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A Shoulder To Cry On Is A D**k To Ride On Feat @Billy.TheBadGuy (Part One) · So Shameless

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  Speaker 1: If you know what I'm saying, so so shameless, If
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, dude, so shameless. If you
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, so samous, so shameless, so so
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  Speaker 1: so shameless.
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  Speaker 2: If you know what I'm saying, so.
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  Speaker 1: Shameless, If you know what I'm saying, so shameless, If
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, so shameless, if you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, so shamus.
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  Speaker 3: You know this is cool. This is how we're starting
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  Speaker 3: to show you wreck.
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  Speaker 2: Never used that word, nobody.
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  Speaker 4: Concerning what the mic was.
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  Speaker 5: Look like a phallic symbol.
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  Speaker 2: You're Trump.
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  Speaker 4: You're literally bumping against my thousands dollars painting and I
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  Speaker 4: don't know why can you move?
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  Speaker 5: Move up?
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  Speaker 6: Did you like forget how to talk to people? I
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  Speaker 6: just know that's the question, Like, have you forgotten how
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  Speaker 6: to talk to people? Instead of saying, hey, Trump, can
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  Speaker 6: you slide up a little bit? You literally said you're
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  Speaker 6: you're touching my thousand dollars of paint, Like, what is
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  Speaker 6: your fucking problem today?
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  Speaker 5: I'm trying thousands dollars. He knows the cost, but.
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  Speaker 3: That's not the point. Why didn't you just say, hey, friend,
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  Speaker 3: can you slide up? Because you're bumping. The painting.
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  Speaker 4: Is because you know you've been.
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  Speaker 2: You can do whatever you want. That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: I'm blurting and I'm enjoying.
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  Speaker 3: The ruckets is causing a harbinger chaos.
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  Speaker 5: I feel I feel so, I feel so. Is that
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  Speaker 5: a boss Red Sox hat?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Only half today? Is it? What if? It's? It
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  Speaker 2: could be wherever the want to be?
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  Speaker 3: Now? We had about he's a guest. Calm the fuck
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  Speaker 3: down yesterday. He's a guest.
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  Speaker 6: We're not going to attack the guest the way that
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  Speaker 6: we tried to attack you. And you didn't even know
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  Speaker 6: what hat you was wearing.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, I did know you did not, but it's it's
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  Speaker 4: black and white though, Why you have a black and white.
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  Speaker 2: I took it off myself when I was teaming. We're
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  Speaker 2: all black today?
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  Speaker 4: But why Trump? Do you know why there's a black
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  Speaker 4: and white boss? And Red Sox hat?
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  Speaker 2: Billy actually, id Billy.
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  Speaker 3: Shout out to Spike Lee. He's He's the reason why
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  Speaker 3: you know, Big spis like so much is going on
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  Speaker 3: in the world.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my god, what a fucking week.
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  Speaker 5: Spe guy up. She did. She didn't get beat up though.
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  Speaker 2: Not beat up, but she did get a bad fight.
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  Speaker 3: I was.
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  Speaker 2: I was shocked.
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  Speaker 3: What was you shocked about?
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  Speaker 2: That? She was with all of it.
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  Speaker 4: She was with all of it from the Bronx, but
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  Speaker 4: she had the curly curl thing going on at first.
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  Speaker 3: She's from the Bronx.
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  Speaker 5: What was it like Annie?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, you know what I'm saying. She liked Annie for
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  Speaker 4: mad long with a fatty. I never thought looked at
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  Speaker 4: Annie that way.
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  Speaker 3: You wasn't supposed to child?
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  Speaker 2: It was not, that was not I think?
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  Speaker 5: But wait, Velma? Was was your child?
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  Speaker 2: To Velma?
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  Speaker 3: Was she a child?
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  Speaker 2: A bunch of grown.
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  Speaker 5: Ups riding around the mysteries?
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  Speaker 2: It what? It wasn't at least?
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  Speaker 3: But you was a teenager when started.
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  Speaker 4: So many times she's like, she's like, my fantasy's my
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  Speaker 4: freaky fantasy. You don't have a freaky fantasy cartoon? Who
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  Speaker 4: would it be if it's a dude? They don't say,
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  Speaker 4: don't say shaggy.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, it probably wouldn't be a cartoon though, like
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  Speaker 2: hold on which rod with the cartoon? I don't think
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  Speaker 2: I'm jerking off to a cartoon. You know what this?
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna give me the Homie Court music.
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  Speaker 3: Oh I haven't.
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  Speaker 7: I went to Homy Court Musica taking a Homi.
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  Speaker 4: Court this Boston Red Sox, Billy bad As.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to fight today.
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  Speaker 4: How are you feeling today? I gotta say your tromp
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  Speaker 4: and Dodge. I apologize for stress y'all out last week,
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  Speaker 4: but y'all did an amazing job. I thought y'all did
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  Speaker 4: an amazing job. Seriously, I need that Homie Court music.
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  Speaker 4: As soon as you got it, you got smoke with me, Yo.
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  Speaker 7: Apparently, Billy, I'm sorry I woke up today, Bill, I
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  Speaker 7: got it.
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  Speaker 8: Go ahead, Dodge.
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  Speaker 5: This is holy Court and it's so shameless.
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  Speaker 8: Justice system friendship based offenses are considered, especially in veins.
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  Speaker 4: These are their.
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  Speaker 7: Stories, Okay, So hold on, I just want to start
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  Speaker 7: this by saying, so I woke up today, Billy. You know,
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  Speaker 7: like every day I jump into Discord try to tappen
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  Speaker 7: with the audience, and I've seen Town leave a very
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  Speaker 7: interesting comment right.
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  Speaker 5: And I was like, like, Yo, you know what made
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  Speaker 5: you go with that verse? Like?
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  Speaker 7: And he was like, Christine was like yo, recording today
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  Speaker 7: with Billy guys, you know, everybody's like oh yeah. So
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  Speaker 7: I was like, yeah, I finited Billy a new asshole,
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  Speaker 7: and I'm like context matters, and that's what I was
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  Speaker 7: trying to figure out. So yes, time please, you.
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  Speaker 2: Did you trying to do that?
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  Speaker 4: You're really trying to make it sound nasty?
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  Speaker 2: Tell me a new asshole?
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  Speaker 5: And yeah, why does it have to be gay?
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  Speaker 2: You're just a person.
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  Speaker 5: Everything has to be sexual.
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  Speaker 2: Nigga. You just said my Michael, and he's the only
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  Speaker 2: allowing in my life.
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  Speaker 5: I said it looked erec. You had it upwards under
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  Speaker 5: your sound.
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  Speaker 3: You today, he has been.
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  Speaker 2: Today. I might be okay.
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  Speaker 4: Bit on my show, Billy came to the last hard
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  Speaker 4: or soft play party, had a great time. I listened
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  Speaker 4: to your episode, Billy.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't say nothing bad.
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  Speaker 4: You actually said you? Actually I recorded some of it.
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  Speaker 4: Would you like to hear.
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  Speaker 5: We got him.
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  Speaker 9: I didn't say nothing bad. I ain't say nothing bad.
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  Speaker 9: I've been telling people coming to the next one.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you been, I didn't say nothing. Be on your
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  Speaker 2: hat stands for bands, nigga. No, yes, you.
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  Speaker 4: Didn't come to do nothing but scrutinize the whole thing.
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  Speaker 2: Nigga.
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  Speaker 4: You said the food might have salmonella from juices a pussy.
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  Speaker 3: This is what you said.
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  Speaker 2: Nobody the recording. Would you like the hero?
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  Speaker 3: I love to stay in the kitchen normally.
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  Speaker 4: And I just eat mad Wings who works in health
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  Speaker 4: and safety.
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  Speaker 2: It's not just you. I don't really eat baby shows
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  Speaker 2: like that either. People might have dog hands and pussing together.
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  Speaker 10: I was like, I don't pussy I. So then my
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  Speaker 10: nigga was like, I do both. So I said, oh, okay,
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  Speaker 10: you answer for a nigga, so you couldn't sult in me.
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  Speaker 10: So the nigga was like, well, good thing, I do
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  Speaker 10: both too. He said, you want to come. What was
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  Speaker 10: the secret to you taking care of like bagging all
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  Speaker 10: those women?
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  Speaker 2: Because this is your dad crazy?
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  Speaker 3: How many crazy?
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  Speaker 4: He was going crazy in this episode. Anybody wants to listen,
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  Speaker 4: go to the Needs to Be Studied podcast on YouTube.
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  Speaker 2: I said it was a good show.
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  Speaker 3: That is a good show, you said, he started with great.
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  Speaker 5: He said it wasn't great.
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  Speaker 2: You know what's crazy. I swear to god. I didn't
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  Speaker 2: say it wasn't great. I knew, bro, I swear to God.
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  Speaker 9: When I was editing it, watching it, I was like,
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  Speaker 9: watch the whole pick my words, because that's not how
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  Speaker 9: I meant it.
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  Speaker 10: I know, like, you're just seeing people have sex and
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  Speaker 10: then there's a bunch of beads there and you just
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  Speaker 10: see a lot of eating pussy.
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  Speaker 5: You hit a tone eating pussy, a lot of.
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  Speaker 2: Fingers in a lot of toes behind it, Like.
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  Speaker 5: I think, what a smell like in them?
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  Speaker 3: No wolves?
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  Speaker 4: And I said it wasn't good.
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  Speaker 3: I said, it is my.
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  Speaker 2: Whoa wolf? When I see.
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  Speaker 5: You said what is smell like there?
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  Speaker 2: I actually said the best one I went to. That's
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  Speaker 2: the only show.
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  Speaker 3: Somebody chat said, bring wolf next time.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't say it on the show, but it.
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  Speaker 3: Was I say on the show, but I said it
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  Speaker 3: like in my life.
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  Speaker 2: It was good.
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  Speaker 9: I didn't say anything bad about it, say anything.
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  Speaker 2: Bad, but this is the thing.
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  Speaker 3: But he didn't say anything good enough for you.
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  Speaker 4: So this real combo. And this goes into other conversations
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  Speaker 4: that I want to have, right, I.
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  Speaker 2: Can't say something yes on the when I was talking
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  Speaker 2: about the.
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  Speaker 5: Food, he got the Mike e wrecked again.
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  Speaker 2: That way.
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  Speaker 9: First of all the food, Nigga said he was the
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  Speaker 9: only he the only motherfuckers in the clothes in the basement,
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  Speaker 9: the clothes.
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  Speaker 2: And he was bragging about it. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: No, there was a no close policy downstairs. I mean
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  Speaker 4: we had on out closed.
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  Speaker 9: I mean the food thing because somebody roll. Somebody roll
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  Speaker 9: in the comments like, oh, I made the food. The
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  Speaker 9: food I heard was really good. It's always heard the
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  Speaker 9: food was good. That wasn't It was just me Like
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  Speaker 9: I have a person. I'm a person with my food
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  Speaker 9: henders license. I don't play with my team.
