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2nd DATE UPDATE: Steven & Kara · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called second
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  Speaker 1: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and
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  Speaker 1: get and that's what.
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  Speaker 2: The bit is called.
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  Speaker 3: Second Date Update.
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  Speaker 2: Starts right now on John Jay and Ridge one four
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  Speaker 2: to seven.
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  Speaker 1: Kiss Fam, John Jay and Rich's time for Second Date Update.
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  Speaker 2: This is about going out on a date with someone.
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  Speaker 2: You think you have a good time, You expect there
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  Speaker 2: to be a second date. There isn't. So you come
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  Speaker 2: to us and we're going to find out what went wrong.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, Steven, Hey, good morning. What's your story? How
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  Speaker 2: can we help? Ah?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, So just kind of genuinely confused right now, and
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  Speaker 4: I'm really hoping you guys could help me out. So
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  Speaker 4: I went out with this girl. She was a couple
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  Speaker 4: of days after Christmas. You know. I went out and
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  Speaker 4: grab a couple of drinks, and honestly, I thought the
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  Speaker 4: date went really well, Like the conversations were folowing really well.
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  Speaker 4: Everything was going, I don't know, like it was fun,
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  Speaker 4: it was easy, we had a good time, and honestly,
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  Speaker 4: like during the date, we actually made plans for a
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  Speaker 4: second date. Yeah, so I thought it was going really well,
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  Speaker 4: and so, you know, the day of the second date
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  Speaker 4: comes around. She texted me and she's like, let you
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  Speaker 4: know that she has to cancel something came up. I said, hey,
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  Speaker 4: no worries, that's not a big deal at all. Let's
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  Speaker 4: like reschedule for something. And she was like, yeah, well,
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  Speaker 4: let's do that. But then since then has not answered
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  Speaker 4: any of my text messages, has been like really short
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  Speaker 4: with me when she does, and honestly, I just feel
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  Speaker 4: like I'm being ghosted.
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  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know what's kind of going on, so it's
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  Speaker 4: can be nice she doesn't know what's going on.
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  Speaker 1: Was there anything romantic during the first date. Do you
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  Speaker 1: guys make out post Christmas time?
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  Speaker 4: No? Nothing, like nothing, No, nothing weird. I mean everything
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  Speaker 4: kind of went really. I mean, it was just kind
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  Speaker 4: of a standard normal first date.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe someone came back in her life how it usually
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  Speaker 5: happens sometimes.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what do they call that during the Christmas season?
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  Speaker 1: Cuffing cuffing cuff Yeah, right, and that's about meeting someone
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  Speaker 1: to get you through the holidays, right, right. Maybe she
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  Speaker 1: thought you would be the one, but no, something happened.
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  Speaker 1: M All right, well we can call her. What's her name?
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  Speaker 4: Her name is Kara.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, we'll get Karen on the line. But just real quick,
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  Speaker 2: you guys.
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  Speaker 1: As he's telling this story, it reminds me of something
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  Speaker 1: I'm somewhat going through right now, which is a different
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  Speaker 1: version of second Dight update. I was asked to go
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  Speaker 1: on a podcast because you know, I'm a hell of
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  Speaker 1: a guest, right yeah, And I've been on a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of podcasts and there was this woman that messaged me
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  Speaker 1: to be a guest on her podcast and I said yes,
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  Speaker 1: and then I had to cancel for some reason. I
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  Speaker 1: can'tmember why I had to cancel. And then she was like,
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  Speaker 1: no problem, that's reschedule and it was supposed to be
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  Speaker 1: scheduled for March of twenty twenty five, and it never happened.
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  Speaker 1: And now I follow her on Instagram because she asked
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  Speaker 1: me to be a guest on her podcast, and I
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  Speaker 1: see all this stuff happening in her world and she's
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  Speaker 1: very interesting and I want to like do a second
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  Speaker 1: ad update find out why she never followed up with
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  Speaker 1: me to be on a podcast.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no. The last thing I'll go look through
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  Speaker 2: her dms.
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  Speaker 1: But the last thing I saw was like if I remember,
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  Speaker 1: was she was going to reach out to me in
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  Speaker 1: March to book the podcast.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, was it something that maybe back then you could
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  Speaker 3: have talked about, but now there's no reason you would
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  Speaker 3: talk about.
