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The American Woman Still Believes in Marriage | Episode 2 · Sincerely American

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Stop trying to cater yourselves to people who hate everything
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you stand for. Now we're getting back to like
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that All American Beauty. There is something alien and
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kind of off putting about somebody that has like their
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whole face done where. It's like I'm not ugly, I'm just
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poor because the beauty standard is just so far gone.
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A little fake little guy. This is the type of shit that
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would throw a Victorian era child into a coma.
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Like just own your beauty and your uniqueness.
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Create a better future for yourself that doesn't emulate or
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look like your. Past Drink more water, get some
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exercise, find a real purpose in your life, eat a healthier diet
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and go to church and it will improve your life dramatically.
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A lioness does not concern herself with.
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We'll figure it out, I promise. Take that.
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Advice from Democrats when they've like, literally run the
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government. Marriage and motherhood is
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literally the best decision you can ever make.
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It's everything you could possibly need is right here.
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Hi everyone, and welcome back to Sincerely American.
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Thank you guys so much for all the love and support we got last
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week. We just genuinely are so
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inspired by everyone. We love you guys so much and
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we're just so thankful for this amazing community that we're
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building and I just can't wait to see what we will have in
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store in the future. I know with what we pulled off
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and the time span that we did and just making this all come to
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fruition so quickly and just bouncing on the opportunity when
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we got it, it's just so Cam and Jamie Kor, not even thinking it
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through, just knowing that like we love each other so much.
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Our friendship has grown so much over the years and we just want
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to share that with you guys. So thank you for supporting us
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personally, also professionally, and I'm ready to get started.
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Reminder, we'll be here every Wednesday morning whether you
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like it or not. OK, let's get into the episode.
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We have a lot of fun things to cover today.
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Per usual, I'm excited about this episode.
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Yeah, we have a lot more note cards this time, so I guess we
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have a lot more to Yelp about. We have a lot to say as always.
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I saw this all over X throughout the last like what, 5 days
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maybe? And this is Emma Watson, who
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like, I, I don't know if this is just me.
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I've not seen this woman in a movie for years now.
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Like maybe I'm missing something.
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But I don't know why she continues to be famous.
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To be honest. She everything that comes out of
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her mouth has just been annoying.
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But so she's 35 years old and she's saying the pressure to get
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married is violence against young people.
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Let's roll the clip. It's such a violence and it's
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such a cruelty on people and especially young people, I think
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to me, and especially women, to make them feel like they have no
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worth or like they haven't. Succeeded yet in life because
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they haven't. Forced to its.
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Culmination. Something that I just don't
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think can or should ever be forced.
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Reverse stigma nowadays with getting married young, it's
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actually discouraged nowadays when, you know, back when our
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grandparents were getting married, you know, or our
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grandfathers were like going to war or they were marrying their
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high school sweetheart at like 1718 years old.
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And it was in a culture that was actually celebrating that when
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when you were creating a legacy with your spouse and creating
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children and a family, that was something to actually be
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encouraged in society. And it was actually widely
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accepted and appreciated because you're in a covenant with
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somebody and you're passing on your family name and your
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legacy, and it creates more meaning and purpose in your
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life. And now we live in a day and age
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where now it's frowned upon. I don't understand that.
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Yeah, I think you touched on something important.
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The stigma is actually in reverse, like these feminists
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pretend like there's some pressure to get married.
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Now, I will say, so I grew up in the San Francisco Bay Area, and
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then I've only lived in DC or New York.
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I lived in New York for one year.
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So I've only lived in like very liberal areas my entire life.
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And so I got married at 23 and I had Vivian at 24.
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And my husband is basically the same age as me.
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And I always joke to people, I'm like a Teen Mom in DC.
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Like I go to classes and all the moms are a lot older.
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Because I think, you know, I looked this up one time, but the
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average age that women are having kids in the DC area is 33
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years old. And so that's obviously like 10
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years older, almost 10 years older than when I had Vivian and
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I, I just go to these classes and everyone's so much older.
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Like a lot of my friends also are in a different season of
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life that are my age that live in the DC area.
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Like I don't have actually any girlfriends that are my age that
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have kids. And so I, I think the stigma is
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actually in the reverse of people all the time.
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Think I'm Vivian's nanny around here.
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Cuz I mean, I take it as a compliment.
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I am 27. So it's not like I'm 27.
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I'm not a teenager and I'm not in my early 20s anymore.
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But the the stigma is totally in reverse.
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And so many people nowadays are being encouraged, women in
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general to not have children anymore.
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And that is just such a crazy thing because like our ancestors
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think about the decision not to have children.
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You have ancestors that, you know, fought tooth and nail to
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continue your family legacy. And then some millennial in this
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day and age, it's like, you know what?
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I like living in my Brooklyn apartment and having my cat and
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drinking rose. And I don't want kids.
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So I'm just going to end my whole bloodline.
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It is such a selfish way of, of living, if you truly think about
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it. And I think a lot of men, even
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your husband would attest to this.
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When you have children who are relying on you and you have a
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wife and you're their sole provider as a man, it gives your
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life more purpose and more meaning.
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Same with women, same with moms. I, I can't really speak on this
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with too much authority. I'm not a mom yet, but Jamie is.
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And I would say that ever since I've seen you become a mom, you
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have drastically changed in a lot of ways for the better.
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And and that's why we have become so close.
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And, you know, you know, we have the dynamic that we have.
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We've seen each other in every single season of life.
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And it has given your life more purpose and more meaning.
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Would you say so? 100% marriage and motherhood is
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literally the best decision you can ever make.
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And I also hate this thing that your life stops when you, you
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know, like people be like, I need to achieve this before I
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get married or before I have kids.
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Why? You can, you can achieve
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anything when you're married and you have kids.
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Like I, I don't even that precedent that we've set in
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society is also really weird to me.
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I think we have also a huge trend of delayed adolescence and
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this Peter Pan syndrome where you're having people at 35 years
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old act like they're still 20 years old and going out to
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clubs, partying, just want to drink the entire weekend and
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just want to live for themselves.
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Or the 35 year olds that haven't found themselves yet, Like Hunt,
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you're 35 years old, you found yourself.
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This is who you are. And I, I think, you know,
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there's never going to be the perfect time in life.
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And I know we're going to get into this later to have kids,
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but just jump into it and have fun.
