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Unlocking Your Mind: Hypnotherapy, Abundance & Inner Power with A.D. Roberts · Wake Up with Marci

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Wake Up with Marcie, a deep dive in
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Speaker 1: the self discovery. I'm your hosts Marcy Hopkins, and this
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Speaker 1: is the space where we get real about life transformation
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Speaker 1: and finding our true selves.
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Speaker 2: Hello all, and welcome back to Wake Up with Marcie,
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Speaker 2: the show where we dive deep into real conversations, radical
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Speaker 2: healing and waking up to your worth. I'm your host,
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Speaker 2: Marsey Hopkins, and today we're talking about something that impacts
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Speaker 2: every one of us, our mindset around success, abundance and
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Speaker 2: healing from within. If you've ever felt stuck in cycles
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Speaker 2: of self doubt, financial stress, or just new deep down
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Speaker 2: you were meant for more, this episode is for you.
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Speaker 2: Joining me today is a special guest who has dedicated
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Speaker 2: over two decades to helping people break free from limiting
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Speaker 2: beliefs and unlock their true potential. Ady Roberts is a
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Speaker 2: clinically certified hypnotherapist, success and author of a newly released book,
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Speaker 2: Cracking the Abundance Code. He's here to share tools that
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Speaker 2: can help you shift your mindset, reprogram your subconscious, and
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Speaker 2: step into a life of purpose and prosperity. Ady Roberts
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Speaker 2: is not just a success coach, he's a guide for
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Speaker 2: those ready to transform. With more than twenty years of
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Speaker 2: that experience, helping coaches and clients rewire their minds for abundance,
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Speaker 2: Ad combines neuroscience, subconscious work, and transformational coaching into what
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Speaker 2: he calls the CTAC system. His book, Cracking the Abundance
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Speaker 2: Code is a blueprint for healing, clarity, and empowered living.
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Speaker 2: AD welcome to wake Up with Marcy.
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Speaker 3: Thank you, min Sa. I'm so glad to be here.
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Speaker 3: I truly appreciate it.
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Speaker 2: It's awesome to have you here. And really, mindset is.
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Speaker 4: Everything, absolutely absolutely.
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Speaker 2: And we do have so much control, and I don't
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Speaker 2: think people understand that we do have that control, that
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Speaker 2: we have the choice the way that we think. But
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Speaker 2: the thing is is that we have been programmed and
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Speaker 2: so that is why we think in a certain way,
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Speaker 2: whether it's negative or positive. And we do need to
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Speaker 2: rewire and shift the way that we think. And you
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Speaker 2: offer so many tools as to how we can do that,
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Speaker 2: and I can't wait to dive deeper into that. So
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Speaker 2: why was this work so important to you? What sparked
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Speaker 2: this path for you? This healing coaching and hypnotherapy path?
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Speaker 3: Now the path itself you know, as you've this is
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Speaker 3: so eloquently said, I've been at this for a really
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Speaker 3: long time. I started off, you know, as an entrepreneur,
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Speaker 3: having succeeded and failed and succeeded again, owned mortgage companies,
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Speaker 3: real estate investment firms and did really well. But I
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Speaker 3: always found myself having that our sales meetings would turn
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Speaker 3: into motivational seminars and workshops and.
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Speaker 4: Stuff like that. And so every organization that I was connected.
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Speaker 3: To, I used my platform as a vehicle ten power
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Speaker 3: and a lift. So it's always been a passion of
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Speaker 3: mine to speak and to empower and that's just who
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Speaker 3: I am where I am, and have been that way
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Speaker 3: for a really, really long time. I was doing this before,
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Speaker 3: like coaching was a thing, and you know, we didn't
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Speaker 3: have a name for it. And I created this thing.
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna call myself a success coach. And I remember
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Speaker 3: back in Oh my goodness, god, I was only I
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Speaker 3: was like thirty three.
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Speaker 4: And I had hit this really.
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Speaker 3: Tough place of depression and I didn't know where it
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Speaker 3: came from. Honestly, you know, I was doing really well.
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Speaker 3: Business was going well, relationships were good.
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Speaker 4: But I just hit this space and this space, and
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Speaker 4: I just didn't understand it. And you know, I left
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Speaker 4: the country.
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Speaker 3: I went away, And how I justified being in Jamaica
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Speaker 3: for three months.
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Speaker 4: I said, Okay, I'm gonna come back with a book.
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Speaker 3: But what I found when I got there, I was
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Speaker 3: able to unearth the true cause or true nature of
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Speaker 3: that depression. It was that I was not living my life,
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Speaker 3: but I was living my compromise. Even though I was
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Speaker 3: great at finance and investments and did really really well
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Speaker 3: and my clients, you know, loved what I did, there
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Speaker 3: was something in me that really wanted to just focus
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Speaker 3: on helping people get to the space where they could
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Speaker 3: experience the best.
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Speaker 4: Version of themselves.
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Speaker 3: And so that was the actual foundation and that's it
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Speaker 3: was my own traumatic season, my own dark night of
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Speaker 3: the soul that unctioned me into that space to where
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Speaker 3: I'm like, there have you know, there has to be
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Speaker 3: other people like me. And you know that first book
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Speaker 3: that I wrote, Our Spirits Renewed, it was really dedicated
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Speaker 3: to people who wanted to come out of their dark
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Speaker 3: spaces and to actually walk into the light and to
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Speaker 3: be a better version of themselves.
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Speaker 2: I like what you said, as far as your life
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Speaker 2: was going well, and everything looked great on the outside,
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Speaker 2: right you really you shouldn't have had anything to complain
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Speaker 2: about or feel bad about or be sad about, but
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Speaker 2: you were because something was missing for you. And I
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Speaker 2: think there's a lot of people out there that are
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Speaker 2: living life and I was included in that at one
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Speaker 2: time that everyone from the outside might have been looking
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Speaker 2: in and saying, why would you be depressed? Why would
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Speaker 2: you have any issues with how your life is going?
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Speaker 2: But you know, when something that's missing. And what I'm
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Speaker 2: hearing you say, and this is what I had to do,
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Speaker 2: is that instead of like going outside of yourself, you
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Speaker 2: had to take a pause and go within and connect
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Speaker 2: with yourself to realize that you had to create this
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Speaker 2: change for yourself and connect with yourself and what your
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Speaker 2: passion and mission and purpose were in this life.
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Speaker 3: Absolutely I had to there there was no way that
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Speaker 3: I could continue moving in that vein. And because see,
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Speaker 3: I've always been one who who tried my best to
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Speaker 3: be authentic, even though you know, sometimes we kind of
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Speaker 3: shade our authenticity so that we can be accepted.
