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S1: Ep. 8 Strip Club Etiquette...Dancer Edition · Mind Triggers Podcast

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  What up, what up? What up.
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  This is your girl. Me news, I'm juicing Jo, I was
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  in the background. So today, we got a special
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  guest. You got that used to work in a
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  strip club industry. So while we have our Ashley here
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  with us, so it's the strip club from the other angle - hey turn
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  from a dance with angle. Correct.
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  Correct. Different angle.
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  That's just be yourself. Now how long ago was your?
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  Were you dancing? Stop Dancing.
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  Like two years ago. How long did you dance?
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  For about 2 years. Did you like it?
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  It's not that. I didn't like it or I did like
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  it. It was just in the meantime
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  thing. Okay.
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  So start to finish. So what gay you because I my
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  dances the Beyond it's like I got that in a girl but I just
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  don't have that the know the balls to go with it.
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  What made you write? I'm about to do this, I guess.
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  Maybe. Because I don't know.
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  I just did it really but he wasn't lying hard on money like
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  Like some of your friends was doing in college, right?
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  If your credit cards or debit like I didn't have no good.
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  Oh, I wanted to be here. So I wasn't paying any bills.
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  This coin 1, this is a bad house by the way, so we hold up now
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  I'm really big on stripper names.
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  What was your stripper name? And how did you pick it?
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  Okay. I know you have more than one,
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  okay? You got a lot of nice tips.
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  I'm going to see you shaking. Yeah.
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  Now, how's that first night? It was like I got there and I do
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  more people that dancing stuff like that.
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  So I went with them, we're going to take you.
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  So how will works pretty much is you talk to the manager, you
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  talk to the manager before you get there, so you text him or
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  hit up, you know, whoever's in charge that night, and And if
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  you're bringing somebody say, you know, hey my friends, such
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  as such, you know, can they come because it is a schedule and
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  sometimes you can't come because it's like time blocks girls.
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  Get on stage at certain times. It has a max to how many girls
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  can get on stage and how many girls that are allowed to dance
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  in one night, like, Cindy comes to cast a Cindy?
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  Yeah. They already packed, you know, I
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  just don't like it. Is it a first come first serve?
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  Not really because most clubs have a schedule.
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  Like when you are when you work in your own the schedule get a
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  my who's like my butt. Okay.
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  So like a any club they got schedules.
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  Wait, schedules and you gotta be there.
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  We gotta pay the DJ DJ, you can't hit the DJ but it's the
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  house fee that you pay. So what if people did you say,
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  what did I do? It's like to keep everybody
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  height when you get on stage like you know most of the time
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  it's like if you're friends with the DJ they'll hype everybody up
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  for you anyway. So it was your people then
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  you're going to definitely hear that.
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  Hold on, wait a minute. But I thought I was finished.
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  Just to say they were at the strip club and okay, like, you
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  can walk into a strip club. It'll look like now, we get top
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  three songs to dance to that you would tell the DJ to play.
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  It could be anything like a song that I was listening to earlier
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  that I was feeling like, oh yeah, I mean he was a newer song
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  that just came out like oh, that song Lit.
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  I want you to play that when I get up there.
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  Okay? Yeah, so it's like more
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  like if you see my iCloud, like my phone is.
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  Susan's and thousands of saw like anything, like we can stay,
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  don't mind enjoy music. So them playing something is
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  like, so you're gonna dance the music so child.
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  Love No choice, the DJ play, but they're playing.
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  And I've been to clubs that are predominantly white.
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  So they're not playing like, no black, youngster cut up and not
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  playing that, I can ask him to play.
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  He might have it, he might not have it.
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  Yeah, but it's like they not really you're not playing that
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  because that's not the type of environment.
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  Now in the white clubs I do, they make an array.
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  It's not really like a making it rain type deal, sometimes with
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  certain places you can sit next to somebody and make more money
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  than the girl that was on stage. Like really I believe it in her
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  heart I believe in making money. The different sometimes,
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  sometimes it's a difference but sometimes it's not depends on
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  where you go because it's the same thing like you can I think
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  it depends on the person like if you know how to work.
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  You can work anybody. But scoffing, that's not a lady
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  - yeah, I like to see a
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  performance. Like, you can Some girls where
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  the vibe and the attitude is real off and they could be
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  thing. But to be huge, they be clapping
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  and stuff like that. And then when they walk around
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  because the Jersey is different from a lot of other states.
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  Well, we walk. You know, what the stage is
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  behind the bar. Yeah.
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  In other states is not like that and you like a lot when we want
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  an Atlanta, I think it's good. Actually is a stage in Atlanta.
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  We're dudes come in and not coming for the dancers.
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  They come in because they don't want to know bartenders and they
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  are like making it completely. I seen that and it was like an
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  in lust. My heart out.
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  This is what I came for you. You can't tell the difference
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  sometimes because they make disgusting.
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  The where it's not. Look like in other.
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  Eight straight up and down black, you know, with the
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  sneakers and everything, they make them wear outfits.
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  And you know, a lot of times I have the club logo and stuff
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  like that on it and they have the outfit lady coming designed
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  the outfits for the bottle, girls for The Damp for the for
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  the. Yeah.
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  So it's not like, you know. So that's why a lot of times
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  like girl, stop dancing. And they start bartending great.
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  Because you start making started looking for money and you got
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  it's less work. And less aggravation because
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  dancing is very aggravating, really some days.