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And it's not violence. And the last thing I'll bring up
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on this topic is I love how they talk about violence non-stop,
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that, you know, speech is violence.
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If you say this is violence, if you say a man can't become a
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woman, that's violence. I guess, according to Emma
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Watson, to pressure woman to get married is violence.
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Yet when Charlie Kirk was assassinated, these people had
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nothing to say. So for liberals, everything is
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violence except actual violence. And as you know, we've been
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dealing with a lot of the left wing terrorism across this
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country. That is the violence, Emma
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Watson, that you should be condemning, not some stupid
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thing about getting married. I think these people are just so
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disconnected from reality. Speaking of disconnected from
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reality, I was so excited to talk about this topic.
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This is very controversial. And I, you know, Cameron and I,
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I know her very well. So I know we have like slightly
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different takes on this, but I really wanted to talk about
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because it's so big amongst like women our age.
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Like, I'll be out to brunch and I see a group of like women in
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their mid to late 20s talking about this at the table, about
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how they're going to therapy, therapy this, therapy that.
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And so I saw this TikTok the other day and I sent it to
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Cameron because I thought it was hilarious because it just
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perfectly encapsulates what I've always thought about therapy.
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Let's roll the clip. Ever just think about the fact
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that the worst person you know is probably in therapy being
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told it's OK to be selfish or like, you know, be encouraged to
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love themselves even more than they already do and.
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Then I also, Cameron, you sent me this in return and I thought
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this was a great one as well. Let's roll this clip too hot
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take. Why don't we bring back
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inconveniencing yourself to show up for people You don't want to
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go out, but it's your friend's birthday, Show up.
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Like we have gotten. Way too comfortable with these
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boundaries that we're setting. People nowadays treat therapy
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like going to church, and they make their their therapist.
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They're gone, essentially. When you go into a therapy
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session. So it's different than like
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example, when I have something in my life, I always call
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Cameron. If I'm like dealing with some
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type of drama, some type of difficult thing, maybe difficult
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situation, job things in the past, like I've always called
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you or I call my parents or I talk to my husband, of course,
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and they are in my life. So they understand all different
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sides of that because they're very integrated in my life.
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When you go to a therapist, this person most likely is extremely
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removed from your life. So you are going in and a lot of
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times telling your truth, not the whole truth.
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The other person say you're going in to talk about a
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situation, pretend Cameron and I are in a fight and I go in to
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speak to a therapist. I'm only telling my side and my
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and that therapist only gets to hear my side.
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They don't get to hear your side, for example.
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And so I think a lot of these therapists are really
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reinforcing a lot of toxic mindsets for these people and
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reinforcing their toxic viewpoints.
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And that's why you're seeing this culture too, where it's
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like, cut off your mom, cut off your dad, create these
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boundaries. Protect your peace.
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Yeah, protect your peace. And this is terrible advice.
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And this I am. I actually think this is my
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hardest take. I think therapy has been one of
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the worst things that's ever happened in this country, that
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people just in mass are going to therapy.
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And I'll make some exceptions if you're dealing with an extreme
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grief loss of a child, that is the time to go to therapy to be
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able to have the steps to move forward in your life like
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extreme trauma like that. If you're doing obviously
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substance abuse issues, if you're a war veteran who's
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dealing with PTSD or you have a real mental health crisis, not
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that you're just anxious and you're feeling a little down.
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I'm talking about you're dealing with schizophrenia or an extreme
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eating disorder. That would kind of be my caveat
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to this. Otherwise, I think there's so
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many better ways in your life to deal with issues.
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And I think if you do have, if you're anxious or you are
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depressed in your life, instead of just dwelling on it and
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talking about it all day, it's just such a narcissistic way to
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live. I mean this, it might sound
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simple. Drink more water, get some
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exercise, find a real purpose in your life, eat a healthier diet
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and go to church and it will improve your life dramatically.
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I completely agree and I think with this culture too, though,
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if you have the heart posture and you're going into therapy
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and you're like, I really do want to better myself and you're
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more solutions oriented going in there with the purpose of I need
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to fix XY and Z in my life because I've seen this be a
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pattern of behavior essentially that has been negative in my
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life and has been on a like a repetitive cycle.
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I understand that. But if you're going in there
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just to harp on the same childhood trauma and placing
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your identity and your hardships, you're not going to
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get anywhere in life. I think, you know, I've been
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through things in my childhood where I really didn't grow up in
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the perfect like white picket fence home with two parents in
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my household. But I think that a lot of people
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choose to be victims in today's day and age instead of choosing
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to be victorious and not letting those things define you.
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Instead, you're going to use that to drive you to create a
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better future for yourself that doesn't emulate or look like
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your past. And I think today's day and age
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people aren't going into therapy for the correct reasons.
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I think people are going into therapy to be vindicated in
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their own emotion that like they feel justified and reacting a
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certain way or they feel justified in this situation.
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Like you said, you're only getting one person's reality.
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Perception is reality. They only have it to go off of
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their client who is paying them. And so I just don't think that
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people are utilizing therapy nowadays to the fullest extent.
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If you're lacking mentors in your life, I understand that.
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Or maybe people in your life you don't want to end up like
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someday and you're seeking outside counsel and like you go
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in with that mindset. I actually empathize with you
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and I agree that's actually a good thing to go do.
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But like Jamie noted to, you can find a community within your
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church. You can find people who have
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seen areas of your life behind closed doors that others may
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have not, and so I do think that there are better ways to go
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about this. I think another issue with the
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therapy industry, it's a bunch of left wing nut jobs that get
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into this. I mean, it's the type of people
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that are reaffirming that like trans, like you can become a
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man, can become a woman. It's this type of group of
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people. I would never trust these people
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with advice. You're somebody who does go to
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church and you're actively pursuing the Lord and, you know,
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growing in your faith journey. I think it's really important to
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actually have a therapist who shares a similar world view to
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you. I think a Christian counselor is
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if you were to go to therapy is the only way that you can go
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about it. But the secular therapists are
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crazy and also, OK, more people are in therapy than ever, yet we
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have higher anxiety rates, higher depression rates.
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So it doesn't seem like therapy solving any issues for people.
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And I think because therapists are also financially
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incentivized to keep you in therapy.
