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The Quiet Hurts Louder Than You Think · Talking Shed

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Welcome back to the Talking Shit podcast on my left.
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The Burgess side from the valley, the charged out kings
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cheaper than your man churches. Champion.
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Taker. No, just said the sensei.
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It's am I right? It's the bro Machi, the host
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from the coast. Champagne puppy G66YO.
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Welcome back to the Talking Shit podcast.
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You're here with Josiah Machu, bringing you the latest on
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sports, pop culture and last bit questions.
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On today's episode, we'll be talking about moving houses.
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And we got something from In the Shit Mailbag as well, where our
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listeners have sent in another dilemma.
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Yeah. To throw back to last week, we
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got some more to touch on. So bro kick it off man, what
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happened over the weekend? Yeah.
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So I guess that's just an update on what what was kind of
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happening in my life recently one of the Bros was moving
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house. And so you know me put my hand
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up. I was like, yeah, bro, I'll come
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help you, I'll come help you. And it kind of, you always
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forget though, if you haven't moved in a while, how much of A
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mission it is to move bro. Like I've I've forgot because
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we've moved the heaps as well. And recently.
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And so I forgot, I kind of forgot.
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But like, yeah, I'll be a good dude.
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I'll go help them. And it was like 9 till 8:00.
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And then it got to the point, you know, you know, you get to
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the point where you've moved everything in and stuff.
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You've done a few massive loads. And then I was kind of like, I
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want to go now. But I looked around and
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everything was just being like placed in the house and
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everything still need to be set up.
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And then and then a little boy look at me like, yeah, good.
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I was like, I'll stay, I'll stay, bro.
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Give me give me the what you call the thing that you used to
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put the beads up the the tool. The screw.
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The. The screwdriver.
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Bro, what is it called? It's the Ellen Keliki.
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Yeah, bro. I was like, give me the Ellen
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key, bro. Doing all the beads, eh?
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And then bro, it's, it's like a mission away, bro.
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Surely they were were just happy enough that you just helped them
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move all the stuff to the house. They were.
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They were. But like, I was looking.
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I was like, where you gonna sleep?
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I was like bro. Where you gonna sleep then?
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Oh, bro. But anyway, it threw me back to
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when we were actually moving house and we've had a few
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missions a moving like how? How hard?
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Nice. Oh, bro.
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So yeah, pretty much what we happened when we moved house.
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We moved, we were in an apartment and we moved to the
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same apartment. Hey, so we pretty much just
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moved upstairs. We had to get the key from the
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rental lady and then she sent the key in the mailbox because
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she didn't want to drop it off to us.
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She's like, it's part of the tenancy obligation that you have
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to come and pick up the key. And we're like, bro, it's your
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job, come and drop. The key off to us, and this is
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the thing that really frustrated us, was that the property
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managers of this new unit, right.
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So we were moving from floor, say 4 to floor 6.
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That's all it was. Yeah.
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But the property managers that were looking after this new unit
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they were moving into were all the way up in Brisbane.
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So that was the part that really got us, because they didn't
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stipulate that at all, even though obviously, yeah, yeah, it
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came with some. They they sent, they sent the
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keys in the mail anyway. And the then when they, when
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they sent it, it didn't have the fobs.
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And so bro, we had organized the move and I think mentioned, oh,
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flying out the next morning. Yeah.
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And then so it was like, OK, we got the keys.
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Where's the Forbes, Bro? We can't move in.
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Like we got to get out of our place.
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We can't get up there. We end up calling the neighbor.
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The neighbors lead us up. My says lady, And then we ended
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up being able to move in and pro.
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It cracks me up how we were like, do you remember we were
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struggling with the washing machine.
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Yeah, yeah. Bro, so pretty much me and
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Josiah left it everything. We'll be trying to be the big
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strong dude. We left the whole this washing
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machine is pretty heavy A and we're like, bro, we're
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struggling holding it the whole time, like stick it.
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Then oh, he's sweating. Like full sweating bro.
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Put it down and the whole washing machine full was full
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with wet clothes. Oh, we put this washing lid on
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before we left our last unit. Yeah, yeah, that was
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frustrating. They, it was just annoying
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because so that, that the property managers like didn't
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even think about us. Like they were just like, OK, So
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what? This is the thing that actually
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really got me. First and foremost, they go, OK,
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can you guys just, you know, push the elevator key?
