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The last two words of suicidal men | Maintaining Frame 64 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Hello everyone, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian with
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  Allison, and this is Maintaining Frame number sixty four. I didn't know what
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  else to classified under. We're kind of squeezing in a show before the news
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  show. Yeah, it's Bud maintaining frame. Looking at the situation for men.
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  Yeah, we're always basically fighting against that narrative that men are somehow privileged
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  by society, by society that expects them to constantly sacrifice. Yeah, for
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  the benefit of not men, Well, maybe not constantly. I don't know,
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  Like sometimes men aren't expected to sacrifice as much. We're not in a
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  depression or a world war. So I guess the sacrifice oscillates from literal physical
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  sacrifice to just psychological sacrifice of their identity to make women feel better about themselves.
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  So yeah, but it does seem to be a continuous thread of sacrifice
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  and seeing men solely in terms of their utility to others. I don't know.
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  I know, I can hear a whole bunch of rad firms screeching at
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  me right now. I have I have spent maybe too much time in the
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  rad fem area of Twitter. Holy crap. But it's interesting because they no
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  longer have their their live fem protectors because they're at war with each other over
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  the turf issue, the trans exclusionary radical feminist issue. So it's it's interesting
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  because now the only feminists that argue with me are the radical like the radicals,
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  lesbian separatists, or just the separatists. And they definitely reveal a lot,
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  a lot more than they can seal. Let me tell you. All
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  right, Okay, so um, we're looking at this article. It's a
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  medium blog, I guess right, Yeah, it's a medium blog. Uh,
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  well, it's based on our actual study. Yeah, it says it
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  is a medium blog talking about a study, yes, by Caroline Becca Beckia
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  and it's entitled a researcher Study the Most Common Last Words of Suicidal Men,
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  bringing you the cherry topics, Yeah, Badger radio. And it says a
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  lot about how we indoctrinate men as providers okay, yes, as providers of
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  everything like I And that's sort of where my screed was going on, like
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  we we indoctrinate men to sacrifice themselves for other people, and then we turn
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  around and we say we don't do we gaslight men about this? We gaslight
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  them. They're like, we indoctrinate them to sacrifice themselves for others, and
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  then we gaslight them about being part of the society and creating a society that
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  actually makes women sacrifice for men. M that's what really gets me. It's
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  it's it's just so mendacious. Um. But anyway, I want to remind
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  it all is. And um uh, I'll try to do some arm twisting.
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  I don't know if I have the heart for arm twisting today. I
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  don't know. What do you guys like the arm twisting you seem to respond
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  to. It is this secretly some kind of fem dom thing going on that's
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  a disor fined on. I don't know anyway, So please go have I
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  slash support dominate me mommy so you can do more men's rights activism. Yikes,
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  that's almost like a reciprocal relationship though, if you think about it.
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  Yeah, U from Senior Sticks gives us two dollars and says, can we
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  get a return of the reading feminists. I have to you've been talking about
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  the sound bite because I have to get this. I don't have it right
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  now. I haven't been You have been saying you have to get that for
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  like two years, and I'll I had it like last year or whatever.
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  I feel this is like my computer like ate its own asshole. I had
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  it, but I don't have it right now. So I feel like this
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  is an aversion that we're dealing with your subconscious aversion. Yeah, but but
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  but how much is your subconscious involved in you know, I don't want to
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  even contemplate this thing, so I'll just I'll just I'm probably a significant part
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  of it is that. Yeah, but it's just like beyond cringe. And
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  I don't know if I want it, but but I'll get it. I'll
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  get it if that's what it. That's what I keep asking for it.
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  By the way, I think that, you know, it's I don't know.
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  I can't say I don't know. Okay, I don't want to presume,
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  all right, Okay, so okay, let's go. Yeah, let's
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  get into the article. So this is a researcher study the most common last
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  words of suicidal men, and it says a lot about how we indoctrinate men
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  as providers. By the way, guys, in Joe's here, he's sleeping
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  on his little bed. The following contains discussions of suicide and maybe triggering to
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  suicide survivors or anyone bereathed by suicide. How many times we're gonna say the
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  word suicide in this article. When Wellington Little checked into a Milwaukee hotel after
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  the nineteen twenty nine stock market crash. He was down to his last four
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  cents and emptied of hope. But before he put a revolver to his head,
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  he took out a pen and left the following note, my body should
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  go to science, my soul to Secretary of Treasury Andrew W. Mellon,
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  and sympathy to my creditors. Okay, can I just yeah, can I
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  just point something out here? A lot of times I know that people,
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  of course try to get their last jab. People, let's be honest,
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  misinterests like to get their last job at suicidal men who take their lives and
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  say the reason why they shoot themselves is because they don't care about leaving a
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  mess for their family to find. But a lot of men who shoot themselves
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  actually check into a hotel. Now, of course it's going to leave a
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  mess for the for the hotel staff to find, but not their families.
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  So they're actually thinking ahead about not traumatizing their families in many cases. Yea.
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  And so when a missengreest talks about how men really even just hate everybody
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  in their last moments killing themselves, it's or don't care or our callous towards
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  everyone, it's not actually true. And the other thing is that I probably
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  men use more lethal methods so that their families don't have to go through the
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  whole process of resuscitation and trying to save their lives, and you know,
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  that whole, long, drawn emotional process where one person takes center stage and
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  everybody else revolves around them and starts thinking about how what did I do well?
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  You know, like the process that women seem to prefer when they try
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  to commit suicide, as it were, and consistently sort of ties into that
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  whole idea that women do it more as a cry for attention than to end
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  what they consider to be a burden upon others. So you can the lethality
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  of men's methods may simply be the fact that they don't want to continue to
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  be a burden on others, And the non lethality of women's methods is maybe
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  just because they consider it okay to be continue to be a burden on others.
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  And I'm just saying this because this all of these framing, all this
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  framework, you'll hear this stuff from misinterests about men's suicide that they don't care
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  about other people, that's why they they do things that are violent and their
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  their friends and relatives will find the corpse. Well, men often think about
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  that and do it somewhere where their friends and relatives don't find them. And
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  also they use more lethal methods because I honestly, the argument for why men
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  using more lethal methods makes them bad escapes me at the moment, but I
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  know it's been made. And the counter that is, maybe they use more
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  lethal methods so they get rid of the burden and it's over and their family
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  does not have to worry about them anymore and doesn't have to make the whole
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  fight for their life for anything. So you know, those are the counter
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  arguments I would say to the misse interests and how they frame men's suicide as
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  a as a next a as another layer of men's oppression of everyone else.
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  And they've done that, Like I'm not out of word or when I say
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  that, Oh yeah, no, I don't think so, I've heard it
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  anyway. So I just wanted to point that out. Okay, let's keep
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  going. Even in his last moments, little one in his corporeal remains and
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  soul utilized by the world he was leaving. A century later, men still
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  carry this burden. Their self worth is tied to their usefulness. Today we
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  call how many times wait like here? How many I'm sorry, go ahead?
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  No, it's okay, go ahead? How many times? How many
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  times have we said this like um? When we have this discussion about suicide,
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  and it's the feminist. I don't want to single out groups of people
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  a right, except for the commies. I don't want to single out groups
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  of people for a preborum. But the truth is that if feminists didn't exist,
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  a lot of these arguments or all of these arguments, all of these
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  anti male arguments wouldn't exist. They are from feminists. So feminists come out
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  and they say that the reason why men commit suicide is because they hate women
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  so much they refuse to adopt women's ways of coping and go go to a
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  doctor, or they hate being femininist so much, they have so much femophobia
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  that they refuse to take care of themselves because taking care of themselves is is
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  pussy talk, all right, Yeah, And I just want to point it
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  out like that, that's not why. It's not why. It's because even
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  to get to the point of going to the doctor about these painful feelings you
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  have to be feel like you are worthy of burdening another person. Right,
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  that's the problem that suicidal men are facing. They don't want to be a
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  burden, so they don't go to the doctor because that would be well.
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  Most of them do actually go to the doctor before before committing suicide, so
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  that's one thing. They go to the doctor. They go to social services
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  to go to the therapist, so they are reaching out before killing themselves.
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  It's just that for whatever reason, those services are failing men, probably because
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  of its rhetoric around toxic masculinity and being the exact opposite thing that you should
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  say to a man who's suicidal, and but also also the reason why men
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  are doing this, the reason why men are pursuing this, pursuing this goal,
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  I don't know what to call it end is because they don't want to
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  be a burden on others. And the only way to get men to keep
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  because let's be honest here, if you're a man, like most doctors and
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  therapists are going to be just even just naturally they'll just take away feminism.
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  They're gonna be naturally more callous towards you. Okay, so you're gonna have
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  to beat your head against that brick wall more, which means you're gonna have
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  to be in position to believe that you have some kind of value that you
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  need to preserve. And if all you're thinking is I am a burden,
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  you're not going You're gonna just go once the therapist is gonna just indicate through
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  his feminist training that you are indeed a burden on the world, and you're
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  just gonna off yourself unless you have somebody telling you that you have value and
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  that you should fight for that value, just for by virtue of being,
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  of living and just existing, you have you as a man. And if
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  nobody's saying that, how do you overcome this belief that all you are is
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  either useful or useless? Okay, I just wanted to say that, Yeah,
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  yeah, fair enough. Maybe this was the wrong article to do for
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  Um, fair enough. And C Clark's her real name. So, uh,
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  really important to that obvious for obvious reasons. And uh, and I'm I'm
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  I'm actually sort of regretting choosing this particular article to do for the final fundraiser,
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  because it it's a little clashy, you know what I mean? Uh,
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  yeah, yeah, I mean, but it's okay. At least there's
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  always h you can always put a positive spin on it. I think you
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  can say, well, at least they're talking about it. Oh yeah,
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  I mean it is, it is. There is some really good in this
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  article. I mean it's groping towards something. It's still not there yet.
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  Perhaps someone you know, with a little bit more of a hard passion.
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  Yeah, I can like get us there that has the reach. But um,
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  okay, so today we call these utilitarian men good providers. And while
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  society ties itself in knots to find what it means to be a provider from
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  any men, it comes down to feeling useful. Well, okay, can
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  I just say from the earlier paragraphs, she says men sterry still carry the
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  burden that their self worth is tied to their usefulness. It almost sounds like
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  she's kind of blaming men for that, like that they shouldn't like they shouldn't
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  have they're self worth tied into usefulness. I think that I don't know that
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  men look at it as I don't know, I'm not sure about the wording.
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  I'll just say that but anyway, so for many, many comes out
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  and being useful. Unfortunately, when men are asked to lie down in this
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  procrustrian bed, many respond in one of two dangerous ways. A they worked
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  themselves to death clearing hurdle at the hurdle in the relentless pursuit of some bogus
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  hegemonic definition of masculinity that eventually kills them earlier than women. Or be they
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  emotionally withdrawal and quietly still stew in depression, resentment, and the fear that
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  their contributions will never be adequate, or at least never enough to attract a
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  life partner or obtain societal status. This withdrawal partially explains why the sex rates
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  have dropped in young men but not young women. Well they are dropping in
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  women too. Oh yeah, they are dropping significantly. Women are now more
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  sexless than men. I think, yeah, there there is that, But
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  um, women can have sex a lot easier than men, so maybe the
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  access that's a surprised. Yeah, I may surprised because they're they're not They're
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  not. I mean, we have this this belief that women can have sex
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  more easily than men. But the truth is that any kind of because because
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  the level of risk aversion in the average woman has been increasing exponentially. Think
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  about it, like, if you are so terrified you're not going to have
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  sex, and it's and it's not necessarily because you don't want sex, it's
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  because you're terrified about any of the process to get it, like um.
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  And the more that men don't approach women, the more women have to approach
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  men, and they're not going to do it, So they'll just stit there
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  like a female marijuana plant, stewing in their own sexual frustration because they're too
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  afraid to take matters into their own hands, so to speak, you know.
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  And so the idea that I don't know women are willingly opting out of
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  sex, well yeah, I mean if they were, because men sort of
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  approach this issue in terms of their own thinking like, oh well, I
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  mean if I had a woman's vast array of options, I would be drowning
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  in sex. But you got to think about it from a woman's point of
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  view. You can't handle any kind of rejection, So you can't approach a
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  man to ask for sex. You can't handle the idea of maybe meeting a
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  strange man who hasn't been vetted by your by anyone that you know, so
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  you can't really get on the internet and do that. And I mean,
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  the the the sheer level of fear response and the average woman now is paging
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  her into a sexless existence. And I mean it really struck me that like
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  a couple of episodes ago, we we talked, we talked about the Leprager
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  use. I think it was my mesies mesis what it means. It was
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  a libertarian out that the libertarian. Yes, okay, you know what I
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  just I just labeled a bunch of I think libertarian things and didn't get the
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  right one is definitely a libertarian. I don't know what I mean. Maybe
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  okay, but the Tom Tom Woods Thomas Woods, um. He the guests
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  talked about how it's actually requires more courage for a woman to get married and
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  have children and have a family, or even just get married to open herself
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  up to loving another person then it does just to get a paycheck. It
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  actually requires more courage, and he's right, and it also requires more courage
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  for women to avail themselves of the sexual options that men think they have,
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  but women don't have them if they're too terrified to use them. So it's
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  like women's men are cock blocked by the the the whole artific the whole edifice
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  of how society structures this thing. Like they're cock blocked by how they're constantly
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  being advertised as horrible and toxic. They're cock blocked by how they are being
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  excluded from being from and they're not only expected to be providers, they're excluded
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  from being providers at the same time, like female only scholarships, female only
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  jobs, female only diversity quotas, on and on and on, and all
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  of this is stopping men from accessing sex. Well, the same narrative is
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  changing women in the cowardly like isolation cell, where even though they have the
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  opportunity to pursue all of these avenues for relationships and human connection, they don't
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  because they're too scared. And now they're becoming more and more sexless because everything
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  is becoming even like their whole world is becoming fear. It sounds like,
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  and not surprisingly, women's misery increases and their violence towards each other increases as
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  we as we go into the end game. And um, so yes,
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  women are are. We could say that women have these options, but they
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  don't have these options, like a person who has a severe who's severely agoraphobic,
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  has the option to walk out their front door. I mean, because
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  everybody does, but they really don't because they're too afraid to do it.
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  Their fear is caging them. And that's where women, That's where a lot
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  of women are at. Their fear is caging them from from human connection.
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  Now, so it's this is this seems to be like a it seems like
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  a really unpleasant, um unpleasant thing that we are pursuing, as in in
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  the name of somehow benefiting women. This seems like it's getting more and more
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  unpleasant for women. But you know, let's keep let's you know, we
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  were well past the point where we could stop, so let's just keep going.
