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487: Nothing Is Making Sense Anymore (And That's the Point) · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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Nicole Laino: Come here to become an unshakable human and build an unshakable business according to your human design.
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Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Lano.
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Nicole Laino: Hello and welcome to Unshakable with Human Design.
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Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Leno, and I'm wondering if you're having a similar experience to me where things feel kind of different lately.
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Nicole Laino: So something I've noticed is I've actually been doing a lot of human design readings lately, which it's funny because I don't really talk about my readings all that much because I have so many other programs and groups that I lead that I don't advertise my readings right.
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Nicole Laino: Really.
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Nicole Laino: But I've had so many people booking them lately.
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Nicole Laino: We went through a period where, because I wasn't mentioning them, I didn't really do many of them because I do them for all of our clients in Business by Design.
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Nicole Laino: So I'm never like, oh, I miss readings because I do them all the time for everybody who comes into that container.
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Nicole Laino: But lately I've been having all of these outside readings come in, and it's been really exciting and interesting and fun for me.
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Nicole Laino: And one of the things that I've noticed is that these have been not my.
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Nicole Laino: I don't want to say normal clients, but, you know, the reading world.
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Nicole Laino: Usually I get entrepreneurs, and that still exists, but this was a lot of corporate clients or people who have left or are considering leaving corporate.
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Nicole Laino: I still get the entrepreneurs.
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Nicole Laino: I still get the people that are kind of like, you know, people who are interested in BBD but they want to try a reading first or something like that, or they can't afford to join that right away.
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Nicole Laino: I get people from our Human Design Lab who are like, I want a reading that goes with this.
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Nicole Laino: All of that is great.
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Nicole Laino: But I've also had.
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Nicole Laino: I've had a lot of men lately too, which has been really fun.
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Nicole Laino: I've really enjoyed doing those readings because it's just such a different energy having men get involved with this.
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Nicole Laino: And of course, men have been into human design forever, but there's definitely they are a minority in my world.
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Nicole Laino: So it's been a nice treat for me to have that experience of doing.
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Nicole Laino: The readings for them.
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Nicole Laino: And they've been receiving them super well.
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Nicole Laino: But so while it's been from all these different walks of life, there is one kind of commonality between all of them.
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Nicole Laino: And it's something I recognize in myself.
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Nicole Laino: It's something I'm recognizing in my clients.
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Nicole Laino: And you're probably feeling it too, which is they're restless.
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Nicole Laino: They are restless.
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Nicole Laino: There is.
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Nicole Laino: There is something that they feel.
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Nicole Laino: And some of them are articulating this very deliberately.
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Nicole Laino: Some of them are saying things that indicate this.
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Nicole Laino: So I'm kind of deriving it or through my questioning during the reading we've landed on this, that they feel something is shifting.
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Nicole Laino: A lot of people have felt like that pull to their calling feels so much stronger than it ever has.
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Nicole Laino: And not all these people are unhappy per se.
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Nicole Laino: They're just, I think, questioning whether the way things are, is the way they want them to be or if those ways feel aligned for them anymore.
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Nicole Laino: So there is something deeper happening here.
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Nicole Laino: So I'm proud of these people for seeking out a system like human design to help them explore themselves and to kind of.
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Nicole Laino: I think it's a healthy way to engage with sort of the uncertainty that a lot of people are feeling about.
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Nicole Laino: About how you feel internally.
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Nicole Laino: I'm honored they chose me to do that with.
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Nicole Laino: And they got their reading and their minds were bl, which I'm super excited about.
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Nicole Laino: But this is the key here.
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Nicole Laino: And so in this episode, what I want to break down is what's really needed to navigate these changes.
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Nicole Laino: I want to talk about really what's happening underneath here, and just to get to the heart of why we feel this way right now, and how do we take steps that are productive and even that word productive.
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Nicole Laino: You almost have to throw out everything that you know about it.
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Nicole Laino: You almost have to throw out everything that you know about everything right now, which is why some people are having a really hard time.
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Nicole Laino: I saw a very popular, very strategically known Instagram person, you know, one of those people that's like, I made a million dollars last month, and then we're gonna do a million five this month, and, you know, make so much money.
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Nicole Laino: And here's what you do.
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Nicole Laino: You write copy like this.
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Nicole Laino: It's one of those people, and I'm not making fun of her or anything, but that the type of person she is, she's not like, let me tell you about the moon phase that we're in and how to work with your energy.
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Nicole Laino: She's not that person, and she's a very strategically aligned person.
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Nicole Laino: And I read this post that she put up where she talked about how she's, you know, basically kind of in a dark night of the soul, that she's questioning everything that she never, ever thought that she would question.
