Latest / Reclaiming Consciousness / You ARE the Abundance with the Queen of Wealth Embodiment Victoria Washington
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- 0:00SPEAKER_00: Money ended up being more of like a pilgrimage.
- 0:03SPEAKER_00: It was a teacher that showed me a lot more than just cash.
- 0:07SPEAKER_00: The body is really the most powerful instrument when it comes to rewriting a financial reality.
- 0:14SPEAKER_00: When we're talking about financial freedom, we're talking about being liberated from money, not liberated with money.
- 0:21SPEAKER_00: Money is nothing without you.
- 0:24SPEAKER_01: Welcome to Reclaiming Consciousness.
- 0:26SPEAKER_01: My name is Elise Bassine, spiritual mentor, breathwork practitioner, and owner and CEO of Elise Breaths.
- 0:33SPEAKER_01: For many years, our consciousness has been hijacked by societal and cultural programming, religion, the media, and familial and ancestral trauma.
- 0:43SPEAKER_01: Right now, during this epic time in history, people are waking up, realizing who they really are, and reclaiming the pieces of their consciousness that they unknowingly gave away.
- 0:54SPEAKER_01: This podcast is an exploration of how so many spectacular humans are leading the way in exiting the matrix and reclaiming who they really are and what they're capable of.
- 1:05SPEAKER_01: In this show, you'll meet exceptional people who are paving the way in raising consciousness and creating a new way of living on this earth.
- 1:13SPEAKER_01: Get ready to go deep.
- 1:15SPEAKER_01: Now let's dive in.
- 1:20SPEAKER_01: Hi everyone, welcome back to the show.
- 1:23SPEAKER_01: So this week's guest is truly a powerhouse.
- 1:27SPEAKER_01: I loved this conversation.
- 1:29SPEAKER_01: This week we have Victoria Washington on the show, and she is a wealth embodiment coach, and she created this community called the House of We, which is the House of Wealth Embodiment.
- 1:41SPEAKER_01: And she also created this.
- 1:43SPEAKER_01: Well, you'll you'll listen to her describe it, but it is like a series of actual like exercises, I guess you could say, that you do to embody this wealth frequency or your own abundance and wealth frequency.
- 1:59SPEAKER_01: And just hearing her describe what she does and her journey is pretty profound.
- 2:06SPEAKER_01: And I'm pretty sure you will just be activated by listening to her because I definitely was.
- 2:12SPEAKER_01: So I know you're gonna love this episode, and you definitely want to follow her if you're not already on Instagram and check out her work and check out her community because she's amazing.
- 2:22SPEAKER_01: And obviously, we're all interested in embodying wealth, energetics, and creating more money and all of that.
- 2:29SPEAKER_01: So super important.
- 2:31SPEAKER_01: Just thinking announcements here for me.
- 2:34SPEAKER_01: I am in on day two of a juice fast right now.
- 2:38SPEAKER_01: So that's probably why my brain is not working as amazing as usual, but I'm feeling pretty good.
- 2:44SPEAKER_01: This is the second time I've done this fast.
- 2:47SPEAKER_01: It's from this company called Raw Juicery, and you just select which kind of fast you want to do, and they send you all of the juices in the mail, and they're completely raw, organic.
- 3:00SPEAKER_01: And the way that they make them is so cool because they put like really awesome ingredients into each juice.
- 3:06SPEAKER_01: So it's not just like celery juice.
- 3:08SPEAKER_01: Actually, there is one that's just celery juice, but all the other ones have really amazing ingredients, like different kinds of mushrooms, and like now my brain is not working, but there's all these different amazing ingredients that are in all of them that are so good for you for different reasons.
- 3:27SPEAKER_01: And they're very specially crafted for each part of the day with each ingredient.
- 3:34SPEAKER_01: So to help you cleanse and flush stuff out.
- 3:37SPEAKER_01: So it's like very well thought out.
- 3:39SPEAKER_01: So I really enjoy doing this cleanse.
- 3:41SPEAKER_01: I'm doing the three-day one this time, and I'm on day two.
- 3:45SPEAKER_01: But yeah, I'm feeling really good.
- 3:46SPEAKER_01: Last night I just started getting a really bad headache at the end of the day.
- 3:49SPEAKER_01: So yeah, also just fun, exciting stuff going on.
- 3:53SPEAKER_01: My new program, The High Priestess, just launched.
- 3:56SPEAKER_01: We're in pre-sale right now until the 11th.
- 4:00SPEAKER_01: This is such a great way to just jump into my community if you haven't done one of my programs before.
- 4:06SPEAKER_01: Because pre-sale is only 444, and you can even do that in two payments.
- 4:11SPEAKER_01: So it's just such an easy, no-brainer way to get into my energy and get this activation.
- 4:18SPEAKER_01: This energy of the high priestess, I started working with back in the spring.
- 4:23SPEAKER_01: It became activated within me when I was speaking to Debbie Solaris, who was on the podcast before.
- 4:30SPEAKER_01: And um, you guys all know I really have been going deep in my journey around my galactic and cosmic connections and um understanding what those are and what those energies are that I'm working with, that I'm kind of transmitting to all of my clients, which creates the results that they receive so quickly.
- 4:51SPEAKER_01: So this is a very specific energy that is in my galactic lineage that is of the master healer, quantum alchemist, abundance and money witch, magician.
- 5:02SPEAKER_01: Like it's all of the things.
- 5:04SPEAKER_01: Like, whenever I tune into the energy of this program, I literally see a woman like conjuring energy, like moving her arms around and creating energy with her arms, and then like drawing energy to her with her arms.
- 5:19SPEAKER_01: Like that's the vibe of this program.
- 5:22SPEAKER_01: So it's really freaking cool.
- 5:24SPEAKER_01: And you know that I love to help people learn how to work with their energy so that they can create the life they desire because really energy is our greatest currency.
- 5:36SPEAKER_01: And when we can learn how to work with that, then everything else just becomes easy.
- 5:40SPEAKER_01: Like the money stuff becomes easy because you know how to work with your own energy and you're not available for bullshit, right?
- 5:48SPEAKER_01: You're not available to get sucked into other people's energy, you're not available to feel responsible for other people because you know how to work with your energy, you know where your energy starts and stops, and where other people's energy starts and stops.
- 6:03SPEAKER_01: And that's something we were just not taught in this world where everything is kind of upside down and backwards.
- 6:09SPEAKER_01: So this program is gonna be amazing.
- 6:11SPEAKER_01: It's only four weeks, so it's a great way to just kind of jump in and get a boost.
- 6:16SPEAKER_01: It's gonna create a lot of speed for you, a lot of magic, a lot of abundance, and um just going deep, because I can't help it.
- 6:23SPEAKER_01: We go really deep in all of my containers.
- 6:26SPEAKER_01: So, what you're gonna receive here is you're gonna receive all of the recordings from the last time I ran this program when it was called Quantum Priestess before, but now we kind of change the vibe a little bit.
- 6:37SPEAKER_01: But you're gonna receive all of those recordings, which include energy work, plus my teachings around all of the ways that we can embody this energy, plus a breath work session, plus four live QA calls with me, where we'll be doing QA and coaching around this energy.
- 6:56SPEAKER_01: And also all of my calls are frequency upgrades and attunements just because of the frequencies that come through me, the galactic and cosmic frequencies that come through me as I'm teaching.
- 7:08SPEAKER_01: So this is gonna be amazing.
- 7:10SPEAKER_01: It's gonna be magical.
- 7:11SPEAKER_01: And if you are really wanting to step into your power in a new way and claim it and own it in a new way for 2023, then this is for you.