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  Speaker 2: We don't.
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  Speaker 9: I'm serious about food protection. Like I go to my
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  Speaker 9: mother's house, I make sure her, but I don't want
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  Speaker 9: to get sick. Like that's what I'm just talking about
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  Speaker 9: for fried chicken. But when the food is out out
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  Speaker 9: four hours is in temperature dangers on? When I take
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  Speaker 9: the kitchen off, the grip off the stove in my house.
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  Speaker 4: That's that you keep writing the refrigerator series store right
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  Speaker 4: two days?
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  Speaker 3: It's not supposed to last morning to you, Rice.
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  Speaker 2: Has been refrigerating longing into that.
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  Speaker 3: No, you know I do, but you're not supposed to.
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  Speaker 5: Like, Yo, how long did you keep writing refrigerating? Lord?
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  Speaker 2: Nigger? You can say it, because I'm sure it's worse
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  Speaker 2: for me.
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  Speaker 4: I'm in there to the bottom of the ship turns
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  Speaker 4: like it's right, the water is draining.
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  Speaker 9: Hum that's the choice you maybe weeks? No, Like I
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  Speaker 9: mean I'm telling you, I I have a thermoma at home.
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  Speaker 9: I will take a picture and show you and my chicken.
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  Speaker 9: Your chicken suposed to be cooked over one sixty five
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  Speaker 9: and no, it's done.
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  Speaker 4: You had your thermomina at my play party too, was
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  Speaker 4: taking the temperature everybody's penis and mouths and everything.
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  Speaker 3: You wasn't coming there that you wasn't voyeuring.
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  Speaker 2: You weren't voy ing.
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  Speaker 4: You were like watching your person that you knew came
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  Speaker 4: up and was like, hey, Billy, I used to work
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  Speaker 4: with you.
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  Speaker 2: He's like, oh, you freaked that she was here?
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  Speaker 5: What the fuck?
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  Speaker 2: Yoa with your hair too? Your hair too? How you
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  Speaker 2: calling house for being there and.
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  Speaker 3: You would there too?
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  Speaker 2: Are you trying to gas like me?
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  Speaker 3: I love the tea this is I'm.
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  Speaker 2: So happy trying to gas like me and my bugging.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody there is a freaking bitch, yes or no, except
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  Speaker 2: for you.
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  Speaker 4: Your man wanted to be a man mentioned the private
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  Speaker 4: room and he was like, why fuck you worried about private.
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  Speaker 2: Room because we had a conversation before, so bring up.
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  Speaker 2: You can't say it is a private room. He could
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  Speaker 2: have just been me and you, but you was automatically.
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  Speaker 2: You was there. You're automatic.
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  Speaker 3: He was there as a journalist. Yes, let me say
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  Speaker 3: this on camera.
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  Speaker 2: I've been in two other play parties with my nigga.
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  Speaker 3: Let me see, don't get up get up here.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, we're my nigga, and we agreed that your play
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  Speaker 9: party was the best play party we've been to. We
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  Speaker 9: love how blackly black it was. We loved how open
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  Speaker 9: everybody was. I met a few supporters in there. You know,
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  Speaker 9: I knew a lot of people in there, so I
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  Speaker 9: would never judge to anybody else for that.
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  Speaker 2: Compared to yours, Yours was ready, elegant and elevated.
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  Speaker 9: Compared to the other ones I went to, Okay, he
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  Speaker 9: went to another one with a hole in the wall.
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  Speaker 9: He was like, Nah, this is the best one. And
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  Speaker 9: we said that we will bring our friends to the
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  Speaker 9: next one.
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  Speaker 5: Just scrutinized.
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  Speaker 2: I would never scrutinize. I know what. I came in
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  Speaker 2: here and.
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  Speaker 4: You said, if the girl that you was with starts
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  Speaker 4: eating box, you out of here.
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  Speaker 3: I was scrutinizing her exactly, like, damn this place. She
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  Speaker 3: can't she can't be free, she can't get her boy,
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  Speaker 3: not for me.
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  Speaker 2: Fuck what the fuck you bring up? You was going
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  Speaker 2: to judge.
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  Speaker 9: Also taking to consideration. It's called podding. I was potting,
• 13:43
  Speaker 9: don't you I'm potting right now.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, so he it was called the nut gallop by.
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  Speaker 4: That was funny.
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  Speaker 2: It was a great And if I'm not being I'm
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  Speaker 2: just coming. Next time I look at a conversation like, yo,
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  Speaker 2: next time, you'll probably do in there. But I would never.
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  Speaker 3: So the first that you was just vetting.
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  Speaker 6: You were just kind of like seeing getting getting the scene.
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  Speaker 2: Like, don't don't put that, don't put that on me.
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  Speaker 2: That was not the food in the commons today, I said,
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  Speaker 2: I know the outlines. Yeah, I know they What.
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  Speaker 4: Did you think you was at the play party recently?
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  Speaker 2: You went to do.
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  Speaker 4: You're the only one that wasn't there? Yeah, you literally don't.
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  Speaker 3: That's crazy. Sorry, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't know. There was no close policy. I only
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  Speaker 5: been downstairs once.
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  Speaker 3: You never go downstairs, you'd be right.
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  Speaker 4: Check did you see did you look around or did
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  Speaker 4: you try not to look?
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  Speaker 5: It was just a lot of bodies. It's nuts.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it is my favorite spot. That's why I like
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  Speaker 3: to stay there.
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  Speaker 4: By the way, I did enjoy Billy's today. Seriously, there
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  Speaker 4: was a moment Oh god that say yes, I was like, yo,
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  Speaker 4: Billy really didn't fall far from the tree for real.
• 15:14
  Speaker 4: He called his dad on the pot. Can I play?
• 15:18
  Speaker 4: Can I pay this? Play this?
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  Speaker 2: Wait?
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  Speaker 5: What yo? Yoh?
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: I hate him?
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  Speaker 5: Yo?
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  Speaker 10: What was the sequence to you taking care of like
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  Speaker 10: bagging all those women?
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  Speaker 2: Because my friends don't believe that you have all those kids?
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  Speaker 10: So how did you get all that all that pussy
• 15:38
  Speaker 10: back in the day.
• 15:40
  Speaker 11: Was keeping him along?
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: Cocaine?
• 15:52
  Speaker 12: You want to be.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, I just told the people that I always deal
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  Speaker 10: with my mother was my mother was on cocaine.
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  Speaker 9: Listen, you asked me a question.
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  Speaker 1: Question, what answer?
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  Speaker 13: Now?
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  Speaker 7: You know what?
• 16:14
  Speaker 10: How you know what she was going?
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  Speaker 2: My mother was on cocaine. Fucking niggah? What you get
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  Speaker 2: him saying?
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  Speaker 10: So then my my friend also said, did your dad
• 16:26
  Speaker 10: have money back in the day? And I said, you
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  Speaker 10: used to be a drug dealer in a pimp.
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  Speaker 2: Can you talk to us about her pimp? Das gadsball?
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  Speaker 1: Fuck you up again because I talk about my PEPs day.
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  Speaker 4: If I was a drug dealer and of pimps, right,
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  Speaker 4: which one was your mother?
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  Speaker 2: At least she got all her teeth, bitch.
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  Speaker 13: Anyway, really you got it, you got it? Really, But
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  Speaker 13: that's my father. Imagine my siblings, like.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, how many are they?
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  Speaker 9: I have twenty one siblings all together when I just
• 17:06
  Speaker 9: met my brother, So now twenty two. I just met
• 17:09
  Speaker 9: my brother at the barber shop recently.
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  Speaker 3: How you know?
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  Speaker 9: Because my mother was my brother, I always heard that
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  Speaker 9: I had I always had I had a brother, and
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  Speaker 9: I always heard his name. But I was like, I'm
• 17:19
  Speaker 9: the first son, you know, older brother. So one day
• 17:22
  Speaker 9: my uncle was like, oh, you know your brother. So
• 17:24
  Speaker 9: I'm like I right, So now I'm calling my other siblings.
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  Speaker 9: I was like, we have a brother named such and such.
• 17:30
  Speaker 9: He was like, yeah, we already heard of him, but
• 17:31
  Speaker 9: my sister knew someone that knew him, and then we
• 17:34
  Speaker 9: hit him up. He was like, yeah, that's my father.
• 17:36
  Speaker 9: So we was on the group FaceTime talking about everything.
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  Speaker 9: So then we go to I was just in the
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  Speaker 9: barber shop and then he goes down and he was
• 17:44
  Speaker 9: like yo, and I'm like, nah, I get the fuck
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  Speaker 9: out of here, and he was like yo. And then
• 17:49
  Speaker 9: we just started talking from there and Barber's like, yo,
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  Speaker 9: this is my best friend for a minute, and that's
• 17:53
  Speaker 9: how and my father was like, yeah, that is your brother.
• 17:56
  Speaker 5: That's sick.
• 17:57
  Speaker 9: Yeah, how does that feel though, I would be like, actually,
• 18:01
  Speaker 9: I'm disappointed in him because if he was in my
• 18:04
  Speaker 9: life as a brother, maybe I wouldn't be gay.
• 18:10
  Speaker 14: Yo, Billy, Yo, come on man, Billy, what are we doing?
• 18:14
  Speaker 9: No, you can't because I had no person in my
• 18:22
  Speaker 9: life to teach me.
• 18:24
  Speaker 5: How not to be gay.
• 18:25
  Speaker 6: But if your father was a pimp, it had to
• 18:27
  Speaker 6: be a slew of bitches around that was enough to
• 18:29
  Speaker 6: tell to take your.
• 18:30
  Speaker 9: Father took my sister in the wing. Now she gay
• 18:32
  Speaker 9: and she fucking bitches. But my father didn't want to
• 18:35
  Speaker 9: deal with me and my mother. So now I'm over
• 18:37
  Speaker 9: here to learning how to be a bad bitch with
• 18:38
  Speaker 9: my mother and her friends.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: And if my brother was there, my brother would have
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: taught me, Like, you're.
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: Gonna put that on your brother and not your dad?
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: Is my brother? No, ain't gonna lie to you, Billy.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: That's a bull ship you on right now? Real quick.
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: This is there's a lot of gay people that don't
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: funk with, Billy.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: Why what you're doing on God?
• 19:02
  Speaker 5: So you don't feel like you.
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: Are you the gay?
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah you're the gay? But I don't even call myself gay?
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: Am my gay? Because yes, with me, something I don't plan.
• 19:13
  Speaker 6: You've got a man and you that literally makes you.
• 19:16
  Speaker 6: Those are the two defining factors of making a nigga gay.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: Why can't make me billy? Like? Why you gotta give
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: me a label?
