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5D SEE Relationships for the Enlightenment soul age group person and 5D Mystic are all based in secure attachment · Inspiring Human Potential

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I want to read to you something from the lovely Polly secure
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book by Jessica Burn. I find it easy to make emotional
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connections with others. I enjoy being close with others.
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I'm comfortable depending on others and having others depend
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on meat, I don't often worry about being abandoned or about
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someone getting too close to me. If I am in distress, I can
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easily turn to my attachment figure for comfort and support.
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I'm aware and accepting of my partner's strengths and
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shortcomings I would call them just person being person.
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Right. We all have lovely flaws and
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Imperfections basically and I treat them with love and respect
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this is because strengths and shortcomings, or basically flaws
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and Imperfections when it comes to relationships.
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And this is me adding food for thought It's about how we get to
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keep communicating to each other.
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If we're in this secure attachment, which is what this
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is sharing with you and Lightman.
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So Leisure people are simply secure attachment people with an
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integrated mind, a restorative embodied self and in fact, when
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I hear any of the Neuroscience people say it's impossible, it's
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impossible for certain things with this whole Us and Them
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group. I was watching a very powerful
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video like I don't think you know every person on the face of
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this planet and you definitely don't know the 5D Mystics in the
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enlightenment still age because we will always know about our
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past. So our emotions and our
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assumptions and past means me Maria, the person not the other
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lifetime stuff that one comes up for other reasons, which if
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you're 5D Mystic, you will know. And in fact, this is for a side
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note, but let me finish reading before we keep talking a little
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bit. So again, flaws imperfections,
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we all have them. I wouldn't call them strengths
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or shortcomings. But then again, some would say
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there are so yeah, like I have a horrible memory.
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Data. And I haven't been trying to
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improve it in any way, shape, or form, that would be a
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shortcoming to those who like data points.
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But my strength is that I try to explain and I'm okay with
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repeating myself. That could be a shortcoming to,
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so there you go. When you are.
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Okay. With flaws and Imperfections and
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you just will say yes, I admit it.
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I am not smart and XYZ DFG. It's because you don't have an
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insecure ego. And that's where the Secure
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attachment and or just organized categories, only one part of an
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insecurity, go up the other part, are the secure attachment
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people that I've seen who have grown up have not tended to any
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of their charge States. The 123 attached panicky, the
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327 shame submissive the freeze of all ages.
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The flight 11 12 in the fight. 14, 15, 16.
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Oh, and they don't get educated on actually how to improve their
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well-being, like a person. They flaunt their little
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Mantle's around. Mysticism intuitiveness,
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holistic, sysm naturopathy, extreme, whatever.
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Even the ones who are doing the whole opposite.
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I mean, I cannot believe that there are certain people that
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want to consider me a Reiki practitioner, someone who is
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evil or devil, like, what? Seriously seriously how many
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years have passed before? Like I don't get it, I don't I
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get what it means to be religious.
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I grew up with it. What I don't understand is how
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your brain stays stuck in time. Time and you actually have the
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ability to wear lenses that are so thick.
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Actual excuse me, the neuroscientist explain that to
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me so I'm going to keep reading the explain the US versus them
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and so here you go cognitive. Dissonance confirmation bias?
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I think they were talking about something with regards to
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Evolution and how yes, way back. When our ancestors looked up to
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the strong because we were danger in danger compared to
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animals. I'd say that right now again and
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Lichtman Soldier. People are like yes we're not
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back then we know it which is why we are not looking to
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whoever strong or not strong. I don't care if you're a female
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or male or a non, you know, this is where not caring means if you
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lead with heart because you care about people, and I'll notice it
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has see the 5D Mystic and then let my soul age, you will notice
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it immediately. Because your nervous system and
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your entire contemplative brain is going to come through in a
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vibration because we're also all the sound.
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But again, we understand when someone says this is bullshit,
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where you're speaking about is really not making sense.
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Yes, I again my shortcomings I don't do data and I'm not very
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great at trying to prove something.
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Oh and I don't like to bother trying.
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So again, secure attachment differentiate itself,
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restorative embodied person, I'm a Okay, with being whatever it
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is that people will Define when they're not aware that some of
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us don't think and feel the same way you do.
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I'm so sorry that that was not something you learned about and
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you want your group go for go for your group.
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Don't have to come here and listen to some other lady who's
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not part of your group. Exactly.
