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How Will Compton Met His Wife & Our First Papa Team 6 Meet Up! | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Papa Team six. This is another episode afore
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  Speaker 1: the dads we're recording. It's Friday, October seventeenth. Huskers played
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  Speaker 1: at night.
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  Speaker 2: So you see your boy Willy see rock in the
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  Speaker 2: Huskers gear.
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  Speaker 1: Hopefully by the time you hear my voice, we are
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  Speaker 1: six in one right now, continuing to put out fires
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  Speaker 1: with Matt Ruhle. Happy's October. I hope your trash is
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  Speaker 1: taken out. You guys are just embracing the suck. We
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  Speaker 1: got some good hats. We got some merchandise BWTV dot com.
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  Speaker 1: That's where we can get all the PT six six,
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  Speaker 1: Oh merch Come on.
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  Speaker 2: Hand up? What lead from the front? Papa Team six? Here,
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  Speaker 2: what happened?
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  Speaker 1: I have failed to take out the trash two weeks
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  Speaker 1: in a row.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, hand up, you have a redemption arc. It is
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  Speaker 3: trash Day on Fridays here at the office. And Derek
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  Speaker 3: brought up a great point that we could take the
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  Speaker 3: trash out today.
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  Speaker 2: You and me, let's do it here to go all together.
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  Speaker 1: Now the trash For those wondering the trash didn't still
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  Speaker 1: sit at the house. Got it out, whether it's a
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  Speaker 1: simple time stump sending away. Yeah, when I see people
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  Speaker 1: and shout up Papa Team sixers out there that do
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  Speaker 1: remind me it is trash, Yeah it is. But man,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like just an absolute fraud when I think
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  Speaker 1: of putting out the trash day tweet and I'm thinking
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  Speaker 1: to myself, I didn't take out the fucking trash. We
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  Speaker 1: enjoy having fun. We enjoy having some fun here. We
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  Speaker 1: have for the dads. This is for dads. We talk wins, losses, ups, downs,
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  Speaker 1: you know, our lives with our wives, the kiddos.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of good stories.
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  Speaker 1: We have a lot of fun comments that we read
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  Speaker 1: that fans leave us at the PT sikos, the PT
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  Speaker 1: sixers leave us on YouTube and social media continue to
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  Speaker 1: do so. We love seeing all the engagement. It is
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  Speaker 1: the utmost fun.
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  Speaker 2: It is a lot of conversation starters, a.
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  Speaker 1: Lot of conversation starters for this show. My wife was
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  Speaker 1: on my ass the other day. I had to hit
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  Speaker 1: up the group chat because we are If you are
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  Speaker 1: Just double check for your boys. It's all we ask.
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  Speaker 1: Everything is free.
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  Speaker 3: Try trying to figure out how to get the Spotify
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  Speaker 3: video because Spotify Video is partnering with Netflix and the
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  Speaker 3: podcasts are about to be on Netflix. So we could
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  Speaker 3: at the beginning of these episodes start saying, to make
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  Speaker 3: sure you check us out on Netflix.
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  Speaker 2: And make sure to check us out.
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  Speaker 1: Could you imagine if we're on Netflix, I'll be crazy
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  Speaker 1: And that's a big time.
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  Speaker 2: Apparently it's a it's a thing.
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  Speaker 3: It's going to become a thing, like it's a Spotify
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  Speaker 3: video for podcasts. Are they are partnering with Netflix and
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  Speaker 3: those are going to become available on Netflix O, which
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  Speaker 3: is kind of crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so make sure you check out Netflix. Make sure
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  Speaker 2: you check out Netflix.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, my wife, she's a fan of listening to
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  Speaker 1: us on Spotify. Yeah, she is somebody who likes to
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  Speaker 1: scroll her podcasts and then also look at chapters. And
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  Speaker 1: I want to say, the AI bullshit kind of was
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  Speaker 1: messing up the algorithm or messing up something with us
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  Speaker 1: last week to where we only had like five chapters
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  Speaker 1: out there and then auto generated. So I'm assuming it
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  Speaker 1: auto wrote out what the chapters were wasn't even close
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  Speaker 1: to what's being talked about. She's thinking Oh, this could
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  Speaker 1: be a fun topic to hear them talk about it. It's
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  Speaker 1: just us, you know, like partning the microphone or.
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  Speaker 2: Did I want to brag?
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  Speaker 3: I want to give flowers to Derek, and we did
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  Speaker 3: so in our PT six group message. But to all
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  Speaker 3: the listeners, both video and audio. Last week on Spotify,
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  Speaker 3: thirty minutes of our two hour and seventeen minute long
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  Speaker 3: episode got uploaded and only thirty minutes. Only thirty minutes,
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  Speaker 3: and we're sitting there and we're going, what in the world.
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  Speaker 3: I text Derek at like seven thirty ish whatever. It was, Hey,
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  Speaker 3: what's going on here? We had our back end team
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  Speaker 3: showboat looking at everything. It was like something with the website.
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  Speaker 3: They had never seen that happen before. Like the audio
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  Speaker 3: file was totally normal that we uploaded.
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  Speaker 2: PT six ers pissed that we actually kept it under
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  Speaker 2: an hour.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think the most comments we got, just to
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  Speaker 4: bring it full circle war we actually don't want you
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  Speaker 4: guys to keep it on.
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  Speaker 2: Your hour, Like what the hell is this situation?
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  Speaker 4: But I think they're going to make a case study,
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  Speaker 4: no explanation, but shout out to everyone that's waited for
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  Speaker 4: it and been excited for the show. It is fully updated.
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  Speaker 4: People send us some dms this morning saying it wasn't.
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  Speaker 4: If you click play on that episode, it will update
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  Speaker 4: to the two hour or hit us up on social.
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  Speaker 4: I've been sending the link out and that link has
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  Speaker 4: been working so last episode.
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  Speaker 2: Apologies. We're improving every day.
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  Speaker 3: Derek owes no apology because of just how much on
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  Speaker 3: the front lines. If you guys go through the YouTube
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  Speaker 3: comments and the Spotify comments from last week's episode, Derek's
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  Speaker 3: in there replying to.
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  Speaker 2: Every single one that fires me up.
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  Speaker 3: We're on it. Here's the link. This is how we
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  Speaker 3: fix it. Make sure you refresh it. It actually does this.
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  Speaker 3: I'm watching him in real time. I'm like, Derek is
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  Speaker 3: so on it. So that fires me up. Shout out Derek,
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  Speaker 3: Shout out Derek. Shout out the community too.
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  Speaker 1: I like to think more benefit of the doubt, Like
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  Speaker 1: everybody's optimistically trying to work together knowing that I know
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  Speaker 1: there's more meat on them.
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  Speaker 2: There's some mess ups here.
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  Speaker 1: That was probably the system that's hurting our show right now,
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  Speaker 1: and they're just wanting to let us know. Not in
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  Speaker 1: like a hey, did you have any negative comments?
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  Speaker 2: Not too many negative ones.
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  Speaker 4: A lot of people were Hey, I don't know if
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  Speaker 4: you guys saw or hey, just giving you an update.
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  Speaker 2: I love that.
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  Speaker 4: Really, the only negativity that came from it was people
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  Speaker 4: excited for the episode of like, man, my commute this
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  Speaker 4: morning sucked, and then after that got a.
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  Speaker 1: Good Hey, you know how this mute sucked? Good podcast?
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  Speaker 1: It only gave us thirty minutes of it even better good?
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  Speaker 3: You know how all this got caught though, like how
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  Speaker 3: I got put onto it. Our equipment manager, Legend Dalton
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  Speaker 3: with throw with a little DM to old Shirve Dog.
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  Speaker 3: I wake up and one of the first things that
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  Speaker 3: I do is I see a DM from Dalton. I go,
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  Speaker 3: oh more Arkansas gear. What's good you've had?
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  Speaker 2: Hey? Sure?
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  Speaker 3: Just want to let you know on Spotify and Apple
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  Speaker 3: podcasts it's only thirty minutes, but it's a full length
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  Speaker 3: on YouTube. Just wanted to make you aware of that.
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  Speaker 2: What a stud. Stud.
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  Speaker 3: That's teamwork, man, truly, that's teamwork makes the dream work
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  Speaker 3: six came through your clutch.
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  Speaker 1: We have a new sponsor. We have a new sponsor
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  Speaker 1: for Papa Team six. Now, Derek said it right before
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  Speaker 1: the show started. OLLI popa Team six. We got Ollipop
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  Speaker 1: as a sponsor Prebiotics. Listen, I'm not gonna sit here
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  Speaker 1: and read the words on the can.
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  Speaker 2: I love I love ollipop. It's good. I'm a massive
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  Speaker 2: ollipop fan. Grape is my favorite.
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  Speaker 1: If you followed me, if you have followed me on
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  Speaker 1: X like, I want to say, a couple months ago,
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  Speaker 1: right when the season started.
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  Speaker 2: You know how Papa Willie Papa Seal. I like to.
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  Speaker 2: I've shouted out on this show.
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  Speaker 1: Dads like to when they get out of the house,
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  Speaker 1: they might do bedtime any whatever it might be, and
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  Speaker 1: they want to take a trip to the guest. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I just want to take a drive, some quiet time,
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  Speaker 1: solo dad time, maybe listen to some classic rock, maybe
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  Speaker 1: finish up on a podcast. I'm just gonna get a
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  Speaker 1: little quick fifteen minutes driving to the gas station driving home,
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  Speaker 1: because my wife knows I enjoy a little gas station trip.
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  Speaker 2: Now they've your wife.
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  Speaker 1: They're just so much smarter than you, and they just
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  Speaker 1: outthink you to where Now she just has my favorite
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  Speaker 1: drinks at the house. So I can't leave now as
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  Speaker 1: you can't leave. Hey, you said you like the hollypop
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  Speaker 1: grade got a twelve packfo you sitting at the house
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  Speaker 1: now you can't leave.
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  Speaker 2: That's the most jill move I've ever heard. Oh my god, how.
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  Speaker 1: Beg sweet on, I'm gonna hit the gas station. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna going with the boys. I'm gonna go stairs.
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  Speaker 2: That's bad.
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  Speaker 1: That's some When we haven't played, we haven't played. We
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  Speaker 1: haven't played for me in a while. But we caught
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  Speaker 1: it dub the last time.
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  Speaker 2: We did catch it dub the last time we played.
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  Speaker 1: But that was always kind of the formula the nights
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  Speaker 1: where it's like I'm gonna be upstairs, get in some
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  Speaker 1: video game time with my boys, with my PT sixer himself,
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  Speaker 1: Papa Shirm, and it was always that little gas station trip.
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  Speaker 1: But I would put out on Twitter, like you know,
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  Speaker 1: I did it a couple of times, like my favorite drinks,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like one that is skyrocketing up the
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  Speaker 1: charts that I didn't come across until I was just
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  Speaker 1: bored one night. Let me try some lollipop, Great, buddy,
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  Speaker 1: Ollipop great.
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  Speaker 3: I just love the thought of Will in a gas station.
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  Speaker 3: I'm one of those guys I know exactly what I'm
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  Speaker 3: getting at a gas station. I just love the idea
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  Speaker 3: of you in front of those glass doors.
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  Speaker 2: She's staying in there.
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  Speaker 1: Same guy at the cast Jugester, he already knows like
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  Speaker 1: it's always good vibes when I walk in.
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  Speaker 2: Good to see again, big dog now standing there, I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna switch it up tonight.
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  Speaker 3: Switch it just hey, just go wide stance.
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  Speaker 2: Let me try that olli pop. What they say is
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  Speaker 2: that lollipop puts it back now, No, I'll go back
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  Speaker 2: with what I mean A fine.
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  Speaker 3: I think it finally landed on the It landed on
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  Speaker 3: grape too. I love that you landed on grape. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: what a flavor. Yeah, I want to try allipop grape.
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  Speaker 1: Now another sleeper. No, this isn't it's not the vintage coal.
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  Speaker 1: A vintage vintage coal is nice. Yeah, but the root beer. Ooh,
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  Speaker 1: I haven't had the root beer.
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  Speaker 3: I've had this SpongeBob Pineapple flavor and I've had the
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  Speaker 3: vintage cola flavor.
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  Speaker 2: Part of me I like both.
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  Speaker 1: I haven't tried the the SpongeBob Pineapple Paradise yet.
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  Speaker 2: Not a big pineapple guy.
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  Speaker 1: As far as love me some pineapple love, just like
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  Speaker 1: tasting pineapple, as far as like sodas and drinks, I
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  Speaker 1: haven't big been a big pineapple guy. So I'm kind
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  Speaker 1: of scared to try the SpongeBob one because the can
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  Speaker 1: looks phenomenal, but I don't want to not like it,
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  Speaker 1: and then it kind of turns me off of the
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  Speaker 1: can in the in the you know, to display.
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  Speaker 3: To be completely honest, the fact or the thing that
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  Speaker 3: I like most about this pineapple flavor is it does
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  Speaker 3: not taste like pineapple flavored soda. It's very juicy and
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  Speaker 3: like kind of healthy tasting. And that is not a
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  Speaker 3: plug to Ollipop. Like that's just my straight up. But look,
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  Speaker 3: no free shoutouts. They are they are a sponsor. They
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  Speaker 3: are they are a sponsor of the show. But I'm saying, like,
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  Speaker 3: take that out of the equation. This this is nice. Okay, buddy,
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  Speaker 3: Ollipop grape, I got it. We gotta get.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Ollipop, if you're listening, geta Are you they got
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  Speaker 2: a cream soada?
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  Speaker 3: Oh dude, okay, really quick because we gotta keep it.
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  Speaker 2: Your grandpa had that cream soda at the house. Bro
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  Speaker 2: get you one of them for a quarter. Jill.
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  Speaker 3: How I got introduced to Ollipop is Jill would get
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  Speaker 3: the cream soda flavor and then she would get heavy
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  Speaker 3: cream and keep it in the fridge. And uh like
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  Speaker 3: get it really cold, and she would put it in
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  Speaker 3: the lollipop cream soda. She would just do like a
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  Speaker 3: little dash of heavy cream and then whip it.
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  Speaker 2: It's like a milkshake, dude, milkshake. You were honest one
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  Speaker 2: with that. That to me, it's like your wife, Jill.
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  Speaker 1: She knows what she likes, yeah, and she knows how
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  Speaker 1: to combine things to get her taste buds firing on
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  Speaker 1: all cylinds.
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  Speaker 3: And she's not backing down. She's not backing down because
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  Speaker 3: she's trying to. She's doing something.
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  Speaker 1: About looking at that heavy cream and thinking this is
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  Speaker 1: gonna go really well with this cream soda lollipop because.
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  Speaker 3: She's trying to cut ice cream out of the equation,
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  Speaker 3: and she's like, what is a sweet treat that also,
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  Speaker 3: like I won't feel guilty about that. I can have
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  Speaker 3: like around nighttime, et cetera. Just a little dash of that,
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  Speaker 3: just something, Oh dude. I would take SIPs of it,
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  Speaker 3: and it truly was like a little milkshake.
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  Speaker 2: It was.
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  Speaker 5: I feel like that's an old Southern trick. Am I
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  Speaker 5: wronging on that? Or is this an invention? I feel
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  Speaker 5: like I've heard that. Maybe I'm thinking of like a
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  Speaker 5: root beer float. Oh maybe maybe Yeah, Oh dude.
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  Speaker 1: That could be a Southern trigg. It sounds like a
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  Speaker 1: Southern heavy cream. It sounds like that. Yeah, the South
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  Speaker 1: that's got Texas.
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  Speaker 2: Written all over.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, dude, it's good. It's good. So shout out Ollipop.
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  Speaker 2: Or shout out Ollipop or new sponsor.
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  Speaker 1: We spent a lot of time on big Ollipop fans,
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  Speaker 1: but now they are a sponsor of the show. It
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  Speaker 1: has to get your piss hot, gets you guy, the
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  Speaker 1: gentleman that reached out to me about connecting with the
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  Speaker 1: Ollipop and I was fired up, jumping off the screen
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  Speaker 1: back and email for him.
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  Speaker 2: He hits back, he's a Nebraska cat, that's right. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, hey, gb R, I'm fired up or working
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  Speaker 1: something out here because I'm an Omaha boy.
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  Speaker 2: And he said all that, say, so have you been here? Yeah? Yeah,
• 12:53
  Speaker 2: it's blue ship. Yeah, coach rule ain't going nowhere. It
• 12:56
  Speaker 2: ain't going nowhere. When do you call me? Shd we
• 13:00
  Speaker 2: get into comments. I'm ready. We have some comments broken down.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 1: Last week Derek does an incredible job of handing us
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  Speaker 1: to stack comments every week.
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  Speaker 2: Last week I pretty much read all of them.
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  Speaker 1: Forgetting that, Hey, I can select a few of these,
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  Speaker 1: and you know, I don't know how everybody else feels
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  Speaker 1: in the audience and the fans, how often we read
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  Speaker 1: and how many of the fan comments and engagement. But
• 13:20
  Speaker 1: it's like you look at look at shirm, he's got
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  Speaker 1: he's got a little fan over there. We gotta have
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  Speaker 1: a bunch of comments. We've kind of broken some up.
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  Speaker 1: So I have one to give you an example. We
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  Speaker 1: got dad hack And then there are a couple of emails.
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  Speaker 1: People are starting to send in a lot more to
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  Speaker 1: the to the emails, what's the email they can write
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  Speaker 1: to shrem.
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  Speaker 3: At or sorry six oh onethdads at gmail dot.
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  Speaker 1: Com, six O one the dads at gmail dot com.
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  Speaker 1: We are now taking those emails, the ones that might
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  Speaker 1: be longer, that have some storytelling, that have some questions
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  Speaker 1: on a subject they might want us to hit, who
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  Speaker 1: take their time to write us an email. We're going
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  Speaker 1: to take those email ones and funnel it behind the
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  Speaker 1: six to oh one. Dad's the hotline that people call
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  Speaker 1: into for the voicemail, So we're going to save some
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  Speaker 1: of the longer ones that we've read in the past.
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  Speaker 1: Those will now be behind six to one the Dad's
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  Speaker 1: the hotline that you can call into. Yeah, so more
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  Speaker 1: before the Dad's hotline.
