Latest / Networking Unleashed: Building Profitable Connections / Networking Unleashed: An Interview with Randall Avery and Michael A Forman, Professional Speaker
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- 0:16Welcome to Networking Unleashed, Building Profitable
- 0:20Connections, the show where conversations turn
- 0:23into opportunities and relationships turn into
- 0:27real revenue. I'm your host, Michael Foreman,
- 0:30and this isn't about collecting business cards
- 0:33or chasing the room. It's about learning how
- 0:36to connect with purpose, speak with confidence,
- 0:39and build relationships that actually move your
- 0:42business forward. Today's episode goes straight
- 0:46at a topic most professionals avoid and pay for
- 0:50later. Money conversations, confidence, and the
- 0:54role networking plays in both income and well
- 0:57-being. My guest has lived it, transitioning
- 1:01from corporate finance into entrepreneurship
- 1:03by taking ownership, building the right relationships,
- 1:07and learning how to talk about money without
- 1:10hesitation. If you want stronger connections,
- 1:14smarter choices, and opportunities that find
- 1:17you, you're in the right place. I'd like to welcome
- 1:21Randall Avery to the podcast. Randall, I'm so
- 1:25happy to have you on the podcast because this
- 1:29is so very important to not only my listeners,
- 1:32but to everyone. If you don't mind, could you
- 1:35give yourself an introduction and tell us how
- 1:38you got here today? So first of all, thank you
- 1:41for having me today. I've listened to a lot of
- 1:43your podcasts. I think this message, the message
- 1:45of getting out there, talking to people, building
- 1:47genuine relationships is important. And it's
- 1:50even more important than my journey and how I
- 1:52got to doing what I'm doing today. So I started
- 1:55off my career in internal audit. So a lot of
- 1:57people think internal audit is the bad guy. Some
- 1:59people go in and we used to audit our external
- 2:02distributors. So I was really the bad guy coming
- 2:05into their distributing, asking for invoices.
- 2:07So what does that teach you? How do people react
- 2:10when they're uncomfortable? How to disarm people?
- 2:13Because a lot of situation we're going to come
- 2:15in as entrepreneurs, as professionals, people
- 2:18are not going to be as welcoming. So that experience
- 2:20was important. I learned about checks and balances
- 2:23in business in general. After my stint in internal
- 2:26audit, I did corporate FP &A. So that's really
- 2:28studying P &A, really providing the analysis
- 2:30for the business unit owners to make better decisions.
- 2:33Now, why is that important? That's because I
- 2:35supported different type of personalities, whether
- 2:38that's a person who manages sales, operations,
- 2:41product, marketing, different. type of personalities
- 2:43who has different preferences on how they see
- 2:46numbers, and more importantly, how they want
- 2:48to hear about numbers. Now, I did that for about
- 2:50seven years, and now I'm a personal financial
- 2:53planner. I've been doing this for about 10 years.
- 2:55I sit with individuals, specifically business
- 2:57owners, and explain to them their numbers and
- 2:59how they can better win with money. And I use
- 3:03all those communication skills because let's
- 3:05be honest, initially, a lot of people don't want
- 3:07to talk to a financial planner. But as they get,
- 3:09we move forward. I understand who they are, what
- 3:12drives them. That's how I show them the correct
- 3:14numbers to actually win in life. Wow. That's
- 3:18great. That's great. We can probably do an entire
- 3:21podcast just on that. Yes. Okay. But first let's
- 3:24move into this, like the questions that I've
- 3:26developed for you. Why do so many professionals
- 3:30avoid money conversations and what actually changes
- 3:34when they learn to talk about money and with
- 3:37confidence and clarity? A lot of people are uneasy
- 3:42about money because, to be honest, they've made
- 3:44a lot of money mistakes. And they don't internalize
- 3:48that. That's fine because everybody has made
- 3:51money mistakes. But they internalize and they
- 3:53think about what could have been again and again
- 3:55over and over in their head. So to really open
- 3:57up and say, hey, this is what I've done with
- 3:59money, or this is where I am with my money, is
- 4:02scary for a lot of people because we assume everybody's
- 4:05doing well with money. We assume everybody has
- 4:06a beautiful home, nice car, kids can go to all
- 4:10the activities in the world, but that's just
- 4:12not the case. And as a financial planner, I get
- 4:14to see directly how people struggle with money.
