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Why You’re Nervous System Isn’t Wired To Receive Money & The Key To Wealth Building · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Live Wealth Podcast, hosted by me, Liv.
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  SPEAKER_00: On this podcast, we go beyond the basics to really create a life that glows so that you can thrive in your body, relationships, wealth, money, business, and spiritual connection, where we rewire your nervous system and truly expand into all that is possible.
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  SPEAKER_00: In these episodes, we will have a juicy conversation full of all the codes, tools, tips that really work.
• 0:29
  SPEAKER_00: So if you are looking to live well, you are in the right place.
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  SPEAKER_00: For ways to work with me, visit keepupwithlive.com and follow me on Instagram at keepup with live for more.
• 0:39
  SPEAKER_00: And with that, let's get into the show.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we are going to be talking about the key to building wealth today and really what gets in the way, what's running the show so that you can transcend and dissolve this.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you are tuning in live, I'm so happy, I'm so glad.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let me know.
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  SPEAKER_00: Say hi in the comments.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll be kind of looking at them as we go.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I am very excited to have this conversation because honestly, it is so important.
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  SPEAKER_00: Once I not only like realized this but integrated this into my life, my whole relationship with like money and wealth change.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what we really need to understand first and foremost is that unfortunately, our nervous system isn't wired for wealth.
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  SPEAKER_00: Growing up, we are wired with fear, shame, guilt.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's no wonder we our nervous system has this very like roller coastery relationship with money because we are wired and programmed for it to be.
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  SPEAKER_00: We are wired to feel fear or shame or guilt or what if it doesn't come back?
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  SPEAKER_00: Or fear, fear, fear, save for a rainy day.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like you better hold on to it, you better save.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like it's hard.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's and so we wonder why, like, oh, why we have poor relationships with money when it's very much modeled to us when we're younger to have a poor relationship with money.
• 1:57
  SPEAKER_00: And so we really have to take a step back and really see that, oh, is this actually the frequency with wealth?
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  SPEAKER_00: Is this a frequency that wealth is a match to?
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  SPEAKER_00: No.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so, in order for us to have not only a solid relationship with money, but like a relaxed one, we can't be operating in a nervous system response.
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  SPEAKER_00: So your nervous system response, like point blank to put it very directly, is what rules your nervous system relationship with money.
• 2:25
  SPEAKER_00: And a big thing people mistake when it comes to money and nervous system is that they think, like, oh, you know, live, I have enough money, like I have money in the bank, I have enough to pay my bills, my house, I can buy food, I can buy this.
• 2:37
  SPEAKER_00: So, like, my nervous system response is good, which is not always the case.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is actually our nervous system response that keeps you at a limit and keeps you from breaking like the glass ceiling or the upper limit to higher levels of money.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're also very much programmed into our nervous system of you know, you shouldn't want that much money.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's bad to want that much money, money is evil, money is this.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the thing is that if we are not actually working with our nervous system response, we're missing like 95% of the show.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because you can do the affirmations, the vision boards, the scripting in your journal, like the feeling, the feelings of already being there.
• 3:18
  SPEAKER_00: And if I can just feel the feelings of me being in the house or having a million dollars, then it's going to come.
• 3:25
  SPEAKER_00: But the problem, and like those things can be helpful, but the problem is who you are being outside of those things, but more importantly, how your nervous system reacts, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because you can script like I am wealthy, but an hour later look at your bank account and feel some sort of lack or constriction.
• 3:43
  SPEAKER_00: You can affirm or you know, script in your journal, I am rich, but as soon as you go to the store to buy something that you actually want, I don't know, a bag, a sweater, you immediately contract because you wonder, is it gonna come back?
• 3:56
  SPEAKER_00: Well, what if the money stops coming?
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  SPEAKER_00: Do I even need this?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, I shouldn't be buying this.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so these are all the ways these subtle nervous system responses come in that actually block you from existing in overflow.
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  SPEAKER_00: So this is very important because we're not really just talking about you know having money in the bank to pay bills and to like buy food.
• 4:15
  SPEAKER_00: I'm talking about actually existing in a state of overflow and excess.
• 4:19
  SPEAKER_00: Hi, Lisa.
• 4:20
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, I love when you guys say hi.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we really want to be aware of all these subtle energies that our nervous system response is bringing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because when we actually heal this nervous system response, we become a relaxed place that money wants to flow to.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so this was the biggest thing that I had to really like not only clock but dissolve was becoming someone who was relaxed with money.
• 4:43
  SPEAKER_00: Now, you might say in your head, well, Liv, you're relaxed with money because you have money, and I will tell you, no, I had to become relaxed with money in order to be a match for this.
• 4:54
  SPEAKER_00: Because when we're operating on that roller coaster response, right, our brain and body are not on board with receiving large amounts of wealth.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's not just receiving large amounts, it's also about flowing large amounts.
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  SPEAKER_00: So another thing is that people want to receive, receive, receive.
