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Inspiring Human Potential Inner Growth 5D Self-Empowered Enlightenment Time · Inspiring Human Potential

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Lovely, Enlightenment, Soul age group is able to contemplate in
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a way that has the integrated brain.
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And so here's where compassion is in the Forefront and that
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would be where there's the ability to no differentiation
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while exchanging. Actions with others who are in
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this regulated and or modulated embodied selves.
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And so those would be the individuals who are not yet in
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their restorative, embodied self.
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And so they're not in Oneness with that term Akash.
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And so this safety, this sense of safety, that the body of you
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your own feminine actually will have In the moment that you have
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been able to provide a Shiva of life.
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So Darkness, meaning nothing has meaning.
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Even in the absence of any aspect, I the person you who
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breathed the breath of you, but this is where it's in a mature
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masculine and feminine body and mind.
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So secure attachment is actually something that you You will
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either have or not. If you do.
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This means that you are again he's and if you're not at ease,
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when exchanging different types of conversations, you are
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learning how to work. With the fact that our nervous
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systems communicate with each other and would be the mature,
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feminine with their own mature masculine, as we've been
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discussing throughout the entire first.
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Order of our lovely 2023. Is that those of you who are in
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the enlightenment, so age group, and or those of you who are at
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your 5D, so self-empowered enlightened with a mature,
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feminine, mature masculine, you're working on the Mastery of
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the physical that would be in your interactions with people.
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So you're walking the walk and talking the talk and socializing
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with. With your over Soul.
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So our over soul will be a blend of people from our life.
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So that would be all the people, you know?
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And so here's where it's colleagues.
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It's family, its friends, it's people even like my attachment
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style friend, right? Or twin flame.
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So, mates, they create certain types of situations that we get
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to work through. And at this point in this,
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lovely 2023. If you are in one of this
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consciousness, This means that you do have the meaning of your
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own life present and it is with, or without others, if you will.
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And what this means simply put is that a person's thoughts or
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feelings, a society's thoughts, our feelings, the external
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opinion of you as a person, okay?
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So it's where it's in a state of.
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Equanimity you here with open ears when people I'll talk to
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and society and when there's transference or there's a state
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of non-trust of defensiveness. Those are the dysregulated and
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modulated, embodied, individuals, or individuals who
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have their own personal stuff that gets into the equation
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together as a group or independently, okay?
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I'm giving you different scenarios because there's
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different scenarios for different ones of you and the
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Jeez are quite important around right now.
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I mean, they're always important, but from what I had
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read of the astrology, this is where, for those of you who are
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again becoming more of the Sea of yourself at the very least,
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okay? So you're feeling in flow, if
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you are in expansion mode and it means that when you're faced,
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with those who are not yet in flow, you have compassion.
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And if that's not Something easy, then you're still working
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to become more of the person, you want to be with your loved
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ones. And with society and with
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everyone and every one means every single, one of those
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things that is disrupted. And so when I think of, you
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know, governments are doing and or just things being endangered
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physical danger, I move to, okay, there's disruption, but
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let's keep it one on one here. Because it's all about
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interpersonal relationships. Since we're talking about
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personal development, those are the focuses of our episodes is
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about one's own inner growth. Journey.and about you becoming
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more of yourself from your heart.
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And in a way that obviously works with Society.
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So the systems at place, you know, you participate like
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anybody else, you vote, you decide if you can and if you're,
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you know, hopefully in a country where you for now, can't I hope
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that you can move your country in these specific arenas.
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I know that for me, it ain't perfect.
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When I look at the external and the way that it works because
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there's not love, I don't see that.
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I see ego and countries that are disregarding the fact that, you
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know it's one globe and there's only so much air and water and
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food. And or anyways, there's just so
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much more of importance and they seem to not move in a direction
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that involves. Let us ensure that we were On
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things in a way that is smart, stable, mature, that active
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teachable, you know, and rational.
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And although some people think it's impossible for countries to
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get along, I would say that if that was the case we wouldn't
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have had a whole department of political science and
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international relations and diplomacy nor would we have
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moved, you know, it's a different spaces but we're
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always a work in progress. Both The Human Experience and
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the Global Experience. So that's again, focus in on
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your relationships or at this point in time, growing if you've
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moved into your own ability to know that unconditional love is
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where we can actually in a safe space exchange or heated debates
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and have these very important conversations and the reality is
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that's where Humanity misses the point when they're looking at.
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In an out-group, but they're not really thinking.
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So when people have identified a group that they fit in, that's
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where the belonging that's why we have separation, and it isn't
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going to be something that comes to an end at least not right
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now. Right now is a time of
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transformation. So for the lovely HP Community,
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we want to be in the space of supporting people to have very
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beautiful conversations and so Oh, that's where by being able
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to genuinely be interested because that's what makes you
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that indictments will age group. If you've moved into it or a
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person who does care about your loved ones and understands that
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you get to be in that seat of their your quality controls.
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If you haven't yet moved completely into a person who can
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be your own agent, okay? So your own differentiate
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itself, this would mean where you still are getting when
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people have different opinions. Might still get upset.
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Okay, stuff like that. So I'll use me for an example.
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And when I'm finding myself in any type of situation, where I
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have conversations that get charged, I'm practicing to stay
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at ease because I know that the nervous systems and nervous
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systems are communicating. So this is where again, the
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physical elements is what we get to bring two more Equanimity.
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As we have, Been saying and this is not because of twin flames or
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soulmates necessarily. It's because of year after year,
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after year, after year of whoever you are all doing in.
