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Tap Into Relief: EFT for Real-Life Challenges with Mary Sise · Always Connected

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Speaker 1: Good morning, everybody. Welcome back. Actually, it's me you should
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be welcoming back because I've been out of the live
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realm for quite a while with some travel and commitments.
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But oh, what a good live show I have for
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you today. This is one of the rare occasions when
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I bring on a live guest. We're going to be
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talking about intuition and using tapping to clear out whatever's
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blocking your intuition. My guest is Mary Seiss. I've had
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her on the show twice before. but it just felt
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like the right time to bring her back. I have
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to tell you, I've been using tapping a lot just
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this past week to get back in balance after my cruise,
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and it's a technique that really, really works. So I'm
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very excited to have Mary back on the show. Let's
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bring her on the stage right now. Mary, welcome back. Hi, Suzanne. Hi, everybody.
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Speaker 2: It's just great to be back with this group. This
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is a great group.
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Speaker 1: I'll tell you, everybody, Mary came in nice and mellow there.
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When she first came on the screen, she's just so
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full of enthusiasm and energy, and she had me laughing
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right off the bat because Mary is a powerhouse and
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says it like it is. So this should be an
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interesting live show. Mary, I want to tell you that
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on my flight back from Europe a week ago, I
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watched one movie, and it was The Double Wears Prada 2.
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And in it, one of the main characters... is doing tapping.
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And it just cracked me up that she was doing
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emotional freedom technique, but she wasn't doing it right. She
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was just kind of going like this. And I realized
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this is Hollywood's way of making fun of people who tap.
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Because she was this, you know, kind of flaky character.
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And I thought, if only people knew how helpful it is.
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So let's just start off. We'll talk about tapping, then
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move over to intuition. because both are equal topics here
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this time. But tell us what tapping is.
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Speaker 2: Okay. So by tapping, what we mean is you're going
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to think about something that throws your system off. That's
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the best time to use it. Like you and I
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can be talking about our, maybe not your last vacation,
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because you were working really hard, but like some amazing vacation.
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And your energy field is fine. It's calm. You're expanded.
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Or you're talking about some great movie you saw, something.
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And you're fine. But the minute we talk about, like,
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your ex-partner or that last job or, you know, who'd
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done you wrong lately, what happens is your field goes off.
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And in Eastern medicine, they have mapped what they call
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the meridians. We all know acupuncture now, okay? So that's
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what an acupuncturist uses with different emotions. And so when
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you tap on the beginning or end point of the
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meridian that goes with that emotion, something happens in your
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field and the energy is able to flow again. That's
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a basic, we could say, theory behind energy, the energy psychology.
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Energy psychology, to be clear, means we're using energy systems
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of the body for psychological problems. So in tapping, we
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use the meridian system of the body. So when I
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tap here, like you're saying, or like here or whatever,
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I might not be hitting the meridian that goes with
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that emotion, you see.
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Speaker 1: So in tapping, there's a specific sequence and you hit
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all the meridians and... Yeah.
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Speaker 2: And so you don't have to be a therapist to
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know what's off with you. Like sometimes you're sad and
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you're crying, but really underneath that is rage. But you've
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been told, don't be angry, be a good, be a
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nice girl, whatever. And so... But rage is actually gallbladder
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meridian right here. So when you tap this spot, so
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like in the way we do tapping nowadays, most people,
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I would say, we tap everything. So you don't have
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to be a clinician to know what is that emotion.
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Or I tapped sadness, which is here, but I'm still upset. Well, really,
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because underneath the sadness is the rage. And for some
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people who are angry all the time, they do anger
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first before they'll cry. Like, that's how I am. I
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just want you can't make me cry.
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Speaker 1: You can't.
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Speaker 2: You know, I'm like one of the older kids in
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the family. I'm a very bossy. I have an opinion
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for everything. And it's very rare. You know that joke,
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who doesn't cry at Old Yeller? My kids would say
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my mother.
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Speaker 1: She doesn't cry.
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Speaker 2: I don't cry. Or I didn't. I'm really evolved now, Suzanne.
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I can cry. So for me, anger would come up first.
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But you take that anger down. You release the anger.
