Latest / Locatora Radio [A Radiophonic Novela] / Capítulo 49: The Brow Guru
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- 2:00Speaker 1: you to our listener, our follower, writer journalist Andrea Alonso
- 2:04Speaker 1: for including us in that list of nine l A
- 2:06Speaker 1: activists to follow on social media. For Ellie Mack, thank you,
- 2:09Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. You know what. I'm actually looking
- 2:11Speaker 1: at the date and it was actually written in January,
- 2:14Speaker 1: so we like missed it, but I'm so glad that
- 2:17Speaker 1: someone someone actually tagged me in it and that's how
- 2:20Speaker 1: I saw it. So I had thought it was a
- 2:22Speaker 1: recent article, but actually it was in January, so we
- 2:26Speaker 1: just saw it. Thank you so much. I didn't even
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- 2:32Speaker 1: right like I wrote this ship months ago. That's so funny.
- 2:36Speaker 1: That's so funny. Anyway, well, thank you once again to
- 2:39Speaker 1: Andrea and to Ellie magazine for including us in that list.
- 2:42Speaker 1: I'm screaming, so there was that. We have more people
- 2:45Speaker 1: to thank. Yes, and this is the thing, like these
- 2:47Speaker 1: things that are happening clearly, they've been happening for a while.
- 2:51Speaker 1: We've been working on. These announcements are not just necessarily
- 2:54Speaker 1: things that sprung up overnight, including our website launch. Yes, um,
- 3:00Speaker 1: a huge, huge thank you to our listener and our
- 3:03Speaker 1: website designer, Marianna Martinez Um. She actually approached us a
- 3:09Speaker 1: few months ago and asked us if she could design
- 3:12Speaker 1: our website because she said, I think it would be
- 3:14Speaker 1: really beneficial for y'all to have a website, and I
- 3:16Speaker 1: would love to be the one to design it for you.
- 3:19Speaker 1: And we've been working with her for a few months
- 3:21Speaker 1: now and we've been chatting with her. She's from l
- 3:23Speaker 1: A but lives in the Bay. So thank you once
- 3:26Speaker 1: again to Mariana. Our website is beautiful and it's only
- 3:30Speaker 1: going to keep expanding. This is like the soft launch,
- 3:33Speaker 1: I guess, because we're gonna be adding some more components
- 3:35Speaker 1: to it UM in the next few months, but for now,
- 3:38Speaker 1: if you haven't checked it out yet, it's look at
- 3:40Speaker 1: our radio dot com. You can read our bios, you
- 3:43Speaker 1: can see uh, there's links to our episodes. There's a
- 3:46Speaker 1: blog section that we will be launching UM and also
- 3:51Speaker 1: if you want to book us, that is one way
- 3:53Speaker 1: to book us. It's another way to get in touch
- 3:55Speaker 1: with us, to contact us, and to really see all
- 3:57Speaker 1: of our work in a more centralized, easily searchable location. Absolutely,
- 4:03Speaker 1: to really see all the components, all the parts of
- 4:05Speaker 1: look because we're not just a podcast podcast. Mariana even
- 4:11Speaker 1: was able to include like our written work that Jos
- 4:13Speaker 1: and I have each published, you know, independent of the podcast,
- 4:17Speaker 1: but no doubt contribute to it. So that's really exciting.
- 4:22Speaker 1: And Mariana's handle is at a toast which is so cute,
- 4:25Speaker 1: Which is so cute. So if you need a website,
- 4:28Speaker 1: go talk to her. Go talk to Mariana. And I
- 4:31Speaker 1: believe she works in the tech industry, so she's like, what, like,
- 4:35Speaker 1: designing websites is like what she does. She knows what
- 4:38Speaker 1: she's doing. She's doing UM. We also joined a really
- 4:42Speaker 1: really exciting we are now in beautiful company as some
- 4:49Speaker 1: new members of the Everyday Feminism Speakers Bureau. Yes, so
- 4:54Speaker 1: you know, look, we're gonna be We're gonna be doing
- 4:56Speaker 1: somewhere speaking gigs. We like to talk. We're just going
- 4:59Speaker 1: to talking. We're going to keep talking. And it's so
- 5:03Speaker 1: amazing because I have been reading Everyday Feminism articles since
- 5:07Speaker 1: I was in college, since my undergrad days. Like they're
- 5:10Speaker 1: like when I was like feminist one on one, you know,
- 5:12Speaker 1: like learning the new language and the new concepts and ideologies.
- 5:17Speaker 1: Like Everyday Feminism was definitely a new source for me,
- 5:20Speaker 1: aside from like learning during my feminist studies classes and
- 5:24Speaker 1: all of that. So super excited that we're actually a
- 5:27Speaker 1: part of their Speakers Bureau. Now it's like wild and Mama,
- 5:31Speaker 1: you have your own relationship with Everyday Feminism as well. Yeah,
- 5:34Speaker 1: and a lot of people do, you know, so many
- 5:37Speaker 1: people do. I wrote a few articles for them that
- 5:39Speaker 1: were published on the Everyday Feminism website, and they focused
- 5:43Speaker 1: primarily on rape culture and sexual violence in Latin X communities.
- 5:48Speaker 1: And I want to thank Michelle Zena Rosa, who was
- 5:51Speaker 1: my editor on those pieces. And it was Michelle who
- 5:54Speaker 1: also reached out to us about having us on the
- 5:57Speaker 1: Speakers Bureau, So thanks Michelle, Thanks day Feminism. Quere Chicano
- 6:01Speaker 1: Cheeseman is also on the Speakers Bureau. Do you know
- 6:06Speaker 1: there's a whole host of amazing people Melissa Fabello who
- 6:09Speaker 1: talks about yes, eating disorders and disordered eating, so that
- 6:13Speaker 1: was really cool. Other than everyday feminism, we also visited
- 6:19Speaker 1: our friends at Snapchat. Yes we so there are latinoxt
- 6:23Speaker 1: division called Low Snaps. UM put on this event called
- 6:28Speaker 1: a Moment Contigo and it was panelist five panelists, yes, um,
- 6:33Speaker 1: pelist five panelists, and we spoke about relationships, self love, spirituality, sex,
- 6:41Speaker 1: dating and it was a really romansting arrays. So there
- 6:47Speaker 1: was us, we were the podcasters and everything else that
- 6:50Speaker 1: we are, right Um. There was also the Astro Fashionista
- 6:53Speaker 1: so which I had just learned about her that day
- 6:56Speaker 1: and she's phenomenal. Check her out. We had Spicy Pattie
- 7:00Speaker 1: whose relationship expert Relationship Grow has her own matchmaking firm.
