Latest / The D.L. Hughley Show / DLHS Hour 2 | White People Wearing Traditional Black Hairstyles
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- 0:00Speaker 1: It is the DLU show, the 2026. Connection. This is
- 0:05Speaker 1: what happened.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Do you think it's offensive if I wear braids?
- 0:09Speaker 3: Yes, because you don't understand the culture or the meaning
- 0:13Speaker 3: behind the braids. White girl with braids just doesn't fit
- 0:17Speaker 3: right in my spirit.
- 0:18Speaker 4: Like you're literally trying to cosplay me.
- 0:21Speaker 2: How am I trying to cosplay you when Vikings have
- 0:22Speaker 2: been to braids? I'm a Viking with this hairstyle right now.
- 0:25Speaker 2: And if anything, you're cosplaying me because you're wearing a
- 0:27Speaker 2: wig right now, which doesn't fit right with my spirit.
- 0:30Speaker 3: You guys just want to be us so bad.
- 0:33Speaker 5: I don't, I don't, I think when I was younger,
- 0:36Speaker 5: I didn't like a lot of things. Now it just
- 0:38Speaker 5: kind of doesn't matter to me, you know, but I don't,
- 0:41Speaker 5: I don't know who wears more fake hair, dudes or women. Yeah, now.
- 0:46Speaker 1: I can't tell who wears more.
- 0:46Speaker 4: For the past two years or so.
- 0:47Speaker 5: If I see one dude, one more dude with drill
- 0:50Speaker 5: legs he didn't have the day before, I think I'll
- 0:51Speaker 5: lose my mind.
- 0:53Speaker 4: FYI too now, not just hair, but you know, men
- 0:56Speaker 4: also do all of this, the beard and the mustache.
- 0:58Speaker 4: You can get the whole, you can get your.
- 0:59Speaker 6: Whole new face.
- 1:00Speaker 1: I know somebody with a turkey and got it.
- 1:02Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 1:02Speaker 4: Oh, yeah.
- 1:03Speaker 1: A beard transplant.
- 1:05Speaker 4: Where do you transplant?
- 1:06Speaker 1: Where do they bring... Oh, I don't know where it is.
- 1:09Speaker 8: I don't know.
- 1:09Speaker 1: I don't know where it is, but I know.
- 1:12Speaker 5: You know, listen, whatever you want to do, but I
- 1:15Speaker 5: think that the greatest form of flattery is imitation, right? Yeah.
- 1:20Speaker 1: Remember Michael Bolton? He just did the Eileen Brothers like
- 1:22Speaker 1: it wasn't there. There's a long list of others. Like
- 1:27Speaker 1: I'm saying, they just.
- 1:29Speaker 5: Milton Berle used to go to the black comic, the chitlin' circuit,
- 1:33Speaker 5: and watch black comics and steal their jokes.
- 1:35Speaker 1: Yep.
- 1:36Speaker 5: So it's just not, you know, it's always, you know,
- 1:40Speaker 5: you live in this level of proximity with people.
- 1:42Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I was about to say, you're going to
- 1:44Speaker 4: have some lead over, for sure.
- 1:45Speaker 5: Yeah. So does it bother you when white people wear
- 1:48Speaker 5: traditional black hairstyles? I mean, even like when they wear
- 1:52Speaker 5: close cuts, you know what I mean? The way they
- 1:54Speaker 5: wear a face, that's us too.
- 1:56Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
- 1:57Speaker 4: It is.
- 1:58Speaker 10: Yeah.
- 1:58Speaker 4: I don't necessarily care. I'm not going to tell you
- 2:00Speaker 4: the truth.
- 2:00Speaker 1: Not at all. I don't care.
- 2:01Speaker 4: Do what you want to with your hair. It's growing
- 2:03Speaker 4: out of your scalp. You can fry it. You can
- 2:05Speaker 4: dye it. You can lay it to the side. That's
- 2:07Speaker 4: your business. I don't care.
- 2:08Speaker 5: Now, I think that you should have the commensurate credit
- 2:10Speaker 5: score when you wear black hair.
- 2:14Speaker 4: Well, let me ask you something. Does that also go
- 2:17Speaker 4: the other way? You say I got white hair, which
- 2:19Speaker 4: I don't, by the way.
- 2:20Speaker 11: Well, you do.
- 2:21Speaker 4: I'm just saying.
- 2:22Speaker 1: Do you know what happened yesterday?
- 2:24Speaker 5: I think it was something I thought about when I
- 2:28Speaker 5: was when, you know, we were doing the show yesterday.
- 2:32Speaker 5: But I got a table this and get to this question.
- 2:36Speaker 5: Does it bother you when people wear black, traditional black hairstyles?
