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SUBS AND SLAVES.. IS THERE A DIFFERENCE? · CALL ME MISTRESS

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  Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress.
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  I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and I've got my sidekick.
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  Me, Madam Liv. OK, how are you today, Liv?
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  It's a morning, probably need some coffee.
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  I know you don't have. Your coffee yet?
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  I know I didn't get it. I was thinking about it, then I
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  didn't. Wow.
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  Can't wait till my slave gets here.
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  I know. Where is that little bastard?
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  Two more days. He'll be here.
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  Yeah, he better. Behave and do what he's supposed
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  to do. I think he will.
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  I think he'll be, he'll be somebody that pushes his own
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  boundaries like some people be like, I don't want to do that.
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  No, I think he'll do it. OK so I have something really
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  fun. I have a shock dog collar that
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  we can put on his neck or around his balls so if he fucks up he
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  can first either get the buzz or yeah.
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  I like that because I he sneeze a collar.
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  I told him he's going to wait at the door at the back door until
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  I'm ready for him because I'll put a collar on before he comes
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  to the house. Well, you're you're sweet little
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  submissive guy Poe. Speaking of coffee, he got us a
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  neat little tea set. I don't give, so tell us about
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  that. Well, I didn't open it right
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  away because I thought that because he said it was for both
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  of us, I thought maybe would open up together, but he was
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  like, no, he wanted to see me open it.
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  So I opened it. It was a tea box where you put
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  all your little tea bags. In Yeah.
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  Very pretty. You can see into it.
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  It's very nice. Yeah.
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  When little box was like oh. That's so cool.
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  And you? Guys like tea selections, like
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  the gummy tea bag or gross tea bags.
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  And then you got a little gag gift, just a little nuts, little
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  balls. Uh huh.
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  That it's like for like an infuser where you can put the
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  tea particles into it and then soak it in the water.
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  Yeah. And like, tea tea bag in your
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  crop, your tea. I was like, Oh my God, that's so
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  silly. That was great.
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  I. Need to find another one because
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  there was only one in there. We need both have one.
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  Oh my gosh. Dip, dip, dip.
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  Yeah. I was gonna say you can have
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  balls in your teeth if you'd like.
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  I do want balls in my teeth just for the beginning.
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  Well, it's confusing. OK, then I'll do pinkies out for
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  the rest. OK, we can do that.
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  Either from days when we're feeling funny.
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  Right. It was a very special gift.
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  So thanks for that PO. That was very sweet.
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  He told me, he said that he messaged me and he said, you
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  know, on days where he's just not feeling himself and feeling
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  happy, he listens to some of his favorite episodes and it makes
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  him feel better. I'm glad.
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  And that's where that our just Yabrin makes people feel better.
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  You know, we're just talking. Agreed.
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  Well, Justin told me this last week.
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  Actually told me, he said, you know, it's just nice too because
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  he works long hours. So yeah, I haven't seen him in
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  almost two weeks. But he said to make himself feel
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  better, he'll do the same thing. He'll listen, you know, some of
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  our episodes and. You know, probably it's even
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  better when they've come here and kind of know us a little
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  bit, seeing the dungeon, seeing the yard.
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  They know what we're talking about, can envision it better.
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  Yeah. That's very true.
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  It's. Probably fun to listen people
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  you already know. Yeah.
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  Talk about things that you're on the other side of.
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  I can believe it. Yeah, I would like it.
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  Well, Barbie hasn't been in a while, but people you know who
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  know Barbie, she's very eccentric.
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  She's quirky, funny as hell. She really is funny.
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  She is. She's witty.
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  I would be very, very witty. She can come up with things on
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  the spot. I'm like damn.
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  This she does. She's so smart, but she does
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  drag shows. And if she's not doing a drag
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  show, she'll actually help other people like other artists with
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  their actual set for their for whatever roduction they're
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  doing. There's a lot of people that
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  wear the BDSM symbol as well. An Charles was telling me that
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  someone that he knew that was in the military, he actually wore
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  his BDSM necklace and it said slave on it, but it didn't say
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  slave. It was a symbol for slave.
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  Oh. That's hot in the hot.
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  Oh my God. And so someone else said, hey, I
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  know what that means. You need to tuck that in.
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  No one needs to see that shit. I want to see it.
