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DLHS Hour 2 | Daughter Lied on Her Stepfather · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: This is very interesting.
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  Speaker 2: A mother finds out that her daughter lied to her about.
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  Speaker 1: Her husband molesting her. Wow. That's diabolical.
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  Speaker 3: That's dirty.
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  Speaker 2: As much as I blame the father and I do,
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  Speaker 2: she was grown. She was mature enough to have known.
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  Speaker 3: She was a child at the time. But she knew
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  Speaker 3: she was lying.
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  Speaker 1: She knew that was a lie. But her dad.
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  Speaker 4: He needs to be the blame.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 2: I certainly think he bears the brunt of the blame.
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  Speaker 1: But I think you can't You can't. She's guilty of something.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, without a doubt.
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  Speaker 4: But what if she was like 10 or, you know,
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  Speaker 4: less than 10 years old?
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  Speaker 1: She knows she wasn't touched.
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  Speaker 4: But children will lie for their parents. You know, if
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  Speaker 4: her dad's like, look. once me and your mama get
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  Speaker 4: back together?
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  Speaker 3: You know, she probably does. As a child, you always
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  Speaker 3: want your parents to get back together. Well, this is
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  Speaker 3: what you got to do.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: But I can't let her off the hook either, though.
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  Speaker 1: No, me neither.
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  Speaker 3: And I hope the stepdaddy didn't get in any real
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  Speaker 3: legal trouble because of that.
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  Speaker 1: Now, that would have been unforgivable. He got in legal trouble.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, man.
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  Speaker 1: He lost his job and went to jail. Come on now. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Which, you know, that kind of accusation, that usually comes.
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  Speaker 1: With the power.
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  Speaker 3: That's what's supposed to happen.
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  Speaker 1: If you thought somebody touched your child, you want him
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  Speaker 1: in jail.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah well with the quickness they'd be lucky to go
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  Speaker 3: to jail but that's right that's what i'm saying i
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  Speaker 3: don't want to right okay that was a.
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  Speaker 2: Heinous act yeah that was that's horrible so the question
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  Speaker 2: we're asking a mother finds out that her father her
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  Speaker 2: daughter teenage daughter lied to her daughter lied to her
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  Speaker 2: causing the breakup of her marriage she's claimed she was
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  Speaker 2: molested by her stepfather her marriage broke up 10 years
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  Speaker 2: later she finds out about it what do you think
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  Speaker 2: she should do um I think that that is such.
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  Speaker 3: A horrible— she.
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  Speaker 1: Ruined their relationship. She ruined lives.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Well, the father did, too.
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  Speaker 3: Father did, yeah. Oof, man. That's horrible. That's tough.
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  Speaker 5: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: And it's 10 years later.
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  Speaker 1: What would you do, Andy B?
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  Speaker 4: If I were the mother, I don't know. It would
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  Speaker 4: take a whole lot. We would have to go to
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  Speaker 4: therapy to mend our relationship because depending on how I
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  Speaker 4: felt about my ex-husband who she broke up, that's going
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  Speaker 4: to take some time to heal from that. And they
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  Speaker 4: may need counseling.
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  Speaker 3: For real.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, or restraining order.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. And daddy might, ooh.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 4: I catch a strike.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 1: I've heard a lot of bad things, obviously, but this
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  Speaker 1: is pretty bad.
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  Speaker 3: That is horrible. That's way up there.
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  Speaker 1: That's horrible. So a mother finds out her daughter told
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  Speaker 1: a lie that caused her horror. Why don't I let
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  Speaker 1: you hear it?
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  Speaker 4: Imagine being divorced for 10 years, living life, a peaceful life,
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  Speaker 4: when your now grown daughter comes to you crying, saying, Mom,
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  Speaker 4: I'm so sorry. My stepdad never did touch me.
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  Speaker 6: Dad put me up to it because he was trying
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  Speaker 6: to get back with you.
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  Speaker 1: What's your response? What do you think she should do?
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  Speaker 1: We're going right to the phones.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 7: She was divorced for 10 years, but she's going to
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  Speaker 7: have to go another 10 years finding him and apologizing.
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  Speaker 7: And while she's apologizing, her daughter's standing right there because
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  Speaker 7: that could have ruined this man's life. And not only
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  Speaker 7: ruin his life just from a, you know, from a
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  Speaker 7: prison standpoint, we're talking about mentally ruin his life. You know,
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  Speaker 7: it's one thing to be a pedophile and it's one
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  Speaker 7: thing to be accused of being a pedophile. And I
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  Speaker 7: should know because I got plenty of pedophiles in my family.
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  Speaker 7: So that is just horrible.
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  Speaker 5: And what you do on the.
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  Speaker 7: Day, you're going to come out in the night at
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  Speaker 7: behest of her father. I don't know how young she was,
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  Speaker 7: but it.
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  Speaker 6: Needs to be some repercussions.
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  Speaker 5: I would definitely want to know if a husband is married.
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  Speaker 8: Does he have a wife or ex-husband?
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  Speaker 9: Does he have a wife?
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  Speaker 8: Does he have a wife or a girlfriend? Because I
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  Speaker 8: would definitely want to tell his wife or his girlfriend
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  Speaker 8: what he did.
