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Why Women Are About to Control More Money Than Ever (And What It Means for You) · Rock My Finances

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Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, welcome back to Rock my finances. Today's kind
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Speaker 2: of an interesting topic. Why women are about to control
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Speaker 2: more money than ever before and what that means to you. So,
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Speaker 2: first of all, why no one's really talking about this?
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Speaker 2: But women are receiving more money, but many still carry
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Speaker 2: old beliefs about money. So this is why we're going
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Speaker 2: to talk about this today. So we can have more
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Speaker 2: money in our life, but we still feel unsure, overwhelmed,
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Speaker 2: or even afraid to make decisions. So more money doesn't
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Speaker 2: fix old relationships with money, it just amplifies it. So
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Speaker 2: this is why we want to talk about it. Money
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Speaker 2: is shifting into hands of women today, but the confidence
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Speaker 2: is not automatically shifting with it. So there's several reasons
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Speaker 2: why they're receiving more money than we ever have before.
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Speaker 2: First of all, guess what, y'all we live longer? Yes
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Speaker 2: we do. I say we talk the men to death
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Speaker 2: because we have so many more words that we use,
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Speaker 2: but yes, we're just outliving men basically. So whether we
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Speaker 2: plan it or we don't plan it, many women will
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Speaker 2: eventually become the one managing everything, and a lot of
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Speaker 2: them don't plan for it. So things, all different types
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Speaker 2: of things can happen, but it's more than likely every
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Speaker 2: woman in the country will be handling her own finances
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Speaker 2: sometime in her life. Second reason, there's a massive wealth
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Speaker 2: transfer happening right now. There's trillions of dollars being passed
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Speaker 2: down and a large portion is going to women. And
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Speaker 2: that's from our baby boomers from before baby boomers like
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Speaker 2: it's it's amazing. And Third, women are earning more than
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Speaker 2: we have ever before. Are we still have a paid gap, Yes,
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Speaker 2: we do, but we're earning more than we ever have before.
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Speaker 2: We're also there's more college graduates, they're working more, we're
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Speaker 2: starting businesses, we're building incomes, and we're creating our own wealth. Finally,
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Speaker 2: we're getting on the bandwagon for this. And there's a
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Speaker 2: lot of life transitions as well, divorce, widowhood. I've done
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Speaker 2: both right, so I've handled my own money on both
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Speaker 2: sides of that where women go from shared responsibility to
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Speaker 2: completely full responsibility around their money and even inside relationships,
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Speaker 2: women are becoming more involved, They're becoming more informed and
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Speaker 2: often the primary decision maker. I can tell you it's
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Speaker 2: the financial advisory, a woman financial advisor. I have a
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Speaker 2: lot of women that handle all their households, money, budget, retirement, investments,
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Speaker 2: bill paying, everything. The husband just isn't into it as
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Speaker 2: either busy doing something else or they just don't really
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Speaker 2: like it. So the woman hires me because we want
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Speaker 2: to have a sounding board, right. Women like to talk
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Speaker 2: things out, and if their spouse is just not interested,
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Speaker 2: then it's great to have a financial advisor to kick
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Speaker 2: the tires way and to figure out what you're going
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Speaker 2: to do next, and to really go over your plan
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Speaker 2: really really well. Then I bring the husbands in a
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Speaker 2: couple times a year and go over everything with them
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Speaker 2: as well, so that they know what's happening. And that's
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Speaker 2: just natural and even inside the relationships when we have this,
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Speaker 2: it might even be men that are doing it all.
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Speaker 2: But I still always say, you've got to make sure
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Speaker 2: if you're a woman, you have to know where the
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Speaker 2: passwords are. You have to know how to bill pay,
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Speaker 2: you have to know where retirement is, you have to
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Speaker 2: know where the statements are. You should be educated on
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Speaker 2: investments to a certain extent so that you know what's happening.
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Speaker 2: This isn't a small shift that's happening right now in
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Speaker 2: our country, and what's happening this is actually a complete
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Speaker 2: change of financial power woo wooh. Come on, girls, we're
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Speaker 2: getting into this now. So when we've become a widow,
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Speaker 2: I have to handle everything now, divorce. I never used
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Speaker 2: to do this part. Now I have to do everything
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Speaker 2: as a business owner. Now it's all on me. Right.