- 4:16Even people who make a lot of income and have
- 4:19a lot of assets, money is still a sticking issue.
- 4:21I think the second reason is also we have been
- 4:24taught money behaviors a lot of times from our
- 4:27parents. How they use money, how they leverage
- 4:30debt, how the insecurity within the household
- 4:32when money was stressed. Parents tell me all
- 4:34the time, I try to not let my kids feel anything
- 4:37about money. But we can go into a home and feel
- 4:40financial stress. So we feel it as children.
- 4:43And actually, we actually transition to adults
- 4:46and make money mistakes. That's why money conversations
- 4:48are so hard for adults. It's true. And you hit
- 4:54a point. You learn about money from your parents.
- 4:57And if your parents didn't really know, they
- 5:01either gave you the wrong information or they
- 5:03didn't give you any information at all. So you
- 5:06had to go, A, find out for yourself. But unless
- 5:09you were self -employed or worked for somebody
- 5:13else, it really never came up. It comes up. Not
- 5:17until you're like 30 or 40 years old when you
- 5:19say, I better really find out what I'm doing.
- 5:22So what you're doing is so very important. And
- 5:26the younger they start, the better. That's one
- 5:29thing. In your experience, how does being comfortable
- 5:33discussing money instantly shift how others perceive
- 5:37your credibility and leadership in a networking
- 5:40setting? I think it goes with any topic. People
- 5:44think money's isolated. It's this unique thing.
- 5:46But think about your business. As you open and
- 5:49are honest on any aspect of your business, how
- 5:51you're marketing, how your sales, opening up
- 5:54about that makes you seem a little bit more genuine.
- 5:57People are willing to open up with you. So if
- 5:59you talk to people about your money, specifically,
- 6:01let's talk to business owners about how much
- 6:04money you're making. What are your expenses?
- 6:06What are your profit lines? You have those conversations.
- 6:09People will open up and actually trust you even
- 6:11more because they realize, like we discussed
- 6:14earlier, the normal person is not going to open
- 6:16up. So when somebody opens up, show that level
- 6:19of vulnerability, that's when you can receive
- 6:21a little bit of automatic trust. And if you not
- 6:23only open up. But take advice. You'll be that
- 6:26person's best friend. And really, the way you
- 6:30communicate with them is so very important. You
- 6:34can't just start spouting all these financial
- 6:38anything, all these big words. And they'll say,
- 6:43OK, thank you. You didn't help me. You have to
- 6:46really find that level, find that level of trust
- 6:49in networking. Know you like you trust you. they'll
- 6:54do business with you. But your level of trust
- 6:57is so much higher because when you're dealing
- 7:00with financials, that just means that, okay,
- 7:04I don't discuss financials with anybody. So you
- 7:08have to break through that wall. And once they
- 7:10trust you, then you're in. And I think it starts
- 7:13off, a lot of people lead with, oh, I bring in
- 7:16so much revenue, or I have so many clients. May
- 7:20I say, suggest, start with a vulnerability. This
- 7:23is an issue I'm having with my P &L. This is
- 7:25an issue I'm having with my personal finance.
- 7:27This is something I'm confused about investing.
- 7:29If you start from the perspective of taking on
- 7:32advice, I think it'll work out better if you're
- 7:35trying to build a relationship than showing that,
- 7:37hey, I have it all figured out, when that's usually
- 7:39not the case. Very good. Very good point. And
- 7:44yes, that would be a great way to break the ice
- 7:47and kind of break into that conversation. Okay.
- 7:51Can you share a moment where an open money conversation
- 7:55directly created a better opportunity, stronger
- 7:59relationship, or faster trust? Yeah. One of my,
- 8:04kind of as a mentor, I was a mentor at the time,
- 8:06and we were just discussing business. profit,
- 8:09loss, clients. As a financial planner, you get
- 8:12compensated in many different ways, but the two
- 8:14primary ways, if you're fee only, is you do a
- 8:16fixed fee, meaning you just charge a fee and
- 8:18they do a plan, or you can do asset under management.