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  Speaker 2: And email that we're gonna hit.
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  Speaker 1: Have a little bit more fun with the top, with
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  Speaker 1: the comments you guys write to us on social media
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  Speaker 1: and YouTube, and then if you have like hacks wins
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  Speaker 1: losses that we can share in some of those segments
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  Speaker 1: that we might talk about. We're doing a better job
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  Speaker 1: of tight end up the ship here here at the
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  Speaker 1: four of the Dad's brand. But yeah, let's get to
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  Speaker 1: let's have some fun. Let's answer some fan questions, some
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  Speaker 1: comments that have been out there. The first one I
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  Speaker 1: got is from Matt West ninety four to twenty one.
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  Speaker 1: This is on YouTube. What's up Sherman Willie one shehelf.
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  Speaker 1: I love the pot I've been watching since episode one.
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  Speaker 1: I have a question for y'all. When did you guys
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: know your wife was the one? And did you guys
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: ask the parents first? Keep the grind going, hashtag semen out.
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  Speaker 2: What great question.
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  Speaker 1: Oh let me continue to say how good of a
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  Speaker 1: question that was? So I can think about this answer.
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  Speaker 2: I can't.
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  Speaker 1: I can jump in really quick. I got a fun story. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: you go ahead. This is how I met my wife's.
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  Speaker 2: Story settle in kids.
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  Speaker 1: So I want to say and listen, sweetheart. I know
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: you're listening right now. You probably gotta smile on your face,
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: being like, oh, what's a Willie one shelf gonna say?
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  Speaker 2: Butterflies going crazy in your tummy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but let me take you back to October against Sweetheart.
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  Speaker 1: Bear with me. I could get some dates wrong here.
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  Speaker 1: October twenty fourteen. Ooh, we were at Dallas. Maybe it
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: was November again, twenty fourteen. We were at Dallas primetime game.
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: My wife was a cheerleader on the Washington Redskins. When
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: there's an away game, that happens, a few cheerleaders get
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: to travel. Uh, they like send a few cheerleaders. They
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: get to travel, but they're not in uniform or nothing else.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: They were in some yellow they were in some yellow cheer.
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: Oh that's sick.
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: And they're like in the friends and family section.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like on the game. They're like on the
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: field pre game and stuff like that. As I'm giving
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: you context after the fact of knowing this. Yeah, yeah,
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: but I'm on the field pregame Willie at Dallas and
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: we're doing pregame warm ups and everything.
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: Else, and I see these three.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: I see these three ladies standing on the sideline, and
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna look in and you know, one
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: catches my eye. Oops, and I did not know, you know,
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: I got the helmet on. I see one looking at me,
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: and I don't know if she's actually looking at me
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: or not.
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: So I'm kind of looking, you know, I'm trying.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: To like do whatever, pregame, warm up, everything else, get
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: ready for the Dallas Cowboys. And so I'm thinking, like
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: when I run byer to go back in the huddle,
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna take a look, see and see.
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: If she's looking at me.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: Sure enough, I run through the run back through the tunnel,
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: catcher staring at me, and it's just it's one of
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: the It's one of those moments as a young man
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: where you're just like and mind you, I did have
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: a girl friend at the time, but I'm you know what,
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: I'm married, I got two kids now with her. Sue me, yeah,
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: sue me. And it's like one of those times where
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: you're just thinking, like, man, that girl was a smoke show,
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: and it's like you fantasize, like what would life be
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: like with that individual. All the men know what I'm
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: talking about, and you just play this game in your head.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: That's all that happened that night on Washington at Dallas
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: back in twenty fourteen. Fast forward the next year, it's
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: the off season. Alfred Morris is having a kid's charity
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: football camp for shout Out Alfred, Shout Out Alfred Morris
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: for like kids with special needs. And I'm running one
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: of these drills for him. I'm running one of the
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: periods for him. This cheerleader, who I still did not
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: know it at the time, was that one. U was
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: at the camp with her boyfriend. Oh really yeah, And
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: Chorro is with her boyfriend at the time, and they are.
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: Was he five to two five three hundre?
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: I kind of don't remember.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Charle had she had these these she had these shorts on,
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: she had the little high ponytail going on, she had
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: the cad the legs looking athletic, you know, I'm kind
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: of looking.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: And they're they're part of my drill. Like as I'm
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: running this for this like four cone drill.
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: And so there's a pizza, there's a pizza lunch break,
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: and I see her and she's got this pro Bowl
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: hat on this again. That was this was the listen
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: your boy has zero game? And so I see her
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: during this peach of lunch break and she's kind of
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: walking kind of close by me, and I'm like, oh, uh,
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: I see you got a Pro Bowl hat on where'd
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: you get the Where'd you get the.
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: Pro Bowl hat?
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: And her smart ass like she is, she said, uh,
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: I got it at the Pro Bowl.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: I was like, all right, yeah, did you like go
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: to the game?
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: And she goes, I was in the Pro Bowl, like
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: I'm a cheerleader for Washington.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh sick.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: I kind of don't remember the rest that honestly might
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: have been it because I just don't have a whole
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: lot of game. And I'm thinking her boyfriend's there, like
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of hungover.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: Did you tell her you kind of got cheated out
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: of the Pro Bowl that one year? No?
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: No, I wasn't in that kind of.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: Form around to the public or anything else. Yeah yeah, yeah.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: But anyway, so I meet her at this at this
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: charity camp. I wake up the next morning to a
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: DM on Instagram and it's her DM and me like
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: saying like, hey, it was nice to meet you yesterday.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: I see that you have a girlfriend. I have a boyfriend,
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean we still can't be friends.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: Damn.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: So we start messaging back and forth, and man, I
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: wish I still had them. I don't, but I come
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: to the real we find the realization. I want to say,
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: she might have mentioned something thing about the Dallas game
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: of the year before, and I come to the fucking realization
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: that she was the girl I was looking at and
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: fantasizing about on the field.
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: And I love you know that he was in his
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: fields Because this guy is a sicko before he watches
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: a football game on TV. So I can only imagine
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: what your mind is like before a football game, how
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: black your heart has turned to prepare for this football game.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: And then you see the smoke and you're like, yo, damn,
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: what would life kind.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: Of be like if?
• 20:34
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: Bro?
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: And then even though she said that and that kind
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: of means one thing to a guy, when that's being
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: said to you in a DM, it's like, that doesn't
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: mean we still can't be friends. She never hung out
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: with me for like the next eight nine months.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: Like I'm trying.
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: We're having we're having conversations, she's making me last she's
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: one of the she was one of those girls where
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: I would, uh, I'm like sitting in the parking lot
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: before I go into my apartment. I'm like spending forty
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: five extra minutes just sitting out there, messaging back and
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: forth or not wanting.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: To go inside.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because I'm enjoying the conversation we're having, Like
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: we're sending each other songs, like jokes, like all the
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: different things. We eventually see each other, We eventually hang out,
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: we eventually start dating.
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: Now we're married with two kids. Let's go.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: And I say all that to know, it's hard for
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: me to like pinpoint a moment where I'm like, this
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: is my wife, because I will tell you, I feel
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: like that thought continues to ascend, like as high seer
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: as my wife and a mom. Yes, Like the love
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: gets that much stronger when you witness them being a mom,
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: when you witness them being like your partner. Like there's
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: so many times where I'll just be driving home thinking
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: like whenever we solve a problem, or she has my
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: back with something, or one of us is stressed and
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: we're helping each other out, to where when I do
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: reflect and have that gratitude. I'm thinking it gets so
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: much more badass when you are married and you have
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: kids and you are being partners and you're being good
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: partners and you both care about each other so much,
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: so much like the way Charles thinks about everything in
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: my world, and she's just a badass. Like it's a
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: love like she There's nobody else who's loved me the
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: way Charles has loved me. That's opened me up to
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: like more love and more ideas and everything else. Like
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: I'm a homebody. I hate vacations. And if I think
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: of a core value of Charro, it is adventurous. She
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: loves again. We'll get to it. She's going to London
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: all next week. It's sad she's taken room with her.
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: So it's just gonna be me with.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Scottie, the easiest kid. We're gonna have a lot of
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: free time. Okay, but she's going to London next week.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: She was wanting to go in the summertime. We couldn't
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: make it happen. We're going to a Dermot Kennedy concert
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: here on Sunday. Like she loves doing stuff that She's
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: really pulled me out of my comfort zone. She's like
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: introduced me to things that I didn't think that I
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: would be doing, like as an adult. She's a very ambitious,
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: like working, career oriented woman. So I didn't think that
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: I would marry, you know, doing all the things that
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: I was doing. I thought I would have more of
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: like a stay at home mom, stay at hoole wife.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's good, bad and different. I'm just thinking,
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: like how I grew up thinking about everything. Yes, she's
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: very different than what I had imagined. And so I
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: can't pinpoint an exact moment because we had a lot
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: of fun when we were younger.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: And that is a moment that sticks out.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: It's like, Yo, that was the chick that I was
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: so just laser, you know what?
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: You know what.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: We was talking with the pep Riley last year and
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: I was like, Yo, this this woman is stunning. And
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: it turns out the way the universe worked to bring
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: her back around for that day at that charity camp
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: and then to have the DM and then to find
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: out that she that that was the girl.
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: Oh. The only thing selfishly that I wish is that
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: you had dead one of those hey body, think fast
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: and just throw a football at her. Boyfriend that she
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: was there at the camp with. He just boom off
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: of his face. All right, right here, buddy, Yeah, you gotta.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: Use your hands and then just stats one out of
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: the are one handed?
• 24:07
  Speaker 4: Well, if I can ask as a guy that just
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: genuinely doesn't know, is there no relationship between players and cheerleaders?
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: Like how you went there was nout.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: A big reason she wouldn't like hang out with me
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: is because she was still still on the cheerleading team,
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: and that was like a massive no.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: No for cheerleaders and players. It's kind of a.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: What do they call it? It's like an unwritten rule,
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: but it's very it's like a double standard. Like the
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: cheerleaders were it was like hard press. They couldn't talk
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: to full players before. We're never told the like hey
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: you can't do anything with cheerleaders or you can't date cheerleaders.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: Or anything like that.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So that was the reason why, like the first
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: time we did hang out is very sneaky, It was
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: very under under the wraps. She was very like weary
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: because she she was like a captain of the cheerleading
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: squad and she took it. She she was that was
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: when she was a tax accountant for was it PBC
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: or p and C, p and C one of the
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: big ones.
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she was also a cheerleader, so yeah she was.
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: She was crushing it. Yeah she was a captain as well.
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, man, that really I love that. Yeah a captain,
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: Willie c hang out with the cheer captain?
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, let's go.
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: I think of so many things in my head just
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: trying to answer my man's question too.
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: It's hard to like knowing.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: It was more of like she just would make me
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: uncomfortable in a way to where I would just always
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: have a different perspective about how life was going towards
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: like I'm adjusting on the fly in the discomfort, and
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: to me, that's when I kind of identify, like this
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: is the one I want to be with forever.
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: I love your description of how she made you feel
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: because that you're quite literally describing exactly how Jill.
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: Made me feel.
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: Uh, And I don't say that just agree with you
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: is the exact same thing. Like I had never encountered
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: a relate, I had never had a relationship where I
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: was being challenged but in a good way.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, like you will said, yes.
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: It didn't feel like she was ever coming down on
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: me or anything like that. But it was like, a, wait,
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: you don't it's a Saturday. You don't want to go
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: on a hike? And then we can, you know, do
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: this and there's this art exhibit that I really want
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: to go check out.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: I'm but I don't.
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: I don't want to do that shit. And then I'm
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: doing that shit and I'm like, man, there's a lot
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: of fun. I want to keep on doing this, and
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: you're talking about it.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: You're talking about the hikes too, like charl wanted to
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: do hikes.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: I'm just thinking, like, bro, my legs, Like I'm just
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: I play football, Like I don't want to do extra
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: any extra exercise in what I already have to do. Yeah,
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: but you're right, like the whole challenging thing is what
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: it was like a slow process and then you just
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: realize how good it is for you and how happy
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: they make you to where that's when it's kind of
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: like that's the formulated moment.
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: I guess, yeah, I uh with Jill to answer this question,
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: Jill and I met on a blind date. Kirk Cousin
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: was dating my roommate.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: They would both.
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: Tell you this their relationship was coming to it and
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: very fast, and her cousin had tried to set us
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: up multiple times, and she was like, sherman, I'm about
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: to break up with your roommates, so if you want
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: to meet my cousin, like, we need to make this
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: happen asap. And I was trying to play cool, like
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: I had seen pictures of Jill on Instagram that her
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: cousin had shown me. I was like, oh, yeah, she's cute, Like, yeah,
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: we should do something, and then by me, I was like, yeah, no,
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: we need to do that double date. Yeah, buddy, And
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: I ran out of contacts that week and I showed
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: up to Wabbi House in Fort Worth shout out, no
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: free shout out, and I saw Jilly Bean across the
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: room and I said, fuck, I look like an idiot
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: my glasses And I took my glasses off instantly and
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: I put them on the back of my shirt because
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: I was like, this girl's way cuter that then even
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: her pictures lost my glasses. That night off to a
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: hot start. But on that night I had never kissed
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: a girl on a first date. And we kissed on
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: a first date, and the conversation it was kind of funny,
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: that like it was a blind slash double date, and
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: her cousin and my roommate were just like chomping at
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: the bit to break up with each other like that
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: whole week and they're like arguing on their side of
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: the booth. And it made Jill and I lock in
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: like that much more and we had a great first date.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: But I do remember telling my mom after the first day,
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: I said, I think I might be in trouble. I'm like,
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: I'm feeling it with this girl. But the moment that
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: I knew like, okay, I want Jill to be my
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: girlfriend or I guess, like yo, like this might be
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: something more was we went to a Rangers game together
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: and the very first thing that she wanted to do
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: is she wanted to go get a hot dog and beer.
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: And when we were ordering, she goes, is he is
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: it bad? Or like, is it okay if I get
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: too hot dogs instead of just one hot dog? And
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, you can definitely get too hot dogs,
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: and she so fast turned and goes, I'll do a
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: mickelbe and two hot dogs to the person. And just
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: seeing her with like the little ketchup and mustard and
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: the hot dogs and like the beer and just her
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: not worried about like I need to look cute on
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: this date, but more so just enjoying the moment and
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: like what I love about baseball games is hot dogs
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: and beer, and I'm getting to enjoy this. I just
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: love that quality about her. I was like, she's so
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: unabashedly herself and that I just opened up to her.
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: I had a I was coming out two different relationships
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: that in college were like on and off, on and
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: off type stuff that I never felt confident in, if
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: that makes sense, Like you kind of left those relationships
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: going like who am I as a boyfriend?
• 29:58
  Speaker 7: Like?
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: Am I a good boyfriend? Do I have no clue?
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: Like these women like really like taming these men is
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: like taming a wild horse. Yeah, it's like taming a
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: wild horse.
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: Bro.
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: And then Jill kind of showing me like, hey you yeah,
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: you definitely suck, like like truly, like, hey yeah, you
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: definitely suck in these areas.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: But like and it's man, you don't know it no,
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Like I remember when I didn't get Charles something on
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: like Valentine's Day because it wasn't like maybe it was
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: more of like the defining the relationship style thing, and
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: I just remember her having some like thoughts about it.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: And that's when you know, too is a guy. Like
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: when your girlfriend is upset over something and it bothers you,
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: even though you might be upset with them in that moment,
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: but when you walk away and you're actually kind of
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: like I should have done X, Y and Z versus,
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: Like when you know that there's no future with the girl,
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: you're almost just staying mad about you, Like, God, this
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: is fucking I'm gonna have to deal with this.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: Blah blah blah blah blah.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you find yourself kind of beating yourself up about it,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: like all right, I got do. I do have to
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: kind of figure out a way to come around to
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: whatever said thing is. Like the first time I went
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: out and stayed with uh, like, stayed overnight with Charo,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: super nervous, like awkward, and you know how it is too,
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: Like when you like, when you stay with a girl
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: or you do, like they stay over at your place
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: or something like that, and you kind of wake up
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: the next morning you're kind of like, I need to get.
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: Out of here.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: They kind of need to get out of here. But
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: I was going out to spend the weekend or a
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: day with her in DC, like around her friends. And
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: I remember when I first went over to her house
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: and again your boy, no games, super nervous.
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: We're in the kitchen like making up a game. She like,
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: we like made it go ahead pre post veneers. No,
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: this is pre veneers.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: I didn't give veneers until I was until I was
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: in Tennessee in twenty and eighteen, so I had the
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: this is the this is the old Willie chicklets thick neck,
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: come on, small teeth, looking like a zone dog through
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: my mouth that Charles got to know.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: Twenty sixteen tenth toppest player in the NFL.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: Sir, my smile, Yeah, don't show them teeth, alright, show
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: oh shit. But we like made up some game in
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: the kitchen and we're like throwing bottle caps, like basically
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: playing washers, but with like grocery bags and a bottle cap,
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: like having a good time.
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: We go out that night, have a lot of fun
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: with her friends. She gets me dancing.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: I'm not a big dancing guy or PDA guy, but
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting there, I'm belly rolling, I'm fucking you know.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: It's kind of.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: I was liquored up pretty good. Then you come back
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: home and read like I was like housing some oreos
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: late at night, kind of wake up the next morning,
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: she had to like go she had to go do
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: something for bar three. She was managing a studio out
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: there at the time in DC. And then that's where
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: I kind of slipping up. When she leaves and walks
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: that door, I'm kind of like leaning out of the bed,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: kind of like wait a minute, and then I go
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: hit the bathroom.
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: And just drop a monster, you know what I mean,
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: Because you're nervous.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: You're like, oh, I gotta fucking do something here, but
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: I can't do it in this apartment right now, which
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: her I gotta wait till she leaves. But it wasn't
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: awkward the next morning, like the next day, any of
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: that stuff to where she came back, We're watching Dead
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: pull together on the couch ordering Chinese food. So you
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: kind of know that something's there, like when you're talking
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: to the parents about it, when you're talking to your
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: boys about and everything else. But it gets even better,
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: in my opinion, like when you do get married and
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: you have kids and you're in you're in an actual partnership,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: worrying about everything else. And don't get me wrong, I
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: still get fucking annoyed when I am getting challenged at
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: certain times or getting uncomfortable to do things to where
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: I'm just like.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: Sweetheart, come on, we can't just kick it at the house. Yes, Like,
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: well you want, you go? You go?
