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Potty Mouth Children · Podcast - Big 98.7

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  Speaker 1: One of my favorite parts of Facebook is the on
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  Speaker 1: this Day feature, and you just click on it and
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  Speaker 1: it shows you all the things that you posted on
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  Speaker 1: this day since you'd been on Facebook. And usually it's
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  Speaker 1: a lot of cringey things that why did I post
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  Speaker 1: that in two thousand and nine?
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  Speaker 2: But do you rather not remember exactly?
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  Speaker 1: But sometimes a gem pops up, and this one popped
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  Speaker 1: up for me on this day.
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  Speaker 3: Six years ago.
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  Speaker 1: I was potty training Liam and this is the gem
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  Speaker 1: that he provided Liam Stop bitter little editing and there, Yeah, so.
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  Speaker 3: Play it one more time.
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  Speaker 1: But we had to mishmash the bad word he said, Liam, Stop.
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  Speaker 2: Liam says a naughty word in there.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, he says the F bomb and sir, you have
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  Speaker 1: a potty mouth, literally on the potty.
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  Speaker 3: It was too hilarious not to share.
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  Speaker 1: But I feel bad that I laughed because they always
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  Speaker 1: say like that encourages your kids to swear more.
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  Speaker 3: I do, however, want to clear my name.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah I know who he learned that from.
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  Speaker 3: It was not me, No, it wasn't.
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  Speaker 1: I do have a potty mouth, how edver, I have
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  Speaker 1: been very trained because I'm in radio, so I don't
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  Speaker 1: say bad words on the radio. And I have a
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  Speaker 1: mother who would kill me if I said bad words.
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  Speaker 1: So I know how to turn it on and off
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  Speaker 1: like a switch. And so I made a very concerted
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  Speaker 1: effort to not swear in front of my children, which
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  Speaker 1: means that the potty mouth that came from his dad,
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  Speaker 1: that wasn't me.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't do that, you think.
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  Speaker 1: So when your kid inevitably says a bad word when
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  Speaker 1: she gets to that age, who will be responsible for that?
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  Speaker 1: Who's the pottymouth in your family?
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  Speaker 2: Well? You know the answer to that.
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  Speaker 3: It's you, right, little old me?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, it would be me.
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  Speaker 4: Corey doesn't swear a ton, not like rarely, but not
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  Speaker 4: off not often either. It's very you know, level headed
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  Speaker 4: with her use of explicit language.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, well we'll be blaming you.
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  Speaker 1: Then, well, who is the cause of the potty mouth
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  Speaker 1: for your kids? Seven oh one to one nine eight seven?
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  Speaker 1: I don't swear, and my kid did.
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  Speaker 2: I don't.
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  Speaker 4: That's the first time you had ever heard him use
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  Speaker 4: some interesting language?
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  Speaker 3: Wow, yes, that was the first time.
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  Speaker 4: I can't wait for that moment when Corey stares at
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  Speaker 4: me and goes, I went, And where does he learned that?
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  Speaker 2: Probably you and your buddy something like that.
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  Speaker 4: Jason is on the phone here, Jason, who's to blame
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  Speaker 4: for the potty mouth of your child?
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  Speaker 5: My parents cursed like it's in their religion.
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  Speaker 2: Talk to him about it.
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  Speaker 1: But it's hard to change how someone that age talk.
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  Speaker 5: My kids have repeated a few things, but we've been
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  Speaker 5: pretty much on.
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  Speaker 4: Top of it.
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  Speaker 2: It's good. It's good to I respect.
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  Speaker 4: Good to blame grandparents because no one ever blames grandma
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  Speaker 4: or grandpa.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, actually I think I now have it out,
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, dad. We do have.
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  Speaker 4: Tara also on the phone, Tara, what who's to blame
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  Speaker 4: for your kid's potty mouth moment?
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  Speaker 1: I blame daycare for months, and then one day I
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  Speaker 1: stuff my toe and let out a very passionate string
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  Speaker 1: of words, and from the other room, I just hear
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  Speaker 1: my kid go, oh.
