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Episode #281: Shaping Your Experience by Shifting Your Perspective · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, Welcome to tea time with Amien Bed.
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Speaker 2: We're back times three. It's nice.
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Speaker 1: So you're saying something about Leo Faz and I just about.
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Speaker 2: Talking and I don't even know, you know, I don't
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Speaker 2: even know. I would just tell you that I feel
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Speaker 2: like a lot of child the energies that have started
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Speaker 2: this week. I would say I've noticed is a lot
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Speaker 2: of childhood stuff has come up, but it's a different perspective.
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Speaker 2: It's almost like seeing it from our new adult eyes.
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Speaker 2: I don't know, like so processing a lot of things.
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Speaker 2: I feel like there's a lot of stuff, a lot
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Speaker 2: of emotions and feelings that we can no longer suppress,
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Speaker 2: and it's just coming forward. And people might be struggling
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Speaker 2: in this time frame a bit. I know that it's
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Speaker 2: a couple of times that I did. I was having
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Speaker 2: some a little bit of some struggles. But I've been
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Speaker 2: talking through a lot of the stuff. So it's making
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Speaker 2: sense to me or I'm gaining understanding through what's being
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Speaker 2: shared to me or information that comes in from spirit.
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Speaker 2: So I don't remember everything I was gonna where I
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Speaker 2: was gonna go with everything when we were talking about it,
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Speaker 2: because I start to start talking, and it's like and
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Speaker 2: then I was like, no, we can't. We can't do this.
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Speaker 2: We can't be talking about this right now we're not recording.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, we we tend to go off on to come
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Speaker 1: when we pause in between recordings, we tend to have
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Speaker 1: start a conversation. We're like, nope, can't talk, shut your face,
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Speaker 1: gotta wait till we record.
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Speaker 2: They was authentic right then. So then it's like then
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Speaker 2: I have to kind of walk back through the path again.
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Speaker 2: If it's supposed to come through, it'll come through. But
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Speaker 2: I will just say that things are there's a lot
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Speaker 2: of shifting, holy shifting going on, so as usual.
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Speaker 1: So so we're in right now, it's August thirty first,
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Speaker 1: twenty twenty five. As we're recording this right now, we
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Speaker 1: have four months left in the year. It's twenty twenty five,
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Speaker 1: which is a nine year and a nine years wrapping
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Speaker 1: up of loose ends, clearing up some energy, maybe cleaning
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Speaker 1: up your space, clearing the clutter.
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Speaker 2: It's just.
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Speaker 1: Clearing your maybe your emails or the unhealthy relationships. Like
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Speaker 1: it's it nine is a wrap up year. It's it's
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Speaker 1: where we need a fresh slate. So when we start
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Speaker 1: into the next year, twenty twenty six, that's a one year,
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Speaker 1: and so we start with a fresh foundation. And so
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Speaker 1: so anybody who feels like things are coming to an
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Speaker 1: end or things are shifting dramatically or keep that in
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Speaker 1: mind that the year so two plus zero plus two
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Speaker 1: plus five is nine. So in numerology there's a numbers
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Speaker 1: between one to nine, nine being.
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Speaker 2: The end of a cycle.
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Speaker 1: Some people will say that's it also equates death.
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Speaker 2: Well, it's got to have a.
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Speaker 1: Death to one thing for things to change and shift
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Speaker 1: into something else. And so if that's the way you
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Speaker 1: want to refer to, that's okay. We just say it's shifting,
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Speaker 1: it's changing, it's we're cleaning it up, we're clearing the slate,
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Speaker 1: we're wrapping up loose ends.
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Speaker 2: So if you're.
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Speaker 1: Feeling any kind of like you're getting things done and
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Speaker 1: then just going through the motion, like you feel the
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Speaker 1: need to really clean your house and clear all those piles,
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Speaker 1: and it's probably why because we're coming up to the
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Speaker 1: end of this year. So even myself, I have some
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Speaker 1: piles going on right here next to me, and it's like,
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Speaker 1: I get this cleaned up, this needs to go. Because
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Speaker 1: also when you have that unhealthy relationships, loose ends, clutter everywhere,
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Speaker 1: all the things. Then it's it's creating stuck energy and
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Speaker 1: the energy can't flow well. So clear it up, get
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Speaker 1: it done. Then before the end of the air. There's
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Speaker 1: some things on my on my computer I gotta get done.