- 7:05Speaker 1: She identifies as black and Mexican, and this was an
- 7:08Speaker 1: all woman of color panel. And then there was thea
- 7:11Speaker 1: Mounier who Monet, who you all know and recognized as
- 7:16Speaker 1: this bomb poet spoken Word Artist. I remember I first
- 7:20Speaker 1: saw Thea's poetry when she was on Death Poetry Jam
- 7:25Speaker 1: and she did that poem woman to Woman, which is
- 7:28Speaker 1: an iconic poem truly. And I met THEA at cal
- 7:31Speaker 1: stl A because we were both basically working um at
- 7:35Speaker 1: the time in similar sorts of fields. She's a therapist
- 7:39Speaker 1: and then there was us and then us. It was cute. Yeah,
- 7:42Speaker 1: so many different perspectives and we all brought something different
- 7:46Speaker 1: to the table and have like a similar beliefs and
- 7:49Speaker 1: a lot of alignment in what we do. So that
- 7:53Speaker 1: was super, super amazing. So thank you again to Snapchat
- 7:56Speaker 1: for having us at their head. Thank you. So I
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- 9:04Speaker 1: we're going to get into our segment of Oh yet,
- 9:07Speaker 1: look us, what do our listeners want to know about?
- 9:09Speaker 1: So thank you to everyone that submitted new questions on
- 9:12Speaker 1: the i G. So this question is have you ever
- 9:16Speaker 1: got in your cards read? Can you talk about that experience?
- 9:20Speaker 1: So we both have, we both have. Mine was over
- 9:22Speaker 1: a year ago now, which I actually want to go
- 9:24Speaker 1: to the same move ahead and get them redone. But mamma,
- 9:27Speaker 1: you know yours was a little more recent. Yeah. I
- 9:30Speaker 1: this summer went to Colleive Scalpe Collective. Um, shout out,
- 9:34Speaker 1: shout out, Collido Scope Collective on Sunset. Also like All
- 9:39Speaker 1: Women of Color Collective handmade goods and essential oils and
- 9:44Speaker 1: jewelry and clothes. Yeah, yeah, yeah, all that good stuff.
- 9:46Speaker 1: Collep Scalpe Collective. So I got my cards read and
- 9:48Speaker 1: it was my first time ever getting my cars read,
- 9:50Speaker 1: and it was eerie, like the things that she put
- 9:55Speaker 1: her on and predicted, you know, someone that I've never
- 9:58Speaker 1: met before, and I didn't like give her any background
- 10:01Speaker 1: information on myself before I spoke to her. But the
- 10:04Speaker 1: things that really stood out to me is she told
- 10:06Speaker 1: me that in the next couple of years, just career wise,
- 10:10Speaker 1: everything's taking off. Everything's taking off. It's obviously true, true, true, true, true.
- 10:15Speaker 1: She started a job Better Job podcast is thriving. And
- 10:21Speaker 1: then and then, um, she told me that I have
- 10:25Speaker 1: an ex who has sticky energy, who was always right
- 10:30Speaker 1: on top of me, who monitors all my social If
- 10:32Speaker 1: you're listening to this X, you know who you know,
- 10:36Speaker 1: exactly who you are, because there's well there's only one
- 10:39Speaker 1: could be help right now and stop listening. Stop listening.
- 10:42Speaker 1: You're not welcome here anyway. So um, I got So
- 10:45Speaker 1: that was like another big thing that she pointed out
- 10:48Speaker 1: and it was true. So that same day I leave
- 10:51Speaker 1: my card reading, I'm hanging out with Monica after you know,
- 10:55Speaker 1: the woman told me that my X has sticky energy
- 10:57Speaker 1: and is always watching me. The same day, he calls
- 11:00Speaker 1: me three times and at the time I had um uh,
- 11:04Speaker 1: you know, a Samsung and Android, and you can see
- 11:09Speaker 1: you're blocked numbers. You can see when they're trying to
- 11:11Speaker 1: call you. It doesn't um ring, but you it's in
- 11:16Speaker 1: your call log like recent calls, missed calls, and it'll
- 11:19Speaker 1: have like the blue cross out symbol next say, while
- 11:22Speaker 1: I didn't know that. Yeah, so you can actually a
- 11:24Speaker 1: good feature iPhone to do that. It's a good feature.
- 11:26Speaker 1: So you're not getting notified that the call is coming in,
- 11:28Speaker 1: but you can clearly see there. So I got like
- 11:31Speaker 1: two misscalls from dude, and I was like, sticky energy
- 11:34Speaker 1: is correct. So she again dragged me for filled through
- 11:39Speaker 1: the mud, through the dirt, through hell, and through high water,
- 11:43Speaker 1: and I came out better for it on the other good. Good, right,
- 11:47Speaker 1: that's good. It was good. I'm going to need another,
- 11:50Speaker 1: you know, twenty six years of life before I can
- 11:53Speaker 1: get my cards read again. That's going to be my increment.
- 11:56Speaker 1: But you know, so, yeah, that was my experience getting
- 11:58Speaker 1: my cards read. I got my car. It's read over
- 12:00Speaker 1: a year ago, like I mentioned, And for me, the
- 12:03Speaker 1: purpose of getting them read was actually because I wanted
- 12:05Speaker 1: a Limbia because I had had some like wow, that
- 12:08Speaker 1: ship happened to me. I've like finally like the relationship
- 12:12Speaker 1: that would never end finally ended. And um, I felt
- 12:17Speaker 1: like my life was like just a mess, you know,
- 12:21Speaker 1: in spite of like the podcast was like still growing
- 12:23Speaker 1: and doing well. This is like we were still like
- 12:25Speaker 1: a younger, Like in our first year of podcasting, we
- 12:27Speaker 1: were younger then yeah, yeah maybe just like yeah, a
- 12:30Speaker 1: couple of months into podcasting. Anyway, I went because I
- 12:35Speaker 1: went to get Olympia. And what she does is she
- 12:37Speaker 1: actually reads your cards before you get Olympia and will
- 12:40Speaker 1: determine if you even need Olympia. Yeah, so I went,
- 12:44Speaker 1: got my cards read, and she basically told me, like,
- 12:48Speaker 1: the universe has been sending you messages to get this
- 12:50Speaker 1: person out of your life and been ignoring it, which
- 12:53Speaker 1: is why now there's this huge blow up. Literally it
- 12:56Speaker 1: took catastrophe for you to finally get it. So that
- 13:00Speaker 1: to your bad, because the universe has been sending you
- 13:02Speaker 1: messages and you know this person may or may not
- 13:05Speaker 1: come back into your life, but not in a romantic way. Um.
