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He Wants To Change The Weddinng Date For A Boys Trip · The Erica Show

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  Now back to the Erica Show on g Erica DeLong and Trevor, and we
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  have Stacy on the phone with a listener dilemma that has got me my mouth
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  has dropped. I'm just patiently, impatiently waiting over here to find out what's
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  going on. So Erica says, it's a good one. Hey, so
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  my fiance wants to change our wedding date because of a boys trip to Vegas
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  that he was just invited to. So they say, the dates have already
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  gone out and we're getting married in October. I got to pick my mouth
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  back up because girl, I mean, I was like, next, that's
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  a no, no, I mean, isn't it. It's just it seems
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  like totally poor judgment and incredibly immateure, and I just I don't know.
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  It's making me question the whole thing, like should we even get married?
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  Or am I dating or about to marry a man child? Oh? I
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  don't know. So this just like lapse in judgment is making you wonder if
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  you even want to get married to this guy. Yeah, he can't,
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  you know, spend the time thinking about us and our upcoming wedding, but
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  he can like drop everything and make plans to go on this boy's trip,
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  which, by the way, he's had time to do, you know,
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  for the last but his whole adulthood so far. Who She's got me hot
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  just from hearing her talk right now. Nine one nine, eight six one
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  o five one. What should she do? What would you do in this
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  situation? Good By is the Erica Show and Stacy calling in with a dilemma.
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  Her fiance wants to change the wedding date so he can go on a
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  boys trap. The wedding date that will save. The dates have already gone
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  out. It's coming up this October. I would be living. Apparently a
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  lot of people agree with us, ladies nine one nine eight six one five
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  one. That's striver included. Hey Ben, what do you think I mean?
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  Honestly, just give him a break. I know it's your special day,
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  but you know what, just give him one, you know, maybe
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  bust his chops about like the bachelor party. Make sure it's not too wild.
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  Oh my god, you know my mouth is dropped open right now,
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  because you know, all the ladies are like, absolutely, it's a red
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  flag. I wouldn't even marry this guy. But you're calling in saying like
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  it's okay to change the web they already sent out save the dates. I
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  mean, how long is it? I mean, you know what I mean,
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  I don't know how long they've been dating. And maybe if it's if
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  it's a deal breaker like that, then for you, then maybe it isn't
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  the one. Maybe you've already had like some issues. What what I'm saying
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  is, hey, you know, maybe try to get something back for that.
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  Be like all right, I'll give you this, but you know it's
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  not to be transactional. But that's exactly what it sounds like though. Okay,
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  So our listener Stacey, her fiance wants to change the wedding date that
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  they already have saved the dates for so he can go on a boys trip
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  to Vegas. They got the venue, they got to save the dates,
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  like the Yeah, and he wants to go on this boys trip instead of
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  getting married. Angela, what do you think about this? She should break
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  up with him right now. He's not even prioritizing her wedding. That's a
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  big red flag. So you're saying, just call off the wedding altogether.
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  Yeah, like go to Vegas, see single forever. Yeah, I mean
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  it's really poor judgment. It just shows that that might set the tone for
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  their entire life and their relationship, and so it might be a really bad
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  sign. I would agree. Sounds like a man child. That means when
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  she's in the middle of labor, he's been Oh, I'm having snacks with
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  the guys, like all kinds of things are gonna be going down. My
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  dad did do that to my mom, really right, Yeah, I don't
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  think he would even be there at the at the hospital and doesn't feel like
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  bad hype. Thank you so much for calling and agree with us. We
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  agree with you, two girl.