Latest / Ministry Minded / Writing, Status, and Storytelling with Griffin Gooch
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- 0:10SPEAKER_02: Hello and welcome to a brand new episode of the Ministry Minded Podcast,
- 0:15a show that seeks to marvel at the mercy of God that meets us
- 0:18in our messy
- 0:18SPEAKER_02: ministries.
- 0:19SPEAKER_02: I'm your host, of course, Pastor Brad Gray.
- 0:21I serve as the senior pastor here at Stonington Baptist Church
- 0:24in Paxinus,
- 0:25Pennsylvania.
- 0:27And today I'm so thrilled to share a conversation with a fellow
- 0:31Substack writer,
- 0:32and friend he's essayist and also phd student griffin gooch
- 0:39griffin is just a great
- 0:40and fantastic and compelling writer i can't recommend uh his
- 0:45essays enough if you
- 0:46haven't yet read any of his stuff highly recommend you do that
- 0:50we're going to talk
- 0:50about that we're going to talk in this particular episode a lot
- 0:53about writing and
- 0:54SPEAKER_02: about storytelling and why
- 0:56storytelling plays such a particularly significant role when it
- 1:01comes to the
- 1:02SPEAKER_02: Christian faith itself,
- 1:03how we communicate the gospel and how we convey the truths of
- 1:06Christ to right where
- 1:08SPEAKER_02: we are,
- 1:09SPEAKER_02: to sinners right where they are.
- 1:10SPEAKER_02: We're going to talk about that,
- 1:12why Griffin feels called to write and what that means and what
- 1:16that looks like,
- 1:17SPEAKER_02: the process of that.
- 1:19SPEAKER_02: If you are in any way, shape, or form interested in writing or writing
- 1:23SPEAKER_02: you're an aspiring writer or anything like that,
- 1:25I think you're really going to find this episode particularly
- 1:29compelling and also
- 1:30SPEAKER_02: interesting and fascinating.
- 1:32SPEAKER_02: Griffin is just a great guy.
- 1:34SPEAKER_02: It was great to get to know him a little bit better.
- 1:37SPEAKER_02: So definitely sit back, enjoy this episode.
- 1:39SPEAKER_02: I know you'll be blessed by it and we'll catch you on the other side.
- 1:42SPEAKER_02: Well, thanks for tuning in to the Ministry Minded Podcast.
- 1:44SPEAKER_02: It is so good to have,
- 1:47SPEAKER_02: I guess I can call my friend now since we've met on Substack,
- 1:50SPEAKER_02: Griffin Gooch on the podcast.
- 1:52SPEAKER_02: How are you doing, Griffin?
- 1:53SPEAKER_00: I'm doing great.
- 1:54SPEAKER_00: Thank you so much for having me on here.
- 1:56SPEAKER_02: Oh, man.
- 1:57SPEAKER_02: Ever since, I don't even know how we got connected, honestly.
- 2:00SPEAKER_02: Somehow through Substack,
- 2:02SPEAKER_02: I feel like Substack has kind of like exploded recently,
- 2:05SPEAKER_02: at least in terms of like users and followers and whatnot.
- 2:09SPEAKER_02: And for whatever reason, the algorithm gods brought us together.
- 2:13And I've just enjoyed getting to know you through your writing
- 2:16and through the
- 2:17SPEAKER_02: things that you publish.
- 2:18SPEAKER_02: So I'm really excited to kind of get to know you more here.
- 2:22SPEAKER_02: For those who aren't familiar, kind of introduce yourself.
- 2:26SPEAKER_02: where you are,
- 2:27what kind of keeps you busy and some of the things that you're
- 2:30interested in,
- 2:31SPEAKER_02: what you write about and stuff like that.
- 2:33SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so again, my name is Griffin Gooch.
- 2:36SPEAKER_00: I just turned 28.
- 2:38SPEAKER_00: I live in Kalamazoo, Michigan with my wife, Tiffany.
- 2:42SPEAKER_00: We both love to read.
- 2:44SPEAKER_00: It's pretty much our main hobby.
- 2:46SPEAKER_00: And we're heavily involved in our local church.
- 2:49SPEAKER_00: It's a radiant church.
- 2:50SPEAKER_00: It's a neo-Pentecostal church.
- 2:52SPEAKER_00: We love it.
- 2:53SPEAKER_00: And personally,
- 2:54SPEAKER_00: just vocationally,
- 2:56SPEAKER_00: I am getting my PhD in theology at the University of Aberdeen right now,
- 3:00SPEAKER_00: but studying at a distance because
- 3:03SPEAKER_00: Both of our families live right in the area and we love them.
- 3:06SPEAKER_00: And we kind of wanted to, you know, keep that close family net around.
- 3:11SPEAKER_00: And just in my free time,
- 3:12SPEAKER_00: just in general,
- 3:14SPEAKER_00: beyond doing PhD and stuff,
- 3:16SPEAKER_00: I like to write frequently.
- 3:18SPEAKER_00: It's like one of the callings that I feel like God's put on my life.
- 3:20SPEAKER_00: And so I write a lot on Substack and on there,
- 3:25SPEAKER_00: most of my essays have to do with connecting theological relationships
- 3:29SPEAKER_00: uh, doctrine with other academic disciplines.
- 3:32So a lot of the research that I do is usually involved in like
- 3:35psychology or
- 3:36SPEAKER_00: sociology or,
- 3:37SPEAKER_00: um,
- 3:38SPEAKER_00: really just any other kind of discipline.
- 3:40SPEAKER_00: That's a lot of the research that I do is in other fields,
- 3:43SPEAKER_00: but that I like to make,
- 3:44I like to make connections between those other fields and
- 3:47theology to make,
- 3:49to make it not for the sake of being like theology is cool and
- 3:53all of this stuff is
- 3:54SPEAKER_00: compatible.
- 3:54SPEAKER_00: I
- 3:55hope to ultimately say that theology is like the highest of all
- 4:00the academic
- 4:01disciplines and everything is ordered under it but look at
- 4:04these interesting things
- 4:05here and there that might help illuminate some of the smaller
- 4:07details about
- 4:08theology so that like when we're looking at everything all
- 4:11together it can kind of
- 4:12SPEAKER_00: make more sense in a more cohesive uh worldview
- 4:17SPEAKER_02: Yeah, definitely.
- 4:17There's a lot of ways in which a lot of those areas intersect
- 4:22and overlap with the
- 4:23SPEAKER_02: study of theology,
- 4:24SPEAKER_02: which makes,
- 4:25SPEAKER_02: I think,
- 4:26SPEAKER_02: studying those other avenues kind of open up for us,
- 4:29SPEAKER_02: as you kind of mentioned.
- 4:31SPEAKER_02: What's the focus of your PhD?
- 4:33SPEAKER_02: You said you're getting a PhD in theology.
- 4:34SPEAKER_02: What's kind of like your main focus?
- 4:37SPEAKER_02: Or is there not a main focus?
- 4:41SPEAKER_00: It's funny because I'm still in my first year.
- 4:43Every time I meet with my advisor,
- 4:44he's like,
- 4:44this is going to change so much.
- 4:46SPEAKER_00: You're going to cut out half of this.
- 4:50SPEAKER_00: He's probably right to a certain extent.
- 4:51But my basic thesis,
- 4:53my basic general idea that is surrounding it right now,
- 4:56and it's like...
- 4:57SPEAKER_00: I mean,
- 4:57SPEAKER_00: I have like 80,000 words written for it right now,
- 4:59but I'm probably going to end up cutting out like at least
- 5:0140,000 of those.
- 5:02SPEAKER_00: But the general idea is that it's a theology of social status.
- 5:06SPEAKER_00: So I remember around three years ago,
- 5:08I was reading a few books that were talking about this thing
- 5:11called the psychology
- 5:12SPEAKER_00: of social status.
- 5:13I looked a little bit more into it and I found that there was a
- 5:16bunch of these
- 5:17SPEAKER_00: studies by psychologists,
- 5:19SPEAKER_00: social scientists that found that a fundamental human need,
- 5:23something that humans crave on par with things like money or
- 5:26even like food,
- 5:27SPEAKER_00: water,
- 5:27SPEAKER_00: shelter,
- 5:28SPEAKER_00: is social status.
- 5:30They want to feel as though they belong and that they have
- 5:32esteem in the eyes of their peers.
- 5:34SPEAKER_00: They really care about their relative social standing.
- 5:38SPEAKER_00: So much so that it can even trump money in some cases.
- 5:41So there's been plenty of studies that they did where they
- 5:44would ask people just in
- 5:45SPEAKER_00: general,
- 5:45SPEAKER_00: would you prefer like $100,000 a year or would you – $100,000 a year –
- 5:53SPEAKER_00: where everybody else makes $75,000 a year.
- 5:55Would you prefer $175,000 a year,
- 5:56but everybody else makes $185,000 a year?
- 5:57SPEAKER_00: Most people pick the scenario where they make $100,000 a year,
- 5:59SPEAKER_00: and everybody else makes $75,000 a year,
- 6:00SPEAKER_00: even though it's technically less money.
- 6:12And so stuff like that just got me thinking a lot about just
- 6:17the interactions that
- 6:18Jesus has with the Pharisees and how he is so upset with the
- 6:22way that they are
- 6:23SPEAKER_00: constantly showing off their status or their religious piety.
- 6:28SPEAKER_00: And so, I mean, if you look at Matthew 23, I mean, Jesus was like
- 6:32SPEAKER_00: Love embodied, right?
- 6:33SPEAKER_00: So he was love.
- 6:35He was walking around just as the most perfect embodiment of
- 6:38love that's ever existed.
- 6:39SPEAKER_00: And yet Matthew 23 is the most scathing critique.
- 6:45I think probably in the Bible for sure,
- 6:47but even just beyond that,
- 6:48it is so...
- 6:49intense you know he's calling them whitewashed tombs they're
- 6:52walking around uh
- 6:53trying to make themselves seem cool or like they look good on
- 6:57the outside but he's
- 6:58like i see what's actually beyond that it's like you are only
- 7:01posturing yourself
- 7:02you're cleaning up the outside of the cup or the outside of the
- 7:06tomb but on the
- 7:07inside there is nothing in there like you are actually dead for
- 7:11you know lack of
- 7:12SPEAKER_00: better terminology
- 7:13SPEAKER_00: And so I,
- 7:14I started thinking about these things together and I was just
- 7:18trying to think that
- 7:19SPEAKER_00: there hasn't been a ton of people who've researched this,
- 7:23SPEAKER_00: um,
- 7:24SPEAKER_00: from the kind of standpoint that I was thinking of it,
- 7:26SPEAKER_00: uh,
- 7:26SPEAKER_00: of it was.
- 7:27SPEAKER_00: So we have like Saren Kierkegaard, uh,
- 7:29SPEAKER_00: who was writing,
- 7:29SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 7:30SPEAKER_00: a few hundred years ago,
- 7:31SPEAKER_00: and he had a big theory of human comparison,
- 7:34SPEAKER_00: which is pretty similar in some sense to the psychology's social status.
- 7:38SPEAKER_00: But other than that, not a lot of people have been talking about it.
- 7:41And so I was trying to think about how can I connect these two
- 7:45things into a
- 7:46cohesive whole and bring in a bunch of other different
- 7:49theological doctrines,
- 7:51SPEAKER_00: make sense of it,
- 7:52SPEAKER_00: and also ask about how we as contemporary Westerners who...
- 7:57SPEAKER_00: have so many more status signals to deal with.
- 8:00SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 8:00SPEAKER_00: we have social media,
- 8:01SPEAKER_00: we have nice cars,
- 8:03SPEAKER_00: we have just any other,
- 8:04SPEAKER_00: I mean,
- 8:05SPEAKER_00: even what,
- 8:05SPEAKER_00: I mean,
- 8:06SPEAKER_00: the books that we read,
- 8:07SPEAKER_00: the TV shows that we watch,
- 8:08SPEAKER_00: everything that we can do is like this little subtle status play.
- 8:12Like I have this taste and I like these things and these are
- 8:16the clothes that I
- 8:17SPEAKER_00: wear and every- I only listen to indie music.
- 8:19SPEAKER_00: Yes, exactly.
- 8:20SPEAKER_00: That's one of those things.
- 8:21I mean,
- 8:21I actually do that all the time,
- 8:22which is kind of connecting,
- 8:24but-
- 8:26or uh yeah i mean like even if we're talking like uh theology
- 8:29like um one of i do
- 8:31like this guy but oliver o'donovan is like probably one of the
- 8:34highest tier
- 8:36theologians that you can think of some of his stuff is like
- 8:38almost incomprehensible
- 8:40and i really do enjoy him but at the same time when people are
- 8:42asking me like oh
- 8:43who's your favorite theologian i find i'm kind of like oh i
- 8:46love oliver o'donovan
- 8:48even though it's like i don't necessarily love and enjoy all of
- 8:51his works but it's
- 8:52SPEAKER_00: like i know that if i throw that out the
- 8:55SPEAKER_00: like people might respect me a little bit more.
