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#1085 - The Sordid World of Honey Traps With Julie Inman Grant [R] · Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

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Speaker 1: It's their Happy Family's podcast. It's the podcast for the
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Speaker 1: time poor parent who just once answers. Now, you can
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Speaker 1: tell how important somebody is by the length of their bio.
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Speaker 1: The bio of the person I'm about to speak to
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Speaker 1: is clear, concise and short. Julie inman grant is Australia's
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Speaker 1: e Safety Commissioner, full stop, end of story. That's all
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Speaker 1: we need to know. And the reason that I'm sharing
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Speaker 1: that with you is because of all the people in
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Speaker 1: this country who have their finger on what's going on
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Speaker 1: with tech and our kids, it is Julie in mcgrant.
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Speaker 1: We've known each other for years. We've had wonderful conversations
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Speaker 1: on the podcast previously and after yesterday's discussion, talking with
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Speaker 1: a young man who was caught up in a honeytrap online,
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Speaker 1: who was approached by somebody he thought was a gorgeous
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Speaker 1: girl who sent him a bunch of images that made
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Speaker 1: him feel quite excited, and then coerced him into sending
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Speaker 1: an image of himself to her. So, of course, that
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Speaker 1: young girl then revealed herself to not be a young
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Speaker 1: girl at all, but somebody with impure motives, some unhelpful intent,
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Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, we've got a scenario where
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Speaker 1: there's a young man who has been completely caught online
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Speaker 1: in a sextortion situation. Well, Julian mcgrant knows all about
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Speaker 1: that and a whole lot more. She joins me today
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Speaker 1: on the Happy Families podcast to talk about what is
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Speaker 1: going on with our technology companies and how kids are
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Speaker 1: getting caught up in this. Julie, thank you so much
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Speaker 1: for being here, really grateful to have you.
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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for not reading my flaw bio.
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Speaker 2: That would have made me feel old.
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Speaker 1: You know what, I just love what you've done. But
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Speaker 1: for today's purposes, all that matters is that you know
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Speaker 1: what you're talking about in this particular area, perhaps more
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Speaker 1: than anyone else in the country. Julie, can you provide
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Speaker 1: an other view of the prevalence and the scope of
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Speaker 1: online sextortion targeting teenagers in Australia and how this has
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Speaker 1: been evolving over the last few years.
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Speaker 2: Well, Unfortunately, sexual extortion is not a new online harm.
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Speaker 2: In fact, we started putting in outs around sex stortion
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Speaker 2: or sexual extortion back in twenty eighteen. But it's certainly
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Speaker 2: something that regulators, law enforcement and governments globally are struggling
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Speaker 2: to address and it seems to be gathering pace. And
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Speaker 2: the primary reason is this is being backed by organized
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Speaker 2: criminals in the Philippines, in India, in Africa. Remember when
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Speaker 2: we used to get all of those social engineering scams
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Speaker 2: about they kidnapped princess or winning the lottery that you
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Speaker 2: haven't won. They have figured out that this is an
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Speaker 2: incredibly lucrative scheme that works relatively quickly. They've got a
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Speaker 2: well worn playbook that I'll walk you through, but they're
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Speaker 2: able to blackmail and extored young people who are cornered
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Speaker 2: and very distressed in very aggressive ways. We've had some
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Speaker 2: people come to us after paying thousands of dollars, so
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Speaker 2: we'll talk through what this looks like about. In the
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Speaker 2: past financial year, we've had more than six thousand and
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Speaker 2: reports of sexual extortion to our image based abuse scheme,
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Speaker 2: and most of these reports are from young men between
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Speaker 2: the ages of eighteen and twenty four. And that's significant
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Speaker 2: because we tend to think about the eighteen to twenty
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Speaker 2: four age range as they're adults now, but these are
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Speaker 2: still young men without fully developed frontal core texes. They
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Speaker 2: maybe going in transition, say leaving high school, either going
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Speaker 2: into uni or into trades or whatever they're doing, but
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Speaker 2: they don't have that same kind of pastoral support. And
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Speaker 2: often young men of this age will go to their
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Speaker 2: local police and they can't get help because they are adults. Obviously,
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Speaker 2: police will react more quickly when they're under eighteen, and
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Speaker 2: it's considered a form of child sexual exploitation, So it's
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Speaker 2: a really vulnerable age. And this is where I think
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Speaker 2: parents and cares and even brothers and sisters and other
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Speaker 2: forms of peers we need to be there to be
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Speaker 2: backing our young men in and supporting them.