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: Do you guys go have a great time. I hope
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: you have the greatest time in the world. I kind
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: of want to just stay home. The huskers are on
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: about us, are on. We spent a lot of time
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: on this, And yes, I did ask her.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: I asked her. I called her dad and asked him
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: first before I propose.
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: Yes, And I took her mod She has a stepdad,
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: but I took her mom and her stepdad to dinner,
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: and I asked her permission. Uncle Julia's and.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: Fort we love Uncle Julio's bro that table side, guawk
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: so in the Pineapple and an Albania's.
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: I got it. I got a whole thing. Keep the
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: show under an hour. But they're not doing the Yellow
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: Caso anymore at the Nashville location here, and it's just
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: a whole thing. Heart's broken, honestly, Like I've been wanting
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: to tweet about it a lot. I love Uncle Julio's
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: too much. I've cut my mouth shut. No more caso,
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: no more yellow caso. They're only doing caso blanco and
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: no offense at caso blanco. But the yellow caso Uncle
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: Julio's is what put you on the map. Sorry you
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: go ahead, Cody Priest.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: This is on Instagram.
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: Our baby boy, Cooper James, was born on October second,
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: twenty twenty five. Thank you so much for the podcast
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: every weekend Sure and what It's like to be a
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: great dead bullshream and will It was also a pleasure
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: to meet you Willie one showf at Benji's Bagels the
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: other weekend shout out Cody, thank you for writing in
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: reporting for Dudy PT. Sico Priest, what a legend. Let's go, Cody,
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: Let's go Cooper. Congratulations to you guys too. I know
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: you guys are in it right now.
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: I have JT.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: Clifton.
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: This is from Youtubov said seven am. I phoned a
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: new episode for the Dads the boys talking me. Oh shit,
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: I forgot to take the trash to the curb full
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: sprint can to the curb within five minutes to spare
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: w Ride Together, Die Together, PT. Six for life.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: Great sign on.
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: So you may have missed your trash day, but guess
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: what you doing? This pod made him remember his trash day.
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's in there like damn it, willy See.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he probably heard this episode. He's like the urgency
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: he felt. Can't let the bet Sikos down. I've been
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: listening to this podcast week for the last three months,
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: down not realizing that Willy See is a fake trash
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: day guy.
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: This will be the last episode I will listened to.
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: Can't hang a shelf, can't take out the trash? What
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: do you fucking do? Willy one show? I saw a.
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: Great comment of Willie one shelf. I saw one that
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: said Willie no Fox. I kind of like that. We'll
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: alster that one. Well, that's a good one. That's a
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: good clue.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: This one's from Brandon Davis one nineteen on YouTube. What
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: up et six brothers got a five and three year
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: old currently going through the food regression stage. They both
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: love popsicles, Gonna try and gonna try the tickle monster
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: and see how that goes. They don't want to eat good.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: That means Dad gets to bring out the tickle monster.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: It's tough man. Five and three rules three. Right now,
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: I do feel like we have the dinner time routine
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: kind of down. Yeah, she starts to get a little
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: sassy about I don't want to eat this. I don't
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: want to eat that. Great, you don't have to That's
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: the great thing about this, sweetheart. You can make your
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: own decision. You don't want to eat, that's fine, Mom
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: and dad is gonna finish up here. But when we
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: get done eating, we're just gonna go straight up to
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: bed because it seems like you're tired, and you know,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: if you don't eat, you're not gonna get all the
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: things that you're thinking about.
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: In your head. Yep. I won't even say that at first.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: I should be like, great, you don't have to eat.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: Then I'll just you'll just hear the play going. Mom
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: and I eating, and she'll be like, I get a cookie.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: You know the game, and the cookie in this world
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: can be the popsicle. Hey, you know the game. You're
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: not gonna get a cookie. You're not gonna get a popsicle.
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: We've done this now, day in and day out. She's like,
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: but I'm tired. Hey, that's awesome, you don't have to eat. Well, wait,
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: for me to get done, and we'll go upstairs right
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: after this and we'll go to bed. Do you want
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: to go to bed now?
• 37:21
  Speaker 5: No?
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: All right, I figure it out.
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: Quit asking, Quit asking your volume of eating, by the way,
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: I enjoy it, like you make some noise when you eat,
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: especially when you're hungry. And bro I am just laughing,
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: just hearing that fork and the plate and your bites
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: and stuff.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: And she's thinking about what else she can do, because
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: we might make like Scotty might be doing like you know,
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: she might be doing a thing where we're laughing.
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: We think it's cute and adorable.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: And then Ruth tries to play with Scotty, And in
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: my brain, I'm thinking she's just playing with Scotty right
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: now to put off the fact that she doesn't.
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: Have to eat her food. Uh huh.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: Then Mom and I are both done. Scott, he's done.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: She's starting to you know, hit the dang knock food off.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: You get me sweet potatoes all Scotty, we can't get out.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: Ru's got to eat her chicken. Really, gotta eat your chicken.
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: I don't want to.
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: Okay, Well, let's get up, let's go, let's go to bed.
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: I don't want to go to bed, eat your chicken.
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: Dad that doesn't love me.
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: I guess I got one from Cody Wilkerson on TikTok Boys.
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: I'm in the middle of chaos. My wife and I
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: are both middle school teachers in Alabama. She's at a
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: conference for until Saturday. I'm holding down the fort with
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: my two boys, ages two and four, until then. While
• 38:40
  Speaker 3: I was at work today, got the call from the
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: daycare that the youngest has handfoot mouth. I'm just gonna
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: say that I'm supposed to count to the oldest in
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: his soccer game tomorrow night.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: My wife.
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: My wife called and asked, Hey, how's everything going, And
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: I hit her with a.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: Good handfoot mouth. We just got over both. We just
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: got over there with both the kiddos.
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, best of Cody, best of luck to you, dude.
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: Just keep on washing those hands, dude.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, keep washing the hands. Keep being sad when you
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: just see the bumps that they get. It's just the
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: saddest thing in the world.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: And they can't eat right, like it hurts their mouths right. Fortunately, Yeah,
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: that's how it was with Scotty.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: Fortunately for Rue, like it was more of just she
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: had like the the bumps, the rash stuff like on
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: her feet and hands and and her butt that bothered her.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: The stuff on the butt bothered It was in the crease.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: It was in the crease right below her cheek to
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: where like bothered her the bathroom and that stuck because
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: she was like sad because it was painful for ya.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: But she didn't have a fever, she didn't have the
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: sowords in the mouth. She wasn't getting like those symptoms
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: to where it was it was like you felt like
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: you had to keep her from doing everything, yeah, because
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: she was like actually sick, Scottie was she had the
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: sores in the mouth, wouldn't really drink her milk. She
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: had to drink like cold milk if she was going
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: to have her milk, which kids hate. I found that
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: out the hard way when Jill was out of town.
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: Cold milk.
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, just let the milk sit there for too long,
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: and Scarlet's crying and crying as soon as like she
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: takes like two pools from it. She just I'm like,
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: this is your favorite thing in the world. I know
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: you're starving, Like why are you screaming? And then it
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: finally clicked after like the eighth time. Yeah, heated that
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: bottle up and after I and she's screaming the whole
• 40:23
  Speaker 3: time that I'm eating the bottle up. She's just sitting
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: there in my ear and I'm like, I know, I
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: know as soon as I got that hot bottle end.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll tell you what, you hit a good one.
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: Like I want to say, Rue.
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: It needed to be it needed to be hot.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: And I want to say Scottie at times will take
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: it when it's cool down like some of them kids
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: are just sick os, bro. They don't care how they
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: just want it.
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: And we've done cold milk. I've told me one.
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: Easy. We've done cold milk before, like at the park.
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: We took Scarlet to the park and we forgot are
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: the heat the portable heater? Yeah, and so we just
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: did it straight from a you know, distilled water bottle
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: or whatever, and she yugged it.
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: She had no problem, which is a massive win. Yeah.
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: I'm good on my comments.
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: You're good on your comments. I have one more boys, PT.
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: Sixer and Tier one.
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: Sticko, father of.
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: Three boys twelve thirteen months in seven months, also flag
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: football coach of the Red Wolves for the past few years.
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: Love it had to share a juiced up moment. We're
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: up twelve to six. Nearing the end of the game,
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: they go for one watch a kid moss my boy
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: and they take a one point lead with little time left.
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: Defense holds and with proper clock management, we got one
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: more shot. First play, small game, second small game. Now
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: was seconds left and only one play to go to
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: the house for the win. Can't stop watching the clip
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: and I'm so amped for the rest of the season.
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: Let's go big win at the end of the game.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: Watching your boy get lost. It's tough for the pop. Yeah,
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: tough for the pop. Yeah, you know what I mean.
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: Oh I do that is tough for the pop. Yeah.
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: I don't know how I would handle that as far
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: as with Scarlett, and I've talked with Jill about that.
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: Of like sporting events, I kind of understand now why
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: sometimes my dad would like watch my sporting events from
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: the car. I think it was nerves for him and
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: to me, I always thought, why is my dad not
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: in the stands for these track meets, Like he goes
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: and he gets in the car, and like I wish
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: he was in the stands, And now me as a parent,
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: I'm like imagining myself watching Scarlet and I'm.
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: Like, I get why Dad was in the car. He nervous,
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: a little nervous.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you feel like he would have been somebody that's
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: gotta be yelling, might have just put him stuff in
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: the car.
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: I think he was one of those that he he
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: had nervous energy and didn't want to give that off
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: to me, especially for especially for track meets. I think
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: he was just trying to be like, hey, Sherman does
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: a really good job of saying positive and clear mind, Like, uh,
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: track was a sport that like I excel at, and
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: I think that he.
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: We're talking shot put, but now now.
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: Hey we're talking, Uh what were you on the training stuff?
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: You talking about track and field? You putting on people?
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: What are we doing?
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: But yeah, he was just like, what was your what
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: were your events? Eight hundred four by four and four hundred?
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: Oh dude, that's a tough day. It was a tough
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: day at you. Yeah, it was a tough day. But uh,
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: back in the day, what was eight hundred? Pod was
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: not my race? I think I only broke I got
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: very close to like a minute flat. We meet on
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: the Utah in the four hundred we're talking two minutes.
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: You got closer to two minutes. Okay, sorry, I got
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: very close to two minutes because I would go out
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: in the eight hundred and run my first leg like
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: a fifty six, and then I would.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: Kind of die out. So you were a stud at
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: the four hundred.
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I was more of a four hundred runner.
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: Fifty three, fifty two. That's a strong that's a strong time,
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: white boy for a five seven white boy, five.
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: Seven white boy. Come on now, yeah, yeah, back in
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: the back in the back, day in the day, back
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: in the day.
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: But yeah, my dad even always well and he would
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: sorry to my dad. He would be in the stands too.
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: But I could just tell on some of those days
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: he was. He talked, you've met my dad, he looked.
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: He talks a lot, very friendly, very open.
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: But he's in town.
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: He's in town. They're coming today. I can't wait to
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: hug them. Yeah, they're coming today. They're very excited to
• 45:01
  Speaker 3: see Yeah. But uh yeah, he would claim up, he
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: claim up and track me so you.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: Can get real you like this, that's good. He wanted it.
• 45:10
  Speaker 5: Any sports competition, but Dad would sit there. If I
• 45:13
  Speaker 5: had a bad game.
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: I would see my dad, like pacing on the sideline.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: I'll come and go. Where's Dad?
• 45:18
  Speaker 5: He goes, She's he's in the car. Sorry, dad, I'm
• 45:21
  Speaker 5: totally outing.
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: But it was also he'd go to the car if
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: you're having a bad game.
• 45:24
  Speaker 5: Really, I mean, this is like no, and he was
• 45:27
  Speaker 5: never mean, he never yelled or anything, but he couldn't.
• 45:31
  Speaker 5: He's probably listening through it now.
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: Like, yeah, now that I think about it, he's going
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: to the car if I'm bad game. I kind of
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: when I needed him the most, he kind of he
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: shilled up once in the car.
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: I think about I kind of need to talk to you.
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: I want to share this.
• 45:50
  Speaker 3: Hey, I know on a real sense, I think I
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: know where your dad's coming from. That he didn't want you.
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: To see that he was crushed for you.
• 45:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel I never got the like, I never
• 46:03
  Speaker 5: got the like getting yelled at in the car going
• 46:05
  Speaker 5: we love we love quiet.
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: Right, how do you feel about that game? Yeah?
• 46:11
  Speaker 5: Just there, Like I don't think i'll play that good?
• 46:14
  Speaker 5: All right, we'll get it next time.
• 46:15
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  Speaker 3: I also before we move on, because I know we
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  Speaker 3: because comment I have to read this cop because it's
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  Speaker 3: teasing something big. Okay, I just farted when I said teasing.
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: That's how big it is. Connor Wonderley on YouTube said
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: PT six are here, new to the area. Wife is
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  Speaker 3: asking for the best pumpkin patch slash fall festival place
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  Speaker 3: like to take this question? Boo with the zoo, Boo
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  Speaker 3: with the zoo? What is that?
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  Speaker 2: That's where you're leading me? Right, yes, sir?
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: What is b Boo with the Zoo our first PT
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: six meetup, Papa Team six meetup for for the dads.
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  Speaker 1: It'll be at Boo at the Zoo here in Nashville
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  Speaker 1: on October twenty eighth, at five thirty pm from five
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: thirty to seven. For the dads, the PT sixers right here,
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: Derek Chef, your boys, best staff, really one shelf.
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: We will be at Boo at the Zoo.
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: We're bringing the kids, bringing the kiddos. The families will
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: be there first pop a Team six meetup. You might
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: be thinking what to expect. I personally don't know, because
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: part of me is like, you know, this isn't this
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: isn't gonna be like a.
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: Like what like a like a meet and greet? Yeah,
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: not so much meet and greet.
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: We might bring like the meetings of the minds, meeting
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: of the PT sixers. Here's what the vibe is gonna be.
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: Here's what it has to be because we got the
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: kids there. Ru's gonna wear her fairy costume, she's gonna dress,
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: she's gonna wear, She's gonna be in astume.
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: Yea we might we might as well.
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: I might be intume.
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: Well, we're there to.
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: Have good family time at the zoo, whether we do
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: it with a crew or we all meet up at first,
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: say a few words, some dads, maybe some quick selfies.
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: But the thing it can't turn into is a full
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: on like a meet and Greek thing. While our wives
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: and kids are standing there, just the dads are talking shop,
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: talking stories and we just some dads. Yeah, we just
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: some dads were I have the same anxiety, like kind
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: of you know, I know, my wife's like, hey, so
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: what are we doing here?
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: Is this just? Is this just a photo shoot?
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: Are we gonna have some fun at the zoo with
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: the kiddos, with the fam We going to the girafts
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: or what?
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, wish to see the line Oh Willie one
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: pick maybe two and that's it. Yeah.
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: But I will say the Nashville Zoo has done a
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: really good job with the boot the Zoo. It's decked
• 51:26
  Speaker 3: to the nine with pumpkins, skeletons, all kinds of spooky stuff.
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: They encourage Halloween outfits. You do have to buy a ticket.
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: Those are available at Nashville Zoo dot org. That's Nashville
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: Zoo dot org. There are a thousand tickets available for
• 51:46
  Speaker 3: this event. That's outside of the PT six meetup. That's
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: just in general. For the five thirty slot, there are
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: a thousand tickets so ptsikos in the area make sure
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: to go to Nashville dot org and get your tikies,
• 52:01
  Speaker 3: get your tikies.
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: What I'm envisioning is we all get there toy around
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: five point thirty, might give it to five forty five
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: to where you'll see where we are.
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: We'll have a little table. Will there be merch, Yes.
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: There will be merch, and we're looking to have a
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: little game of uh what is it called scavenger hunt.
• 52:26
  Speaker 3: We're gonna hide some little things throughout and we'll put
• 52:28
  Speaker 3: out a social media promo, but we're gonna hide some
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: little things in the park that if Papa or Mama
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: Team six find these little tokens and bring it back
• 52:38
  Speaker 3: to the Papa Team six table, they will get a
• 52:40
  Speaker 3: free merch and a king sized candy bar.
• 52:44
  Speaker 5: PT six Nation. Sorry for the interruption. This is your
• 52:47
  Speaker 5: producer Jack coming in here. As I'm ending the episode.
• 52:51
  Speaker 5: We have some changes to the bood at the Zoo
• 52:54
  Speaker 5: that I want to make aware to all of you.
• 52:56
  Speaker 5: We will not have a table. I'm so sorry. Don't
• 53:00
  Speaker 5: blame me. Will ensure them like to run their mouths
• 53:02
  Speaker 5: about stuff they don't know. But that's okay. We will
• 53:06
  Speaker 5: not have a table and then also scavenger hunt. Wise
• 53:09
  Speaker 5: schirm chairman Sherman, I'm talking to PT six nation right now.
• 53:14
  Speaker 2: Are we gonna have a scavenger hunt? Oh? Yes, we're
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: going to have a scavenger Oh we're not.
• 53:20
  Speaker 5: Having Wait we're not, see sherm and will love to
• 53:23
  Speaker 5: run their mouth. They don't know what they're talking about.
• 53:25
  Speaker 5: Are we are?
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: We aren't? Okay, we aren't. Is that correct, dude? I
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: have no clue. I think that's it that we are not.
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: I don't think we are either.
• 53:37
  Speaker 3: And it's the first twenty people that show up.
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: Get we're handing out hat some shirts. Uh, first twenty
• 53:47
  Speaker 2: you hear that. PG six nation. First twenty people who.
• 53:50
  Speaker 8: Show up, will we'll get a shirt also or hat
• 53:55
  Speaker 8: or hat whatever you like. But yes, that's all back
• 53:58
  Speaker 8: to your regular schedule programming.
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: King size only the King size candy bar. Oh buddy, one.