- 8:58SPEAKER_00: Anyways, that was just a long side trail.
- 9:00I'm trying to see how these things conflate and how we as
- 9:04modern Westerners can
- 9:05actually do better at dealing with social status because we
- 9:09have so many different
- 9:10SPEAKER_00: ways that we can struggle with it.
- 9:11SPEAKER_00: So I'm trying to figure out,
- 9:12SPEAKER_00: theologically speaking,
- 9:14the early church found a way to transcend all of these
- 9:17different status boundaries.
- 9:19SPEAKER_00: I mean, the Roman world was stratified in so many different ways.
- 9:22SPEAKER_00: It was more harshly stratified or stratified.
- 9:27than we are nowadays it was much more harshly stratified but
- 9:32the early church found
- 9:34a way to de-stratify itself and become a place where people
- 9:37have all social classes
- 9:39ethnicities races gender income or even like levels of like
- 9:44perceived piety they
- 9:45SPEAKER_00: can all come together under this beautiful banner
- 9:49SPEAKER_02: Yeah,
- 9:49SPEAKER_02: that's a fantastic point,
- 9:50SPEAKER_02: and it's a great reminder too,
- 9:52SPEAKER_02: especially as you're reading – like you mentioned Romans.
- 9:55I was thinking about books like Philippians or even the letter
- 9:59to – Paul writes to
- 10:01Titus where he's talking about Titus is going back to these
- 10:05people on Crete,
- 10:06which were kind of known for having a lot of – being rough
- 10:10around the edges,
- 10:11SPEAKER_02: so to speak,
- 10:11SPEAKER_02: but all –
- 10:13SPEAKER_02: No matter what,
- 10:14SPEAKER_02: no matter who you are visiting or who you're ministering to,
- 10:16SPEAKER_02: they are all part of the family of God.
- 10:18So there's this great leveling that happens within the gospel
- 10:22and the preaching of
- 10:24SPEAKER_02: the gospel and the ministry of the word,
- 10:26which I think you rightly point out kind of levels the playing
- 10:30field when it comes
- 10:31SPEAKER_02: to social status,
- 10:32SPEAKER_02: which is –
- 10:33in a lot of ways so foreign it's almost alien to us um
- 10:37especially now like in 2025
- 10:38when like like as you mentioned like no matter what we do or
- 10:42say or like what we
- 10:43post it's it's even if it's innocent there is a little bit of
- 10:47like social status
- 10:49game that we're playing like that whole thing of like you get
- 10:53six photos and
- 10:54everyone's crying and all but one and then you post the one
- 10:57where everyone's looks
- 10:57SPEAKER_02: happy and it's like look at this great adventure
- 11:00SPEAKER_01: Oh my gosh, yeah.
- 11:02SPEAKER_02: It may not have always been that way.
- 11:06SPEAKER_02: Thinking about that,
- 11:08it reminds me of – and I'm going to – I hate to be the guy that
- 11:12quotes the stand-up
- 11:13SPEAKER_02: comedian bit because it's never as funny.
- 11:15SPEAKER_02: Do it.
- 11:18I always am reminded of that bit that Brian – I think I
- 11:21mentioned it to you that
- 11:22one time that Brian Regan uses in that classic I Walked on the
- 11:28Moon where he talks
- 11:29SPEAKER_02: about the guy,
- 11:30the me monster at the dinner party and he's talking about me
- 11:33and all the things
- 11:34he's done and how he wishes that he could just be an astronaut
- 11:38who can just totally
- 11:39one-up any sort of social status story that's being told
- 11:42because he can just say at
- 11:44SPEAKER_02: any time he wants,
- 11:45SPEAKER_02: I walked on the moon.
- 11:46SPEAKER_02: And then no one can top that.
- 11:48SPEAKER_02: And I think we all,
- 11:49SPEAKER_02: I think,
- 11:49are striving in some weird way for our own I walked on the moon
- 11:54sort of story.
- 11:55SPEAKER_02: And that way we can kind of beat anyone else's social status.
- 11:59SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
- 11:59I just I think it's fascinating because I think the gospel kind
- 12:02of informs us on
- 12:04SPEAKER_02: that,
- 12:04SPEAKER_02: even if we don't consciously think of it that way.
- 12:07SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 12:07And what's so funny is I absolutely agree with everything that
- 12:11you're saying.
- 12:11But I've been studying this for,
- 12:13I mean,
- 12:13at least two,
- 12:14maybe three years now.
- 12:15SPEAKER_00: And it's like every day I notice a new way that this kind of pops up.
- 12:20SPEAKER_00: So Sergeant Kierkegaard, he has this...
- 12:23SPEAKER_00: It's like one of his lesser known works called Without Assumption,
- 12:26SPEAKER_00: but he's talking about the parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector,
- 12:29SPEAKER_00: right?
- 12:29SPEAKER_00: So the Pharisee and the tax collector,
- 12:32SPEAKER_00: they're both in the same temple,
- 12:33SPEAKER_00: but the Pharisee prays and he says,
- 12:35SPEAKER_00: thank God that I am not like other men,
- 12:37SPEAKER_00: that I'm not like this tax collector over here.
- 12:39SPEAKER_00: Thank God that I'm a pious person, that I live my life forever.
- 12:43way and then I look the way that I do I can seem the way that I
- 12:46do but then this
- 12:47tax collector he uh beats his chest and just says have mercy on
- 12:51me father for I
- 12:52have sinned and Jesus says the point of the parable is you know
- 12:55to be the tax
- 12:55collector the tax collector is the one who actually leaves
- 12:58forgiven but when
- 12:59Kierkegaard was talking about this story he was like the thing
- 13:04that happens in that
- 13:05SPEAKER_00: story
- 13:07is that people read it and they say i do not want to resemble
- 13:11that pharisee i'm
- 13:12going to resemble that tax collector but when they say i'm
- 13:16going to resemble that
- 13:17tax collector and i'm going to be like that tax collector
- 13:19they're also subtly um
- 13:21putting down that pharisee and then in their mind they've also
- 13:25taken on this
- 13:26complex where now when they do see somebody who is practicing
- 13:29public piety they
- 13:31SPEAKER_00: feel superior to that person and
- 13:33Because now they've read this parable where Jesus condemns that
- 13:36person in favor of
- 13:37SPEAKER_00: this other person.
- 13:37SPEAKER_00: And so that just blew my mind because I'm like,
- 13:41SPEAKER_00: I've been thinking about this for years now,
- 13:44SPEAKER_00: but there are just so many little ways that this pops in.
- 13:47SPEAKER_00: And I'm like,
- 13:47SPEAKER_00: yeah,
- 13:48SPEAKER_00: every time that I've read that parable,
- 13:49SPEAKER_00: every time that I've heard it spoken aloud,
- 13:51SPEAKER_00: I identify with the tax collector and I subtly condemn the Pharisee.
- 13:55SPEAKER_00: I feel superior to them after having heard that.
- 13:59SPEAKER_00: And so it's just crazy, man.
- 14:00SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 14:01SPEAKER_02: Well, man, that's such a great point.
- 14:03SPEAKER_02: And people in my church have probably heard me say this,
- 14:07SPEAKER_02: but anytime that you feel like you're ready to vilify the Pharisee,
- 14:12SPEAKER_02: we need to stop because we should probably look in the mirror and say,
- 14:15SPEAKER_02: I am the Pharisee.
- 14:17SPEAKER_02: And I think once we realize that, like – I don't know.
- 14:21SPEAKER_02: Like you, I've been reading these stories since I was a kid.
- 14:23SPEAKER_02: Like I grew up in Sunday school.
- 14:25As I told you,
- 14:26like my dad and granddad were in the ministry and stuff like
- 14:28that.
- 14:28SPEAKER_02: So I've always – I've heard these stories so often.
- 14:31SPEAKER_02: And I think –
- 14:32SPEAKER_02: In a way – maybe it's not intentional,
- 14:35but in a way sometimes we can tell stories like the one you're
- 14:38mentioning in Luke
- 14:40SPEAKER_02: 18,
- 14:41SPEAKER_02: the Pharisee and the publican,
- 14:44as if the Pharisee is like the Disney villain and the publican
- 14:47is like the
- 14:49SPEAKER_02: up-and-coming – it's like Hunchback of Notre Dame.
- 14:52He's Quasimodo,
- 14:54and then the other guy in there,
- 14:55he's the Pharisee,
- 14:56whatever.
- 14:56SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 14:58But that totally misses the point of those stories because more
- 15:01often than not,
- 15:01SPEAKER_02: we're the Pharisee.
- 15:04In all these little scenarios where we see someone else's
- 15:09weakness or impiety,
- 15:11SPEAKER_02: we suddenly have this urge to point out our own or signal our virtue,
- 15:15which is so easily able to do in this eight-day nature where we
- 15:20can post whatever
- 15:21SPEAKER_02: we want.
- 15:21SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 15:22SPEAKER_02: So, yeah, that's such a good reminder.
- 15:24SPEAKER_02: Like,
- 15:24SPEAKER_02: we're the Pharisee,
- 15:25SPEAKER_02: which I think,
- 15:26SPEAKER_02: again,
- 15:26SPEAKER_02: is kind of like the point of the work of God's Word,
- 15:29SPEAKER_02: which is to humble us,
- 15:31SPEAKER_02: but then also to build us back up by God's grace,
- 15:33SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 15:33SPEAKER_02: to the work of the law and the gospel on us.
- 15:35SPEAKER_02: And I think that, yeah, that's such a good point.
- 15:38SPEAKER_00: Amen, man.
- 15:38SPEAKER_00: Yeah, absolutely.
- 15:41SPEAKER_02: So as you're navigating this research,
- 15:44how does that play into – like you kind of mentioned that some
- 15:48of this research
- 15:49SPEAKER_02: that you're doing for your PhD kind of ekes its way out through Substack.
- 15:52How have you – like do you just go on tangents when you're
- 15:56writing essays like from
- 15:57your other research or is this just like part of all that and
- 16:00these are going to be
- 16:01SPEAKER_02: like chapters in your book or how does that play out?
- 16:03SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 16:04SPEAKER_00: So that's actually a really great question.
- 16:07SPEAKER_00: So a lot of it does come from the dissertation.
- 16:10But one of the things that about Substack and I don't know if
- 16:15you know this.
- 16:16SPEAKER_00: So there's this novelist.
- 16:17SPEAKER_00: Her name is RF Kuang.
- 16:18SPEAKER_00: She had this big book named Yellow Face.
- 16:20SPEAKER_00: It came out maybe two years ago now.
- 16:23But she had this event in my hometown and my wife and I went
- 16:27and she was doing this
- 16:29SPEAKER_00: Q&A session and she writes nonfiction too.
- 16:32SPEAKER_00: And so I went up to the front of the room and I asked her like,
- 16:36SPEAKER_00: so I know that you write fiction,
- 16:37SPEAKER_00: but when you're writing nonfiction,
- 16:39SPEAKER_00: how is that different?
- 16:40SPEAKER_00: You know, she was really skilled at both.
- 16:42But I was thinking like,
- 16:43are you accessing just different parts of your brain or
- 16:46something?
- 16:46SPEAKER_00: Like, how are you making...
- 16:48SPEAKER_00: both of these two genres compute.
- 16:51SPEAKER_00: And she explains that when you're writing nonfiction,
- 16:54SPEAKER_00: like good kind of nonfiction,
- 16:55SPEAKER_00: not like academic dissertations.
- 16:58SPEAKER_00: Unfortunately, my dissertation is not good nonfiction.
- 17:01It's not something that people are going to find pleasure
- 17:04reading unless you're
- 17:05SPEAKER_00: just insane,
- 17:06SPEAKER_00: over-the-top academic kind of person or whatever.
- 17:09SPEAKER_02: I'll read it, Griffin.
- 17:10SPEAKER_00: Oh, thanks, man.
- 17:10SPEAKER_00: You'll be one of the four people who read it.
- 17:12SPEAKER_00: I appreciate that.
- 17:15SPEAKER_00: But she was saying that...
- 17:17SPEAKER_00: If you're actually trying to create good nonfiction,
- 17:20the point is not that you assemble good facts or that you
- 17:24assemble good insights.
- 17:26SPEAKER_00: You have to frame it in terms of a story.
- 17:28SPEAKER_00: That just is the most important part.
- 17:31SPEAKER_00: I mean she was right.
- 17:33SPEAKER_00: I mean just looking at the stuff that she was putting out –
- 17:35SPEAKER_00: In terms of nonfiction, I think she's on Substack as well.
- 17:38SPEAKER_00: But even just in terms of other theological writers that I enjoy,
- 17:41SPEAKER_00: other psychological writers and stuff that I enjoy,
- 17:44SPEAKER_00: no matter what,
- 17:45SPEAKER_00: the best books,
- 17:46SPEAKER_00: the best stories,
- 17:46SPEAKER_00: the best forms of writing are always built around some sort of narrative.
- 17:50SPEAKER_00: They are never just...
