believe him the first time, not the tenth. | episode no. 32
emotional outsourcing and clear coding define episode 32 of cuffed, breaking down how nervous system leakage creates walking-on-eggshells dynamics in relationships, and why believing what he tells you early is the fastest path to alignment. this episode unpacks musing 117 and musing 118 — the outsourcer and the absorber, and how clear coding separates real alignment from dating-app performance.
episode overview:
this week author covers two musings. the first is emotional outsourcing — what happens when someone hands you their regulation, their certainty, their entire nervous system, and calls…
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