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113: Out of Control · Wine & Audacity

• 0:08
  Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah.
• 0:31
  Speaker 2: Oh baby, I like you. Ruh you have a baby?
• 0:35
  Speaker 2: Oh no, I am not that kind of girl.
• 0:42
  Speaker 3: That kind of girl, I'm not.
• 0:45
  Speaker 2: I don't gage in such and such things.
• 0:49
  Speaker 4: I know a person, and it's like I'd be one
• 0:51
  Speaker 4: to ask, like, yo, how you play Russian Roulette?
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  Speaker 5: Wis?
• 0:54
  Speaker 4: But then I get told I can't ask those kinds
• 0:56
  Speaker 4: of questions. I mean, no, nigga, I get told I can't.
• 1:00
  Speaker 2: Just like you can't swallow all the dicks you suck.
• 1:02
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry anybody doing that. So I'm never gonna eat well.
• 1:06
  Speaker 2: And it tastes like battery acid. You can get us TDS.
• 1:11
  Speaker 2: I get tested every three months.
• 1:13
  Speaker 1: What did you just say?
• 1:16
  Speaker 2: There's naughts? What the go ahead?
• 1:24
  Speaker 5: I was in the market and they I was like,
• 1:26
  Speaker 5: oh my god, I saw this hawk today.
• 1:28
  Speaker 2: Look at it.
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  Speaker 6: You said, a cock hawk. He's seen a hawk looking
• 1:33
  Speaker 6: at cocks now, not cock I'm sitting in the grocery.
• 1:42
  Speaker 3: I got a secret that's not really a secret, but
• 1:45
  Speaker 3: it's a secret. My biggest fear about messing mess up
• 1:51
  Speaker 3: with a man of caucage.
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  Speaker 2: The affect. And he was like, you want this big cock.
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  Speaker 3: And just crush, not not particularly like like, Bro, I
• 2:10
  Speaker 3: just want to go home.
• 2:13
  Speaker 5: Like I don't want your love transparent, Bro, this.
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  Speaker 2: Is you love? This call it's hot.
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  Speaker 5: Cock across it should Dick, nigga.
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  Speaker 2: That's my dad. I don't welcome to this episode of
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  Speaker 2: that FU fuck Dad.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know. I wait, I'm done. Dick is my dad, Bro,
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  Speaker 5: I'm done.
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  Speaker 4: His name is Richard, we call him yeah, oh yeah yeah,
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  Speaker 4: showing up to explain, go ahead, to explain, to explain,
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  Speaker 4: like you know, you're trying to You're trying to understand,
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  Speaker 4: like where the dick came from?
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  Speaker 5: A Richard? You know I wasn't so I wasn't looking
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  Speaker 5: it up.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, it don't make sense because you know these people
• 3:07
  Speaker 4: just started rhyming, like the ship just rhymed like rhyme
• 3:11
  Speaker 4: like Dick and rich like it started rhyming just like
• 3:14
  Speaker 4: just like no, no, just just like just like Bill,
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  Speaker 4: just like Bill and William because it rhymed. They just
• 3:20
  Speaker 4: added it, just like Robert and Bobby. I mean, Robin
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  Speaker 4: and Bobby don't understand. I don't understand Robin and Bobby.
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  Speaker 4: I don't under say Jim and James, I don't understand
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  Speaker 4: Hank and Henry.
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  Speaker 2: Robing, Bob Robert Bobby Yeah, mm hmm.
• 3:33
  Speaker 1: What.
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  Speaker 3: I did all the hard work.
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  Speaker 2: It's a little hold on, niggas, hold on. Welcome to
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  Speaker 2: this week's episode of Why and Out Dad City, the podcast.
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  Speaker 2: I mean host Brand's Carton. I'm jumped by two of
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  Speaker 2: my favorite people in the feeling this week.
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  Speaker 4: I'm here, Jam, I mean, I mean, it's kind of
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  Speaker 4: cool that you just tried that.
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  Speaker 5: You just try to redo the introduction that we.
• 3:54
  Speaker 2: Stop interrupted me.
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  Speaker 5: Had he know he didn't do nothing. You know what
• 4:02
  Speaker 5: he did?
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  Speaker 2: You know what you did? Nigga didn't do a goddam thing.
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  Speaker 7: I thinked it, Oh ship, I think everything. At the
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  Speaker 7: end of the day, I won't I won't give a
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  Speaker 7: shout out to t Brow people.
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  Speaker 4: Look at me now. I'm on TV, baby, now, I'm
• 4:24
  Speaker 4: on TV. Now, nigga niggas. Niggas just be on the
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  Speaker 4: news like I'm on TV.
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  Speaker 2: Baby.
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  Speaker 3: P hold me down, p O P whole day hold
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  Speaker 3: it down.
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  Speaker 2: I'm leg it blind.
• 4:38
  Speaker 3: You can't see nothing barely, Harry doing What is going on?
• 5:00
  Speaker 3: What is we doing? You're gonna do another one of
• 5:04
  Speaker 3: the courses of the week because that ship was fun.
• 5:09
  Speaker 2: A couple of weeks ago. I wonder what I took
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  Speaker 2: out that I edited. Okay, So before we get into
• 5:21
  Speaker 2: the question of the new topic we started or a
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  Speaker 2: new segment of the show we started last week, I
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  Speaker 2: want to discuss a couple of other things that have
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  Speaker 2: been making the rounds and the social media's.
• 5:31
  Speaker 3: And the social media social media.
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  Speaker 6: Hold on, Brittany just texting me, Hey, bred.
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  Speaker 2: Hey girl, she's moving down the street from me.
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  Speaker 3: That's cool. Hearn bby, hear the baby's he's.
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  Speaker 5: Hey two now three?
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  Speaker 2: Let me three this year by? Yeah, yeah, Brittany and
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  Speaker 2: the son. That's so first up before we get into
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  Speaker 2: this and and her.
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  Speaker 3: Son, I'm going to sid the same thing. I was
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  Speaker 3: man paused for the calls because we're having.
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  Speaker 2: What the no, no, If I had a baby by then,
• 6:08
  Speaker 2: you're like, what never would have resurrected? That would have
• 6:12
  Speaker 2: got a call? Hold on, hey son, I spend out.
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  Speaker 3: The dirty Nope, no, no, I'm done.
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  Speaker 2: I love you mine help wrest oh ship.
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  Speaker 3: So Brandon, what you're doing, what you're doing, what you're doing,
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  Speaker 3: what you're doing?
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  Speaker 5: Too much?
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  Speaker 2: Too much?
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  Speaker 3: That was fucking funny. I have to get new friends.
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  Speaker 3: I can't keep living.
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  Speaker 1: I mean.
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  Speaker 2: No, not now.
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  Speaker 1: Now.
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  Speaker 2: If she comes to me in a dream with them.
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  Speaker 3: The next couple of days, you want to make out
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  Speaker 3: she don't wake up sleep like I was just joking, Mom, Sorry, Ship,
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  Speaker 3: she gonna do that cackle like Miss pat Mama did
• 7:02
  Speaker 3: on the episode.
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  Speaker 2: She's gonna do that and I'm gonna head in the
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  Speaker 2: distance and don't do that.
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  Speaker 3: Ship again.
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  Speaker 5: Wanted that she's gonna be written on the guy damn
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  Speaker 5: mirror and on the ass mirror.
• 7:14
  Speaker 2: I'm not trying to be haunted.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, I bet you want.
• 7:19
  Speaker 2: To do that. So first step before we get into
• 7:24
  Speaker 2: the question of the week, Aaron is doubled.
• 7:27
  Speaker 3: Over Ship, how all ready for the al?
• 7:32
  Speaker 2: I want to talk about something a couple like I said,
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  Speaker 2: A couple of the fuck.
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  Speaker 3: Your tongue and the.
• 7:42
  Speaker 2: Salty ass PEPSI I'm still remembering from last week. So
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  Speaker 2: I want to talk about a couple of things before
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  Speaker 2: we get into the question of the week. And first
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  Speaker 2: thing is supercommuters. Do y'all know what supercommuters are?
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  Speaker 5: No, that's some niggas that are drive from Pennsylvania and
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  Speaker 5: they work in d C.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I used to work in one of those lived
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  Speaker 3: in p A told well, it was like York, but
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  Speaker 3: she drove all the way downtown for work every day.