• 54:08
  Speaker 4: Thing I'll say is probably reshape the brain. You're right,
• 54:10
  Speaker 4: it's not a meet and greet. This is a group
• 54:13
  Speaker 4: dad brownie point event when we are setting something up.
• 54:16
  Speaker 4: So you can come, you can meet Lilli and Shurm,
• 54:19
  Speaker 4: but you are your honey. We're going to boot. You
• 54:22
  Speaker 4: always want to go to Booth the Zoo. We're going
• 54:23
  Speaker 4: to Booth the Zoo. We're going to boot the Browny
• 54:25
  Speaker 4: Point meetup.
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: And in between that five thirty five forty five, when
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: we're all there, like at the table, I think the
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: best thing would just be get a group get a
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: squad photo. Yeah of the PT sixers. Ooh, we get
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: Damily's sick, and we just do a matt. We just
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: do a big group photo. From that group photo, you
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: can get merch. You can go on the scavenger and
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: find tokens if you want to just enjoy the evening,
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: enjoy at the zoo.
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: Yes, and we'll see each other.
• 54:53
  Speaker 3: PT six Hey, and the goal is wife goes, hey,
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: isn't that the two assholes that you listen to on
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: YouTube over there? Center there and you go, oh, yeah,
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: that's weird. They're here too. I don't even know that's
• 55:04
  Speaker 3: so weird.
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: You can't. I don't think you can say that about
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: the Milk Team sixers. Bro Oh.
• 55:08
  Speaker 3: I think Milk Tea sixers are brought in, They are
• 55:11
  Speaker 3: bought in. They are bought in. That was a low blow.
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: Like you could see like whenever people will talk about
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: for the dads, Like I'll get dads that come up
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: to me, families that'll come up and say, the wife
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: might be like my husband, he loves listening to you
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: on for the dads And as he said there, he's like,
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: we watch you every week and stuff, and you just
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: kind of see that little smile from.
• 55:28
  Speaker 2: The muff from mom. You know what I mean.
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: Oh, for dad loves watching them come on now, hey
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: for sure, Hey nobody Milk Team sixture.
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 55:36
  Speaker 3: And the pictures that I get of I love the
• 55:40
  Speaker 3: dms from Mama Team six of their husband on the couch,
• 55:45
  Speaker 3: you know, with baby like they're watching they're all watching together. Yeah, dude,
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: they are the yeah Mama Team.
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: That was a low blow. And I do apologize to
• 55:53
  Speaker 2: Mama Team six.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah there there probably ain't many out there, but those
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: are the two assholes you listen to.
• 55:59
  Speaker 3: But that was that.
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: We giggled. We did gig, We did giggle.
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: It was a giggle and we just have fun on it.
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: The only time moments I would envision is if like say,
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: say you're new listening to the show and let's say
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: it was last week's episode or the week before that,
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: and the first thing it's gonna said, Papadine's thinks, I
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: hope your belly is full and your balls are empty.
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: And then the wife's like, this is what you've been
• 56:19
  Speaker 2: hearing about. This is your exemplement exemplament. You got it,
• 56:29
  Speaker 2: you got it.
• 56:30
  Speaker 5: Jeff, I can't say the word I'm getting blinked, but
• 56:34
  Speaker 5: I was gonna imitate and go, this is your father
• 56:37
  Speaker 5: podcast he listened to about being a good dad.
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: These guys, these guys, this dude calls himself to captain
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: a seaman team.
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: What is they just read the definition of boofing off
• 56:53
  Speaker 3: Urban Dictionary.
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: Oh, and that we call it. And here's adad hack.
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: Make sure you love your daughter. Oh, here's your survival kit.
• 57:02
  Speaker 3: Make sure you have an extra passe.
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: Let's get into some dad talk. Let's get into some
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: dad talk. I've been going through a few different things.
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: We'll go through again, wins and losses. We will crack
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: a collet, some survival kid dad act, some things that
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: I've been experiencing over the last over the last week
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: or so, we have our Halloween costumes dialed in.
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: M I'm jealous.
• 57:23
  Speaker 3: I need to.
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: I was hoping that we could be like a Star
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: Wars crew like Roue could be Ray Skywalker.
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: We found this.
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: I found this like dress, Uh, why am I blinking?
• 57:36
  Speaker 2: Jed Jedi robe.
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: There is this like robe that was like a dress
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: Jedi for Ray Skywalker to where she's got like the
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: bubble the triple pony the little bubble ponytail going on.
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: Loves the bubble ponytail like yo if she rips Ray Skywalker.
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: I'm looking into full on Darth Vader costumes. You could
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: put a great Vader, we could put We could put
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: Charro beautiful hair, will get her as why am I
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: ring a b Princess Leiah with the side buns.
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: You get a little Scottie as Yoda.
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: Find a little adorable Yoda costume with the little you know,
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: the little netted or you'll see it on Etsy, the
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: little netted with the Yoda ears.
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: That what we are doing. We were going to and
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: I'm juiced up about it.
• 58:26
  Speaker 3: I was about to say, if y'all did do that,
• 58:27
  Speaker 3: then we could also do Star Wars as well and
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: be other characters, but also do so.
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: For Halloween, We're gonna be the inside out crew.
• 58:39
  Speaker 3: That's a massive win.
• 58:42
  Speaker 2: Love it? Oh you don't like it? I'd ask who
• 58:44
  Speaker 2: I am?
• 58:45
  Speaker 8: Oh?
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, I would have loved to have been Anger.
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: I'm fear.
• 58:59
  Speaker 3: That's funny. Was that Charles's idea? Yeah, Charo, way, that's
• 59:05
  Speaker 3: off to Charo. That is funny. You got the glasses
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: and the little wig and everything.
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: Broa type in fear costume, fear costume inside out.
• 59:15
  Speaker 2: And charge is to be a what is it? A bingo?
• 59:21
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I was thinking of sadness. I was. I
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: thought Chari was having you dress up as the blue One.
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: No, I think that's gonna be I think that's gonna
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: be scotty because her parents are also like, we're rounding
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: out the six.
• 59:32
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, yes, you're Fear with the bow tie and yeah.
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: Got this long headed costume thing that I'm just gonna
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: be working.
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to be Darth Vader. I'm trying to force
• 59:46
  Speaker 2: show people.
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: I was like, hey, we should do some like where
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: it's like DC Superheroes. I was gonna be Bane PUSCOTTI
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: is Wolverine, but no, I gotta be Fear from inside out.
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 2: You look it up. We haven't pulled up. Well, I
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 2: think this is gonna look great on You're gonna look great.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 3: And he's got a little hounds tooth going in his vest.
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 3: That looks awesome, Darth Vader bro would it? Would it
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 3: be salting the wound if then I did Star Wars?
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah? But that you guys just come decked out six
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 2: Star Wars?
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: Is that what you are wearing to Boo at the Zoo?
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: No, boot the Zoo. So Rue wants to be a fairy.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: She saw this dress. She wants to dress.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: She's all about princesses and dresses, and she wants to
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: be a fairy. So Charro is we're thinking, like, all right,
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: for Halloween, we want this, you know, we want to
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: squad fit all inside out. Ruth's either gonna be like
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: Joy or's gonna be one of them, okay, okay, one
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: of the good ones. Yeah yeah, And she's like, here's
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: how we knock out the fairy costume. We'll let wear
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: the fairy costume at Boo at the Zoo. So that
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: way when it's allween time, Hey, you're gonna two costumes.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: We got Halloween boota Zoo. You're gonna wear the ferry
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: and then for Halloween, you'll get to be one of
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: the characters of Inside Out. Yeah, Charles gets to be uh,
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: what is it? Bing Bong? Charles bing Bong? That's the
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: inflated one. I wanted to be being bo. I was like,
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: I'd be bing Bong. She's like, oh, you know the.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 2: Sizes I ordered it sizes. You would have been a
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: great I gotta be out of your fear.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 3: So y'all don't have anything playing for Bed at the Zoo,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 3: Not yet. I was getting too not yet, not yet,
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 3: not yet, come up with something. Yeah, I'm trying to
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 3: throw something together.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we get something going.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but Boot the Zoo October twenty eighth, Tuesday, five thirty,
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: be there, be there.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 3: I think I might do Fat Stafford. That might be
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 3: my my dress up. Get some shoulder pads going, little
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 3: Matt Stafford jersey.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: That could be good. That could be good. Maybe I
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 2: could hit the world. Willie one shelf. You should be willy.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 2: What do we think of? What are we talking about? Here?
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 2: Kind of got the costume we do?
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: I have a question for the audience, please, I have
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: a question for the parents out there. Rus three her
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: personalities as big as ever. I see a lot of
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: great signs of confidence and leadership, but she's also very
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: sassy m And as a parent you're always trying to
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: figure out the balance between. Like, all right, they're kind
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: of talking crazy to me, right now? Do I stay
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: poised in the pocket like Baker Mayfield without any of
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: his big targets?
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 2: What do I kind of snap back? Yeah? Her right?
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: So my question is, are sassy moments a sign of confidence?
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: Sorry? If you guys hear these honks there's outside, well
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 2: we might have to go full pet Siko.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: I think that you might just go out there and
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: yell sorry if you guys heard the honks out there?
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 2: Are sassy moments a sign of the podcast? Who we
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: do it? Go check on it? Go check on it? Derek?
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 3: So is sassiness a hey we've done to fell money?
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: Our sassy moments a sign of confidence? Our sassy moments
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: a sign of confidence? Or they to test boundaries. I
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: think that's a great question. I'm running through that in
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: my mind.
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  Speaker 2: Slash. I know what you're saying because I've seen you
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  Speaker 2: deal with.
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  Speaker 3: Sassin with sassiness and attitude pretty like I think really, well.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: Okay, I was doing some like I was doing some
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: research on this. I did come across like a parent sour.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: It's like a blog, it's like ways of spot of
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: sassy little personality. And this this source describes sas as
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: part of early experiments with identity, independence, autonomy, boldness, and
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: it frames sas as a superpower. In a way, being
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: sassy can mean that a child is learning to stand up,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: testing what works socially, and seeing their voice as meaningful.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: Then I came across. I came across this metaphor like
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: boundary railings. If the bridge has no railing, the toddler
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: crosses slowly, hesitantly, and insecurely. With boundaries, they cross with
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: more confidence. SaaS may emerge as part of the testing
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: phase until those.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 2: Rails are in place.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: So then I'm just thinking to myself, all right, what
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: are examples that I can hang on to where it's like,
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: all right, this is good, this is confidence here testing
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: about it. It's all encompassing, right, because it's always happening, like
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: when their brains are developed and they kind of like
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: lose their minds. Yeah, and you're kind of in the
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: pocket trying to figure out what to do. But when
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking back on examples that we might have been
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: trying to experiment with.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: Or might have done.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: I see, like it's like dinner time, she'll get she's
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: been sassy around dinner time. But now that I feel
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: like she understands these boundaries of clean plate club, or
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: you don't get what you're actually thinking about until this happens,
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: it almost.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 2: Takes away the.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I guess the reaction on my part
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: because now we know what the said boundaries are to
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: where I'm like, hey, yeah, you don't have to you
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: don't have to eat your food. You kind of know
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: what consequences come with that because I know what your
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: little brain's thinking about. You're thinking, how can I get
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: out of eating dinner right now and still get the
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: cookie at the same time, or how can I press
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: I'll eat two bites. Two bites don't really work anymore,
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: Like you need to eat your food.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 2: I need to.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: Show that you had in a very respectable effort with
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: your plate. In my brain, I'm thinking, it doesn't have
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: to be clean, but I need to know you're you're
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: eating at your chicken, you're eating at your vegetables, You're
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: eating at whether it's potatoes, rice, whatever, it is like
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: if I know you're putting an effort and you'll you'll
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: get your little half cookie here at the end of dinner.
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: Like I know what that looks like, but I feel
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: like that's a that's been something I think too about.
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: All right, there's something that's like clear boundaries that are
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: set there now, like learning when I was doing when
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: I was kind of breaking down the morning routine, like
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: rude gets really sassy or whiny, you know what I mean,
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: to where it's like, well, do why does why does.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 2: The morning have to be such an issue right now? Bro?
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: Like we do this every morning, But I've identified to
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: where it's like she does love her independence, she does
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: love to where she feels like she's in control, to
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: where like one morning or a couple of mornings now
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: where it's like, hey, I got a challenge for you,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: and I've kind of laid out a couple outfits because like,
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: we're not going to go through this whole I don't want.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 2: To wear this outfit.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: I'm wearing this one, and then it just becomes an
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: entire argument in negotiation. It's like, all right, I've laid
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: out a couple options. Hey, here's your challenge you pick
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: out your outfit, you can put it on. First thing
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: you gotta do is you gotta go body. We gotta
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: clean you up. You go body first.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 2: But then I challenge you.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: Dad is going to leave the room. I know you
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: yell at mean, go downstairs. You want to do it
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: by yourself. I recognize that you want to be independent
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: in this situation. Yeah, so it's like, all right, I
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: trust you. You got to make you bet. You gotta
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: pick out your outfit. Here's a couple I let out
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: for you. You gotta make your bed, makes your room's tidied up.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: Like she loves to slide the door shut. She likes
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: to do all the things. And then that mama come
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: upstairs and see what I've done.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: Yea thing.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna go downstairs and start making
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: breakfast whenever you come downstairs, because I know you like
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: to think about what you want for breakfast. Now, I'm
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: not if I give her a couple officer, I don't
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: know yet. It's like, all right, you think about it
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: and you tell me yeah, But then when you come downstairs,
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: you have you've thought about it. You let me know
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: what you want for breakfast. Now that we kind of
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: had some of those boundaries in place. When I'm rocking
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: solo mission doing the morning routine. That's kind of the
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: way I approach it because I'll get Scotti going. She's
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: just a minute, she just wants to be down on
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: the floor playing. I'll start making breakfast, get up the
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: barricade at the stairs. Rue, you can hang out by
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: yourself upstairs, do your morning routine by yourself, however you
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: see fit. These are the things you gotta do. I've
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: now seen that that has that that has been there
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: has been fruits that have came from that because she
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: has grown and understanding what the boundaries are dealing with
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: her her sassiness. Yeah, and then another one. I think
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: that where I'm going through all this, I'm like, that
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: is a good question or sassy moments the confidence or
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: do they are they testing boundaries? And it's like it's
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: probably the whole mix of both things, and am I
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: getting do I again? Do I let her walk all
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: over me? Or it's like, hey, you're whining. You're not
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: using your strong voice. You know, Dada doesn't like to
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: be talked to like that. Yeah, change your tone, or
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: when I hear your strong voice, I will do what
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: you are asking. Then I'm thinking, is she still getting
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: her way by being sassy? I'm telling her the answer.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: If she gives me the answer, she still gets it.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: Am I am? I kind of being the am I
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: being a push over there? Like these I'm always like
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: asking myself these things like as I'm trying to parent
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: and trying to figure out ways for her to like
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: develop and grow and be strong, and how she's like
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: asking questions or like, hey, use your confident voice?
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 3: Can I can I as a not a co host
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 3: but more of a friend kind of just say my
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 3: two cents on what I think of you as a
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 3: dad in those situations.
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: Not yet hold it? I have one more. The coupons
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 2: we had the dad hack of using TV coupons.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: RU would always rue is always kind of in that
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: you know, you're just in that spot.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 2: I want to watch this scene. I want to watch No,
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 2: I don't want it to be over.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: And then she's crying and it's like you're sitting down
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: with her on the couch. And then when we came
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: across the TV coupons, once thirty minutes goes up, now
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: she kind of knows that it's done. Yeah, that was
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: my third example, Like, when I'm reading through all this
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: stuff and trying to figure out am I doing this correctly?
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: Am I going about this the right way? Here are
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: some evidence that I can now pull from the word say, okay,
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: these are boundaries that are in place whenever it's happening
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: in other moments, find other boundaries to kind of put
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: around there, to kind of like allow her to be
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: her if she's having a moment. But then she also
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: knows in the back of her mind these are what
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: the boundaries are. Yeah, okay, now you can, now you can,
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: Now you can go. I just wanted to get that
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: third one out there.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 2: No, I love that. I love that. Do you have
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 2: more on it?
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 3: I don't want to cut you off of any type
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 3: of brain, like where where else is your mind going?
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 5: With?
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: My mind like goes through there because as I like,
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: as I like pose that question to parents that might
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: be like wondering the same stuff here have been my
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: like highs and lows and how I've tried to like
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: navigate those things on the whole boundaries issue. Yes, am
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: I being a pushover? Do I need to be a
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: little bit more snappy with her? It's hard to because
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: it's my daughter, and I'm softer with my daughter, but
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: also I want to, you know, mold a human being
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: that I see is fit within, like resilience and leadership
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: and humility and like, hey, here's how you need to
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: be talking to people. Am I allowing it a little
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: too much? Am I doing a better job here? I'm
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: more so communicating things that I look to that I've
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: done that are now I feel like evidence in my eyes,
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: and things that kind of help me think about what
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: that next.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 2: Thing might be.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: To put boundaries around so I don't allow her to
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: be out of hand in certain situations. So I'm more
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: of like talking through this with the parents at home,
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: through this out loud on Hey, here's some things this
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: works for me. Here's some things that I'm thinking about
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: now where I can do better. Yeah.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 3: So that to I think it's the same thing as
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 3: me being worried about being a good dad of before
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 3: Scarlett was ever here. And you said the fact that
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 3: you're worried about it and asking questions is a great sign.
