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Audrey Hope – Your Secret Inner Radar · Destination Unlimited with Victor Fuhrman

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Speaker 1: My name is Victor Furman. Some call me the Voice.
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Speaker 1: I've always been fascinated with human nature, spirituality, science and
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Speaker 1: the crossroads at which they meet. Join me now and
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Speaker 1: we will explore these topics and so much more with
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Speaker 1: fascinating guests, authors and experts who will guide us to
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Speaker 1: Destination Unlimited. Ever wished you had a crystal ball for
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Speaker 1: your love life? My guest this week on Destination Unlimited,
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Speaker 1: psychic therapist and relationship guru Audrey Hope says you already do.
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Speaker 1: She shares how you can unlock your secret inner radar
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Speaker 1: to spot a liar, find your soulmate, and navigate the
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Speaker 1: dating world with magical confidence. Audrey Hope is a distinguished
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Speaker 1: figure in the healing arts, boasting over two decades of
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Speaker 1: experience in trauma and transformative healing. Known for her profound
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Speaker 1: ability to heal at the deep level of the spirit,
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Speaker 1: Audrey employs revolutionary techniques aimed at transforming the root of
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Speaker 1: the root of the soul. Her methods are comprehensive and versatile,
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Speaker 1: addressing this life, past, lives, the other side, soul, contracts, karma,
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Speaker 1: and energy. Her website is Audreyhope dot com and she
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Speaker 1: joins me this week to share her path and spiritual wisdom.
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Speaker 1: Please join me in welcoming to Destination Unlimited, Audrey Hope.
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Speaker 2: Welcome, Audrey, Welcome to you. I'm so happy to be here.
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Speaker 1: And we're so happy to have you with us to
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Speaker 1: share your amazing story. So please share with our listeners
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Speaker 1: your path and how you discovered your clairvoyant gifts and abilities.
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Speaker 2: Well, I am from Queens, and you know, it's not
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Speaker 2: a very popular thing to be intuitive when you're from Queens.
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Speaker 2: Most people are out playing a handball. But in my heart,
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Speaker 2: I've had this knowing inside of me that you know,
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Speaker 2: my name is Hope, and that I was always going
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Speaker 2: to do something to enlighten and help the world. And
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Speaker 2: so I followed that track, and then I met teachers,
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Speaker 2: and I just followed the yellow brick road, as they say,
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Speaker 2: and everything I needed came to me. And so these
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Speaker 2: gifts of intuition just kept growing as I was healing
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Speaker 2: my own self, because that's what's required to get out
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Speaker 2: of the way to make room for these intuitive, higher gifts.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely, did you recognize these as a child?
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Speaker 2: I think so. I remember listening to those records and
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Speaker 2: I remember, you know, writing down songs and things, and
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Speaker 2: I was like, I'm unusual, I have a higher calling.
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Speaker 2: I don't want to just be outside with playing with
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Speaker 2: my friends. So I think I recognized my path very early.
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Speaker 1: I know a lot of children who have very open
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Speaker 1: psychic and intuitive abilities often get challenged by their parents.
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Speaker 1: I was, And that's the reason why I'm asking that question.
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Speaker 2: Oh always, I agree with you. I think it's an
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Speaker 2: initiation into the gifts because you have to be able
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Speaker 2: to survive what they call the wound of the tribe,
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Speaker 2: which is the family who doesn't get you. It's a
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Speaker 2: very important thing and there's no manual on this. So
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Speaker 2: that's one of the things I'm doing, is like how
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Speaker 2: to follow the spiritual path, which is you're born into
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Speaker 2: a family that does not get you at all.
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Speaker 1: And one of the things that I always suggest to
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Speaker 1: parents who have children who are demonstrating these is listen
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Speaker 1: to them, even if you don't believe them, listen to
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Speaker 1: them and give them the opportunity to share what they're experiencing.
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Speaker 2: Absolutely, absolutely, that's happening with add problems in children, these diagnosies.
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Speaker 2: They've got it all wrong. These kids are basically intuitive
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Speaker 2: and they get bored a lot, and they see a
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Speaker 2: lot and they're not understood, especially in school.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely, So how did these gifts lead to your career?
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Speaker 1: As I certified addiction therapist and a relationship therapist.
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Speaker 2: Well, a funny thing happened on the way to the form.
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Speaker 2: So I started. I was working a clothing store and
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Speaker 2: these women would come in and tell me their problems
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Speaker 2: as they would buying clothes, and so I got very
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Speaker 2: inspired by this. I said, women don't know that they're brainwashed.
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Speaker 2: So I started healing in the clothing store. And then
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Speaker 2: I started having them come to my house, and then
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Speaker 2: it grew, and then people started to call their friends.
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Speaker 2: And then one day I just surrendered. I said, this
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Speaker 2: is growing. I want to be able to inspire others.
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Speaker 2: And I did this thing where I sat in my
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Speaker 2: living room. A teacher told me just sit and just
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Speaker 2: either you know, with your hand, just either answer the
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Speaker 2: phone or answer the door. I swear I did this experiment.
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Speaker 2: I got a phone call. The phone call was from
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Speaker 2: a friend. I had to follow it. She said, let's
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Speaker 2: go to Malibu. There's a healing center there. I'm like,
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Speaker 2: what's a rehab? I really didn't know. I'm in New Yorker,
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Speaker 2: and so I ended up going, and I ended up
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Speaker 2: being hired, and I ended up just really finding my
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Speaker 2: gift through the universe allowing me through this rehab to
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Speaker 2: develop my soul healing. So that's kind of how it happened.
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Speaker 1: Tell us a little bit about being an addiction therapist.
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Speaker 2: Well, I great question, because addiction, I feel is a
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Speaker 2: doorway in to enlightenment and changing the ideas of addiction
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Speaker 2: as that has been very healing for addicts, Like you're
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Speaker 2: on your knees, there's nowhere else to go. Now, maybe
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Speaker 2: you'll listen, now, maybe you'll do the work required for
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Speaker 2: yourself to heal. So addiction is a doorway and so
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Speaker 2: doing that and seeing that because I have no addiction,
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Speaker 2: you know, I'm Jewish, addiction I don't know, never in
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Speaker 2: my family. So I just started to see it in
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Speaker 2: a new way, like why all the shame, why all
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Speaker 2: the guilt, Let's just look at where you're at right
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Speaker 2: now and what you're inspired to heal. And that created
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Speaker 2: so much healing in people who have drugs and alcohol problems.