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  Speaker 2: Fuck that, just so this supercommuter I felt. I went
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  Speaker 2: down like a rabbit hole on TikTok the other day
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  Speaker 2: when I was supposed to getting read for work, but
• 8:17
  Speaker 2: I wasn't because I was still laying the bed on
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  Speaker 2: my side, scrolling tiktoks and on the bed, I was
• 8:22
  Speaker 2: sitting on the toilet. But okay, I'm gonna to do
• 8:23
  Speaker 2: that too, but my legs. But it's just more comfortable,
• 8:27
  Speaker 2: more comfort trip.
• 8:29
  Speaker 4: You try and get up and you be sitting there
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  Speaker 4: like like you get up and don't you hit that.
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  Speaker 2: Ship at work? Don't you hit that ship work when
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  Speaker 2: it gets static when the automatic lights go out and
• 8:38
  Speaker 2: you sitting there and then the gains like god.
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  Speaker 5: Damn it like this.
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  Speaker 4: Like you're trying, like you're trying to reach for the Lord,
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  Speaker 4: like like.
• 8:51
  Speaker 3: In here, can you hear me?
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  Speaker 2: So this girl I follow, I'll follow her. But I
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  Speaker 2: like the video she commutes from DC to New York
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  Speaker 2: to go to work. Absolutely not. I think who sent
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  Speaker 2: me that video? Asian looking? Yeah? Fuck her day starts
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  Speaker 2: at four am, no, ma'am. She it starts getting ready
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  Speaker 2: for work. At she's up and getting ready for work.
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  Speaker 2: Her husband makes her you know, coffee, pour over coffee,
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  Speaker 2: which I like that. By four point thirty in the morning,
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  Speaker 2: she is headed out the door from her apartment somewhere
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  Speaker 2: in DC to Union Station. I'm guessing by the looks
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  Speaker 2: of the video, she lives in Virginia, Northern Virginia. Her
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  Speaker 2: husband dropped off at the train. Here she is at
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  Speaker 2: four forty seven walking to the train. She's born in
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  Speaker 2: the train at four forty seven.
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  Speaker 5: Time all, not this nigga, Not this nigga.
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  Speaker 2: I'm doing a play.
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  Speaker 5: Nigga'ming a plane.
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  Speaker 4: I'm saying it's not him able to look at the
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  Speaker 4: scenery and be like, oh that's northern Virginia.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, the nigga now for thirteen years, I better know
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  Speaker 2: what I'm looking at it. I'm driven that way. Before
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  Speaker 2: four fifty two, she's on the train, and the train's
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  Speaker 2: going and she's starting working. Early seven fourteen, she's s's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Seven fourteen, she's watching a k drama on Netflix. She's crying.
• 10:01
  Speaker 2: Let's see. Eight oh two, she steps off the train
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  Speaker 2: in Penn Station in New York. She's now on the subway.
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  Speaker 2: She's now walking around Manhattan, stopping at the Fruit Staying
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  Speaker 2: at eight fifteen to get her monthly blueberries monthly. But yeah,
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  Speaker 2: she's at her desk by eight twenty seven am. And
• 10:20
  Speaker 2: there are I'd be late for work every day. There
• 10:24
  Speaker 2: are people And I went down a rabbit hole.
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  Speaker 3: Of twenty seven. I was just just getting on the
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  Speaker 3: damn train. Sorry, not just splash me mm hmm. You've
• 10:35
  Speaker 3: been playing before.
• 10:38
  Speaker 4: Allegedly, Oh oh oh say it from me.
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  Speaker 2: Splash Nutty Falls is a fun But yes, nigga, you
• 10:51
  Speaker 2: said it ship.
• 10:52
  Speaker 5: I know I did.
• 10:54
  Speaker 2: You said it got that.
• 10:55
  Speaker 5: I went there, I went there.
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  Speaker 2: That's gonna come out, That's what That's what he said.
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  Speaker 5: I want to I'm so sorry.
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  Speaker 2: We are disgusting.
• 11:09
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, but this is why you listen.
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  Speaker 2: Basically, you know the couples grown in the windows? Should
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  Speaker 2: we grown anyway?
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  Speaker 5: Some of us? Others?
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  Speaker 2: I was about to grab these, but I can't.
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  Speaker 5: I can't.
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  Speaker 2: So, But there are people who commute from DC to
• 11:39
  Speaker 2: New York. People who commut from Philly to New York
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  Speaker 2: or South Jersey to New York for work every day.
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  Speaker 2: Could you imagine having a four hour one way commute
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  Speaker 2: because by.
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  Speaker 3: The time you get home, it's time to go to
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  Speaker 3: be and start over again.
• 11:53
  Speaker 2: Now, I think the people who do this, who lived
• 11:56
  Speaker 2: this distance away from work, they woke This video was filmed,
• 12:02
  Speaker 2: oh a week ago, but this video was filming back
• 12:04
  Speaker 2: some I think sometime in like March. So I think
• 12:07
  Speaker 2: with her job, she works remote. I think most of
• 12:10
  Speaker 2: the month she has to go in twice a month,
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  Speaker 2: let's say, on like a Monday or Friday. So if
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  Speaker 2: I mean, if you only have to do it twice.
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  Speaker 5: A month, I mean I get it.
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  Speaker 2: I mean you can make it your New York salary
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  Speaker 2: living in fucking Baltimore.
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  Speaker 3: Mm hmm.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I mean it's like, I mean, it is
• 12:27
  Speaker 4: kind of like priorities type thing because if you are
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  Speaker 4: making I mean, if you're doing it because you make
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  Speaker 4: more money there than you do here.
• 12:36
  Speaker 5: What's I mean, what says a lot?
• 12:37
  Speaker 4: Because you know, the cost of living is higher up there,
• 12:40
  Speaker 4: so you know, most of the most of the jaws
• 12:42
  Speaker 4: be starting off you know, they probably starting off like
• 12:44
  Speaker 4: twenty eight.
• 12:44
  Speaker 5: Dollars an hour type shit.
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  Speaker 4: So it's like, all right, I could see her making that,
• 12:48
  Speaker 4: but really, like the other on the other side of it.
• 12:52
  Speaker 4: Like Seana said, it's like I'll get back home like
• 12:55
  Speaker 4: say say my say my two days like my my
• 12:58
  Speaker 4: my two days out that out that week they back
• 13:00
  Speaker 4: to back, so it's like, yo, I'll get home.
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: Well, I think they probably in her contract, they probably
• 13:05
  Speaker 2: set a set day maybe.
• 13:07
  Speaker 4: Like every niggah need that shit better be like a
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  Speaker 4: Monday and a Friday.
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  Speaker 5: Like a Monday or Friday.
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  Speaker 2: Two days a month, so her day is like every
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  Speaker 2: other Friday, she has to go in the office. So
• 13:15
  Speaker 2: I mean, if you think about it, like say like
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  Speaker 2: she was up at four am, she's out the door
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  Speaker 2: at four thirty on the train by four fifty two.
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  Speaker 2: It takes she's put at her desk at by eight thirty.
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  Speaker 2: So let's say from the time she wakes up to
• 13:29
  Speaker 2: the time she's at her desk in Manhattan, it's four
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: and a half hours. So she's off work at five o'clock.
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  Speaker 2: She's probably not getting back into DC if the trains
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  Speaker 2: are running on schedule. Yeah, maybe maybe nine ten, between
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  Speaker 2: nine and ten o'clock that night. Now, if it's a Friday,
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: she can sleep in right and they'll wake up Saturday
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: afternoon or late Saturday morning and don't do whatever, right.
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  Speaker 4: But I mean for me is I'm always thinking. I'm
• 13:55
  Speaker 4: always thinking about.
• 13:58
  Speaker 5: If your niggas need me. You feel what I'm saying.
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: Like, send me an email or call me on teams.
• 14:05
  Speaker 4: Know what I'm saying is like anything, you know, anything
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  Speaker 4: can happen. And then I'm like, I'm like eight hours away,
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  Speaker 4: like you know, eight nine hours and then it's.
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  Speaker 2: Just my schedule day to come in. Okay, Well, I
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  Speaker 2: guess they'll be sitting there when I coming off. Yeah,
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: what to do?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, but you get what I'm saying, or I
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  Speaker 4: or if I'm at work and there's some like some
• 14:24
  Speaker 4: emergency should happen, and I'm saying here, like the right,
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  Speaker 4: I gotta get home. Fucking trains ain't trains ain't running,
• 14:30
  Speaker 4: and I'm sitting here like, yo, my sister, the goddamn trench.
• 14:37
  Speaker 7: Ship.
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  Speaker 2: What you mean the trains is delayed right now is
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  Speaker 2: leaving out of Penn station to go backside.
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  Speaker 5: And yo, don't go go for bed, this bitch, yo
• 14:47
  Speaker 5: golf bed.