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  It's like I've gone home. I've totally just left like and
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  especially if you want to schedule and there's nobody
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  else. They get mad, get mad.
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  You can get fined, you did fine for coming.
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  Li you can get told, no, you can't work for coming late.
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  You never know that strict you have to pay extra Yeah, because
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  they they got everything set up everything is set up.
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  So say the club opens up everything.
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  Start you gotta be there. I like the like 67 well because
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  sitting open up the doors. Open up at like 7:30 you need to
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  be there seven change. So when they open at 7:30 you
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  need to be dressed totally dressed and ready to Go on that
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  stage, who's coming in at 7:30? Yeah, I stopped working nights
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  and stuff, because I was Makin way more money working during
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  the day, then working at 99,000 Elena, I think I want to go in
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  the daytime. I was on my lunch break Falls in
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  Atlanta. Because I'm a little, um, this
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  guy was the co-workers, but he was like, let's go to the
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  Customs billion chicken wings. Wait.
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  Wait, what? Yeah, they fool a lot of things
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  who is, who's banging who's trying to eat in the strip club?
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  A lot of clubs, they had some banging.
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  It was my fact, lemon pepper. So I went up there and I was
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  like, he got me on living pick the stuff up in here.
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  Oh, she's cute. But she's nice weather.
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  And I like them or not. It was probably like four girls,
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  but when I take them for girls in, Nobody was on stage, they
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  always like have a conversation but when I look at the hips,
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  they was like loaded, you got the money loaded?
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  Yeah. Lowly and it wasn't no no
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  dancing up in the music was on. But because they was like we
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  want to be strong because that's a chill.
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  Yeah, it was she'll so we started doing that probably like
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  twice a month. We're going to be just for once
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  just to chill with the girls and whatever.
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  And I was like, I'm going to get 12 single so I could just, you
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  know, spin that with the. But when I tell you that, it
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  started being overcrowded because the Girls, aged don't
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  work hard at night, besides, I'm not doing this, and I'm going in
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  the morning because the girls the old.
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  Yeah, the girl this question, is it true?
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  I give you got a regular and another girl no that's your
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  regular and she and the Tipping. I won't hear them taking her.
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  Is it any kind of like animosity?
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  Well, it's not really. If I feel okay, it's like, you
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  know, all the girls going to come around, they gave you a
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  couple dollars here and come down with dead, but you're not
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  even about to release it with him for real.
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  For real. I mean if you do sit down with
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  him when I'm done on my stage, that are whatever, whatever when
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  I come and sit back down with him, he's gonna ignore you
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  because he came here for me, didn't come here for you.
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  And a lot of times they know that anyway and sometimes like,
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  you know, girls Get mad like ocean.
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  Oh that's my customers. Nobody has seen that they say
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  blah. I'm really not the type to be
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  mad cuz he won't give me my money anyway.
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  So it's like, I know you text my phone, you came here for me.
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  I know you're I know. I'm going to get my money
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  regardless like and giving you a couple of dollars is not hurt my
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  pocket. Just now that get out of here,
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  couple dollars like leave me alone. and sometimes sometimes,
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  When it's like a consistent thing, some girls won't even
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  bother, they won't even bother like, oh, he is such a sense and
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  they'll tell you like, because girls will come back in the
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  dress of money. He even took the light here, but
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  my favorite, I'm Gonna Go My fifth pocket, all my money,
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  right? So that's why it's kind of
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  pointless to get mad. Sometimes females, tend to be
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  like, Rama failed and so ready to be hostile over stuff.
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  And I'm just if you make me mad, you really like, how do you get
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  a regular? You'll get a regular just by
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  buy-in and working and stuff like, Like that.
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  I never even liked say hello to one District that were regulars
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  by. It's just you.
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  I'm good. I'm very good at gauging.
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  People and getting to know them very fast.
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  Uh-huh. Knowing like, what they want to
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  talk about and how they are and stuff like that and you get to
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  know people on a personal level and so can we test your skills
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  real quick? The AKA Uncle Pete.
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  Come on, really, cuz you even even the younger, guys, like,
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  even is my always is really not always the older, guys, but
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  sometimes the younger guys are, like, around my age that, you
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  know, they come in, they cool, they chilling and stuff like
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  that. Slow.
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  Let me test a real quick. Go back, two years ago, go back.
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  Two years, right? We coming in.
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  Lucas got the shades on. You can't tell by his eyes.
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  Well, his body language. Would you read that?
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  Now, how would you get the money about a Lucas right now?
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  So and Sin City, you can either be an employee or you can be
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  whatever they call the other type of work or where you come
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  and go as you If you're an employee, you wear what they
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  say, you do what they say and you they make your schedule once
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  office. Instead, I love that place.
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  Nothing. I love it.
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  Shut up some chocolate Vixen. That place is the best place I
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  ever went to New York. I'm sorry, the last time I've
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  been in Sin City, I went in my shirt is sometimes can be like
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  and then she was bananas sometimes.
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  Be like poverty happen. I would know, with with five
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  buttons, I came out there were two A good nice was like a
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  Sunday or no Tuesday at one point.
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  I'm gonna have a good time myself.
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  I never hate from there. I refuse to eat in any strip
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  club. The kitchen is gasps like a so
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  CD, it's like, Look what we saw.
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  I'm not going to put the name of the, I will need to know about
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  you. Lucas, I gotta be dying.