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Speaker 1: Wonderful, wonderful. Do you work with clients also dealing with trauma?
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Speaker 1: How do you apply your gifts and trau to this
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Speaker 1: challenging work.
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Speaker 2: Well, we all have trauma, right, but we lock it in.
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Speaker 2: That's a very dangerous thing. To lock it in a closet.
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Speaker 2: It will grow and grow and then it will manifest
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Speaker 2: later on.
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Speaker 3: Right.
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Speaker 2: So I started to find new ways. People were afraid
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Speaker 2: to look at their trauma. So I came up with
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Speaker 2: very creative ways to do that so that they wouldn't
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Speaker 2: have to be scared. And I would sometimes use cartoons.
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Speaker 2: I would sometimes I would use anything, animals, anything to
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Speaker 2: make them feel safe, and then they would be able
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Speaker 2: to look at it and name it and say, this
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Speaker 2: really happened to me, very gently. And so I started
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Speaker 2: doing that, and I also started paying attention to my
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Speaker 2: inner radar, and I started to get information what do
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Speaker 2: they call it, the Acasak records. Yes, you know who
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Speaker 2: doesn't love Edgar Casey. I mean, the greatest psychic that
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Speaker 2: ever was. So I would sort of tune in and
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Speaker 2: I would get this picture and it would like tell
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Speaker 2: me things, and I would say, oh, let me tell
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Speaker 2: you this happened, or did you have a grandmother who
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Speaker 2: did this or a father who did this? And so
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Speaker 2: I started to get information that was not obvious, and
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Speaker 2: it ended up being very accurate. So I get a
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Speaker 2: soul diagnosis and a reading, and now that I've been
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Speaker 2: doing it so much, it comes faster.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely. I'll share a personal story. When I was a kid,
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Speaker 1: I never felt that my dad really loved me. He
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Speaker 1: was twenty years older than my mom, and I don't
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Speaker 1: think when he married her he was really ready for
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Speaker 1: a child who had the demonstration of the types of
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Speaker 1: things that we're talking about at a young age. In
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Speaker 1: any event, when I was eight, he became very ill
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Speaker 1: and became bedridden. He lost the leg to diabetes and
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Speaker 1: became bedridden and became part of his healing team with
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Speaker 1: my mother, caring team with my mother, and for the
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Speaker 1: first time, I felt that he loved me and wired
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Speaker 1: in my young mind that if you care for others,
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Speaker 1: you will be loved. And he passed when I was fifteen,
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Speaker 1: but this pattern carried through to the extent that I
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Speaker 1: would run around and take care of everybody else and
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Speaker 1: never take care of myself. And this went into my
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Speaker 1: late forties and my early fifties when I had some
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Speaker 1: issues with my health and I came to the recognition
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Speaker 1: that it's time for me to only help those who
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Speaker 1: truly need my help, and those who can take care
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Speaker 1: of themselves should do so, and to learn to use
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Speaker 1: the word no. And that was a tremendous lesson for me.
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Speaker 2: That is a wonderful story because we do become fixers
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Speaker 2: and healers in order to be loved. It's kind of
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Speaker 2: the deal we make. We realize we have to do that,
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Speaker 2: and that's what happens with trauma. There's a light that
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Speaker 2: goes on in the soul very young that knows that
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Speaker 2: this is not happening. I'm not going to get what
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Speaker 2: I need. So why don't I become a caregiver? Well,
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Speaker 2: why don't I just take care of people? And why
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Speaker 2: don't I forget about myself? And so being able to
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Speaker 2: track that as you just did is very healing to
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Speaker 2: the person to see where they abandoned themselves.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely. And in my forties, my mid forties, I had
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Speaker 1: a calling to go to an organization called the New
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Speaker 1: Seminary of New York. It was one of the first
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Speaker 1: interfaith seminaries in the world. And the reason I had
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Speaker 1: the calling was different from what actually happened after the fact,
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Speaker 1: but it was definitely a synchronicity and in that regard,
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Speaker 1: I see that you have a Doctor of Divinity degree.
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Speaker 1: What inspired your pursuit of that degree?
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Speaker 2: Well, I always wanted to do different things than psychology,
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Speaker 2: and I work with a lot of psychologists, but we
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Speaker 2: also have at seasons new modalities, and I was very
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Speaker 2: interested in new modalities like there's amdr, there's brain spotting,
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Speaker 2: but I always wanted to go deeper, like why are
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Speaker 2: you suffering? What is your karma? Why are you so
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Speaker 2: addicted to that person? And those things people really want
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Speaker 2: to know, like why can't I create my dream? Why
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Speaker 2: can't I have money? And going to those sole reasons,
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Speaker 2: which is beyond the rational mind, is really the questions
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Speaker 2: that people want answered, and I wanted to do that
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Speaker 2: for people.
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Speaker 1: Wonderful And what did that divinity degree include?
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Speaker 2: Just being a metaphysic metaphysics? It's just you know, what
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Speaker 2: is a degree? It just gives you the ability to
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Speaker 2: say I have it, but do you use it? I
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Speaker 2: was using things more from my New York Queen's thing
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Speaker 2: than anything else, which is to keep it real, keep
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Speaker 2: it authentic, be honest, and do it quickly. I got
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Speaker 2: all those things from my Queen's birth.
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Speaker 1: Wonderful, tell us about your YouTube program Hope for Relationships.
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Speaker 2: Well, I started out in one of the original YouTubers
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Speaker 2: I really really was. I did a show called Real Women,
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Speaker 2: Positive role Models for women, wanting women to know that
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Speaker 2: were brainwashed. That happened from working in that clothing store.