- 7:21SPEAKER_01: So just reach out to me.
- 7:23SPEAKER_01: Um, you can DM me on Instagram to get the link, and we will also post it below.
- 7:28SPEAKER_01: And if you have any questions, of course, reach out to me.
- 7:31SPEAKER_01: I'm sending you so much love, and I will talk to you soon.
- 7:36SPEAKER_01: Hi, everyone, welcome back to the show.
- 7:39SPEAKER_01: So today we have a super awesome guest.
- 7:43SPEAKER_01: She is part money medicine woman, part business wizard, and part street talking spiritual best friend to her over 16K Instagram followers.
- 7:52SPEAKER_01: Victoria Washington is at the helm of a financial revolution.
- 7:58SPEAKER_01: Um, after filing for bankruptcy, she started her coaching business from scratch.
- 8:02SPEAKER_01: And three years later, she's a seven-figure global brand and has supported over 3,000 women on the journey of financial liberation.
- 8:10SPEAKER_01: So, Victoria, welcome to the show.
- 8:12SPEAKER_00: Thank you so much.
- 8:14SPEAKER_00: I'm so happy to be here with y'all and can't wait to see where this conversation goes.
- 8:18SPEAKER_00: Me too.
- 8:20SPEAKER_01: Um, so yeah, I'd love to dive right in and hear just a little bit about your story.
- 8:25SPEAKER_01: I'm sure you get asked this so many times, but like just maybe giving us a couple points on your journey that were really pivotal for you or really propelled you into where you are now.
- 8:37SPEAKER_00: Of course.
- 8:37SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 8:38SPEAKER_00: I mean, I am now a creative director, a CEO, a founder of a really successful company.
- 8:44SPEAKER_00: And I love supporting entrepreneurs and women of all walks of life in breaking free of the conditioning that society places on us so that they can not just be financially free, but fully embodied in their wealth identity.
- 9:00SPEAKER_00: But I started at the opposite end of that.
- 9:04SPEAKER_00: I started my business with really nothing to my name.
- 9:07SPEAKER_00: I was leaving a relationship back in Chicago and starting over in my life and moved to San Diego with a one-way ticket and like$400 to my name.
- 9:17SPEAKER_02: Wow.
- 9:18SPEAKER_00: And I remembered that version of me so hungry and so committed to my mission and what it is that I wanted to do in the world, but I had no idea the journey and the breakthroughs that really came along with that.
- 9:33SPEAKER_00: So it's that ignorance is bliss, and I was just ready for it and went for it.
- 9:38SPEAKER_00: So my first year of business was a lot of ups and downs, and like many entrepreneurs, just trying to figure out who I was and how I fit into the coaching industry, which I had just discovered.
- 9:49SPEAKER_00: And shortly after that, I filed bankruptcy.
- 9:52SPEAKER_00: My financial rock bottom is what I call it, but it was really a bigger setup for something more beautiful.
- 9:59SPEAKER_00: And that moment changed my life completely.
- 10:02SPEAKER_00: It changed the trajectory of my path.
- 10:04SPEAKER_00: It showed me where I wasn't fully valuing myself, wasn't in a respectful relationship with money, and really had a lot of ownership to embody.
- 10:16SPEAKER_00: And within 12 months, I completely turned around my financial reality.
- 10:21SPEAKER_00: We had our first six-figure year, and then shortly after, a multiple six-figure year.
- 10:26SPEAKER_00: And today we're a multiple seven-figure company.
- 10:30SPEAKER_00: And it's all just a testament to the practices and the work that I teach today.
- 10:36SPEAKER_00: I did it with myself in my living room and knew that I wanted to share it with the world with as many people as possible.
- 10:43SPEAKER_01: Wow.
- 10:44SPEAKER_01: So what was it like that moment of the financial rock bottom that kind of propelled you into being like, okay, how do I change this or how do I fix this?
- 10:53SPEAKER_01: Or what is like the answer here?
- 10:56SPEAKER_00: That moment just was such a giant mirror for a lot of different choices that I had made in my life before then.
- 11:05SPEAKER_00: And I remember sitting on the park bench outside of the courthouse in such shame and disbelief that this was even happening.
- 11:12SPEAKER_00: I mean, I wasn't even 30 yet and I was filing bankruptcy.
- 11:15SPEAKER_00: It was that question of how did I get there?
- 11:17SPEAKER_00: How did this happen?
- 11:18SPEAKER_00: And I didn't have an answer.
- 11:20SPEAKER_00: It was a combination of so many different things.
- 11:22SPEAKER_00: And I just felt this conviction and this moment of I am not going to be a statistic.
- 11:31SPEAKER_00: And I know I'm not the only woman on this planet who feels really lost when it comes to what it means to have a relationship with money.
- 11:39SPEAKER_00: And the mindset work that I'd been presented wasn't truly getting to the depth that I needed.
- 11:46SPEAKER_00: And that's when I was inspired to turn towards somatic healing and really getting into the roots of my money lineage and understanding that I didn't choose to be on that bench, really.
- 11:58SPEAKER_00: There were mothers and grandmothers and grandfathers in my bloodline that had chosen that unconsciously.
- 12:05SPEAKER_00: And this is where wealth truly gets passed down through the body.
- 12:10SPEAKER_00: The ideas of money, the ideas of what money can and can't be, my lived experiences as a biracial black woman.
- 12:16SPEAKER_00: There's so many different things that mixed together that formed my perception of wealth and then resulted in the decision that I made to file bankruptcy.
- 12:25SPEAKER_00: So I went on it, it inspired me to go on a really deep journey.
- 12:29SPEAKER_00: And money ended up being more of like a pilgrimage.
- 12:32SPEAKER_00: It was a teacher that showed me a lot more than just cash.
- 12:36SPEAKER_00: It showed me so much beyond that.
- 12:38SPEAKER_01: Wow.
- 12:39SPEAKER_01: There are so many like directions I want to go with this.
- 12:43SPEAKER_01: First of all, I totally relate.
- 12:45SPEAKER_01: And I had a similar experience when I started my business where I really had to clear a lot of that ancestral trauma around money and um what I was carrying from like generations being passed down of being poor, being a failure, feeling like a failure, all of that stuff.
- 13:02SPEAKER_01: Um, it just came like rushing up to the surface when I made the declaration that I was gonna have a six-figure business, you know, in the first year, which I did, but I I really had to clear that stuff.
- 13:16SPEAKER_01: And it's like that war cannot be skipped.
- 13:20SPEAKER_01: I totally relate to that and also just around the shame.
- 13:25SPEAKER_01: I think there is so much shame related around money, especially for women, that has to be cleared as well.
- 13:32SPEAKER_01: So, yes, 100% to all of that.
- 13:35SPEAKER_01: So, can you tell us a little bit more about how did you start to understand and develop these practices?
- 13:42SPEAKER_01: Because I totally agree with you.
- 13:43SPEAKER_01: Like the mindset work is just not, you can say the same thing over and over again, but it's not gonna change what's happening, like on a physiological, energetic level for you.
- 13:54SPEAKER_01: So, like, what were some of the ways that you kind of started to shift that for yourself?
- 13:59SPEAKER_00: I will say that mindset work really opened the door to what's possible.
- 14:03SPEAKER_00: And it was my turn to turn possibility into a life, like an actual life that I could trust and unpack my bags and unleash my identity within.
- 14:16SPEAKER_00: And so for me, it started literally on my living room floor.
- 14:20SPEAKER_00: I'm a yoga teacher by nature.
- 14:22SPEAKER_00: I was a teacher for eight years.
