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When you've crossed path with your ex · Toni, Jase & Sam - Breakfast Catchup

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  Speaker 1: Coast Breakfast brought to you by Bargain Chemist their policy
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  Speaker 2: Tony Jason Sam's feel Good Breakfast Can't Shut podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Today on the show, we talked eighties netfull mom, you
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  Speaker 1: know the mom that had three or four serirahs in
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  Speaker 1: her team and they're a little behind the scenes conversations.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to hear from Tom Sainsbury.
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  Speaker 3: Also, you're going to hear about cross paths of your
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  Speaker 3: ex and have a lot of friends with Rachel said, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I'll be your bridesmaid to her exis wedding. Then we
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  Speaker 3: spoke to some people who will blow your minds with
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  Speaker 3: what happened when they bumped into the X and how
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  Speaker 3: they went down. Before eight thirty, you get a chance
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  Speaker 3: to go on the George w an amazing trip to
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  Speaker 3: New York with ten thousand dollars cash to spend. It's
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  Speaker 3: Tony Streets Speakspin to two New York. But it's the
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  Speaker 3: big Appel n Beyond right, So it's outside of Manhattan.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So what would be on your bucket list? Like
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  Speaker 1: I can tell you right now, When I think New York,
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  Speaker 1: I think, Okay, I'd love to go to a Broadway Show.
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  Speaker 1: We had Captain Kirk on yesterday talking about the fact
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  Speaker 1: that it was the two year anniversary of the first
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  Speaker 1: direct flight from in New Zealand, and he told us
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  Speaker 1: that rooftop bars are a real thing over there, and
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  Speaker 1: I said, oh, Jess, it turns out I enjoy rooftop
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  Speaker 1: and a wee table. So I would like to do
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  Speaker 1: that because apparently you get a very very good view
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  Speaker 1: of the city. I'd love to go to Niagara Falls,
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  Speaker 1: which is further afield, and I actually think on my
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  Speaker 1: list would be some form of road trip just where
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  Speaker 1: you kind of cruise through all the different parts of
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  Speaker 1: New York State just to get sort of your bearings
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  Speaker 1: and get a greater sense of where everything is, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like I have no idea at
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  Speaker 1: the moment.
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  Speaker 4: Geography of the place is terrible.
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  Speaker 3: That's I say. I've been lucky enough to go there
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  Speaker 3: and to walk through Central Park is one thing. It's
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  Speaker 3: just amazing to look at the Empire State Building during
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  Speaker 3: the day and at nighttime it lights up in different
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  Speaker 3: colors at night. That's phenomenal. But apparently Niagara Falls light
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  Speaker 3: of at night too, so the lights shine up from
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  Speaker 3: under the falls that's going to blow my mind. I'd
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  Speaker 3: love to see that.
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  Speaker 1: Also, you know, you hear about different parts of New
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  Speaker 1: York and this is going to sound so bad sitting
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  Speaker 1: for me, but even in songs and in movies. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, like, I want to see the Bronx because
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  Speaker 1: you hear about Yeah, Jimmy from the block, Let's go
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  Speaker 1: and see the Bronx.
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  Speaker 4: I want to see that.
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  Speaker 3: What I and Queen's all around there boroughs. Really, I
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  Speaker 3: also really want to go to Long Island, like Hampton,
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  Speaker 3: to the Hampden's.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, the Hedons, that's another one. A lot of movies
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  Speaker 1: sit the Hedens.
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  Speaker 3: That's right. So what about you, because remember not tomorrow,
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  Speaker 3: but the next day you could get that phone call
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  Speaker 3: telling you you have won this trip. So if if
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  Speaker 3: you've never been to New York or you'd want to
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  Speaker 3: go back, tell us what's on your to do list?
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  Speaker 3: What would you love to do in New York? Let
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  Speaker 3: us know our eight hundred double four coast. I think
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  Speaker 3: it takes the two sixty nine nine. You could win
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  Speaker 3: ten thousand dollars cash and fly in New Zealand to
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  Speaker 3: New York. It's the easiest possible way to do it.
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  Speaker 3: Just be the right caller at the right time, and
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  Speaker 3: your next chance to be there is just before half
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  Speaker 3: past eight this morning. I will take you're a friend
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  Speaker 3: of the Big Apple, them Beyond. If you win the trip,
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  Speaker 3: will book you're on a premium economy seats on in
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  Speaker 3: New Zealand, fly you up to New York. Yes, we'll
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  Speaker 3: take in the Manhattan, but then we're going to take
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  Speaker 3: in the exploit the sights, and do some exploring around.
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  Speaker 3: You state the best food, the best restaurants, the best
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  Speaker 3: orchis because its called the Big Apple for a reason.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and they've got some vineyards as well. But if
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  Speaker 1: it was up to you, what would you put on
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  Speaker 1: the list? Renee?
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  Speaker 5: I would love to sit down and watch people and
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  Speaker 5: eat paper.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, people watching in New York Space the pizza.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I love.
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  Speaker 1: That because it is known for being super eclectic and
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  Speaker 1: having all these different neighborhoods, and I suspect that I
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  Speaker 1: have amazing street performers and all sorts.
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  Speaker 5: I think it would be pretty fantastic.
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  Speaker 1: Say, oh, you're so right, we need to leave some
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  Speaker 1: time for that. Write that down, Jason.
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  Speaker 3: People watching it watching in New York. Yeah, I agree,
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  Speaker 3: love it. Thanks Renee Warrick. What about you.
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  Speaker 6: Coney Island, all the event rides and stuff, and appairly
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  Speaker 6: there's a big boardwalk and that at the beach that'd
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  Speaker 6: be really kurt. But hey, you've got to get in
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  Speaker 6: the draw first, man. That's just the task on itself.
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  Speaker 1: It is, isn't it it is?
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  Speaker 6: I've got all these thirty seven calls, twenty nine calls,
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  Speaker 6: I've got Oh well, I'm on my phone drying it in.
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  Speaker 7: Well.