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  M Let's see how miserable we can get women. Let's see if we
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  can get it so that women are have the same suicide rates as men.
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  Okay, why not? That's the new feminist equality goal, all right,
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  all right, so, um so, given the confusing state of masculinity,
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  it probably won't surprise anyone that when researchers studied the last words of suicidal men,
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  they found the two most i'm in words used were useless and worthless,
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  unbelievable. No, no, not at all, not at all. We
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  should all know the statistics by now. Although depression rates are higher in women,
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  young men die by suicide at four times the rate of young women.
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  But wait a minute, but wait a minute. Doesn't that kind of suggest
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  that there isn't a strong correlation between depression and suicide or that men are less
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  likely to get useful treatment for depression Because we know what the American Psychological Association's
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  guidelines are for treating men with that are struggling with mental health. We know
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  that it doesn't look like therapy is, let's say, a cure all solution
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  to people that are struggling with whatever they're struggling with mental health issues. I
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  guess I don't know that that's super useful information. Like what I noticed is
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  that people are no longer forming friendships, and they're not forming relationships, and
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  they're not close to their family members, and they don't have people in their
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  community that's spend time with. They don't have they don't go to church,
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  they don't know their priests. Whatever it is, right, we've always had
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  that for most of American history, to the extent that we can, but
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  all of that's been pushed away and now pip all of a sudden, with
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  that going down, there's a rise in especially women going to therapists and gurus
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  and they're I don't know, personal trainer or pilates instructor whatever it is,
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  and it's not helping them. I think that, and this is the I
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  know this is a digression, but I think that I don't think that therapists
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  are that useful. I think that people should have people in their lives,
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  like they should have a significant other. They should have their their parents,
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  their siblings, if they have siblings. Again, that's another aspect. I'm
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  noticing people are having smaller and smaller families, so fewer and fewer siblings.
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  Um, they should have uncle's aunts. Uh. They should have their coach,
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  their priests, their commanding officer there, whatever, the people that they
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  can confide in to help them. And I don't think they have it.
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  And I think that it's it's bad for everyone. But I think that women
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  are more likely to like be vocally displeased by it and try to like go
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  to help, ask for help whatever, and men are more likely to just
• 26:51
  kind of try to bear it. But they need that we all need that,
• 26:55
  and I don't. I don't. My personal opinion, I don't think
• 26:59
  the therapists are necessarily the answer. Um. I think that we treat it
• 27:03
  too much like a you know, well, like medication and like oh you
• 27:07
  have a headache, Well here's gonna leave. Right, you don't feel so
• 27:11
  well, go see a therapist. I don't know that they're very useful.
• 27:12
  I could be wrong, but that's my that's my belief. Sorry for the
• 27:21
  no. That's okay. I mean, that's that's fine. That's what we're
• 27:26
  here for. Yeah, digressing, I mean if women, if women had
• 27:30
  friends and they had a boyfriend or a husband that they loved and they would
• 27:34
  like confide in, right, and if not that at least like your mother
• 27:37
  or your father or your aunt, uncle, brothers, sisters, you know
• 27:44
  that they might be able to help them. I mean I don't know.
• 27:47
  Like here where I live, something I've noticed when I was in Chicago,
• 27:52
  there was a lot more atomization. People were keeping to themselves. They didn't
• 27:56
  they didn't have good relationship with their parents or their family. They didn't go
• 28:00
  to church, they didn't have any community thing except for school, you know,
• 28:06
  like whatever they or their job, and it sort of like centers your
• 28:11
  life around those things which are I think less important. I mean, it's
• 28:14
  important, but it's not as important. But here in Virginia, like I
• 28:19
  mean, people are so neighborly and they're and they're really big on community.
• 28:26
  And yes, there's a lot of churches here. It's a very religious place
• 28:30
  compared to Chicago. But there's a lot of community here. There's a lot
• 28:33
  of people like looking out for each other. You know, it's a small
• 28:37
  town. So well it's not really small, but it's definitely bigger than Kelvington,
• 28:41
  but it's a lot smaller than Chicago. I think that I don't know,
• 28:45
  I just I just think we're missing something. This woman sounds like she's
• 28:49
  from a really big city like London, and she's just like, well,
• 28:52
  you know, men aren't going to therapy, and it's like maybe that's not
• 28:56
  what they need. Maybe they need friends. They need these guys to go
• 29:00
  fishing with, guys to go like just like sit in the living room and
• 29:04
  smoke cigars and listen to music, chat whatever it is. I don't know.
• 29:12
  Yeah, Okay, let's let's keep going, all right, Um,
• 29:18
  we should all statistics Oh yeah, right, Unfortunately, men are also indoctrinated
• 29:22
  to suffer silently by who a recent study, Yeah, before you continue,
• 29:29
  just pull it down a bit because because the yeah yeah thing, I know.
• 29:33
  Yeah, sorry, yeah, just I'll just move on this side and
• 29:38
  you'll still have to keep it. It doesn't really matter what side. Yeah,
• 29:44
  no, okay, keep going, all right. Um. Recent study
• 29:49
  found men who die by suicide were less likely to have been diagnosed with depression.
• 29:55
  Well, because I don't think men trust mental health. Okay, depression
• 30:03
  isn't well, first of all, it doesn't like depression is a mental illness.
• 30:07
  Okay, suicide and men is something completely different. It's when in my
• 30:12
  opinion, now I might be completely wrong, but this is what I've based
• 30:15
  on all of the evidence that I've read, and I've read a lot of
• 30:18
  evidence, and I have a very much more open mind, shall we say,
• 30:22
  about social pressures on men than a lot of these individuals. Okay,
• 30:26
  suicide appears to be when the usual coping skills that men have, which is
• 30:33
  to exteriorize and to not not in a bad way, but to look at
• 30:41
  what they can do, just start to fail them. And it's not just
• 30:45
  it's not it's not an issue of toxic masculinity or or they they don't they
• 30:51
  don't want it to be female. Well, first of all, nobody should
• 30:53
  have to behave in a certain way to get access to the resources they need.
• 31:00
  Um Like, then it's never I don't think it's rarely the patience problem.
• 31:06
  It's usually practitioners. But the other thing is that their role and and
• 31:12
  nothing informed by feminism can help men overcome this. Their role is to protect
• 31:19
  and provide for others, to be useful for others, and when they feel
• 31:23
  that they've failed in that role, it becomes a forced multiplier. Like likes
• 31:30
  you get, they get into a negative thought spiral that they cannot stop,
• 31:34
  all right, And they can't stop it because they're never told that they have
• 31:40
  value in and of themselves. And I know that like a lot of people
• 31:42
  will resist this, but in my experience, if you tell a man who's
• 31:47
  struggling with this negative thought spiral, no, you have something worth fighting for
• 31:51
  inside you, it doesn't turn him into a useless potato. He actually just
• 31:56
  digs deeper and fights harder. Okay, And so we have a society that
• 32:01
  not only doesn't tell men that they have any kind of inherent work, but
• 32:06
  also tells men that their primary influence on every other person in society that would
• 32:15
  be women is negative. So they are if they do not achieve, if
• 32:21
  they're not currently achieving some kind of benefit, then they are a burden like
• 32:27
  that if men are not curdened. Okay, So it's more than society says
• 32:32
  men need to be a provider and protector. It's that when men are incapable
• 32:37
  of fulfilling that role society that the only thing left to them is a pressor
• 32:44
  and burden in which and another word for a pressor is a burden on another
• 32:49
  person. So when men stumble, they have nothing, no story about how
• 33:00
  they have any kind of worth outside of being a provider and protector. The
• 33:05
  only story that they have is that they are an oppressor. That inherently this
• 33:09
  is the only consistent thing that men are without doing anything which is oppressive.
• 33:16
  Am I not wrong? Like if a man does nothing, feminism says he's
• 33:22
  oppressive, and there is no way that you can get away from this,
• 33:27
  because this is the predominant message about men. Absent anything else, any activity
• 33:34
  that a man is doing, any ideology that a man is doing, the
• 33:37
  only thing that feminists will say about men just as a category is that they
• 33:42
  oppressed women, and I would call him misinterests. Okay, let's call a
• 33:47
  missengriest because this is misinngry. The only thing that the only message that men
• 33:52
  have about themselves just as a category is that they oppressed women. Why so,
• 34:00
  this whole construct of feminism cannot solve this issue of male suicide because all
• 34:08
  their messaging is is if you're not providing protecting for a woman, you can
• 34:15
  providing. If you are providing for a woman, you're you're an oppressor.
• 34:19
  But you have to provide for her because if you're not providing for her,
• 34:22
  you're taking advantage of her. Okay, if you are, if you have
• 34:27
  any beliefs that aren't in line with feminism, you're oppressing her. Okay,
• 34:30
  if you if you don't take action in a way that we we tell you
• 34:37
  to, you're pressing women. All right, that's their messaging. And when
• 34:42
  you're not doing those things, you're oppressed. That the only thing left to
• 34:45
  you is that you're an oppressor. As a man, the only definition is
• 34:49
  that you're toxic. The only masculinity is toxic, and your only action is
• 34:52
  oppression. That's the only thing that you're given that that's that's the racial stats
• 34:58
  for men at birth? You get that? Is that an appropriate way of
• 35:01
  putting it? You know, you get points and oppression and you get that's
• 35:09
  that's what you get it. That's the only thing that you get at birth
• 35:13
  if you're a man and it. And it's like I said, there's no
• 35:19
  way that anybody indoctrinated in that viewpoint can solve this issue because suicide mental health
• 35:24
  issues are separate from it for men. I don't know if what it's going
• 35:29
  on with women. It seems like every woman is diagnosed with depression, so
• 35:32
  it seems irrelevant now. But for men, suicide isn't necessarily an issue of
• 35:37
  mental health. It's a it's a it's the collision between the messaging that you
• 35:44
  must protect and provide for women and feminist messaging that the natural state. If
• 35:50
  you're not currently doing that, and they all allow that you can currently be
• 35:53
  protecting women by feminizing, feminist ing or whatever it is, agreeing with them.
• 36:00
  If you're not currently doing that, then you're oppressing women. So those
• 36:04
  messages, there is no room, there's no room for men to take care
• 36:08
  of themselves in those messaging. And that's the problem. It's not a mental
• 36:13
  health issue, it's a societal messaging issue, and nobody wants to address it.
• 36:17
  Nobody wants to recognize it. Instead, what if feminists do? They
• 36:21
  just blame men more, Oh, you're committing suicide because because you're just so
• 36:28
  patriarchally oppressive that you won't embrace women's superior ways of knowing. And they deny
• 36:36
  the whole constructs. What's the feminist message, Oh, men would construct a
• 36:40
  society for their own benefit at the expensive women. Men would only ever burden
• 36:45
  women. More So, it's constantly going back to this idea of his men
• 36:50
  is a burden if he if he does anything for himself. I mean,
• 36:55
  feminism teaches men to kill themselves. I'm gonna lay that out there. Maybe
• 37:05
  people will feel like, ah, listen, you're taking it too far.
• 37:07
  We'll explain it to me like men with a Feminism literally teaches men that their
• 37:13
  natural state is a burden on women. And what the what are the two
• 37:19
  things that suicidal men say? I'm useless and I'm a burden. Yeah,
• 37:25
  then feminism blames men for feeling useless and a burden and killing themselves as a
• 37:37
  result of this. Yeah, this was Okay, all right, I got
• 37:43
  a super chow from Laane Dane. Thank you, Plane Dane, um and
• 37:51
  Plane Dane says, I feel like for five bucks. I feel like the
• 37:54
  only reason people would even care about suicide, specifically male suicide, is because
• 37:58
  a man can no longer generate any for the government to steal aka tax um.
• 38:06
  Yeah. Probably in the abstract. I mean, I'm sure that there
• 38:08
  are people in that man's life that are going to be impacted, like,
• 38:12
  not just financially, but like, you know, like his kids if he
• 38:15
  has any, and oh, hopefully his wife. I mean, I don't
• 38:21
  know, maybe, but but I think that there will be there will be
• 38:25
  people, you know, looking at like how it impacts the GDP, so
• 38:31
  you know. Um, okay, I actually have a question for you guys.
• 38:37
  I chose a really depressing topic. Is the final sort of fundraising stream?
• 38:42
  Should I continue the fundraiser? Are you guys going to help out with
• 38:45
  it? Or do you not want to help out with it? That's okay,
• 38:47
  I mean, no no pressure. I really feel bad about arm twisting
• 38:51
  with this article I think is the problem. And uh, I don't know,
• 38:57
  maybe maybe that we could do a chaser that's not quite as difficult,
• 39:01
  like do you see what? Do you get what I'm getting at? Like,
• 39:07
  I get it. I don't want to ask for more from men on
• 39:10
  as a when going through this particular article. So just just tell me if
• 39:15
  this is like uncomfortable, in which case I'll just like, I'll deal with
• 39:19
  it, you know, all right? All right, I can put it
• 39:22
  in as a pole. Yeah. Should we continue to the end of this
• 39:27
  fundraiser or do you want me to just close it off and end it?
• 39:32
  Um? All right, let's let's do the article. Hold on? Okay?
• 39:37
  Oops? Oops, sorry, and uh I told you I was gonna
• 39:44
  put it in as a pole, So okay, in the meantime, I'll
• 39:47
  read a bit more. Um. Then oh, then there is yes what
• 39:55
  Oh no, I was just noting that I was muted because I was speaking.
• 39:58
  And then yeah, don't worry about it. Okay. Then there is
• 40:00
  the education gap. In his latest book of Boys and Men, Why the
• 40:04
  modern Male is Struggling, Why it matters, and what to do about it,
• 40:07
  Richard reeves outline some alarming statistics. Let me guess this guy's a male
• 40:10
  feminist Jimmy or Michael Kimmel type. We'll see women outnumber men in colleges four
• 40:17
  to three and are more likely to graduate high school. This drop in educated
• 40:21
  men spells trouble for their future employment options. One and three men without a
• 40:24
  high school diploma has dropped out of labor force, not not unemployed, not
• 40:29
  working. Okay, it's actually worse now, Yeah, something like um,
• 40:36
  three to four to three. I'm pretty sure it's now two to it's now
• 40:43
  two to one. And the graduation rate is even worse. So men are
• 40:52
  leaving colleges, and you know, they still dominate in those degrees that are
• 40:59
  probably gonna end up making money, but they're no longer going for like the
• 41:04
  humanities or the arts or anything, because God forbid our most risk taking people
• 41:09
  be part of pushing the envelope of human expression, right him, All right,
• 41:15
  no wonder artists crap now anyway, So so this has gotten worse,
• 41:21
  These statistics have gotten worse. Yeah, I'm not I'm not crazy about these
• 41:27
  metrics because again, like like the depression thing, I don't I mean education,
• 41:34
  I mean, yeah, there's a gap, but education kind of sucks.