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  With mine. I'm not eat from the are not eat
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  from a strip club, but homeboy God grew up with, with had the
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  whole stripper. Basically, it is making love and
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  Club way home. She slapped him Jersey is a
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  different type of environment. So when people from who used to
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  Jersey strip club to go somewhere else?
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  Anyway hey really they know we have you went anywhere.
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  Self everything yourself. Okay, it's like that.
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  It's not behind the bar. Okay, to register first, I heard
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  that. People stay Frances, I'm from
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  Jersey, I'm going to Detroit for the weekend.
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  All the truth is Cincinnati and going on Houston.
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  I'm going to Atlanta, you have dated the state's want to know,
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  who? Okay.
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  How long you going to be here? It's just like you are finding.
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  So that's only in the South, it's for so far.
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  So the style isn't so far but I know babies.
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  You got their own do it. I don't know about Houston by
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  know, Detroit, you have to do it during this into in Texas.
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  See, I didn't know that, but you have to the gonna go make that
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  money regardless, This is, I don't know what's wrong with
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  Jersey. I'm not filing taxes out here.
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  I don't know about you but I'd rather my dancing not to have no
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  fingerprints on the other be a criminal least.
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  I've been you get the best dances from criminal or check
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  that from the, from the projects.
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  For the jokes. Yeah, yeah and I think, you
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  know, it all got to be today and a lot of be tomorrow you can
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  wrong. Hell no.
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  I was like, get Mixie with stuff.
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  They think they start making friends.
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  I'm not up. You know, people kind of felt
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  some kind of way sometimes because I'm like, oh, hey now
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  they like social me talking to nobody and this time the do I
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  extinct but it's like now, what do you know the answer to this
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  question? I just want to know the pickup
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  lines as any guy with it depends.
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  I will come first. First, what you do is when you
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  dancing on stage, you're sick, looking at At you.
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  You people's looking at you that eye contact?
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  Yeah. And what would you like if you
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  see somebody like really kind of, they keep looking keep
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  looking keep looking. You'll come to flow over that
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  way, by to dance more in front of them and see how they still,
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  you know, if they looking at you, they still into it, the
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  Finesse, then it's like, okay, I'm gonna come around.
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  You gotta go around the bar. You have to like one Club.
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  I worked at It was mandatory when I'm out of our two times
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  before you left from behind. Okay?
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  So you go around and you pay chat with people as you going
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  around, if he stopped and talking to you a little bit
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  more, you like, okay, when I get done, I'm going to go change my
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  outfit and I'm going to come back and I'm gonna sit with
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  okay, and that's a good plan. And that's when, you know, you
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  change, you put something new on, you know, you come out
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  smelling. I like you said that keeping
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  them like it took like the toy chica body spray.
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  I know perfectly. Well, that piece of that, once a
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  flower bomb or something, Even Club, you're going to go
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  back in the dressing room and you want to smell that Dove body
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  spray? That's you.
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  I'm telling you it's like like fresh not like pretty good
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  perfume. Sometimes it got that heavy
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  alcohol smell you pour too much. Right so you can smell you know
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  use a body cream you know rubdown with a body cream broke
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  with something that's nice and not overbearing because you'll
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  walk Pass and do something like, oh, my God!
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  Damn. And then you won't pass again,
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  though. My grab you like, that's you.
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  That's more like a small, like watermelon.
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  Is the grab, is that disrespectful.
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  It depends on how you're grabbing somebody because you
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  can lightly and politely, grab somebody as you're welcome
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  walking past. You like the elbow?
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  Grab hey, Not it could put a snail.
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  What? A still touch on a lower back.
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  Okay, come on guitar. Got a one-track bottom going
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  somewhere else and he like grabbed my arm, but not like
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  snatched because there's times where, like Deus.
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  They'll snatch you? Oh yeah, pulling it out.
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  You'll be walking past a pulling your bottoms or something like
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  that, but that's disrespectful. People are very Respectful.
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  And for whatever reason, they feel like because you're dancing
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  or whatever that they can violate you right.
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  Anybody know grabbing. Yes
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  Through the vents so it can come out through the crowd, like
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  everybody knew she was coming out because that's something
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  that's really possible. I do.
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  Oh, how was she? She was old.
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  Past my leg like Bakers and baked like big chicken fried
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  fish. How is miss?
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  You find every Sunday? Big Mama?
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  Hell yeah. What think that using Dove and
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  when you like changing and stuff like that, I know.
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  Yeah. Casey but her face is in this
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  specifically because normally it's only like one toilet in the
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  girls dressing room and Alicia told it was some clubs and they
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  share it with like regular other films that come in.
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  Do yet. So you spike, you know, we are
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  using the same back of you changing.
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  All the girls is making all the girls naked and it's like, you
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  back there, you know, everything is exposed.
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  I'm gonna smell. I smell you.
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  I know you smell you because you smell your body before somebody.
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  Uh-huh. and there's a customer's gonna smell, is it frowned upon
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  if I gotta wear sweatpants in the strip club Khakis and stuff
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  like that white T-shirt, but they white t-shirt white flannel
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  shirt. They like you look at.
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  He's, he's if yeah. The guys who come in?
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  That's my thing. I like the grill.
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  They put their key for her. Calendar.
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  They sit in like this they pull out the fake walk, though.
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  The big wad of money, the stunt but really like those, they are
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  stacker money, dudes, really do this.