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Speaker 4: By the tribe.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and there was no way that I could continue
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Speaker 3: just doing investments in finance and knowing that I had
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Speaker 3: this passion and I would see people struggling and having
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Speaker 3: their moments, and people were always coming to me and
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Speaker 3: asking me for advice, and it was just a natural
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Speaker 3: process for me.
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Speaker 4: So me honoring what was happening to me was that
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Speaker 4: foundation that I needed in order to take that next
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Speaker 4: step to become a success coach, to empower people in
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Speaker 4: a real practical way.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're talking about how we're programmed, right, and you're
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Speaker 2: going to share with us how we can change and
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Speaker 2: shift how our minds are programmed. One of the things
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Speaker 2: that we are programmed to believe is that we go
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Speaker 2: through schooling the way that we're supposed to, and then
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Speaker 2: we go to college and we're supposed to get this
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Speaker 2: certain kind of job and then you make money and
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Speaker 2: that's just how and get married or whatever the case
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Speaker 2: may be. That's how we are programmed to think success
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Speaker 2: looks like.
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Speaker 4: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: I love that we are now having these conversations that
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Speaker 2: that is not necessarily success, right.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, I agree one hundred per I like
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Speaker 3: to say, especially to the gen xers like myself and
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Speaker 3: a few Baby boomers, that that you know that I
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Speaker 3: was raised by baby boomer and I love to say,
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Speaker 3: especially in my talks when I have an audience, that
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Speaker 3: that that's around my age.
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Speaker 4: I'm in my fifties. Now the world that we were
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Speaker 4: raised for no longer.
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Speaker 5: Exists, and in order to understand this new paradigm, we
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Speaker 5: have to shit the old.
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Speaker 3: In order to embrace and to be successful in this season,
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Speaker 3: we have to ship the old. And what Baby boomers
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Speaker 3: and Gen xers were taught was success. What that looked
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Speaker 3: and I mean it just like that. What it looked
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Speaker 3: like and what it smelt like. It's two totally different
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Speaker 3: things for us and for generations behind us. Because I know,
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Speaker 3: I remember when when I told just even like with
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Speaker 3: my father, I remember I told him, you know, my
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Speaker 3: dad practiced law for thirty plus years, and you know,
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Speaker 3: he wanted me to come into the family practice, and
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Speaker 3: he wanted me to, you know, follow that predescribed path,
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Speaker 3: you know, go to college, get a couple of degrees,
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Speaker 3: come back home.
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Speaker 4: Work in a family law firm, run this practice. I
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Speaker 4: didn't want to do that.
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Speaker 3: I did not want to do that because I'd been
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Speaker 3: around it all my life. And so but the programming
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Speaker 3: that you speak of is absolutely true all of us
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Speaker 3: because we're communal by nature, we're raised in our little clans,
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Speaker 3: whether it's a big clan or a small.
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Speaker 4: Plan and uh, and that clan has a thought process.
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Speaker 4: That clan created this matrix around.
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Speaker 3: You that says, this is how you walk, this is
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Speaker 3: how you talk, this is how you engage with each other.
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Speaker 3: These are the types, this is the type of education
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Speaker 3: that you get, these are the jobs that are available
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Speaker 3: to you. And this is what we expect from you.
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Speaker 3: And you need to govern yourself accordingly. And many of
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Speaker 3: us acquiesced to that.
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Speaker 4: We did.
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Speaker 3: We just kind of we just kind of fell right
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Speaker 3: on in line. But there was always something inside of
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Speaker 3: us that's pulling in a different direction that says, you know,
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Speaker 3: I want to paint, I want to draw, I want
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Speaker 3: to sing, I want to be be a creator.
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Speaker 2: Uh.
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Speaker 4: And it's it's very, very different.
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Speaker 3: So one of the toughest things a person will ever
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Speaker 3: do is to have the courage to define themselves for themselves.
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Speaker 3: Because the world already has a plan for you. The
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Speaker 3: world has a dream for you, and a lot of
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Speaker 3: times that dream is actually a nightmare for you. And
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Speaker 3: so for a person to have the courage first and
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Speaker 3: foremost to step outside of that comfort zone that society
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Speaker 3: has created, that box, that bubble. I celebrate anybody who
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Speaker 3: has the nerve to do that because it's not easy.
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Speaker 2: It shows a lot of strength and it is difficult.
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Speaker 2: So let's talk about your book, Cracking the abundance Code. Okay,
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Speaker 2: you teach people how to reprogram their minds. So how
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Speaker 2: exactly do you do that? And how can we begin
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Speaker 2: even begin to reprogram and shift our programming?
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Speaker 4: Absolutely well, first thing, the first thing you have to
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Speaker 4: do is to understand what stories you're holding on to
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Speaker 4: that no longer serve you.
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Speaker 3: You have to understand what means are you holding on to?
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Speaker 4: What limiting beliefs are you resting with?
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Speaker 3: What fears, doubts, trepidations, what do those things look like?
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Speaker 4: Because you know, my fears aren't your fears. What I
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Speaker 4: worry about may not phase you.
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Speaker 3: So my story is going to be different from yours,
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Speaker 3: and your story is different from the next person. So
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Speaker 3: one of the things that I created, because this is
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Speaker 3: actually an entire system, the book itself is like the primer.
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Speaker 3: But the first thing is to assess where you are and.
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Speaker 4: When you know. When you know where you are and
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Speaker 4: what you're wrestling with, what old stories you're holding on to,
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Speaker 4: then you know what you need to let go. And
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Speaker 4: so the process. The first step is to do that
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Speaker 4: self analysis.
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Speaker 3: And we created an assessment called the Wealth Assessment, and
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Speaker 3: that Wealth assessment.
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Speaker 4: You know, you go in there, you take it and
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Speaker 4: it gives.
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Speaker 3: Your score, and that score pairs you with an abundance
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Speaker 3: archetype and so and it tells you, like when your
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Speaker 3: next big win is, what is it that you've been
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Speaker 3: rested link with?
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Speaker 4: What are some of the typical society influences that you've
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Speaker 4: dealt with, some of the past experiences that you wrestle
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Speaker 4: with that have helped to create you know, your persona,
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Speaker 4: create that personality.
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Speaker 3: And so once you do that, then you know where
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Speaker 3: you know where you are, you know what you're wrestling with.
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Speaker 3: Here's the thing. You have to understand that all of
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Speaker 3: those things are held within your subconscious mind and that
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Speaker 3: because that's what the programming is, that's where the programming lies.