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Speaker 1: So just really see if you can just stay focused
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Speaker 1: on getting these scenes done before the end of the year.
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Speaker 2: You know, I'm glad. I would never have thought our
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Speaker 2: conversation would have gone this way, but I'm so glad
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Speaker 2: that it didn't. It makes so much sense to me
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Speaker 2: for me to close my office, for my daughter's cats
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Speaker 2: to leave. Like there's endings because we're getting ready to go.
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Speaker 2: Like you said, we're going into a one, which is
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Speaker 2: pretty awesome. I think it's awesome because it's new beginnings
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Speaker 2: and it's like we're finishing off things. It's almost like,
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Speaker 2: you know, better start setting your intentions. But it kind
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Speaker 2: of it is. We're always setting our intentions. We're always
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Speaker 2: evolving forward, even sometimes when we don't think that we are.
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Speaker 2: Sometimes maybe our steps are a lot smaller than you know,
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Speaker 2: and some other times it's a lot we take leaps. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: but it is interesting, it is fascinating. I find it fascinating.
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Speaker 2: I and people may think that a lot of that
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Speaker 2: stuff doesn't make any sense or it's not even true.
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Speaker 2: But it's like when you start looking at each of
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Speaker 2: the year's just like when we do our twelve month reading, right,
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Speaker 2: when we start doing that and we look back on
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Speaker 2: things even last year or whatever, we start having understanding
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Speaker 2: about what that really meant, and oh, it really does
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Speaker 2: make sense, because it really does. Even your own personal
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Speaker 2: going through your own personal years, because that's a group
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Speaker 2: that's that for the global we're going through this right
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Speaker 2: the twenty twenty five. We're going from a nine to
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Speaker 2: a one. Yeah, but we're going through other processes too.
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Speaker 2: But it's like, if it's learning about a lot of
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Speaker 2: that stuff, it's exploring those things and finding out more
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Speaker 2: about yourself and finding out the stuff that you do like.
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Speaker 2: It's back to the same things again, what are your passions,
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Speaker 2: what do you like? What are you creating? What do
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Speaker 2: you want to have in your experience? We can be
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Speaker 2: the same old patterns as before and keep looking at
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Speaker 2: the stuff that didn't feel good and keep creating from
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Speaker 2: that space, or we can be like, oh, okay, so
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Speaker 2: that just happened, just so I could say what would
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Speaker 2: I rather like out of that? What would I rather
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Speaker 2: experience than that? Or what am I ready for? Now?
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Speaker 2: What does God want for me? All these little questions
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Speaker 2: will slip that in there. But it's like because sometimes
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Speaker 2: what you know, one of the things that I would
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Speaker 2: have heard heard someone very wise say, well, oh you
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Speaker 2: want to you just want that house? Well, I was
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Speaker 2: going to give you an island, you know. But because
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Speaker 2: we hold on to these things, what we think how
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Speaker 2: things should play out, or how it should work, or
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Speaker 2: this is what we want, and not being open for
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Speaker 2: the rest of the stuff. And so now we're being
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Speaker 2: open because now we're looking at things, we're closing up things,
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Speaker 2: we're clearing out stuff. This is a final, this is
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Speaker 2: a nine, and we're going into the one. We're going
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Speaker 2: into fresh and new. And now when you look at
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Speaker 2: look at that for even politics, you look at that
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Speaker 2: for any of the stuff the world stuff going on.
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Speaker 2: All the stuff is coming to the surface right now,
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Speaker 2: just like it is for us at home, and it's
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Speaker 2: sending love to ourselves, but it's sending love to the
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Speaker 2: whole world. It's sending love to everybody that's out there
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Speaker 2: that's going through a lot of these processes too, because
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Speaker 2: it's it makes you question a lot of things and
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Speaker 2: what's the best thing that we can do? Said, love,
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Speaker 2: That's the best thing we can do is love. What
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Speaker 2: can you even do better? Love yourself? Like love your
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Speaker 2: like really love yourself, And that switches the gears for everybody.
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Speaker 1: And that as you're talking. What was coming to me
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Speaker 1: also because I just went to a celebration of life yesterday, is.
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Speaker 2: The person who passed.
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Speaker 1: Had dementia, and people with dementia takes a lot of care.