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  Speaker 3: That's a new one. So yeah, it turns out daycare
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  Speaker 3: is innocent and I'm the problem.
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  Speaker 4: You know that's great, you know we like though, someone
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  Speaker 4: taking accountability.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, self awareness.
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  Speaker 5: Good for you, Tara celebrating life's little victories. Every morning
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  Speaker 5: we practice gratitude on big ninety eight point step.
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  Speaker 2: If I could, I would keep this feeling in a basket.
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  Speaker 2: Job busted out when it was someone's acting hard.
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  Speaker 5: Sure your little victories with us at seven oh one, two,
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  Speaker 5: eight oh one, ninety eight seven kids, I also needed
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  Speaker 5: to win that day.
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  Speaker 4: And Angie, do you have a little victory for us
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  Speaker 4: here today? It was a nice long weekend. Yesterday was
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  Speaker 4: gorgeous outside. Yeah, I can only imagine you know what
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  Speaker 4: you and maybe the kiddos got up to watching golf.
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  Speaker 2: I know you talked about watching that all weekend. Do
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  Speaker 2: you have a little victory from that?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Well, we did go touch grass for a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: We went to the park for a little while, and
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  Speaker 1: that was great because I love for the kids to
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  Speaker 1: get outside and get some fresh air, but to go
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  Speaker 1: hand in hand with that.
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  Speaker 3: Ever since we moved here, I've been trying.
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  Speaker 1: To figure out what activity I can get Liam into.
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  Speaker 3: He's a very artsy kid.
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  Speaker 1: He loves to draw and stuff, but in terms of
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  Speaker 1: like getting out and maybe playing a sport, I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to put him in something he hates.
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  Speaker 3: So I've been struggling to figure out what it is that.
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  Speaker 2: He wants to do. And Liam is Angie's younger one
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  Speaker 2: is yes eight year old.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, he'll be nine at the end. Of this month.
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  Speaker 3: That's crazy, but we have finally locked in.
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  Speaker 1: Liam has decided he wants to golf a I love
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  Speaker 1: it so excited. We've been to Sweet Shots a few
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  Speaker 1: times and Mikey, my guy, is like he loves to golf,
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  Speaker 1: and he has always said like, Liam's got a really
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  Speaker 1: nice swing, like we could train him up and he
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  Speaker 1: could really do.
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  Speaker 3: Work on the golf cours.
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  Speaker 2: I love train him up.
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  Speaker 1: And then you know, we had him watch the documentary
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  Speaker 1: with us about Rory McIlroy. He watched the Masters and
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  Speaker 1: Liam said, I think I want to do golf. I
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  Speaker 1: love this golf and I'm like, yes, you can do golf.
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  Speaker 1: So we finally know what sport Liam is going to play,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm very excited that it's golf and not something
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  Speaker 1: more violent.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I think you'll be very glad it's golf until
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  Speaker 4: you get through that first summer and you realized, wow,
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  Speaker 4: I'm broke.
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  Speaker 3: Well then can well, Mike is the one who wants
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  Speaker 3: to train them up.
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  Speaker 2: You're right, that sounds like a Mikey problem. That's right.
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  Speaker 2: I love. I think that's wonderful for Liam, my little victory.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not sure. I think it's just yesterday as a whole. Yes,
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  Speaker 4: it was so nice to be outside. I was outside
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  Speaker 4: with my dog. We have a neighbor who has a
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  Speaker 4: dog who's about Wanona's age, and I was playing fetch
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  Speaker 4: and then their dogs saw her outside was whining, so
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  Speaker 4: they opened the door and he came sprinting over so
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  Speaker 4: they could play. And I was just outside in like
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  Speaker 4: bare feet, a T shirt, some shorts, just sitting in
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  Speaker 4: the backyard with Corey watching these two dogs just sprint around.
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  Speaker 4: It was a very nice, like, oh yeah, warm weather
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  Speaker 4: is right around the corner moment. Yeah, And it was
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  Speaker 4: just kind of cool and Winona got to run around
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  Speaker 4: for a little bit with her buddy and it was
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  Speaker 4: just nice.