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  Speaker 2: It on her podcast? Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, she reached out to me to be like, because
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  Speaker 1: I'm a hell of a guest on any subject. Sure,
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  Speaker 1: all right, So hold on the line, Stephen, We'll get Caara.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna find out why she's blown you off. All right,
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  Speaker 1: I'm good, and then we can call Hannah and find
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  Speaker 1: out why she's blown me off.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 1: Second Date update continues next with John Jay and Ridge.
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  Speaker 1: John Jay and Ridge, we're in the middle of Second
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  Speaker 1: Date Update. It's Stephen and Kara.
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  Speaker 3: Well, Stephen and Kara had a great first date over
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  Speaker 3: the holidays, making plans for a second one until Kara
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  Speaker 3: canceled in left Stephen uncuffed. This holiday season, did a
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  Speaker 3: much better and more potent Ex Lover show back up
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  Speaker 3: in Kara's Life. And what about John Jay in the
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  Speaker 3: podcast that was supposed to be rescheduled for March twenty fifth,
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  Speaker 3: where he quote March twenty five. March twenty twenty five, Oh,
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, because he's a hell of the guest. He
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  Speaker 3: should be on that podcast. We'll figure out at least
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  Speaker 3: one of these solutions right now.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Stephen, youre ready for us to call her?
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready, okay, just real quick in my podcast update
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  Speaker 1: before we close. Yeah, the last text was March first
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  Speaker 1: of twenty twenty five. She said to me, we have
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  Speaker 1: to reschedule our podcast and I said, okay, that was it.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, it would be up to her if it's your podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Right right right? Anyway?
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  Speaker 5: Hello, Hey is this Kara?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: This is her.
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  Speaker 3: Hi.
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  Speaker 6: My name is Peyton. I'm with John Jay and Rich
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  Speaker 6: and we just wanted to talk to you on the
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  Speaker 6: radio really quickly if you got time this.
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  Speaker 7: Morning, seriously.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Oh sorry, I was reading my DMS.
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  Speaker 5: This is where you jump in, John Jay, Kara.
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  Speaker 8: I'm sorry. I was reading the DM. I was gonna
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  Speaker 8: read you guys the whole thing about this girl. I
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  Speaker 8: can't plase, gruble me off, not you, Karen's that's what
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  Speaker 8: we're calling you because you blew off somebody and they
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  Speaker 8: came to us that they're asking us why you blew
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  Speaker 8: her off, blew him off, So we thought we'd call
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  Speaker 8: you and find out why.
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  Speaker 1: So you went on a date with a guy named Stephen.
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  Speaker 1: He called us and told us a little recap of
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  Speaker 1: your date, and he's like, why should blow me off?
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  Speaker 1: Like we'll get her on the phone and we'll find
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  Speaker 1: out that's what we're doing.
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  Speaker 7: Oh okay, okay, yeah sure.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So why'd you blow him off?
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  Speaker 1: Do it?
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  Speaker 2: We're doing it well?
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  Speaker 7: Like I'm not gonna lie. It's kind of a new year,
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  Speaker 7: New me situation. Like he's great, the day was fun,
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  Speaker 7: no complaints, we had a good time. But like going
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  Speaker 7: into twenty twenty six, I'm really thinking about what I
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  Speaker 7: want and what I don't want, and I feel like
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  Speaker 7: I'm in this season of leveling up, Like I'm just
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  Speaker 7: being honest with myself, Like if you're not making six figures,
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  Speaker 7: I'm not your girl.
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  Speaker 5: Oh it's like that, did you discuss how much you want?
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  Speaker 5: You know?
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  Speaker 7: Like I don't want to waste anyone's time. I don't
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  Speaker 7: want to waste my own time. I should have communicated
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  Speaker 7: that better, Like I just I just totally goes to him.
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  Speaker 7: But like in my head, I was like, why force
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  Speaker 7: it when my standards are very clear right now and
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  Speaker 7: this doesn't match them?
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  Speaker 6: So what did you just ask him? Like first question
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  Speaker 6: out the gate, how much money do you make? How
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  Speaker 6: far into the date? Did you know that this wasn't
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  Speaker 6: for you?
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  Speaker 7: Well, we were talking about our jobs, and that's like
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  Speaker 7: when I could tell, and I was like, listen, he
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  Speaker 7: sees like a really sweet guy. But I just was like,
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  Speaker 7: this isn't what I'm interested in committing my time to.
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  Speaker 7: If that makes sense.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, it's honest. It's kind of a bummer for Stephen.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, Caro, Hi, Yeah this is Stephen.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 4: Uh that I'm not gonna lie to you. That kind
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  Speaker 4: of sucks to hear, but I appreciate you finally saying
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  Speaker 4: it out loud.
