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DLHS Hour 2 | Are children with strict parents' better liars · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: It is the dal You can show your twenty twenty
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  Speaker 1: What is it Junius House of Comedy, House of Comedy,
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  Speaker 2: I'll be there.
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  Speaker 1: I think most of my soul I will come on
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  Speaker 1: home and check me out. Strict parents are to make
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  Speaker 1: better liars are disciplined children.
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  Speaker 3: I think that.
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  Speaker 1: The one thing that my mother after a while when
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  Speaker 1: whoopings didn't work, she ever told me she was disappointed
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  Speaker 1: in me, and then get out of my face. I
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  Speaker 1: want to speak to you that really than i'd be like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to disappoint you. I think they were
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  Speaker 1: in a different place that generally had just come out
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  Speaker 1: of the South, that went very jim like. There was
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  Speaker 1: a lot of stuff going on, and the thing was,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to make this person fear me so that
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  Speaker 1: he doesn't or she doesn't.
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  Speaker 3: Get you caught up in the wiles of the world.
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  Speaker 4: Right, I think it's almost impossible to keep your children
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  Speaker 4: from getting caught up in the wilds of the world.
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  Speaker 4: I think they're coming out, whether or not they become
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  Speaker 4: great liars. I think also does depend on how strict
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  Speaker 4: you are, if they don't. If you're not strict and
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  Speaker 4: they don't feel the need to lie, lien practice makes perfect.
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  Speaker 4: So the more lies you tell, the better you get
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  Speaker 4: at it. And I think if your parents allow you
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  Speaker 4: to go and come and do whatever you want to
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  Speaker 4: and they're not so strict, you don't have a reason
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  Speaker 4: to lie, And that's why you can are a terrible liar.
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  Speaker 5: Right.
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  Speaker 3: But I think if your parents are strict, don't get
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  Speaker 3: to do everything?
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  Speaker 4: Why because you know one said you couldn't go, so
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  Speaker 4: you went to the party.
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  Speaker 3: Are you gonna lie about it? No, because I could go.
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  Speaker 4: But if I can't go to the party because you
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  Speaker 4: told me I can't because you're being super strict, I'm
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  Speaker 4: gonna sneak out in the way.
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  Speaker 3: Her assertion, let's just hear it again. She's asserting that.
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  Speaker 6: Strict parents raise the best liars.
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  Speaker 1: You think that strict parents anything you hold tight, anything
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  Speaker 1: you hold tight ice to get away, Yes, anything for sure.
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  Speaker 1: And I think that that this notion that you can
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  Speaker 1: stop your children or govern. I mean, obviously you should
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  Speaker 1: all try, we should all try, but setting expectations for
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  Speaker 1: your children. Expectations that are fair and that are you know,
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  Speaker 1: not I mean saying fair, but that are realistic because
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  Speaker 1: children generally rise to the level of your expectations.
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  Speaker 3: They really Sometimes I'm saying, well, don't bring me into it.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just saying I did. But later on the question
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  Speaker 3: we asked the dude, here, here's the idea.
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  Speaker 6: Strict parents raise the best liars skipped up.
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  Speaker 3: What do you think you were raise? Your parents were
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  Speaker 3: very strict.
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  Speaker 7: Right early on, but not that. But to be the
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  Speaker 7: son of a preacher and all that stuff. He kind
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  Speaker 7: of let me make my own. So the only man
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  Speaker 7: that ever reached you was the son of a preacher. Absolutely,
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  Speaker 7: so they want that bad. But I did go like
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  Speaker 7: going to school. I knew some girls that came that,
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  Speaker 7: like girls that were daughters of preachers, and they were
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  Speaker 7: strict on it. As soon as they got out from
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  Speaker 7: under their parents. Like first semester of college, you come
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  Speaker 7: home pregnant, like I mean, both draw legs.
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  Speaker 8: So you gotta learn.
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  Speaker 7: You gotta let your kids, you know, breathe a little
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  Speaker 7: bit because us they will not hate.
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  Speaker 3: There is a sense of rebellion too.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, I'll show you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, there you go showing me go back to what
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  Speaker 3: you said.
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  Speaker 4: Anything that you try to hold from somebody, they're gonna
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  Speaker 4: want it all the more, period, No matter what it is.
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  Speaker 3: I must not have been just my son is the
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  Speaker 3: worst liar.
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  Speaker 7: He is the what I told the man.
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  Speaker 1: Man that ain't Some of us can lie pretty good,
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  Speaker 1: but he is horrible at it.
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  Speaker 3: Now, you gotta watch a sneaky girl. They them the
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  Speaker 3: sneaky ones bore, aren't they? Just so?
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  Speaker 9: Lena?
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  Speaker 3: She said, you saw it both ways?
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  Speaker 5: Right?
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  Speaker 9: Well, now the question, I understand the question better because
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  Speaker 9: that's not how you position that.
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  Speaker 3: What what is that? But yes, I do agree that
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  Speaker 3: you're a good liar.
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  Speaker 9: Well, I have just like Morgan's wife, like my mom
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  Speaker 9: created that balance. My dad was strict, but my mom
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  Speaker 9: created a balance, so.
