getting better at
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your craft, right? Critique yourself. No different
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than an artist, no different than a musician,
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right? What's the intent of you going to the
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studio every day? Is it just to record and get
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something down? You got something on there? Or
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because you're really trying to... Get in there
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and you need to hear and improve your sound because,
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no, you might not have the equipment to go at
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home and do it. So, yeah, you need to go to the
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studio, edit, have somebody go behind there and
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get to do that. But then at work, you're just
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writing at home. No different than the athlete.
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Whether it be professional or whatever, anything
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like that, you just do that. Because, yeah, that's
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so good, Mark, to take you down. And it's going
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to hit and it's going to blow you back. But the
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sniper is taking you out. Period. That's his
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job. That's the intention. Exact target. Make
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sure you take that first 15. Understand your
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purpose. You wake up, take that phone. You start
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reacting. It's a wrap for you. Because you want
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to have to make sure you know the difference
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between having some of your mindless habits and
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some of your strategic habits. That can define
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how your day goes, your purpose, your energy.
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Most people react to the rules. Intentional people
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control the rules. That's why you feel them.
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You don't have to say nothing. If you move with
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intentions, you're going to use your logic first.
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You're not going to react. Remember that. So
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what are some of the. Things that we do that
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are some of the mindless habits, right? Talked
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about it weeks ago. Doom scroll. Just wake up
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in your phone for an hour, two hours on the phone,
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just scrolling. They didn't even realize what
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time it is. Yeah, you're up early. But what is
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your intentions on being up early? Because you
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want to just be up early enough of time to take
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the kids, make sure that you up before them.
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But are you getting yourself ready and mentally
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prepared for them? If you claim is using your
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phone and doing scrolling in, OK, get off on
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that. Or just random spending. How many of us
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react to when we are in an emotional state? Go
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buy something, go spend something, no matter
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what it is. Ice cream, cookies, cakes, something
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sweet. So clothes, some shoes, some of our vices,
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right? Yeah. Or not structuring your day. Just
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waking up and just whatever happens, just going
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with the flow. And I get that too. Not stressing,
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not worrying about it. Not having any anxiety
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about, you know, having any worries, right? But
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you got to have some structure. In order to move
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with some intention, otherwise. You just. What?
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Mindless. That's the difference. That's the that's
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the big difference. So. Intentional habits. Right.
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So if you know you got a job or you got to go
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to work, you have scheduled time that you send
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time for that. Right. So. Why not schedule time
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blocks throughout the day, right? So if you know
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you got to work, and if you know you got so much
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time to pick up the kids, and there's something
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to do in between that you can, why not take care
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of that, right? The more we intend to use our
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time and manage our time, the less we'll get
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away from any mindless shenanigans. But some
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of us and some of y 'all are great at writing
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down things like your goals, having a calendar,
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things like that, right? Keeping a structure,
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keeping a purpose, keeping yourself accountable,
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being your own op. You can catch yourself slipping
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because it's documented because that's what everybody
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want out here. A document. Another way. An intentional
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person. Right. You're going to have. Make sure
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you. Protect your energy. You know me. I'm going
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to tell you. I'm going to protect. So if I got
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to walk away. That's what I'm going to do. Might
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tell you to step away. But at the end of the
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day. I'm going to protect my energy. Because.
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I won't allow you to one, give you the power
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to think you're going to allow me to react. And
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two, I have to carry the weight of what you think
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I'm going to get triggered by. I got to carry
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the weight of the trigger and the reaction and
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the outcome and the perception of what I do based
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on your intentions. That's why you need to build
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your reaction window. That's why you got to take
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a pause. That's why you got to move with intention.
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Let everybody know you ain't to be fucked with.
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Because if they don't know, you better let them.
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Because I'm going to show you before I tell you.
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That's the biggest difference. What are you going
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to do about it? Your habits are your receipts.
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Everybody like to keep them, but those are your
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receipts. Your habits show exactly what your
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priorities are. So let's think about what those
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are. What's your priorities? You got kids. How
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are you balancing that between your own well
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-being and what you want to do? Or what needs
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to be done. Taking care of the bills. Taking
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care of the household. And taking care of your
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business. As soon as you got those tax money.
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What was your priority? What was on your mind?
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What were you thinking about doing? I'm just
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saying. So. It's easy just to fall into that.
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And it's easy to just fall into those habits.
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And for those who was ready to get them seafood
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boilies, I'm ashamed of y 'all. You know you
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needed some new tires. Know you needed some break.
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And some shoes. But I ain't mad at you. You're
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going to do what you're going to do and you got
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to do what you got to do to make you feel good.
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But make sure you understand the cost of that.