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Yeah. Well, first and foremost, we
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need the fog. Yeah.
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Second thing was, OK, can you come up to Brisbane?
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Yeah. And grab the key?
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Not at 7:00 PM at night. Bro.
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That was crazy bro. And then the third thing that
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really got me like to my tipping point was when they go, OK, can
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you just pay for an Uber and the key will get Uber down to you.
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Do you remember that? Oh yes.
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Uber it. By that point it was like 8:00
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PM, maybe even closer to 9, I want to say.
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And all four of us were kind of like, bro, what is going on
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here? Like we're actually this is
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stupid. Yeah, and we were actually
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stuffed. Like, yeah, yeah, lucky.
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We're lucky. We really didn't have a lot to
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move at that point. Yeah.
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Because he, like you said, we've moved a few Times Now and I feel
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like we're in a house now where we're kind of happy with, you
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know, for for the foreseeable future.
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Yeah. But seriously, moving 2 levels
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up should not be there that. Hard bro it.
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Should not be there. Oh my God.
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That really got me by the end of it, eh?
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Yeah, yeah. So anyway, happy people at the
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end of the day with the Bros moving in.
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Oh they better be. They better be bro.
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Surely they shaded? In love.
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Nah, nothing, nothing. I actually bought the beers as
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well, so. Oh, I remember that.
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Yeah, yeah, well, it sounds like you owed something, bro.
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All right, shit, mailbag. Where a couple of our listeners
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have sent in something recently and the first thing we're going
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to do, we're actually going to play an audio from a couple who
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have shared a dilemma, a current dilemma that they have in their
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relationship over a certain scenario.
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So this comes from Luke and Chelsea, and this is basically.
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No, no, no. Yeah, this, this, this
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basically, well comes from a scenario situation where they
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are in a bit of a disagreement and they want our opinion on it.
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They're arguing. They're arguing.
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And they're saying, guys tell me I'm right.
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That's pretty much what they're asking for.
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So first audio is the bro Luke. Hi guys, it's Luke, Chelsea's
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better half. We have a bit of a dilemma
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pretty much short story would be that I offered to do some of her
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chores, the dishes while she was doing them and pretty much she
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was putting them away. I said I'll put them away later.
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Seeing that I had a relatively easy day on.
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Got home from work, decided to quickly go play around the golf
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with the boys, then got home just after her, which to her
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frustration the dishes weren't put away.
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I put them away then and there, but it was more the fact that I
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said I would do it later but decided to play golf instead.
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Cheers. I just want to point out very
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quickly, he has his priorities right.
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Golf comes first. Wait, so.
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It was her dishes. No, it was both of their dishes.
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Both of their dishes. OK, OK, well let's just quickly
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listen to She's Gonna Start. She sent in as well, so she's
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got a fair vision to make it podcast to make it fair.
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Here we go. Hey guys.
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So tell me what you think, because obviously I think I'm
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right. I'm Luke thinks he's right.
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So it's going to be interesting to have your take on this.
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But essentially what's happened is in the morning I was putting
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away the dishes from the night before.
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And actually it was my delegated chore because I had cooked the
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night before. And that's just the way Luke and
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I work. If you cook, you clean.
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And that's just because I rent the kitchen essentially, which
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is fair. So I clean up my mess.
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So I was putting away the dishes I was 10% in and Luke is just
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about to walk out the door to take Anubis on a walk and he
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goes, Charles, leave the dishes. I'll I'll do them when I get
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back later. And I'm stunned.
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I'm like, Oh my gosh, like, thank you so much.
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I actually really appreciate that, especially because I was
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kind of running a little late. So I obviously go to work and I
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get a call at around midday lunchtime and Luke's calling to
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say, oh, I've, you know, I've gone and take the vans for a
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wash. Like I've done this.
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I've done my invoicing, I've done everything I've needed to
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do. And now I'm on my way with Aidan
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to go play golf, to meet up with you.
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Joss don't help. Me like that What?
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You guys are playing golf on a work, like on a work day.