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  Speaker 4: This bitch going to the goddamn hospital and niggas can't
• 14:50
  Speaker 4: get be there. And it's like by the time I
• 14:51
  Speaker 4: get that, I'm dead already.
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: She would wake up to fucked around and got dead, y'all.
• 15:03
  Speaker 4: They were like, Yo, they were like Shawn and like
• 15:05
  Speaker 4: SHAWNA in the hospital. She she she's just holding off,
• 15:08
  Speaker 4: just me to get that.
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  Speaker 3: Fuck it you bitch.
• 15:14
  Speaker 5: Hell, oh, stupid ass, bitch, no funking around. Bring our ass.
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: Back so he can talk ship to me.
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: Where's the paddles?
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: Hold on so he can talk ship to me?
• 15:25
  Speaker 4: Hey, hey, hey, why y'all bullshit could be like funk
• 15:28
  Speaker 4: you too, like bullshitting.
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm licensed to use that. I could bring
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: you back, bitch.
• 15:38
  Speaker 5: The thing?
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: So did I tell I told Sean, I tell you
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: about the time me and my friend Antwine went to
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: New York and ended getting I was in the text
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  Speaker 2: for it, bro Oh yeah you were, and the text.
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: There trying to find Somewherege's phone that like it's a
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: McDonald's twenty. Go to McDonald's.
• 15:56
  Speaker 4: I'm saying, he like, because because men like I didn't like,
• 15:59
  Speaker 4: I didn't going to sleep with so you said, like,
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: I like, I ain't even take it down to you.
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  Speaker 4: Was like, Yo, I'm on the train we heading back home,
• 16:04
  Speaker 4: and I'm like, yo, why the fuck these niggas?
• 16:06
  Speaker 5: Go ahead?
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: Like, what the fuck is a power out? What the
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: fuck is going on here?
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: Okay, so this was June of twenty twenty four. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: me and my other best friend, Antwine. He was back home.
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: He's from North Jersey originally, but he was home. And
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: you know, back when I was watching The View every
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: fucking day before we had to come back into the
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  Speaker 2: office full time. It took a day off work. It
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: was a Friday, and I went up to New York.
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: I left my house at about five am, drove to
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: his place in Jersey, and then we parked at the
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: at the train station near him New Jersey Trains and
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: rode the train into Manhattan. Usually when I dropp when
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: me and Seana went to go to the View in
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: twenty twenty two, was it when we started the podcast.
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  Speaker 2: We drove into Manhattan and parked at Lincoln Center and
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: then walked to ABC Studios, which is like what up
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  Speaker 2: around the corner? Like a block of two away, Sean, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and then we caught Subway with the Bagnolia Bakery, went
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: to a record store, this some running around grabb lunch.
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: Was it Red Rooster at Home?
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  Speaker 3: Yes? It was really good.
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: It was good. And then I got my happy ass
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: back in my car and we drove the fuck back home.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: But I had to bring Ida to say, you know what,
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: I think the park in Manhattan and at the Lincoln
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: Center was sixty sixty dollars for that day.
• 17:18
  Speaker 5: I mean, while I understand why you didn't.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: But let me finish. So by the time we paid
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: the tolls to go across go through that, I think
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: it was the lincol Tunnel. We went through the Lincoln
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: Tunnel that was like seventeen dollars by itself, the toll
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: on Turnpike paying the park. I was like, the next
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: time I come up here to go to the View,
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna just leave my car in New Jersey and
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: just take the training the rest of the way so
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: I could save like seventy dollars right on commuting. So
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: but it actually looked up for us because we left
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: your house. But before four a m. We were pulling
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: into Manhattan. I literally pulled out of the tunnel before
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: seven am. The storefronts were just starting to open. Wasn't
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: really nobody walking around at least when we was driving.
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: Traffic was real light. Still. The show recorded from of
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: course eleven to twelve eleven am to twelve noon, and
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: we we did some running around, grab USh, did some
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: other stuff. So we actually didn't head back home until
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: like what five six o'clock, which was prime rush hour time,
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: so we got suck in traffic coming back home. That
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: was my second time, his first time. We went to
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: Dallas BBQs and Chelsea to grab some lunch afterwards, and
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: then we planned was to give him the train to
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: come back, you know, come back to my car. Well,
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: got the Penn station at about four fifteen, four thirty,
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: and the trains were down. M m, all the trains
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: were down. I was like standing in front of the
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: board at the station like.
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: All this shit.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: Say delay. Okay, that's Amtrak. So high in the foot
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: I said, okay, New Jersey Transit, that's where we be going. Okay,
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: oh that shit, say cancel. So how the fuck am
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: I supposed to get back to my car? Was like, bitch,
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: don't know.
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: I guess we stepped and I was like, hey, I'm sorry,
• 19:06
  Speaker 4: don't say no ship like that to me. Nigga, Like
• 19:09
  Speaker 4: but you met be like like.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: I realized this after the fact. I was so fixated
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: on on the train. I was like, well, we waited
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: maybe I want to say thirty forty five minutes before
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: we had had to devise a plan to get back
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: across the Hudson River. So had I had enough sense
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: or enough foresight to know I could have we could
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: have gone to the Port Porter Thority bus terminal. It
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: caught a New Jersey Transit bus to take us back
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: to where I parked my car, but I wasn't thinking
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: of that, So we left Penn Station, went to the
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: Path train station, which got us from Manhattan to Hoboken,
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: which was no way there with the funk I parked.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: We took the New Jersey Transit train from Hoboken to
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: Newark broad Street, caught the light in Newark from new
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: broad Street to North Penn Station, and then ended up
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: stuck at fucking North Penn Station when I called Sean
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: a panicking because my phone was one one percent battery
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: and uh, they nobody had a charge of thing in
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: the station. They couldn't, They didn't charge the phone.
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: I never really understood that, especially now, especially now the
• 20:18
  Speaker 4: cell phones and cell phones are like really stations.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: But but me, yeah, the trains weren't. Only there was
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: one train running, but it was going down to Jersey
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: Shore to like Atlantic City. I was like, that is
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: nowhere near where we need to go. I'm not trying
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: to end up fucking South Jersey and I'm here, and
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: Lord up and.
• 20:36
  Speaker 4: Up here and get him thankfully to roll with you,
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: my nigga.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: I know it.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: I appreciate y'all. But we learned by the time we
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: got the Newark Penn station that because of the heat,
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: it was hot that day. It was like it was
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: like early June. When we went, it was like ninety
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: five degrees. There was like ninety degrees outside and there
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: was like a like an arc flash of something that happened,
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: and train service was out between Philly and New Haven, Connecticut.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: So I was like, oh, I'm glad I didn't, you know, drive,
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: you know, take the train from home, because I would
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: have been real fucked. I would have wouldn't have had
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: to find a way to get back to Philly to
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: get on the train to go back to my car
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: in either New Carrollton or probably Baltimore. So we made
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: it back and by the time, you know, I felt
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: dealt with all the traffic. Like I said, we got
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: to Pastation at four between four and four fifteen. I
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: opened my front door at midnight. I said, well, what
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: type of fucking commute? I said, well, I'm not doing that.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: I'm not doing that again. That's a lot I probably will, but.
• 21:40
  Speaker 5: But yeah, yeah, we know.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: Shut up, bitch.
• 21:43
  Speaker 5: I mean, I'm just I'm just saying.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: When I interviewed years ago for a job with Prince
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: George's County Department of Wasting Transportation or Water and Transportation,
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: they told me about a guy who commuted from New
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Jersey to Largo every day for work. What. Yeah, one
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: of their engineers lived in South Jersey, right near to
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: you know, the Dela Delaware Memorial Bridges. He lived. I
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: think an EXEDU two passed the bridge in New Jersey
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: and would commute that distance from New Jersey to Maryland
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: for work every day.
• 22:19
  Speaker 5: Fuck.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: No, that's too much that people commute from the Eastern
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Shore to go work in DC Annapolis where I work at.
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: They I know a lot of people do that coming
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: from Baltimore or going to and from Baltimore every day.
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's too much traveling. My family member works
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: in Montgomery County, and I feel like that's a lot
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: of traveling from Baltimore over here. From Baltimore, from Montgomery County.
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: I'm not sure if he goes in every day, but
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: he tried to. They told me to put in for
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: a position down there, and I was like, I looked
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: at the money, and I had money pretty good.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: If the money was good enough, would you do I'm like, Ship, now, Ma,
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: that's gonna be going to my damn gas tank.
• 23:03
  Speaker 5: Yeah, life decisions, Like I really want to.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: If it was for seventy five K, would you do it?
