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Cancer, Challenges, and Championing Those Who Can't Speak Up | Ep 274 · Voices for Voices®

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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Hey everyone and welcome to another episode of the Voices for Voices TV Show and Podcast.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And we're going to transition into the key area of this particular episode, that is, individuals like myself who have I mean, they call it a disability, whatever the correct legal term is.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's what we're talking about, and we we, not only we not only support, we vehemently support.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So that means we really support and really want to be a voice and a platform for anyone who is being treated like an outcast, not being listened to, not being treated fairly humanely, who are being potentially discriminated against Because maybe, well, you don't look like us, you don't walk like us, you don't talk like us, and we are.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're just.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're just appalled by humanity that there would even be a thought of a person or more who's treating people like that, and so we do not condone any of that and we urge anybody who knows of an individual or an organization for that matter, to do your research on that individual or individuals or organization, because you have a voice, you have a choice, you have a choice over the organization, organization you and your loved ones and friends and significant others belong to, who those that you volunteer with, that maybe you donate money to or have in the past.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And we just think that doing your own due diligence.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Again, we're sharing information because again, unfortunately, this seems to be occurring.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Where people are being people are being taken advantage of, there's no, there's no easy way of really saying that.
• 7:04
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: There's no easy way of really saying that and we do not like that.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I think our fellow human, anybody who thinks like that or has had thought like that or is part of an organization like that, to think of things on, you know, if the shoe is on the other foot, basically meaning what if it was you or somebody you know who are being mistreated, uh, talked down on, uh, maybe taken advantage of, like, oh well, you know, hypothetically, well, well, their mind might not be all there, so we, we could take advantage of.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Themetically well, their mind might not be all there, so we could take advantage of them and to our benefit, whatever that may be, again, we find that just it's not good to be kind about it.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so, along with, you know, disabilities, you know whether we're talking mental health-wise, whether we're talking about physical disabilities or challenges or cognitive challenges, it doesn't matter what it is, it doesn't matter what the challenge is, it doesn't matter if the person is able to hear correctly, to see correctly, to walk correctly, to talk, just in the sense of we don't notice a I mean I'm speaking from my experience here and we've done over 270 shows and I say more than my fair share of the word like, which is not supposedly a frown upon the eye, contact with the camera and with guests and there are certain things that that's just who I am and I'm okay with that, because nobody here on earth is perfect, nobody here on earth is sinless, and we all have here on Earth is endless, and we all have a flaw, whether it's thought of as big or small.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We all do, we all do.
• 11:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And then, if we look at taking that a step further, this disability conversation, this thought that there could be fellow human beings that treat, break down as less than we find, just as a human being, and then morals and ethics and and all that really brought into it.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I find that there there's a lot to be desired, ought to be desired, if that, that is a train of thought that is roaming around in a person or organization's mind, and so we extend that into diseases and other things that a person may not have, and even we talk about disability and challenges.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: A lot of those and I'm speaking from my experience I didn't ask to have them and I don't think a whole lot of people did and do ask to have that, and so there was really no point where there was this decision that had to be made.
• 13:20
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Yes, I agree, I want a disability, I want a disability, I want a challenge, or I don't.
• 13:32
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The same goes for diseases curable, incurable, and we're going to talk about cancer.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So, it's my understanding, there's quite a few, quite a few types of cancer.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: In the hundreds or even the thousands of the different, the different types of cancer.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: There are, I guess, brackets we want to maybe put that into or stages where maybe we have heard somebody has been diagnosed, maybe we have heard somebody has been diagnosed with a particular type of cancer and at stage one or stage two or three or four, whatever that stage may be in my understanding and I'm not.
• 14:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Whatever that stage may be In my understanding and I'm not, I don't have a medical background.
• 14:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I have a background with family that had and has had cancer.
• 14:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So I come with that lived experience of the higher the number.
• 15:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So the higher the stage, the more advanced the cancer is and more likely than not there's fewer ways to treat that particular cancer and to heal or have that cancer go into remission.
• 15:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You know, whether through chemotherapy, whether through surgery, radiation, chemotherapy, a combination trial, there's a host of ways to really think about it.
• 16:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And as a person who has had family members be diagnosed with cancer, and quite advanced cancer, meaning that stage was pretty high.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And you can kind of look at that in two parts and we'll have a show in the future on the first part of why is it that it seems that so many people since the pandemic have been diagnosed with such advanced stage cancer, meaning not stage one, not stage two, but maybe stage three or four and the options to treat or have that go into remission are really close to zero.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so that's what we'll cover on a different show because and it may even be a couple of shows because it's serious and I think some people are already starting to wake up to that, like, hey, what's the deal here?
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And then the second part is individuals that are going through treatment, regardless of how high the probability is that their cancer can be taken out through a surgery and chemotherapy and trials and radiation, or how low the probability is of well, this particular cancer, hypothetically yeah, it's with a low likelihood of making it alive past the year.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so, as a family member, as a friend, as a colleague, as a loved one, as a loved one, that's hard to.
• 18:44
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's hard to, it's hard to accept.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You know, we know that we know life's not fair, we know that there's ups and there's downs and it's God's will to be done on ours and, yeah, we can't take possessions with us.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: When we pass away, the money that we have and the things we have, we can't take with us, we can't take with us.
• 19:25
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so you have, let's say, a group of people that are battling all forms of cancer, all stages of cancer, and not just cancer but other diseases.
