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- 0:37How
- 0:37long
- 0:37does
- 0:38it
- 0:38really
- 0:38take
- 0:38for
- 0:39a
- 0:39stable
- 0:39life
- 0:40to
- 0:40unravel?
- 0:41That's
- 0:42a
- 0:42tough
- 0:42question,
- 0:42isn't
- 0:43it?
- 0:44On
- 0:44this
- 0:44episode,
- 0:45I
- 0:45want
- 0:45to
- 0:45talk
- 0:45about
- 0:45a
- 0:46question
- 0:46that
- 0:46hits
- 0:46deeper
- 0:47than
- 0:47money.
- 0:48A
- 0:48listener
- 0:49recently
- 0:49met
- 0:49a
- 0:50woman
- 0:50who's
- 0:50still
- 0:50trying
- 0:51to
- 0:51recover
- 0:51financially
- 0:52from
- 0:52the
- 0:532008
- 0:53recession.
- 0:55Nearly
- 0:56two
- 0:56decades
- 0:57later,
- 0:58and
- 0:58she's
- 0:58still
- 0:58rebuilding.
- 1:00And
- 1:00hearing
- 1:00that
- 1:01particular
- 1:01story
- 1:01shook
- 1:02this
- 1:02listener
- 1:04because
- 1:04this
- 1:04woman
- 1:04once
- 1:05had
- 1:05what
- 1:05looked
- 1:05like
- 1:05a
- 1:06normal
- 1:06life.
- 1:07She
- 1:08had
- 1:08a
- 1:08career,
- 1:09a
- 1:09home,
- 1:11stability.
- 1:13And
- 1:13then
- 1:13one
- 1:13hard
- 1:14season
- 1:15turned
- 1:15into
- 1:16years
- 1:16of
- 1:16survival.
- 1:18And
- 1:19it
- 1:19raised
- 1:19a
- 1:19really
- 1:19uncomfortable
- 1:20question.
- 1:22If
- 1:22a
- 1:22life
- 1:23can
- 1:23change
- 1:23that
- 1:23fast
- 1:24for
- 1:24someone
- 1:24else,
- 1:26how
- 1:26do
- 1:26I
- 1:27prepare
- 1:27wisely
- 1:27without
- 1:28becoming
- 1:28afraid
- 1:29all
- 1:29the
- 1:29time?
- 1:30That's
- 1:31what
- 1:31we're
- 1:31breaking
- 1:31down
- 1:31on
- 1:32today's
- 1:32show.
- 1:42Hello,
- 1:42friend.
- 1:43Ralph
- 1:43Estep
- 1:44Jr.
- 1:44Here.
- 1:45I
- 1:45want
- 1:45to
- 1:45welcome
- 1:45you
- 1:46to
- 1:46financially
- 1:46Confident
- 1:47Christian.
- 1:48This
- 1:48is
- 1:48the
- 1:48show
- 1:49that
- 1:49helps
- 1:49you
- 1:49handle
- 1:50money
- 1:50with
- 1:50wisdom,
- 1:51with
- 1:51peace,
- 1:52and
- 1:52with
- 1:52purpose.
- 1:54This
- 1:54show
- 1:54is
- 1:54all
- 1:54about
- 1:55breaking
- 1:55that
- 1:55cycle
- 1:56of
- 1:56financial
- 1:56shame
- 1:57and
- 1:58helping
- 1:58you
- 1:58find
- 1:58practical
- 1:59confidence.
- 2:01And
- 2:01today
- 2:01on
- 2:01the
- 2:02show,
- 2:02we're
- 2:02talking
- 2:02about
- 2:02how
- 2:02to
- 2:03prepare
- 2:03for
- 2:03the
- 2:03future
- 2:04without
- 2:04constantly
- 2:05living
- 2:05in
- 2:06fear
- 2:06of
- 2:06losing
- 2:07everything.
- 2:08And
- 2:08we
- 2:09got
- 2:09this
- 2:09voicemail
- 2:09question.
- 2:10When
- 2:10I
- 2:10heard
- 2:10this,
- 2:11I
- 2:11said,
- 2:11the
- 2:11listeners
- 2:12got
- 2:12to
- 2:12hear
- 2:12this.
- 2:12Let's
- 2:13jump
- 2:13right
- 2:13into
- 2:13it.
- 2:14Hey,
- 2:14Ralph,
- 2:15my
- 2:15name
- 2:15is
- 2:15Ricky.
- 2:16Wanted
- 2:17to
- 2:17share
- 2:17you
- 2:17something
- 2:17that's
- 2:18been
- 2:18on
- 2:18my
- 2:18mind.
- 2:19I
- 2:19met
- 2:20someone
- 2:20recently
- 2:20who's
- 2:21been
- 2:21financially
- 2:21struggling
- 2:22since
- 2:22the
- 2:222008
- 2:23recession.
- 2:23And
- 2:24honestly,
- 2:24it
- 2:24shook
- 2:24me.
- 2:26She
- 2:26used
- 2:26to
- 2:26have
- 2:26a
- 2:26stable
- 2:27career,
- 2:27a
- 2:28home,
- 2:28and
- 2:29what
- 2:29sounded
- 2:29like
- 2:29a
- 2:29normal
- 2:30middle
- 2:30class
- 2:30life.