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Speaker 1: Two things about yesterday's conversation at time with what you've
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Speaker 1: just said, we were talking about somebody who was under eighteen,
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Speaker 1: a young man. He was fifteen when his incident occurred. Wonderfully,
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Speaker 1: he was confident enough to go to his mum and
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Speaker 1: say I'm in trouble, which I think is just the
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Speaker 1: ultimate outcome, right, if something bad is going to happen
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Speaker 1: like this, the fact that mum has a relationship with
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Speaker 1: her son where he's willing to go and have that
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Speaker 1: conversation matters so much. And I want to tread really
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Speaker 1: carefully here. My sense is that when it comes to
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Speaker 1: reporting to police. This is a bit of a lottery.
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Speaker 1: They went to the police and the police almost thought
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Speaker 1: that it was funny that this kid got duped by
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Speaker 1: some gorgeous girl online that actually wasn't who she said
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Speaker 1: that she was. They didn't get anywhere at all with
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Speaker 1: the police. They had a terrible experience there. Now, obviously
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Speaker 1: this is one of those things where sometimes it works
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Speaker 1: out and sometimes it doesn't. But the Safety Commissioner exists
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Speaker 1: precisely because people need help in this area, right And
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Speaker 1: when you say six thousand in a year, I'm terrible
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Speaker 1: at meths, but my guess is that's more than one
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Speaker 1: hundred a week at getting sprung, getting caught getting duped
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Speaker 1: in this way.
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Speaker 2: Well, and listen, we have a really a minimal role here.
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Speaker 2: This is largely a law enforcement issue because we're talking
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Speaker 2: about organized crime. You know. Our primary role, you know,
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Speaker 2: in terms of our regulatory schemes is to be able
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Speaker 2: to take down intimate imagery after it's been posted. But
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Speaker 2: we can also tackle threats to post imagery. But often
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Speaker 2: there isn't an Australian connection, or it's happening overseas, and
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Speaker 2: this is why those very little police can ultimately do.
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Speaker 2: So really, what we've been doing is providing almost a
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Speaker 2: form of guidance and support, and we've got a contractual
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Speaker 2: relationship with Kids Helpline and some of the other you know,
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Speaker 2: mental health support services which often often people need. But
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Speaker 2: this is where you know, an ounce of prevention is
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Speaker 2: worth a pound of cure. And so I do want
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Speaker 2: to go back to the important conversations. And you know,
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Speaker 2: people used to laugh at me when I would say
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Speaker 2: things like, you know, model good behavior for your kids
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Speaker 2: when you're taking their picture, ask for consent, ask if
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Speaker 2: it's okay, if they put it, if you put this
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Speaker 2: on Facebook. Because if you ask those questions, then maybe
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Speaker 2: they will have the same courtesy for others. But the
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Speaker 2: other important thing is certainly COVID has reinforced this technology
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Speaker 2: is inexplicably tied to every aspect of their lives. And
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Speaker 2: when we're at the dinner table and we're asking them
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Speaker 2: about how is their day at school, how is their sport,
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Speaker 2: what's happening with their friends, we have to start asking
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Speaker 2: them about what's happening online to them too, because this
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Speaker 2: is how they're communicating, they're engaging, and they're playing games
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Speaker 2: they may not have access to their phones at school,
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Speaker 2: but they're certainly using them as a primary communications mechanism.
