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Happy Hour: Oh Come All Ye Faithful (SATC Ep 12) · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. I don't come to
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Speaker 1: Stephane never told your production of iHeart Radio. Yes, and
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Speaker 1: welcome to a special episode. It's not a happy hour
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Speaker 1: today because we're gonna make this a bigger thrill. And
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Speaker 1: by bigger thrill, what we're saying is we're doing season
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Speaker 1: one finale today. Bump bump bomb Sex in the City.
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I forgot that part. I get one part
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Speaker 1: of this. I always have to build up of the
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Speaker 1: one thing. But because it is season one, season finale
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Speaker 1: of Sex in the City, we had to bring a
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Speaker 1: guest because we couldn't do this alone. We had to
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Speaker 1: celebrate with our good friend Bridget Todd. Welcome Bridget, Thank
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Speaker 1: you so much. I am so ready to talk Sex
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Speaker 1: in the City. I love this show. I am locked
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Speaker 1: and loaded. I cannot wait. Oh my gosh. We are
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Speaker 1: so happy to have you. Yes, we've been talking about
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Speaker 1: doing this for so long now and now it's come
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Speaker 1: to fruition and we are here. But we do have
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Speaker 1: some traditions to follow. As tradition, Annie, can you please
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Speaker 1: let our listeners have the review of what has happened
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Speaker 1: thus far in season one of Sex and O. I
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Speaker 1: love this. I love that you're here, Bridget, because you're
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Speaker 1: gonna hear me fumble through this. Okay, So, so far
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Speaker 1: we've had conversations around single women versus married women, baby showers, anal, sex, vibrators,
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Speaker 1: dating young people, models, dating models, um, dating fixer uppers.
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Speaker 1: I guess, um, farting in front of your boyfriend not
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Speaker 1: being perfect? I guess was the ultimate point of that story,
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Speaker 1: in front of your boyfriend wanting to get married or
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Speaker 1: not wanting to get married? Uh, female body and art.
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Speaker 1: I guess, yes, thank you for that. I think that's uh.
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Speaker 1: A lot of good conversations have come out from this,
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Speaker 1: but we also have met, uh the big love interest
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Speaker 1: for Carrie big um and seeing a lot of others
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Speaker 1: kind of passed by for for the other characters. Is
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Speaker 1: that good? All right, that's pretty good. I like it.
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Speaker 1: So Bridget, you have not been on our little track here,
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Speaker 1: but I am interested. What do you remember of season
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Speaker 1: one of Sex in the City. Oh? I remember that
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Speaker 1: Season one of Sex in the City a lot, like
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Speaker 1: other HBO shows, was kind of playing with format and
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Speaker 1: genre like it kind of people forget that. The early
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Speaker 1: season Season one in particular had this kind of like
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Speaker 1: like someone is making a documentary about relationships, feel that
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Speaker 1: they sort of I don't think they. I think they
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Speaker 1: kind of abandoned that as a trope. So remember it's
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Speaker 1: a lot of like people talking at the camera and
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Speaker 1: people being interviewed. I remember that in the episode where
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Speaker 1: Carrie farts, they like the fart over and over again,
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Speaker 1: like she's just like going about her business and then
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Speaker 1: she hears the like fart. Yeah, what's funny is that
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Speaker 1: I I, you know, was watching this show as it
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Speaker 1: came out and like was like, you know, was obsessed
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Speaker 1: with it, watched it all the time, and I thought
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Speaker 1: that the characters were so grown up and so like
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Speaker 1: quote old Baraman. I was watching this in high school.
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Speaker 1: And now it's like, oh, I'm probably older than they
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Speaker 1: were supposed to be on the show. Yes, yes they
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Speaker 1: are mid thirties, early thirties, and yeah, I have bypassed that.
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Speaker 1: I'm at Samantha's age. Samantha um six in the city,
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Speaker 1: and they pretty much treated her as if she was
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Speaker 1: ancient and so like they're so proud that she could
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Speaker 1: still hang with them when she could out and do
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Speaker 1: all of the Um, I can't outdo my friends. I'm
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Speaker 1: just saying that's how I remember the show, and because
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Speaker 1: I think Bridget you and I have talked about the
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Speaker 1: fact that this this was pretty significant show for the
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Speaker 1: two of us, especially like trying to understand relationships and
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Speaker 1: actually liking sex or wanting to be sexy and what
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Speaker 1: that looks like with pushing the boundaries of not just
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Speaker 1: being the cute sea girls in the background can't talk
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Speaker 1: about this, you know, for me growing up in the
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Speaker 1: Southern culture, very religious culture, and that this was like
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Speaker 1: and heard of, and I was like, what women actually
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Speaker 1: putting themselves out as like sexy and being seen. That's amazing.
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Speaker 1: And yes, we do have the characters of wanting to
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Speaker 1: get married, but also having the strong characters of like
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Speaker 1: not necessarily needing to be married. That was such a
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Speaker 1: phenomenon to me. Yeah, And I also think this is
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Speaker 1: the convert the frank conversation about sex and like specific
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Speaker 1: sex acts, you know, sex and the city they were
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Speaker 1: talking about anal sex and like there's a guy who
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Speaker 1: wants carried a pe on him and like it's like
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Speaker 1: the frankness with which they discussed specific sex sex I
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Speaker 1: think was a new thing. I think that we didn't
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Speaker 1: really have a lot of mainstream television characters that that
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Speaker 1: placed women in conversations about sex in this way. And
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Speaker 1: you know, for for me, sex and the City, for
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Speaker 1: better or for worse, I feel like it to find
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Speaker 1: what I thought a generation of my life would look like.
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Speaker 1: Like I moved to New York for a while because
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Speaker 1: I wanted to have a sex and the city style life.