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 3: I would say that about this of the sassiness issue,
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 3: the fact that you're worried about it, you're thinking about it,
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 3: you're adapting you're trying new techniques. Would this work? What
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 3: if I gave her some more responsibility? What if I
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 3: gave her some more places where Rue can make the
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 3: right decision and put the ball on her court instead
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 3: of reacting emotionally and trying to take the power from
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 3: her in that situation. Like, I think you're doing a
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 3: great job of just confronting the issue. Rather or not
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 3: sassiness is the sad Yeah, they're gonna be sassy, and
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 3: rather or not that's going to turn into a good
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 3: character trait or a negative one where she's given attitude
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 3: you know people at school or teachers or whatever. Like
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 3: that's besides the point. I think you're doing a good
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 3: job of identifying it, navigating it, and trying to find
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 3: a solution or a way to make this a good thing,
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 3: make this a character trait, and to.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 2: Brag on Rue.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 3: At the fall Fest, we're doing drawings, and Rue sat
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 3: there and did not say a word the entire time,
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 3: but was very like peaceful as she's like coloring.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 2: She loves coloring love.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 3: She was locked in and JJ Jeremy's son is sitting
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 3: there with me drawing.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: Shreman, Hey, Hey, Sherman Sherman. Sherman, Hey Rue, Rue, Hey Rue,
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 2: look Rue, Look look.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 3: Rue, And Rue is wanting no part of what's going
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 3: on with Sherman and JJ. Yeah, but she was not
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 3: rude about it at all. She was very quiet, and
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 3: she would slowly look up from her drawing and look
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 3: at JJ's drawing and go and look back down and keep.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 2: Coloring, and like you could tell that in that moment
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: she was setting.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 3: A boundary for JJ and saying like, Hey, I'm not
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 3: matching your energy right now. I'm locked in. I'm doing
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 3: my thing, and like the most I'm gonna say is charm.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 3: Will you get me purple? And I gave her a
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 3: purple and she said thank you and started doing her brother.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 3: That's so funny, Like she's doing a good job of
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 3: setting You could tell she wasn't annoyed by JJ, but
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 3: she was like JJ.
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 2: Got done with one because he was coloring the bats.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and he was having like I want Rue
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: to see the bass because Rue was going to color
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: like her and Mom went to go color a Halloween
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: bag or something like that.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I just remember walking over to the room and I'm like, hey, Rue,
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 2: JJ really wants you.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 3: To see yeah, to see his color back going over
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 3: to him. Yeah, yeah, which I love.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: That was all about it. JJ is a great ball
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: of energy, bro. Yeah, his enthusiasm is off the charts.
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: And I'm like laughing because I and I'm like seeing
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: Rue and Rue clearly hears him r and Clump's trying to, like,
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: you know, tone him down, and I'm like, hey, I'll
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: go try and get Rud in my head start like go,
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: he wants to show you this color. It's just like
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: when you run up to us and you're like, hey,
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: you just look at my drawing and we're like, oh
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: my god. Like he wants to like go give him
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: a little something. She goes over and she's like that's good.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 3: And I dude, I loved that moment of real I
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 3: felt like I saw a lot of Rue's personality in
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 3: that moment. I love that even though she wasn't matching
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 3: his energy, like she was not mean to him. She
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 3: didn't say leave me alone, da da dah, I'm doing
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 3: that Like she was very calm and poised and so
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 3: just wanted to brag on your daughter in that moment.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 2: I appreciate it. She could have lost her cool.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: Here's another one this morning, like this morning on Friday,
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: She's like, hey, or one sleep until we go to
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: the fan. You know, she's rattling off because we're like, oh,
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: great job, and she's like she wants to tell everybody.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: One sleep until we go to the Vanderbilt game. Two
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: sleeps until we do until we go to uh uh,
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: until we go to Grandpa's uh.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 2: Three sleeps until we go to London. I'm like, hey, sweetheart, bro,
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 2: she got a weekend coming out.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: I'm my, hey, sweetheart, no sleeps? You know who plays
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: football tonight? And she's like ooh, and I'm like the
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: Nebraska corner.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 2: And she like kind I'm like holding her ind she
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 2: kind of like and leans back and she's like she's
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 2: like dead, you know who plays football tonight?
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: And I'm like the Huskers And she's like no, She's
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: like no, and she starts kind of getting sassy with me.
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: She's like, no, I say who plays the night you
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: you don't say Huskers, you don't say you don't say nothing,
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: I tell you Huskers. Like all right, I'm on a
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: knee down on her level and I'm like and again
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: I'm having one of those ones.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 2: I'm like, you little girl.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, let's do that. She's like and
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: then she tells her voice. She's like dad who plays
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: the night? And I'm like, and she's.
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 2: Like the scers. I was like, oh, the Huskers. And
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking of that moment, Like am I just letting
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 2: her walk all over me? You know, I think she
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 2: has Uh. I don't know, you're not all that well,
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 2: but you're gonna go through it.
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying three is a different three is a
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: different vibe.
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 3: Bro. She she's wanting that independence in that uh control
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 3: control and and uh yeah, dude, I think that's a
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 3: cool thing that she wants that.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: She knows she's very much. She's like, she's like a boss.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, we went, uh this is I'll just
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: go ahead and say this is a survival kit. And
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: I apologize, like, I know, I'm sure you have some
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: stories as well. We had to go to uhur Charlo
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: takes her after swimming lesson on Tuesday, took her to
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: Dick Sporting goes to get cones for soccer. She's got
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: a soccer ball at home, you know. She goes, but
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: she gets the cones and brings them home. She's got
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: Charro out in the front yard running drills. She doesn't
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: want to play soccer. She wants to be the coach
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: that she's observed every time a soccer practice. And she's
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: putting Charro through the drills. She's not the one doing soccer. Yeah,
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: like dad, I can get my apple juice. She comes
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: in Cyrol quick gets her apple juice, and I look
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: out there and Charles, the one doing the drills while
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: we're just we're just backing, watches her.
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 3: No my my, no around around.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, do it this way.
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: No, the cone goes here the bible, kid, go get
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: some cones. Kids love cones.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 3: Dude, I love that. It sounds like you got a
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 3: commander in cheap, got a little commander in cheap.
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 2: You got a little Mike linebacker, is what it sounds like?
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 2: Green dot? You got a little green dot.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 3: Dude. I think it's cool. I think Real is setting
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 3: herself up to be a very competent, independent, sure of
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 3: herself and her decisions, and it will come out sideways. Dude,
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 3: she's three. I'm not giving you advice. I'm just talking three.
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 3: I feel you, I feel you, But I think I
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 3: think that's badass.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: Someone like leaning on the parents out there that have
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: had their three year older they're currently three, or maybe
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: they're two, they can like, oh, what's the age of three,
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: like like just buckle up. Oh we were at Italy's
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: last night. Mac and cheese was too hot and it
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: really wasn't that hot. Like shoot her, you gotta blow
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: on and she's yelling, I mean no, don't blow on.
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, I'm trying to make your life easier
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: and she doesn't want to. Where like you gotta sit
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: and let it wait, like eat your chicken tenders or
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: eat your chicken fingers until your mac and cheese cools down.
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 2: She doesn't want to.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: She's crying, and you're like, you know, you're there as
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: a parent, you're in public. They're having a moment, and
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: you're like, you know, I'm like, fuck, like please stop
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: being so loud and like yelling and crying and everything else.
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 2: Do you feel like is it good for you though?
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 2: Like do you feel like.
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 3: There's a part of you that maybe needed some softening
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 3: that like you feel like you're also kind of growing
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 3: in this moment self control.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: Absolutely, because I know, like parents don't sit there and
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 1: tell you like don't dude, don't stress about that stuff.
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: Like we've all had kids and people who are like
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: their assholes they don't have kids.
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 2: Whatever. Yeah, something in that moment. I just gotta I
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 2: gotta be cool having a moment.
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: I really wish you would just listen because it's like, bro,
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you number one, it's not that hot, Like
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: let that dad blow on it, mix it around, blow
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: on it, or hey, if you want to do yourself,
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: you blow three on yourself. I show you all the time,
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: Like get a fork, not a spoon, then try it.
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: If it's too hot, just eat the other.
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 2: Thing on your plate.
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: But she's having a moment to where it's happening for
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: several minutes orre she's crying.
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 2: She's like, no, don't talk to me. Don't talk to me, Mama,
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 2: don't talk to me, like dad, ed, don't talk to me.
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: John and I are both just kind of sitting there
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: quality to the point to where it's like we can't
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: even say, all right, we're not gonna talk to you.
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 2: She's like no, no, and she's crying.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: She's got the mac and cheese, she's got it on
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: a fork just in her hand, like she's like, you know,
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: red crying doing things Tron and I just kind of
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: sitting there. I'm kind of just looking over he Scotty.
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: I'm like, Scott, to eat your eat your turkey.
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 2: And then I hear Rue like she's not you know,
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 2: she doesn't want us to tell her what to do.
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 2: Uh huh. She doesn't want us to talk to her.
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 2: Eventually it's gonna swing the other way.
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: She's sitting there, she's trying to figure it out in
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: her head as she's screaming. And then I just hear like,
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: as I'm like, look at Scotty out here, she's like.
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 7: Starting to blow on it, and I'm dude, I know
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 7: she's looking at me, and I'm laughing, and you know,
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 7: I got the quiet left going on to where.
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 3: My shoulders are going on. I can't look at Jarrow
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 3: like look up her. She sees me laughing through my
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 3: get a little more more. I'm like, Scott, you, oh,
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 3: you're so funny. Scott trying not look at room. But
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 3: she's mid cry, trying to blow on the mac and cheese.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 2: Just the shakiest hands of all time. I I love it.
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 2: Go ahead, Jim, I was gonna ask a question to Will.
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 5: Listening this to someone who doesn't have kids at twenty three,
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 5: if you, I guess the better way to put this
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 5: like three years ago, will how would he have reacted
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 5: to this situation compared to now?
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 2: Do you think?
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 5: Can you see that where you're like, oh, I've definitely
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 5: grown because I'm sitting here going.
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 2: I'm feeling for you. I don't have it they can.
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: The way you're feeling me younger, or I'm just assuming
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: because obviously being a parent kind of like hey, you
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: have to grow and develop and kind of force yourself
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: to like patients all these things that you learn when
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: you do become a parent. But I fully think back
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: to your question, I was feeling what you were thinking,
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: like as you're listening, like you kind of just want
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: to brow Hey, cut the shit. We can leave, Like
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: get up, we can leave right now. And you're kind
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 1: of making a scene as a parent, and really it's
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: not the way to handle You're kind of.
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 2: Just reacting and everything else.
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 1: They're brain has so many things that's going on in
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 1: their head that they're trying to like learn and develop.
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: They wish they were in control, like little toddlers. They're
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: always being told what to do, how to handle stuff. Hey,
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: you need to blow on it, like use this, not that,
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: wear this, not that, Go do x y and z.
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: Here's the routine. Hey, we have to get going. No,
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: we can't play right now, we have to do X
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 1: y and z.
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 2: Blah blah blah.
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: They're always being told what to do, and they want
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 1: their own independence and feel like when I'm reading about
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 1: there learning to stand up, testing what works socially, seeing
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: if their voice, they feel like they have a meaningful voice.
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: They wanted to be heard. So you're like hearing, You're
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 1: like all this stuff is happening in real time to
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: where the development. As a parent, you're kind of challenging
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: yourself for to kick in and stay poised, stay in
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: the pocket, to not like lose yourself or lose control,
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: because you have to empathize with what their little brain
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: is going through all these big emotions and they want
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 1: to be in control of their life too and not
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: be told what to do from mom and dad all
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: the time. So as you're listening, it's like, I very
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 1: much have that young will like in my head as.
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 2: It's going on.
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 1: If I wasn't a parent, I would fully be what
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: you were feeling because you think like this is how
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: my old man would have handled it, And that's how
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: my parents would have done it, right, Yes, And like
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 1: as you were growing as parents and trying to challenge
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: ourselves to like learn new things on how to be
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: intentional and present and are we doing our best right now?
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 2: We're trying to do our best.
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: And it also makes you reflect on all the stuff
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: that you had when you were a child and what
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: your parents did.
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 2: Well, what now you feel like you're learning as a parent.
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: Like, man, my dad or my mom wasn't equipped in
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 1: this way, I feel like now because I'm sure the
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: generation before them handled them in a much different way.
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: We have so many more resources and literature and things
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 1: that we can source now and look to for guidance, advice,
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: things to try that I don't feel like our parents
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: had back then to where it was different for us.
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, all those old ways of
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: how we were. My dad would tan my ass if
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: I'm making a scene in public and I might be older,
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 1: maybe that's how I go when she's older. I'm just kidding,
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 1: but you know what I'm saying.
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 2: Does that make sense? One hundred percent? It's very profound.
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 5: I'm going to make an edit of the The complete
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 5: sides of will Compton from like he's talking about like
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 5: the most mature and philosophical way of parenting, like these
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 5: things that I'm like, man, that is so smart and
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 5: I'm going to find you just farting.
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 2: That will be in the pipeline, just all the guy
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 2: humor that I love.
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 3: The mini sides of William Coompton, William Earl, the third
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 3: and two Chefs. I loved Chef's question because I was
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 3: going to ask something similar and what I was going
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 3: to say earlier that I forgot to say is knowing
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 3: you and knowing that pool story where you ripped, where
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 3: it got to a point where it was like, Okay, Rue,
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 3: we're going home and you're not talking to your mom
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 3: like that and blah blah blah, like in your brain
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 3: with your upbringing and everything that's important to you morally,
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 3: all that stuff.
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 2: You are not going to raise a brat. You won't.
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 3: You are not trying to raise a brat. You're not
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 3: trying to raise a kid that's going to be off
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 3: the rails like you are going to do a good
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 3: job of trying to create those guardrails and aim Rue
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 3: in the right direction.
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 2: Of where she needs to head growing up.
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 3: And I love where your head is at and your
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 3: instincts and the strategy that you're taking on this situation.
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 3: I just wanted you to hear it.
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 1: I appreciate that, bro, that is ultimately the goal. I
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 1: think every parent's like, man, you don't want to raise
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: a brat. You don't want to raise you know, a
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 1: sassy as kid. You don't want to raise an asshole.
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 2: And you're not You're not being There's probably times that
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 2: you are being too self whatever, like like your boy
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 2: is soft. Now.
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 3: We all make mistakes and we don't do the right
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 3: thing and right situations. But it is good to know
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 3: that you do have that place in your head of like,
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 3: you know the limit of where it goes to you
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 3: and you have the ability to nip it in the
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 3: butt and be like, unacceptable, that's not happening. So what
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 3: I'm not worried for you, I guess is what I'm
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 3: trying to say.
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, more like more like creating a conversations, creating a dialogue.
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 1: It's yeah, creating a dialogue with the with the PT sick,
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 1: with the PT sick goes out there with the parents
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 1: out there that could be going through the same stuff
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 1: and thinking all the same things that could absolutely have
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 1: all the same goals and same like practices and doubt
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 1: in those moments to where we're sharing, we're sharing experiences. Yeah,
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 1: you're giving feedback, you.
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 2: Know what I mean?
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 5: I would say that what the reason you raise that
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 5: question and the reason you do this podcast is like
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 5: the ultimate side of there's a true intentionality there, and
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 5: that's something that I think probably that's the first step
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 5: of like you're already probably beaten out a lot of people.
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 5: I'm not saying it's a competition, but like the idea
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 5: that it matters enough to you that you put that
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 5: much thought into it and to really take time to
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 5: think about it and take a big step back.
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, says a Ton. I hope it's all PT sixers
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 2: out there, baby.
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 3: Hey, and I I'm very excited to bring up my
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 3: in the trenches Okay, I'm very excited to see the
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 3: PT sixers in the comments and what they say about
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 3: that question that you propose, because I put on Twitter
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 3: my end the trenches is scar scars diaper situation. The
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 3: size ones are too small, the size did so you
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 3: put that out there, the size twos are too big.
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 3: And I put out this tweet and it was one
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 3: of my very first tweets that I went past the
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 3: restricted amount of text. I wrote a book, and I
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 3: was legitimately like, this is not for likes or comments, like,
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 3: please tell me what people have done.
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 2: And dude.
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 3: PT six came in clunch there was like thirty replies,
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 3: and so, first off, a huge shout out to PT six,
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 3: And secondly, I came to Jill because of course Jill
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 3: and I are having this conversation. That's why I put
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 3: it on Twitter, because I'm like, Jill, we can't be
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 3: we use codery. I was like, we can't be doubling
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 3: up CODERI because one those diapers are all expensive and
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 3: two now they're going twice as fast because we're doubling
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 3: up coderies at nighttime. That can't be the solve, Like,
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 3: there's got to be something else. Put out that question resounding, Hey,
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 3: nighttime diapers, overnight diapers, overnight diapers, nighttime diapers, gotta do
• 1:28:15
  Speaker 3: a m surm use this company, blah blah blah. I
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 3: read those to Jill and it's already opening her mind
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 3: a little bit of like, yeah, we could do that, huh.
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 3: Blah blah blah. And I didn't say anything, but I
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 3: saw on her story this morning, on her Instagram story,
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 3: she had a looking to get some nighttime diapers? Does
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 3: anyone have brand recommendation? So Empty six and PT six
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 3: in my replies, thank you because you helped us like
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 3: move in a direction. I can't wait to see it fixed,
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 3: because I mean, Scarscar is sleeping great, but we're having
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 3: to wash these merlins every single morning because they're just
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 3: covered in bed. Yeah, she's wearing a diaper. How's this happening?
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 1: Shoutout PAT six And by the way, BT six was
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 1: ready last week after we talked about the hater coming
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 1: after you? Yeah, yeah, yeah, honestly with the end within
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 1: an hour or two the episode dropping, people like, hey,
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 1: reporting for duty, where's he at?
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 3: I found the comment. The guy's name was like David
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 3: Wee or David Way. I found the comment and I
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 3: wanted to do like a meme at it and stuff
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 3: for it.
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 2: I can't find it. Did he delete it? I looked
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 2: at it. He deleted it. Oh, he deleted it. He
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 2: deleted it before I could screenshot it. He backed off. Damn.
• 1:29:38
  Speaker 2: You know what that says? Though? I don't know. I
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 2: don't know.
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 1: Were you guys able to go back to that comment
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 1: whenever the podcast came out. My thought is people when
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 1: they listened to the episode or watched the episode, was
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 1: his comment?
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 5: This is before the episode dropped? He deted, real, I
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 5: remember I found the post. I'm like, this has the
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 5: post to look through gone?
• 1:30:01
  Speaker 4: Your comment's gone, his comments gone. And it happened before
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 4: the episode dropped. So even after our conversation, oh mind
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 4: it for the show gone either, he had a change
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 4: of heart.
