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(46) 5 SECRETS THE LUCKIEST WOMEN IN THE WORLD LIVE BY ✨ How to Have Lucky Girl Syndrome · Alignment With Jenn

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  Hello, and welcome to this episode of the Alignment with
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  Jen podcast. I am your host, Jen Ditzesi, and
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  today we are going to be talking all about how to become a
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  dangerously lucky woman and the mindsets, the perspective, the
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  energy of being really incredibly lucky.
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  And I want to kind of open this up with a story about Oprah,
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  because Oprah is a wildly powerful manifester and also a
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  really, really lucky woman. And I think it's really
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  interesting to recognize that her very first job in television
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  she was fired from because they said that she wasn't right for
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  television, which is such an interesting thing because at
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  that point, she kind of had two paths that she could take.
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  She could either have been like, yeah, they're probably right.
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  Like, I'm, I'm not right for television, right?
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  Or she could have done what she did and she just kept going,
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  right? And then she built this massive
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  empire through television. She literally completely proved
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  them wrong. And that is such a powerful
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  teaching of the mindset of a lucky woman because a lucky
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  woman is not someone who looks for the outside to tell her
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  what's possible for her. She decides internally and that
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  becomes reflected back to her. So I want to go in this episode,
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  and I really want to talk about basically, like, how do you
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  become really, really lucky? Way more lucky.
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  I feel like one of the things that I've always felt is that
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  I'm really, really lucky. My entire life, even as a kid, I
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  always believed I was really lucky.
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  And I think that's one of the reasons that I have always been
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  lucky is simply because I believe it, right?
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  And So what are these mindsets? What are these beliefs that we
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  can teach our mind? So our mind begins to filter
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  reality to prove that we are exceptionally lucky.
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  And that results in US creating more and more opportunities and
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  experiences that we desire. So buckle up because you're
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  about to get way more lucky. OK, so the first concept I want
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  to kind of share is that a lucky woman is not a passive woman.
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  It's not a woman who just sits there and waits for things to
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  come to her. She's very engaged.
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  She's very active in life, but it's her way of viewing
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  situations that allows her to create more and more and more
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  luck. It's almost like you light a
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  small little flame like this candle here, right?
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  And it continues to burn and to grow.
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  And that's the idea of luck. You become luckier and luckier
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  the more that you cultivate these mindsets.
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  So the first mindset of the lucky girl is that I am always
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  being LED. I am always guided.
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  So the lucky girl recognizes that her life is a Co creation
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  between her and the universe. She is not doing it alone.
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  She's not trying to struggle and figure it out alone.
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  I think most of our stress comes from this forgetting that we are
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  always supported and always guided.
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  And it is our ability to see, to open up our mind, to be able to
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  see that guidance that allows it to be present in our life.
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  If we don't believe in it, we're not going to experience it
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  because we're going to filter it out.
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  And so it is recognizing and it is operating from this
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  foundational principle that I'm not doing this alone.
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  I am supported. I am guided.
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  Every single obstacle that I may face, I'm never facing it alone
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  because life is a Co creation. If you think that you are
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  creating life by yourself, then you're missing so much because I
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  guarantee if you look through the lens of your past, there's
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  things that have worked out for you that you never expected.
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  There's things that you have no idea how they happened like
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  that, but they happened like that, right?
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  And you look at it through this lens of like, wow, I have been
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  so lucky. I have been so guided.
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  Tony Robbins calls it Grace. And he said that a big part of
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  his success is, yes, the fact that he's a hard worker, right?
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  Yes, that he is so dedicated. But he said that the third piece
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  is really it's Grace. It's that he has had this
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  support. He has been open to this
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  guidance and so many successful people, right?
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  There's the Albert Einstein quote that the more that he
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  studied the universe, the more that he believed in the presence
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  of a higher power. Because the more that you lean
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  into the unknown and are met by that supportive force, the more
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  you recognize that you are LED. We have to release a little bit
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  of control. We have to be able to surrender
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  into that being LED right. We have to follow those nudges
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  and those poles of our intuition of this makes no logical sense,
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  but I'm going to try it and I'm going to go do it in order to
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  build and strengthen that belief in this force that is always
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  guiding us. And with this, there's some like
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  mini sub mindsets I want to mention as well.
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  One is that delays are not necessarily a bad thing, right?