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  Speaker 1: I like the sound of you Worricks Warwick. Sounds like
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  Speaker 1: a good time. I've gone all the right.
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  Speaker 6: My wife just wants to win it so bad.
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  Speaker 4: What's your wife's name, Kelly.
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  Speaker 6: She's going to lose your job after twenty five years,
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  Speaker 6: and she just wants she just wants something a break,
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  Speaker 6: you know, like a big holiday.
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  Speaker 4: Totally.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah. And then also there's one other thing. There's a
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  Speaker 6: little urban distillery, cool widow, Jane. I'd love to visit that.
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  Speaker 6: They've got their own spring where they use the water
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  Speaker 6: to distill it. There will be it's a little it's
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  Speaker 6: a little little we heidy hold I've got there and
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  Speaker 6: apparently it's I've got a couple of bottles of it
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  Speaker 6: at home. And it's a it's a nice drop.
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  Speaker 4: I'm writing that down. You need to ring.
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  Speaker 1: You need to make sure you ring back today to
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  Speaker 1: try and get in the straw because that sounds like
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  Speaker 1: you really need it.
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  Speaker 6: I've got you, I got you guys on auto dial some.
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  Speaker 3: Great news and don't tell anyone who heads up on this.
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  Speaker 3: Tomorrow is last call Thursday, so there'll be a chance
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  Speaker 3: every single hour tomorrow from six in the morning through
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  Speaker 3: nine tomorrow night to get the drawer, but also today
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  Speaker 3: as well. It is also today, of course.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, Well I'm trying.
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  Speaker 3: I'm definitely trying. People talk you a little later. I
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  Speaker 3: was one more quick one now, Kylie, if if you
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  Speaker 3: win this amazing trip, what's on your to do list?
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  Speaker 5: I'd love to go to Times Square.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, same, And when it would nearly be when
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  Speaker 1: the Christmas tree was put up. I wonder what they
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  Speaker 1: do for Halloween because it'll be full Halloween while we're there.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but you're so right, Kylie, Times Queer and I'll
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  Speaker 3: be lucky enough to see this in the flesh. It
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  Speaker 3: blows your mind. You've seen in the movies and things,
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  Speaker 3: and like the things they do with the billboards like
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  Speaker 3: three D and four D. They look amazing. Species species.
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  Speaker 4: No, I cannot wait to see that.
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  Speaker 7: There one to watch the ball, the ball dropping.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Is actually that movie New Year's Eve, isn't there? Have
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  Speaker 1: you seen that one?
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  Speaker 3: Right?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think it was that great, but it
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  Speaker 1: does give you all the New York.
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  Speaker 3: So everyone's getting ready for New Year's even you're through
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  Speaker 3: the text on two six nine on Kleig Hall. I'd
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  Speaker 3: love to go to Hell's Kitchen, Time Square, Rockefeller Center.
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  Speaker 3: That's why they put the giant Christmas Stree at the
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  Speaker 3: Rockefeller Center, Radio City Hall and a lot of these
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  Speaker 3: things there. So good luck. Fifty years ago this year,
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  Speaker 3: back in nineteen seventy four, christ Choose hosted the Commonwealth Games.
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  Speaker 3: Then you fast forward to nineteen ninety and New Zealand
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  Speaker 3: hosted them again with the song up nineteen ninety Comonwealth Games.
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  Speaker 1: We can just tell you that the twenty twenty six
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  Speaker 1: Commonwealth Games has just been confirmed to be in Scotland.
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  Speaker 1: So they've agreed to host the Commonwealth Games in Glasgow.
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  Speaker 1: And remember that they Glasgow has already hosted the common
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  Speaker 1: Wealth Games in recent times twelve years ago it was.
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  Speaker 3: It feels like twelve years ago.
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  Speaker 4: It feels like it was just the other day.
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  Speaker 1: So it's a scale down version of the event. Because
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  Speaker 1: you'll remember Victoria was meant to host the Games and
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  Speaker 1: they relinquished it at quite a late stage and just
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  Speaker 1: said the rising costs were just getting out of control
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  Speaker 1: and they'd already spent so much money on it and
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  Speaker 1: they said, no, we're just going to go broke basically
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  Speaker 1: if we keep it here. So Scotland's got it. It's
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  Speaker 1: going to be a scaled back but high quality games.
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  Speaker 1: Apparently only ten sports, a very small opening and closing ceremony,
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  Speaker 1: and no Olympic village, well, no Commonwealth Games village, so.
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  Speaker 3: There's going to say at hotels in Glasgow and then
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  Speaker 3: only ten sports.
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  Speaker 1: So all we know so far is that aesthetics and
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  Speaker 1: swimming are compulsory and we don't know.
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  Speaker 4: What the other eight are yet.
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, so there'll be a lot of athletes waiting
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  Speaker 1: with bita breath to see what they are.
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  Speaker 4: But the fact there's only ten there's minimal.
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  Speaker 3: Men, I agree, What is.
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  Speaker 1: It going to let you suddenly think of the Commonwealth
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  Speaker 1: game sports ball?
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  Speaker 4: We've won medals before. I mean there's netball going yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well okay, so I love that. So I'm going
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  Speaker 3: to host it sort of a scale bag but still
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  Speaker 3: high quality.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, well, it's a sustainable offering. They're calling it
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  Speaker 1: a diverse mix of countries to hope that host the
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  Speaker 1: games in the future is what they want for the
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  Speaker 1: scale back version. Okay, so without all the hoopler, we
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  Speaker 1: just wanted to keep going.
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  Speaker 3: That's exactly a glass half all that's still going. Thanks
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  Speaker 3: so much. Skill ask every morning this week we're giving
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  Speaker 3: you a chance to nail the night. Nineteen year old
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  Speaker 3: goalkeeper for the AWKLEFC Knights is Joe Noles, and he's
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  Speaker 3: standing in the goal and you have to choose who
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  Speaker 3: do you want to take the cake, Tony or me?
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  Speaker 3: And do you predict we'll get.
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  Speaker 7: It in or not.
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  Speaker 3: If your prediction comes right, you go in the drawer.