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm thinking if I responded to him, eventually
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 1: other people would probably see it and go in and
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 1: maybe he's going back and forth with a couple people
• 1:30:23
  Speaker 1: to the point where it's like, I'm deleting this.
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 2: I found it.
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 3: I clicked on his profile and I too laughed because
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 3: this was right after we recorded Chef Nailed on the Head.
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 3: His bio was legit like, hey, spread positivity because you
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 3: never know when your friend needs it the most, like
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 3: something like that. And we had a mutual on Instagram.
• 1:30:43
  Speaker 3: We had a mutual And it's a guy that I
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 3: know pretty well, and I kind of want to reach
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 3: out to him and be like, Yo, you know this guy.
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 2: We need to put them on notice for he's sick
• 1:30:53
  Speaker 2: salivating for a mission right now. This is your boy.
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and he would tell me too because I'm buddies
• 1:31:00
  Speaker 3: with them. It'd be funny. Yeah, I have a so
• 1:31:03
  Speaker 3: it wasn't a burner is the actual guy?
• 1:31:05
  Speaker 2: A I have a dad loss? My dad loss?
• 1:31:08
  Speaker 1: Is this sitting in the pocket as a dad and
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 1: your toddler. It's just all about want to know if
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 1: it's mom's turn to put her to bed?
• 1:31:21
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 1: You just take these hits, bro, where it's like, hey,
• 1:31:26
  Speaker 1: in front of me, Mama, is you're turn to do
• 1:31:27
  Speaker 1: bedtime tonight?
• 1:31:28
  Speaker 2: It's dad sair night, but I want you to do bedtime.
• 1:31:31
  Speaker 2: I'm just thinking, Yo, I'm standing right here.
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 1: Bro, and to where it's like she has a couple
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 1: more things that goes beyond dad Dad, Like no, I
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 1: want Mama to do that.
• 1:31:41
  Speaker 2: No, I want mama to do this.
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 1: And I'm just like all right, and Charles sees it
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 1: on my face like I'm not like wrecked in a
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 1: certain way. I'm just like she knows. I'm thinking like, dude,
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 1: come on, like give the old man some.
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 3: Love, like your dad, like we're homees Bro, have you
• 1:31:58
  Speaker 3: ever seen like I don't just don't just come home,
• 1:32:01
  Speaker 3: you know.
• 1:32:02
  Speaker 5: I actually because I this is the one thing I
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 5: might have experience, And so I'm gonna jump in here.
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 2: Little kids and toddlers say some mean stuff they did
• 1:32:10
  Speaker 2: in front of you.
• 1:32:11
  Speaker 5: I was a I worked an after school program through
• 1:32:14
  Speaker 5: ymc A in Knoxville when I was in college, and
• 1:32:16
  Speaker 5: so I went to Rocky Hill Elementary every year or
• 1:32:19
  Speaker 5: every day when kids got out, for kids that parents
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 5: couldn't pick them up, or bus bus routes didn't get
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 5: to them, and man, not intentional, I would get little
• 1:32:28
  Speaker 5: eleanor sitting there, she goes, have you always had a
• 1:32:30
  Speaker 5: gap in your teeth?
• 1:32:34
  Speaker 2: Well? Retainer? Thank you? Parents told me the same thing
• 1:32:38
  Speaker 2: in seventh grade.
• 1:32:40
  Speaker 5: But anyway, I want too bad.
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 2: Well, I think it's just they don't even know it's
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 2: a loss that a.
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 1: Dad feels in their body when there, when they're when
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 1: they're a little one, like you know, they have a
• 1:32:50
  Speaker 1: strong relationship with them, and it's like, yo, is it
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 1: Mom's turned to bed?
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 2: They like I did.
• 1:32:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Bro, it's you know, I'm sitting here, I'm looking
• 1:32:56
  Speaker 1: at dad lost mom versus dad bedtime routines. Does your
• 1:32:59
  Speaker 1: child spawn differently when dad puts them down or versus
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 1: mom puts them down?
• 1:33:04
  Speaker 2: Like this, mom and dad have different bedtime.
• 1:33:05
  Speaker 1: Because I'm thinking, Bro, we rip at bedtime, like we
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 1: have fun at bedtime Dad. Dad kind of sick with
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 1: it with the bedtime. Yeah, that is nasty with bedtime routine.
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 1: Like we'll play games. I mixed up games.
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 3: Hey, let's race to the bathroom to brush our teeth sometimes,
• 1:33:24
  Speaker 3: daddad lets you skip a couple things.
• 1:33:27
  Speaker 2: Mom's out there listening right now, like what the oh
• 1:33:29
  Speaker 2: this is.
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 1: Why she brings up. Can I brush my teeth and
• 1:33:32
  Speaker 1: brush my hair in the morning? Yeah, because Dad's like, oh,
• 1:33:34
  Speaker 1: you want to go to you want to fall asleep, Like, hey,
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 1: we gotta brush your hair and brush your teeth in
• 1:33:38
  Speaker 1: the morning.
• 1:33:38
  Speaker 3: Now, we're's been asking me to read eight books at night.
• 1:33:42
  Speaker 2: H Yeah, this is something new we've been doing. I've
• 1:33:44
  Speaker 2: been reading eight you know, I do.
• 1:33:48
  Speaker 1: See I'll lock her into two. She got me on
• 1:33:51
  Speaker 1: three the other night. But also, Bro, I get in
• 1:33:55
  Speaker 1: and lay in bed with her every night, like when
• 1:33:57
  Speaker 1: it's time, like when we hit the books on a
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 1: regular where it's you know, we'll read one book, then
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 1: brush your hair, brush your teeth. We'll get back in bed.
• 1:34:04
  Speaker 1: We'll read another book. And then when it's time to
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 1: come off.
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 3: She knows this dadd dead as scratch my back, dadad
• 1:34:08
  Speaker 3: give me a massage.
• 1:34:09
  Speaker 1: Like I lay in bed with her every time I
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 1: do bedtime. We switch every night and every time I'm
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 1: in bed with her and I'm scratching her back and
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 1: like rubbing her arm or giving her a massage every
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 1: night until it's like, you know, she's like tired. I
• 1:34:23
  Speaker 1: can tell, like rub her face and hair to her,
• 1:34:25
  Speaker 1: she's like fall asleep, and I'm kind of like you know,
• 1:34:27
  Speaker 1: giving her giving her the handstroke on the.
• 1:34:29
  Speaker 2: Side of the head, and I'm like, all right, bedtime.
• 1:34:31
  Speaker 1: She gives me a hug, kiss, three squeezes, one two, three,
• 1:34:34
  Speaker 1: I love you, and she'll like keep her eyes closed
• 1:34:35
  Speaker 1: through it, and she knows it's bedtime. She's asleep, she's
• 1:34:37
  Speaker 1: passed out. And then when Mom does bedtime. At the
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 1: end of every time Mom does bed it's like Dad
• 1:34:41
  Speaker 1: has it's Dad has got to come upstairs and do
• 1:34:44
  Speaker 1: the final put in the the last and fifter. I'm
• 1:34:47
  Speaker 1: the closer, Yeah, I'm the scratch the back closer, like
• 1:34:52
  Speaker 1: I'm scratching back every Now, I'm like, bro, we rip
• 1:34:54
  Speaker 1: at bedtime? Why is it always like you act like
• 1:34:56
  Speaker 1: I'm torturing you when I do bedtime?
• 1:34:58
  Speaker 3: Now I know the answer. She wants both of y'all
• 1:35:01
  Speaker 3: to do it. That's it. If you're going in there
• 1:35:06
  Speaker 3: every night, no matter what. She likes it when Charle
• 1:35:10
  Speaker 3: does it, because she's getting both parents. That's all it is.
• 1:35:14
  Speaker 2: You might be right.
• 1:35:16
  Speaker 3: It's not that you're she's not as good like because
• 1:35:19
  Speaker 3: she does.
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 2: That's the time.
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I think in my head, like, bro, we
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 1: have fun at bedtime? Why is it always gonna be
• 1:35:25
  Speaker 1: Mama and you?
• 1:35:26
  Speaker 2: Kind of her her mom have.
• 1:35:28
  Speaker 1: Such a unique relationship to where it'll be like the
• 1:35:31
  Speaker 1: whining and argue to where Charles like, I don't see
• 1:35:33
  Speaker 1: why she's always wanting me to do bedtime all the time.
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 1: She certain wines with me, and she makes it hard
• 1:35:38
  Speaker 1: on me. All right, we might got it. We might
• 1:35:41
  Speaker 1: have don't know, might have gotten cut off there for
• 1:35:43
  Speaker 1: a second, soundboard crashed on us for a moment. All good, though,
• 1:35:47
  Speaker 1: We're getting into our hot We're getting into our our hotline.
• 1:35:51
  Speaker 1: Our voicemails this week six and one of the dads
• 1:35:52
  Speaker 1: if you want to call in and be featured on
• 1:35:54
  Speaker 1: the show. Yes, we do have a couple this week.
• 1:35:56
  Speaker 1: We're gonna hit the We're gonna hit a couple of voicemails.
• 1:35:58
  Speaker 1: Maybe read you an email and get on way. We
• 1:36:01
  Speaker 1: gotta keep it under an hour. I think we're over now.
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 1: We gotta figure out a way to get it going
• 1:36:04
  Speaker 1: back under and we gotta yeah, we gotta get we
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 1: gotta get it going.
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 3: Gotta get it going six on one of the dad's
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  Speaker 3: at gmail dot com too for our international listeners. Uh,
• 1:36:13
  Speaker 3: first comment or first sorry, call in.
• 1:36:18
  Speaker 6: What a gentleman from Meansfield, Texas, Busfield, Texas.
• 1:36:28
  Speaker 2: Uh not only eight months old?
• 1:36:32
  Speaker 7: Are calling this week?
• 1:36:35
  Speaker 6: But right before I'm making this, as I'm walking out
• 1:36:41
  Speaker 6: the door to go to work, open the door, take
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 6: a step outside, I hear the most beautiful thing olla.
• 1:36:55
  Speaker 5: That was?
• 1:36:59
  Speaker 2: And I was like, what like that?
• 1:37:02
  Speaker 6: As I'm walking out the floor, first words and hunt.
• 1:37:09
  Speaker 2: That gasses me up. Thank you guys and just for
• 1:37:13
  Speaker 2: all all, oh.
• 1:37:16
  Speaker 6: Ho uh and just all have a ton of success
• 1:37:21
  Speaker 6: in doing this, and uh man, I'm forever grateful.
• 1:37:27
  Speaker 2: They shut out Isaiah from Texas.
• 1:37:29
  Speaker 3: Isaiah from Mansfield, Texas, Maysfield, Texas at that.
• 1:37:34
  Speaker 2: Very close sol does Texas.
• 1:37:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all ever play them? You to beat dead ass
• 1:37:38
  Speaker 3: just a little bit, just a little bit.
• 1:37:41
  Speaker 2: We like to have fun on the show. We like
• 1:37:42
  Speaker 2: have fun on the show. We beat your ass. But
• 1:37:44
  Speaker 2: we're just kidding.
• 1:37:45
  Speaker 3: We're hey, Isaiah, listen, I'm excited for the first words.
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 3: But we did back in the day.
• 1:37:51
  Speaker 2: I personally never played Mansfield, so I can't say I did.
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 1: But Sherman, listen, did we go through this all the time?
• 1:38:00
  Speaker 1: Stay patient, stay in it, stay present. But the moment
• 1:38:04
  Speaker 1: you get the crawls, the moment you hear dead ad
• 1:38:06
  Speaker 1: for the first time, it is a joy and love
• 1:38:09
  Speaker 1: that is experienced where the whole parent's just telling people
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 1: who don't have parents. It's like, man, just wait till
• 1:38:16
  Speaker 1: you become a dad, or wait till you become a parent,
• 1:38:17
  Speaker 1: or it's like indescribable the feeling that you have because
• 1:38:21
  Speaker 1: you feel like you've you've you've tapped into like a
• 1:38:25
  Speaker 1: new feeling, a new like a secret soft sauce that
• 1:38:28
  Speaker 1: people can't experience until you experience it. Yeah, Like what
• 1:38:33
  Speaker 1: makes parenthood great because people see the chaos and everything
• 1:38:36
  Speaker 1: else and get the turn away from it, and it's
• 1:38:39
  Speaker 1: just like, man, it's moments like that that just feel
• 1:38:43
  Speaker 1: you with something different. They just can't describe. Shut Isaiah,
• 1:38:48
  Speaker 1: thank you for the phone call, Bro, Thank.
• 1:38:50
  Speaker 2: You for the phone call.
• 1:38:50
  Speaker 3: Isaiah very excited for Scarlet's first words. That's going to
• 1:38:54
  Speaker 3: be epic.
• 1:38:56
  Speaker 2: Ask me Ruth's first words. What were Ru's first words? Dad?
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 2: They asked me Scotty's first What were Scotty's first words? Dadda?
• 1:39:05
  Speaker 2: As Scarlet's first words, what's Scarlet's first words? Yeah?
• 1:39:09
  Speaker 1: Hopefully, yeah, hopeful, Hopefully it'll come. They say, the hard
• 1:39:13
  Speaker 1: consonants are better or easier than the soft one.
• 1:39:15
  Speaker 2: The tongue and the teeth come before the mama. Yeah. So,
• 1:39:19
  Speaker 2: and then you're sitting there hitting a.
• 1:39:22
  Speaker 3: Well, she's already kind of there because she spends most
• 1:39:25
  Speaker 3: of the day with her, and then when dad comes
• 1:39:27
  Speaker 3: home from word scarlets and that's it's a trust me.
• 1:39:31
  Speaker 3: It's a tough gotta have the empathy. It's a tough
• 1:39:34
  Speaker 3: l for mom. It's a tough l. Shells like she
• 1:39:37
  Speaker 3: didn't do that all day for me because.
• 1:39:39
  Speaker 2: They like we just we know that moms they go
• 1:39:43
  Speaker 2: through it. They're in it a lot more than that.
• 1:39:45
  Speaker 1: That doesn't mean the dads don't have their own gritty work,
• 1:39:48
  Speaker 1: their own intention presence in the entire scheme of things.
• 1:39:51
  Speaker 2: But it's a tough l for mom swallowing when dad,
• 1:39:55
  Speaker 2: when dad, Dad gets the love.
• 1:39:57
  Speaker 3: And so I'm soft on it. I know I'm not
• 1:39:58
  Speaker 3: sitting there showboating doing anything when you know, I get
• 1:40:01
  Speaker 3: the smile. Scarlett had her first laugh yesterday, by the way, Start.
• 1:40:07
  Speaker 1: Getting on that changing table, start giving them the noises
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 1: they're telling me the tickle's going on. Oh yeah, bro,
• 1:40:14
  Speaker 1: yeah yeah, oh yeah, dude. The anticipation you create in
• 1:40:21
  Speaker 1: those moments when you start kind of tossing up a
• 1:40:23
  Speaker 1: little bit oh one, a two, just to kind of
• 1:40:26
  Speaker 1: see their smile because they know three is coming.
• 1:40:28
  Speaker 2: They're about to get tossed in the air.
• 1:40:31
  Speaker 3: Scar and Jill. I will never toss Scarlet ever. No,
• 1:40:36
  Speaker 3: never tossed the babies around.
• 1:40:37
  Speaker 2: You tossed that little she already, Like when I lift here, yeah,
• 1:40:42
  Speaker 2: we're getting there.
• 1:40:43
  Speaker 1: Baby steps I tested out by instead of like throwing
• 1:40:46
  Speaker 1: them in the air. It's just like I'll go a
• 1:40:47
  Speaker 1: little faster, ascending in the air. Yeah yeah, But Scotty Versabik.
• 1:40:52
  Speaker 1: All right, you're not ready for the show yet, You're
• 1:40:54
  Speaker 1: not ready for prime time.
• 1:40:59
  Speaker 3: Okay, you can't handle this yet. Oh my god, we
• 1:41:05
  Speaker 3: have our second call in. Here we go.
• 1:41:08
  Speaker 5: What's up, boys, I'm currently on the way to the
• 1:41:12
  Speaker 5: hospital with my wife.
• 1:41:13
  Speaker 2: Say hey, why, I think she's in the middle of
• 1:41:17
  Speaker 2: a contraction right now.
• 1:41:18
  Speaker 1: Thank you has prepared me for the trenches.
• 1:41:24
  Speaker 3: I'm looking forward either way?
• 1:41:28
  Speaker 2: Then from Alabama? Did from Alabama? I love? It's like, hey,
• 1:41:35
  Speaker 2: she's going. I think she's.
• 1:41:36
  Speaker 3: Having like something that they call like childbirth contractions. But
• 1:41:40
  Speaker 3: I just like y'all to know I'm ready for my dad.
• 1:41:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, run away to the hospital right now,
• 1:41:48
  Speaker 2: she said, we gotta go. I don't even know what
• 1:41:50
  Speaker 2: to call it.
• 1:41:51
  Speaker 1: She's having something, she's feeling something in her stomach called
• 1:41:53
  Speaker 1: contractions or something like that.
• 1:41:56
  Speaker 2: I'm built for these trenches. I'm waiting. You guys are
• 1:42:00
  Speaker 2: the best dads ever.
• 1:42:01
  Speaker 3: You gotta make me the best, Hey, honey, say hey,
• 1:42:04
  Speaker 3: like truly, bro. The fact that she had a good
• 1:42:08
  Speaker 3: attitude about that is electric. Yeah, we got a high
• 1:42:11
  Speaker 3: from a mom in contractions.
• 1:42:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, don't sleep on that. Don't sleep on that been
• 1:42:17
  Speaker 1: from Alabama. Role Tide, roll Tide. Maybe maybe it's.
• 1:42:21
  Speaker 3: All wardamn war damn yeah, or a little rtr and
• 1:42:27
  Speaker 3: I mean that as a compliment. But if he's not,
• 1:42:31
  Speaker 3: then he's gonna be pissed. Yeah, but he just he
• 1:42:35
  Speaker 3: seems like a little roll tide roll to me. I
• 1:42:36
  Speaker 3: don't know.
• 1:42:37
  Speaker 1: You keep saying, you keep doubling down, tripling down, you
• 1:42:40
  Speaker 1: keep you could be insulting him.