- 13:09Speaker 1: And she also told me that I was on path,
- 13:12Speaker 1: which was really affirming because I was still at the job,
- 13:17Speaker 1: my former job, but the podcast has still and has
- 13:20Speaker 1: been the priority, like my main were like all my
- 13:23Speaker 1: heart and passion is so she basically told me I
- 13:26Speaker 1: was on path and then my fam I had a
- 13:28Speaker 1: really strong foundation and what I was doing was what
- 13:30Speaker 1: I was meant to be doing and that I was
- 13:32Speaker 1: only going to keep growing and thriving and basically to
- 13:36Speaker 1: like listen to the universe when I'm getting messages sent
- 13:39Speaker 1: to me and stop ignoring them. So the same thing,
- 13:42Speaker 1: like I feel like she dragged me. She like, you know,
- 13:47Speaker 1: and she told me like everything that I needed to
- 13:49Speaker 1: hear was very affirming. And also at the time I
- 13:52Speaker 1: was questioning, like am I a shitty person? Like I was?
- 13:55Speaker 1: Really I felt like like, oh my god, like I'm horrible,
- 13:59Speaker 1: you know, And yes, like I was doing some shitty
- 14:03Speaker 1: things right, um, but like learned from these mistakes and
- 14:07Speaker 1: these like toxic patterns and have obviously been working through
- 14:11Speaker 1: that and changing, so like shout out to myself in
- 14:14Speaker 1: the therapy, right. But then so then anyway, so then
- 14:18Speaker 1: she's like, you don't need Olympia, and I was like,
- 14:20Speaker 1: are you sure. She's like she said, I mean I
- 14:22Speaker 1: can hit you with some leaves if you want, with
- 14:24Speaker 1: some palms, like I can. I can beat you up
- 14:28Speaker 1: if you want me to, but you don't need it.
- 14:30Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, I mean if I don't
- 14:31Speaker 1: need it, then you're telling me I don't need it, right,
- 14:33Speaker 1: And she was like a trusted healer, like came highly
- 14:36Speaker 1: recommended from one of our friends. So that was why
- 14:38Speaker 1: I went good question. Thank you for that question. Um. Next,
- 14:43Speaker 1: next question shout out to Edith. She's one of our listeners,
- 14:47Speaker 1: a fellow Petwana, one of my i G friends, and
- 14:50Speaker 1: she asked on the Instagram, how do you manage balancing work, relationships, family, love, housework, podcasting,
- 14:58Speaker 1: and self care. I love to know how you both
- 15:01Speaker 1: manage to be so productive and stay so fly. I'm
- 15:04Speaker 1: out of breath just reading that, because we do all
- 15:07Speaker 1: of that, don't wait, we do all these things. I
- 15:09Speaker 1: mean all of us, most of us listening. I can
- 15:11Speaker 1: say we probably all do this. Yeah. You know what
- 15:14Speaker 1: I try to do is, UM, I try to compartmentalize
- 15:17Speaker 1: and sometimes, UM, I don't see my family as much
- 15:22Speaker 1: because I have all this other ship going on and
- 15:24Speaker 1: I'm working, and you know, part of it is like
- 15:27Speaker 1: we're working all day. Maybe I stopped by the house
- 15:30Speaker 1: before doing second shift, which is podcast stuff, you know,
- 15:34Speaker 1: So I'm home, but I'm leaving in five minutes. I'm sorry.
- 15:37Speaker 1: I love you all. Get to see is high and by.
- 15:40Speaker 1: It's a lot of high and by. But then when
- 15:42Speaker 1: I have stretches of time when I can just like
- 15:46Speaker 1: put my phone down and just be like with my grandma,
- 15:49Speaker 1: be with my parents, I try and then separate and
- 15:52Speaker 1: dedicate that time to them. So I've sort of had
- 15:55Speaker 1: to just kind of compartmentalize, but they understand, and I've
- 15:59Speaker 1: sort of had brief conversations with my family about like,
- 16:02Speaker 1: you know, like I'm this is not the first time
- 16:05Speaker 1: I've had to leave to go do something awesome, even
- 16:09Speaker 1: though you see me like I'm not here. Like when
- 16:11Speaker 1: I went to college, I left and I didn't come
- 16:13Speaker 1: home for Thanksgiving for four years. And then when I
- 16:16Speaker 1: studied abroad in London, I left and I wasn't home
- 16:19Speaker 1: for Christmas. And so they are very much the type
- 16:22Speaker 1: of people who because of like wanting me to do
- 16:26Speaker 1: well and explore and sky's the limit is their sort
- 16:29Speaker 1: of attitude like with their kids, which I appreciate. They're
- 16:32Speaker 1: like no go, like my grandma will give me, will
- 16:35Speaker 1: give me, ship, will give me a hard time that
- 16:37Speaker 1: I'm never at home, and you know, that's when I
- 16:39Speaker 1: hear the guy I had at comments. But from my parents,
- 16:42Speaker 1: especially my mom, she's like, now is the time, go go,
- 16:46Speaker 1: go go. My dad used to always say, you know,
- 16:48Speaker 1: we raise you so you can leave. We raise you
- 16:51Speaker 1: to leave. We don't raise you to keep you here
- 16:53Speaker 1: under our thumb. We raise you to leave. So they
- 16:56Speaker 1: I appreciate that from them, and I think they also
- 16:58Speaker 1: know that, like um, family and life is very It
- 17:02Speaker 1: comes and goes in stages and in cycles, and there
- 17:05Speaker 1: will be a period of time where I have my
- 17:07Speaker 1: kids and I'll be around them all the time, you know,
- 17:09Speaker 1: where there's down seasons and I'll you know. So I
- 17:12Speaker 1: appreciate their flexibility in that way. So they helped me
- 17:15Speaker 1: a lot to remain uh, to diversify my life and
- 17:19Speaker 1: to productive and all that good stuff. UM I would say, UM,
- 17:24Speaker 1: I try my best to have a schedule that I
- 17:27Speaker 1: stick to, whether that be like in my passion planner
- 17:30Speaker 1: or on my phone. UM I try to, like, for instance, Tuesdays,
- 17:35Speaker 1: I try to not send. It doesn't always happen. But
- 17:38Speaker 1: I try my best not to schedule any meetings UM
- 17:41Speaker 1: on Tuesdays, like after work, because those are my therapy days.
- 17:43Speaker 1: So my therapy days are when I go to therapy
- 17:45Speaker 1: and I go grocery shopping and i'm meal prep and
- 17:48Speaker 1: I clean and I try to read before bed, like
- 17:51Speaker 1: I really try to make Tuesday evenings like mine, um,
- 17:55Speaker 1: which is not always possible. Sometimes we do have to
- 17:57Speaker 1: take meetings on a Tuesday, you know, And but I
- 17:59Speaker 1: do my best to make Tuesday's mine. So that would
- 18:02Speaker 1: be how I balance the housework and the self care
- 18:06Speaker 1: and even just being at home is being home on
- 18:09Speaker 1: Tuesday after therapy UM. And I will say that sometimes
- 18:13Speaker 1: it gets kind of kind of kind of sticky, kind
- 18:17Speaker 1: of messy, kind of sad. And I would say that
- 18:19Speaker 1: people that are in grad school, people that are have
- 18:22Speaker 1: like side hustle's probably experience this that we as well.