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And so I look at a lot of people my age, obviously, like, we're
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dealing with affordability crisis in this last like five
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years, and they're paying hundreds of dollars a week to go
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talk about their feelings all day instead of actually doing
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stuff in their life to improve it.
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And it seems just like one big Ponzi scheme that's leaving
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everybody so miserable and depressed.
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I would just say the best form of therapy is opening up your
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Bible and really connecting with the Lord because all of
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scripture is rooted and just solid truths that stand the test
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of time and you don't want to be relying on the secular therapist
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who doesn't have the same worldview as you.
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Completely agree and the last point I'll make too is I feel
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like there this is such a hot day when a man says he's in
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therapy to me. I know like these liberal women
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love that I am the exact opposite.
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That is the biggest red flag. Ever.
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The gender lines have been blurred and like men just
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embracing these feelings. Like women are actually on a
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completely different hormonal cycle where like men only have
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one cycle. So you should be stoic and you
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should be rock solid in your emotions.
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Women have completely different cycles where their hormones are
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fluctuating up and down and it causes a little bit more or like
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just craziness. Crazy.
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I don't want to say craziness, but like just differences.
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Yeah, just differences in emotions and feelings depending
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on your cycle. And so it's just, I completely
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agree with you. It's just it gives me the ick
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almost. Yeah, if any guy is watching,
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whether these feminists admit it or not, what a woman wants out
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of a man. Just like men have things that
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they want out of women, what women want out of men is a rock
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solid man who's stoic and can handle anything that life throws
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their way. And that's why you see liberal
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women pursuing conservative men. And we will leave it there.
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Yeah, we'll leave it there. OK, heading into this next
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topic, totally changing course and getting to some less serious
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things, we wanted to talk a lot about beauty standards and just
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how they've really changed. There's a lot of constant
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talking about how our beauty standards are evolving and
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growing. Let's roll the clap.
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I feel like this is a really hot take and I might get a lot of
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hate for this, but I just want to start off by saying this is
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just my opinion. If you disagree that's fine.
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People love to talk about the body standards of the 2000s and
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the 90s, talking about how they were impossible and so strict
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etcetera etcetera etcetera. It could very possibly be
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because my body is naturally quite skinny, but I think the
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body standards of the 2000s and the 90s were far more attainable
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than the body standards right now because back then the only
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requirement was. To just be skinny.
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Yeah, I honestly just think today's beauty standards go
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against basic anatomy where your body cannot just be like skinny.
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And so most women would say this, your body can't just be
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skinny in certain areas. And then maybe like thicker and
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others. It just doesn't make sense.
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Like when you would go back to the 90s, even though people were
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saying this was just not an unserious, but it was very toxic
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culture of like drug use. And by unhealthy means of maybe
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just not eating, like feeling a lot of eating disorders, it was
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actually more obtainable or attainable because you could go
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on a diet, you could go to the gym.
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And now, today, it's only achievable through surgeries.
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And did you say that? Yeah, I would say that.
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I mean, the, the main crux of this is, yes, there was
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obviously a lot of the body standards, especially in the
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early 2000s. It's funny, we went through a
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different ebbs and flows of body standards because you know, you
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look at like Cindy Crawford in like the early 90s, late 80s and
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stuff that era and they were actually a little more
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voluptuous, a little bit more of an athletic body.
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I think that was the best era in terms of like body standards.
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And then it got very skinny, the heroin chic of like Kate Moss
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and everything. And now with the advent of the
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Kardashians, we are seeing the advent of, you know, you have
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the perfect skinny waist and then like the big butt and then
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the big, like boobs. And I totally agree.
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That is actually harder to get because at least the skinny, you
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can naturally get there. Sometimes it's very unhealthy,
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means not in any way promoting that.
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But that is impossible unless you get surgery.
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Like these people are getting BBLS, liposuction and boob jobs,
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which is costing them $50,000 plus probably.
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And then these girls are looking at it and thinking that these
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women naturally have these bodies.
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So it's a complete lie. Well, I think that's why you see
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so many comments now on TikTok where it's like, I'm not ugly,
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I'm just poor because the beauty standard is just so far gone
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where they're actually just romanticizing and propping up
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just fakeness. Like everything in today's
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culture is faking guy. And it, yeah, it's a little fake
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little guy. Yeah.
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And it's just ugly. I'm being honest.
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Like, I think there's a reason why a lot of people look back at
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images from like the models that I just mentioned and, you know,
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celebrities back in the early 2000s.
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And there was a real youthful natural look going on with a lot
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of these actresses in our favorite, like ROM coms and, you
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know, our favorite TV shows, even like The Vampire Diaries,
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which wasn't that long ago. And nowadays it's like everyone
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has the Instagram face. With the same Whoville knows.
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Yeah, exactly. And then the fake, but it's
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just, it's gross. I'm I'm over it.
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I'm like, bring back all natural.
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I think that's why people actually really love.
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I know Sydney Sweeney actually is very naturally blessed with
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like, you know, being big or busted and stuff, but she has a
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very natural looking physique and a natural looking face.
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And I, you know her, you can tell actually her boots are
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natural versus like having the, you know, the, the perfect
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boobs, like that's what you can tell have been done.
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You know what I mean? And so I think people like that
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it's more achievable. Exactly.
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That's what I was just about to say.
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The reason why women like Sydney Sweeney and like Livi Dunn,
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who's that LSU gymnast, the reason why they're so sought
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after and why so many people find them so attractive is
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because it's that true All American Beauty where it's like
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they're embracing their like, own natural physical features,
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maybe just accentuating them a bit.
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Obviously, like women want to wear makeup and look at their
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best self, but it's the girl next door.
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It is your neighbor or your nanny.
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So I, I love that where it's just now we're getting back to
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like that all American beauty instead of like trying to like
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achieve this algorithmically curated body that doesn't even
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look good in real life, if I'm being completely honest.
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Now it's tacky and it's ugly and we're ending it there.
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We're going to get into our next segment.
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I have no words. And that has to go to today to
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the Canterbury Cathedral, which is an old English church that's
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nearly 1800 years old. And it was used as an art
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exhibit. We'll show you guys the images
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by LGBTQ activists to promote inclusivity and representation.
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And the artist Alex Poet apparently self identifies as a
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they them queer, vegan. And for our listening audience,
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basically, they put graffiti all over this beautiful historic
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church. And like everything the left
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does. It looks freaking ugly.