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: But Billy is gay?
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: Sorry you question?
• 19:35
  Speaker 15: So yo, you feel like you were born gay or
• 19:44
  Speaker 15: you became gay through circumstances and how you grew up.
• 19:48
  Speaker 9: I always share this story too. I think I enjoy
• 19:56
  Speaker 9: sucking dick through being molested.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: As a child.
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: Like, you can't say that.
• 20:01
  Speaker 5: I'm not doing this with y'all.
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: I'm not doing this.
• 20:07
  Speaker 15: I just had this conversation the other day and somebody
• 20:13
  Speaker 15: was trying to tell me that most gay people have
• 20:16
  Speaker 15: been molested and became gay, and I didn't necessarily believe
• 20:22
  Speaker 15: that people are born gay. And I'm just like, oh,
• 20:25
  Speaker 15: that's interesting.
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: I wouldn't say most I'm not gay, but if I
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: would have with my interaction, I wouldn't say most. A
• 20:35
  Speaker 4: lot of people that have sexual deviances or different from
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: the norm, right. I don't mean to say being the
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: gay is sexual devious, but kink and ship like that,
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: they all have had some issue early in their life,
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: so I can't imagine that, right mostly, but.
• 20:55
  Speaker 9: I guess and this is a trigger one for anybody
• 21:01
  Speaker 9: growing up. My baby, my baby said, used to be like,
• 21:03
  Speaker 9: let's play high and seek. It used to be me
• 21:05
  Speaker 9: and him and mad other kids, right, but he will
• 21:07
  Speaker 9: always have the other kids high and then let me play.
• 21:11
  Speaker 9: So suck and dick became a normal thing to me.
• 21:14
  Speaker 9: But I never know I was doing anything wrong. So
• 21:17
  Speaker 9: I think in life I just became a creature. I
• 21:19
  Speaker 9: have it if I know how to suck dick and
• 21:23
  Speaker 9: his regular I want to sell everybody's dick. And then
• 21:27
  Speaker 9: I became promiscuit, so I think that had something to
• 21:30
  Speaker 9: do with it. And then I always was attracted to
• 21:34
  Speaker 9: men after that, and that's probably why, like matching everything up.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: I had girlfriends at the time.
• 21:40
  Speaker 9: I think I told you before I cheated on my
• 21:42
  Speaker 9: girlfriend with her best friend who's a man.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I think that's the only explanation. Being born gay.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: I don't know if you could be born gay, I
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: don't know.
• 21:52
  Speaker 9: I can't relate to that, but I know my mother
• 21:54
  Speaker 9: always told me, like, no straight man like Beyonce as
• 21:57
  Speaker 9: much as you.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: Like, be honest, that was wan be a sign too.
• 22:01
  Speaker 5: How old were you.
• 22:04
  Speaker 10: I was?
• 22:04
  Speaker 9: It happened for a few years. I would say between
• 22:06
  Speaker 9: maybe ages of seven and eight. It's probably like, oh,
• 22:09
  Speaker 9: I've been twelve.
• 22:10
  Speaker 5: I like Beyonce, not like me as much as you.
• 22:14
  Speaker 5: Most likely I didn't go to what.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: Why are you looking like that?
• 22:18
  Speaker 6: I am like, I just went on an emotional rollercoaster
• 22:21
  Speaker 6: and I'm trying to like figure out what I'm just
• 22:24
  Speaker 6: trying to, you know, get my and I'm.
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: So sorry that happened for real, Like I don't even
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: want to joke no more. That ship fucked me up.
• 22:30
  Speaker 4: What you just said?
• 22:31
  Speaker 5: For real?
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: Right, for real?
• 22:33
  Speaker 5: For real?
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: Say something funny so we can, okay, joke? What tell joke?
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: It appeared me to be the best either that I
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: am today?
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: Oh god, that's not funny.
• 22:43
  Speaker 7: That's not funny, Like, come on, man, like, can we
• 22:52
  Speaker 7: do like.
• 22:54
  Speaker 5: That?
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: How was that?
• 23:00
  Speaker 5: Either?
• 23:01
  Speaker 6: No, No, we can't talk about sucking dick for the
• 23:04
  Speaker 6: rest of the episode.
• 23:06
  Speaker 9: Now you can if you can always talk about second
• 23:08
  Speaker 9: dick at work. I'm not supposed to say that, but
• 23:12
  Speaker 9: I will.
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: Say, you're worried about the temperature of chicken. But you're
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: out here, you know.
• 23:17
  Speaker 9: But no, somebody said I need therapy, but I did
• 23:20
  Speaker 9: go therapy and I'm such I'm a person I've been
• 23:22
  Speaker 9: through so much of my life where nothing I don't
• 23:24
  Speaker 9: let things that happened in the past affect my presence.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: Said they did.
• 23:33
  Speaker 5: You just said your whole sexuality is based on.
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: Something happened to Like that, Like that's that's not an effect?
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: Mad at the world. Oh this happened to me. I'm
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: I had so much sh.
• 23:42
  Speaker 9: It happened to me as a kid that that doesn't
• 23:46
  Speaker 9: take away who I am now. And I'm building I'm
• 23:48
  Speaker 9: becoming a better person each and every day.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: Before I was talking kind.
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: I understand how that relates to you. I just kind
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: of find it hard to believe that people don't just
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: have their attract actions and that formed their thing, that's
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: their sexuality, Like it doesn't. I don't totally understanding what
• 24:08
  Speaker 4: happened you. I just find it hard to believe. Like
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: yesterday likes big chicks? Does that mean like he seemed
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: like something happened with him in a big chick when
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: he was young, a.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: Bigger probably bought him McDonald's in school yesterday. What happened?
• 24:26
  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, okay, all right, no, no, no, I like it.
• 24:31
  Speaker 13: I like it.
• 24:32
  Speaker 5: You're asking me, you're asking me, why do I like,
• 24:34
  Speaker 5: what was it? What was the moment?
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: Yeah, like did you get slapped by a big chicken
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: something when you was like in kindergarten And he's like,
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: I like that.
• 24:41
  Speaker 5: You know what it was?
• 24:42
  Speaker 7: I think for me when I was a kid, I
• 24:45
  Speaker 7: used to like when I used to be like with.
• 24:46
  Speaker 5: My mom or with my aunt.
• 24:47
  Speaker 7: And my mom took my own work that horizon, so
• 24:49
  Speaker 7: she had like a lot of coworkers, so he used
• 24:52
  Speaker 7: to be hug Yeah, like all of the women that
• 24:55
  Speaker 7: had like the arms and like legs.
• 24:58
  Speaker 5: Like I used to associated thickness with being grown.
• 25:01
  Speaker 7: So in my head when I grew up, it was
• 25:03
  Speaker 7: like I didn't really like girls my age because I
• 25:05
  Speaker 7: was like, yo, y'all look like kids don't eat enough
• 25:08
  Speaker 7: to like I need I need some arm I need
• 25:11
  Speaker 7: some me some rolls. I need some like you know
• 25:14
  Speaker 7: what I'm saying, some mixing risks type ship. So I
• 25:18
  Speaker 7: think that's remember I told you when I was a
• 25:22
  Speaker 7: kid that my first member I was on in the
• 25:23
  Speaker 7: early my first porn site. I was on jug Fuckers early,
• 25:28
  Speaker 7: Like I'm talking about before like when YouTube first launched,
• 25:32
  Speaker 7: like it was the Indian Lady. It was mad stuff
• 25:34
  Speaker 7: going on. But so this has been a thing for
• 25:36
  Speaker 7: a while. You might like my sister Wednesday.
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: Wednesday is crazy Wednesday, am I I want to go home?
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: Even need me today?
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: Name is Wednesday.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: I was.
• 25:59
  Speaker 6: Inflection and there's somebody voice when they say somebody, you
• 26:01
  Speaker 6: might like my sister Wednesday, But would you like my sister?
• 26:05
  Speaker 9: My sister looked like she drank grease for juice, so
• 26:10
  Speaker 9: you might like her.
• 26:10
  Speaker 5: She is big billy.
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: I want to send extra tromp. I want to send
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: extra tromp to I don't know what the fuck.
• 26:19
  Speaker 6: Is going on on this African American day in this
• 26:24
  Speaker 6: African American house. All right, Well, can I say that
• 26:31
  Speaker 6: I think that I am the only one I guess
• 26:34
  Speaker 6: in the.
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: Outside of the straits that I am.
• 26:38
  Speaker 6: I knew that I was attracted to girls more or
• 26:41
  Speaker 6: sooner than I found my attraction to men, And there
• 26:46
  Speaker 6: is there is a hierarchy there still in my life.
• 26:48
  Speaker 6: Have my husband tell it I'm a lesbian. He's like,
• 26:51
  Speaker 6: you just marry me, and I'm like, that's cool or whatever.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: But I knew I kissed the girl years.
• 27:00
  Speaker 6: Before I ever kissed the boy, and I thought she
• 27:03
  Speaker 6: was cute and I was like, I was the girl
• 27:04
  Speaker 6: that had like little crushes on my friends, like wanted
• 27:08
  Speaker 6: them close, not just because we was friends, but because
• 27:10
  Speaker 6: they was pretty. And I had like a little crush,
• 27:12
  Speaker 6: but I wouldn't say anything about it. I would just
• 27:14
  Speaker 6: like keep them close, you know. So maybe I'm the
• 27:17
  Speaker 6: only one here with with that I don't have.
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: I wasn't hugging bitches that made me feel like they are.
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: I had to I had to go back to the
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: normal sea.
• 27:29
  Speaker 5: I'm just curious about this stuff. So you were born
• 27:32
  Speaker 5: that way?
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: That way.
• 27:40
  Speaker 5: Got something.
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: I think we've been last week and we're just all
• 27:44
  Speaker 4: just fo up from last week.
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: Yes, Trump, I do believe that I was born this way.
• 27:48
  Speaker 6: I was born with an attraction for men and women,
• 27:51
  Speaker 6: but there is a strong I have a stronger attraction
• 27:54
  Speaker 6: for women than I do men, but I have a
• 27:57
  Speaker 6: higher tolerance for men than I do women.
• 28:00
  Speaker 7: The same Trump. I think I was born this way.
• 28:02
  Speaker 7: My mom actually told me, like last year, she was
• 28:04
  Speaker 7: like yo. When I was a baby, my dad had
• 28:07
  Speaker 7: told her he was like, yo, when he gets older,
• 28:10
  Speaker 7: he gonna like big girls. And she said that and
• 28:13
  Speaker 7: I was like, Dad asked, she was like yo. I
• 28:15
  Speaker 7: thought It was funny at the time, but as you
• 28:17
  Speaker 7: grew up, like you know, as I started to see
• 28:21
  Speaker 7: what you was on, she was like, Yo, this motherfucker.