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Nicole Laino: You know, she's got this successful business, everything is working, but suddenly she just doesn't care like she used to, that she's thought about burning it all down and she's, you know, thought about changing everything.
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Nicole Laino: And she feels a little crazy.
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Nicole Laino: But she also feels like she's like, I know that this, that what I'm feeling is right.
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Nicole Laino: I know that it's true.
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Nicole Laino: I know I'm not crazy, but the things I think of doing feel really crazy.
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Nicole Laino: Given the circumstances, they don't make sense.
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Nicole Laino: Okay, now this is what we're getting to.
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Nicole Laino: This is the essence of why human design is so powerful, how you navigate this shift.
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Nicole Laino: Because that person doesn't strike me.
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Nicole Laino: I don't know if she does any spiritual work.
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Nicole Laino: I don't know if she has any idea of the changes that are happening.
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Nicole Laino: I have no idea.
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Nicole Laino: She's never that I've seen shared anything to make us feel like she is into any of this stuff.
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Nicole Laino: So she's just going with what her intuition is telling her, and she's sharing, you know, what she feels comfortable sharing about that journey.
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Nicole Laino: But the people who are doing this work, even people who are doing this work and have been doing it for a long time can still get shaken by this stuff.
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Nicole Laino: I want to be really clear about that.
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Nicole Laino: Human design does not mean that you have it all figured out.
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Nicole Laino: Even though you know that 2027's coming, even though we know that these themes are all changing.
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Nicole Laino: Knowing is just the mind feeling comfortable.
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Nicole Laino: Oh, yeah, I know.
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Nicole Laino: Okay, cool information.
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Nicole Laino: I feel safe.
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Nicole Laino: It makes my one line feel super held when I know stuff, but it doesn't make me actually any more safe.
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Nicole Laino: And it doesn't make me immune to the human feelings, which are the changing energies and how it is quickening and changing and shifting so rapidly where we are getting very close to this shift point.
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Nicole Laino: So with the clients that I have and what I really want to say here is that the essence of human design is.
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Nicole Laino: And I've said it a million times, but I think when you put it in context, it's like, oh, that's what she means.
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Nicole Laino: And even for me, who I do this, it's clicking for me even more.
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Nicole Laino: It's like, oh, shit.
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Nicole Laino: This is really what it was all about.
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Nicole Laino: This is it.
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Nicole Laino: So what it was all about, what it is all about, why strategy and authority is so important, why living your design is so important.
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Nicole Laino: It's because nothing's going to make sense.
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Nicole Laino: Nothing is going to make sense.
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Nicole Laino: The world is Turning upside down.
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Nicole Laino: Dogs and cats living together.
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Nicole Laino: Mass hysteria.
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Nicole Laino: Like it's all shifting and everything is changing.
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Nicole Laino: So what happens when everything changes and nobody feels safe anymore?
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Nicole Laino: Well, if you look to your mind to make sense.
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Nicole Laino: Sense of it, and I don't mean to make this sound catastrophic, because the truth is no.
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Nicole Laino: Nobody knows what's actually going to happen.
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Nicole Laino: And I'll paint a little bit of a picture of what I see as far as the framework, right?
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Nicole Laino: Everything is frameworks.
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Nicole Laino: It's all just looking at things from, like, here's sort of the ways these things could play out and a frame to look at it through.
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Nicole Laino: But all of those specifics within that frame could change and will.
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Nicole Laino: I'm certain of it.
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Nicole Laino: But, you know, nothing is going to change unless we start listening to something other than our mind.
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Nicole Laino: Unless we let go of the need for things to make sense.
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Nicole Laino: Here's something I need you to know.
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Nicole Laino: If you're uncomfortable now, it means you're waking up.
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Nicole Laino: And even if you've been doing this work for a while, like I have been, it doesn't make you immune to it.
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Nicole Laino: We all still have space to wake up.
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Nicole Laino: And nobody has ever done this before, but that is what's happening.
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Nicole Laino: We're waking up to the fact that maybe all the things that made sense to us before weren't really real.
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Nicole Laino: We're already seeing, you know, the veil come down on so many things.
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Nicole Laino: We're seeing the truth behind a lot of stuff that we thought was so safe.
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Nicole Laino: We thought it was so supportive of us.
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Nicole Laino: We thought it was good natured.
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Nicole Laino: And it was all just some of the most awful things that none of us could even like where you looked at some of the conspiracy theories and was like, yo, it couldn't possibly be that bad.
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Nicole Laino: And it's like, no, it kind of is.
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Nicole Laino: Holy shit.
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Nicole Laino: It's even worse than we thought, you know.