- 18:25Speaker 1: But you're not always going to be there for family stuff.
- 18:28Speaker 1: Like it was my Madrina seventie seventy third birthday on Thursday,
- 18:33Speaker 1: which is when we were at the snapchat like you
- 18:36Speaker 1: know thing, and my family was like sending me pictures
- 18:38Speaker 1: saying like, oh, we missed you and we missed you.
- 18:40Speaker 1: And it's like, I know you're not trying to guilt me,
- 18:43Speaker 1: but I also feel a little guilty. But I also
- 18:45Speaker 1: had this really great opportunity for work for the podcast,
- 18:48Speaker 1: you know, So it's like kind of like a give
- 18:50Speaker 1: and take, like I'm not going to be able to
- 18:52Speaker 1: be there for everything, and you're my family is not
- 18:55Speaker 1: always going to understand the why, you know, but it
- 18:59Speaker 1: is what it is, and I'm going to have like
- 19:00Speaker 1: I'm going to do what I have to do to
- 19:03Speaker 1: keep growing and surviving, and I'm trying not to feel
- 19:07Speaker 1: bad about it. And this isn't like every single time, right,
- 19:10Speaker 1: but there are times where it's like, oh yeah, I
- 19:11Speaker 1: do feel a little guilty. I couldn't go, you know,
- 19:13Speaker 1: but it is what it is, Like, I'm going to
- 19:15Speaker 1: keep this is my this is my career in in
- 19:18Speaker 1: some ways, you know, in many ways. And it's well,
- 19:20Speaker 1: the podcast is increasingly becoming more and more more and
- 19:26Speaker 1: more professional for us, and so then meaning that there's
- 19:29Speaker 1: more um at stake if we don't go, if we
- 19:34Speaker 1: don't keep going. And it's interesting because I think with
- 19:37Speaker 1: family and friends, like I haven't had any issues with
- 19:41Speaker 1: friends as far as like anybody making comments or trying
- 19:45Speaker 1: to make me feel guilty for missing things. Like my
- 19:47Speaker 1: friends are very supportive and our friends are often with us,
- 19:50Speaker 1: involved in our events and stuff anyway, So like our
- 19:53Speaker 1: friends are part of the podcasting. But um, you know,
- 19:56Speaker 1: people like are like to be able to say like,
- 20:00Speaker 1: oh my friends do cool things or friends with X,
- 20:02Speaker 1: Y and Z people, or my niece does this or
- 20:04Speaker 1: my daughter does that. But you only get bragging rights
- 20:08Speaker 1: once we get there exactly, So what about like all
- 20:11Speaker 1: the work it's to actually get there, you know what
- 20:13Speaker 1: I mean. So it's that it's that balance. But I
- 20:16Speaker 1: definitely have not mastered a balance. I get very time
- 20:19Speaker 1: working on it. I Yeah, and I've been trying, Like
- 20:22Speaker 1: I'm not dating, so that's not a part of the
- 20:25Speaker 1: balancing act right now at all. It's really all podcast work,
- 20:29Speaker 1: family friends, podcast work, family friends, like as much as possible. Yeah, well,
- 20:33Speaker 1: I think like in my relationship, um, we both really
- 20:36Speaker 1: value what we do. Like he he knows that the
- 20:40Speaker 1: podcast is a really big part of my life and
- 20:42Speaker 1: is supportive, so knows that Saturdays are off limits right
- 20:45Speaker 1: Like Saturday's are are my podcast days, and he also
- 20:48Speaker 1: works Saturdays because he works in the community, so he
- 20:50Speaker 1: has events, you know, so we both get it. Um,
- 20:52Speaker 1: we're both really supportive of our careers and what we're doing.
- 20:55Speaker 1: So I mean, if your partner's not supporting how you
- 20:59Speaker 1: want to grow, then I think you need to reevaluate that,
- 21:02Speaker 1: you know, because ultimately, I think your family and this
- 21:07Speaker 1: isn't always the case, but your family and your friends,
- 21:09Speaker 1: your partner should want to see you grow and thrive.
- 21:12Speaker 1: And they can't keep up with you, well, then that's
- 21:14Speaker 1: on them. That's really on them. And sometimes people grow
- 21:17Speaker 1: just in different directions and we're just going in different directions.
- 21:21Speaker 1: We need, you know, different things, and that's okay. Yeah,
- 21:25Speaker 1: it's really really fine. I agree complete any other or
- 21:30Speaker 1: you look ask questions or we good there. I think
- 21:32Speaker 1: we're good there. We do. We do have a guest.
- 21:35Speaker 1: We do have a guest coming up, so I think
- 21:37Speaker 1: we'll pause here to go into our song break. So
- 21:40Speaker 1: I just want to say, also, like, if you asked
- 21:43Speaker 1: a question in the recent instagram like, we will be
- 21:45Speaker 1: answering them throughout the next couple episodes, So if your
- 21:49Speaker 1: question has not been answered yet, it will be, So
- 21:52Speaker 1: just keep that in mind, keep tuning in and keep
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- 22:42Speaker 1: of it and we ship and welcome back, welcome back.
- 22:49Speaker 1: So we're so excited to have our next guests for
- 22:52Speaker 1: the second half of our interview or the second half
- 22:55Speaker 1: of our law So we have with us in the
- 22:58Speaker 1: studio the brow Google row Ak, Leslie Mendoza, and I'm
- 23:03Speaker 1: going to read her bio so y'all can get to
- 23:05Speaker 1: know her and what she's about. So Leslie Ak, the
- 23:08Speaker 1: brow Guru, has been catering to her loyal clientele with
- 23:11Speaker 1: Couldtour Makeup and Taylor Browse for over twelve years. Celebrities,
- 23:15Speaker 1: blessing brides, models, and many others have applauded her artistic skills.
- 23:19Speaker 1: Leslie has worked from retail to marketing and purchasing to
- 23:22Speaker 1: working on movie and video sets. After teaching at various
- 23:26Speaker 1: beauty schools and working in a salon for six years,
- 23:28Speaker 1: Leslie decided to branch off and make a little store
- 23:31Speaker 1: front of her own. Prime badour is her living dream,
- 23:33Speaker 1: and she is happy to take her brow and beauty
- 23:36Speaker 1: artistry to another level. Leslie loves making her clients feel
- 23:39Speaker 1: beautiful and invited. She also loves to give back to
- 23:42Speaker 1: her community by donating her time and services to many associations,
- 23:46Speaker 1: including the American Cancer Society. She truly believes that if
- 23:49Speaker 1: you choose a job you love, you will never have
- 23:51Speaker 1: to work a day in your life. Welcome to look
- 23:54Speaker 1: at our radio, Leslie. Thank you so much you guys
- 23:57Speaker 1: for having me. I'm so like I said earlier on
- 24:00Speaker 1: and Girling right now, I was excited. No, We're so
- 24:03Speaker 1: happy to have you here. Thank you for making the time.