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: That sounds real good.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: If you got to get up and be out the
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: house of six am to get to work it, So
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: that's gonna be seven seven thirty.
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: That's gonna be the struggle we getting my ass up
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: on time. But sometimes I think I'll be hearing my
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: alarm go off and it really do be going off,
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: and I'd be like, all right, I'm getting up. No,
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: Then I pop up fifteen minutes like, oh, Ship, So
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: we're super committed.
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: We did talk about super but the real question is
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: if the money, if the money was.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: Right, would you do it for a job giving off
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: from you one hundred K plus benefits?
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: Ship, nigga, you said plus better.
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: How long the community is though? Like, I don't know
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: if I could do it every day?
• 23:47
  Speaker 5: How far?
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: How far? Okay? If you had to travel to work
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: every day, but you were making one hundred k a year,
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: and how would you do it? Yes or no? First
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: question for the kyea, how far would you go for that?
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: For that salary?
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: Honestly? Maybe?
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: Now we're in Baltimore. Now, let's say, would you go
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: to from your house to Randallstown? Would you do that?
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: Tyson yea Hunt Valley yep, York Pennsylvania.
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: Maybe? Yeah, you said about forty minutes up eighty three.
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: Everybody also going against traffic because you're going off for everybody.
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: I might do York, okay, Frederick.
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: Seventy seventy to be a little shaky.
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: But everybody's coming into Baltimore not going out that way,
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: and you be going against Trafford. From your house to Frederick,
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: I might chant it. Okay, So we did from your
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: house to downtown? Would you do it?
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah? I did deafe years. Okay, I did Deafine years.
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: I worked downtown for for up until I got the
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: most recent position.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: Okay, what about over by East Point Mall?
• 24:53
  Speaker 5: Yeah? I do it?
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because I travel women, because I travel from Howard
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: County to downtown. So yeah. When I was living in
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: how County, south east, Yeah, yeah, because I might find
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: me some backstreets.
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: White Marsh, Yeah yeah, bel Air.
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: Ninety five for that horrible one in and out in
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: the morning, four hundred thousand. I might.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: I might change have her degrees, Oh my god, all
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: the way out, I got the vina and the right
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: in the right position. I have degrees.
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: That's like exit ninety ship four hundred thousand. I don't know.
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: I might.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: I might change it.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: Pour deposit on the other side of the susque Hannabridge.
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: Oh baby, if I gotta go across the every day
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: every day they bridge kids, but Jesus out of me. Okay,
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: And I had to get on that bridge. I get
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: all the way to the left and drive two hands
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: on ten and two like I'm in driving school like this,
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: I don't look sideways nothing.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: All right, we did north. So let's go south. What
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: about from from your house Columbia.
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because, like I said, I when I lived out
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: Hower County, I should come downtown for work every.
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: Day like our city is also that it's closer.
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: I would do.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: Next major city, South Laurel. Yeah.
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: Possibly, all right.
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: So going south so we said you said yes to
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: Colombia Laurel possibly Yeah, uh, green.
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: Belt without traffic, that's about forty five minutes right at
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: the top.
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: You don't have to go around the but wall. You
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: just to get off right before you get on the
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: Capitol Beltway.
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I will try it, Bowie ship. Well, should I
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: drove bo to get my damn a couple of times?
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: I mean when iout traffic, that's only about forty minutes
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: early enough, it's four o'clock in the morning. Maybe Annapolis.
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: Oh my thing, my cousin got married. I was struggling
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: trying to get down there one time.
• 26:48
  Speaker 5: I think, I think, I think, I think my thing
• 26:50
  Speaker 5: about like my.
• 26:51
  Speaker 4: Travel, like my travel perioder, like I prefer to work early,
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: get off early.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: Now let's let's Rea frame the question. Thank you for
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: bringing up if you could choose your start time. Let's say,
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: if you can start any time starting from four am,
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: between four and four a and twelve new like, just
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: to work eight and a half hours that day.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: But if it's driving like I will try to probably
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: take an earlier ship. I had to force myself to
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: get up, Yeah, because I want to get off earlier
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: and try to beat some of the trainer coming back
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: in town.
• 27:23
  Speaker 4: All right, so you said, yeah, what about you know, Yeah,
• 27:26
  Speaker 4: I'm saying, like as long as like long as as
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: long as I'm like if it's if it's like six o'clock,
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: like six o'clock, like like a sixty three type thing.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you can pick whatever. You can pick your hours
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: as long as half.
• 27:36
  Speaker 5: Like a sixty three or seven, seven or four.
• 27:38
  Speaker 7: Like.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I can different times any day. You can be
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: a work between I can get away twelve.
• 27:42
  Speaker 4: I don't mind getting up like four o'clock in the
• 27:44
  Speaker 4: morning and yeah, leaving out and being like being at
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: because I'm only there until like three and then I
• 27:50
  Speaker 4: can I'm beat. I'm beating the traffic going and beating
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: the traffic coming home.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: You could leave if you got to work at five am.
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: You can honestly leave work at like two thirty and after.
• 27:57
  Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying.
• 27:58
  Speaker 4: So it's like I'm beating traffic going in traffic coming home.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: Or if you you wanted to be extra, you could
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: go to work at eleven am or go to work
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: at noon, but you'd be on. You'd be working from
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: till seven thirty or eight three.
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: I remember into four is already a struggl right.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: So we did in Napolis. What about d C? Actually
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: in d C, that's in Washington.
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: I hate d C. D that probably will give me
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: my thing.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: You have to get them the Metro.
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: I hate no at the Metro and great park.
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: If I park and just catch the training, I'm cool
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: because my thing about d C park your parking.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate dropping in d C.
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: All these extra damn streets and and I'm like turning there,
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: turn there, turn.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: Here, turn on G Street, turn on fourteen. But that
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: was okay, okay, So we did d C proper. We
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: did Bowie south of Bowie, Upper Marlboro.
• 28:50
  Speaker 5: Maybe that's a lot of right.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: Brandywine, damn, that really is brandy Wine. No, brandy one
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: is going to a southern Maryland, so brandy wine. K
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: So Waldorf is definitely out. Waldorf is down before we
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: did that drive before. I ain't trying to do that again.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: It took me to get from my house where I
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: live at I'm gonna say where to the Plata. It
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: took me an hour. That's past Waldorf going down to Highway.
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: Go that way. When I go to visit my family
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: in Virginia. Damn three old.
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: One down three one past civilization. It's just woods and
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: farms factories. So that's too far. Okay. What about Alexandria
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: or Arlington, Virginia.
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: Maybe because it's like at the top of at the
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: top of Via right out of DC.
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what you have to drive around the Capitol
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: buttway to get like Tyson's Corner, Alexandria, Arlington maybe. Okay.
• 29:51
  Speaker 5: I mean, you know what I'm saying.
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: For the Fagerstown Jesus fire.
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: Now all right, my dad, I'm gonna be honest, it's
• 30:01
  Speaker 4: not so much.
• 30:02
  Speaker 5: It's not so much. The distance is when you leave.
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: No, it's not it's not even when you leave, it's
• 30:07
  Speaker 4: it's police, my nigga. Like for us, if you got
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: somewhere to go.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: Now, I got my dunk. Okay. So we did Cumberland.
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: But okay, so you say Cumberling nigga, No Cumberland nigga.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: That's western Maryland. No Cumberland. Okay. So you say yes
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: to York though, Yeah, I think I would do Harrisburg. Ya.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: That's north of York. Hershey, Oh lord.
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: If I go to Hershey, I'm staying up there for
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: a couple of years, I'm at the Hurstry Factory because
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: they just put they just put some twistlers out and
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: they roast of.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: Know, go to Philly every day.
• 31:01
  Speaker 5: No, like you bullshitting.
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: I got a job off of the Hershey like like earlier,
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: like I remember, I said a couple of years ago
• 31:11
  Speaker 4: I had I had got a job off of her
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: job off of for Hershey when like right before we
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: moved to California.
• 31:17
  Speaker 5: And my issue, my issue with it was.
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: Is that it was only for me, like you know
• 31:21
  Speaker 4: what I'm saying, like that they they weren't trying to
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: They wanted me to work with because because of my
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: background like working as a residential counselor in.
• 31:30
  Speaker 5: The group home.
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: They wanted me to work on campus with on campus
• 31:35
  Speaker 4: with at the school with them with the kids on campus.
• 31:38
  Speaker 5: Yeah yeah. And for me it's like and I'm cool.
• 31:43
  Speaker 4: I'm I was like yeah, man, my issue, but my
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: issue was it's like, oh, because you'll know me, like
• 31:51
  Speaker 4: I'm family first, like if I'm eating, if I'm eating
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: and she eating to type ship and I gotta be there,
• 31:56
  Speaker 4: like I gotta be there for you.