- 2:32Then
- 2:32one
- 2:32crisis
- 2:33led
- 2:33to
- 2:33another
- 2:34and
- 2:34nearly
- 2:34two
- 2:34decades
- 2:35later,
- 2:35she's
- 2:36still
- 2:36trying
- 2:36to
- 2:36recover.
- 2:38Hearing
- 2:38how
- 2:38quickly
- 2:39everything
- 2:39unraveled
- 2:40made
- 2:40me
- 2:40realize
- 2:41how
- 2:41fragile
- 2:41stability
- 2:42can
- 2:42be.
- 2:43I
- 2:44think
- 2:44part
- 2:44of
- 2:44what
- 2:45unsettled
- 2:45me
- 2:45most
- 2:46was
- 2:46realizing
- 2:46how
- 2:47many
- 2:47people
- 2:47are
- 2:47carrying
- 2:48stories
- 2:48like
- 2:48this
- 2:48quietly.
- 2:50It
- 2:50made
- 2:50me
- 2:51wonder
- 2:51how
- 2:51close
- 2:51any
- 2:52of
- 2:52us
- 2:52really
- 2:52are
- 2:52to
- 2:53life
- 2:53completely
- 2:53changing.
- 2:55How
- 2:55do
- 2:55you
- 2:55live
- 2:56wisely
- 2:56and
- 2:56prepare
- 2:57for
- 2:57the
- 2:57future
- 2:57without
- 2:57becoming
- 2:58consumed
- 2:58by
- 2:59fear
- 2:59that
- 2:59one
- 2:59bad
- 3:00season
- 3:00could
- 3:00undo
- 3:01everything?
- 3:03Well,
- 3:03Ricky,
- 3:03let
- 3:04me
- 3:04say
- 3:04this.
- 3:04Thank
- 3:04you
- 3:05so
- 3:05much
- 3:05for
- 3:05sharing
- 3:06that
- 3:06question.
- 3:07It's
- 3:08one
- 3:08of
- 3:08those
- 3:08things
- 3:08that
- 3:09I
- 3:09think
- 3:09a
- 3:09lot
- 3:09of
- 3:10people
- 3:10deal
- 3:10with.
- 3:10We
- 3:10see
- 3:11people
- 3:11around
- 3:11us
- 3:11and
- 3:11we
- 3:12wonder,
- 3:12could
- 3:13that
- 3:13happen
- 3:13to
- 3:13us?
- 3:15And
- 3:15I
- 3:15want
- 3:16to
- 3:16start
- 3:16with
- 3:16today's
- 3:16big
- 3:17idea.
- 3:18Wisdom
- 3:19prepares
- 3:19for
- 3:19hard
- 3:20seasons.
- 3:21That's
- 3:21what
- 3:22wisdom
- 3:22does.
- 3:22Wisdom
- 3:23allows
- 3:23us
- 3:23to
- 3:24prepare
- 3:24for
- 3:24those
- 3:24hard
- 3:24seasons.
- 3:25But
- 3:25fear
- 3:26tries
- 3:26to
- 3:26make
- 3:26you
- 3:27live
- 3:27in
- 3:27them
- 3:27before
- 3:27they
- 3:28arrive.
- 3:29So
- 3:30how
- 3:30do
- 3:30we
- 3:30keep
- 3:30ourselves
- 3:31from
- 3:31living
- 3:32in
- 3:32that
- 3:32fear?
- 3:33The
- 3:34first
- 3:34thing
- 3:34I'm
- 3:34going
- 3:34to
- 3:34encourage
- 3:34you
- 3:35to
- 3:35say,
- 3:36let
- 3:36difficult
- 3:36stories
- 3:37teach
- 3:37you
- 3:38and
- 3:38not
- 3:38terrorize
- 3:39you.
- 3:40The
- 3:40story
- 3:40that
- 3:40you
- 3:41share
- 3:41today
- 3:42can
- 3:43wake
- 3:43us
- 3:43up
- 3:43in
- 3:44a
- 3:44healthy
- 3:44way
- 3:44if
- 3:44we
- 3:44think
- 3:45about
- 3:45it.
- 3:46And
- 3:46that's
- 3:46what
- 3:46we
- 3:47really
- 3:47need
- 3:47to
- 3:47lean
- 3:47on
- 3:47today.
- 3:48What
- 3:48are
- 3:48the
- 3:48things
- 3:48we
- 3:49can
- 3:49learn
- 3:49from
- 3:49this?
- 3:51What
- 3:51are
- 3:51the
- 3:51things
- 3:51that
- 3:52it
- 3:52can
- 3:52remind
- 3:52us
- 3:53of?
- 3:54It
- 3:54can
- 3:54remind
- 3:54all
- 3:54of
- 3:55us
- 3:55that
- 3:55financial
- 3:55hardship
- 3:56is
- 3:56real.
- 3:58What
- 3:58this
- 3:58lady
- 3:58is
- 3:59going
- 3:59through
- 3:59is
- 3:59real.
- 4:00She
- 4:00had
- 4:00the
- 4:01house,
- 4:01she
- 4:01had
- 4:02the
- 4:02career,
- 4:03she
- 4:03had
- 4:03that
- 4:03stability.
- 4:05But
- 4:05then
- 4:05something
- 4:06happened.
- 4:06The
- 4:062008
- 4:07recession
- 4:07hurt
- 4:08a
- 4:08lot
- 4:08of
- 4:08people.