• 41:37
  So yeah, that are winning out in this. They aren't going into
• 41:40
  like six figures of debt for a useless degree. I'm not saying all the
• 41:45
  degrees are useless per se, but I think there's enough useless degrees that it
• 41:47
  should call into question the whole concept of universities and education. And to begin
• 41:52
  with, when a man can just go into a trade and learn under someone
• 41:58
  else like we used to do, you know, like as a like as
• 42:00
  an apprentice, or they can go into something that is functional and like you
• 42:06
  know, like electrician or plumber or whatever and make a lot of money and
• 42:12
  um, you know, maybe it doesn't necessarily have to measure their intellect,
• 42:16
  you know, in a with a piece of paper. Maybe that's not I
• 42:21
  mean, most people can't do that. So women getting more degrees doesn't really
• 42:24
  mean anything except that their their standards are going to go through the roof because
• 42:29
  they think they're they're bought into this idea that a man that's deserving of their
• 42:34
  time and attention should also have the same or a higher degree and that they
• 42:38
  should be making more money. So it's almost like you created the girl boss,
• 42:42
  and now the girl bosses are looking for a man that's a bigger boss
• 42:45
  than them because they don't actually want to be, you know, the breadwinner
• 42:49
  in most cases, and they're not finding anyone because nobody meets the meets their
• 42:53
  criteria. And the men are you know, they're they're excluded that don't have
• 43:00
  that. So I don't know. I think I think that these people are
• 43:02
  making make a mess of everything everything, Yes, a surprise, And then
• 43:08
  men and women suffer, and they they blame women suffering on men, and
• 43:14
  they claim that men are the problem, and but they continue to just again,
• 43:19
  this woman, she's putting stock in things that are not proven to actually
• 43:25
  function in the way that she claims. You know what I'm saying, And
• 43:28
  you know, yeah, I know. And you know what Zelse is interesting
• 43:30
  to me is that I noticed that you did a video on the phenomenon of
• 43:36
  the lazy girl job. Right, Oh yeah, that was an after show.
• 43:39
  Yeah, yes, um they So there's now a surgence of women laying
• 43:45
  flat that just want to do jobs that just get by. So what these
• 43:49
  individuals. And incidentally, once again, I'm not sure who made the brilliant
• 43:53
  decision to hand defining the relationship between men and women to a bunch of radical
• 43:58
  lesbian separatists, but you know, it happened. We're doing that now.
• 44:01
  But there's a bunch of women now who don't want a girl boss, who
• 44:06
  don't want to take the reins and make the necessary sacrifices to be high powered,
• 44:12
  or they're just admitting that that's what they always wanted and they didn't.
• 44:15
  Yes, but but well, but here's the thing. Like, when you
• 44:20
  look at hunter gatherers societies, it's men's productivity that that incentivizes women's productivity,
• 44:27
  which incentivizes men's productivity. So when you destroy the relationship and the reward system
• 44:31
  between men and women, you don't get girl bosses. You get just get
• 44:37
  demotivated men and women. Like the radical feminist paradise is never going to happen
• 44:45
  because women don't do shit without men. Men. Women are also motivated by
• 44:50
  men. Look at the biggest goddamn industry in writing now. It's romance fiction,
• 44:55
  and what it is is simply a woman being motivated by deduced something or
• 45:00
  question yourself by a man. Women are motivated by men to be productive.
• 45:05
  So you're never going to get this rade fantasy. It's it's as it's as
• 45:08
  ridiculous as communism. No offense to the communes. I know that you know,
• 45:14
  I can understand why you want it. On the surface, it seems
• 45:19
  really really positive. But if they're, if they're, if you once you
• 45:27
  just poke it a little bit, it falls apart because you have no way
• 45:30
  of incentivizing people to be productive. And then when you bring lesbian separatists feminists
• 45:35
  to define the relationship between men and women, you have no reason that men
• 45:39
  and women have no longer any reason to be productive for each other. And
• 45:45
  we get what we have now. We got a mess, a gigantic,
• 45:49
  goddamn mess, and everybody's unhappy. Yeah, but only men are actually doing
• 45:55
  something about it by doing by and hearing themselves. Well, anyways, for
• 46:04
  me, she's like two strikes already. One strike one. Therapy is the
• 46:08
  only way to keep people from committing suicide, and it's men should be using
• 46:15
  it, even though therapy and all mental health services are literally anti male.
• 46:20
  And number two, men should have more useless degrees because that would somehow make
• 46:25
  their life more fulfilling. I think that what she's using the degrees about is
• 46:30
  more like a symptom of something being wrong. Yeah, yeah, something's wrong
• 46:35
  with education. It's gotta I'm with Vivic Brahmaswamy. Just the whole Department of
• 46:40
  Education has to go. It has to be burned to the ground, and
• 46:45
  I will piss on the ashes and we'll just come up with something else.
• 46:47
  You know, everybody around here, they homeschool and their kids are got for
• 46:52
  that art. Unfortunately, I'm gonna just to read this paragraph. Unfortunatelyn are
• 46:55
  also a doctrinated to suffer silently. A recent study found that men who die
• 47:00
  suicide would less likely to have been diagnosed with depression. Okay, so yes,
• 47:04
  she deserves a strike for that. Not necessarily a strike ideologically, but
• 47:07
  just rationally. You cannot assume by the fact that men who were who were
• 47:13
  who committed suicide weren't diagnosed with depression, that they actually had it. Depression
• 47:19
  is a specific mental illness. It isn't just like, oh, depression equal
• 47:22
  suicide, all right. You Like the thing is, you cannot make that
• 47:29
  connection. There was something that entirely could have been something some other pressure.
• 47:34
  And in fact, when you look at the statistics, it's the breakdown of
• 47:37
  a relationship or a relationship being troubled, which usually means abusive. So men
• 47:44
  are more likely to commit suicide as a result of relationship breakdown or a troubled
• 47:47
  relationship. So these these men weren't necessarily depressed. They simply had to come
• 47:55
  face to face with viewing them elves in terms of being a provider and protector
• 48:01
  for a woman and having that taken away and not knowing who they were and
• 48:08
  what worth they had outside of that. It's as simple as that. You
• 48:13
  don't have to appeal to a mental illness which is completely separate from that from
• 48:16
  that dynamic, nor should you considering the uh, the actual finding that there
• 48:22
  isn't a necessarily an association um with depression and suicide in men. Okay,
• 48:30
  I just want to point that it's a it's a point against her for rationality,
• 48:32
  irrationality and making assumpsons that she can't. Yeah, I got a super
• 48:37
  chat across Malachy Malarkey for five not five dollars. Those trades often are only
• 48:46
  hiring in certain areas and have become boomerized. You need to already know before
• 48:51
  you apply or you get nothing. Um well, I think it's worth looking
• 48:57
  into anyway, and BLUs you can learn a lot of shit just going on
• 48:59
  the internet. You can learn how to do shit. So I'm just saying
• 49:02
  like, maybe, um, I don't think that going into you know,
• 49:08
  five or six figures in debt just to like get a piece of paper that
• 49:14
  allows you to do a job that you can probably learn on your own.
• 49:16
  It's something that we should certainly be challenging as a concept, is all I'm
• 49:20
  saying. Okay, So because I think that we've just made this, you
• 49:24
  know, assumption that if you're if you graduate grammar school, you're smart,
• 49:29
  if you graduate high school you're smarter, and if you graduate college you're really
• 49:32
  smart. Um, And I don't think that it actually bears out. I
• 49:36
  mean, I don't know how many people of PhDs are absolute morons. So
• 49:38
  I wouldn't buy into like just defeatism. There. Oh, I'm not buying
• 49:44
  into defeatism. I'm not talking about I'm talking about the act. No,
• 49:47
  I don't think men want want that. They want. They they're you know,
• 49:51
  they're gonna if they want to make make a way in this world,
• 49:57
  they're gonna scrape at whatever they can get their hands. Here's the thing that
• 50:00
  we're living in a time where there's more access to more resources and more knowledge
• 50:05
  than ever in history. So why don't use that? Yes, I mean,
• 50:08
  like, okay, yes, the situation is pretty awful. Well,
• 50:12
  first of all, there's not much if you if you're going to go to
• 50:15
  college, go to get a degree that'll make money. Obviously, avoid interacting
• 50:20
  with women as much as possible. If you're going to consider a trade instead,
• 50:25
  if if, if, if college isn't of interest to you, and
• 50:29
  yes, you you will probably have to apprentice. You'll probably have to start
• 50:32
  from the from the been, the ground up. But at the other hand,
• 50:37
  at the end of the day, when you're part of an industry that's
• 50:39
  actually responsible for keeping society running, you'll get a sense of purpose from that
• 50:46
  that may be very beneficial to you. And it will be completely separate from
• 50:52
  a relationship with a woman. And I think that's important as well. Yeah,
• 50:58
  and you know, just know that if you do get or if you
• 51:00
  do get a job and some essential service UM. Basically that's not like being
• 51:08
  a financial courtier to the to the fed. UM. You are providing a
• 51:15
  valuable service to society and UM and that's that's important. And uh, you
• 51:22
  know, take taste like you're you know, truck driver, UM, linemen
• 51:30
  lobster fisher, barklift operator, warehouse UM slinger of things. You know,
• 51:37
  all of that, all of that physical work needs to be done and it's
• 51:40
  mostly being done by men physical, dangerous and unpleasant. It's mostly being done
• 51:45
  by men, and it's mostly being done by men because they're men, and
• 51:49
  it's vitally important. And um, I mean whenever I go to the city,
• 51:53
  I always observe like the crews were operating, and you know, there's
• 51:59
  still is a bit of that kind of mentor mail mentorship going on with the
• 52:04
  construction crews and which is you know, you might find that to be very
• 52:07
  heartening as well. Just h I hate to pour up to look at the
• 52:14
  anything positive from the Barbie movie, but to have can actually stop identifying Barbie
• 52:23
  as a source of his self worth was is a good message. Um.
• 52:30
  All of the rest of it is massively confusing. I still don't understand why
• 52:37
  anyone would make anyone pledge allegiance to that mess of contradictory themes. But that
• 52:43
  is a message that I think that we could take from it and throw everything
• 52:45
  else out. Just don't don't hang your hat on a woman, don't hang
• 52:52
  your hat on having one, don't hang your hat on providing for one.
• 52:55
  And I know that's really difficult, but you know other other this is this
• 53:01
  is the this is the um, this is the verdone. This is like
• 53:06
  the norm the beaches of Normandy. This is the depression for this. This
• 53:08
  generation of men is just that is learning to not do that in a world
• 53:16
  that's taught you that over and over and over again. Okay, so this,
• 53:24
  Oh, do you have something? What? No, I don't have
• 53:28
  anything. Further, I just want to say, I do have a superchow.
• 53:31
  I'm going to read it. But before I do, I looked up
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  this guy, Richard Reives, who wrote this book A Voice of Men,
• 53:38
  Why the modern Male is struggling and why it matters and what to do about
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  it. Um, he's a male feminist, just like I predicted, because
• 53:45
  the only men that speak on men's issues that like the media will give any
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  airtime to are male feminist men as long as they put women first in every
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  instance. And when men are brought into the picture, they are brought in
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  as men that need to essentially fix themselves because it would be better for women.
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  That's I mean, they're going, that's going to be the guy all
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  the time. And I have some evidence of this. He has a website
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  at Richard Reeves dot com and there's an article. Well, he's written a
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  bunch of essays and one of them is called one hundred years on politics is
• 54:21
  where the US lags most on gender equality. Now, when he says gender
• 54:23
  equality, he means women. He means not enough women, not enough women
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  in power. Has to change. It's just awful, right. But so
• 54:34
  anyone who does that, in my mind, okay, anyone who does that
• 54:37
  immediately disqualified you. You're not you don't actually give a shit about men.
• 54:42
  You are just like wearing the skin suit of a guy who cares about men
• 54:46
  while blaming like basically blaming men for everything and claiming women are actually the biggest
• 54:52
  victims. So when men suffer, it's their fault. When women suffer,
• 54:57
  it's men's fault. So anyway, I just wanted to say that um Plain
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  Dane gives us a five dollars and says, men are societies be suburden,
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  but we are also viewed and treated like beasts. Feminists come along, grabs
• 55:15
  us by the risks and forces us to punch ourselves in the face while yelling
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  why are you hitting yourself? This is what I think when I hear them
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  spew terms like toxic masculinity and patriarchy. Yeah, like again, but here's
• 55:30
  the thing, you know that you can do you can create a society and
• 55:37
  you can be motivated by the fact that you're also taking care of other men.
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  I mean, think about it. You know he might be be Suburdenum.
• 55:46
  You know, you might be doing the jobs that need to get done,
• 55:50
  but you're not just taking care of women. You're also taking care of
• 55:52
  other men. Maybe that's too too homosexual. Um, but um, like
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  this isn't just a situation where, um, you know, women will suffer
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  if men don't do these jobs. Like, but the thing is that look
• 56:08
  at the look at the survivor island. Okay, those guys were having a
• 56:13
  blast. And what were they doing. They were just working together to make
• 56:17
  a world better for each other. Is that gay? I don't know.
• 56:22
  No, I don't think men think that it's gay either. I think that
• 56:25
  feminists would try to like make it look gay to to try and discuss men.
• 56:30
  But no, I think men know the difference between you know, um,
• 56:35
  male bonding and friendships and like an orgy. I think they know the
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  difference. Okay, all right, So and regardless, you know, I'm
• 56:44
  not going to judge whatever. Um. The the the whole idea of that
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  that that that island that the men were on and they were they were just
• 56:52
  they were just doing their thing, and they were making life easier for each
• 56:57
  other, not what women were doing, but that's what we're doing. So
• 57:00
  can you be motivated by realizing that your job is making life easier for another?
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  Men? I mean, if if it is that possible, does it
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  always have to be for women? Is what I'm getting at. And yes,
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  I know that men are very powerfully motivated by women, but I don't
• 57:22
  know what to say, Like, the average woman seems to not really want
• 57:25
  a man, she's been brainwashed. I mean, she lives in absolutely well.
• 57:34
  I mean, the most the thing that I've heard most about about happiness
• 57:38
  is that single women are happiest. They're not. Married women are twice as
• 57:45
  happy as single women. Yeah, and yet what what is the predominant thing?