- 8:21And I was describing to him like, hey, the fixed
- 8:24fee, there's a lot of churn. How can I do asset
- 8:26under management? I use this custodian, but all
- 8:28the other custodians require minimums. He said,
- 8:30Randall. Have you ever looked at the custodian
- 8:33I use right now? It's Charles Schwab. And I said,
- 8:35no, I thought they had minimums. They're like,
- 8:37no, they recently just waived it. And I think
- 8:39this is important for the audience. You don't
- 8:41know what you don't know. And somebody is going
- 8:43to know something that you don't know. So if
- 8:45you're like I said, take the approach of being
- 8:47vulnerable. I don't know at all. I actually have
- 8:49this problem. People are going to quickly try
- 8:52to solve your issue, especially business owners,
- 8:55because we are so wired to say problem, solution,
- 8:57problem, solution. It is impossible. I think
- 8:59every person is listening. Their spouse probably
- 9:02knows this. If they're a business owner, you're
- 9:04always thinking about solution. So if you approach
- 9:07somebody with the problem, be honest and obey,
- 9:09I'm having this profitability issue. You'll be
- 9:11surprised what they give you. I agree. I agree.
- 9:15I also. I feel that every business owner, I'm
- 9:21saying owner because I don't want to make it
- 9:23too big, but every business owner should get
- 9:27a mentor, should get somebody that they can look
- 9:30to or be third party and say, Mike, why'd you
- 9:33do that? Because this is a better way. Or have
- 9:37you tried this? Or I can't be there with you.
- 9:40But as you said. Charles Schwab just waived her
- 9:44fees. Now, you would never have known that unless
- 9:47you had that person to speak with. And you need
- 9:52mentors really in every aspect of your business
- 9:55and your life. There's some mentors who are great
- 9:57at marketing. Some are sales. Some are operations.
- 10:00Some are more the technical side. And you probably
- 10:02need a mentor in every aspect of your personal
- 10:04life as well. I would say have multiple mentors
- 10:07because one person cannot be the be all end all
- 10:10for your life. You just need those different
- 10:12perspectives. But the key thing is a mentorship
- 10:15will not work unless you're honest, unless you're
- 10:18vulnerable. And also that you reciprocate, meaning
- 10:21that you actually listen, follow direction and
- 10:23also show that, hey, I see you have this problem.
- 10:25I can revise you with this advice. And mentorship
- 10:27relationships should evolve into a symbiotic
- 10:31relationship where you guys are all winning because
- 10:33you're all grown. Absolutely. And you made another
- 10:37good point. You have to listen to what they say.
- 10:41If it's good advice, follow through with it.
- 10:44Because if somebody is giving me advice and I
- 10:48never listen to it, how long do you think he's
- 10:51going to stick around? But that's you just really
- 10:54should take all that. You're right. Multiple
- 10:57mentors to handle multiple problems within your
- 11:00business. You connect networking to both personal
- 11:04well -being and income. What's the unseen link
- 11:08between the quality of our relationships and
- 11:12the quality of our financial decisions? And this
- 11:17shouldn't be a surprise to this audience here.
- 11:19Opportunity comes through connection. You obtain
- 11:23a job through going through an interview process
- 11:25connected with somebody. You attain a client
- 11:28by doing some type of sales process or some type
- 11:31of way that they feel connected with you to make
- 11:34a purchase. You cannot connect economic opportunity
- 11:37from relationships. So that is, I think, the
- 11:41key to everything. The second thing is, let's
- 11:44say you're able to make a lot of sales. Life
- 11:46is not fun unless you have genuine connection
- 11:49with folks. People love to do business with people
- 11:53they enjoy doing business with. So I would rather
- 11:55make 50 % less income, but really enjoy eight
- 11:59hours out of my day than making twice as much
- 12:02and not enjoying that. So think about people
- 12:05also want to enjoy their life. So if you mix
- 12:07great relationships, enjoying the job, what you're
- 12:10doing, how can you not enjoy life more? Now,
- 12:12the counter is if you don't have those things,
- 12:15that's where I see the negative money behaviors.