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So it's releasing anger. transmuting energy, then what will come
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up is the emotion underneath that. You see, but when
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we tap everything, it's kind of can short circuit it
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a little bit and you get further. Now, the other
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thing about tapping, I can tell you, most people don't
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know this. There's over 40 some odd versions of EFT.
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Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: So everybody's got an opinion. Everybody's got their own. Some
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of them don't include what we call the eye movements. OK,
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like some just do tapping. They don't have eye movements.
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The originator of EFT, of non-EFT, of TFT, from which
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EFT comes, the grandfather, we could say, and this is
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one of the children or the father of the children.
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He had eye movements in there. And as a therapist myself,
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I knew the power of eye movements. You know, eyes
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are the doorway to the soul, right? So when I
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move eyes, it shifts the brain. And what we'll do
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today is the eye movement. And you get much more,
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especially if there's been shock to the brain or trauma.
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People who come to you who have near-death experiences and
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they leave the body, you use those eye movements, you'll
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have greater success. So I really encourage your people, don't
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just go with one. Try my version and try other
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ones because you'll be shocked at what it can do.
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Speaker 1: And this is why I wanted to bring Mary on
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live because... We're going to ask some of you who
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are tuning in live now, if you want to bring
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a challenge onto the screen with us, Mary will show
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you how to use the tapping to clear that. So
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we're going to do a live example. So stay with us.
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We're going to learn a lot, but also we're all
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going to get to do it together. Even if it's
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not your issue, we're going to all work on the
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issue of increasing intuition. And then if anybody had a
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challenge with that, we can bring you on.
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Speaker 2: Screen.
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Speaker 1: Let me put that up there now. If you want
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to come on screen later, you might want to copy
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down that link because that's the specific link to join
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us in the studio. So meanwhile, Mary, talk to me
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about intuition.
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Speaker 2: You know, Suzanne, this is really becoming such a hot topic,
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I would say, for me and I think for a
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lot of people. There's so much information out there and
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we don't know who to trust anymore, you know?
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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah. Not me. I'm going, trust yourself.
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Speaker 2: But I mean, what happens is, what do we do now?
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We go to the internet, right? We Google what we've got,
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what we just got a diagnosis on. We Google what,
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you know. And then I was laughing the other day.
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I was watching something on YouTube, which I adore. And
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it was a TV guy giving something. And then if
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you Google that, you'll see that's not even him.
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Speaker 1: That's AI.
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Speaker 2: So the question is, like, We've been trained to go
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outside of ourselves. And now there's an opinion a minute.
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In the old days, you maybe just would go to
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a few relatives. And you really knew who were the
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really nutty ones, so you maybe didn't ask them. But
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now you could go to the whole world and get
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a million opinions.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've done some videos on discernment in the age
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of AI. It's so important. Let's not go off on AI.
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I don't want to go that way.
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Speaker 2: Exactly, exactly.
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Speaker 1: How do we trust that source of wisdom and guidance within,
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which is intuition?
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Speaker 2: Well, the good news is we all have it, intuition,
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inner knowing. We all have it. And in my experience
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in working with clients, and also for myself personally, it's
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been covered up by layers and layers of people telling us,
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We don't know what we know.
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Speaker 3: Trust.
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Speaker 2: You've got to trust your teacher. Do what the teacher says.
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Do what the babysitter says. You have to listen to
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this person. You have to listen to that. And you
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get programmed. Your brain gets programmed for what's right, what's wrong,
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who you are. You don't know anything. Whatever. You want
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to all of you think about what did I get
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programmed under the age of seven? And seven's a pivotal
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age because it's under the age of seven. When your brain,
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the brain waves are primarily in a theta state. It's
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a very programmable state. It's the state that an hypnotherapist
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will put you in and then tell you things. So
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like if I slow my voice down and I get
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your brain to entrain with mine and go deeper and
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deeper and deeper, eventually I can put a dime on you,
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tell you it's a hot coal and you'll blister. Think
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about it. That's theta. They can do surgery in theta.
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Not for me, frankly, but you know what I mean?