• 5:12
  SPEAKER_00: Like, oh yeah, Leo, I have no trouble receiving more money.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sure, I'll welcome in 20K, 30K, 40k, 100k.
• 5:19
  SPEAKER_00: But what about flowing it?
• 5:21
  SPEAKER_00: Flowing it means like spending it, flowing it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Then you go, I don't know, go to Dior and buy a bag and immediately like, shouldn't have done that.
• 5:29
  SPEAKER_00: What if more money doesn't come?
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  SPEAKER_00: And again, this is not your fault.
• 5:32
  SPEAKER_00: Unfortunately, most of us are raised in households in programming of fear, fear, fear, lack, lack, lack, guilt, guilt, guilt, shame, shame, shame.
• 5:41
  SPEAKER_00: And it goes so much deeper beyond than like money is bad or you know it's hard to make money.
• 5:47
  SPEAKER_00: I really want to point out some of like the deeper nuances that we start to build with money in our nervous system that makes us reactive.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, yes, let's say mom and dad were dysregulated about money.
• 6:00
  SPEAKER_00: As humans, right, we have these things called mirror neurons where our nervous system naturally co-regulates, especially when we're young, with those around us.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if your parents and who you grew up with were living in a dysregulated state with money, your nervous system is then going to co-regulate to match that, unfortunately.
• 6:20
  SPEAKER_00: So that's why it feels like no matter what you do, it doesn't stick, or no matter what you do, you can't break that glass ceiling, you can't go to that next level.
• 6:28
  SPEAKER_00: You can maybe receive some money, but like receiving large amounts of money doesn't feel natural.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's literally because your system is wired at that state.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's very important to realize that, like, oh, I'm actually co-regulated to only receive this amount of money.
• 6:42
  SPEAKER_00: I am like nervous system regulated to only live at this relationship with money.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so it's not just if mom and dad had money, but it's also the relationship that money was like in the household.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's say, for example, that like mom and dad would fight about money.
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  SPEAKER_00: So what's gonna happen in your brain and in your nervous system is it's gonna go, oh, mom and dad fought about money.
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  SPEAKER_00: When mom and dad fight, I feel like anxious, I feel sad, I feel scared, I don't like this, I don't like this.
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  SPEAKER_00: I then learn as a kid that money makes me feel sad, anxious, scared, afraid.
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  SPEAKER_00: Am I then gonna be a place money wants to flow to?
• 7:24
  SPEAKER_00: No.
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  SPEAKER_00: And as an adult, you're like, well, live, like that's kind of silly.
• 7:27
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I that's not true.
• 7:28
  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't matter what your adult version believes, it matters how your nervous system was wired to believe about money.
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  SPEAKER_00: And your brain is a literal sponge before the age of seven.
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  SPEAKER_00: So what happens now is your system is in conflict around money.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want money, but money supposedly makes me feel that way.
• 7:45
  SPEAKER_00: And until you dissolve these links, right, money is gonna be running the show.
• 7:49
  SPEAKER_00: And that's really what I want to dive into is that when you are on a roller coaster response with money, money is running the show.
• 7:59
  SPEAKER_00: And the best analogy I give, I was talking about this briefly in the broadcast group, which if you're not part of the broadcast group, go and join.
• 8:06
  SPEAKER_00: But I always think about this while walking a kasha because it's such a good analogy.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you have a dog, you'll know.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or perhaps you've seen those dog owners who the dog is walking them, they're not walking the dog, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And so I think about this with a kasha a lot.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's say kasha is money and I'm I'm me, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: When we have this dysregulated roller coaster response to money because our nervous system is programmed that way, money leads us, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: We're constantly reacting to money.
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  SPEAKER_00: We look at our bank account and we feel constriction.
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  SPEAKER_00: We go into, well, is it gonna come back?
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  SPEAKER_00: We fear spending on ourselves, we don't feel like money is neutral, we don't trust money to move for us, and it's running the show, and we're just react, react, react.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so that's not really a powerful place to be with money, nor is it a relaxed place.
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  SPEAKER_00: Instead, you actually want to be the one who's leading money, but in order to do so, you can't have things like fear, shame, guilt, and this dysregulated reactive response to money happening.
• 9:05
  SPEAKER_00: And again, this is not, you can have money in the count paying your bills and still have this reaction with money.
• 9:10
  SPEAKER_00: And I can tell you time and time again with my clients, this is something whether they're at 20k months, 30k months, 50k months, we work on these subtle energetic nuances so that they can like jump and jump and jump.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 9:23
  SPEAKER_00: This is very important to understand, and something that a lot of people don't really realize how this is running the show.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because we're also taught that it's not okay to want more, right?
• 9:35
  SPEAKER_00: And especially when we're talking about like high levels of wealth and like welcoming and receiving large amounts of money, especially if no one in our family has done it before, it's very much like this guilt, like this shame, like you shouldn't want that more.
• 9:47
  SPEAKER_00: Like it's excessive to buy you know a Dior handbag, it's excessive to fly first class, you don't need it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, and so all these like subtle energetic kinks come in.