• 31:58
  Speaker 5: Know, be there for her in this case, need me.
• 32:00
  Speaker 4: And then for you to say you move with me
• 32:02
  Speaker 4: out here, like yeah, you're gonna pay for like room
• 32:04
  Speaker 4: and board and all that shit.
• 32:06
  Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, it's like I
• 32:07
  Speaker 5: can't move her.
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: I can't move her on campus, right, and then you know,
• 32:11
  Speaker 4: and then for me starting out, and she was like,
• 32:14
  Speaker 4: you know, at first, she was like, you know, you
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: could just go. I said, nah, Cause to me, it's
• 32:17
  Speaker 4: like I don't like being away, Like I don't like
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: being away for more than you know, like you know,
• 32:22
  Speaker 4: more than a couple more than a few hours, Like yo,
• 32:24
  Speaker 4: I gotta I gotta come home, like I like, I
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: don't understand how truck drivers do it, like nigga, I
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: got I gotta come home, Like let me go to
• 32:33
  Speaker 4: work and then come home and lay in my own goddamn.
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: All over the country.
• 32:39
  Speaker 5: Nah, I'm cool.
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: So next I had another, so question of the week, Right,
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: all right, we might go slightly over, but I think
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: it's fine because we been in good time.
• 32:53
  Speaker 5: So questionserve, they deserve one.
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: Question of the week. Let's see which one should I
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: do for I.
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: Can't wait to get back on.
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: A shut up.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: Pick.
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: Don't m m.
• 33:19
  Speaker 4: M hm, doom, doom, said my man. Said, look, y'all
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: can't say nothing. It's that ting, it's that.
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: D do and that's just all for the episode under
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: Pressure by David.
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: I forgot that's where that beat came from. Under pressure.
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: That was some way. One day I heard that b
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: start and I was in the bitch like stop.
• 33:46
  Speaker 5: I go to work.
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, that ain't the right songs.
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: You know, since we're talking about super commute, let's let's
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: make it. I go to work by by cool o D.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: Let's do that how you like me?
• 33:58
  Speaker 5: Now?
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: I used to live downtown.
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: What twenty next street?
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: Chilling the wild wat I go to work, gab before
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: you gets.
• 34:15
  Speaker 5: In my head.
• 34:15
  Speaker 3: Now it's like a juggle sometimes.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: Oh this is a good one.
• 34:24
  Speaker 5: This is a good one. Friends, So standard chilling Street.
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: So the question of the week. Tell me the worst
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: thing you've said that hurt his ego his or hurt ego?
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: Al Ready my niggasri.
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: Shit, shit, I'm kicking my legs like kid, I'm excited
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: about this one.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: My six year old told my ex father, I can't
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: wait to get married and in your family name, that
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: was cute.
• 35:09
  Speaker 5: That that was cute, That was cute. I ain't on
• 35:11
  Speaker 5: front with.
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: Her name Seana. I can't say that I don't have
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: my daddy last name.
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: Tell me the worst thing you said that hurt his ego.
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: You went through the effort to try and hide her
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: from me. Meanwhile, I had you shaking hands with mine
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: and calling him bro.
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: Get that bitch of breathe give all raise.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: Another comment, these comments that we realize that I'm not
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: living up to my fullest potential. Tell me the worst
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: thing you said that hurt his ego. Male coworker told
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: me I was dressed like an old lady in front
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: of our team. I said, only one of us as
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: balden and it's not me.
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: Well, he should have just shut the fuck up. It
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: ain't his damn food.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: Tell me the worst thing you said that hurt his ego.
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: He told me his parents didn't approve of girls with tattoos,
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: so I told him my mom doesn't approve of men
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: without degrees. That one't hurt him.
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: Oh mm hm, bitch, because he went to it T
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: T College and you hurt his feelings.
• 36:25
  Speaker 5: I say, they say.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: So, I say, they say he got into school through
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: education connection. Tell me the worst thing you said that
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: hurt his ego. Don't confuse my not having a roster
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: but not having a wait list.
• 36:47
  Speaker 5: Mm hmm.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, bitch, get that girl all award. Mm hmmm.
• 36:57
  Speaker 4: The wine and audacity, the wonder war word m hm,
• 37:01
  Speaker 4: because bitch, you got the audacity that tried.
• 37:05
  Speaker 5: Me like that, But don't do that.
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: Tell me the worst thing you said that hurt his ego.
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: I refuse to be bothered by man that I lower
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: my standards for.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: Oh oh.
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: Oh, was that Keny Moore?
• 37:21
  Speaker 5: You should have quit. You should have quit while he
• 37:23
  Speaker 5: was ahead, bitch.
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: Said, queen does not argue what peasants.
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: I said.
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: She told your aunt Tana's old squeaky nose.
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: Didn't she tell me the worst thing you said that
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: hurt his ego? He told me that I did. I
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: act like a man, so I said, then watch and learning.
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: Maybe you'll become one too. Ship drop? Was that the one?
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: Was that the one?
• 37:47
  Speaker 5: Ship? That's the one that probably that was probably had
• 37:49
  Speaker 5: to punch the mouth like bit who you talking?
• 37:51
  Speaker 3: Ship was at this one? You got to call your
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: sister's stay right there, bitch, I got I got something
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: for your ass. You see how low your stand it
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: is when you get your ass.
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: Off this ground. You're raggedy. Tell me the worst thing
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: you said that hurt his ego. Your father was onto
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: something when he never spoke to you again.
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: Damn, damn, those are fighting words. We got the tussle. Now,
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: we got a tussle. But you know I'm about that.
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: We got the tussle.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: Oh damn this, I think this is a good one.
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: Tell me the worst thing you said to hurt his ego.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: He told me that I like a woman who hates
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: all men, and I said, you look like a man
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: who doesn't know five women who feel safe around him.
• 38:39
  Speaker 5: They said, they say, why not have five?
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: But zingo, Okay, Sheldon, you know that used to be
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: my show.
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: Tell me the worst thing you said that hurt his ego.
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: How are you playing hard to get when you're already
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: hard to want?
• 38:56
  Speaker 5: Damn.
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: Man was appalled and deceased.
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: He was be fucking fought. They will behoove you to
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: get restrained in order.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: Tell me the worst thing you said that hurt his ego.
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: This man jokingly tried to roast me. He's five four
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: and I'm five to seven. So I said, do you
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: want me to grab a steps too? So you can
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: say that to my face, you dirty, damn.
• 39:26
  Speaker 3: Damn you hurt his little ego.
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: Tell me the worst thing you said that hurt his ego.
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: You can't be upset for longer than you last.
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: Damn shit, Damn that hurt my feelings.
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: Tell me the worst thing you said that hurt his ego.
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: You wouldn't even exist if your mother had higher self esteem.
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: Damn oh oh out, because for why.
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: Tell me the worst thing you said that hurt his ego.
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: He used to brag about how all his women were
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: submissive and never talked back, always listened. Blah blah blah.
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: I asked, and where are they now? He kicked me out.
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: That was a good question. I mean question they'll need answers.
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: Mmmmm mm hmm.
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: Tell me the worst thing you said that hurt his ego.
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: Told me he was used to dating patitgue girls. I
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: was like, it's okay, I know it's so different. All
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: my exes had ads, so it's way different for me too.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: Damn.
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: Now she went for the beer belly.
• 40:46
  Speaker 5: She said, he told me that.
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: Dreams I go to hell. Oh damn, tell me the
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: worst thing you said that hurt his ego. You look
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: better without glasses. My response, you also look better, but
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: I'm not wearing glasses.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Damn.
• 41:06
  Speaker 5: H m hmmmm, Damn listen, mm hmmm, and the Wanda
• 41:14
  Speaker 5: world goes to.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: Tell me the worst thing you said that hurt his ego?
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: One time. He said, I'm not reading all that and
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: I said, I know because you can't.
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: Damn. Now she came for him to the fact that
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: he didn't just hooked on phone.
• 41:31
  Speaker 5: Hey, Floyd, you can. You could just read one page
• 41:34
  Speaker 5: and just how you pat a book I give you.
• 41:36
  Speaker 4: I'll give you one hundred thousand dollars pup.
• 41:46
  Speaker 5: Just one page. You only gotta read one page of
• 41:48
  Speaker 5: the book to he.
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: To the bitch.
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: Duve uh b b boy, tell me the worst thing
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: you said that hurt his ego, He replied to my
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: story saying, girl, get over me. And I replied to
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: him with an audio message of him crying and begging
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: me to forgive him and get back with him.