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It's a brainwave state. Under the age of seven, you're
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primarily in that state. And so then anything that happens,
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anything that's said, programmed you for who you think you are,
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whether you're worthy or not, whether you're stupid, your brother's
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the smarter one. I mean, think about it. Maybe just
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take a moment. It's back in time. What did you
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get programmed? I mean, you could make a whole list
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of things that you got programmed that's like, whoa, no
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wonder I think that way.
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Speaker 1: Let's pause here a second. And I encourage all of
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you to make a note that when the show is over,
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Go into an expanded state of slowing down your brain
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yourself to those alpha waves that Mary just talked about.
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And ask your inner self, ask your guides. It's all
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one self. What programming did I receive before age seven
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that I'm not aware of that is affecting me to
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this day? Write that down. It will be eye opening.
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Speaker 2: It will be. And you could even make a list
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of some of the characters that were in your world
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under the age of seven. Did your sister like you?
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Did they tell you you were adopted? How did your
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siblings torture you as a kid, maybe? Or your grandparents?
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Who had access to your brain under the age of seven?
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It's amazing what's in there. Because I know when I
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work with people and they come in, today with a
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problem i look at the problem but then i go
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back and figure out where did you get programmed that
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you don't matter where did you get programmed that men
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leave you because your dad left where did you get
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programmed about money everything is there and so to me
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that's where the work is because we can tap into
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that and then we can tap into the energy that's
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there maybe the terror of having no money or the
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shame or not knowing or somebody scared you um And
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you can quiet the nervous system, move the eyes, of course,
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quiet the nervous system, and then you can put in
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the program you want. So you can reprogram something. You're
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like a computer. Yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 1: Neuroplasticity, right? Rewiring the way your brain fires.
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Speaker 2: Exactly. Right away. It tells you whether you're safe, whether
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you've seen this before.
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Speaker 1: And get back to why we want to do this, intuition-wise.
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Speaker 2: So why we want to do this is you really
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want to look at Because we all get intuition. We
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all know things, okay? Sometimes you won't listen. You know, no, no, no, no, no.
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Like you didn't want to listen to things as a kid, right?
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Sometimes it's like, well, what if it's wrong? What if
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I make a mistake? You see? And so you know
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what to do. You kind of know what to do.
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But what if, what if? I call it the what ifs.
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You know, like what if this, what if that? You
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can play with that too. So then you want to
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look at, well, what happened when I was a child
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and I made a mistake? Some of you grew up
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in homes that were so unpredictable. One false move and
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dad blew up. I have a funny story. I have
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a lot of grandchildren, but one of them, when he
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was around four, he did something. I forget what he did,
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but he looked at me and I said something and
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he goes, oh, Nana, I made a poor choice. That
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was the funniest thing ever. And I used that for myself.
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It was just a poor choice. Nobody said, shame on you,
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you bad boy. You know, if you think, especially when
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most of us were growing up, what was the conversation?
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You know, he made a poor choice.
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Speaker 1: So why are these programming that is counter to our
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accessing our true self, why is that blocking our access
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to our true self?
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Speaker 2: Because that runs the show. So this fear gets, when
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you make it, when you're worried about making, you hear
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the intuition. You know, there's different levels. First, you have
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to identify how you hear it. And you and I
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can talk about how we get ours. Then, what am
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I afraid will happen if I followed? And then you
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go for the belief. That's where the action is. What
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am I afraid would happen if I did it? How
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might my life change if I didn't? Who might have
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to exit my life if I did? Whose opinion matters
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more than me? You know, where do I give my
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power away? Because you learn to do that under the
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age of seven.
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Speaker 1: That's what you want to get.
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Speaker 2: It's not because you're nutty or foolish or you're, you know,
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not smart. It's you're programmed that way. Mom will be upset.
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And when mom got upset, all hell broke loose.
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Speaker 1: So some people are not following their intuition. They're not
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acting on it. They're aware of it because of old programming.
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Speaker 2: Definitely.
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Speaker 1: Definitely.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. And you want to also sometimes look at
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how did you get betrayed? Because that's one of the
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biggest things for intuition. Because once you have trusted somebody
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and they betray you as a little kid, it's big
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because you lose your trust in yourself. Because you thought
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they were safe. And then they betrayed you. And then
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for other people, we could even go into this one.