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  I know you do. I would love to see that,
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  especially in a, in a, you know, in the military when
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  everything's supposed to be structured and you're wearing a
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  little slave. That's hot.
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  We'll see. I'm a little rebel.
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  I have one for my husband and it's a little slave marker as
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  well, but it's written in a foreign language so no one can
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  tell what it is. Well, I like that I can be
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  somebody could tell what it is. Yeah, that's hot.
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  Absolutely. I had a ring with the BDSM
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  simple, small, Yeah. So I don't think anybody ever
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  really noticed it. Yeah, I was always hoping that
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  somebody would notice it, but nobody ever noticed.
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  It that's fun. Then I lost it when I went
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  swimming in the ocean. Well, I was with a friend one
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  time and we were just walking in the department store and she had
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  the symbol on again, big pendant on her neck.
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  And it didn't, it was just the BDSM symbol.
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  But one guy immediately came up to her and he said, hey, I know
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  what that sign means on your necklace.
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  And she's like, oh really? And he was like, yeah, I know
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  what that means. That's.
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  The best way? Right.
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  You get your little butterflies going.
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  Yeah, it was sexy. Yeah.
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  Yeah, she was single. Why not, you know?
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  You and you're not single just to be noticed that that's what.
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  It is absolutely, absolutely. Woman or girl or 1.
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  You know what I want? All right, So what do you plan
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  on doing with the slave? Well, I want him to do daily
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  tasks because he'll be here for four days, so I want to have
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  daily things. He does every day that he has a
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  structure lined up for him. He waits at the back door.
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  No shirt. OK, You're not going to wear a
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  shirt and you have to wear all black.
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  He was going to ask for Gray. I said no.
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  I said black. I don't want no color on you.
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  Then no shirt. And he'll wear a collar when he
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  comes in, he'll do coffee. He'll get you know, if I want
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  breakfast that day, make me some toast, whatever.
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  And then he'll stand here and wait with us until I tell him
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  what to do. OK, we can always make him a
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  list too. Yeah, well, I want like, well, I
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  have him at whether the notebook, so he'll make his own
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  list. We don't have to do that shit.
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  OK. Make him write the list.
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  All right. Because he's supposed to bring
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  in his notebook. Because that's what I'm starting
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  to do with everybody so that you know, because there's so many of
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  them that want to do this with me, the sub training and stuff
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  that they have to write a notebook.
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  But honestly, I think I only have two right now.
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  Of course, my favorite. And then the other guy, which
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  I'm I'm not really sure about him.
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  I don't know why I don't feel comfortable bringing that in yet
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  because I don't know him very well.
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  So and then of course, my slave, which I asked PO, I was like,
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  and he was wearing this Binky that's a a ball gag.
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  And I asked him. I was like, I know I already
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  have a slave coming. I would have wanted it to be you
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  first because I've been talking about it forever and asking
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  Charles about it. And I was like, I want you to be
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  my slave when I get back or when for when summertime happens
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  because he's a teacher. So when the summer comes, he can
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  have more time. And he smiled behind his Binky.
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  And I don't know why. It's just the cutest little
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  thing. I was like, Oh my God, come
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  here. I just, I feel like we have a
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  really good, like, dynamic. Yeah, I don't think I'll
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  probably have that with anybody else just because of the way we
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  learned everything, because I was learning BDSM stuff like how
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  to whip and all those things, like with him.
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  So I won't have that with somebody else learning how to do
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  it with somebody. So we'll have that.
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  I think it's special. Yeah, it's very cool.
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  So I want him to be my slave, and he's excited about it.
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  He's like, Oh my God. Yeah, that's exciting.
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  I'm glad. I think that, you know, the
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  whole concept of being a slave is just like, that's like a such
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  a big commitment for so many people, you know?
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  Because the ship is like more intense, I guess you could say
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  it is more demanding, more responsibility.
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  Yeah, I want your little bitch to skim the pool and blow the
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  patio. He's my flight, I.
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  Know, I know. If we if we do want some time,
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  we could definitely make him leave.
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  Yeah. And not leave, leave, but like
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  go do something else. Yeah, let.
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  Like I said, if we get tired of him, let's send him outside
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  looking at him, skim the pool. That'll take an hour and then he
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  can blow the whole backyard. That's another hour, you know,
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  fix the patio furniture especially.