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At this time, you will have chosen to be in a state of
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compassion, from your own body. Instead of, in one of, I will
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create rupture. You are person those who are
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able to basically be at ease with people being offensive and
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mean and whatever. Or just, you know again people
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do get passionate when it's something important.
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So this is very beautiful when you see people, you love
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passionate about what they are thinking about and sharing with
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you, what is a moment of life. So here's where loved ones,
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whether dysregulated modulated or restorative, we love and
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engage with care because that's the whole point.
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You have an intimate relationship with them when it
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comes to society, we speaking, here's where I I personally see
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how ineffective dysregulated modulated speakers are.
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And this is where I find them very ineffective because they
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are taken over by their limbic system and their ego self is,
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what is in that area of immaturity, though?
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It's not because once they're equanimous, they don't have an
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ego self. Now, I will have seen and I've
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shared with you more than once those who are in positions,
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where they're in there in light mental age group, most likely I
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can see where they stand as they speak and share, whatever it is
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that they're speaking and sharing about.
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So, yes, as I've been pointed out multiple times, we all have
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an opinion and so whether you say nicely or not, we all will
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stand somewhere. And that's the part though of
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where the person who is in there 5 DC in the enlightenment still
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age group, we have only one care which is to create.
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A very optimal situation that can expand Consciousness, so
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that can stay within the realm of we're presence.
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We were tuned, we might not resonate apples and oranges,
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fuck you, fuck you, but we'll stay and engage because that's
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what can bring us to a next step.
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And so the more of people that can be in Equanimity as they
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address important, topics 5, See of the Enlightenment.
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So age group is doing that at this time as we speak and So
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within their own, you know, loved ones.
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We get to their quality quote-unquote control because
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they actually give us the opportunity to put into practice
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what I just said those who are not here just yet.
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And so that would be the people who, actually, I think we'll
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have. I think you're practicing your
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emotional realm is what I'm trying to get.
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Get to that would be where you have moved out of blinders,
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completely, and into what is compassion, you know, the
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difference between basically becoming merged with another and
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or group and that would be where you're being used quote on
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quote. And these would be masculine
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zandor immature. Feminine is who have moved into
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visibility of your Actual empowered self and that's
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something beautiful. And so what it means to me, as
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somebody who has been channeling as well for my community is that
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you are going to learn. If you're going to keep taking
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those steps to surround yourself with that, which matters
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emotionally to you, those who fulfill and allow you to
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actually, Move into a more mature version of yourself as
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well. And the other parts that wanted
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to come through, which I was not able to share or that when I see
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4D talking about the Twin Flame over so soul mate stuff.
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It really it's really something sad to see that people will
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actually think of their loved ones as making poor choices for
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themselves versus have Compersion and that would be
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where you're happy for your loved ones for finding people,
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that will allow them to live. The life that they've chosen a
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person is not able to recognize their own fear, their own anger,
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their own judgments, their own wounds and their own patterns in
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a way that allows them to move to compassion towards themselves
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and then to appreciate their connections.
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Okay, if a person does not see this, a blind man is a blind
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man. A blind woman who's applying
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woman. And here's why.
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When said, Guru says, we don't choose to impose.
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I mean, he's using a different word and that's because, again,
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he's a spirituality Guru, I'm a person who's leading in the way
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of. Here's your human consciousness,
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your brains potential to evaluate something and it goes.
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Out of the line. So it's something that moves
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Beyond Duality completely and in neutrality, that's the inner
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growth mindset. So if you can do that, then
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you're looking at it in fact on a logically and not digitally.
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And so this is why we're not in the 12.
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We're in the wait a minute. So when you look at it with the
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fact that every person has a beginning, their attachment
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wounds, their attachment history, all of that matters.
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They will also have a drive I've that will lead their temperament
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and there will be a narrative and Yeti idea.
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So there's every person has a beginning.
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We don't need to believe in anything for that to be it
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because our entire Mental Health Community has answers for why
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are we begin again? It's regulated modulated and
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restorative and body itself plus the Neuroscience just, you know,
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become a somatic experiencing practitioner or somatics
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practitioner, you learn all of it.
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In fact, somatic sites is the most complete.
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Out of all of the courses that I've taken, that one looks at
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everything. I do think that.
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Dan Siegel is important to though, with his interpersonal
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neurobiology because that is what gets you to understand how
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we are created and how the embodied brain works.
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And that's very important because you are an embodied
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brain, but the body. So the embodied brain.
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I'd say it's more that masking if we want and then the body is
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the feminine but they are always together anyways.
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So what I was trying to get at is when I see the The 4D people
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talking about the different so contracts and all this stuff
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there, dehumanizing people. There also basically creating a
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judgment and opinion on other people's lives and what they're
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choosing to do. And this is all based on the
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idea that they know what's best for other people.
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And so here's where they are in modulated.
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This regulated embodied selves and they are in the adopted
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child emotionally speaking. Chose.
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I know how to define. Yes or no.
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I'm, that's the black and white thinking.
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And that's the part about there being unforgiving, all these
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things and creating therefore rupture, and this is where
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there's an automatic body that shows an in-group versus an
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out-group. And, you know, seeing things and
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separate this is separation Consciousness.
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So people are living it. They're not the ones tuning in
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here and they're not the ones who are looking to figure out
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how to just have basically building.