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna start be there just for a minute. I mean,
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Speaker 2: when we're awake and our minds are thinking, we're really
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Speaker 2: only using like what is it five to ten percent? Right,
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Speaker 2: everything that's running is in our subconscious which that subconscious
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Speaker 2: It actually affects how we live in our day today,
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Speaker 2: and we were sleeping. When we quieter our minds, that's
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Speaker 2: actually an incredible time. And I think that's where that
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Speaker 2: hypnosis comes in, that you can start retraining that subconscious
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Speaker 2: in the way that you're thinking. Is that correct?
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Speaker 3: No, you're dead on because just like you said, ninety
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Speaker 3: to ninety five percent of our life is governed.
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Speaker 4: Truly by the subconscious mind.
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Speaker 3: You know, the the autonomic nervous system, that part of us,
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Speaker 3: that everything is on autopilot, that is run by the
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Speaker 3: subconscious mind. Our ego dwells in the conscious mind. That
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Speaker 3: five to ten percent, you know, us and our awakened
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Speaker 3: state as we're having our conversation now, that is you know,
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Speaker 3: that is us being fully awake and when you understand
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Speaker 3: the alternate state sub consciousness and what allows us to
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Speaker 3: tap into the subconscious mind so that we can reprogram
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Speaker 3: and recalibrate how we think, because you can't you can't
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Speaker 3: change the outcome until you change the programming. Just like
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Speaker 3: you know, just like a regular computer, you know that
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Speaker 3: that program is running code.
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Speaker 4: It's running code, and that code is going to have
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Speaker 4: an output, and that output is will be prerecated by
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Speaker 4: that program. And so if you want.
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Speaker 2: Your programming has come from your upbringing, society, the people
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Speaker 2: that are around you, the circumstances experience traumas, yes, and
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Speaker 2: traumas which that goes under family and experiences.
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Speaker 4: Right, It definitely can't for sure for sure.
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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, so you said, now we've got to tap
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Speaker 2: into that subconscious So how are we tapping into that?
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Speaker 3: So the way that there are many protocols that you
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Speaker 3: can use to tap into your self conscious mind. The
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Speaker 3: ones that I know that are most effective, they're three
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Speaker 3: and I talk about them in my book Cracking the
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Speaker 3: Abundance Code. It is number one is hypnosis. That's going
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Speaker 3: to give you access to the subconscious mind because we're
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Speaker 3: what we're doing is slowing down the cycles of the brain,
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Speaker 3: which allows us to tap into those alternate states of consciousness.
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Speaker 4: So where we go from.
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Speaker 3: Beta to alpha to fata to delt to those and
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Speaker 3: that literally just shows the cycles of the brain and
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Speaker 3: how fast it's moving. So when we slow it down
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Speaker 3: and we get to those alternate states of consciousness, that
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Speaker 3: allows us to tap into the subconscious mind and to
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Speaker 3: layel programming.
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Speaker 4: You can also do that through meditation.
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Speaker 3: When you do mindful meditation, you can you can slip
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Speaker 3: into those alternate states of consciousness by you know, by
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Speaker 3: slowing down that cycle of brain doing the same process.
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Speaker 3: The other thing is also repetition, using using affirmations and
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Speaker 3: speaking those affirmations over and over and over again to yourself.
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Speaker 3: Those are very very effective too. The most effect that
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Speaker 3: that I know is direct to direct to the.
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Speaker 4: Point is hypnosis. Go straight to the source, lay the
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Speaker 4: programming and you're done.
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Speaker 3: So that's that's one of the Those are the three
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Speaker 3: primary processes that I talk about in addressing the limiting beliefs,
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Speaker 3: because see, here's the thing. In order to attract wealth
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Speaker 3: and abundance and to create something different in your life.
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Speaker 3: If you're if you're being challenged by attracting wealth, the
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Speaker 3: problem is rooted in.
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Speaker 4: Your subconscious mind.
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Speaker 3: It is in your it's in your fears, it's in
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Speaker 3: your doubts, it's in all of those things that we're
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Speaker 3: holding onto. So we have to reprogram that to recalibrate
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Speaker 3: how you think. Because how you think, what you speak about,
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Speaker 3: the emotions that you experience, the actions that you take,
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Speaker 3: all of these things have to be in alignment vibrationally
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Speaker 3: with abundance in order to experience it.
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Speaker 4: So that's the So the first part is to the
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Speaker 4: first part of the book, and it's really a really
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Speaker 4: simple and easy read. The book is broken down into
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Speaker 4: three sections.
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Speaker 3: It's the addressing the limiting beliefs first, so we get
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Speaker 3: that out of the way, you know, we help you
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Speaker 3: to reprogram yourself to be more positive and to address
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Speaker 3: the negative stuff that you've been holding on too and.
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Speaker 4: Letting that stuff go.
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Speaker 3: And once you let that go, that opens up the
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Speaker 3: gateway for you then to quantum leap into the wealthiest
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Speaker 3: version of yourself. And then the third part is about
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Speaker 3: the actual manifestation.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and so like, so what you're talking about the
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Speaker 2: limiting beliefs and the programming around money. So when you're
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Speaker 2: being raised it it's your your family. The dynamic that
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Speaker 2: you're in is how you're being taught to think about money, right.
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Speaker 4: So initially, yes, initially exactly.
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Speaker 2: So a lot of times, like when you get older,
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Speaker 2: it's like making money is a struggle, let's say, or
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Speaker 2: or I'm not worth having more than X, Y and Z,
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Speaker 2: or what I make today exactly, or you know, like
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Speaker 2: me is like I've always got to go to the
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Speaker 2: sale rack because my grandmother. I was raised a lot
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Speaker 2: of time during my youth with my grandparents, and they
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Speaker 2: grew up during the depression, and so then it's like,
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Speaker 2: you've got to really be tied around your money. And
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Speaker 2: so I do struggle with that. And now, thankfully, I'm
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Speaker 2: going say this a d and I think that I
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Speaker 2: myself attracted something I didn't even realize that I was
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Speaker 2: going to attract in my life, but I was like,
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Speaker 2: I am going to have money, I'm going to live
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Speaker 2: a good, successful life. Like these are things that I
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Speaker 2: thought of when I was younger, and I just desired.