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  If you don't have any sessions going on.
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  Exactly. Because I wanted to be the in
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  there with me with my sessions. OK.
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  I prefer him to be there in with me, my sessions.
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  She'd be blindfolded so that my other Subs that are in there
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  don't feel uncomfortable somebody staring at him.
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  Yeah, but he can listen to everything and he can clean up
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  the mess when we're done. Exactly.
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  And you can tie him up in the corner in that cute little
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  Barber chair and then just like, turn his back around.
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  So he has to listen to it. Yeah, I think that's hot.
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  That is very hot. I love it.
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  And maybe some of the Subs wouldn't mind him watching and
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  he can watch, yeah. And that's a treat that he has
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  to. If you're doing good that day,
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  maybe one of my Subs will allow it and I will allow it.
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  Yeah, absolutely. But.
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  Yeah, you're supposed to be here Wednesday.
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  OK. So it would be Wednesday,
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  Thursday, Friday, Saturday, not Sunday.
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  He could have done it Sunday, but I said no, we're not doing
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  it Sunday, sorry. Yeah, Sunday.
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  Is my day my my rest day, you know?
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  Jesus said. On.
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  The 7th day we. Rest that's funny, Jesus said.
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  OK, so you're going to start talking about Jesus.
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  We're that's a whole other episode.
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  We're going to start talking about that soon, too.
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  Yeah, for sure. But what do you think really is
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  the difference between like being a submissive and then
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  being a slave? Well, a submissive is more like
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  just, it kind of is. The slave is kind of a
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  submissive. If you think about it.
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  They do the same things. It's just more a more of a
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  commitment, more intense. I think that's it because it's
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  the same. We just have more
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  responsibilities, like I said. Yeah.
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  But sub is kind of like a game and slave is more real.
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  Yeah. So I'm with you on that.
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  I think that people who. That's in that Subs.
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  Aren't real. No, I know what you're saying.
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  I mean, Subs is Oh yeah, you can leave and go home.
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  I'll see you next Tuesday. But in this situation, I've had
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  this conversation with people before, you know, Brie, for
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  example. Brie was always like, I'm not a
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  slave, I'm not a slave. I'm like bitch I have changed
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  you to the floor, I have not let you leave the dungeon for days.
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  I think most I had her in there one time was three weeks.
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  I said I had my in laws come to visit and they were here for 7-8
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  days and she was locked in the dungeon the whole time.
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  I gave her a bucket, a gallon of water, and I would take food
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  into her when I had free time. Aside from that, she had some
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  snacks. That was it.
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  So she lost weight and she was unable to smoke.
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  You know, that's past being just a submissive.
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  That's bitch. You ain't leaving.
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  You're going to be. My slave, if you call her up
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  right now, just out of kind of her heart, but she is like if
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  you asked her, hey, can you do this?
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  She'll go do it. And that's kind of slave
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  mentality too. They're like, oh, I'll do this
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  for you, of course. Yeah.
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  I'll put everything down. Yeah, absolutely.
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  You know, it was different with her when she was being very
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  submissive to me or being a slave to me in a sense, because
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  she was always resentful about calling herself a slave.
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  But I think it the underlying problem was she when she wasn't
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  sober, I didn't realize when she wasn't.
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  And when she was sober, that was a big problem.
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  But I think it was if she relinquished herself completely
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  to me, it was just that one last thing that she held back doing
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  because she knew that I would not be all for her.
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  And she basically has to share me with my husband and with.
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  That doesn't make it hard to fully surrender.
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  Yeah. So how can you?
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  That makes sense. Yeah, because she was very
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  resentful of my husband, because she.
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  Wants to be a full time slave. That's it.
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  Or full time. So whatever you prefer to say it
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  as. Yeah.
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  But yeah, I look at it as like, I don't.
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  Maybe it's just the word slave is I don't like the word slave,
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  but maybe I am one. But I'm over here like I'm kind
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  of bratty. Like if you tell me to do
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  something and I don't want to do it, I'm not going to do it.
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  But I still want to be treated in a way if I don't do it.
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  Like I don't want to do it, but I want to be made to do it even
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  though I don't want to do it. It's an odd feeling when Subs
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  have that mindset. Yeah.
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  So it's easy to detect it in others.