• 57:50
  They went? They like, they they they dodged all of the evidence
• 57:53
  that married women are happier. Found the one guy who interpreted the statistics in
• 58:00
  an idiosyncratic way unique to him to find out that single women, Oh yeah,
• 58:05
  they're they're actually happier. It's like, no, they aren't. So
• 58:10
  yeah, women are not happy without men, period. But for whatever reason,
• 58:15
  they've got this huge dick up their ass and they don't want to acknowledge
• 58:20
  it anymore. Even married women are like har har harroring to themselves about that
• 58:24
  statistic. Oh yeah, Harold just makes me miserable. I'd be happier without
• 58:30
  him, har har harror. Like I have, I have. I try
• 58:38
  to explain things in such a way that women retain some kind of sympathy so
• 58:44
  we understand, you know, the pressures that they're under. But I am
• 58:46
  starting to get to the point where I can't anymore. This behavior is despicable.
• 58:52
  I mean, and then there's all the women who are constantly talking about,
• 58:55
  oh but domestic violence and rape, and I'm like, and I look
• 59:00
  at that, and I think, you know, I can show them the
• 59:02
  statistics that should make them question, at the very least the idea that men
• 59:08
  are the vast majority of rapists. Well, yeah they are if you define
• 59:13
  rapeists something that can only be done with a penis, which most of these
• 59:16
  these studies do. I mean, they construct this, this gigantic hatred towards
• 59:22
  men, or this gigantic anger towards men, using statistics that are manufactured by
• 59:28
  people who want to overemphasize female victimhood in order to make money, and you
• 59:32
  show them the statistics that prove that this isn't so, And it's just like
• 59:37
  bouncing a goddamn rubber ball off a fucking goddamn brick wall. They don't want
• 59:44
  to know. They want to fucking be angry and hateful towards men. This
• 59:49
  is what they want. They want to be angry and hateful towards men,
• 59:52
  and they want to keep come more and more and more and more and more
• 59:57
  miserable and violent to towards each other. And that's what they're choosing for themselves.
• 1:00:02
  And I look at this and I don't. I can't. I have
• 1:00:05
  nothing left for apology for women's behavior nothing. I have nothing left to say
• 1:00:13
  an apology for this except one thing. But I'm not going to get into
• 1:00:19
  it, because that's not what this is about. I've had a digression.
• 1:00:22
  That's fine, all right. I think I've read all of the super chats
• 1:00:27
  and child so let's continue. Um okay. But what's truly frustrating about the
• 1:00:35
  education gap is it didn't happen overnight. Men's education levels began dropping in the
• 1:00:42
  nineteen eighties. Why are we finally addressing it now? I don't know,
• 1:00:45
  because feminism didn't allow it. Reeves solution is to red shirt boys have them
• 1:00:50
  enrolled in school a year later to address developmental delays. When I first heard
• 1:00:53
  this solution, I balked, But Reeves makes a valid point. We adjusted
• 1:00:58
  STEM programs to act more women, but never change the education system to address
• 1:01:02
  the boys who lag in the emotional intelligence. Okay, emotional intelligence, this
• 1:01:15
  is what education is now. Reeves also points out that this men as providers
• 1:01:22
  belief endures despite the closing wage gap within marriages. According to a twenty twenty
• 1:01:27
  one US Bureau of Labor statistic study, thirty percent of wives now earn more
• 1:01:31
  than their husbands, but as mad men, masculinity is left behind. With
• 1:01:36
  poodle skirts and bullet braws. Many men are not rejoicing. Literally, not
• 1:01:42
  a reality that ever happened in the way that you think it, Jesus Christ.
• 1:01:47
  Households in which the wife was the breadwinner are fifty percent more likely to
• 1:01:52
  end in divorce, and husbands who make less than their wives are more likely
• 1:01:55
  to cheat. What back up for a second, Alison, and you're muted.
• 1:02:02
  I don't know if you're trying to talk, but no, I'm trying
• 1:02:07
  to follow this um so she's saying, So when you throw these statistics out
• 1:02:12
  there and you don't give like any more context, Okay, households in which
• 1:02:16
  the wife is the breadwinner are fifty percent more likely to end in divorce who
• 1:02:22
  initiates the divorce, and husbands who make less than their wives are more likely
• 1:02:28
  to cheat. Why not? Like? Does it like? Men just don't
• 1:02:32
  Oh my wife makes more than me. Well, I guess I'm gonna go
• 1:02:36
  bang this other chick. Why does it happen? What is the problem with
• 1:02:39
  the relationship dynamic? Is there something about a woman a wife making more money
• 1:02:45
  than her husband that creates tension? Not just because the husband feels emasculated.
• 1:02:51
  That's a bullshit thing. I mean, like, how does the wife feel
• 1:02:54
  about making more than her husband? How? How does like that's what I
• 1:02:59
  think needs to be Oh, well, I actually have a question. How
• 1:03:05
  much more likely are uh, how much more likely that the wives are all
• 1:03:15
  sull to cheat? Well that well, they're not. That's again, they're
• 1:03:19
  not. They're not talking about that either. How yeah, exactly, Like
• 1:03:22
  what if a wife who's making more money is more likely to cheat too,
• 1:03:24
  because she's still looking to level up, She's looking to trade up right,
• 1:03:31
  But I mean it happens. It's a reality. It's a reality, like
• 1:03:35
  hypergamy is real. So why wouldn't that Why is that not? Why is
• 1:03:39
  that not a can? You're batting factors to who the divorce rate? How
• 1:03:43
  how many times does a man who makes less than a woman get a divorce
• 1:03:46
  and take half her ship? What's the risk? Probably not much? Okay,
• 1:03:52
  So women who earn higher salaries are also than their partner are also more
• 1:03:57
  likely to cheat. Okay, So essentially what they're finding Okay, so this
• 1:04:01
  is a meaningless finding. Men report more likeliness to cheat than women. Um.
• 1:04:08
  This may not be because men are more likely to cheat. It may
• 1:04:10
  just be because men are more likely to be honest in these surveys. So
• 1:04:14
  we have men who earn more are more likely to cheat, and men who
• 1:04:16
  earn less are more likely to cheat because overall, men are more likely to
• 1:04:20
  say or to confess to cheating than women. So this is meaningless. This
• 1:04:27
  is absolutely a distortion of the situation. Yea, Um, so okay,
• 1:04:35
  let's just ignore that. That's that is another statistics are meaningless because there's they're
• 1:04:42
  just like these little nuggets out of like a broader conto. It also found
• 1:04:46
  it also found that religious beliefs and satisfaction and relationship correlate negatively with cheating.
• 1:04:53
  What a surprise. Yeah, okay, so this is whatever that means a
• 1:04:59
  lot more look into it and the methodology to figure out what's going on there.
• 1:05:02
  But it looks more like men just confess to cheating more. Um I
• 1:05:09
  I'm trying to figure out. Men and women who earn much larger salaries than
• 1:05:13
  their partner are also more likely to cheat. The study finds, although women
• 1:05:16
  are half is likely to cheat. So basically it's just women are less likely
• 1:05:19
  to confess to cheating. All right, that this is the finding. Let
• 1:05:25
  us move on from that, all right? Yes, Oh and also women,
• 1:05:30
  here's a correlation here. Women in the hosts households that stay at home
• 1:05:33
  more likely to be religious too. Yeah, I'm just gonna put that out
• 1:05:36
  there, all right, Let's keep going. Our core feminists scold men for
• 1:05:41
  not evolving fast enough. You mean just feminists, not necessarily hardcore one.
• 1:05:45
  Yeah, Like, I don't know why you're tend to scold men for about
• 1:05:49
  women tend to do that. But why should men's beliefs change when society constantly
• 1:05:56
  reinforces anachronistic ideals of masculinity. Okay, I've got to get in here.
• 1:06:00
  I've got to get in here. Men's role doesn't. Essentially, men's role
• 1:06:06
  is to provide stuff almost consistently throughout history. It's to provide for women,
• 1:06:12
  either protection if that's the necessary thing, or provision or both. So the
• 1:06:16
  men's role is to sacrifice to make sure women are okay, which makes one
• 1:06:23
  hundred percent sense in the context of pair bonding and child wearing. All right,
• 1:06:30
  that's their role. So when women say that men haven't evolved their role,
• 1:06:35
  so what you're saying is men haven't provided enough for women by changing into
• 1:06:41
  this other thing that women don't know what it is, because I don't think
• 1:06:45
  that women want to challenge the idea that men define themselves by providing and protecting.
• 1:06:49
  What's happened is that we have become so successful we can make it seem
• 1:06:55
  like men's provision and protection isn't We can be it. We're so successful,
• 1:07:00
  we can hide the gears of society from women. Basically, we can make
• 1:07:05
  it seem like women are living in a world where they aren't being protected and
• 1:07:10
  provided for, when in fact, they very much are because we are so
• 1:07:15
  successful that we can even afford drapes to hide the workmen. Basically, all
• 1:07:18
  right, now, how and now women are saying, well, what is
• 1:07:25
  men haven't figured out the new thing to protect and provide it, to visibly
• 1:07:28
  protect and provide us from. They've constructed all this weird shit like feminism.
• 1:07:32
  Women, men can protect us from patriarchal mind raise through feminism or some shit,
• 1:07:38
  But basically, this is it. What these women are saying is men,
• 1:07:43
  we feel like we are not being protected and provided for because we can't
• 1:07:46
  see the visible work of men doing so. So we need new things that
• 1:07:50
  men can protect and provide us for. That's not changing men's role or even
• 1:07:56
  challenging it. That's just asking for them to do it again in a different
• 1:08:00
  way. Like they say, it's like, okay, when you hire a
• 1:08:05
  guy to um remodel your kitchen and you're like, you know, I don't
• 1:08:13
  know if I like, uh a stained oak. I think I would prefer
• 1:08:17
  a more modern look. Can you do like a I think we were,
• 1:08:23
  Well, it's update it to to like I don't uh, painted painted panels
• 1:08:30
  or something. I prefer that you haven't actually changed his role. You've just
• 1:08:38
  asked for something new. Okay, he's still there remodeling your kitchen. Ladies,
• 1:08:45
  men are still there, and you're still viewing them in terms of providing
• 1:08:47
  and protecting. And incidentally, when you solely view men in terms of providing
• 1:08:53
  and protecting and they feel they're incapable of doing so, yeah, what happens
• 1:08:59
  to them? They think of themselves as useless and worthless, and they remove
• 1:09:05
  burden from society. They're the burden that they represent from society. So no,
• 1:09:11
  women are not demanding men change their role. They're demanding that men do
• 1:09:15
  some new thing. And incidentally, using my remodeling the kitchen metaphor more pushing
• 1:09:23
  it till it breaks, the woman who's hired the man to remodel her kitchen
• 1:09:28
  is basically saying, no, I don't like the stained oak. Can you
• 1:09:31
  do something that I would like? And then he's like, okay, what
• 1:09:35
  would that be, madam? And she's like, I don't know, try
• 1:09:40
  it and let's see. Good lord. And also I'm not paying you anymore
• 1:09:46
  for it. In fact, I'm paying you less because I'm not happy,
• 1:09:50
  Like, walk away, this is ridiculous. Just walk This may be the
• 1:09:58
  biggest ask anyone who's her, asked men, stop caring. She has her,
• 1:10:04
  she has her oak stained cabinets. Walk away, and I guess that's
• 1:10:12
  depressing. But whatever. Okay, all right, back to the article.
• 1:10:16
  Do you have any thank you to give? Oh? Yes I do.
• 1:10:20
  Good Um, doctor Voltaire Voltaire, I hope that's not your legal name,
• 1:10:28
  gives us twenty five dollars. Thank you, Voltaire, thank you. Has
• 1:10:31
  anybody said anything in the in the in the um the pole. Yeah,
• 1:10:39
  yes, we should continue this fundraiser with this article, so it's always well,
• 1:10:44
  I'll just continue the fundraiser, all right, okay, then I'll do
• 1:10:47
  some arm twisting. Um. Oh good lord. This is a very difficult
• 1:10:56
  one. Guys, so I have to figure out how to fucking care about
• 1:11:01
  yourselves. All right. We're never gonna stop talking about this. We're never
• 1:11:04
  gonna start, at least I'm not Brian wins the lottery. He might be
• 1:11:10
  out of here, but I'm just kidding for I think. But I'm never
• 1:11:15
  going to stop talking about this. You know, this is really critically important.
• 1:11:19
  Men need to know that you have worth, and like men, you
• 1:11:25
  need to know you have worth just just by being there. You have potential.
• 1:11:30
  You have the ability to take another step forward and improve your circumstance,
• 1:11:35
  improve your world if that's what you want. But know that you have worth.
• 1:11:42
  You're worth because you're a man, because you have the hormonal system that
• 1:11:45
  allows you to take risks. And maybe the biggest risk in your life will
• 1:11:50
  be to try to find value outside of being a beast of burden for women.
• 1:11:57
  But take it because because you deserve that. You deserve it for yourself.
• 1:12:04
  And if you can't do it for you, do it for me,
• 1:12:08
  Do it for Brian, do it for everybody who cares about men. Okay,
• 1:12:13
  and also consider, like I'm never gonna not You're not paying me to
• 1:12:17
  think this way, right, You're not paying me to look at this world
• 1:12:21
  and say, what the hell are we doing to men? Why don't we
• 1:12:26
  care about men? Why don't we give them what they need? When they
• 1:12:30
  they they fail to live up to our expectations, we give them like a
• 1:12:33
  soft place to land, Like you still have value, you know, try
• 1:12:36
  try to try the mountain again. You got this, Maybe not the mountain,
• 1:12:41
  Try something different. We don't do that. We say for protect and
• 1:12:45
  provide for women, or you're worthless. And then we say, but you
• 1:12:49
  also don't do that because you construct a society like we demand this of them
• 1:12:54
  and we gaslight men about it, and that you're not going to be paying
• 1:12:58
  for me because I will always think this way, because I walked through all
• 1:13:01
  of the evidence, and I came to this conclusion over a lot of research,
• 1:13:08
  analyzing every single argument that feminists make, that men are oppressive, that
• 1:13:14
  men aren't defined by caring about women are instead defined by oppressing them. And
• 1:13:18
  I have come to this not even from a position of I care about men,
• 1:13:23
  but simply from a position of what is reality? And you cannot argue
• 1:13:27
  me out of that without arguments. You can't do it by beating on me
• 1:13:30
  with insults. You can't do it by putting money in front of my face
• 1:13:35
  and saying, well, if you believe this, you'd actually have five times
• 1:13:41
  the salary in a freaking office in Manhattan. No, this is reality,
• 1:13:46
  and reality I'm not walking away from it. So you can't pay me to
• 1:13:51
  say these things. You can only pay me to say these things every day.