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  Speaker 3: This amazing setup flights, accommodation, and tickets, the premium tickets
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  Speaker 3: to their first game.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a good ee. So who have we got today?
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  Speaker 3: Kathy? Hello Kathy, Kathy?
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  Speaker 1: Who hell? Are you going great? Who would you like
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  Speaker 1: to have a go at Joe noles and try and
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  Speaker 1: get it past them.
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  Speaker 4: Jay. Okay, Jace, step on up.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Now the question is do you think Jason's going to
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  Speaker 1: get it in or not? Because if you say yes,
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  Speaker 1: he'll get it in and he gets it in, then
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  Speaker 1: you get in the drawer. If you say no, he
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  Speaker 1: won't get it in and he doesn't, you still get
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  Speaker 1: in the drawer.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I'd say he will get it in. Okay, I
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  Speaker 3: love it. I love the confidence.
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  Speaker 4: All right, that is great.
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  Speaker 3: Here we go, Jason, sound pastable.
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  Speaker 7: It's not a rugby conversion, Jason. He's looking very much
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  Speaker 7: like right there, he's got the wrong sports.
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  Speaker 5: It's not a great start.
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  Speaker 7: He's doing the smile like McKinsey as.
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  Speaker 8: Well, and he shoots.
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  Speaker 7: Any Ah, that was a little bed strike.
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  Speaker 3: Actually it's gone to the top right of the goal.
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  Speaker 5: But Joe, Joe sporded it away easily.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not going to lie.
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  Speaker 3: Ah. Okay, Ah. I appreciate. I appreciate the faith you
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  Speaker 3: had to be made, but I didn't quoite come that way.
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 3: Sorry, that's right. There's another chance every day, Thank you
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  Speaker 3: very much.
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  Speaker 1: Kenvy's so, Jason, you didn't disgrace yourself.
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  Speaker 3: That was all right if you keep it on at
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  Speaker 3: Coast Breakfast on Instagram and Facebook's a video there some
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  Speaker 3: of the footage that happened. But we stay there trying
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  Speaker 3: to take these goals and try and give these know
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  Speaker 3: this kicks in, however, Joe's pretty good. Another chance tomorrow though,
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  Speaker 3: this is the Coast. Let us take care of the
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  Speaker 3: money for you. What if we give you ten thousand
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  Speaker 3: dollars cash to spend and we'll take you to New
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  Speaker 3: York and help you spend it. We'll take you shopping.
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  Speaker 3: There's some amazing outlet stores, but there's also Fifth Avenue
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  Speaker 3: right in Manhattan. We've got tiffanyinco Oh my life.
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  Speaker 1: We have to go and see that you do. Hopefully
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  Speaker 1: they just give us a glass of bubbles. Even if
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  Speaker 1: we don't find normally.
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  Speaker 3: She's up browsing. They bring up the champagne where you.
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  Speaker 4: Browsing, I know, to look fun, so they think we've
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  Speaker 4: got the cares.
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  Speaker 3: Well, if you win this, yeah, you chance to be
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  Speaker 3: in that draw. Thanks to New York I love ny
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  Speaker 3: dot com just before half pas state this morning. Now
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  Speaker 3: when it comes to New York, though, a lot of
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  Speaker 3: great TV series are set in New York, and see
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  Speaker 3: if you recognize these ones just by their theme songs. Okay, game, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: here we go, this one here relatively look at you go?
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  Speaker 4: Yea so good.
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  Speaker 3: Sam was saying, this is the greatest thing he's seen
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  Speaker 3: on TV.
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  Speaker 4: It's a very good show.
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  Speaker 1: It's essentially about this billionaire family and it's like who's
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  Speaker 1: going to take over the reins for dad and all
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  Speaker 1: the children or they're all basket cases.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, all right, well I'm one from one. Here we go.
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  Speaker 3: Do you recognize this one?
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  Speaker 4: Sounds like a video game?
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  Speaker 3: Catchy two key we guys living in.
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  Speaker 1: New York, Jermaine Clement and re starby something.
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  Speaker 4: What are they called the hang.
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  Speaker 3: On flight of the concord? Not fair?
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  Speaker 7: Not fair?
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  Speaker 3: You can see it in New York, that's right, yes,
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  Speaker 3: in Manhattan. So you're two from two. This one is
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  Speaker 3: a gimme. This one is so simple. There's no where
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  Speaker 3: you get this one wrong. For friends, the best beday.
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  Speaker 1: We have to go and see the friends sit.
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  Speaker 3: There's a friends experience and we need to do that.
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  Speaker 3: You need to do you'll put that on the list
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  Speaker 3: as well, so if you will get friend I know right, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: Actually to be honest, I'll be watching a bit of
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  Speaker 3: Friends trying to get ready for this trip. A trip
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  Speaker 3: on Memory's still just as good it is a But
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  Speaker 3: there's one thing that Rachel from Friends got herself into
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  Speaker 3: a situation where she said, yes, she'd be made of
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  Speaker 3: all at a wedding, but it's an ex fiance's wedding
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  Speaker 3: who ended up marrying one of her mates. Oh no,
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  Speaker 3: we need to talk about when you cross paths as
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  Speaker 3: your ex.
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  Speaker 2: Coasts. Feel Good Breakfast catch Up podcast with Tony Street,
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  Speaker 3: When it comes to New York. You know, Friends are
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  Speaker 3: set in New York.
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  Speaker 1: You know that right, Oh, the Central Perk, That's exactly right.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. And in one of the episodes, Rachel agrees to
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  Speaker 3: be made of at a wedding, but it's not just
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  Speaker 3: any wedding. Her ex fiance Barry is marrying her friend
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  Speaker 3: Mindy and she shows up and then they get a
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  Speaker 3: little bit lifted her because she shows up looks amazing
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  Speaker 3: in her bride'smaid gown.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and so there's this unexpected meeting of the of
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  Speaker 1: the exes and we just thought, when has this happened
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  Speaker 1: to you? And it did make me think once. I So,
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  Speaker 1: I had a boyfriend at high school and it didn't
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  Speaker 1: end particularly well actually of his doing. Oh and you know,
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  Speaker 1: we're young, so they're no hard feelings.