- 14:24SPEAKER_00: I've been in movement and has have taught movement for most of my life.
- 14:29SPEAKER_00: So that's what I returned back to.
- 14:31SPEAKER_00: I remember thinking if I could just rip the scarcity off of me, it felt like an itchy sweater that I just wanted to rip off, then I would.
- 14:40SPEAKER_00: And I had this thought in my head of, well, what if you just did that right now?
- 14:44SPEAKER_00: I mean, you would see me in my living room looking like I'm doing nothing.
- 14:47SPEAKER_00: But in my head and in my heart and in my body, I was peeling off these layers of scarcity and having a somatic experience of liberating myself.
- 14:57SPEAKER_00: And that grew into a full practice that's now called wealth embodiment flow.
- 15:02SPEAKER_00: And it's eight different postures that take you on a journey of financial transformation.
- 15:08SPEAKER_00: And shortly after that moment in my living room, I went to Sedona for New Year's Eve.
- 15:13SPEAKER_00: And that's when I channeled the whole practice.
- 15:15SPEAKER_00: I remember being on in the bedroom of the Airbnb and I wrote down the sequence to wealth embodiment flow.
- 15:22SPEAKER_00: And it felt like I downloaded a technology.
- 15:25SPEAKER_00: It was a set of steps.
- 15:26SPEAKER_00: And what I love about wealth embodiment flow is it doesn't leave out scarcity, whereas some money practices will have you try to erase scarcity or get rid of it in wealth embodiment flow, we work with it, we move with it, we breathe with it, we learn because scarcity represents the rejected parts of ourselves and it represents the opportunity to transcend the story of our ancestors.
- 15:52SPEAKER_00: And so through this practice, I went from being really angry at my scarcity and so ashamed of it and annoyed by it to proud and so grateful that it was here to teach me what gifts I truly could unlock in this life.
- 16:08SPEAKER_00: And it showed me that our ancestors don't just leave behind these old patterns and bad things.
- 16:15SPEAKER_00: They leave behind clues and gifts of where they left off.
- 16:19SPEAKER_00: And they're saying, here, pick it up.
- 16:21SPEAKER_00: Here's the torch, here's the light, light the match, go do the thing that we couldn't do in our lifetime.
- 16:27SPEAKER_00: And the journey is so powerful because in it, you are, yes, exploding and experiencing these different levels of abundance and wealth, but you're also coming back home to your body.
- 16:42SPEAKER_00: And the main mantra that we use throughout wealth embodiment flow is body leads, mind follows.
- 16:48SPEAKER_00: And the body is really the most powerful instrument when it comes to rewriting a financial reality.
- 16:56SPEAKER_00: So that's where it began was with me in my living room.
- 16:59SPEAKER_00: And today, over 3,000 people have practiced it and it still blows my mind.
- 17:04SPEAKER_01: Wow, that's so freaking cool.
- 17:06SPEAKER_01: I like need to know what the what this looks like because it's so awesome.
- 17:10SPEAKER_01: Because through my own journey with money, I've learned about the connection between our bodies and money.
- 17:18SPEAKER_01: But I'd love to hear your like a deeper perspective from you on like what really is that relationship and why is this embodiment piece so crucial to changing our wealth consciousness?
- 17:32SPEAKER_00: Well, one thing that we teach inside the House of We is where I teach wealth embodiment flow.
- 17:37SPEAKER_00: It's the House of Wealth Embodiment, and it's our money membership.
- 17:40SPEAKER_00: One of the first things we teach you in there is that cash is an object, it's the thing that you can hold, it's this tangible thing.
- 17:49SPEAKER_00: But money is not cash.
- 17:51SPEAKER_00: Money is a relationship, it's a modality of exchange.
- 17:55SPEAKER_00: It requires intimacy, reciprocity, all the same things that a real relationship would hold in your life.
- 18:01SPEAKER_00: And then wealth is really an identity.
- 18:05SPEAKER_00: You either identify as somebody who is wealthy, aka valuable, or you don't for many different reasons.
- 18:12SPEAKER_00: Our lived experiences, society, shame, rejection, all those things can chip away at our wealth identity.
- 18:22SPEAKER_00: And really what we're building when it comes to money is the understanding that I am valuable and that I am actually the abundance that money has been waiting for, not the other way around.
- 18:35SPEAKER_00: So the mind is one layer of that, but the body I call is the record keeper of every single memory and every single moment that you've had within your relationship with money.
- 18:49SPEAKER_00: And then even deeper than that is your mother's relationship with money and your grandfather's and their grandfathers.
- 18:56SPEAKER_00: And before we ever pass down the object of cash through our bank accounts, we pass down wealth through our body.
- 19:04SPEAKER_00: We pass it down through our blood, through our energetic signature that our lineage holds.
- 19:11SPEAKER_00: So when women and different humans who have done the wealth embodiment flow, when they do this practice, they're often met with memories that aren't even theirs.
- 19:20SPEAKER_00: Like they're seeing things from different lifetimes and different parts of their family.
- 19:26SPEAKER_00: And that is where the true information is.
- 19:30SPEAKER_00: And that's where you can use the feedback from the body to create history and truly change the face of wealth for your family.
- 19:40SPEAKER_00: So it goes so much deeper.
- 19:42SPEAKER_00: And then we bring in the mindset work as maintenance and as a supplement to the embodiment piece.
- 19:49SPEAKER_00: Because when the mind is in a somatic experience, that's when transformation takes place.
- 19:56SPEAKER_00: That's when breakthrough happens.
- 19:58SPEAKER_00: Whereas if you just did mindset work alone, a lot of the times you're gonna have an aha moment, but an aha moment is temporary.
- 20:06SPEAKER_00: A breakthrough creates permanent shifts on a cellular level.
- 20:11SPEAKER_00: So that's why we use the body and then we add in the mindset work on top of it afterwards.
- 20:17SPEAKER_01: Wow.
- 20:18SPEAKER_01: I love that so much.
- 20:19SPEAKER_01: And it's really true.
- 20:20SPEAKER_01: Like we are, I often would get this visual, you know, during my own process where it felt like I was literally like turning a ship around, like a big cruise ship, like for my entire lineage.
- 20:33SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 20:34SPEAKER_01: And it was like just such a powerful moment of realizing that like that's what I was doing, you know, and it's like it's such powerful work that I do believe so many of us agreed to do in this life.
- 20:48SPEAKER_01: And it's not even just about money, it's just about shifting all of these patterns of scarcity.
- 20:56SPEAKER_01: And I love how you were talking about scarcity as kind of like working with it and embracing it, because I relate it so much to the trauma work that I do where when we're working with our shadows and those pieces of ourselves that we've compartmentalized, it's not about releasing them, it's about embracing them.
- 21:14SPEAKER_01: And I feel like it's kind of the same thing that you're talking about with scarcity, which is such an amazing way to look at it.
- 21:21SPEAKER_01: Cause I do think there's so mostly everyone, you know, is just talking about like shifting out of scarcity, right?
- 21:28SPEAKER_01: But it's like, I love how you're describing it because it makes it makes so much sense.
- 21:33SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it's part of wealth, you know, and the we can't have wealth without scarcity, and vice versa.
- 21:40SPEAKER_00: Even as I've created, you know, multiple six figures or six figure months, you know, there's plenty of cash and there's still some scarcity.
- 21:48SPEAKER_00: There's either the fear of losing it, or what if somebody takes it, or what if this isn't permanent?
- 21:54SPEAKER_00: You know, those are all thoughts of scarcity.