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Make sure you know the weight that you got to
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carry. And the intentions of that. But some of
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us kind of go through the other side where we're
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going through with. we kind of just what some
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people call going through the motions or autopilot
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right so for us that are indecisive because this
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is a pay it's a cost it's a tax you won't have
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to pay being indecisive right so yes sometimes
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can be more cautious can be more safe they make
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a decision things won't stay the same sometimes
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they won't But the reality is not making a choice.
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You're choosing to let everything around you
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dictate what's going on. So think about that
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for a second. What's happened to you? Some things
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you allowed it to. Yes, people have done things
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to you. Did you wrong and did you dirty? How
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did you handle that? How did you react to that?
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It's something that are unforgivable and something
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that you really can't. Unspeakable things you
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can't control and have no control over. But you
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can influence the outcome after that. Right.
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That's just like for example at work. If you
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let. How you still overcome what your purpose
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of being there is for, which is to work, service
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a job, and make money for your check, bring home,
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provide for your family. You're not moving with
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the right intentions. Yeah, it bothers you, whatever
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it is. But don't try to let it consume you either.
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Right? Or just like on your algorithm. Right?
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Don't let that dictate your whole day. Don't
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let a bad post or something that you saw some
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fake news about or rumor ruin your day. Whether
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it be about you or somebody else. Easier said
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than done. Because we're going to get through
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it. Because you're really going to have a choice.
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You can adapt or you can survive. So know your
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intentions when you're moving. So those times
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when you're just going through the motions and
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you're drifting off, you're paying the autopilot
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tax. Your time, potential, your peace of mind.
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Intention is how you take back. All of it. That's
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how you take the control back. But it starts
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with taking a pause. Because if you're drifting,
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you're moving. You're just now offline. So you're
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better just to stop before you go off course.
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If you're drifting away, drift away from the
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wrong stuff. The distractions. The noise. The
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chaos. It's a price to pay. To get what you need.
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And also what you want. And those who got it.
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They'll tell you. It costs. You got to be willing
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to sacrifice for it. You got to be willing to
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adapt. Make sure you understand what you're giving
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a difference between your time and your purpose.
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I used to want to match energy. Then put 100
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on there. Now, I'm going to show you how we can
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shift the energy. Because there's a difference
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between that. Because the people who shift energy,
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the people who match energy, Shows the difference
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between the leaders and the followers. When you
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get a new boss, a new coworker or something like
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that, they come in there, the energy is different.
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Right? It's a reason why there's a replacement
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or somebody came in. It's supposed to be a shift.
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If you match what was going on and the results
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weren't what they were, Even what they are. You
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still want to excel and go above and beyond.
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So you need to shift the energy. Right. A follower
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is going to match. A leader is going to shift.
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So before you go back and forth with somebody.
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Set the tone. Don't take it in. Don't inherit
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the chaos. Don't inherit the negativity. Set
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it. You want it to be positive and uplifting
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and bringing? You need to set that. That way
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they're responsible for upholding their inner
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bargain. Also, it's your responsibility to shift
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any energy that can possibly trigger you to react.
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That's why you need a bigger reaction window.
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That's why you need to step back and pause. Because
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you're responsible for the outcome of your reactions.
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Not anybody else. Regardless of what they did
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to trigger you. And that's why we got to realize.
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Right. That's what we got to realize. Your energy.
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Most important thing. Obviously in your time.
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Right. People can zap you of your energy. People
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can waste your time. That's why you got to move
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with intentions. Your attention acts like a bouncer.
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Right? It's like when you got a text. You can
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either engage in it, reply, block, or whatever.
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That's the form of emotional discipline. Now,
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yes, you have an advantage of a person not being
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in front of you and different things like that.
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But if a conflict doesn't align on what you're
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doing, deny it. Hit the mute button. Pause. You
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the VIP. Your energy is the VIP. So every thought,
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every drama, distraction, if you let it come
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through there, that's your choice. You got to
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carry the weight. You got to handle it. And you
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better do it the right way. Just like how they
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say everybody can get access to your home. Everybody
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shouldn't have access to your reaction, to your
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energy, to your time. It's going to lose its
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value. So how much are you willing to give it
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to value it? Just like how they say, your time,
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they pay you for what you're worth. Well, if
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you react to everything, what is your energy
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and time actually worth? That means you're easily
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triggered, easy to set off, and don't have any
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emotional discipline. And that means you're out
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here moving models. Then walk into the reaction
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trap. Take a pause. Open up your reaction window.
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And then respond. Talk to me with your logic.
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Not with your emotion. Because I said what I
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said. And if you didn't hear me, I'm going to
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show you so you don't forget. This is my own
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shenanigans. Make sure y 'all stay tuned. Everybody
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got 24 hours in the day. What are you doing?