- 4:10Now
- 4:10if
- 4:10we're
- 4:10not
- 4:10careful,
- 4:11it
- 4:11can
- 4:11push
- 4:12us
- 4:12into
- 4:12fear
- 4:12if
- 4:13we
- 4:13don't
- 4:13process
- 4:13those
- 4:14things
- 4:14wisely.
- 4:16Now,
- 4:16I
- 4:16don't
- 4:16know
- 4:16what
- 4:17surrounded
- 4:17this.
- 4:17I
- 4:17don't
- 4:18know
- 4:18what
- 4:18kind
- 4:18of
- 4:18career
- 4:19she
- 4:19was
- 4:19in.
- 4:19I
- 4:19don't
- 4:20know
- 4:20if
- 4:20she
- 4:20was
- 4:20living
- 4:20well
- 4:21beyond
- 4:21her
- 4:21means.
- 4:22I
- 4:22don't
- 4:22know
- 4:22what
- 4:22her
- 4:22margins
- 4:23were.
- 4:24But
- 4:24we
- 4:24got
- 4:25to
- 4:25learn
- 4:25from
- 4:25what
- 4:25happened.
- 4:27We
- 4:27can't
- 4:27start
- 4:28mentally
- 4:28rehearsing
- 4:29disaster
- 4:29every
- 4:30day
- 4:30in
- 4:30our
- 4:30lives.
- 4:32There's
- 4:32a
- 4:32difference
- 4:33between
- 4:33awareness
- 4:34and
- 4:34alarm.
- 4:36Awareness
- 4:36says
- 4:36to
- 4:37us,
- 4:37hey,
- 4:37this
- 4:38could
- 4:38happen.
- 4:40What
- 4:40can
- 4:40we
- 4:40do
- 4:40to
- 4:40prevent
- 4:41it?
- 4:43Alarm
- 4:43makes
- 4:43us
- 4:43go
- 4:44to
- 4:44fear.
- 4:44And
- 4:44what
- 4:44problem
- 4:45is
- 4:45when
- 4:45fear
- 4:45takes
- 4:46over,
- 4:47you
- 4:47don't
- 4:48become
- 4:48wiser,
- 4:49you
- 4:50just
- 4:50become
- 4:50more
- 4:50exhausted.
- 4:52So
- 4:53how
- 4:53do
- 4:53we
- 4:53prevent
- 4:53that?
- 4:55Here's
- 4:55the
- 4:55thing
- 4:55I'm
- 4:55going
- 4:55to
- 4:56start
- 4:56with.
- 4:57You
- 4:57got
- 4:57to
- 4:57build
- 4:57stability
- 4:58one
- 4:58layer
- 4:59at
- 4:59a
- 4:59time.
- 5:00If
- 5:00you
- 5:00caught
- 5:01yesterday's
- 5:01show,
- 5:01I
- 5:01talked
- 5:02about
- 5:02this,
- 5:02you're
- 5:02not
- 5:02going
- 5:02to
- 5:02solve
- 5:03everything
- 5:03today.
- 5:05Don't
- 5:05try
- 5:05to
- 5:06solve
- 5:06every
- 5:06possible
- 5:07risk
- 5:07at
- 5:07once.
- 5:09If
- 5:09you
- 5:09listen
- 5:09to
- 5:10my
- 5:10show,
- 5:10you
- 5:10know,
- 5:10I
- 5:10always
- 5:11say
- 5:11start
- 5:12with
- 5:12that
- 5:12next
- 5:12faithful
- 5:13step.
- 5:14Things
- 5:14like
- 5:15an
- 5:15emergency
- 5:15savings
- 5:16plan,
- 5:17reducing
- 5:18your
- 5:18debt,
- 5:19making
- 5:19sure
- 5:19you've
- 5:19got
- 5:20proper
- 5:20insurance,
- 5:21building
- 5:22those
- 5:22usable
- 5:23skills,
- 5:24building
- 5:25those
- 5:25strong
- 5:25relationships
- 5:26and
- 5:26healthy
- 5:27community
- 5:27people
- 5:27that
- 5:28you
- 5:28can
- 5:28go
- 5:28to
- 5:28when
- 5:28you're
- 5:29struggling,
- 5:30building
- 5:31that
- 5:31resilience,
- 5:32building
- 5:32that
- 5:32armor.
- 5:33They
- 5:33talk
- 5:33about
- 5:33putting
- 5:33on
- 5:33the
- 5:34full
- 5:34armor
- 5:34of
- 5:34God
- 5:35and
- 5:35isn't
- 5:35built
- 5:36in
- 5:36one
- 5:36big
- 5:36move.
- 5:38It's
- 5:38built
- 5:39through
- 5:39small
- 5:39acts
- 5:40of
- 5:40stewardship
- 5:40over
- 5:41time.
- 5:42Just
- 5:42think
- 5:42a
- 5:42piece
- 5:43like
- 5:43an
- 5:43onion
- 5:44just
- 5:44cut,
- 5:45you
- 5:45know,
- 5:45one
- 5:45layer
- 5:46at
- 5:46a
- 5:46time.
- 5:47I'll
- 5:48give
- 5:48you
- 5:48some
- 5:48great
- 5:48examples
- 5:49of
- 5:49that.