- 17:51content dumping like this person said this or this theologian
- 17:54said this just fact
- 17:55after fact after fact after fact which is honestly how i did
- 17:59most of my writing up
- 18:00until that point i just was like let's just get to the the
- 18:02facts or the quotes
- 18:03which is the bread and butter of everything um so when i
- 18:07realized that i started
- 18:10I started thinking like I have to – if I'm going to do
- 18:12nonfiction that people
- 18:13SPEAKER_00: actually do want to read as opposed to an academic dissertation,
- 18:16SPEAKER_00: I have to frame it in terms of a story.
- 18:18So when I'm thinking about Substack,
- 18:20I usually will start with an idea that I really liked.
- 18:25So it will be something like Miroslav Volf released a book
- 18:29about striving for superiority.
- 18:30SPEAKER_00: He talks about how people are really obsessed with achievement.
- 18:33SPEAKER_00: They want to outdo one another in one way or another.
- 18:35SPEAKER_00: And then I'll connect that with a story of –
- 18:39um my own struggle with wanting to strive for superiority and
- 18:43then i'll connect it
- 18:44with another analogy that frames it within a larger narrative
- 18:47and then it's like
- 18:48okay that's how i formulate an actual essay in that sense
- 18:51because you know if i
- 18:53because it's like i i personally just find the stuff about
- 18:57miroslav wolf and what
- 18:58he said here about striving for superiority to me i'm like that
- 19:01is the best stuff
- 19:02but i'm like i know i cannot just get people to read something
- 19:06about that like
- 19:07SPEAKER_00: I have to frame it.
- 19:08SPEAKER_00: Here's an intro story.
- 19:09SPEAKER_00: Here's another little story after that to like,
- 19:12SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 19:12SPEAKER_00: sandwich it or whatever you want to call it.
- 19:14SPEAKER_00: And yeah,
- 19:15SPEAKER_00: even with writing for Christianity today,
- 19:18SPEAKER_00: that was a big thing with a lot of their editors.
- 19:20SPEAKER_00: Like, you know, when I was emailing with them,
- 19:23SPEAKER_00: They were like, we love your idea, but you have to put it in a story.
- 19:27SPEAKER_00: You have to put it in a narrative or else it's just not going to work.
- 19:31SPEAKER_00: Anyways,
- 19:31that was just a long-winded way to say that I do borrow a lot
- 19:34from my PhD for when
- 19:35SPEAKER_00: I'm writing on Substack,
- 19:36SPEAKER_00: when I'm writing for other publications,
- 19:38SPEAKER_00: but in general,
- 19:39SPEAKER_00: the biggest difference is
- 19:41When I'm actually trying to write something that will appeal to
- 19:44people's hearts,
- 19:45SPEAKER_00: their emotions,
- 19:46SPEAKER_00: or actually draw people into something beautiful,
- 19:49SPEAKER_00: I have to find a good story.
- 19:51SPEAKER_00: But once all those things fall into place, then I'm like, we're good.
- 19:55SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's such a good point.
- 19:57SPEAKER_02: And I think it helps not only just in writing,
- 19:59SPEAKER_02: but I would even say like in my context,
- 20:01SPEAKER_02: in my vocation,
- 20:03SPEAKER_02: which I prepare and deliver weekly sermons,
- 20:07SPEAKER_02: I'm always – I always try and gear myself up for them.
- 20:10SPEAKER_02: But like on the Sundays when I can –
- 20:13when that's like an easy story to unfold,
- 20:16I'm a little bit more amped for it,
- 20:17I have to say.
- 20:18SPEAKER_02: But that's what I'm always trying to do is figure out what's the story,
- 20:22SPEAKER_02: even within,
- 20:23SPEAKER_02: you could say,
- 20:23SPEAKER_02: like a text like in,
- 20:25SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 20:25SPEAKER_02: like Philippians or like Colossians,
- 20:29figuring out and deciphering what the story is behind what Paul
- 20:33is saying and why
- 20:34SPEAKER_02: he's saying these things to these people in this time and
- 20:37because that story is always going to come across way more
- 20:41profound or resonant
- 20:42SPEAKER_02: than if I were to just say,
- 20:43SPEAKER_02: here's what this verse means and here's how it applies to you.
- 20:46It's not like you said,
- 20:47it's not just an information dump,
- 20:49but you're conveying a story.
- 20:50And I think what's so helpful about that point is the fact that
- 20:53this is always how
- 20:55SPEAKER_02: the gospel has been conveyed.
- 20:57SPEAKER_02: Like if you go back...
- 20:58From like the time of Abraham all the way through to like David
- 21:02and all the way
- 21:03SPEAKER_02: down to even when Christ is,
- 21:05SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 21:06SPEAKER_02: is on the road to Emmaus with the two unnamed disciples there in Luke 24.
- 21:10It's always revolving around the story that God has kind of
- 21:15woven into history
- 21:17SPEAKER_02: through scripture.
- 21:18SPEAKER_02: And I think that's what's so key is keeping the narrative and the story,
- 21:24SPEAKER_02: which is usually centered,
- 21:25SPEAKER_02: almost always centered around Christ,
- 21:27SPEAKER_02: keeping that at the forefront.
- 21:28SPEAKER_02: So in our writing or in our preaching,
- 21:31SPEAKER_02: story is what drives truth and what drives,
- 21:34SPEAKER_02: I would even say,
- 21:36SPEAKER_02: change if you're trying to compel people.
- 21:38Or if you're trying to persuade them to change their minds
- 21:42about a certain thing or
- 21:43to be convicted about a certain thing or to be comforted in a
- 21:47certain thing,
- 21:48SPEAKER_02: story is what is going to be the most powerful sort of vehicle for that.
- 21:53absolutely yeah i mean i can't remember with the sorry i just
- 21:57saw the hermeneutics
- 21:58class so i really should have this off the top of my head but i
- 22:01think it's like 58
- 22:03of the bible is narrative or something i'm not sure what the
- 22:05exact ratio is but
- 22:07there's a reason why so much of it is in narrative it's because
- 22:10like that transit
- 22:11SPEAKER_00: like if i can't remember who said this but it was one of the um
- 22:16SPEAKER_00: One of the big atheists from the early 2000s,
- 22:19SPEAKER_00: they were making this complaint about the Bible where they were saying,
- 22:22SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 22:23I would believe the Bible if they had E equals MC squared
- 22:27written somewhere in
- 22:27SPEAKER_00: there or like a theory of,
- 22:29SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 22:29SPEAKER_00: relativity of magnetism or whatever,
- 22:31SPEAKER_00: just made up something there,
- 22:33SPEAKER_00: my bad.
- 22:34SPEAKER_00: But he was just saying,
- 22:36then I would believe the Bible if something as prescient as
- 22:39those things was
- 22:39SPEAKER_00: implanted in there.
- 22:41SPEAKER_00: And one of the responses that I saw to this,
- 22:43SPEAKER_00: I think Justin Brierley said it,
- 22:45SPEAKER_00: but he was like,
- 22:46SPEAKER_00: if the Bible had written E equals MZ squared in there,
- 22:50it would not have made sense to anyone in history or culture up
- 22:54until 1911.
- 22:57SPEAKER_00: It would never have made sense.
- 22:59SPEAKER_00: It would be just a ridiculous thing to ask.
- 23:02SPEAKER_00: And so one of the things about the Bible,
- 23:03SPEAKER_00: about just the narrative of the gospel in general,
- 23:05SPEAKER_00: is that it is in the form that transcends all cultures,
- 23:09SPEAKER_00: all education levels,
- 23:11SPEAKER_00: all everything.
- 23:12SPEAKER_00: It's like,
- 23:12SPEAKER_00: yeah,
- 23:12you can get a PhD in this stuff and you can learn it so deeply
- 23:15and have all of
- 23:16SPEAKER_00: these different realms and levels of understanding to it.
- 23:19SPEAKER_00: But at the same time,
- 23:20you can have no educational background and you can hear the
- 23:23story of the Pharisee
- 23:24SPEAKER_00: and the tax collector.
- 23:25And it actually impacts you in your heart because you see that
- 23:28humility that the
- 23:30tax collector has and how it actually changes his heart and
- 23:33turns him into
- 23:33SPEAKER_00: something.
- 23:34SPEAKER_00: It turns him away from his wickedness,
- 23:36SPEAKER_00: his self-centeredness and actually helps him see beyond that.
- 23:39SPEAKER_00: It's like everyone can get that.
- 23:41SPEAKER_02: That's so good.
- 23:43SPEAKER_02: It reminds me of one of my favorite theological books,
- 23:47SPEAKER_02: which is Sally Lloyd-Jones' The Jesus Storybook Bible.
- 23:50SPEAKER_02: Have you ever read that?
- 23:54SPEAKER_01: No, I haven't.
- 23:56SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah.
- 23:57SPEAKER_02: So the introduction to this kid's Bible,
- 23:59SPEAKER_02: which is The Jesus Storybook Bible,
- 24:01SPEAKER_02: the introduction that Sally Lloyd-Jones writes is,
- 24:04SPEAKER_02: I think,
- 24:04SPEAKER_02: one of the most pointedly profound pieces of writing in terms of
- 24:10what the Bible is,
- 24:12which is,
- 24:12it's all a story and it all revolves around Jesus,
- 24:15of course.
- 24:16SPEAKER_02: And like,
- 24:16SPEAKER_02: she makes this case in a really childlike way,
- 24:20but I think that's what makes it so profound is that the whole
- 24:23Bible tells one
- 24:24SPEAKER_02: story and it's all about Jesus.
- 24:26SPEAKER_02: And that's what,
- 24:26SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 24:27all of the pages of the rest of this Jesus storybook Bible are
- 24:29going to show is how
- 24:30SPEAKER_02: it's always pointed to Jesus.
- 24:31SPEAKER_02: But I always go back to that because
- 24:34SPEAKER_02: There's a reason why – so another tangent.
- 24:38I preached on – I preached through the books of 1 and 2 Kings
- 24:42like a year – two
- 24:43SPEAKER_02: years ago or so,
- 24:45which is kind of daunting because they cover so much history
- 24:48within the Old
- 24:49SPEAKER_02: Testament.
- 24:49But what's even more fascinating is the fact that they skip
- 24:53like books of history.
- 24:55SPEAKER_02: There's large gaps of history that are not recorded in those books,
- 24:58SPEAKER_02: which is purposeful because –
- 25:01SPEAKER_02: the Bible is not a history book.
- 25:03SPEAKER_02: It's not a science book.
- 25:04SPEAKER_02: It's not a math book.
- 25:05SPEAKER_02: It's not an ethics book.
- 25:06SPEAKER_02: Even the Bible is a book of revelation.
- 25:09SPEAKER_02: And that story,
- 25:10which reveals Christ is what is most paramount and prevailing
- 25:14through everything.
- 25:15And when you,
- 25:15when you kind of like come to that realization,
- 25:18that's kind of what like unlocks,
- 25:20the Bible in a way,
- 25:21because now we understand that there's one narrative being
- 25:24told.
- 25:24And that's why this story is included in this other piece of
- 25:27history is not because
- 25:29SPEAKER_02: there's a narrative that's driving what's being recorded.
- 25:32SPEAKER_02: And I think that that's so helpful.
- 25:33SPEAKER_02: And that narrative always, you know, drives us to see the redeemer.
- 25:38SPEAKER_00: I love it, man.
- 25:39SPEAKER_00: But so is that it's an, isn't it?
- 25:41SPEAKER_00: It's an adult book, but it's written in
- 25:44SPEAKER_00: child.
- 25:44SPEAKER_00: No, it's a kid's book.
- 25:45SPEAKER_00: Oh, it is.
- 25:46SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 25:46SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 25:47SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 25:47SPEAKER_02: The Jesus storybook Bible.
- 25:48SPEAKER_02: I'll, uh, I'll send, I love it, man.
- 25:50SPEAKER_02: And I'll put the link in the notes because it,
- 25:52SPEAKER_02: it,
- 25:52SPEAKER_02: like I say that facetiously,
- 25:53SPEAKER_02: like my favorite theological book is the Jesus storybook Bible.
- 25:56SPEAKER_02: Um,
- 25:56SPEAKER_02: but I also say it,
- 25:58SPEAKER_02: uh,
- 25:58SPEAKER_02: somewhat pointedly too,
- 25:59SPEAKER_02: because,
- 26:00SPEAKER_02: uh,
- 26:01SPEAKER_02: if you read it,
- 26:02SPEAKER_02: sadly,
- 26:02SPEAKER_02: the joy,
- 26:03SPEAKER_02: sadly,
- 26:03SPEAKER_02: Lloyd joins,
- 26:03SPEAKER_02: goes through all these like,
- 26:05SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 26:05SPEAKER_02: high,
- 26:06SPEAKER_02: like,
- 26:06SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 26:06SPEAKER_02: bird's eye view of like the Bible and she's explaining it for kids.