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  Well, a certain somebody asked me the other day, he said, So
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  what are my kinks? And I said, honey, I've known
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  you for years so I know what your kinks are.
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  One, you have a fear fetish. He loves to be scared.
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  So again, I will do breath play with him.
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  I will scare the shit out of him.
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  And because eventually if I don't scare him anymore, it's
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  not fun. You know, it's not fun for him.
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  It's not fun for me. And besides from the fear factor
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  of things, when he was a kid, he used to find himself when he, he
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  said he was 5 or 6 years old, he would go in animal traps.
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  You know, he lived out in the woods from where he lived, you
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  know, and it was kind of, it was right in the back of the yard.
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  I mean, people put out animal traps.
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  And he said there was something in him that wanted to get in the
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  animal trap so he'd get in it and then have a hard time
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  getting out. But he loved it.
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  And I think even then he was getting aroused, you know, at
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  such a young age. It was interesting when he was
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  interesting. Yeah.
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  When he talks about it, you know, it's interesting.
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  But then he was saying that there was, there was another
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  time when he was a kid, he, his body had no buoyancy because he
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  had no fat on him. He was very skinny.
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  He was underweight. And so skin and bones,
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  literally, he said that he was in the pool and he kept like
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  kicking, kicking, kicking. And then he'd find himself up
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  against the pool filter where it would push out from the jet.
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  And he said not only was he struggling to swim, but kept
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  pushing up against it to rub against his Dick.
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  And you know, this is like 1213 years old.
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  Then he's like, oh, and he said he found himself surrounded by
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  people in a public pool, this happening, and he fucking
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  ejaculated just that. Wow.
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  So it's like, wow, yeah. But he said that was, it was so
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  powerful with the fact that he could have drowned because he
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  put himself in the deep end, because he knew that he would
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  start getting tired because he still can't float.
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  Even now he cannot float. He just.
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  Sinks. That's funny, isn't?
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  That funny? Yeah, he's sweet.
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  But anyway, he said. I told him I said the fear
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  factor and he loves extreme bondage so you know, but if it
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  were up to him, if he didn't have to work, he would love if I
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  just had a sell for him and tuck him away from the rest of the
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  world forever cutting all ties, being a permanent slave and that
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  would be it. I would go crazy.
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  You'd go crazy, right? But you know, everybody, they
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  probably need it, you know? They probably need it, Yeah.
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  And it's really just based on environment and what you grow up
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  with. And that was that was something
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  that he just he could deal with. And I think that he would be
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  completely content like that. I had harsh punishments.
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  Yeah. Where we would have to cut the
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  grass with scissors. Yeah, that that was insane when
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  you told me that. I pull the weeds out of the
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  fence. We have 2 1/2 acres, so the
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  fence was all the way around. Yeah, go pull the weeds at all.
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  And it's like grated like a chicken wire.
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  Yeah. So pulling all the weeds out of
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  that stickers doesn't matter. Pull it out, rake acorns.
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  And acorns go right through a rake like.
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  Rake the two acres. Yeah, yeah, that's insane.
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  There's a lot of things that, you know, she liked it.
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  Corporal punishment type of thing.
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  Yeah, I don't. I don't like it, but I like.
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  It but you really like. It's odd because he's like, you
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  really don't like it but I literally will rub my knees
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  together and be wet that far down.
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  It's so weird and I'm like I literally am screaming for my
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  life. Why is this happening?
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  To me it's odd. I know, right?
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  Why do I like it? Well, and you know, I think with
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  like your slave, if we take him outside and he's not doing good
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  enough job, I need to pull out the bullwhip and you need to
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  practice that bullwhip on him, you know.
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  I gotta test his boundaries on. On pain.
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  Oh, absolutely. The first day, that's what I'm
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  gonna do. I'm gonna test his boundaries on
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  how far I can go. Yeah.
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  And then after that, I'll just be pushing it.
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  Yeah. I'll be pushing each boundary
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  each day. Yeah.
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  A little bit further because I don't want to like, you know,
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  tear him down. I don't know how much.
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  I don't know him now, Lil PO, I don't know if he would be OK
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  with something like that, but I know I could push boundaries.
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  Yeah. And, you know, it's just more
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  about he already trusts me. So it's just like it makes it
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  easier to push those boundaries because he feels like he can
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  like, surrender in it. But yeah, I don't know about
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  this guy. You wouldn't be able to trust
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  me. I was.