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Yep, they're defacing this church.
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This is the type of that would throw a Victorian era child into
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a coma. Like there there's no word.
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Like when I say I put this in this segment for a reason, there
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truly is no words to describe. Like I can't even fully
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articulate how I feel about the subject.
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You're right though, if you took like a person from 100 years
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ago, even maybe even 50 years ago, and you'd be like, this is
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art. They'd be like, what?
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Modern art is so ugly and it's disgusting that they're defacing
20:39
the church. And I will say this as a
20:42
Catholic, This is why a lot of people are leaving, especially
20:45
mainline Protestantism, which is really sad because mainline
20:48
Protestantism built America and, you know, is obviously a big
20:51
part of like Anglo-Saxon culture.
20:53
And these Anglican, Episcopalian, Methodist,
20:57
Lutheran, I'm calling all your churches out.
20:59
They're all led by women now. They're all totally woke and
21:03
they all don't adhere to any biblical truths whatsoever.
21:06
And they're trying to, you know, have inclusivity and
21:09
representation for people who hate you.
21:12
Stop trying to cater yourselves to people who hate everything
21:16
you stand for. I'm so sick of it.
21:19
Yeah, you have the sacred church that is now just a canvas for
21:23
for woke vandalism and it doesn't even look good.
21:26
And I could go into to the architectural design of the
21:28
church and why this cathedral is so beautiful.
21:31
This is just civilization rot core in my opinion.
21:34
Yeah, I mean, you could find this art in Chicago or Portland.
21:38
It's it's not hard to come by some ugly graffiti.
21:41
It's in every major city that unfortunately I wish I could go
21:43
and scrub off myself. But churches, let's preserve
21:48
beauty and tradition and art. What I love about the Catholic
21:51
Church and why I'm proud to be a Catholic as well as we've
21:54
created the greatest architecture and works in human
21:56
history, truly the Catholic Church.
21:58
Has I completely agree with that.
22:00
That's why the the ceilings are high.
22:02
Makes you feel more connected to the Lord spiritually.
22:05
You have the stained glass windows with the vibrant colors
22:08
telling stories of the Bible and and times in history.
22:12
It makes you feel more connected to that time and to Jesus.
22:15
And I completely agree. That's where actually a lot of,
22:18
and I don't want to speak to anybody, but personally somebody
22:22
who goes to Christian, non denominational churches, it's
22:25
nice walking into a Catholic Church.
22:26
You do feel more connected to God then when you're in an
22:30
auditorium. It's kind of.
22:31
I do have that disconnect sometimes.
22:33
Well, I obviously love non denominational churches too.
22:36
They're amazing. I think they're actually the
22:38
best way to catapult people into the faith as well, which is I'm
22:42
really proud. In my family, we go to both
22:43
churches and I think that's spectacular for my daughter to
22:46
grow up with, you know, both versions of that.
22:49
But I think there is something to be said about people are
22:51
wanting tradition right now. And truly the only normal
22:54
churches in the West now are Catholic churches and non
22:57
denominational, which is why faithful Christians are going in
23:00
mass movements away from these mainline Protestant churches.
23:03
And if these churches want to get people back into the pews,
23:06
then start embracing real beauty, biblical truths and
23:11
real, you know, salvation in Jesus Christ.
23:14
OK, you guys now we're we're going to move to the non-toxic
23:17
advice. It's our time to bring you guys
23:23
in. And can I say you guys submitted
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23:32
started following us and have followed the Conservatory.
23:34
You guys are always amazing. I'm blown away by just how
23:36
intelligent these women are, but I was not expecting to have such
23:40
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23:42
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23:43
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23:53
So Sydney from New York asked, do you have any advice for young
23:57
women who want to get involved in politics?
23:59
I am in my early 20s and I've been working at an accounting
24:02
firm for several years. Overall, I'm looking for a shift
24:05
in my career but I have no idea where to start.
24:08
I love this question. She actually messaged me this
24:10
personally and I actually do get this question a lot.
24:14
I just think there is ample opportunity to find your footing
24:17
in the space because politics isn't just something where you
24:19
have a clear cut path to only doing one thing.
24:23
There's just so many different areas that you can in different
24:26
interests that you could pursue. I would just say, as Charlie
24:29
Kirk famously said, which really resonated with me as like an
24:33
1819 year old entering this space is self analyze what
24:38
you're good at and what you enjoy doing.
24:40
And the passion will follow. The money will follow whatever
24:44
you want will will follow in return.
24:46
And so I do think that's good. Just figure out what you're best
24:50
at and what you enjoy doing too. And that passion will follow
24:55
ultimately. And honestly, that's how we got
24:57
started and this this podcast came to fruition.
25:00
We love talking to each other about these issues on the phone
25:03
and we just get to do that in front of you guys now and share
25:06
that with you. And so, but there was a time
25:08
before that entering and I did grassroots, I worked on multiple
25:13
campaigns as an intern and I was door knocking.
25:15
I was doing like the least glamorous things you can do in
25:20
this space, but I was meeting the right people.
25:22
And I got to decide for myself, do I want to work on a local
25:25
level, state level? Do I want to pursue something on
25:28
the federal level? So it's good to hop around and
25:30
see what you're good at, what you're interested in, and then
25:33
again, the success will follow thereafter.
25:36
Yeah, I love that Cameron, both. Cameron.
25:38
I came from no political connections whatsoever.
25:41
You know, I grew up in Northern California.
25:43
I went to UC Berkeley, which is not especially a conservative
25:47
beacon of hope over there. So I didn't know very many
25:50
people in the Republican movement when I was in college.
25:53
And my parents are actually Canadian, so no real like
25:56
American ties. But I decided I wanted to work
25:59
in politics when I was inspired by, you know, my conservative
26:02
beliefs at Cal. And I just started I wanted to I
26:05
visited my Co founder Isabel, who was interning and Senate at
26:08
the time, and I went and visited her on Capitol Hill and I was
26:10
like, Oh my gosh, this is so cool to work here.
26:12
I want to intern here next summer.
26:14
So I went ahead. I emailed about 100 offices like
26:17
truly, I like just across the hill on the Senate side and on
26:21
the House of Representatives side.
26:23
And for those of you who don't know it, a lot of times they're
26:26
looking for people with ties to their state.
26:27
Coming from Northern California, there's not a ton of Republicans
26:30
in Congress. So I got back 99 no's.