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  Speaker 4: But I did hop on.
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  Speaker 1: A flight and I bummed into him, his wife and
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  Speaker 1: his children. And it's just weird when you haven't seen
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  Speaker 1: that person since high school and that is the first
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  Speaker 1: time you've seen them, and then you see them and
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  Speaker 1: they've got this whole new family, and you know, were
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  Speaker 1: of course acted normal, but you could just tell it
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  Speaker 1: was just a bit of a strained exchange. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And then the whole flight I was like, oh god,
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad and I'm not in the same rowers and
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  Speaker 1: this is weird.
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  Speaker 3: Hasn't really happened to me. But a girlfriend I was
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  Speaker 3: with at the time years ago, we were at a
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  Speaker 3: supermarket and she'd just been to the gym, so she's
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  Speaker 3: on a little workout gear, active wear and looking red
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  Speaker 3: in the face. She saw an ex's, oh my god,
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  Speaker 3: She's been hidden around in a different aisle.
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  Speaker 4: She didn't want to be seen.
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  Speaker 3: What are you doing? He can't see me like this.
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  Speaker 4: That's a classic.
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  Speaker 3: So what about you, when did you cross paths with
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  Speaker 3: an X, we'd love to hear story. Was it a wedding?
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  Speaker 3: Was it their wedding that'd be fascinating?
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  Speaker 4: Was it a flight like me eight hundred.
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  Speaker 3: Double four coast to phone number cold start to the
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  Speaker 3: country this morning. However, in Niagara right now, it's twenty
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  Speaker 3: seven degrees. In downtown Manhattan, it's twenty six degrees. It
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  Speaker 3: isn't file just a nice season. It really spring is
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  Speaker 3: a little more changeable. However, downtown Manhattan is where Friends
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  Speaker 3: was set. Of course, Central Perk Cafe and they called
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  Speaker 3: the New York Camp down again.
• 14:18
  Speaker 5: Told you that was the.
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: God.
• 14:23
  Speaker 3: And on one of the episodes of Friends, Rachel agrees
• 14:25
  Speaker 3: to be a maid of honor at a wedding. But
• 14:27
  Speaker 3: it's not just any wedding. It's an ex fiance, Barry
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: who marries her friend.
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: Oh, so she's come and face to face with her ex.
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: And that's what talk about today, Bernice, When did you
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: bump into.
• 14:37
  Speaker 7: Your ex's my brother in law? Oh?
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: Okay, hang on a minute, So does that mean that
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: he married your sister or your brother or how does
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: it work?
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: Did you marry his brother?
• 14:50
  Speaker 7: I married her brother?
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: So you went from one father to the next.
• 14:56
  Speaker 7: Yeah, don't make it sound so good.
• 15:00
  Speaker 4: I love the talk us to him.
• 15:03
  Speaker 7: Yeah. Well, I mean I was probably in betweenties and
• 15:07
  Speaker 7: I started going out with him. I went out with
• 15:09
  Speaker 7: him for about eighteen months, and you know, things isn't
• 15:13
  Speaker 7: end that well, as you know, sometimes relations don't. But
• 15:16
  Speaker 7: I was I always got on really well with his brother,
• 15:19
  Speaker 7: and so I started a relationship with him. And we've
• 15:26
  Speaker 7: been married now for forty one years, so you know,
• 15:29
  Speaker 7: And yeah, I suppose.
• 15:31
  Speaker 5: It was a little bit difficult to start with.
• 15:33
  Speaker 4: But did he take it well when you told him
• 15:35
  Speaker 4: that I'm.
• 15:36
  Speaker 9: Not particularly and so so how long anyway, how long after.
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: You guys had broken up did you start seeing his brother?
• 15:46
  Speaker 5: Oh, I've thought I'm very close, very quickly.
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: It didn't go well.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: I'm glad he got over it and it's lasted at least.
• 15:56
  Speaker 4: That's good.
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: Happy. Thank you so much that Bernie Susan, did you
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: cross paths.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: With an X.
• 16:03
  Speaker 5: Super awkward moment. I just had my first baby. My
• 16:07
  Speaker 5: ex had had a change of career and he was
• 16:10
  Speaker 5: my postnatal nurse.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: Oh no, wow, Oh that is so awkward.
• 16:17
  Speaker 4: He wasn't in the room for the burst.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: Was he?
• 16:19
  Speaker 7: No?
• 16:20
  Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, but he was. He was going
• 16:25
  Speaker 5: to be looking after me. I hate to say to him,
• 16:28
  Speaker 5: you can look after the baby, but you can't look
• 16:30
  Speaker 5: after me.
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: I can imagine the shock.
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: You would have thought that, you know, the childbirthen just
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: affected your mind.
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: You'd be like, this guy's not actually in this room.
• 16:42
  Speaker 5: I hadn't seen him for about nine years, so it
• 16:45
  Speaker 5: was just a little bit disturbing.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: I feel sorry for you, but I mean, did you
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: did you break the ice?
• 16:52
  Speaker 4: Okay and have a we chat and.
• 16:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean we've broken up on good terms and
• 16:59
  Speaker 5: you know, just drefted apart from live wind in different directions.
• 17:03
  Speaker 5: But it was a little surprising.
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: Especially because you have the baby to his brother.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: The only thing was that would have been if he
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: came in and he was like the olds citrician or
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: the midwife who's actually delivering the baby, then.
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: That would be so far.
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: Sorry Aaron, Hello, what do you hi?
• 17:27
  Speaker 9: Hine's probably not as awkward, but it's so awkward. So
• 17:31
  Speaker 9: I was about seven months pregnant and I was working
• 17:34
  Speaker 9: at Bunnings, so Bunnings pinofore as I was serving.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: My so pregnant and a Bunning's pinafore and he turns out.
• 17:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's a bit.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: Like the like the girl who hid in the aisles
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: your friend Jason the time.