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: Damn, I'm sorry.
• 42:21
  Speaker 5: That nigga did that slow backslide.
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: He slid down the wall.
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: He grabbed that.
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: Look with this girl.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: That did to me.
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: A couple more, A couple more, Tell me the worst
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: thing you said that hurt his ego, Oh ship, what's
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: the wrong thing. I saw him on side of a
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: gas station once and he tried to talk to me.
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: I just said, sorry, I don't have any change and
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: kept walking. I never even looked, Oh, I'm gonna use that.
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: I don't carry cash. You'll get pushing them off. Shut up, no,
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: thank you. I don't need you to pump my gas.
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: It's me, miss lady, Miss lady, Miss lady.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: Oh, tell me the worst thing you said? That hurt
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: his ego? Who are you arguing with me? Or the window?
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: He's cross eyed, by the way.
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: Damn damn. Now he was having a conversation with both
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: of us.
• 43:33
  Speaker 5: I ain't gonna lie to you. I was like, I'll
• 43:35
  Speaker 5: be talking my niggas like that, Like yo, I got
• 43:38
  Speaker 5: a homeboy like that. I got a homeboy like that.
• 43:42
  Speaker 5: Charlotte was mad and shit to me.
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: He hadn't born me. Why the fuck I didn't know
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: he was talking to me. I thought he was talking
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: to Aaron. I didn't know, and I was like, oh me, oh,
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: I didn't know.
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: They know.
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: They got to give me a heads up on stuff
• 43:58
  Speaker 3: like that. You had to just send me in the
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: ship blink.
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: Two more and then we'll go into the Q and
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: a segment, tell me the worst thing you said that
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: hurt his ego. My ex told me that I might
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: as well be a stay at home mim because that's
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: what women are made for. So I said, considering I
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: make more than you and Wolf for the rest of
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: my life, how about you stay.
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: Home, damn, And dinner better be ready at six o'clock sharp.
• 44:30
  Speaker 3: The dishes better be done, the clothes better be fulled,
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: the lunch better be made for tomorrow. The bathroom better
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: be clean. I better see the lines and this carpet
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: from what you vacuumed it.
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: And the last one, tell me the worst thing you
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: said that hurt his ego. A man at work told
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: me I would look happier if I smiled, and I
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: told him I would think you'd be used to women
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: looking disappointed around you. Shit, Okay, you know too much?
• 45:03
  Speaker 5: Okay, not enough?
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: And with that, that's the end of this week's Question
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: of the Week. It's up to you now, Seanna, you got.
• 45:12
  Speaker 5: The juice something's come and know you.
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: Got a bad don't know if I can top there.
• 45:20
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• 45:23
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• 45:29
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  Speaker 3: going to start on branding his favorite thread six brown
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: chick because we can, and it's it's gonna go along
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: with this other stuff we've been hearing.
• 46:52
  Speaker 5: Huh, stop acting like you don't like it, child, You know.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: You like it. Mm hmm.
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: First of all, First of all, I am grateful that
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: I have a husband because he supports me. But his
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: on college just said that his pri state can to
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: spread everywhere and that he had maybe two to three
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: months to live. Damn, that was five months ago. I've
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: been meeting his future replacements and spending his money, assuming
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: he would check out before the bills arrive. I'm pregnant
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: by one of the guys I'm seeing, and the bills
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: are piling up. One afternoon, my husband's doctor and the
• 47:26
  Speaker 3: hospital's attorney called and revealed his pro state was healthy.
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: The lad mislabeled the test, and the other patient has
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: since passed. He was given a small settlement. Meanwhile, I'm
• 47:37
  Speaker 3: walking around pregnant and we haven't had sex in months.
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: Time is not on my side. Help girl, go to hell,
• 47:46
  Speaker 3: go town. That's all I got for you.
• 47:48
  Speaker 5: Down, Go to hen Oh shit, you're gonna get written
• 47:51
  Speaker 5: out that well, shorty baby.
• 47:52
  Speaker 3: He gonna divorce your ass and take his little settlement
• 47:54
  Speaker 3: and going about his business. That man body wasn't even
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: cold and you was auditioning. Of course it never got
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: cool because he ain't have the cancer and you out
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: here auditioning his replacements. That means you you gonna was
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: with him for the money in the first thing place.
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: You ain't love that man for you to already start
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: moving on. Harold boom boo. You better hope your uh,
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: whichever one of them niggas is your baby daddy is
• 48:16
  Speaker 3: willing to be a far of them.
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because I don't. Yeah, you're gonna lose that.
• 48:21
  Speaker 5: Man, Geryl go down, he already gone.
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: He gonna take his little settlement. You better not try
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: to take him for none of his damn money. And
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: I hope he proved that that baby ain't his because
• 48:31
  Speaker 3: you ain't had sex in months, So you don't try
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: to trick him into putting that baby on his uh
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: uh him signing that birth certificate. Because I mean, in
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: most states, legally, even if you get pregnant, wile you
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: still buy somebody else while you're still married, the husband
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: is considered the legal father. But he better don't sign ship, sir.
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: Go get you a d A and a task d
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: n A Danna, don't lie d n A girl, go down.
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: I hope he leaves you with nothing, nothing, nothing nothing?
• 49:04
  Speaker 4: Oh right, mouth fast, bitch, trifling bitch, no tracker like bitch.
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: Wow, oh stupid ass bitch. You just a bitch?
• 49:16
  Speaker 5: Oh fuck the boyshit? Oh oh oh I just hate
• 49:19
  Speaker 5: your ass.
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: Now, I just hate your ass.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: Dang?
• 49:25
  Speaker 5: Oh lord, alright, what the fuck?
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: He? What this?
• 49:28
  Speaker 5: This nigga loved you? Oh?
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: Try he loved it you.
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: I can't you just do this?
• 49:39
  Speaker 3: Next one is from rudditt Sagas and it's am I
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: the ass whole question? Because you know we love those
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: around these parts. Okay, the title w is am I
• 49:47
  Speaker 3: the asshole?
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: For one?
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: Out of a marriage where I feel unappreciated as a
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: step dad. I thirty six male, have been married to
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: my wife, thirty four female, for four years. She has
• 49:55
  Speaker 3: a twelve year old son from a previous relationship. When
• 49:58
  Speaker 3: we got married, I was all. I helped with school, sports,
• 50:01
  Speaker 3: at everything else. I never tried to replace his dad,
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: but I've been there when his bio dad wasn't. Lately, though,
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: it feels like nothing I do is enough. If I
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: discipline him, I'm overstepping if I back off, I'm not
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: involved enough. His dad comes and goals, and every time
• 50:15
  Speaker 3: he returns, I become invisible. Then when he disappears again,
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: I'm suddenly expected to step up like nothing happened. Last week,
• 50:22
  Speaker 3: we had an argument because my step son was being disrespectful,
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: and when I tried to address it, my wife shut
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: me down. Later, I told her how I felt like
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: I'm only value when it's convenient. That's when she said,
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: excuse me. As a stepdad, you have to keep showing
• 50:37
  Speaker 3: up no matter what happens. Yep, that hit me hard,
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: not because I disagreeable, because I realized I'm in a
• 50:42
  Speaker 3: marriage where my effort is expected but never truly appreciated.
• 50:46
  Speaker 3: I told her I want a divorce. She was shocked
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: and said, I'm being selfish for giving up on my family.
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: Now I'm wondering if I'm wrong. I love my step son,
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: but I don't know if I can keep pouring into
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: a role where I feel so unimportant and my d asshole.
• 51:01
  Speaker 5: Nah, fam you good. I'm gonna tell you.
• 51:03
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you, I'm gonna say NOA, I'm gonna
• 51:06
  Speaker 4: say you're not necessarily the asshole because it's like fuck
• 51:10
  Speaker 4: them fum nacause I mean I hate you like that
• 51:16
  Speaker 4: when it's like Yo, you're trying to like you're trying
• 51:18
  Speaker 4: to do your best and you're trying to do what
• 51:19
  Speaker 4: you feel like it's right, but then other people make
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: you feel bad for doing like make you feel bad
• 51:22
  Speaker 4: for for your decision, and it's like no, fuck that, Like, yo,
• 51:25
  Speaker 4: keep doing what you're doing. You're not doing nothing, Like
• 51:27
  Speaker 4: I don't see you doing nothing wrong. Keep doing what
• 51:29
  Speaker 4: you're doing. You you fine, fuck them and if anybody
• 51:33
  Speaker 4: else and then look, anybody else has burning mack say
• 51:36
  Speaker 4: right now, down them all, Okay, keep doing your talb.