• 9:56
  SPEAKER_00: And so, what happens when this kinks come into our energy?
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  SPEAKER_00: You're not this clear channel that money wants to flow to, right?
• 10:03
  SPEAKER_00: You don't trust money, you don't have this good relationship with money, and you become someone who operates like that.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so when you have this reactive state of money, think about it like you're in a car and it's like stop, start.
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  SPEAKER_00: Alright, feel good with money, now we react.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now we feel good, now we react.
• 10:20
  SPEAKER_00: Think about if a car was going like this, maybe you've been in an Uber like I have, where the person was not a good driver, and it says stop, start.
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  SPEAKER_00: That becomes your relationship with money and wealth.
• 10:30
  SPEAKER_00: And so when that happens, how well A, you're gonna feel sick, right?
• 10:34
  SPEAKER_00: We feel nauseous when that happens in the car, but then we're also not that relaxed place that money wants to flow to.
• 10:41
  SPEAKER_00: And so, really, like taking inventory of the fact that yes, we all have a nervous system response to money, and getting to the place where you can be relaxed first is actually how you're gonna grow to higher states of wealth.
• 10:56
  SPEAKER_00: You know, I even remember, this was like early on in my journey.
• 10:59
  SPEAKER_00: If you aren't familiar, I'm not someone who's like I'm on the hill speaking this, having never been there.
• 11:05
  SPEAKER_00: I've been there with$200 in my bank account, I've been there like floating between credit cards, I've been there like definitely like self-made, like zero to where I am.
• 11:15
  SPEAKER_00: And I remember very early on in my journey, I actually had to decide to be someone who was gonna reprogram their nervous system for money, who was going to rewire how I moved with money, how I reacted to money, how I wanted money to flow to me.
• 11:32
  SPEAKER_00: I actually had to decide and embed that into my frequency so that it was law to my body.
• 11:38
  SPEAKER_00: It's not like I say this and then I have to recalibrate every time I go spend money to feel neutral.
• 11:44
  SPEAKER_00: No.
• 11:45
  SPEAKER_00: I remember, like I said, when I made under$2,000 a month, it was like$236.
• 11:51
  SPEAKER_00: And I decided to have or to like invest in mentorship, and it was like$10,000 and I was$111,000, 1-1-1 in medical school debt.
• 12:01
  SPEAKER_00: Most survival mode programming would be like save, save, save, constrict, constrict, constrict, don't spend, don't do this.
• 12:08
  SPEAKER_00: But what did I do instead?
• 12:09
  SPEAKER_00: I decided that I was gonna be someone who was gonna master wealth.
• 12:12
  SPEAKER_00: I invested in myself and it came back in three days.
• 12:14
  SPEAKER_00: The 10k I invested, I like I got the the 10k in three days.
• 12:18
  SPEAKER_00: Because I decided to be a woman who was going to rewire her relationship with wealth, and I kept doing that.
• 12:24
  SPEAKER_00: And that was like two years ago, day one, and I keep doing it now.
• 12:27
  SPEAKER_00: But if you are having this up and down relationship, if you are having grippy, if you're hoarding, if you're someone who's like, I want to receive money, but as soon as it comes to flowing, you get grippy, as soon as it comes to flowing, you contract.
• 12:40
  SPEAKER_00: That's not gonna be like incongruence, right?
• 12:43
  SPEAKER_00: And all these little incongruencies are energetic leaks as to where you're not being that grounded relaxed place.
• 12:52
  SPEAKER_00: And so even looking at, huh, I notice that I don't actually allow myself to have more.
• 12:57
  SPEAKER_00: I notice that I don't, you know, I operate in what I like need.
• 13:02
  SPEAKER_00: And like in what world did you come here to just experience what you need?
• 13:06
  SPEAKER_00: In what world did you come here to and not saying these things are bad, like we can very much be grateful, but to just have a roof over our head or be able to eat food.
• 13:13
  SPEAKER_00: Like, you came here to experience excess.
• 13:17
  SPEAKER_00: You came here to experience luxury, you came here to have more than enough be the standard.
• 13:22
  SPEAKER_00: But you have to be the woman who claims more than enough as a standard and rewire their nervous system to actually be on board so that your brain and body are on board with that.
• 13:33
  SPEAKER_00: Otherwise, you're gonna spend your whole life kind of operating in this survival mode that we're taught.
• 13:38
  SPEAKER_00: And for so many of us, we're taught that because, like, you know, parents, grandparents relied on that to actually survive.
• 13:46
  SPEAKER_00: But how do you get into a state of overflow, wealth, and excess when you're operating on survival mode programming?
• 13:53
  SPEAKER_00: When your nervous system is running the show on this survival mode.
• 13:56
  SPEAKER_00: Because your nervous system is 95% of the show.
• 13:59
  SPEAKER_00: The 5% of the 369 or ritual or chanting or crystals in your bra or scripting and feeling the feelings, 5%.