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Speaker 1: Like I thought it would be really cool to live
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Speaker 1: in New York City, have some like cool flashy job,
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Speaker 1: have friends date like you know, being eurotic about my
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Speaker 1: dating life. Like I think it really was something that
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Speaker 1: got in my head and gave me a blueprint for
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Speaker 1: what at this point in my life. It was in
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Speaker 1: my twenties, but like what my twenties would look like. Uh,
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Speaker 1: it definitely was a fantasy. I really do. Like and Andy,
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Speaker 1: we haven't come to a couple of these episodes that
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Speaker 1: we've mentioned. There is a moment when people actually calculate
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Speaker 1: it how much she spent on shoes, how much she
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Speaker 1: spent on eating out, and they were like, my god,
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Speaker 1: it was so it's a huge amount and the realisticness
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Speaker 1: of like, people who actually do move to New York
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Speaker 1: don't have this life that they have created as of
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Speaker 1: like this is the standard girl. Let me tell you
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Speaker 1: Charny is meant to be a freelance columnist, right, she
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Speaker 1: doesn't work multiple jobs. That's her only job leto and
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Speaker 1: so her apartment is meant to be rent controlled like Okay,
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Speaker 1: I don't know, but it's like having having navigated the
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Speaker 1: New York City rental market. I have some questions. But
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Speaker 1: just looking at her clothes, it doesn't make any sense
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Speaker 1: like she would be in major, major, major debt. It
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Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense. It's a complete fantasy financially, and
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Speaker 1: they do. Then you talk about her being in debt,
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Speaker 1: but she is quickly to come out of it, which
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Speaker 1: is also very unrealistic. I guess like one episode blob
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Speaker 1: of like, ma'am, that's not possible for you to be
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Speaker 1: that quickly done with this, But I digress. We are
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Speaker 1: going to talk about the season for nowe however, because
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Speaker 1: even though this is not on our happy hour day
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Speaker 1: or happy hour series, we are still enjoying a happy
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Speaker 1: hour because it's sex in the city and we should
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Speaker 1: obviously have some type of drink. So I must ask,
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Speaker 1: do you ladies have a drink in your hand? And
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Speaker 1: what are you drinking if so, oh, I, if I
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Speaker 1: had been a little more on the ball, I would
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Speaker 1: be drinking a Cosmopolitan right now. But I am having
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Speaker 1: a nice white wine. I got a little creative on
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Speaker 1: this one because I recently was very fortunate enough to
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Speaker 1: go on a beach trip with my friends and they
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Speaker 1: brought all of these alcohols I don't normally drink, and
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Speaker 1: one of which is called lover Boy, just like a tea.
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Speaker 1: Um So, I made like I still have my Galactic gin,
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Speaker 1: my Star Wars themed gin, and I mixed it with
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Speaker 1: some of the lover Boy and some lime and topped
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Speaker 1: it off with a lot of sparkling water. And it's
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Speaker 1: actually really refreshing. Very tired. Do either of you watch
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Speaker 1: Summer House on No lover Boy is um I think
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Speaker 1: like owned by two of the people from that that
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Speaker 1: terrible reality show that like every week. Oh my god,
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Speaker 1: knew that it was amazing. I have no reference to
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Speaker 1: either one of these things. I need to know. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: and I am being very basic because we just I
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Speaker 1: just moved into my house and I can't find anything.
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Speaker 1: Um So, I am drinking a Corona Premiere. So I
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Speaker 1: am that basic. But it's doing his job that's all
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Speaker 1: I have to say to that, And of course, moving
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Speaker 1: on to even more of our tradition, Annie, I'm about
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Speaker 1: to tell you the title of this episode, and I
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Speaker 1: need a prediction from you, And because we have Bridget here,
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Speaker 1: I'm going to see if she remembers it can kind
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Speaker 1: of give us some background on it too. So Annie,
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Speaker 1: the title is, Oh, come all, ye faithful Okay. I
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Speaker 1: think that this has to do with Carrie's sort of
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Speaker 1: fight with Big where she's like, baby, I do want
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Speaker 1: to get married because he said he didn't want to
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Speaker 1: get married and they have like a is it come
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Speaker 1: to Jesus moment of you know? I want this? What
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Speaker 1: do you want? What are we doing? What did you
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Speaker 1: call that? Samantha to Fine the dtr Yeah, but like
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Speaker 1: in a bigger way, like right where we going exactly?
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Speaker 1: That's I think it's gonna be. Okay. Okay, So Bridget,
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say if you can you do this without
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Speaker 1: spoilers because I don't know how much you remember, but
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Speaker 1: do you remember this episode and can you kind of
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Speaker 1: give us a small synopsis of it? I remember this
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Speaker 1: episode really well. It has a beautiful ending scene. I
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Speaker 1: remember that like very pointing it. I also think this
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Speaker 1: was an episode where, I mean, this happens a lot
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Speaker 1: on the show, but where I was like, Carrie, girl,
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Speaker 1: what are you doing? Like she has some behavior that
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Speaker 1: I think is bordered mine, Like she's she's always very
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Speaker 1: neurotic and very like overthinking her relationships, but she she
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Speaker 1: has some behavior here that I would never recommend any
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Speaker 1: friend of mine. Do you right? Um? Oh, yes, that's good.
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Speaker 1: This is a good one. Yes. And I think now
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Speaker 1: that you say that, I have to say though, she
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Speaker 1: has some right to die friends, and Miranda was definitely
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Speaker 1: right or die in this situation. Maybe she should have
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Speaker 1: warned her some for some things, but still like it
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Speaker 1: was good to say that she would be there too
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Speaker 1: during her mistakes to pick her back up. She has
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Speaker 1: some but she's lucky to have some really good friends. Yes, agreed,
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Speaker 1: And yeah, I was mentioning this before. But this is
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Speaker 1: one of those episodes where there's a scene on here
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Speaker 1: and we'll talk about it in a bit that always
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Speaker 1: makes me cringe so hard that I must fast forward.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, no again, watched this every time, but we'll
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Speaker 1: be watching it together and it's entire I'll let you
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Speaker 1: know how I feel about that after the fact. So
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Speaker 1: are you ready now? I'm not so sure. Okay, well
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Speaker 1: let's get into it. So I have a question for you,
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Speaker 1: Bridget on the intro, did it always any time make
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Speaker 1: you pause at any point when you see this Asian
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Speaker 1: dude who just gaux at her that the weirdest things weird?
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Speaker 1: Was that a purpose? I think it's meant to be like,
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Speaker 1: she's just like, you can't take your eyes off of her.
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Speaker 1: She's really, you know, a focal point of a New
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Speaker 1: York City street. So what's with the showers? What do
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Speaker 1: you mean you always get up in shower right after
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Speaker 1: we're done. I'm starting to it's see to me, this
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Speaker 1: doesn't feel weird. Is this weird? After six? Yeah? I
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Speaker 1: don't have air conditioning in my apartment, so this is
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Speaker 1: like our standard operating like a thing. I think that
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Speaker 1: there's this like romantic notion of cuddling immediately relaxing. Maybe
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Speaker 1: feel like you give it a small cuddle and then
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Speaker 1: you shower and then you come back and cuttle more.