• 17:51
  Speaker 9: Yeah, I think you just want to be there's sort
• 17:54
  Speaker 9: of like high a cheeva of an ex girlfriend.
• 17:57
  Speaker 5: You know, you don't want to be working at Bunnings
• 17:58
  Speaker 5: and pregnant.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: Oh no, at least you'd moved on with your life
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: and you're about to have a baby and you know
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: things were working out.
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: What was what was he doing in Bunnings? What was
• 18:07
  Speaker 4: he buying?
• 18:08
  Speaker 5: Who was buying wood for his new house?
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: Okay, so you couldn't have done it without you, see.
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: I bet you're super cut in as well.
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: Thank you very much. Erin a few texts coming through
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: on two sixth nine nine, I was a bridesmaid of
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: my friends winning and my ex was partner? Was my partner?
• 18:25
  Speaker 7: Or what?
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: It's Wednesdays. So we're talking money matters with Jess Travis
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: from Milford Asset Management to drill down on how to
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: start investing if you think you don't have enough, and
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: Jess is he had answer a couple of questions. But
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: remember it's only information to help you understand more, not
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: necessarily financial advice. So just how do we do it?
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: If you don't think you've got enough, how do we
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: even start?
• 18:49
  Speaker 10: Well, it's got a whole lot is easier over the
• 18:51
  Speaker 10: last five to ten years. You don't actually need much
• 18:53
  Speaker 10: money at all to start.
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 18:56
  Speaker 10: There used to be an odd saying you actually need
• 18:58
  Speaker 10: lots of money to be able to invest and make money,
• 19:00
  Speaker 10: and that's just not the case anymore.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: What is the minimum amount you'd need to invest?
• 19:05
  Speaker 10: Well, you can start with basically nothing now thanks to
• 19:08
  Speaker 10: really accessible easy investments like key We Save It. That's
• 19:12
  Speaker 10: probably one of the easiest ways to get started with
• 19:14
  Speaker 10: very little money. And if you're working, you're going to
• 19:18
  Speaker 10: get possibly your employer contributing as well, you're going to
• 19:21
  Speaker 10: get the government contribution, and you're adding to it regularly.
• 19:24
  Speaker 10: So you can start with virtually nothing and it will
• 19:26
  Speaker 10: build up over time.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: What if you weren't in Because I think a lot
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: of people don't even see, which is terrible. They don't
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: look at key we Saber as an investment. They're like, oh,
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: this is the thing I have to do for my retirement.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: If you want to invest outside of that, what would
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: the minimum be then?
• 19:40
  Speaker 10: Yeah, that's a really good question. So there's some really
• 19:42
  Speaker 10: easy ways. A couple of the easiest ones investments like
• 19:44
  Speaker 10: managed funds. They've got much lower minimum balances than they
• 19:48
  Speaker 10: used to. A Milford managed fund, for example, you can
• 19:50
  Speaker 10: start with a little one thousand dollars, so that's pretty accessible.
• 19:54
  Speaker 10: Or there's other investments like exchange traded funds or they're
• 19:57
  Speaker 10: quite commonly called ETFs, so you can buy and sell those.
• 20:00
  Speaker 10: They're listed on share markets. They're like a type of
• 20:02
  Speaker 10: managed fund. You can trade those pretty accessibly for very
• 20:06
  Speaker 10: small values as well. And the good thing about those
• 20:09
  Speaker 10: is you're getting access to a broad number of investments.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: You can add to.
• 20:12
  Speaker 10: Them regularly, which is really great.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: You can drip feed into them.
• 20:17
  Speaker 10: I harp on about automation, but that's one of the
• 20:19
  Speaker 10: easiest ways to save little amounts. But you can just
• 20:22
  Speaker 10: start saving and investing with as much as you can
• 20:25
  Speaker 10: comfortably afford.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: When you say automation, I'm really interested in this. So
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: that's automatic. It automatically goes into the account, so it
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: just adds up and creeps up and before you.
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: Know it's out of sight, out of.
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: It's so good.
• 20:39
  Speaker 10: Rather than you physically having to do something every couple
• 20:41
  Speaker 10: of months.
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: Oh, I'll squirrel some away.
• 20:43
  Speaker 10: If it's coming straight out of your wages or salary
• 20:47
  Speaker 10: and savings and you don't have to do anything.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: It's much much easier for you. It's a really good
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: habit and it's effortless.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: Now if you haven't set up ke we saver yet,
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: is that pretty straightforward to just you guys, and you
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: guys can do it for someone.
• 20:58
  Speaker 10: Yeah, you can ask your employer to set it up
• 20:59
  Speaker 10: for you, or you go online and do your research
• 21:02
  Speaker 10: around ki Wesabra providers, look at the returns after he returns,
• 21:06
  Speaker 10: good track record, and you're very very easy to do online.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: Okay, So lots of emotion with how to start investing,
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: even if you think you don't have enough, you probably
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: already do. Details at Milford asset dot com. Thank you
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: so much. This is coast.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: We need to talk about the eighties netbule mom.
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: I stumbled across this.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: It's our favorite comedian Tom Sainsbury and he just does
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: these incredible takes. If you haven't seen him, you need
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: to follow him on Instagram. He does a great impersonation
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: of a boomer dad as well, but his eighties mum
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: is fantastic, and in this instance he is re enacting
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: a conversation that a lot of mums in the eighties
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: would have had around Nepple. Well that's the thing.
• 21:44
  Speaker 8: Then, the only reason Sarah White got into the Aniaple
• 21:47
  Speaker 8: team is because your mother's the coach. Yes, and your
• 21:51
  Speaker 8: Serrah deserve to be in there. She was take she
• 21:53
  Speaker 8: took your Siah's place. Yes, from most tryouts, your Sierra
• 21:56
  Speaker 8: should definitely have been in the amiable team. And since
• 21:58
  Speaker 8: she's in the bee hopefully she'll captain ship. But still
• 22:01
  Speaker 8: she should be an egg. I know, I know, no,
• 22:03
  Speaker 8: my Sera, she only just she scraped into the Seeniple team.