- 5:50Saving
- 5:50that
- 5:50first
- 5:51$500
- 5:52or
- 5:52that
- 5:52first
- 5:53thousand
- 5:53dollar
- 5:53emergency
- 5:54cushion.
- 5:55You're
- 5:55not
- 5:55going
- 5:55to
- 5:56do
- 5:56it
- 5:56all
- 5:56today,
- 5:57but
- 5:57you
- 5:58can
- 5:58get
- 5:58to
- 5:58that
- 5:58point.
- 5:59We
- 6:00talked
- 6:00on
- 6:00this
- 6:00show
- 6:00before
- 6:01about
- 6:01renewing
- 6:01your
- 6:02reviewing
- 6:02your
- 6:03insurance
- 6:03deductibles
- 6:04and
- 6:04making
- 6:04sure
- 6:04you've
- 6:05got
- 6:05the
- 6:05correct
- 6:05coverage.
- 6:07You
- 6:07mentioned
- 6:08that
- 6:08her
- 6:08career
- 6:08had
- 6:08an
- 6:08issue.
- 6:09So
- 6:09maybe
- 6:09you
- 6:10need
- 6:10to
- 6:10update
- 6:10your
- 6:11resume,
- 6:12always
- 6:12be
- 6:12on
- 6:13top
- 6:13of
- 6:13that.
- 6:14Maybe
- 6:15find
- 6:15that
- 6:16expense
- 6:16that
- 6:16keeps
- 6:17recurring
- 6:17and
- 6:18finding
- 6:18out
- 6:18ways
- 6:18to
- 6:19save
- 6:19money.
- 6:20And
- 6:20like
- 6:20I
- 6:21said
- 6:21earlier,
- 6:21building
- 6:21that
- 6:22strong
- 6:22support
- 6:22system
- 6:23instead
- 6:23of
- 6:24trying
- 6:24to
- 6:24carry
- 6:25everything
- 6:25alone.
- 6:28But
- 6:28even
- 6:28when
- 6:29you
- 6:29build
- 6:29those
- 6:29layers,
- 6:30there's
- 6:31something
- 6:31else
- 6:31you
- 6:31got
- 6:32to
- 6:32accept.
- 6:34You
- 6:34got
- 6:34to
- 6:34stop
- 6:35expecting
- 6:35absolute
- 6:36security
- 6:36from
- 6:37money.
- 6:39This
- 6:39is
- 6:39one
- 6:39of
- 6:39the
- 6:40hardest
- 6:40truths
- 6:40in
- 6:40personal
- 6:41finance.
- 6:42So
- 6:43many
- 6:43people
- 6:43think,
- 6:43well,
- 6:44you
- 6:44know,
- 6:44if
- 6:44I
- 6:45get
- 6:45so
- 6:45much
- 6:45money,
- 6:46I'll
- 6:46have
- 6:46security,
- 6:48friend.
- 6:48There
- 6:49is
- 6:49no
- 6:49plan
- 6:50on
- 6:50the
- 6:50planet
- 6:51that
- 6:51removes
- 6:51all
- 6:51risk.
- 6:53There
- 6:53just
- 6:53isn't.
- 6:54I
- 6:54don't
- 6:54have
- 6:54any
- 6:55magic,
- 6:55I
- 6:55don't
- 6:56have
- 6:56any
- 6:56simple
- 6:56solution
- 6:57to
- 6:57do
- 6:57this.
- 6:57There
- 6:57is
- 6:58no
- 6:58plan
- 6:59that
- 6:59remove
- 6:59all
- 7:00risk.
- 7:00There
- 7:01is
- 7:01no
- 7:01income
- 7:02level
- 7:02that
- 7:02guarantees
- 7:03permanent
- 7:04stability.
- 7:05There
- 7:05are
- 7:05people
- 7:06that
- 7:06are
- 7:06making
- 7:06millions
- 7:07of
- 7:07dollars
- 7:07that
- 7:07get
- 7:07wiped
- 7:08out
- 7:08in
- 7:08an
- 7:08instant.
- 7:10There's
- 7:10no
- 7:10certain
- 7:11amount
- 7:11that
- 7:11works
- 7:11at
- 7:12that.
- 7:12There's
- 7:13no
- 7:13amount
- 7:13of
- 7:13preparation
- 7:14that
- 7:14gives
- 7:14you
- 7:15total
- 7:15control.
- 7:17Things
- 7:17happen
- 7:17beyond
- 7:18your
- 7:18control.
- 7:19But
- 7:20financial
- 7:20maturity,
- 7:21and
- 7:21that's
- 7:21what
- 7:21we
- 7:21need
- 7:21to
- 7:21be
- 7:21striving
- 7:22towards,
- 7:23financial
- 7:24maturity
- 7:25means
- 7:25preparing
- 7:25wisely
- 7:26without
- 7:26pretending
- 7:27you
- 7:27can
- 7:27control
- 7:27everything.
- 7:28Because
- 7:28listen
- 7:29to
- 7:29me,
- 7:30you
- 7:30can't
- 7:30control
- 7:31everything.
- 7:33And
- 7:33your
- 7:33peace
- 7:34can't
- 7:34come
- 7:34from
- 7:34this
- 7:35illusion
- 7:35of
- 7:35total
- 7:36control.