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  They sent a big stack of money on the counter and they order be
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  a joint that same beer all night, okay?
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  Okay the same one beer reserving very resourceful, they drink.
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  That don't change. They literally peel up one
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  dollar at a time and give it to one.
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  Girl, they're not like throwing the money and or they not really
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  like stuffing it on giving it. That's, they just got the stack
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  and because girls see the stack and initially, they like, so
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  they get there and yeah and then they like, but very people don't
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  realize that That girl's the same way to customers talk.
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  The girls is talking in the dressing room to he is chatting
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  away. We don't got the rundown after
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  being, they're changing and that was as I'm in there changing his
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  girls as coming from outside and they talking about people like
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  we get in the whole rundown, they like yeah dude over here,
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  Brad do this. He this that he this he that he
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  does. He I he will he get drunk and he
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  a crazy this and this and a miss.
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  So it's like You'll be getting a boot, he's rubbing together.
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  Like, we all trying to change a girl's in the mirror doing
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  makeup and like, you like this and stuff like that.
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  So, you know, and everybody's talking like everybody's talking
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  and you got to look like a girl, sometimes, I'm not a cookie type
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  person. Yeah, I do see them go onstage
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  with like, Together. Well that's because it's set up
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  like that, okay? Oh such and such and such and
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  such are on stage. I just want to stay in time
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  block normally but a request like a taxi my son.
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  No, like that's normally like if y'all get along and y'all cool,
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  it's better that way. Like the manager will let it be
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  like that because when you left there with somebody, you don't
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  like it cause problems. Together.
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  Like, but if they know say me and you don't like each other,
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  they're not even about to play and put us.
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  No, you can't fuck the money. Somebody always like this, I'm
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  getting on in your getting off and you're taking too long to
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  get off and you're cutting into my time.
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  Using to I'll get off of you being funny by taking too long
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  and getting off. Even seen a stripper shoes.
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  Yeah. I'll take long time.
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  Those sneakers. You think I'm supposed like
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  regular is not comfortable? I want to use comfortable.
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  You this is something that you get used to.
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  Because when you first start your feet hurt, just like you
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  wore heels to a club and he was out but this is the thing.
• 33:28
  They don't know that when you dancing dancing for hours and I
• 33:32
  always and always you're on, you get on stage every hour.
• 33:36
  So just want to say we need more better labor laws, please dances
• 33:45
  So whenever whatever. 15 8:15 9:15 10:15, I am on stage on the
• 33:52
  15th and it's 15 minutes sets. So my out there for 10-15 to
• 33:57
  10:30 dancing the whole time and I got six and a half inch heels
• 34:01
  on and like your feet. They're going to hurt but you
• 34:07
  get is something like I said something that you get used to
• 34:10
  the only signature moves go ahead and, you know, So you
• 34:21
  really just went on a limb and you actually are funky.
• 34:27
  Do so right with the pain? Do you guys just like everything
• 34:32
  is on the same, right? It's not really under the table
• 34:35
  because when you start breaking some, where they take a copy of
• 34:38
  your state ID, right? And it's similar to like, you
• 34:40
  know, how waitresses, like their minimum wages, I really low.
• 34:43
  So they make, okay, so how it works, sometimes, it's like
• 34:49
  that. At and that's like Mania New
• 34:52
  York. Try to take you home, I've
• 34:55
  literally heard they say the same thing, they all think
• 34:58
  they're saying something different.
• 35:06
  Let's set this up for the guys, from before you tell us the
• 35:08
  line. Let's set this up for the guys.
• 35:10
  What not to say when you in a strip club.
• 35:19
  If they're telling you something, you never heard
• 35:24
  because they be so stupid. I'm telling you, they be like,
• 35:29
  listen, you don't have to do this.
• 35:31
  As you listen, you will do to doing it like this, this ain't
• 35:37
  true right now. You got to be careful because
• 36:01
  some of them do me. You'll never got to do this no
• 36:03
  more because they pants. Okay, I heard that you have to
• 36:08
  be careful, you have to be mindful.
• 36:10
  And that's why, you know, I never give anyone like my actual
• 36:15
  person who cell phone. I had another little phone, but
• 36:18
  no Google Voice because that's too close to my phone.
• 36:22
  I might make a mistake. Okay, good point.
• 36:24
  Good point. I had, you know, the little
• 36:30
  Obama phones, they get downtown. That's what that is.
• 36:34
  Smart is free and I can stop using it and so the so the
• 36:41
  biggest line is I could take away from all this I thought a
• 36:48
  little bit. Okay, yeah, I'll decide that.
• 37:02
  So let's go around the table. What language?
• 37:04
  I use. Go ahead.
• 37:06
  Hold on. We say it again.
• 37:40
  Champagne. Next topic juice.
• 37:45
  Hold up. So coming 9?
• 37:54
  No, not slap. Slap yourself start over.
• 37:59
  Please go ahead. I will say.
• 38:29
  What would Jesus do? Did you go?
• 38:51
  TV people come in here like so and a holy war.
• 38:54
  Do you to kill him? You know, if I had a Byron that
• 38:59
  was it Byron to Melvin Byron. Don't place.
• 39:02
  My bet. You're gonna give a Byron
• 39:04
  stalker. I have somebody be weird, but I
• 39:08
  never, like I said, I keep my keep my personal stuff like
• 39:12
  separate. I lied to people about
• 39:14
  everything makes sense. Let me tell you, it's really
• 39:19
  people out here. Who feel Like they know my soul.