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People work it out. Meaning yeah, there's not this
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possibility for some people. That's what I'm trying to get at
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so long story short, though. There's no reason for the 40
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Community to keep on doing what they're doing, even though they
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will. Because again, here's where
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belonging and certain to come into the mix because the 3D 4D
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bandwidth. Is one that continues to bring
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forth equations and so they're looking at a lens with a puzzle,
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and they want the puzzle pieces to fit, like my attachment style
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friend. They made their puzzle pieces
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fit, and they're sticking to their story, okay?
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And they're sticking to the story because there is not the
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awareness of the charge state that is behind it because there
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is a disregard for that being of any impact.
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Versus instead realizing that that is one your own drive with
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your own temperament and that is a energy that is an emotion that
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is what's leading you? And that you are.
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Therefore it's a whole way in which a mind that does not move
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into continuity, will stay in those.
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Why their blinders. And so for real not not pretend
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but it's not creating a Zombie Land by the way, that's the
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other part. So let's not dehumanize.
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What is instead peoples? A conviction like my attachment
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style front that they are, right?
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That they're standing up for justice.
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Let us understand. So I'm trying to share
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understand this. If you're moving into your five
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DNS and when you understand this completely, you will understand
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Free Will choices. You will understand forgiveness,
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in the sense that the past will never change what you have done,
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you have done period, but that ruptures are not actual
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permanent. Anything.
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It's a very silly thing because, you know, people are people and
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there can be communication all times Rapture is if I break a
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glass and even that I can put it back together and unless it's
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completely destroyed to the point of where I can't and you
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know, this is where with relationships, that's not the
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case relationships. It's all ego period so that
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people will stay in their ego. It's not about there being
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anything that has as to be afterlife, if that if a person
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will choose to stay in their stance of like my attachment
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style friend. This is why I choose my story
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and I'm sticking to it and that's it, or there's the way of
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finding the evidence because she has a very good way.
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Like anybody else to find the evidence that supports the
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story? Here's where Chris Willard did a
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whole study on that with conspiracy and also, Also,
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there's another working used, I forget right now but how this
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works with people who identify, so again, we moved to the way
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the brain works when it comes to In and Out group and people
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decide. These are the people that look
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like me that I feel safe with. These are the people I don't
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it's automatically there's separation Consciousness.
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So again right now we're in the middle of change putting that to
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the side. What is trying to get to Is that
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when 4D is talking about car makes and soul contracts and
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twin flames and soul mates, their equating these
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relationships, as if there's a beginning and an end and that's
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not what relationships are. The relationships, are what we
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have lived. I'm 43.
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I got, you know, I know, I don't remember all of the people's
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names but I'll remember, you know, if I, if they met me, I
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met up with, I will remember people who are in my life, okay?
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Okay. And so this is where right now
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in this moment, for the people who are having their choice,
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like my attachment style friend, where they're convinced, they're
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convinced, which means they are happy with their choice that
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they did the right thing. This is where twin flame,
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soulmate doesn't matter. They think they're right because
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they're leading the life they want to live.
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And so here's the part of where a mature feminine will
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immediately We be aware of this because we have the ability to
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again know what we like and don't like and to put our likes
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and not likes aside. Because if I'm facing you and
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you're facing me and we're saying there's a relationship.
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This is where it's only going to be able to be built by two or
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more. There's only if you're
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interested and that's where that lovely amygdala and, you know,
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it being alerted, the the limbic system, excuse me, where it
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decide? Sighs is, this valuable, is this
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person valuable to me? Am I interested in Minot?
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And so here's where people would say, well that's equating it to
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a mathematical equation. Depends again on where you are
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coming at when you're looking into anything.
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And when it comes to the one-on-one and just group
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relationships into an actual personal choice, you don't
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choose to be born in a family, but as people move forward, they
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do choose the friends. They, you know, you choose the
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You keep pretty simple. So if you're picking to live a
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life with someone, you've obviously picked based on what
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you believe you want, or you should hopefully walk want for
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real and any, you know, person who sink, oh, they're just
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choosing the easier path. Because I've seen people talking
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about this, they, they chose to allow themselves to have the
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easy way out because they don't want to face that it want to
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face and yada yada yada. So so that part is very
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disrespectful in my opinion, to claim that a person isn't going
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to do the job because they'd rather do it.
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Easy, that's not what's happening like with my
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attachment style from they're not choosing something easy.
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They're actually making a choice based on what they want from
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relationships and they have seen, you know, again time again
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and again what they're not getting now they have a lack of
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awareness of their own human suffering.
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As they have an answer for it and it's called people are
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shitty and life is shitty and or any other external environment
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situation that they're going to find.
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And this is why we don't actually go an argue with a
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blind man or blind woman. And what I mean by that is we
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don't the people who are in the enlightenment.
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So age group, we are not here to like said, Guru says, tell
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people what state of consciousness to be in.
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It's something you don't meddle with, and it's not because of
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some fictitious any Anything. It's because Stephen porges
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points out when people are in their biological rudeness,
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they're already in fight flight, freeze van freeze, pause that
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body is already defending itself and you represent a threat and
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that made it. And that's going to Simply
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agitate a person even more. And furthermore, they're
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actually ears aren't tuned in to you as a friend, or as a person
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that is caring there in threat mode, you are not a friend and
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you are not. Anyone who is in that moment
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bringing anything except For the pens, that's the part about
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where those of us who are in our environment.
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So they droop we back off because we are not here to
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threaten anyone in general, especially not our loved ones
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when it comes to having what our enjoyable interactions.
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Okay? So, the 4D Community, when
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they're breaking things down to me.
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It's very much. Like I said, I actually value my
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oversoul their own intellect is their own choice that I may not.