- 26:10SPEAKER_02: I can read it with my, you know,
- 26:12with my six-year-old and my eight-year-old and they would get
- 26:14it but it's also
- 26:16really profound because she's simplifying these stories in such
- 26:19a way where you get
- 26:20like the kernel of it you get the you get the core truth of all
- 26:24these stories um
- 26:25which again is the one story that god is telling throughout
- 26:29history and time that
- 26:31SPEAKER_02: man needs a savior and that savior is christ and i think it's
- 26:34It's just such a fresh reminder to see how that story is woven
- 26:40throughout all these
- 26:40SPEAKER_02: different events and these crises that unfold in the Bible.
- 26:45SPEAKER_02: But yeah, regardless.
- 26:46SPEAKER_02: Definitely read that if you haven't yet.
- 26:48SPEAKER_02: It's really good.
- 26:51SPEAKER_02: Okay, you won me over.
- 26:53SPEAKER_02: Let's just talk a little bit more about Substack.
- 26:55Okay.
- 26:57SPEAKER_02: Good.
- 26:57Let's talk a little bit more about Substack because that's what
- 26:59everyone wants to talk about.
- 27:02SPEAKER_02: We can go ahead and say it, Griff.
- 27:04SPEAKER_02: I think you're a little bit Substack famous now.
- 27:07You've had some pieces go viral,
- 27:11your Comer piece or whatever,
- 27:14or even your one on prayer.
- 27:18SPEAKER_02: So for aspiring writers, what are some things that you can kind of
- 27:24what are some of your best practices so to speak or what are
- 27:28some ways in which you
- 27:28can kind of help others who are trying to um you know you know
- 27:33they have like 100
- 27:34subscribers or whatever maybe even less uh what are some ways
- 27:37that you can say like
- 27:39hey just keep writing or whatever what are some of the best
- 27:41practices or ways in
- 27:42SPEAKER_02: which you've you've found success when you've hit writer's block even
- 27:47SPEAKER_00: Oh, man.
- 27:49SPEAKER_00: So,
- 27:49SPEAKER_00: I mean,
- 27:49SPEAKER_00: just strictly just for the art of writing itself,
- 27:52SPEAKER_00: I would say there's the book On Writing Well by William Zinsser,
- 27:57SPEAKER_00: I believe.
- 27:57SPEAKER_00: That one's incredible.
- 27:59SPEAKER_00: Then A Swim in the Pond in the Rain by George Saunders.
- 28:03SPEAKER_00: Those two books are so inspiring.
- 28:06SPEAKER_00: Actually, I would also throw in Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott.
- 28:10SPEAKER_00: That is one that you will just have so much fun with.
- 28:12SPEAKER_00: And these three specifically just deal with the art of writing itself.
- 28:16SPEAKER_00: I mean, they helps me sort of see that there's so much more than just –
- 28:23Especially in Bird by Bird,
- 28:25she has all these jokes where it's like she would teach
- 28:27writers.
- 28:28SPEAKER_00: She would have these writing cohorts and stuff like that.
- 28:32SPEAKER_00: She would teach them.
- 28:33SPEAKER_00: The point is not to get published.
- 28:35SPEAKER_00: The point is actually just to enjoy the art of writing.
- 28:37SPEAKER_00: Then students would immediately ask, okay, but how do you get published?
- 28:41SPEAKER_00: How do I get an agent?
- 28:42SPEAKER_00: How do I get published?
- 28:44And there was something about that that was so funny because in
- 28:47all of the stuff
- 28:48SPEAKER_00: that I kind of knew about writing,
- 28:49SPEAKER_00: it was like,
- 28:50SPEAKER_00: okay,
- 28:51SPEAKER_00: the goal is just to get published and there is nothing beyond that.
- 28:54But it just helped me see that you have to actually enjoy the
- 28:57craft for its own
- 28:59purpose or else you're just going to kind of burn out and not
- 29:01have fun with it and
- 29:02SPEAKER_00: also just not create a beautiful,
- 29:04SPEAKER_00: beautiful product at the end of the day.
- 29:06SPEAKER_00: And, um,
- 29:07Okay,
- 29:07so those three really helped out specifically,
- 29:09which is learning how to write well.
- 29:11And then for online writing specifically,
- 29:14because it's a totally different thing.
- 29:15SPEAKER_00: I mean,
- 29:16SPEAKER_00: if you're trying to write just online in general,
- 29:20SPEAKER_00: you're not going to be wanting to write Ulysses by James Joyce.
- 29:23You're not going to want to be writing with the prose of Dallas
- 29:26Willard or something like that.
- 29:27SPEAKER_00: I love Dallas Willard, but he is just not...
- 29:30if you started the Substack i'm not sure how his pieces would go
- 29:34it's just it's not
- 29:34the kind of digestible stuff that an online audience would
- 29:38really go for all
- 29:39respect to him he's one of my favorites um but three books for
- 29:43that uh i can't
- 29:44remember the author's names but uh write useful books which
- 29:48might sound paradoxical
- 29:49because i'm talking about online writing but if you read it
- 29:52it'll make sense it's
- 29:52SPEAKER_00: like
- 29:53It's basically how to write the kind of content that people
- 29:56will recommend or share
- 29:59SPEAKER_00: or want to read more.
- 30:00And so,
- 30:01I mean,
- 30:01just really ask basic questions about why you're writing what
- 30:04you're writing.
- 30:05SPEAKER_00: So just to frame it up in like a Christian world example,
- 30:09SPEAKER_00: the guy's not a Christian,
- 30:10SPEAKER_00: but for a Christian world example,
- 30:13SPEAKER_00: it's like,
- 30:13SPEAKER_00: okay,
- 30:13SPEAKER_00: you want to write a book on prayer.
- 30:15SPEAKER_00: Think about every other book that has been written about prayer.
- 30:18SPEAKER_00: What about your book makes it unique in any way?
- 30:22What do you have to offer that would actually make people want
- 30:25to recommend your
- 30:26book as opposed to every other one of the books about prayer
- 30:30that have come out for
- 30:31SPEAKER_00: the last 2,000 years?
- 30:32SPEAKER_00: And just asking simple questions like that.
- 30:34Take this with a Substack or Writing for Christianity Today or
- 30:40any of these other publications.
- 30:42SPEAKER_00: It's like...
- 30:43if you're writing a piece are there other pieces that are
- 30:45better than that that you
- 30:47could just recommend people to and so it's like how can you
- 30:50actually create
- 30:50something unique that people would actually enjoy for its own
- 30:53merit and that if
- 30:54people are looking for a reference like you know people are
- 30:57like hey do you know a
- 30:58good book about prayer or do you know a good article about
- 31:00prayer what would make
- 31:01your article one that they would actually send to them as
- 31:05opposed to prayer by tim
- 31:06SPEAKER_00: keller or you know just one of these other books or articles about prayer
- 31:11SPEAKER_00: So that one was really good for that kind of thing.
- 31:13SPEAKER_00: And then Smart Brevity, I don't do this well.
- 31:16SPEAKER_00: But these guys, just perfect advice just for online writing.
- 31:22They give you just such good advice about how to trim
- 31:25everything down to its barest possible.
- 31:29SPEAKER_00: denominator or whatever you want to call it.
- 31:31SPEAKER_00: It's just so actually helpful for that and help.
- 31:34SPEAKER_00: And it gives you a good grip of the average attention span that most,
- 31:38SPEAKER_00: most readers,
- 31:39SPEAKER_00: especially online spaces are,
- 31:42SPEAKER_00: um,
- 31:42SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 31:42SPEAKER_00: are,
- 31:44SPEAKER_00: especially in the online spaces that they have, right?
- 31:46SPEAKER_00: So,
- 31:46SPEAKER_00: I mean,
- 31:47there's some statistics in there where it's like the average
- 31:51person only spends,
- 31:53SPEAKER_00: I think,
- 31:5426 seconds on any page that they open on the entire internet
- 31:58and all of the
- 31:59SPEAKER_00: browsers,
- 32:00SPEAKER_00: an average of 26 seconds.
- 32:02SPEAKER_00: And so it's like,
- 32:02SPEAKER_00: okay,
- 32:03SPEAKER_00: if you're writing a subtext post,
- 32:05SPEAKER_00: that's going to be at least like,
- 32:06SPEAKER_00: what,
- 32:06SPEAKER_00: a 14-minute read or something like that.
- 32:08SPEAKER_00: You're like...
- 32:09SPEAKER_00: How can I literally trick this person into wasting more time here?
- 32:14SPEAKER_00: Is there anything I can do to actually hook them into that?
- 32:17It gives a very realistic estimation of how you should go about
- 32:21online writing
- 32:22because it just tells you these are the statistics and the
- 32:26research about how bored
- 32:27people get or how naturally bored people get and how fast they
- 32:31get uninterested or
- 32:33SPEAKER_00: that they want to back out of the webpage.
- 32:35And the third one is,
- 32:37um,
- 32:37the art and business of online writing by Nicholas Cole.
- 32:42SPEAKER_00: And this one is also a little bit humbling because this guy,
- 32:45SPEAKER_00: uh,
- 32:45SPEAKER_00: Nicholas Cole,
- 32:46SPEAKER_00: he's apparently the most read,
- 32:49SPEAKER_00: um,
- 32:50SPEAKER_00: online writer out of anyone on the entire internet.
- 32:52SPEAKER_00: But I had no idea who would, I'd never heard his name before.
- 32:56which is very either till just now yeah which is so interesting
- 32:59because like i
- 32:59think out of all the writers on the whole internet he's been
- 33:02read the most but i
- 33:04could not tell you who he was like it's it's never crossed my
- 33:08mind before and so i
- 33:09think it's like a good estimation like it's it's like a
- 33:11humbling reality that it's
- 33:13like if i'm going to be a writer i should not expect like any
- 33:17sort of like fame or
- 33:18SPEAKER_00: anything like that
- 33:19anyway so his book is just super practical it gives you like
- 33:22actual ideas about how
- 33:24you can go about writing well online and then even gives you
- 33:28some of the more like
- 33:29practical ends of hey you're probably not going to get rich or
- 33:33rich very easily he
- 33:34does give you a little bit of a plan but it's like i don't know
- 33:37how easy that is to
- 33:37pull off he seems like he was just preternaturally gifted in
- 33:40that way um but
- 33:42SPEAKER_00: anyways those six books fantastic um
- 33:46SPEAKER_00: And then just like also you have to read yourself,
- 33:50which is another thing that I always tell people is like you
- 33:53have to read yourself
- 33:54SPEAKER_00: because if you read yourself,
- 33:56SPEAKER_00: you know what's good and you know what's not.
- 33:58SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 33:58SPEAKER_00: if you read one book a year,
- 34:00SPEAKER_00: it's going to be very hard for you to be able to tell yourself.
- 34:02like what is actually good reading and what is actually good
- 34:05writing um as opposed
- 34:07to somebody who's you know reading you know a few books a month
- 34:09or something like
- 34:10that because as you read a book as you read more articles as
- 34:13you read anything you
- 34:14consume more um you know written content or whatever you want
- 34:18to call it you start
- 34:19to understand okay i enjoy this and i can identify the things
- 34:22about this that i
- 34:23SPEAKER_00: enjoy i'm locked in i know what's good i know what i like about this
- 34:28SPEAKER_00: And so then when you're actually,
- 34:30SPEAKER_00: when you actually get it to your own writing,
- 34:32SPEAKER_00: you just look at it and you say,
- 34:34SPEAKER_00: do I actually like this?
- 34:35SPEAKER_00: This is actually what I do for a full week before I post something.
- 34:39SPEAKER_00: This is actually what I do.
- 34:40SPEAKER_00: It's like, I'm not really doing much editing.
- 34:42SPEAKER_00: All the research is done.
- 34:43SPEAKER_00: I just read it over and over and again.
- 34:44SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, do I actually like this?
- 34:47Like if I was a reader,
- 34:49would I actually be interested in what's going on here?
- 34:52And I usually end up having to cut out like a thousand words
- 34:54because I'm like,
- 34:55there's
- 34:55SPEAKER_00: I would lose interest in this if I was there.
- 34:59SPEAKER_00: So anyways, that's just my process.
- 35:02SPEAKER_00: I'd probably overthink it, but that's what I like to do.
- 35:05SPEAKER_02: I think writers and overthinkers are the same people all the time.
- 35:11SPEAKER_02: They go hand in hand in a lot of ways.
- 35:13SPEAKER_02: So to that end,
- 35:15SPEAKER_02: what is something that really just – it's that proverbial saying,
- 35:19SPEAKER_02: what gets you up in the morning when it comes to writing?
- 35:21SPEAKER_02: What is that thing that just drives you?