• 14:08
  SPEAKER_00: So it's not that it's not working, it's not that there's something wrong with you, it's not that you're blocked, it's not that it's literally your nervous system not being on board with receiving large amounts of money, with money feeling neutral to you, with you feeling relaxed, buying the things you want to love, or buying things you love, and knowing that it's going to replenish quickly.
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 14:29
  SPEAKER_00: It's all of these things, right?
• 14:30
  SPEAKER_00: Because even if you have money, let's say you have money, you're like, okay, I have this money I saved, I'm gonna go to Louis Vuitton, or I'm gonna five purse class, I'm gonna do something, you know, stay at a five-star hotel.
• 14:40
  SPEAKER_00: You go, and you're like, well, maybe I shouldn't have done that, or maybe I shouldn't have like, oh, I feel bad, I feel guilty, I don't know.
• 14:47
  SPEAKER_00: And you get weird.
• 14:49
  SPEAKER_00: When that happens, that's what blocks it from replenishing quickly.
• 14:54
  SPEAKER_00: That's what blocks or prevents more from flowing in.
• 14:57
  SPEAKER_00: It's not that a konako doesn't work, it was your nervous system response to it, which then made an energetic kink, and then you weren't the place it wants to flow to.
• 15:06
  SPEAKER_00: But what I also want to challenge you for is that you also didn't come here to just have those experiences once in a while.
• 15:12
  SPEAKER_00: And so when we're really talking about more than enough as a standard, a standard is not something you experience once or twice a year.
• 15:19
  SPEAKER_00: A standard is not something that you, you know, save, save, save, constrict, constrict.
• 15:23
  SPEAKER_00: Because after, let me guess, alright, you finally did the thing.
• 15:26
  SPEAKER_00: Like, okay, Liv, I'm gonna book a five-star hotel and go do it, and then you did it, and you're like, oh, I don't know if I should have.
• 15:31
  SPEAKER_00: What if the money doesn't come back?
• 15:32
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, I don't know.
• 15:33
  SPEAKER_00: Like, it was a really good month this month, and some money came in, but like more is not guaranteed.
• 15:38
  SPEAKER_00: You never know, save for a rainy day, fear, fear, fear.
• 15:41
  SPEAKER_00: You constrict and you start that cycle all over again.
• 15:45
  SPEAKER_00: Constrict, save, save, save, buy, constrict, save, save, save, buy, constrict.
• 15:49
  SPEAKER_00: That is not the relaxed place where you're gonna build wealth rap.
• 15:52
  SPEAKER_00: So I just wanted to pop on and let you guys know that wealth recode is officially open.
• 15:58
  SPEAKER_00: I am so excited.
• 15:59
  SPEAKER_00: This is the first wealth program I've ever done to deeply recode your nervous system to feel safe around money and wealth, which means live healing calls with me where we do the work so that your body can now feel safe to receive and be in overflow.
• 16:15
  SPEAKER_00: We are gonna be doing all the stuff to reprogram all the living abilities.
• 16:19
  SPEAKER_00: Bringing safety around money and generational trauma is going to be the one inducing the program.
• 16:24
  SPEAKER_00: And I don't want you to miss out because I don't know the next time I'm going to be doing this live.
• 16:28
  SPEAKER_00: So if you know you want to heal your relationship with money, become a higher mash over wealth of all kinds and just bring nervous system safety into money, then this is the program for you.
• 16:38
  SPEAKER_00: So we're gonna leave all the links down below.
• 16:40
  SPEAKER_00: Check it out.
• 16:41
  SPEAKER_00: Let me know if you have any questions.
• 16:43
  SPEAKER_00: This is going to be one hell of a program, and I'm so excited for those of you already inside.
• 16:47
  SPEAKER_00: And with that, let's get back to the show.
• 16:49
  SPEAKER_00: And so, this is also about thinking what the standards are for you.
• 16:52
  SPEAKER_00: For you, it might not be five-star hotels, it might not be, you know, flying first class.
• 16:56
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe it's you want to be able to buy organic produce like meat, you want to be able to drink spring water, you want to be able to buy quality this, you want to send, I don't know, your kids to this school, you want to donate to this charity, you want to sponsor a family for Christmas, whatever it is that you want to do.
• 17:10
  SPEAKER_00: Nothing is bad or like wrong, it's whatever you want to do with your excess.
• 17:14
  SPEAKER_00: But you cannot be, you can look can't be both at once.
• 17:18
  SPEAKER_00: So if you're in this like reactive nervous system response to money and wealth, you cannot get into excess.
• 17:24
  SPEAKER_00: You cannot get into overflow.
• 17:26
  SPEAKER_00: They're literally like two different shapes.
• 17:27
  SPEAKER_00: One's a circle, one's a triangle.
• 17:30
  SPEAKER_00: Pick those two.
• 17:31
  SPEAKER_00: And so it's a very square peg round hole to try to shove survival-based, that's a bad action, to put try to no, there's no way to do that in a non-sexual way, but you get what I mean to have survival mode operating and then put it into excess.