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When you pray for something and you didn't get it
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and it kept happening, you lose your faith in God.
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God's not there for me. And those are big. Those
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are big things. And then there's a sense that there's
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nobody out there to help me because I prayed and
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nobody came. Now, if it's under the age of seven, especially,
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it's deep. It's hidden. but it runs your life. It
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runs your, it's always there. It's always there.
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Speaker 1: This is a whole new angle on intuition than I've
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ever gone at it. I know that it's there and
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I say, trust it, but you're showing me right now,
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live everybody, that those who don't trust it, who are
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afraid to act on it, are likely coming from childhood programming.
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How interesting. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: And especially childhood trauma, where if you got big betrayed,
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by somebody who you thought was safe. It could be
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a teacher. I mean, think about a little first grader.
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You go to kindergarten or your nursery school. They trust
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the teacher. You're like, you know, or you trusted your
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dad or you trusted your mom. That's like God to you,
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to a child. They can drive. You can't drive. Like,
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you know, they can do everything. They know how to
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get to grammar. You don't know how to get. You
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think of them as God. And when they betray you,
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it's huge to your son. It's huge to your son.
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It's such a soul thing.
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Speaker 1: So we're going to later in the show, we're going
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to tap that, right?
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Speaker 2: We're going to tap whatever you guys want to tap.
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Speaker 1: I want to tap to heal that, even though that's
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a big, a generic healing, lack of trust and intuition.
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I glanced down at my notes here and I see
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now why you have a special event coming up. I
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brought you on because you have a new class with
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the shift network. And I want to share that because
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I love the way you teach tapping, but Your event
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is called Have You Stopped Trusting Yourself? That's an hour-long
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free event for anybody, whether or not you want to
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take the class, right? Have You Stopped Trusting Yourself? Are
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you going to be tapping in that hour-long event?
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Speaker 3: Yep.
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Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay. All right, good. There is a link to
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that down below in the show notes on YouTube, whether
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you're watching live or not. When does that air?
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Speaker 2: I think it's at some point at the end of October.
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Speaker 1: And not till October. Okay. So good.
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Speaker 2: We're good.
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Speaker 1: Now I understand. Have you stopped trusting yourself as it
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regards that inner voice?
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Speaker 3: Yes.
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Speaker 1: Yes. Okay. Okay.
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Speaker 2: And then on a grander level, your relationship with the divine,
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your relationship source, your trust in that.
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Speaker 1: How does that play out in our lives that you've
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taken that to another level? Now we're talking about intuition,
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that inner voice, which to me is the divine.
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Speaker 2: Exactly. Exactly. But if you're mad at God and he
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didn't show up when your dad died or your mom
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left or something, or something you prayed for, even your
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dog dying, okay, for a little kid, when the dog died,
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it's a big deal.
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Speaker 1: It's a big deal.
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Speaker 2: Or how about when people die, Suzanne, and then your
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dad dies. Oh, my God, I have several clients with that.
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Their dad died, and then people said, God took him home.
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And you're four. So God took your dad, and I'm
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going to ask God, I wanted my dad to live.
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For me, when I was under the age of seven,
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my baby sister died. And I didn't know God was
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taking kids. Like, it's one thing if he takes the
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old people, but, you know, and you think of how you,
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how people, did somebody explain it to you?
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: So to me, it was like, oh my God, I
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better help my mother because I know I'm helping my mother.
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I knew she had a direct line, but he didn't
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listen to her either. That confused me. I thought maybe
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God was busy. That's, I think, how I put it together.
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He was very busy in the rest of the world.
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He didn't hear our prayers. I didn't fall totally away
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from God because we had a lot of other really
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good things happen that we prayed. We always prayed. Many
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of you always prayed, probably, you know, your little rosaries
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like we did. And, and, and, but to take my
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baby sister, God, what do you?
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Speaker 1: So what I'm experiencing now is very different when we
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do this live is I'm feeling the collective angst of
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everybody who's tuning in live right now. There's a lot
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to carry because we're all right now swimming in that
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program and we're all going back to that pre-seven trauma.