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This is where food for thought and oh by the way online, I mean
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if I start even I'm not going to right now because I'm thinking
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about all these people that I've seen, they look like They think
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that they, they actually have a way of portraying because
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they're intuitive's. They think that they might just
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might be a reincarnation and again I don't even want to say
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because that to me it's like they're all grown-ups.
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I know why my data point friends are like come on stop Maria you
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know or they'll be like a enough of your pink tinted glasses
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stuff. I'll be like, okay, okay fine,
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what do you want to talk about what?
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I don't understand is how people that look the way I'm thinking
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about have a mozillian Gillian followers.
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And I'm like, Okay. Yeah.
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There's obviously a lot of children out there and they
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don't know it though, because if you talk to them, believe me
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when I'm special now, these people are telling me how
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special I am like, okay, that we're all special.
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No, no, but some of it, no, we're all special or better
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said, none of us are special and we can all accept that being
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human though, is freaking awesome.
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So here, let me again. Go back to explaining the
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enlightenment, sole Drew. It's freaking awesome. 5D
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Mystics, awesome, again. You'll know this without me
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needing to do anything except for saying it and you're like,
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okay I want to hear more the ones who don't believe it you
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know again they have a different path and I get it because some
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people don't have this path and have another path.
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I'm glad I'm not on that path is all I'm going to say.
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So we're else during conflict or disagreement this one.
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I really love. I'm able to take responsibility
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for my part apologize. When needed clear up
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misunderstandings. Applied problem solving.
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The strategies and forgive when needed.
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Oh, so in Lightman so age with people, we don't actually need
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to forgive because like, Daniel Siegel says, forgiveness is not
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about justification justification, it's about what
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did he say? All writing, giving up all hope
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giving up all hope of any thing of the past changing.
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And I am a person who does distance healing to support
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people to transform and work with the energetic spectrum of
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past events, or future events. And I've done plenty of Of those
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practices to support to visualize and to have, you know,
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in that intuitive space in that Consciousness field.
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Things take place to support a person.
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This is why I'm bringing together human spiritual and
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spirituality. Not just one or the other, none
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of them eats made the other and for the 5D Mystic and the
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enlightenment will age a person. This is normal, which is why
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again, my content is not for the people who don't live the world
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of mysticism, because they're going to think this is a BS, or
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some will be curious, just because the ones who are
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open-minded enough will be curious because they know that
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this is food for thought that this is a person's experience.
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And the other part is, they actually will have the
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Humbleness and the open-mindedness.
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And what I really want to say is the smarts to understand that
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you won't know something if you don't experience it.
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So if you don't, if you don't dream and have astral travels,
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if you don't have a way that you can always be connected to your
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oversold, this is people that are in your life and know if
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things are going, not if you don't experience it, the person
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who I consider actually smart and adults will not be making
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statements in their brain about No, this is not true.
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They will take steps back and be aware of.
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This is a human being who's telling me about their
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experience. And, you know, here's what I do
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love about my over so pieces, the ones that are not in the
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same boat that I am, but they actually care and no, and listen
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because they want a relationship and we, you know, this is where
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that trust is there. I have one of my friends one
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stay. I mean I want to listen to you
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but right now what you're doing feels like you're building up,
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you know. List of criteria that fits a
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puzzle. So I'm becoming skeptical, they
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use the word skeptical, and this was great, because that's what
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honest conversation is all about.
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There are genuine. In fact, they said, I know you.
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So I know you don't make up bullshit stories but my brain is
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starting to not be able to follow.
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I said okay well it's okay no big deal that's change a topic
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because that's actually what we're doing is just sharing
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moments of Life are not trying to prove points to each other.
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So this agreements don't And forgiveness is not needed.
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Why? Because there's nothing that's
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taking place except for people, interacting with each other.
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So, polyamory is very simple for the enlightenment, sole droop,
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because we do love without knowing any separation.
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No, person is an enemy to us. Of course, there are situations
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that we won't want to see. And really what we want to see
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is Humanity, get a little bit more along and that's where the
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lovely mental health professionals the good.
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Ones are helping with that, they train people in therapy, how to
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put into practice their brain to repair, and to learn how to
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engage with secure attachment. So I just finished watching a
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whole bunch of episodes. Thank you.
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And ICBM on learning about this and there's more to come.
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And I'm like, wow, I've done all of this, my entire life, huh?