- 7:38Peace
- 7:38comes
- 7:39from
- 7:39stewardship
- 7:40and
- 7:40from
- 7:40trust.
- 7:43Prayer
- 7:43and
- 7:44planning
- 7:44belong
- 7:45together.
- 7:48Financial
- 7:48confidence
- 7:49doesn't
- 7:49come
- 7:49from
- 7:49controlling
- 7:50everything.
- 7:52It
- 7:52comes
- 7:52from
- 7:52handling
- 7:53what
- 7:53you
- 7:53can
- 7:53with
- 7:53wisdom
- 7:54and
- 7:55entrusting
- 7:55the
- 7:55rest
- 7:56to
- 7:56God.
- 7:58That's
- 7:58the
- 7:58big
- 7:58thing
- 7:58here.
- 8:00And
- 8:00that
- 8:00also
- 8:01changes
- 8:01the
- 8:01way
- 8:01we
- 8:01look
- 8:02at
- 8:02people
- 8:02who've
- 8:02gone
- 8:03through
- 8:03painful
- 8:03seasons.
- 8:06You
- 8:06got
- 8:06to
- 8:07remember
- 8:07this,
- 8:07and
- 8:07I
- 8:07think
- 8:07you're
- 8:08falling
- 8:08into
- 8:08this
- 8:08a
- 8:08little
- 8:09bit,
- 8:09Ricky.
- 8:10You
- 8:10got
- 8:10to
- 8:10remember
- 8:11that
- 8:11people
- 8:11are
- 8:11more
- 8:12than
- 8:12their
- 8:12worst
- 8:12season.
- 8:14That
- 8:15woman's
- 8:15story
- 8:15is
- 8:15sad.
- 8:16I
- 8:16can
- 8:16only
- 8:17imagine
- 8:18the
- 8:18terror
- 8:18that
- 8:19she's
- 8:19gone
- 8:19through.
- 8:21But
- 8:21even
- 8:21that
- 8:22isn't
- 8:22her
- 8:22whole
- 8:23identity.
- 8:23That
- 8:24hardship
- 8:24isn't
- 8:25her
- 8:25whole
- 8:25identity.
- 8:28People
- 8:28like
- 8:28me
- 8:28and
- 8:29you
- 8:29and
- 8:29other
- 8:29people
- 8:30listening
- 8:30or
- 8:30watching
- 8:30right
- 8:31now
- 8:31go
- 8:31through
- 8:31long
- 8:32recoveries
- 8:33from
- 8:33struggles.
- 8:35And
- 8:35yeah,
- 8:36some
- 8:36losses
- 8:36change
- 8:37a
- 8:37lifetime,
- 8:38a
- 8:38time
- 8:38of
- 8:39life
- 8:39in
- 8:39painful
- 8:40ways.
- 8:40But
- 8:40a
- 8:40difficult
- 8:41season
- 8:41isn't
- 8:42the
- 8:42end
- 8:42of
- 8:42a
- 8:42person's
- 8:43story.
- 8:43So
- 8:44you
- 8:44got
- 8:44to
- 8:44be
- 8:44real
- 8:44careful
- 8:45not
- 8:45to
- 8:45turn
- 8:46to
- 8:46someone
- 8:46else's
- 8:47struggle
- 8:47into
- 8:47that
- 8:48constant
- 8:48fear
- 8:49narrative
- 8:49in
- 8:49your
- 8:49own
- 8:50life.
- 8:52It's
- 8:52okay
- 8:52to
- 8:53feel
- 8:53compassion
- 8:53for
- 8:54them,
- 8:55but
- 8:55allow
- 8:56that
- 8:56to
- 8:56produce
- 8:56wisdom.
- 8:58But
- 8:58don't
- 8:58let
- 8:58it
- 8:58convince
- 8:59you
- 8:59that
- 8:59hope
- 8:59is
- 8:59gone.
- 9:01Even
- 9:01in
- 9:02her
- 9:02story,
- 9:03there
- 9:03is
- 9:04still
- 9:04recovery.
- 9:05And
- 9:06recovery
- 9:07is
- 9:07strong.
- 9:09And
- 9:10if
- 9:10you're
- 9:10not
- 9:10careful,
- 9:12fear
- 9:12is
- 9:12going
- 9:13to
- 9:13move
- 9:13from
- 9:13being
- 9:13a
- 9:14thought
- 9:14into
- 9:14becoming
- 9:15a
- 9:15way
- 9:15of
- 9:15life.
- 9:17So
- 9:17you've
- 9:18got
- 9:18to
- 9:18start
- 9:18thinking
- 9:18about
- 9:19how
- 9:19do
- 9:19you
- 9:19protect
- 9:20your
- 9:20mind
- 9:20from
- 9:20fear
- 9:21based
- 9:21living?
- 9:22This
- 9:22is
- 9:22an
- 9:22epidemic
- 9:23right
- 9:23now.
- 9:24So
- 9:24many
- 9:25People
- 9:25are
- 9:25living
- 9:25in
- 9:26constant
- 9:26fear
- 9:27and
- 9:27fear
- 9:28can
- 9:28make
- 9:28you
- 9:28obsessive.
- 9:29You
- 9:30will
- 9:30obsess
- 9:30about
- 9:31every
- 9:31single
- 9:31thing
- 9:32in
- 9:32your
- 9:32life.