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  Speaker 2: That kind of was a little victory.
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  Speaker 3: This sounds like a Norman Rockwell pain too.
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  Speaker 4: I like, yeah, it's just two people sitting on these
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  Speaker 4: lean back chairs, a couple of dogs playing in the
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  Speaker 4: in the backyard.
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  Speaker 2: But no, it was just nice because it had been
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  Speaker 2: just not great weather.
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  Speaker 4: It had been super windy, and yeah, it's just kind
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  Speaker 4: of when it's super windy, you can still do it,
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  Speaker 4: but it's a lot harder to go for walks, to
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  Speaker 4: like motivate yourself to go to it. So it was
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  Speaker 4: really nice for her to be able to run around
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  Speaker 4: and play with her buddy yesterday and I didn't have
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  Speaker 4: to wear shoes outside.
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  Speaker 2: I'll take that whenever I can get it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, things are evolving ever so quickly for baby g
• 7:17
  Speaker 4: at the Glidden House. Yesterday, my wife and I went
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  Speaker 4: to this thing and I'll be honest, I can't even
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  Speaker 4: remember exactly what it was called. I think it was
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  Speaker 4: called the Baby Expo, but we went to one of
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  Speaker 4: the hospitals here in the FM area and they had
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  Speaker 4: all of these like vendors or experts I guess you
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  Speaker 4: would say, and you kind of just walked around to
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  Speaker 4: each booth and ask questions in their expertise.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 4: They all had kind of signs saying what they would
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  Speaker 4: know the most about, you know, mental health, postpartum stuff,
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  Speaker 4: baby exercises, pelvic floor which had some incredible diagrams, I
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  Speaker 4: will say, But.
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  Speaker 2: It was it was just a really fun time.
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  Speaker 4: But the most exciting part, you know, we got to
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  Speaker 4: talk to everyone and if we had any little questions.
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  Speaker 4: You know, there was a booth about genetics and I
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  Speaker 4: was like, oh, is it gonna look like me? And
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  Speaker 4: of course the lady behind the booths.
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  Speaker 2: She laughed.
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  Speaker 4: She goes, yeah, everyone asks that, like, no, we can't
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  Speaker 4: figure that out, but here's what we can do, and YadA.
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  Speaker 2: YadA, YadA.
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  Speaker 3: What did you guys do? What are those Punnett squares?
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  Speaker 2: No, no, we did not do that.
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  Speaker 4: It was more for if they were gonna have certain
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  Speaker 4: things in their DNA, like when they were born, and
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  Speaker 4: what you could do or could not do about certain
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  Speaker 4: things and whatever. And one of the most exciting parts
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  Speaker 4: is we got to tour where baby G.
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  Speaker 2: Will be born.
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  Speaker 4: We got to go to the birthing room and then
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  Speaker 4: I don't know this secondary room. I don't exactly know
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  Speaker 4: what that room's called. But and i'll tell you what.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so jet The birthing room has a jacuzzie in
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  Speaker 2: it and I can go in it.
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  Speaker 4: I thought maybe this would be for mom only. What Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: there's a jacuzzi in there and I can go in it.
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  Speaker 4: You know. I got on some swim trunks or basketball
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  Speaker 4: sorts of something. Obviously Corey can go in there for sure.
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  Speaker 4: But we got to do a tour of this whole area.
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  Speaker 4: And I'll tell you what, it was really cool. It
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  Speaker 4: was fun to kind of be prepped and I can say, hey,
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  Speaker 4: we've been here when we have the big day of it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it doesn't feel like scary, like.
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  Speaker 1: You don't know what's going on, because I imagine if
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  Speaker 1: you had not toured it the very first time he
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  Speaker 1: stepped in there and saw jacuzzie, I think you would
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  Speaker 1: be confused.
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  Speaker 2: It feels like a little hotel room kind of.
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  Speaker 3: This is so cool.
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  Speaker 1: I the last time I had a baby was one
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  Speaker 1: hundred and seventy nine years ago.