• 1:13:58
  Do you see the difference to be able to say these things every day,
• 1:14:01
  to be able to make sure that there's someone out there telling men that
• 1:14:06
  no, you're being gaslet. You actually are motivated by caring about women.
• 1:14:13
  You are motivated by protecting and providing women. You're being gaslet when feminists say,
• 1:14:17
  oh, men would construct the society for the benefit of men at the
• 1:14:21
  expensive women. Bullshit, This would never happen. Ever, this is gaslighting
• 1:14:28
  at the same time as feminists rely on the very construct that they say doesn't
• 1:14:33
  exist. Men caring about women. And there's nobody who could pay me to
• 1:14:38
  say this if this wasn't the truth. Nobody. I have repeatedly when people,
• 1:14:44
  when there are people who give us money and say, oh, well,
• 1:14:46
  will you do this or will you say this, I'm like, yeah,
• 1:14:48
  screw you know, take it back. I'll give you a refund.
• 1:14:54
  So you cannot pay me to say this this is what I believe, but
• 1:14:59
  you can make it easier for me to say this more often with more reach,
• 1:15:03
  and also have Brian here by my side making sure that I don't go
• 1:15:08
  completely insane. So please, if you want to make sure that I continue
• 1:15:13
  to have Brian, and Brian continues to do this work, and I continue
• 1:15:17
  to do this work, and everybody continues to do this work, please help
• 1:15:20
  us out and feed the Badger dot Com slash support because there needs to be
• 1:15:24
  a voice out there telling men that they are more than being a beast of
• 1:15:30
  burden and they are well. Even more importantly, to stop the gas lighting
• 1:15:41
  that men don't define themselves. Look at this article. Men don't define themselves
• 1:15:46
  as oppressors of women. They don't seek to be oppressors of women. They
• 1:15:50
  seek to be providers and protectors of women. And when they don't achieve that,
• 1:15:56
  they kill themselves. Think about that, and think about feminists saying the
• 1:16:00
  opposite. There has to be a voice out there as loud as possible,
• 1:16:06
  and I know that I struggle with trying to make this voice louder. Believe
• 1:16:12
  me, I don't know. Like every day I feel like shit that we
• 1:16:15
  don't have a larger audience, that we don't have more people listening to us,
• 1:16:19
  And I don't know how to make it bigger, make it happen so
• 1:16:24
  that we can we can reach more men with this message that it is absolute
• 1:16:29
  bullshit. If men are willing to kill themselves because they cannot provide a protect
• 1:16:32
  for women, how could you possibly ever entertain the idea that they would construct
• 1:16:39
  a society to harm women for their own benefit. Fuck this this is monstrous,
• 1:16:47
  This is unbelievably wrong, and it needs to be opposed. And like
• 1:16:53
  I said, every day I think about it and I'm like, God,
• 1:16:57
  I am failing because I can't make more men understand this. I can't reach
• 1:17:00
  more men, I can't get a bigger platform. I can't make more people
• 1:17:04
  understand how awful this is, how cruel this is. And you know,
• 1:17:13
  I feel like I think about it and I feel like I am constantly failing
• 1:17:21
  to make this, make this as big as it needs to be anyway,
• 1:17:30
  But if you want to make sure that we can at least continue at the
• 1:17:32
  size we are, please go to feed the Badger dot com slash support And
• 1:17:39
  yeah, that would be great, because as much as horrible as it is
• 1:17:43
  to wake up each morning and look and say, wow, this message,
• 1:17:47
  I don't know if it's the message or is it me? Am I doing
• 1:17:50
  everything wrong? I know what I'm capable of, and I know what I
• 1:17:56
  can apply myself to. I'm not really immediate person, and I'm a researcher
• 1:18:01
  more than a media person, right so I know that there's gaps in my
• 1:18:05
  skills. So I'm doing the best that I can. And I wake up
• 1:18:10
  in the morning, I always feel like I wish I could do more.
• 1:18:14
  Right, But at the very least I've done something ten years now that we've
• 1:18:18
  existed, and it would be great to continue to exist longer. So I
• 1:18:26
  mean, when I think about knowing that I wish I could do more and
• 1:18:30
  then facing not being able to do anything, not being able to do anything
• 1:18:33
  is terrifying. To having to walk away from this entirely would be terrifying.
• 1:18:42
  But anyway, so if you want to make sure we can continue to at
• 1:18:45
  least talk about these things, I mean, you're never going to be paying
• 1:18:47
  me to believe something, but you can pay me to continue to talk about
• 1:18:53
  it, feed the Badger, dot com, slash support, or be able
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  to devote this much time to talking about it. All Right, there we
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  go. There, there's your arm twisting. I tried to do it in
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  such a way that wasn't Um mean, I don't know anyway, all right,
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  Um, back to the article. I guess so, yes, back
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  to the that's sorry, No, it's fine. Um all right, So,
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  but why should men's beliefs change when society constantly society women constantly real I'm
• 1:19:33
  just you know, every time I see the word society. I'm just gonna
• 1:19:35
  say women, because whenever they say society or people or culture or something,
• 1:19:41
  they they're they don't, they're just trying to avoid saying women. So,
• 1:19:44
  but why should men's beliefs change when women constantly reinforce anachronistic ideals of masculinity.
• 1:19:49
  Case in point, at twenty seventeen Pew Research Center study found that seventy one
• 1:19:54
  percent of Americans believe, quote it is very important for a man to be
• 1:19:57
  able to support a family financially to be a good husband or partner, and
• 1:20:00
  quote only thirty two percent felt a woman's financial contribution to find her as a
• 1:20:04
  good partner. How was that question framed? Not even I'm not even going
• 1:20:10
  to go there, but I bet it's women that would probably agree with that
• 1:20:14
  and that men should be doing it. Well, yeah, I mean it
• 1:20:19
  was more men, they probably would have put that in there. Yeah,
• 1:20:23
  if it was if it was men, they would have said because it just
• 1:20:26
  says seventy one percent of Americans, right, So they didn't. Again,
• 1:20:29
  they didn't specify I'll read it again with my new replacement thing. So a
• 1:20:34
  twenty seventeen Pew Research study found that seventy one percent of women believe it is
• 1:20:39
  very important for a man to be able to support a family financially to be
• 1:20:42
  a good husband or partner. Only thirty two percent of women felt a woman's
• 1:20:45
  financial contribution to find her as a good partner. Actually more cents, doesn't
• 1:20:48
  it? Okay? All right? So actually you're not off, No,
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  I know, because did the number seventy one percent of Americans actually is seventy
• 1:21:00
  one percent of women. Now seventy two percent of men believe it's important for
• 1:21:04
  men to be able to support a financial family financially. But do they believe
• 1:21:09
  it? Do these men believe it because that's what they want or because that's
• 1:21:14
  what they know women want? Right? Well, I mean, it is
• 1:21:18
  what women want. I've never even a girl boss say that she wants a
• 1:21:27
  husband who stays home clean, keeps the house clean, cooks dinner, and
• 1:21:31
  watches the kids. I've never heard it. And that they should be the
• 1:21:35
  ones carrying the burden. I mean, we already talked about the lazy girl
• 1:21:40
  job phenomenon that this woman was reporting on. I think it's just reality coming,
• 1:21:46
  you know, coming home to roost about about what women The difference between
• 1:21:50
  what women are told they want and what they actually want. So and I
• 1:21:57
  think that men know that if they let Like, I think the reason why
• 1:22:01
  most men are unhappy or are concerned about women that make more than them has
• 1:22:06
  everything to do with the woman becoming dissatisfied and leaving him. Then, and
• 1:22:13
  you know any kind of like self satisfying ego that feminists claim men have or
• 1:22:17
  making more, because if men are making more, it doesn't mean anything if
• 1:22:20
  they're giving most of what they're making to women. Oh you know it also
• 1:22:25
  doing the self satisfied ego for for protecting and providing women. You know,
• 1:22:30
  my dog is happy when he when he does a trick, and I'm happy
• 1:22:34
  with him, right, does that mean he's freaking and titled and he's egotistical?
• 1:22:40
  Like this is absolutely horrid. All men are taking pleasure and making sure
• 1:22:45
  that we're safe and provided for. How terrible, Like you, I have
• 1:22:51
  no slap that out of your mouth, ladies, Like I'm so fucking tired
• 1:22:59
  of it. Like that's just just sheer mendacity. It's like it's like saying,
• 1:23:09
  oh, a woman made a sandwich for look at look at how pleased
• 1:23:12
  and proud she is. She's oppressing him with Oh she's so she's so smug
• 1:23:17
  about her sandwich making abilities. Look at that she's luring it over him,
• 1:23:21
  Like, what the hell is your fucking until malfunction? Ladies, that she
• 1:23:27
  would even entertain this entertain feeling resentment that men take pride in being able to
• 1:23:33
  help you. M hmm, it is a mental illness. Back to the
• 1:23:42
  article. Sure, Unfortunately, any one percent of men with a high school
• 1:23:46
  education or less subscribe to this provider mentality. Sorry, while only sixty one
• 1:23:55
  men with a bachelor's degree believe the same. Probably whatever cons quickly, the
• 1:24:00
  men who most believe they should be breadwinners will also be the most likely to
• 1:24:03
  feel like failures. Well, you guys can continue to wrecking the economy by
• 1:24:12
  printing money that that will definitely help men feel better about themselves. And you've
• 1:24:16
  taken away the one thing that they want to do. And you know,
• 1:24:19
  and you don't even say fucking thank you? Have you said thank you to
• 1:24:25
  the man in your life at any point just for being good to you?
• 1:24:30
  In a perfect world, manhood will be equated with authenticity. Being a man
• 1:24:35
  should be defined by being your true self as long as your journey towards self
• 1:24:39
  actualization doesn't harm others read don't be a douchebag to get ahead. Okay,
• 1:24:43
  wait, define what does this even means? It's a feminine thing, honestly.
• 1:24:50
  Honestly, she's saying men need to men be to experience the world in
• 1:24:55
  a feminine way. That's authenticity, Like you, you're get to express your
• 1:25:00
  true self. Woman does is the perfect world version? I'm kennof. Isn't
• 1:25:10
  that basically the same thing? Isn't that the Barbie movie? That was?
• 1:25:14
  That was one of my issues with it because on the one hand, you
• 1:25:16
  could say, yeah, he shouldn't need her to complete him, But on
• 1:25:20
  the other hand, it seems like they're basically saying, you know, just
• 1:25:25
  be what you are and that's good enough. But that's not really the way
• 1:25:30
  it works. It's not. And you know what, maybe instead of us
• 1:25:33
  asking men to be more like women, how about we ask women to be
• 1:25:36
  more like men. How about we ask women to step the fuck up and
• 1:25:41
  stop looking in the mirror and saying I'm enough because that's not enough. Sorry,
• 1:25:45
  it's not. We have a lot of here and half the population is
• 1:25:49
  like looking at their own navel instead of getting involved and doing something positive.
• 1:25:55
  Anyway, they're getting involved in blaming men. Yeah, they're blaming men,
• 1:25:58
  and then they want men to be like them, and when they are like
• 1:26:01
  them, they complain about them anyway. So it's like, I think we're
• 1:26:04
  applying well, I think that the pressure is being applied the wrong way.
• 1:26:12
  I don't think it should be. Let me try to untangle that men should
• 1:26:15
  be thanked and there should be gratitude and grace given to them for what they
• 1:26:21
  do, and women should also be trying to get stuff, like like earning
• 1:26:27
  things. Yeah, should be trying to earn. That's how we all that's
• 1:26:31
  how we all rise. But they don't want better, No, they just
• 1:26:35
  want this. Yeah, they Well, in some ways the Ken enough message
• 1:26:42
  is a little bit toxic because it removes the idea of humans striving from it.
• 1:26:50
  Yeah, and you're right, Barbie like that. That one line really
• 1:26:55
  stuck with me, where Ken says and I want her to fight for me,
• 1:26:58
  and it's like, yes, that's the world we want. We want
• 1:27:00
  a world in which men fight for women and women fight for men. That's
• 1:27:04
  the world. That is freaking awesome, isn't it. That's an awesome thought.
• 1:27:10
  And they just blew through that and just ignored it well regardless. And
• 1:27:17
  then so at the end, what do we have a world in which nobody
• 1:27:21
  does fuck all for anyone? Like everybody is is she? Barbie is has
• 1:27:29
  a mirror and she's staring at her new fangled vagina, and Ken just wafts
• 1:27:34
  her life like a fart, like, yeah, no, this is not
• 1:27:40
  this is the Well, he's really the only one who's making a real effort
• 1:27:45
  because he's actually trying to deconstruct these She's essentially said, you were made for
• 1:27:50
  me, Now be because I find you annoying. Uh, go do something
• 1:27:55
  else. Yeah, And he has to unravel all of that, all of
• 1:28:00
  that inborn compulsion to focus on Barbie. He asked him take it away and
• 1:28:05
  remove it. Even though he was made to be her accessory, he has
• 1:28:11
  to he has to do the work to become a full man. And that's
• 1:28:14
  why I wonder, at one hand, Ken enough is that kind of statement
• 1:28:18
  like, oh, you're fine as you are. But within that, Ken
• 1:28:25
  has to overcome his own programming to fixate on Barbie. You see what I'm
• 1:28:31
  saying. Yea. So even though to become enough, he actually strive,
• 1:28:36
  has to strive to become better. So in the message to Ken, is
• 1:28:41
  still that idea that he has to strive and have engage in self mastery,
• 1:28:46
  and not even just self mastery, mastery over what he was, how he
• 1:28:51
  was created to be. Like he has to Oh, he has to transcend
• 1:28:56
  his own nature. Like I mean, there's this, like good lord,
• 1:29:00
  like this is the more interesting story? Really, how does Ken transcend his
• 1:29:03
  own nature? All he wanted in his life was Kara was Barbie's attention because
• 1:29:09
  he's her accessory. So he has to overcome that. So in saying he's
• 1:29:13
  Ken enough, he has to do something, he has to actually engage in
• 1:29:17
  a tremendous amount of self mastery. You know what I'm saying. Yea.
• 1:29:23
  So even in saying that to him, that is an aspirational role in an
• 1:29:29
  expectation placed on men to become better. Right, nothing is placed on Barbie
• 1:29:34
  because she's a woman. You can't really make women carry weight. They fold
• 1:29:39
  like kleenex. Um, they're too weak. Um. But you know,
• 1:29:44
  Barbie doesn't have anything to strive for, nothing at all? What they where?