• 22:06
  Speaker 8: She actually I found surprising it was there. I yes,
• 22:10
  Speaker 8: but you know she's not She's not sportily gifted, not
• 22:12
  Speaker 8: like your pearance to say that.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: Yes. No, if I was you, I would go to
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: the principle.
• 22:18
  Speaker 8: I know it's yeah, absolutely, yeah, of course she shouldn't
• 22:21
  Speaker 8: be in the n do it?
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: Of course not.
• 22:24
  Speaker 8: Then I won't say anything. Mum's the word. I won't
• 22:27
  Speaker 8: say anything. Okay, yeah, you go and tend to your lasagnet. Okay,
• 22:32
  Speaker 8: bye for now to Rah. Did you hear that Grant
• 22:37
  Speaker 8: Lynn is going to the Principle because she's so annoyed
• 22:40
  Speaker 8: that her sere and get into the ania plete.
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: I mean, she was good.
• 22:43
  Speaker 8: She should have she should have been in their instead
• 22:45
  Speaker 8: of Sarah Why.
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: But it was a bit Overkols.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: So because of you, of you are a knitbull circles.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Now you will know that these conversations happen. And when
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: you're the coach, you're like, I bet you that happening
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: about me.
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: All the time.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: But it's just so funny to hear it. And that's
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: just the nature of people, isn't it. And I wonder
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: why they now don't let anyone, no parent turn.
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: Up to the trials. They're all closed, so no one can.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: Says on coast, all right, here we go, let's play
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: this go five hundred dollars on the line for the
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: chases today. You just of course, now, I wait, hundred
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: double o four coast, But who's playing that?
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Can?
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: I just say?
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: The funniest part of that clip for me was the
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: fact that he was calling a Sirah why because we
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: used to have Tracy H, Tracy J, Tracy P.
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: Because there were so many Tracys and Serrus.
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: Even even his own daughter was called Sira as well.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: Hell lot of serious.
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: Step on up.
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: All right, okay, cool now, I wait hundred double o
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: fore coast five general knowledge questions are going to come
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: your way. I won't hear them obviously. And if I
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: can't mention your score, you in five hundred bucks?
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: Can I just say?
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: I got trolled by my dad yesterday for the fact
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: that I didn't know that archery the equivalent they go
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: into a cover. He was like, everyone knows that, No
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: they don't.
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: I thought the quiver was the feather on the I called.
• 24:04
  Speaker 4: It a purse, which was very embarrassing for him.
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: Let my parents down this morning. Cool now, good luck.
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: Hear more from Tony Street try we need to talk
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: Tony's health and lifestyle podcast. Now back to Coasts, Feel
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: Good Breakfast ketch Up with Tony Jas and Sam the.
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: Chass on Coast. I am rowan on fin taking her
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: on Jason today when I'll probably put it towards some
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: extra nice groceries, extra nice groceries. All the fancy cheese
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: and the fancy creekers.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: Lucks made your little box of Chocky's five hundred dollars
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: would be a nice grocery. Some wouldn't it.
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: It would be good definitely to Ron if you win
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: this on scorch Diarmonds, Now that is lucks every success
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: for a best of luck.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Okay, I'm going to see Jason out now. The Dad
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: is leaving the arena. I think that it's probably a
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: part at least three, maybe a part four today, just
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: judging on what I think Jase will get. I got
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: a four out of five for this one and had
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: no hope of getting the other one, which I think
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: is more of a male question. It's a very broad
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: breast stroke for me. But okay, are we ready to
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: go all the very best for five hundred dollars?
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: Rowing your time starts? Now? What song has the lyrics?
• 25:27
  Speaker 4: Because we are living in a material world?
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: Material? Yes?
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: What does DC stand for in DC comics? What is
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: the classic herb and Pesto sauce?
• 25:42
  Speaker 4: Yes?
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: What DreamWorks film will be dubbed into tare or Mardy?
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: What is the capital of Jamaica?
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: Oh, well done.
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: You're snuck in with that last one.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: Very solid three out of five. Right, we'll bring the
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: dad back in. Remember he has to get three out
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: of five to chase you and stop you getting the
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: five hundred dollars. Three out of five.
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: You're chasing Jason real solid one.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: One of the questions that Rowan didn't get was the
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: one I didn't get either.
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, it helps me none.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: I'm just going to go straight through here. Okay, Jack's
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: chasing a three out of five?
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: Your time starts?
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: Now? What song has the lyrics? Because we are living
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: in a material.
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: World material girl of the Dollar?
• 26:31
  Speaker 8: Yes?
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: What does DC stand for in DC Comics?
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: Projective comics?
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: Yes? What is the classic herb and Pesto sauces? Yes,
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: he's done it to think though, I know, would you
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: have got more than a three out of five? What
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: DreamWorks film will be dubbed into.
• 26:51
  Speaker 4: Deady or Marty Shrek? It is Shrek?
• 26:53
  Speaker 5: Yes?
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: And what is the capital of.
• 26:56
  Speaker 4: Jameica Kingston Town?
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: Well from the big men, thank you very much for
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: playing the Rowan What one did you not?
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: I didn't get DC comics, I got Kingston. I didn't
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: know it was Detective comics. Neither did Rowan. Rowan only
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: got that one wrong. And the Shrip question because if
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: you hadn't seen the Shrek one, you know you don't
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: know what you don't know. And there have been quite
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: a few Disney movies turned into today. That's right, you know,
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: the last one was in canto last wreck.
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: Yes, thank you very much playing the role we now
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: played for six hundred dollars tomorrow.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: We need to talk now about menopause, and I've talked
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: about this quite a lot on coast because we've done
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: a whole series of We Need to Talk podcasts, which
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: you can listen to right now on iHeartRadio under We
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: Need to Talk or wherever you listen to your podcasts,
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: and a lot of them are the top leading experts
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: in the world, like the Doctor Menopause and Stacy sim
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Sim's who tells us how to work out when we're
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: in perry or menopause and what's symptom to look out for.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: This new documentary is being heralded as the one everyone
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: has to watch, not just women, but mean because if
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: you've got a female partner, then you want to be
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: supportive and you want to understand what is happening. Because
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: one of the podcasts I did was around how menopause
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: leads to divorce, and it does because these are period
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: in women's lives that if they're not across these symptoms
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: and on top of them, it can make you feel
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: like you are going crazy. And this can happen for
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: years and years and years. So this new docco is
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: called the M Factor.