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  Going to say the biggest thing is fantasy, you know, what does
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  your mind say? What would be your ideal
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  fantasy? And that's something you could
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  ask him, you know? Same with little Poe, you know,
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  ask him, you know, would you be happy at some point?
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  You know, if you're doing a task and you don't do it well enough,
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  you know, do I need to break out the bullwhip?
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  Is that something that's going to excite?
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  You. I was going to bring out a whip
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  regardless. Like when Charles, I told you he
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  was painting, he's doing a great job, but even he would point out
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  things and flaws about it. So it's like he wanted you to
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  see it, but he also hated that he couldn't do it right.
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  And if it was me, you know, I would be like, if I did
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  something wrong and I know I did it wrong, even though it wasn't
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  my fault, I still wanted like, OK, we need to be punished here.
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  Yeah, you're looking around to see where he fucked up, but you
• 19:02
  know, he literally, and I've never seen anyone do this, but
• 19:06
  This is why I've known other slaves to do it.
• 19:09
  Now, if you look at the ceiling, it's like it's never going to
• 19:12
  have a perfect straight line. You know, even if you put, you
• 19:16
  know, the painter's tape up, for example, you're always going to
• 19:20
  miss something. So he was going around with a
• 19:22
  little tiny artist brush. He is a sub, yeah.
• 19:27
  He wants it to be perfect. For you, he wants it to be
• 19:29
  perfect. Yeah.
• 19:31
  For you though. Yeah, I get it.
• 19:33
  And it's it's it's endearing. It's sweet, Yeah.
• 19:36
  But see, it's awesome. It's almost.
• 19:37
  Like he gives himself a punishment for it, and I didn't
• 19:40
  do it right. So now I'm going to do this with
• 19:41
  a little bitty brush like my mom.
• 19:42
  Yeah, scissors on grass. That's a lot.
• 19:45
  Yeah. Just like the little tiny
• 19:47
  paintbrush, that's a lot. But it's almost like he needed
• 19:49
  to be made to do that versus him doing it for himself and he did
• 19:53
  it for himself. Wouldn't that be some shit if
• 19:55
  your boyfriend says, hey, we're on so much acreage, get out
• 19:59
  there and cut the grass with the Pierce.
• 20:08
  I feel like he would not do that to me, but you know, I, I don't
• 20:11
  ever want to put things past them because I never know.
• 20:14
  I know he's testing limits, so we'll see.
• 20:18
  Yeah. Is there something you want him
• 20:20
  to do at some point? I mean, I always think about him
• 20:24
  fucking somebody and then tying me up where I can't enjoy it
• 20:27
  too. Yeah, that's a punishment, kind
• 20:29
  of, yeah. Kind of I was going to say, and
• 20:32
  I've had that conversation too with my partner.
• 20:34
  So yeah, I get it. I get it totally.
• 20:37
  God, the things we talk about I. Don't know, the kinky world is
• 20:39
  great. I like that we can openly talk
• 20:41
  about it. It is.
• 20:42
  It's so great, but Subs and slaves, yeah, I'm like.
• 20:46
  The same. There is, it is.
• 20:48
  It's so much of the same. You know, people have developed
• 20:51
  like the slave contracts. It's like.
• 20:53
  It's just the word. Exactly I.
• 20:56
  Can just say full time slave, yeah, I'm sorry, full time sub,
• 21:00
  yeah. And then it's the same thing as
• 21:02
  slave. Yeah, all you're doing is the
• 21:04
  same thing. You know, with me, I use the
• 21:07
  word slave just because I think it's more demeaning to them.
• 21:10
  And if they if. They like the humiliation.
• 21:12
  Yeah, exactly. If they like degradation,
• 21:14
  absolutely. Which?
• 21:16
  My slave coming in does not like that.
• 21:19
  He doesn't like degradation. Or humiliation.
• 21:22
  Or it's a degradation. I'm still going to humiliate him
• 21:24
  by making him get naked in front of you.
• 21:26
  Stand there. My poor dogs are going to go.
• 21:30
  Oh God, another one. Yeah, well, I want, I hope
• 21:35
  Charles is here so you can be naked in front of Charles too.