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Just because we got 24 hours in the day doesn't
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mean everybody getting the same results. That's
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the problem out here. That's also okay because
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we also aware that everybody's not moving with
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the same intention. Time isn't an issue. Direction
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is. You don't lack time. You lack target. Busy
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again doesn't mean you're productive. Emotion
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doesn't mean you have progress. So fellas, for
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example, if a lady out here, you want to see
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you, you want to spend some time, make sure you
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let her know that you're out here moving with
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the intention of building your business and taking
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care of that. Because at the end of the day,
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if you ain't doing that. You don't wonder what
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your intentions are with her. Don't forget that
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part. Attention is just a filter. What did that
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mean? If you're moving with attention, that mean
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you can't be accessible to everything and everybody
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else. Right. Right. So that means. I'm doing
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this with a purpose. My time. And my access is
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going to be limited because of my intentions.
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What are the intentions of the people that's
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bringing attention or energy around you? That's
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what we need to focus on. Right. So that doesn't
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mean you shouldn't make time or not give her
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any attention, but just also let her aware of
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your intentions. because the way you are moving.
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Some people do misread your intentions because
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of how you're moving. So sometimes giving them
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that disclaimer might help a little bit. Smooth
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little bit of some triggers out there for y 'all.
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A lack of communication doesn't mean you're showing
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them as well. Let me make me clear on that. Okay?
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So, if they don't respond to what you told them,
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you show them afterwards. But don't just be out
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here just showing motherfuckers because you and
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your feelings. That's not what we're here to
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do. That's not what I'm here to teach you. Right?
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Because if you do that, you'll make sure everything
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is right. just like how you start your day so
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let's go back to that right just a little small
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things right we talked about the first 15 starting
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your day off right getting your energy right
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getting your focus to find your purpose right
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but just like new year's resolutions right you
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hear some people still doing them to kind of
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fade away whatever right but Almost nobody sets
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intentions for the hour, for the year. So if
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we start just by the hour, by the hour, by the
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hour, those become days, become weeks, becomes
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months, become that year. So let's start smaller
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before we try to get a wider perspective on what
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our goals are. We're going to get to it, but
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goals are cheap, but the intention is what really
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matters, right? Because you got to make sure
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it's right. You got to have a plan, the intentions,
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right? Because the life you want isn't built
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overnight. It takes small sacrifices. The things
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that people don't see behind the closed door.
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Those long nights. That's what matters. And everybody
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that I'm putting in some hard work and sacrifice
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is going to tell you that's what it's going to
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take. This like. Open to your phone. What is
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your intention? Right. You talked about your
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screen time. and your notification, and basically
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it shows you how many pickups and things you
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got like that, right? So what is your intention
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when you pick up your phone? What is your intention
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before you walk into that work meeting? What
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is your intention before you speak out of anger?
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That's why you need to pause. That's why you
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need to open up your reaction window. Get some
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fresh air in there. Right. Breathe a little bit.
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Being self -aware is going to bring you the things,
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the emotional discipline to master your life.
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Because you got to have intent to have purpose
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in order to become a master. And don't look at
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that that way, because I'll say what I said.
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The reason why small intentions are expensive
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is because they require the constant self -awareness,
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right? The the the relentlessness. The requirement
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to be constant. Right? Big goals are cheap. It
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takes a lot to work on that hour by hour by hour.
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A goal for the week, you can skip today, tomorrow,
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and maybe even this way. And then you got just
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enough time to get it in. Where's the consistency
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at? Right. So just like, for example, we talked
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about it moving with intentions, how your day
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goes with the first routine. Wake up the first
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routine. Right. Now you check in with your schedule
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is for the day. Are you setting your time blocks?
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Are you setting up your schedule for the day
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or are you just one running mindless because.
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Today is Tuesday. You got to be at work at a
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certain time. The kids got to be there. Are you
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reacting and responding? Are you planning what
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you have to do? Yes, you did it last week, week
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before, even a month before. Are you still running
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into the same problems that you had at that same
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time? Are you doing anything different? That's
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the problem. We're not doing anything different.
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And we don't even recognize it. Go ahead and
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start the execution. Once you got your day planned
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out, go ahead and start executing what you need
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to do. Regardless of what it is. That should
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be the middle of the day. By the nighttime, go
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ahead and reflect. And you take a shower. You're
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in the eight. Put the kids to night. Reflect
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on that. Look up. And you reset. Let it all out.
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That pause. If you need to react, go ahead and
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let it out. Right? Because think about this.
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What is your attention zone when you walk into
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your job interview? You want to give a first
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impression. You want to make sure you're respectable,
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you're knowledgeable, you're likable. No different
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than on the first date, right? You want to kind
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of show off your personality, this and this and
39:06
that. Why can't you bring that same intention
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or energy all the time? We can go to a networking
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event, right? What is your intentions? To meet
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people. To sell yourself. To learn. You're navigating
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and adapting. Is it because of the environment
39:35
that we're in? Or you show up to work. Right?
