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Women Around the World: Lady Phyll · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Stefan
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  Speaker 1: Never told your protection of I Heart Radio, and we
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  Speaker 1: are here celebrating activists and advocates around the world. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: we should put that in our title somehow. Um, And
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  Speaker 1: as we always do, we love to celebrate all the
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  Speaker 1: things we can want themes, historic themes, all of that,
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  Speaker 1: and want to keep on our intersectional journey in giving
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  Speaker 1: flowers to those who keep fighting for the rights of
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  Speaker 1: all of our people and for us. So yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: our tagline, I think? Is that? Is that? It? That?
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  Speaker 1: The one? Oh? I mean sounds great. I'm gonna have
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  Speaker 1: to like look at it and see how long it is.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, pretty short. But I don't like anything short.
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  Speaker 1: So come on and before we start, since you know again,
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  Speaker 1: we don't want to just been to it any I
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  Speaker 1: have a get to know you question, but not one
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  Speaker 1: that's gonna hopefully make you vomit or anything or bladed anywhere.
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  Speaker 1: Don't blame reference to a story that she was featured
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  Speaker 1: of Halloween. So but the series Thirteen Days of Halloween,
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  Speaker 1: So if you don't know what we're talking about, you
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  Speaker 1: should go check it out. What was the title of
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  Speaker 1: the episode, Well, I caught it red Velvet. I think
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  Speaker 1: in the the format of not mine being like you
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  Speaker 1: like forking. It was called the garden, like forking, passing
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  Speaker 1: the garden, but also kicking. Michael Key said my name
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  Speaker 1: he did, so I'm gonna just like wipe my hands
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  Speaker 1: of that and a success. It's amazing. But yeah, so
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  Speaker 1: just you know, throw back to that reference. But again,
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  Speaker 1: it's not gonna be that intensive promise, and I did
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  Speaker 1: give you a heads up, but I think it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be funny if you had to have an as known
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  Speaker 1: or what do you think people would give you? See,
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  Speaker 1: I know you said don't panic, but I did kind
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  Speaker 1: of panic because this happened sort of right before, which
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  Speaker 1: is kind of my bad. But I was looking at
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  Speaker 1: my leg I have me and my close group of
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  Speaker 1: friends that have been friends since kindergarten or around there
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  Speaker 1: have like a post it note where we postum nicknames
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  Speaker 1: for each other. None of them are really appropriate for
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  Speaker 1: this question. I don't think I would like it to
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  Speaker 1: be like Annie the kind or Anie Annie the cinnamon role,
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  Speaker 1: or I even was like Annie the Brave, but then
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  Speaker 1: I thought in parentheses it would be brave braves or
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  Speaker 1: any she bravely runs away. Why because I can also
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  Speaker 1: be pretty cowardly when it comes to facing my emotions,
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  Speaker 1: So this became a very intense card. Even yeah, definitely
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  Speaker 1: did not mean it to go that route. I would
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  Speaker 1: say it would definitely be a Star Wars or fandom
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  Speaker 1: level of a k for you. We need a generator,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, we have really creative listeners. So if
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  Speaker 1: y'all can think of one for any police and you
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  Speaker 1: can take one from MA, go ahead to because I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if I have one either. Mine are all
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  Speaker 1: negative connotations, which would be like save me the sad sack,
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  Speaker 1: or you know, if you wanted to go into like
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  Speaker 1: school superlatives. I was the most dependable, and it really
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  Speaker 1: was on the nose. I was like, yeah, I'm pretty boring,
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  Speaker 1: so it can be reliable to a point. I am
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  Speaker 1: very loyal to every point as well, so you know,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what beyond that. Hopefully it wouldn't be
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  Speaker 1: too sad or negative, right, But yeah, this is how
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  Speaker 1: we go about it, don't we. Yeah, think oil is good.