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Speaker 2: I could not believe how brainwashed women were. So I
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Speaker 2: had a mission to do that, and I started interviewing
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Speaker 2: the new voices of the age, people that became very famous,
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Speaker 2: the heroines of our time, Mary and Williamson, Joan Brisenko,
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Speaker 2: Byron Katie, I can go on. It was an extreme privilege,
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Speaker 2: and from there I realized the power of the media,
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Speaker 2: and I said, you know, I'm not going to try
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Speaker 2: and get in where the doors are closed. I'm going
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Speaker 2: to create new media, which is amazing because that's what's
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Speaker 2: happening now. But from there, I said, I'm finding these
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Speaker 2: new nuggets. I want to document it in relationships because
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Speaker 2: I found that in healing it always comes down to relationships.
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Speaker 2: People want to manifest relationships or heal a relationship. So
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Speaker 2: I found these little jewels and I decided to put
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Speaker 2: it on the YouTube that's Hoped for Relationships and put
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Speaker 2: all these spiritual higher ideas how to do it quickly,
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Speaker 2: and so that's how it evolved.
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Speaker 1: Wonderful And where can people find that? On YouTube? It's
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Speaker 1: the title of its Hope Relationships and is there any
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Speaker 1: other name to it? Audrey Hope now, Audrey Hope now Wonderful.
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Speaker 1: I understand you also have a book in the offing,
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Speaker 1: Hope for Relationships, The Indication for True Love. When will
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Speaker 1: this be available and what will you offer readers in
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Speaker 1: that book?
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Speaker 2: Well, it's so funny because if you came to my room,
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Speaker 2: you would see it because you would see it. It's
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Speaker 2: all laid out in folders. Because I've gathered so much information,
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Speaker 2: I've had to go over everything. I wrote this book
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Speaker 2: about twenty years ago or fifteen years ago, but it's evolved,
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Speaker 2: so I had to go through everything again. So I
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Speaker 2: wanted to be like, very simple, not a lot of words.
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Speaker 2: Do this, do that, and then you'll have it because
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Speaker 2: I help people get married and I do that by
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Speaker 2: like I realized there's a system to manifestation with this.
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Speaker 2: If you do what needs to be done, you will
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Speaker 2: have it. So I have a lot of invitations to weddings,
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Speaker 2: and so I put it together in like don't do
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Speaker 2: this and do this. So that's what the book is
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Speaker 2: going to be. It's going to be everything you need
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Speaker 2: to know to manifest it, and then a really beautiful
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Speaker 2: activation prayer to call it in because you need to
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Speaker 2: use spiritual magnetization to bring it in. You have to
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Speaker 2: call it in, you have to be a magnet to it.
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Speaker 2: So the second part will be this beautiful prayer.
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Speaker 1: And what do you expect it to be published?
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Speaker 2: Question has been asked a lot. I hope as soon
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Speaker 2: as possible. I hope in a few months.
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Speaker 1: Wonderful, wonderful. Our main focus today is how intuitive and
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Speaker 1: psychic gifts may help us in relationships. First, does everyone
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Speaker 1: have some form of intuitive or psychic gifts that they
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Speaker 1: may tune into? And if so, how may we turn
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Speaker 1: to our inner radar and intuition.
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Speaker 2: The answer is yes, are all psychic and that is
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Speaker 2: through our senses. And we all have different senses. And
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Speaker 2: when you work with someone, you have to see which
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Speaker 2: sense you have, seeing, feeling, touching, and you have to
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Speaker 2: be able to get rid of the blocks, which are
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Speaker 2: the things that are in the way. So that's what
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Speaker 2: Michaelangelo said, you know, remove the blocks to the stone
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Speaker 2: and the art and the beauty is there. So that's
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Speaker 2: what it's about. We're all psychic, but in that we
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Speaker 2: have to heal our earthly issues, our relationship issues that
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Speaker 2: are very New York, very Queen's, very in the way.
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Speaker 2: And then we have to realize every relationship is a
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Speaker 2: mirror for us to heal something. So when we do that,
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Speaker 2: we are then available to become very psychic. Okay, So
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Speaker 2: that's one answer. The other answer is there are things
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Speaker 2: on the first date. It's so interesting, Victor. When I
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Speaker 2: work with someone later on after their married for twenty years,
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Speaker 2: I asked them, didn't you know, and they always say yes,
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Speaker 2: they knew at the gate they knew. Maybe the guy
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Speaker 2: was like flirting with the waitress, maybe he's he didn't
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Speaker 2: really listen, maybe he was selfish. But the thing is
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Speaker 2: they wanted to get married, or they wanted to have
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Speaker 2: love and not be alone, so they glossed over their intuition.
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Speaker 2: They glossed over what they know. So I just want
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Speaker 2: to say, for the record, we always know the truth.
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Speaker 2: The body keeps the score and we know it. But
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Speaker 2: we have to get out of the way, which is
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Speaker 2: do you want to get married and stop being alone?
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Speaker 2: So you're not listening to the signs because the signs
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Speaker 2: are always there.
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Speaker 1: Give us an explanation of some of the ways that
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Speaker 1: people can tune into those signs. You had mentioned the
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Speaker 1: various what we call the claires. Let's talk about, for example,
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Speaker 1: Claire audience. How does claire audience work?
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Speaker 2: Well, that would be listening to yourself right with someone
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Speaker 2: and you're having dinner and you're saying to yourself that
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Speaker 2: person is really selfish. I think this person is really selfish.
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Speaker 2: You get a read on someone, Okay, So that's sitting
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Speaker 2: down and how you feel and what you're experiencing in
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Speaker 2: your own body. Like, we have to not be distracted
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Speaker 2: and really hear that because on our first meeting with people,
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Speaker 2: we can hear those messages. So the problem is, again
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Speaker 2: we're not listening. So that's the first thing, listening to
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Speaker 2: the self and listening to the heart and to the
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Speaker 2: messages that you're getting. And that's to be quiet and
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Speaker 2: still and don't block it. And then clairvoyance, well, clairvoyance
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Speaker 2: is also that knowing place which is sometimes a feeling.