- 9:32It
- 9:32makes
- 9:33you
- 9:33become
- 9:33hyper
- 9:34vigilant.
- 9:35You're
- 9:35constantly
- 9:36scanning
- 9:36for
- 9:36those
- 9:37worst
- 9:37case
- 9:37scenarios,
- 9:39what's
- 9:39the
- 9:39worst
- 9:39that
- 9:40can
- 9:40happen?
- 9:40And
- 9:41you
- 9:41start
- 9:41to
- 9:41live
- 9:41in
- 9:41that
- 9:42reality
- 9:42and
- 9:43it
- 9:43steals
- 9:43the
- 9:43joy
- 9:44from
- 9:44ordinary
- 9:45life.
- 9:47And
- 9:47it
- 9:48can
- 9:48make
- 9:48wise
- 9:48planning
- 9:49feel
- 9:49like
- 9:49some
- 9:49emotional
- 9:50panic
- 9:51all
- 9:51the
- 9:51time.
- 9:53So
- 9:53if
- 9:53your
- 9:54preparation
- 9:54is
- 9:54making
- 9:55you
- 9:55feel
- 9:55frantic
- 9:56all
- 9:56the
- 9:56time,
- 9:56friends,
- 9:56something
- 9:57is
- 9:57off.
- 9:59You
- 9:59shouldn't
- 9:59live
- 9:59in
- 10:00this
- 10:00constant
- 10:00state
- 10:00of
- 10:01pressure
- 10:01and
- 10:02fear.
- 10:04If
- 10:04you're
- 10:04really
- 10:04being
- 10:05wise
- 10:05with
- 10:05your
- 10:06stewardship,
- 10:06wise
- 10:07with
- 10:07your
- 10:07planning,
- 10:08it
- 10:08should
- 10:08produce
- 10:09clarity,
- 10:10not
- 10:11more
- 10:11chaos,
- 10:13steadiness,
- 10:15not
- 10:15some
- 10:16constant
- 10:16torment
- 10:17of
- 10:17what's
- 10:17going
- 10:17to
- 10:17happen
- 10:18next.
- 10:20Preparation
- 10:20should
- 10:21help
- 10:21you
- 10:21stand
- 10:21firm,
- 10:22not
- 10:23live
- 10:23scared.
- 10:25But
- 10:25now
- 10:26you're
- 10:26probably
- 10:26saying,
- 10:26ralph,
- 10:26that
- 10:27sounds
- 10:27good
- 10:27dude,
- 10:27but
- 10:28how
- 10:28can
- 10:28I
- 10:29guard
- 10:29my
- 10:29mind
- 10:29against
- 10:30these
- 10:30things?
- 10:31I
- 10:31want
- 10:31to
- 10:32give
- 10:32you
- 10:32some
- 10:32real
- 10:32practical
- 10:33things,
- 10:33one
- 10:33of
- 10:33the
- 10:33big
- 10:34ones.
- 10:34We
- 10:34talk
- 10:34about
- 10:34this
- 10:34on
- 10:35the
- 10:35show
- 10:35all
- 10:35the
- 10:35time.
- 10:36You
- 10:36got
- 10:36to
- 10:36stop
- 10:36that
- 10:37doom
- 10:37scrolling
- 10:38and
- 10:38that
- 10:39fear
- 10:39driven
- 10:39financial
- 10:40content.
- 10:41You
- 10:41just
- 10:41got
- 10:41to
- 10:42stop
- 10:42comparing
- 10:42yourself
- 10:43to
- 10:43everybody
- 10:43else's
- 10:45set
- 10:45that
- 10:46simple
- 10:46schedule
- 10:47for
- 10:47money
- 10:47check
- 10:48ins.
- 10:48Instead
- 10:48of
- 10:49worrying
- 10:49all
- 10:49the
- 10:49time
- 10:49to
- 10:50say,
- 10:50listen,
- 10:50I'm
- 10:50not
- 10:50going
- 10:50to
- 10:50worry
- 10:50about
- 10:51this
- 10:51right
- 10:51now.
- 10:51I'm
- 10:52going
- 10:52to
- 10:52have
- 10:52my
- 10:52check
- 10:52in
- 10:53later
- 10:53this
- 10:53week.
- 10:53We'll
- 10:54see
- 10:54how
- 10:54things
- 10:54are
- 10:55going.
- 10:56Write
- 10:56down
- 10:56the
- 10:56plan
- 10:57so
- 10:57your
- 10:57mind
- 10:58doesn't
- 10:58keep
- 10:58inventing
- 10:59one
- 11:01and
- 11:01talk
- 11:01to
- 11:02God
- 11:02honestly
- 11:02about
- 11:03what
- 11:03you
- 11:03fear.
- 11:03It's
- 11:04okay
- 11:04to
- 11:04say
- 11:04to
- 11:05God,
- 11:05dad,
- 11:05I
- 11:05don't
- 11:06understand
- 11:06this.
- 11:08Help
- 11:08me
- 11:09understand
- 11:09this
- 11:11and
- 11:11bring
- 11:12in
- 11:12your
- 11:12spouse,
- 11:12bring
- 11:13in
- 11:13your
- 11:13friend,
- 11:13that
- 11:14counselor
- 11:14or
- 11:14that
- 11:15advisor
- 11:15if
- 11:16the
- 11:16anxiety
- 11:16is
- 11:17driving
- 11:17your
- 11:18thinking.