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And I know, one person who I've been doing it within a very cute
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way. I am.
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Huh. I wonder if I should share that
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because I think they'll find it interesting since we're always
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saying People Are People whether you come at topics from a mind
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that is geared to see how the parts fit.
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And so that separation and really this is where that
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masculine type of energy and there's a way that I explain it,
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which is the left mode wants to yes, dabble into the right mode,
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but it needs time. I'm to sit in the unknown and
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certainty with what the left mode has learned.
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So it's just a matter of practice being able to be
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flexible. Adaptive, coherent energy, ice
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table that integration of the mind takes place with the
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participation of the host and basically a person who's
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thinking, and then the emotions also though as they come up, the
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same person gets to be in mindfulness for the
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enlightenment. So they drew person.
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This is all very easy, the enlightenment still, a drupe
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inclined person to and so 5D is this Oneness Consciousness
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because your mind is your masculine or feminine is your
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body. Now when it comes to how you
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think, I'm a right mode person, I'm okay with the unknown and
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then I use my left to make sense of things of course because I
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have to organize it but the part about the right is where I lead
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with what is considered nonsensical, meaning it doesn't
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make sense to the left modality because they want it linear and
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in data again my shortcoming quote unquote I don't find it a
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shortcoming. I know that whenever I see
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anything, I can always find 10, 20, 30 different ways.
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Yeah, not that many, but at least two to three depends how
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much the person really wants me to share but to them it's
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gibberish because they're looking at it with the
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yesterday. I'm not looking at it with the
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yesterday. And yesterday is yesterday the
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today's the day and I'm going to look at it in the absence but I
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also know that my yesterday still impacts.
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So there are I'm sure there is the past with it, but I'm going
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to try to silence it to the best of my ability.
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This doesn't mean that it won't hold the past.
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So once again, so here's where it left is always looking at the
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parts, we don't look at the parts.
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We look at the whole with the parts and then we allow the
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parts to be variables and that's because they will go through
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transformation instead. If you want it fixed, this is
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where you're looking for rigidity, which is what's coming
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forth. And that's where the doctor A
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child is Harsh unforgiving. They don't learn new things.
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It's because beneath that is a non-secure wounded, child
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doesn't have to be wounded. Can also just be scared.
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So, life is two choices love or fear.
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This is one of those constant themes and spiritual and or
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spirituality, but let me break it down to you humanly speaking
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your nervous system. When your ego self feels
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threatened will look outside itself to engage, Should engage
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ment if you have a dysregulated modulated embodied self, the
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outside world is not safe to say why some people just want to hug
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a tree and not humans. I love to hug humans, not trees.
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The tree is tough, and the bark hurts me and I love nature, but
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I love humans more. And you know what?
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When you are in your social engagement system, that's
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because your oats others and the south in the default mode
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Network, which is the little chatter monkey brain that the
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spiritual spirituality say, silence it.
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I'm Like no, no, you don't want to silence that you want to
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become aware of it and what it means to you, as a human, what
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it means to you as a human is that if you want a hug a tree
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and not a human, there's work for you.
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If you want to find your full well-being, great somatic.
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Sensory motor therapists are out there and I'm sure there are
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great coaches, and consultants and shamans that also integrate
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and or at the very least are knowledgeable about somatic
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sensory motor trauma. I learn to support and help
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people to be themselves from their heart.
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With their flow. So, the integration keeps on
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getting more and more beautiful. Because I can give more to the
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people who actually want to become self empowered want to
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Enlighten their life, want to maybe move into their
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Enlightenment. So age, maybe they won't, it
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doesn't matter. In the meantime, your integrated
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mind is what you get to start working on because you move from
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rigidity to flexibility. As you work through that inner
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growth mindset, The Duality but it's neutrality in Duality
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because you look at the likes and dislikes and you're like,
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okay, yeah. But I'm not the only person.
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You look at the emotions. You don't allow that to take
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over because you're wanting to participate in your own Observer
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witness and narrator. This is mindfulness.
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Some people they like, doing it all on their own.