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  She recognizes this lucky girl recognizes that if something
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  isn't happening as fast as she wants it to, it's actually a
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  really good thing because she knows that exactly where she is
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  is exactly where she needs to be in order to get to where she
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  wants to be, right? She's not like impatiently
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  trying to push her way through life.
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  She's appreciating and recognizing and enjoying where
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  she is so that way she can create that next level.
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  She knows that if she's single right now, right for my single
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  girlies and she doesn't wanna be single, and she's like, God, why
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  can't I just meet someone, right?
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  I think we've all probably been there.
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  Maybe not everyone, but a lot of people have been in their lives
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  recognizing that her being single right now is actually a
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  massive blessing. And it's preparing her for the
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  caliber of partner that she really, really, really wants.
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  And so she's leaning into that and she's making her single girl
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  era the best era she could make it, right?
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  She's enjoying herself, she's having fun, she's filling her
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  vessel now with joy and pleasure and fun.
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  So that way when that aligned partner comes in, watch out
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  because he's going to be amazing.
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  He's going to be amazing, Mark my words.
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  I promise you he's going to be amazing.
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  And she also recognizes that closed doors can be protection,
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  right? I, when I was applying for
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  college, I really wanted to go to UCLAI was from the LA area.
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  I wanted to go, I didn't get in. Oh no, I didn't want to go to
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  UCLAI, wanted to go to UCSD. And I didn't get in and all my
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  friends, a bunch of my friends got in and I was so jealous.
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  But I got into UC Santa Barbara and I was like, OK, I'll go
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  there. It's really pretty.
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  It's on the beach, right? What was me?
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  And I met my best friend and my best friend is like one of my
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  soul mates in my lifetime. She's like, it's a deep, really
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  amazing friendship. I talk to her every single day.
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  And if that door hadn't been closed, I never would have met
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  her. I'm so glad that freaking door
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  was closed because I never would have met her, right.
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  So looking at your life and things that don't work out as
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  like, all right, cool. Like obviously something better
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  is coming for me because I'm a lucky girl and lucky girls, only
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  good things come to them. So this closed door, thank you.
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  I didn't want that. If you don't want me to have
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  that, I didn't want that Number 2.
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  Everything is a blessing or a redirection, OK, Everything is
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  good, right? I've talked about this.
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  This is a theme through basically every episode.
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  Everything is good, even when you don't know why it's good,
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  it's going to be good for you, OK?
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  Every challenge, there's beauty within that, right?
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  It's the the golden lining and finding that in every
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  circumstance. Because if we are filtering our
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  life for things that we don't want, right, and feeling bad for
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  ourselves, that has a compound effect that just gets worse and
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  worse when things don't go her way, when it doesn't go the
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  lucky girl's way. She recognizes that it's not
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  anything about her. She doesn't take get to believe
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  I'm not good enough. I'm not chosen.
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  I didn't do enough, right? That's not where she goes.
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  Where she goes is OK. Well, this wasn't meant for me
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  because something way better is meant for me.
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  There's something so much more powerful.
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  I had a client who she went through this really, really
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  difficult divorce. And our first call that we had,
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  she was crying. She was super upset and after
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  the divorce, her whole life is so different in so many amazing
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  and beautiful ways because she really leaned into this lucky
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  girl energy. Right now she is working with
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  the Guatemalan government to help them.
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  She's a lawyer and she's helping them with all these different
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  projects. She's grown a social media
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  platform, she's starting her own business.
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  She is doing all of these amazing things and she's so
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  happy and she's so fulfilled in a way that she never would if
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  she had still been with this partner, right?
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  And so doors closing are not necessarily a loss, even though
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  they feel like a loss, right? When one door closes, another
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  door always opens. And the lucky girl knows that.
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  And she focuses on that opening door rather than that closing
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  door, right? Someone not wanting to be with
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  you or a job not wanting to hire you?
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  Fine, right? If they don't see all of the
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  gifts that you have, that's cool because someone else is going to
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  so deeply value those that they're going to be so obsessed
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  with hiring you or dating you. Mindset #3 is I expect good
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  things to happen and the science behind this is really powerful
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  because what we expect is what our mind is going to filter
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  reality for. And so when we expect good
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  things to happen, rather than a lot of people have this mindset
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  of I need to be prepared for the worst case scenario.
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  I need to worry about all these things because that makes me
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  feel safe. It makes me feel in control.
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  But what you don't recognize is that you are actually filtering
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  your reality to find more reasons to worry.