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  Speaker 3: No, it was almost it'll be nine years, nine years.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, there was no jacuzzie. Yeah, there's is the jacuzzie.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, if it's that the mom wants to I'm so
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  Speaker 1: fascin yes, because if the mom goes in there, is
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  Speaker 1: it because it doubles as a birthing tub or it's
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  Speaker 1: just for mom to relax.
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  Speaker 3: I do not understand why there's a jacuzzie.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure it's a relax thing. It could be a
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  Speaker 2: birthing tub. I get yes, I didn't ask that question.
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  Speaker 3: The only thing that came to mind was can I
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  Speaker 3: use that.
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  Speaker 2: That's exactly what I thought. That's exactly what I thought.
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  Speaker 4: But yeah, I think it's meant for relaxing and relaxing
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  Speaker 4: muscles and things like that, or I don't know, play time.
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  Speaker 1: You know, sometimes dad is the one that needs to
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  Speaker 1: be relaxed.
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  Speaker 2: That's right.
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  Speaker 4: And it was really really cool. So a big shout
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  Speaker 4: out to the Baby Expo yesterday. And there were a
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  Speaker 4: lot of people in there, and I've said this before
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  Speaker 4: here on Big ninety eight point seven. There were a
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  Speaker 4: lot of couples in there, a lot of moms in
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  Speaker 4: there thinking, oh, man, my kids might go to school
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  Speaker 4: with your kid. Yeah, which is very cool. And it
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  Speaker 4: was just fun to see all the people in there,
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  Speaker 4: and you know, you know, it's like we're all asking
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  Speaker 4: each other questions, but you go in little groups and
• 10:40
  Speaker 4: you know, you can kind of shoot the breeze with
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  Speaker 4: your group mates and it was a good time. This
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  Speaker 4: one guy was joking around about with the TV in
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  Speaker 4: the room, and our tour guide answered this question that
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  Speaker 4: I never thought would be possible, but it was funny.
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  Speaker 4: And he had joked like, oh, can I bring the
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  Speaker 4: Xbox just you know, as a as a I comment,
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  Speaker 4: And the lady was like, well, yeah, actually you could.
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  Speaker 4: If you know, mom wants to play a little Xbox
• 11:07
  Speaker 4: and you want to play, you can bring an Xbox
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  Speaker 4: into this.
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, Gabe, don't you dare dream
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  Speaker 1: of playing cod while Corey.
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  Speaker 3: Is in labor?
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  Speaker 2: Could you imagine?
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  Speaker 3: I could imagine.
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  Speaker 2: That's my concern, but it was very.
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  Speaker 4: Cool, So a big shout out to the baby expoll.
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  Speaker 4: We got a bunch of things to read and as
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  Speaker 4: prepped as you could possibly be. I think we are
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  Speaker 4: as prepped as someone could be. Obviously you don't exactly
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  Speaker 4: know what. No, you never have a clue what to do,
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  Speaker 4: and you can be as prepped.
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  Speaker 2: As you want.
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  Speaker 4: But it is nice to have these things to go
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  Speaker 4: back to and be like, hey, I learned this, I
• 11:42
  Speaker 4: learned this, I can't do this, can't do this, and
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  Speaker 4: those things. So it's nice to have, you know, a
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  Speaker 4: little Swiss army knife of baby knowledge.
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  Speaker 3: Do you know what this means?
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  Speaker 2: Gabe?
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  Speaker 3: Is that coming up soon? I'm going to give you
• 11:52
  Speaker 3: another dad quiz.
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  Speaker 1: To see what you've learned, what you've retained, what you've
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  Speaker 1: already forgotten.
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  Speaker 2: This is am I the problem. It's me, hill On
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  Speaker 2: the problem. It's me. We'll hear one side of the
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  Speaker 2: story and with your help, am I the.
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  Speaker 5: Problem with you decide if it's right or if maybe
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  Speaker 5: you're the problem, I'm hardly the problem.
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  Speaker 2: On Big ninety eight point.
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  Speaker 3: Seven, Ellie wrote into us, and I'll just get right
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  Speaker 3: to it. Hi, I'm Ellie. She had a lot of.