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Speaker 2: No one teaches you how to emotionally step into that role.
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Speaker 2: So we are stepping into that role because it's thrust
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Speaker 2: it upon us like life just happens. So we want
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Speaker 2: to have our emotions catch up to what's happening in reality.
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Speaker 2: And that's what I'm here for. We're going to talk
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Speaker 2: about this. So sitting on cash and afraid to move it.
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Speaker 2: So we just had a client come over and they
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Speaker 2: have about three hundred and fifty thousand dollars in cash,
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Speaker 2: and they have about a million and a half all
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Speaker 2: invested everywhere. But that's a lot of cash, and it's
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Speaker 2: in a retirement account. They're not going to use it
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Speaker 2: for another twenty years at least. So they're just afraid
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Speaker 2: because they don't know who to trust and what to do.
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Speaker 2: So that's something that we can help with, right, avoiding decisions,
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Speaker 2: that's when you're not sure what to do. This is
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Speaker 2: another reason why nothing happens over researching and never acting.
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Speaker 2: I know that's you out there. I know it. I
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Speaker 2: have been questioned so many times by so many people.
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Speaker 2: We spend hours with people because we don't charge, at
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Speaker 2: least I don't charge for my first appointment, right, We
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Speaker 2: just I do a seminar to some education teaching, and
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Speaker 2: then we have our first appointment and I give you
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Speaker 2: a proposal and then we go from there. That's all
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Speaker 2: complimentary because I want to see if we're a good fit.
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Speaker 2: Not only am I checking you out, you're checking me out.
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Speaker 2: I'm checking you out. I want my clients to be
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Speaker 2: attentive to where they're going to show up at meetings.
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Speaker 2: They're going to take my call that they are going
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Speaker 2: to make my time just as valuable as their time,
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Speaker 2: and that they're going to respect their money and want
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Speaker 2: their money to grow and become that goal or to
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Speaker 2: be able to accomplish whatever goal that they have. So
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Speaker 2: on those first couple appointments, we're checking each other out
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Speaker 2: to see if we want to be a good fit
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Speaker 2: or not, because it's usually, you know, a pretty long
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Speaker 2: time that you're together. So money without clarity does not
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Speaker 2: create peace, It just creates more pressure. So when we
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Speaker 2: get these great big lump thumbs or an inheritance from
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Speaker 2: our family, and we're not sure what to do with it,
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Speaker 2: who to trust. It can bring a lot of pressure.
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Speaker 2: And if you don't have any of your relationship stuff
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Speaker 2: cleaned up from the past or your thoughts around money
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Speaker 2: before that, then this is just going to create more
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Speaker 2: pressure for your more anxiety, more avoidance, not doing anything
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Speaker 2: in actuality, it can be a lifeline to what your
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Speaker 2: beach house that you've always wanted, or to retire early.
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Speaker 2: I know a friend of mine parents passed away and
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Speaker 2: she ended up retiring five years earlier than she had
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Speaker 2: planned on. I mean, you know, and my first thing
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Speaker 2: that I always do is what are we going to
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Speaker 2: do to respect your parents? Like? What are we going
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Speaker 2: to do to tell them? And I always like to
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Speaker 2: honor them? Right? What do they what? Do they their
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Speaker 2: their favorite favorite meal or go on a paper vacation
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Speaker 2: or buy a car or whatever it might be, But
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Speaker 2: to honor them and make sure that they have it.
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Speaker 2: I have a client that built a whole garage honors property,
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Speaker 2: and he put a plaque above the garage Thanks Dad.
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Speaker 2: I can't remember exactly what it said, but it was
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Speaker 2: just like, you know, to my dad, you know, thank
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Speaker 2: you so much, and that's amazing. I don't know if
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Speaker 2: you all can hear my cat, but my cat's me owing.
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Speaker 2: It's fine, She'll be fine, Okay. When women step into
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Speaker 2: more money without support, I just see the same old,
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Speaker 2: same old patterns that they used before when they were
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Speaker 2: either broke or betrayed and they didn't know what to
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Speaker 2: do with it. They get a big lump sum of money,
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Speaker 2: but it's not going to help them if they don't
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Speaker 2: heal their relationship to money or heal any past betrayals
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Speaker 2: as well. So I'll deal with it later comes up,
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Speaker 2: or just tell me what to do. I get that
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Speaker 2: all the time, and that's great. You can come on
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Speaker 2: in and I'm going to educate you until you're ready
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Speaker 2: to make a decision. I had since I'm a grief
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Speaker 2: grief counselor and I've suffered trauma, I had a relationship
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Speaker 2: with a funeral home, and so they would call me
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Speaker 2: if widows would come in and they would be lost, right.