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Nicole Laino: But in 2027, the game is changing.
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Nicole Laino: And I don't mean that we're going from checkers to chess.
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Nicole Laino: I mean we're going from chess to particles or some other game that no one's ever played before, no one's ever seen it before.
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Nicole Laino: The board is different, the players are different, the rules are different.
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Nicole Laino: And so when you look at it and you look at the new game through the lens of how you played the old game, you probably are going to lose.
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Nicole Laino: And you're going to, you know, you'll be like my son when he gets super frustrated and like, you know, throws the game off.
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Nicole Laino: Like, I hate this game.
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Nicole Laino: That's what it feels like.
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Nicole Laino: But if you wake up, it's like the Matrix.
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Nicole Laino: If you wake up and you are conscious to just what is happening and you don't look to control it, and you can sit back and trust what you feel, trust your strategy and authority, trust your design.
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Nicole Laino: You surrender to it.
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Nicole Laino: The minute you try to control it is when you realize that you never had control in the first place.
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Nicole Laino: And, oh, boy, does that feel terrifying.
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Nicole Laino: But if you can surrender into your process and let that carry you and let it show you.
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Nicole Laino: And now is the time to do that, by the way, because before we get the new game board, it's almost like we're getting previews now.
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Nicole Laino: We're getting little previews, little glimpses of what this game is going to look like.
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Nicole Laino: And you can start to try to figure out how to play that game, but it's not going to be through trying to figure out how to play that game like you played the last game.
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Nicole Laino: Now is the time to go into your process and really commit to it, to commit to your human design process so you can surrender to something that greater than your intellect.
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Nicole Laino: Where we're going requires us to be open to things being different, like radically different.
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Nicole Laino: So to be asleep, as I'm understanding it now, because I had a very different perspective on it when I found human design several years ago, I have a different perspective on it than I had even a year ago.
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Nicole Laino: And I was like, oh, you wake up to your purpose.
11:34
Nicole Laino: You wake up to this.
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Nicole Laino: That's part of it.
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Nicole Laino: But really being asleep is looking at everything within the confines of everything that we've always known.
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Nicole Laino: The current governments, the current structures, the corporate structure, public schools, all of these things that are radically shifting and, you know, and thinking that everything has to fit into the structure that has always been there, rather than saying, maybe we could dream it all up again.
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Nicole Laino: If were all just following something bigger, then what made us feel safe for the last 400 years?
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Nicole Laino: We learned a lot.
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Nicole Laino: If it all came down, could we build it back better if we actually looked at everything with fresh eyes and a beginner's mind and allowed our mind to be an idea tool like it's supposed to be, and follow what we really feel called to?
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Nicole Laino: What if we all have a job that's greater than any profession we could have?
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Nicole Laino: In this old paradigm that you get everything you want?
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Nicole Laino: If you could just let go of the idea that you had to make sure it was also perfectly planned out, you knew you'd be safe.
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Nicole Laino: And I get it's not easy That's.
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Nicole Laino: It's hard to say I trust, but this is why I can't even say I totally trust.
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Nicole Laino: There's fear there.
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Nicole Laino: It's like, oh, shit.
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Nicole Laino: It's like it's.
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Nicole Laino: Stuff's really changing.
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Nicole Laino: Things are really moving fast.
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Nicole Laino: I really feel these shifts.
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Nicole Laino: But the years that I've spent giving myself over to this process allows me to trust in something other than my mind.
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Nicole Laino: I have made many moves just because they felt right and I felt them through a process.
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Nicole Laino: So I know I can make those type of decisions again and I can follow something that has led me to something better than I could have planned before.
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Nicole Laino: So I have built the trust that's going to allow me to continue to trust in that mechanism versus going to my mind and trying to make it all make sense.
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Nicole Laino: Now I have a logical head gate in my incarnation Cross.
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Nicole Laino: So I absolutely love to figure things out and really would love to be certain.
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Nicole Laino: I really would love to have a plan.
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Nicole Laino: But I catch myself in those moments where I'm relying on that, where I'm trying to figure out how do I make this feel like I know it will all work out and I just have to surrender and say, you just have to trust the process and trust that you'll either get the result that you want or the lesson that you need.
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Nicole Laino: There's something bigger at work here.
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Nicole Laino: Humanity is about to officially enter its damn the man era.
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Nicole Laino: It's time to think outside of the box and trust something that you maybe have never trusted before or really give yourself over to it.
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Nicole Laino: I think that is the challenge right now, is for us to trust in something that in a big way, like, what if you made it your number one priority to trust your strategy and authority to follow your design without attaching a result to it.
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Nicole Laino: I'm going to follow my design so I can get X.