- 21:56SPEAKER_00: So every time we open up a new doorway.
- 22:00SPEAKER_00: Of wealth, or we embrace a deeper state of wealth, there's going to be another teacher in the room.
- 22:07SPEAKER_00: And can we hold the power of our wealth identity while also holding that little bit of scarcity that might come in?
- 22:16SPEAKER_00: And when we allow scarcity to be a part of our financial liberation story, all of us gets to come.
- 22:24SPEAKER_00: And so there's less chances of you sabotaging it, and there's less chances of you making yourself wrong.
- 22:32SPEAKER_00: And one of the mantras that we say in House of Wii is if I can feel it all, I can have it all.
- 22:38SPEAKER_00: I was just celebrating with someone yesterday.
- 22:41SPEAKER_00: I keep making the joke.
- 22:42SPEAKER_00: I feel like a raccoon that just crawled out of a trash can.
- 22:45SPEAKER_00: I got really sick with COVID.
- 22:47SPEAKER_00: We had, I had some personal things that were happening.
- 22:49SPEAKER_00: It was like the tower card and tarot, like everything felt like it was crashing down.
- 22:54SPEAKER_00: And then I looked at our numbers for the month and we did, you know,$125,000 a month with no launching.
- 23:01SPEAKER_00: I was a hot mess most of the time and absolutely was not pristine and abundant.
- 23:06SPEAKER_00: And it just showed me that that mantra is so true.
- 23:11SPEAKER_00: If I can feel it all, then I can have it all.
- 23:14SPEAKER_00: Nothing feels contingent on me being perfect anymore.
- 23:17SPEAKER_00: And that is the most liberating feeling in the entire world.
- 23:21SPEAKER_00: So really, when we're talking about financial freedom, we're talking about being liberated from money, not liberated with money.
- 23:30SPEAKER_00: And in that, your wealth and your money becomes not something that you own or have to keep, but something that you're here to express.
- 23:40SPEAKER_00: Whether you're in a crappy situation or things are perfect.
- 23:45SPEAKER_00: And in that, there's so much more fluidity and freedom and less pressure and really a sense of peace.
- 23:54SPEAKER_00: And that's my wish for everyone is that they feel at peace with being a valuable vessel for money to be channeled through, whether you're broken or whether you have it all figured out.
- 24:05SPEAKER_01: Wow.
- 24:06SPEAKER_01: I love that so much.
- 24:07SPEAKER_01: And that's why the self-worth piece is just such a huge thing around being able to attract more money.
- 24:14SPEAKER_01: And it's like exactly what you're saying about feeling that you're valuable.
- 24:19SPEAKER_01: So it's such a huge, huge part of that.
- 24:21SPEAKER_01: And I feel like there's also this misconception that people end up having that if they aren't feeling, you know, their best or in their power or feeling really good about themselves, then they're not going to attract like new clients or money or whatever it is.
- 24:37SPEAKER_01: And like that's so not true, right?
- 24:39SPEAKER_01: Like you just described that you just need to be open and willing to feel the entire gamut of what you're meant to feel in this life, right?
- 24:52SPEAKER_01: Because we're human beings, we're emotional creatures.
- 24:54SPEAKER_01: Like we're gonna feel the entire spectrum of emotions.
- 24:59SPEAKER_01: And to just be an allowance of that instead of feeling making it wrong or bad if you feel shitty.
- 25:06SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 25:06SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 25:07SPEAKER_00: That's exactly it.
- 25:08SPEAKER_00: And I also see there's an opportunity for a lot of us to explore the difference between attractive versus valuable, because they're very different.
- 25:18SPEAKER_00: And I think that the word attract has, I don't often use it because it can usually trigger some sort of external validation.
- 25:27SPEAKER_00: And when you look up the dictionary definition of attractive, it's pleasing to the eye, it's sexually alluring.
- 25:33SPEAKER_00: It's someone that's good looking, nice looking, beautiful, pretty.
- 25:37SPEAKER_00: So when we use the word attract, and I just recently shifted this, and it's super interesting to see how it's been playing out.
- 25:45SPEAKER_00: When we say, like, I'm gonna attract clients or attract my ideal client, we're really saying I'm gonna look good for them.
- 25:52SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna be nice and beautiful and pretty and alluring for them.
- 25:56SPEAKER_00: And then we slip back into those old patterns of what can I fix and change about myself, versus the word valuable is quite literally you being of worth.
- 26:08SPEAKER_00: You're not even worthy.
- 26:09SPEAKER_00: You're you're quite literally made of it.
- 26:11SPEAKER_00: The creator made you and you are of the creator, you're of worth.
- 26:16SPEAKER_00: So as we shift these small little words, we start to free ourselves from the idea that we're separate from what we desire.
- 26:24SPEAKER_00: Like the ideal client, the business, the money, none of it's actually separate from you.
- 26:29SPEAKER_00: There's nothing that you need to do to attract it.
- 26:33SPEAKER_00: It's already within you.
- 26:35SPEAKER_00: And we get to embody the understanding of that value.
- 26:39SPEAKER_00: And that's what allows us to clear our perception of ourselves and take action and pursue what it is that we're here to create with more reverence and conviction.
- 26:50SPEAKER_00: And that's what actually turns things into a reality is the action and the pursuit of I'm going towards that.
- 26:58SPEAKER_00: And it's already mine.
- 27:00SPEAKER_00: That's when you tear down every wall and it's like nothing's gonna stop you.
- 27:04SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 27:04SPEAKER_01: Oh my God, totally.
- 27:06SPEAKER_01: I love that so much because I also feel like now that you're talking about the difference between those two words, what's also occurring to me is the idea of attracting also kind of falls into like the old programming around like not only just people pleasing, but you know, I have a lot of clients who come from like the traditional medical model, whether they were physical therapists or OTs or, you know, and now they have a coaching business.
- 27:34SPEAKER_01: And a lot of what we're doing is like clearing all of this old programming around like, I need to get the results for you, or I need to do the work for you.
- 27:44SPEAKER_01: And I feel like the word attract like also has that kind of connotation, the way you're describing it.
- 27:50SPEAKER_01: So it feels very much like that old model of like, I somehow have to do it for you or be this thing for you.
- 28:01SPEAKER_01: So that really just blew my mind.
- 28:04SPEAKER_01: Yes, that's a huge point of connection.
- 28:06SPEAKER_01: I can totally see that.
- 28:07SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it's just this old paradigm, you know, because I I came from a background of being a school counselor for 10 years, and it was the same thing, like in when I, you know, got my master's degree and everything.
- 28:18SPEAKER_01: It's like you need to do these things to get these results for these kids, right?
- 28:24SPEAKER_01: And you're responsible for the outcome of whatever happens or whatever.
- 28:30SPEAKER_01: And that programming is so just like in there, you know, and it comes up at every turn.
- 28:37SPEAKER_01: So, like, I love the way you're talking about this attract versus just inherently having value or inherently having worth just because you're you.
- 28:49SPEAKER_01: Yeah, exactly.
- 28:50SPEAKER_01: I love that so much.
- 28:52SPEAKER_01: So I kind of want to go back to like, okay, so you downloaded this series of movements because I'm sure that was like a huge energetic shift for you in your life after that happened.
- 29:03SPEAKER_01: So, what was your experience after that experience of downloading that?
- 29:07SPEAKER_00: Well, I started practicing it myself a lot, and I began to discover the intersection between wealth and the nervous system and how prosperity and abundance and money, like how it actually really does connect back to your identity, your lived experiences, and the way that your body recorded those loves lived experiences.