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I'm so jealous. I made it apparent that I was
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jealous. But I said have a good game, see
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you later. Now supportive.
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I end up having quite a, you know, not a hard day, but I was
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quite tired after work and I came home probably a bit more
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tired than usual. So I could have overreacted or
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just gone up a little bit, but came home, walked through the
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door and I see the dishes not done and I'm just like, what the
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hell? So Luke comes home, I give him
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the biggest evils. And I'm like, you haven't done
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the dishes? What?
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What it why you haven't done the dishes?
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How did you forget? You said you did everything.
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He goes and then he he goes. I said I would do it later like
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I'm doing it later. So.
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Tell me what your thoughts are on that because I obviously
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think that's wack. Later when he said later, I
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thought he was alluding to after he took a new persona walk and
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then he calls me at midday to say he's done all the things he
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needed to do and now he's going to go play golf with you.
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If it was, you know, I, I got stacked with work and I just
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didn't get around to it because I had to, like, I just got
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caught up with work. Sorry.
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Like I understand that, but he had a lot of time to do it.
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So yeah, anyways, I'm leaving it there.
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I don't know why she yelled at me like that.
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That's crazy. Luke knows that when I'm on
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school holidays, though, I'm available.
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You know? I'm freaking fast, so you know.
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Meanwhile, just I was like, you don't.
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Have to do it, don't worry. She'll she'll be all.
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Good, I did. I obviously had a part to play
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in this. At any time during golf did he
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mention the dishes? He mentioned it before.
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Oh. I will say so it is your fault.
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He didn't mention it, he said. I did tell Chelsea that I am
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going to do the dishes so I do need to finish golf as soon as
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possible so I can get. Home before OK, that's actually
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bro, he's actually thinking about you, the whole.
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Time he actually was, yeah. He really was bro.
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That's a good point. Like Chelsea, I would actually
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really look back at that and be like, damn, he was.
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I was actually on his mind the whole time, on my end.
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He bought, he bought it up like on on like 3 or 4.
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Occasions, so it must have been really hard for him to do the
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dishes because he really must have wanted to do them there.
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Yeah, that's a good point actually in this case, yeah,
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obviously I think we've done this multiple times.
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They we've said to the permissions, we don't say that
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that. That that me worry you guys.
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I'm I'm, I'm an Angel. I heard you say, should I?
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Should I put dinner on? Great Shanaz almost stabbed me
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before in the. Kitchen.
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I've seen it. I've seen it.
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No, it's, yeah, I don't know. Very.
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Do you do that though? Like before I do that because
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you know, the the argument comes from when you want to do the
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thing. Yeah.
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And it's like they want it to be done now, but you're like, I'm
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gonna do it. But when, when, when is a
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acceptable time to be able to do it?
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If they want it done now, can you watch the Warriors and then
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play do it after? Or like, do you get half an
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hour? There's 1/2 an hour window about
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the gap. My miss say, I think she's
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picked up on something actually in the recent years and that's
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she just has to keep nagging me because she knows I get
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frustrated when she keeps saying Josiah, Josiah, Josiah, can you
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do that now? Like can you, can you do this
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now? Like, come on, Josiah.
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And I actually get so frustrated and makes me do it.
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Yeah, OK. So maybe that's the hack.
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Maybe that's the. Hack just just nag us.
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Yeah, because she always says like, I actually need to be told
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what to do because like otherwise I don't have the same
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like standards as her. So like if I see something I
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maybe won't see it needs to be cleaned, but she'll be like, no,
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it needs to be cleaned, you need to clean it.
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So I think what we're saying here is, Chelsea, you are
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correct in this situation, but Luke was was, you know, just
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want to put this out there. He had you on his mind the
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entire time, on his conscience. So Luke maybe won this whole
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situation because he came out actually the one thinking about
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you the whole day the. Whole day.
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Like, when did you think about him?
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I got a pretty crazy one said to me so I haven't told you this
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one either. So the student wrote it and he
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said I'll say a non. My friend was messaging this
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girl on social media and ended up sending a nude to her Idiot
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and then. I'm not to comment.
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On the and the first, don't comment.