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Speaker 2: And then slowly as life I'm not saying life was
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Speaker 2: easy by any means, but slowly these things came into
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Speaker 2: my life. And so now I'm like, hey, now that
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Speaker 2: I understand manifesting and what that means, you know, I
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Speaker 2: think that I help myself along because that's something I
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Speaker 2: used to tell myself all the time, is that I
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Speaker 2: don't want to have to struggle. I don't want to
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Speaker 2: have to feel this way. And yeah, and so when
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Speaker 2: someone one of the things that you were talking about,
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Speaker 2: I'd love for you just to talk about a little
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Speaker 2: bit more and expand on. Is that energy that you know,
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Speaker 2: there's a lot of people out there that are talking
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Speaker 2: about it, but there's a lot of people out there
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Speaker 2: that don't understand that so much. So can you talk
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Speaker 2: about that a little bit more as far as like
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Speaker 2: what you put out is what you attract.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, the short and skinny version of it is that
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Speaker 3: we live in an energetic universe.
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Speaker 4: It's just that simpolet. I mean, if you go to
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Speaker 4: if you go.
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Speaker 3: Back in time to your first year in chemistry class,
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Speaker 3: you know, you learned that the smallest rudimentary element of
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Speaker 3: the universe is an atom, and then you know that
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Speaker 3: atom is broken down into particles and all that kind
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Speaker 3: of stuff. But once you really get down in it,
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Speaker 3: it really is just a wave and then that wave
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Speaker 3: actually is turned into a particle by virtue of your focus.
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Speaker 3: Always teach my clients that where your focus goes, energy flows,
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Speaker 3: and where energy flows, manifestation soon follows. What we experience
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Speaker 3: as reality is truly an expression or reflection of what
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Speaker 3: is transpiring or has transpired on the inside of us.
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Speaker 3: And energetically, we have our hearts literally create an electromagnetic.
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Speaker 4: Field around us, and that lets electromagnetic feel.
21:36
Speaker 3: You know, it works in two different ways. It receives,
21:40
Speaker 3: it repels, well, I'll say three. It receives, it repels,
21:45
Speaker 3: and it also projects. So as we think a particular thought,
21:51
Speaker 3: that thought is a thing. Thought literally has weight to it.
21:55
Speaker 3: You can actually measure the weight of a thought, and
21:57
Speaker 3: because of it having weight, that means it has an
22:00
Speaker 3: effect on gravity. And so as that the heavier the thought,
22:05
Speaker 3: the more energy you give that thought.
22:08
Speaker 4: Follow me, The more energy you give that thought, the
22:10
Speaker 4: weightier it is.
22:11
Speaker 3: And if you can imagine a beautiful blanket being stretched
22:16
Speaker 3: out and your thought being like a big like a ball,
22:20
Speaker 3: placed on that blanket, it weighs the blanket down. Right,
22:23
Speaker 3: if it's suspended in air, it weighs it down.
22:26
Speaker 4: So your thoughts. The more energy you give a thing,
22:29
Speaker 4: the more beingness it has, the more weight it has.
22:31
Speaker 4: From a quantum perspective, it is literally bending the fabric
22:36
Speaker 4: of space and time and calling things to it. So
22:39
Speaker 4: if I were to put a marble on the edge
22:41
Speaker 4: of the blanket, that thought that you have is weighing
22:44
Speaker 4: it down. So the deeper it is, it is creating
22:46
Speaker 4: a gravity what we call a gravity. Well, you place
22:49
Speaker 4: that desire on there that marble on the edge of
22:52
Speaker 4: the edge of the blanket, and guess what it's going
22:54
Speaker 4: to do. It's going to be attracted to the depth
22:57
Speaker 4: because it's dipping down.
22:59
Speaker 3: Now, if your thought is light and free and not
23:04
Speaker 3: very focused, then guess what. The weight of it is
23:08
Speaker 3: not going to be strong enough to bend the fabric
23:10
Speaker 3: of space and time, so it's not going to attract
23:12
Speaker 3: as fast as you would like it to. So energetically,
23:17
Speaker 3: it is so important for our thoughts, our words, our emotions,
23:22
Speaker 3: and our actions to be an alignment because it gives gravity.
23:26
Speaker 3: And you literally bend the quantum field and you call
23:29
Speaker 3: out to the quantum field, and it gives back to.
23:31
Speaker 4: You what it is that you ask for. You co
23:34
Speaker 4: create in this energetic field, this universe, and you experience
23:39
Speaker 4: the reality based upon the reflection of what's going on
23:43
Speaker 4: inside of you.
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Speaker 2: I love it.
23:46
Speaker 3: That was like the forty five second version, and you
23:49
Speaker 3: did a great job.
23:50
Speaker 2: Ady. I just have to say, like, that's a good
23:54
Speaker 2: love because it's not like all this woo woo stuff.
23:57
Speaker 2: I mean, there is science that proves oh yeah, this is.
24:02
Speaker 3: Once upon a time it might have been considered Google,
24:04
Speaker 3: but where we live now, I mean, there is quantifiable
24:08
Speaker 3: data that when you understand quantum mechanics, and you don't
24:11
Speaker 3: have to be a physicist to understand this stuff.
24:14
Speaker 4: You know, get your a nice book.
24:16
Speaker 3: My first introduction to quantum mechanics was actually through Depok
24:20
Speaker 3: Troper and a book that he had written. Oh goodness,
24:23
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna I'm not gonna try to remember it
24:25
Speaker 3: right now, creating a creating affluence, That's what it was.
24:29
Speaker 3: It was creating affluence, so something like that, the a
24:31
Speaker 3: disea to creating wealth and influence. Yeah, and it was
24:34
Speaker 3: back in the nineties, and it was the first time
24:37
Speaker 3: I had heard this idea, and it just made sense
24:40
Speaker 3: because I you know, I always pride myself on Yeah,
24:42
Speaker 3: I like moobile woof stuff. But you know, if you
24:44
Speaker 3: can back the wooble woof stuff up with some logic
24:48
Speaker 3: and some science behind.
24:49
Speaker 4: It, you got me done. You know, I'm sold.
24:51
Speaker 3: And so when I understood how quantum mechanics brings everything
24:57
Speaker 3: into our space and that we co create with a
24:59
Speaker 3: univer verse. Back to your original statement, your mind and
25:04
Speaker 3: our thoughts are everything, and it cause it calls for us.
25:09
Speaker 4: To really have if we can have.
25:11
Speaker 3: Control over our thoughts and our emotions, that we can
25:14
Speaker 3: begin to attract and draw into our space what it
25:17
Speaker 3: is that we want and not what we don't.
25:20
Speaker 2: Love it, love it? So it. What's something that someone
25:24
Speaker 2: can do right now? They're feeling stuck and so many
25:28
Speaker 2: of us don't move forward or create the change because
25:30
Speaker 2: we live in this sphere. What can they do to
25:35
Speaker 2: just start today? I know the meditation that is fantastic.