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Speaker 1: Julian mcgrant joins me today on the Happy Families podcast
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Speaker 1: to talk about the prevalence and the scope of online
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Speaker 1: sextortion targeting teenagers in Australia and how this has been
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Speaker 1: evolving over the last few years.
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Speaker 2: We can go through the key messages that we want
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Speaker 2: to get across to parents and carers and young people themselves,
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Speaker 2: but I'm happy to talk through first how this tends
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Speaker 2: to play out online that well want warrant offender playbook
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Speaker 2: if you.
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Speaker 1: Will, let's go there. You mentioned that there's a playbook
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Speaker 1: that organized I mean organized crime literally call centers that
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Speaker 1: are set up internationally with people showing up to work
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Speaker 1: so that they can exploit our kids. This is so heinous.
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Speaker 1: The mendacity of this is just extraordinary. What are the
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Speaker 1: common tactics, what's in the playbook? What are the perpetrators
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Speaker 1: doing so they can exploit our teenagers and couerse them
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Speaker 1: to shit airing these explicit images and videos. And do
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Speaker 1: the tactics change depending on whether they're targeting a girl
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Speaker 1: or a boy.
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Speaker 2: Well, I think what they figured out it's it's almost
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Speaker 2: ninety percent of what we're seeing our targeting young men.
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Speaker 2: And I think what they figured out is if and
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Speaker 2: they're they're very good at profiling, they're targets. You know.
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Speaker 2: John Rowse, who was formerly with Task Force Argos, you know,
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Speaker 2: ran a test a couple of years ago the followers
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Speaker 2: of Paige Spiriwak, who's the beautiful blonde American golfer. If
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Speaker 2: you're following her, there's a good chance you like a sporty, perky,
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Speaker 2: attractive blonde girl. So just create up a set of
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Speaker 2: fake imposter accounts with a cute blonde and target the
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Speaker 2: same people, and you know you've got the hook pretty
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Speaker 2: pretty quickly. So it often starts with of course, uh,
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Speaker 2: flattery and and ask using faked and accounts, often of
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Speaker 2: an attractive woman. Sometimes these are actually images of pornography stars.
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Speaker 2: And the reason I mentioned that is that one of
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Speaker 2: the ways once they ensnare someone and ask for a
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Speaker 2: sexy chat and the chat continues, one of the ways
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Speaker 2: that they will groom them and try and wear them
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Speaker 2: down to encourage them to sorry but masturbate for the
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Speaker 2: webcam or for a FaceTime or Skype call, is that
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Speaker 2: they will send a pornographic video to kind of say,
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Speaker 2: well here is me. Well it's actually an adult actress.
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Speaker 2: I've seen a timeline where a young person connects with
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Speaker 2: a fake account at eight o'clock. By nine, he's already
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Speaker 2: performed sexual acts for the camera. By ten, not only
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Speaker 2: is he being aggressively targeted and threatened with blackmail and
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Speaker 2: using his followers list to send the intimate imagery to
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Speaker 2: his parents and all his friends and family, but by
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Speaker 2: the time it reaches midnight, he's taken his own life.
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Speaker 2: So this is over a four hour period from being
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Speaker 2: contacted by a fake account to taking your own life.
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Speaker 2: This shows how terribly this can go wrong. So once
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Speaker 2: they the perp has hooked the victim you know, someone
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Speaker 2: who's open to chatting with them, then they, you know,
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Speaker 2: keep the pressure up to share explicit sexual videos or photos.