• 28:24
  Speaker 9: What about the bigger Isn't that the meat off the
• 28:26
  Speaker 9: knee falling down to the lake?
• 28:30
  Speaker 7: Billy, I'm not doing you can tell your mic down.
• 28:36
  Speaker 6: I think maybe it's because he's maybe because he's he's slimmer.
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: He might like that, you know the extra I.
• 28:43
  Speaker 7: Think guys, guys, I think I just think that they're beautiful.
• 28:49
  Speaker 5: I like their you got point there, Like as a
• 28:52
  Speaker 5: slim dude, I like, yeah, bone on.
• 28:56
  Speaker 6: Bone friction, And I like, I have a very specific
• 29:02
  Speaker 6: archetype of woman that I like.
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: I don't. I don't like all women at all.
• 29:06
  Speaker 6: Like I'm very I'm way more choosy when it comes
• 29:09
  Speaker 6: to women than I am women.
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: And she has to have big titties. I don't like.
• 29:14
  Speaker 6: I don't like girls that don't have boobs because I
• 29:16
  Speaker 6: don't really have boobs, so like I want to lay
• 29:19
  Speaker 6: on them.
• 29:20
  Speaker 5: That's stomach I have I have.
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: I'm not Nope, man, the episode might be. You can't
• 29:38
  Speaker 4: say that that really might be the episode.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: I'm just thinking about. Like, at one point that I know.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: I was either, oh God, why are we back?
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: I'm not mature today.
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: I'm so terrified of your answer. Hope was on the show.
• 30:06
  Speaker 4: We've asked such a tumultuous a couple of weeks. It's
• 30:10
  Speaker 4: been serious, it's been I've had Hope on So Shameless,
• 30:14
  Speaker 4: then I had on Hart of soft and so Shameless
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: was was crazy in itself, right, but hard to soft
• 30:21
  Speaker 4: wind up happened a crazy moment as well when speaking
• 30:27
  Speaker 4: about what was the fucking oh men gay men trying
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: to holler at me that straight man right, let me
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: play the click.
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: That you specifically or straight was specifically?
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: This is what dud again, respectfully, can't higher at me?
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: If you know I like girls, and I guess if
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: you do, fine, you get your one off.
• 30:50
  Speaker 12: Fine was fun.
• 30:51
  Speaker 4: I can't keep Yeah, you can't keep hollering like that's crazy.
• 30:56
  Speaker 4: We could teach each other that man, the straight man
• 30:59
  Speaker 4: men right not to do that with women.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: Y'all ain't exhiptime. Yeah, it's the same play.
• 31:06
  Speaker 12: You just holing at me instead of you can't do that,
• 31:10
  Speaker 12: but d o culture hot, I think, And that's the thing,
• 31:13
  Speaker 12: because like y'all are not a part of our community
• 31:15
  Speaker 12: and y'all aren't DL, so like, I don't think that
• 31:17
  Speaker 12: y'all realize why that happens.
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: So the thing about.
• 31:21
  Speaker 12: It is that DL men oftentimes have to wait for
• 31:24
  Speaker 12: the right moment to respond, and so a lot of
• 31:26
  Speaker 12: the gay men are not sure whether you're not responding
• 31:29
  Speaker 12: because it's just not the right moment or time, or
• 31:32
  Speaker 12: if you're not responding.
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: Because you genuinely are straight.
• 31:34
  Speaker 12: I think it takes a minute for them to gather
• 31:36
  Speaker 12: whether or not you're straight or whether they just missing
• 31:38
  Speaker 12: their window, because a lot of d L men have
• 31:41
  Speaker 12: a window, like you hit me up during the right window,
• 31:44
  Speaker 12: So today you got a certain response, whereas like I.
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: Didn't think about that.
• 31:48
  Speaker 12: You know, you might have hit me up and my
• 31:49
  Speaker 12: baby mama was saying right here, So I got a curbag.
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: I had never thought about that.
• 31:53
  Speaker 16: Put that vanish mode, Yeah, I would.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: Is this true?
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: Because this comment her retort drew a lot of pushback
• 32:17
  Speaker 4: from the straight end the gay community, and I just
• 32:20
  Speaker 4: wanted to know what y'all think.
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: I think that that shit made mad sense to me.
• 32:25
  Speaker 3: I don't what's the pushback? Like, give me an example
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: of what the pushback?
• 32:28
  Speaker 16: No is?
• 32:28
  Speaker 4: No, you you can tell, like, all right, if somebody,
• 32:32
  Speaker 4: if you DM somebody, how many times you're gonna triple
• 32:34
  Speaker 4: text triple DM trying to come at them kind of
• 32:37
  Speaker 4: because like you, if they're ignoring you, like you could
• 32:39
  Speaker 4: take a hint at some point, you being like it's
• 32:42
  Speaker 4: just weird, creepy or whatever, if you're just going to
• 32:45
  Speaker 4: keep going, keep going, keep going. But I said, listen,
• 32:49
  Speaker 4: I don't she's speaking about her community. I don't exist there,
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: and that d L gay atmosphere is a whole different thing.
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: Them dudes is really like undercover, undercover for real, So
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: I don't know what the fuck they do to get
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: their action off.
• 33:04
  Speaker 5: I don't know.
• 33:05
  Speaker 6: But since when men historically have understood that no means no,
• 33:09
  Speaker 6: or that to fucking ignore means and ignore that that
• 33:12
  Speaker 6: that doesn't even make sense to me, that retort, like
• 33:15
  Speaker 6: just because like a woman can ignore a man and
• 33:18
  Speaker 6: he'll still try to talk to her, still try to
• 33:20
  Speaker 6: holler at her. She can say no and he'll still
• 33:23
  Speaker 6: try to talk Like what y'all men are not exempt
• 33:25
  Speaker 6: from that experience as well, Like, especially when you have
• 33:28
  Speaker 6: gay men, it's not it's not exempt.
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: The point actually you might get it.
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: More, the point I made was if we can teach
• 33:34
  Speaker 4: each other that that behavior is toxic, then y'all who
• 33:40
  Speaker 4: also holds us to the fire for being toxic gay
• 33:43
  Speaker 4: men hold straight men to the toxic to the fire
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: for being toxic. Y'all gotta live by the same rules
• 33:48
  Speaker 4: y'all putting on us.
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: Y'all better.
• 33:50
  Speaker 4: You can't just treat us just anyhow and expect us
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: to not learn from that or be like opposed to it.
• 33:57
  Speaker 6: But then what the fuck, bro, my experience would get
• 34:00
  Speaker 6: is that they're way more toxic than straight men when
• 34:03
  Speaker 6: it comes to like wanting and desiring somebody, Because you
• 34:07
  Speaker 6: gotta realize, like this is what people don't understand, Like
• 34:09
  Speaker 6: when you think about men sometimes like as women will
• 34:12
  Speaker 6: be like yo, they'll fuck anything, Like they just always
• 34:14
  Speaker 6: want to have sex with somebody. Can you imagine that
• 34:17
  Speaker 6: with a man like they just it's like some gamers,
• 34:20
  Speaker 6: they just lock eyes with each other like yeah, we're
• 34:22
  Speaker 6: definitely gonna go fuck in the bathroom and have a
• 34:23
  Speaker 6: normal day and it will do it again and then
• 34:25
  Speaker 6: do it again with somebody else. And I feel no
• 34:27
  Speaker 6: type of way because that is that is that that
• 34:30
  Speaker 6: that I've been outside for a very long time. Like
• 34:36
  Speaker 6: I have been around all of the people. I am
• 34:39
  Speaker 6: in all of the community.
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: I have a foot everywhere, and I've seen it. This
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: ship is nuts.
• 34:43
  Speaker 9: I have many experiences with download men even and here's
• 34:49
  Speaker 9: the thing. For me, when I was younger, it was
• 34:52
  Speaker 9: like when Instagram first came out, like, well, we had
• 34:57
  Speaker 9: an app called Jack and Jack that's you. No, they
• 35:00
  Speaker 9: like no profile and unlocked their profile enough messages so
• 35:05
  Speaker 9: you can see who you're dealing with. I met a
• 35:07
  Speaker 9: few of my download people like that. But in person,
• 35:10
  Speaker 9: I'm always able to gauge how far could go.
• 35:14
  Speaker 5: With this person.
• 35:14
  Speaker 9: And it's a test, right, So first of all, to
• 35:17
  Speaker 9: all the gay sends up Tahoe, Tahoe never gives me
• 35:20
  Speaker 9: gay like.
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: He's just a friendly person. He's comfortable what he is.
• 35:23
  Speaker 9: Like even with me, I still don't cross that line
• 35:26
  Speaker 9: because it's that respecting or like, I have people who
• 35:29
  Speaker 9: I'm cool.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: With that'd be like, yo, billy, let me take your dick.
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: But they're straight, right, But that's not not No, No.
• 35:35
  Speaker 5: They're not.
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: You can't they're not. They're not.
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: Listen, nobody asks you to that's straight.
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: That's not a thing.
• 35:43
  Speaker 9: But it's them trolling, right, but even with me, I
• 35:46
  Speaker 9: control back, but I really don't troll back because it's like,
• 35:49
  Speaker 9: all right now, once I started trolling, I don't want
• 35:52
  Speaker 9: to make you uncomfortable. Now you're saying I'm doing too much.
• 35:54
  Speaker 9: I just let you troll me, and I'm like, I
• 35:56
  Speaker 9: brush it up. But I've learned with download men, I
• 35:59
  Speaker 9: was able to create safe spaces for them to where
• 36:02
  Speaker 9: it's like, Yo, we're bros, we're home meeting, we're cool,
• 36:06
  Speaker 9: we get drink together, we out together, were talking like
• 36:09
  Speaker 9: you vented to the crime was a dick to Rido,
• 36:12
  Speaker 9: and I tell you about that all the time.
• 36:17
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry that she gave me an'll do respect.
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, what you invented to me about
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: your girl?
• 36:26
  Speaker 9: I'm telling you how to deal with situations like so
• 36:28
  Speaker 9: it was like, I give you. I had one job
• 36:31
  Speaker 9: a few years ago, right, Me and the nigga was bros.
• 36:34
  Speaker 9: We cool, I knew his girl. We all work together
• 36:37
  Speaker 9: and then we like you can tell when a nigga
• 36:40
  Speaker 9: went like that's curious because he'll say something like you
• 36:43
  Speaker 9: ain't freaking nigga, what's the freakingt thing you've done? And
• 36:46
  Speaker 9: I'm like oh, I've done this and they're like, oh
• 36:48
  Speaker 9: for real. So while like they'll ask me all questions.
• 36:51
  Speaker 9: So this nigg there's one guy. He was asking me
• 36:53
  Speaker 9: questions and I was like, you want to see me.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: Something give or something. He was like, nah, chill.
