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Do You Show PDA In Front Of Your Kids? · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Morning, everybody in ceej Envy Charlamagne the God.
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  Speaker 2: We are to breakfast club.
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  Speaker 3: Now.
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  Speaker 1: If you're just joining us with talking pd A public
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  Speaker 1: displays of affection, we're asking do you do it in
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  Speaker 1: front of your kids?
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  Speaker 2: I say yes, I do it. I hold hands, I love, I.
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  Speaker 1: Hug, I grab my wife's butt like yes, I show
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  Speaker 1: PDA absolutely positively.
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  Speaker 4: I have a brother and sister, Well, they're my friends.
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  Speaker 4: They not really, but I calling my brother and sisters sea.
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  Speaker 4: How they've been married for twenty six years. They still
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  Speaker 4: hold hands, they still walk together, they still cook together,
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  Speaker 4: and they still conversate with each other. So if we
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  Speaker 4: all around because he's the cook, Tie is the cook,
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  Speaker 4: and Ulandes is wipe, those are my friends. But they
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  Speaker 4: still friendly to each other. It really inspires me because
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  Speaker 4: I always said I never wanted to get married, but
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  Speaker 4: watching them interact with each other as friends, even though
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  Speaker 4: they've been married for such a long time, makes me
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  Speaker 4: inspire to be, like, maybe I'll fall in love again.
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  Speaker 4: I seriously doubt it, but you know, I'm just saying
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  Speaker 4: so if it does it for me and I'm grown,
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  Speaker 4: you can only imagine what it does for their children
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  Speaker 4: or for children see that.
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  Speaker 2: Let's go to the full lines. We got Marvin on
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  Speaker 2: the line. Marvin, good morning, I'm Marvin.
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  Speaker 5: Good morning, every good morning.
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  Speaker 2: Uh, what's your thoughts?
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  Speaker 5: I want to say this like, I'm a young black man,
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  Speaker 5: whoever a young son, and I do think PDA is
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  Speaker 5: important for young kids to see, especially in our communities,
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  Speaker 5: and mainly because you know, we go around listening to
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  Speaker 5: a lot of these songs and we're a little bit hypocritical.
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  Speaker 5: You know, a lot of these new, new, new young
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  Speaker 5: rappers talk about, you know, bust down this and doing
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  Speaker 5: all that. So I do think it's important for our
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  Speaker 5: young kids to see that we do love each other
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  Speaker 5: and suw affection to each other in a certain way,
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  Speaker 5: as long as they don't get too crazy out of hand,
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  Speaker 5: you know, nothing wild feel.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, there's a difference between PDA and full play. And
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  Speaker 6: I'm a person who grew up. Man, I don't remember
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  Speaker 6: getting all that love when I was a kid, you
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  Speaker 6: know what I'm saying. I don't remember getting especially from
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  Speaker 6: my pops. I don't remember getting like hugs and you know,
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  Speaker 6: I love you from my dad. So you know that
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  Speaker 6: does have an impact on you as you get older.
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  Speaker 6: So I want to be the father that absolutely positively
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  Speaker 6: shared that all throughout my household.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I did get the love as a kid,
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  Speaker 1: but my family, my six kids and my wife, we
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  Speaker 1: are overly with it.
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  Speaker 2: And I love it.
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  Speaker 1: And like I said, I love seeing my kids together.
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  Speaker 1: I love seeing even like you know, I got a
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  Speaker 1: seventeen month old in the crib. My seventeen month old
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  Speaker 1: can sense it in the house and she gives hugs
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  Speaker 1: and kisses and grabs faces and big hugs. And that's
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  Speaker 1: because she seeing her siblings, which I love.
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  Speaker 5: Sure. Hello is this it's Pam.
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  Speaker 2: Hey Pam, Good morning.
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  Speaker 5: Good morning Pam.
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  Speaker 3: So you answer, Charlotvage love you both.
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  Speaker 6: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: We have Flame Monroe here as well today this morning.
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  Speaker 3: So I wanted to comment on the PDA and I
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  Speaker 3: agree with it. I have a daughter from a previous
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  Speaker 3: relationship and my husband has one as well, and when
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  Speaker 3: we were dating, I told him, listen, they need to see,
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  Speaker 3: you know, a healthy type of love. So I think
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  Speaker 3: it's okay for us to kids in front of them,
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  Speaker 3: the hug in front of so they know what that
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  Speaker 3: looks like.
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  Speaker 6: I agree with you.
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  Speaker 3: And he's got more comfortable with it. So I think
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  Speaker 3: it's trying to address each other and trying to keep
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  Speaker 3: and I.
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  Speaker 4: Think it's that is lead by example.
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  Speaker 6: That's right, and listen, I like, I agree with you. You
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  Speaker 6: shouldn't do anything that looks like four play. But I
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  Speaker 6: do like to embarrass my fourteen year old. At this point,
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  Speaker 6: I will run up behind my wife and you know,
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  Speaker 6: like start thrusting.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, but I do do that.
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  Speaker 6: But she's fourteen now, so she understands that I'm doing
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  Speaker 6: that just to embarrass her, you know.
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  Speaker 1: But also like even you know, my son is nineteen,
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  Speaker 1: and he'll do something and I'll run upon him and
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  Speaker 1: I'll kiss him on the sheet, and I don't care,
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  Speaker 1: like that's my son.
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  Speaker 2: You you my son, and I embarrass him, I know,
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  Speaker 2: but I should have lost.
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  Speaker 3: See.
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  Speaker 6: The only problem with that is Logan looks like more
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  Speaker 6: of a man than you. You know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 6: Like Logan Logan diesel, Like Logan should be on the
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  Speaker 6: front of men's health magazine. So if people don't know
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  Speaker 6: that's your son, they're like, damn, man, you got a
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  Speaker 6: little tender. Hef be kissing on a little twet. What's
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  Speaker 6: the of the story, The moral of the story is
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  Speaker 6: man spread love man like like like that woman said
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  Speaker 6: that were so used to seeing unhealthiness now in our
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  Speaker 6: society that that love looks foreign to people like man. Yes,
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  Speaker 6: love on your people, because you know time ain't tomorrow.
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  Speaker 4: Ain't promised, bro, tomorrow this afternoon, all.
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  Speaker 6: Right, right, the great the worst mistake we all make
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  Speaker 6: is thinking that we got time.
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  Speaker 2: Love on your people, absolutely all right. When we come back,
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  Speaker 2: we got your room and report.
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  Speaker 1: And also let me shout out to the workers at
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  Speaker 1: Raymore and Flat again. They delivered something at my mom's crib.
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  Speaker 1: And when they delivered it, they see my picture, it
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  Speaker 1: was like that looked like DJ me and they were
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  Speaker 1: super duper polite, super duper car and they helped my
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  Speaker 1: mom with so many different things at the crib.
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  Speaker 2: So my mom texted me this morning, say make sure
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  Speaker 2: you shout out them young boys from Raymond and Playing again.
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  Speaker 1: Well, thank you, thank you brothers for for taking me,
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  Speaker 1: taking care of mom dukes and pop dukes.
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  Speaker 2: All right, it's the breakfast love, good morning,