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Speaker 2: I have a friend she goes, oh, I got chills.
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Speaker 2: So we get feelings and everyone gets it different. I
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Speaker 2: like to ask you, like how you get it, Like,
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Speaker 2: how do you get your clearvoyance?
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Speaker 1: I get them both. I get clairvoyance and Claire audience
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Speaker 1: and Clare sentience. That gut feeling, that reaction that you
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Speaker 1: feel in your gut when something's not right or something
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Speaker 1: is right, you get a feeling in your gut, and
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Speaker 1: that's I listen to my gut, and I listened to
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Speaker 1: the clairboyance. I'm sorry, the Clare audience, and I listened
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Speaker 1: to and I see you with the clairvoyance. And I'm
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Speaker 1: grateful to have all these all of these capabilities, and
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Speaker 1: I think everyone actually can. Some people are more I
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Speaker 1: hear you, or I see you, or I feel you.
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Speaker 1: So if that's the way you define your reaction to people,
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Speaker 1: then you've identified whether you're clairvoyant, Claire audient, clarecentiend, et cetera.
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Speaker 2: But people don't trust themselves, and that's the problem because
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Speaker 2: somewhere they abandon themselves and they've had to block their
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Speaker 2: psychic abilities to protect themselves. So the thing is, when
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Speaker 2: you block the pain inside your body, you also block
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Speaker 2: your psychic abilities and your intuitibilities. So by healing the
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Speaker 2: traumas and healing that you open up the doorway to
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Speaker 2: that creative fire and that intuitive fire which is in us.
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Speaker 2: And also, Victor, I've studied police tells, which is like
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Speaker 2: what the FBI does. And it's really fascinating to go
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Speaker 2: logical with it too, right, like learning that we have
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Speaker 2: a limbic brain, which is the honest brain. It tells
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Speaker 2: us everything and how to read people. If people lie,
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Speaker 2: they're very uncomfortable and they'll scratch, they'll move their jewelry,
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Speaker 2: so you can read the body language of someone. Do
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Speaker 2: they look in your eye? Do they care about what
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Speaker 2: you're saying? So these are all things. And then another
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Speaker 2: logical thing to find out about a person in dating
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Speaker 2: is to ask questions. If you have self confidence, you
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Speaker 2: won't be afraid to ask questions. And some questions are
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Speaker 2: very revealing, like what are your dreams? What do you
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Speaker 2: want to do in your life? That is like I'll
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Speaker 2: work with a client and I'll say what do you
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Speaker 2: want to do? They'll say I want to help people.
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Speaker 2: I'm like, wow, that person is already in this spiritual realm.
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Speaker 2: So asking the right questions is very important also to
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Speaker 2: get a read on someone.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely and actually for me, I find and I've been
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Speaker 1: in business, among other things, and listening to what somebody
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Speaker 1: has to say without an opinion, just listening, letting that
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Speaker 1: word come through is so valuable because in listening you
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Speaker 1: truly hear what someone's saying.
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Speaker 2: That's the pause, and God is in the pause, right
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Speaker 2: And when liars they answer right away, that's another police
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Speaker 2: tell if they answer you right away and they don't
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Speaker 2: let it sink down. When you're a truth teller and
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Speaker 2: an authentic person, you breathe, You take your time, and
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Speaker 2: you respect someone by really honoring them, as you said,
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Speaker 2: by not interrupting them and really digesting the food. That
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Speaker 2: is the greatest honor. Most people want to be seen
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Speaker 2: and heard, So if you learn to just not judge
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Speaker 2: and listen, that is so people will just like melt
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Speaker 2: into you.
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Speaker 1: The gift of true listening is what I call it beautiful. Yes,
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Speaker 1: my guest is Audrey Hope. Audrey, please share with our
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Speaker 1: Back on Destination Unlimited. My guest this week is Audrey Hope,
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Speaker 1: the psychic therapist. Audrey, let's ask this question. I think
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Speaker 1: this is something that's really interesting today. Is there actually
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Speaker 2: Well, everybody has these, like you know, catchy phrases, right.
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Speaker 2: I would like to call it spiritual soul dating, finding
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Speaker 2: your soulmate. That's the truth of it. I would say,
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Speaker 2: what do you want in your life? Do you want real,
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Speaker 2: true soulmate love or you just want to not be
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Speaker 2: lonely mediocre love just to have somebody. So, in answer
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Speaker 2: to your question, yes, there is psychic dating, but I
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Speaker 1: So how may the gifts be applied during the first date?
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Speaker 1: And could some regardless as a little cheesy.
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Speaker 2: Nothing's cheesy when it comes to your life. Nothing's cheesy
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Speaker 2: So you need to turn on all the lights, use
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Speaker 1: For twenty years or so, dating apps have been a
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Speaker 1: way of meeting others. Is dating app fatigue real? And
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Speaker 1: if so, how may someone recover from it?
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Speaker 2: I met my husband on a dating app. Just for
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Speaker 2: the record. It's wonderful because if you've done your work,
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Speaker 2: if you've healed your issues, heal to love, and you've
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Speaker 2: done what you needed to do, which is to look
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Speaker 2: at all your old relationships and really use it as
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Speaker 2: material to find out what you're doing without blaming, looking
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Speaker 2: at it as a mirror. And if you've done all
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Speaker 2: your work and you're ready to go and ready to
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Speaker 2: have the best, no more crumbs. And if you do that,
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Speaker 2: you could meet that person anywhere. And so dating apps
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Speaker 2: would be wonderful because you're ready to go. So it's
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Speaker 2: a wonderful screening process and you can use it. But
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Speaker 2: the thing is spiritually you need to be ready. So
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Speaker 2: nothing will work if you don't have the right intention.
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Speaker 1: So someone's been using a dating app and not really succeeding,
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Speaker 1: how do they get over the fatigue from that?
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Speaker 2: Well, they should really stop and really look at what's
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Speaker 2: going on. Are they just like doing a numbers game?
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Speaker 2: Like I have a client who did one hundred and fifty.