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Yeah, sorry bro Carry. On and then bro, the first reply
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was a selfie of a of a Asian man and he said I've got this, I've
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got this nude. I'm going to send it to every
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single one of your followers if you don't send me $5000.
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Straight. Up, bro, straight up.
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So it's real. Yeah.
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So apparently it coexisted. And then he messaged all his
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followers and said I'm sorry for what you're about to see.
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Wait, hold on. See, he said, he pretty much
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said he was gonna cop the five grand, but you have to.
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Yeah. And he was like, he was pretty
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much gonna say, Yep, here, guys, just saying, you know, this is
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what's gonna happen. Sorry, sorry, we're about to
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see. That's actually funny bro.
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He literally copped. The boy, he just goes.
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He got 5000. Yeah.
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Oh, sorry guys. Can't do that hell.
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No. You know what I can't do?
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Oh bro, that's crazy. Because you can't give the
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money. Because if you give the money,
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then they'll just be like, I need another.
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Five. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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And it's like, bro, when does this stop?
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Yeah, yeah. So you're telling me he didn't
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even know who he was sending this picture to?
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Yeah, he got pretty much catfished.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah. Man, that's crazy.
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We were talking about it the other night.
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Was it us? Oh, no, no, I was talking with
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some other boats. I didn't realize how Like Bo,
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maybe we don't talk about this, but trigger happy dudes are like
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high school, we're sending nudes.
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Have you heard about that? I have bro apparently.
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They just like just cold call you bro and just.
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I can't. Yeah, I know, I know.
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It's bad you don't. Know it wasn't about me.
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No, it's about no, I'll tell you no.
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That's that's I can't say that on you, but that is bad.
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Yeah, anyway, bro. Because yeah, there's no way
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you're sending the money out. You just have.
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To cop it bro. No you do.
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You actually have to cop. It you just have to cop like,
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yeah. That's crazy because you're
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right, once you send, once you send the first slot, I'd buy
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another 10K, Yeah, you know. Next minute, yeah, your has
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investment pretty much. But imagine you just have like
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half, you have about 100 people bro.
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You just go, Yep, another 5K bro, yeah.
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Bro. Sending it to a new you see a
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new girlfriend. You Scott, I hate for you to see
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this but bro far no. I don't even feel sorry for that
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dude. But don't.
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Send. No, don't.
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Send nudes to someone you don't know bro at all.
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It is kind of bro the amount of people that did it in high
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school was actually insane. Hey.
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Yeah, there's some freaky, freaky, freaky people out there,
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man. There's some desperate people
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out there bro. But The thing is, sometimes it
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works so. Enemas.
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Hey love, who you want to love man?
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Yeah, just don't be economic cricket.
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Oh, I think all right. Hot take of the week.
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I have a bit of AI, have a bit of beef to pick here with a
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certain topic that is common in society and that is poetry.
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Is that common? Apparently, apparently I'm, I'm,
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I'm, I'm quite behind when it comes to understanding poetry.
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So this comes from a recent trip I had with family, friends and
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one of my, my best mate and his partner.
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And we're in Fiji. And on one of the nights there
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we started sharing about poetry. Well, they did because I'm the
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type of person. I just, I can't understand it.
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I don't get it. Like no, I don't get.
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It either it's actually real challenging, hey.
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Rapping. I know.
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Rapping poetry. Yeah, that gets me.
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Yeah, so just to kind of preface all of this, like we kind of
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went into some deep emotional type of poetry.
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That's what they're purposely trying to make you cry.
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Well, make me think. And so this is kind of where
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we're going in with our hot take here.
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So what we're going to do, we're going to kind of share a few
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poetry lines and see if the other person in the room can
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understand or break it down. Yeah.
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Yeah, OK. I got.
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I got a few from so I'll be trying to figure it out at the
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same time as you. You go first.
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I'll go first. Yeah, this one's called fire and
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ice. Some say the world will end in
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fire. Some say.
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And ice, from what I've tasted of desire, I hold with those who
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favour fire. But if it had to perish twice, I
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think I know enough of hate to say that for destruction, ice is
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also great and would suffice. OK, so.
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Did you ever get what I should? Have started hey what I heard
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was fire ice Yeah, that's the OK hold on.