- 24:06Speaker 1: And I know we've kind of been trying to make
- 24:08Speaker 1: this happen for a little yeah, so it's really exciting
- 24:12Speaker 1: to like, actually to be here. I'm really excited, super exciting.
- 24:15Speaker 1: Thank you so much for having me. Absolutely, and also
- 24:18Speaker 1: I want to say congratulations on your recent storefront opening
- 24:21Speaker 1: and Wittier, thank you. I was. You so graciously invited
- 24:25Speaker 1: both of us to the opening and I was able
- 24:27Speaker 1: to attend, and it was so beautiful to see all
- 24:29Speaker 1: these latin As in the industry, like they're business owners
- 24:33Speaker 1: and entrepreneurs also there, so it was it's such an
- 24:36Speaker 1: amazing group of women that were there. So I want
- 24:38Speaker 1: to say congrats on that. It was really amazing. I'm
- 24:41Speaker 1: actually like, I was really excited at the turnout. There
- 24:43Speaker 1: was a lot more people than I expected. And everyone
- 24:46Speaker 1: it was just like all kinds of like very strong
- 24:49Speaker 1: Latin you know, business owners and women just who are
- 24:52Speaker 1: doing something with themselves, makeup artists, just anyone in the
- 24:55Speaker 1: beauty industry. It was. It was awesome. I'm really happy
- 24:58Speaker 1: for the turnout. Yeah, and I love how I think
- 25:04Speaker 1: Latinaz we've always had like a love for beauty, beauty products,
- 25:08Speaker 1: beauty everything culture. But to also see us on the
- 25:13Speaker 1: business side of things, which just as consumers, it's really exciting. Yeah,
- 25:17Speaker 1: really important. Also. Yeah, so for you, what was that?
- 25:21Speaker 1: Was there a turning point for you where you said like, okay,
- 25:25Speaker 1: I want to get into the business side of beauty,
- 25:27Speaker 1: Like how did that come about for you? Um? I
- 25:30Speaker 1: just like, I don't know. It's so funny because I
- 25:33Speaker 1: never really saw a ceiling. I never was like, no,
- 25:36Speaker 1: I can't do that. I was always like, you know,
- 25:38Speaker 1: why can't they do it? Like why why are they?
- 25:40Speaker 1: Why do they have a store, why don't I have
- 25:42Speaker 1: a store. Even when I was younger, I was like
- 25:44Speaker 1: dreaming of opening my own salon. So when I finally
- 25:47Speaker 1: was getting busy enough where I'm like, I think I
- 25:49Speaker 1: can do this. I think I can train girls under
- 25:51Speaker 1: me and do it, you know, my way, and hopefully
- 25:54Speaker 1: create like a team and just open my own place.
- 25:57Speaker 1: And it just snowballed. And thank god, that just kept
- 26:00Speaker 1: going and going and we never, um, well We've had
- 26:03Speaker 1: a few hiccups, but never anything where I'm like I
- 26:05Speaker 1: need to close. It's just it's just so much a
- 26:07Speaker 1: boil from everybody that it's just been doing so good.
- 26:10Speaker 1: So I opened my second one and I'm so happy.
- 26:13Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm so excited to even have like the
- 26:16Speaker 1: support from the Hispanic community. So how did you get
- 26:20Speaker 1: into the beauty industry? Like, how did what is your
- 26:23Speaker 1: origin story? How did you start? I've always liked makeup
- 26:26Speaker 1: since I was a little girl. Um, Like I said,
- 26:28Speaker 1: I used to like like play with barbies and make
- 26:30Speaker 1: make them like be in a little beauty salon. Um.
- 26:33Speaker 1: And then just what always do my friends makeup? I
- 26:35Speaker 1: would do like their eyebrows ejinior high um and just
- 26:39Speaker 1: always wanted to be in the beauty industry. Unfortunately, you know,
- 26:43Speaker 1: in the Hispanic maybe in other communities, UM, a lot
- 26:46Speaker 1: of like our elders are like, oh, this is like right.
- 26:50Speaker 1: So I actually went to school UM for health information
- 26:54Speaker 1: management and that has absolutely nothing to do with this,
- 26:57Speaker 1: and but everybody was like, you have to teach your degree,
- 26:59Speaker 1: you have to you know, be a nurse, be a doctor,
- 27:02Speaker 1: like you know, do something else. So I was like, no,
- 27:05Speaker 1: I want to do makeup and eyebrow. Well. I think
- 27:08Speaker 1: also in the last few years being a makeup artist,
- 27:11Speaker 1: we've seen like the actual career like business part of
- 27:16Speaker 1: and I would say that that's really due to social
- 27:18Speaker 1: media that we've been able to see the business side
- 27:21Speaker 1: of being a makeup artist, being um, a brow like specialist, hairstylists,
- 27:26Speaker 1: like any type of beauty, cosmetology, artistry is like really,
- 27:30Speaker 1: I feel like we're at a point where we can
- 27:33Speaker 1: really value it for its artistry and it's you know,
- 27:36Speaker 1: also economic side of it. Yeah, it's just crazy. Like
- 27:40Speaker 1: back in the day, you thought you can never make
- 27:42Speaker 1: a living off of um, you know, eyebrows. You would think, yeah,
- 27:46Speaker 1: a hairdresser, but never just a makeup person or a
- 27:49Speaker 1: hair I'm sorry brow artists, Like I never thought it
- 27:52Speaker 1: would get to where it was. And thank God for
- 27:54Speaker 1: social media because that's where I really started, um you know,
- 27:57Speaker 1: branching out and getting more and more clients and um
- 28:00Speaker 1: most of my clienteles and meeting amazing people throughout the way.
- 28:03Speaker 1: So that was a big, big health Yeah, for sure.
- 28:06Speaker 1: Do you do you see a lot of other Latina
- 28:10Speaker 1: beauty experts, makeup artists really thriving off of social media.
- 28:13Speaker 1: Is that like a place where like you're in good company? Yeah, definitely.
- 28:18Speaker 1: I feel like just Latinas in general, I feel like
- 28:21Speaker 1: we're taking over, Like we're really like doing everything. Um like,
- 28:25Speaker 1: not not to dis men, but I really think Latinas
- 28:28Speaker 1: are taking over and social media is a way to go.