• 21:37
  And he feels uncomfortable. I want to make him as
• 21:39
  uncomfortable as possible, you know, and he can only be naked
• 21:42
  up here. I understand.
• 21:43
  But. Charles wants to be naked too
• 21:46
  with a collar, so we could always make both of them go out
• 21:49
  and do tasks naked in the yard. Know what?
• 21:51
  He would probably love that. Yeah.
• 21:54
  We need to. Just whenever he's here.
• 21:56
  I don't know. Is he going to be here?
• 21:58
  I don't know yet. He's his iffy.
• 22:01
  Little Subs and holding our coffee.
• 22:03
  I know, wouldn't it be great? That'd be hot.
• 22:06
  I I really wish it was PO. I know.
• 22:09
  I wanted him to be the first one I know you know.
• 22:13
  But the thing of it is, this other one is just in town
• 22:15
  briefly. Yeah, he's only here for four
• 22:17
  days. It's like a practice run.
• 22:18
  Yeah, See what I would be OK with it's.
• 22:20
  But that's The thing is I tried everything on PO first.
• 22:23
  What was I OK with? What was he OK with?
• 22:25
  We learned with each other. Yeah, that's what I liked about
• 22:28
  it, and that's what I wanted him to be my first.
• 22:30
  Well, it'll be. OK, yeah, well, I mean I.
• 22:32
  Post not going anywhere. He'll be here.
• 22:33
  Yeah, yeah. He can be their life and a slave
• 22:36
  is giving me a lot. Yeah, absolutely.
• 22:40
  Hold on, let me reword it. Good idea.
• 22:43
  All right, kids, I think we've had enough fun.
• 22:46
  I know I have one guy who keeps writing me and he says please
• 22:49
  take off parental control on the podcast because he can't listen
• 22:54
  to it in certain areas. I'm like, yeah, we can't do it.
• 22:57
  We have to take, we have to keep on the explicit.
• 23:00
  I was looking at some of our our ratings and we're rating in the
• 23:07
  top five of sexuality podcasts over in a lot of countries like
• 23:12
  in Africa, in parts of Europe. That's cool.
• 23:15
  And we're just yabbering about our life that's going on.
• 23:18
  Isn't that crazy? I guess people don't really want
• 23:20
  to hear about our side of things and.
• 23:22
  I would think so. Mindsets because, you know, you
• 23:24
  don't really hear the side of the Dom, you know, and how
• 23:27
  things are played out in their minds and what it's like.
• 23:30
  Yeah. So yeah, I could see how, you
• 23:31
  know, I, I am the Dom. So it's like, but I can see how
• 23:35
  if it was other way around and listen to the Subs on their
• 23:38
  side, it'd be cool. Which is like doing the
• 23:40
  interviews, you know? Yeah, and trust me when I have
• 23:42
  talked to other Doms, so many Doms are fucking cunts.
• 23:47
  They're just not nice people. Are you trying?
• 23:49
  To say something to me. No, I'm saying you and I.
• 23:51
  You and I are rare compared to most because.
• 23:54
  Yeah, we have a great dynamic. I would think so, but I'm just
• 23:57
  saying as people were nice people.
• 23:59
  Oh yeah. Yeah, You know, I've, I've
• 24:01
  interviewed a couple Doms over the years and one wanted to have
• 24:05
  her own religion where they worshipped only her.
• 24:09
  I mean, that's how much of A narcissist she was.
• 24:11
  That was a. Cult.
• 24:12
  All right. Yeah.
• 24:13
  She wanted to start a cult, and there's a lot of them who do
• 24:15
  want to start cults. And I'm like, yeah, that's
• 24:18
  that's dumb. Yeah, that's just, that's crazy.
• 24:23
  Yeah, I don't think I would want.
• 24:24
  That it's weird. Sounds like too much.
• 24:26
  Yeah, could you imagine the Temple of Live, I mean.
• 24:30
  My. Temple is there there.
• 24:32
  Your temple's there is right live.
• 24:34
  We'll end it there and thank you for listening.
• 24:37
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• 24:42
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• 24:46
  necessarily do in the dungeon, but we take pictures and and
• 24:49
  little videos and that kind of thing that we do on our personal
• 24:52
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• 24:53
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• 24:59
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• 25:02
  That concludes this episode of. Call me man.