• 1:42:43
  Speaker 2: He seems like.
• 1:42:43
  Speaker 3: A war even we'll cut this once he comments, but
• 1:42:46
  Speaker 3: he seems like a wardamn Eagle guy. Yeah, that's what
• 1:42:48
  Speaker 3: he seems like to me.
• 1:42:49
  Speaker 1: Hey, I am roll damn sweet you want to say, Oh, dude, boys,
• 1:42:56
  Speaker 1: just listening to the episode. We're still at the hospital. Wife,
• 1:42:58
  Speaker 1: he's pushing right now. Sweet, are you want to say, Hey, it.
• 1:43:02
  Speaker 9: Is off and she's screaming the road time, road time.
• 1:43:10
  Speaker 9: She's screaming in the background. It is wrong, by the fucking.
• 1:43:19
  Speaker 2: Brett. Sweetheart.
• 1:43:20
  Speaker 3: Please please called that kid with the update. Let us
• 1:43:24
  Speaker 3: know if you are for the Crimson Tide or you
• 1:43:28
  Speaker 3: want to throw like a U A B and just
• 1:43:30
  Speaker 3: run through the elevations. Yeah, yeah, go dragons, I mean whatever, dude, Wait,
• 1:43:34
  Speaker 3: who's your team?
• 1:43:35
  Speaker 2: We gotta know.
• 1:43:36
  Speaker 3: Did we get a name in that one at the end. Oh,
• 1:43:40
  Speaker 3: that's right, Ben from Alabama. That's right, Ben from Alabama.
• 1:43:44
  Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, a few emails yes at six or
• 1:43:47
  Speaker 1: not at six on one for the dads at gmail
• 1:43:50
  Speaker 1: dot com and dads the dads. We threw a couple
• 1:43:56
  Speaker 1: of emails hits a quote lesson topic. Get we're out
• 1:43:58
  Speaker 1: of here under an hour.
• 1:43:59
  Speaker 2: We're out. Sorry chef, Sorry chef, Sorry chef, sorry, chef.
• 1:44:03
  Speaker 3: I got a first one real quick. This comes from
• 1:44:07
  Speaker 3: Lexi Morris, hey will and sure and proud member of
• 1:44:09
  Speaker 3: Milk Team six here. I just wanted to reach out
• 1:44:12
  Speaker 3: and thank you for being a bright spot and mine
• 1:44:14
  Speaker 3: and my husband's week every week.
• 1:44:17
  Speaker 2: We found out in.
• 1:44:18
  Speaker 3: June when our daughter was four months old that his
• 1:44:21
  Speaker 3: cancer had transformed and he was going to need stem
• 1:44:25
  Speaker 3: cell transplant. You guys have made us laugh and cry,
• 1:44:29
  Speaker 3: were sensitive and cinem l two during his hospital stays
• 1:44:32
  Speaker 3: for chemotherapy and on the drives to and from the appointments.
• 1:44:36
  Speaker 3: He's been admitted for his stem cell transplant. So just
• 1:44:39
  Speaker 3: have to shout out my husband, Michael. He's the proudest
• 1:44:42
  Speaker 3: member of Papa Team six. A fellow girl dad, and
• 1:44:45
  Speaker 3: he's our hero and human form. Time for him to
• 1:44:49
  Speaker 3: kick cancer's ass. Good Purple heart, thanks again and can't
• 1:44:53
  Speaker 3: wait to see the merch that Jill and Charro come
• 1:44:56
  Speaker 3: up with.
• 1:44:56
  Speaker 2: Winki face Lexi, M Lexi, thank you you. That's heavy.
• 1:45:01
  Speaker 3: That's heavy.
• 1:45:02
  Speaker 2: That's heavy. I'm sorry you guys are going through that.
• 1:45:04
  Speaker 1: Seems like you guys are trying to handle it as
• 1:45:06
  Speaker 1: well as you possibly can. Very much appreciate you taking
• 1:45:09
  Speaker 1: the time to write that. Shutting out your husband. Oh yeah,
• 1:45:12
  Speaker 1: sounds like your husband's trying to keep as good of
• 1:45:14
  Speaker 1: an attitude as he possibly can, the whole good mentality.
• 1:45:20
  Speaker 2: I can't imagine.
• 1:45:21
  Speaker 3: Honored that we're even a small little sivil sliver semblance
• 1:45:25
  Speaker 3: of y'all's experience of, you know, fighting cancer and coming
• 1:45:30
  Speaker 3: together as a family. And it's we're honored that we
• 1:45:34
  Speaker 3: even get to be a small little sliver of that.
• 1:45:36
  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 1:45:36
  Speaker 1: That would be so hard to go through. Yeah, that'd
• 1:45:40
  Speaker 1: be so hard to go through for the dads, the boys.
• 1:45:42
  Speaker 1: We are all thinking about you guys. Absolutely, our heart
• 1:45:46
  Speaker 1: goes out to you both. Keep fighting. I'm hoping it's
• 1:45:49
  Speaker 1: all uphill. It's all optimism from here, but that is
• 1:45:53
  Speaker 1: it is tough.
• 1:45:54
  Speaker 3: They had it in quotations of time to kick cancer's ass.
• 1:45:58
  Speaker 3: So maybe that's a little mantra that I got going.
• 1:46:00
  Speaker 1: I'll time the kick cancers as come on, time the
• 1:46:03
  Speaker 1: kick cancers as I got one to hear from Ben Warring,
• 1:46:07
  Speaker 1: Ben Wearing Boys, longtime UK listener of Busting and day
• 1:46:12
  Speaker 1: one for the dads over in Liverpool, England.
• 1:46:16
  Speaker 2: Come on Liverpool, How sick is that?
• 1:46:19
  Speaker 3: Bro?
• 1:46:20
  Speaker 1: Liverpool, England? Day one for the Dads longtime listener Busting
• 1:46:26
  Speaker 1: with the Boys where the batoos are from the bay Oos.
• 1:46:29
  Speaker 1: Me and my wife have been trying to start a
• 1:46:31
  Speaker 1: family for a while now without success. We got checked
• 1:46:34
  Speaker 1: out a few years ago and realized that IVF was
• 1:46:36
  Speaker 1: our path.
• 1:46:37
  Speaker 2: To becoming a family.
• 1:46:39
  Speaker 1: Our first round didn't work out, which left us at
• 1:46:42
  Speaker 1: the lowest point in both of our lives. Our second
• 1:46:45
  Speaker 1: round started the week before you released the IVF episode
• 1:46:48
  Speaker 1: with Will and Charrow And for those wondering listening who
• 1:46:52
  Speaker 1: might be taking that same route, My wife and I
• 1:46:54
  Speaker 1: did a Busting with the Boys podcast around Mother's Day
• 1:46:57
  Speaker 1: of this year. If you want to go back and
• 1:46:58
  Speaker 1: listen to that, I made my wife listen to it
• 1:47:01
  Speaker 1: and we both cried along together. Fast forward to now
• 1:47:03
  Speaker 1: and we are currently expecting our little girl do on
• 1:47:06
  Speaker 1: Super Bowls Sunday. My wife has taken the podcast as
• 1:47:10
  Speaker 1: our lucky charm and we can't wait for Wednesday to
• 1:47:12
  Speaker 1: roll around and we have another episode to listen.
• 1:47:14
  Speaker 2: To keep up.
• 1:47:15
  Speaker 1: The great work, keep crying, and keep taking out the trash.
• 1:47:19
  Speaker 1: Trash cheers Ben dude. It fires me up that round
• 1:47:24
  Speaker 1: two worked out. And then for those that do struggle
• 1:47:26
  Speaker 1: with infertility and have used the the IVF method and
• 1:47:31
  Speaker 1: it doesn't work out, there are you know you think
• 1:47:34
  Speaker 1: about your story at times and how hard some of
• 1:47:37
  Speaker 1: these moments are that you go through Because at the
• 1:47:40
  Speaker 1: end of the day, all of our individual worst moments
• 1:47:43
  Speaker 1: is are are? They are our worst moments. They what
• 1:47:45
  Speaker 1: we have experienced the worst. When you begin to find
• 1:47:49
  Speaker 1: perspective and hear other people's stories, there are friends in
• 1:47:52
  Speaker 1: our circles, a friend in particular, who went through I
• 1:47:55
  Speaker 1: want to stay around five rounds of IVF before they
• 1:47:59
  Speaker 1: finally you know, struck lightning in a bottle and got lucky.
• 1:48:02
  Speaker 1: But you know, I know Charo and I story in
• 1:48:05
  Speaker 1: our journey and how challenging it was in our world
• 1:48:09
  Speaker 1: and we were lucky enough to be successful on our
• 1:48:11
  Speaker 1: first try after trying for a while on baby number two.
• 1:48:15
  Speaker 1: But it fires me up the round two worked. I
• 1:48:18
  Speaker 1: can't imagine, you know, trying to start a family for
• 1:48:21
  Speaker 1: a while now to quote you without success. Got checked
• 1:48:24
  Speaker 1: out a few years ago going the path of IVF.
• 1:48:26
  Speaker 1: First round didn't work, which also at the lowest point
• 1:48:28
  Speaker 1: of both of our lives mentally, I can only imagine
• 1:48:33
  Speaker 1: how hard that was. But to see you guys, you know,
• 1:48:36
  Speaker 1: strike on round two and have baby girl coming on
• 1:48:38
  Speaker 1: Super Bowl Sunday, come on. Shout out to you both,
• 1:48:41
  Speaker 1: Ben and thank you for being a Tier one on
• 1:48:43
  Speaker 1: busting and being a Day one for the Dad's Listener.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for writing in and thank you for sharing.
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  Speaker 3: I know that that's hard in five rounds let alone one.
• 1:48:54
  Speaker 3: That's awesome, dude.
• 1:48:56
  Speaker 1: It's so hard to when you think about it and
• 1:48:58
  Speaker 1: you hear all the stories and have perspectives of everybody else,
• 1:49:01
  Speaker 1: all the challenging things that people go through to have
• 1:49:03
  Speaker 1: a child, and then you think, like man, because rue,
• 1:49:06
  Speaker 1: it was like it was the first time and you
• 1:49:08
  Speaker 1: don't know, you don't It's like you take it for granted,
• 1:49:10
  Speaker 1: because then we try and having Scott and then we
• 1:49:13
  Speaker 1: had to go through the IVF process and everything else.
• 1:49:15
  Speaker 1: You kind of take for granted how lucky you are,
• 1:49:16
  Speaker 1: because when you're growing up, you just think, oh, it's
• 1:49:20
  Speaker 1: quite simple, how this process works. Yeah, one lear about
• 1:49:23
  Speaker 1: equals one plus one equals to and then you hear
• 1:49:26
  Speaker 1: all the stories and your friends going through stuff and
• 1:49:28
  Speaker 1: everything else, and then you just realize, like, oh damn,
• 1:49:31
  Speaker 1: like it is. It is tough to have a child
• 1:49:33
  Speaker 1: these days. It's a miracle when you do have a
• 1:49:35
  Speaker 1: when you do have a kid.
• 1:49:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I got another one.
• 1:49:39
  Speaker 3: Christian Mark Marquez wrote in Uh so, Christian said, I
• 1:49:44
  Speaker 3: want to preface this by letting you know that, well,
• 1:49:47
  Speaker 3: essentially he got the idea from the pod that he'll
• 1:49:51
  Speaker 3: be sending emails to himself as like a journal. Yeah,
• 1:49:57
  Speaker 3: it's a little bit. And so he to say thank
• 1:50:00
  Speaker 3: you guys for the idea. And then this is one
• 1:50:03
  Speaker 3: of his journal entries that he wanted to share with us.
• 1:50:09
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I want to preface this by letting you
• 1:50:11
  Speaker 3: know that I got this Google account idea from a
• 1:50:13
  Speaker 3: podcast I started listening to. Ironically a week before that
• 1:50:17
  Speaker 3: I found out I was going to be a dad.
• 1:50:20
  Speaker 3: The podcast is called for the dads, and they gave
• 1:50:22
  Speaker 3: this dad hack to leave you emails and messages about
• 1:50:25
  Speaker 3: the milestones you're going to experience in life. Shout out
• 1:50:28
  Speaker 3: to Fat Stafford and Willie Wanshelf in parentheses. You won't
• 1:50:32
  Speaker 3: get these references yet, but you will someday. Your mom
• 1:50:36
  Speaker 3: was so very excited to tell me that you were
• 1:50:38
  Speaker 3: coming into this world. I was coming home in the
• 1:50:40
  Speaker 3: evening from running extra track practices for some extra money.
• 1:50:44
  Speaker 3: She was sitting on the couch with a smile that
• 1:50:46
  Speaker 3: filled the whole room, and I went in to kiss
• 1:50:48
  Speaker 3: her and give her a hug. After a long day.
• 1:50:51
  Speaker 3: I noticed a basket filled with a positive pregnancy test,
• 1:50:55
  Speaker 3: a onesie that said newest recruit for Team Marquez, and
• 1:50:59
  Speaker 3: an I Love You Dad children's book, as well as
• 1:51:03
  Speaker 3: a dad hat. I was immediately excited. I knew from
• 1:51:07
  Speaker 3: that moment on that this life I live is much
• 1:51:10
  Speaker 3: bigger than myself. It opened my eyes to what truly matters,
• 1:51:14
  Speaker 3: faith and family. I now realize that everything I do
• 1:51:17
  Speaker 3: is for the greater good of our new found family.
• 1:51:20
  Speaker 3: I promise to always do right by your mom and you.
• 1:51:23
  Speaker 3: I have the privilege of being a father thanks to you.
• 1:51:26
  Speaker 3: This is an honor I will not take lightly. I
• 1:51:29
  Speaker 3: will raise you to withstand anything life throws your way
• 1:51:33
  Speaker 3: with your chest out, head held high, and feet anchored
• 1:51:36
  Speaker 3: in your disciplines. At that point, I didn't know you
• 1:51:40
  Speaker 3: were going to be a boy or a girl, but
• 1:51:42
  Speaker 3: I did note that you were going to be loved.
• 1:51:44
  Speaker 3: The world is changing rapidly and will continue to do so.
• 1:51:47
  Speaker 3: By the time you read this, in a world of
• 1:51:49
  Speaker 3: constant changes, I know you will be sure of one thing.
• 1:51:52
  Speaker 3: Mom and Dad love you. I can't wait until I
• 1:51:56
  Speaker 3: see your face and hold your little hands. You were
• 1:51:58
  Speaker 3: already are the biggest blessing in my life, second only
• 1:52:02
  Speaker 3: to your beautiful mother.
• 1:52:03
  Speaker 2: Love Dad. That's a teary eyed one. Yeah dude, that's good. Bro,
• 1:52:07
  Speaker 2: that's good. Who is that? Who wrote that? That was
• 1:52:09
  Speaker 2: from Christian Marquees Christian.
• 1:52:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, that's a good dad.
• 1:52:15
  Speaker 2: That uses me up.
• 1:52:16
  Speaker 3: I will not lie. I I read this before so
• 1:52:19
  Speaker 3: I would not cry on the podcast.
• 1:52:22
  Speaker 2: That phenomenal I turned up the first time I read it.
• 1:52:25
  Speaker 2: That's really good.
• 1:52:27
  Speaker 3: Fire shout out Christian, and I know that like it's
• 1:52:30
  Speaker 3: fun for the new dads because there's a lot of
• 1:52:32
  Speaker 3: stuff that I'm sure I tell stories and you're like,
• 1:52:34
  Speaker 3: I've been there. I know what Sherman's feeling. But the
• 1:52:38
  Speaker 3: thought of like holding the hands for the first time,
• 1:52:42
  Speaker 3: and oh my god, it's just as good as like
• 1:52:45
  Speaker 3: you think it's gonna be. Just Scarlet this morning we
• 1:52:47
  Speaker 3: put her in her little king sized bed and she's
• 1:52:50
  Speaker 3: just gripping my finger. Yeah, sitting there going you're real
• 1:52:53
  Speaker 3: like you're here. Yeah, shout out you Christian, shout.
• 1:52:57
  Speaker 2: Out you Christian. Just imagine one day when.
• 1:53:01
  Speaker 1: The inevitable happens and they're an adult and they're reading.
• 1:53:06
  Speaker 2: That, Oh, that's gonna be so sick. Yeah, that is
• 1:53:10
  Speaker 2: really cool, man.
• 1:53:12
  Speaker 1: I have one here from Logan Sullivan, Will Shurham chef
• 1:53:16
  Speaker 1: Derek Logan from Texas Here. I've been at Tier one
• 1:53:20
  Speaker 1: with Bust within the Boys for years now. Will and
• 1:53:22
  Speaker 1: I's fatherhood journey has always followed the same timeline, and
• 1:53:24
  Speaker 1: in April twenty twenty two.
• 1:53:26
  Speaker 2: We had our first child, a perfect baby girl.
• 1:53:29
  Speaker 1: Then two years later, my wife and I were expecting
• 1:53:31
  Speaker 1: our second child in August of twenty twenty four, which
• 1:53:34
  Speaker 1: I think is around the same time A Scottie sadly
• 1:53:38
  Speaker 1: tragedy struck and our second beautiful daughter was still born.
• 1:53:42
  Speaker 1: Oh fuck, it is a pain like I never thought
• 1:53:52
  Speaker 1: was imaginable, leaving a gaping hole in our hearts that will.
• 1:53:59
  Speaker 2: Buckle up.
• 1:53:59
  Speaker 1: Fell listen, leap it a gaping hole in our hearts
• 1:54:04
  Speaker 1: that will never be filled. And now, as I was
• 1:54:06
  Speaker 1: listening to an episode a while back, Will brought up
• 1:54:17
  Speaker 1: Will brought up ruse imaginary friend Nelly, which is the
• 1:54:23
  Speaker 1: name of our second daughter who is now an angel.
• 1:54:31
  Speaker 2: Man, and it broke me to the core.
• 1:54:35
  Speaker 1: I'm a man of faith, and I think that God
• 1:54:37
  Speaker 1: brings people into your life for a reason if they
• 1:54:40
  Speaker 1: are at a distance and you watch them through a
• 1:54:42
  Speaker 1: screen or listen to them on a podcast. Man, but
• 1:54:54
  Speaker 1: we'll just know your daughter has our angel watching over.