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Speaker 1: But also if it's like not like you're dating constantly
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Speaker 1: and he was hopping in my shower, that'd be weird
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Speaker 1: to me. A little weird. I once went out with
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Speaker 1: a guy who biked to my house for for a
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Speaker 1: very first date, and he was so sweaty that I
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Speaker 1: was like, do you want to take a shower before
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Speaker 1: we go to dinner? Was so sweaty. Well, hello there,
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Speaker 1: church goer, all right, Mr goes to church. My ex
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Speaker 1: boyfriend was Catholic, and it was a whole thing the Catholics,
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Speaker 1: like the three hour ceremony that I'm not technically supposed
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Speaker 1: to participated, but I have to be there for and
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Speaker 1: you have to be there, and it's like a freaking
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Speaker 1: gymnastics routine, Like did I get me? Stand out? Turn
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Speaker 1: around you like, and you're like watching everybody. Yeah, it's
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Speaker 1: like routine. It is. I went to Catholic school, so
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Speaker 1: that I'm very familiar, you know the regines. Yes, So
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Speaker 1: she's just now finding out that he takes his mother
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Speaker 1: to church every Sunday. It seems like something. Wouldn't you
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Speaker 1: ever make plans on Sundays? Are they so rigid? They
13:44
Speaker 1: live in New York, you gotta assume they're going to
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Speaker 1: a Sunday brunch here or there. If they're in a relationship,
13:48
Speaker 1: obviously obviously, maybe they just meet after the fact, and
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Speaker 1: he just never mentioned it seems it seems unlikely. This
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Speaker 1: is like a little bit of a plot hole. It
14:07
Speaker 1: was one of those awkward relationship moments where you feel
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Speaker 1: like you know nothing about the person you thought you
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Speaker 1: knew everything about. This is true. I've had this happened before.
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Speaker 1: You find out that somebody is religious you're dating. Like, really, Oh,
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Speaker 1: that's a question I asked at the beginning. I've been
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Speaker 1: scarred too many times. I should have known there was
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Speaker 1: something with religion. With the title David, Samantha decided to
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Speaker 1: treat herself to a night of great music. I couldn't help,
14:42
Speaker 1: but notice how you moved to the music. It's beautiful.
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Speaker 1: Did any of this happen to either one of you
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Speaker 1: where you're somewhere by yourself and someone comes in with
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Speaker 1: the smooth line like, I couldn't help, but notice how
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Speaker 1: you move? Has that ever happened to you as a
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Speaker 1: pickup line? Yes? Oh? Really? Am I the only one? Though?
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Speaker 1: I ran away? I literally ran away like a child.
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Speaker 1: I was like, please don't tell me your poetry about
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Speaker 1: my thighs. Please. I was once out with a friend
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Speaker 1: and a guy came up to her and was like,
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Speaker 1: I couldn't help but notice you from across the bar.
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Speaker 1: I've never seen anybody look like you before. You're gorgeous,
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Speaker 1: and we both were just like stunned. I think I
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Speaker 1: was like, Oh, this is real? Is this real? I
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Speaker 1: had a guy tell me I looked like an angel
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Speaker 1: once and I was like, nope, nope, nope, out out out.
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Speaker 1: I guess like, do you want like I can't, I
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Speaker 1: can't speak for I'm just curious, do you want people
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Speaker 1: to come up to you in public and hit on you?
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Speaker 1: But is that just like always a horrible situation. I
15:46
Speaker 1: don't think it's always a horrible situation, but I think
15:49
Speaker 1: because of our unfortunate society, for a lot of women,
15:54
Speaker 1: it is like like, oh god, you must be a
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Speaker 1: creeper situation. If it's like just some random guy, I'm
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Speaker 1: always like on edge. And I kind of got it
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Speaker 1: in a fight with about this with a male friend
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Speaker 1: of mine who was like, but can it be romantic?
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Speaker 1: And I'm like, sure, maybe, but most of the time
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Speaker 1: I'm just like, please leave me alone, and I'm just
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Speaker 1: trying to exist in this world and I have too
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Speaker 1: much bad experience. So I think it's based on their
16:18
Speaker 1: reaction if they start like continue to push or don't
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Speaker 1: go away. That's what it gets super bad. The initials
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Speaker 1: like shocking and they're like okay, thanks, and then it's
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Speaker 1: like use my, I'll go too. It's always been I
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Speaker 1: lie and say I'm with my boyfriend or I have
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Speaker 1: a boyfriend in order to get like just just shut
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Speaker 1: it all down. But yeah, typically no, it's a no
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Speaker 1: for me because that's the only way that, like some men,
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Speaker 1: you have to like evoke an imaginary or real other
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Speaker 1: man to whom you belong. You're just saying you're not
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Speaker 1: interested is not enough. There has to be right, Oh no,
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Speaker 1: I belong to another man who wouldn't appreciate this exactly.
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Speaker 1: And then I've had like show me his picture before
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Speaker 1: and then they'll say like, oh, well I could do
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Speaker 1: better than he could. I've better than he could, and
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Speaker 1: does he make you happy? And then also does he
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Speaker 1: let you have friends? How pathetic? Oh my god. Once
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Speaker 1: I was walking down the street with my partner and
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Speaker 1: some guy hanging on the street said, uh, well to
17:19
Speaker 1: both of us, like, you know, my dick is bigger
17:21
Speaker 1: than his, and we just like laughed and walked away.
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Speaker 1: But to this day, I regret not saying whip him out.
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Speaker 1: Let me see, dare you? Let me measure it? And
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Speaker 1: I got my tape measure right here. Let's go. I'll
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Speaker 1: be the judge of that. Amazing. I don't see marriage. Well,
17:48
Speaker 1: how can you just say that like that? I mean,
17:54
Speaker 1: what about my feelings? Honey, I'm a psychic, I'm not
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Speaker 1: a shrink you. So we see this. Charlotte is so
18:02
Speaker 1: sad that Sam's found love before her that she has
18:05
Speaker 1: to go to tarot card reader of fortune teller and
18:09
Speaker 1: she's being told she's never gonna find love. Okay, So
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Speaker 1: I have either of you done this? No, I have
18:15
Speaker 1: not said bridget you have though you've got like woo woo,
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Speaker 1: any of that I've had. I've had my palm red
18:22
Speaker 1: I've done too. Um. I used to when I lived
18:24
Speaker 1: in New York. I used to get hot stone massages
18:27
Speaker 1: by this woman in the Lowertyst side who would also
18:29
Speaker 1: offer like that reading while she did the stones. Wow,
18:34
Speaker 1: that actually intimate. I don't totally believe it in it's
18:37
Speaker 1: just like a you know, fun thing. But she did
18:40
Speaker 1: accurately predict a relationship I would soon get into any
18:43
Speaker 1: one of our sessions. So you tell me, oh, you
18:46
Speaker 1: know what, I might I have had it done before.