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Not find their intellect, very intellectual, but that's
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personal. And, again, here's where to my
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lovely loved ones. I have painted glasses and I'm
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completely. You know, that points the whole
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pseudoscience bullshit self-help crap.
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So this is the part that when your objective, that's where you
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do know why people will use words with you because, you know
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who you are, you know, we speak. So you're going to take it with
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a yes, you're correct. You know, and that's where it
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is. It's actually the ability to
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allow yourself to recognize, which is easy for those of us
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who do take ownership of who we are without saying, I'm going to
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now shy away and say, no, we don't but see, here's where you
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encounter people that want those types of interactions.
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And if not then usually there's not getting into certain types
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of conversations. And here's again where Those
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types of comments for the 4D Community where people will have
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chosen to give up on something because they think that they're
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going to hurt you or they think that you deserve better, it's
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all bullshit, it's all. I mean, I swear and I'm like
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what do you thin you really think people are thinking of
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another person if they're rejecting them?
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It's because they got something better going on.
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It's not because they think that they deserve any better.
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And if that's their, excuse was a sad, excuse, because that
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honestly to me when I've heard stuff like that, I'm like, yeah.
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Okay. You doing or saying something
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like that is just your way of getting out of something.
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You don't want to invest your time in.
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So let's stop making excuses of. Oh, I'm going to leave so that
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you can live a good life because I'm going to be bad for you,
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what movie or have you watched? This is where it's a very awful
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movie. If you ask me and it's also the
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crocodile tears that won't get me crying.
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It'll be me saying, yeah, great way to make an excuse for
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yourself to not actually do anything different than what
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you've done, which is again, give up on your own life.
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That's also we're not seeing what they're doing to us because
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we don't need a person to again make our life better.
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They mature feminine that is. And that's not because we don't
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enjoy company. It's because We actually enjoy
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living life with people who enjoy life to and secure
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attachment again, very beautiful place when you find people that
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are moving in that direction and are conscious of themselves.
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And so, again, they have compassion and they have energy
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and they have a way of being very straightforward.
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And blunt, very beautiful to have blunt straightforward
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conversations, with people that are masculine and feminine sits
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in beautiful energies. And as we move into, For our
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whole world. You know, doing what we can,
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obviously that's part of it. But the relationships are
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important for you because that's where you grow.
27:30
If you're not attending to your relationships with a way of
27:35
being able to heal. So some people do use those
27:38
words. Healing is very straightforward
27:41
when people take ownership. So the benign ruptures that Ben
27:47
Siegel was talking about but even toxic ruptures there,
27:50
There's not a difference for person who's moved into their
27:53
Enlightenment. So they droop because these two
27:56
words mean nothing except for person who, again, got into
28:00
their protector lenses, and there's reasons for it.
28:04
And if they have looked to move into becoming the adult version
28:08
of themselves, they will be that in time.
28:11
He will notice, like, in time, you notice those who instead are
28:15
in their patterns, The part about rigidity is that it comes
28:21
because of a lack of sense of safety.
28:26
The lack of sense of safety comes from somewhere, and it
28:29
will have come from experiences that an individual will have
28:33
lived in life and it will come from.
28:35
I don't feel that I belong and or I don't believe in what they
28:40
believe and or, you know, again, there's there's aspects that
28:44
come from your own personal perspective.
28:47
Which is why people talk about their intellect and about being
28:50
conscious which they are, they are consciously.
28:54
Again, their own limbic system will lead them to interact with
28:59
both material as well as people that they deem valuable
29:05
automatically. This is the part about where I
29:08
do. Agree that free will also
29:10
doesn't exist. This is the part is a very
29:12
interesting when you're in this infinite Loop of seeing how Ow
29:18
nature. Always finds a way to lead
29:20
itself, back to what. And in this case a person will
29:24
have their story until their stories not clear to them.
29:29
And that would be, though, in a way of actually physiologically
29:32
being in, he's within their own physiology, Until you're not
29:38
clear. I'm a person who has had
29:40
experiences in my life, they brought me heartbreak, they
29:42
brought me this, they brought me that you know and also other
29:47
things. But again usually we're not
29:51
having those types of conversations because this is an
29:54
inner exploration that you will have already done.
29:57
If you have moved into right now, this this wholeness and so
30:02
In This Moment In Time in your wholeness with the energies of
30:06
about your twin flame soul mates over.
30:08
So we don't say they're doing something that is a half.
30:11
Anything else they made their choice every person chooses who
30:15
they want to be with, where they want to be all of it.
30:17
Like my attachments, though friend, she chose that, she did
30:21
the right thing for herself to stand up to the people who were
30:25
disrespecting her based on her story and based on her
30:28
suffering, she's not an energy vampire.
30:31
And even if she comes back around, that's because she
30:34
knows. We're friends.
30:35
And that's a okay. My book because she didn't do
30:37
anything. That was wrong.
30:38
She stood up for herself and when it comes to again, the
30:43
bigger stuff, that's where we get to participate in our
30:47
countries and vote and do other things.
30:50
But when it comes to interpersonal relationships,
30:55
when people are talking about the ways to treat each other,
30:58
they already to me meaning that they don't know who they're
31:01
having in their, you don't know what company keep obviously, if
31:04
you're still talking about, Out Humanity, having to whatever it
31:08
is that, you know, people will get into.
31:10
So if you think a person or people that you love are
31:16
actually, what's the word making the wrong choices for their own
31:20
life, you're in your own ego thinking, you know, how to lead
31:24
their life, which means you're doing the little mirror that
31:29
said grew that one joke where you're putting Band-Aids on the
31:31
outside so you're not a self empowered person, yet.