- 29:30SPEAKER_00: And at the time in the coaching industry, you know, this is a few years ago, nobody was really talking about nervous system regulation like we see today.
- 29:37SPEAKER_00: Breath work still wasn't even really all that popular.
- 29:41SPEAKER_00: I mean, today it's huge.
- 29:42SPEAKER_00: Almost everybody I know is is certified in breathwork.
- 29:46SPEAKER_00: And back then it just wasn't a heavy topic.
- 29:48SPEAKER_00: So I was actually really nervous and felt like, what the heck am I supposed to do with this?
- 29:54SPEAKER_00: How am I supposed to market this or share this with other people?
- 29:57SPEAKER_00: So I did it more secretly behind the scenes with my private clients, and I started to see them receive and move through these huge results.
- 30:05SPEAKER_00: And then I did some underground classes with some groups that I was leading.
- 30:09SPEAKER_00: And I was like, well, let me see how this is in a group setting.
- 30:12SPEAKER_00: And I my soul was just on fire with it.
- 30:14SPEAKER_00: I was like, if I could do one thing all day, it's teach wealth embodiment flow.
- 30:18SPEAKER_00: It was just so magical.
- 30:20SPEAKER_00: So I had the idea to launch it as a course, and this was right at the beginning of the pandemic, before I knew it was a pandemic, and it completely flopped.
- 30:30SPEAKER_00: I mean, the industry wasn't ready for it.
- 30:32SPEAKER_00: Nobody knew really what I was talking about.
- 30:34SPEAKER_00: There was so much panic in the world and so much happening at that time that it just wasn't the environment for it.
- 30:41SPEAKER_00: But I felt called to move it forward.
- 30:46SPEAKER_00: And after it flopped, I thought to myself, okay, maybe this isn't what I thought it was.
- 30:52SPEAKER_00: Maybe I just continue to do this on my own.
- 30:54SPEAKER_00: Maybe this isn't something that I offer publicly.
- 30:56SPEAKER_00: So I sort of paused it and I did some other work.
- 30:59SPEAKER_00: And over the summer, I had a hit of the house of wheat.
- 31:04SPEAKER_00: I was like, this isn't a course.
- 31:06SPEAKER_00: This could never be a six-week course.
- 31:08SPEAKER_00: This is a lifestyle.
- 31:09SPEAKER_00: Being embodied in your wealth, wealth embodiment is a lifestyle.
- 31:13SPEAKER_00: It's a house, it's a village, it's a community, it's this lineage that I wanted to create within the coaching industry and then into the world.
- 31:22SPEAKER_00: And so I launched it as a membership in October two years ago.
- 31:27SPEAKER_00: And it was insane the response.
- 31:30SPEAKER_00: I mean, the world was ready for it, the industry was ready for it.
- 31:34SPEAKER_00: I changed up the marketing.
- 31:36SPEAKER_00: I really focused on making it a practice that people could easily understand and tune into.
- 31:46SPEAKER_00: And we had over 100 members our first launch, and it's just continued to grow from there.
- 31:51SPEAKER_01: Wow.
- 31:52SPEAKER_01: It's so interesting how we like get information and then it's not quite the right time, or it has to kind of things have to kind of line up, and you're not exactly sure like what it is, but you know that it's something.
- 32:05SPEAKER_01: Exactly.
- 32:06SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I can totally relate to that, but um, that's so amazing.
- 32:11SPEAKER_00: How does the membership work?
- 32:13SPEAKER_00: The House of Wealth Embodiment operates with two different rooms.
- 32:17SPEAKER_00: So I imagine it like a beautiful hotel lobby when you walk in, you're in the House of Wheat, and you're greeted with, to me, one of the most phenomenal communities.
- 32:26SPEAKER_00: We have women of all walks of life who are doing such amazing things in the world, and they're so committed to not just the liberation for themselves, but for others.
- 32:37SPEAKER_00: One of our mantras is we are changing the face of wealth as the world knows it.
- 32:42SPEAKER_00: So everything we do inside the house is us for the world.
- 32:46SPEAKER_00: It's never just me and my own liberation, it's for somebody else on this planet.
- 32:51SPEAKER_00: And that's really why I believe the membership has rippled out the way that it has.
- 32:55SPEAKER_00: And inside the membership, there's two different rooms.
- 32:58SPEAKER_00: You can either go into the wealth embodiment studio, and that's where we practice wealth embodiment flow and our mantra, body leads, mind follows.
- 33:06SPEAKER_00: So all of the practices in there have the body first.
- 33:09SPEAKER_00: And then there's also Money Monday QA's.
- 33:13SPEAKER_00: We have a workshop once a month in there on money, and it's a juicy studio where you just get to fully tell the story of your financial liberation.
- 33:21SPEAKER_00: And then we have a lot of entrepreneurs inside the house.
- 33:24SPEAKER_00: So the second room is the wealth embodiment academy, and that's where we focus on now you have this strong wealth identity.
- 33:31SPEAKER_00: Let's bring it into your business.
- 33:33SPEAKER_00: And we focus on marketing, branding, and taking your wealth to the next level through the channel of your business and turning it into a company.
- 33:44SPEAKER_00: So our two main goals is to make your relationship with money feel simple and elegant, and to take the guessing work out of marketing and allow you to become the liberator of your life through your business as a CEO.
- 34:00SPEAKER_01: Wow.
- 34:01SPEAKER_01: Oh my gosh.
- 34:02SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 34:02SPEAKER_01: So one of the things that you said was your wealth identity.
- 34:06SPEAKER_01: And like, how would you describe that?
- 34:09SPEAKER_01: Like if somebody was like, well, what does that mean, your wealth identity?
- 34:12SPEAKER_00: It's really being somebody that perceives yourself as valuable, truly, because wealth translates into value.
- 34:20SPEAKER_00: And when you are fully embodied in that, everything else is a byproduct: cash, clients, money, business, everything, your relationships.
- 34:32SPEAKER_00: So it's really returning back to the roots of your why, why you matter, why what you're doing matters, why your relationship with money is important.
- 34:44SPEAKER_00: And like I said in the beginning, returning back to the fact and the truth that you are the value that money is waiting for.
- 34:52SPEAKER_00: Money is nothing without you.
- 34:54SPEAKER_00: It can't change the world, it can't build things, it can't circulate itself.
- 35:00SPEAKER_00: Money does nothing without you.
- 35:01SPEAKER_00: You are truly the value.
- 35:03SPEAKER_00: You're the point of connection.
- 35:05SPEAKER_00: And that being in your identity, it changes your behavior, changes your attitude.
- 35:11SPEAKER_00: It changes the way you walk, the way you talk, the way you speak, the way you write your copy, the way you sell everything.
- 35:18SPEAKER_00: So that's why we start there, because it's at the base of everything.
- 35:22SPEAKER_01: Wow.
- 35:22SPEAKER_01: That's so powerful.
- 35:23SPEAKER_01: And even just like making the connection to just like, you know, with what's going on collectively right now, and thinking about like how our current currency or whatever, like used to be backed, quote unquote, by something and it's not really anymore.
- 35:40SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 35:40SPEAKER_01: Um, and this idea of we're kind of the value of it is like this really kind of new paradigm way of thinking about it.
- 35:50SPEAKER_01: And I feel like it's so needed right now because I feel like the world in general is just like, okay, how do we even perceive money at this point?
- 35:59SPEAKER_01: Because is crumbling like the old way of looking at it.
- 36:02SPEAKER_00: It is.
- 36:03SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 36:04SPEAKER_00: And that's why I think looking at it as a modality of exchange is huge because it's going to continue to change forms.