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  Speaker 2: Eyes in that a dad that shows some excitement.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I listened to you all the time, and now
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  Speaker 1: I'm sending you an email for am I the problem?
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  Speaker 3: Crazy?
• 12:33
  Speaker 2: It's weird how you get roped in anyway, I have.
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  Speaker 1: A new boyfriend and it was totally love at first
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  Speaker 1: sight type vibes. It's been a few weeks and he
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: met my friends for the first time on Friday. We
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  Speaker 1: were at a bar and by the time he got there,
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  Speaker 1: we were all tipsy. He had worked all day and
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  Speaker 1: wasn't totally joining in because he was tired, but I
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  Speaker 1: thought it was a good time. Apparently my girlfriends thought
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  Speaker 1: he was a kill joy, and he thought my friends
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  Speaker 1: were doing too much.
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  Speaker 3: But my friends are my everything. So should I just
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  Speaker 3: cut him off? They are saying I should.
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  Speaker 2: That's insane. Oh sorry, go ahead, No, that's it.
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  Speaker 3: That's yeah. They're saying I gues should, So I guess
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  Speaker 3: the question is should she cut him off?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 3: Girl, your friends from that one interaction were like cut
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  Speaker 3: him off.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: That sounds like your friends don't want you to find love.
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  Speaker 1: That is wild to.
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  Speaker 2: Me, or they don't like him.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe they got a vibe early and did a little
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  Speaker 4: girl's trip to the bathroom and they're like, hey, are
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  Speaker 4: you picking.
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  Speaker 2: Up on this? So maybe you never know?
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well she said, okay.
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  Speaker 1: So she said that he had worked all day so
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  Speaker 1: he wasn't totally joining in, which I totally get if
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: you're like tired already and then you meet up with
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  Speaker 1: a group of girls that are all tipsy.
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  Speaker 3: I've been the girl that's been tipsy and I he
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  Speaker 3: said that they were doing too much. Probably correct.
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  Speaker 1: However, for the friend, I just think for the friends
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  Speaker 1: to say to cut him off. But there is something
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: to girls intuition, actually. I feel like sometimes you can
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: read someone right away when you meet them, and you
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  Speaker 1: know that they are trash right this one. At first,
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  Speaker 1: I was immediately like, no, your friends are crazy.
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  Speaker 3: But now that I'm remembering girl intuition, maybe they're not wrong.
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  Speaker 3: What do you think?
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  Speaker 1: Seven oh one two eight oz one nine eight seven?
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  Speaker 1: Should she cut off this boyfriend or should she give
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: them another chance?
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  Speaker 2: Well, if you're old enough to be out drinking.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like you should be old enough and mature
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  Speaker 4: enough to understand, like that was just kind of a
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  Speaker 4: weird night, like weird interaction. We'll plan something a lot better,
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  Speaker 4: a lot more where we're all on the same page
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  Speaker 4: most importantly, maybe on the same pace. Yeah, on the party.
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  Speaker 4: And so I think you just chalk it up as like, hey,
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  Speaker 4: kind of weird. You were tired off of work. I'm
• 14:55
  Speaker 4: sure you probably were, you know, crabby, trying to get home,
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  Speaker 4: and we were partying, which is obviously they're both well
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  Speaker 4: within the right to do that.
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  Speaker 2: So wow, why don't you just chalk it up and
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: go to brunch a little mimosa or something.
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  Speaker 4: That's just what I want to do. Seven one two
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  Speaker 4: eight zero one nine eight seven. Is this a little
• 15:13
  Speaker 4: early to be just pulling the trigger on this situation?
• 15:15
  Speaker 4: I think it is what you never know. Maybe there
• 15:18
  Speaker 4: was some ladies intuition, as Angie had mentioned. So seven
• 15:22
  Speaker 4: oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven let
• 15:25
  Speaker 4: us know here this morning. This is also up on Facebook.
• 15:33
  Speaker 5: The problem.
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: So Ellie has a new boyfriend.
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: It's only been a few weeks, but it was love
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: at first sight, as she says, and so she had
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: him meet her friends for the very first time. And
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: she's obsessed with her friends. Her friends are everything to her.