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Speaker 2: They wouldn't even know what to do, how to pay
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Speaker 2: for the funeral, what to do next. So I got
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Speaker 2: a few calls to help some widows out and they're
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Speaker 2: emotionally distraught, and I had that. I walked up to
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Speaker 2: this one gap and met her at the funeral home.
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Speaker 2: I literally met her there because she was going to
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Speaker 2: meet her husband's financial advisor that day and she was
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Speaker 2: scared to death to do that. So I went with her,
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Speaker 2: just as you know, a friend basically, and we went
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Speaker 2: and sat down and he had packets of paper to
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Speaker 2: open up new accounts, and they were like stapled together,
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Speaker 2: but they were all rolled back to where you could
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Speaker 2: only see the signature line available, and there was like
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Speaker 2: nine different packets there and he just wanted her to
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Speaker 2: sign all of those and that was it. I was floored.
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Speaker 2: I was so floored that people were doing things like that.
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Speaker 2: First of all, she doesn't know anything, I said, How
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Speaker 2: can you do that when you don't even know how
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Speaker 2: much she needs on a monthly basis. You don't even
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Speaker 2: know her risk tolerance or what you know, does she
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Speaker 2: want to be conservative or more risky, or you don't
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Speaker 2: even know if she has enough money to live on
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Speaker 2: for the rest of her life. How are you moving
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Speaker 2: these things into different investments when you don't even know
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Speaker 2: her at all. So we walked right out of there.
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Speaker 2: I took care of her for sure, made sure that
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Speaker 2: she was all good on her time. It took us
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Speaker 2: actually quite some time to move the money. I think
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Speaker 2: we sat in cash for at least a year, which
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Speaker 2: is not a problem at all. Like grief is grief,
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Speaker 2: Like you have to know what you're doing with your money.
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Speaker 2: I made sure she had enough money, she got, you know,
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Speaker 2: the things that she needed to get take care of
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Speaker 2: her house. All of her bills were paid and everything.
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Speaker 2: But that doesn't mean that you have to do anything
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Speaker 2: right away, right does that make? I hope that makes
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Speaker 2: sense to you. So we also get the other the
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Speaker 2: other hand of things, that they have lots of money
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Speaker 2: and they're just afraid. I had another one that walked
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Speaker 2: into about a million and a half and she lived
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Speaker 2: on like twenty five thousand a year, and she had
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Speaker 2: no idea what to do with this money. She had
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Speaker 2: no idea, just freaked her out. So she never did
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Speaker 2: anything for months and months, probably about eight nine, ten
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Speaker 2: months before we did anything. Then we just did something
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Speaker 2: with like three hundred thousand, and then of course the
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Speaker 2: market goes down, so that was it. She's done investing now,
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Speaker 2: because I totally get it, but she didn't really need
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Speaker 2: to invest into anything risky and in order to live
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Speaker 2: her lifestyle that she was already living. Right, So you
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Speaker 2: don't want to play small either, even though you have
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Speaker 2: great resources. So don't rise. You don't have to rise
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Speaker 2: into your money or you're going to fall back into
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Speaker 2: old patterns. So Number one, we want to become aware
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Speaker 2: what is my current relationship with money? How do I
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Speaker 2: feel about money? Do I feel wealthy? Do I feel broke?
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Speaker 2: Do I feel avoidant? Do I feel just nervous? Am
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Speaker 2: I am I tight griped not spending it? Does it
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Speaker 2: make me just feel anxious when I have to spend it?
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Speaker 2: Step number two ownership. Am I avoiding decisions? Or am
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Speaker 2: I stepping into them? Like I always have? Everyone interview
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Speaker 2: three financial advisors before you pick one. So are you
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Speaker 2: interviewing three financial advisors? Is it easy for you to
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Speaker 2: pick one? Someone that I always say, if you ask
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Speaker 2: them a question, understand the answer and it makes sense
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Speaker 2: to you, that's your advisor because they're going to be
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Speaker 2: with you good times, bad times, great times, amazing times,
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Speaker 2: horrible times, And you need to be able to trust
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Speaker 2: that person to be there with you. Number three, small
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Speaker 2: wins start making very small steps aligned with your decisions daily.