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That's a really good point because this is what my best
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mate Andy and his beautiful partner Maddie brought up over
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there and they were like, you only hear one or two words.
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Just sigh. This is your problem.
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Yeah, right. And that's all I get.
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But I read it and I remember that Fire and ice.
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OK, I'm just looking. You need to be a good reader as
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well. You do.
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What if you can't read it? And I was like, you're suffice.
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Yeah, OK, I'll go again. I'll go again.
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OK, I'll try a little bit. Yeah.
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Some say the world will end in fire, Some say in ice.
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From what I've tasted of desire, I would.
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Nope. I hold with those who fire
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favour fire. But if it had to perish twice.
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I think I know enough of hate to say that for destruction.
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Ice See, this is when I start to get lost.
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Are you lost? You've lost me already.
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You lost me from the first word. When I stuffed up.
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OK, So what do you think? What do you think?
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It is pretty. Much from what you can remember,
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kind of what I'm gathering from this is that I'm going to say
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something along of. You're going to be so wrong
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though. I'm just going to say that
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something kind of gets lost and or burns and then if it burns
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again. That's all good.
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Yeah, that's it. No, no, it's frost in front of
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you. Got happy.
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You're like. Oh, there I thought I had a
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cars. So bro Frost uses fire desire.
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So Frost uses fire and ice hate brackets hatred as a metaphor
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for self destruction. OK, so it's basically what I
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said. It's a chilling reminder that
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both passion and indifference can be equally dangerous.
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Oh, interesting. The poem is short, lyrical and
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philosophical, capturing how human emotions can be, can both
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build and destroy. Is it also hard to read top
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level or? I think this one's talking.
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Cox is either knocking any of that.
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Bro. I got none of that bro.
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I've honestly got from that. Shit, to be fair, I was pretty
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close. It was some kind of like battle.
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I was on the. Right part see this is how this
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is how pox action movie might like yeah Ultim Bourne
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Ultimatum, my movie. I just think fire, ice action,
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they're fighting, yeah. Well, because the other word
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that you said in that poem line was perish.
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Was it pearish? Yeah, Pearish.
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And that's why I just thought, you know what?
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Something's not going right here.
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Yeah. And it happened twice.
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It did. People are saying you got CTE.
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Hey, up the album twice. All right, I got one for you
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all. Right, let me lock him.
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I kept watering dead things, hoping they'll bloom from guilt.
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Is there more? That's it, short and sweet
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brother. Wait, I keep watering dead
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things hoping they would bloom from guilt.
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Oh like you're bro you got like a a ship or a boyfriend and
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you're trying to hope that you treat him good.
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That because he should treat you good.
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Because he should feel bad. That's pretty.
22:25
It's pretty good bro. No, it isn't.
22:27
That's pretty good. No, it's.
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Not it's not. Tricky bro, You actually, It's
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about relationships. I'm serious.
22:33
Really. So this line speaks to holding
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on to broken relationships, toxic habits or painful
22:38
memories. Not because they serve us, but
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because we feel responsible. It reflects emotional exhaustion
22:44
from giving life to things that no longer grow.
22:48
So toxic relationships. Yeah, like like friendships as
22:51
well, whatever. Like, you know, they're, they're
22:54
not the, they're not a good person and you're pouring into
22:57
them hoping to get something back at least for the fact that
23:02
like, you're a good person and they feel guilty that they
23:04
should be a good person. Back to you all.
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Right, you're on the blood. I'm going to get to this.
23:09
Yes bro. This one's a hard as one.
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OK, I have. I have eaten the plums that were
23:16
in the icebox and which you were probably saving for breakfast.
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Forgive me. They were delicious, so sweet
23:24
and so, so cold. Why were they in an ice box in
23:29
the 1st place? I don't get that.
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Do people put Peaches in the ice box?
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They were plums. Plums.
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Do people put plums in the ice box?
23:38
What's an ice box? It's got to be in the freezer.
23:40
Oh yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, is.
23:41
That what I'm talking about. Yeah, I think so.
23:45
So why are they anyway? Get back to the story.
23:51
You can't even eat it in the first place because it's frozen,
23:53
am I right? So I.
23:57
Don't know that this person's eating basically ice blocks off
24:00
pretty much. But maybe that's what it's
24:02
about. Maybe the plums weren't supposed
24:04
to be in the freezer to start with.