• 17:46
  SPEAKER_00: It's just not gonna work.
• 17:48
  SPEAKER_00: It's like you're running on a different iOS software, it's like you're running on iOS Apple, I don't know, five.
• 17:53
  SPEAKER_00: And what are we at now?
• 17:54
  SPEAKER_00: 15?
• 17:56
  SPEAKER_00: They're literally two different operating systems, but this is how your nervous system works.
• 18:00
  SPEAKER_00: Your nervous system is like an iOS operating system.
• 18:03
  SPEAKER_00: You are coded, you are wired based on how you grew up your childhood for wealth.
• 18:09
  SPEAKER_00: And so right now you're like, live, you know, I'm like, I'm doing good, maybe you're making 200k a year, 300k a year, like things are good.
• 18:17
  SPEAKER_00: What about excess?
• 18:18
  SPEAKER_00: What about more?
• 18:20
  SPEAKER_00: Because anytime someone tells me, like, oh, I'm fine, and like if you're fine, you're fine, but like I'm guaranteeing you probably know you're meant for more.
• 18:27
  SPEAKER_00: And there's beautiful things you want to do with being in excess.
• 18:30
  SPEAKER_00: But the thing about money is that money actually makes you more of who you truly are because it enables you to operate beyond limits.
• 18:37
  SPEAKER_00: And we do live in like a world where money is required for things, and like we can't lie about that.
• 18:43
  SPEAKER_00: Like, money is required to buy food, shelter, have experiences, fly here.
• 18:46
  SPEAKER_00: Like, money is required, so you might as well get your brain on body and board with having massive amounts of it, right?
• 18:52
  SPEAKER_00: And not just for you, but like you're doing this for you, for your friends, for your family, for the strangers, your help, for your kids.
• 19:00
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I am so glad that I'm a solid person with money because now I know my kids won't have to rewire their nervous system, like I did or I had to do with mine.
• 19:09
  SPEAKER_00: And this is not even, and like I was saying at the beginning, even if your parents like have money, like I didn't grow up not well off, but I didn't grow up like super upper middle class, right?
• 19:20
  SPEAKER_00: And so it's not just the programming of like, oh, well, money was always like uh there's food on the table, a shelter, like we were good in that expense, but what about getting to the even better, right?
• 19:32
  SPEAKER_00: Is that upper limit?
• 19:33
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 19:34
  SPEAKER_00: It's just like the scarce of your program to like always buy the cheapest thing, or where you look at the menu and you're you get grippy over like the five dollar difference between the things you want.
• 19:45
  SPEAKER_00: Like my mom still does that, and I I can really realize now like why I had to heal my relationship with money.
• 19:51
  SPEAKER_00: Like, you look at the menu and you get the thing that's like I don't know,$12 instead of$15 because you're getting grippy with$3, even though there's logically no reason because you have like enough money of$3 of the difference, but your nervous system is taught to hoard, to constrict, to save.
• 20:07
  SPEAKER_00: Your nervous system is taught is not safe to spend money because it doesn't replenish quickly.
• 20:12
  SPEAKER_00: When instead you could get your nervous system on board and learn the frequencies to actually be able to hold more, to actually be able to receive and have it replenish quickly, right?
• 20:22
  SPEAKER_00: To really feel like money moves for you.
• 20:24
  SPEAKER_00: Even going back to the example with Akasha, right?
• 20:27
  SPEAKER_00: Is money leading you?
• 20:29
  SPEAKER_00: Or are you leading money?
• 20:30
  SPEAKER_00: But money leads us when we're dysregulated with it.
• 20:33
  SPEAKER_00: Money leads us when we are reactive with it, instead of us commanding money and money following our lead.
• 20:41
  SPEAKER_00: And I have beautiful clients who like once they integrate this, like they go to Chanel, they buy the bag, and like 20k drops in.
• 20:47
  SPEAKER_00: They go, they stay at the hotels and like it drops in.
• 20:50
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 20:51
  SPEAKER_00: Their wealth grows the more they heal their relationship with it.
• 20:56
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 20:56
  SPEAKER_00: It's not through the constricting, it's not through the what if it doesn't come back, it's not through the like the save, save, save mentality.
• 21:02
  SPEAKER_00: That's not how you're gonna become a match for overflow.
• 21:07
  SPEAKER_00: So it's really important to understand and of course rewire these experiences into your nervous system when it comes to how you are flowing money or slash spending it, how you receive money, how you view money, how you move with money.
• 21:26
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna tell another example.
• 21:27
  SPEAKER_00: I remember when I first, one of the first mentors I signed up with, and this was like, again, this is why I mean a decision to like rewire your nervous system.
• 21:36
  SPEAKER_00: I was choosing between two different programs of hers.
• 21:39
  SPEAKER_00: There were one was like more like um trauma-based, the other one was like business.
• 21:43
  SPEAKER_00: I was like, oh, like I don't know which one am I better fit for.
• 21:46
  SPEAKER_00: And I can see this moment, because there's a pivotal moment in my journey.