- 36:13SPEAKER_00: But at the end of the day, how I see it is money is it shows up for me as a feminine consciousness, is wild, it's untamed, it wants to exchange, it wants to be circulated, it wants to be moved through the world, it wants to be created with.
- 36:28SPEAKER_00: And if we can have a steady vessel and a steady ground for that relationship to flourish, there's no limit to what we can create and what we can do.
- 36:41SPEAKER_00: And the definition of cash and the definition of how we exchange, that's gonna continue to change and that's gonna continue to evolve with humanity.
- 36:52SPEAKER_00: And this is the first time, and it's actually spectacular that we're seeing it happen in real time.
- 36:59SPEAKER_00: And I believe that the ones who have an understanding of their value are the ones who are gonna do great things with this chapter.
- 37:09SPEAKER_01: A hundred percent.
- 37:10SPEAKER_01: I couldn't agree more because I think also like getting to that place where you really are honoring what you know you're meant to be doing here, as much as it's scary or you're worried about what other people think or whatever it is, just by you honoring that is like holding yourself in such a higher regard.
- 37:28SPEAKER_01: Like it's holding yourself as having value because you're honoring like what you know you're meant to be doing.
- 37:35SPEAKER_01: So that in itself, I feel like is immediately raises your value and how you perceive your value.
- 37:43SPEAKER_01: So yeah, I love that so much.
- 37:46SPEAKER_01: I'm curious to know too, like when people come in and start doing this work, what would you say are some of the like biggest like challenges that people face as they are like creating this wealth identity and like kind of doing this transformation within themselves?
- 38:02SPEAKER_00: Well, there's a ton of resistance, you know.
- 38:04SPEAKER_00: The mind doesn't want to move, it doesn't want to look stupid, it doesn't want to look dumb or do it wrong.
- 38:12SPEAKER_00: When I'm guiding wealth embodiment flow, you know, you're doing some pretty weird stuff.
- 38:17SPEAKER_00: You're you're in a somatic experience.
- 38:19SPEAKER_00: So your body might be having you on the floor, might have you against the wall, might have you doing these different shapes or sounds.
- 38:26SPEAKER_00: And the biggest thing that comes up is the mind interrupting that process and saying, this is stupid, this isn't working, you're not doing it right, you know, that inner critic begins to come in because the mind can feel the body going outside of its comfort zone, and the mind drops into its primary function, which is to keep you, quote unquote, safe.
- 38:45SPEAKER_00: So our first point of resistance is redefining safety, what's actually safe?
- 38:52SPEAKER_00: Where does that actually live in your body?
- 38:54SPEAKER_00: And in that, we take back the power and we can move with the mind.
- 39:00SPEAKER_00: So even if the mind is saying those things, we still allow the body to hold the mic because the body really is the wisest part of this whole thing.
- 39:08SPEAKER_00: And if we can learn to listen and understand what the body is telling us, then the body can take the lead and start to teach the mind a whole new way of living.
- 39:17SPEAKER_00: So that's the first thing is that resistance and the tug of war with your head.
- 39:22SPEAKER_00: And you start to see that what it is you desire is not blocked.
- 39:27SPEAKER_00: There's something that has a hold of your mind.
- 39:30SPEAKER_00: There's something that has you blinded to who you really are.
- 39:33SPEAKER_00: And in wealth embodiment flow, it's not a pretty practice.
- 39:37SPEAKER_00: You know, we are roaring, sometimes screaming.
- 39:41SPEAKER_00: There's a part where you're catharding.
- 39:43SPEAKER_00: And really what that is, is it's pulling up the conviction to say, no, I am complete with this contract.
- 39:50SPEAKER_00: I am no longer negotiating with fear.
- 39:53SPEAKER_00: I am now in a contract with me and my mission.
- 39:56SPEAKER_00: And that takes strength, it takes fortitude, it takes effort, and it takes getting messy.
- 40:03SPEAKER_00: So when you first enter into the practice, you are confronted and we don't mess around.
- 40:10SPEAKER_00: It's not pretty.
- 40:11SPEAKER_00: So it's that first layer of like, okay, I'm gonna let myself unravel.
- 40:15SPEAKER_00: And it's it takes trust and, like I said, mental fortitude to really go there.
- 40:19SPEAKER_01: Oh, yeah, a hundred percent.
- 40:21SPEAKER_01: I mean, you kind of have to let yourself unravel or like kind of dismantle all of that stuff that's like holding this old paradigm in place, like this old way of looking at yourself.
- 40:35SPEAKER_01: So yeah, a hundred percent.
- 40:37SPEAKER_01: That is not a a pretty process for sure.
- 40:41SPEAKER_02: It ain't cute.
- 40:44SPEAKER_00: Definitely, I'm like, would you rather be right or rich?
- 40:48SPEAKER_00: Would you rather be cute or liberated?
- 40:51SPEAKER_00: Because it's gonna get real messy real fast.
- 40:54SPEAKER_01: Oh my god, totally.
- 40:55SPEAKER_01: I love that.
- 40:55SPEAKER_01: Would you rather be right or rich?
- 40:57SPEAKER_01: And then the other thing I love that you said is about redefining safety because I find um this is such a huge thing that comes up for me and my work with a lot of my clients is like when it comes down to it, just this inherent feeling of not feeling safe.
- 41:14SPEAKER_01: Yeah, how do we find what safety is, right?
- 41:17SPEAKER_01: If we've never truly felt safe in the world, then how do we find what that is?
- 41:22SPEAKER_01: And like it's it's kind of like a process of, like you said, redefining it or like cultivating it within yourself.
- 41:30SPEAKER_00: So I'm curious to know your perspective on that.
- 41:33SPEAKER_00: It's difficult to put it into words because safety is so different for every person and it's really a felt sense.
- 41:40SPEAKER_00: For me, it's all comes back to my relationship with God, with me really understanding that I'm not in control and I'm not meant to be in control.
- 41:50SPEAKER_00: As much as I took that on as a pattern to get my needs met and make sure that things happened in a specific way, it's really not my original design.
- 42:00SPEAKER_00: And there's a level of submission that comes with safety of will you submit to life?
- 42:07SPEAKER_00: Will you submit to your desires?
- 42:09SPEAKER_00: And then will you be obedient to where you're being called to go without knowing what it's gonna look like yet?
- 42:16SPEAKER_00: It takes leadership and trust to truly be in the embodiment of safety.
- 42:24SPEAKER_00: So uh for me now, my deepest state of safety is when I remember that I am connected to God, the creator, and when I'm in deep prayer and I can fully relax in the knowing that life has me, that life wants to move through me.
- 42:45SPEAKER_00: And life chose me, and God chose me to woke up, wake up today.
- 42:49SPEAKER_00: And I'm not always gonna know what it looks like, but my true leadership allows me to walk, being led by something much bigger.
- 42:59SPEAKER_00: And so it's building a relationship with that.
- 43:02SPEAKER_00: That is what to me cultivates true safety.
- 43:04SPEAKER_01: I a hundred percent agree.
- 43:06SPEAKER_01: I feel like that's one of the things that is just part of the journey, is like letting go of needing to know how everything is gonna happen.
- 43:15SPEAKER_01: Um, and just trust that it's gonna be better than I can imagine.
- 43:19SPEAKER_01: And I just follow my intuition and I follow where I'm led without needing to know how.
- 43:25SPEAKER_01: And I'm always saying that to people.
- 43:26SPEAKER_01: I'm like, you don't need to know exactly how it's gonna happen.
- 43:29SPEAKER_01: Because the funny thing is, it never happens how you think it's going to.