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  And it's this snowball effect where that snowball keeps
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  getting bigger. But when you teach your mind and
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  you keep redirecting and redirecting and redirecting your
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  mind to focus on expecting the good things to happen, right?
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  I expect that good things will happen to me every single day.
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  And that's what I experience. And so you want to teach your
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  mind to start filtering reality to find good things that you
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  desire to happen. So instead of what if it doesn't
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  workout? What if I'm rejected?
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  What if I'm disappointed instead?
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  It's what if it works out better than I could have imagined?
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  What if this is easier than I thought?
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  What if I am more supported than I realize?
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  These simple, simple shifts within your mind are going to
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  completely change your life. They will change your entire
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  perspective. And they're so small and so easy
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  to make #4 this is going to be hard for some of you.
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  I move before I feel ready. So the lucky girl is not the one
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  who is living in preparation mode.
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  She's not constantly trying to make things work, trying to
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  figure things out. You know, planning A through Z.
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  Because The thing is, I've learned this.
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  I never will map out something A-Z because I know when I get to
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  C, I'm going to know so much more than when I was at A.
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  And so my whole path is going to change anyway, right?
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  And so the faster that you can move and the more that you can
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  move on those nudges and those poles, the more powerful you
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  will be. I was at this event this past
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  weekend with a spiritual teacher that I really, really love.
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  And he was talking about people who are incredibly successful,
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  are able to move quickly. They're not stuck in indecision.
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  They are able to make choices and to make movements faster
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  than other people. And that comes from self belief,
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  right? Be trusting yourself, trusting
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  that when you step off the ledge, you'll figure it out,
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  right? You'll be able to know what to
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  do and trusting the universe, right?
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  And trusting that, you know, I feel this intuition, this
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  intuitive nudge, and so I know when to move, right?
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  The most powerful place that you can get into is not needing to
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  logically explain everything, right?
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  Even Steve Jobs, who created one of the most successful companies
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  in history, said that he trusted his intuition far over logic.
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  Because The thing is, if you look at the science behind
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  intuition, intuition comes from our subconscious mind.
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  And our subconscious mind is able to synthesize way larger
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  amounts of information than our conscious mind is.
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  Your subconscious mind is like a supercomputer, right?
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  You know, in like the the 70s, they had those rooms that were
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  like full of computer. It's kind of like that, but
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  modern, right? A huge supercomputer, your
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  conscious mind is much smaller. It processes a lot less
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  information. And so if we are always needing
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  to make decisions from logic, we're always making decisions
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  from a smaller data set. The most powerful skill you can
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  cultivate is when you have a knowing right.
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  You just know, and I know you've all felt this.
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  You just know something in your body is right for you even
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  though you can't logically explain it.
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  The more that you know that, the more powerful you will be able
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  to make these decisions and move more quickly because you won't
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  need to logic it out and make a pro and con list.
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  You'll be able to just move. That comes from learning to
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  trust yourself right. It also comes from getting out
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  of survival mode and being able to calm down your system.
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  It comes from being able to clear those limited beliefs,
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  those doubts, those fears in the subconscious mind.
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  So you're truly making decisions from that deeper knowing versus
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  your trauma and the negative experiences from your past and
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  your limited beliefs. OK.
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  And as always, if this is something that you want support
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  on, this is what I do with women in my program.
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  I really help them step into that deeper knowing, clearing
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  out those limited beliefs, right?
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  Rewiring their mind to be in alignment.
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  And so you can send me the word podcast on Instagram.
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  My Instagram is at alignment with Jen, and I'll send you a
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  short video about that, OK? And you can see if that feels
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  right for you. So that's for is moving before
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  you feel ready. And this is something that takes
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  practice. It takes practice in small ways,
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  right? And a small way could be, you
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  know, I just feel like it feels right for me to go to this event
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  in my city. I don't know why, but I feel
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  like I want to go, right? And then you go and you see that
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  you met someone amazing there. So you start to trust yourself
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  and your intuition more, right? It's a practice.
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  And then when bigger decisions come, you are better able and
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  better equipment to to follow through with them.
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  When I meet people, right, I talk to so many women every
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  single week. There's some women that I meet
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  that is really hard for them to make decisions, right?
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  They go back and forth. The issue with that is you end
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  up wasting your life in indecision.
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  You spend all this time in the same spot.
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  Those are the people that feel the most stuck, right?