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And it's why my friend Brenda came back from across
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the veil within the hours of passing and said, Suzanne,
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you're all walking wounded. So first of all, let's all
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just put your hands over your heart and feel compassion
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for yourself and for all you've been through and for
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every one of us as beautiful souls who decided to
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come here and have this love and full expression experience life. So, okay.
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Speaker 2: Just breathe in. We're just so loved.
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Speaker 1: But now, Mary, let's lift this energy that I feel
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for everybody right now. Beautiful. We don't want to just
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dismiss it. We want to, as you said, transmute it.
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Speaker 2: Transmute it. You can't just dismiss energy.
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Speaker 1: Upgrade it. Up-level it. Acknowledge it and make it.
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Speaker 2: Transmute it. Allow yourself to shine, right? Exactly. Yeah. All right? Okay.
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You want to do some tapping right now since we
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triggered everybody out?
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Speaker 1: I do because I can feel the collective angst and
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I'm ready to clear that out.
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Speaker 2: I always say about triggering people, it's just a free service.
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Another free service I offer. It's just like you come
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in my space, something's going to get triggered. Mind my
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own business.
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Speaker 1: All right.
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Speaker 2: So everybody just take a breath with Just take a deep,
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deep breath.
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Speaker 1: And I'm going to do it too. Everybody, really, if
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you're not driving.
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Speaker 2: Follow along. Yeah, exactly. Or pull over and.
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Speaker 1: Do your work. Yeah, pull over. Do it with us.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Take a deep breath with me. And something's been
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triggered up. You don't even have to know what it is.
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Speaker 1: Okay?
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Speaker 2: Just be aware. Wow. There's maybe some anxiety in me. Wow.
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Or sadness is in me. That was me.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Notice your body. Just notice what got programmed in you
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or who betrayed you. It might be that betrayal one.
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Just breathe into that. And one of the things I
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love to do in the way I work these days
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especially is to really tap into the little you, the
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little under the age of seven you. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: And feel the energy she's carrying Accordingly, we have a
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lot of guys.
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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
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Speaker 1: Oh, excuse me. And whatever language, whatever nickname really resonates
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with you, talk to that person.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. Maybe you're angry at God. There is no God.
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Where are you? Why didn't you come? Whatever it is,
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just tap into the little one, and we're going to
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do some tapping.
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Speaker 1: Okay? So it is safe to feel that now, right?
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We want to feel that.
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Speaker 2: Especially in this vortex that is created right here for
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all of you.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: This is one... big vortex of life. So breathe into it.
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Use your breath. Stay with, stay with yourself. Now you're
22:35
going to come down three inches and over three inches.
22:38
There's a sore spot here. You, you've got to find it.
22:40
Speaker 1: Okay.
22:41
Speaker 2: And you're going to rub there on both sides. Yeah.
22:46
You can feel it. It's sore. It's like, ow.
22:48
Speaker 1: Okay. And why is it sore?
22:50
Speaker 2: Because this is a neurobladiphatic drainage spot on the body.
22:53
So if something in your body is, um, You ate
22:56
something or drank something or have a perfume on or
22:59
something that's a little toxic to you, it can tox
23:04
you out. It's a polarity thing that we do, polarity,
23:07
so your energy is going in the right direction.
23:09
Speaker 1: But not just eating, drinking, things we think can get sick.
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Speaker 2: Exactly. You can throw yourself right out of whack. Okay?
23:16
So we want to get this point. And you're just
23:19
going to say, even though I'm upset or I'm sad
23:24
or I'm mad at God, you can even be mad
23:25
at God in this group.
23:27
Speaker 1: Okay?
23:27
Speaker 2: Sad or just scared. I accept myself. You just accept
23:32
that that energy is in you. You don't fight it.
23:35
Speaker 1: You know what I'm feeling?
23:36
Speaker 2: I accept that. Yeah.
23:38
Speaker 1: Say that, everybody.
23:39
Speaker 2: Yeah, even though I'm feeling what I'm feeling, I accept myself.
23:43
Even though I'm feeling what I'm feeling, I accept myself.
23:50
And the other thing for some of you, you could say,
23:52
and say it to yourself if you want, and I
23:55
want my little one to know It's safe to feel this.
24:00
Speaker 1: And I want.