- 35:24SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 35:24SPEAKER_02: because you like you,
- 35:26SPEAKER_02: you've kind of carved out a little niche for yourself and there's a,
- 35:30SPEAKER_02: there's a,
- 35:31SPEAKER_02: like,
- 35:31SPEAKER_02: I know what I'm,
- 35:32I know what I'm going to get now when I read a Griffin Grouch
- 35:35piece in some ways,
- 35:36SPEAKER_02: not like all the time,
- 35:37SPEAKER_02: but like,
- 35:37SPEAKER_02: I can kind of like,
- 35:39SPEAKER_02: I don't know where you're going with certain things,
- 35:42SPEAKER_02: but like,
- 35:42SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 35:42SPEAKER_02: I kind of,
- 35:43SPEAKER_02: I'm,
- 35:43SPEAKER_02: I'm gearing up for a certain thing.
- 35:45SPEAKER_02: So what's that like morsel that you can't wait to like,
- 35:48SPEAKER_02: like get at,
- 35:49SPEAKER_02: but I'll then also deliver to the people that you hope read.
- 35:53SPEAKER_00: Oh man.
- 35:54SPEAKER_00: So I,
- 35:54SPEAKER_00: uh,
- 35:55I actually don't love the posting of an article or getting
- 35:59things published as much
- 36:01SPEAKER_00: because,
- 36:01SPEAKER_00: uh,
- 36:02SPEAKER_00: the second it's like out there in the world,
- 36:04it's no longer like a creation that you like can like work on
- 36:09and move all the
- 36:10SPEAKER_00: parts around.
- 36:11SPEAKER_00: It's not just out there in the world.
- 36:12SPEAKER_00: And so now it's victims to public, uh, reception.
- 36:15SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 36:17SPEAKER_00: Which I've always found to be the most difficult part about it.
- 36:20SPEAKER_00: Because it's like, you know, you might get some hate on something.
- 36:24Or,
- 36:24I mean,
- 36:24even worse than getting like a negative reaction is just
- 36:28getting no reaction.
- 36:29SPEAKER_00: So it's like, oh man.
- 36:31SPEAKER_00: It's just like a huge dopamine deficit or something like that.
- 36:35SPEAKER_02: You'd rather it be visceral one way or the other.
- 36:37SPEAKER_02: Yeah, of course.
- 36:39SPEAKER_00: It's like at least people know that they felt something,
- 36:41SPEAKER_00: but if you're just like absolutely nothing happens with them whatsoever,
- 36:44SPEAKER_00: it's just – puts you in this weird limbo.
- 36:47SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so the thing that gets me –
- 36:50SPEAKER_00: I mean, I don't know.
- 36:51SPEAKER_00: This is a huge side trail to take things down,
- 36:53SPEAKER_00: but I mean,
- 36:54I know that I'm supposed to write because people have given me
- 36:57so many prophetic
- 36:58SPEAKER_00: words in my life that I'm,
- 37:00SPEAKER_00: this is just what I'm supposed to do.
- 37:01SPEAKER_00: And so even though it's not like,
- 37:02SPEAKER_00: I don't,
- 37:03SPEAKER_00: I'm not banking on it,
- 37:05SPEAKER_00: like paying the bills or anything like that.
- 37:07SPEAKER_00: So I'm,
- 37:07SPEAKER_00: but I just make sure that no matter what happens,
- 37:10SPEAKER_00: I am writing because it's like,
- 37:11SPEAKER_00: this is what I was called to do.
- 37:13SPEAKER_00: Like I, I, people have told me, Hey, this, I've heard this from the Lord.
- 37:17SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 37:18If you want to receive it,
- 37:19receive it,
- 37:20but you are going to be a writer one day.
- 37:22SPEAKER_00: I'm like,
- 37:22SPEAKER_00: cool,
- 37:23SPEAKER_00: that's great,
- 37:23SPEAKER_00: but I'm going to get my PhD in this,
- 37:25have a professor job or something like that because I'm not
- 37:28sure if I can support a
- 37:29SPEAKER_00: family off of like $6 a month off subsack or whatever.
- 37:35SPEAKER_00: But also just having that knowledge of that calling,
- 37:39just that understanding that other people in my life have
- 37:43affirmed this over me.
- 37:44SPEAKER_00: They believe that the Lord has spoken this over my life.
- 37:47It gives me such an insane amount of pleasure to be able to get
- 37:50up every morning
- 37:51SPEAKER_00: before I go to my actual day job.
- 37:53And to work on something,
- 37:55to write something,
- 37:55to contribute to something.
- 37:57SPEAKER_00: It literally just feels like a kavod or like the weight of God's glory.
- 38:02SPEAKER_00: I mean, this is such a pretentious example of this.
- 38:06SPEAKER_00: I don't equate myself to Eric Liddell in any way.
- 38:10SPEAKER_00: But Eric Liddell was the chariots of fire.
- 38:12SPEAKER_00: What was it?
- 38:13SPEAKER_00: Do you know what I'm talking about?
- 38:15SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 38:15SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah.
- 38:16SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 38:16SPEAKER_00: Chariots of Fire is the name of it, right?
- 38:18SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 38:18SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 38:19SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 38:19SPEAKER_00: It's a classic movie.
- 38:20SPEAKER_02: That really famous song on the people running on the beach.
- 38:23SPEAKER_00: Oh, perfect.
- 38:24SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 38:24SPEAKER_00: I was just making sure that I got that right.
- 38:26SPEAKER_00: My bad.
- 38:27SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 38:28SPEAKER_00: So he had this thing where he's like – I mean he was a famous runner.
- 38:31SPEAKER_00: He was one of the greatest runners of all time.
- 38:33SPEAKER_00: He had this line where he's like, when I run, I feel God's pleasure.
- 38:35SPEAKER_00: And me –
- 38:39It just feels so lame to actually even make this comparison
- 38:41even in the slightest.
- 38:42But it's like when I write,
- 38:42it's like I know that this is what I'm supposed to do.
- 38:45SPEAKER_00: Like it just feels so good.
- 38:47It feels like just my brain is on fire and I'm just so happy
- 38:50and just in the
- 38:52SPEAKER_00: moments or like flow or whatever you want to call it.
- 38:55SPEAKER_00: But it is just so much fun.
- 38:57SPEAKER_00: But then the posting it,
- 38:58SPEAKER_00: then I get kind of sad because I'm like,
- 39:00SPEAKER_00: ah,
- 39:00SPEAKER_00: people didn't like it or they were mean about it in some way or another.
- 39:04That is – well,
- 39:06number one,
- 39:06I think that's truly remarkable only because not –
- 39:13I'll say it this way because I can relate only because I know
- 39:17that I'm called to
- 39:18SPEAKER_02: preach God's word.
- 39:20And so the similar things that you're describing are things
- 39:23that I sense or
- 39:25SPEAKER_02: anticipate every Sunday.
- 39:27There's this anxiety that's good when I'm getting ready to
- 39:32preach because I'm excited.
- 39:34It reminds me of when I was back in high school getting ready
- 39:37to play in a basketball game.
- 39:38SPEAKER_02: I'm just like, yeah.
- 39:38SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 39:39SPEAKER_02: And I'm excited.
- 39:40There's like this eager anxiety that's coursing because I can't
- 39:45wait to bring this
- 39:47SPEAKER_02: word to these people.
- 39:49SPEAKER_02: And it's developed for me over time.
- 39:53But the thing that gets me up is just that idea of how can I
- 39:58always show people the
- 40:01SPEAKER_02: certainty of what Christ did for them?
- 40:04And like that's the same thing that drives like the things that
- 40:06I write about too
- 40:07is like I don't want anyone to go to my substack and go away
- 40:10without hearing about
- 40:11SPEAKER_02: Christ and what he did for them.
- 40:13SPEAKER_02: Like that's always what I'm doing.
- 40:14SPEAKER_02: And the same thing is happening when I preach too.
- 40:18SPEAKER_02: Like that's why I'm really – you used the word pretentious.
- 40:22SPEAKER_02: I can use the same word.
- 40:23SPEAKER_02: I'm kind of dogmatic.
- 40:24SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 40:25SPEAKER_02: if you want to use that word in terms of the things I preach about,
- 40:28it's always going to be driven back to that because I don't
- 40:32want to sell people
- 40:33short of what's going to actually give them relief or hope or
- 40:37peace or joy or what
- 40:39SPEAKER_02: is actually going to fill them with
- 40:41SPEAKER_02: It's always Christ.
- 40:43SPEAKER_02: He's always the answer.
- 40:44SPEAKER_02: And so it's truly,
- 40:46SPEAKER_02: yeah,
- 40:48it's definitely a gift of God when that calling is kind of like
- 40:52solidified in you
- 40:54SPEAKER_02: and in your own brain.
- 40:55And it's not like,
- 40:57I don't know about you,
- 40:58but I can't always necessarily point to a moment.
- 41:02I don't know if I have a Damascus Road moment like Paul did
- 41:06when I was like,
- 41:06SPEAKER_02: man,
- 41:07SPEAKER_02: I know I'm supposed to do this,
- 41:08SPEAKER_02: but it's like,
- 41:09SPEAKER_02: I was like,
- 41:11SPEAKER_02: you can talk a little bit about this perhaps,
- 41:13SPEAKER_02: but like,
- 41:14SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 41:14as I was developing my own theological leanings and interests
- 41:18and so on and so
- 41:19SPEAKER_02: forth,
- 41:20SPEAKER_02: there was like all these,
- 41:20SPEAKER_02: I didn't always have an outlet for it.
- 41:23SPEAKER_02: That's what,
- 41:24SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 41:24got me to start writing online because I was looking for a way
- 41:28to explore theology
- 41:30SPEAKER_02: in a way that I could kind of just think out loud about it.
- 41:32SPEAKER_02: And then I was – the more I did that,
- 41:34the more I got into church ministry and church life and all
- 41:37that kind of stuff.
- 41:38SPEAKER_02: And that's where I am now where I've been patterning for six years.
- 41:40And so that same idea is like – would you say that there was
- 41:44like a moment or was
- 41:46it something that kind of developed in you where like I know
- 41:48I'm called to do this?
- 41:50SPEAKER_00: Oh, man.
- 41:51SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 41:52SPEAKER_00: That's a great question.
- 41:53SPEAKER_00: But I'm also – I'm actually going to say it was a little bit of both.
- 41:56SPEAKER_00: So I kind of – I felt called –
- 42:01to write a book on new year's eve of 2019 i think it was and i
- 42:09was like i just felt
- 42:10like i really needed to write a book um so from that moment it
- 42:15was like i need to
- 42:16get serious about writing and it was very slow very lazy did
- 42:20not make a lot of
- 42:21SPEAKER_00: progress with it or anything like that
- 42:23SPEAKER_00: But then when I,
- 42:25SPEAKER_00: the week before I was,
- 42:27SPEAKER_00: this is the big inciting,
- 42:29SPEAKER_00: yeah,
- 42:29SPEAKER_00: the big inciting incident,
- 42:31SPEAKER_00: which is like a narrative plot line.
- 42:32SPEAKER_00: This is the inciting incident.
- 42:34SPEAKER_02: In the hero's journey, right?
- 42:36SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 42:38SPEAKER_00: So the week before my wife and I were going to get married,
- 42:40SPEAKER_00: so this was May of 2021,
- 42:44SPEAKER_00: my wife's dad,
- 42:45SPEAKER_00: I married a PK,
- 42:46SPEAKER_00: so the head pastor of our church called me to his office.
- 42:50SPEAKER_00: And he told me that he had something for me.
- 42:53SPEAKER_00: And he told me this story about how when my wife,
- 42:57SPEAKER_00: Tiffany,
- 42:58SPEAKER_00: was in high school,
- 43:00SPEAKER_00: he was scrolling through eBay.
- 43:01And my father-in-law,
- 43:03he collects really nice pens,
- 43:05like Mont Blanc pens and stuff like that.
- 43:08SPEAKER_00: He was just very interested in that kind of stuff.
- 43:11SPEAKER_00: He saw this pen that was made by Tiffany & Co.
- 43:15SPEAKER_00: I think it was made during World War II or something like that.
- 43:19And he felt that the Holy Spirit told him to buy that pen for
- 43:25Tiffany's future
- 43:26SPEAKER_00: husband because he was going to be a writer.
- 43:28SPEAKER_00: And so the week before we got married, he gives me this pen.
- 43:33SPEAKER_00: He's like,
- 43:34you are going to be a writer and you should use this pen just
- 43:37to write love notes
- 43:38SPEAKER_00: to Tiffany.
- 43:39SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 43:39And that was so shocking to me because I mean I was like 22 at
- 43:43the time or something like that.
- 43:44And the idea that just before that I had also started like
- 43:48writing like slightly on
- 43:50SPEAKER_00: there,
- 43:51SPEAKER_00: it just – just the chances of that were just astronomical.
- 43:54Like it just – it still blows my mind even as I'm just thinking
- 43:56about it right now.
- 43:58And so that was the big incident where I was like I actually
- 44:01have to get serious about this.
- 44:02SPEAKER_00: This is –
- 44:04SPEAKER_00: it started turning into this thing where it's like,
- 44:06SPEAKER_00: if I don't write,
- 44:07then I felt like I was actually dishonoring this call that had
- 44:10been placed on my
- 44:11SPEAKER_00: life.