31:34
You don't even know who you are yet.
31:37
You're still thinking about you knowing what's best for other
31:39
people versus you doing and being around the people that
31:43
you've chosen. So when you're consciously,
31:46
picking your loved ones, the ones that start to come into the
31:50
mix. This is where why they mature
31:53
feminine. We don't make mistakes.
31:54
We don't cancel our loved ones. That's silly.
31:58
We don't create ruptures. We can have like my only one
32:02
friend of the friend that I had talked for five years but this
32:06
is where R. The minute they needed me was
32:08
the minute that we were easily back to being buddies.
32:11
And in fact it is true that ruptures are the opportunities
32:15
for repair and realignment and that is where usually is
32:20
something that becomes that much stronger.
32:24
And like with my friend, that's true.
32:26
We have been a constant support and they have found solace in
32:31
their happy and that makes me happy.
32:33
And you know, this is where none of my friendships actually.
32:36
Have ruptures and none of them have made the wrong choices.
32:41
They've all made the choices that lead their own Hearts to
32:43
being happy, which makes me happy for them.
32:46
So, when we say with, or without me, we actually mean it because
32:51
we're not attached in the sense of if you're not with me, the
32:56
way I say you must be then, you must not love me.
32:59
Or I must not love you. Love is about actually our own
33:04
ability to accept ourselves. Elves with our imperfections and
33:08
our loved ones. And then those loved ones, the
33:11
ones who enjoy and find Value in us.
33:15
Do the value is not. Something about objectification
33:19
by the way, but if you do look at our evolutionary science, it
33:23
shows you that when it comes to envy and jealousy, it is based
33:29
on the worthiness that you give of to a person.
33:32
And then it is also based on the level of word Yes, you can give
33:37
to your own self. So if you think you're not
33:41
worthy, this is where you're going to be envied or jealous.
33:44
You might also get vindictive or spiteful, or do this Revenge
33:48
stuff when something has been taken away you can do
33:51
self-sabotage, right? And even in that it's like with
33:54
my attachment style friend to trick your own self, and that's
33:59
where though to them, they're not tricking them their own
34:02
self. That's why again, very careful.
34:04
You want to be when you are Aware of your over, soul from
34:09
the mature. Feminine, I share with you, we
34:11
always know that we are not here to tell our loved ones what to
34:15
do with their lives. So we will step back and we will
34:18
sit in what is, in fact, our own Reflections.
34:23
And we expand for that reason. It's because we sit in a
34:27
reflective dialogue when we're faced with being treated and
34:33
specific ways. Twin flames soul mates.
34:36
Or so and we will not be like I'm right, they're wrong.
34:39
That's that's a child again. We will be with the emotions and
34:43
the thoughts and their stuff is there as we won't contemplate
34:46
it. And even if we do, think that
34:48
they're making obviously, wrong choice, because they're being,
34:52
you know, not quite nice. We will know that that's egoic
34:55
and we'll put that aside. So, we're again, very good at
34:58
staying in Equanimity because we are called to be in compassion.
35:03
This Is The Love cycle people and that's Because we don't have
35:07
any type of criticism for being imperfect because we already
35:11
know that we are again. We've probably been told it in
35:15
different ways throughout our life and when we've been told
35:18
it, as we were growing up, we're like well I still will love who
35:21
I am just because you don't like me doesn't mean I need to not
35:25
like me and how is that going to be productive to me?
35:28
If I start saying your piece of shit?
35:30
I'm just going to feel more horrible.
35:31
How am I going to move throughout the day?
35:33
How am I going to live again? The ways that people We'll talk
35:37
to themselves. You can notice if you have a
35:39
love cycle versus a shame cycle and towards Humanity as well so
35:44
here's where love Cycles say yeah I'm imperfect they're
35:46
imperfect it's the human thing and then the commitment is to
35:51
supporting people to live a good life and what does that mean?
35:54
Well first again, air water food, right?
35:57
So we need basic necessities but what does that really mean?
36:00
So long story short though little bit more for the
36:04
one-on-one, Again, anyone who's in their Enlightenment, so they
36:09
droop will see their oversoul, as living the life that the
36:12
oversoul wants to live and we will not have anything to say
36:16
about where they are at except for their choosing.
36:22
As we moved into this sphere, many of us, I know that some of
36:27
my friends still think in certain terms and this is where
36:31
I try sharing with them the human stuff.
36:35
But there Too busy in the story and when they're into story
36:40
that's where they're busy being the immature feminine who think
36:46
that they can say to somebody else.
36:49
What they're doing wrong or right versus again accepting
36:53
that people make their own choices, based on their own
36:57
research, their own emotions, their own thoughts.
36:59
Their own stuff. This is, this is how you become
37:02
the person you are. And that's where it's nice to be
37:05
able. And just you know, have again
37:08
growing up conversations with secure individuals is very
37:13
pleasant because there is a way of being able to navigate spaces
37:18
of temperaments as well. And at the end of it, those
37:24
one-on-one relationships, if people are not happy which some
37:28
people are not. So the people who are not
37:31
actually are in a Out of transition, they have focused
37:38
all their attention on pretending that everything is
37:42
fine. And there is a bit of awareness
37:48
of that, but they actually some of them.
37:52
Again, these are not in the enlightenment silly trip and
37:54
they're not in 5D, they're there.