24:07
Why did you have them in the freezer when you're saving them
24:09
for breakfast? That's why I ate them, yeah.
24:12
That's kind of what I'm. Oh bro, I think it's about
24:15
eating something. You so eating something that the
24:20
other person wanted even though you knew they were going to have
24:24
it the next, even though it wasn't nice, you know what I
24:27
mean? Like you only did that to hurt
24:29
that person. Out of despise.
24:31
Yeah, like you didn't actually want that, but you only did it
24:37
because that person wanted it. And like, you don't really feel
24:41
sorry. You just like.
24:42
OK, you know what that reminds me of?
24:44
Leftovers. And take away leftovers that
24:47
your siblings had brought home. Yeah, And I'm gonna eat it.
24:50
I don't care what you say. I don't care if your name's on
24:52
it. Yeah.
24:52
Yeah. To my siblings.
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That was me. Would you put names on
24:56
leftovers? Bro we everyone knew that's
24:59
either my box or that's my sister's or my brother's box and
25:03
no one was in. Touch.
25:04
There must have been some thiefs if you had, if you were writing.
25:07
Names writing names, but. OK, did I'll.
25:10
I'll read that. So was.
25:10
That kind of close. So oh bro, I might have to chose
25:17
a bad one. This reads like a note left on
25:19
the the fridge, but it becomes a meditation on guilt, pleasure,
25:23
and the intimacy of everyday acts.
25:26
It captures a quiet moment that feels deeply human and familiar,
25:30
giving into temptation and seeking gentle forgiveness.
25:34
That's Adam right there. Adam and Eve.
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Is it? Yep.
25:38
What? So what?
25:39
What does that mean? Well, Eve fell victim to the
25:41
apple on the tree, and Adam fell victim to.
25:46
Is that what Adam and Eve is about?
25:47
Yeah, Adam and Eve, they ate the apple from the tree and that's
25:49
when sin came into the world, supposedly.
25:52
Sin. But why wouldn't they allow the
25:54
apple? Because God said you are not to
25:56
eat that any fruit from the tree.
25:59
And who ate it? Even Adam.
26:01
Both of them. Both of them Eve got it first
26:04
and then but I thought. They were the first people
26:05
alive. They were.
26:08
Does this have anything to do with how everyone else came
26:11
about after them? Basically that's why well.
26:13
That's just how sin that's how. Sin entered the world.
26:16
Yeah, that's basically what it's saying though.
26:20
Yeah. OK.
26:20
You're on. OK, All right.
26:23
Really. Yep.
26:26
Some scars don't bleed, they echo.
26:31
Yeah, I get that. OK, so explain.
26:34
That so so like bro, hurt people hurt people.
26:41
That's what I that's how I hear it.
26:43
So as a scar, I've obviously been hurt like I've I'm mean to
26:52
my partner or whatever because I've been hurt in the past.
26:57
So that's me echoing. If I was bleeding I'd be crying
26:59
about it, but I'm repeating the cycle kind of thing.
27:05
Bro you're actually pretty much on the money with that one.
27:07
Because you mentioned the past, I'm going to give it to you.
27:10
Not all wounds are physical. Some are emotional and they
27:14
resurface and echoes through triggers, dreams, or choices we
27:18
can't explain. This line reflects how past pain
27:21
can reverberate through the present, silently but powerfully
27:27
powerful. Damn, we're actually better than
27:29
we. Thought I'm kind of struggling.
27:31
It's just the read. It's the reading that time.
27:34
It's the really, it's the understanding for me.
27:38
Oh, OK. The last.
27:39
This is the one here. It's called the red.
27:41
Red wheelbarrow. So much depends upon a red
27:45
wheelbarrow glazed with rain water beside the white chickens.
27:51
I read like that because it's like, you know how they do that
27:53
thing? It's like a haiku.
27:55
I don't know, something, you know, they got.
27:56
It's like that. Say it again because.
28:00
So much depends. All I had was chicken.
28:03
It wasn't. It so much depends upon a red
28:06
wheelbarrow. Glazed.
28:09
Wait, a red wheelbarrow? Yeah, a red wheelbarrow, bro.