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Nicole Laino: Because the truth is, anything is up for grabs.
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Nicole Laino: I was just thinking about, you know, like, you could contemplate a whole new world unfolding before us.
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Nicole Laino: What if we don't need money?
14:45
Nicole Laino: What if that's where we're going?
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Nicole Laino: I don't know.
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Nicole Laino: What if, you know, we do go back to a more quieter type of life and we don't need as much.
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Nicole Laino: What if we do get conscious leadership?
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Nicole Laino: I think that we still have a role to play in making it happen.
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Nicole Laino: So we have to let go of tribal connections, of purely tribal loyalties.
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Nicole Laino: You know, I've talked a lot on this show about the gate of loyalty and how loyalty has been the way, and I think about that through the context of the good part of loyalty.
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Nicole Laino: And I get nostalgic for it because I'm like, I don't want to.
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Nicole Laino: It hurts me to think of humanity letting go of the loyalty, of taking care of each other and caring whether people are, like, yanked off the streets and taken away from their families and their baby dies at home because nobody cared that they said that they had a child at home when they took them away.
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Nicole Laino: Like, it hurts me to think that we don't care about people like that the loyalty of humans doesn't matter.
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Nicole Laino: But the more I think about that, the more I am convinced that there's a little bit more of a collective thing to that maybe that's a little bit more collective energy of saying that we have to care about everyone, not just the people who look like us, who sound like us, who grew up where we grew up, who agree with our worldview.
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Nicole Laino: So part of me, I'm coming around because I have been a big, you know, like, don't lose the channel of community.
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Nicole Laino: We have to care about each other.
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Nicole Laino: And I still believe that.
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Nicole Laino: But I think it's very funny.
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Nicole Laino: As the 4037 transited through the nodes, what did we see here in America?
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Nicole Laino: We saw those.
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Nicole Laino: The ice raids which have.
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Nicole Laino: Thankfully, they're still happening, but they quieted down for a bit.
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Nicole Laino: That was a big thing.
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Nicole Laino: Right.
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Nicole Laino: Where do your loyalties lie right now that we've come off of that?
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Nicole Laino: Extreme news coverage on that.
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Nicole Laino: Still happening, but it's not to the level that it was before.
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Nicole Laino: The aggressiveness of it has come down a bit.
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Nicole Laino: Not completely, not enough.
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Nicole Laino: But to me, I have been like, oh, the pure tribalism of supporting somebody just because they look like you or they.
17:03
Nicole Laino: They support the same people you support.
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Nicole Laino: And this real tribalism rather than being individuals.
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Nicole Laino: Yeah, we could let go of that.
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Nicole Laino: The loyalty.
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Nicole Laino: Could the tribal loyalty.
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Nicole Laino: Blind loyalty based on tribal connections and tribal affiliation?
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Nicole Laino: Yeah, I could bury that in 2027 and feel pretty good about it.
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Nicole Laino: I invite you to ponder all of this, contemplate all of this.
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Nicole Laino: And I invite you to really dig into your process to build trust in it now, when the stakes are low, to build trust in it now.
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Nicole Laino: Don't try to put a.
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Nicole Laino: You know, like, I want to use my design so I get lots of clients or so I attract followers.
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Nicole Laino: Let that be the byproduct of you following your design.
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Nicole Laino: This is what screws so many people up with human design.
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Nicole Laino: I really want to save you right now.
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Nicole Laino: Take the.
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Nicole Laino: So I can piece off of it and Just follow your design to find out who the hell you really are.
18:02
Nicole Laino: And I promise you, all the other stuff will fall into place.
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Nicole Laino: You will start attracting what is correct for you.
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Nicole Laino: It is a byproduct.
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Nicole Laino: It is not the goal.
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Nicole Laino: When you treat it as the goal.
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Nicole Laino: You're not really following your design.
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Nicole Laino: You're following a desire.
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Nicole Laino: And a.
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Nicole Laino: A goal is attached to your mind.
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Nicole Laino: It's.
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Nicole Laino: You're not really in the process you're trying to control.
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Nicole Laino: And I'm not saying you can't get what you want.
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Nicole Laino: I'm just saying that's probably not how you're going to get it.
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Nicole Laino: Okay, I think I shared everything I wanted to share here.
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Nicole Laino: I'm gonna leave you with that.
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Nicole Laino: I threw a lot at you today.
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Nicole Laino: A lot of concepts and my own thoughts and things in there.
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Nicole Laino: I don't even know what I'm gonna call this episode as I'm recording it.
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Nicole Laino: All right, thank you so much for being here.
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Nicole Laino: I appreciate you.
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