38:00
I don't know what words to use. I'm just going to leave that out
38:03
of Out of the conclusion because the reality is, I'm wanting to
38:08
share with those who are moving into their expanded
38:10
Consciousness, people who I see stalling, that's all they've
38:15
done. Like it's been years that they
38:17
saw their own progress because they're convinced like my touch
38:21
myself from that life is shitty and that basically they're not
38:26
doing anything about. You know, like I actually they
38:31
all actively LED. Themselves into where they find
38:35
themselves, none of them have seen that they have actively and
38:41
this is the part where I can't move beyond that, because when
38:45
you learned about trauma and attachment wounds, and again,
38:50
you learn about the narrative and you see it being played out
38:54
the blind, man and blind woman. They're blind.
38:57
Not because they're zombies, they actually will fight you to
39:03
say. No, I am this and you're wrong.
39:08
I mean, it's and like my attachment style friend.
39:11
I mean, they don't fight me because they learned how to do
39:14
this reflective dialogue, but they made a conscious awareness
39:21
choice of, I actually defended me and I'm right that I defended
39:26
me, so they actually will stab you thinking that they are.
39:30
If that person basically, out of weapon, they would actually kill
39:33
you. And think they were right.
39:34
This is why those stories that's agree.
39:36
Shares are actually accurate, but they're inaccurate when
39:40
people are not allowing themselves to see their own
39:44
human suffering, stems from their own upbringing.
39:48
And they're not actually getting again cultured on what makes you
39:52
tick, which is your nervous system and your embodied.
39:56
Brain is a part of it. And so if you're not
39:59
understanding a charge thing for how it affects your Thinking
40:04
brain, you're not actually aware that when you're reading
40:07
material, if you are upset, you're not actually reading it
40:13
with objectivity, you're reading it with a specific emotion that
40:21
equals. I'm going to protect me and so
40:25
you're blinded. And when you're reading your
40:28
filtering in a way, that is biased.
40:32
Learning how the mind works is only going to take place from
40:35
those who are actually interested in understanding
40:39
first and that's where people don't actually have interest in
40:43
understanding first when they come at life.
40:48
From a shame cycle. That's where the blinders are
40:53
really, really, that meaningful, and part of their journey.
40:59
And that's why again, I have to specify.
41:01
If I, where I come from that, I have a love cycle and that, for
41:06
me, the ability to give meaning to life without it.
41:09
Having anything was and stems from me actually, having the
41:18
reflective dialogue as a child because of seeing darkness when
41:22
I would wake up from sleep and you all know the story.
41:27
So, the reality is, when you do Embrace Shiva, this is why You
41:32
become a person who others think that you don't actually care if
41:37
you will or that you are emotionless.
41:40
There's many different ways that people presents the fact that
41:44
one does not suffer in this way as something that then you
41:49
can't, and we stand back and say we won't.
41:51
Because here's the part one, you do understand what it means
41:55
because people share to you over and over and over again that
41:58
that they have the sting and you know you you just don't
42:02
understand or whatever it is. It's something that we do do
42:06
know humanly speaking, I know. And that's why I Stand Down
42:10
stand down because I don't actually want to waste any of my
42:16
time on anger. When anger is blinding, you to
42:19
begin with. And it's just a sad, sad story
42:23
to see shame, you know, and then modulated or dysregulated.
42:28
People throw their life away. So here's where I Definitely.
42:32
No one said grew says this this thing right here, which is that,
42:38
most people are trapped in limitations of their own making,
42:41
not realizing they have locked themselves in, but I will
42:45
understand that that's not the case.
42:46
Like my attachment style friend right now is fighting, and knows
42:50
how to fight for herself. She feels empowered, it's not a
42:54
true empowerment. But again, her ears aren't
42:57
listening to anything or anyone. She's in a non Trusting body and
43:03
that's as straightforward as it gets the people who are in 5D.
43:07
If you are here, then you wake up more energized than ever.
43:10
And it also means you are going to be or are already a
43:14
compassionate human being. So, like I said, for us, it's
43:18
more than anything putting into practice, what we've been
43:21
learning, and that would be to be compassionate, equanimous,
43:25
and to enjoy our oversold, the people who enjoy us.
43:29
We enjoy them as, for those. Lovely twin flames.
43:32
Soul mates over. So we already know the ones of
43:35
you who have Claire's that they are great and dandy like my
43:39
attachment style friend that they have made their choices
43:42
based on actually what they're convinced.
43:44
And therefore, I can only know that their level of life is
43:50
increasing by the day. And that's where I'm very, very
43:54
happy. And in compersion.
43:56
Now, one of them, I'm pretty sure something about one, two,
44:00
three, four, five. A couple of people is a whole
44:03
clan, they're in a different, maybe boat, just because of
44:07
where their mentality is at. But then again, that's where
44:10
they would consider their Days Every Day energized.
44:13
So see this is we can't actually make any type of statement
44:17
because every person is living the life they want to live.
44:20
We're happy for them. So the part about 40 wanting to
44:24
say that you know it's when fleeing is unhappy or that a
44:28
soul mate is unhappy or that you know you got car makes and
44:30
third. And you got gossip.
44:32
It's like, dude, how old are they?
44:34
Are we talking about children? Because if it's a child, okay?
44:37
But if we're talking about an adult, you telling me that
44:39
someone got in their ear? Yeah, good.
44:41
Excuse again. Like when my friend, the one
44:44
friend that I didn't talk to you for five years and I love using
44:47
that story as an example because I'll never forget sitting at
44:49
that table. While both of them are telling
44:52
me why they chose to lie to me, which is something ridiculous.