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  Speaker 6: I would go further than that.
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  Speaker 9: I would make my daughter tell his.
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  Speaker 8: Wife or his girlfriend what type of man that she's
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  Speaker 8: married to, that he's got a girlfriend that she's with. Because, man,
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  Speaker 8: that is beyond crazy to me, to have your daughter
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  Speaker 8: to accuse her stepfather that he had touched her. And
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  Speaker 8: I would want to know what the authorities, the police
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  Speaker 8: would have to say about that because I don't think
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  Speaker 8: that she's the only one to suffer to lose her.
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  Speaker 8: I'm sure she was in love with him, you know,
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  Speaker 8: but I would think he would have to feel some
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  Speaker 8: type of restitution for what he did.
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  Speaker 9: So that is a tough thing.
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  Speaker 6: That's her daughter.
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  Speaker 8: That will always be her daughter.
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  Speaker 10: So I don't know what she can do about that.
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  Speaker 8: But for him, I would try to find some way
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  Speaker 8: to get back at him, though.
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  Speaker 11: I just wanted to say that I think that these
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  Speaker 11: two people need to go to counseling. There had to
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  Speaker 11: be something really unhealthy going on with this little girl
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  Speaker 11: for her to tell such a blasphemous lie on her
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  Speaker 11: stepdad just to get her real dad back in the picture.
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  Speaker 11: There's something that has not been resolved there mentally, I believe.
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  Speaker 11: There needs to be some counseling or something at the
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  Speaker 11: very least going on with this young lady now that
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  Speaker 11: she's an adult now.
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  Speaker 6: So at least that needs to happen.
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  Speaker 12: But I think personally, if it was me, I would
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  Speaker 12: withdraw from my child at least some because there has
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  Speaker 12: to be consequences for this. In life, you got to
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  Speaker 12: know there's consequences for every action. Every action has a reaction.
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  Speaker 12: And that would be my reaction.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, well, I just want to say that it was
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  Speaker 9: a bad situation. The guy could have ended up in
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  Speaker 9: a penitentiary in trouble with a police warrant about a
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  Speaker 9: false accusation like that. You know, that's more repercussions. Not
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  Speaker 9: that the marriage is bad, that the daughter would lie
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  Speaker 9: on him like that. That could have caused some real
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  Speaker 9: other consequences, right?
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  Speaker 1: Well, I'm nervous.
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  Speaker 9: I never called a radio station before, but I listen
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  Speaker 9: to you guys all the time because I enjoy DL.
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  Speaker 9: You know, I always have, but I just wanted to.
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  Speaker 9: A mother finds out their daughter lied. Well, let me
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  Speaker 9: let you hear. Imagine being divorced for 10 years, living life,
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  Speaker 9: a peaceful life, when your now grown daughter comes to you.
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  Speaker 1: Crying, saying, Mom, I'm so sorry. My stepdad never did
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  Speaker 1: touch me. Dad put me up to it because.
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  Speaker 4: He was trying to get back with you.
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  Speaker 13: What's your response?
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  Speaker 1: What do you think she should do?
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  Speaker 14: This is Carly from Birmingham, Alabama. The first thing, I
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  Speaker 14: think the mom should make the daughter write a letter
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  Speaker 14: to the ex-stepdad to apologize for what she has done.
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  Speaker 14: The mother needs to call up and tell him, you know,
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  Speaker 14: she's apologized for accusing him for that, to clear his conscience,
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  Speaker 14: to clear their conscience, and move on, because I'm sure
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  Speaker 14: he will never get in that situation again.
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  Speaker 1: With her daughter.
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  Speaker 14: Probably not with another woman either because it's probably scarred him.
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  Speaker 14: You don't really know if they called the police, if
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  Speaker 14: they had charges against him. You don't know any of that.
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  Speaker 14: So if any of those things have happened, they need
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  Speaker 14: to rectify that because they've ruined this man.
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  Speaker 10: Uh, she shouldn't be mad at the daughter. I would,
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  Speaker 10: as if I was her, I'd be, you know, kind
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  Speaker 10: of happy that the daughter said it, but you know, angry,
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  Speaker 10: but the main person that both of them should be
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  Speaker 10: angry at is the father for.
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  Speaker 1: Manipulating the little girl.
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  Speaker 10: That little girl was innocent and she just wanted her
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  Speaker 10: dad to be happy. Uh, the daughter and the mother,
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  Speaker 10: I think equally should do some petty back to him.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I think.
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  Speaker 5: I have a.
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  Speaker 6: Husband who did 15 years over a little girl saying, oh,
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  Speaker 6: my uncle touched me. There was no DNA, no proof
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  Speaker 6: of being touched. And then she says, ask her grandmother,
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  Speaker 6: can I write a letter? Then, of course, she said, well,
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  Speaker 6: I didn't.
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  Speaker 15: You know, she did.