- 2:40Speaker 5: That's the question we pose to you. We go right
- 2:41Speaker 5: to the phones.
- 2:42Speaker 12: I do have a problem with it.
- 2:44Speaker 9: And the reason that I do is because when I
- 2:46Speaker 9: was a little girl in school, my mother used to
- 2:48Speaker 9: put plaque, that's what we called it, in my hair.
- 2:51Speaker 9: And I was sitting in front of a white.
- 2:53Speaker 12: Girl after we had integrated, and she.
- 2:55Speaker 9: Touched my plaque. And she said, what is this? I
- 2:58Speaker 9: turned around and I slapped her hand. So then again,
- 3:01Speaker 9: I got in trouble for it because she made fun
- 3:05Speaker 9: of the way my hair was back then. And those
- 3:08Speaker 9: were flat. So now you see them wearing French braids
- 3:11Speaker 9: just like I had when I was a little girl.
- 3:14Speaker 9: And they want to do that. Also, you want to
- 3:16Speaker 9: go in a tan booth and they want to tan.
- 3:18Speaker 9: I watched them at the gym go in and out
- 3:20Speaker 9: of the tanning booth. apparently they have a problem.
- 3:23Speaker 13: With the color of their skin.
- 3:25Speaker 9: So they want to be brown also. Anything we invent
- 3:28Speaker 9: or create, like the chest bumps, the handshakes, they do
- 3:32Speaker 9: it too now. So we never copy anything that they
- 3:35Speaker 9: invent because they don't invent anything. So I do have
- 3:38Speaker 9: a problem with it. They need to stick to their
- 3:39Speaker 9: own little straight horse tail hair.
- 3:42Speaker 14: I think it goes both ways, and that if we're
- 3:45Speaker 14: going to be mad at them for wearing our styles,
- 3:48Speaker 14: then we got to do the same when we put
- 3:50Speaker 14: all that grease and methane on it and permit. You know,
- 3:53Speaker 14: it works both ways. It's a double-edged sword.
- 3:56Speaker 13: Well, I don't think that we should have a problem
- 3:58Speaker 13: with other cultures using our hair care products because look
- 4:02Speaker 13: at us with our nails. Look at us with the
- 4:05Speaker 13: Asians teaching us about all this hair we eat. It's
- 4:09Speaker 13: like we went back in the day in the 80s.
- 4:11Speaker 13: I don't even think our people even everybody was blue eye,
- 4:15Speaker 13: green eye. I mean, we want to do what everybody
- 4:18Speaker 13: else is doing. But as soon as they want to
- 4:20Speaker 13: do what we consider our culture, then we have a
- 4:22Speaker 13: problem with it. And I don't mind if a white
- 4:24Speaker 13: lady is in the hair care products because she may
- 4:26Speaker 13: have one of them brown curly hair babies. You know,
- 4:29Speaker 13: we don't want to always talk about that. Even though
- 4:31Speaker 13: she's white, she may have our kids at her home
- 4:35Speaker 13: that she needs to learn how to properly take care
- 4:37Speaker 13: of their hair.
- 4:38Speaker 10: I don't think it's a problem, you know, because I
- 4:41Speaker 10: think we set the standard for what is cool.
- 4:43Speaker 14: So I kind of appreciate that they copy it.
- 4:46Speaker 15: Actually, I don't think I have a big problem with
- 4:49Speaker 15: them wearing the braids. Actually, I love braiding on white girls'
- 4:53Speaker 15: hair because it turns out so beautifully. I know it's
- 4:58Speaker 15: off topic, but I actually hate when they date our men.
- 5:01Speaker 15: I know that's bad. I'm not racism or anything like that.
- 5:05Speaker 15: I just feel like they're trying to eliminate us.
- 5:07Speaker 1: And that's all. So this is the audio.
- 5:10Speaker 2: Do you think it's offensive if I wear braids?
- 5:12Speaker 3: Yes, because you don't understand the culture or the meaning
- 5:16Speaker 3: behind the braids. White girl with braids just doesn't fit
- 5:21Speaker 3: right in my spirit. Like you're literally trying to cosplay me.
- 5:24Speaker 2: How am I trying to cosplay you when Vikings have
- 5:26Speaker 2: been to braids? I'm a Viking with this hairstyle right now.
- 5:28Speaker 2: And if anything, you're cosplaying me because you're wearing a
- 5:30Speaker 2: wig right now, which doesn't fit right with my spirit.
- 5:33Speaker 3: You guys just want.
- 5:34Speaker 1: To be us so bad.
- 5:36Speaker 10: All right.
- 5:36Speaker 5: So does that bother you when some white people wear
- 5:38Speaker 5: traditional black hairstyle?