- 11:19But
- 11:20I
- 11:20want
- 11:20to
- 11:20take
- 11:20this
- 11:20little
- 11:21deeper
- 11:22because
- 11:22may
- 11:23really
- 11:23be
- 11:24haunting
- 11:24you
- 11:24right
- 11:24now
- 11:25is
- 11:25the
- 11:25thought
- 11:25that
- 11:25life
- 11:26can
- 11:26change
- 11:26faster
- 11:27than
- 11:27you're
- 11:27ready
- 11:27for.
- 11:29That
- 11:30one
- 11:30crisis
- 11:30you're
- 11:31not
- 11:31expecting,
- 11:32that
- 11:33that
- 11:33economic
- 11:33recession,
- 11:34that
- 11:34loss,
- 11:35that
- 11:35one
- 11:35phone
- 11:35call
- 11:36you
- 11:36get
- 11:37and
- 11:38suddenly
- 11:38the
- 11:38future
- 11:39you
- 11:39thought
- 11:39was
- 11:39stable
- 11:40feels
- 11:40fragile.
- 11:43But
- 11:43I
- 11:43want
- 11:43you
- 11:43to
- 11:44hear
- 11:44me
- 11:44clearly
- 11:44on
- 11:44this.
- 11:46Your
- 11:46life
- 11:46is
- 11:47not
- 11:47ultimately
- 11:47held
- 11:48together
- 11:48by
- 11:48your
- 11:49ability
- 11:49to
- 11:49prevent
- 11:50every
- 11:50hard
- 11:50season.
- 11:52Yes,
- 11:53wisdom
- 11:53matters,
- 11:54planning
- 11:54matters,
- 11:55preparation
- 11:56matters.
- 11:57But
- 11:58friend,
- 11:58God
- 11:58never
- 11:59asked
- 11:59you
- 11:59to
- 11:59carry
- 11:59tomorrow
- 12:00as
- 12:00if
- 12:01you
- 12:01were
- 12:01the
- 12:01provider.
- 12:03God
- 12:03calls
- 12:04all
- 12:04of
- 12:04us
- 12:04to
- 12:04be
- 12:04faithful
- 12:05today,
- 12:06to
- 12:06prepare
- 12:07wisely
- 12:07today,
- 12:08and
- 12:08to
- 12:08trust
- 12:09him
- 12:09today.
- 12:11And
- 12:11fear
- 12:12loses
- 12:12some
- 12:12of
- 12:12its
- 12:12power
- 12:13when
- 12:13you
- 12:13stop
- 12:13treating
- 12:14uncertainty
- 12:15like
- 12:15proof
- 12:15that
- 12:15God
- 12:16will
- 12:16fail
- 12:16you.
- 12:17God
- 12:17is
- 12:17never
- 12:17going
- 12:17to
- 12:18fail
- 12:18you.
- 12:20He
- 12:20just
- 12:20won't.
- 12:22So
- 12:22ask
- 12:22him,
- 12:23help
- 12:23him
- 12:23to
- 12:24prepare
- 12:24you
- 12:24wisely
- 12:25without
- 12:25letting
- 12:25fear
- 12:25take
- 12:26over
- 12:26your
- 12:26heart
- 12:26and
- 12:27your
- 12:27life.
- 12:29That
- 12:30preparation
- 12:30we
- 12:30talked
- 12:31about
- 12:31today
- 12:31creates
- 12:32steadiness.
- 12:33That
- 12:34fear
- 12:35only
- 12:35creates
- 12:35exhaustion
- 12:36in
- 12:36your
- 12:36life.
- 12:37So
- 12:38here's
- 12:38your
- 12:38win
- 12:38for
- 12:38today.
- 12:39I
- 12:39want
- 12:39you
- 12:39to
- 12:39write
- 12:39down
- 12:40one
- 12:40layer.
- 12:40We
- 12:40talked
- 12:40about
- 12:41one
- 12:41layer.
- 12:42I
- 12:42want
- 12:42you
- 12:42to
- 12:42write
- 12:43down
- 12:43one
- 12:43layer
- 12:43of
- 12:44stability
- 12:44you
- 12:44want
- 12:44to
- 12:45strengthen
- 12:45this
- 12:45week.
- 12:46Just
- 12:46one.
- 12:47Maybe
- 12:47it's
- 12:47that
- 12:48savings
- 12:48layer,
- 12:49paying
- 12:49down
- 12:50debt,
- 12:50making
- 12:51sure
- 12:51you've
- 12:51got
- 12:51adequate
- 12:52insurance,
- 12:53building
- 12:53up
- 12:53those
- 12:54skills.
- 12:54Or
- 12:54hey,
- 12:54maybe
- 12:55it's
- 12:55finding
- 12:55that
- 12:55support
- 12:56person
- 12:56that
- 12:56you
- 12:56can
- 12:56go
- 12:57to
- 12:58and
- 12:58focus
- 12:59on
- 12:59building
- 12:59that,
- 13:00not
- 13:00on
- 13:00catastrophizing
- 13:01everything
- 13:02around
- 13:02you.
- 13:03Just
- 13:04choose
- 13:04that
- 13:04one
- 13:04thing
- 13:05and
- 13:05work
- 13:05on
- 13:05strengthening
- 13:06this
- 13:06week.