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Speaker 2: I just talked about this in another episode too, So
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Speaker 2: we want to make sure that you can maybe just
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Speaker 2: you know, start learning how to transfer money or doing
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Speaker 2: your bill pay online, or start small. You don't have
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Speaker 2: to get real big. Have several meetings with your advisors
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Speaker 2: before you do anything. Make sure your financial advisor talks
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Speaker 2: to your tax person, because that's huge. We want to
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Speaker 2: make sure you don't have a big capital gains tax
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Speaker 2: or a real estate tax or anything that might be
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Speaker 2: coming from an inheritance. You want to make sure all
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Speaker 2: the tax is taken care of. Step number four. Speak up,
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Speaker 2: ask questions, stay involved. I have a lot of people
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Speaker 2: that just hate it, hate it, and I promise you
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Speaker 2: they love it after I explain it to them. And
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Speaker 2: just easy, simple steps and easy simple terms. Everyone can
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Speaker 2: understand it and it's not difficult at all. So confidence
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Speaker 2: is when when you're built by knowing the confidence. I'm sorry,
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Speaker 2: confidence isn't built by knowing everything, but it's built by
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Speaker 2: just staying engaged and making small little steps easy, right, easy, easy? Okay.
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Speaker 2: So I want to bring it back to empowerment women.
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Speaker 2: Controlling more money is not just a statistic. It's actually
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Speaker 2: a shift in power. And I want to say that
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Speaker 2: this is my mission on this planet because I want
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Speaker 2: every woman feeling worthy of wealth, regardless if she has
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Speaker 2: it yet or not. I want every woman feeling worthy
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Speaker 2: of wealth and making decisions based on that. And I
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Speaker 2: want every woman at every decision making table in this
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Speaker 2: country because we will shift the power dynamics, We will
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Speaker 2: shift what happens in this country. I truly believe. I
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Speaker 2: know this, this is crazy, but I truly believe that
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Speaker 2: we can end poverty for our children, That we can
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Speaker 2: end this horrible foster care system that we have now
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Speaker 2: and not enough people taking care of the children that
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Speaker 2: are alive and want to be adopted. Now, we can
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Speaker 2: end domestic violence, at least shave it down a lot
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Speaker 2: in my lifetime. With women in control over their wealth,
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Speaker 2: we can literally just put out one little thing and
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Speaker 2: say we're not shopping here. Done. That company's done. If
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Speaker 2: you don't start putting out healthier food for us, whatever
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Speaker 2: it might be, we can control this country if we
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Speaker 2: can just get all the women empowered and worthy of wealth.
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Speaker 2: When it comes to us, we need to know that
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Speaker 2: we have the control over it. We have to do
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Speaker 2: our inner work first. Make sure that we're aligned to
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Speaker 2: our values. And even if we all have different type
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Speaker 2: of values, we have you know, different political aspirations, they're
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Speaker 2: socio economic aspirations. It's okay, We're still going to find
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Speaker 2: women that we agree with and even a few good men,
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Speaker 2: right men as well. It just bodes well because for women,
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Speaker 2: because I've never met one woman yet that wasn't going
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Speaker 2: to help someone else when she became wealthy. Every single
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Speaker 2: woman was going to help someone else, another family, anything,
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Speaker 2: a friend, someone ill. We need, We just need that
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Speaker 2: type of mentality in this country. It's about time, right.
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Speaker 2: So power doesn't come from the money itself. It only
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Speaker 2: comes from how you show up and handle the money.