• 1:29:49
  Where's the fucking change? How? What did she learn? Nothing?
• 1:29:53
  She learned that she wanted to giantist story. They learned that they were always
• 1:30:00
  awesome and that the world was just holding him back. Yeah, Ken has
• 1:30:05
  to learn that he needs to transcend himself and practice self mastery to overcome his
• 1:30:14
  inborn like this is he's made to have this, which is like, if
• 1:30:19
  you really think about it, it's really gross. Like he was created to
• 1:30:25
  be focused on Barbie and he is forced to overcome that because he's a man
• 1:30:30
  and that's how we view men, and he has to transcend that and become
• 1:30:33
  a better person quote unquote like that. So on the one hand, Ken
• 1:30:39
  Kennon enough, Ken enough, But on the other hand, he has to
• 1:30:43
  go through this internal journey of self mastery to even become Kennon enough, is
• 1:30:48
  what I'm getting at, Right, That's an interesting message. And then I
• 1:30:53
  don't know the woman, what does she do? She exists? Just like
• 1:30:58
  Joseph Campbell said, a woman doesn't need a hero's journey because she's she.
• 1:31:04
  All she needs to realize is that she's enough as she is, because she's
• 1:31:10
  the female. The female doesn't do anything, you see, the female just
• 1:31:14
  is and is perfect in the isness of being female. Also, I mean,
• 1:31:17
  what the hell are you going to ask? I'm gonna go on to
• 1:31:19
  hear his journey. By the definition of is is are you gonna have women
• 1:31:27
  go on a hero's journey? You're gonna have women engage in self mastery.
• 1:31:30
  They might develop actual individuality. You know that that What the hell would the
• 1:31:34
  society look like if men, if women fought for men? You know what?
• 1:31:39
  What what what would the world look like? It just be too weird,
• 1:31:43
  you know, women not on on it. Women just have to just
• 1:31:45
  have to put their finger up their twat and that's all that, that's all.
• 1:31:48
  That's the only journey they need. Yeah, y, all right,
• 1:31:54
  Um, I got another super chow. Thank you, John Taylor. Um,
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  and John Taylor. He sent us a supertown. It's all caps,
• 1:32:09
  it's all in all caps, so I have to assume that, um he's
• 1:32:14
  doing. It's like a Trump tweet, so I gotta read it like that.
• 1:32:15
  So um for me, trame sixty four, just a few shekels in
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  the hat. It's great to see HBr continue after ten years. Really great.
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  You guys are still great, so great. Ask anybody, they'll tell
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  you. Feeling courage Alison, I'm looking forward to dan years celebration show.
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  Best wishes from Scotland. All right, thank you, John Taylor. If
• 1:32:44
  you put him in an all caps I'm gonna try and read them in a
• 1:32:45
  Trump voice because that's how he tweets or tweeted before. He was not as
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  good in my opinion. But what he's not as good? I know truth
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  Social is not as good because it's like spammed with all kinds of ads.
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  It's I don't know, it's um. But isn't he back on Twitter?
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  No? I think Elon Musk said he can come back, but he's like,
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  I'm staying with truth. I think it's a fun superior of blat vine.
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  But I mean whatever, it's fine. I just I'm not crazy about
• 1:33:17
  it myself. But okay, So I do have a thank you to give.
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  Kenneth S gives us five dollars. Thank you, kenneth S. All
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  that chilling, all that chilling. No, I appreciate it. Oh we'll
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  take it. Yeah all right, um, but no, I really appreciate
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  make to keep this running, to keep us choo choo chewing along. Oh
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  all right, cool, so thank you very much. That's really nice.
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  Thank you, and says come as you are some feminist dead guy Kurt Cobain.
• 1:34:24
  He was a feminist basically. Yes, well look at who he was
• 1:34:29
  dating, fucking Courtney Love. Holy shit, that woman's actually I've had some
• 1:34:35
  of the death heads um comment that they think that Courtney Love strove this dude
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  to suicide. Um, and he was abusive. I don't know, Yeah,
• 1:34:46
  I don't know. I'd have to look into it as a bit before
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  my time. So I have a lot of pressure because like he wanted to
• 1:34:54
  just make He actually was trying to be like a pop star. He wanted
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  to be popular, but he got sort of like, you know, he
• 1:35:02
  had the grunge thing going on, and people want it grunge to stay,
• 1:35:06
  like not sell out and I don't know. I thought there was a bunch
• 1:35:10
  of pressure about, like it's a stupid thing with music. I don't I
• 1:35:13
  don't get like people want, you know, they want people want to make
• 1:35:15
  money, and they want to become popular and they want to everybody hear there,
• 1:35:18
  you don't want to sell it. But if they they're too popular,
• 1:35:21
  then they're like traders. And so it's like a weird line that to have
• 1:35:27
  to walk if you care. Unless you're like Johnny Cash, you just don't
• 1:35:30
  get fuck, which I suggest though, Yeah, well, you know,
• 1:35:34
  probably was stressed about protecting and providing as men are, even as a successful
• 1:35:40
  grunge artist or as he was. Yeah, okay, so once again I'll
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  just say we only have like so we're in sort of the last few hours
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  of the fundraisers, So this is it, guys. If you are able
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  to die if we don't make it. It's just a concerning, like,
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  all. So feed the badger dot com slash support and put a few shekels
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  hat in the hat if you can, and let us continue on this lovely
• 1:36:35
  journey through this article. Okay, all right, m anyway, So but
• 1:36:44
  another Few Research Center study shines a harshoot of black light on masculinity. Researchers
• 1:36:48
  ask women and men where they found meaning, fulfillment and satisfaction. They found
• 1:36:54
  women found happiness through multiple sources, but men did not. It's like holl
• 1:36:58
  has subscribed those who find meaning through different social roles as having high self complexity.
• 1:37:03
  Again, psychology kind of bullshit. And women are the ultimate shape shifters.
• 1:37:10
  Of course they are. They're just better at life, guys. They're
• 1:37:14
  just better at it. Because we have these studies that prove that women are
• 1:37:17
  better at shit. Look, they've all been signed off and approved by a
• 1:37:21
  bunch of feminists and academic intellectual bullshit artists. But trust us. This is
• 1:37:28
  the science, and you have to trust the science, guys. Yes,
• 1:37:32
  psychology and therapy and education. It's a it's um, you know, safe
• 1:37:39
  and effective. Safe and effective. Yeah, safe and effective. Guys,
• 1:37:44
  don't don't. Don't mind the fact that most men who commit suicide did,
• 1:37:47
  in fact reach out to some some therapist or social worker or something or doctor
• 1:37:53
  prior to the suicide. That. Yeah, that that isn't evidence that maybe
• 1:37:56
  the system has a serious problem. It isn't actually serving men. That's evidence
• 1:38:00
  that men aren't feminine, and they're not they're doing something wrong. Must be
• 1:38:05
  the fault of the patient. Yeah, okay, but here's my more leeches.
• 1:38:11
  That's literally what we're doing. We need more leeches. Can you let
• 1:38:15
  me give you a tale and unresponsive? Yeah, the big leeches. Get
• 1:38:19
  the big leeches. Yeah, get me a booster leech. How many have
• 1:38:24
  you had? Um? Anyway? Okay, all right, let's not psych
• 1:38:32
  Okay, describe self high self complexity. We're gonna say something to that or
• 1:38:38
  um. Yes, right, men have a particular psychology. It is excellent
• 1:38:45
  for getting things done and creating an island where people are or men are having
• 1:38:50
  fun and enjoying helping, making life easier for each other and also easier for
• 1:38:56
  women. Okay, that's what men do. They get things done. They
• 1:39:00
  focus on getting things done, They focus on their actions. Right, Instead
• 1:39:04
  of saying, men, why don't you women, why don't we say?
• 1:39:10
  Hey, men have a particular type of psychology that's very valuable in and of
• 1:39:15
  itself. How can we structure helping them in such a way that they can
• 1:39:21
  be themselves and still receive what they need to no longer feel like a burden.
• 1:39:29
  In other words, how do we extend ourselves to help men rather than
• 1:39:35
  expecting men once again to take on the burden of changing themselves. Like literally,
• 1:39:43
  like this is what all this is. This is like bootstrapping psychology.
• 1:39:45
  It's so funny. Like all of the social justice warriors whatever you want to
• 1:39:49
  call them, they're all like, oh bootstrapping, it's it's it's conservatism.
• 1:39:54
  But what do they say to men? Yeah, men, men, you
• 1:39:58
  need to you need to boots drap yourself. You can't complain about anything.
• 1:40:00
  You just need to apply more masculine elbow grease. But it's not masculine,
• 1:40:04
  you see, women can do it just as much as men. So it's
• 1:40:09
  but you need to do more of it, even though we won't acknowledge you
• 1:40:12
  do more of it. Okay, so this is like, this is just
• 1:40:15
  more bootstrapping advice. No, Okay, men who are suicidal if they knew
• 1:40:20
  how to help themselves, they would. So what we need to do is
• 1:40:26
  start telling men all men like, stop gaslighting them about their inherent state being
• 1:40:33
  a burden on everyone. What do you think? Okay, you tell Okay,
• 1:40:39
  you have men they have a particular psychology that has difficulty with being a
• 1:40:45
  burden, right, and that's not a bad thing. Men constantly look towards
• 1:40:49
  what they can do, but then they get into these little blind spots,
• 1:40:53
  usually forced by external circumstances. They lose a source of their identity, and
• 1:40:59
  then we have a society telling them that they're only worth it well when they
• 1:41:03
  don't have any worth, when they're not actively helping another human being. They
• 1:41:06
  are a burden that's oppressing society. So that's their baseline, you know,
• 1:41:11
  and then they offer themselves. Okay, well how do we solve that.
• 1:41:15
  Well, one, let's stop saying that men's baseline is oppression. Hey,
• 1:41:20
  that men's baseline is being a burden on everyone else. Let's stop saying that.
• 1:41:27
  Maybe that will help with men not feeling like a burden feeling useless and
• 1:41:30
  worthless and killing themselves. Hey, they stop abusing them. But that's a
• 1:41:35
  thought instead of saying, oh men, you go go do and be like,
• 1:41:41
  why don't you have psychologies more like women? Which is really strange if
• 1:41:45
  you think about it, right, it's like women do this. Why don't
• 1:41:49
  you change your brain to be like a woman's brain? Well, hm,
• 1:41:54
  can we say that to trans people? Like you know, you're you're you're
• 1:41:58
  as transit trans woman. Why you know we're gonna say this to men?
• 1:42:01
  Why don't you change your brain to be more like a woman's brain? Can
• 1:42:04
  we say that to like a trans woman? Why don't you change your brain
• 1:42:08
  to be like a man's brain? Problem solved? And that's sarcasm for the
• 1:42:13
  cutube press censors because in both ways it's ridiculous because that's what they're saying.
• 1:42:17
  That's what they're saying to men here, change your brain. Yeah, why
• 1:42:24
  can't you men change your brain to have woman brain? Then you'd be fine.
• 1:42:28
  Of course, then we wouldn't have men be able to do all the
• 1:42:30
  utilities and everything else. And of course we can't say this to trans people.
• 1:42:35
  But do you see, like, of course we're not we have probably
• 1:42:40
  have a very few liberals in our audience. But do you understand that this
• 1:42:43
  is what you're saying? Okay, yeah, and if you don't say it
• 1:42:47
  to trans women, you don't say it to men. If you can't say
• 1:42:51
  to a trans woman, well why don't you just change your brains so you're
• 1:42:56
  more of a man, And you can't say it to a trans man,
• 1:42:59
  Well why don't you change your brain so you're more of a woman. Maybe
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  you shouldn't say it to sists men, Well, why don't you change your
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  brain so you're more of a woman. You're fucking tards? Oh god,
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  sorry, I'm just really it's fine. I would like to officially say that
• 1:43:19
  the word tard refers to someone who has chosen retardation is a lifestyle, not
• 1:43:26
  actual people who have developmental delays, but someone who looked at the world and
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  all the things that they could be and selected retard language. I know,
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  Okay, back to the article. I don't I don't know how much longer
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  I can go because I gotta show in like an hour and forty five minutes
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  and I need to like feed the dog and other stuff, so um,
• 1:43:53
  take him out. But okay, black to where I was so, and
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  women are the ultimate shape shifters. We find meaning through our roles as mother's,
• 1:44:02
  boss's, best friends, and wives. For example, forty three percent
• 1:44:05
  of women said children and grandchildren give their life meaning, but only twenty four
• 1:44:11
  percent of men said the same. Men find meeting in one role provider kind
• 1:44:15
  of a blanket statement, but okay. Liberal solution is to castigate men as
• 1:44:20
  having toxic masculinity, while conservatives want to turn back the clocks on women's rights,
• 1:44:25
  as if equality is a zeros on game. Neither approach works. Bullshit
• 1:44:30
  on the second one. No, they don't, don't don't bother yes,
• 1:44:34
  wait wait, wait, I think what they want. What they're saying is
• 1:44:38
  they want a conservatives focus on women's role as a wife and mother. Okay,
• 1:44:44
  yeah, but that's not the same as turning black back to clocks on
• 1:44:46
  women's rights. Well, they also like Honestly, what conservatives really need to
• 1:44:53
  do is stop fucking laurund with any kind of prescriptive role. We need to
• 1:44:59
  fix the like Specifically, we need to fix how men and women are viewed
• 1:45:03
  and the relationship between the two. If you fix that, everything else will
• 1:45:09
  fall out naturally. Okay, Okay, well, that looks like stop saying
• 1:45:18
  that men oppress women, or would oppress women, or construct a society to
• 1:45:24
  oppress women. That's the distortion in the relationship between men and women. You
• 1:45:28
  don't have to care about whether or not a woman marries a men and becomes
• 1:45:31
  a career wife, career woman, and she's he's a stay at home Okay,
• 1:45:35
  we don't have to care about any of that. The only thing we
• 1:45:39
  need to fix now is this gas lighting of men and women to be honest,
• 1:45:45
  to view the baseline of men as oppressive to women. That's it,
• 1:45:51
  like, we don't have to judge each other for you know, women don't
• 1:45:57
  have to judge other women for how they've extu their lives as long as those
• 1:46:02
  women are fighting for their men, Get what I'm saying. As long as
• 1:46:09
  the career woman, you know, it feels like she's doing this to better
• 1:46:15
  her family and her partner, what's the problem. You know, as long
• 1:46:20
  as the homemaker feels like she's doing this to better her family and her partner,
• 1:46:25
  what's the problem. There's none. Ye, we don't have to have
• 1:46:29
  this argument about how women arrange their their their their lives, or men for
• 1:46:34
  that matter. As long as men and women are fighting for each other,
• 1:46:40
  That's what I'm getting at. That's what I meant. Yeah, I got
• 1:46:42
  it, Okay, I mean that's where I'm at. Like, I know,
• 1:46:46
  maybe conservatives would disagree, I think at this point, Like, I
• 1:46:50
  don't really even think there's a conservative basis for for not seeing like I don't
• 1:46:57
  even think that the conservatives would necessarily the whole idea of a woman staying at
• 1:47:02
  home and have and everything being done by machines is a Hollywood and industrial fantasy
• 1:47:10
  that isn't a conservative approach. I've even said this to conservative women, like,
• 1:47:15
  you know, in the Bible, you're supposed to be materially productive in
• 1:47:19
  either running a farm or a small business, to assist your health, to
• 1:47:24
  provide materially for your family. Right, So there's there's no like, there's
• 1:47:28
  no there's no reason to believe that conservatives would put women back in the house.