• 39:22
  It's like I kind of dislike you giving help me.
• 39:26
  How's the eye contact? Is the person that they feel as
• 39:38
  though that once you have one conversation with them, is it
• 39:41
  never in the conversation? And they always you can stop me
• 39:44
  if I'm wrong because I'm aware that even it's not really the
• 39:48
  conversation. In the club is when you be
• 39:50
  chatting with Outside of the club because that's how you get
• 39:52
  people to be a regular the Firearms.
• 39:54
  You you chat with them like on a regular guy just hit them up by.
• 39:58
  Hey what's up? You know what you doing?
• 40:01
  And showing a lot of the monster Club.
• 40:02
  Lucas, I never gonna have to, I have to text, not even a thanks
• 40:07
  for coming that I get home safe. Make sure I get home safe.
• 41:03
  Only reason she talking to you, bro.
• 41:05
  Yeah, I can see that. Hey, did everybody go?
• 41:11
  I give people like when you give people, Tidbits of your personal
• 41:16
  life in an industry like that. They feel special.
• 41:18
  Yeah. So you tell them like little
• 41:21
  small things like I was active duty before.
• 41:26
  So I tell people I'm like you know, I'm a veteran is one time
• 41:30
  for the better guy here. Thank you for all your services
• 41:34
  even two years ago. Like this.
• 42:07
  Anything like anything personal anything that's like really
• 42:11
  truly personal. That makes me who I am and I
• 42:14
  tell them about it. They feel so I have somebody to
• 42:17
  this day like if I was to text him right now he is in Actuated
• 42:22
  and in love with me and he really thinks that the
• 42:24
  communication that we have was absolutely real like one time
• 42:30
  fast enough enough. It's a thing to like get to know
• 42:41
  somebody to take notes and getting to know somebody and you
• 42:45
  you you listen you really listen to what they say and I'm not
• 42:48
  saying like you saying down with some doing You talking, you
• 42:54
  really listen to what they're saying and you really give them
• 42:57
  advice and encouragement and stuff like that.
• 43:00
  And they feel like you're really friend.
• 43:02
  Now do you text them? Good morning, handsome.
• 43:25
  Like I said within that, you know, you do chill with them,
• 43:28
  sometimes you even go with them to another strip club now and
• 43:32
  you chilling with them, but you're going as a customer with
• 43:35
  one of your regulars. And that's not uncommon either,
• 43:37
  really? Yeah, like sometimes when you
• 43:40
  see, Eyes coming strip club and they got like another like real,
• 43:44
  real cute chick. She's probably a dancer tushy
• 43:47
  dance somewhere else and this is how regular and he's taking her
• 43:50
  out. If I see her talking to the
• 43:51
  other dances, he's spending money for both of them or do she
• 43:56
  said yeah he's giving me money. That's what wait wait what?
• 44:10
  It's really it's all about like it's your group or with people
• 44:14
  if you have a good rapport with people and you're able to really
• 44:17
  connect with people. You can find.
• 44:19
  It's a little bit. Did this break this down because
• 44:21
  the big booty only get you so far.
• 44:23
  You're right. So you getting money to go to go
• 44:25
  with him. You gotta buy you drinks, they
• 44:29
  got my sanity eat, none of this n times, you had a club but now
• 44:37
  it's n times, you're at a club and one of your friends is
• 44:39
  working at the club. So, you're going to get him to
• 44:41
  tell him like that. I always say, you know, I want
• 44:47
  to go here. Do you know what?
• 44:49
  The new life, one of the girls three days this.
• 44:51
  Yeah, they spot my falling out with somebody.
• 45:15
  I was really close with. Well, I got really good.
• 45:19
  Knowing how to find them and she was dancing way longer than me
• 45:23
  and she didn't have that knack for finding.
• 45:26
  Yeah. And the Fallout was Mimi and
• 45:30
  heard having because she those kind of guys will seek her out
• 45:36
  because like her body and she's a pretty girl.
• 45:39
  She's an airhead. So, and then a notice like,
• 45:47
  yeah, I'm attractive. It is very unattractive and it
• 45:51
  becomes annoying real fast and guys get tired real fast and
• 45:56
  then you have me on the other hand, I don't cock-block.
• 45:59
  I don't try to take over and then me that she felt like,
• 46:02
  that's what I was doing. I'm being my regular self.
• 46:05
  I cannot control the fact that you are dumb.
• 46:12
  No, seriously, it's not something that I can control.
• 46:15
  So it became a thing where I would just be quiet, like if
• 46:18
  it's, you know, her Guy. And then they were get tired of
• 46:21
  talking to her and they will say, so why are you so quiet?
• 46:25
  And, you know, that show the move that TV move?
• 46:29
  And then the other conversation was starting.
• 46:31
  I would like, you know, not really divulging be subtle when
• 46:34
  I would always try to include her in the conversation, but it
• 46:36
  would do this done talking to you.
• 46:37
  That's it. He done talking to you, and is
• 46:39
  nothing you could do about it, and then somebody that had a lot
• 46:44
  of money, he went from being interested in her.
• 46:49
  Be interested in me and gave me a large sum of money into the
• 46:55
  shopping and she was highly pissed off body.
• 46:59
  How did you find out that like he came?