- 44:12SPEAKER_00: Um, so that was the big one.
- 44:13SPEAKER_00: And then a lot of just other tiny ones came after that.
- 44:17But then slowly but surely,
- 44:18um,
- 44:20I got to a point where I'm just more like confident.
- 44:22SPEAKER_00: Like I'm, I'm more, I'm less insecure about it now.
- 44:25SPEAKER_00: I'm more just like, this is what I'm called to do.
- 44:27And so I'm just going to do it and I'm going to have a lot of
- 44:30joy in the process.
- 44:32SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's, man, that's, that's awesome.
- 44:35SPEAKER_02: What a great, like affirming event for you.
- 44:38SPEAKER_02: But then also you talk about the process of writing.
- 44:41SPEAKER_02: What is like,
- 44:44SPEAKER_02: you don't have to necessarily share your whole process,
- 44:46SPEAKER_02: but like,
- 44:46SPEAKER_02: what's,
- 44:47SPEAKER_02: what's your process when you're thinking about a piece like,
- 44:49SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 44:50you said you kind of take and use and remix maybe some of your
- 44:52own stuff from your
- 44:54SPEAKER_02: research,
- 44:54SPEAKER_02: but like,
- 44:56SPEAKER_02: is it just something that like sticks in your head,
- 44:57like a song you can't get out of and you feel like I got to
- 44:59write about this or
- 45:00SPEAKER_02: like,
- 45:00SPEAKER_02: how does that work?
- 45:02SPEAKER_00: Yeah, no, that's 100%.
- 45:02SPEAKER_00: That's absolutely it.
- 45:03SPEAKER_00: It's...
- 45:07i i can't remember who it was but there was this one film
- 45:09director might have been
- 45:11quentin tarantino or something like that but he was just
- 45:14talking about his process
- 45:15of making films and he was just saying uh the way that they
- 45:18materialize is that
- 45:19just something comes in their mind and it's like you cannot
- 45:22stop thinking about
- 45:23that until it's like out and so he would like draft his movie
- 45:26and he's like okay
- 45:26it's good it's there and now i can like stop thinking about it
- 45:29and just kind of
- 45:29move on and yeah so i mean that's kind of the way what i'm
- 45:32thinking about just
- 45:32SPEAKER_00: writing or um
- 45:34SPEAKER_00: I just submitted a book proposal.
- 45:35So hopefully I'll have one of those out sometime in the next
- 45:38like year or two.
- 45:39SPEAKER_00: But yeah,
- 45:40SPEAKER_00: it's just like this idea where I'm like,
- 45:42SPEAKER_00: I have something there and it like literally needs to come out.
- 45:46And it's like,
- 45:46I'm almost not going to be like happy or enjoy myself until I
- 45:50like put it down.
- 45:51SPEAKER_00: And it's like, I don't need to get it down perfectly.
- 45:53SPEAKER_00: But there's just some days where I'm like,
- 45:54SPEAKER_00: if I don't get this full,
- 45:55SPEAKER_00: just rough draft,
- 45:57SPEAKER_00: just out,
- 45:58SPEAKER_00: then I'm just going to feel agitated.
- 45:59SPEAKER_00: Because there's just something about it where it's like,
- 46:01SPEAKER_00: yeah,
- 46:01SPEAKER_00: you just have to,
- 46:02SPEAKER_00: you just have to do it.
- 46:04and yeah i don't know i don't it's kind of hard to explain or
- 46:09some people can't
- 46:09relate to that they're just like i'm kind of strange or just
- 46:12have odd probabilities
- 46:13SPEAKER_00: or whatever but it's like yeah it's kind of how it works
- 46:17SPEAKER_02: Yeah, no, I totally relate.
- 46:18There's way too many notes on my computer of just really
- 46:23scatterbrained ideas where
- 46:24SPEAKER_02: I'm like,
- 46:24I know I had an idea there like maybe a month or two ago and I
- 46:28go back to it and
- 46:28SPEAKER_02: I'm like,
- 46:28SPEAKER_02: I'm not sure where I was going with that,
- 46:30SPEAKER_02: but I know there was an idea there originally.
- 46:34SPEAKER_00: There's a draft there somewhere.
- 46:35SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 46:36SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 46:36SPEAKER_00: I mean,
- 46:36some of them just confuse me nowadays because I'll have this
- 46:39idea where I'm like,
- 46:40SPEAKER_00: this is going to be,
- 46:42SPEAKER_00: it's like,
- 46:43SPEAKER_00: this is going to be the best thing anyone's ever written.
- 46:46And then I'll look at it like a year later and I'll just have
- 46:48no idea what I was talking about.
- 46:52SPEAKER_02: Here's a question.
- 46:53SPEAKER_02: Have you ever written a piece like for Substack recently or whatever,
- 47:00SPEAKER_02: and you decided not to publish it and you just deleted it totally?
- 47:05SPEAKER_00: Do you mean fully deleted from even my Microsoft Word?
- 47:09SPEAKER_02: No, no.
- 47:10SPEAKER_02: It's still in your drafts folder, but you're not going to publish it.
- 47:14SPEAKER_02: I was just curious.
- 47:15SPEAKER_02: Because I've done that, and I was just curious if anyone else has.
- 47:17SPEAKER_00: Yeah, no.
- 47:21SPEAKER_00: Usually when I get to the point of Substack,
- 47:23SPEAKER_00: like being in there,
- 47:24SPEAKER_00: I'm like,
- 47:24SPEAKER_00: I'm pretty confident about it.
- 47:25SPEAKER_00: But yeah,
- 47:26SPEAKER_00: it has happened probably like three times,
- 47:28SPEAKER_00: I would say,
- 47:28SPEAKER_00: over the course of the past year.
- 47:30but usually I'll stop myself before I get so far as to get too
- 47:34far down the rabbit hole.
- 47:35Once I get like formatted in pictures,
- 47:38I almost feel like I'm in too deep and I have to go on.
- 47:41SPEAKER_02: You can't turn back now.
- 47:42SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 47:44SPEAKER_02: So let's pivot just a little bit.
- 47:47SPEAKER_02: Talk about your journey of faith.
- 47:50SPEAKER_02: You kind of mentioned a little bit about this,
- 47:51SPEAKER_02: I think,
- 47:52in your piece about John Mark Comer and how not only just
- 47:55influential he was on
- 47:56SPEAKER_02: you,
- 47:57but just kind of like you were learning from him also as you
- 48:00were kind of having
- 48:01SPEAKER_02: your theology be developed and so on and so forth.
- 48:04SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 48:04SPEAKER_02: Can I talk about that,
- 48:05SPEAKER_02: how you were kind of your journey of faith,
- 48:07how you were brought to Christianity and kind of like where you
- 48:12are now as opposed
- 48:13SPEAKER_02: to like maybe where you were like six years ago?
- 48:16SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so I was raised in the church vaguely.
- 48:21We went to big Sunday gatherings here and there,
- 48:25I think Christmas and Easter.
- 48:27SPEAKER_00: That was pretty standard.
- 48:29SPEAKER_00: But we weren't really committed.
- 48:30SPEAKER_00: I was never in youth group, had no Bible college or anything like that.
- 48:35SPEAKER_00: I committed to atheism pretty hardcore when I was 13 or 14.
- 48:41SPEAKER_00: Which I know is a weirdly young age to commit to something like that.
- 48:45SPEAKER_00: But I just saw no visible...
- 48:48no visible or even experiential validity in any of the
- 48:53Christianity that I had seen
- 48:54SPEAKER_00: up until that point.
- 48:55SPEAKER_00: Like I had seen people in church talking about Jesus or like the,
- 48:59SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 49:00SPEAKER_00: the Bible and stuff like that,
- 49:01but I'd never seen anyone actually live it out in a way that
- 49:04felt real or tangible
- 49:05SPEAKER_00: or even something that was worth following in any sense.
- 49:09SPEAKER_00: So I committed to atheism around the 13th or 14th.
- 49:11SPEAKER_00: And then I got super into drugs and I got arrested a few times.
- 49:16SPEAKER_00: And then I went to jail several times.
- 49:18SPEAKER_00: And then on the last time that I was in jail,
- 49:20a group of missionaries came into our jail cell and they did
- 49:25this like church
- 49:26SPEAKER_00: service,
- 49:26this just like impromptu church service where they just sang
- 49:29some worship songs on
- 49:29SPEAKER_00: the acoustic guitar and then just gave this message just talking about,
- 49:33SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 49:35SPEAKER_00: offering Jesus like –
- 49:37you know a standard altar call essentially and so uh it just
- 49:42hit me for the first
- 49:43time that this was just real and it was just it just took that
- 49:46moment of being like
- 49:47okay i actually see some genuineness in these missionaries
- 49:50they're giving up their
- 49:51time their energy and their livelihood just to come in here and
- 49:55present this gospel
- 49:56to people who society would deem not worthy of receiving
- 50:00anything right and so um i
- 50:02SPEAKER_00: accepted it in that moment and then when i got out like
- 50:06SPEAKER_00: Like 24 hours after that,
- 50:07I joined a campus ministry and got plugged in and just
- 50:12literally just got so
- 50:13SPEAKER_00: devoted to it.
- 50:14SPEAKER_00: Just an insane amount.
- 50:16SPEAKER_00: I think I joined like three small groups.
- 50:17SPEAKER_00: I was just in it like constantly,
- 50:20SPEAKER_00: like every night of the week and just became so obsessed with it.
- 50:23and i just knew that i was going to do ministry in some form
- 50:25and so i kept up
- 50:28ministry uh related aspirations for like four years i was doing
- 50:32worship leading a
- 50:33lot because i had a lot of background in music and then i moved
- 50:35to los angeles for
- 50:37a worship leader internship at this church and while i was
- 50:41there at this church i
- 50:42SPEAKER_00: strained my vocal cords beyond repair
- 50:45SPEAKER_00: My voice,
- 50:45SPEAKER_00: I don't know what it sounds like on a podcast,
- 50:47SPEAKER_00: but it's much more gravelly and low than it used to be.
- 50:50SPEAKER_00: I can't get it much.
- 50:52The loudest that it's gotten on this podcast is as loud as I
- 50:54can possibly make it in general.
- 50:57SPEAKER_00: It just caps out at a certain point.
- 51:01SPEAKER_00: I had a lot of just existential dread.
- 51:05SPEAKER_00: I could not wrap my mind around why my vocal cords wouldn't heal.
- 51:10SPEAKER_00: I went and saw like three ENT doctors about this and they were like,
- 51:14SPEAKER_00: there's nothing wrong with them necessarily.
- 51:16It just looks like you have the vocal cords of an 80-year-old
- 51:18man rather than a
- 51:19SPEAKER_00: 22-year-old person.
- 51:21SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 51:22SPEAKER_00: Which was not what I wanted to hear.
- 51:24I was hoping there could just be some surgery or some quick
- 51:26fix,
- 51:26but there wasn't.
- 51:27SPEAKER_00: It's just how it is.
- 51:29SPEAKER_00: I had these dreams of becoming a worship leader, totally fell apart.
- 51:34SPEAKER_00: I had to move back home to Michigan.
- 51:37SPEAKER_00: While I was there, I had a lot of doubt.
- 51:42went through a very difficult times trying to reconcile like
- 51:44the god who was loving
- 51:46and just and uh fair and answered prayer and everything like
- 51:49that with like the
- 51:51current reality that i was living through yes so many people
- 51:54have been through
- 51:54worse situations too but i mean just in my short lifetime i was
- 51:58like just a tough
- 51:59SPEAKER_00: situation hard for me to make sense of but um
- 52:03Over the course of just like a few months of just being back
- 52:05home and just trying
- 52:06SPEAKER_00: to figure out like how I could,
- 52:08SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 52:08SPEAKER_00: still honor God with my abilities,
- 52:09I started just getting a little bit more into kind of like the
- 52:13teaching aspect of
- 52:14SPEAKER_00: things,
- 52:15SPEAKER_00: like trying to give more like sermons and talks.
- 52:17SPEAKER_00: I even like taught a few classes at my local church.
- 52:19SPEAKER_00: And then I did also hear about this guy named John Mark Comer,
- 52:23SPEAKER_00: which that really blew my mind in a sense,
- 52:26SPEAKER_00: because up until that point,
- 52:27SPEAKER_00: I had not heard anything.
- 52:29somebody who could articulate the christian faith in a way that
- 52:33was dynamic and
- 52:35transcended just the basic truths of the bible but it also
- 52:39brought in like a
- 52:41SPEAKER_00: cornucopia of all the different aspects of life in the world and academic
- 52:47disciplines and put them all under one banner and showed this
- 52:50beautiful beautiful
- 52:52SPEAKER_00: potential that the gospel could have and
- 52:55I remember that just blew my mind and it still blows my mind to
- 52:58this day.
- 52:59SPEAKER_00: People like John Mark Homer,
- 53:00and there's tons of others who are doing very similar things to
- 53:03him nowadays,
- 53:04SPEAKER_00: but he was the first one that I remember ever hearing.