- 28:31Speaker 1: That's just the way to get your audience, um, to
- 28:34Speaker 1: pay attention and to see all your work and you
- 28:36Speaker 1: have a big big audience for marketing and stuff there
- 28:40Speaker 1: and just we are were all about dissing men here
- 28:43Speaker 1: on this podcast. I don't have to preface it. Girls
- 28:46Speaker 1: taking over, you know what I mean. There's a lot
- 28:49Speaker 1: of women business owners and Latinas are like we have
- 28:54Speaker 1: a lot of economic power in like what we put
- 28:57Speaker 1: our money to, which is why I mean, I think
- 29:00Speaker 1: we're big proponents of like reinvesting it into our community.
- 29:03Speaker 1: So like supporting local businesses, local artists, like that is
- 29:07Speaker 1: something that we're really about because it really does come
- 29:09Speaker 1: back to our community. No, absolutely, and I even think
- 29:13Speaker 1: about like like my grandma and my mom even used
- 29:18Speaker 1: to sell like avon, So there's even historically there's that
- 29:23Speaker 1: inclination of dipping into the beauty industry to supplement your income.
- 29:27Speaker 1: That's not foreign to us, like elders like Modes and
- 29:30Speaker 1: our community have worked in beauty, not with this such
- 29:33Speaker 1: autonomy though an ownership over it. But I feel that
- 29:38Speaker 1: big time. I feel like UM and word of mouth
- 29:40Speaker 1: too is big in our community too. If if you
- 29:44Speaker 1: hear like your you know she's really good, and then
- 29:47Speaker 1: you're gonna go yeah. Or then if you just go
- 29:50Speaker 1: and yelp and reading y'all review, you're going to go
- 29:52Speaker 1: to who your friends you know, refer you to. When
- 29:54Speaker 1: I was looking for somebody to cut my hair, I
- 29:57Speaker 1: went to Tons person a beauty box. Um because it's
- 30:01Speaker 1: Latina owns and all the stylists are all Modes or
- 30:07Speaker 1: Latinas beauty box on sunset plug plug plug Yeah, absolutely,
- 30:13Speaker 1: So the mouth is really powerful. Where the mouth is powerful,
- 30:16Speaker 1: that goes into and you know, uh kind of bringing
- 30:19Speaker 1: it back to other themes we've talked about on the
- 30:21Speaker 1: podcast before. We've talked about cheese Man on the podcast
- 30:23Speaker 1: before there's good cheese Man, Oh my god, spreading business,
- 30:27Speaker 1: Yeah good, And then we've also talked about fem tech
- 30:30Speaker 1: and makeup from tech. Yes, so there's a science behind
- 30:33Speaker 1: If you haven't into that Capitolo, it's one of our
- 30:35Speaker 1: earlier ones. That's like I think foundational caplo what we're about. Um,
- 30:39Speaker 1: but there's so much science and math and chemistry and
- 30:43Speaker 1: physics and all that ship. Like makeup is like incredibly scientific,
- 30:48Speaker 1: like not only the production but even just like the
- 30:51Speaker 1: symmetry in putting your winging your eyeliner and finding the
- 30:55Speaker 1: perfect shade, Like there is so much science to that
- 30:57Speaker 1: and we value that and we value you that are
- 31:00Speaker 1: well as I've been doing it. Our ancestors have been
- 31:03Speaker 1: playing with makeup in some type of artistic and scientific
- 31:07Speaker 1: way for centuries. Yeah, So like for you and as
- 31:12Speaker 1: far as like perfecting your craft and your training and
- 31:14Speaker 1: thinking of like makeup and symmetry and brows like you know,
- 31:18Speaker 1: as being like a technical skill, Like what is your
- 31:21Speaker 1: sort of take on that? Like where do you see
- 31:24Speaker 1: like that really technical side of makeup? Um, I really
- 31:27Speaker 1: feel like I like where we're at right now. I
- 31:29Speaker 1: like that there's like I feel like throughout the years,
- 31:32Speaker 1: like we have gone through like the eighties, and we've
- 31:34Speaker 1: gone through like the Cholas, and we've gone through like
- 31:37Speaker 1: you know, getting nuts for it's really thick in certain communities,
- 31:40Speaker 1: and then now I feel like we just kind of
- 31:42Speaker 1: are all across the board whatever saw you want. They
- 31:44Speaker 1: have glitter brows, they have you know, just all the
- 31:47Speaker 1: people are just like have you guys noticed there's just
- 31:49Speaker 1: like not one trend now, there's just like everybody has
- 31:52Speaker 1: their own trends. So I feel like that's that's for
- 31:55Speaker 1: what I love right now. But the beauty world that
- 31:57Speaker 1: it's so just multiversal, like everybody is just doing what
- 32:01Speaker 1: they want and it's very um how do I say
- 32:03Speaker 1: very like your that's how you express yourself, like the
- 32:06Speaker 1: autonomy to choose how your brows even look like either
- 32:09Speaker 1: thin or bold or however even the color. And I
- 32:13Speaker 1: just love working with people on their eyebrows too. It
- 32:16Speaker 1: just brings out their face, can make you look younger, right, right,
- 32:21Speaker 1: can you talk about um for you? I'm I can
- 32:25Speaker 1: imagine that you see a lot of this, like that
- 32:27Speaker 1: confidence boosts that you see in your clients when they
- 32:29Speaker 1: get their brows done, or even how that is also
- 32:32Speaker 1: empowering for them. UM. I really love to just have
- 32:36Speaker 1: them smile afterwards, and just like the way their eyebrows,
- 32:38Speaker 1: Like I'm certain I brought their eyes irows at. Um.
- 32:43Speaker 1: It's just like especially with microblading. Um, you know, we
- 32:46Speaker 1: add hair to where they didn't have hair. We have
- 32:47Speaker 1: a lot of women who did over tweets you know
- 32:50Speaker 1: high school. I did too. UM, And it just really UM,
- 32:54Speaker 1: it's very fulfilling. Although it can I mean it is
- 32:57Speaker 1: a little superficial, you know when I think about it,
- 33:00Speaker 1: but it isn't because at the end of the day,
- 33:01Speaker 1: you know, it makes someone feel better about themselves. UM.
- 33:04Speaker 1: We try to do a lot of stuff like I
- 33:06Speaker 1: was saying earlier, like the what you were saying the
- 33:08Speaker 1: American Cancer Society, So we do a lot of stuff
- 33:11Speaker 1: for them, and UM, get back to cancer patients. Um,
- 33:14Speaker 1: We've done all the piecia of patients and we try
- 33:16Speaker 1: to do some provo and stuff. There are people, So
- 33:19Speaker 1: that makes me feel so good that I mean, I
- 33:21Speaker 1: don't think there's anything superficial about wanting to feel good.