26:33
No one even responded. I filled out like 50 million
26:36
applications. Took hours in my life, but I got
26:38
one yes. And it was to work on a Senate
26:40
committee, which was amazing. I flew out there that summer and
26:44
just started meeting and greeting and taking advantage,
26:46
soaking up every opportunity. That's a real cool thing about
26:48
working in politics that there's so many events, there's so many
26:51
things for you to do, little meet and greets and meet people.
26:53
And the number one thing I'll say is when you do get that
26:56
little foot in the door, just run, force the door open.
26:59
Be a very kind person to people and people will want to see you
27:02
get ahead. And also, you know, help other
27:04
people in return too. And that's immediately how my
27:07
career took off because I started just meeting new people.
27:09
And then that next summer, I went and worked on the Trump
27:11
campaign, then I met Cameron and when I worked in the White House
27:14
and then, you know, got my job over at Fox News.
27:17
And here I am today. And my second point I will make
27:21
is don't rely on necessarily like these legacy establishment
27:25
type jobs. Like working in a Senate office
27:27
is as amazing and cool as that is.
27:29
You can be a self starter. And that's why I started the
27:31
conservator, so you can build your own resume.
27:33
You don't have to wait to get these like incredible jobs in
27:36
order to start building a resume because people want to see
27:38
people who are passionate about different ideas and that are
27:41
willing to put themselves out there.
27:43
I think it's just a trait that a lot of employers look for.
27:46
And so don't be afraid to like go and do your own thing and
27:49
build your resume on your own. Because for me that I feel like
27:51
that has allowed me to achieve a lot of things in a short period
27:55
of time. Starting the Conservative of a
27:57
tour for you, it really just showed that you were in it for
27:59
the right reasons, that you were truly passionate about that
28:02
subject and it was genuine passion for it.
28:06
Because a lot of people will get in and maybe it's for the wrong
28:09
reasons. Maybe it's whether they're
28:11
pursuing money or attention or whatever the case may be.
28:15
Actually having something that you created yourself from the
28:18
ground up that took like time, effort and real thought will
28:22
really separate you from the other players in this space.
28:25
OK, moving. On Sarah Sarah from Georgia,
28:28
when do you think it's the best time to have kids?
28:31
Everyone these days say to wait and enjoy your 20s.
28:34
What are y'all thoughts? Y'all?
28:36
I love that. I do too.
28:38
I honestly, I don't want to speak on this again with too
28:42
much authority. I don't have children yet, but
28:44
honestly, I don't think that there's ever going to be a right
28:47
time. It's truly going to be on God's
28:49
timing. And I think in today's day and
28:51
age, people think, oh, I have to have like a certain net worth or
28:54
I have to be bringing in, you know, X amount per year and I
28:57
have to have this type of home. And honestly, like, and I think
29:01
Jamie can speak on this a little bit more.
29:03
I think when you're so calculated and trying to plan
29:06
this out, it actually overshadows the beauty and the
29:09
blessing that is having children because that is truly such a
29:12
gift that God put into your life.
29:14
And when you're trying to plan all of this stuff out, obviously
29:17
do not overlook biology and biological factors for women and
29:23
having children, making sure that you have healthy and viable
29:25
eggs when you're younger. I'm not saying that, but also
29:28
just I I personally think just being so calculated and that
29:32
decision making can really take away from the magic of it.
29:35
I completely agree. Everybody's so calculated in
29:38
this day and age. I need to have it at this time,
29:39
this time, this time. It's like get married and have
29:42
more kids than you can even pay for.
29:44
I love Tucker Carlson one time said that and I'm like, no one
29:46
gives that advice nowadays, but it's true.
29:48
I will say this though, as much as I'm like, like get married
29:51
young and have kids, I will say it's important to have kids with
29:55
the right person, which means marrying the right person.
29:57
So a lot of people, I think a lot of younger conservative
30:00
Christian women, you know, want to get married in their early
30:02
20s, of course. But if you haven't met the right
30:05
person, wait a second. And the right person is worth
30:08
waiting a little bit longer for because at the end of the day,
30:11
that is most important. And I hate when people put just
30:14
such like a strong thing on people's ages and stuff because
30:17
I truly think, you know, age isn't just a number when it
30:20
comes to stuff. So you shouldn't have pressure
30:22
around it. But you know, it is important to
30:24
be aware. A lot of people will get
30:26
married, you know, in their mid 20s.
30:27
They're like, oh, I'm going to wait till my 30s to have kids.
30:30
And that does come with biological risk because it's
30:32
much harder to have kids in your 30s.
30:34
So if you are in the position where you're married and you're
30:37
with the love of your life, then go ahead and get started and
30:40
start having kids. That would be my greatest piece
30:42
of advice. It's an amazing journey being a
30:44
mom. And my husband and Drake will
30:46
say the same exact thing. Becoming parents is truly the
30:48
greatest blessing in life. And if people used to have kids
30:52
in caves, you'll figure it out. I promise.
30:54
Like it's especially when they're babies and stuff you
30:57
don't like. A lot of people think they need
30:58
to buy a house. I I don't Drake and I don't live
31:00
in a house. We live in a condo.
31:01
We love our condo. It's very cute, but you don't
31:03
need to have this massive house. You don't need to have like this
31:05
perfect picket fence life already.
31:08
Just go at it and you'll figure it out from there.
31:10
And you'll be financially incentivized to just work your
31:14
absolute hardest because you want to give that child the
31:16
entire world. OK, our next question and our
31:19
last one today is going to be from Margo from Illinois.
31:21
How do you feel about plastic surgery and Botox?
31:24
My husband is very anti that, but I do eventually want to get
31:28
Botox, potentially lip filler and maybe even a boob job.
31:31
Is that wrong with me? I don't think it's wrong of you
31:34
and I think a lot of conservative women would, would
31:38
probably disagree with me on that.
31:40
But I would honestly just say for things like this, make sure
31:43
that your decision is rooted in logic and not emotions, because
31:48
the feelings that you have about your body, you know, those could
31:51
be fleeting and they could be temporary.
31:53
Make sure there's a logical reason and you've you've sought
31:56
out this decision and you've you've actually come to it with
32:00
intention and you've had a lot of clarity.