• 1:47:33
  Um or if that or that is a Christian sentiment. Instead, what
• 1:47:39
  it seems that the Christian sentiment is is that men and women should be providing
• 1:47:45
  for the family and protecting the family both. That's that's that they should be
• 1:47:51
  seeing themselves in terms of you know, living a godly life and providing and
• 1:47:57
  protecting for their children. Yeah, that's the Christian sentiment, not you know
• 1:48:02
  whether or not the woman sits on silk pillows or entire fucking life, you
• 1:48:08
  know anyway, the idle hands or the devil's work after all? Okay,
• 1:48:14
  all right, anyway, Um, so liberal solution is casting a man as
• 1:48:19
  having toxic masculinity. What conservatives wants to turn back the clocks on women's rights
• 1:48:23
  as if equality is a zero, zero sum game. Neither approach works.
• 1:48:28
  But here's the real problem. We dismantled masculinity and didn't leave a blueprint to
• 1:48:31
  build the new digs or to put a finer point on this debate, Therapist
• 1:48:36
  Jonathan Decker, let me just look find out who this is, because I
• 1:48:41
  bet it's a feminist poisted positive that limiting masculinity, not toxic masculinity, is
• 1:48:45
  to blame for this mess. That's not masculinity, is just another way of
• 1:48:50
  saying toxic masculinity. Let's be right. Okay, Well, the idea of
• 1:48:59
  that at uh, men is limited. It's the man box that men have
• 1:49:05
  to behave a certain way, and it limits their ability to be men because
• 1:49:10
  it asked them to be all of the toxic things. It's the same argument,
• 1:49:14
  Alison, They're just they're just rebranding it. Yeah, the same thing
• 1:49:17
  is at the very least they have are starting. If this is the case,
• 1:49:21
  they are starting to walk away from the toxic masculinity. I also point
• 1:49:26
  out that, and and they of course would resist this. The thing that
• 1:49:32
  opposes limiting masculinity is make Tao men going their own way. Yeah, it's
• 1:49:40
  that's that. That's literally what this is. Yep. Like if you if
• 1:49:45
  you are going to say, well, men should take more of an identity
• 1:49:48
  from other things, from them providing and protecting for women, I agree.
• 1:49:55
  Agree, men do need to start, you know, making their friendships and
• 1:50:01
  supporting other men a priority in their life and seeing themselves more in terms of
• 1:50:06
  that, I agree. And I am not going to say that they need
• 1:50:10
  to engage in any kind of homoerotic dance off like Barbie, but at the
• 1:50:15
  very least like, um, yeah, that's that's a good thing, to
• 1:50:18
  start centering other men and and being motivated by the idea that. I mean,
• 1:50:25
  I don't think it's that unnatural for men either. So again, look
• 1:50:29
  at the Survivor Island. Like the men were just they were they were having
• 1:50:32
  fun, they were doing their thing. I mean, there was this one
• 1:50:34
  guy who was who was being ostracized a bit because he was more creative and
• 1:50:39
  he didn't go fishing. Initially, he just worked on this net, but
• 1:50:42
  then then his net panned out and everybody was was cheering him. Right,
• 1:50:45
  So they but they were all doing these things, and they were happy to
• 1:50:51
  do them, and as far as I could tell, they were enjoying the
• 1:50:56
  fact that they were making each other's lives easier. And they were just men
• 1:51:00
  just hanging out and making each other's lives easier. That's it, you know,
• 1:51:04
  Joe needs I don't a rock. Whatever Ted goes gets the rock.
• 1:51:10
  That kind of thing. I'm simplifying because I can't think of anything off the
• 1:51:13
  top of my head, but you know what I mean. And so obviously
• 1:51:15
  men can do this. And then we swing over to the female side of
• 1:51:19
  the Island's crow flies off, squawking and dark and women are glorious. They
• 1:51:30
  are miserable. Why are they miserable because they don't take any pleasure and helping
• 1:51:39
  each other and making their time easier. They're all wanting to control or to
• 1:51:45
  make sure that nobody's getting anything more than anybody else. They can't fucking cooperate.
• 1:51:53
  Like, that's the other thing that men's risk taking nature does. It
• 1:51:56
  gives them a higher It gives them the ability to cooperate on a higher level.
• 1:52:00
  Now, part of it might be that, you know, these are
• 1:52:02
  women that are been sort of brainwashed into the Western bullshit. You know,
• 1:52:09
  you might have seen a very different situation if you'd chosen like more women from
• 1:52:15
  a maybe not a tribe, but you know, agricultural women or peasant women
• 1:52:20
  or something like that. But still it's really stark. The men were happy,
• 1:52:27
  they were happy to do things, they were happy to help each other.
• 1:52:29
  The women were arguing over who needs to do what, And then there
• 1:52:34
  was like there's always the one woman who's willing to do something, who's just
• 1:52:39
  it's a little bit more masculine and is willing to make the effort like I
• 1:52:42
  always was, and she's just run to death. This is why the whole
• 1:52:46
  radical feminist lesbian utopia is like horrifying to me, because I've always been the
• 1:52:53
  one woman who lifts the shit that needs to be moved, or does the
• 1:52:57
  unpleasant task it shovels the or whatever I'm not just sitting on my ass letting
• 1:53:02
  men do it like I've seen women do over and over again. And I
• 1:53:05
  know that in a woman in lady hell, I'm going to be the one
• 1:53:11
  who's unplugging the toilet, picking up the vomit, you know, shoveling the
• 1:53:15
  trenches, and moving everybody's fucking furniture. And believe me, I don't consider
• 1:53:21
  other women to be a reward. I may be by, but I'm not
• 1:53:29
  that by all right. But but that's the thing, Like, it's men
• 1:53:35
  I think have that ability to cooperate and enjoy making life easier for each other.
• 1:53:44
  Women have the ability to say you girl, girl, yes, queen,
• 1:53:46
  lean in, boss, bitch, And then they don't even have the
• 1:53:53
  ability to not not lie or not backstab each other behind the back, you
• 1:54:00
  know. So it's it's like, and I'm I'm I don't know if it's
• 1:54:04
  inherent or if it's just a Western woman thing. Okay, okay, I'm
• 1:54:11
  gonna I'm digression. Sorry, Yeah, it's fine. So Jonathan Decker positive
• 1:54:16
  that limiting masculinity is not toxic. Masculinity is to blame for this mess.
• 1:54:19
  In other words, how we define masculinity is too narrow, which is basically
• 1:54:25
  the same argument as toxic masculinity. Trapped by these impossible ideologies, it's not
• 1:54:30
  impossible. It's no wonder that young men turn to harmful influencers like Andrew Tate,
• 1:54:34
  ding Ding ding Ding, Joe Rogan ding Ding Ding ding U, and
• 1:54:39
  Jordan Peterson. Yes, because those three guys are exactly the same. These
• 1:54:44
  carnival barkers hawk their version of masculinity as magical lilloxers, or even worse,
• 1:54:47
  they frame masculinity as aggression, risk taking, violence, and sexism. Absolutely
• 1:54:54
  not true. Whenever a group becomes disenfranchised, the void we feel by the
• 1:55:00
  loudest and often ugliest voices. And then there's a quote from Chris Rock that
• 1:55:05
  should be a wake up call. Uh, only women, children and dogs
• 1:55:09
  are loved unconditionally. A man has only loved under the condition that he provides
• 1:55:13
  something. Chris Rock. Okay, I'm surprised they haven't included Jordan Peterson?
• 1:55:18
  Are they? Did you not hear what I said? Oh? Oh,
• 1:55:23
  shoot, you're right, You're including no Jordan. It's Andrew Tate, Joe
• 1:55:30
  Rogan, and Jordan Peterson. You know you know what's really going on here,
• 1:55:36
  right? Guys. I mean, like this should be really obvious.
• 1:55:39
  This has been going on ever since, like but basically ever since Jordan Peterson.
• 1:55:44
  You could say, maybe I don't know if they were doing this Joe
• 1:55:46
  Rogan before that, but basically there are there are men out there talking about
• 1:55:51
  men unapologetically, like to some degree acknowledging the realities. I mean, there's
• 1:55:58
  stuff that Joe Rogan has said that I don't like. I agree with that
• 1:56:00
  one hundred percent. I'm not putting him on a pedestal. There's stuff that
• 1:56:03
  Peterson has said that I didn't like, and there' stuff that Tate has said
• 1:56:05
  that I didn't like either. Agreed one hundred percent. Guys, they're not
• 1:56:10
  Karen, I get it. But they are talking about men in a way
• 1:56:14
  that is just maybe marginally sympathetic, and they are somewhat, if not very
• 1:56:23
  against feminism. And that's what they're threatened by because those men are popular.
• 1:56:28
  They're very popular. That's the reality. Joe Wigan's podcast is the biggest one,
• 1:56:32
  right. Peterson is huge. He's starting his own online university, probably
• 1:56:35
  a university that men should probably look into, honestly, you know, and
• 1:56:41
  Tate was the most google man in the world for a while. I guess
• 1:56:44
  according to him, I don't know, so, Like, the reality is
• 1:56:47
  they're popular, and these people they don't know what to do because they can't
• 1:56:51
  control them. And that's what it comes down to. So I think that
• 1:56:58
  this is what's happening, Like Pearl is gonna be They're gonna do it to
• 1:57:01
  her basically everyone. Not the women who play nice, not the romas that
• 1:57:06
  basically say well, I'm a feminist, and the men's rights not those bitches,
• 1:57:11
  okay, but the people who go after like the gad flies, the
• 1:57:15
  people who call the shit out, the people who push the envelope, the
• 1:57:17
  people that are at the you know, that are somewhat pressing against like the
• 1:57:23
  Overton window. They're the ones that will be targeted if they become popular.
• 1:57:27
  When they're not, they're ignored, but then they you know, eventually it's
• 1:57:31
  gonna happen. So this is that's what this whole article is about, is
• 1:57:34
  that men are in trouble, but the people who are actually doing anything good
• 1:57:40
  for men are not the right people to do stuff. It should be us.
• 1:57:43
  We should basically be bombarding them with more of the same shit that we've
• 1:57:46
  done for the past one hundred plus years. That's what needs to happen.
• 1:57:50
  That's where we're at and that and that's what I'm gonna push for it.
• 1:57:54
  That's literally why they're rebranding it and calling it a different thing. No,
• 1:57:58
  no, no, If this isn't toxic macular, that's oh so old hat,
• 1:58:00
  so abusive, so wrong. We're calling it limited masculinity. It's very
• 1:58:05
  different, but it's the same. It's the same. Yeah, Well,
• 1:58:09
  because they won't acknowledge what it genuinely means. Yeah, of course, what
• 1:58:14
  what are you saying here? You're saying that men need to look beyond providing
• 1:58:18
  and protecting women as a source of an identity. You mean men, he
• 1:58:24
  need at least maybe not maybe not full men going their own way, but
• 1:58:29
  at least partially going their own way, right, And that's and the irony
• 1:58:33
  is why are they doing this? Are they doing this because they want men
• 1:58:38
  to be living healthier lives, being happier, uh, you know, knowing
• 1:58:42
  themselves more and being stronger, like emotionally stronger. Or are they doing that
• 1:58:47
  because they're just don't want women to have to do anything to take any responsibility
• 1:58:54
  fight for men at all. Well, look, that's Okay, oh my
• 1:58:58
  god, he's got his chew. Sorry. Yeah, yeah, it's like
• 1:59:01
  a pork thing, Joe, Joe, take him out now. He's becoming
• 1:59:09
  restless because he wants to go out. So I'll have your chew, little
• 1:59:13
  bud enjoy it. I'll look at that. I had to use the chew
• 1:59:20
  to bribe him to stick around barking at me. So, um, all
• 1:59:28
  right, okay, so I just want to like again, we have like
• 1:59:30
  I think three hours left. Still maybe it's just two hours, all right,
• 1:59:38
  So yeah, if you know we still have three hours left. At
• 1:59:43
  the top of the hour, we're gonna have two hours left. So if
• 1:59:45
  you are able, please do help out by going to feed the badger doll
• 1:59:48
  cam slash the port and make sure that we able, we are able to
• 1:59:51
  continue. Since the the poll said for me to do this, I will
• 1:59:56
  do it. Um. We only exist because you guys, well, we
• 2:00:00
  only exist in this form and continue to exist because you guys brought us.
• 2:00:03
  And you know if in the comments you have some idea of how we can
• 2:00:09
  somehow I know you've talked about having like shorter content. Yeah, shorter content
• 2:00:15
  takes more time. It doesn't just take more time, it doesn't have that
• 2:00:18
  sense of community. You know, I can do shorter content. I've done
• 2:00:23
  shorter content, got a lot of attention. Then I sacrifice the attention to
• 2:00:27
  write my book because I think it's more critical to actually give people story about
• 2:00:31
  how to get out of this mess than it is to constantly be like,
• 2:00:34
  yep, this is a mess. Oh, by the way, did you
• 2:00:39
  know this is a mess? I mean, how many times do you say
• 2:00:42
  the obvious? Yeah, conservatives everybody else? You gave defining the relationship between
• 2:00:50
  men and women to a bunch of radical lesbian separatists and you thought that wouldn't
• 2:00:59
  create a mess somehow, or maybe you just didn't care, Like I don't
• 2:01:04
  understand how that happened, but whatever, where this is where we are.