18:48
Speaker 1: I forgot because it was a very like blipp thing
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Speaker 1: where it was at a festival of working and they're like,
18:53
Speaker 1: let me, let me read this for you. And it
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Speaker 1: got so intense about how dark my past was and
18:59
Speaker 1: how much tra that I had that I was like,
19:01
Speaker 1: we have to stop, we can't talk anymore. Yeah, it
19:07
Speaker 1: might work, did you Annie, I wouldn't got one, but
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Speaker 1: it wasn't about relationships. It did end up becoming about relationships,
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Speaker 1: but I kept being like, that's not I think I's
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Speaker 1: gonna go jump in the shower, and then I'm all, yours,
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Speaker 1: there's nothing sinful about sex. We're back with Anderson, I
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Speaker 1: do they give Miranda. A lot of the awkward sex
19:32
Speaker 1: scenes on the show were close up, some like awkward bodies.
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Speaker 1: I agreed. I've only I've only seen the first season,
19:40
Speaker 1: and I'm already like he has some of the most
19:43
Speaker 1: interesting relationships. Not to not to say that these guys
19:48
Speaker 1: aren't great. These guys are fine, but like the standard
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Speaker 1: for Herman seemed to be lower than everybody else. This
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Speaker 1: means I'm not going to hell. Great news. Thank you, Miranda,
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Speaker 1: Thank you for saving my immortal soul. In her effort
20:04
Speaker 1: to help, Miranda had accidentally detonated some kind of Catholic
20:08
Speaker 1: guilt bomb. So she pretty much just questioned why he
20:12
Speaker 1: was doing this, and that she you know, you know
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Speaker 1: this sex is not a sin, and then he just
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Speaker 1: goes off on her and then they broke up. Speech
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Speaker 1: I had. I had a boyfriend that was like this,
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Speaker 1: I feel like my church. I'm not very really, I'm
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Speaker 1: not religious at all now, but my church growing up,
20:28
Speaker 1: it did scare me. But there wasn't a lot of
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Speaker 1: sex shaming that I remember, So I didn't have that. No. Shoot,
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Speaker 1: mine was all like you will go to hell. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: in my Catholic schooling, I don't remember a lot of shaming.
20:41
Speaker 1: I dismember a lot of bad information, Like they told
20:45
Speaker 1: us that like condoms didn't work. They told us like
20:49
Speaker 1: the amount of like misinformation we were given. Uh, it
20:53
Speaker 1: also traded among each other. It was ridiculous. I'm trying
21:01
Speaker 1: to look at the mother than Miranda and I would
21:03
Speaker 1: go for eggs. Look at how crowded it is. What
21:06
Speaker 1: a sham. So we have Carrie and Miranda decided to
21:10
Speaker 1: go spy on Big and his mother at church at
21:15
Speaker 1: their churt. Okay, so we're coming up. Yes, So we're
21:19
Speaker 1: coming up on the scene where I will fast forward
21:23
Speaker 1: as I watched Mr Big standing quietly. Now, oh my god,
21:28
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I think I fell a little bit
21:32
Speaker 1: more in love with him. Let us pray, let me
21:35
Speaker 1: coming together. We're out of here, Oh my god. So
21:48
Speaker 1: it's not that big of a deal. But I ate
21:51
Speaker 1: that scene so much because like I could feel it
21:54
Speaker 1: like every being Oh my god, the dropping of the
21:58
Speaker 1: book and the quiet just moments. I once accidentally set
22:03
Speaker 1: a wreath on fire at my church when I was
22:05
Speaker 1: nine years old during the Nativity scene. We're like lit
22:11
Speaker 1: it up. See. I feel like this is so like
22:15
Speaker 1: I think that Carrie really just gets in her own
22:18
Speaker 1: head about her relationship status is. And I feel like
22:20
Speaker 1: it really invalidates big boundaries because if I wanted my
22:24
Speaker 1: partner to meet my parents, like just like showing up
22:28
Speaker 1: at church when you know I'm gonna be there, it's
22:30
Speaker 1: just like really not okay, right, Yeah, absolutely likes all
22:35
Speaker 1: of this kind of like concerning sure, but also you
22:38
Speaker 1: are an adult and not everything has to be passed
22:42
Speaker 1: by your parents necessarily. Yeah, And I also feel like
22:45
Speaker 1: people have complicated relationships with their parents and just deciding
22:49
Speaker 1: like I don't care what my partner thinks, gonna meet
22:50
Speaker 1: their parents just as Really it's so like, isn't that cool? Yeah?
22:56
Speaker 1: It feels incredibly insecure to me, Like she totally has
23:00
Speaker 1: to be like he doesn't want me in this every
23:03
Speaker 1: part of his life. Something's wrong. I have to investigate.
23:08
Speaker 1: Very insecure. Later that night, in the Church of Disco,
23:16
Speaker 1: Stanford invited everyone he knew to a party to introduce
23:19
Speaker 1: a new fragrance, fallen angel. But I have to say again,
23:23
Speaker 1: Miranda came through. She didn't leave. She knew things would
23:26
Speaker 1: go wrong, She knew carry well enough and came back
23:29
Speaker 1: and sat with her. And now they're at a different
23:31
Speaker 1: type of church where there are mail go go dancers?
23:35
Speaker 1: Is that what we call them? Yes? Oh my god.
23:37
Speaker 1: The nightclubs in Sex and the City in the nineties
23:40
Speaker 1: always looked so it was like one of the reasons
23:42
Speaker 1: that where I wanted to move to New York. They
23:43
Speaker 1: made the nightlife and the nightclubs look so incredible, Like
23:46
Speaker 1: they're in an old church with like shirtless, ripped gay
23:49
Speaker 1: men dancing in suspended cages with angel wings. Yeah, come on,
23:54
Speaker 1: so wait, did you go to clubs in New York? Oh?
23:57
Speaker 1: My god, I like lived in clubs in New York.
24:00
Speaker 1: I was like a I was like a feral club rat,
24:03
Speaker 1: Like I would be like getting home like five six
24:08
Speaker 1: in the morning. It was kind of a weird time
24:10
Speaker 1: for me. And I still love clubs, like even though
24:11
Speaker 1: I'm much probably too old to be there, but like, yeah,
24:14
Speaker 1: when I was in my twenties in New York, I
24:16
Speaker 1: was like tearing up the clubs. Yes, bush Wick. Were
24:22
Speaker 1: they like this? No? They were never. They were They
24:25
Speaker 1: were fun, but they were never like this. I never
24:27
Speaker 1: found my like like unbelievable, like over the top clubs,
24:31
Speaker 1: club like you see in technicity. But I still had
24:33
Speaker 1: a good time. What's going on? Why are you crying?
24:44
Speaker 1: Has a small dick? Oh, well, it's not the end
24:48
Speaker 1: of the world. It's really small. How small? Too small?
24:51
Speaker 1: Most sizes and everything? Well hard. Have you ever talked
24:59
Speaker 1: to well, if you've been with a male partner, you're
25:03
Speaker 1: any male partners, have you ever talked to them about
25:05
Speaker 1: the size of dick? No? Never? Everyone? Are you kidding?