• 1:55:00
  Speaker 1: It's been along hard road, but my wife and I
• 1:55:03
  Speaker 1: were just blessed with our third child in July this year.
• 1:55:06
  Speaker 1: So I'm now dead of two girls and one boy.
• 1:55:09
  Speaker 1: One just got to having a little sooner than we did.
• 1:55:14
  Speaker 2: Boys.
• 1:55:15
  Speaker 1: Don't ever let them moment slip by. In love with
• 1:55:17
  Speaker 1: everything you have. I thank you so much for what
• 1:55:20
  Speaker 1: you were doing with for the dads, and don't worry.
• 1:55:22
  Speaker 2: I cry with you guys every week. Hashtag PD six
• 1:55:31
  Speaker 2: Fuck man Logan. Thank you. That's a really sweet note
• 1:55:36
  Speaker 2: from Logan.
• 1:55:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's uh, it's fascinating how the world works and
• 1:55:46
  Speaker 1: just how the universe.
• 1:55:47
  Speaker 2: It's like, you know, when he talks about being on
• 1:55:49
  Speaker 2: a similar journey and.
• 1:55:50
  Speaker 1: Having kids, who are you know, around the same age,
• 1:55:52
  Speaker 1: And the second one came around when Scotty did, and
• 1:55:56
  Speaker 1: I a pain like I never thought was imaginable. Yeah,
• 1:56:06
  Speaker 1: I can't even you know, obviously we've experienced pain like
• 1:56:13
  Speaker 1: visually on this pot before when I talk about my mom,
• 1:56:17
  Speaker 1: and I know what that's like. And so it's like
• 1:56:20
  Speaker 1: I sit here and empathize and try to put myselves
• 1:56:22
  Speaker 1: in the shoes of a family that goes through something
• 1:56:26
  Speaker 1: like that, Like I'm just imagining that with my wife, and.
• 1:56:31
  Speaker 2: To think like you came.
• 1:56:31
  Speaker 1: Across this podcast and just a story of the imaginary
• 1:56:38
  Speaker 1: friend of Nelly and no matter what, no matter, it
• 1:56:44
  Speaker 1: doesn't matter. But think in the universe is telling you
• 1:56:47
  Speaker 1: something that it's that it brings that thought to you. Yeah,
• 1:56:53
  Speaker 1: it is incredible, And I don't know, man, Logan, I
• 1:56:58
  Speaker 1: love you, brother, and thank you for sending that email
• 1:56:59
  Speaker 1: in and that was that was I was like reading
• 1:57:04
  Speaker 1: ahead when I was getting to the moments where I
• 1:57:06
  Speaker 1: was getting emotional, I'm like, god, I rarely read.
• 1:57:10
  Speaker 3: The the stuff before the episodes, but Derek showed me
• 1:57:16
  Speaker 3: that email and then that one before the episode, and
• 1:57:19
  Speaker 3: so as you're reading it, my heart was just gripping
• 1:57:23
  Speaker 3: because I was like, dude, that note from Logan was
• 1:57:26
  Speaker 3: like truly just a such a sweet, sweet note, Dude,
• 1:57:31
  Speaker 3: so much.
• 1:57:32
  Speaker 2: Like love to them and their family because moments like
• 1:57:38
  Speaker 2: that are special.
• 1:57:39
  Speaker 3: And Jill had a friend pass away that she was
• 1:57:43
  Speaker 3: very close with, and I forget the story with ladybugs,
• 1:57:48
  Speaker 3: but there was some kind of moment with her and
• 1:57:51
  Speaker 3: her friends with a ladybug and forever ladybugs are. Now
• 1:57:55
  Speaker 3: that's in Jay, you know. And I'll even say it
• 1:57:58
  Speaker 3: to Jill when like a late ladybug literally landed on
• 1:58:01
  Speaker 3: our windshield earlier this week and I made that.
• 1:58:07
  Speaker 2: I made that comment. And you know, it's like when
• 1:58:11
  Speaker 2: you experience like pain and loss, like.
• 1:58:18
  Speaker 1: You just feel like you look around for anything, yeah,
• 1:58:21
  Speaker 1: that can help give you some closure, absolutely anything. Your
• 1:58:26
  Speaker 1: faith gets challenged, your faith maybe gets better, maybe your
• 1:58:29
  Speaker 1: faith gets worse.
• 1:58:30
  Speaker 2: No matter what, you feel lost.
• 1:58:32
  Speaker 1: And you're just looking for something and to think that
• 1:58:37
  Speaker 1: just an episode of Imaginary Friend Nelly is something that
• 1:58:42
  Speaker 1: we can latch onto for pretty much ever, Right, Yeah,
• 1:58:48
  Speaker 1: I don't know. That's thank you for sharing, Logan. I'm
• 1:58:51
  Speaker 1: sure it was probably hard just typing that stuff up.
• 1:58:53
  Speaker 3: Man, We're very lucky the comments that we receive the show,
• 1:59:00
  Speaker 3: or the dms that we receive, whatever the case may be.
• 1:59:05
  Speaker 3: Just want to again, I know I've said this a
• 1:59:08
  Speaker 3: thousand times, thank you for sharing everyone that has ever
• 1:59:11
  Speaker 3: shared anything like that that hasn't been on the show.
• 1:59:15
  Speaker 3: It just means the world that people are opening up
• 1:59:18
  Speaker 3: like that and are sharing their deepest, you know, closest
• 1:59:24
  Speaker 3: to the vest like emotions.
• 1:59:25
  Speaker 2: It's it's probably therapeutic. It's probably therapeutic.
• 1:59:29
  Speaker 3: I know, I myself, I don't feel worthy of it,
• 1:59:33
  Speaker 3: but like I feel so blessed to read notes like that,
• 1:59:39
  Speaker 3: and it's just it's crazy. Yeah, it's crazy cool. Sorry, Yeah,
• 1:59:45
  Speaker 3: but love you guys. And also shout out Texas, Texas
• 1:59:48
  Speaker 3: kind of representing this week on the Collins and the
• 1:59:50
  Speaker 3: Ride ends.
• 1:59:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, man, quote topic lesson Yes, what mine was this
• 1:59:57
  Speaker 1: week was essentially okay question for the audience, not necessarily
• 2:00:02
  Speaker 1: a lesson or anything of that nature.
• 2:00:06
  Speaker 2: Essentially a question something that I think about a lot.
• 2:00:10
  Speaker 2: But what is a value as a parent?
• 2:00:14
  Speaker 1: And if this is a clip right now, just know
• 2:00:16
  Speaker 1: my eyes are red because we cried on this episode.
• 2:00:19
  Speaker 1: What is a value that you What is a value
• 2:00:24
  Speaker 1: that you would love your child to carry with them
• 2:00:28
  Speaker 1: throughout their life?
• 2:00:30
  Speaker 2: That would be my question for everybody.
• 2:00:35
  Speaker 1: More more more of a I'll re see the question,
• 2:00:40
  Speaker 1: what is a value that you would love your child
• 2:00:42
  Speaker 1: to carry with them throughout their life? Uh? Because essentially
• 2:00:45
  Speaker 1: it's like we have we we go through like core
• 2:00:47
  Speaker 1: values with any team, any organization, any business. I know,
• 2:00:50
  Speaker 1: my wife and I we've sat down and done core
• 2:00:52
  Speaker 1: values with the family that I know we need to.
• 2:00:56
  Speaker 2: We we've made them. We made the core values.
• 2:00:59
  Speaker 1: Charle made them into the awesome like photos that we
• 2:01:02
  Speaker 1: can hang on the wall and stuff like that. But
• 2:01:04
  Speaker 1: it's nothing that we sit there and revisit and we
• 2:01:06
  Speaker 1: both know that you know, she'll she'll throw it on me.
• 2:01:09
  Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, there are things
• 2:01:11
  Speaker 1: that you need to revisit because values are basically the
• 2:01:13
  Speaker 1: foundation for how you show up to the world.
• 2:01:16
  Speaker 2: And so I think about that all the time with
• 2:01:17
  Speaker 2: like rue and like being a dad, And what.
• 2:01:19
  Speaker 1: Values do I want to instill in my kids and
• 2:01:20
  Speaker 1: how can I harness them in such a way to
• 2:01:22
  Speaker 1: where it's like repeatable, Not like I'm always looking for
• 2:01:25
  Speaker 1: new values. I'm always going to be and be curious
• 2:01:27
  Speaker 1: of everything else. But what are a couple of values
• 2:01:29
  Speaker 1: that I truly hope my kids represent throughout their life?
• 2:01:33
  Speaker 1: So I wanted to share that as a question so
• 2:01:34
  Speaker 1: that way we can all think on it. You guys
• 2:01:36
  Speaker 1: can chime in the comments, write up something if you like.
• 2:01:39
  Speaker 1: We'll read them on the episode. I would like to
• 2:01:41
  Speaker 1: marinate on a couple and then we can go through them.
• 2:01:45
  Speaker 1: We can go through them next week.
• 2:01:47
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 2:01:48
  Speaker 3: I just wrote it down on a card because I
• 2:01:51
  Speaker 3: I cannot wait for that.
• 2:01:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, just come with one or two.
• 2:01:54
  Speaker 1: Obviously, there's there's gonna be a bunch that we hope
• 2:01:56
  Speaker 1: our kids represent.
• 2:01:57
  Speaker 3: Dude, that's gonna be sick because there's gonna be a
• 2:02:00
  Speaker 3: lot of submissions on that. Like, that's gonna be a
• 2:02:02
  Speaker 3: lot of fun to go through. I'm excited. I also
• 2:02:08
  Speaker 3: have a lesson of the week that's quick. I can
• 2:02:12
  Speaker 3: do it quick, bro. I wrote it in narrative form.
• 2:02:17
  Speaker 3: I'll go ahead and just punch it out. This week's
• 2:02:21
  Speaker 3: lesson of the Week from Sherman is block out the noise.
• 2:02:26
  Speaker 3: I have two dogs at home. Wriggly ar CHIWEENI a
• 2:02:30
  Speaker 3: wah wah wiener dog, and he is all but two
• 2:02:33
  Speaker 3: inches off the ground. Our second is a little schnauzerdoodle
• 2:02:36
  Speaker 3: named Goose. Wriggly needs a ramp in our house to
• 2:02:41
  Speaker 3: go up and down our stairs to our master bedroom
• 2:02:43
  Speaker 3: and then. Goose, on the other hand, has the speed
• 2:02:46
  Speaker 3: of an Italian greyhound and the buddy the bunnies of
• 2:02:50
  Speaker 3: Mac McClung. Shout out Mac McClung. He's one of the
• 2:02:54
  Speaker 3: most athletic dogs I've ever seen, and I grew up
• 2:02:57
  Speaker 3: around a lot of bird dogs, so I've seen some
• 2:03:00
  Speaker 3: athletic dogs in my day. On walks when I let
• 2:03:03
  Speaker 3: the dogs off their leash and a big grassy field,
• 2:03:06
  Speaker 3: Wriggly loves to go into bully alpha mode on Goose.
• 2:03:10
  Speaker 3: He goes up and barks right in his face, making
• 2:03:12
  Speaker 3: Goose wither up and fold. To Wriggly's assertive dominance, Goose
• 2:03:16
  Speaker 3: will try to run and have fun in the field
• 2:03:18
  Speaker 3: and show off his speed and his quick turns, but
• 2:03:21
  Speaker 3: slow little Wriggly will cut off goose Goose's tight turns
• 2:03:25
  Speaker 3: and angrily barking Goose's face. Jealous of Goose's speed, Goose
• 2:03:30
  Speaker 3: will immediately slow down again and hide and obey wriggly sparks.
• 2:03:34
  Speaker 3: But after two or three times of this happening, Goose
• 2:03:37
  Speaker 3: will suddenly remember that Wriggly is half his size and
• 2:03:40
  Speaker 3: needs a ramp to go up three measly steps of stairs,
• 2:03:44
  Speaker 3: and has triceratops elbows that don't allow him to go
• 2:03:47
  Speaker 3: above the speed of five miles per hour. When that
• 2:03:50
  Speaker 3: clicks in Goose's brain, he suddenly catches the second gear
• 2:03:53
  Speaker 3: to his already cheetah like speeds, and he will take
• 2:03:56
  Speaker 3: off like a bullet, running full speed for hundreds of yards,
• 2:04:00
  Speaker 3: rolling in the grass, cutting tight turns, and coming up
• 2:04:03
  Speaker 3: to his mom and dad, jumping almost to our shoulders
• 2:04:06
  Speaker 3: just to say hello with a big smile. All the
• 2:04:09
  Speaker 3: while Wrigley is left in the dust, barking and barking
• 2:04:12
  Speaker 3: and barking from further and further and further away, his
• 2:04:16
  Speaker 3: bark's growing more and more quiet. As the wind is
• 2:04:19
  Speaker 3: ripping through Goose's ears, the sun is shining on his
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  Speaker 3: face and his mom and dad are shouting in the distance,
• 2:04:24
  Speaker 3: good boy, goosey. So just a reminder of I know
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  Speaker 3: we brought up the comment the other day, which I
• 2:04:33
  Speaker 3: didn't take offense to it, but I did think to myself,
• 2:04:37
  Speaker 3: like that is a good reminder of like all the
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  Speaker 3: positive stuff on this show that we talked through and
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  Speaker 3: how much fun we have. A comment really doesn't like
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  Speaker 3: that doesn't affect me because I'm so in this moment
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  Speaker 3: and this isn't me defending myself. This is more of
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  Speaker 3: like I kind of want other people to feel this way,
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  Speaker 3: Like I just feel so in this moment and this
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  Speaker 3: off unity that was presented to me, and like what
• 2:05:02
  Speaker 3: incredible thing the show is that Like that comment doesn't
• 2:05:07
  Speaker 3: really like stick, And I feel like there's so much
• 2:05:10
  Speaker 3: power in like not letting the noise get to you
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  Speaker 3: and like being able to press on and press forward
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  Speaker 3: you and continue to be you.
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  Speaker 1: So much power in having your own power, yeah power,
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  Speaker 1: and like taking your power yes, or so you are
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  Speaker 1: caught up and it's just you know, hey, take back,
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  Speaker 1: take back the power you have to block out, block
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  Speaker 1: out the noise, yes.
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  Speaker 3: Or allowing like just being in the mindset of like
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  Speaker 3: even the like Fat Stafford comments, like I genuinely enjoy
• 2:05:45
  Speaker 3: those and like what a funny like fun thing that
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  Speaker 3: has become. And I'm literally going to order a Rams
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  Speaker 3: jersey probably later today and dress up as Fat Stafford
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  Speaker 3: at this Zoot thing.
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  Speaker 1: Like you're right, though, there's such a there's such a
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  Speaker 1: power in feeling comfortable in moments where you can easily
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  Speaker 1: feel embarrassed.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and just lean into what you excel at too,
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  Speaker 3: Like there's no better thing than why I know, I
• 2:06:13
  Speaker 3: use the metaphor of my dogs, but like watching Goose
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  Speaker 3: rip like that is truly a sight to see.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, what do you do?
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  Speaker 3: Like this little JOWEENI yap and he can't even touch you,
• 2:06:24
  Speaker 3: Goose when you get to your full speed, he's nothing.
• 2:06:28
  Speaker 2: Go rib dog like you got it.
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  Speaker 3: So I just wanted the viewers to hear that and
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  Speaker 3: like whatever noise is got you feeling like this, dude,
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  Speaker 3: just shut it out and move forward and be you
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  Speaker 3: and excel and have your moment in a big grassy,
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  Speaker 3: open field with embrace the fun.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, embrace the fun for sure. Bro, Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how dad centric that is, but it
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  Speaker 2: just kind of hit me, how could it be dad centric?
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  Speaker 2: You are you writing that?
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  Speaker 1: It shows how much you were in this certain moment
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  Speaker 1: and how much it's like everything else didn't matter, but
• 2:07:10
  Speaker 1: you like watching your dogs and kind of writing that
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  Speaker 1: stuff out. Or I feel like for dads or for parents,
• 2:07:16
  Speaker 1: there's so many stressors and things that go.
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  Speaker 2: On outside of the house, and when you are.
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  Speaker 1: At home, it's like being so present and in tune
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  Speaker 1: that you have some descriptive kind of write up like
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  Speaker 1: you just had, because you know, it kind of shows
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  Speaker 1: that you are you are in that moment and whatever
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  Speaker 1: the noise is was is not there. It doesn't matter. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Like you being present in that moment is what it's about.
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  Speaker 3: Dude, that's really good to you because I was not
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  Speaker 3: coming from that either. Of like being able to shut
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  Speaker 3: off other little parts of your life that might be
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  Speaker 3: affecting you, but they're not there in that moment. That's
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  Speaker 3: a dude, that's really good too, because I have struggled
• 2:07:55
  Speaker 3: with anxiety plenty of times. I mean that was a
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  Speaker 3: crippling thing, like twenty seventeen, twenty eighteen, and yeah, just
• 2:08:06
  Speaker 3: being able to like tell yourself, like, hey that is
• 2:08:10
  Speaker 3: that's not what is pertinent right now, it's not important.
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  Speaker 3: And ninety percent of the time that anxiety or thought
• 2:08:16
  Speaker 3: that you're having isn't even true.
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  Speaker 2: It's like an imagination. It's fake. You're making it up.
• 2:08:21
  Speaker 3: It's an assumption, and you're stealing on it and reumigating
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  Speaker 3: on it, and like.
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  Speaker 2: Just let it go.
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  Speaker 3: It's okay, Like you don't. That's a good job on that, dude.
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  Speaker 3: Look around and embrace the beautiful. Whether we were having
• 2:08:34
  Speaker 3: a Nashville, Tennessee.
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  Speaker 1: Right, god, I hope everybody else experience is experiencing some
• 2:08:38
  Speaker 1: good foliage.
• 2:08:39
  Speaker 2: Yes, I know Nashville, Tennessee is at the moment. Oh yeah,
• 2:08:43
  Speaker 2: oh yeah.
• 2:08:43
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• 2:08:47
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• 2:08:53
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