• 2:01:08
  It's sort of like giving the captaincy of of a gigantic tanker to somebody who's
• 2:01:17
  incredibly drunk and being like, yeah, that that's gonna work out. Well
• 2:01:23
  it didn't. I don't know who made this decision, but I hope you're
• 2:01:28
  you're thinking about it and regretting it. So number one thing that I think
• 2:01:33
  that we talk about is don't give defining the relationship between men and women to
• 2:01:41
  radical lesbian separatists. And once you've done that and you've realized, hey,
• 2:01:49
  whoa, whoa wait wait wait no, actually I think this has been a
• 2:01:54
  mess, you actually have to stop agreeing with them, right, this is
• 2:02:00
  critical. You have to stop listening to them, because even conservatives are still
• 2:02:08
  listening to how feminists, and pretty much is all feminists now, how feminists
• 2:02:15
  frame the relationship between men and women. You're still listening to them, and
• 2:02:23
  as long as you listen to them, you are going to live within their
• 2:02:27
  world and their rules. Okay, So the only thing you can do to
• 2:02:32
  exit the world that is currently becoming a mess, a trash fire, is
• 2:02:41
  to exit the story in which men oppress women and that is their primary defining
• 2:02:49
  characteristic as men. Gotta leave that, you gotta don't. I wouldn't worry
• 2:02:55
  about, you know, some small group of women or trans women be having
• 2:03:00
  access to women's bathrooms. Really unlikely, anything's gonna don't. I would consider
• 2:03:04
  that to be a very minor issue. Also, how women structure their lives
• 2:03:10
  also a very minor issue. You're fighting about these petty ass problems when you
• 2:03:15
  have completely seeded control over the relationship between men and women and its public perception
• 2:03:24
  to lunatics. Okay, and you are choosing battles that you think are important,
• 2:03:32
  but they are not. All right, I don't know how many people
• 2:03:38
  have insulted, but there you go. Support us. We can insult you
• 2:03:42
  more. Okay, I got a super child. Two super childs actually,
• 2:03:50
  so thank you to who is that? Safe? Demon gives us five bucks
• 2:03:58
  thank you, and great endure gives us ten dollars and says. When my
• 2:04:05
  sister went to college, she quit after finishing her prop year, even though
• 2:04:13
  she was best in class. Why because she did all the work for projects
• 2:04:16
  while certain classmates were celebrating long weekends in Paris. She immediately started working for
• 2:04:23
  a company in nineteen ninety six, worked her way up and never looked back
• 2:04:26
  at college since. Oh, and she earns more than her husband. They
• 2:04:30
  both don't care. I've never heard of her. Her or my mother bloviate
• 2:04:33
  about feminism. Well, I mean, as long as you're satisfied, that's
• 2:04:39
  fine. I'm just but I think that I think that the problem is is
• 2:04:43
  that a large number of women, perhaps a majority, want husbands that make
• 2:04:47
  more than them, but they also want to be boss bitches at the same
• 2:04:50
  time, and obviously these two things can't coexist, so that's I think,
• 2:04:57
  going to create a problem. I don't think that's wh particularly unique. Yeah,
• 2:05:02
  I don't think that's his point. I think he's just saying he might
• 2:05:05
  actually be taking off of my point that I don't want to live in Lady
• 2:05:09
  Hell because I'll be the one is doing all the fucking work. Yea.
• 2:05:15
  Honestly, I think the women who who actually are in these positions and actually
• 2:05:19
  are doing the work do not want Lady Hell either, and they know that
• 2:05:25
  Lady Hell exists. But anyway, so, um, I think I have
• 2:05:30
  one thank you to give to zoo Am who gives us twenty five dollars and
• 2:05:34
  hopefully not your legal name, zoo Am, thank you. We are very
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  close to let's see how much do we have left? Um, thank you
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  very much. That's really nice. Thank you. Uh, what the heck?
• 2:05:49
  Oh? So we are six hundred and ten? Can we get it?
• 2:05:54
  Can we get it down into the five hundreds of there guys? Anyway?
• 2:05:58
  So um again, three hours remaining feed the Badger dot com slash just
• 2:06:01
  the tip uh and uh, yeah, I will let's finish this off because
• 2:06:05
  I think we're over two hours now. Yep, okay. In researching this
• 2:06:15
  piece, I pulled over twenty male friends with the following question, what does
• 2:06:18
  it mean to you to be a good provider? Oh? Friends, that's
• 2:06:23
  great. Many of my friends shrugged off the question and gave evasive replies about
• 2:06:28
  being gainfully employed and wearing clean underwear. But some of my friends are deep
• 2:06:31
  thinkers. We're an asshole. What's wrong with being gainfully employed and wearing green?
• 2:06:38
  I mean, you know, it's funny women hated women joke around with
• 2:06:42
  stuff. Julius is such a man, a mass of paradoxes that would confuse
• 2:06:47
  most women. He is artistic, poetic, sensitive and composed, silent,
• 2:06:51
  silent at moments, talkative at others. He is what women would call the
• 2:06:56
  dark and mysterious type. No, what are you talking about? Paradoxes?
• 2:07:02
  Okay, Well, she's she's she just has the hots for him. Yeah,
• 2:07:06
  she's just trying to make him sound complex. Julius also served in Iraq.
• 2:07:12
  Today. He is a suicide survivor who battles PTSD. No, Julius
• 2:07:16
  asked me to use his real name. He counsels ex military suffering from PTSD.
• 2:07:21
  Is very open about his battle with depression. Okay, so a dude
• 2:07:25
  who has gone to the very limits of human existence and stared into the abyss
• 2:07:31
  is capable of um not being as concerned by civilian identities. Okay, all
• 2:07:38
  right, well I guess that's the answer there, guys. Okay, he
• 2:07:42
  looks keep going, all right. Julius smiles with an insociate grin when I
• 2:07:49
  ask him how he defines being a good provider and replies, men play this
• 2:07:55
  game of appearing confident, headstrong, and apathetic, while women must appear the
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  opposite demure of all blah blah. Oh boy, now you're Julius sounds like
• 2:08:03
  an asshole. By the way, it's ridiculous that society accepted this. Society
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  okay, let me start over. It's ridiculous that women accepted this sexist way
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  of thinking, even though everyone states on their dating profile, I'm looking for
• 2:08:16
  an honest, caring, intelligent man. These are qualities that we see in
• 2:08:20
  women, not in men, and yet the hypocrisy lives on and basically,
• 2:08:24
  what the hell is he saying? It's kind of yeah, I mean,
• 2:08:28
  it's not deep, it's just it's just confusing. It's like Bob Dylan lyrics.
• 2:08:33
  They played his game of appearing company and it's strong and I as aesthetic,
• 2:08:37
  well, women must be the opposite. It does. It's this is
• 2:08:43
  like this is like the speech at the end of the Barbie movie. It's
• 2:08:46
  just ridiculous. All it is is people saying like men are not behaving enough
• 2:08:52
  like women, and it's women's fault because it is women. It's women that
• 2:08:56
  do that. Like that's all it is. Like I'm just I'm so bored
• 2:09:01
  of this same thing being regrets stated over and over and over. Society.
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  No, women, stop saying society when you know you mean women. Women
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  are the ones that set the bar. Men try to achieve it if men
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  are not doing that to each other. And then when and in the cases
• 2:09:20
  where men are doing that to each other, they're doing that because they're trying
• 2:09:24
  to help those men find women. Yeah, Like that's honestly, like a
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  lot of the whole messaging around this from man to man is probably pro social.
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  They're just being like, Okay, you know, I regret to inform
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  you gentlemen women, so let us let us just deal with realities here.
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  Let me try to help you give you the advice you need to deal with,
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  you know, women. Yeah, and they're demands you know, like
• 2:09:54
  it might just be guys are like, yeah, this is something that we
• 2:09:56
  can't change, so let's help each other out and managing it. And then
• 2:10:01
  we turn around and blame men for the existence of the thing that they are
• 2:10:05
  dealing with, like, yeah, it's toxic masculating. No, this is
• 2:10:13
  men helping each other deal with what women ask from them. And Jesus Christ,
• 2:10:18
  what what I don't get why this is such a controversial statement. Selective
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  pressure exists in sexually reproducing animals. It's supplied by the female, usually on
• 2:10:33
  the mail to some degree. It's also applied the other way, maybe not
• 2:10:37
  to the same degree, because you don't see a lot of elaborately colored female
• 2:10:41
  animals with gigantic survival handicaps on their heads, right, So there's selective pressure
• 2:10:50
  put on male animals by female animals, maybe not so much. In paara
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  bonding, men are like, these are the selective pressures that women put on
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  men. I want men, How can I help this young man live up
• 2:11:03
  to those selective pressures so that he might reproduce? That's actually really pro social,
• 2:11:09
  you know, I think that mostly like that if you look at the
• 2:11:11
  feminists, that the attitude is more like, how can I sabotage every other
• 2:11:16
  man? So I get all the pussy, at least in terms of my
• 2:11:18
  psychololics, like my my fantasies to myself. You know, I don't know.
• 2:11:24
  I feel like I've gone into the weeds. Oh no, it's fine.
• 2:11:28
  Jo JoJo's like climbing up on me because he wants me to feed him.
• 2:11:31
  But yeah, okay, so we got to stop. Well, I'm
• 2:11:35
  almost done. Let me just finish this, okay, all right, all
• 2:11:39
  right. Sadly many men do not survive this hypocrisy. But if we don't
• 2:11:43
  teach our sons that there is more than one way to be a good man,
• 2:11:46
  some may choose to be bad men. Others work, we can do
• 2:11:48
  better. We owe to our sons to at least try. Okay, you're
• 2:11:52
  not okay, see for effort. I guess no. If same shit,
• 2:12:03
  just the same, say same shit all the time, I don't. I
• 2:12:07
  don't. I don't like men as they are. They should change. That's
• 2:12:11
  the whole thing. Men are not fine as they are be able to.
• 2:12:13
  It's like, if you really care about men's suicide, stop saying to men
• 2:12:18
  that their baseline being is a burden to everybody. Especially since there's nothing.
• 2:12:26
  I can't emphasize this enough. Guys like the patriarchy narrative. Specifically, this
• 2:12:31
  narrative that men would construct society for their own benefit at the expensive women for
• 2:12:35
  no other reason than their own benefit, is not scientific. It's been disproved
• 2:12:43
  in multiple times. It has no predictive value. If you want to believe
• 2:12:46
  in weird shit, believe in telepathy because it's more scientifically valid than this.
• 2:12:54
  I'm not kidding. I'm a woo person. You know that I'd be okay
• 2:12:56
  with that, but I'd really annoy me. Like there's I mean people scientists
• 2:13:03
  who be like, oh hah, extraordinary climbs require extraordinary effort or evidence when
• 2:13:09
  it comes to telepathy because like in terms of regular science, it's been proven.
• 2:13:13
  They totally are like, oh but yeah, baptism a patriarchy. That's
• 2:13:18
  a thing that told you apply the same standard to these assertions. Please,
• 2:13:24
  how apply even a civil law standard to the assertions that feminists make about men?
• 2:13:31
  And they fail? These assertions have no validity, They are not factual,
• 2:13:37
  and yet we continue to perpetuate them. Why. I have an answer,
• 2:13:46
  but I will not give it to you now because that would that would
• 2:13:48
  require Jojo sitting for a long time, and he does not want to sit.
• 2:13:50
  He looks like a dog that wants to go. He is kind of
• 2:13:54
  anxious. He wants me to feed him. I gave him that bit of
• 2:13:58
  like chew because I wanted him the like get a snack. He's but I
• 2:14:01
  got to feed him his food food. So okay, all right, So
• 2:14:05
  I'm gonna thank Richard b or Bier for giving us a hundred bucks. Thank
• 2:14:11
  you, Richard, Thank you Richard. Uh, this one mosh spoon is
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  too big. And I'd also like to thank Brendan Holland. Oh, Brendon
• 2:14:24
  h that. I don't know if that's a goodness. Yeah, I doubt
• 2:14:31
  think that's fifty dollars. Yes, Brendon h for fifty dollars. Um,
• 2:14:46
  No, that's that's obviously not a real name. Um if you say it
• 2:14:50
  out in full. So okay, uh. And we are at um four
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  thousand and two hundred and thirty. So we got four hundred and sixty left,
• 2:15:03
  four and sixty dollars left, so hopefully we'll make that in the next
• 2:15:09
  three hours after the show is done. Are we done? We are done?
• 2:15:11
  Right, We're done? Yeah, I'm sorry, but I got a
• 2:15:15
  show in like an hour, so yes, I know, I'm really sorry
• 2:15:18
  about this. I'm sorry about this, like I mean, hopefully won't get
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• 2:15:33
  month and uh and hopefully we will continue until somebody else sees some like immedia
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  personality starts taking over our stick, you know, like maybe we can hand
• 2:15:45
  the baton to somebody like a Joe Rogan, except one that you know,
• 2:15:52
  really questions, Yeah, the what this narrative is doing to our society,
• 2:15:58
  like really understands that. You know, you hand the doubt defining men and
• 2:16:05
  women over to a bunch of women who hate men, and the result is
• 2:16:11
  subpar, shall we say, you know, who the hell decided this?
• 2:16:18
  You know, I don't think it was a decision. I think we just
• 2:16:20
  sort of fell into this. Well, you know, maybe next time we
• 2:16:26
  need to be a little bit more conscious about these things. Maybe next time
• 2:16:28
  we need to think more carefully about who gets to define this very critical relationship
• 2:16:35
  in our society, because it seems like when we just sort of half ass
• 2:16:39
  it and fall into it and then just give it to the first homeless lunatic
• 2:16:45
  who rolls up, you know, we don't get a very good outcome from
• 2:16:48
  it. This isn't something we can just hand to people who just say,
• 2:16:52
  yeah, I'll take that off your hands. Now, maybe maybe we should
• 2:16:54
  have a vetting process. And the first question is do you hate men?
• 2:17:00
  Ah? Well, let's look at your Twitter's history. Oh, yes you
• 2:17:05
  do. Well, yes, I don't think you've disqualified yourself from defining the
• 2:17:09
  relationship between men and women. Something bad might happen if you do no.
• 2:17:15
  No, Instead it's like no, yeah, I just do that whatever.
• 2:17:18
  Whoever wants to take this task on, how about it? And then we're
• 2:17:24
  living with the consequences now. Okay, so going forward, we can learn
• 2:17:31
  from this, and what we can learn is that we need to be very
• 2:17:35
  careful who we give defining the relationship between men and women. Two, we
• 2:17:43
  need a vetting process and we need to make sure it's not a person who
• 2:17:48
  hates or people who hate men or want to blame men to make money.
• 2:17:52
  Okay, So anyway, if you want to make sure that that message doesn't
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• 2:18:16
  going. Okay, Well, hopefully we'll get there for all the support I
• 2:18:22
  gave Jojo pats Um were you talking? So if you guys like I did
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