25:09
Speaker 1: Like I love to be like, oh, I'm so sex
25:12
Speaker 1: positive communication. You can't tell him a man is too small,
25:15
Speaker 1: Like you just gotta leave him. It's just an excuse
25:21
Speaker 1: and go, ye, there's no conversation. And I've been in
25:24
Speaker 1: that situation. I'm hate to say, and I bet in
25:26
Speaker 1: that situation, and it's like there was no there was
25:28
Speaker 1: no thing to say. It just was like it's not
25:30
Speaker 1: gonna work out to say that. You know, sizes and everything,
25:35
Speaker 1: but in that relationship, it was like, well, this is right,
25:38
Speaker 1: not gonna work right. Yeah, like if your relationship isn't
25:43
Speaker 1: great anyway, and then they're like, yeah, absolutely not. This
25:47
Speaker 1: is not the way he's going to go. She took
25:53
Speaker 1: a cab to a part of town never mentioned in
25:55
Speaker 1: the New Yorker. Well I ever get married? Oh, Charlie
26:01
Speaker 1: goes to another also telling her she'll never be married.
26:07
Speaker 1: I was told once by a lift driver I would
26:10
Speaker 1: never be married. But I don't know where that came from.
26:12
Speaker 1: Were they the one that like tried to come into
26:14
Speaker 1: the house too. There was a different guy. Oh my god,
26:18
Speaker 1: it's a different guy. But he was like, oh, you'll
26:20
Speaker 1: never be married, based on what I think it's because
26:25
Speaker 1: he realized I wasn't very religious. He was very religious.
26:30
Speaker 1: I was just kind of like and then he was like,
26:33
Speaker 1: your soul is in danger. You'll never be married. And
26:35
Speaker 1: I was like, oh god, things I find myself agreeing
26:41
Speaker 1: to things that like lift drivers say just to like
26:43
Speaker 1: get home. I'm like, yep, a totally. Yeah, it's a
26:51
Speaker 1: great conversation to be having having right back in the
26:53
Speaker 1: car right now. I feel great about it. Yeah, that's perfect.
27:02
Speaker 1: After he left, I cried for a week, and then
27:08
Speaker 1: I realized I do have faith, faith in myself, faith
27:14
Speaker 1: that I would one day meet someone who would be
27:17
Speaker 1: sure that I was the one. Like, these are like
27:20
Speaker 1: two moments that I have to wonder. I'm like, was
27:23
Speaker 1: this really healthy that would make us think that there
27:27
Speaker 1: is a one? And then there's a definitive answer at
27:30
Speaker 1: the beginning of relationships, Like it was like it's one
27:34
Speaker 1: of those types that I'm like, hmmm, what were we
27:38
Speaker 1: doing here? Definitely not advocating for what we actually wanted
27:43
Speaker 1: in communicating that clearly. Yeah, Yeah, I feel like that
27:51
Speaker 1: idea of the one is very tricky, right. I think
27:56
Speaker 1: it can exist, but I think we've like put it
27:59
Speaker 1: on a pedestal that it's not healthy, and I think
28:05
Speaker 1: it's too much pressure. It's a through line on sex
28:07
Speaker 1: in the City because I don't want to spoil anything,
28:10
Speaker 1: but like, um, we see that with Miranda, and there's
28:12
Speaker 1: an episode called the One where it's like, you know,
28:16
Speaker 1: it makes it makes it seem as though we're all
28:18
Speaker 1: just waiting for the one and there's just like one
28:21
Speaker 1: person and you're gonna know and if you screw it up,
28:23
Speaker 1: that's it. And I don't I mean, I think it
28:25
Speaker 1: can be true for some people, but I don't think
28:27
Speaker 1: that's I don't think it's a healthy concept to go
28:29
Speaker 1: into relate to into dating or partnership with specifically for
28:34
Speaker 1: this show. Again, this is future, but they change the
28:38
Speaker 1: numbers around and say you get three great loves in
28:41
Speaker 1: your life in order to fit the individual narratives, which
28:45
Speaker 1: is still like even in that episode, Carry talked about
28:49
Speaker 1: how that's very limiting for her to like it's like, wait,
28:52
Speaker 1: so I met three loves in my life? What it
28:55
Speaker 1: is over? Um, But it's kind of funny because it
28:58
Speaker 1: does talk very like at the very beginning, it becomes
29:01
Speaker 1: obviously Season one is more of bringing you into the
29:05
Speaker 1: show and and for a lot of what we were
29:09
Speaker 1: raised with in the nineties and eighties, it is the
29:11
Speaker 1: concept of the one whether we're talking about love or
29:15
Speaker 1: saviors or whatever whatnot. Like that's definitely a theme that
29:19
Speaker 1: we have clung to, and I guess we still cling
29:22
Speaker 1: to today. Like even in Everything Everywhere, all at once,
29:25
Speaker 1: they kind of talk about the one uh in it,
29:28
Speaker 1: which I still love that movie, but it isn't interesting
29:32
Speaker 1: narrative that we have to have a very specific ideal
29:37
Speaker 1: of whatever can save us and whether it's the love
29:40
Speaker 1: of our lives or whatever what not. And I found
29:43
Speaker 1: it fascinating. Yeah, and I agree, like this is when
29:45
Speaker 1: you start realizing, like Karr is not a great person.