• 36:57
  Speaker 9: So then I went home to my nigga at the time,
• 36:59
  Speaker 9: face to him and he was like, what you face
• 37:01
  Speaker 9: tithing me and I face time him sucking the dick
• 37:03
  Speaker 9: and that was his option right there to stay on
• 37:06
  Speaker 9: or hang up, and he watched. So I'm like, dang,
• 37:10
  Speaker 9: I know, I know right. A few days later, hung
• 37:15
  Speaker 9: out with the nigga. You knew from there, Yeah, jerked
• 37:18
  Speaker 9: off and everything, and you knew from the yeah, because
• 37:21
  Speaker 9: I knew. But then the bad thing that I did.
• 37:24
  Speaker 9: His girlfriend tried to like argue with me, and that's
• 37:27
  Speaker 9: a bitch. Ill fuck your nigga if I wanted to,
• 37:30
  Speaker 9: and she was like, my nigga would never fuck you.
• 37:32
  Speaker 9: I was like asking him about me. I was young then.
• 37:35
  Speaker 9: That was like ten, that was thirteen years ago.
• 37:38
  Speaker 4: That was you probably started that argument with his girl.
• 37:41
  Speaker 4: She was probably started that said, so you could let
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: her know that you.
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: Fucking that was young toxic billy. That was a nice
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: thing I would never do. It started probably, but but
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: then my next.
• 37:51
  Speaker 9: Didn't go into my next day on Nigga where he
• 37:53
  Speaker 9: had a girl and everything. He was having a bad
• 37:57
  Speaker 9: time in life and and I was doing support and
• 38:00
  Speaker 9: I'm like, yo, we cool, we bros. Let's go get
• 38:03
  Speaker 9: let's go, let's go get drinks. After this started out,
• 38:07
  Speaker 9: one day he got locked up.
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: No no, no, no.
• 38:11
  Speaker 9: One day he got me got out of work late,
• 38:13
  Speaker 9: right he got locked up. I said in a priest
• 38:16
  Speaker 9: with him, like, bro, like, I'm gonna wait for you
• 38:17
  Speaker 9: to come out. Then he came out like maybe three
• 38:19
  Speaker 9: o'clock in the morning. We had to be work at five,
• 38:21
  Speaker 9: so I was like, we might as well just go
• 38:22
  Speaker 9: to the job or whatever. He told me like damn,
• 38:25
  Speaker 9: I wish I could have had and I'm like he did,
• 38:29
  Speaker 9: and I said, well, my mouth is available.
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: Boom gave him head. After that, he kept on hitting
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: me up, hitting me up.
• 38:35
  Speaker 9: But then even like something to something recent like and
• 38:39
  Speaker 9: I can't do nothing now because I'm in a situation. However,
• 38:43
  Speaker 9: but I could tell the nigga when the fuck. But
• 38:45
  Speaker 9: he just had a baby, just got married, and it's
• 38:48
  Speaker 9: just like he's straight presenting straight presenting. We go out,
• 38:52
  Speaker 9: he's asking me questions like so actually.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: He was like, oh, so he just went to the
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: play party. How was it.
• 38:57
  Speaker 9: I'm like, oh, I did this, this, this. He was like,
• 38:59
  Speaker 9: I'll go to the next So I'm like, yeah, I
• 39:01
  Speaker 9: don't know. I was like, you just want to go
• 39:03
  Speaker 9: to like actually engage or learn like what you want
• 39:05
  Speaker 9: to do. He was like, I don't know.
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: I don't know. So once you tell me, I don't know,
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: I don't really entertain it. So now I know.
• 39:10
  Speaker 9: So he was like, so, but then I'm talking about
• 39:14
  Speaker 9: my experience and he's.
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: Like like, calm damn.
• 39:17
  Speaker 9: You don't talk too loud, like niggas like the tables
• 39:19
  Speaker 9: right there. Now he asked another question. It's like, oh,
• 39:21
  Speaker 9: so like niggas love when you get them head. I'm like, listen,
• 39:24
  Speaker 9: I heard I have a crown. People talk about me
• 39:27
  Speaker 9: and this probably a reddit like you've great allegedly, but
• 39:32
  Speaker 9: I give great head Like it's you.
• 39:34
  Speaker 6: Know you're selling well, you're not even selling, Dick, you're
• 39:39
  Speaker 6: selling your head on the show.
• 39:41
  Speaker 5: I have a questioning.
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: I have a real question.
• 39:44
  Speaker 5: Hold on, let me ask you a question, real question.
• 39:47
  Speaker 4: What give me a real exemp because they said that
• 39:51
  Speaker 4: somebody was cursing me out in the comments when Hope
• 39:53
  Speaker 4: was on so shameless, and they said this is nigga trade.
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: What is trade? So no, no, just.
• 40:05
  Speaker 4: Like sit ahead again, I don't know what it is.
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: What is trade?
• 40:08
  Speaker 3: It's like he does not give trade.
• 40:11
  Speaker 9: I'm not really I don't know the vocabulary words for
• 40:14
  Speaker 9: the gay community. I just participate in gay activity. However,
• 40:18
  Speaker 9: from why I understand this, trade is like the way
• 40:21
  Speaker 9: you dress. You dressed masculine and your masculine present but
• 40:26
  Speaker 9: you've down the fuck like I don't know if it's
• 40:28
  Speaker 9: necessarily d L.
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: No, it's not. No, it's not d L.
• 40:32
  Speaker 6: It's like you you are masculine, you're masculine presenting. You
• 40:36
  Speaker 6: come off in a way that people would automatically assume
• 40:39
  Speaker 6: that you're heterosexual, but you are also gay, and in
• 40:43
  Speaker 6: trade there is an air of femininity too, because you
• 40:46
  Speaker 6: can like turn it on and turn it off. So
• 40:48
  Speaker 6: you can turn it off and you're very mass presented
• 40:50
  Speaker 6: and you're like yeah, yeah yeah, and then in two seconds.
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: You could be like yeah yeah, color you trade is crazy.
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: But then I think they will call me butcher, queen
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: or some shit you, but queen, what is that?
• 41:03
  Speaker 11: Not me.
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: Whisperer?
• 41:06
  Speaker 6: All right, so butch queen, butch queen from once again
• 41:11
  Speaker 6: my understanding, my two thousand right, twenty twenty six.
• 41:17
  Speaker 3: Calm down.
• 41:18
  Speaker 6: A butcher queen is also, I believe, somebody that can
• 41:22
  Speaker 6: present masculine. But once you open your mouth, once you speak,
• 41:27
  Speaker 6: once you walk, there is an air of femininity that
• 41:29
  Speaker 6: comes in through there, and it's like you're butch, but
• 41:33
  Speaker 6: you're also a queen like you, yeah, you you you,
• 41:36
  Speaker 6: you live in two worlds like you're you're not necessarily
• 41:39
  Speaker 6: trade because once you speak you can clock it. But
• 41:41
  Speaker 6: if you can't clock it through speech, then your trade
• 41:46
  Speaker 6: or through like speech walk mannerisms.
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: Then yet, my, my, my feminine side.
• 41:51
  Speaker 9: Don't come out and tell you I'm real comfortable with you, like,
• 41:53
  Speaker 9: let me tell you like but other than that, you're
• 41:56
  Speaker 9: gonna get masculine presented.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's exactly what makes you a butch queen.
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: Yea like one.
• 42:04
  Speaker 4: Been sitting there quiet watching, Yeah, these conversations don't make
• 42:09
  Speaker 4: you uncomfortable.
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: Have a gay person ever trying to hit on you before?
• 42:12
  Speaker 5: Yes?
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: Did you? How did you react? You shoot? Why didn't
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: even tell us this.
• 42:18
  Speaker 5: I think I did tell you this.
• 42:19
  Speaker 15: What is that I was very uncomfortable because he was
• 42:21
  Speaker 15: in a position where he was a manager with my
• 42:24
  Speaker 15: paycheck was like managing the venue that was DJing that okay,
• 42:30
  Speaker 15: And he was just inappropriately like yeah, like three in
• 42:33
  Speaker 15: the morning, like yeah, come to my apartment.
• 42:35
  Speaker 5: I got your check?
• 42:37
  Speaker 15: What And then I told one of my mans he
• 42:39
  Speaker 15: was like, oh, yeah, he gay he do that all
• 42:41
  Speaker 15: the time.
• 42:41
  Speaker 5: I was like, I felt so that what does he do?
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: What you mean he does it? I told, somebody, give
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: me more hours.
• 42:48
  Speaker 5: How did you get the check? Hold on?
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: I said that years ago, years? What did he do
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: at his apartment? I don't know how to hold on?
• 43:02
  Speaker 5: Hold on Trump? When did you get that check?
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 43:07
  Speaker 5: Hold on. I might not ever get that check.
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: Your man. Did he ever get a check?
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like that's that's so.
• 43:21
  Speaker 15: It was like, all right, you just got to ignore
• 43:23
  Speaker 15: it and you know you'll get paid.
• 43:26
  Speaker 5: You know, yeah, hold up, we got him. Hold up
• 43:32
  Speaker 5: Trump got that check. That's crazy.
• 43:36
  Speaker 6: There's so much happening in his room at the same time.
• 43:40
  Speaker 6: I don't I don't watch episodes back, but this is
• 43:43
  Speaker 6: the one, like if there was one.
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: I was gonna watch back because it's so much.
• 43:48
  Speaker 15: So it was at that time that I felt more
• 43:51
  Speaker 15: empathy for women that get sexually harassed because I'm like,
• 43:54
  Speaker 15: I really, harassment is when somebody is in a position
• 43:57
  Speaker 15: of power. Yeah, and it's like that's fun up.
• 44:02
  Speaker 4: Like the dad from Everybody Hates Chris what's his name?
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: Julius?
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: You know he said that he was going to like.
• 44:10
  Speaker 5: Gallas and ship and one of the producers.
• 44:12
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah like that, And I.
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: Didn't know what to do.
• 44:17
  Speaker 5: It's crazy.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: How do you ain't know.
• 44:18
  Speaker 5: What to do?
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: I mean two million dollars?
• 44:21
  Speaker 5: Two million?
• 44:23
  Speaker 4: You have you I'm getting more from that from you
• 44:25
  Speaker 4: sexual assaulting me right now? Sexually you're grabbing my nuts. No,
• 44:30
  Speaker 4: not you, you're grabbing my nuts.
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: I work for you.
• 44:37
  Speaker 5: You can't just grab my nuts.
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: Because I work here. No, I'm just saying. And someone say,
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: I'll give you two million dollars.
• 44:44
  Speaker 14: For what to grab my nuts? Who see? This is
• 44:52
  Speaker 14: this is the problem? Look, this is exactly.