- 33:24Speaker 1: So I like, I know, like, so my mom actually
- 33:27Speaker 1: has like very thin eyebrows, and we were trying to
- 33:29Speaker 1: figure it out because none of us have thin eyebrows
- 33:31Speaker 1: like my mom like barely has like any So we
- 33:34Speaker 1: were trying to figure out, like, Okay, when did this start?
- 33:37Speaker 1: And we found we realized that back in the day,
- 33:39Speaker 1: in the nineties, my mom used to dye her eyebrows
- 33:41Speaker 1: with like the hair products that you would put in
- 33:43Speaker 1: your hair. So I'm like, you burn your eyebrows off essentially, right,
- 33:48Speaker 1: So I know, like some like my mom was too
- 33:50Speaker 1: afraid to do tattooing, like I wrote tattooings. So I
- 33:52Speaker 1: feel like now the microblading is a thing, like that's
- 33:55Speaker 1: something that she could do and would she would feel
- 33:58Speaker 1: better about her eyebrows. That's happy media. Yeah. Yeah, and
- 34:01Speaker 1: it doesn't last as long, so it's not as permanent, right,
- 34:04Speaker 1: um so, but it definitely has hair. It looks great,
- 34:08Speaker 1: it looks very natural, it does microblading is beautiful. I
- 34:11Speaker 1: kind of love this because how much of like, like
- 34:14Speaker 1: the beauty technology now kind of allows us I'm thinking
- 34:18Speaker 1: older women especially. This is where this conversation is going back.
- 34:20Speaker 1: How much of the current technology is allowing like older
- 34:23Speaker 1: women to like still participate in beauty and revive the
- 34:27Speaker 1: damage that's been done from years of like old beauty
- 34:30Speaker 1: practices that are more damaging. Right, my mom used to
- 34:33Speaker 1: put baby all on her skin and go out in
- 34:35Speaker 1: the sun like to cook. Yes, the skins you have
- 34:39Speaker 1: like all these freckles on her back because she would
- 34:42Speaker 1: put baby al on in the speech, So do you
- 34:44Speaker 1: see a lot of that, like older women coming in
- 34:45Speaker 1: and women you're able to kind of bring it back exactly.
- 34:48Speaker 1: That's um. That And again that's something that I love
- 34:51Speaker 1: to do, is you know, make them really happy about
- 34:53Speaker 1: looking good. Um. And most of my clients are older women,
- 34:56Speaker 1: Like you would think I did have a lot of
- 34:58Speaker 1: younger women, but honestly, most of my clients are older there,
- 35:02Speaker 1: you know, between thirties and up. That's amazing because I
- 35:06Speaker 1: love that we need to like value the beauty in
- 35:09Speaker 1: our older women and older meaning like not twenties and
- 35:13Speaker 1: not thirties, because there's so much emphasis on that in
- 35:16Speaker 1: any market right, prime, our prime right. And so I
- 35:20Speaker 1: think that's amazing that you made that point that your
- 35:22Speaker 1: clients are older women and are probably mothers, probably even grandmother's,
- 35:26Speaker 1: you know, and they are also still taking care of
- 35:28Speaker 1: themselves and like I mean, I know, like Mala, you
- 35:32Speaker 1: like our mom's like six to month in and Sequi
- 35:34Speaker 1: and Muncho like they love to be And my mom
- 35:39Speaker 1: has always taken very good care of herself and has
- 35:43Speaker 1: continued to participate in the glam she she loves it.
- 35:47Speaker 1: So it is my mom. Yeah, and I think that
- 35:49Speaker 1: also you can see that in us because Marma exactly.
- 35:53Speaker 1: It does trickle down, for sure, it does trickle down.
- 35:55Speaker 1: So what is the future for the brow guru? Like
- 35:58Speaker 1: where do you see yourself off? And how do you
- 36:00Speaker 1: want to grow this or like what's the what's the future? Like,
- 36:03Speaker 1: I have a couple of things in the works, um,
- 36:06Speaker 1: and we're just gonna kind of give a little bit
- 36:08Speaker 1: of hints away because I don't want to like totally
- 36:10Speaker 1: say it, but we do. I've been trying to start
- 36:13Speaker 1: to do a lot of microblating classes, um, and I
- 36:15Speaker 1: love teaching. It's actually like awakened, like something else in
- 36:18Speaker 1: me that I'm like, I really like this, So I
- 36:20Speaker 1: feel like I want to do a school eventually, but
- 36:24Speaker 1: I want like a real school. Like I'm not saying
- 36:26Speaker 1: like there are real schools out there, but I wanted
- 36:28Speaker 1: to be like fast, but like I want to be
- 36:30Speaker 1: able to the government to recognize the UM. I want
- 36:33Speaker 1: women to be able to get college loans. I want,
- 36:37Speaker 1: like any loan that you can get, I want to
- 36:39Speaker 1: be able to tap into that and be able to
- 36:41Speaker 1: provide it to the community. UM like an accredited, accredited
- 36:46Speaker 1: school school and not just like you have schools that
- 36:50Speaker 1: are like like your Marianello's or your Western Media where
- 36:52Speaker 1: you're getting your education, but then you take all your
- 36:55Speaker 1: extra courses out of your pocket and you're learning from
- 36:57Speaker 1: you know, these big gurus like mac Daddy or whoever,
- 37:00Speaker 1: and you're paying him separate. And then it's like, no,
- 37:02Speaker 1: I want to have both of them together. And I
- 37:05Speaker 1: see that's my dream, and I want to have like
- 37:09Speaker 1: all the best you know hairdressers, all the best micropladers,
- 37:12Speaker 1: all the best proud artists or makeup artists there, and
- 37:15Speaker 1: that you're actually learning, like you're the craft, that you're
- 37:19Speaker 1: not just learning. Hey, let me pass day board and
- 37:22Speaker 1: try to. I wanted to be like leg Do you
- 37:26Speaker 1: know are there any schools run by women of color
- 37:29Speaker 1: or like independent beauty schools that I knew of? There
- 37:33Speaker 1: was Western Beauty they just opened UM in Chatsworth in
- 37:36Speaker 1: the Valley. I'm sure there's some more out here. Um
- 37:39Speaker 1: but a lot of these schools are mainly like community
- 37:41Speaker 1: colleges right now or UM or they're just like Barbara.
- 37:46Speaker 1: I haven't seen like any like really big schools lately.
- 37:49Speaker 1: That's kind of hard to get funding. Very interesting, life interesting.
- 37:53Speaker 1: I love that. I love that vision. I love that
- 37:55Speaker 1: dream that you have. Yeah, and then I have one more. Yes.