29:49
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe we need to talk about that this is
29:51
Speaker 1: really unhealthy and that this shouldn't be about who we
29:56
Speaker 1: should be replicating for ourselves or who we should up
30:00
Speaker 1: to as what we should be individually. Yeah, I think
30:05
Speaker 1: like the tropes we get around Romance for me, and
30:13
Speaker 1: I would say probably for a lot of people listening
30:16
Speaker 1: are so like that ticking clock, almost like you said
30:20
Speaker 1: Bridget with the plane, Like there's that ticking clock. You've
30:22
Speaker 1: got to find this person. If you don't, your life
30:24
Speaker 1: has no meaning. I feel like it's like we're trying
30:27
Speaker 1: to assign meaning to ourselves and to our lives and
30:31
Speaker 1: to procreation and all of these things that might you know,
30:35
Speaker 1: if you separate it out, might feel kind of like
30:38
Speaker 1: very science. See this is a bigger conversation than perhaps
30:42
Speaker 1: a sex and happy but like that idea of like
30:47
Speaker 1: we're trying to assign meaning to these things that we
30:50
Speaker 1: might not understand and through doing that, I think we
30:52
Speaker 1: did that with the one. And for women, I feel
30:55
Speaker 1: like a lot of that is you have to save
30:57
Speaker 1: yourself for this one. And where the religion conversation comes
31:01
Speaker 1: back in right where religion has played a role in
31:07
Speaker 1: relationships um, particularly for women for a long time. And
31:13
Speaker 1: like I said, I didn't have that so much, but
31:16
Speaker 1: I've still felt it nonetheless, Like my church wasn't like that,
31:20
Speaker 1: but I knew it existed, and I I mean I
31:24
Speaker 1: even was like I'm gonna just find somebody in Mary
31:26
Speaker 1: and settled down so my parents will be happy. Because
31:28
Speaker 1: that I just felt like I'm so important that I
31:30
Speaker 1: do this thing, and I would just fake it that
31:33
Speaker 1: I've found the one, which is I will admit, terrible
31:36
Speaker 1: for both me and the other person involved. And I've
31:39
Speaker 1: moved on, but I did, I did think it, and
31:43
Speaker 1: I think part of it is you know things like this,
31:46
Speaker 1: which I get is good drama, like I'm not mad,
31:49
Speaker 1: but also damaging when that's all we see and that's
31:53
Speaker 1: what we grew up with, thinking oh, this is what
31:55
Speaker 1: I need, or else I'm not fulfilled, or else I'm
32:00
Speaker 1: just yeah, and it's so that only is it damaging.
32:05
Speaker 1: I just think it's you know, I think there's humans
32:10
Speaker 1: we want. I mean, not to get to like deep
32:12
Speaker 1: on list because they we're just talking about sex in
32:14
Speaker 1: the city, but I think as humans we want to
32:17
Speaker 1: believe that there is more to our experience than you know,
32:21
Speaker 1: the fact that we're just like balls of cells and
32:24
Speaker 1: carbon hanging out on our rock suspended in space. Like
32:28
Speaker 1: that's the reality, and like you can understand why it's
32:31
Speaker 1: comforting to be like, no, there is a design, like
32:33
Speaker 1: I meant to meet the one I meant to have
32:35
Speaker 1: a life that looks like this, that is my purpose
32:37
Speaker 1: because that you don't have to I think it can
32:40
Speaker 1: be scary to just like be like, oh, yeah, everything
32:41
Speaker 1: is random, there is no plan, Like life is life,
32:45
Speaker 1: and like this is kind of it, and like you
32:47
Speaker 1: make what you make of that what you can and
32:49
Speaker 1: try to be happy. It's so much it's so much
32:51
Speaker 1: more like perhaps fulfilling to think that like, oh, we're
32:55
Speaker 1: put on this earth to meet the One and I
32:58
Speaker 1: think everything goes back to like I mean, are you
33:00
Speaker 1: just familiar with I think it's Joseph Campbell. The idea
33:02
Speaker 1: is like the mono myth, like we we love stories
33:06
Speaker 1: and like we have an entire like mythology around the
33:09
Speaker 1: human experience that says, like, you know, the one hero,
33:12
Speaker 1: like the one hero's journey, like he will the main
33:16
Speaker 1: hero will complete their journey, and that like that is
33:18
Speaker 1: the point of everything. And I don't know, I just
33:20
Speaker 1: think that like life is chaos and random and stuff
33:24
Speaker 1: happens and you got to just try your best to
33:26
Speaker 1: be happy and there is no supposed to or should
33:29
Speaker 1: and anybody that's that tries to like force that is
33:32
Speaker 1: perhaps you know, understandably trying to add a layer of
33:36
Speaker 1: meaning because it's really kind of scary to think of
33:39
Speaker 1: it as like not really being that way. I don't know.
33:41
Speaker 1: This is like to like I just recently watched everything
33:44
Speaker 1: everywhere all at once, so I'm very much like the
33:46
Speaker 1: Bagel every day. Yes we are religious episode, so I
33:53
Speaker 1: think this is appropriate. We're good. I think all about
33:56
Speaker 1: this because it doesn't. It ends on a somber note.
33:59
Speaker 1: You know, we have a finale where like, oh no,
34:01
Speaker 1: well they won't they kind of a situation obviously right
34:04
Speaker 1: now that I won't they. Um is you know uh
34:07
Speaker 1: Sam who came in and says she is in love
34:09
Speaker 1: and now she's not because one aspect of something that's
34:12
Speaker 1: very important to her wasn't meant to her standard. We
34:15
Speaker 1: have Charlotte's seeking uh and being told constantly that no,
34:19
Speaker 1: she's not gonna find love. But then you know, we
34:21
Speaker 1: see her eyeing a man that she runs into on
34:24
Speaker 1: the streets. We have Miranda who decided, you know what,
34:27
Speaker 1: Skips not as bad as I thought he was, but
34:29
Speaker 1: let's let's let's work this out. We have a lot
34:32
Speaker 1: of those cliffhangers, but the conversation is the bigger, like, okay,
34:36
Speaker 1: so what are we seeking at this point in time?
34:39
Speaker 1: What are we looking for? And one of the bigger
34:41
Speaker 1: things I see with especially with like the carry big
34:44
Speaker 1: story in this portion, she's just begging him and I
34:48
Speaker 1: get this, and I feel this to be more significant
34:52
Speaker 1: than the people before her, which when when he says, uh,
34:56
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not introducing my mother to another girl, friend.
35:00
Speaker 1: You know that that wasn't obvious, Like, ow, what, I'm
35:04
Speaker 1: just a girlfriend instead of something bigger, more significant that
35:07
Speaker 1: I have meaning to your life. And that in itself
35:10
Speaker 1: was a blow and I get that that's something that
35:12
Speaker 1: I saw too. I was like, okay, yes, that part
35:15
Speaker 1: that hurts. You want to be more. You want to
35:18
Speaker 1: mean more to him than his exes. Obviously, you want
35:21
Speaker 1: to be more to that partner than someone that didn't
35:24
Speaker 1: work out. So what's the point of this? As many say,
35:28
Speaker 1: I will say as a person who does not intend
35:30
Speaker 1: to gate on get married, and I don't see the
35:33
Speaker 1: significance or really care to be married. Like for me,
35:37
Speaker 1: it's like, it's not a big deal. Move on, y'all.
35:39
Speaker 1: If you'all work out, y'all work out. If you don't,
35:41
Speaker 1: you don't. It wasn't meant to be. But for those
35:43
Speaker 1: who do see that as something they want in their lives,
35:47
Speaker 1: that's really painful. Yeah, I'm curious because again this is
36:12
Speaker 1: my first time for you to like did you watch it?
36:16
Speaker 1: Like was this a cliffhanger? Did you have to wait?