25:40
Speaker 2: So many people out there say I can't meditate my
25:44
Speaker 2: mind and so yeah, what if you if you already
25:50
Speaker 2: put stockgate, how are you supposed to create the change?
25:53
Speaker 4: Right? And see, here's the tough part. You have to
25:56
Speaker 4: do the work.
25:58
Speaker 2: Thank you? Yea.
26:01
Speaker 3: Too many people they want the quick fix. They don't
26:06
Speaker 3: want to do the work, and you have to. This
26:10
Speaker 3: is building and creating wealth. It is a process and
26:15
Speaker 3: a journey. Is there a shortcut? Absolutely, there's absolutely a shortcut.
26:20
Speaker 3: But at the same token, you have to discover do
26:26
Speaker 3: the inner work, do the shadow work, find out what
26:28
Speaker 3: you're holding on to, what is it that you need
26:30
Speaker 3: to let go of?
26:31
Speaker 4: Then how do you project what's the internal dialogue that
26:34
Speaker 4: you now need to speak that will place you in alignment.
26:37
Speaker 3: So that you can experience all of the things that
26:40
Speaker 3: you want, so asking, you know, what can a person
26:43
Speaker 3: do today?
26:44
Speaker 4: Just you know, my first mentor would always say.
26:46
Speaker 3: He would remind me that, you know, how do you
26:48
Speaker 3: eat a ten thousand pounds elephant ad? You know it's
26:52
Speaker 3: one by the time, yeah, one one by at the
26:55
Speaker 3: time and so the so you know, so starved.
26:59
Speaker 4: So just get pen to paper and just journal.
27:03
Speaker 3: Write down what you're feeling in the moment, write down
27:07
Speaker 3: what it is that you want to experience, and see
27:09
Speaker 3: here's where the magic begins. And make sure you use
27:11
Speaker 3: a pencil when you do that, and do it on
27:15
Speaker 3: real paper. You know, these digital devices are cool and all,
27:18
Speaker 3: but there's something about the moment pin or that pencil
27:23
Speaker 3: touches the paper and you're literally manifesting that thing into
27:28
Speaker 3: the third dimensional reality. You're birthing it, and it starts
27:32
Speaker 3: off with that list of wishes and dreams and hopes
27:35
Speaker 3: and all.
27:35
Speaker 4: Of those aspirations. That's the first step is to write
27:38
Speaker 4: it down.
27:39
Speaker 3: Be aware, be aware of who you are, where you are,
27:41
Speaker 3: and what it is that you want to experience. So
27:44
Speaker 3: that'll tell you, well, this is how far I am
27:47
Speaker 3: from what I want. You may realize that you're a
27:50
Speaker 3: little closer than you thought.
27:53
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta have patience. Things may not go in
27:58
Speaker 2: the path that you think it should go.
28:00
Speaker 4: To most of the time it's not. It's not going
28:03
Speaker 4: to go the wait and think exactly.
28:05
Speaker 2: And I also want to ask you about affirmations because
28:11
Speaker 2: I hear a lot of times people say that affirmations like, well,
28:16
Speaker 2: I don't really believe what I'm saying right, or affirmations
28:20
Speaker 2: don't really work for me. And and this is something
28:24
Speaker 2: again about taking action takes time. You're reprogramming, building a muscle.
28:31
Speaker 2: So can you expand a little bit more on how
28:34
Speaker 2: affirmations really work? And if you are feeling that they don't,
28:39
Speaker 2: how can you expand on how they do work.
28:46
Speaker 3: One of the things is when you understand neuroplasticity that
28:50
Speaker 3: you know you are, you are hardwired in a lot
28:53
Speaker 3: of ways for a lot of things. So it is
28:55
Speaker 3: because of that hard wiring that when you begin to
28:59
Speaker 3: when you just start you know, speaking or using affirmations,
29:04
Speaker 3: it feels awkward, it feels funny.
29:05
Speaker 4: And guess what, understand that that's normal, It's okay.
29:09
Speaker 3: So I don't want you to get frustrated because you're
29:11
Speaker 3: starting to do something, because what are you're doing now,
29:13
Speaker 3: You're starting to create path new neural pathways that it's
29:17
Speaker 3: stretching that.
29:19
Speaker 4: Elasticity, so that that neuroplasticity that you're that that that
29:24
Speaker 4: you're operating under. It's so vital for you to do
29:28
Speaker 4: this work.
29:30
Speaker 3: So in the beginning, when you look at yourself and
29:33
Speaker 3: say I am wealthy, I am healthy, I am wise,
29:37
Speaker 3: money flows to me easily and effortlessly. It may feel
29:40
Speaker 3: awkward initially, but you keep speaking it, you keep looking
29:44
Speaker 3: at yourself, and you keep.
29:45
Speaker 4: Having that internal dialogue.
29:47
Speaker 3: It's just like when you began to drive, when you
29:49
Speaker 3: first got behind the car.
29:51
Speaker 4: You know, but got you know, got behind that staining
29:53
Speaker 4: wheel for the first time. You weren't comfortable.
29:57
Speaker 3: No, no, you were afraid and you it took a
30:00
Speaker 3: minute for you to kind of get get into the groove.
30:03
Speaker 3: Now when you so so when you first started, you know,
30:06
Speaker 3: you had to check your mirrors, you had to put
30:08
Speaker 3: on your your your seatbelt, you had to look all
30:12
Speaker 3: around and now listen, I guarantee you, I guarantee you
30:17
Speaker 3: you can drive your car, yell at kids in the back,
30:20
Speaker 3: drink coffee, put on the lipstick, talk on the celf
30:23
Speaker 3: talk on the phone at the same time and all
30:26
Speaker 3: while driving.
30:28
Speaker 4: You may not you know, you may not supposed to
30:30
Speaker 4: do that, but.
30:31
Speaker 2: You can do it.
30:32
Speaker 4: Not like that, but yeah, right, So it's the same thing.
30:36
Speaker 4: It's the same thing with your affirmations.
30:38
Speaker 3: So of course, just like you weren't comfortable when you
30:40
Speaker 3: got behind the steering wheel the first time, when you
30:43
Speaker 3: start your affirmations.
30:44
Speaker 4: You may not be so comfortable, but just keep doing
30:46
Speaker 4: it and it will get you get there.
30:49
Speaker 3: Just trust that process now and you can quantumly and
30:52
Speaker 3: and and the way you the way you show up
30:55
Speaker 3: to the affirmation that's going to be important too.