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Speaker 2: This is another reason we encourage parents, even when you're
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Speaker 2: talking about teenagers, to have kids using technology and open
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Speaker 2: areas of the home. We come across a lot of
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Speaker 2: videos of self produced coerce child sexual abuse material. It's
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Speaker 2: almost always in the sanctity of the home, in bathrooms
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Speaker 2: and bedrooms. So that's just another thing to keep in
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Speaker 2: mind most of the platforms that are being targeted, or
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Speaker 2: snapchat in Instagram, and often they'll move them off platform,
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Speaker 2: either to a Skype or WhatsApp, video or FaceTime, and
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Speaker 2: they'll use a combination of charm and flirtatiousness and sexually
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Speaker 2: explicit language to manipulate that once they get the imagery,
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Speaker 2: that chat immediately turns menacing and threats to share the
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Speaker 2: victim's photos with family or friends that the victim doesn't pay.
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Speaker 2: As I mentioned, they can also often look at say
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Speaker 2: Instagram has you can see out in the open the followers,
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Speaker 2: so they can be very friendsic and say, I know
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Speaker 2: your father is this person, and this person looks like
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Speaker 2: your girlfriend, and we will be sending this. So it's
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Speaker 2: just really using all of these tactics to corner the
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Speaker 2: person to make them feel desperate. I mean, we've seen
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Speaker 2: some scripts where they would ask start by asking for
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Speaker 2: fifteen thousand dollars and the young person will say, well,
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Speaker 2: I'm only fifteen, I don't have that much money, and
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Speaker 2: they'll negotiate with them, well, how much can you pay?
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Speaker 2: How much do you have to you in our bank
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Speaker 2: account right now? And they'll start there and once someone pays.
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Speaker 2: They know that they'll feel desperate enough they'll go they'll
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Speaker 2: go back and keep paying. So I would just say
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Speaker 2: if you come across this and the person is underage,
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Speaker 2: you should report directly to the Australian Center to Counter
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Speaker 2: Child Sexual Exploitation. If your imagery has been posted online
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Speaker 2: and they will follow through, that's when they can come
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Speaker 2: to the e Safety Commissioner under our image based Abuse
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Speaker 2: scheme at eesafety dot dot au. But this is a
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Speaker 2: good chance to say these are the golden rules. First
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Speaker 2: and foremost, don't ever pay. And if you're a parent
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Speaker 2: and your child has paid something already, don't pay more.
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Speaker 2: Stee all contact with the blackmailer. Take the evidence that
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Speaker 2: you can, but block them. As I said, if they're
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Speaker 2: under eighteen, go to the Australian Center for Child Sexual
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Speaker 2: Exploitation because it is active child sexual abuse. If they're
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Speaker 2: over eighteen, screenshot the evidence, including the blackmailers social media
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Speaker 2: usernames and bank account details and any URLs. Then report
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Speaker 2: in app and block so report to the platform.
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Speaker 1: I know this is kind of an in the weeds conversation.
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Speaker 1: I know that it's sort of a little bit even political,
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Speaker 1: but it's such an important conversation. I have one last question,
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Speaker 1: a little bit left field, slightly off where we've been,
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Speaker 1: but still very much in your zone. Last year, Duly,
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Speaker 1: as the e Safety Commissioner, you made a recommendation of
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Speaker 1: the Albaneze federal government to trial an age gated system
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Speaker 1: to stop our kids accessing pornographic content online. The Albaneze
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Speaker 1: government shut that recommendation down. They refuse to go ahead
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Speaker 1: with that. What's your reaction to that decision?
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Speaker 2: Well, I mean we did two years of deep consultation
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Speaker 2: and understanding the technologies, the environment. This is often what happens.
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Speaker 2: We put six recommendations to government. They didn't outrighte e ject,
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Speaker 2: but really what the Minister said was I want you
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Speaker 2: to focus on Phase two of the Industry Codes, which
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Speaker 2: we have already started to do and in fact tomorrow
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Speaker 2: on the twenty second of February. We have a big
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Speaker 2: set of conversation that process. But the codes process around
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Speaker 2: illegal content took more than two years, so this is
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Speaker 2: going to be There are a lot of lessons learned
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Speaker 2: that we're going to try try and avoid, but this
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Speaker 2: is something that I think we need to move forward on.