- 37:59Speaker 1: Um So we want to start like a this is
- 38:02Speaker 1: not going to be the legit name, but like a
- 38:03Speaker 1: boss babe seminar for women kind of like you guys
- 38:06Speaker 1: went to one recently. It was the we um is
- 38:09Speaker 1: it we All Grow? Or there was another one? There
- 38:11Speaker 1: is a We All Grow? I don't we didn't attend
- 38:13Speaker 1: that one. Boat. Yeah that's a big but that is
- 38:15Speaker 1: a big conference we've done. Yeah. Um So I want
- 38:20Speaker 1: something like that, but I want it very business base
- 38:22Speaker 1: because I feel like a lot of women are doing
- 38:24Speaker 1: things like you know, baking cakes and like making cake
- 38:26Speaker 1: pops or um they make jewelry, and I just feel
- 38:29Speaker 1: like they don't know where to go for the next step.
- 38:32Speaker 1: And I want to have a conference where it's like,
- 38:34Speaker 1: this is how you get your business license, this is
- 38:36Speaker 1: how you open a corporation, this is how legally we
- 38:39Speaker 1: need that, and that let us know we've been talking
- 38:44Speaker 1: about those things. That's so funny. It's a lot of work,
- 38:47Speaker 1: and I try to It took me years to figure
- 38:49Speaker 1: this out all of my own. Nobody helped me. I
- 38:51Speaker 1: just and I even pulled out so many licenses and
- 38:54Speaker 1: permits and all the stuff that I even got fined
- 38:56Speaker 1: because they're like, you shouldn't have even pulled that out.
- 38:58Speaker 1: You don't need this, and so out Like I feel like, okay,
- 39:01Speaker 1: did this all on my own. Let me give back
- 39:03Speaker 1: and teach people how to do it. Brilliant that that's amazing. Yeah, definitely,
- 39:08Speaker 1: you're obviously giving back to the community, and a skill
- 39:11Speaker 1: share and knowledge share is really important. Especially I feel
- 39:14Speaker 1: like so many Latinas have the capacity and ability to
- 39:17Speaker 1: open up their own businesses. But it's like you said,
- 39:19Speaker 1: where do I start? Where do I start? And even
- 39:21Speaker 1: little things like how do I know if I'm not
- 39:23Speaker 1: getting screwed over on this rent right, you know, like,
- 39:25Speaker 1: how do I sign a proper contract? You know, who
- 39:28Speaker 1: do you ask? Like that? Yeah? Absolutely, this is all amazing,
- 39:33Speaker 1: and this is amazing. I wanted to ask one final
- 39:36Speaker 1: question for our locomotives, for our listeners, UM, are there
- 39:39Speaker 1: any brow tips or beauty tips you can give away? Um?
- 39:44Speaker 1: The biggest brow tips is if you are doing your
- 39:47Speaker 1: eyebrows on your own. I just recommend that if you
- 39:50Speaker 1: have spaces or you over tweets, we make a product
- 39:54Speaker 1: made out of castor oil and essential oils. You guys
- 39:56Speaker 1: can make it yourself. You guys can go to like
- 39:58Speaker 1: Sprouts or Whole Foods or wherever bas sell um you
- 40:01Speaker 1: know organic and natural things, and by um Co Castro oil,
- 40:04Speaker 1: sorry and apply castro. It works like amazingly to help
- 40:08Speaker 1: your eyebrows even your lashes grow, So I always, UM,
- 40:11Speaker 1: we have it at the shops. Chi doesn't even just
- 40:13Speaker 1: give it away super cheap. Um doesn't break you out,
- 40:16Speaker 1: So that's the biggest thing. UM. Try if you are
- 40:19Speaker 1: getting your brows and professionally, don't tweet before or after.
- 40:23Speaker 1: Just let your brow girl do her thing. Um, and
- 40:26Speaker 1: really that's it. Don't doll these baby oil ever preced
- 40:33Speaker 1: put STF on everybody. Oh my goodness, great tips, Yes,
- 40:39Speaker 1: great tips. Is there anything else you want to share?
- 40:41Speaker 1: Any final thoughts? I did want to share that, like, um,
- 40:45Speaker 1: well about the music. Yes, So one of the songs
- 40:49Speaker 1: I picked was Selena. That's one of my husband's favorite
- 40:54Speaker 1: songs because he's from Texas and he's like in love
- 40:56Speaker 1: fully shout out makes sense, and I just like wanted
- 41:00Speaker 1: to let you guys know all of my brow commades
- 41:02Speaker 1: that we carry are all named after women of color. Um.
- 41:06Speaker 1: When I first got the packaging, they were named after
- 41:09Speaker 1: non women of color, and I was like, I could
- 41:11Speaker 1: have kept it, but I'm like, these are mine. I
- 41:13Speaker 1: want to like repackage them. So, um I named them
- 41:17Speaker 1: Like we have um Aaliyah, we have air Kaba do
- 41:20Speaker 1: we have Jlo Selena and imagines them too. It's not
- 41:24Speaker 1: like j Loo's black. It's like j Loo's like a
- 41:26Speaker 1: pretty like dark blonde. We have Mariah. Selena's like our
- 41:30Speaker 1: most like top selling color. It's like a medium brown.
- 41:33Speaker 1: Um Aaliyah's like a really pretty chocolate. So yeah, so
- 41:37Speaker 1: then we picked Selena. Um kind of in homage. I
- 41:42Speaker 1: love it. I love And if people want to check
- 41:45Speaker 1: out one of your stores, one of your locations, where
- 41:47Speaker 1: can they find you? How do they support, how do
- 41:49Speaker 1: they follow? How do they get their brows done? Yeah?
- 41:52Speaker 1: So we're open Tuesday through Saturday, ten to seven. We
- 41:55Speaker 1: have a shop in uptown Whittier. Um right now, thanks
- 41:58Speaker 1: shout out to witter. You guys have been absolutely amazing
- 42:00Speaker 1: to me. You guys are so nice. Um. And we
- 42:03Speaker 1: have a shop in Granada Hills, which is my first
- 42:06Speaker 1: shop and also open tennis seven Tuesday through Saturday. If
- 42:09Speaker 1: I'm not there, we do have full staff to always
- 42:11Speaker 1: take care of you guys. We do lashes, microblading, um,
- 42:14Speaker 1: body waxing, eyebrows, and we also sell products. Um. We
- 42:18Speaker 1: also saw other products too, so just stop by if
- 42:21Speaker 1: you even want to look. We have candles UM. I
- 42:23Speaker 1: try to carry only things that are handmade and made
- 42:25Speaker 1: from women of color. Very amazing. And your socials where
- 42:29Speaker 1: can people find you online? Um? So I'm the browd guru.
- 42:32Speaker 1: UM and my uh sorry, my website is prime budor
- 42:36Speaker 1: dot com. So that handle is prime at prime budor
- 42:39Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook. Amazing. Well, thank you so much
- 42:44Speaker 1: for joining us, Thank you guys for having me, thanks
- 42:48Speaker 1: for visitings for being here. Um So, before we close out,
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