28:14
These tongue twisters all oh. Bro that's twice.
28:17
Just let. Me start again.
28:18
So much depends upon a red wheelbarrow glazed with rain
28:23
water beside the white chickens. Oh, that's hard.
28:29
I don't. Even I don't get that at all.
28:31
So. So much depends upon a red
28:34
wheelbarrow. So what is that?
28:36
What's that for? I've no idea.
28:42
I've no idea. But what I think is red
28:44
wheelbarrow, if it was in the field, it would just stick out.
28:47
OK, so it's something that's sticking out in the field glazed
28:51
with rain water beside the white chickens.
28:55
So much depends. Is it because if a chicken's
28:59
next to it you can see it? I feel like it's just like
29:04
nothing. I don't get it.
29:05
That doesn't make sense. It has to just be like.
29:08
I just don't understand. Yeah, I don't get it.
29:11
Bro I reckon that means like nothing matters.
29:16
All right, reveal the answer then bro.
29:20
The minimalist poem emphasizes how ordinary things like red
29:23
wheelbarrow hold quiet importance in daily life.
29:27
It challenges readers to see beauty and value in mundane.
29:31
That kind of makes sense. It's about presence, attention,
29:35
and the hidden weight of simple things.
29:37
So. Why do I have to so?
29:39
It's the opposite of nothing matters.
29:40
Everything matters, you know. It's.
29:44
Like this so much depends on the red wheelbarrow glaze of water.
29:48
Like just a nothing object sitting in the field with the
29:53
beside the white chicken. Like a little wholesome thingy
29:55
happening. That's how I see it, yeah.
29:58
Pretty pretty dumb. Pretty stupid though.
29:59
Yeah, it it that frustrates it that Do you know what's?
30:03
Frustrating about there is you have to think so hard for that.
30:09
Like, why can't they just say it?
30:11
It's like, I don't like how they want me to do the thinking.
30:13
It's like Kendrick Lamar lessness.
30:15
They want you to do the thinking.
30:16
They want to do the thinking for him when he just writes
30:18
something stupid on the page. And they're like, no, no, no, he
30:21
actually meant by backing our ancestors.
30:23
And when they brought it forward, it was all good.
30:24
Like no, I don't know how I made it about.
30:29
The beef? Well, this all led to the poetry
30:34
or poem that Andy and Maddie had shared with me in Fiji.
30:39
All right, so I want to get your take on this one here, OK?
30:42
It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at
30:47
all. Who said?
30:52
I've heard the first who, who put The Who said part on it.
30:55
What do you mean? I've heard that first part, But
30:58
what does who said mean? OK, never to have loved and lost
31:03
and never to loved at all. Yeah.
31:06
So like, you've better to have loved because it's better to put
31:10
yourself out there and love someone and maybe maybe enjoy
31:14
love rather than live your life safe.
31:19
But then The Who said part is because someone who had done it
31:30
is saying that. Who said oh bro, it just that
31:36
comes from a different perspective.
31:37
I'm not ready for, I don't know. See look, I've read this again
31:41
and I still get confused by it bro.
31:43
Who said that? Never to love to have lost.
31:45
Who said that? So it's saying like why can't?
31:49
Why did I need to lose? No, but I don't know.
31:53
I'm lost. I'm lost.
31:54
Just tell me bro. What does it mean?
31:56
So someone else might have another viewpoint, but from what
32:03
I've gathered and what Andy and Maddie have shared with me, this
32:06
has helped me understand it. We would guess that rather than
32:09
experience love, the heartbroken person would rather not
32:14
experience love at all because it is too painful.
32:19
So this has been written. By someone who's hurt, being
32:23
hurt and they said who said why do I need to feel that that
32:27
makes sense? Does it a little bit.
32:30
I kind of get it, but then I don't.
32:32
I really struggle with poetry, bro.
32:33
I don't know what it is because you're a literal.
32:37
You're a literal thinker and autistic.
32:39
That's what they. Said right, that's what they
32:41
literally said. They said you might be on the
32:42
spectrum here. You're too logical.
32:45
That's where I get with this. Oh bro, I don't know.
32:51
Who said? Yeah, that's right, Hot take of
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