• 44:55
  Speaker 9: And you'll turn down two million dollars. You gotta put
• 44:57
  Speaker 9: your private ego to the side. I'm sorry, two mil
• 45:01
  Speaker 9: for thirty seconds.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: Ninety mil.
• 45:03
  Speaker 5: That's my number, be bro.
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: Ninety ninety tax free text with Texas tex What do.
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: You mean I mean with taxes for me?
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 45:20
  Speaker 4: They said, Tahoe, you cannot be mad at gay men
• 45:26
  Speaker 4: for trying to holler at you when you let Billy
• 45:30
  Speaker 4: and Kevin sniff your drawers?
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: Who did that? It's my good thought the season?
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: What the fuck is going on? All right? All right? Wait?
• 45:47
  Speaker 6: I need you to pause. I need you to pause.
• 45:49
  Speaker 6: I need everybody, everybody has to wait. What the fuck
• 45:53
  Speaker 6: is this episode? And what the fuck? What is my
• 45:56
  Speaker 6: job today? What am I supposed to do here? Don't
• 45:59
  Speaker 6: tell the story into you answer my question? What do
• 46:01
  Speaker 6: you need from me today?
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: Don't drink yet? That's all I'm gonna tell you.
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: I don't. I don't know what's happening.
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: We have a whole outline, but I don't know.
• 46:12
  Speaker 6: Okay, So I just okay, So I don't have a
• 46:16
  Speaker 6: purpose yet. I don't know my emotions.
• 46:25
  Speaker 5: We're on Harder Soft and we're talking about.
• 46:28
  Speaker 4: Their kinks and they said something about smelling a man's
• 46:35
  Speaker 4: older his draws. It's human at Dobo and they would
• 46:39
  Speaker 4: do it, and I think it came up about my draws,
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: and I was like, yeah, I wouldn't.
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: Think you volunteered to get your drawers.
• 46:47
  Speaker 5: And I said, I'll go get him right now.
• 46:49
  Speaker 4: But I went and got him out the other room,
• 46:51
  Speaker 4: the laundry, and they passed him around and Billy tried
• 46:54
  Speaker 4: to take and Kevin tried to take him, and then
• 46:55
  Speaker 4: Billy wanted another pick to take home that I actually
• 46:58
  Speaker 4: came for another piin No, I'm not is that gay?
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: No, who's way sniff his drawers.
• 47:12
  Speaker 9: He did not interact with us, He was not sexual
• 47:14
  Speaker 9: with us, He did not do anything gay.
• 47:17
  Speaker 5: So but they said that because I did that, you know.
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: You're good?
• 47:26
  Speaker 3: Yes, all right, look.
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: At the gay person in the comments.
• 47:42
  Speaker 4: Look, this is why they say your trade that makes
• 47:46
  Speaker 4: That's what I'm telling you.
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: Sounds crazy like Andrew.
• 47:48
  Speaker 6: When Andrew like even like he take his drawers off
• 47:51
  Speaker 6: and even throw it in my direction, I'm like this, like.
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: For why?
• 47:57
  Speaker 4: But I thought that you couldn't take a person called
• 48:01
  Speaker 4: a person gay unless they did gay shit like literally
• 48:06
  Speaker 4: sucking dick, fucking man wanting to be in a relationship
• 48:08
  Speaker 4: with a man.
• 48:09
  Speaker 5: I thought that was because now.
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: Look you got in my comments.
• 48:14
  Speaker 5: You got gay people in the discord saying.
• 48:17
  Speaker 9: Oh yeah, that makes you it's different because you have
• 48:20
  Speaker 9: a catalog of doing questionable gay ship.
• 48:23
  Speaker 4: Like what, what's the catalog? What's the catalog?
• 48:26
  Speaker 9: I mean, do we have to go down to Instagram reels?
• 48:29
  Speaker 9: I mean, I think you're gonna get called that, and
• 48:33
  Speaker 9: it's unfortunate because you are uncomfortable with no matter who
• 48:36
  Speaker 9: you're around. So I think that's amazing for you. However, Comma,
• 48:44
  Speaker 9: will you.
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: Agree with this?
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: I'm just listening.
• 48:48
  Speaker 4: You agree with this, and you trade.
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: I know what you're.
• 48:57
  Speaker 9: Doing an insecure person who wants to be free, like
• 49:04
  Speaker 9: how you may call you gay for sure like that,
• 49:07
  Speaker 9: and then gay people might call you a because they
• 49:10
  Speaker 9: want to manifest you being gay and they want to
• 49:12
  Speaker 9: see twho come out one day. Right, that's probably what
• 49:17
  Speaker 9: that is. However, I know there's not a game bone
• 49:19
  Speaker 9: in your body.
• 49:21
  Speaker 5: Pause just off the conversation.
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: There's no pause by that.
• 49:24
  Speaker 5: Well we call it a boning.
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: Oh god, you.
• 49:28
  Speaker 9: Might be might have a bone in you because you
• 49:31
  Speaker 9: did say this was erect. So when you call shit
• 49:33
  Speaker 9: like this erect.
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: Boning, you listen.
• 49:36
  Speaker 4: Can we go to commercial change this whole direction of
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: this conversation?
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: All right? Fuck it? It is what it is. I
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: was not gay. Leave him alone.
• 49:47
  Speaker 5: I have to sacrifice my body to be an ally.
• 49:53
  Speaker 5: That's what I new.
• 49:56
  Speaker 4: I don't actually have to touch people.
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: But if they say I am a trade or.
• 49:59
  Speaker 6: Whatever, But how do you sacrifice your body to be
• 50:04
  Speaker 6: an ally?
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: They're saying that I am, They're saying that, oh you're
• 50:07
  Speaker 4: mad free and because of that, they're thinking this and
• 50:09
  Speaker 4: people are calling you that.
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: It is what it is. Fine, I know I ain't
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: getting your body. It doesn't sacrifice your body. Maybe is
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: in the game is the act of being gay?
• 50:19
  Speaker 9: Huh?
• 50:20
  Speaker 5: I mean you did say that she was tired of
• 50:22
  Speaker 5: big dick niggas like two weeks ago.
• 50:23
  Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean that's the clip I can't think of
• 50:25
  Speaker 9: clearly in my head. But when you say stuff like that.
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: You tied the big dick niggas.
• 50:32
  Speaker 4: He's taking that out of context.
• 50:34
  Speaker 5: I mean, no, I could assume the context with donut
• 50:37
  Speaker 5: even know the comes.
• 50:38
  Speaker 6: Oh, tell me what you think the context. You're a
• 50:39
  Speaker 6: good best friend, that's what you always on this nigga's side.
• 50:41
  Speaker 15: Ahead out of context, he talks about sexual activities.
• 50:45
  Speaker 5: So if you're tired of big big niggas, I mean,
• 50:48
  Speaker 5: maybe he has to follow it out right. Sexual comparisons
• 50:56
  Speaker 5: or having to follow that up or whatever.
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 50:58
  Speaker 4: Yes, I was saying that they think that they are
• 51:02
  Speaker 4: the kings of the jungle, like everything revolves around having
• 51:06
  Speaker 4: this big meat when women don't even most women don't
• 51:10
  Speaker 4: even really like that like that. Like you have a
• 51:13
  Speaker 4: certain few that really like what they queens.
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: They scare me.
• 51:19
  Speaker 4: Most exactly most what are you are not into that
• 51:23
  Speaker 4: like that? And then especially going to play parties, you
• 51:26
  Speaker 4: got them niggas walking around with their big ass meat
• 51:29
  Speaker 4: and just trying to get everything so they could wollo
• 51:32
  Speaker 4: them up.
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: Yo, calm down, don't even look at me, sir.
• 51:36
  Speaker 4: So that's what I was saying. See how you try
• 51:38
  Speaker 4: to make it something that it's not. Like I said,
• 51:39
  Speaker 4: the context matters a clipse.
• 51:42
  Speaker 9: They take a second of a clip and make their
• 51:44
  Speaker 9: own story with it. You know, I prefer a boyfriend
• 51:47
  Speaker 9: sized dick.
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: I love you. This is I can't say that again.
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: That started argument as welcome.
• 51:52
  Speaker 4: To Hardest Soul about in the bedroom.
• 51:56
  Speaker 3: At this point, that's what they say. It gave from
• 51:59
  Speaker 3: the beginning, from the beninge.
• 52:03
  Speaker 4: We're talking about things that happened when when you were young,
• 52:06
  Speaker 4: did y'all see Marlon Wayans say, Hey, I never got
• 52:10
  Speaker 4: married because I never wanted my mother to be jealous
• 52:12
  Speaker 4: of a woman. I never wanted my mother to feel
• 52:14
  Speaker 4: second to any woman.
• 52:16
  Speaker 6: But when I came up on on that motherfucking podcast
• 52:19
  Speaker 6: and I said that there was a time that I
• 52:21
  Speaker 6: did not like men that had living mothers, this is
• 52:24
  Speaker 6: the reason.
• 52:25
  Speaker 3: Why I don't be wrong. Like it might be. It
• 52:29
  Speaker 3: might be like a.
• 52:31
  Speaker 6: Little bit hard to understand or to or to ingest,
• 52:35
  Speaker 6: but I'm I'm very rarely wrong because niggas like that
• 52:38
  Speaker 6: really exist. I can't put nobody over my didn't marry
• 52:42
  Speaker 6: your mother?
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: Sometimes they do.
• 52:46
  Speaker 3: And then but mind you, this man has children.
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: What do you Where do you get that from?
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: So you think.
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: You can't know from we did? We did Mama's boys,
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: and you see act.
• 53:00
  Speaker 6: Yes, you wish that they wish that that that she
• 53:03
  Speaker 6: was the baby father. They wish that they son.
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: Oh, no one cooked like this from my baby. No
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: one does this. Let him. Let the son be sick.
• 53:12
  Speaker 9: Oh baby, Okay, the best mother laws are dead.
• 53:19
  Speaker 17: Jesus, Yeah, fuck you yesterday.
• 53:26
  Speaker 9: You know what?
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: Thank you for that.
• 53:32
  Speaker 6: All I ever need is one other person in the
• 53:34
  Speaker 6: world to understand what I'm talking.
• 53:36
  Speaker 3: I was.
• 53:36
  Speaker 6: I don't be bucking, That's what I said. I said,
• 53:39
  Speaker 6: I was in a state I was like when I
• 53:40
  Speaker 6: was the Lulu back in the day. This is this
• 53:43
  Speaker 6: was my perspective of dating men. I would rather date
• 53:45
  Speaker 6: a man that did not have living mothers or sisters
• 53:48
  Speaker 6: because how some women, yes, because because sisters be very
• 53:52
  Speaker 6: much like.
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: You're not good enough for my brother. That's my brother.
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: Oh you did it, bitch. You want to suck him too,
• 53:59
  Speaker 3: like everybody want my man.
• 54:00
  Speaker 15: But so it just sounds like that's the easy way.