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  But if you can just get yourself to start trusting yourself
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  through this inner work, then you will make decisions faster
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  and your life will change almost overnight.
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  This is why it's like not hard to change your life.
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  It's really not. It's hard to get yourself to
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  commit to changing your life, to making different decisions.
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  Because as I said in the last episode, every decision is a
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  choice point that fractures into different timelines, right?
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  A yes or a no is a different timeline.
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  And so when you begin to deeply trust yourself, you start
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  fracturing and creating new, different timelines.
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  And you choose those new timelines because they're more
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  in alignment with that version. You want to be #5 I let life
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  surprise me. So the lucky girl does not need
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  to have it all figured out. She's not mapping every single
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  step along the way. She trusts that life is
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  supporting her. Something Tony Robbins always
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  says is life supports what supports life.
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  And it's so true. If you are someone who is a good
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  person, which I believe everyone listening to this is who
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  supports life, right? Who has positive intent, life
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  wants to support you, right? I think life wants to support
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  everyone. Just some people have kind of
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  fallen a little off the path. Life wants to support you and so
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  your desires will be supported, but you have to show up for
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  them, right? I don't believe that life is
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  ever not supporting anyone. I believe that it's, we are not
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  showing up for our end of the equation.
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  We're not open to that end of the equation.
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  And this allowing life to surprise you is also a bit about
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  surrender. Because when we are having like
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  this chokehold on life where things have to work out a
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  certain way, if they don't, Oh my gosh, it's going to be awful.
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  That's from a place of fear and that's from a place of lack.
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  And that's a contracted energy, right?
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  When we allow ourselves to kind of open up and allow ourselves
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  to release some of that control and surrender into the flow.
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  One of my good friends was telling me recently that she
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  just started this new job and at her last few jobs, she was like
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  the number one salesperson at these companies.
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  At this new company, she's still building up her pipeline.
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  And she was like, it's really, really stressful.
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  It's really difficult. And she's like, what I realized
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  is I just have to let it go. She's like, I cannot control the
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  outcome. I can show up as my best self,
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  but my best self is not the one who's trying to control it and
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  make it happen. That's a contracted version of
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  me, right? I'm paraphrasing, but the most
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  powerful version of you is the version of you who shows up
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  fully and lets it go, isn't trying to control the outcome
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  because you trust that it's going to be amazing no matter if
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  it's exactly what you want or something even better.
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  And then mindset number six is I am the woman who can hold
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  miracles. This is about the capacity.
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  It's about being able to hold the good things.
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  Because often times what I see in my work is that a lot of
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  people will want a new level, right?
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  Maybe a really good promotion in their career.
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  Maybe they want to go from a career into a business.
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  That's a lot of people that I work with or they want to grow
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  their business. And it's about trusting.
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  A huge block for people is trusting that when they get into
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  this unknown, they'll be able to hold it.
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  Same with relationship, right? People will sabotage
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  relationships because they fear this unknown, right?
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  That unknown level of intimacy. And so it's building and
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  cultivating that trust in yourself and knowing that I can
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  hold this next level. I have the capacity, the
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  strength, the power, and I will figure it out, right?
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  So much of the lucky girl is literally just trusting yourself
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  and believing in your own power. This can show up as when good
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  things happen, contracting. I heard Brené Brown tell this
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  story about when good things happen, she will immediately
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  start fearing something like something bad happening to her
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  family. And it's like this, this mindset
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  of when is the other shoe going to drop, right?
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  And that's a mindset we have to get out of in order to really
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  step into this new level and create it with power and joy and
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  happiness. Because there's a difference
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  between having the success and it being really stressful and
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  not feeling good and having the success and it feeling amazing,
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  right? And if we're still carrying
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  these fears around the discomfort, right?
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  The struggle of that new space and it's going to be more
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  difficult #7. I think this is my favorite.
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  It's, I turn everything into evidence of my power.
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  So I had this business coach a few years and she was amazing.
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  She still is amazing. She's such an amazing person and
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  she's grown a really successful business in the coaching space.
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  She coaches, coaches and something she told me and she's
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  like anything that someone says isn't a good enough piece about
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  you. She's like, you flip it on its
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  head and you say why it is a really great aspect to you.
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  And so an example she gave is like one of the women in the
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  program was saying she didn't feel like she had enough
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  experience compared to other women in her industry.