36:19
Speaker 1: And also like, given what you know happens, is there
36:24
Speaker 1: any part of you that's watching this scene at the end,
36:27
Speaker 1: or they sort of separate and you're like, yes, I
36:31
Speaker 1: I feel vindication and what happens? Or oh no, I
36:34
Speaker 1: wish they had just like stay separated. Oh what a
36:37
Speaker 1: good question. I don't know how to answer this without
36:39
Speaker 1: giving away what happens in like in the culminative, like
36:43
Speaker 1: sex in the City universe. I will say this might
36:47
Speaker 1: be a like unpopular opinion. I think that, like the
36:51
Speaker 1: end of this episode, Carrie has her answer. She is
36:54
Speaker 1: interested in a serious monogonous relationship with Big, and Big
36:58
Speaker 1: is not interested. And so again, any friend of mine
37:01
Speaker 1: who was in this situation, if I was in this situation,
37:04
Speaker 1: I would say you have your answer. Any time that
37:07
Speaker 1: you spend waiting around for somebody who has made it
37:09
Speaker 1: clear that they don't feel the same way, they don't
37:11
Speaker 1: want the same thing that you want, it is not
37:13
Speaker 1: worth your time and any extra time that you spend
37:16
Speaker 1: on that person, you're blocking yourself from finding the person
37:18
Speaker 1: who does want what you want. So I'm a little
37:21
Speaker 1: bit of like a hard line absolutist that when somebody
37:24
Speaker 1: makes it clear what they're looking for, and you're clear
37:27
Speaker 1: on what you're looking for and there's not alignment, it
37:29
Speaker 1: is a complete waste of time to like wait around
37:31
Speaker 1: for them or like continue to entertain them. I think
37:35
Speaker 1: that the majority of sex in the City fans would
37:37
Speaker 1: might might and perhaps writers might think otherwise. But if
37:42
Speaker 1: if if Carrie was my friend, we would have been like,
37:45
Speaker 1: he's a bum, let's move on, Like we're not gonna
37:48
Speaker 1: spend any more time on him. He made He's made
37:49
Speaker 1: it clear how he feels and what he wants, right,
37:52
Speaker 1: I think I agree, Yeah, we don't want to get
37:54
Speaker 1: too deep into the things that come in the future.
37:59
Speaker 1: But I'll never been team Big. I will say that way.
38:03
Speaker 1: And when I was watching how I watched this was
38:06
Speaker 1: never in its original intent. It was not cool enough
38:09
Speaker 1: to have HBO. I didn't have HBO forever. I think
38:11
Speaker 1: it came in my adulthood. I was like, oh I
38:13
Speaker 1: can have this cool. Uh. It was definitely the edited
38:17
Speaker 1: on CW during the daytime so episodes, so I don't
38:22
Speaker 1: remember my initial reaction. I did feel that heartbreak also
38:28
Speaker 1: because I was like, oh man, what's happening to all
38:31
Speaker 1: of them? But I think it is like, like you said,
38:33
Speaker 1: Bridget is a precursor to everything else. I'm like, you're
38:35
Speaker 1: just digging yourself deeper and you kind of have your answer,
38:40
Speaker 1: and I wouldn't. Maybe maybe this is just me being
38:44
Speaker 1: selfish and tired. I would never work that hard for
38:47
Speaker 1: this type of relationship. I'm like, God, I'm done, it's over.
38:49
Speaker 1: It's done, it's done, moving on next labor you could
38:54
Speaker 1: be putting into, like find anyone else who was actually
38:57
Speaker 1: anything else, anything else, Like, yeah, I I have in
39:01
Speaker 1: my twenties. I definitely entertained some relationship that took a
39:05
Speaker 1: lot of work to not even get them to be good,
39:08
Speaker 1: just to get them Like kind of fine. I feel
39:13
Speaker 1: like if you're doing that much work like a certain way,
39:16
Speaker 1: wouldn't you be better off by herself? Like you know, yes,
39:21
Speaker 1: And I really wish she we got. We do explore
39:23
Speaker 1: her a little bit as single, but she can't be
39:28
Speaker 1: single and do her column as well. I guess you're
39:31
Speaker 1: kind of supposed to be sex in the city kind
39:36
Speaker 1: of thing like dating around anyway or whatever. But yeah,
39:40
Speaker 1: I think in itself, like it builds up to something
39:45
Speaker 1: obviously better. Again, like I said, I was never a
39:47
Speaker 1: team big um. That was not my my thing. But
39:52
Speaker 1: at the same time, it did build up to a
39:55
Speaker 1: good like tug Pole I guess of who you are.
39:59
Speaker 1: Alliance is our would but also like when you kind
40:04
Speaker 1: of come back to the story, like they kind of
40:06
Speaker 1: deserved each other. At the same time, I don't know
40:08
Speaker 1: if I wouldn't want to put Carrie with anybody else either.
40:12
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Carrie is like a little bit of
40:15
Speaker 1: It's kind of like one of those characters. I see
40:17
Speaker 1: this a lot, and like Laura, like Gilmour as well,
40:20
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you're a little bit of a narcissist,
40:21
Speaker 1: aren't you, like yourself obsessed and have bad boundaries? Okay,
40:28
Speaker 1: well I have another question, Um, have you ever had
40:32
Speaker 1: maybe not the airport, the Romcom airport thing, but something
40:37
Speaker 1: that resembles the Romcom airport. We're just saying, yes, I'm
40:42
Speaker 1: not cool like that, so I definitely don't. Oh, I
40:44
Speaker 1: guess mine was negative. It wasn't like someone running through
40:49
Speaker 1: an airport to like stop me from getting on a plane.
40:51
Speaker 1: It was the the disillusion of a relationship someone that
40:56
Speaker 1: I was dating. We were dating long distance. They had
40:58
Speaker 1: come to see me and thinking it was going to
41:01
Speaker 1: be like a sweet time, that romantic time. We ended
41:04
Speaker 1: up breaking up. On that trip. He was getting back
41:07
Speaker 1: into his car to drive the like six hours back
41:10
Speaker 1: home to where he lived after we broken up, and
41:13
Speaker 1: I was helping him pack his car, and he had
41:15
Speaker 1: a hatchback, and I shut his hatchback, and I didn't
41:18
Speaker 1: realize there was a tennis racket sticking out of a box.
41:20
Speaker 1: And so as we're like ending this like messy relationship,
41:24
Speaker 1: I go to shut his car in the back of
41:26
Speaker 1: the back windshield chatters. And then when he got back
41:29
Speaker 1: to his home, somebody had kicked in his back door
41:32
Speaker 1: and broke it into his house. So it was just
41:36
Speaker 1: a bad time for him. It was a bad Oh,
41:41
Speaker 1: it was good for me. I didn't good through all that.