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Speaker 2: We need to be able to have that good relationship
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Speaker 2: with money, allow the money to come in, and what
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Speaker 2: we're going to do with it. It's actually kind of fun
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Speaker 2: when you have a team of your money team. I
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Speaker 2: call it your money team, which is going to be
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Speaker 2: your tax person, your educational person, your financial advisor, your
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Speaker 2: money coach, even investment. You can even have a separate
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Speaker 2: investment person if you wanted to. You want to make
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Speaker 2: sure you have real estate attorneys if you're going to
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Speaker 2: buy being property, you want to make sure that your
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Speaker 2: trusts are all set up correctly. If you're going to
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Speaker 2: have lots of assets in your trust and be able
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Speaker 2: to pass them on efficiently. And know that everything that
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Speaker 2: is out there in the media is talking to people
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Speaker 2: making less than eighty thousand dollars a year. The people
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Speaker 2: that are making more than eighty thousand dollars a year,
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Speaker 2: that's when you have the separate appointments with your financial advisors,
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Speaker 2: your tax consultants, and you learn different strategies with that
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Speaker 2: kind of money. So ladies out there listening, and men,
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Speaker 2: if your dads, if your husbands, if your brothers, make
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Speaker 2: sure the women in your life are educated around finances
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Speaker 2: the right way, the right way. Okay, does that make
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Speaker 2: sense again? The five reasons women are living longer, Yes,
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Speaker 2: we do. Whether we've plan it or not, many women
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Speaker 2: will be in control of their money. Number two, The
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Speaker 2: great wealth transferred trillions of dollars is being passed down
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Speaker 2: from older generations. Wives are getting it and daughters are
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Speaker 2: getting it. This is the largest financial shift in history
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Speaker 2: that we've ever seen. Kind of an exciting time, right,
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Speaker 2: More women are earning and building their own wealth. Which
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Speaker 2: is number three. We're working, running and earning more money,
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Speaker 2: which is great. Number four, we're getting money through life transitions, divorce,
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Speaker 2: death unfortunately, or we're just choosing to become staying financially independent.
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Speaker 2: So number five, we become the decision makers of the household.
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Speaker 2: These are the five reasons why we have a really
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Speaker 2: big shift happening right now, which is going to be
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Speaker 2: really exciting to see what's going to be on the
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Speaker 2: other side. This is our cultural shift. It's not about
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Speaker 2: being single. Women are becoming the voice and the driver
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Speaker 2: and their financial life. So that's why it's happening. It's
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Speaker 2: not random. Women are about to control more money than
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Speaker 2: they've ever seen this before. We're living longer, right But
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Speaker 2: this is what's not being taken into control. Our emotional readiness.
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Speaker 2: Are you emotionally ready to step into a big lump
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Speaker 2: sum to a large amount of money. There's a confidence
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Speaker 2: gap of Like I always talk about the temperature, we
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Speaker 2: have a temperature around money that we're used to and
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Speaker 2: when we make more than that or receive more than that,
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Speaker 2: that's why all the LATO winners lose all their money
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Speaker 2: because their temperature isn't raised yet. They're not ready to
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Speaker 2: step into that person of who they're being when they
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Speaker 2: have all that money. So that's why my money coaching
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Speaker 2: I always have everybody dream big and adds zeros because
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Speaker 2: you never know where the money is going to come from.
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Speaker 2: It's not our job to figure out where it's going
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Speaker 2: to come from, and we want to make sure that
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Speaker 2: we are ready when it comes. We want to be
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Speaker 2: able to allow the wealth you meet. It could be anything,
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Speaker 2: an inheritance, it could a lawsuit, it could be a partner,
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Speaker 2: it could be there's just no telling money is coming
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Speaker 2: from anywhere these days. You could find the next app
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Speaker 2: or any I mean, it's just crazy. The identity shift
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Speaker 2: needs to happen. We need to become worthy of wealth.
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Speaker 2: Every woman needs to feel worthy of wealth. I hope
18:55
Speaker 2: that makes sense. It needs to feel worthy of wealth. Typically,
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Speaker 2: men are taught to take more risks with money, and
19:02
Speaker 2: women are often taught to be more careful with money
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Speaker 2: because they only usually get to see what's happening in
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Speaker 2: the day to day bills and not necessarily the retirement
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Speaker 2: accounts and the savings accounts. So when women suddenly have
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Speaker 2: more money, they're not feeling empowered. They're really just feeling
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Speaker 2: that pressure and anxiety. So we need to walk through
19:21
Speaker 2: the fear of making the wrong decision, the fear of
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Speaker 2: losing the money, the fear of being judged. Oh my gosh,
19:28
Speaker 2: that's a huge one, right. I know some friends of mine,
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Speaker 2: they they're well off and they do not want anyone
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Speaker 2: to know that, like they live so much differently than
19:39
Speaker 2: they could. They don't discuss it. They just don't want
19:43
Speaker 2: to be judged. They feel very, very like in a
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Speaker 2: fish bowle. So we have to get over that. If
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Speaker 2: you're being judged by your friends and your family, go
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Speaker 2: get new ones. We don't have time for judging judies, right,
19:56
Speaker 2: we don't have time for that. I love to be
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Speaker 2: able to see the wealth that can possibly be out
20:01
Speaker 2: there because that means that it's on your way to you, right,
20:05
Speaker 2: it's on your way to you. So a lot of
20:08
Speaker 2: people also think that I don't want to mess this up,
20:09
Speaker 2: so they're so afraid of it. I want you to
20:12
Speaker 2: know that it's not about the lack of intelligence. It's
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Speaker 2: the lack of emotional safety around money. And you got
20:18
Speaker 2: to go check out my other episodes. Chapter six, check out.