• 54:04
  Speaker 15: All right, mom is dead to you don't have to
• 54:05
  Speaker 15: worry about that. But what about just finding somebody that
• 54:08
  Speaker 15: has a healthy relationship with them?
• 54:10
  Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, it's not that it's rare. I'm
• 54:14
  Speaker 6: just saying like that I have a lived experience that
• 54:17
  Speaker 6: I have seen these things multiple times in multiple men,
• 54:21
  Speaker 6: and that ship is very irritating to me.
• 54:24
  Speaker 3: Like I remember I told you the story of.
• 54:26
  Speaker 6: The dude that I was dating that blew me off
• 54:28
  Speaker 6: to take his mother to the motherfucking grocery store, Like
• 54:31
  Speaker 6: he have a.
• 54:32
  Speaker 3: Whole father, call your dad, like they live together, Like how.
• 54:35
  Speaker 6: You gonna blow off a date that we plan because
• 54:38
  Speaker 6: your mother want to go get fucking sonny d bitch, bitch,
• 54:49
  Speaker 6: you know.
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: My mother think we should do this. My mother.
• 54:55
  Speaker 4: Trying to pull this person away from his Like we're
• 54:58
  Speaker 4: not bloundary, He's not, he's not going over boundaries. Something
• 55:05
  Speaker 4: came up that his mother's probably can't do on her own.
• 55:12
  Speaker 4: Taking you the fucking olive garden? Is that much serious?
• 55:16
  Speaker 4: Now you think that I was?
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: Is that deep? Is that deep? Right now?
• 55:22
  Speaker 3: It is? And you know what? You know what is?
• 55:28
  Speaker 7: Hold on?
• 55:28
  Speaker 6: I got quick maths because what made it worse was
• 55:37
  Speaker 6: at that time that we were supposed to go out
• 55:39
  Speaker 6: on this date, I had moved things around in my
• 55:44
  Speaker 6: schedule because we had a date. So now I'm getting
• 55:48
  Speaker 6: called an hour before our date, Like, oh, I have
• 55:51
  Speaker 6: to push the time back because my mother wants me
• 55:54
  Speaker 6: to go with her to the grocery store. That bitch
• 55:56
  Speaker 6: ain't elderly, ain't nothing wrong with her?
• 55:59
  Speaker 3: Like what is it?
• 56:01
  Speaker 6: You have a sister that live in a house, you
• 56:03
  Speaker 6: have a father that lives in the house. Why does
• 56:07
  Speaker 6: my nigga gotta take you to the grocery store right now?
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: All right, stay with your mother for the rest of
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: the day. They canceled.
• 56:14
  Speaker 2: I break up with a.
• 56:15
  Speaker 4: Woman she ever says some shit like this to me
• 56:17
  Speaker 4: about my mom and me and my moms don't even
• 56:18
  Speaker 4: have like the I don't have that type relationship with
• 56:20
  Speaker 4: my mother whatsoever. But if I knew that a woman
• 56:24
  Speaker 4: that I was dating thought like this about my relationship
• 56:26
  Speaker 4: with my mom's like you dead ass. You The entitlement
• 56:29
  Speaker 4: that you're showing is entitlement. What about being a man
• 56:32
  Speaker 4: and being a man of your word. You can't make
• 56:35
  Speaker 4: a plan with me. Understand that dated I have.
• 56:41
  Speaker 2: I know how late women be.
• 56:42
  Speaker 6: I'm not that woman, So I can't like that you
• 56:47
  Speaker 6: dated women waiting.
• 56:49
  Speaker 4: You could say six o'clock and they not ready till
• 56:51
  Speaker 4: seven fifteen.
• 56:52
  Speaker 3: That's not my experience. That's not my experience.
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: That's a boundary. You have to fix it, right.
• 56:58
  Speaker 6: I have my own boundary. You as my man, your
• 57:01
  Speaker 6: word is supposed to be your bond. If you make
• 57:03
  Speaker 6: a plan with me, if you say that you're gonna
• 57:05
  Speaker 6: do something with me, if you say that you're gonna
• 57:07
  Speaker 6: be in with me, you don't get to brush me
• 57:11
  Speaker 6: off of somebody else and then come to me and
• 57:12
  Speaker 6: say I'm sorry, I'm not second fucking fiddle. I don't
• 57:15
  Speaker 6: like I don't like that shit in my friendships, and
• 57:17
  Speaker 6: I don't like it in relationships either.
• 57:19
  Speaker 3: I don't like people. I don't like people that play
• 57:23
  Speaker 3: with me.
• 57:23
  Speaker 5: The idea that my mom my kid something.
• 57:29
  Speaker 6: Shopping tomorrow morning, why your mom can't go with her husband?
• 57:32
  Speaker 15: I think y'all are missing the point here. The point
• 57:38
  Speaker 15: is this person is not balancing relationships in their life
• 57:41
  Speaker 15: in a proper way exactly. So the mom not being
• 57:44
  Speaker 15: alive doesn't change that this person does not balance relationships
• 57:48
  Speaker 15: in their life in a proper way.
• 57:49
  Speaker 5: It's just an easy way out to.
• 57:51
  Speaker 15: Find people that don't have a living mother instead of
• 57:54
  Speaker 15: finding people that know how to balance relationships.
• 57:57
  Speaker 6: Or I think that, yes, And because not having that
• 58:02
  Speaker 6: balance or knowing how to how to balance that is
• 58:04
  Speaker 6: one thing. But when there's certain people in your life,
• 58:07
  Speaker 6: they're supposed to supersede, right, So you can't blow me
• 58:10
  Speaker 6: off and say like, oh, I know we were supposed
• 58:13
  Speaker 6: to hang out at five o'clock, but I'm hanging out
• 58:14
  Speaker 6: with my homeboys instead, So I have to push out
• 58:16
  Speaker 6: a date back because that would be an argument as well. Right,
• 58:19
  Speaker 6: But because it's your mother, I can't like as the
• 58:22
  Speaker 6: woman in your life, somebody that cares about you. Technically
• 58:25
  Speaker 6: you're not supposed to say anything like oh but he's
• 58:27
  Speaker 6: with his mom, or if it's your child, you can't
• 58:29
  Speaker 6: say anything, or if it's like another high woman in
• 58:33
  Speaker 6: your life, it would I would be a bitch to
• 58:36
  Speaker 6: say these things. And I understand that, but I think
• 58:39
  Speaker 6: that's also a manipulation. It's not I don't ever want
• 58:43
  Speaker 6: to be with somebody that is okay with disappointing me
• 58:47
  Speaker 6: or saying sorry to me, because saying sorry to me
• 58:50
  Speaker 6: is enough for you to do whatever you want to do.
• 58:52
  Speaker 6: So for me, that is a cutoff. And it's not
• 58:55
  Speaker 6: like at that time it was a mother thing. But
• 58:58
  Speaker 6: in my life right now, I will cut.
• 59:00
  Speaker 3: You off for less. You don't get to keep doing
• 59:03
  Speaker 3: that to me.
• 59:03
  Speaker 4: No, I respect what you're saying. I disagree with you
• 59:07
  Speaker 4: a million percent. Trim you a traitor. No, no things happen.
• 59:12
  Speaker 4: If you want to be in my life as my
• 59:14
  Speaker 4: helpmate and me and your life as your helpmate, yes,
• 59:18
  Speaker 4: I have to understand that. Life happens, we move around,
• 59:21
  Speaker 4: we move together. It's fine, yo, something came up, no problem.
• 59:25
  Speaker 4: You are right, you want to go later. You want
• 59:27
  Speaker 4: to go tomorrow?
• 59:28
  Speaker 3: I want to. When I said, what the.
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: Fuck is we're talking about? Right?
• 59:34
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 59:34
  Speaker 2: He said, we're gonna push it back, yo. I got
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: to take care of this real quick.
• 59:37
  Speaker 4: I'll be there and and I'm taking time out of
• 59:41
  Speaker 4: my day, my real priorities to make sure that you
• 59:44
  Speaker 4: go get something to eat, because I want to chill
• 59:45
  Speaker 4: with you. But most times a busy ass nigga got
• 59:48
  Speaker 4: other ship going on. They're just taking you to fucking
• 59:50
  Speaker 4: get something to eat.
• 59:52
  Speaker 5: Got it here, crazy cle.
• 59:56
  Speaker 9: I cleared my schedule for you, So I'm being intentional
• 59:59
  Speaker 9: about making time and speech for you.
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 2: Do the same thing for me.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 3: Watch this and you.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 5: Think and you agree with this? You agreed that?
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 4: Oh, because say your mom called and need something real
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 4: quick that you don't say, you know what? All right,
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 4: I was gonna go to fucking dumble house, let me go.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna grab you real quick, all right, yo. But
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 4: I do got something to do. How long it's gonna take,
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 4: and then let me see if it works for shorty
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 4: real quick?
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: And then you make something move you don't.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 3: That's different.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 15: It's situational. I'm not saying I agree with it. I'm
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 15: just saying that there's a time where it could be
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 15: problematic with how they manage their relationship in their life,
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 15: or it could be an emergency and the other person
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 15: is entitled it.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 5: It depends on the.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 2: Same it's my mom.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 4: I don't give a fuck if my mother needs afford.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 4: My mom got a box the other day. I swear
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 4: to God, this ship pissed me to fuck off. Right,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 4: I go to Costco. First of all, y'all know you
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 4: go to Costco, you don't get no bags.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 5: They give you a bunch of shit.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 4: You gotta put it in cat little boxes or you
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 4: just got to figure out how to get it in
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 4: your crib. Right, So the shit be falling off over
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 4: the place. I'm trying to carry all these boxes up
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 4: the steps, right. My mom said, whatever, can you help
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 4: me real quick? I'm like, you don't hear me go
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 4: in and out the house with all these damn boxes.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: She's like, I got a cat litter bag. It's forty pounds.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 3: I can't.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 4: I stopped doing what the fuck I was doing it
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 4: go help her with the forty pounds cat it little box.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 4: Now what if she calls like, yo, I just need
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 4: some cat litter Your dad can't picked that bag up?
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 3: Can you take me to go get some fucking cat litter?
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: Is it an emergency?
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 4: No, am, I gonna take the time out of my
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 4: day to go do it.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 6: Yes, you know, you know the type of nigga I
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 6: like the type of nigga I like, who'll be like, Yo,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 6: you need something?
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 3: All right, I'm gonna have this shit delivered to the house.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 3: I got something to do.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 6: That's what the fuck I would like, cause that's that's
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 6: It's the same difference like, Oh.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 3: I need to go, I need to go to the
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 3: grocery store. Can you take me?
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 12: Nah?