- 53:06SPEAKER_00: And I just remember that blew my mind.
- 53:08SPEAKER_00: And I was like,
- 53:10SPEAKER_00: if that's even possible to teach like this,
- 53:12SPEAKER_00: and that's even possible to communicate the gospel in a way that's
- 53:17SPEAKER_00: because one of the things that blew my mind about him is like his books,
- 53:20SPEAKER_00: like Ruth,
- 53:21SPEAKER_00: Ruthless elimination of hurry.
- 53:22We're getting read by secular people,
- 53:24like people who were not even following Jesus.
- 53:26They were like,
- 53:27they were reading it as if it was actually going to help them.
- 53:29SPEAKER_00: And so,
- 53:31SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it just blew my mind that that was impossible.
- 53:33SPEAKER_00: And so I was like,
- 53:34SPEAKER_00: if teaching like that or writing like that,
- 53:36SPEAKER_00: communicating like that is even possible,
- 53:38SPEAKER_00: I'm fine with not being a worship leader.
- 53:39SPEAKER_00: I just want to pursue that.
- 53:42SPEAKER_00: And so that's one of the reasons why I got into academia.
- 53:44SPEAKER_00: That's one of the reasons why I started teaching more frequently.
- 53:46SPEAKER_00: And it's one of the reasons why I got more into writing.
- 53:48It was like I want to – it just painted a vision of something
- 53:52that I didn't think
- 53:53SPEAKER_00: was possible up until that point.
- 53:57SPEAKER_02: Yeah,
- 53:57so it's fascinating how God uses these very diverse events in
- 54:04your life to bring
- 54:05SPEAKER_02: you to certain points or like waypoints.
- 54:07SPEAKER_02: You can think about that like rock bottom moment when you're in jail,
- 54:13SPEAKER_02: when you're incarcerated is kind of part of this.
- 54:17SPEAKER_02: And like this is always the thing that is –
- 54:20at once like fascinating but endlessly compelling which is just
- 54:23the fact that we
- 54:25can't always perceive where these sort of junctures are going
- 54:29to be we can only
- 54:30understand or perceive them in hindsight and like we in the
- 54:35moment they feel awful
- 54:37and horrible but in in the hindsight when we can look at them
- 54:41in the aftermath we
- 54:42SPEAKER_02: can understand that
- 54:43SPEAKER_02: Even right there, there was goodness unfolding.
- 54:46SPEAKER_02: There was grace unfolding right in front of you.
- 54:49SPEAKER_02: And I think it's,
- 54:50SPEAKER_02: yeah,
- 54:51that's the kind of stuff that really like just gets me going
- 54:55just because it's
- 54:56amazing how God uses different events to bring people to that
- 55:00same realization to
- 55:02SPEAKER_02: where this,
- 55:04SPEAKER_02: well,
- 55:04SPEAKER_02: what we've been talking about,
- 55:05SPEAKER_02: this story that God has told through the person of his son is,
- 55:10is what brings no matter who you are it brings no matter who
- 55:13you are no matter what
- 55:14you've done no matter what background you have it brings you to
- 55:17this moment of i'm
- 55:18all you need and i'm all you can cling to and like what a great
- 55:22what a great
- 55:23testimony that is that you can share and and now you like the
- 55:27the great platform
- 55:28that that god has graced you with like now we can understand
- 55:31like we can understand
- 55:33what was happening maybe in some small way um and why he's
- 55:36brought you to this
- 55:36SPEAKER_02: point so they have like i'm yeah it's just awesome to hear
- 55:40SPEAKER_02: you testify to that grace in your own life.
- 55:43SPEAKER_02: That's awesome.
- 55:44SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 55:44SPEAKER_00: Thank you so much, man.
- 55:45SPEAKER_00: I really appreciate that.
- 55:46SPEAKER_00: And you're so right.
- 55:48SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 55:49SPEAKER_02: And so let's go here too,
- 55:53SPEAKER_02: because in your,
- 55:54SPEAKER_02: so in your book,
- 55:56SPEAKER_02: Do Not Lose Heart,
- 55:58SPEAKER_02: which you can find on Amazon,
- 56:01SPEAKER_02: you,
- 56:01SPEAKER_02: you describe yourself as a Gen Zer.
- 56:03SPEAKER_02: I don't really know like where the different generations go.
- 56:08SPEAKER_02: You know, I think I'm a millennial.
- 56:10SPEAKER_02: I was born in 1990.
- 56:11SPEAKER_02: So I guess that makes me a little millennial.
- 56:12SPEAKER_02: I don't really know all the things.
- 56:14SPEAKER_02: Um,
- 56:16SPEAKER_02: Okay,
- 56:17SPEAKER_02: let's say you're representing Gen Z.
- 56:23What would you say to the Church of the Millennials or the
- 56:26Church of the Gen Xers?
- 56:28What would you say to them in terms of how your generation's
- 56:33view of faith and
- 56:34SPEAKER_02: religion maybe is...
- 56:37SPEAKER_02: It's the same, but it's also different.
- 56:39SPEAKER_02: I don't know if this relates to John McComber per se,
- 56:42but just how would you say that maybe there's – we don't have
- 56:46to talk about the
- 56:46SPEAKER_02: generational gap if you don't want to.
- 56:49But how would you say maybe there's been a mark that's been
- 56:54missed in terms of how
- 56:55SPEAKER_02: this is communicated or how it could be communicated,
- 56:59SPEAKER_02: if that makes sense?
- 57:01SPEAKER_00: Yeah,
- 57:01so I would love to make a bunch of generalizations about how
- 57:07past generations did
- 57:08SPEAKER_00: church and everything like that,
- 57:09SPEAKER_00: but I don't have a perfect grasp of that or anything like that.
- 57:13But I will say something that I did notice even in my early
- 57:16church experience,
- 57:17SPEAKER_00: like after I had converted to Christianity when I was in early college,
- 57:21SPEAKER_00: and even a little bit beyond that,
- 57:24SPEAKER_00: one of the things I saw that characterized a lot of the
- 57:29not necessarily millennial,
- 57:30but definitely Gen X and baby boomer kind of generation of
- 57:33church.
- 57:34SPEAKER_00: I saw a lot of fear and paranoia and, um,
- 57:39almost like a an us versus them or i think tim keller would
- 57:44call it like christ
- 57:45against culture like that kind of thing where it became this
- 57:49sense of yes we'll go
- 57:51to church we'll tithe but it's for the sake of like fortifying
- 57:54a stronger church so
- 57:56SPEAKER_00: that we can be a
- 58:01SPEAKER_00: People within a larger political system or something like that.
- 58:05SPEAKER_00: Not necessarily that everybody was always thinking in terms of like,
- 58:08SPEAKER_00: let's elect this person into office or anything like that.
- 58:13Lots of people in Christian churches are definitely political
- 58:15or anything like
- 58:16SPEAKER_00: that,
- 58:16SPEAKER_00: but it's not like...
- 58:17the most blatant things about everybody's personality in
- 58:20general from what I've
- 58:21SPEAKER_00: seen,
- 58:22SPEAKER_00: even though it can be for a lot.
- 58:24Um,
- 58:24but it was like this fear and paranoia that almost like defined
- 58:28their stance to everything.
- 58:30SPEAKER_00: Whereas like, I can't watch that because I'm fearful of that.
- 58:35SPEAKER_00: Or I,
- 58:36SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 58:36I'm paranoid about like my neighbor because I'm not sure if
- 58:39they have the same
- 58:40SPEAKER_00: beliefs that I do,
- 58:41SPEAKER_00: or they hung up one of those signs where,
- 58:43SPEAKER_00: um,
- 58:44I can't remember what they're called,
- 58:45but it's like love is love and water is life.
- 58:48SPEAKER_00: Do you know what I'm talking about?
- 58:49SPEAKER_02: I think so.
- 58:51SPEAKER_00: I don't know what they're called either.
- 58:53SPEAKER_00: I only remember two of them.
- 58:56SPEAKER_00: I'm sure people will understand what I'm talking about.
- 59:00SPEAKER_00: Just having a paranoia about that as opposed to...
- 59:04realizing that we have access to the most joyful philosophical
- 59:08system that's ever
- 59:08been invented and the most amazing theological invitation that
- 59:12we could ever fathom
- 59:13in our wildest dreams and we'll never be able to fully fathom
- 59:16it because we'll just
- 59:16SPEAKER_00: be reveling in the joy of it for our entire existence for all of eternity
- 59:22like that is what christianity is like it is for the sake of
- 59:27creating a flourishing
- 59:29community between god and man and eventually a new heavens and
- 59:32a new earth right
- 59:33like that is the eschatological vision the beatific vision and
- 59:37that is like one of
- 59:38these central theses of our faith it's one of the biggest parts
- 59:42of our doctrine is
- 59:44and so one of the things that i do see different within gen z
- 59:47is they are so hungry
- 59:50or excited about that like they are able to compartmentalize
- 59:55some of the stuff
- 59:56about like yes there are going to be people who are against us
- 59:59there's going to be
- 1:00:00division there's going to be hatred there's going to be people
- 1:00:02who oppose us in
- 1:00:03this way or another but rather than taking that and being like
- 1:00:07having like a
- 1:00:07fearful or stance that's like let's uh you know bear up our
- 1:00:11walls and be protect
- 1:00:12SPEAKER_00: ourselves and
- 1:00:14coil ourselves into like a net of comfort away from anything
- 1:00:17that might corrupt it.
- 1:00:18I just see generally more openness to really seeing and
- 1:00:24experiencing and living
- 1:00:25SPEAKER_00: that life in the kingdom that Jesus offered,
- 1:00:27like taking those promises and the ethics and the message of
- 1:00:31the Sermon on the
- 1:00:32Mount and actually just living into them and not just seeing
- 1:00:35them as some far off
- 1:00:36SPEAKER_00: ethic that's unrealizable.
- 1:00:39SPEAKER_00: So yeah, I mean, that's one of the things that I see so much is just
- 1:00:43like gen x not even just church or anything even beyond church
- 1:00:48just like all of
- 1:00:49like culture in general like most generations are dealing with
- 1:00:53a failed vision of
- 1:00:54happiness it's like they were told that if they you know make
- 1:00:57enough money or they
- 1:00:58get this job or they achieve this much or they get that wife or
- 1:01:01they get that car
- 1:01:03SPEAKER_00: or they um climb the top of the corporate ladder or they you know
- 1:01:08even if you don't even take like american uh values of success
- 1:01:13or anything like
- 1:01:13that but you some other people might be like no the point is
- 1:01:16like mindfulness or
- 1:01:17you know just being living a simple lifestyle or anything like
- 1:01:20that so i mean all
- 1:01:22of these different visions of happiness essentially fail like
- 1:01:24they fall in on
- 1:01:25themselves like secular people can be happy but i do not
- 1:01:28believe that they can have
- 1:01:30the extent of happiness that is available to us through the
- 1:01:33gospel just because
- 1:01:33SPEAKER_00: that's a foundational theological theme is that you know
- 1:01:37SPEAKER_00: When we see the face of God,
- 1:01:39SPEAKER_00: like it says in the last chapter of Revelation,
- 1:01:42it's like one day we will see him face to face and he will wipe
- 1:01:44away every tear
- 1:01:45SPEAKER_00: from our eye.
- 1:01:46SPEAKER_00: That is happiness.
- 1:01:47SPEAKER_00: That is joy.
- 1:01:48SPEAKER_00: And I believe that that is the fullest extent to it.
- 1:01:50And so the secular culture in general or even just Christians
- 1:01:54who are somewhat
- 1:01:55SPEAKER_00: devoted but not really devoted to it.
- 1:01:57They're just dealing with these so many different visions of
- 1:02:00failed happiness and
- 1:02:01they have all of these different pathways to what human
- 1:02:04flourishing is because
- 1:02:06SPEAKER_00: that's one of the fundamental human questions.
- 1:02:07SPEAKER_00: They're asking, how do I live a good life?
- 1:02:09SPEAKER_00: How do I live a flourishing life?
- 1:02:11SPEAKER_00: But everywhere they're going, it's failing.
- 1:02:12SPEAKER_00: It's falling short.
- 1:02:13SPEAKER_00: It's like the entire system is breaking and crumbling under them.
- 1:02:18but then Christianity can come in and it can offer these things
- 1:02:21and they can tell
- 1:02:22SPEAKER_00: them,
- 1:02:23SPEAKER_00: this is the way to a joyful life.
- 1:02:25SPEAKER_00: This is the way to life to the full.
- 1:02:27SPEAKER_00: And so,
- 1:02:29SPEAKER_00: sorry,
- 1:02:29SPEAKER_00: I'm going on a little bit of tangent here,
- 1:02:31SPEAKER_00: but I see Gen Z so much more open to that aspect of it.
- 1:02:35SPEAKER_00: Like,
- 1:02:35SPEAKER_00: yes, all of these things are going to fail.
- 1:02:39SPEAKER_00: I am not going to be happy if I have a million followers on Instagram.