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Speaker 2: The Minister has now tasked the department to look at
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Speaker 2: scoping a trial, and I can see these two things
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Speaker 2: very much working in parallel as we we seek to
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Speaker 2: get commitments from industry up and down the stack. So
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Speaker 2: what is the role of apps stores, What is the
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Speaker 2: role of device manufacturers, what is the role of social
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Speaker 2: media sites? Every single sector of the industry will serve
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Speaker 2: as a safety choke point and be able to do
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Speaker 2: something to keep child safe from pornography in a way
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Speaker 2: that's privacy protected, doesn't undermine, you know, the the right
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Speaker 2: of adults to access adult content. So uh, you know,
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Speaker 2: we still have some work to do and things are
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Speaker 2: moving apace, but so goes government.
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Speaker 1: I think that's the understatement of the year. We still
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Speaker 1: have some work to do. It's such a such a
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Speaker 1: challenging area. So grateful for the work that you do, Julie,
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Speaker 1: and the way that you so unselfishly and so persistently
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Speaker 1: take it to people who do not want to have
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Speaker 1: it taken to them and fight for the protection of
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Speaker 1: our children. If I was to summarize the practical side
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Speaker 1: of what you just said for parents who are listening
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Speaker 1: to this and saying I don't have know what to
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Speaker 1: do anymore, this is terrifying. What I've heard you say
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Speaker 1: is Number one, make sure that kids are using their
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Speaker 1: screens out in the open, don't have them in bedrooms
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Speaker 1: and bathrooms. Number two, make sure that kids know that
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Speaker 1: they can talk to you about anything that's happening online,
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Speaker 1: and ask them about their online lives and that of
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Speaker 1: their friends. Number Three, If children are approached inappropriately and
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Speaker 1: for some reason, they don't just say no, I'm blocked
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Speaker 1: the person. If they do get caught up in something,
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Speaker 1: don't pay, get screenshots, collect evidence, block report, go to
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Speaker 1: the authorities, the police, ACE, and you at the E
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Speaker 1: Safety Commissioner if there's any image based abuse that's occurred.
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Speaker 1: I think that's about all. What have I missed?
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Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean I think the homework for parents today
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Speaker 2: is go to E safety dot go au. We've got parents' guides.
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Speaker 2: We've got an E safety guide that walks you through
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Speaker 2: all of the games, apps and social media sapes your
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Speaker 2: kids might be using. But we've got a page on
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Speaker 2: sexual extortion that leads these out in detail. It also
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Speaker 2: gives you scripts about how you can talk to your
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Speaker 2: children about these issues and know they can come to
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Speaker 2: you if anything goes wrong that they're not going to
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Speaker 2: be in trouble. I think this is what we see
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Speaker 2: with more stigmatized issues, is that kids are afraid of
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Speaker 2: getting in trouble or for what they've done, or device denial,
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Speaker 2: and I think we have to let them know that
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Speaker 2: our preeminent concern as parents is their overall safety and
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Speaker 2: well being, no matter what is transpired online.
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Speaker 1: Julie Immigrant is Australia's E Safety Commissioner. Julie, thank you
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Speaker 1: so much for your time today.
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Speaker 2: Thank you.
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Speaker 1: We will link to the e Safety Commissioner websites in
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Speaker 1: our show notes. Of course you can just google and
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Speaker 1: find everything that you need. Those resources are valuable. Please
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Speaker 1: look at them. As parents, we've got to be across
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Speaker 1: this stuff. It matters so much for our children's well being.
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Speaker 1: I really appreciate you listening to this very very important
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Speaker 1: conversation today with Julie Imman Grant, the Australian E Safety Commissioner.
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Speaker 1: The Happy Families podcast is produced by Justin Roland from
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Speaker 1: Bridge Media. For more information about keeping your kids safe,
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Speaker 1: check out the esay Your website. Also the Australians senat
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