44:54
May, I add that they actually hit.
44:56
They on purpose, did to me that they were together.
45:00
These are people that I Was going out with every night,
45:02
every night, every night. And my other friends.
45:05
This is where the repeat pattern, see, I know my repeat.
45:08
And I'm always like, wow, this is very shocking.
45:12
People really don't know how to just say it.
45:14
I finally found people that do know how to say it.
45:17
It's so much, I love it. I love when I get told you know,
45:21
I don't want to hear you right now.
45:22
I am so happy just to see the truth come out of the mouth of a
45:26
person that I'll be like, I'll hug them, but I won't when
45:30
they're not. For the bullshit stuff that I
45:32
have to share, you know. So what I'm saying though, is
45:35
that Honesty? It's just such a beautiful thing
45:38
because it means a person actually has the balls to just
45:41
tell you what they think. And it's so tiresome when people
45:45
make up excuses instead. So I'm sitting at this table.
45:49
As both of them are telling me how they lie or whatever, which
45:53
I'm not really concerned. With, at this point, I was just
45:56
like, wow, that really shows, how lack of trust you having me.
46:01
You hit to me that you were together.
46:03
This means you think that I your friend when you go out with
46:06
every night would not be happy for you.
46:09
I mean this was as I said, do you realize the implications
46:11
now? Not ya.
46:12
Know what, you know, youyou literally actually passed me on
46:16
to another person who have noticed.
46:18
This is another friend of mine that there was shit going down
46:21
and they told me, they didn't you notice?
46:22
I'm like, no, of course, I'm not looking at my friends, thinking
46:25
they're hiding shift from you. Why would I do that?
46:27
That's ridiculous. There, they wouldn't be many
46:29
friends otherwise. So, I'm at Stable, and they're
46:32
explaining shit to me. And I, and my friend is in front
46:36
of me, it, she's the one who decided I looked at him.
46:39
I said, don't give me that bullshit.
46:40
Did she have a gun at your head? No.
46:42
Okay, shut up. Don't stop.
46:43
Blaming her. Why you throwing her under the
46:46
bus? So there, you know, if there's
46:49
one thing that, you know, again, it's very, very humiliating.
46:52
I would think that somebody would allow themselves to be
46:55
influenced by somebody else. And really what I'm thinking is,
46:59
how old are you again? We were adults at that point,
47:03
which is why I was just like, wow.
47:05
Now that I'm an adult. Adult in know, about trauma,
47:08
experts in, like, people don't like confrontation.
47:11
Okay? They're in their non trusting
47:13
body. Okay, they have shape of.
47:15
Wow, keep this explains everything.
47:17
Thank you so much Bezel Vander kolk.
47:20
Because you know, this is where I'll never forget the day.
47:23
I read people when they are ego, feels insecure, they will look
47:28
outside themselves social engagement.
47:31
And then there's social construction.
47:33
Oh, and then there's room. Okay, so no, it's not somebody
47:36
getting into your ear, it's your own self.
47:38
So if you're going to allow your own shame to leave the way.
47:41
Well, here's the deal. We're not going to be like, oh
47:44
my gosh, you are so unfortunate that she told you to do it.
47:48
No. We're going to be like, dude,
47:50
how old are you grow a pair. Thank you very much.
47:52
So it's very again, for D readers.
47:55
I don't enjoy watching when they're telling people about all
47:58
this drama land because I'm thinking wow, you guys are Achoo
48:01
ating teenagers like like, hell like, wow.
48:05
Thank goodness for the mental health professionals, who are
48:07
trying to educate the teens of how not to identify with
48:11
aspects, and how to actually work with their own emotions and
48:15
just everything from the Mental Health Community to, you know,
48:19
having again I love that said, gurus out there because he's
48:22
definitely helping people to learn how to put into practice,
48:26
our lovely ventral vagal system and to be in a mind that we'll
48:30
be able to be in Reflective dialogue, because that's what
48:33
mindfulness and meditation does support people to do.
48:37
As for the people who stay in the middle, they're not good or
48:40
bad, they are teenagers, who don't know that when they get
48:44
pissy, they can take ownership of it.
48:46
The ones who instead grow up to become who they are.
48:50
And they are people who contemplate and allow themselves
48:54
to just be surrounded by a variety of people here is where
48:58
that's all so beautiful. And the ones, Who want to make a
49:02
difference? We are actually trying to
49:04
contemplate how to do it, more and more, and more for me, the
49:08
individual is very important because here's where the people
49:13
are the ones who end up in positions.
49:16
And so, like, said, Guru, he supports people to expand
49:19
Consciousness in his way. I want to support people to
49:22
expand Consciousness. This is where helping people's
49:25
inner well-being is about helping them to identify their
49:30
own trauma history. If they, And identify their
49:32
attachment stuff. Identify their insecurities so
49:36
that they can become their own self from their heart unmasking.
49:40
This is very easy for the people who are willing to look at
49:44
themselves and Humanity with compassion.
49:47
And so that means I don't know what you've been through and you
49:50
don't know what I've been through.
49:52
But we all sit here and stand here and talk together about it.
49:55
And we'll share honest conversations about it and we'll
49:59
keep going, and we'll keep it. Expanding and will all keep
50:02
trying to create a society that we will want supports life
50:09
independently, from a belief system.
50:12
It's actually to support like that's all life in a way that
50:18
can work together, which means we have food.
50:21
At the table means we have basic necessities.