- 5:39Speaker 1: That's the question we're posing to. We're going right to
- 5:41Speaker 1: the phones.
- 5:42Speaker 7: Well, let's play reverse psychology.
- 5:43Speaker 16: We're not going to talk about black people wearing, you know,
- 5:48Speaker 16: white people trying to be black, as you say. I'm
- 5:51Speaker 16: going to play reverse psychology and say, why do black
- 5:54Speaker 16: people want to be white? Why don't y'all wear your
- 5:56Speaker 16: natural hair? Every black woman I know have weave.
- 5:59Speaker 7: That's not natural. That's not their hair. You can't touch
- 6:02Speaker 7: their scalp and why they wear contacts. They trying to
- 6:04Speaker 7: be white. Actually, it's not white people trying to be black.
- 6:07Speaker 7: It's actually black people trying to be white. Everybody you
- 6:09Speaker 7: know wear a wig.
- 6:11Speaker 12: And a wig is not a natural African-American woman's hair.
- 6:13Speaker 1: It's not at all.
- 6:14Speaker 7: We need to be for real with ourselves.
- 6:16Speaker 4: I want to ask everybody that.
- 6:17Speaker 7: Why are we trying to be white?
- 6:20Speaker 12: Why are we not wearing our real hair.
- 6:22Speaker 7: Color and our natural eyes? We want contacts and we
- 6:25Speaker 7: want to wear wigs. That's of European race.
- 6:28Speaker 11: Everybody wants to be a n * * * a,
- 6:30Speaker 11: but nobody wants to be a n * * * a.
- 6:32Speaker 11: They want to copy us, but they don't want to
- 6:35Speaker 11: be us because they don't want to have to go
- 6:36Speaker 11: through what we go through being black. But I wouldn't
- 6:39Speaker 11: want to be anything other than black, and I'll take
- 6:42Speaker 11: the struggle and the strife because.
- 6:44Speaker 14: I'm with my people.
- 6:46Speaker 8: I feel that whatever they want to do is fine
- 6:49Speaker 8: with me. I mean, if they want to wear our style,
- 6:52Speaker 8: that's fine, because we certainly have copied their style. We
- 6:56Speaker 8: want the straight hair, so we go out here and
- 6:59Speaker 8: borrow their hair, and then people are bleaching their skin.
- 7:02Speaker 8: So I feel if this is what you want to do,
- 7:05Speaker 8: do it. I mean, I have no problems with whatever
- 7:07Speaker 8: people want to do.
- 7:09Speaker 10: If black women can wear white-style long hair, which is
- 7:13Speaker 10: not natural to black, why can't they wear any style
- 7:16Speaker 10: they want to wear?
- 7:18Speaker 9: Okay, what's the difference?
- 7:19Speaker 10: That's the same difference.
- 7:21Speaker 12: I don't have an issue with them copying our hairstyles,
- 7:25Speaker 12: copying our clothing, our swag or anything. I say go ahead.
- 7:29Speaker 12: You know, it shows that they like our style. They
- 7:32Speaker 12: like the African-American, how we dress and how we do.
- 7:36Speaker 12: And I think that's okay. But if they really want
- 7:38Speaker 12: to feel it, shoot, go into the bank with black
- 7:41Speaker 12: and get denied. And then you're going to really know
- 7:43Speaker 12: what it feels like to be a black person. But
- 7:45Speaker 12: as far as them dressing and looking, that does not
- 7:48Speaker 12: bother me at all. I think it's a great thing.
- 7:50Speaker 10: And I'd just like to say we have a lot
- 7:52Speaker 10: of nerve getting mad at white folk wearing black hairstyles.
- 7:55Speaker 1: And this is the reason.
- 7:56Speaker 10: I just walked down the street today and I saw
- 7:59Speaker 10: 17 black women with blonde hair. I mean, with white hairstyles.
- 8:03Speaker 10: And we wear just as many of their hairstyles. We
- 8:05Speaker 10: don't have that many. They can't do too many of
- 8:07Speaker 10: our hairstyles with their hair. But the ones they can do,
- 8:09Speaker 10: they do with the dreads, with the curls and, you know,
- 8:12Speaker 10: things like that. But I think we should get just
- 8:14Speaker 10: as upset about these black women wearing white women hairstyles.
- 8:18Speaker 17: I am of color. I do not like it. They
- 8:22Speaker 17: have taken everything from us, including taking a bath.
- 8:26Speaker 1: So, yeah, I don't like it.
- 8:28Speaker 17: They have taken everything, our dance, everything, music, everything, our language.