• 19:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm just giving cancer as a just as an example, because I had that lived experience with family members with that and I've had that and unfortunately I've passed on from that, and so when we kicked off this show, this particular show, this episode, and we talked about individuals having disabilities, having challenges, and how not everybody can and are being supportive to those groups of people, that they actually look to take advantage of them.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You know, here in a parallel topic, a natural disaster happens, let's say, a hurricane goes through an area, and so there's a lot of people that need help in insurance claims, and political red tape tends to sometimes be a lot thicker than what it should be, and so outside organizations, churches, they'll try to come beyond the ground, try to help as best they can with water, with food, with temporary housing, blankets and bedding and those types of things where there are some people who either have a company or they started a company for this very reason to take advantage of people telling them oh, we can get you I don't know if it's an insurance policy or we can get you a new house or a new condo or apartment, I don't know.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: All I know is there seems to be a lot of fraud and a lot of abuse that comes whenever there is a natural disaster, and so these would be some of the types of people that would also probably be in the camp of, well, somebody can't take care of themselves.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, again, they have this challenge, or just disability, or whatever, whatever you want to call it, or battling cancer or disease, and uh, their immune systems down and uh, and.
• 23:05
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so you know we don't live in a perfect world.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You know, in a perfect world there would be nobody who would talk down, take advantage of any of these individuals.
• 23:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But, as we know, we don't live in a perfect world and us, as humans, are not perfect.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: None of us are in a perfect world.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And that us, as humans are not perfect, none of us are.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so, whether it's a person's choice or not, or peer pressure or not, to take advantage of people, to take advantage of people, we think there's a lot to be desired with individuals who are taking advantage of people like that or like this.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so, whether you have cancer, you're're battling it.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You just got diagnosed today, yesterday, recently, whether it's an advanced stage of well, I went and got all my health checkups.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Over the years, I did everything.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The doctors told me uh, you know, I got these shots and you know exercise, and you know all the telltale signs of you know what should help a person be healthy or healthier, and yet they show up to the ER or to primary care doctor or visit with some type of symptoms, only to find out that they're at stage four and they have, if they're lucky, a year to live, regardless of what type of treatments are available that you can treat but we can't cure.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so for anybody who's in that position, who knows anybody that's in that position, who has gone through anything that we have talked about on our show, please reach out to us.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We would love to learn more.
• 25:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We would love to have you on our show, we would love to have you a loved one, a relative, a significant other to talk about these very important areas and topics and how important it is that, as a human being and some of us being leaders of organizations, how we can better love on these individuals and their families that are going through these hard times, and how to have an extra megaphone in front of our voice so we can let as many people know we can help as many people say you know what?
• 26:38
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You're not alone, you're a family member, you're a teammate, you're a colleague, you're whomever it is, and if they have passed away, you know God.
• 26:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Rest their soul, but their life was not in vain that we can and we will continue to use this platform to, and we will continue to use this platform to talk, to teach, to share our voices, voices of others who may not be with us on Earth any longer or have a challenge to make it difficult, more difficult to communicate.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Reach out to us, let us know this is a big issue, big topic that unfortunately, we're finding out that, for whatever reason and we're really past kind of trying to understand the human mind, because I've tried for the life of me to try to understand what could cause a person or organization to take advantage of, to talk down on individuals who have disabilities, challenges going through chemotherapy, radiation, cancer or other autoimmune diseases.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It doesn't matter what the name of that is.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: What matters is we can do better as human beings and Voices for Voices is one of those avenues where we can do better, where we can be there for one another, that we can share how loved everyone is, whether they're here on earth or whether they've passed on to heaven, whether they've been given close to 100% remission rate possibility with a particular form of cancer diagnosis, or whether they're given a year at best, maybe six months at best, maybe six months.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And then to find out that well, could we have caught this before?
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Only to have a doctor say, well, you know, even a year ago, you know, this probably wouldn't have even shown up on a scan.
• 30:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And for people like me and family members who've been in my position to hear that news from a doctor to our loved one, say that basically nothing, nothing you could have done that you could have.
• 30:32
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You could have came with the, maybe the same symptom, go through the scans, go through the tests and not even have the cancer show up at all, to about a year after that, to have the cancer to be so advanced that the survival rate, the longevity, the side effects are just so severe, it's so life-shortening.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And it's always hard enough to go through that as a family member, a friend.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But there's again just some individuals, some organizations, that that's their MO, that that's their MO to go after, to talk down upon, to pray in a way on.
• 32:02
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Well, you know they're not going to be able to defend themselves.
• 32:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Well, voices of Her Voices is here self.
• 32:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Well, voices of Our Voices is here.
• 32:14
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's not just here for me, it's not just here for a select few people.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's here for everybody and I invite you to reach out to us, share your story, share your family member's story, celebrate them, celebrate you, celebrate our lives because, as we know, none of us are getting out of here alive.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I'll do the best I can for as long as I can, for as long as I'm here on earth, to have us have our organization, have myself, be a light where there is none to inspire, where there's no inspiration available, to help when others are talking down, when others are talking down, and to be a human being as caring as I can be, for as long as I can be.
• 33:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're here for you.
• 33:53
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're not just here for me, we're not just here for the organization.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're here for the world.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're here for you.
• 34:04
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're here for your loved ones.
• 34:05
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're here to celebrate life, talk about family and friends and what they love to do and what they like to do, and let us spend more of our time celebrating and uplifting others than the opposite.
• 34:33
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so, yeah, voices for Voices is different in that respect, because we're not going to talk down on anybody who's going through rough time, rough challenges, because we all are.
• 34:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm going through rough time, rough challenges, because we all are.
• 34:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm going through rough time, rough challenges.
• 34:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We all are.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So why don't we go through these together, why don't we join our fellow humans, to the right and to the left, and let's together be a light, let's together inspire, let's together uplift, let's together help.
• 35:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Let's together help and let's together be a voice for you, for somebody in need.
• 35:38
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Thank you for joining us and we'll catch you on our next episode.
• 35:43
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• 35:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Thank you for your love and support.
• 35:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We'll see you next time.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Goodbye.