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 3: Ma, I actually already have plans.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 6: But what you can do is, here's my card, you know,
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 6: go go go, go, go, go to the.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 3: Target, appet get that shit delivered in two hours. Na,
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 3: It's so fucking simple.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 7: Yesterday, my bucking No, you're and agree with I don't
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 7: know what I was talking about.
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 5: I don't know what you're talking about.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 3: Okay, Well, the man that I married, I don't have
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 3: the I don't have the time.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 5: But see, I feel like, yo, this is.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 2: That's what you're saying. You like big girls.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 9: You tell a big girls she's not going out to eat.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 2: This episode.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 3: Chaos.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 3: I love the chaos, he said.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 6: He said, you're not taking.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 5: Yo.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 4: First of all, Yo, okay, I'm just gonna y.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 2: Yes, I'm good. I heard you was gonna talk. It
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: sounds like.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 5: That.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 3: Yes he's gagged. Yes, he's gagg right now.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 5: Terms together, this is crazy.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 3: Don't start using them all willy nilly though.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 6: They really don't think you trade.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 3: Let me ask you, how do you do that? Clock that?
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 3: How you doing this?
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 5: I'm using the right finger.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 3: That's the correct way.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 11: I'm on my ship today. And I don't know who
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 11: needs to hear this, what man needs to hear this?
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 11: But men are way more emotional than women. I don't
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 11: know why. In history we were made to believe that
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 11: we are more emotional just because we might crow first,
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 11: or we're loving and nurturing. But you guys just show
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 11: it in different ways. Anger is an emotion. Resentment is
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 11: an emotion. Disappointment is an emotion. Shutting down and getting
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 11: into your feelings is being emotional. Being petty is being emotional.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 11: Getting in your ego is being emotional.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 3: Dick measuring competing is.
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 11: Being emotional because you feel way about something. Oh and
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 11: We're more logical than you because we're always going to
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 11: make one plus one equal to That's why we're great detectives.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 3: We always look at the bigger picture.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 11: That's why they said men who marry good women are
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 11: more likely to be successful because they have a person
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 11: who has a good backbone, can see a vision and
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 11: can direct them to be the great leader that they're
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 11: supposed to be.
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 3: Let's make this make sense.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 5: Shout out to Georgie.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 4: You want to follow her page, it is your favorite tomboy.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 15: Well, I think Georgie's dope. But I disagree because I
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 15: think that men regulate their emotions better for the most part.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 15: And this is a general relation generalization. I don't like
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 15: making general statements because it's not.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 4: The yougas out there, but for the most part.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 15: Obviously, as a human being, we all have emotions. We
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 15: all have things that we feel and we go through
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 15: on a day to day basis. But the regulation, the
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 15: self regulation of emotions, I feel like it's more difficult
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 15: for women sometimes.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 9: Yo.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 15: The other day, I was standing on the corner and
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 15: I've seen this woman pull up to a red light
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 15: and she was arguing with somebody she was driving, and
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 15: she both her hands was off the wheel, like arguing
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 15: like this. I don't know if somebody's in a passenger
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 15: seat or she was on the phone, but she was
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 15: like heated, like you can hear her from across the street,
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 15: and I'm like, Yo, this is just not safe, Like
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 15: you driving in a state of complete recklessness and you're
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 15: not managing your emotions. It's okay to feel those emotions,
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 15: but I often feel see that more often in women
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 15: than men. And this is not a knock to women
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 15: at all. It's just I feel like that's you know,
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 15: from my experience for what I've seen.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 4: Is I've done that exact same thing, arguing with my
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 4: baby mama when she done said some wild shit and
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 4: like some shit that's just like literally just make you
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 4: lose it. Yes, I'm at the like going crazy, hands
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 4: off the wheel. You can hear me down the block.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 4: That's not necessarily a feminine thing. That that isn't just
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 4: local to women unless you say and I do it because.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 3: I said nothing. I have said not a fucking word,
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 3: and y'all even gonna get me in this ship.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 4: Billy, what do you think armed men more emotional than women?
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 9: I think in the times that we live in now.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 9: Everybody's emotional, but men. Mmm, yes, I would definitely think
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 9: men are more emotional than women because you know, I
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 9: call me half nigga, half bitch, I know both sides. Yeah,
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 9: men just can't express it the way they want to,
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 9: right and because you have to hold it in, it's
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 9: killing you in the end times of you, Oh poor
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 9: you know what you say on this show them boner.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 9: But based off like I do, wish that women can
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 9: create safe space for men and let men be able
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 9: to express themselves. But the moment a man cries and
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 9: express itself is a problem.
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 2: But they are more emotional than women because they don't.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 9: Know how to let those emotions show or have a
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 9: safe face to let those emotions show, and they don't
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 9: know how to speak up for themselves.
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 6: I think that y'all correlate regulation with suppressing and that's
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 6: not the same at all. Just because you don't show
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 6: the emotion, just because you don't let it out, does
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 6: not mean that it's not there. And then what it
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 6: does is it comes out in other ways. It can
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 6: either come out directly or indirectly. A man that is
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 6: having a conversation with a woman that cannot get through
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 6: that conversation and walks out of the house and leaves
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 6: because they cannot handle the conversation.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 3: That is an emotion.
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 6: You're just suppressing the fact that you're going through these emotions.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 6: But at the end of the day, you're being just
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 6: as emotional as she is. And because you decided to
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  Speaker 6: walk out and not say anything does not make you
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  Speaker 6: more regulated. Actually it's a little bit more harmful because
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  Speaker 6: now you're outside walking around with these emotions, and it
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  Speaker 6: can be a very small thing that could take you
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  Speaker 6: off that has nothing to do with what you're really
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  Speaker 6: mad about.
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  Speaker 4: I think that you're confusing suppressing emotions with having a
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  Speaker 4: harsher reaction to your emotions. I think men may have
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  Speaker 4: harsher reactions to the emotion because they suppress it so
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  Speaker 4: much they when they blow up, they blow up.
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  Speaker 5: It's crazy.
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  Speaker 4: I think women react to their emotions more than men
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  Speaker 4: do on and this is just based off of everything
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  Speaker 4: that she said in the video. Women notice more. Women
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  Speaker 4: scan more, they take in more information. Men are more
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  Speaker 4: linear that we just literally most times, as we say, generally,
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 4: men are gold driven.
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  Speaker 5: I just need to get this car from here to here.
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  Speaker 5: I don't care if the space is big enough.
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  Speaker 4: I'm just get the balls on the way through and
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  Speaker 4: get to the other side because I got shited to
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  Speaker 4: do well.
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  Speaker 2: Women will plan it.
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  Speaker 4: No, you go around here right, boom, that's fine. I
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  Speaker 4: don't mind the logical part. I think that's I think
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  Speaker 4: that's a nuance to that. But I think women look
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 4: at the world through like a diamond shaped lens where
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 4: they see something and they get all of this different information,
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 4: all of this different information, right, whereas men just see
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 4: there's one thing, right, All of that information gives reason
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  Speaker 4: for women to feel so many more things about that same.
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  Speaker 3: Thing, right, because because things are not linear.
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  Speaker 4: So that means that she would be expressing more emotion
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  Speaker 4: based off this one thing, whereas men probably wouldn't even
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 4: express it that much.
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  Speaker 2: He can feel that, but she. You know, women get.
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  Speaker 4: Triggered by damn mare, any fucking thing, people, damn anything,
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  Speaker 4: and the amount of people that are on the motherfucking spectrum.
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  Speaker 3: We're all being triggered all goddamn day. What are we
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 3: talking about.
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  Speaker 4: I think women taking more information than men, thereby having
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 4: more to react to.
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  Speaker 9: I think if men communicated what they needed more, then
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 9: it will be able to bridge that gap on what
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 9: both parties are missing.
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  Speaker 2: Like my home girl, right.
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  Speaker 9: She it takes her to yell and screen for her
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 9: man to be like, oh, but you're not affectionate towards me,
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 9: But why don't you say that to begin with?
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  Speaker 2: Like?
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  Speaker 9: And I think that's what people is missing nowadays, and
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 9: relationships really basic relationship skills, which the number one is communication,
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 9: like te you know me. In the last couple of months,
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 9: I've been toxic, but lately I've been good because I've
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 9: been doing the work for myself and like doing some reflection,
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 9: like I shouldn't handle this situation like that.
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 2: Have not had one argument in this relationship now.
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 5: Not one, not one.
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 2: I'm so that's a blessing. Somebody lying No, I don't
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 2: even want to lie no more because if I know.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 4: If I know, I said, when are y'all lying one?
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 4: Are y'all hiding y'all real emotions?
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  Speaker 2: See, that's protection. You created a safe space.
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 9: You create a safe space for me to be able
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 9: to communicate to you how I feel, then we're good.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 9: And then as long as we're being honest with each other.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 9: Once you lie, you got live that line on top
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  Speaker 9: of okay, you.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 4: Never had an argument, but you have had disagreements. Nah,
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 4: there's somebody line that's not true. I don't see how
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 4: two people from two different walks in life, you know,
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 4: can literally get together and never disagree.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 3: Well, in disagreement, it doesn't have to be an argument.
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 4: It could just I said, I said, not an argument,
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 4: but you have had disagreements and he said no, says
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 4: never never disagreed almost a yeah, I never disagreed about anything.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 3: That's that's not that's not because.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 2: That's somebody.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 9: I was coming lea to date nights, right, Hey, I
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 9: don't like me and like, can you stop that? Okay,
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 9: I'm gonna stop if I'm not going to trigger something.
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 9: And then also dating around this time, I was intentional
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 9: on everything.
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  Speaker 2: Hey what triggers you? I wouldn't know what.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 9: I don't do that before I do fuck you, you know.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 9: And we all had those conversations where your boundaries or
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 9: where your heart knows. But if men communicate to women
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 9: like hey, I don't like how you talking to me.
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 9: It makes me feel be little, maybe the woman will
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 9: understand that, not saying it's right for her to do that,
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 9: but also express how you feel and what you need.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 2: So and then like I said, my friend and helped her.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 9: Understand like, oh, I did stop being affection with him,
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 9: but I stopped being affection with this fucking because he
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 9: was cheating in the relationship and she was able to
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 9: explain that to him, so he took accountability. But no
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 9: one communicates anymore. Everybody just thinks they know what it
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 9: takes to be in a relationship when the first one
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 9: was communication.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 5: I love that, I did, love that I did that.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 4: That said mic drop moment and shout out to you
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 4: and your relationship y'all in a honeymoon phase.
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 5: Yeah, those are the great That's the greatest time.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah right, I have way more to talk about, y'all.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 5: Motherfuckers. Ate y'all ate down?
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: Did I do it right? The first episode? Yeah, button
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 2: that says gay.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 4: We will be back for part two this Thursday, or
• 1:13:06
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  Speaker 3: Why would you call you a fragle?
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 4: Maggot?
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  Speaker 5: Is that an F bomb? Is that a muppet F bomb?