- 12:19different uses of different alcoholism, doing
- 12:21things with your money that are not wise. Those
- 12:24are the symptoms of that. I'm not fulfilled in
- 12:27my job. I don't have fulfilling relationships.
- 12:29So it's hard to separate the two. It's really
- 12:33a crutch, right? The alcoholism, the drug use
- 12:37or something else. Yes, you're spending a lot
- 12:39of money in that, wasted money, but you're using
- 12:44that as a crutch. There are several issues you
- 12:48have to take care of, but that's one thing. You
- 12:51have to use your money smartly. There's a saying
- 12:55that I bring up whenever I do workshops or anything.
- 12:58People hate to be sold to, but they love to buy.
- 13:04People love to buy what they hate. Just think
- 13:07of that car salesman. When you walk through the
- 13:09showroom floor, he comes right up to you with
- 13:12a business card and say, hey, I'm Joe Schmo.
- 13:15Look at this Cadillac. Oh, it's got great. It's
- 13:18this. Do you want to take a ride? Because I can
- 13:20take you a ride. Just let me get my manager and
- 13:23I'll just, I'm like, stop. Or the salesman that
- 13:27walks up and says, hey, Randall, how are you?
- 13:30If you have a problem, let me know. I'll be right
- 13:32over there. And you go off and do undrush. And
- 13:36those are two things. So people hate to be sold
- 13:39to, but they love to buy. I think one of the
- 13:43things that I've learned through a lot of my
- 13:45sales training is people, I think naturally as
- 13:48entrepreneurs and people who have something to
- 13:50sell, we want to show up and be the hero in people's
- 13:52lives. But nobody wants you to be the hero. What
- 13:56they really want is a trusted guide. And once
- 13:59I switch from selling to guiding, and actually
- 14:01sometimes I may guide them away from me. But
- 14:04as long as I'm guiding them, providing my expertise,
- 14:07staying in my line, say, hey, I'm the financial
- 14:09expert. This is what the guy, these are the places
- 14:12you can go. And also I have this. I think if
- 14:15people switch their mind to being guides instead
- 14:17of being the superhero or trying to show up as
- 14:19the superhero in the room, you'll get more, become
- 14:22more receptive and become more likable, to be
- 14:24honest with you. Absolutely. You become more
- 14:27of a likable person. You have to, like when you're
- 14:31going to a networking event, you're always trying
- 14:35to get onto the same level as them. And I use
- 14:39something called FORM, family, occupation, recreation,
- 14:44and a certain message. You try to get onto the
- 14:47same level, they're husband, wife, sister, brother,
- 14:50son, daughter, whatever. I talk about youth sports.
- 14:53I was a baseball coach for 16 years, an umpire
- 14:56for another three years. So once you get onto
- 14:59youth sports, that's what I'll talk about. And
- 15:02I'll talk all day on it. And they never feel
- 15:05like they're like, oh, he demands my attention.
- 15:09They want to give me that information. So it's
- 15:12all how you take it. What separates? surface
- 15:16-level connections from relationships that consistently
- 15:20lead to referrals, partnerships, and shared wins.
- 15:25I think it's when two people come together and
- 15:29they always think about what I can give. never
- 15:33focusing on keeping score on what they're receiving,
- 15:36but I'm saying, hey, I genuinely like this person
- 15:38and I just want them to do well. And when both
- 15:41parties take that approach, it becomes a beautiful
- 15:44self -fulfilling cycle that goes on and on. Because
- 15:47if you think of somebody who's always looking
- 15:49for somebody's best interest. They usually for
- 15:52that to be in that mentality, they usually have
- 15:54to have something going for themselves. So that
- 15:56checks that box. So they're not in a deficit.
- 15:58So two people are not in a deficit looking to
- 16:01better the other person continuously. I think
- 16:04over time and not keeping score because it could
- 16:06be five years. One person is helping out one
- 16:08person on the other. Could be another five years.
