Latest / Men's Morning Devotional / Fewer Words, More Wisdom
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- 0:01SPEAKER_00: Gentlemen, every day is a battle.
- 0:04SPEAKER_00: A battle for your faith, your family, and your purpose.
- 0:08SPEAKER_00: The men who stand strong don't prepare when the battle arrives, they prepare before it begins.
- 0:14SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the men's morning devotional.
- 0:17SPEAKER_00: Let's get into God's word.
- 0:19SPEAKER_00: It's time to man up.
- 0:26Christian Calatayud: Good morning, gentlemen.
- 0:28Christian Calatayud: This is Christian Kaladiou here with you for another man up moment.
- 0:32Christian Calatayud: And gentlemen, like I said before, if you're enjoying this, if this is touching you, if this is speaking to you, why don't you go ahead and share it with a brother?
- 0:40Christian Calatayud: We're in Proverbs chapter 10, and today's devotional is called Fewer Words, More Wisdom.
- 0:49Christian Calatayud: Today we're going to be diving into Proverbs chapter 10, verse 19, the New King James Version.
- 0:55Christian Calatayud: And it reads, In the multitude of words, sin is not lacking.
- 1:00Christian Calatayud: But he who restrains his lips is wise.
- 1:05Christian Calatayud: I think it's important to note here that Solomon isn't against talking.
- 1:10Christian Calatayud: He isn't against communicating.
- 1:14Christian Calatayud: He's against talking without restraint.
- 1:17Christian Calatayud: And we need to notice a little bit of the math in this verse.
- 1:22Christian Calatayud: It's not some words carry some risk.
- 1:26Christian Calatayud: It's in the multitude of words, sin is not lacking.
- 1:31Christian Calatayud: You see, a man that shows himself prudent by being sparing with his words, especially when he doesn't yet fully understand what he's talking about.
- 1:45Christian Calatayud: That is not weakness.
- 1:47Christian Calatayud: Restraint is not weakness.
- 1:50Christian Calatayud: It was a sign that a man actually understood something.
- 1:55Christian Calatayud: And these sayings that we find in Proverbs, it's common sense that is now elevated into wisdom.
- 2:01Christian Calatayud: And this is meant to be lived out daily, not just admired as some poetry that we read in the morning.
- 2:09Christian Calatayud: This verse is exactly that kind of everyday wisdom.
- 2:15Christian Calatayud: You see, most men don't get into trouble because they said too little.
- 2:20Christian Calatayud: They get into trouble because they kept talking past the point that they had anything worth to say.
- 2:34Christian Calatayud: Was it because someone stayed quiet a little too long?
- 2:39Christian Calatayud: Or was it because someone couldn't stop talking?
- 2:43Christian Calatayud: A wise man, which we are all aiming to be.
- 2:48Christian Calatayud: A wise man isn't silent because he has nothing to say.
- 2:53Christian Calatayud: He is restrained because he knows every word he adds is another word that he will need to be accountable for.
- 3:02Christian Calatayud: So here's our man up challenge for today.
- 3:06Christian Calatayud: In our next conversation, whether it be with a friend, with a family member, with our wife, or with a business partner.
- 3:16Christian Calatayud: Our next conversation today, especially if it's a tense one, we need to say less than we want to.
- 3:23Christian Calatayud: Let there be a pause before you respond and ask yourself if the next sentence actually needs to be said or it's just filling space.
- 3:36Christian Calatayud: Let's practice being men whose words carry weight.
- 3:41Christian Calatayud: Let's pray.
- 3:43Christian Calatayud: Lord, we thank you for the wisdom of restraint.
- 3:49Christian Calatayud: Lord Jesus, we ask that you would forgive us for the words that we might have spoken that added nothing but sin.
- 3:57Christian Calatayud: Lord, teach us how to hold our tongue before we open our mouth.
- 4:02Christian Calatayud: And Lord, help us speak only what actually needs to be said.
- 4:09Christian Calatayud: Lord, make our words fewer and heavier.
- 4:14Christian Calatayud: Make them worth listening to because they're worth saying.
- 4:19Christian Calatayud: We love you, we praise you, and we thank you.
- 4:23Christian Calatayud: In Jesus' name, amen.
- 4:28SPEAKER_00: All right, gentlemen, you've heard God's word.
- 4:31SPEAKER_00: Now go live it.
- 4:33SPEAKER_00: Lead well, stand strong, honor God in everything you do.
- 4:38SPEAKER_00: Share this devotional with another brother.
- 4:40SPEAKER_00: Remember, every day is another opportunity to man up.