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Speaker 2: You know, I said, home hold on. That's like a lot,
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Speaker 2: you know, slow it down. So if it's not happening,
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Speaker 2: you really need to just slow down, take a moment
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Speaker 2: and really look at what's going on with you. Are
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Speaker 2: you too needy, too desperate? That's a thing that will
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Speaker 2: block manifestation. So we have to understand the laws of
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Speaker 2: manifestation for true love. And so if it's not happening
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Speaker 2: on the apps, slow down, try to figure out. Maybe
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Speaker 2: you're afraid. I have found out that some people are
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Speaker 2: blocking it themselves. They're really afraid even though they're doing
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Speaker 2: the actions.
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Speaker 1: How have smartphones and digital communication changed relationship building?
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Speaker 2: Well, we're home now, right, We're in our pajamas or sweatpants.
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Speaker 2: And I think we've gotten very lazy in a lot
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Speaker 2: of ways, right because everything comes to us. I just
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Speaker 2: dash with Amazon, like, you know, people don't want to
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Speaker 2: go out anymore. So I think it's you know, that's
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Speaker 2: a sad thing about it. You know that COVID did
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Speaker 2: to us. So apps, everything has a good and everything
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Speaker 2: has it bad. Okay, so the apps can make us lazy,
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Speaker 2: but it also could be a way for you not
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Speaker 2: have to go to bars and you know, go out
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Speaker 2: and waste your time. So good and bad?
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Speaker 1: But is there a disconnect with digital communication, with smartphones
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Speaker 1: and with apps. Isn't there sort of a disconnect because
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Speaker 1: even though you might have the abilities, the not being
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Speaker 1: in the physical presence of that person makes it much
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Speaker 2: Right, Well, I met my husband on the app, Like
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Speaker 2: I said, I used divine energy and I said I'm ready,
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Speaker 2: you know, dear universe, I'm ready, Please bring him to me. Now.
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Speaker 2: There was nothing more to do. I had done all
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Speaker 2: the healing work over and over again. I was ready.
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Speaker 2: So for me, yes, I had also gone on other apps,
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Speaker 2: but I actually Victor got a tap, a psychic tap
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Speaker 2: on my right shoulder which told me to go on
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Speaker 2: plenty offish dot com. So I heard a voice. It
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Speaker 2: was remarkable, and that voice led me to that particular app,
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Speaker 2: and that's where I met him. He said he wanted
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Speaker 2: to help the world, and I'm like, okay, great, so
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Speaker 2: we met. So when you are doing apps, you need
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Speaker 2: to understand you need to do the healing on yourself
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Speaker 2: before that. So it's going to show up in real life,
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Speaker 2: that tiredness and all that digital stuff. And it depends
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Speaker 2: on where you're at with it. It can be used if
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Speaker 2: you're ready. So and if you're not, no, nothing is
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Speaker 2: going to work. Nothing's going to work if you're blocked.
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Speaker 1: Tell us a little bit about that healing of the
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Speaker 1: self before moving forward.
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Speaker 2: Well, really, what healing comes down to at the root
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Speaker 2: of the root of the root of the root. It's
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Speaker 2: not necessarily the trauma, and it's not necessarily what mom
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Speaker 2: and dad did to you or your family. It's what
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Speaker 2: soul piece and the spiritual piece that is where you
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Speaker 2: divided against yourself. What happened to you because of the trauma.
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Speaker 2: Did you forget about your intuitive self? Did you leave
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Speaker 2: yourself and abandon yourself? So when you heal, you have
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Speaker 2: to go into the soul piece of a soul retrieval
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Speaker 2: where you left yourself energetically, and you have to bring
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Speaker 2: that back. Because we give our energy away in our relationships,
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Speaker 2: and this has been a very successful thing. I've even
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Speaker 2: done it in groups. How much of your energy does
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Speaker 2: that person still have? Or the person could have died
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Speaker 2: or not be in your life because of divorce, but
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Speaker 2: they're energetically still corded to you. So you have to
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Speaker 2: be able to close your eyes and assess how much
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Speaker 2: of your energy, no matter how many years have passed,
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Speaker 2: does that person still have? And then you have to
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Speaker 2: recognize it and call it back into your body, into
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Speaker 2: your spine, which is the sacred energy, the Cundolini energy
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Speaker 2: right through it. That's our spiritual piece, is the spine,
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Speaker 2: and so our energy has to be locked in there
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Speaker 2: and not leaked. We cannot let our power be taken
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Speaker 2: and we cannot give it away.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely, I had mentioned in the first segment about my
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Speaker 1: relationship with my father and how that wired that thought
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Speaker 1: in my mind and my young mind that if you
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Speaker 1: care for others, you will be loved and carried a
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Speaker 1: pattern through my life, and it turned out that I
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Speaker 1: was actually getting involved in energy healing prior to my
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Speaker 1: self healing, and came to the recognition running around and
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Speaker 1: taking care of others that if you don't do that
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Speaker 1: initial healing within yourself, you really shouldn't be out there
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Speaker 1: trying to heal others.
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Speaker 2: Yes, because you're trying to save people, right. That's very exhausting.
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Speaker 2: And at the beginning when I was doing this work,
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Speaker 2: I was very tired because I was doing it from
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Speaker 2: the wrong energy. I wasn't doing it from source. I
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Speaker 2: wasn't really understanding the energy piece, which is to take
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Speaker 2: it from source and clear it too. I was really
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Speaker 2: caring whether I save them and help them, and that
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Speaker 2: is ridiculous. As a soul thing, we cannot save anybody,
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Speaker 2: but we can only invite people to do what they
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Speaker 2: need to do on themselves, and that's very important. Freedom
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Speaker 2: piece is to understand that soul some soul laws that
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Speaker 2: we need to practice when we go out to try
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Speaker 2: to heal someone.
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Speaker 1: As it's been said in many different religions and many
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Speaker 1: different things. Apes heal or.