• 21:49
  SPEAKER_00: I can see the same, like the DM I in my mind, like I know that moment will forever be ingrained.
• 21:55
  SPEAKER_00: And she's like, why don't you do both?
• 21:57
  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, Oh.
• 22:00
  SPEAKER_00: I never actually thought that I could do both.
• 22:03
  SPEAKER_00: Because we're programmed in our nervous system to not have it all.
• 22:06
  SPEAKER_00: We're programmed to have to choose.
• 22:08
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, you could have this or this.
• 22:09
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, you can only have like you can have a little bit of this, but you can't have that.
• 22:12
  SPEAKER_00: You can't have it all.
• 22:13
  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, yeah, you're right.
• 22:16
  SPEAKER_00: I want both.
• 22:17
  SPEAKER_00: And so then I signed up that day and I did both.
• 22:19
  SPEAKER_00: And like, end of story.
• 22:20
  SPEAKER_00: And like here I am today.
• 22:22
  SPEAKER_00: But like that was a pivotal moment for when I decided of like, hmm, I noticed my nervous system didn't even like occur to me that I could have it all.
• 22:30
  unknown: Right.
• 22:30
  SPEAKER_00: And there's so there's all these little unconscious nuances that we may not even realize.
• 22:37
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, I could have been somewhere like, oh no, I don't, I can't have both, you know, I need to decide.
• 22:41
  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, no, I'm gonna have both.
• 22:46
  SPEAKER_00: But you actually have to be the woman who decides first.
• 22:50
  SPEAKER_00: The first step is deciding, then it's rewiring.
• 22:52
  SPEAKER_00: You have to decide to rewire your nervous system.
• 22:55
  SPEAKER_00: You have to decide that you want to live in excess and overflow.
• 22:58
  SPEAKER_00: You decide that you want to break through that upper limit.
• 23:01
  SPEAKER_00: You decide to, you know, no longer have shame or fear or guilt when it comes to money.
• 23:06
  SPEAKER_00: Because as you dissolve these things, these things are gonna come up at every different level.
• 23:11
  SPEAKER_00: And that's why I really talk about breaking through the glass ceiling.
• 23:14
  SPEAKER_00: Because maybe, sure, I don't know, you have 50k months now, but what about jumping to 100?
• 23:18
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 23:19
  SPEAKER_00: That's another different jump for you.
• 23:22
  SPEAKER_00: Can't wait to have it all.
• 23:24
  SPEAKER_00: Me too.
• 23:24
  SPEAKER_00: I I think from I recognize from your username that I think you're in Wealth Recode.
• 23:28
  SPEAKER_00: Wealth Recode starts Tuesday, and I am so profoundly excited because these are your exact, like not only like the frequency and the teachings to actually embody a relaxed nervous system when it comes to money and day-to-day life, but we're going through and doing the rewiring.
• 23:43
  SPEAKER_00: So it's not just me teaching like this, like though, this is great, it's that and the actual rewiring.
• 23:48
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, two, two, three, three.
• 23:50
  SPEAKER_00: That's so cool.
• 23:51
  SPEAKER_00: I'm recording for the podcast.
• 23:52
  SPEAKER_00: So angel number, uh, all divine timing.
• 23:56
  SPEAKER_00: So it's also the healing, which is key because it's that somatic response that normally blocks us from being being able to receive more money, and more money, point blank, like does offer you more freedom, right?
• 24:10
  SPEAKER_00: It gives you choice, it gives you something that you no longer have to be bound by it.
• 24:15
  SPEAKER_00: Like the dog example with Akasha, right?
• 24:18
  SPEAKER_00: She's not leading me, I don't have to run my life around it.
• 24:21
  SPEAKER_00: I get to choose things, you know.
• 24:22
  SPEAKER_00: You don't even with like you think about flights.
• 24:25
  SPEAKER_00: I remember when I always used to choose the cheapest flight, even if the timing was bad, if it had a layover, I choose it like the one with the layover because it's like cheaper, even though the time cost to me was different.
• 24:38
  SPEAKER_00: You know, I choose like the cheapest flight possible if it flew at like a really bad hour and whatever, and I'd arrive exhausted, and now I'm like, no, I exist in overflow.
• 24:47
  SPEAKER_00: I choose the time based on the time, not on like the cost of the thing.
• 24:51
  SPEAKER_00: I fly like the class I want to fly, you know, but it's not based on that.
• 24:56
  SPEAKER_00: But it really required my nervous system not telling me that I was going to die.
• 25:01
  SPEAKER_00: And like that's literally what it is, right?
• 25:02
  SPEAKER_00: Your nervous system is a primal response, it signals anytime you deviate from how you were programmed that this is not safe, this is not okay.
• 25:11
  SPEAKER_00: And so if it doesn't feel safe to your nervous system, you are not gonna be able to welcome it more in.
• 25:15
  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't matter how many times you chant affirm, vision board script, feel the feelings in the morning, because you feel the feelings maybe for 10 minutes in your meditation, but how you're being the rest of the day is plugging you out from that.