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  Speaker 3: So I wasn't really so. In other words, people who
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  Speaker 3: live in villages like you and Moba, Yeah, the village
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  Speaker 3: of New York City, people who live.
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  Speaker 9: In hamlets, the village of Audubon, people who live along
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  Speaker 9: the commedi Blongos.
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  Speaker 4: Shire.
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  Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna yea if you don't live in
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  Speaker 3: the shire or hamlet, it's a call.
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  Speaker 1: It's the question we're asking ladies and gentlemen. A parent
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  Speaker 1: said this.
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  Speaker 6: Strict parents raise the best liars.
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  Speaker 3: Do you agree to go right there with coupons?
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  Speaker 10: Yes?
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  Speaker 11: I think it make a more sneaky, very sneaky. When
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  Speaker 11: you have very strict parents, you're gonna like I think
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  Speaker 11: d l or someone mentioned that I had Princess White.
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  Speaker 11: They would wear one thing in school and then when
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  Speaker 11: they get some from Florida and they get in the bathroom,
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  Speaker 11: they put on their eyelashes, their little hoogi outfits. Make
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  Speaker 11: you very, very sneaky, so make you a better liar.
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  Speaker 12: I was raised by a strict fatherin and I was
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  Speaker 12: also a preacher's kid, so it was a double whamby
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  Speaker 12: for me.
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  Speaker 13: Frosen cons do it?
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  Speaker 5: You know.
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  Speaker 13: The the pros was that it pretty much put me
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  Speaker 13: on a good path. But the cons was white brouh.
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  Speaker 5: I was a sneaky dude.
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  Speaker 14: I always got into everything.
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  Speaker 12: I wold out pretty much.
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  Speaker 15: I like to give the analogy of the animal that
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  Speaker 15: was released from his cage.
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  Speaker 11: I tell you what, Strict parents might not create children
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  Speaker 11: who I lie is but a damn show do.
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  Speaker 6: Create sneaky children.
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  Speaker 11: Strict parents create sneaky kids.
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  Speaker 16: I'm telling you that.
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  Speaker 17: Look yah, you ever mess around you want to. But
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  Speaker 17: I raised three kids and I kept footing the ass
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  Speaker 17: and they all three colors. Grass the old school around
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  Speaker 17: being friends with your kids and when they get out
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  Speaker 17: of college, then they're your friends. Now they love me.
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  Speaker 17: Then they didn't, but they loved the hell out of
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  Speaker 17: me after seeing how their class meets turned out.
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  Speaker 14: Yeah, strict parents absolutely make for kids to be the
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  Speaker 14: best liars. I grew up with a pretty strict mom,
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  Speaker 14: and I learned how to navigate that and smile and
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  Speaker 14: let her think that you let her hear everything she
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  Speaker 14: wanted to hear.
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  Speaker 10: They put you in a position to where.
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  Speaker 14: You can't really tell them.
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  Speaker 10: Much, or I didn't feel like I could. I couldn't
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  Speaker 10: tell her, I couldn't talk to her about how I
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  Speaker 10: was feeling, you know. So I had to learn how
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  Speaker 10: to navigate, and that's exactly what I did. I don't
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  Speaker 10: think parents should be it's too strict. I think you
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  Speaker 10: should have boundaries and you should have discipline. But when
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  Speaker 10: you set your kids up where they can't trust you
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  Speaker 10: to tell you things, then yeah, they've just become really
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  Speaker 10: good liars.
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  Speaker 5: I think that it does make kids that are adults
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  Speaker 5: when the parents are strict to a degree can also
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  Speaker 5: build resentment. I guess it depends on how you correct them.
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  Speaker 5: You know, you can correct the child and let them
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  Speaker 5: know what the problem is and let them know what
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  Speaker 5: they're getting in trouble for. But I remember growing up, man,
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  Speaker 5: I get it behind a whipping and I don't know
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  Speaker 5: what the hell's going on to be something the neighbor
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  Speaker 5: said in the neighborhood, you know, got it all wrong.
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  Speaker 5: So I guess it depends on how you do it.
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  Speaker 5: But I do believe in tastising a child, but there
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  Speaker 5: has to be some type of correction in there and
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  Speaker 5: let them know what they get in task tis for
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  Speaker 5: and show love afterwards, because if not, man, you're gonna
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  Speaker 5: build resentment from that child when they become adults.
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  Speaker 16: Well me personally, I grew up with a street single
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  Speaker 16: mom and I ged you not.
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  Speaker 5: It's a bittersweet situation.
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  Speaker 16: I would say that the good that came out of
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  Speaker 16: it was that.
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  Speaker 5: I'm now for don't have any kids or whatever.
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  Speaker 16: But the bad part about it was that I was
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  Speaker 16: scared to do anything.
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  Speaker 8: You know.
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  Speaker 16: You know, I wasn't a sneaky kid or anything like that,
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  Speaker 16: but you was afraid you was afraid to do anything
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  Speaker 16: because you're afraid that you're gonna either get a whooping
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  Speaker 16: or you know, And there was just the you know,
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  Speaker 16: just that fear and it's not good and get ridly didn't.