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: Those are her BFFs for life. They met it was
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: at a bar. He had worked all day, he was
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: kind of tired, He wasn't super like down with the vibe.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: The girls were super tipsy, having a time, and all
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: of a sudden done.
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: They didn't like him. They thought he was a killed joy.
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: And they are telling her that she needs to cut
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: him off already, and like, buy, this ain't the man
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: for you.
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: So Ellie wants to know should she cut him off.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: Or should he give him Should she give him the
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt and give him another shot.
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: Because you know, he was just kind of tie tie
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: after work that day. What are your thoughts, Gabe.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: Well, I just I feel like he was kind of
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: set up to fail, to be honest.
• 16:30
  Speaker 4: I mean, you can't you just chalk it up to
• 16:32
  Speaker 4: it was just a bad night for everyone, or or
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: it was just a night where things didn't align right.
• 16:37
  Speaker 4: You know, you have some girls who are enjoying their
• 16:40
  Speaker 4: evening as they should, a dude who's just getting off
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: work and kind of over the day, and those two
• 16:46
  Speaker 4: things don't normally mix. I mean, that's like mixing oil
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: and peanut butter. Well I wait, I think you can
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: mix oil and.
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: You have to mix it, actually, but it does separate
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: oil and water, My guy, oil and water.
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: Thank you? Can you get me on track here?
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: I was on your side, gave you're a mess.
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna get one of these sayings right here, and
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: gad you have me.
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: I was on your side at first.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: However, I've done a one to eighty. I've decided that
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: her girlfriends are correct, and do cut him off because
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: I don't care if you were tired after work, if
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: this is the first impression that you're going to make,
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: if you're meeting them for the first time, and you know,
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: because if it's love at first sight and y'all are together,
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: you know by now that this girl's friends are everything
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: to her. So you better compartmentalize that tiredness. You better
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: compartmentalize whatever happened at work that day, and you better
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: get in the vibe and make a good first impression
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: with these ladies.
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: And he didn't, And I don't like that.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: I don't like that He's got it.
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: You can play ball a little bit it's like you
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: gotta go out and enjoy a billion drinks either, But
• 17:54
  Speaker 4: you can smile and be yeahl and be joyful.
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: You definitely can do.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: And I get that people are tired and have bad
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: days or whatever. This is of first impression.
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: You better figure it out.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, figure out.
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: Exactly. So if you don't, then yeah, cut him off.
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: It's only been a few weeks.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: Life is too short to settle for someone who can't
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: put a happy face on to make things better.
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: I don't like it.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: I'm not a fan. You cut them off, Ellie. I'm
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: totally aware that not everybody agrees with this.
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: Actually is one eighty this whole scenario, he said. I
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: think he should cut her off. She is being dramatic.
• 18:32
  Speaker 4: A group of tipsy girls is always too much.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: Wow. I think about that.
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: Maybe he went into this scenario when I gotta hang
• 18:41
  Speaker 4: out with these slubs, see you.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: I kind of like that one eighty there.
• 18:45
  Speaker 4: Stephanie said, I agree with Gabe from one interaction.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: That's crazy. Just chalk it up. Is a bad evening.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: I don't know if I get that a lot. So
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: that really touched anyone. Agreeing with you really touched my heart.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: I appreciate that.
• 18:59
  Speaker 4: And then finally we did have Julia on Facebook who
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: she was in kind of the same lines of like
• 19:06
  Speaker 4: just chalking up. Julia said, maybe everyone should meet when
• 19:10
  Speaker 4: they're all sober. Cutting them off because of one night
• 19:12
  Speaker 4: is unfair, especially given the situation and alcohol being involved.
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: And you know, that's very mature response, and we've learned
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: Juliet does actually probably give you the best advice on
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: the big ninety eight point seven Facebook. It's very thought
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: out normally, and as Angie and I dive into one
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: extreme or the other.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we've learned that we're very immature and
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: that's why we always need you for am I the problem.
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: Now you're probably seeing a lot of Coachella on your
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: social media and if you're if you're not well, that's
• 19:45
  Speaker 4: fine because.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: You will now your phone is listening.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: We can't talk about it anyway.