- 16:10The other person is helping out another just
- 16:12to bring the story full circle. That mentor told
- 16:15me about Charles Schwab. He's a college professor
- 16:17now. And guess who goes and lectures at his classes
- 16:20every single year? You see how that cycle continues
- 16:23to go back and forth over again. So if you're
- 16:25always looking to give, I think that's when a
- 16:28beautiful relationship happens. That's known
- 16:31as having a servant's heart. Yes. When you go
- 16:36to a networking event. I keep going back to networking
- 16:39events, but use this in any part of networking.
- 16:43By having a servant's heart, you're looking to
- 16:46help everybody else. You're not looking to sell
- 16:49anything. You're not looking to give anything.
- 16:52Just, Randall, I like you. I like how you do
- 16:56business. I like what you do. How can I make
- 16:59you more successful? How can I be a good referral
- 17:03source for you? And if I did my job correctly,
- 17:09you'll turn around and say, Mike, I don't even
- 17:11know what the hell you do yet. And you're trying
- 17:13to make me more successful? Yes. So that's having
- 17:17a servant's heart. That is looking to help everybody.
- 17:20And Zig Ziglar is big with this. What goes around
- 17:24comes around. Because if I helped you, you'll
- 17:28feel compelled to say, oh, Mike, help me. I have
- 17:31to find somebody for Mike. But what you described
- 17:36is having a servant's heart. Yes, correct. Okay.
- 17:42Can professionals intentionally build networks
- 17:46that support not just growth, but better judgment,
- 17:50confidence, and long -term stability? I think
- 17:55there is a, of course you want to always give.
- 17:59What we talked about earlier, once you give,
- 18:01somebody listens, and they put into practice,
- 18:04and you see that growth, guess what happens?
- 18:06You're going to be attracted to those people
- 18:08who listen and grow, listen and grow, listen
- 18:10and grow, until eventually, hopefully, if you're
- 18:13being mindful, your whole circle is just listening
- 18:16and growing together. So if you are that person,
- 18:21you're going to begin being around other people.
- 18:23So it creates little networks where all you are,
- 18:26what we call high performers could be another
- 18:28corporate word for that, are somebody who are
- 18:30just winning in life. That's what should happen
- 18:33over time. You're hanging around people who are
- 18:35listening. You're also listening and winning
- 18:38as well. And then that's how those semiotic win
- 18:41-win relationships happen. Absolutely. I couldn't
- 18:44agree with you more. Okay. You made the shift.
- 18:48from corporate finance to entrepreneurship. How
- 18:52did your network influence your willingness to
- 18:54take ownership, risk, and responsibility? To
- 19:00be honest, so I did initially, I did pretty well
- 19:04for myself in the corporate world. So when everybody
- 19:07knows you as the corporate person and then telling
- 19:11them that, hey, I'm going to take away the title
- 19:14of the corporation and start your own business.
- 19:16A lot of people are hesitant. They're scared.
- 19:18They're fearful because one, they don't know.
- 19:20And they're saying that that's a route I haven't
- 19:23heard. But the route you were going on, I've
- 19:24heard been successful a hundred times over again.
- 19:26So the initial was, are you sure that you have
- 19:29a headstand? Are you sure that you want to make
- 19:31that move? After that, then they begin to watch
- 19:35you and they've slowly become to support you.
- 19:37They say, OK, be serious. And I think the biggest
- 19:40thing is once you begin getting results. And
- 19:43that's the hardest thing, going from zero to
- 19:45results for your clients or whatever you want
- 19:47to serve. Once that results, that's when they
- 19:49say the flywheel begins to spin faster and faster.
- 19:52But getting from zero to getting results for
- 19:55people, I think that's the challenge. And once
- 19:57you start getting results, that's when the support,
- 19:59I believe, explodes. You're right. And you say
- 20:03support. I say credibility. You need that credibility
- 20:07for somebody to trust you. And in order to get
- 20:11somebody to trust you, it's a whole big cycle.
- 20:13But once you start that cycle, once you start
- 20:16forging forward, there's no stopping you unless
- 20:19you stop it. So unless you say, okay, enough
- 20:23is enough, your clients will see you building
- 20:26and building and you'll get more and more clients.