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  Speaker 1: I almost I almost went with Jedi, but I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I can't. No, I can't the new Jedi. Yes, well
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  Speaker 1: that's why Jedi. No. I just feel like I'm not
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  Speaker 1: cool enough. That's all something to do with Definitely the
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  Speaker 1: seers of the Jedies or something like that. I could
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  Speaker 1: see like you are and aren't the sears that kind
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  Speaker 1: of taking the historical context and sees and knows what's happening.
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  Speaker 1: I felt that could be you for sure. Oh yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: the seer of fandom. I didn't say fandom, but yes,
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  Speaker 1: we know the power of the fandom. So you know what,
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  Speaker 1: that's a that's a heavy duty duty. It is. Well,
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  Speaker 1: today we're talking about I know everybody's like, what is happening,
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  Speaker 1: but we are talking about phil Opoku Jimma, also known
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  Speaker 1: as Lady phil a Ka, which is by the way,
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  Speaker 1: a fantastic a k A. And this is what made
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  Speaker 1: me think of it, because, yeah, she's very well known,
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  Speaker 1: especially in the UK, for all of her work. Um
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  Speaker 1: and as an activist who has always been an advocate
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  Speaker 1: for her community even before graduating school at a young age.
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  Speaker 1: And she's had a lot of great influences in her
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  Speaker 1: life to move forward as this and Lady Phil is
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  Speaker 1: a powerhouse who is the embodiment of intersectional activism to me. Um.
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  Speaker 1: Lady Phil is the founder of UK Black Pride, which
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  Speaker 1: was started in two thousand five as a Black Lesbian
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  Speaker 1: in the UK Facebook group. They planned a day event
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  Speaker 1: for the community of South and on Sea and has
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  Speaker 1: now stretched as quote Europe's largest celebration for l g B,
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  Speaker 1: d q I plus people of African, Asian, Caribbean, Latin
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  Speaker 1: American and Middle Eastern dicit which is on their site
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  Speaker 1: by the way, um and Yeah, they have grown in
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  Speaker 1: leaps and bounds and have done some amazing work in
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  Speaker 1: the UK and around the world. Yeah and at the
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  Speaker 1: organization still here and bigger than ever a Lady Phil
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  Speaker 1: has been working hard for the queer and black community
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  Speaker 1: in the UK as well as all over the world
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  Speaker 1: and about UK Black Pride, Opuku Jemma is just beyond proud,
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  Speaker 1: she says about it in an interview with Bustle. We've
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  Speaker 1: built an amazing team behind UK Black Pride. It has
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  Speaker 1: inspired a whole new generation of global activists that I
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  Speaker 1: see as change makers. That's what gives me energy. Black
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  Speaker 1: Pride demonstrates immense power that is rooted in love and solidarity.
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  Speaker 1: That's what makes me proud. Yeah. And talking with Vogue
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  Speaker 1: in two thousand nineteen, she talked about why she began
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  Speaker 1: the organization. She said, when your community is always under
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  Speaker 1: attack and you're constantly seeing injustices where black and brown
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  Speaker 1: bodies are constantly being attacked, you must do something. When
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  Speaker 1: you look at the Stonewall riots, there was no one
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  Speaker 1: single point of motivation. People decide that enough is enough
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  Speaker 1: and we need to be seen and heard invisible three
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  Speaker 1: hundred and sixty five days of the year. We're not
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  Speaker 1: going to take not being heard anymore, or our Muslim
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  Speaker 1: brothers and sisters being treated like second class citizens. And
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  Speaker 1: a little bit more on the organization, she says, UK
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  Speaker 1: Black Pride is an organization which is set up very
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  Speaker 1: much like the other pride in the country around the world,
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  Speaker 1: but it happens to center around queer people of color,
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  Speaker 1: so African, Asian, Caribbean, Latin American, Pacific, Indigenous people. It's
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  Speaker 1: an opportunity to not just celebrate being queer and being
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  Speaker 1: l g b d q I A plus, but also
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  Speaker 1: to look at the challenges we face on a daily
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  Speaker 1: basis while campaigning against homophobia, bi phobia, transphobia, intersex phobia,
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  Speaker 1: as well as the structural systemic racism that exists in society,
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  Speaker 1: in our workplaces, in our schools, our hospitals and so forth.