• 47:10
  He came back. He was chosen.
• 47:12
  No, he came back like the next week that same night.
• 47:16
  He figured, we were going to be there again.
• 47:17
  He came back, he came I'm back to talk to me and he came back
• 47:21
  and was giving me my bread. I'm up - hey, no, just hurt your
• 47:25
  feelings and I feel like this girl, I would be like if
• 47:35
  somebody picked you over me. Go ahead girl, so have fun right
• 47:39
  there. The Holt, like we always say,
• 47:42
  the whole team gotta win. When I hit it, say it again.
• 47:54
  It should be good Planning Group project.
• 47:56
  Hello. I mean I'm not doing no good
• 48:01
  package. But you know, if y'all cool like
• 48:04
  that, that's something that your how you work out, still trying
• 48:07
  to get you the odds, Ashley, did you add the car?
• 48:23
  You can either take it off and not take.
• 48:29
  This is the Finesse. And they think that you have to
• 48:42
  be sexual with these people to get that type of treatment and
• 48:46
  you really don't. I've had somebody take me
• 48:49
  shopping and spell spend well over a thousand dollars and I
• 48:52
  never touched this man a day of my life then.
• 48:57
  Like buy me, Gucci says he bought me four pairs of hugs,
• 49:01
  the tall ones once a goddamn, I just want to put this out there
• 49:06
  that my best friend is Ashley for pizza.
• 49:12
  Nah, I'm good for Victoria pink sale, good for driving me back
• 49:18
  and forth. I would just spend the night
• 49:30
  over there. Okay.
• 49:31
  Not taking me home, makes sense, makes sense.
• 49:34
  Like, what I'll have, I used to live in East Orange so, you
• 49:39
  know, all the buildings Are funny and I don't trust
• 50:28
  nobody people weird. Like people are really weird.
• 50:30
  So David you had anybody found out, we like found out where you
• 50:33
  live that your by mistake. How simply me walking down the
• 50:38
  street in East Orange and there's like this like fake
• 50:43
  Studio full of SoundCloud rappers do happen to like be
• 50:50
  outside with the congregation. Wait, what did he say he called
• 50:54
  me by my name. I kept walking because I'm like
• 51:01
  I didn't even look when he went up to like Chris
• 51:15
  Brown did and um it's video. That was like, in that group was
• 51:28
  like, oh are you know? Yeah, no girl.
• 51:32
  She lives right over here, slap him.
• 51:39
  So juicer knock. Yeah, like I never spoke to
• 51:44
  nobody that lives that live by myself.
• 51:47
  So I never I didn't speak to nobody around my building.
• 51:50
  I didn't say hi. Say, good morning.
• 51:52
  I didn't say none of that. I lived there for almost a whole
• 51:56
  year. Nobody in figure out my name for
• 51:58
  now. And that was just like in the
• 52:04
  area like you know guys hanging out and stuff like that.
• 52:06
  Nobody know who I was, where I was, they kind of figured what I
• 52:10
  was doing. They would see me with my little
• 52:12
  pink Victoria Secret, pink duffel bag.
• 52:14
  Steven is that the universal bet?
• 52:16
  The universal bag where, you know, tank top and shorts on, I
• 52:21
  will come back to life or like this, you know, in the
• 52:24
  summertime. She must work for the airport.
• 52:40
  I'll just about. Yeah, I know, I live it by
• 52:42
  myself. I might see me coming back and I
• 52:44
  think I got a whole bag full of money, but ain't none.
• 52:47
  Having that night, true, you just have to be, you have to be
• 52:56
  careful, you have to be conscious.
• 52:58
  The reason why I really stopped is just because I just got
• 53:02
  tired. Okay.
• 53:04
  Tired of talking to people, I got tired of it.
• 53:08
  Got to the point of dudes will be talking.
• 53:10
  And I was like because I was just over it, like I kept
• 53:15
  leaving early so and then dudes, like the normal District
• 53:21
  started. So I really annoy me.
• 53:23
  I'll dance at a point where like I was getting in trouble.
• 53:27
  I got banned from a couple places said that you can get,
• 53:31
  you could definitely can get banned from places.
• 53:33
  Like they tell you, you can't come, you can't work in the
• 53:35
  morning. They have your ID, so they know
• 53:38
  who you are. Like, so, Kenny back volume.
• 53:40
  No blackball you but they tell you like if they cool with
• 53:43
  another man shot another club, you know, people talk like oh
• 53:47
  she's a troublemaker. Or she like to fight.
• 53:51
  So me my issue was. I like to fight, okay?
• 53:59
  Not even close to it. So I just like to fight.
• 54:03
  Maybe them. Good girls.
• 54:04
  I like to fight. I will fight you.
• 54:06
  I will find a man, all the smoke and we started to have people
• 54:20
  know. So you get some girls like that
• 54:23
  think like they create launch, right?
• 54:25
  Crazy tough. And those little ones, I don't
• 54:28
  even be by the way because I know I'm not really drag you.
• 54:31
  The sad part is talk too much. Yeah.
• 54:34
  Just looking at you. You're so calm when you're
• 54:35
  saying it, that's what's scary right now.
• 54:38
  Like you're so calm has. He'll like you're not budging at
• 54:41
  all. Like, I believe you too, and
• 54:46
  it's not like, I like to fight like, you know, I'm looking for
• 54:50
  like but I want that accident. Exactly.