• 51:40
  Speaker 4: Don't let nobody tell you that you mean, don't nobody
• 51:42
  Speaker 4: tell you that you're wrong or let nobody make it.
• 51:44
  Speaker 4: Let nobody make you second guess yourself for the decision
• 51:47
  Speaker 4: that you made, because you're making the best one for you.
• 51:50
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry I got on the soap box like like
• 51:54
  Speaker 5: we was on like we was on Sally Jesse, right,
• 51:56
  Speaker 5: and I'm sorry.
• 52:02
  Speaker 4: Mm hmm, but nah, but for real, like all this
• 52:04
  Speaker 4: is sid stop like not because I understand like when
• 52:08
  Speaker 4: we do when we do most of these and you know,
• 52:10
  Speaker 4: we listen to like we listen to what's going on,
• 52:12
  Speaker 4: and a lot of them, a lot of these people,
• 52:14
  Speaker 4: we feel them. They be second guessing themselves about the
• 52:16
  Speaker 4: decisions that they make, and they making the best decision
• 52:18
  Speaker 4: that's right for them. And you know, just because the
• 52:20
  Speaker 4: other people don't agree with what you're doing, you're.
• 52:22
  Speaker 5: Not an asshole. You're not an asshole, yo.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: Like you.
• 52:26
  Speaker 5: You're doing what's right for you and your families. Who
• 52:28
  Speaker 5: fu everybody? Everybody else?
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: That's right? All right? Final question, I'm gonna stay gonna Reddit.
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: Oh I'm sorry, Brandon. I am so sorry Brandon.
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: My bag.
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: Final question though, uh am I? This one is also
• 52:48
  Speaker 3: am I the answ whole question from Reddit t August,
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: and is am I the asshole for telling my sister
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: she lost me the second she even considered dating my
• 52:56
  Speaker 3: ex who gave me st D damn. I twenty eight female,
• 53:02
  Speaker 3: was with a guy named Jason twenty nine male when
• 53:06
  Speaker 3: we were twenty twenty one years old. We broke up
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: when I was twenty two after I found out that
• 53:11
  Speaker 3: he had not only been cheating on me, but that
• 53:13
  Speaker 3: he got the disease from cheating and didn't tell me
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: he had known about it, and he was told he
• 53:18
  Speaker 3: needed to speak to partners because of the risk associated
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: with this disease, such as not being able to get pregnant.
• 53:27
  Speaker 3: I remember when I told my family what happened. They
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: were all there to support me, and my sister, twenty
• 53:32
  Speaker 3: seven female, was one of them. I did move on,
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: and I met my husband a year after breaking up
• 53:37
  Speaker 3: with Jason, and thankfully I was able to get pregnant
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: and we had a baby together. But I never forgot
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: about the fact Jason did what he did. Cheating was
• 53:45
  Speaker 3: bad enough, but you can move on from that. The
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: disease is where it became not only unforgivable, but I
• 53:51
  Speaker 3: would have taken issue with anyone in my family even
• 53:54
  Speaker 3: becoming friends with him after this point. But then three
• 53:57
  Speaker 3: months ago, my sister asked me if I would be
• 53:59
  Speaker 3: okay her dating Jason. She told me she didn't want
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: to lose me, but that she had met him again
• 54:04
  Speaker 3: after several years and she liked him and he changed.
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: I walked away from my sister without saying the word,
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: and she started dating Jason officially. So when she came
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: to me like that and asked me like she did,
• 54:16
  Speaker 3: I would guess that they had already been unofficial and
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: not just friendly. I have shut my sister out of
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: my life and she has not been allowed to come
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: and meet my child. The rest of the family stands
• 54:27
  Speaker 3: with me and what I've decided, but they have not
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: shut her out of their lives, which is totally fine
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: and not an issue for me. But my sister doesn't
• 54:35
  Speaker 3: like that, and she has tried to get in touch
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: with me several times and has cried and asked me
• 54:39
  Speaker 3: to hear her out and to talk to her. The
• 54:41
  Speaker 3: fact that I have run into her once since and
• 54:44
  Speaker 3: I ignored her. She was talking to me, but I
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: acted like she was a ghost that I couldn't see
• 54:48
  Speaker 3: or hear. So she ambushed me at my house the
• 54:51
  Speaker 3: other day. So she ambushed me in my house the
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: other day and told me that she doesn't want to
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: lose me, and she'll break up with Jason and if
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: I stop ignoring her and we can go back to
• 55:02
  Speaker 3: being sisters. I told her that she lost me the
• 55:06
  Speaker 3: second she even considered dating him. I told her I
• 55:10
  Speaker 3: might not have known about it in the moment, but
• 55:12
  Speaker 3: once I heard she wanted to date him, knowing what
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: he did to me, it was over. She's crying about
• 55:16
  Speaker 3: it now, and our family are refusing to hear her
• 55:19
  Speaker 3: cries about it. My baby sister twenty four told me
• 55:22
  Speaker 3: that she's trying to get the rest of the family
• 55:23
  Speaker 3: to confront me about it, and nobody will. She does
• 55:26
  Speaker 3: think our sister is genuinely hurt about this, but she
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: feels like it's her own fault, and I agree. But
• 55:31
  Speaker 3: I know what I said to her might still be
• 55:34
  Speaker 3: overly harsh, because even thinking about it without acting on
• 55:37
  Speaker 3: it would have led to this, which might be wrong
• 55:39
  Speaker 3: of me. So I'm here to ask, am I the asshole?
• 55:43
  Speaker 5: Fuck knowledge? She already lost your baby? She already lost
• 55:48
  Speaker 5: your baby. Fucking dude, I just said this about the
• 55:51
  Speaker 5: last question, yo.
• 55:53
  Speaker 4: Stop letting motherfucker try a second guess you like, let
• 55:55
  Speaker 4: you second make you second guess yourself.
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 55:57
  Speaker 2: Fuck her.
• 55:57
  Speaker 3: She wasn't thinking about your sister, so she even And
• 56:00
  Speaker 3: if he didn't give you an ass t d even
• 56:01
  Speaker 3: if your relationship amba, I couldn't get it out child.
• 56:06
  Speaker 3: That's terrible what they say. I didn't even gonna try
• 56:11
  Speaker 3: again even if it didn't end. Well, you know the
• 56:15
  Speaker 3: fact that that was your ax. She had no business
• 56:17
  Speaker 3: dating him, Like, who does they all these other niggas
• 56:19
  Speaker 3: in the world. You want to date somebody who've been
• 56:21
  Speaker 3: with your sister, your best friend, your cousin, your auntie,
• 56:25
  Speaker 3: your mama, like.
• 56:27
  Speaker 5: We're in the devil.
• 56:28
  Speaker 3: You deceive a her like I don't understand that. And
• 56:34
  Speaker 3: the fact that he did all of that to your sister.
• 56:35
  Speaker 3: Now you want to snot and cry because you thought
• 56:37
  Speaker 3: ship was supposed to be co pasthetic. No, bitch, she
• 56:39
  Speaker 3: was standing there with him, Troy, No, no, fuck her,
• 56:45
  Speaker 3: and she wanted looking crazy when he do the same thing.
• 56:47
  Speaker 3: He ain't changed. He the same dirty dick nigga there
• 56:50
  Speaker 3: he was back then. Oh, if you start speaking to me,
• 56:54
  Speaker 3: I break up with him. No you won't. You're gonna
• 56:56
  Speaker 3: be just seeing him in secret, and the next thing
• 56:57
  Speaker 3: you know, you're gonna pop up pregnant and then you
• 56:59
  Speaker 3: gonna he's not. But I tried.
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: I was in love with him.
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry.
• 57:04
  Speaker 3: Go go to hell because I was standing right there
• 57:06
  Speaker 3: with to Troy.
• 57:06
  Speaker 2: Go down. No, you deserved the right to make whatever
• 57:12
  Speaker 2: boundaries you need for yourself.
• 57:15
  Speaker 3: That's right.
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: And if if you I can see if you cut this,
• 57:18
  Speaker 2: cut the stuff or didn't. But I didn't hear her
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: out didn't hear out at least once, but if you
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: explained your position on it, he chose to deal with
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: do it anyway.
• 57:28
  Speaker 3: After the reaction that you gave her, she still went
• 57:31
  Speaker 3: and and and.
• 57:32
  Speaker 2: Then tried to be like, oh, well, I mean I
• 57:37
  Speaker 2: don't give her dam if you dump him now, I
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: made my decision. You know you were around when the
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: trauma occurred, and you know what happened between us. So
• 57:44
  Speaker 2: for then for you to then go and attempt to
• 57:47
  Speaker 2: date that man after what he did to me, knowing
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: you were present for it, have the life you deserve,
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: that's right.