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: I'm a bored, sort.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: Of fatobiti am add an accredited program in this country.
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: I that lass than a month of training of manopas.
• 28:41
  Speaker 11: Actually, the idea the monopause puts a woman at a
• 28:45
  Speaker 11: disadvantage has nothing to do with biology and everything to.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: Do with culture and medical history. And so I last
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: a lot of the confidence and the one thing that
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: I knew how to do. If I can't add, if
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: I can't read the teller prompter and the words that
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: are in front of me, I can't be a journalist.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: Then you get like horpe fluctuations. And I thought, Okay,
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: it's just that I'm having a panic attack. So the
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: mountain masses with your mental safety, Oh, that onlyostly speaks
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: to me. And I've got a lot of friends who
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: have resisted HRT because of quote the epidemic of misinformation
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: around the treatment, and essentially the backstory to that is
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: for a long long time, a study was sort of
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: touted as the why you shouldn't use HRT because it
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: can lead to breast cancer That has been completely dispelled now,
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: and yes there are risks of your someone that's had
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: breast cancer or a predisposed to it, but they far
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: outweigh the positives and the help you can get for
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: your health and your brain health by taking HRT and
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: I went on it as a thirty nine year old
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: and it has been a game changer for me, particularly
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: around joints and just dealing with all the perimenopausal symptoms.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: So I will be watching this documentary. Apparently lots of
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: women in the States are getting together of having watched parties.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: It drops on October the seventeenth, so as we get
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: closer to it, will remind you of this thing coming
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  Speaker 1: out and let you know where we can get it.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: It's looking like it will be on Netflix.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so is it infector the M Factor? The M Factor?
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  Speaker 3: I'll tell you what. Watch it and make sure if
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: you've got a man in your world, make sure he watches.
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  Speaker 4: It with you chain him down.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: What's your attitude towards dopamine hits? Because I saw this
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  Speaker 1: on Instagram and I thought, oh gosh, this is so
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  Speaker 1: true and it's something that I think as adults we
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  Speaker 1: can fall foul of and setting quite a bad example,
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  Speaker 1: for our children and grandchildren. So have a listen to this.
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  Speaker 1: Dopamine culture is taking over. The constant need to be
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: doing something is ruining our mental health and why it's
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  Speaker 1: important to embrace slow living. And I have to say,
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: I live my life at breakneck speed. I think, well,
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  Speaker 1: you do two jays. You're always doing things, always going
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  Speaker 1: from one place to the other. When do you actually
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: ever sit down and just do nothing? When you tell
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  Speaker 1: me when late late.
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  Speaker 3: In the afternoon, hopefully right before I go get the
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  Speaker 3: kids from school, it might have like half another exactly.
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  Speaker 1: And the question is when you get that, and I know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like this, You get that half an hour to yourself,
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  Speaker 1: and I get a little bit antsie because I go,
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  Speaker 1: what am I doing? And then you feel like you're
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  Speaker 1: wasting that half an hour and you're like, I could
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  Speaker 1: be achieving something else, But actually you don't need to
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  Speaker 1: achieve anything. You probably your brain just needs to rest
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  Speaker 1: and not have to do anything. So have a listen
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  Speaker 1: to this. A dopamine culture is sinking instant gratification and
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  Speaker 1: constant stimulation, whether it's through technology, consumerism, social media, and
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  Speaker 1: some form of entertainment. The fastest growing sector of the
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  Speaker 1: culture economy is distraction or call it scrolling or swiping
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  Speaker 1: or wasting time or whatever you want. But it's not
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: art or entertainment, just ceaseless activity. So it's actually not
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: something like entertainment could be going to a show, we're
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: not still talking about that. We're talking about aimless filling
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  Speaker 1: your distraction.
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  Speaker 3: Even that half hour I might here to sit down,
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  Speaker 3: altern the TV on, I'll pick my phone off, start scrolling.
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  Speaker 1: And the key is this type of stimulus only lasts
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  Speaker 1: for a few seconds, and it has to be repeated.
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  Speaker 1: It's a huge business and will soon be larger than
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: arts and entertainment combined. Everything is getting turned into a
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  Speaker 1: TikTok and aptly named platform for a business based on
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: stimuli that must be repeated after only a few ticks
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  Speaker 1: of the clock. Right, So that's what we're talking about here.
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  Speaker 1: So listen to this slow living versus dopamine culture. How
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  Speaker 1: we consume content, experiences change our nervous system response, and
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: so that's what they're saying. If you don't slow down,
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: if you're constantly in the state, this is what it's
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  Speaker 1: going to have. Slow Traditional culture for athletics, for example,
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  Speaker 1: is playing a sport fast modern culture is watching a sport.
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  Speaker 1: The dopamine culture is gambling on a sport.
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  Speaker 5: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: Right, So that's how it progresses. Let's take music, so
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  Speaker 1: albums with the slow traditional culture, fast modern culture is
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  Speaker 1: tracks and the dopamine culture the hit of that is
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  Speaker 1: a TikTok. Right, it's two seconds, it's a few seconds,
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  Speaker 1: and then you repeat, repeat, repeat. Okay, let's do communication.
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  Speaker 1: So it started as a slow traditional culture of handwritten letters,
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: it progressed to the fast modern culture of.
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  Speaker 4: Voice, email and memos.
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  Speaker 1: We're now into short texts, so our communication has been
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: cut short.