30:58
Speaker 4: I'm gonna encourage you to be bold, be bold, be daring, you.
31:02
Speaker 3: Know, speak speak that thing, and I mean, you know,
31:05
Speaker 3: like you know, like the kids says, you know, say
31:06
Speaker 3: it from your chest, you know, really be powerful in
31:10
Speaker 3: your affirmations.
31:11
Speaker 4: And so the more you do it, the better it'll get,
31:14
Speaker 4: the easier to get for you.
31:15
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, one hundred percent. I agree with that. And
31:19
Speaker 2: whenever I get scared or things aren't I feel like
31:24
Speaker 2: they aren't going my way, or I don't think I
31:27
Speaker 2: can get through something, I always just tell myself Marca
31:31
Speaker 2: you're going to get through this. You can do it.
31:33
Speaker 2: You can do it. And I take that deep breath,
31:35
Speaker 2: I take that you know call my nervous system, and
31:40
Speaker 2: just that little bitty fix right there, and it does
31:42
Speaker 2: shift the way that I think in that moment.
31:45
Speaker 3: It truly you have to.
31:48
Speaker 2: Yeah, so the CTA system, can you tell us what
31:52
Speaker 2: that stands for?
31:54
Speaker 3: And this is the book Cracking Abundance COLD. So it's
31:59
Speaker 3: just an acronym for Cracking the Abundance Code.
32:01
Speaker 4: That's it.
32:04
Speaker 3: Because it's a long name. So so like to keep
32:07
Speaker 3: saying the Cracking the Abundance Code system.
32:10
Speaker 2: You short just show it.
32:14
Speaker 4: Yeah, we just shortened it. So that's so what I did.
32:18
Speaker 3: So again this started off as is just a book,
32:22
Speaker 3: and it grew because I was like, Okay, we need this,
32:26
Speaker 3: we need that. And so the entire so the actual
32:29
Speaker 3: entire system is is one that is centered around what
32:34
Speaker 3: I do best is hypnosis. So that system is a
32:38
Speaker 3: twenty one day system. It's not a challenge and it's
32:42
Speaker 3: not that kind of thing. It's a twenty one day roadmap.
32:45
Speaker 3: You actually get the roadmap inside of the book, but
32:47
Speaker 3: when you go to the go to the Cracking Abundance website.
32:52
Speaker 3: You actually you actually have access.
32:55
Speaker 4: To do one.
32:55
Speaker 3: You start that journey by doing the wealth assessment. You
33:00
Speaker 3: gets your score. It pairs you with the abundance archetype.
33:03
Speaker 3: You know what you're wrestling with. Then you start your
33:05
Speaker 3: twenty one day program. And that twenty one days. The
33:10
Speaker 3: first day you have some guided meditations. Have you have
33:15
Speaker 3: the first seven days. Then you each seven days you
33:19
Speaker 3: have a hypnosis program. The first one is of course
33:24
Speaker 3: moving beyond those limiting beliefs, letting those limiting beliefs go
33:28
Speaker 3: so that you then can prepare yourself for the next
33:31
Speaker 3: seven days. And the next seven days is about quantum
33:34
Speaker 3: leaping into your wealthy identity, and that is you walking
33:39
Speaker 3: and being and living as if. And so we go
33:43
Speaker 3: through a series of exercises and protocols and all of
33:46
Speaker 3: these things for the next for that seven day period
33:50
Speaker 3: to help you prepare for that quantum leap, you're.
33:55
Speaker 4: Doing your visualized and you're actually walking it. You're you're
33:58
Speaker 4: walking it, you're dressing as.
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Speaker 2: You feel it, you're visualizing it.
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Speaker 4: Yes, yes.
34:04
Speaker 3: So then then at the end of that seven day
34:06
Speaker 3: period is another hypno secession, and that hypno succession is
34:10
Speaker 3: about quantum leaping into that wealthy identity. And I'm literally
34:14
Speaker 3: going to take your subconscious mind on a journey to
34:17
Speaker 3: take you there to where it is that you want
34:20
Speaker 3: to be, from here to there, to embody your version
34:25
Speaker 3: of your wealthy mindset. It's not my version, it's not
34:28
Speaker 3: Marcy's version, it's not mom or Dad's version. It is
34:31
Speaker 3: abundance according to you. And so you do that for
34:36
Speaker 3: the seven days, and we move into the last seven days,
34:40
Speaker 3: and that is about preparing your mind for the actual
34:44
Speaker 3: manifestation of it. How do you how do you put
34:48
Speaker 3: those practices into action, and how do you also do
34:53
Speaker 3: The most important thing is to let go. You have
35:00
Speaker 3: to let go because the more you hold on to
35:03
Speaker 3: the dream and the more you push it, the more
35:05
Speaker 3: you fight, the harder it is to manifest. So I
35:08
Speaker 3: teach you to put the intention out there vibrationally align
35:13
Speaker 3: yourself with the vision that you have seen for yourself.
35:16
Speaker 3: And then once you've done all of this work, you've healed.
35:19
Speaker 3: Because the first seven days is about releasing those limiting
35:21
Speaker 3: beliefs and the things that have been blocking you. Then
35:24
Speaker 3: the second seven days is you actually embodying the best
35:28
Speaker 3: version of yourself.
35:29
Speaker 4: And then the last seven days as we move into
35:33
Speaker 4: the twenty one day.
35:34
Speaker 3: Twenty one is releasing, allowing, letting go so that everything
35:40
Speaker 3: that you have seen for yourself you can bring into
35:43
Speaker 3: your experience.
35:45
Speaker 4: And that's the see Tex system. That's it from beginning
35:48
Speaker 4: to end.
35:50
Speaker 2: So you talk about abundance and what that really means,
35:54
Speaker 2: I mean, I know it means many things out there
35:58
Speaker 2: may think that that's just money. Can you share other
36:03
Speaker 2: ways that we can think of abundance? Oh?
36:06
Speaker 3: Absolutely. Abundance is good health. Abundance is having a love
36:11
Speaker 3: filled home. Abundance is having children that are happy and healthy.
36:16
Speaker 3: Abundance can be laughter a lot of it. Having friends
36:20
Speaker 3: that you're able to just kind of be with and
36:23
Speaker 3: be authentic around. That's abundance. That's abundance. Having having a
36:30
Speaker 3: peace of mind, having the ability to quiet your spaces,
36:36
Speaker 3: that's abundance.
36:37
Speaker 4: Abundance is all around.