• 19:49
  Speaker 4: Coachella Round one or weekend one over Coachella Round two
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: coming up this weekend.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: A lot of people have infomo for missing Weekend one,
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: thinking can I get like a last minute ticket to Coachella?
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: Have you ever been interested in going to Coachella? I
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: don't know if I have.
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: I have been interested. My wallet has not been interested.
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: I'm going to Coachella.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: I'd be fun to do once.
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, the thing is it's so expensive.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: So the real way to do it is to have
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: a brand send you as an influencer for them. That's
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: the way to get to Coachella. Because, let me tell you,
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: if you are looking for last minute tickets to go
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: this weekend general admission, over three thousand dollars for a
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: general admission ticket, stay here in the dirt. If you're
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: trying to find an Airbnb to stay at, over twenty
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: four thousand dollars.
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: To find your thousand, four hundred.
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: No, twenty four thousand dollars.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: If you're at Coachella and your phone is dying and
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: you need to put it in a charging locker, eighty
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: nine dollars.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: If you're hungry and you want to slice a pizza,
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: thirty four dollars.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm out.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, same, I'm out at the Airbnb part unless you
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: get a brand to send you as an influencer for them.
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: So, Gabe, if a brand sent you to Coachella.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Easy, what would that brand be?
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: I'd try to get two to send me, Okay, so
• 21:16
  Speaker 4: one I could represent the clothes you should wear at Coachella.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: One represent the food you should eat.
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: Okay, Flannel co send me away, and then Campbell's soup,
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: send me away. I will eat soup for fifteen days
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: straight at Coachelle in the Desert one hundred percent.
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: That's excellent.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: That's good.
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: That makes sense to me.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Most fit.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: We did post this on the Big ninety eight point
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: seven Facebook page. Julia said that an Espresso or Pop
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: Soda shack could send her as an influencer.
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: Micah said, Chili's.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: I got that's right, Chili's baby bit. I love that answer.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: Alicia said, Celsius, that's a good Celsius might.
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: Actually actually be a coach.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: I would consider doing that for me.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: It would be gold Emblem saltine crackers exclusive to CBS.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: He send me to Coachella. You know that at Coachella
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: you can get a meal. It's one hundred dollars, but
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: it's chicken nuggets with caviar.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: Send me and we'll do gold Emblem saltine crackers with CAB.
• 22:30
  Speaker 4: You bring the gold Emblem saltine crackers. I'll bring the
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: Campbell's chunky soup and we're good to go.
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: We're going to Coachella Baby.
• 22:43
  Speaker 5: Starting off the day with something good. This is Gabe's
• 22:47
  Speaker 5: good news on Big ninety eight point seven. All right,
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: this is great news for West Fargo. The city is
• 22:55
  Speaker 5: going to be getting a little greener this summer cruise.
• 22:58
  Speaker 5: We'll plant one hundred and twenty nine new trees along
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: Ninth Street West, turning the stretch into a more scenic
• 23:06
  Speaker 5: tree lined roadway. The project will take about three to
• 23:10
  Speaker 5: six weeks, and that.
• 23:11
  Speaker 4: Includes a variety of tree species, all maintained and guaranteed
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: for two years.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: And city leaders say it's not just about looks.
• 23:18
  Speaker 4: It's also it's also a proactive step to protect the
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: local tree population from threats like emerald ash boor, which
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: has already been.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: Found nearby in Fargo. So kind of cool.
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: Some tree planting happening over in West Fargo. And there
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: is something about driving down a street.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah that is tree lined. It's just a nice so nice.
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: I think I was over there, you know, I have
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: no sense of direction, but I'm pretty sure I was
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: over there because that's by Dakota Park and I took
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: the kids over there yesterday. Sure, And that'll be nice.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: To have all of the trees.
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: Yeah, one the more trees, the better exact I always say,
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: you know my favorite quote. If you don't hear it,
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: is all right. Broken crayons, they still color. And the
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: world is of nice people. If you can't find one,
• 24:01
  Speaker 4: you gotta be one.