24:01
Speaker 2: My little ones and my little girl, my little boy.
24:05
Speaker 1: I want little Susie to know.
24:06
Speaker 2: It's safe to feel this. Yeah.
24:09
Speaker 3: Yeah.
24:09
Speaker 2: So the adult you is there with the younger you.
24:12
You're there and you've got her. The awakened you is
24:15
there with the blocked you. The scared you. You're just scared. Yeah. Yeah.
24:22
Or mad at God. I was mad at God. Now
24:27
you're going to tap here. This is the meridian for resistance,
24:31
like if you're afraid to release something. So you're just
24:34
going to say, you can say, I choose or I
24:36
decide it. I'm finding this helpful that you're sharing what
24:40
these meridians do.
24:41
Speaker 1: I didn't know that.
24:41
Speaker 2: This is resistant. The truth is most people don't know it,
24:46
so it's okay. But it's helpful.
24:47
Speaker 1: So this is the resistance one.
24:49
Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay. So here you say an intention statement because
24:53
this will fix the reversal that goes with the intention.
24:56
So what's your intention? I've decided to release this fear
25:01
of God or this anger at God or whatever the
25:04
energy is.
25:05
Speaker 1: I am ready to release this.
25:06
Speaker 2: This fear.
25:07
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
25:09
Speaker 2: I am releasing this fear. And then I always say
25:13
all the roots and origins of it and all that
25:16
it means and does to me. Why? Because some of
25:19
this goes back to a past life. This can go
25:21
back to an alternate life you're living right now. This
25:25
can go back to your childhood. It can go back
25:27
in your DNA to all your ancestors who were mad
25:29
at God. It can go anywhere. So when I say that,
25:33
the energy is a bigger clearing, not just for me,
25:36
but for my ancestors and for my children. This is
25:39
why tapping is so important. You clear it out of
25:42
the DNA, the energetic DNA, the lineage. You hear about
25:47
that more and more now, right? So I'm saying I'm
25:49
choosing to release energy. This anger, this disappointment in God
25:53
or whatever, this fear of trusting my intuition. Unsafe pattern.
25:57
Whatever you got. All the roots and origins of it
26:01
and all that it means and does to me.
26:03
Speaker 1: All that it means and does to me.
26:06
Speaker 2: Suzanne, you're awake. You know your divinity. Energy has to
26:10
do what you tell it to do. So give it
26:12
a job. I am choosing to release this fear energy
26:16
or to transmute, you could say, whatever you want to say.
26:18
All the roots and origins of it. All the roots
26:21
and hearts and stuff. And all that it means and
26:23
does to me. Means and does to me. Feel it
26:27
in your body. Oh, I forgot to tell you to
26:29
feel it in your body. You got to feel it there.
26:30
Speaker 1: Where is it?
26:30
Speaker 2: Well, this fear, this anger, this upsetness. So you feel
26:35
it there. You're always focusing on the body. Because if
26:38
you're not in the body, the tapping doesn't work as well.
26:43
You got to be here to shift something, okay? The
26:45
meridian system's here in the body.
26:46
Speaker 1: Okay? Okay?
26:48
Speaker 2: Now we're going to tap the points. And as I said,
26:50
each one goes with a different emotion. Eyebrows here right
26:53
where they start. That's it. The side of your eyes.
26:57
You stay with the energy in the body where it's contracted.
27:01
Under your eyes. If you don't know consciously where it is.
27:03
Speaker 1: Just tell... We don't need to be saying anything as
27:06
we do? No.
27:08
Speaker 2: We'd already set our intention. We just got to line
27:11
up the body. Here at your collarbone. As if you
27:15
had a skinny tie. It's on both sides. No, you're
27:18
out a little too far. Come in.
27:19
Speaker 1: Okay.
27:22
Speaker 2: Make your hands like a fist. Come down four inches
27:25
and poke around. Now, this one's always tenser on most people.
27:28
If you poke around, you'll find it, especially if you're scared.
27:35
Take your hands like a fist and under your chest.
27:40
And then fingers like a laser at the top of
27:42
your head. You can do it like this. You can
27:44
do it like this. I'm having more success, I think,
27:46
like this. This is newer for me.