- 13:07Let's
- 13:07get
- 13:07to
- 13:08our
- 13:08Bible
- 13:08verse
- 13:08Today
- 13:08comes
- 13:09from
- 13:09the
- 13:09book
- 13:09of
- 13:09Matthew,
- 13:10chapter
- 13:106,
- 13:11verse
- 13:1134.
- 13:12It
- 13:13says,
- 13:13Therefore
- 13:14do
- 13:14not
- 13:14worry
- 13:14about
- 13:15tomorrow,
- 13:16for
- 13:16tomorrow
- 13:17will
- 13:17worry
- 13:17about
- 13:18itself.
- 13:19Each
- 13:19day
- 13:20has
- 13:20enough
- 13:20trouble
- 13:20of
- 13:21its
- 13:21own.
- 13:22What
- 13:22a
- 13:23perfect
- 13:23scripture
- 13:23for
- 13:24today.
- 13:26We
- 13:26can't
- 13:26worry
- 13:26about
- 13:26tomorrow,
- 13:27friend.
- 13:28We
- 13:28can't
- 13:28worry
- 13:28about
- 13:29next
- 13:29week.
- 13:30God
- 13:30calls
- 13:31us
- 13:31to
- 13:31live
- 13:31wisely
- 13:32in
- 13:32today,
- 13:32in
- 13:33the
- 13:33present,
- 13:33without
- 13:34being
- 13:34consumed
- 13:35by
- 13:35fear
- 13:35about
- 13:36the
- 13:36future.
- 13:38God
- 13:39will
- 13:39give
- 13:39you
- 13:39enough
- 13:39daily
- 13:40bread
- 13:40for
- 13:40today.
- 13:41How
- 13:41about
- 13:41we
- 13:41pray
- 13:41together?
- 13:43Heavenly
- 13:43Father,
- 13:44I
- 13:44lift
- 13:45up
- 13:45the
- 13:45person
- 13:45who's
- 13:45carrying
- 13:46fear
- 13:46about
- 13:46the
- 13:46future
- 13:47right
- 13:47now.
- 13:48And
- 13:48Lord,
- 13:49you
- 13:49know
- 13:49how
- 13:49fragile
- 13:50life
- 13:50can
- 13:50sometimes
- 13:51feel
- 13:51to
- 13:51all
- 13:51of
- 13:52us.
- 13:53You
- 13:53know
- 13:53the
- 13:53uncertainty.
- 13:55You
- 13:55know
- 13:55that
- 13:55weight
- 13:56on
- 13:56our
- 13:56hearts,
- 13:56Lord.
- 13:58So
- 13:58give
- 13:58us
- 13:58wisdom
- 13:59to
- 13:59prepare
- 13:59well
- 14:00without
- 14:00becoming
- 14:00trapped
- 14:01in
- 14:01fear.
- 14:02Help
- 14:03us
- 14:03to
- 14:03build
- 14:03steady
- 14:04habits
- 14:04and
- 14:04healthy
- 14:05foundations.
- 14:06And
- 14:07most
- 14:07of
- 14:07all,
- 14:07resilient
- 14:08faith.
- 14:10Protect
- 14:10our
- 14:10minds
- 14:11from
- 14:11anxiety
- 14:11that
- 14:12steals
- 14:12our
- 14:12peace
- 14:12before
- 14:13problems
- 14:13even
- 14:13arrive
- 14:14in
- 14:14our
- 14:14lives,
- 14:15Lord.
- 14:15And
- 14:16remind
- 14:16us
- 14:17that
- 14:18you
- 14:18are
- 14:18faithful
- 14:19in
- 14:19every
- 14:19season
- 14:19of
- 14:20life,
- 14:21including
- 14:21those
- 14:21difficult
- 14:22ones.
- 14:24And
- 14:24ultimately
- 14:24help
- 14:25us
- 14:25all
- 14:25to
- 14:25remember
- 14:25that
- 14:26our
- 14:26security
- 14:26isn't
- 14:27found
- 14:27in
- 14:27having
- 14:27complete
- 14:28control,
- 14:28Lord,
- 14:30but
- 14:30in
- 14:30walking
- 14:30with
- 14:31you,
- 14:31whatever
- 14:32comes
- 14:32our
- 14:32way.
- 14:34And
- 14:34I
- 14:34ask
- 14:34this
- 14:34in
- 14:35Jesus
- 14:35name,
- 14:36Amen,
- 14:39friend.
- 14:39Wisdom
- 14:40prepares
- 14:40for
- 14:40the
- 14:40future.
- 14:42Fear
- 14:43tries
- 14:43to
- 14:43live
- 14:43there
- 14:44early.
- 14:45So
- 14:46take
- 14:46that
- 14:46next
- 14:46faithful
- 14:47step.
- 14:47Not
- 14:48that
- 14:48panic
- 14:48one
- 14:49and
- 14:49if
- 14:49you'd
- 14:49like
- 14:49to
- 14:49share
- 14:50your
- 14:50story
- 14:50or
- 14:51ask
- 14:51a
- 14:51question,
- 14:52you
- 14:52can
- 14:52leave
- 14:52me
- 14:52a
- 14:52voicemail
- 14:53just
- 14:53like
- 14:53Ricky
- 14:54did
- 14:54today.
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