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Season 2 - Episode 54 - Do you believe in yourself? · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim. Every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the chicken coop.
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  Question. Do you believe in yourself?
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  It's a very deep question when you actually stop and pause and
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  think about it. Most of us would answer a very
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  quickly. Yes, of course, I believe in
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  myself. That's why I'm here.
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  It's, why I'm doing all these things but the reality is when
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  we start to check in with it and we start to say, well okay, I
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  believe in myself, but how do I know that?
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  How does that show up? What are the things I do to help
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  me believe in myself. You might be surprised at what
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  you find most of the time. When I am working with people
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  and I asked that question, I get interesting answers.
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  And I even with myself, sometimes I get very interesting
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  answers. Like, do I believe in myself?
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  I'll say, alright, do I believe in myself when I do this?
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  It's like, well yeah, I'll see what happens.
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  But is that really believing in yourself when you just answer
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  the question? Well, see what happens it could
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  be, but it is all dependent upon the intent of which you come at
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  it, meaning the emotion behind it.
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  So, if I answer the question and I I say yeah, I believe in
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  myself. Like I have a project that I'm
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  working on right now I'm like, okay, do I believe in myself to
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  do this? Get this done.
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  Have it be of quality, I'll be like, yes, but I have to check
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  in with the intent of where it's coming from.
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  So how am I measuring that belief in myself?
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  Is it going to be based on how many people end up participating
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  in it? Is it going to be?
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  Because I'm where I'm working on demand.
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  I don't want to be cryptic, I want to be truthful about it.
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  I'm working on it. Right now.
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  So if I'm working on a course to go out and offer to the public,
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  is My Success on, that is how I feel about.
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  It is my belief in myself at the core to get this thing done and
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  have it be a success coming from my excitement about it?
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  Is it coming from my fear? Is it coming from?
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  I wonder if anybody's going to like it and you have to really
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  dig into your head, go into what your You're consistent, thoughts
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  are and you're constantly telling yourself about it and
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  it's okay to say, well, I'm going to see what happens if
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  behind-the-scenes the true feeling as well.
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  I'm detached from it. I'm just going to see what
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  happens. I'm okay, I'm having fun, doing
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  it and we'll see what happens. That's great.
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  If you're a detached from it at that level, it's really hard to
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  be at that level because we always have these little hooks,
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  these little tiny little hooks that get us And they hurt like
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  hell because we didn't realize they were there.
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  To the point of this conversation is to help you
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  realize that they're there and pull it out.
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  So as I'm working on this course and we're moving into week two
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  and I'm running it through a test group now I'm like okay how
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  do I feel about this? How are how do I feel about it?
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  Not do, am I like because I'm getting great feedback from
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  people but in my head it's like okay.
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  Well, do I believe in myself to get this finished and actually,
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  get it out there to help people? And the reality is, I have a
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  whopping intent to go out and help people.
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  Like it's a burning thing for me.
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  It's why do this podcast? It's why coach, it's why I write
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  books. It's something that I can't
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  explain where it comes from and how intentional it is.
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  It's why I will answer text late at night to clients.
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  It's why I don't walk away from helping somebody when they need
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  it. The reality comes down to, okay?
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  When it comes to me and I'm saying, okay, do I believe in
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  myself for this piece of it and getting it done and out there?
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  Yes, I believe in myself to get it out there.
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  But do I look at it optimistically and say, hmm, I
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  think this will be a success and it caused me to pause and I do
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  this all day every day. So I had to go.
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  Wow, that's interesting because it's very vulnerable when you
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  try something new and you push yourself out There.
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  Now I'm super Brave when it comes to growing plants and
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  trying things with my chickens and everything else, I mean, I
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  will just jump in and I always expect the best, believe the
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  best and put it out there. But sometimes when it comes from
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  something else, when you're doing something that's super
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  creative, and you're really on the edge, you find that, you
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  don't have a clear path in your head to what that feels like on
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  the, on the inside, you're just like tentative.
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  Not studying it and saying, hmm, is this a piece of it that's
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  going to hold me back because remember I love to use the
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  analogy of the hook because when you get hooked you're not able
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  to walk forward, you're being stuck where you are or you're
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  being pulled backwards and that's the whole purpose of
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  using the intent and saying hook because I don't want to get
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  hooked and hold myself back. So I have to stop and pause and
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  say to myself. Yes.
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  I absolutely 100% believe in myself to make this go out.
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  There and change lives and sell. And get everybody out there
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  knowing it. Keeping it available for
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  everybody doing this. Yes it is going to be helpful
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  saleable all those things and I recognize I actually have to
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  keep programming myself for that because it's a vulnerability.
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  So I thought well this is really interesting.
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  This is happening for me. I know this is happening for
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  everybody else. So actually check in with
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  yourself. Do you believe in yourself?
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  Are you doing it? So you understand where those
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  little hooks are? Because you might say in
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  general? Yes, I believe in myself, you
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  know, to this point I have 50 years of success but guess what
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  it's more about digging in and seeing those little tiny hooks
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  because we all know what it's like when you get a little tiny
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  paper cut, it's annoying and holds it hurts and it gets your
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  attention and it takes you off of whatever whatever you're
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  doing. But those hooks they can
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  actually pull you hurt you and pull you back, so pay attention
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  to it. It actually asked the question
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  and see what you come up with. All right, my friends.
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  I will see you tomorrow. I hope you have a blessed day.
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  Bye.