- 1:02:42SPEAKER_00: I'm not going to be happy if I have a four-story home.
- 1:02:44I'm not going to be happy if I have a nice car or if I have all
- 1:02:47of these temporal
- 1:02:48SPEAKER_00: objects that are going to promise fulfillment in an advertisement.
- 1:02:53SPEAKER_00: All advertising in general,
- 1:02:54SPEAKER_00: it's just trying to be like,
- 1:02:56SPEAKER_00: if you buy this,
- 1:02:56SPEAKER_00: you will be happy because it's appealing to that base instinct of
- 1:03:00wanting to flourish wanting to live a good life but all those
- 1:03:04things are empty and
- 1:03:04eventually they will realize that to one extent or another so
- 1:03:08gen z can just sort
- 1:03:09of i don't know it's just what i see among my friends and among
- 1:03:12other gen z writers
- 1:03:13and speakers that i see is like they see no like all of those
- 1:03:17things it's almost
- 1:03:18like ecclesiastes in a sense where it's like you can toil and
- 1:03:21you can work you can
- 1:03:22SPEAKER_00: have all those things and that's fine but it's not going to fulfill you
- 1:03:26and um yeah so anyways long tangent but i would just say gen z
- 1:03:30loves joy they love
- 1:03:31the joy aspect of theology i think that's such a good point
- 1:03:36only because even if
- 1:03:37like again we don't have to generalize or like paint with
- 1:03:40really broad brushes but
- 1:03:42like there is a sense like even i've felt this even if it
- 1:03:45wasn't an explicit motive
- 1:03:48SPEAKER_02: there's an implicit sort of
- 1:03:51SPEAKER_02: maybe unintentional byproduct of the way in which the gospel sometimes
- 1:03:55SPEAKER_02: communicated,
- 1:03:56SPEAKER_02: which,
- 1:03:56SPEAKER_02: as you kind of know,
- 1:03:57SPEAKER_02: I liked your word,
- 1:03:58it kind of incites paranoia or fear of this other person or
- 1:04:03fear of this unknown
- 1:04:04SPEAKER_02: event that's coming down the pike and all those sorts of things.
- 1:04:07SPEAKER_02: And again,
- 1:04:09SPEAKER_02: maybe it wasn't intentional,
- 1:04:10SPEAKER_02: but that just brings this sense of dread and anxiety around
- 1:04:14SPEAKER_02: Over what is about to occur, what may occur, whatever, what have you.
- 1:04:19SPEAKER_02: And I think something that's like,
- 1:04:22like definitely changed for me over the last several years is
- 1:04:24just the certainty of
- 1:04:27SPEAKER_02: Christ's work and what that offers the sinner.
- 1:04:32SPEAKER_02: No matter where they are in their quote-unquote spiritual journey,
- 1:04:36SPEAKER_02: I don't care your sanctification level.
- 1:04:38SPEAKER_02: It doesn't really matter to me.
- 1:04:40The certainty of Christ and what he's done for you,
- 1:04:43that is the heartbeat of joy and faith.
- 1:04:47And that's kind of what Paul gets at in Philippians,
- 1:04:49which is often called the joy letter.
- 1:04:52SPEAKER_02: Paul writes,
- 1:04:53SPEAKER_02: he talks about whether he's abounding or whether he's abased,
- 1:04:57he's finding joy in Christ and finding all of what he needs in
- 1:05:04this offer of what
- 1:05:06SPEAKER_02: Christ has done for him.
- 1:05:07SPEAKER_02: And everything else,
- 1:05:10SPEAKER_02: to use the unchristian term,
- 1:05:12SPEAKER_02: everything else is crap compared to what Christ has done for him.
- 1:05:15SPEAKER_02: And I think that the certainty of that
- 1:05:21SPEAKER_02: And declaring that in a way where people can actually say,
- 1:05:23SPEAKER_02: this is not a maybe or a might be,
- 1:05:25SPEAKER_02: or this is not something that I have to work my way into.
- 1:05:27SPEAKER_02: No, this is certain for you already.
- 1:05:31SPEAKER_02: And that's what the gospel offers.
- 1:05:34SPEAKER_02: That to me is a great...
- 1:05:37incentivizing message of joy which again is um something that i
- 1:05:43i strive i won't
- 1:05:44say always i'm successful and but i strive to do that when i'm
- 1:05:47preaching or strive
- 1:05:48to do that when i'm writing just because you know i wrote about
- 1:05:52this recently just
- 1:05:53the idea of like i feel like at least for me like i told you i
- 1:05:57was born in 1990 and
- 1:05:59now i'm going on my own tangent but sorry but like so i'm like
- 1:06:03in this i'm in like
- 1:06:04SPEAKER_02: i feel like this like weird
- 1:06:07bridge generation where i knew what life was like before online
- 1:06:12was everywhere and
- 1:06:13now i also know what it's like when it's you can't even imagine
- 1:06:16a world that's
- 1:06:17different than that and i think that that's what allows i think
- 1:06:22for me in many ways
- 1:06:23to be really sympathetic to people that are a little bit
- 1:06:25younger than me just
- 1:06:26SPEAKER_02: because
- 1:06:27SPEAKER_02: The world in which they've been growing up in,
- 1:06:29SPEAKER_02: like,
- 1:06:30SPEAKER_02: not just church related,
- 1:06:31but just like society at large is just light years different
- 1:06:35than the way even that
- 1:06:37SPEAKER_02: I grew up.
- 1:06:38SPEAKER_02: Like, it's just totally light years different.
- 1:06:41SPEAKER_02: I know we're not like breaking new ground by saying that, but like...
- 1:06:44I think that that should inform the way in which we communicate
- 1:06:48and the way in
- 1:06:48SPEAKER_02: which we convey the truths that we hold dear.
- 1:06:52SPEAKER_02: Not that we have to change them,
- 1:06:54SPEAKER_02: but maybe sometimes the way in which the messaging of them,
- 1:06:58SPEAKER_02: maybe it's a little bit different.
- 1:06:59Or maybe the way we kind of attack or approach getting and
- 1:07:04conveying this particular truth.
- 1:07:06SPEAKER_02: Which is to say,
- 1:07:07SPEAKER_02: like,
- 1:07:07SPEAKER_02: I really resonate with what you're saying,
- 1:07:09SPEAKER_02: because I think it's a word that's needed for the church,
- 1:07:13SPEAKER_02: no matter what generation you belong to.
- 1:07:16SPEAKER_00: Yeah, absolutely.
- 1:07:22SPEAKER_02: Well, what you said, you and a wife were big readers.
- 1:07:24What's something you're reading right now that's really
- 1:07:27capturing your attention?
- 1:07:28SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:07:29SPEAKER_00: Oh, man.
- 1:07:30SPEAKER_00: Okay, so I usually keep a rotation of like six books at the same time.
- 1:07:33SPEAKER_00: Let me check.
- 1:07:36SPEAKER_00: The fiction one I'm reading is called Paper Menagerie by Ken Liu.
- 1:07:42SPEAKER_00: Really great book of short stories.
- 1:07:45SPEAKER_00: Sorry, I got the pile right next to me, so I'm looking at it.
- 1:07:48Then I'm reading For the Life of the World by Miroslav Volf and
- 1:07:52Matthew Croazman.
- 1:07:54really actually pretty relevant to this conversation that we
- 1:07:57were just having you
- 1:07:58know it's trying to recapture a vision of theology as you know
- 1:08:02like it's trying to
- 1:08:03recapture a vision of theology as paving a way for a
- 1:08:07flourishing life you know
- 1:08:08thinking about god's mission as creating a new home and
- 1:08:12inviting us into it and so
- 1:08:13SPEAKER_00: trying to recapture an idea of theology as
- 1:08:17SPEAKER_00: God inviting us into his joyful processes.
- 1:08:20SPEAKER_00: So I love that.
- 1:08:21SPEAKER_00: The Things of Earth by Joe Rigney.
- 1:08:23SPEAKER_00: Really good.
- 1:08:25If you're ever a Christian who's struggling with feeling guilty
- 1:08:28about enjoying
- 1:08:29SPEAKER_00: money or enjoying a nice vacation or a nice meal,
- 1:08:32great book because it gives a good theology for how to enjoy
- 1:08:35the things of the
- 1:08:36SPEAKER_00: earth.
- 1:08:39SPEAKER_00: A psychology book that I wasn't sure I would enjoy,
- 1:08:42SPEAKER_00: but I'm actually enjoying it a lot,
- 1:08:43SPEAKER_00: called Validation by Caroline Fleck.
- 1:08:47SPEAKER_00: I'm sure as a man you can probably relate to this,
- 1:08:50SPEAKER_00: but males tend to approach all problems with a problem-solving mindset,
- 1:08:57SPEAKER_00: where it's like,
- 1:08:57SPEAKER_00: oh,
- 1:08:57SPEAKER_00: you have a problem,
- 1:08:58SPEAKER_00: let me try to solve it.
- 1:08:59SPEAKER_00: It does not always go well with friends or with wives especially, right?
- 1:09:03SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 1:09:05Very helpful resource for actually how to hear people's
- 1:09:08problems and correspond in
- 1:09:11SPEAKER_00: a way that's both loving and affirming.
- 1:09:13SPEAKER_00: And yeah, just really helpful for emotional processes.
- 1:09:17And I think,
- 1:09:18yeah,
- 1:09:18that's pretty much about it for right now for what I'm reading.
- 1:09:21SPEAKER_02: That sounds like a good rotation.
- 1:09:22SPEAKER_02: I'm not very disciplined.
- 1:09:24I probably have more than a dozen books that are open in some
- 1:09:28semblance of being
- 1:09:29SPEAKER_02: completed,
- 1:09:29SPEAKER_02: and it's really bad.
- 1:09:31SPEAKER_02: I lose track at that point.
- 1:09:35SPEAKER_02: I would too.
- 1:09:35SPEAKER_02: I'm very anal about the notes that I take.
- 1:09:41Um,
- 1:09:42but I'm not very disciplined because I buy new books and I'm
- 1:09:44like,
- 1:09:45I gotta read that one.
- 1:09:46SPEAKER_02: Uh,
- 1:09:47SPEAKER_02: and you know,
- 1:09:47you know that it's like that meme where like the skeletons
- 1:09:50under the pool and like
- 1:09:51SPEAKER_02: that one's dying.
- 1:09:52SPEAKER_02: That's where all my books that I should be reading.
- 1:09:54SPEAKER_02: Those are the ones that are,
- 1:09:56SPEAKER_02: you know,
- 1:09:56SPEAKER_02: I haven't read yet,
- 1:09:57SPEAKER_02: but regardless,
- 1:09:58SPEAKER_02: uh,
- 1:09:58SPEAKER_02: where can people find you Griffin?
- 1:10:00SPEAKER_02: Where's the best place to, um, to get your stuff or read your stuff?
- 1:10:05SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so definitely Substack, Reality Theology.
- 1:10:08SPEAKER_00: It's pretty much the only social media that I'm active on.
- 1:10:11You can follow me on Instagram if you want to see me post once
- 1:10:13every six months.
- 1:10:15It'll just be some post being like,
- 1:10:18happy birthday to my wife or something like that.
- 1:10:22SPEAKER_00: Yeah, mainly Substack.
- 1:10:23SPEAKER_00: And yeah, you can just follow me there.
- 1:10:25SPEAKER_02: Yeah, go follow Griffin on Substack.
- 1:10:27SPEAKER_02: He's a great read.
- 1:10:28SPEAKER_02: Follow his notes.
- 1:10:29He has always little quippy stuff that he posts there too,
- 1:10:33so make sure you follow him.
- 1:10:33SPEAKER_02: Griffin, it's so good to chat with you.
- 1:10:36Thanks for taking your time out this evening,
- 1:10:38and I'm looking forward to doing it again.
- 1:10:40SPEAKER_00: Yeah, thank you so much for having me, Brad.
- 1:10:43SPEAKER_02: Thanks so much for listening.
- 1:10:44SPEAKER_02: Hope you've been blessed by this episode.
- 1:10:45SPEAKER_02: Make sure to go follow Griffin over on his Substack.
- 1:10:48SPEAKER_02: Go follow him on Instagram as well.
- 1:10:50SPEAKER_02: And if you're not already,
- 1:10:51make sure to subscribe to the Ministry Minded Podcast on Apple
- 1:10:54or Spotify or right
- 1:10:55SPEAKER_02: here on Substack or wherever you get your podcasts.
- 1:10:58SPEAKER_02: Thank you so much for all of your support, your encouragement.
- 1:11:01SPEAKER_02: I know I'm always blessed when I hear about ways in which these episodes,
- 1:11:05SPEAKER_02: these conversations have blessed you or encouraged you.
- 1:11:07SPEAKER_02: So thanks so much for that.
- 1:11:07SPEAKER_02: Thanks for commenting and listening.
- 1:11:09SPEAKER_02: And I'll see you on the next episode.
- 1:11:11SPEAKER_02: Blessings.