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Speaker 2: Heal byself exactly. And we are not to save anyone
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Speaker 2: and we are not to take on their karma because
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Speaker 2: we would not go to school for them. So it's
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Speaker 2: very important that, like you know, I work with people
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Speaker 2: who want to die, want to use there's a piece
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Speaker 2: of it. Like everyone's in their own classroom, and you
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Speaker 2: have to let them be in their own classroom. That's
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Speaker 2: not my job. My job is to be the lighthouse
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Speaker 2: and inspire others to go to that light and ask
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Speaker 2: what did you do to get like that? But I'm
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Speaker 2: not to do that because that's and that in relationships
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Speaker 2: is also very damaging because we're taking on our partner's
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Speaker 2: karma or as you said, as a child, your father.
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Speaker 2: And so it's very important that we make sure we
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Speaker 2: are in our own energy field to clear protect in
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Speaker 2: our energy every single day.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely, And as a wonderful spiritual and energy healing teacher
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Speaker 1: of mine many years ago said, whatever the person receives
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Speaker 1: is for their highest good. Can't you don't know what
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Speaker 1: their highest good might be, So you have to be
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Speaker 1: very careful in what you.
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Speaker 2: Give exactly exactly true.
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Speaker 1: You suggest that chemistry doesn't necessarily mean compatibility.
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Speaker 2: Please explain, Well, we could talk about sexual chemistry, right,
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Speaker 2: like if you really have a thing with someone sexually,
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Speaker 2: they're cute. I have a client now who when she
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Speaker 2: was a teenager, she always wanted the cutest guys and
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Speaker 2: she never did so that was a wound in her
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Speaker 2: now that she's older, and she kind of got addicted
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Speaker 2: to this guy because he's so cute and sexual and
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Speaker 2: all that stuff she didn't get as a teenager. So
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Speaker 2: it's very important that we look at these things. I mean,
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Speaker 2: they say chemistry is a mystery, but in some ways
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Speaker 2: it really isn't. If you dissect it down, you could
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Speaker 2: kind of track it and go, oh, you know, maybe
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Speaker 2: I was unpopular as a kid, and I really like
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Speaker 2: that the cutest guy likes me or the cutest girl
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Speaker 2: likes me. So be careful of the word chemistry. It
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Speaker 2: could kind of be a dangerous thing.
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Speaker 1: So the attraction doesn't necessarily mean a successful relationship.
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Speaker 2: You got to explore that because you got to take
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Speaker 2: your time, and really because the first stage of love
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Speaker 2: is always like heroin, you know, it's the beginning the honeymoon, yay,
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Speaker 2: so that chemistry would come into the first stage. Right,
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Speaker 2: You got to be careful, make sure you are smart. Right.
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Speaker 2: I work with a lot of millionaires and billionaires, and
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Speaker 2: I have to tell you, Victor, it's fat fascinating to
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Speaker 2: me how brilliant they are, forgive my words, but not
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Speaker 2: so bright when it comes to the women they picked.
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Speaker 2: Some of them didn't pick the right women because their
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Speaker 2: egos needed the arm candy, so they made stupid mistakes.
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Speaker 2: So you've got to be careful and really take your
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Speaker 2: time with someone and really ask yourself the questions for
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Speaker 2: healthy love.
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Speaker 1: How may someone develop a deeper emotional connection with a partner?
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Speaker 2: Do not keep the phones around all right, Like don't
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Speaker 2: like that's a big thing. Now people are on their
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Speaker 2: phones and they're very distracted. Really look at someone, let's
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Speaker 2: go back to basics. Really look eye contact and really
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Speaker 2: ask the question, how are you? What's going on? And
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Speaker 2: really listen to the answer. That is the way to begin.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely, we talked about that gift of listening that is
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Speaker 1: so important to truly just not be called to respond
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Speaker 1: all the time, not to opine when someone else is
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Speaker 2: Yes, and also with clients too, I'd be like, do
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Speaker 2: you know your husband, Like you're not really aware of
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Speaker 2: why he always talks about money, and then tracking that
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Speaker 2: you find out in his childhood that was the only
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Speaker 2: language he knew. So like light bulbs go off when
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Speaker 2: you really start to investigate what's going on with the
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Speaker 2: person that you're with, and really listen for those things too,
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Speaker 2: like why they behave the way that they do, Maybe
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Speaker 2: they're insecure, maybe they didn't heal their childhood. That's very
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Speaker 2: important pieces of information. Those are AHA moments when you're
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Speaker 1: Absolutely. One of my calling is to express what I've
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Speaker 1: learned through poetry, and a poem came through me a
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Speaker 1: few years ago called the gift of true listening. And
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Speaker 1: if I may share that with you, Yes, there often
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Speaker 1: G listening it may be any place where a soul
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Speaker 1: you embrace as you offer the gift of true listening.
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Speaker 1: So gift someone near you by saying I hear you
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Speaker 1: lifting them up with your christening, and one day, when
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Speaker 2: Wow, but that is so beautiful.
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Speaker 1: Thank you.
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Speaker 2: That is really profound, very meaty in there. You know,
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Speaker 2: your combination of words. I'm a writer of myself, so
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Speaker 1: And the other aspect of it is it doesn't just
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Speaker 1: the psychic therapist. Audrey, Our soulmate's real.
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Speaker 2: Absolutely, absolutely, soulmates are real, and you have to want it.
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Speaker 2: You actually, I think have to ask for it, even
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Speaker 2: whisper it to the wind, because if you ask for
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Speaker 2: that kind of love, it requires a certain let's say protocol,
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Speaker 2: which is you have to be patient. You'd have to know,
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Speaker 2: have to become your best self, you have to do
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Speaker 2: everything to heal, and that is through law of attraction.
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Speaker 2: Then that you would find a higher love who would
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Speaker 2: help you to do great things in your life. So
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Speaker 2: it's for a higher purpose. This is a different kind
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Speaker 2: of love than regular dating and it's very specific. So
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Speaker 2: the first question, do you want that high love.
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Speaker 1: Me? That higher love? That was a song by who
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Speaker 1: is that?
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Speaker 2: The yes, I love that.