27:49
Speaker 1: Okay. All right.
27:51
Speaker 2: Hands like this. There's a soft spot. This is a
27:54
very powerful spot on the body right here between your
27:57
ring finger and your little finger right there.
28:00
Speaker 1: Yeah.
28:01
Speaker 2: And then put this on your body. This is called
28:04
triple heater, triple warmer. It actually goes to three levels
28:08
of the body.
28:08
Speaker 1: So it's very powerful. That's a big dress one, right?
28:11
Speaker 2: Yep. Very powerful spot on the body. And some people
28:14
don't even know that one. Okay. So your head's straight.
28:17
Now close your eyes and open them. And again, you're
28:21
staying with the tension in your body. Head straight. Look
28:24
down in one corner with your eyes. Then come up.
28:27
And then look down in the other corner with your eyes.
28:31
And come up.
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Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
28:35
Speaker 2: Head straight. Now, just move your eyes as if you're
28:38
looking at a clock. Make sure you get all the numbers.
28:43
And roll them all the way around in a circle.
28:45
One way. And keep tapping at the same time. It's
28:49
like walking and chewing gum.
28:51
Speaker 1: Okay.
28:51
Speaker 2: And then go in the opposite direction with your eyes.
28:54
Speaker 1: And what is this doing?
28:56
Speaker 2: This is lighting up your brain. So now the brain
28:58
is firing. Okay. And that helps, especially if there's been
29:02
shock to the brain. People who have had a trauma,
29:04
a car accident, any violence to the body, anything. Now
29:09
head straight. Now you're going to hum. Humming will put
29:12
you in the right hemisphere, counting the left and humming
29:15
the right. So you hum a tune because it's more creative,
29:18
right hemisphere, like.
29:23
And then count. One, two, three, four, five.
29:25
Speaker 1: One, two, three, four, five. Left brain.
29:28
Speaker 2: And then, right, and then hum again. Right. Yeah.
29:34
Speaker 1: Great. Okay.
29:34
Speaker 2: Now we tap again. So you tap, you balance your brain.
29:39
and then you tap again.
29:40
Speaker 1: And everybody, the proof is in the doing, so as
29:43
silly as this may seem to you, just do it.
29:48
Speaker 4: Even though you look like the girl in The Devil
29:50
Wears Prada 2, a little crazy, we don't care.
29:52
Speaker 1: We don't care because it works.
29:55
Speaker 2: It works.
29:56
Speaker 3: Yeah.
29:57
Speaker 2: And you can reprogram yourself. Have the childhood you always
30:01
wish you wanted under.
30:04
Speaker 1: Your chest. You know, as a medium, I want to
30:06
be as clear as possible vessel. I have a reading
30:09
today for the first time in three weeks after all
30:11
my busyness. I am clear in this vessel. So whatever
30:14
you guys are trying to clear, this is doing it.
30:17
Speaker 2: Exactly. Now take a breath. Think about what you were
30:23
working on and notice your body. Notice what's happening. And
30:29
notice your little one, your little girl, your little boy.
30:33
What's happening?
30:35
Speaker 1: My little girl wants to dance.
30:37
Speaker 2: Exactly. Now here's another thing I do. This isn't part
30:41
of Tami. This is just something else I do that
30:43
I'm teaching actually clinicians now how to do. So now
30:46
go to your little girl and take her in your
30:49
arms and bring her to you.
30:51
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
30:52
Speaker 2: You belong with me. You belong with me, little one.
30:55
And whatever she got programmed, now you program her. If
31:00
you had a daughter, what would you say to her?
31:03
If you had a son. I'm doing something. If you
31:06
had a son, what would you say? You're safe. You're okay.
31:11
Speaker 1: You are so very loved. Yeah.
31:13
Speaker 2: Like I would say to my little girl, God didn't
31:16
take your sister. With everything I know now about soul
31:20
and contract, I would speak like that to her. I
31:25
would soothe her. This isn't a God thing. Whatever I
31:29
would say. So we all have more knowledge now. You've
31:31
been around Suzanne. You're getting all this. Take that knowledge
31:35
to the little one and reprogram her. And then what
31:40
you can do is you can now take her if
31:45
she's ready. She might not be ready yet, which is fine.