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  Speaker 6: I only said that because I wanted my dad to
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  Speaker 6: be mad. I only said that because I wanted my
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  Speaker 6: mom to be mad. Well, Ms. Fang, you've opened up
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  Speaker 6: a can of worms, and so now this man, your uncle,
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  Speaker 6: you had to sit 15 years in jail. Actually, 20,
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  Speaker 6: because when he got out, he had to do that
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  Speaker 6: five years. So, yeah, when people say stuff like that,
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  Speaker 6: it affects everybody. And he had children himself before he
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  Speaker 6: even went to jail. So for him, for girls to
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  Speaker 6: do that type of stuff, it really affects the whole family,
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  Speaker 6: not just her. or him and he had kids people
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  Speaker 6: women need to not do that in little girl stuff
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  Speaker 6: is vindictive and it kept you in the end yeah
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  Speaker 6: because because it was oh my goodness can i write
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  Speaker 6: a letter can i say something no you can't say
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  Speaker 6: nothing you did that all on the line because you
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  Speaker 6: wanted something and you didn't get what you wanted.
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  Speaker 5: There would be no reconciliation. There would be only alienation.
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  Speaker 5: That child, along with the going along with behest of
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  Speaker 5: the father, being used by the father, could have got
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  Speaker 5: that man thrown in jail. could have got that man
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  Speaker 5: besmirched by the law. So there would be no reconciliation
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  Speaker 5: or no forgiveness, period. And if the father stood alive,
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  Speaker 5: I'd call him and flat out blast him. But no
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  Speaker 5: reconciliation or nothing like that. I ain't taking no apologies.
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  Speaker 15: For something like that, to tell that type of lie,
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  Speaker 15: I would not forgive my daughter for doing that. He
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  Speaker 15: destroyed somebody's life. He destroyed my marriage. And that's very selfish.
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  Speaker 15: And even once a person gets their name clear, you
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  Speaker 15: still have people want to believe it. And that's why
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  Speaker 15: I always say with cases like that, everybody needs to
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  Speaker 15: learn to be neutral. Everybody loves to judge and rush
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  Speaker 15: the judge. And this is also why when I hear
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  Speaker 15: about high-profile cases, I stay neutral. I want to know
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  Speaker 15: who's telling the truth, who's changing. stories, who's being manipulative,
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  Speaker 15: who is uncredible, because that's one of the things you
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  Speaker 15: start looking for. The changing of the stories, the manipulation, So, yeah,
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  Speaker 15: I couldn't I could not forgive my child for doing that.
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  Speaker 15: I love her, but I couldn't forgive her for doing that.
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  Speaker 1: Now it's time for our feature. Welcome to the stage.
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  Speaker 1: I only work out with black dudes. Exclusively.
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  Speaker 13: Because black dudes will push you to your limits whether
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  Speaker 13: you want to or not. I started about six months ago, man.
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  Speaker 13: I was in the gym one day and I was
• 10:42
  Speaker 13: having a bad day. I was stressed about something. I
• 10:44
  Speaker 13: was angry about something. And I was like, man, this.
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  Speaker 13: I'm going to use this negative as a positive. I'm
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  Speaker 13: going to use this aggression. I'm going to put up
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  Speaker 13: some weight. And I was hitting a chest day. So
• 10:52
  Speaker 13: I was like, I'm going to hit a new max on.
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  Speaker 1: The bench press.
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  Speaker 13: You're supposed to have a spotter so you don't die.
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  Speaker 13: I didn't know anybody in there at the time. Closest
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  Speaker 13: person to me was the black dude at the bench
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  Speaker 13: next to me. So I walked over. I was like, hey, man,
• 11:09
  Speaker 13: would you mind spotting me for this set real quick?
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  Speaker 13: And he was like, yeah, I got you. I was like,
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  Speaker 13: I feel like you do.
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  Speaker 1: Everything about your voice is safe. I feel like I
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  Speaker 1: can lift the world now. Okay, come on.
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  Speaker 13: So we go over to the bench together. He gets
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  Speaker 13: behind the rack in the spot position.
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  Speaker 9: He's ready.
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  Speaker 1: I lay down and I'm... Get it off the rack. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I get one rep in.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, I get.
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  Speaker 1: Two reps in.
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  Speaker 13: I get stuck on the third. My arms start shaking.
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  Speaker 1: And he can see this.
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  Speaker 13: So like any good spotter, he has some words of encouragement.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying not to die.
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  Speaker 13: And this man just gets in my ear. And do
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  Speaker 13: that shit.
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  Speaker 1: Do that shit.
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  Speaker 13: It ain't nothing.
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  Speaker 1: I was like.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know, man.
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting kind of tired. He was like, my people
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  Speaker 1: been tired. I was like, damn.
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  Speaker 13: I'm sorry!
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  Speaker 1: It was only like 255. You had white guilt on
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  Speaker 1: top of that?
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  Speaker 3: That's like 500 pounds, man.
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  Speaker 13: I was like, is this pre-workout or a history lesson?
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  Speaker 1: What are we doing, dog?
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  Speaker 13: So that's my new routine whenever somebody's like, you look good, Matt.
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  Speaker 3: You on a diet?
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, it's called White Watchers. You should try it.
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  Speaker 13: That's when black people watch white people struggle.
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  Speaker 1: You will sweat. I promise you. That is a funny
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  Speaker 1: dude right there.