50:25
These are all things that are very doable and the more people
50:29
that can become Their Enlightenment, sole Drew
50:33
Persian, or at the very least, a secure attachment human being
50:36
mad. And I actually feel even more
50:40
than just that because the reality is too many separations.
50:44
When it comes to the little societal constructs 123 I mean
50:49
you name it. Oh my gosh, those those those
50:52
are so many this is why you know you can only have so much focus
50:58
and when it comes down to it the only people who make the
51:01
difference Difference are the individuals more people can
51:04
become their own true agents. And that's from a place of love,
51:08
not a place of anything else. That's the only way you become
51:11
your own agent by the way. Other than that, you are Samba
51:15
longer to some group. The reality is no matter how it
51:20
turns out, if people stay within rigidity, they will have a list
51:26
of resources that they identify with.
51:28
So you limit your potential because You're again, the horse
51:33
has blinders. When you get rigid you are in a
51:37
body that is saying I'm not safe your thumbs down when anger
51:41
strikes or dumb that even if it doesn't look like anger.
51:44
When I get into my passion mode, I'm dumbs down.
51:48
I'm Maria dumbed-down you guys. Notice, I'm sure you've heard
51:50
it. I know I've heard it and every
51:52
day. Here's where I get to put into
51:54
practice being more, not them down and that would be to
51:59
support people. And what I'm learning and so
52:03
that you can bring together, human stuff, spiritual stuff,
52:06
spirituality, stuff, and that way you can own your stuff and
52:10
be a nice person who can have interesting conversations with
52:15
those who are in their secure attachment with those who are
52:18
not other types of conversations.
52:20
They'll still be interesting because you know, our social
52:23
time is to have fun. Our serious time is when we are
52:27
voting and the podiums and doing whatever that is or me.
52:31
Opening up, maybe and I mean I don't plan on it but opening
52:34
something up and then dedicating myself to that or going to
52:37
recite you don't my serious time to contribute is in other
52:41
modalities, not social time. Our relationships are the one
52:45
place where you're supposed to feel safe to be vulnerable and
52:49
that means to actually have fun and laugh.
52:53
So the relationships that all of you are building are those, if
52:57
you are in your Lightman. So a droop.
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And when it comes to people like My attachment style, friend, who
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decides to take a splinter, become a rupture, and do
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whatever she does, and she's convinced that she's right,
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that's her life, not mine. I will be here if she needs me
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and if not so be it, I'm still somebody who considers this
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person, a friend, as well as other people, they're my
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friends. And there's nothing different,
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just because we don't see eye-to-eye behavior when it is
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in a biological rudeness to those of us who are With eyes
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from the heart. We actually already know it's
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not the person. It's an emotion that derives
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from a specific moment in time that they may or may not ever
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become aware of. It is not our business, whether
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they become aware of it or not. And even if you like my judgment
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stuff from presented to them, they are still going to be
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oblivious to it when they're putting it into action.
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But that's because again, there's the ability Easy for
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them to only use their mind with their tight ass narrative.
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They're rigid tight ass narrative and they've chosen
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they have an in-group and out-group and that you know.
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So they've chosen the aspects that will be a yes and the
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aspects that are known and they want it to be Consolidated.
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So here's where they're not their own agents, they're
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looking for certainty and belonging that's why they don't
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move into that. An entire human consciousness
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potential. But again, to move here, does
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mean to move into Shiva. And so this is the part where I
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actually disengage, I don't even go there.
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I mean, today I have even more awareness of not wanting to go
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there at all. And when I see any type of
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activity that begins to move towards a territory that I know
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into Notably is not a territory. I will navigate because like the
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physics lady in the existential physics book.
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She said before she opened up her book, That she wanted to
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make sure that we knew what she was going to write because she's
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had letters of people that write her and they tell her I can't
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sleep at night after I read your book and this is where when said
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grew starts talking about darkness and that lady speaks up
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and I can send I can hear the fear in her tone and I'm
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thinking, please being, you know, like do something to make
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her feel okay, and he doesn't because of course, I mean, I get
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it again, he's an easy as we is. So, I understand that I'm in the
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boat, like, with the Lady. And so, here's where humanly
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speaking. I actually have understood.
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Finally, what I did in for many, many years.
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And thanks to people being straight with me.
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My lovely unconditionally loving people.
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They're able to remind me of something, and it's important to
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know that, yeah, by not understanding human suffering,
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the way others do, there are areas that I cannot navigate,
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because I don't understand that level of fear.
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And that's not a good or bad thing.
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Thing it's a thing. So it's not because there's less
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or more validity, it's because if you can't experience
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something, you don't know what it's like.
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And that's where it's an actual truth.
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I don't know what it's like to have this shame cycle or to have
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specific level of human suffering.
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So, no, it's not something I can relate to in that way.
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There are other priorities that come to my mind and that's where
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again, when you at the very least, have people who are open
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to dialogue, it's nice thing to do when we have people are open
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dialogue. We get to enjoy conversations
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and we do learn how to stay in our place because it's only
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right to do so. Furthermore, you know, again,
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conversations and relationships are meant to be enjoyable, not
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not anything else. There's enough suffering in the
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world. Let's not add to that in your
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day-to-day. I mean, it's completely
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unnecessary. So the people who do other
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things again 3D 4D, that's them 5D.
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We look to bring love compassion, understanding
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Standing expansion. We look to have our world and
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leave the world a better place today than yesterday.
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And we do the best. We can looking forward to
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hearing your thoughts and experiences calling in or leave
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a message. Have a great day.