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Speaker 1: And so by their having their transition, meaning they they
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Speaker 1: transition through death through passing, then that is an end
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Speaker 1: of a cycle. And the people who are caring for
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Speaker 1: that person now has new opportunity because they're no longer
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Speaker 1: focused on this person having this daily routine, having this
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Speaker 1: this for some people, it's a burden. We're going to
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Speaker 1: be real about this, the struggles of it, like, which
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Speaker 1: is not an easy thing to move through with a person.
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Speaker 1: And so once that door is closed, now the caretakers,
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Speaker 1: whether that's a family, friend, nurse, doesn't matter who it is.
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Speaker 1: Now they have new opportunities, especially for family members or
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Speaker 1: friends who've been caretaking. Now they have new opportunities because
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Speaker 1: they're no longer specifically focused on this person who is here.
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Speaker 1: Because while they're focused, they're exhausted. They don't have room
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Speaker 1: or time for anything else. That is their main focus,
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Speaker 1: always concerned, always worried about the person, making sure they're
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Speaker 1: taken care of, making sure they're safe, like all the things,
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Speaker 1: all the appointments, the doctor's appointments, that taking care of
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Speaker 1: their needs. That's more than a full time job. And
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Speaker 1: once that door closes because the person since transition, now
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Speaker 1: that person who was doing the caretaking has all these
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Speaker 1: opportunities of doing something different. So so you can think
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Speaker 1: of a door closing as death, you can think of
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Speaker 1: the end of a cycle as death. How are you
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Speaker 1: gonna refer to it? It's just an opportunity for something different.
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Speaker 2: And you know what kind of just crossed my mind
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Speaker 2: as you're saying that, Well, we devote so much time
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Speaker 2: to a person. So one part of me, like the victim,
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Speaker 2: would say, you're gonna have to change. Your life's going
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Speaker 2: to be different now because now your focus is no
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Speaker 2: longer on this person anymore. So now it's going to
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Speaker 2: feel you know, you're probably gonna miss that person more
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Speaker 2: now because you're not having to get their medication every whatever.
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Speaker 2: But on the other side of that, it's totally different
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Speaker 2: now that person's not there. Like you were saying, you
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Speaker 2: no longer have to that focus of all that energy
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Speaker 2: is no longer on there. Now. If you say you
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Speaker 2: don't have time, you do have time because you had
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Speaker 2: this person helped you show you that you had all
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Speaker 2: this time that you could now devote to yourself that
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Speaker 2: you didn't have to devote to somebody else. And it
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Speaker 2: really is up to us to devote time to ourselves.
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Speaker 2: It is up to us. I don't know what the
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Speaker 2: world looks like differently as far as dementia and all
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Speaker 2: that stuff goes. The more that we focus in word,
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Speaker 2: I think it shifts everything. I mean, I really don't.
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Speaker 2: I don't think that dis ease can survive in an
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Speaker 2: area that's full of love and light all the time.
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Speaker 2: It just isn't possible. So we're in the transitioning phase
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Speaker 2: from where we're at now to that to where we're
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Speaker 2: not in that space anymore of feeling all the heaviness,
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Speaker 2: because it's not it's just a change of perspective. It's
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Speaker 2: the perspective is changing. Am I going to work or
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Speaker 2: am I going to go see my friends? Am I
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Speaker 2: going to celebrate life? Or am I going to be
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Speaker 2: miserable the rest of my life? Am I going to
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Speaker 2: appreciate that I have a roof over my head and
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Speaker 2: spend time in my home appreciating when I'm cleaning? Or
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Speaker 2: am I going to be coming from a victim of
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Speaker 2: space and angry because the house is dirty? Again? It's
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Speaker 2: like we have too many dogs? Well you know, but
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Speaker 2: I love all those dogs, So you know, it's finding
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Speaker 2: the appreciation it really, it's just like you said, it's
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Speaker 2: an opportunity.
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Speaker 1: All of it's an opportunity. Yeah, it's all about perspective too,
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Speaker 1: even when you're in it, when you're in the discord
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Speaker 1: and all that, it's all about perspective of this is
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Speaker 1: a burden or I am blessed either way, And yeah,
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Speaker 1: those times of struggle suck really bad. I'm not gonna lie.