- 43:33SPEAKER_00: One thing I ask myself a lot is well, what happened the last time you were really brave?
- 43:38SPEAKER_00: What happened the last time you loved?
- 43:40SPEAKER_00: What happened the last time that you gave it all you got?
- 43:44SPEAKER_00: And almost always it's you know what, what happened was beautiful, even if it got ugly at times.
- 43:49SPEAKER_00: I think we learn, and I really discovered this this past month to not put one moment above the next, to not put the really good stuff on a pedestal, because some of the messy stuff.
- 44:00SPEAKER_00: Stuff is just as beautiful.
- 44:02SPEAKER_00: And when we can take away all those labels, to me, we live in such a safe environment because then you can just be in the experience of God creating through you.
- 44:14SPEAKER_00: It's really not about us creating this reality.
- 44:16SPEAKER_00: It's about being willing and submissive enough to be created through.
- 44:21SPEAKER_00: Is your vessel open and available and emotionally available for life to create through you?
- 44:27SPEAKER_00: Are you emotionally available for more wealth to be circulated through you?
- 44:31SPEAKER_00: Are you emotionally available for more clients?
- 44:34SPEAKER_00: It's really so connected to that.
- 44:38SPEAKER_00: Like, are you actually available?
- 44:40SPEAKER_01: Oh my gosh, a hundred percent.
- 44:42SPEAKER_01: Because if you like haven't really dealt with yourself and you haven't really gone to those places, then you're not emotionally available because there's so much that needs to still be processed.
- 44:52SPEAKER_01: But when you're willing to feel everything, like you said in the beginning, then that's when you can allow everything to move through you.
- 44:59SPEAKER_01: And I think it's such an important point too, especially in this process, like not make things right or wrong.
- 45:05SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 45:05SPEAKER_01: I see that with people so much where it's like, oh, well, I did this thing that I felt called to do and it didn't turn out right or it turned out bad.
- 45:15SPEAKER_01: So like I must not have a good connection to my intuition or whatever it is.
- 45:19SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, no, like just because it turned out that way doesn't mean it was wrong.
- 45:23SPEAKER_01: Like it means it was supposed to turn out that way.
- 45:26SPEAKER_01: Like you're the one who's deciding it was like quote unquote bad.
- 45:30SPEAKER_00: I couldn't agree more.
- 45:31SPEAKER_00: People always ask me, like, what's your if you could like share one secret?
- 45:35SPEAKER_00: And I always say, I stopped making myself wrong.
- 45:39SPEAKER_00: And it's not in an egotistical way, but it's in this really loving, compassionate way.
- 45:45SPEAKER_00: I think we underestimate kindness towards ourselves.
- 45:49SPEAKER_00: And when you stop making yourself wrong, you open up to this entirely new world and evolution of what's really available to you.
- 46:00SPEAKER_00: And it creates a deeper state of trust and integrity with yourself, which, like you said earlier, increases your value.
- 46:08SPEAKER_00: So I think that this is such an underrated point of awareness is just how often do you make yourself wrong?
- 46:15SPEAKER_00: Because the moment you make yourself wrong, you're in trouble.
- 46:17SPEAKER_00: And how do you act when you're in trouble?
- 46:19SPEAKER_00: Like a scared little girl, or you get resentful, you might throw a fit, you might get angry.
- 46:25SPEAKER_00: And that's how a lot of people are honestly running their businesses and leading their lives, but they don't really realize it.
- 46:31SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 46:31SPEAKER_01: Oh my gosh, a hundred percent.
- 46:33SPEAKER_01: I couldn't agree more because I feel like a lot of times when I'm working with people, what I can really see on a deep level is just how poorly they're treating themselves.
- 46:45SPEAKER_01: And it's almost like I can see that they're like literally like beating themselves up from the inside.
- 46:51SPEAKER_01: And I can feel the energy of that.
- 46:54SPEAKER_01: And it's so, it's so harsh and it just diminishes their value towards themselves because they're constantly making themselves wrong.
- 47:03SPEAKER_01: And I think it can be, you know, I'm curious your perspective on this too, because I think it can kind of be sometimes like a catch-22 or a really hard thing in the, you know, in just the personal development space where it's like you get so caught up on trying to figure out like what you need to fix or what's wrong with you that it turns into you just constantly beating yourself up or trying to fix something.
- 47:27SPEAKER_00: I feel that there's moments and chapters of growth where you really are consciously poking at new edges and seeing where it is that your soul wants to evolve and expand.
- 47:39SPEAKER_00: And then there's also chapters of settling in to the consistency or the steadiness of what it is that you've created.
- 47:47SPEAKER_00: And it takes a lot of emotional intelligence and an understanding of your body-based sensations to tell you what the next move is.
- 47:56SPEAKER_00: So that's why I'm so passionate about bringing people back to their body, because you can always tune in and ask, you know, is it time to stretch and push that new edge and see what else is there for me and my evolution?
- 48:11SPEAKER_00: Or is it time for me to steady this practice or integrate this and slow down?
- 48:17SPEAKER_00: And it just depends on where you are and to me, what it is that you're pursuing.
- 48:22SPEAKER_00: Because desire alone, Price Pritchett teaches this, doesn't create anything.
- 48:28SPEAKER_00: Pursuit does actually getting up and pursuing it.
- 48:31SPEAKER_00: So I think it's important to also know where are you going?
- 48:34SPEAKER_00: Where did you say you're gonna go?
- 48:36SPEAKER_00: And use that as a measurement of am I in a chapter of growth or am I in a chapter of steadiness and solidifying the work that I've already done?
- 48:46SPEAKER_01: Yeah, definitely.
- 48:47SPEAKER_01: And it and just that, like you said, the emotional intelligence to know the difference is huge.
- 48:55SPEAKER_01: So yeah, I a hundred percent agree with that.
- 48:57SPEAKER_01: And the other thing I wanted to ask you about is you mentioned a few times like having a respectful relationship with money.
- 49:04SPEAKER_01: And I'd love to like go a little bit deeper into like what that means to you.
- 49:08SPEAKER_00: It's really the same as having a respectful relationship with yourself because money is gonna mirror back how you feel about yourself.
- 49:16SPEAKER_00: One of the first questions that we ask our students inside the house of we is for the next 24 hours, and anybody listening, you can do this.
- 49:23SPEAKER_00: It's really insightful.
- 49:24SPEAKER_00: For the next 24 hours, ask money, what is it like to be in relationship with me?
- 49:30SPEAKER_00: And when I first asked money this question, I received a heartbreaking answer of it feels like I'm in a jail cell.
- 49:36SPEAKER_00: It feels like no matter what I do, I'll never be enough.
- 49:39SPEAKER_00: It feels like, ugh, like a sound of like uh came out.
- 49:44SPEAKER_00: And then I realized that's how I feel about myself.
- 49:47SPEAKER_00: That's how I feel in relationship with myself.
- 49:50SPEAKER_00: And then I took it one step further and I asked my partner, what's it like to be in relationship with me?
- 49:55SPEAKER_00: And he said a lot of beautiful things, but one of the things he said is it feels like I'm a little bit stuck.
- 50:00SPEAKER_00: And that was like the jail cell feeling.
- 50:02SPEAKER_00: So it showed me my codependent patterns with money were the same codependent patterns with myself and my relationships.
- 50:09SPEAKER_00: So we start to see the common denominator, and that's why to me, one of the very first steps is taking ownership and really being in the self-responsibility of all right, I might not have chosen this.
- 50:22SPEAKER_00: A lot of this was likely passed down, but I'm raising my hand to transcend it.