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  And this coach was like, you know, actually you not having
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  the same experience of them is actually a really, really great
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  thing because you see things differently, right?
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  You see it from a different perspective.
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  You have a different point of view that you can take to the
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  equation, right? And so it's thinking about the
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  things that you feel like are not quite good enough about you
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  and turning them into why is this actually a really, really
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  good thing, right? A lot of people that I've talked
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  to will say, like, I feel like I could never be wealthy because,
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  like, no one in my family was wealthy, right?
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  Like because they didn't have that experience.
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  But what if that is actually the thing that is going to perfectly
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  position you to be really wealthy?
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  Because you have different insights, different ideas, you
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  have these different experiences.
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  Right, I believe that every single aspect of ourselves, we
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  can actually turn it into a gift if we really, really want to.
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  So it's turning everything into evidence of your power.
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  So I want to encourage you to kind of think about this as you
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  go about your day. What are things that you think
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  about you that are not good enough?
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  Oh, I saw this great reel the other day and it was this girl.
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  People keep telling me I should get a nose job was the hook.
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  And I was like, oh, interesting. And she was a really, really
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  beautiful girl. And she had, I guess like not a
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  not a typical nose, if you want to call it that.
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  She basically listed off all these reasons why she's not
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  going to get a nose job, even though people keep telling her
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  she should get a nose job. And she was like, one of them is
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  she's like, I really like that I look unique.
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  She's like, I want to look different.
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  I don't want to look like everyone else.
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  I just think that's such a powerful way to look at it,
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  right? Because she's deciding that even
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  though other people are saying that she needs to change, that
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  she loves who she is and she loves how she looks.
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  And you get to decide that. No one else gets to decide that.
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  It gets to be evidence of your power.
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  And this woman was so in her power.
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  It was so cool. And I was like, that is so
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  magnetic to me. That's way more magnetic to me
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  than someone with a perfect nose, you know, so magnetic.
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  It's about you owning it, you know?
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  Have you ever met someone who had an attribute and they were
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  really self-conscious about it, right?
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  And then you probably knew someone else who had.
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  I think of this with like bald men, right?
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  I've known some bald men who were really, really
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  self-conscious about being bald. Then I've known bald men who
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  like owned it, right? It didn't matter that any of
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  them were bald, but the ones that owned it had this sexiness,
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  had this confidence to them, right?
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  And women were attracted to them.
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  The other ones, it wasn't because they were bald, it was
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  because they didn't own it. They didn't have the confidence,
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  right? And So what about yourself that
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  you may not like or society may say is not a good thing?
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  What can you turn into something that you own about yourself and
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  love about yourself, right? It's a little bit edgy because
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  society doesn't want us to love these things.
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  There's a lot of people making a lot of money off of people
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  wanting to be different than they are.
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  So the last one, eight, is I. I act like the universe is
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  conspiring in my favor. This is essentially that life is
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  always on my side, and it's knowing that if I trust Fall,
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  the universe is going to catch me.
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  And it's knowing that everything is always working out for you
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  because it always is working out for you.
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  It's not just saying it, right? There's a difference between
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  saying something and actually moving from that energy.
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  And so the lucky girl, she takes aligned risks, right?
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  She invests in herself in a lined way.
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  She follows those intuitive nudges even when they don't make
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  sense. She lets herself be seen.
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  She allows herself to interact and play and enjoy life, right?
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  She's in the arena. She's not watching from the
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  outside. When things don't go her way or
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  she makes a mistake, that's OK. She allows herself to do that
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  because she knows that life is always conspiring in her favor.
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  And this is the last thing I want to leave you with is it's
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  this upward spiral, right? It's knowing that every single
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  day your life is getting better and better and better.
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  And I think that mindset makes it really exciting to wake up in
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  the morning when you're like, Dang, today gets to be even
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  better than yesterday and even better than the day before.
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  And knowing that any challenges or obstacles are simply
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  redirecting you to where you're meant to be, right?
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  It's like on Google Maps when it like reroutes, that's all it is.
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  I hope that you have really, really enjoyed this.
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  And I hope that you can cultivate these energies of the
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  lucky girl. And if you are interested in
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  having my support in my coaching programs, you can send me the
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  word podcast on Instagram at alignment with Jen.
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  And I will send you a 5 minute video about my programs and you
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  can decide if that's right for you.
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  Thank you so much for being here and I hope you have a wonderful
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  day.