• 25:30
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 25:30
  SPEAKER_00: And so what happens is we get back into that stop start, like the car example I gave, right?
• 25:35
  SPEAKER_00: Because you're feeling good, alright?
• 25:36
  SPEAKER_00: I meditate, I feel good about money, what?
• 25:38
  SPEAKER_00: And then you look at your bank account or your scripting, and then this happens, or a bill comes in, or you have to do this.
• 25:45
  SPEAKER_00: And so that those kinks, very stop-start energy, doesn't allow you to build, right?
• 25:50
  SPEAKER_00: When you think about building, you never get to the state where you want to build.
• 25:55
  SPEAKER_00: And it's literally only because of your nervous system response that's running 95% of the show, and it's because that is how you were wired.
• 26:03
  SPEAKER_00: Your nervous system was wired to feel fear, guilt, and shame around money, unfortunately.
• 26:09
  SPEAKER_00: At least for most of us.
• 26:10
  SPEAKER_00: Some of you maybe have learned the stuff that I'm talking about, and I love that, but most of us are not.
• 26:18
  SPEAKER_00: And as you grow, as you make more money, that might even cause even more separation based on how you were raised.
• 26:23
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 26:24
  SPEAKER_00: It might cause even more separation, and so the more separation there is, it's like, alright, like I make a little bit maybe more than your parents.
• 26:30
  SPEAKER_00: Like, oh yeah, maybe you make a hundred thousand dollars more.
• 26:33
  SPEAKER_00: But what about making two and three and a million?
• 26:38
  SPEAKER_00: Because that separation, your nervous system is gonna feel like this is a big separation of how it was raised.
• 26:44
  SPEAKER_00: Not safe, not safe, not safe.
• 26:47
  SPEAKER_00: Your nervous system is gonna feel mom and dad, you know, always talk bad about people who are rich.
• 26:52
  SPEAKER_00: Mom and dad said that rich people are greedy, the rich people are bad, they must have done something bad to get there.
• 26:58
  SPEAKER_00: So if I make a lot of money, I must be bad.
• 27:01
  SPEAKER_00: That is what your nervous system is doing.
• 27:02
  SPEAKER_00: It's forming an association between mom doesn't like rich people, I want to be loved by mom, so I'm not gonna be rich.
• 27:10
  unknown: Right?
• 27:11
  SPEAKER_00: And so then you can't break through that glass ceiling because your nervous system will drop you back down.
• 27:15
  SPEAKER_00: That this is anytime you feel like you get pulled back down when it comes to money, or you're doing all the things and then it drops, or you receive money, but you manifest the bill.
• 27:23
  SPEAKER_00: That's another big one.
• 27:24
  SPEAKER_00: I live, I receive money, but there I manifest the bill, and there's always some place for it to flow out to.
• 27:29
  SPEAKER_00: It's because your nervous system response doesn't actually feel safe holding it.
• 27:33
  SPEAKER_00: So it needs your nervous system, your brain and body have to be on board with receiving, holding, being able to build wealth, but also spending and flowing it out.
• 27:43
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 27:44
  SPEAKER_00: It is like this beautiful cycle.
• 27:46
  SPEAKER_00: You cannot only want to receive and then not flow out and expect to receive more.
• 27:50
  SPEAKER_00: Or you can't only want to receive and then hoard, hoard, hoard and want to receive more.
• 27:56
  SPEAKER_00: Once you heal this relationship, once you heal this circle, you are literally unstoppable when it comes to building wealth because you are solid.
• 28:04
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 28:05
  SPEAKER_00: Money is neutral, you are safe, you trust it to replenish quickly, you trust it to work for you, you're relaxed buying what you want to buy, you're living in the state of excess, you're living in a state of overflow, and you're no longer running on survival mode kind of conditioning that only teaches you to stay here, doesn't teach you how to be rich, and you move into that other side.
• 28:26
  SPEAKER_00: This is why I am so passionate about helping more women.
• 28:31
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, this can be to men, but like generally I work with women, helping their nervous systems actually get on board with receiving large amounts of money.
• 28:40
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, and so when we do this, like I said, we're not just doing this for us, we're doing this for everyone around us, our potential kids, our family, everyone, because people co-regulate to us too.
• 28:48
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 28:48
  SPEAKER_00: So everyone else's mirror neurons then start to mirror our neurons.
• 28:53
  SPEAKER_00: But you have to make the decision first.
• 28:56
  SPEAKER_00: That you are gonna change your nervous system response to money.
• 29:01
  SPEAKER_00: And you're gonna choose to become wealthy and you're gonna choose to become rich.
• 29:04
  SPEAKER_00: I do also have a podcast episode, it's from a while ago, but it's a good one.
• 29:07
  SPEAKER_00: It's called I Was Meant to Be Rich and So Are You.
• 29:09
  SPEAKER_00: And that I think was another big thing that very much helped me because I think some people look at people and think, Well, she was meant to be, but I am not.