- 50:27SPEAKER_00: And that question will open up so much for you to see that money is just mirroring back to you how you feel about yourself, how much you're willing to be loved, how much you're willing to be opened.
- 50:41SPEAKER_00: It's a really visceral experience when you go deep with that question.
- 50:44SPEAKER_01: Oh my gosh, I love this question.
- 50:46SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna feel into this for 24 hours.
- 50:48SPEAKER_01: And I'm gonna ask my husband.
- 50:49SPEAKER_01: He's probably gonna give me some annoying but good information.
- 50:54SPEAKER_00: Yes, you will.
- 50:55SPEAKER_00: And that's why, you know, and that's the power of feedback and asking really powerful questions, but you have to be ready.
- 51:02SPEAKER_00: You have to be ready to take ownership of it and not take offense to it.
- 51:06SPEAKER_00: And as much as I hated that he shared that, I I felt it.
- 51:11SPEAKER_00: I could feel the truth in it.
- 51:12SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 51:13SPEAKER_00: So I'm excited to see what comes through for you.
- 51:15SPEAKER_01: Me too.
- 51:16SPEAKER_01: I mean, this just this whole conversation has has really like sparked a lot for me.
- 51:21SPEAKER_01: This is obviously your gift is to shift people's consciousness around money and wealth.
- 51:27SPEAKER_01: So just like your energy does that.
- 51:30SPEAKER_01: So you can feel it, or I can feel it for sure.
- 51:34SPEAKER_01: And I'm sure all the listeners will be able to too.
- 51:37SPEAKER_01: I love that.
- 51:38SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I mean, I can usually feel people's like mission and purpose when I talk to them.
- 51:43SPEAKER_01: So yours is obviously very clear.
- 51:45SPEAKER_01: Not that you didn't already know that, but I appreciate that reflection.
- 51:49SPEAKER_00: I'm going through a lot of changes in my own career, and that felt like a little wink.
- 51:54SPEAKER_00: So I received that very deeply.
- 51:56SPEAKER_00: Oh, good, good.
- 51:57SPEAKER_01: I'm glad I know I have this thing where sometimes I say things to people and they're like, that's like what I needed to hear from the universe.
- 52:05SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, okay, cool.
- 52:07SPEAKER_01: Glad I could help.
- 52:08SPEAKER_01: I love it.
- 52:10SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 52:11SPEAKER_01: So if you could just share too, like how everybody can find you and like where they can sign up for the membership or find more information about that, because um, I'm sure people will want to.
- 52:21SPEAKER_00: Absolutely.
- 52:22SPEAKER_00: You can follow us at the House of We on Instagram or thehouseofwe.com has a link where you can add yourself to the wait list.
- 52:30SPEAKER_00: So those two are available for you.
- 52:33SPEAKER_00: And then personally, you can find me on Instagram at I am Victoria Washington.
- 52:37SPEAKER_00: And that's where I share all my updates and everything that's happening and ways to work with me and and learn.
- 52:43SPEAKER_00: Awesome.
- 52:44SPEAKER_01: Thank you so much.
- 52:45SPEAKER_01: And so, for our final question that I ask everyone for you, what is a non-negotiable when it comes to fully reclaiming your consciousness?
- 52:55SPEAKER_00: Such an interesting question.
- 52:57SPEAKER_00: The first thing that comes to my heart is God.
- 53:01SPEAKER_00: And God's just a non-negotiable in every area of my life.
- 53:06SPEAKER_00: I am so humbled that I'm alive and that I can steward money and be in a mission-driven lifestyle.
- 53:16SPEAKER_00: And it's a softening and it's a part of my leadership, and it's something that is at the root of everything that I do.
- 53:23SPEAKER_00: And whenever it comes to expansion or reclaiming or liberation, I always come back to that, my relationship with God.
- 53:32SPEAKER_00: And where would God have me go?
- 53:33SPEAKER_00: And what would God have me transcend in this lifetime?
- 53:36SPEAKER_01: I love that so much.
- 53:37SPEAKER_01: I mean, I I completely agree.
- 53:39SPEAKER_01: Like your relationship or all of our relationship with God, with spirit, whatever you want to call it, is like literally everything.
- 53:49SPEAKER_01: It's like what is guiding you?
- 53:50SPEAKER_01: And like, you know, that whole thing that you're talking about about being the vessel and just like letting that energy move through you.
- 53:57SPEAKER_01: Um, it just creates that that level of safety and trust that I think we're all kind of looking for, especially right now.
- 54:05SPEAKER_01: So yeah, I love that so much.
- 54:07SPEAKER_00: Thank you for asking such a powerful question.
- 54:10SPEAKER_01: I know, but sometimes I'm like, is this question gonna throw people off just because it's it's a lot?
- 54:16SPEAKER_00: I love it.
- 54:17SPEAKER_00: I'm a Scorpio, so I go deep.
- 54:19SPEAKER_00: I'm like, ask me all the deep.
- 54:20SPEAKER_00: Oh my god, I'm a Scorpio too.
- 54:21SPEAKER_00: That is the most Scorpio question ever.
- 54:23SPEAKER_00: I love it.
- 54:24SPEAKER_00: I know.
- 54:25SPEAKER_01: I literally I get like so bored with not like really deep questions.
- 54:31SPEAKER_01: I'm just like, what are we even doing here?
- 54:34SPEAKER_01: What's the meaning of life?
- 54:35SPEAKER_01: Yeah, exactly.
- 54:37SPEAKER_01: When's your birthday?
- 54:38SPEAKER_01: Um November 12th.
- 54:39SPEAKER_01: Okay, I'm November 5th.
- 54:41SPEAKER_01: Wow, I love it.
- 54:42SPEAKER_01: We're November babies, it's the best.
- 54:44SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I know it really is.
- 54:46SPEAKER_01: I have a lot of Scorpios in my life.
- 54:48SPEAKER_01: My parents are both Scorpios, nope.
- 54:50SPEAKER_01: And a bunch of Scorpio friends, yeah, it's crazy.
- 54:52SPEAKER_01: There's so many.
- 54:53SPEAKER_01: It's like it's wild.
- 54:55SPEAKER_00: So oh, I love that.
- 54:57SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I'm not surprised you're a Scorpio.
- 54:59SPEAKER_01: I could totally feel that in your vibe.
- 55:01SPEAKER_00: It's so obvious.
- 55:02SPEAKER_00: I love it.
- 55:03SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 55:04SPEAKER_01: Awesome.
- 55:05SPEAKER_01: Well, thank you so much for being here.
- 55:07SPEAKER_01: This was truly amazing.
- 55:08SPEAKER_01: And I feel like this is gonna be really activating for everyone.
- 55:11SPEAKER_01: So I really appreciate you taking the time to be here.
- 55:15SPEAKER_01: And yeah, I'm definitely gonna be checking out the membership and just can't wait to connect with you more soon.
- 55:21SPEAKER_00: Amazing.
- 55:22SPEAKER_00: Thank you for having me.
- 55:22SPEAKER_00: I can't wait to hear how your community receives this, and it's been an honor.
- 55:27SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 55:28SPEAKER_00: Thank you.
- 55:31SPEAKER_01: Thank you so much for being here.
- 55:33SPEAKER_01: Don't forget to subscribe to the show, leave a review, and share the show with your friends who you know are yearning for this type of content.
- 55:40SPEAKER_01: You can stay connected with me by following me on Instagram at elise underscore breeds, and by joining my Facebook group, Breed to Succeed, where I share my weekly energy forecast.
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- 56:02SPEAKER_01: See you next time.