• 57:53
  Speaker 5: But I think I think I hate that. I think
• 57:56
  Speaker 5: no part. I'm sorry, No, I know I hate that.
• 57:58
  Speaker 5: I don't.
• 57:59
  Speaker 4: I don't like when people make decisions. I mean, like,
• 58:01
  Speaker 4: you make a decision like that and then it's like, yo,
• 58:03
  Speaker 4: you already know, like what she's been through, like like
• 58:07
  Speaker 4: like which why I admire Keita and Shirley Sean and
• 58:10
  Speaker 4: Keana with the with the with the aspect of it's like, yo,
• 58:14
  Speaker 4: if I fucked with you before, I like, yo, if
• 58:17
  Speaker 4: she fuck with you, I can't fuck with you.
• 58:20
  Speaker 5: I can't.
• 58:20
  Speaker 4: I can't do nothing. I can't do nothing with you.
• 58:23
  Speaker 4: Unfortunately for men. It's for men it's different for a
• 58:26
  Speaker 4: minutes different, well thigga, don't give a fuck. But but
• 58:31
  Speaker 4: for women now, But for women it's a it's an
• 58:34
  Speaker 4: unspoken like it's like it's an unspoken bond. So I
• 58:37
  Speaker 4: mean it's unspoken what they say, unspoken rule or unwritten
• 58:40
  Speaker 4: rule like Yo, you don't fuck with you don't fuck
• 58:43
  Speaker 4: with no family, you don't fuck with no no, nobody.
• 58:46
  Speaker 5: That's been in my like that's been in my bed.
• 58:49
  Speaker 2: Well I think it's that. But with gods, I think
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: it's also a thing of like the type of relationship.
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: If it was just somebody you was on to be
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: fucking on, God's a territorial they don't want nobody sucking
• 58:59
  Speaker 2: on nobody. There. Sex with a lot of guys are like,
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: well we was just I was just knocking it up,
• 59:04
  Speaker 2: knocking it out. But some I think most guys are
• 59:09
  Speaker 2: the same way with who to if it was like
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: a significant relationship to where you were with this person,
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: you might have been married and had kids.
• 59:17
  Speaker 4: But I think that's the I think that's where that's
• 59:19
  Speaker 4: that's where the ship, that's where it comes in. Like
• 59:21
  Speaker 4: that's where like the level like the level of respect
• 59:24
  Speaker 4: comes in like like, I don't see Keana messing with
• 59:28
  Speaker 4: anybody that.
• 59:28
  Speaker 3: Even looked your way, Nope, or and vice versa.
• 59:31
  Speaker 4: You feel what I'm saying, Like, I don't like, I
• 59:33
  Speaker 4: don't see like I don't like I don't see Keita
• 59:36
  Speaker 4: messing with anybody that surely seen like Shirley seem the
• 59:39
  Speaker 4: other way. The unfortunate thing is, I can't say that
• 59:42
  Speaker 4: about the other front, because.
• 59:45
  Speaker 3: I mean, I have one. I can't say that. But
• 59:47
  Speaker 3: I was telling up there about somebody who I'm cool with,
• 59:50
  Speaker 3: and because I know her her how she get down.
• 59:53
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't bring my nigga maron work. I wouldn't do
• 59:55
  Speaker 3: it because I don't put it past her to do
• 59:59
  Speaker 3: some shisty ship and then not take any accountability for
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 3: he came on to me or this, this, or y'all
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 3: broke up and you know, we got cool, and we
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 3: had that happen before with somebody we was cool with,
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 3: and she she she backed door key. You know what
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 3: I'm saying. I've had it happen where I was flirting
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 3: with a dude and the next thing, you know, the
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 3: friend was this other friend was in his face, and
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 3: I'm like, you just okay whatever. I mean, that was
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: my dude. But we were sitting you saw me in
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: pro tem first and the next thing, I know, you
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 3: in his damn face, Kiki and he he and Holland
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 3: and whatever else. But nah, that's just shady.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 4: It's just the thing that The thing that blows me
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 4: is like you watched your sister go through this ship.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 4: You watched her go through the ship and you and
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 4: you took it upun yourself to still pursue this man.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 4: You know what he did and like you know what
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 4: he did to her or he know, you know their
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: history and you're still pursuing.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 3: That's just like old punks.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 2: We didn't do it Beyond the Case. We did episode
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: but well big a couple of episodes that was episode one.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 3: What's the one before that? I remember?
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: But go big a couple because a couple episodes ago was.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 3: So it was the last episode go back you get
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 3: an update on Beyond the Gates. Thus fault question, Haley, No, no, no.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 4: Side Now was it was it a situation though they
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 4: grew up together or were they just like friends in Colline?
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 2: Because that's if you if you watched you don't watch
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: Friday's episode, did you no, Well, it's a minor spoil
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 2: it's not really revealing the plot point, but she ran
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: it to Derek at Orphy jeans.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 5: Oh, no, no, I saw no, I saw, I saw him.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 5: I saw like day why they went and.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: Haley and Derek and each other each other Orphy jeans.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, she was trying to get she was trying to
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 4: get her to forgive her father and hopefully to be
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 4: like you know.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 2: No, that's that's that's the thing. Only I'm talking about Derek,
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: Ashy's boyfriend, the firefighter.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 3: Oh but I.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: Remember him saying, Sean correct me from in the episode.
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: He was saying, how like, well you really just started
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: coming around.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: I didn't.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: We didn't really get a chance to know you all
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: that well before you know, the fallout happened. So I'm
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 2: assuming maybe.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 5: They might have been like a college thing, like no,
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 5: I think.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 2: Ashley and Naomi a long time, longtime friends. Yeah, but
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: Naomi might have started working at the law firming. But
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 2: because Naomi was all Haley was working at the law firm,
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 2: and because Naomi was always around going back and forth
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: with the father, you know, like spond.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 4: Relationshiship, okay that way, Yeah, yeah, because that's because man,
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 4: because when I was trying to explain it to Kita,
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 4: like like I explained like the first episode, like the
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 4: first couple of episodes of Keda and Ship, and I
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 4: was like, now the thing that kind of bad for
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 4: me is was it like a situation of that was
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 4: like his daughter best friend. It's like, yo, where y'all
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 4: where y'all like high school? This nigga watched you grow
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 4: up type shit? Or was it't like college and it
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 4: popped up? Because then if it was like you watched
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 4: you watch her grow up, nigga, yeah you music.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: I didn't get that vibe from it. I think she
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 2: might have started at the firm her and Naomi became
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: cool Danny knowing that she was a new girl, knowing
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 2: she didn't have maybe much family, walking her into the
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 2: house around Chelsea and everybody else. And after that happened
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 2: is when she connected with with with Davis, Bill West Hamilton.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 2: That's Squire, that's quiet the junior.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 3: Third, that's quiet brand He's so steepid. Oh man, that's funny.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 5: How you fuck her?
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 4: Were like, God, Witch, I hope, I hope, I hope
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 4: that every time you wash your hands, your water, trickle
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 4: down the water trickle down side like you got all
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 4: long sleeves and now you're time you wash your hands.
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 4: Your water just trickle down your sleeves. Or every time
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 4: you walk, you got down your.
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 3: Sleeve, or you got wet side a work well you
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 3: you put on fresh socks and this stuff in the puddle.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 5: Hope you got soggy socks.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 3: Bitch, Listen, baby girl, you ain't do nothing wrong. You
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 3: don't deserve that, and move on with your life that
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 3: you be happy. You got your baby, you got your man,
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 3: your luck. Gladly your family is supporting you and not
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 3: trying to, you know, force you to mend fences because
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 3: that's your sister. Like baby you my sister by blood.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 3: I didn't ask for you.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 5: And also to SHA's point, he not your problem, more
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 5: baby her problem.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 3: And when she comes snopp in the ground when he
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 3: do her dirty, I sit there and stirt the bitch like.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 5: You better, you better go stand all day on them
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 5: fences with her.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 3: Troy I started her ask like dude did diddy on?
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 7: Uh?
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: What was it?
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 3: The four said yeah.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 5: Right there, like like fuck that you do your thing?
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 5: You are like you all right?
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 3: You got do her like chase do me, but I'll
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 3: be talking to her. She don't want hear what I
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 3: gotta say and she turned to walk away. Yeah, I'm
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 3: over it. My mm hmm, yep, that's it, y'all.
• 1:05:06
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• 1:05:09
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