• 54:53
  If you want to smoke by, you can really get all the way.
• 54:57
  So if anybody out there listening anybody wants my
• 54:59
  fucked up, any holiday you want Ramadan included?
• 55:11
  Like you get some girls that in ghosts, a lie.
• 55:16
  They love for no reason. They lied out of niggas, not
• 55:20
  talk about, that is long episode.
• 55:22
  Sometimes you get you get the customers that start confusion,
• 55:26
  and mess between the girls to, who does that.
• 55:34
  Female. Sometimes, you do get guys that
• 55:36
  are involved with most food answers, like that start
• 55:40
  confusion, or you get, you know who's bad.
• 55:44
  Just who I tell girls all the time ever gonna dance.
• 55:47
  Do not ever get involved with a bouncer or DJ.
• 55:50
  Don't ever do it beep, I got like three other baby.
• 55:53
  Mama strippers Don't Damn Baby Mama strippers other see that?
• 56:03
  I'll send somebody slept with a bouncy like, see that?
• 56:08
  Don't do it. I've seen girls girls fight over
• 56:13
  the DJ and I'm looking like these niggas are ugly and write
• 56:20
  the broke his ones. I don't understand.
• 56:23
  Why question side note you can have a macular whatever.
• 56:32
  I don't know why you're fighting over him since you see if it did
• 56:35
  a bouncer. You never did at all.
• 56:40
  DJ so cool. They pretend like you know I'm
• 56:49
  saying I will be be staying cuz I'm around these girls every
• 56:53
  day. I see naked girls every day
• 56:55
  which is which is the top really juice.
• 57:12
  Yes. Wait, what really?
• 57:24
  Look at God. This explain please.
• 57:45
  What was wrong with them, Sagittarius, very good.
• 57:50
  Scorpio. Hold on, hold on, start over,
• 57:56
  please. Virgos Scorpios Leo's that's
• 58:03
  everybody and thank you. Okay, just give us two things
• 58:22
  wrong with Scorpios Scorpios no men, no men.
• 58:50
  Not just him, that made me feel that way, other friends that I
• 58:54
  have that have dealt with like other Scorpio men and their
• 58:58
  tell. They say, the same thing is
• 59:00
  something wrong with them. Like, no, I'm very serious.
• 59:04
  And you can act like, almost any female who's ever really,
• 59:07
  really, really dealt with the Scorpio man.
• 59:09
  Is something wrong with them. Like, I want that one because I,
• 59:14
  but the thing is, if it's like, even if they really, really love
• 59:19
  you, and I care about you and stuff like that.
• 59:22
  Then they get like, possessive weird crazy, like they'll stop
• 59:28
  the lying, they'll stop the lying and the cheating and stuff
• 59:30
  like that but then they get like retarded Lee possessive in
• 59:34
  crazy. But damn do you agree?
• 59:35
  You see now you agree. Guys, I'm talking about like
• 59:41
  next level, like possessive crazy and some of the woman, but
• 59:46
  as Pisces, you cannot, you can't control me.
• 59:49
  You're not going to tell you what to do.
• 59:51
  So you're hard-headed. No, not happy.
• 59:53
  You're not going to tell me. She don't listen, so just talk
• 1:00:00
  into the mic please. You not going to tell me what to
• 1:00:02
  do. So I have a question because
• 1:00:05
  being a Pisces be tend to be big on the strategy, right?
• 1:00:08
  So I think men would never do know they're not going to.
• 1:00:12
  Yeah. Absolutely.
• 1:00:13
  I didn't the price of an. Absolutely not never getting my
• 1:00:15
  life, but yeah. Life's, our perspective.
• 1:00:18
  Since you like painting them, about our minds between, you
• 1:00:21
  think will be the biggest, What time?
• 1:00:26
  Anybody's baby. Father is a baby daddy.
• 1:00:40
  They'll be spending that. So, your dream, tell you a dream
• 1:00:44
  dream, give you all the bread in the world, we just roommate,
• 1:00:51
  they just had to move in with me because she got apartment
• 1:00:53
  issues. Be honest, I'm just here for the
• 1:00:56
  kids is opposed to my job, so I stay there.
• 1:01:25
  We Sorry better. What's the problem?
• 1:01:27
  Sagittarius, let me go. Lucas say Lucas.
• 1:01:39
  Crazy. Sometimes we attract that don't
• 1:01:43
  like you know, because I ordered is like amazing.
• 1:01:45
  So if you make me go crazy, you know, all the crazy, you know,
• 1:01:57
  cuz our side, we are all Spirit. We are all 12 signs, combine
• 1:02:03
  know. That'll be secretaries.
• 1:02:05
  No, no, that would be secretaries, is the sweetest day
• 1:02:10
  and all the other signs in us. We are the Tulsa, where, a
• 1:02:18
  combination we have parts of all the Erykah Badu's, that free
• 1:02:22
  Spirits, they drink, so wait. You said so, Also sound again,
• 1:02:34
  Loop, Sagittarius? So you said there, what they can
• 1:02:38
  get? like, every relationship I've
• 1:02:54
  been in the person has been like Super.
• 1:02:58
  They got to a point where they were like super in love and they
• 1:03:01
  got like be, it's you Ashley. It's very high speeds that, you
• 1:03:06
  know, the person - Sun the stars in the movie.
• 1:03:16
  No, you know what I think. You know what I think it is.