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Speaker 1: It's like not an easy thing to face. Whatever it is,
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Speaker 1: whatever the topic is, and what's it going to do
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Speaker 1: for your growth? So what is it doing for you
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Speaker 1: in taking care of this person? Well you can ask questions. Well,
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Speaker 1: the flip side of that is they're going to be
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Speaker 1: in a home somewhere and I don't know how they're
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Speaker 1: being taken care of, Whereas when I'm taking care of them,
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Speaker 1: I know they feel loved and they're getting the best
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Speaker 1: care that I can give them from a loving space
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Speaker 1: and they're nurtured. And or it's a super huge burden
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Speaker 1: and you're exhausted and you're focused on all the things
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Speaker 1: that suck about it and life is miserable. And so
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Speaker 1: which side of that fence do you want to be on,
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Speaker 1: because it's going to determine your daily how you show
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Speaker 1: up on a daily basis, and it shows up in
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Speaker 1: every facet of your life, so health, relationships, money, like
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Speaker 1: it shows up your energy because the way you are
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Speaker 1: showing up in life is your energy, and your energy
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Speaker 1: affects all topics of your life. So you get to
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Speaker 1: decide you're going to make this as pleasing as possible
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Speaker 1: as you're moving through it. Or it's the worst thing
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Speaker 1: in the world and it just sucks. And I'm not
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Speaker 1: perfect at either one of those. So I face challenges
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Speaker 1: in life, and I also it might suck in the moment,
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Speaker 1: but I'm also like, this is an opportunity for growth,
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Speaker 1: and I have to keep reminding myself of that. I
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Speaker 1: have to keep reminding myself of that what am I learning?
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Speaker 1: What am I learning? What am I learning? Because if
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Speaker 1: I don't, if I get off of that question, then
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Speaker 1: I will like feel like it is the worst thing
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Speaker 1: in the world, and then who knows where my mindset
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Speaker 1: and energy is going to go from there.
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Speaker 2: So I got to shift it. Some minds recently got
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Speaker 2: back to the question how can I get better than this?
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Speaker 2: Which we talked about a long time ago, But That's
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Speaker 2: where I'm at all the time. It doesn't matter if
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Speaker 2: I'm in a good mood, if I'm in a if
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Speaker 2: something hit rubb me the wrong way, it doesn't matter.
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Speaker 2: I'm asking all the time, how can I get better
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Speaker 2: than this? And I'm constantly being shown different ways? Yeah,
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Speaker 2: you know, and with all the conversation we're talking about too.
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Speaker 2: If I was to look at the school system right,
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Speaker 2: I could sit and bitch about it all day long.
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Speaker 2: I'm not because I really don't know what I would
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Speaker 2: bitch about it. I just don't. There's things that I
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Speaker 2: don't appreciate or don't agree with, And so the other
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Speaker 2: side of that is I'm getting things that are landing
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Speaker 2: in my lap of we're only doing a three and
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Speaker 2: a half hour school day. We do all this other
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Speaker 2: stuff outside. We're like, we're doing stuff with our kids.
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Speaker 2: It's not being in that same format anymore. It's not
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Speaker 2: we're not training people to be ready to go work
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Speaker 2: in jobs for eight or nine hours a day. And
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Speaker 2: that's okay because they've been in school that whole time,
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Speaker 2: so they think that's acceptable. They think this is the
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Speaker 2: way it's supposed to be. But we're being indoctrinated. We're
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Speaker 2: being trained and taught to be a certain way when
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Speaker 2: it's not necessary to be in that space like that.
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Speaker 2: And so with all that being said, I could sit
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Speaker 2: and look at all that stuff and find all the
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Speaker 2: things that I don't like, but all that it was
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Speaker 2: was an opportunity to create all the things that I
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Speaker 2: do want. It's like, there are so many things out
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Speaker 2: there that people are using yerkes just to put to
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Speaker 2: have a classroom out wherever, and it looks awesome, and
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Speaker 2: then they're having kids that are four and five and
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Speaker 2: six years old using saws and glue guns, obviously with supervision.
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Speaker 2: But we've taken we've dumped down a lot of the
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Speaker 2: thoughts that they could be doing because they're capable of
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Speaker 2: doing it. I mean really, they all are. And kids
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Speaker 2: love it when they can come in and help you
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Speaker 2: do stuff like if you're going to do the dishes
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Speaker 2: or do any of that stuff. The little ones love helping.