- 20:29That's the way I've seen every business start.
- 20:32That's the way that I started with speaking and
- 20:35everything else. I had to first build my credibility.
- 20:39Looking back, what networking habits helped you
- 20:42move from employee thinking to owner thinking
- 20:45faster than anything else? In the corporate space,
- 20:52it's about speed networking. It's about quick
- 20:55hits. What can you do for me? All those different
- 20:57things. Who do I know you? And in the corporate
- 21:01space, they don't teach you about sales. They
- 21:03don't teach you how to truly build relationships.
- 21:08When people think of building relationships in
- 21:09business, it was a gray area, but I'm just going
- 21:11to pull back the veil. Build relationships as
- 21:14you're building with the personal friend that
- 21:16you grew up for kids. So what do you guys do?
- 21:18You guys go out to eat with each other. You guys
- 21:20share hobbies with each other. You guys are vulnerable
- 21:23with each other. You guys do these different
- 21:24things. Those are the exact same things you have
- 21:28to do to build a relationship. And I think the
- 21:31difference was I didn't know you had to massage
- 21:33and work at it. So it's natural with the friends
- 21:36that you grew up with because you guys have a
- 21:37rhythm and a flow. You actually have to create
- 21:40a rhythm and a flow with each new person that
- 21:43you really want to build that intimate connection.
- 21:45And it takes time. And it's almost like nurturing
- 21:47a garden. You have to till the soil. You have
- 21:49to plant the seed. You have to water it. And
- 21:51you have to look and watch. And the watching
- 21:53is the headache. But that is what you have to
- 21:55do to build a relationship that is not corporate,
- 21:58but actually as far as an entrepreneur. Which
- 22:01is exactly what I do. It's exactly all the networking,
- 22:06all the everything else, what I talk about and
- 22:09everything else. So what you just said about
- 22:13building that relationship. Ever since the pandemic,
- 22:17people have gone from transactional to relationship.
- 22:22And the relationship for me is so much more rewarding
- 22:26than transactional because you get closer. But
- 22:30that's exactly what you have to do to build your
- 22:34relationship, to build your clientele. I'd rather
- 22:38have 10 clients like that than 100 clients transactional.
- 22:44Because the relationship will go further. Okay.
- 22:48For someone still employed but feeling the pull
- 22:52towards independence, what small networking moves
- 22:55can they start making now without burning bridges?
- 23:01I think the number one thing I would recommend
- 23:04is find somebody who does what you do. And literally
- 23:09cold call them. Does somebody something that
- 23:11you want to do and literally cold call them and
- 23:14reach out to them and say, hey. I'm looking to
- 23:16do what you do. How did you get started? The
- 23:19natural corporate employee mentality is like,
- 23:21why would they tell me anything? I'd be their
- 23:23competitor. But you'll be surprised that people,
- 23:27especially entrepreneurs, will open up and say,
- 23:29hey, this is how I did it. This is how I recommend
- 23:31it. This is how to adjust. And if I started day
- 23:33zero today, these are the steps that I can do.
- 23:36And don't just take that for one person. Take
- 23:38that for multiple people. And then after that,
- 23:41continue to keep in contact with them. Nurture
- 23:44that soil. Take them out to a coffee. Tell them
- 23:46how you do this. And even go as far as, do you
- 23:49have a project that you need help on? So what
- 23:52are you doing? You're getting somebody who can
- 23:54vouch for you. And you're also getting some potential
- 23:56practical real world experience. You put those
- 23:59two together, you will have a level of confidence
- 24:01when you step out that you won't have if you
- 24:04just make a jump early. Absolutely. Absolutely.
- 24:09Some of my coaching clients. when they're trying
- 24:13to attract people on LinkedIn or something else
- 24:15like that, people are always willing to discuss
- 24:19what they do. If you called me and said, Mike,
- 24:23how did you do this with networking? Or what
- 24:26about this networking event or something else?