• 1:03:18
  People feel like they can be their most comfortable cells
• 1:03:20
  with us. Can you hang in there?
• 1:03:22
  Yes. And we have that healing time.
• 1:03:24
  Like a see you next year, like comforting.
• 1:03:29
  Me personally, I always give
• 1:03:53
  somebody a hundred percent me. It is how you get it is how you
• 1:03:59
  get taken advantage of. But at the same time, I'm not
• 1:04:02
  gonna stop being me because you're a bad person.
• 1:04:04
  All secretaries. I've no is sweet as people did
• 1:04:08
  the symbols. I know he's they are up there,
• 1:04:11
  they ate the sweets people caring, but when you love it
• 1:04:16
  turned into, this is World War 3.
• 1:04:19
  You cross me. I just know you.
• 1:05:03
  Stop cheating on somebody that you care about.
• 1:05:06
  You got a really, really be in love and I'm not talking about
• 1:05:09
  like lust you have to be in love with that person to not cheat on
• 1:05:13
  them. You won't do it.
• 1:05:14
  But you that's not really what you think even then, even then
• 1:05:20
  especially was going. Even then there's always a test
• 1:05:25
  and I failed like I don't end in.
• 1:05:29
  I'm the type of person like I'll move past stuff.
• 1:05:34
  Like you'll think everything is cookie crunch because I ain't
• 1:05:37
  said nothing about it and I've moved past it.
• 1:05:39
  But I do not not, not forget anybody.
• 1:05:44
  I did want the ass whooped and then and then they sold talk to
• 1:05:49
  exactly. So talk to.
• 1:05:57
  So now, would you give any closing words to to new to new
• 1:05:59
  dances out here? You don't have no friends.
• 1:06:11
  That bag don't get too comfortable with dancing and if
• 1:06:16
  you're getting comfortable dancing, making sure.
• 1:06:18
  Make sure that if you're doing something, if you're going to
• 1:06:21
  get comfortable with dancing, make sure that you're investing
• 1:06:24
  your money in something. That's going to enable you to
• 1:06:29
  not dance one day. Because You can't dance forever.
• 1:06:34
  Maybe you would say to the typos as far as like you don't.
• 1:06:40
  If you don't got no money stay home stay.
• 1:06:52
  Like touching people don't disrespect nobody.
• 1:06:55
  It doesn't matter what I'm in here doing.
• 1:06:57
  It doesn't give you the right to violate me as a human being
• 1:07:00
  true. So all that violence tough,
• 1:07:03
  cause you might come across somebody like me that would
• 1:07:06
  violate you back wolf. I will fight you.
• 1:07:09
  Yes hip-hop shit. Smokey, I know you're serious
• 1:07:25
  serious Can you smack it too hard?
• 1:07:58
  Fingers. Where are you going?
• 1:08:00
  Excuse me. Wait, a minute disrespect you
• 1:08:06
  because that's nasty. It is also known as in the thing
• 1:08:09
  is. Yeah you've done that to another
• 1:08:13
  girl. She let you do it.
• 1:08:14
  Yeah, he learned at somewhere like kids, they learned of some
• 1:08:17
  where you literally I got no problems right now not
• 1:08:47
  that's like dirty like you know it's is one spot.
• 1:08:50
  Everything I forget the Name of it.
• 1:08:52
  We went in there and that shit was an office looking like yes.
• 1:08:57
  And it was nasty and dirty and they was in there doing stuff,
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  it's my called health department on.
• 1:09:11
  It's just nasty. No, not like that.
• 1:09:17
  Oh God, get drunk naked too much.
• 1:09:19
  I've had guys get mad drunk and pull a shit out late.
• 1:09:24
  Excuse me sir. Wait what just like my friend
• 1:09:31
  was dancing with somebody. A couple times, you know, like
• 1:10:22
  you walking down the street and oh, you went to Club somewhere.
• 1:10:25
  Some girl, just take her hand down in, just makes me miss.
• 1:10:28
  What are you doing? So wait wait, hold on questions.
• 1:10:36
  So Lucas Maxie this. You want to strip club, you
• 1:10:42
  throwing money everywhere ass is clapping Jill Scott walks in
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  there right now. Stick your hand down your pants.
• 1:10:50
  Which one do I come home?
• 1:11:02
  No more. We should grab it up.
• 1:11:07
  First of all, I don't know who both pieces but by the sound of
• 1:11:09
  that name, I'm calling call the police call, the public
• 1:11:13
  authorities. You don't belong here.
• 1:11:16
  Respect me as a man like to be entertained.
• 1:11:26
  I didn't come, you didn't come in here, touching on me.
• 1:11:30
  You want to touch on somebody. Go home and touch on that girl
• 1:11:32
  that you thought were you. You got that goddamn would be
• 1:11:38
  deserve because I'm going to disrespect you back and I feel
• 1:11:44
  like as a as a as a dancer, no matter what you have every
• 1:11:48
  right? I don't care what no Club say to
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  you. I'm here with no bouncing with
• 1:11:53
  no manager. Say to you, you feel like
• 1:11:55
  somebody violated you and they didn't do enough.
• 1:11:57
  You have all grounds to violate that person back.
• 1:12:06
  Gonna close that. Look, I'm a cook.
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  I'm sold out with a quote that great man said, what I'm going
• 1:12:14
  to say, show me boobies as your crapper, but each episode, the
• 1:12:20
  whole team got away.