• 29:18
  SPEAKER_00: Or, you know, she's meant to have money, but I'm not meant to have money.
• 29:21
  SPEAKER_00: And it's very much this like, it's something for her and not for me.
• 29:24
  SPEAKER_00: Which is like, no, it's actually meant for all of us.
• 29:27
  SPEAKER_00: And I very much knew early on, I had this realization when a friend said to me, She's like, Oh, like, it must like feel so good to be successful.
• 29:38
  SPEAKER_00: Like, did you ever think that you would like be able to make this much money?
• 29:41
  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, Yeah, I was meant to be rich.
• 29:44
  SPEAKER_00: That's what I said, point like, and I can see this moment in my kitchen downstairs.
• 29:48
  SPEAKER_00: I was like, Yeah, because I always knew it was meant to be.
• 29:51
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I decided very early on that that was gonna like I my conditioning on money, how I was going to receive it, and like I was gonna learn the frequencies and laws and rewire my nervous system to get there.
• 30:03
  SPEAKER_00: Right, and so really getting yourself even into the claiming of it is going to be very powerful because you have to be a woman who claims it before you can rewire your nervous system.
• 30:15
  SPEAKER_00: And there's no way that it's like meant for someone else and not for you.
• 30:23
  SPEAKER_00: So, with that being said, I think that was everything that I wanted to say for this live.
• 30:29
  SPEAKER_00: Let me just check on the recording.
• 30:32
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 30:33
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so really looking at what your nervous system is calibrated to, where you're really operating in the programming that's not going to allow you to become into overflow, that's not going to allow you to become rich.
• 30:46
  SPEAKER_00: And even looking at your association with the word rich, see how you might even have a nervous system response to that and where it's kind of kicking in.
• 30:54
  SPEAKER_00: I will also put this live on the podcast because I think it's really good.
• 30:58
  SPEAKER_00: Obviously, if you want to get to the root of your you know relationship with money and your nervous system response, that is what Wealth Recode is for.
• 31:07
  SPEAKER_00: And we're starting Tuesday.
• 31:09
  SPEAKER_00: I am so profoundly excited because we've also not only do we have like the teachings and the frequencies and the the rewiring calls, but I've also added a Telegram broadcast so that you can continue to stay plugged into the frequencies where I will be plugging in in between calls so that you can plug into this kind of frequency and not be plugged into, you know, maybe what's running the show around you in your day-to-day life.
• 31:31
  SPEAKER_00: Because let's be honest, when everything around you is operating in that very like lack, not overflow kind of frequencies, it's gonna be more likely for it to pull you out.
• 31:41
  SPEAKER_00: But when you have like this Telegram channel to plug into day-to-day, plus you have the podcast full of rewiring tracks, plus the calls, plus the healing, like plus all plus all this stuff, you are so supported when it comes to rewiring your nervous system when it comes to money, and then you will just be someone that like when I interact with people or my mom or all of these things, I'm so solid and I don't get guilty, or I don't question myself, or when she questions the purchases I make or the luxury I live my life with, or whatever it is, I'm solid, right?
• 32:12
  SPEAKER_00: And so you're gonna be able to plug into those frequencies so that it's really integrated into you.
• 32:17
  SPEAKER_00: We also have QA for support and all of that wonderful stuff.
• 32:20
  SPEAKER_00: So if you have any questions, you can send me a DM about that.
• 32:23
  SPEAKER_00: There's also a link in my bio.
• 32:25
  SPEAKER_00: It's going to be, like I said, the best round yet.
• 32:28
  SPEAKER_00: With that being said, if you haven't watched the Receive Masterclass, highly recommend also watching the Receive Masterclass.
• 32:34
  SPEAKER_00: There is a highlight on my page.
• 32:36
  SPEAKER_00: Um, this will be one of the final days to watch it as well.
• 32:39
  SPEAKER_00: So make sure you go ahead and watch that.
• 32:41
  SPEAKER_00: And if you have any questions about, you know, whether wealth recode is a fit for you, honestly, because I had that question this week, someone was like, Well, like I feel good about money.
• 32:50
  SPEAKER_00: And my question to you is like, unless you feel like you are in complete excess with money, you are in overflow, unless you can say for a fact that your nervous system doesn't get reactive at all about money when it comes to either receiving it, holding it, spending money, flow, it doesn't matter.
• 33:06
  SPEAKER_00: If you're solid across the board and you want to break through even an upper limit, then it's going to be for you, right?
• 33:12
  SPEAKER_00: And so any place we're dippy, any place we're not we want to go to like a higher level, anytime we want to grow, like our nervous system has to be on board.
• 33:20
  SPEAKER_00: So that's kind of my message to you.
• 33:22
  SPEAKER_00: That being said, I love you guys so much.
• 33:24
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you for coming to this live.
• 33:26
  SPEAKER_00: It was so wonderful to see so many like new faces and like names coming up that I am not familiar with, and then of course, people that I am familiar with, I also love you.