- 24:28I take that as I'm the professional. That means
- 24:32that you're coming to me for help. I'm going
- 24:34to open up. I'm going to give you everything
- 24:37that I can. That's the way I believe. personally,
- 24:42every employer or every person in that type of
- 24:46position would do. They would just open up. Would
- 24:49you mind if I had a cup of coffee with you? Not
- 24:52at all. Sure. Come on by. I'll spill my guts.
- 24:55If they're close enough, can I buy a lunch? You
- 24:58know, and you can discuss things over lunch.
- 25:01Absolutely. That is the best way. to get and
- 25:05start building your relationship and build that
- 25:08kind of that work relationship where he, that
- 25:11person can also become a mentor. And people say
- 25:16our word. What if they don't respond? Think about
- 25:19it this way. You probably don't want to socialize
- 25:22with somebody who wouldn't help you out. And
- 25:24the second thing is they may be in a point in
- 25:25their life, whether they're slammed at work,
- 25:27whether they have some personal matters, that
- 25:29they probably need that space. So don't take
- 25:32it personally. Just know that it's part of the
- 25:34process. And if you're going to be an entrepreneur,
- 25:36getting used to being ghosted or rejected may
- 25:40be a skill set you may want to develop. So it's
- 25:42a win -win across the board. Yep. Get a thicker
- 25:46skin. That's the best way to say it. Just a little
- 25:49bit thicker. And if you get ghosted, they don't
- 25:51answer you. All right. So you know what? You
- 25:54tried it. You move on to somebody else. Okay.
- 25:57Let's bring this full circle. If you could give
- 26:01one networking principle that improves both income
- 26:04and peace of mind at the same time, what would
- 26:08it be and why does it work? As entrepreneurs,
- 26:12we may have a typical client base. One thing
- 26:15that I would recommend is try to punch up. Ask
- 26:19for that client that may be slightly above your
- 26:21usual client base. Network with somebody who's
- 26:24slightly above where you are as an entrepreneur.
- 26:27And if you always try to network and punch up,
- 26:30I think you'll be surprised at who's open to
- 26:32share things with you, as we discussed, and also
- 26:35what may fall into your lap and in your hands,
- 26:37because people are always looking for people
- 26:39to help. Key thing is, you have to listen, you
- 26:42have to follow through, and you have to show
- 26:43fruit. If you show fruit, there'll be a lot of
- 26:46people eating in your garden. I promise you.
- 26:49Absolutely. Absolutely. This is why networking
- 26:53done right changes everything. It's not about
- 26:56who you know. It's about how you show up, what
- 27:00you're willing to talk about, and the trust you
- 27:03build through real conversation. If today's episode
- 27:06made you rethink your approach. how you approach
- 27:09money relationships or the next step in your
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- 27:30if you're ready to make that take your networking
- 27:32skills to a higher level, visit me, michelaforman
- 27:36.com, and learn how I work with professionals,
- 27:39teams, and organizations. Until next time, show
- 27:43up with intention, speak with confidence, and
- 27:46build connections that pay off. But before we
- 27:49leave, Randall, if somebody wanted your services,
- 27:54wanted to get in touch with you, what's the best
- 27:57way they can get in touch with you? Thank you
- 27:59for this opportunity. My name is Randall Lavery.
- 28:01I'm a certified financial planner and charter
- 28:03financial analyst. If you want to reach to me,
- 28:05if you're a business owner looking to build wealth,
- 28:07if you're looking to more strategies on how to
- 28:10grow your wealth and your business, you can go
- 28:11to my website. It's going to be www .deasilwm
- 28:16.com. That's deasilwm .com. I'm also on all social
- 28:19medias. Just look under my name, Randall Lavery,
- 28:22and you can find me, follow my content, learn
- 28:24a little bit more how I think and how I help
- 28:26business owners grow their wealth. That's perfect.
- 28:29Randall, thank you so much. I learned so much
- 28:33by having you on this podcast, so we can probably
- 28:35have another two -hour talk. But thank you very
- 28:39much for coming on the podcast, and I hope you
- 28:41do well in the future. Take care. Thank you for
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- 29:42All right, folks. A huge thank you to our guests
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