32:02
You know, don't just base sit off of, you know, I feel a
32:05
certain way or like I feel like I look like this because then a
32:08
couple years down the line you may not stand by that decision
32:11
anymore. Yeah, a lot of it's funny
32:14
because people like all the time like too much filler to me.
32:17
And I'm like, I've actually never gotten anything done.
32:19
Not because like I'm like anti plastic surgery.
32:21
I'm just like so lazy. And I get nervous to like put
32:25
anything in your face because I think a lot of times it can
32:27
change your face. I think especially when you're
32:28
young, I don't think there's any rush in your 20s.
32:31
I think your face is still developing a lot.
32:33
Brianna, our amazing editor. I wanted to insert this bucal
32:37
fat removal that you're seeing girls.
32:39
And Cameron and I were like this in our 20s.
32:41
We had puffy, beautiful, young, youthful faces.
32:44
But at the time, I remember being like, I would love to get
32:46
this fat removed from my face. But as you get older, that fat
32:49
naturally goes away. And so like you were saying, do
32:52
not rush to get any of these procedures because especially in
32:54
your early 20s, you're still growing into your face.
32:56
And you know, this might sound cheesy and cliche, but I
32:59
genuinely believe this. I think there's so much beauty
33:03
and imperfection. And I almost think in this day
33:05
and age where everybody's getting plastic surgery,
33:07
everybody's getting work done, you almost look more unique if
33:09
you don't. And there there is something
33:12
alien and kind of off putting about somebody that has like
33:14
their whole face done. You can kind of always tell
33:17
versus someone who just naturally owns who they are.
33:20
And I think that that's a real beautiful thing.
33:22
And you know, I remember Cameron was telling me she's like, what
33:25
did you say? You wanted to get like your nose
33:26
down. Yeah, I wanted to get my nose
33:28
done because when I was a cheerleader, like my flyer fell
33:32
on my face and I really never got it checked out.
33:34
And I'm like, pretty sure it's crooked now, like, whatever.
33:37
But Jamie talked me out of it because it was rooted in this,
33:40
like, emotion where I was like reading these hate comments.
33:43
And instead it wasn't like I was doing it for myself.
33:46
And it was a logical reason. It was because I was trying to
33:49
appease people who, like, literally sit in their parents
33:52
basement and just comment hate comments on myself.
33:55
Like it was just not even rooted in so important that you're
33:58
doing it for the right reasons because women nowadays are so
34:01
susceptible to like being emotionally manipulated.
34:03
When you walk into like a Med spa or a plastic surgeon's
34:06
office and you're sitting there and a girl or a woman may be
34:09
like, you know, what do you think that I should get done?
34:11
And they may point out a ton of things that you wouldn't even
34:15
have normally noticed about yourself.
34:17
And then you're just going down this hole of spending more and
34:20
more and more money when it's it's not even, it's not even
34:24
maybe even noticeable to other people and it's it's addicting
34:27
and the next. Thing, you know, you look like a
34:29
Barbie doll and not in a good way like you look like totally
34:31
fake. I you're so right.
34:33
It's a slippery slope because then they're going to start
34:34
pointing to everything on your face that's wrong and how you
34:36
can nip do this do this do this and I will tell you your husband
34:40
probably doesn't want you to get plastic surgery.
34:42
I, I feel like my husband said the same exact thing because he
34:45
fell in love for you for what you look like now and he thinks
34:47
you're beautiful. So there's no reason to change
34:49
that. I will say though, I think a
34:50
very normal thing that, you know, a lot of women and once
34:53
again into their 30s and stuff, getting Botox, you know, to keep
34:56
like a youthful thing. I would say I probably will get
34:59
that in my 30s as well. So I would never say against
35:01
that. And if there's something that
35:03
you really hate, like if you, you know, if you really want to
35:05
get a nose job, for example, I can understand people who make
35:08
that decision. But in general, I'm not saying
35:10
this in a cheesy way. You guys are beautiful and like
35:12
just own your beauty and your uniqueness men probably.
35:16
Discourage that as well, not only for financial reasons,
35:18
because like Jamie said, they fall in love with you because
35:22
they already think they're beautiful.
35:24
They probably want your children to look like you, you too
35:27
because of that. Like when you have like all of
35:30
this work done, these men probably don't even know what
35:33
you actually look like. That's a good point.
35:35
There's also a trend on TikTok. Where people are like, my kids
35:38
will look nothing like me because everything's fake.
35:40
And that's crazy. Actually, that is that is crazy.
35:44
There's another trend on TikTok I quickly want to bring up where
35:46
it's like in 2012, I was praying for my mom going into surgery.
35:49
Yeah. And then he found out like this
35:51
day and age, it was a big. I thought that was really funny.
35:54
It's just such a slippery. Slope but Jamie and I often live
35:59
by the European mindset of like everything in moderation.
36:02
So I don't want to say that you can't fix certain things that
36:05
you that you may notice more than others, but just be careful
36:10
because it is a slippery slope. Well, and that there and we'll
36:13
go on to our. Next section hot or not OK for
36:19
our first hot or not tabby flat shoes, which I actually didn't
36:22
know this was the name of it, so we'll insert a picture.
36:24
But then when I saw the picture, I'm like, oh I know what that is
36:27
not I feel like it looks like a. Camel toe I completely that was
36:31
my. Actual exact same thought and
36:33
like these are hideous. Who is wearing these?
36:36
I love a ballet flat, as you can see here, but not with that
36:39
weird toe thing that's just too trendy.
36:42
Next one short Kings hot and I know Jamie and I.
36:46
Will probably have a different take, but what we're seeing in
36:49
today's dating culture is where women will pursue these men just
36:53
for superficial reasons and they're not looking at the
36:56
substantive of it and the relationship is not going to
36:59
stay in the test of time. If you're basing it off of
37:01
height, I do think obviously there is a biological reason
37:05
women want to pursue men who are taller because it signals that
37:09
they could probably protect them.
37:11
But on the flip side of that, I would honestly be looking at
37:15
things that are more substantive of like is he providing for me?
37:19
Is he being a gentleman? Is he opening the door for me?
37:22
If you're just going to write him off because of his height,
37:25
truthfully, I just, I completely disagree with that and none of
37:29
your relationships are going to last in my opinion.
37:31
I'm actually going to go with hot too.