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When you're waking up. Some of us. When we do
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get on social media, right, we're watching the
39:54
things, for example, like some motivational stuff.
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You're watching motivational stuff all day. You're
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supposed to get expired, but you haven't done
40:03
one thing that was actually productive at all.
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Nothing with the intent. Yeah, you might have
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cooked something and... Did the laundry you were
40:20
supposed to do three days ago. But there's other
40:24
stuff that needs to be done too. Start your day
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off right. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
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The thing that you've been waiting off for six
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months now. Go ahead and take care of that big
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bruh. Go ahead and knock it off the list. Your
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girl keep bugging you about it. You keep getting
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an email about the same thing. Go on and take
40:52
care of that, bro. That shit passed, dude. I'll
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sign that paperwork and turn that in. Your tag's
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been expired for three months now. You done got
41:05
a warning, two, three warnings now. Go on here
41:08
and replace them tags. what's what's uh some
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of the the fake things that people claim that
41:25
they that they got to do throughout the day right
41:29
so real versus fake productivity that's something
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y 'all claim to be doing right so what does that
41:41
look like It looks like mindless behaviors. You're
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just reacting, consuming, waiting, and complaining
41:53
about the things that should be happening that
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you're not doing. When if you were intentional
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about it, you would plan, you would create, you
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would adapt and act on it. That's productivity.
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You got a project. Yeah, it might not be complete,
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but is it getting worked on every day? And is
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it actually getting progress? Or are you just
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talking about it? Isn't it just the idea that's
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there? Is it fantasy? Is it hope? What is your
42:36
intention behind that idea? Don't wait. Plan.
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Don't let it consume you. Create it. Put it out
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there. Adapt. Don't wait. Don't complain. Act
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on it. That's the difference between somebody
43:07
who's doing something intentional and passive.
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Because you've seen it. You've seen it. How many
43:18
of us seen the people who you now said a while
43:24
ago y 'all quote unquote called glowed up, but
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they just really cut out all the bullshit, all
43:33
the distractions, all the nonsense. They done
43:37
leveled up in their career, their personal life.
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Now y 'all be shining, nephew. Because I'm moving
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with intentions now. I ain't with none of the
43:51
nonsense. When you stop reacting emotionally,
43:55
you get improved relationships. And I'm not just
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talking about what your girlfriend or boyfriend,
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work, friends, strangers, right? Because it might
44:07
have been somebody who might have approached
44:09
you or walked you a certain way to where your
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reaction, now you met somebody who you got a
44:15
common interest with. Who could be beneficiary.
44:19
Or adversary in your life. All because of how
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you reacted. And changed your mindset. And the
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intentions of what you wanted to do. You didn't
44:30
look for chaos. Or a problem. You took a pause.
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Opened up your reacting window. Period is that.
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Alright. So now. This person is also. So called.
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Moving with more attention. When you got more
44:50
structured time. You can also make more money.
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Because there's no distractions. Easier focus.
45:02
Less noise. Right. And it's not always about.
45:09
Money that starts with you going up or getting
45:11
better or leveling up. It starts with the decisions
45:14
that you make it right now. It starts with your
45:16
decision to react or not react. To walk away.
45:20
To be silent sometimes. To let people talk and
45:24
just listen. And pause. How many of us can just
45:34
do that? We make better decisions. It'll be better.
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Intentional actions. you're going to have intentional
45:46
results. So, if you're planning on doing some
45:49
fuck shit, you're going to have some fuck shit
45:50
results. If you're planning on doing something
45:52
intentional with a purpose that's productive,
45:54
you're going to get productive results. That's
45:57
the difference. And if it feels random, it's
46:04
because that's what your actions are. Mindless.
46:13
Don't do anything random. Move with intention.
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Move with your purpose. Intentional actions create
46:28
intentional results. And if it feels random,
46:31
it's because your actions are. If you don't walk
46:36
in the rooms hoping for respect, you walk in
46:39
already deciding the tone. Nobody should be walking
46:45
in questioning about what they expect from you.
46:51
You shouldn't walk in questioning the respect
46:54
people have for you. Give the intention of moving
47:01
with respect. Command it as you walk into the
47:06
room. Set the tone. By Bruce Lee. And don't forget.
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Write this down. You will continue to suffer.
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If you allow. Your emotional. Reaction. In everything
47:30
that is said. The power of sitting back. And
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observing everything. With logic. If words could
47:42
control you. That means everything else can control
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you. Breathe. And allow things to pass. I am
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Sir Dye. This is Miles Sinanagus. Thank you for
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tuning in. Next time, we'll work the tensions.
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48:08
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