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  Speaker 16: I feel like I didn't really have a life because
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  Speaker 16: I couldn't do a lot of stuff.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't even go to prom because she was on street.
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  Speaker 8: You know.
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  Speaker 18: I mean, it's bad, man.
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  Speaker 15: I'm gonna be honest with you, like, I was raised
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  Speaker 15: by a single mom, and my mom used to tear
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  Speaker 15: me up. And I think that strict parents make you
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  Speaker 15: a better liar for everybody else. But they can see
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  Speaker 15: when you lie.
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  Speaker 10: They know.
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  Speaker 15: I don't know if it's the behavior in it or
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  Speaker 15: like you just got tell signs. But then as you
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  Speaker 15: get older, you understand what they tried to instilling you,
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  Speaker 15: and you're like, well, I know if I did this,
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  Speaker 15: this will disappoint my mom. So I'm gonna do this.
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  Speaker 15: You know what I'm saying. It makes you a better
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  Speaker 15: decision maker when you become older. But I used to
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  Speaker 15: lie and get caught all the time.
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  Speaker 8: It was nothing.
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  Speaker 5: I couldn't do that.
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  Speaker 7: Mama.
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  Speaker 15: I know what you're gonna do.
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  Speaker 8: Before you do it.
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  Speaker 15: I've been there before. You think you the only one
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  Speaker 15: to do?
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  Speaker 10: You know how to lie? I was a kid once before.
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  Speaker 15: So I think strict parenting it makes you better liars
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  Speaker 15: for everybody else, but not your parents.
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  Speaker 3: The question we're asking ladies and gentlemen, A parent said.
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  Speaker 6: This, strict parents raise the best liars.
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  Speaker 3: All right, what do you think we're going to write
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  Speaker 3: to the phones?
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  Speaker 19: I think it's a mixed bag because I grew up
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  Speaker 19: in a large family.
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  Speaker 11: There were a lot of kids, and.
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  Speaker 19: I turned out well. But some of my older siblings
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  Speaker 19: and my younger siblings they aren't doing so well.
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  Speaker 5: So I think it's just a mess bag.
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  Speaker 18: But I think the general idea is that you want
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  Speaker 18: to have.
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  Speaker 19: A good enough relationship with your child where they don't
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  Speaker 19: feel like they need to lie to you, where they
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  Speaker 19: feel like they can talk to you about things. And
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  Speaker 19: maybe the whole lying thing.
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  Speaker 5: Isn't it isn't an issue.
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  Speaker 14: But as a parent myself, I know that I have.
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  Speaker 19: To be harder on one child than the other one
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  Speaker 19: because one child actually will not follow through unless I
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  Speaker 19: get on them.
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  Speaker 5: So I think it just depends.
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  Speaker 19: You have to gauge your child. You have to learn
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  Speaker 19: your child you have to know your child and that
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  Speaker 19: will help you figure out how to raise them in
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  Speaker 19: a good live.
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  Speaker 13: I think discipline on a child or a child that
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  Speaker 13: has uh may have issues. I think it's more what's
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  Speaker 13: born into them than say what you can beat into
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  Speaker 13: them or discipline them into them. I think it comes
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  Speaker 13: from either side of their bloodline.
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  Speaker 18: Well, I actually agree with the caller because I think
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  Speaker 18: I did that myself. I think because you're strict and
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  Speaker 18: you have they're scared to do anything, and so when
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  Speaker 18: they do all it's such a sense of guilt that
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  Speaker 18: they will lie about it and they become very great
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  Speaker 18: at lyon and so I I agree with the call
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  Speaker 18: of one.
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  Speaker 20: It goes both ways fifty to fifty. Like most cases,
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  Speaker 20: kids do turn out better when they have strict parents.
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  Speaker 20: But sometimes it can uh turn out to be where
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  Speaker 20: kids end up being psychologically unstable, they might damage them,
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  Speaker 20: and sometimes it might be where they turn out wild
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  Speaker 20: as hell, they don't know how to you know, control
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  Speaker 20: their you know, rebellion or anger towards a parent.
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  Speaker 5: So I think it goes both ways.
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  Speaker 12: It's up to the individual child. And I had strict parents.
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  Speaker 12: My sister did become a really great liar. I on
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  Speaker 12: the other hand, so if I was five minutes late,
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  Speaker 12: I'm going to get put punishment for a week. Well,
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  Speaker 12: my thought process was, if I'm going to get put
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  Speaker 12: on punishment, I'm not gonna make it work this and
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  Speaker 12: I would say, gone all the ye. If I'm gonna
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  Speaker 12: get un punishment, I'm gonna definitely make it worse my wife.
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  Speaker 8: I don't think it matters whether the parents are strict
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  Speaker 8: or not. If they're gonna lie, they're gonna lie. It
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  Speaker 8: really doesn't matter. That just to me, just another way
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  Speaker 8: out for a lot of parents that are condone what
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  Speaker 8: their kids are doing, because kids, kids gonna find a
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  Speaker 8: way to try to, you know, try to deceive you
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  Speaker 8: and try to get by with certain things. So I
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  Speaker 8: just don't think it matters what do you strict or not.
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