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And when they do, in fact, they hug people, are getting not
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trees, they'll hug trees, too, but they won't say, oh, I don't
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want to be around people. If you don't want to be around
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people, not good or bad but there are reasons behind it and
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it's something important that people discount because of
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stereotypes generalizations. And just, I mean, I don't even
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know anymore. What excuses to there's not
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excuses that I can make because I Now understand the level of
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Ignorance that people have on being people, I have full-blown
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compassion for the people who have a level of trauma or abuse
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that destabilizes. Their inner World, they are so
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fragile. It won't seem like they're
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fragile, but it will be very clear because they will only
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rupture relationships or splinter, they don't know how to
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repair and they get very rigid, even if they find an individual,
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who's able to repair and so the indication immediately of not
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well-being, I have a person who needs additional support is
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someone who cannot learn to actually love humanity and life
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and wants to isolate. If you're consistently wanting
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to move away from people. There's not an improvement
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that's happening. If your energy levels aren't
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moving up, there's not an improvement.
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That's this is like the part of making it human with personal
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development and Ascension. So again, I'm here to support my
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lovely 5D Mystics. This is because you all who have
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intuitiveness stuff. I've seen so many and I still
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see them one, the immature feminine thinking they can go
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around telling another human being what to do with their life
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because of Claire's not to mention the ones who are
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actually have a bunch of followers.
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And again, those who will stay there because there will be
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those, they found their Community, they will be those us
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and them and I'm special, no one special.
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Whatever it is. I'm not talking to those people.
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I'm talking to people who know we're human beings and we're all
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on this planet. Let's Make it work to the best
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of our ability. We can by creating grown up
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relationships because that's where it starts.
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It's with the people around you and how you treat your neighbor
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and how you treat each other. And if you're authentic, if you
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know how to be authentic. And most people don't know how
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to have confrontation. I mean the only reason ruptures
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happen is because people the majority.
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And so here's where again, I was a teenager and need to be told
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how to speak a truth. And I always speak my truth.
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I just learned that most people will buy because they don't even
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know they're lying, their implicit memory is not anywhere
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near their awareness and again deviating, but we don't step
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into relationships, the enlightenment still a Jew
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person, the 5D Mystic, they mature feminine, and the mature
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masculine because we're going to be your parent.
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Not we step into relationships because we were engaging with
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love interests and willingness to To work with each other and
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knowing. Okay.
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If it gets temperamental we want to make sure that we maintain a
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level of ease so that we can continue enjoying each other and
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the conversation and it's just something natural.
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The grown-ups NaturallySpeaking, we Allow ourselves to work with
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those flaws if you will and that's why they're not flaws,
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just people being themselves. The other last statement I do
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well with the transition of going from being by myself to
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then being together with a partner.
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And I also do well with the transition of going from being
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together to then being alone again, you guys should really
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get it really good book. Now, here's the part about the
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enlightenment. So aged person will not have
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found. I have yet to meet Completely
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aware people of themselves, and when I say where, I mean to know
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that your emotions are always present, and if they're getting
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charged, it's personal, it's not good or bad, it is.
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And then the ability to desire to engage for curiosity and
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that's where, you know, true self confidence and then wanting
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to build relationship because the competition of proof.
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Irving is something that can happen and some people are
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interested in that within their relationships, but the
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enlightenment still a jury person is not interested in
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competing with their loved ones. On opinions, you have your
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thoughts and your emotions. I have my thoughts and my
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emotions we're differentiating and we Lincoln join because we
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want to join all of the 5dc relationships and that's where
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our focus is. It's on the adult, the
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functional adult love language. To build your own ability to be
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yourself in a way of compassion, mindsight mindfulness.
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This ability to be present in the now, it's not hard because
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when you're leading with compassion, you're not leading
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with the shame cycle which leads to blame shame fault.
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And sometimes even Revenge, these are aspects that I have
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seen. I've always intuitively known
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anyone who's going to be Quote unquote mean to me, Something's
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Happened in their life because I look at what I've done and if I
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haven't with any intent whatsoever try to tell you who
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you are tried to invade your like there are many specific
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things I could say and this is all non provable.
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By the way. Empathy is something we
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naturally will do. So we will present with all of
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our transparency who we are, how we feel.
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And if somebody is going to want to question it and continue to
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be in a rigid form. Again, this is an indication of
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suffering for the individuals at hand, not the other way around.
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When, usually you meet people who are in the middle, they
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either grow with you and that's where you keep moving outward
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with those relationships in a secure way.
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And again, I actually We don't find that anyone who's flexible,
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adaptive coherent will always work with their relationships
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because that's what grown-ups can do.
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That's what compassion does looking forward to hearing from
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you. Have a great day.