- 8:35Speaker 17: I mean, at one point in time, you wouldn't hear
- 8:38Speaker 17: that on like Channel 5, but now you hear all
- 8:41Speaker 17: this black music and all of this stuff. So, no,
- 8:45Speaker 17: I don't like it.
- 8:46Speaker 10: My God, how many black folks wear traditional white folk hair?
- 8:52Speaker 10: We spend all our money on it.
- 8:53Speaker 11: But I say, do what you want to do. Double standards.
- 8:57Speaker 12: My issue is this.
- 8:58Speaker 18: I do have a problem because everything that we are,
- 9:01Speaker 18: they say they hate, and everything they hate, they try
- 9:04Speaker 18: to be. Get our complexion, get our rear ends, get
- 9:07Speaker 18: our hair, get everything that we have, but they hate us.
- 9:12Speaker 18: And even like our black men, but they hate black people,
- 9:16Speaker 18: but they want to have all of our characteristics.
- 9:18Speaker 10: That's sad.
- 9:25Speaker 5: That boy Trey is here to let us know what
- 9:27Speaker 5: life is like in an HBCU with my life on
- 9:29Speaker 5: the yard.
- 9:30Speaker 1: What's good, y'all?
- 9:34Speaker 6: This is that boy Trey. Back again with another episode
- 9:52Speaker 6: of My Life After ER. An inside look at HBCU
- 9:55Speaker 6: graduate life. But damn, man, it is feeling like the
- 9:58Speaker 6: end of an era right now. because everything goes right
- 10:02Speaker 6: this probably the last time y'all gonna hear from me
- 10:04Speaker 6: checking in with this same little intro my life on
- 10:06Speaker 6: the yard my life after yard all this then the
- 10:08Speaker 6: third because i'm actively not in college I graduated. We
- 10:14Speaker 6: on the other stuff. Need to get on my grown man.
- 10:18Speaker 6: So with that being said, yeah, man, it's been a.
- 10:21Speaker 1: Hell of a ride.
- 10:23Speaker 6: Upward is almost four years now.
- 10:25Speaker 1: I've been shaking in with y'all.
- 10:26Speaker 6: Then y'all know what's going on. And it's crazy, man.
- 10:31Speaker 6: Y'all was here from me checking in during my freshman
- 10:34Speaker 6: year to now moving on to my sophomore year. Even
- 10:37Speaker 6: when I came back to Dallas trying to hoop and stuff.
- 10:40Speaker 6: But now we are all the way done, bro. My
- 10:43Speaker 6: senior year was probably my most exciting year in college.
- 10:48Speaker 6: Even had me thinking, damn, right when I'm starting to
- 10:51Speaker 6: get my footing in.
- 10:51Speaker 1: This stuff, I had to leave. Hey, that's life, man.
- 10:56Speaker 6: And it's all happening and all unfolding the way it's
- 10:59Speaker 6: supposed to be because I'm about to do so much
- 11:02Speaker 6: bigger and better. crazy stuff now like now i ain't
- 11:06Speaker 6: gotta worry about school but i'm still gonna miss the
- 11:09Speaker 6: hell out of school and that's crazy for me to
- 11:12Speaker 6: say i hate school i know i'm still gonna be
- 11:15Speaker 6: able to come back for homecomings and here and there
- 11:20Speaker 6: whenever i want that's the thing about this hvcu especially
- 11:25Speaker 6: spellhouse auc connection is that it never leaves you it
- 11:30Speaker 6: sticks with you for life i got friends people I've
- 11:33Speaker 6: met throughout my time as a college student in Atlanta
- 11:38Speaker 6: that are going to remain connections for the rest of
- 11:41Speaker 6: my life. I'm going to always have that title of
- 11:44Speaker 6: Morehouse man attached to my name. It's never going to
- 11:48Speaker 6: leave me. I got it tatted on me. I got
- 11:50Speaker 6: the logo tatted on me. This connection is way more
- 11:54Speaker 6: than skin deep. Like I can call some of my
- 11:56Speaker 6: people's that are Morehouse alum and they got me with whatever.
- 12:02Speaker 19: That's the kind of connection that's fostered at HBCU and
- 12:06Speaker 19: now moving on to the better things in life I'm
- 12:09Speaker 19: gonna really be able to take advantage of this Morehouse
- 12:12Speaker 19: man title and don't even get me started when I
- 12:15Speaker 19: come back for homecoming.
- 12:16Speaker 1: This October homecoming as a.
- 12:18Speaker 6: Lump man I'm gonna have a time That's all I
- 12:22Speaker 6: got for y'all today. This is that boy Trey checking
- 12:26Speaker 6: out from my life after the yard, an inside look
- 12:30Speaker 6: at HBCU life.