41:47
Speaker 1: Who in mind, I probably thought it was like an airport,
41:55
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna come down there and confess my love,
41:56
Speaker 1: and it's like I'm gonna drive back with some cardboard
41:59
Speaker 1: taped up. Wow, very much like I don't know why,
42:06
Speaker 1: but to me, that feels like what romance actually is.
42:09
Speaker 1: That's compared to what we're seeing in the reality. The reality. Okay,
42:16
Speaker 1: so obviously Bridget you knew what was going to happen.
42:18
Speaker 1: You were ready for it. Uh, Annie, Yeah, you were
42:22
Speaker 1: half right, because there was a come to Jesus meeting
42:24
Speaker 1: she needed an answer and she was done. She needed
42:27
Speaker 1: a commitment. She needed to know that she was the
42:30
Speaker 1: one and he couldn't say that, which, by the way,
42:33
Speaker 1: future episodes will have a throwback to that. But yeah,
42:36
Speaker 1: so congratulations. I'm gonna give you a C because I
42:40
Speaker 1: don't have an actual marker as to degrade you because
42:43
Speaker 1: you were completely right, but you weren't wrong. You're not failing,
42:50
Speaker 1: so you're no. See he's not failing. He was failing, yo,
42:58
Speaker 1: A W A W do no matter how in my
43:01
Speaker 1: family then you know, my brother was able to get
43:07
Speaker 1: like dollars for his CE when I was making A
43:10
Speaker 1: and B. So I wait what because he wasn't an
43:13
Speaker 1: f So they were very happy and he could pass
43:17
Speaker 1: the next grade. So yes, that is passing. Technically the
43:22
Speaker 1: college is a little different. They were like, not as
43:24
Speaker 1: just failing. Sorry, um, but you get to see. So
43:28
Speaker 1: we have finished season one. What are your thoughts any
43:33
Speaker 1: I feel like I've said the same thing every time,
43:36
Speaker 1: and I apologize for that, but it continues to be
43:39
Speaker 1: true that I think it's odd to me. It's odd
43:44
Speaker 1: and kind of upsetting, but also exhilarating that these conversations
43:48
Speaker 1: still feel new to meet um like they still feel
43:52
Speaker 1: and that's that's probably due to what I'm watching, But
43:55
Speaker 1: like I'm constantly like, we do these episodes and then
43:59
Speaker 1: we'll get into a big conversation about things we're still
44:01
Speaker 1: talking about now based on what they were talking about then.
44:05
Speaker 1: I mean, like even this, perhaps we went deeper than
44:08
Speaker 1: they intended, but we talked about like religion and dating
44:12
Speaker 1: and the one and all this stuff that is still
44:14
Speaker 1: conversation topics and relationships, and I think relationships are so
44:17
Speaker 1: messy that it makes sense to me that it is ongoing.
44:20
Speaker 1: As I've said, this is not like the thing I
44:23
Speaker 1: would have sought out, but I am enjoying it, and
44:24
Speaker 1: I'm especially enjoying watching it with people and having these conversations.
44:30
Speaker 1: I'm very curious what's going to happen next. Yeah, Actually, Bridget,
44:38
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're gonna remember, because I don't
44:40
Speaker 1: honestly remember. Can you kind of give her a preview
44:44
Speaker 1: of what's coming in season two? Like a trailer I
44:48
Speaker 1: remember if I like, don't kill me if this is
44:51
Speaker 1: not right, But my memory is is that it's it's
44:55
Speaker 1: pretty relatable because not so like obviously Carrie and Big
44:58
Speaker 1: didn't work out of the episod we just saw, and
45:01
Speaker 1: so next season is really begins with her processing that
45:06
Speaker 1: reality and a lot of like the normal ups and
45:09
Speaker 1: downs that come with processing a breakup, really venting to
45:13
Speaker 1: your friends, going on some dates. Like I think, like
45:17
Speaker 1: it's it is. I like the next season because I
45:20
Speaker 1: think I honestly think the show is more interesting when
45:22
Speaker 1: it's not like focal pointed around her relationship with Big
45:25
Speaker 1: and so I think the universe gets a little bit
45:27
Speaker 1: more complex in a way that I find interesting. Yeah,
45:29
Speaker 1: I mean it's definitely the friendships that I like the
45:31
Speaker 1: most and the nerd references. Did I keep pointing out
45:34
Speaker 1: that You're like, yeah, she gets me. I'm like, what's happening? Yes,
45:40
Speaker 1: So we do get to get to see it at
45:42
Speaker 1: the beginning, and I really I think this is the season.
45:45
Speaker 1: Especially Episode one is when I love Miranda the most.
45:48
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, Miranda, Like she is harsh and to
45:51
Speaker 1: the point, but I've felt that way before, Like you'll see,
45:55
Speaker 1: but it's like I relate to what Miranda is saying
45:58
Speaker 1: so hard right now and in her book Algie, but
46:00
Speaker 1: it's like she's someone someone finally said it. But yes,
46:04
Speaker 1: I think that's the first episode of season two, right, Yeah,
46:07
Speaker 1: you know, friends, she is really like a truth dropper
46:12
Speaker 1: and you know she could have been the mayor of
46:13
Speaker 1: New York. So thank you so much for coming on, Bridget.
46:21
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say we're gonna have to have you back
46:23
Speaker 1: on for season two. Sometimes. Well, this is good. It's
46:26
Speaker 1: so fun to watch with people. It is. It is. Yes,
46:30
Speaker 1: you should definitely come back. If you have any favorite episode,
46:33
Speaker 1: you should just like slip us a note like yeah,
46:39
Speaker 1: that would be amazing. Yes, thank you so so so much.
46:45
Speaker 1: As always, Bridget. You can find Bridget at least once
46:49
Speaker 1: a month on here, hopefully in future Sex in the City,
46:52
Speaker 1: watch Party, happy Hour, or whatever we're calling it. But
46:55
Speaker 1: you can also find Bridget in other places. Bridget, can
46:58
Speaker 1: you tell the good listeners where they can find you. Yeah,
47:00
Speaker 1: you can check out my podcast on iHeart Radio called
47:03
Speaker 1: There Are No Girls on the Internet, where we discuss
47:05
Speaker 1: all things tech, Internet, nerdy, pop culture, gender identity. It's
47:10
Speaker 1: super fun. You can find that wherever you get your podcast.
47:13
Speaker 1: You can find me on Instagram at Bridget Brandy c
47:15
Speaker 1: or on Twitter at Bridget Marad. Yes, and go do
47:17
Speaker 1: that if you have it already uh and we are
47:20
Speaker 1: very much looking forward to having you back Bridget anytime. Yes.
47:24
Speaker 1: In the meantime, if you would like to contact us,
47:27
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47:29
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47:31
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47:34
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47:37
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