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Speaker 2: But it's true. I mean, when you're working with someone manifestation,
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Speaker 2: the first question what do you want right and what
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Speaker 2: you have to become your list. Let's say I want
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Speaker 2: a person who is like me spiritually minded, okay, or
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Speaker 2: I want someone who respects me. The question is can
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Speaker 2: you become your list? Do you respect yourself? So this
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Speaker 2: high love requires everything of alchemy to become your best self.
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Speaker 2: Alchemy base metal to gold, humanistic divinity, caterpillar to butterfly.
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Speaker 2: It's not for the meek. It's not for the meek.
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Speaker 2: You have to be able to surrender and be walked
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Speaker 2: through fire.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely. That song with Stevie Winwood, bring Me Your Higher Love,
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Speaker 1: that was the song I was trying to think of.
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Speaker 1: How may sol contracts or pass lives affect relationships.
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Speaker 2: Well, if you don't know that you have a soul contract,
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Speaker 2: you won't understand why you're stuck. Let's say you've done everything,
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Speaker 2: You've gone to therapists, you've done everything rationally that could
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Speaker 2: be done, and you're still in the problem. Well, you
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Speaker 2: need to go higher and you need to start questioning
45:22
Speaker 2: what's going on spiritually, karmically, past lives. Why am I
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Speaker 2: hooked to this person? And there could be a sole contract? Now,
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Speaker 2: I had a client who wanted love very badly, did
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Speaker 2: a lot of healing work with me. But when it
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Speaker 2: came down to now it's time, we found there was
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Speaker 2: a sole contract. But this sole contract was when she
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Speaker 2: was like thirteen, because her father left the family and
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Speaker 2: went with another woman and left them. And at that
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Speaker 2: point she said to herself her own soul contract, I
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Speaker 2: do not want to get married. I will never get married.
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Speaker 2: That was what the universe heard. And until we went
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Speaker 2: back and ripped that contract up, there was no way
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Speaker 2: she could find her true love.
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Speaker 1: Is karma a real factor in relationships?
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Speaker 2: Karma is a real factor period, okay, And you could
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Speaker 2: be very queens in New York and Brooklyn about it.
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Speaker 2: Which is what keeps repeating, what feels the same, or
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Speaker 2: what feels Shakespearean, if it feels very dramatic, your body
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Speaker 2: and soul will know it and go, oh God, not again.
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Speaker 2: And that is karma, and that's a very real thing,
46:38
Speaker 2: and you have to heal it or it will repeat,
46:42
Speaker 2: and the circle will get bigger and bigger and bigger
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Speaker 2: until the mac truck comes and then you'll have to
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Speaker 2: really look at it. So karma is the repeat of
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Speaker 2: the issues in your life.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely, and in Brooklyn we call them Shakespeare Shakespeare.
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Speaker 2: I love it, yeah, because it's so intense. Right.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely. So someone is married or in a committed relationship
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Speaker 1: and has a sense that something is not quite right.
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Speaker 1: We sort of touched upon this a little bit earlier.
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Speaker 1: But how can they tell if their partner is telling
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Speaker 1: the truth or lying?
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Speaker 2: Well, if you're married, you kind of read them already,
47:23
Speaker 2: you know what. It's called the baseline. That's also FBI
47:26
Speaker 2: agents use baselining, which is, you know, you could read
47:31
Speaker 2: how your partner is. So if they're acting a little funny,
47:36
Speaker 2: if their routines are, you can always tell if someone's
47:39
Speaker 2: I did this. I actually did a segment on ABC
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Speaker 2: about it, like, how could you tell someone's cheating? Well,
47:45
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, they have a different routine. They're like, well,
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Speaker 2: I have to really work late on Wednesdays or Saturdays,
47:53
Speaker 2: and I have to take a business trip. So the
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Speaker 2: routines are different because you had the baseline and now
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Speaker 2: they're acting different, or now they're tired and they're saying
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Speaker 2: different things, they're using excuses, So these are the tells
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Speaker 2: because you already know them, and you're saying, now they're
48:10
Speaker 2: acting weird. Something is going on. You're probably right because
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Speaker 2: of that, because they changed their behavior.
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Speaker 1: Why would someone stay in a relationship after realizing that
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Speaker 1: their partner is being toxic or unfaithful?
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Speaker 2: Oh, so many clients right now, that's the question. And
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Speaker 2: I really brought it down to Let's say you're hungry
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Speaker 2: and someone has food. They give you what you want
48:40
Speaker 2: and what you so need. Let's say it's validation, and
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Speaker 2: this person gives you validation, and because they did that,
48:47
Speaker 2: you will forget all the bad stuff. So the one
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Speaker 2: thing you really need they give you, and that's why
48:53
Speaker 2: you stay and you ignore the toxic behavior. You're also
48:58
Speaker 2: do a deal. You'll say, we compartmentalize, We do a
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Speaker 2: deal seventy thirty. Ah, he only acts that way on
49:05
Speaker 2: Friday nights. He gets an emotional abuse on Friday nights.
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Speaker 2: We do that with ourselves because we try to look
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Speaker 2: at the good because we need it so and also
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Speaker 2: we don't want to be alone, so we make deals
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Speaker 2: with ourselves.
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Speaker 1: When is it time to leave that relationship When.
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Speaker 2: You're starting to need pills, when you're starting to gain weight.
49:32
Speaker 2: When you're doing terrible and your partner's fine, They're just fine,
49:38
Speaker 2: and you're sick as a dog, very depressed, not doing well,
49:42
Speaker 2: that's the sign right there, something's going on. You're picking
49:46
Speaker 2: up all their stuff. Well, maybe you're not communicating, I
49:49
Speaker 2: want to you know, maybe you're letting them get away
49:51
Speaker 2: with it. So it has to do with being self
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Speaker 2: loving and taking you know, the horns. What's going on?
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Speaker 2: Are you being too quiet? That would be my first question.
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Speaker 2: Are you not saying anything? Are you letting it slide?
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Speaker 2: Why don't you have enough confidence to like bust them?
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Speaker 2: What's going on? Stop it? It would self esteem. You
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Speaker 2: won't take crap anymore?