37:33
I'm. OK, it's funny because like my
37:34
husband's tall, but I never cared that much about people's
37:37
height. Like I care more about the
37:38
substance of your personality, everything you just mentioned.
37:41
And I like a guy that's confident and can own that I I
37:43
don't discriminate on based on height.
37:46
OK, next one astrology. This gives me such the.
37:50
Ick Jamie knows this about me. I just don't like how people
37:54
idolatrize like this the moon and the stars and basically make
37:58
it their idol and basically base their entire personality off of
38:03
a chart that tries to put you in a box.
38:05
Like just because your your cancer moon is rising doesn't
38:08
give you like an excuse to be a bitch that day in my opinion.
38:13
I completely agree. It's it's a fake religion.
38:16
For one, I think as a Christian you shouldn't be, you know,
38:18
engaged in astrology. And also it's so fake.
38:21
Like example, I am a Capricorn and they're like Capricorns are
38:24
quiet, they're good with money and they're strategic.
38:29
That is none of me. And then and I will just say to
38:32
you, like every single one you can like find yourself in.
38:35
It's like, I don't. It's just so fake in my opinion.
38:37
I hate it. It's like the annoying, like
38:39
liberal girl always is talking about that with that like weird
38:42
cloth that she hangs above her bed.
38:43
You know that like tribal cloth. That's yeah.
38:45
And like a dream catcher. So it's just not my vibe.
38:48
Laminated brows. I'm gonna go hot with this one.
38:51
Jamie kind of put me onto laminated brows recently just
38:55
because I had summer brows, Like people say summer teeth.
38:58
Like some hairs were here and some were there.
39:00
Like they were like kind of all over my face.
39:03
And they really just tame them. It just elevates your look a
39:05
little bit more. And yeah, I love it.
39:08
Yeah, I'm going to go with Hot As.
39:09
Well, I don't like when they're like too feathered and they
39:12
stand up too much. Like I do like more of a defined
39:16
and like trimmed down brow for sure.
39:18
But I love a big fluffy brow. And I'm happy that we grew up in
39:20
the era of like Anastasia brows and Cara Delevingne was so big
39:23
when we were teenagers because none of us over plucked our
39:26
brows. And so I'm thankful for that.
39:28
So definitely hot last one. This one's a little
39:30
controversial. Age gaps in relationships?
39:34
Oh, this one is controversial. I'm gonna go with hot just
39:37
because I think you should choose compatibility over age.
39:41
Like my, my husband's older than me and I've just found in
39:44
conversations and with our, we have very similar world views.
39:48
I don't know, she's very hard for me.
39:49
I've always had a hard time resonating with men my age.
39:52
You also have to remember, like I was graduating high school at
39:54
like 16 years old and like by the time I had graduated
39:58
college, like these guys were still doing like frat parties
40:01
and, and had Snapchat and like we're just like living a
40:04
completely different life. And I was obviously like in a
40:07
full Sprint in my career and I just honestly had more things to
40:11
talk about with my my husband and with like older men because
40:16
I was just like in a completely different state.
40:18
Of life so choose compatibility and somebody who has a similar
40:21
worldview because a lot of those worldviews can't even be
40:23
obtained without, you know, maturity and and lived through
40:27
experience certain experiences as well.
40:29
I'm going to go if not. I think it's undervalued in this
40:32
day and age having a partner that's the same age as you.
40:35
Like obviously it's easier for a woman sometimes to marry an
40:38
older guy who's like already established his career and it's,
40:40
you know, further along in that. But I think there's something
40:43
really beautiful. My parents did it and I'm doing
40:45
that with my husband Drake to meet each other really young
40:47
before or you have anything going in your career and grow
40:50
that together and grow a life together.
40:51
And I don't think that's talked about now enough.
40:53
So I love being the same age as Drake and I think it's
40:57
beautiful. Yeah.
40:58
Okay, we're going to throw in a funny little segment today
41:01
that's out of our usual show rundown.
41:04
And there's been this trend. The lion does not concern
41:08
himself with or for us. The lioness doesn't.
41:10
And it last night I saw that President Trump posted it on his
41:14
TikTok. He was like, the lion does not
41:16
concern himself with fake news. And it showed like Trump
41:18
walking. And that was on the official
41:20
White House TikTok. And I thought that was
41:21
hilarious. And I'm like Kate, we need to
41:22
add that in today. Lioness does not concern herself
41:29
with what the back of her head looks like when she does her
41:32
hair. I will never be the person who
41:34
turns around, looks in the mirror to make sure it looks
41:36
good. If it looks good from the front,
41:39
I don't. I don't see it and therefore it
41:41
doesn't exist to me. The back of my head is not my
41:44
business. I do that with self tanning
41:46
sometimes I just do the front and I forget like I have a whole
41:49
other side that other people see because all I see is the front.
41:52
So I'm on the same. Mine is the lioness does not
41:56
concern herself with Northern Virginia Urgent Care.
41:59
That's called me 53 times this year to tell me I have a $21.71
42:04
payment due from four years ago. I just, I'm so lazy.
42:08
I'm not logging on and paying that.
42:10
So I'm not concerning myself with that today.
42:12
Oh my gosh. I love that.
42:17
OK. Going into our final segment.
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Propaganda that we are not falling for.
42:24
So propaganda that I'm not falling for.
42:26
I've seen this all over social media where women are like,
42:29
start romanticizing your life. And it's this huge TikTok trend
42:34
right now. And I honestly hot take, I think
42:36
that is detrimental for society. I do think like it's
42:40
masquerading as positivity, but it's honestly positivity in
42:44
denial where you're actually settling for mediocrity.
42:47
You're not, you know, recognizing hard truths of your
42:50
life in order to like, get past certain things.
42:53
And if you're romantic, emphasizing honestly, like
42:56
staying at home and not having a purpose and the same day-to-day
43:00
routine where you're staying stagnant.
43:02
I honestly think that's so detrimental to your mental
43:05
health at the end of the day. Yeah, in your life.
43:07
I could agree with that. It's good to be positive, but
43:09
when you are not, but I think sometimes it's good to also be
43:13
have self reflection and be honest about things because that
43:15
makes you have a better life instead of just settling.
43:17
Oh, it's fine. And just coasting like you
43:19
shouldn't be coasting through life.
43:20
You should always be critical and you know, advancing.
43:23
Mine is people giving marriage and parental advice that are not
43:27
married or don't have kids. I find this crazy.