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  Speaker 1: And she has been doing so much more, including being
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  Speaker 1: the executive director of clidasop Trust, which was started in
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  Speaker 1: twenty campaign for the human rights of the LGBTQ plus
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  Speaker 1: community around the world. Opko Jemma was appointed in twenty nineteen,
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  Speaker 1: making her the first black woman to head a leading
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  Speaker 1: lgbt Q plus organization in the UK, and she has
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  Speaker 1: been involved in bringing queer voices to the written world,
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  Speaker 1: editing and publishing Sister and and Thology written by LGBTQ
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  Speaker 1: plus women of African and or Caribbean descent. Over thirty
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  Speaker 1: one writers were included. On top of that, she has
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  Speaker 1: been the Grand Marshal for both New York Pride and
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  Speaker 1: Toronto Pride. Right She's been there um and she's been
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  Speaker 1: recognized for her amazing work, including getting the Black LGBT
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  Speaker 1: Community Award of the Big Society Award, nomination World Pride Powerless,
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  Speaker 1: European Diversity Awards Campaigner of the Year in twenty seventeen,
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  Speaker 1: was on the Pride Power List in one and so
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  Speaker 1: many more. And as for the future, she says in
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  Speaker 1: the same vote interview quote, I hope for the future
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  Speaker 1: that we see real, meaningful change for black and brown
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  Speaker 1: people in the country and abroad, that the rights that
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  Speaker 1: are afforded to some are afforded to all. That's why
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  Speaker 1: we're doing what we are doing. Pride is not just
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  Speaker 1: the celebration. It's about the change that needs to happen
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  Speaker 1: so that we are not constantly living in a state
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  Speaker 1: of being marginalized. I may not be here in the
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  Speaker 1: next ten years, twenty years, or thirty years, but I
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  Speaker 1: want to be able to leave a legacy, a legacy
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  Speaker 1: that means that the shoulders of the giants I have
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  Speaker 1: sued upon well, that the next generation can do that too,
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  Speaker 1: that they aren't having to fight twice as hard as us,
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  Speaker 1: but things are made easier for them. Yeah, and we
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  Speaker 1: wanted to have that end quote because absolutely, I think
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  Speaker 1: we all hope to be able to make it easier
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  Speaker 1: for the next generation and not to see the cyclical
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  Speaker 1: cycle that unfortunately we have to. And as in fact,
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  Speaker 1: she talked about how they started this organization, the UK
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  Speaker 1: Black Pride, because she was somewhat disappointed a out Pride
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  Speaker 1: in its events at the young age, and how it
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  Speaker 1: was all pretty much for the white community and showing
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  Speaker 1: what it is to be diverse, and again talking about
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  Speaker 1: the intersectional needs of marginalized communities. That it's great that
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  Speaker 1: you know, we're celebrating one thing, but while aren't we
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  Speaker 1: including all the things? And I think we've talked about
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  Speaker 1: that so often, whether we're talking about the Women's March,
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  Speaker 1: where we're talking about feminism in itself, that it has
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  Speaker 1: to be intersectional or doesn't mean anything. And uh, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we have to celebrate those who have pushed for that
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  Speaker 1: narrative to finally be at the forefront. Yeah. And I
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  Speaker 1: love the idea of thinking about the next generation and
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  Speaker 1: having that hope of I'm doing this so the next
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  Speaker 1: generation can build off of it and do even better
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  Speaker 1: and so on and so forth. Um, I think it's
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  Speaker 1: very hopeful. Yeah, Yeah, it's very hopeful and needed. So yes,
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  Speaker 1: happy to to talk about these people as always to
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  Speaker 1: give flowers as always, and also as always, if you
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