36:39
Speaker 3: Abundance is above below, it's inside of us.
36:43
Speaker 4: We come from and see, this is the thing that
36:44
Speaker 4: I teach. You come from abundance.
36:47
Speaker 3: You come from a source where there's nothing lacking, nothing
36:53
Speaker 3: at all lacking.
36:55
Speaker 4: And because there's nothing lacking, your design, your build is
37:01
Speaker 4: for Prosperity is for abundance. That's why I feel so good.
37:06
Speaker 4: That's why, you know, when you go to the rich Calton.
37:09
Speaker 3: It feels nice to be in luxurious, you know, surroundings.
37:14
Speaker 3: It's lovely to be at home and you have beautiful furnishings.
37:17
Speaker 4: And all of those things.
37:18
Speaker 3: It feels good when you're in a beautiful garden there,
37:22
Speaker 3: you're you're at a wonderful resort, or you're just in
37:25
Speaker 3: your meditation like I'm in my meditation suite at home.
37:28
Speaker 4: This is this is actually where I do the work.
37:31
Speaker 4: So for your right, yeah, yeah, make a space for yourself.
37:35
Speaker 4: Make it sacred. So abundance is so many things, but
37:40
Speaker 4: it's just and it's abundance according to you. And of
37:43
Speaker 4: course abundance is financial too. You know.
37:46
Speaker 3: Financial abundance is great because it allows you to do
37:48
Speaker 3: so many things. That allows you to be a blessing
37:50
Speaker 3: to so many people, That allows you to take care
37:52
Speaker 3: of your family. It allows you to if you're having
37:55
Speaker 3: a tough day, to have that tough day in a
37:58
Speaker 3: much nicer environment.
38:00
Speaker 2: It self care, I'm all about that self care.
38:05
Speaker 4: Yeah, that self care. So yeah, that's that's that's my
38:09
Speaker 4: take on it.
38:10
Speaker 2: I love it. I love it, and it's so true.
38:13
Speaker 2: It's so true to have a real, well rounded life
38:18
Speaker 2: and money does not make you happy. Yes, it makes
38:22
Speaker 2: things easier, it does not bring true fulfillment.
38:27
Speaker 4: Nope.
38:28
Speaker 2: So I want to talk a little bit. When I
38:31
Speaker 2: was talking about the programming, and one of the things
38:34
Speaker 2: that you brought up was how trauma affects us. And
38:38
Speaker 2: that's one of the things that took a real toll
38:41
Speaker 2: on my life, and I used alcohol to cope with that.
38:46
Speaker 2: And I'm now almost ten years sober. And when I
38:49
Speaker 2: started relations thank you, And when I started my sobriety journey,
38:54
Speaker 2: that's when I started my healing. So I always say
38:58
Speaker 2: it's one thing to put down the drink, but now
39:01
Speaker 2: it's all about reprogramming and changing the way that you
39:05
Speaker 2: live your life. So this work that you now help
39:08
Speaker 2: others with, I actually had to go through to heal
39:12
Speaker 2: from my past trauma, right, and to reprogram the way
39:18
Speaker 2: that I thought about myself. The first thing was the
39:21
Speaker 2: self hatred that I had for myself, the victim role
39:26
Speaker 2: that I lived, and you know, putting off all of
39:32
Speaker 2: the things that happened in my life. Everything looked great
39:34
Speaker 2: on the outside, but on the inside, I was crumbling
39:38
Speaker 2: and managing that well. I thought with alcohol that that
39:42
Speaker 2: was just destroying me. So once I was able to
39:44
Speaker 2: put that down, I was able to start shifting the
39:47
Speaker 2: way that I was thinking and rep programming and putting
39:51
Speaker 2: that action into life every single day. And I still do.
39:55
Speaker 2: I still have to. So for those that have dealt
40:00
Speaker 2: with trauma, and I think all of us have dealt
40:04
Speaker 2: with trauma in something, it's how we've gotten through it.
40:07
Speaker 2: It helps us to become resilient. You know, there's no
40:10
Speaker 2: story that's harder than another. Right, we all have something
40:14
Speaker 2: that changes the way that we think, and trauma actually
40:18
Speaker 2: changes our brain. So for those that are out there
40:23
Speaker 2: that have dealt with trauma as a child or as
40:26
Speaker 2: an adult, how can we start to know that we
40:33
Speaker 2: don't need these substances to mask that we do have
40:39
Speaker 2: the ability to reprogram and and heal from that trauma
40:45
Speaker 2: that we do have, that we are capable and worthy
40:47
Speaker 2: of you.
40:49
Speaker 3: And when it comes to trauma, I'm going to I'm
40:53
Speaker 3: going to say this, do your best to find professional help,
40:58
Speaker 3: because you know, with an organization that where the people
41:02
Speaker 3: have been there and done that, you know, like I've had,
41:07
Speaker 3: you know, in my my investment days, I've had employees
41:12
Speaker 3: that that were a part of U n A, that
41:16
Speaker 3: was a part of AA, and so they would always
41:19
Speaker 3: bring the you know these beautiful epitads that we're taught
41:24
Speaker 3: in these organizations.
41:25
Speaker 4: You need support. You can't do it alone.
41:29
Speaker 3: That's the first thing we lie to ourselves about. I
41:32
Speaker 3: can fix this myself. I can I can walk this
41:35
Speaker 3: journey alone.
41:36
Speaker 4: No, don't, don't. You don't have to.
41:39
Speaker 3: You can try, and that's okay for you, and it's
41:41
Speaker 3: admirable if that's something that you want to try. But
41:45
Speaker 3: I have seen the success of people who have found
41:49
Speaker 3: others that have walked the journey that you are now
41:52
Speaker 3: on and they can say, hey, you know what about this?
41:56
Speaker 3: They can they can offer a few steps that might
42:00
Speaker 3: save you some wrong terms. So connect to people that
42:04
Speaker 3: have been there, done that, get professional help, connect to
42:09
Speaker 3: organizations that have dealt with the journey that you're on
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Speaker 3: to get that guidance, and then be honest with yourself
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Speaker 3: and those around you. The foundation of it is first
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Speaker 3: being at first having the courage to acknowledge where you
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Speaker 3: are and to be honest with yourself and to others
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Speaker 3: that are around you. And then as you do that,
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Speaker 3: it opens up this panacea of help because the universe
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Speaker 3: is going to hear your cry and give you opportunity
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Speaker 3: after opportunity to meet people, to connect with folks that
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Speaker 3: have been there too, and that can help usher you
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Speaker 3: into that place of healing for yourself.