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Speaker 2: There's a reason. And so it's like I just kind
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Speaker 2: of went off on a sideways thing, but it's kind
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Speaker 2: of but it is along those same path. It's along
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Speaker 2: with everything we've said. However we choose to look at it,
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Speaker 2: and it's all an opportunity. The school system that I
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Speaker 2: grew up in doesn't have to be the school system
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Speaker 2: that we have right now, and it's up to each
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Speaker 2: of us to make that change. So if there's something
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Speaker 2: out there that anybody is looking at right now and
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Speaker 2: it's it's got your attention and it's it's triggering you,
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Speaker 2: well what if those triggers could turn into like pass
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Speaker 2: because you're seeing it from that victim trigger area instead
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Speaker 2: of seeing what would you like it to be? So
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Speaker 2: it's always an opportunity for more growth. Okay, well then
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Speaker 2: it's maybe that's the time for me to just be
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Speaker 2: I can sit with that and be like, well, okay,
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Speaker 2: so what would school look like from my perspective that
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Speaker 2: I would think would be beneficial for my inner child,
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Speaker 2: and then start creating from that space. If I or
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Speaker 2: if someone's looking at politics, what would be beneficial for
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Speaker 2: me to look at this is the way it's being
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Speaker 2: done right now, but what would I like it to
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Speaker 2: look like? And then using our creativity, using our imagination
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Speaker 2: and creating, writing it down, voicing it to other people,
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Speaker 2: getting their ideas, and because when you voice it to them,
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Speaker 2: they might trigger you, or they might give you some
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Speaker 2: great information that helps you to create more, or they're
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Speaker 2: helping to create at the same time when they're giving
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Speaker 2: out that information. So life can be freaking amazing or
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Speaker 2: it can be miserable. It's up to us. It's a choice.
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Speaker 1: And you're using the school system as an example, but
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Speaker 1: life itself is a school system. So how do you
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Speaker 1: want to perceive this life of a school of life?
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Speaker 1: And in what Bev said is you get to create
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Speaker 1: that experience if you want to, and that's your that's
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Speaker 1: your opportunity to be creative and what you want to
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Speaker 1: have experienced in life, and keep playing with that and
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Speaker 1: be playful with it, and keep moving forward with it
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Speaker 1: and shift and change and grow along the way.
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Speaker 2: But this is life. Life is school, and what are you.
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Speaker 1: Going to do with that information?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes you're going to be on the surfboard and
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Speaker 2: sometimes you're going to be in the water.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes you're gonna get crushed by the way for
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Speaker 1: a minute too cost and turned mh. But you're going
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Speaker 1: to learn to be a better swimmer, for sure. You're
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Speaker 1: gonna learn how to handle that wave that tries to
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Speaker 1: take you down. You're going to learn how to navigate that.
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Speaker 1: And each time it gets easier and easier and easier.
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Speaker 2: Did I tell you that I got almost bit by
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Speaker 2: a snake recently? Yeah? You said it just bumped your leg? Yeah. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: I wasn't sure if I had said anything or not.
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Speaker 2: It was just I found it fascinating, but I also
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Speaker 2: recognized it as being protected too, So just making sure
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Speaker 2: I had brought it up because I just it was
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Speaker 2: to me, it's pretty interesting. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you just got your attention to hey, yeahy hey,
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Speaker 1: saying your territory sister, you need to move.
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Speaker 2: Along like mothers. Get off my porch, all right, friends.
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Speaker 1: That that was good, some good stuff there. There are
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Speaker 1: other people on this planet having the same conversations or
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Speaker 1: winning this information, so be sure to be resourceful, share it,
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Speaker 1: share the links, send them the send them the videos,
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Speaker 1: the books, the teachers, you're listening to, whatever that looks like.
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Speaker 2: But be resourceful.
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Speaker 1: And so you can find us on many platforms YouTube speakers, Spotify, podcast,
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Speaker 1: attic TikTok, Facebook, Instagram. So we have been doing this
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Speaker 1: for over five years, every week. So every time I
19:38
Speaker 1: think about that, I'm like, wow, it's been awesome. It's
19:42
Speaker 1: been a good journey.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: So with that, thanks for hanging out with us, teach
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Speaker 1: time with Amy and Bev, and we will see you
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Speaker 1: next time.
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Speaker 2: Not a good thing.