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  Speaker 3: How many times have you heard people that I don't
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  Speaker 3: leave your messag, don't even get my voice, visiness flip
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  Speaker 3: your text?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Possibly the most alarming of all of these examples
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  Speaker 1: is how our relationship has gone so slow. Traditional culture
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  Speaker 1: for relationships was courtship and marriage. Vast modern culture has
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: become sexual freedom. And then dopamine culture is you swipe
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  Speaker 1: on an app and you get.
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  Speaker 4: What you want.
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  Speaker 1: Isn't it terrible to think? And I look at it
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  Speaker 1: and I go oh, that is literally the destruction.
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  Speaker 4: Of our worlds society.
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  Speaker 1: So it gives you a decreased attention span. It gives
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  Speaker 1: you emotional dysregulation, and it gives you a loss of meaning.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: So pursuing only what feels good in the moment can
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  Speaker 1: lead to a supervicial life focused on pleasure, leaving little
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: room for actual purpose, deeper connections, or meaningful achievement. And
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: then we wonder why our mental health stats are so shocking.
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  Speaker 3: You're so right, I tell you, honestly, They've said it before.
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  Speaker 3: I've set up for so many years. Slow down today,
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: take time to smell the roses, all the definitels there
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  Speaker 3: out in the spring right now, and don't.
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: Look for the quick fix. I think we're looking for
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: that in all ways. And I'm going to share this
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  Speaker 1: on our socials because I think everyone needs to read.
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  Speaker 3: You need to read letters, so can but take them
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  Speaker 3: moment to do it. Don't swipe across it. Let it soakin.
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: We were lucky enough to be invited to a New
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: Zealand's innovation center. We're basically inside a building they've recreated
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: in aircraft.
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  Speaker 1: It was so good to experience all the different types
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  Speaker 1: of travel, from economy to premium economy, business lucks.
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  Speaker 3: That's unreal. And so the screen's going to get bigger
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: and when you lean back in your seat, You're not
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: going to actually lean back. It's the weird way they've
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  Speaker 3: designed their seats. It's not going to affect the person
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  Speaker 3: behind you. No more seat was And we caught it
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  Speaker 3: with Kylie, who's the customer experience general manager, and we
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: said to Kylie, Okay, so all these new big changes
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  Speaker 3: and the new snacks are coming too.
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  Speaker 7: We are.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, in fact, I've already started rolling out. So if
• 34:51
  Speaker 11: you're like, you're someone chips they are available.
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  Speaker 3: Also. I wanted to say congratulations on the Fijo popcorn.
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: Not everyone's covering tea, but I love it.
• 34:59
  Speaker 4: I love that.
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  Speaker 1: Who I also loved the sky Nest. Can you just
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: talk us through the features of that again, because I
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: think this will be so appealing to people, no matter
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  Speaker 1: what class they're sitting in.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, the sky Nest is essentially a set of six
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  Speaker 11: bunk beds. They can be purchased for a four hour
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  Speaker 11: slot and you can get by that from the Economy
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  Speaker 11: cabin or the Premium Economy cabin. So a great option
• 35:22
  Speaker 11: if you want to get a life flat bed life
• 35:24
  Speaker 11: flat sleeping. The price is yet to be determined, but
• 35:28
  Speaker 11: yet it'll come with some immenities to make that experience
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  Speaker 11: really comfortable.
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  Speaker 3: So how do you wake up after you have you
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  Speaker 3: four hours, right and you've fallen asleep near a deep slumber,
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  Speaker 3: how do you wake up shaken away? Is it going
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: to be an alarm? How do you shake it? How
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  Speaker 3: does that happen?
• 35:40
  Speaker 4: We're going to be pretty well.
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: Make sure it's comfortable for you.
• 35:44
  Speaker 11: So the lighting will slowly increase so to naturally wake
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  Speaker 11: you up. There way bit of moving around is the
• 35:50
  Speaker 11: crew come in just to get the thing set up
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  Speaker 11: for the next slot. So yeah, it should be a
• 35:54
  Speaker 11: pretty natural process.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: To wake up. And one of the things I was
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: captured by was the difference in screens that you've got
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: in the different class levels. They are much bigger.
• 36:04
  Speaker 11: Yeah, each cabin has an increase in size and right
• 36:08
  Speaker 11: up to the twenty four inch that's available in the
• 36:10
  Speaker 11: Business Premiere cabin. And not only do we have an
• 36:14
  Speaker 11: increased size in the screen, but you can also use
• 36:16
  Speaker 11: your own device, so you can be using your own
• 36:18
  Speaker 11: device to be watching things like the flight map and
• 36:21
  Speaker 11: watching entertainment on the screen.
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: And also one of the great things about the new
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: seats is the more seat waves. If someone in front
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: of you reclines, their seat doesn't affect you at all. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: premium economy.
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  Speaker 11: That's been our big improvement there where we have a
• 36:33
  Speaker 11: hard shell and so if you recline, you don't have
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  Speaker 11: to feel awkward about taking out the person behind you,
• 36:38
  Speaker 11: taking out their space.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: You can just relax and recline and enjoy it. Speaking
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: of awkward, it's awkward when you keep buzzing the buzzer
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: to get snacks, right, and so you've come up with
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: sky pantry.
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  Speaker 11: We have sky pantry will offer all sorts of different
• 36:52
  Speaker 11: snacks and beverages, so customers can get up and help
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  Speaker 11: themselves if they're pecket, and yeah, serve themselves, don't have
• 36:58
  Speaker 11: to bother their the to get the items.
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  Speaker 1: Is there a limit my partial to the Fijorn, I'm
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  Speaker 1: just saying we haven't.
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  Speaker 3: We haven't enforced a limit at this point.
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  Speaker 1: We think will be okay the for now.
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: For now they'll be okay.
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  Speaker 1: Honestly, that sky pantry that is going to create a buzz.
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  Speaker 3: I tell you it's amazing. So some incredible things there
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: and keep it on Instagram and facebo at Coast Breakfast
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  Speaker 3: because we'll show you some of the things that we
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: walked through and Tony got to experience the acial sky nest.
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  Speaker 1: Right, oh Man sky Ness. We can lie flat for
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  Speaker 1: four hours and just book that session.
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