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Speaker 1: Why are so many people so hesitant to leave?
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Speaker 2: I think people are afraid of society and the mistakes
50:23
Speaker 2: is that believing that they're too old, too fat, they
50:27
Speaker 2: lost their chance and they bought into that whole societal thing.
50:33
Speaker 2: And that's a problem of brainwashing that we have to
50:36
Speaker 2: stop because spiritually it doesn't work that way. Spiritually, it's
50:39
Speaker 2: whatever serves your soul. So you got to stop thinking
50:42
Speaker 2: I'm too too old, too fat, and I miss the boat. Like,
50:47
Speaker 2: stop those earthly belief systems they're very damaging, and so
50:52
Speaker 2: you're afraid, Oh, he's going to go for a younger woman. Right,
50:57
Speaker 2: These things that you say to yourself have got to
50:59
Speaker 2: say stop. You have to watch your belief systems.
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Speaker 1: So the person recognizes that it's time to leave. What
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Speaker 1: suggestions would you offer for leaving that relationship?
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Speaker 2: Open the door and walk out, as simple as that.
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Speaker 2: Take five steps out, go out and keep walking. Yes,
51:25
Speaker 2: because if you made your decision and you're sure, just
51:29
Speaker 2: go because you have to. You have to have a
51:32
Speaker 2: great relationship with yourself first. I always say, marry yourself.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely. Any advice for recovering from a breakup.
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Speaker 2: Yes, great question. Don't rush into the next one. Be
51:54
Speaker 2: in sacred space, all one alone and really evaluate what
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Speaker 2: you want, what you did, what you manifested. Use that
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Speaker 2: sacred space to grow and learn and change and become
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Speaker 2: magnificent in it. Like take care of yourself, do the work,
52:17
Speaker 2: and calm down and take your time. Slow down, because
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Speaker 2: that is a great time to have a launching pad
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Speaker 2: for a new life.
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Speaker 1: And when they get to that point of the launching pad,
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Speaker 1: when they've taken their time and healed and done all
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Speaker 1: the right things for themselves, how do they approach the
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Speaker 1: next relationship.
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Speaker 2: I would say the relationship corner feng Shue is when
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Speaker 2: you at the door, your door, the right hand corner
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Speaker 2: at the at the back of your room. Let's say
52:51
Speaker 2: you do this in your bedroom, create sacred space right
52:54
Speaker 2: down in a red envelope all the things that you want,
52:58
Speaker 2: write it down that are very important to you. Put
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Speaker 2: it on that table and that altar and let it
53:05
Speaker 2: cook there and make sure that you hold to that
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Speaker 2: and you keep the highest and the best. And then
53:15
Speaker 2: every night just really sit in front of the altar,
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Speaker 2: light a candle and imagine this great love coming to you.
53:23
Speaker 2: And you could even ask the question what can I
53:25
Speaker 2: do to bring you closer and just meditate on that
53:29
Speaker 2: and see if you get an answer, and see if
53:32
Speaker 2: the person will tell you something. And that's how you
53:35
Speaker 2: manifest from divine energy. You do the work and then
53:39
Speaker 2: you use spiritual energy to magnetize it.
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Speaker 1: Very interesting because my little desk here is right next
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Speaker 1: to the romance corner in our relationship corner in my
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Speaker 1: home here. My wife and I both studied func Shue,
53:54
Speaker 1: and she functued this corner and I'm looking at it
53:58
Speaker 1: and there's pictures of us that very happy times. There's
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Speaker 1: pictures of us when she graduated. She had recently graduated
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Speaker 1: with her master's degree in public history at the age
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Speaker 1: of sixty nine. And let's see what else we have.
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Speaker 1: And there's an angel there. And there's also a little
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Speaker 1: statue of two owls hugging each other and it says,
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Speaker 1: owl always love you.
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Speaker 2: Oh wow, Well, that is the greatest feng shui.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely, and I'm very blessed to be married to this
54:31
Speaker 1: very very special woman. The final question for you, is
54:35
Speaker 1: there hope for real love in this world? Returning?
54:39
Speaker 2: Well, right now, when you talk about like how can
54:42
Speaker 2: you tell if someone's lying, we are getting like a
54:44
Speaker 2: worldwide education on liars. Okay, so it's like a global thing,
54:51
Speaker 2: and we are to get back to our critical mind
54:56
Speaker 2: thinking and when this is an amazing time to eve
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Speaker 2: because when you healed deeply, you need all the crap
55:03
Speaker 2: to come out. So this is the age of Aquarius,
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Speaker 2: and all the crap is coming out, and you have
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Speaker 2: to understand it from a spiritual level. It has to
55:11
Speaker 2: happen so that we could have a better world. So
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Speaker 2: it's part of the process. Don't get hooked into all
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Speaker 2: the negativity just know it's going to inspire us to
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Speaker 2: a greater world. Absolutely true. That is the truth.
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Speaker 1: That is the truth, absolutely And for those of us
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Speaker 1: from New York and who were raised and born in
55:33
Speaker 1: various parts of New York City, the word crap is
55:36
Speaker 1: something that we use quite frankly or quite frequently. So
55:38
Speaker 1: I just want to let everybody know that that's the
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Speaker 1: source of that word. My guest is Audrey Hope, and
55:44
Speaker 1: she has gifted us with her wisdom and her ability
55:47
Speaker 1: and her experience. Audrey, one more time, please share with
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Speaker 1: listeners where they can get your website and everything else
55:53
Speaker 1: about you.
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Speaker 2: Audreyhope dot com is my website on Instagram at the
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Speaker 2: Audrey Hope on YouTube Audrey Hope Now. And it has
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Speaker 2: been a pleasure to be on your show and to
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Speaker 2: know you what great work you're doing.
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Speaker 1: Thank you, Audrey, and the same to you and wonderful
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Speaker 1: to meet you after all these years. Thank you so
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Speaker 1: much my pleasure, and thank you for joining us on
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Speaker 1: Destination Unlimited. I'm Victor Lavoie Furman. Have a wonderful week.