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  Speaker 7: I guess, Oh my god, No way, I didn't right
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  Speaker 7: here on the line. I'm embarrassed. I'm sorry. I'm not
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  Speaker 7: trying to be rude or like make still small. You're great.
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  Speaker 7: I'm just like in a very specific phase right now. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: No, I No, I get it. That's the shot to
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  Speaker 4: the you know, it's the shot of the ego. But no,
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  Speaker 4: I get it, Like you're kind of doing your own
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  Speaker 4: thing and I just don't check the boxes that you're
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  Speaker 4: looking for.
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  Speaker 5: My gosh, that's sure.
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  Speaker 3: I like him especially, and if you had a great
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  Speaker 3: date in the personalities match, at some point he'll probably though,
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  Speaker 3: find his back right, he can make more money later.
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  Speaker 2: Are you sure you're not?
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  Speaker 3: You know, throw it away?
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  Speaker 2: A good date?
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  Speaker 3: I mean I am great date.
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  Speaker 4: In my opinion.
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  Speaker 7: I mean it was fun, but like I'm enjoying my twenties,
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  Speaker 7: like I like nice dinners, I like trips. I want
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  Speaker 7: to be taken care of a little bit, like I'm
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  Speaker 7: not pretending I'm in my build together era like maybe later,
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  Speaker 7: but that's not where I am right now.
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  Speaker 6: That's so fair?
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  Speaker 2: Do you know?
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  Speaker 1: There's a list trending online of jobs that pay extremely well,
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  Speaker 1: but people don't realize it, like what like, well, what
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  Speaker 1: does he do for a living?
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  Speaker 2: D what do you do for a living? I was
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  Speaker 2: looking for frantically, Steve, what do you do for a living?
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  Speaker 4: I work as an emergency management consultant, so I held
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  Speaker 4: out after hurricanes and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, Wow, that's a tough job.
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  Speaker 5: It's really important work, kind of like a hero.
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  Speaker 2: Well.
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  Speaker 1: Number one on this list is septic tank installation and
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  Speaker 1: repair six figures, do you know? And she talked about
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  Speaker 1: six figures, so if she was dating somebody goes, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: fixed toilet, says septic tanks, you should be like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: that's great.
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  Speaker 2: Six figures though.
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  Speaker 1: Gross fiber optic, cable splicing, certified wastewater treatment operator, electric
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  Speaker 1: pole climber, aircraft mechanic, the retired plumber, nuclear station security guards.
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  Speaker 2: All those guys make over six figures.
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  Speaker 3: If you deal with pooh water, you must be making bad.
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  Speaker 6: The guys that are on the lines too. It's like
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  Speaker 6: there's it's such a dangerous job. That is like, of
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  Speaker 6: course you got to pay the big bucks.
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  Speaker 1: Can this coaches for Serena, casino dealers, elevator technicians, they
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  Speaker 1: all make six figures.
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  Speaker 2: Dealer's made that, Well, that's cool.
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  Speaker 1: This guy shoots birds at an airport. He makes one
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  Speaker 1: hundred and sixty thousand dollars a year. Jesuz, what is
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  Speaker 1: that's your job? I wonder if flight path Jarl would
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  Speaker 1: you date it?
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  Speaker 2: Would you date him?
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  Speaker 8: Care?
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  Speaker 1: If you met a guy and he goes, I shoot
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  Speaker 1: birds at the airport, you'd be like, no, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: dating Oh I make one hundred and sixty thousand.
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  Speaker 7: I need well, I mean it's not just the money,
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  Speaker 7: Like that sounds kind of horrifying, Like I don't really
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  Speaker 7: want to date someone who's like killing things. I don't
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  Speaker 7: care how much money they make. That's not the point,
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  Speaker 7: like I just listen. I know what I want and
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  Speaker 7: Steven's great, but that's I'm not interested in taking it further.
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  Speaker 7: Like I don't want to waste his time, you know.
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  Speaker 7: I don't want to lead him on or something. Yep.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, okay, some people just don't fit.
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  Speaker 2: That's no second date update, no second day for you, Steven.
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  Speaker 4: No, that's that's that's more than okay. I don't want
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  Speaker 4: um dating body. That's only for money. Anyways.
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  Speaker 2: It's a good move, all right, Thank you both for
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  Speaker 2: jumping on there with us.
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  Speaker 4: Appreciate it alright.
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  Speaker 2: That second day of Update twenty twenty six, you guys
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  Speaker 2: with John Jayne Rich