43:30
I see this all the time all over social media.
43:32
Like you'll have someone talking in depth about things they would
43:37
do with their kids or things that they would do in their
43:39
marriage. And I relate it to this.
43:41
It would be like if I called someone and it's like, hey, can
43:44
you give me a guide on hiking Yosemite?
43:46
Meanwhile, they've never hiked a single trail.
43:48
Like you don't know anything till you've been through that.
43:50
Advice from Democrats when they've like.
43:52
Literally run the government. Literally that, that is.
43:57
Why in our country? Why would I take political
44:00
advice? Why would I take political
44:02
advice from someone who doesn't know?
44:03
What a man or a woman is I'm, I'm not going to take advice.
44:06
But anyway, going back to that, I think, you know, there are so
44:09
many things once you've been through marriage and once you've
44:12
had kids that you would never foresee your life changes in
44:14
every single way. And the people that I take
44:17
advice from, like on podcasts or, you know, just mentors that
44:20
I look up to have been people who have been married for years
44:22
and have a bunch of kids because I think that they have the best
44:25
world view of that. And I just can't stand people
44:27
getting on their soapbox and talking about these issues.
44:29
Like, I'm not taking advice from you when you've done none of
44:31
this. But thank you.
44:32
Yeah. I just don't think you could
44:34
should. Speak on things that you've
44:36
never experienced or you don't know.
44:38
That to me makes you actually sound more stupid, in my
44:41
opinion, than just not talking about it.
44:43
Yeah, exactly. OK, Cameron.
44:45
What propaganda are you falling for?
44:46
I am falling for infrared saunas.
44:48
And I just always feel better getting out of an infrared
44:53
sauna. There's so many health benefits
44:55
to it. It helps increase the blood
44:57
circulation, collagen reproduction, it helps with
45:02
endorphins. And so honestly, like I'll do
45:05
that after a workout, I'll feel so much better.
45:08
I'll take a shower after. And there's just honestly, you
45:10
should look up Google all of the health benefits.
45:12
I honestly didn't even go through like a third of the
45:15
health benefits for that. But I've honestly seen a drastic
45:19
improvement in my mood and my complexion of my skin.
45:22
And it also actually helps lower your cortisol levels too.
45:26
If you're somebody who gets anxious really easily or like
45:28
has a high stress job or is just stressed out, it does lower
45:31
those cortisol levels to the main stress hormone.
45:34
So I would highly recommend it. That is definitely propaganda
45:37
I'm falling for. I'm going to have to agree with
45:39
you. I love.
45:39
A sauna it actually they there's this brand that says that you
45:43
get naturally high from it and it's true.
45:45
It feels like you just finished a workout because you're
45:47
releasing all of these. Toxins and heavy metals from
45:50
your body and so you just feel so much better after yeah, I
45:52
totally agree OK the. Propaganda that I am falling
45:55
for. You laughed when you said this
45:57
because this doesn't sound like me, but Christian Girl Fall.
46:01
OK, I'm laughing. Because this is not Jamie coded
46:04
at all. Like I feel like Jamie four
46:06
years ago would have cringed at the thought of the Christian
46:08
coat. I OK so.
46:09
Growing up in Northern California, we do not have a
46:11
thought like the colors, the the trees do not change colors.
46:15
Actually, a lot of times it's called an Indian summer.
46:17
That's what they call it, where it's actually super hot in
46:19
October. And so moving to the East Coast,
46:22
something that I just love and have totally embraced is the
46:25
fall season here. I love the pumpkins.
46:27
I love cooking soup. I love watching football on the
46:30
weekends. I'm like a pumpkin spice latte
46:33
person. And so I just love like getting
46:35
into the fall season and I just, I think Christian girl fall is
46:39
like the funniest thing. I will not be doing Infinity
46:41
scarves or suede skirts though I will say that with the high
46:44
boots, not doing any of those photos.
46:46
But other than that, just love a Christian girl fall.
46:49
I'll never forget when I got the text.
46:51
From Jamie, like this past summer.
46:53
And she was like, I'm really embracing being an East Coast
46:57
girl. Yeah.
46:57
And I was just like, wait, what's?
46:59
Because Jamie's entire, like, identity is rooted in being from
47:03
like, California and like, you love to be outdoors.
47:06
Like every single time I'm calling her when she's back
47:07
home, she's on a hike and like out in the mountains and stuff.
47:11
So hearing her say that, I was like, this is not Jamie Franco.
47:14
I have become a little bit of an East.
47:16
Coaster, I will not lie. I mean, the West is so beautiful
47:18
of all the mountains and everything, but there is just
47:20
something like so idyllic when you drive through Virginia and
47:23
the rolling green hills and then the leaves change in the little
47:26
chapels. I will not lie.
47:27
I'm becoming a little bit of an E coaster and I love that energy
47:30
for me, but I love of America. I'm like, there's this trend
47:33
right now on TikTok where like you have you seen this where
47:35
people will put states that they would or would not live in?
47:38
And I actually mean this. Every state, I think you can
47:40
find something amazing in it. Like, I'm not just saying that
47:43
like, I hate when people like, like, you know, SHIT on a
47:46
certain state because everywhere you go, like even a state that
47:49
you wouldn't think has a lot going for it, there's going to
47:51
be a beautiful and fun neighborhood and great people.
47:53
Yeah. I don't know why people put so
47:54
much. Emphasis on like international
47:56
travel when I'm like, have you travelled the United States?
47:59
Everything you could possibly need is right here.
48:01
I missed the days where like we could point to like a certain
48:04
region on a map and like the Middle East.
48:06
I didn't even know what that country was because we weren't
48:08
involved. Like why aren't we travelling to
48:10
like states in America and embracing that?
48:12
Like Jamie and I are going on like this coal mining trip in
48:15
Pennsylvania stand where we've been offered to go outside of
48:19
the country and we're like, no, we're going to stay right here
48:21
in the United States of America because it's the best country on
48:23
earth. If you are, you know, a regular.
48:25
Influencer who's usually liberal, you're going to get a
48:28
tart Bora Bora trip, but if you're like us, we're going to
48:30
get a coal mining trip to Pennsylvania and we cannot wait.
48:33
We'll see you there and on that note, we'll wrap up things this
48:36
week. Thank you guys for supporting
48:38
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48:57
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