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Speaker 2: Chapter six talks about it. This isn't This isn't about
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Speaker 2: the financial shift, It's about the identity shift. I want
20:30
Speaker 2: you to go from being part of the decision to
20:33
Speaker 2: be I am the decision maker. I want you to
20:36
Speaker 2: be able to step into that. I am the decision
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Speaker 2: maker of the wealth that's coming to me. So I'm
20:42
Speaker 2: going to learn about this now. It's kind of like
20:45
Speaker 2: when you're fourteen and you know you're going to get
20:48
Speaker 2: a car. At sixteen, you start learning about cars and
20:51
Speaker 2: you start seeing what cars are out there. Right when
20:53
Speaker 2: you're ready to go buy a home, you start learning
20:56
Speaker 2: about what it's like about buying a home. Well, if
20:59
Speaker 2: we're going to step in wealth, which we have no
21:01
Speaker 2: idea how or when it's going to come, so just
21:04
Speaker 2: start stepping into a worthy woman of wealth, and your
21:08
Speaker 2: wisdom will come, your confidence will come. You're going to
21:11
Speaker 2: be so surprised how much money just falls into your
21:14
Speaker 2: lap when you don't even know where it's coming from
21:16
Speaker 2: or how it's coming from it. But when you step
21:18
Speaker 2: into that woman that is worthy of that big lump
21:21
Speaker 2: sum coming in, oh my gosh, it's so fun. There's
21:24
Speaker 2: lots of games we can play, like spending the thousand
21:26
Speaker 2: dollars a day virtually in our head, right, and we
21:30
Speaker 2: can just tell the universe that we're already making sure
21:32
Speaker 2: that you never put your purse on the ground, your
21:35
Speaker 2: wallet on the ground. Your money's always facing forward, it's
21:37
Speaker 2: always aligned. Your credit cards can even be aligned, your alphabetized.
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Speaker 2: You want to respect your money. You're telling the universe
21:45
Speaker 2: that you respect it, you adore it, you love it,
21:48
Speaker 2: and you want more. You want it to bring all
21:50
Speaker 2: your friends. I hope you've enjoyed today's show, because ladies,
21:54
Speaker 2: this is going to be a true shift. Ten years
21:56
Speaker 2: from now, you're going to go I remember I heard
21:58
Speaker 2: that on that podcast Rock My Finance that women are
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Speaker 2: stepping into more money than they ever have in our
22:03
Speaker 2: entire history. I want you to be able to walk
22:06
Speaker 2: into being a woman worthy of wealth and feel that
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Speaker 2: every day, no matter what zeros are on your bank account,
22:12
Speaker 2: because it's not about the zeros, it's about how you
22:14
Speaker 2: feel about the zeros. So do your inner work now,
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Speaker 2: do your alignment now, so that you can step into
22:20
Speaker 2: that money when it comes. Are you ready? I love it,
22:23
Speaker 2: I love it. Thank you all for being here, really,
22:25
Speaker 2: thank you. Please check all out all the other episodes.
22:28
Speaker 2: I hope they're life changing for you as they were
22:30
Speaker 2: for me as well. I want you to be able
22:31
Speaker 2: to listen to my episodes and I want you to
22:33
Speaker 2: all be able to walk away and say I rock
22:36
Speaker 2: my Finances.
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22:50
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Speaker 2: To explore with you next week.
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Speaker 3: Until then, let's all say I rock my Finances.