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Speaker 4: And you can.
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Speaker 3: You can do it because that many There are many
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Speaker 3: people who have dealt with all types of traumas, whether
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Speaker 3: there be physical abuses, substance abuse is life life in
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Speaker 3: and of itself, you know, financial trauma. That's one of
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Speaker 3: the things that I talk about in the book, is
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Speaker 3: it's financial trauma.
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Speaker 4: You know, there are there are many of us.
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Speaker 3: I've been there where I've lost everything, you know, after
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Speaker 3: you know, after having all of that success. You know,
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Speaker 3: two thousand and eight, two thousand and nine happened because
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Speaker 3: I was in the real estate market. I was heavily invested.
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Speaker 3: I owned a mortgage company. So when the market crashed,
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Speaker 3: all of us. Oh, I watched my friends lose everything.
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Speaker 3: I lost everything, I lost homes, cars. The two things
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Speaker 3: that I maintained was my integrity and my relationships. And
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Speaker 3: it was my relationship, it was my connection to community.
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Speaker 3: Those people that helped me get beyond that moment, and
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Speaker 3: I did the inner work. So I got books the
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Speaker 3: trauma that I had, I got books. I got Wayne Dyer,
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Speaker 3: Deepak Chopra, just you know, all of these wonderful luminaries.
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Speaker 4: Tony Robbins that that that really just kind of spoke
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Speaker 4: to me. They were my coaches.
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Speaker 3: They were my coaches, and they helped me to move
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Speaker 3: beyond where I was into a season of being healed.
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Speaker 3: And it's a it's a step by step journey when
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Speaker 3: it comes to healing, and hypnosis is a tool to
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Speaker 3: heal because because when you have access to the subconscious
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Speaker 3: mind as a hip, as a hypnotherapist, I can guide
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Speaker 3: you and I can help to reframe how your subconscious
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Speaker 3: mind holds the trauma. I'm not one of those therapists
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Speaker 3: that like to wrap a traumatic experience in amnesia.
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Speaker 2: Uh.
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Speaker 4: Some some therapists do, and and sometimes depending on how
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Speaker 4: violent the traumatic experience is, you may have to do that.
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Speaker 4: But I like to I like to reframe trauma. I
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Speaker 4: like to change the way you see it. And so
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Speaker 4: instead of it being a traumatic experience, it becomes wisdom.
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Speaker 3: It becomes a stepping stool, a step and stone for
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Speaker 3: you to now walk forward and move.
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Speaker 4: On with your life in a beautiful way.
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Speaker 2: So now, yeah, And one of the things that I
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Speaker 2: also realized is that doing the inner child work shadow work,
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Speaker 2: just releasing the negative energy, I had to release that
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Speaker 2: from my body that I held onto. So even though
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Speaker 2: I was trying to not think about it, it still
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Speaker 2: was staying stuck inside of me. And it was pretty
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Speaker 2: magical when I let that go.
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Speaker 3: So it's something powerful that you say that let that
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Speaker 3: go from your body, because most people don't realize that energetically,
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Speaker 3: that trauma oftentimes is lodged in our physical bodies. That's
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Speaker 3: why many of many of us have experienced tension and
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Speaker 3: stress and nick pains and back pains and all.
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Speaker 2: Kinds of ailments in pain, yeah, right, in pain.
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Speaker 3: So so your physical body is an expression of that
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Speaker 3: emotional state that you've experienced that trump the traumatic experience
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Speaker 3: that you've had many times.
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Speaker 4: Just lodged not only mentally and emotionally, but physically as well.
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Speaker 2: So I always say, silence keeps us sick. So if
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Speaker 2: we're not, we're not talking about it, if we're living
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Speaker 2: in the shame and the guilt, which we've been programmed
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Speaker 2: to do, right, not to talk about a lot of
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Speaker 2: these things or to even understand them. We can't heal.
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Speaker 2: We can't heal if we don't talk about it, if
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Speaker 2: we don't get educated, if we don't do the tools
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Speaker 2: to create the action in our lives every day. So
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Speaker 2: if somebody wanted to work more with you, where can
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Speaker 2: they find you?
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Speaker 4: Well, if they wanted to work directly with me, you
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Speaker 4: can go They could go to oasismindspot dot com.
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Speaker 3: That is that is my practice where I work with
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Speaker 3: professional athletes. I work with C suite executives on scaling.
47:03
Speaker 3: I work with you know, stay at home moms that
47:06
Speaker 3: are trying to create a new experience. And you know,
47:12
Speaker 3: I actually work with women who are going through menopause
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Speaker 3: and help them to manage manage that and so they
47:18
Speaker 3: can dive that thermostats so it won't be so hot.
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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah you so so yeah So oasismindspot dot com
47:26
Speaker 3: is definitely a way that you can contact me. I'm
47:29
Speaker 3: on all platforms, all social media. I actually still answer
47:33
Speaker 3: a lot of my own d ms and all those
47:37
Speaker 3: kinds of things too, because I like to be engaged.
47:39
Speaker 3: I like to be connected.
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Speaker 2: I love that, and it's all about connection well, Ad,
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Speaker 2: I want to thank you so much for sharing your wisdom,
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Speaker 2: your journey, and these amazing tools that you've given to
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Speaker 2: everyone listening or watching to help you to go deeper,
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Speaker 2: heal and unlock what's already inside of them. So I'm
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Speaker 2: just going to have everything linked below. Just want to
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Speaker 2: let all of the listeners and watchers know, and also
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Speaker 2: to our listeners remember that your past doesn't define your future,
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Speaker 2: right whether you're healing from trauma, navigating addiction, trying to
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Speaker 2: know that you're worth the abundance and all that you
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Speaker 2: deserve in this life, your purpose, that you are not
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Speaker 2: broken and you are waking up to your worth. And
48:33
Speaker 2: I also wanted to let you know for more support
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Speaker 2: with addiction recovery, please grab my book As to Clarity
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Speaker 2: and join me as MC this Shatterproof Walk in New
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Speaker 2: York City on October twenty fifth. I'd love for you
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Speaker 2: to possibly be a part of my team or create
48:49
Speaker 2: your own team, and let's support each other. Let's heal together.
48:53
Speaker 2: Thank you Ad for being on the show.
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Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you, thank you Monice. I truly this
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Speaker 4: has been fun. I truly appreciate the opportunity to see
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Speaker 4: here and to share with you today.
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Speaker 2: until next time, keep waking up to your worth, wake
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Speaker 2: up with courage, with love and with clarity, and I'll
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Speaker 2: see you next week. Bye,