31:48
But if she's ready, take her, walk outside of that,
31:52
wherever she is, the house, whatever, and then grow her up.
31:56
Skip over the lousy parts. You're just sure. Hey, now
31:58
I'm doing this and now we have a car. We
32:01
have a credit card. We can go where we want.
32:04
And like discernment. Children don't have discernment. I have discernment now.
32:09
Children don't have it. It's the brain isn't that developed.
32:12
That's why you're a good guy or a bad guy
32:13
under the age of seven. There's no discernment under the
32:17
age of seven.
32:18
Speaker 1: Okay?
32:19
Speaker 2: It's good or bad. It's like there's no gray, you know?
32:22
And grow them up. Grow her up or him up.
32:25
Come all the way up to present time. Then close
32:27
your eyes for a minute. All the way. See everything
32:30
you need to show her. How life turned out. You're
32:32
not sick anymore. And when she's ready, open your eyes
32:37
and say, look out my eyes and see where I
32:40
am today. And feel what happens. Take a breath. And
32:46
now sometimes here you do another round of tapping to
32:49
just integrate this part into today. The program is upgraded
32:54
and she's here.
33:09
Speaker 1: One thing that Mary didn't do and often does is
33:12
rate your discomfort before you start on a scale of
33:15
10 and then rate it afterwards. And it's really important
33:18
to notice that because you see almost always a full,
33:24
jumping many numbers, if not just completely gone, whatever the
33:28
discomfort is.
33:29
Speaker 2: And if it doesn't go, it's not a problem. It
33:32
just means you've got to do more detective work. What
33:34
am I afraid would happen if I didn't? Or if
33:38
I did this, if I release that. That's the same
33:40
thing with your intuition.
33:42
Speaker 1: And it's okay to do multiple rounds, right?
33:44
Speaker 3: Oh, definitely.
33:44
Speaker 2: Most people need multiple rounds. I'm just giving you the
33:48
faster version of it. Most people need several rounds of it.
33:51
Because there's, well, wait a minute. You know, because programs
33:55
also get put in. Under the age of seven is
33:57
a big time. The other time is when you're in
33:59
trauma because your brain does go into theta in a trauma.
34:02
That's why time expands. if you see somebody who's been
34:05
in a car accident and they'll seem like it was for,
34:08
you know, you say that's data. Some of that is data.
34:12
So now it's in there like a program. So you
34:15
want to, we have to reprogram that a little bit.
34:17
So yes, most people take, take, it takes several rounds,
34:21
but then that's how you finish it. So if you're
34:23
not like, if we say you were an eight upsetness
34:26
and now you're down to a four or a five,
34:28
you might not come up. That part might not come
34:30
all the way to here, but you get that part
34:32
down to a two or a one, they come. And
34:34
then you'd feel like, whoa.
34:36
Speaker 1: Yeah. You can't even use this for physical pain. I
34:39
had some severe stomach pains about a month ago and
34:43
had been doing some tapping. And I said, I wonder
34:46
if this will work for this. And it took five rounds.
34:49
But the pain completely went away. It was astounding.
34:52
Speaker 2: Astounding.
34:53
Speaker 1: Yeah.
34:53
Speaker 2: I remember my wildest case of that was somebody in
34:56
a car accident who was trapped. And they had to use, like,
34:59
the jaws of life to get her out. It was
35:01
really hard. And she could walk at that point. But
35:04
then when she got home, she could not get out
35:07
of her bed. She could not move for five months.
35:11
They took her to doctors. They'd have to carry her.
35:14
She couldn't move. She was trapped there in her mind,
35:18
you see. And she was actually, she came, whatever, we
35:22
did the tapping with her. And she got up and
35:26
walked across the room. I was like, whoa.
35:30
Speaker 1: You know, I didn't expect anything.
35:31
Speaker 2: I don't know.
35:33
Speaker 1: Absolutely miracles because you're dealing with energy that is not
35:37
flowing as it's meant to be. So what we just
35:40
did there was to clear away something that was blocking
35:43
you from trusting your intuition, which is pretty cool. In
35:47
a few minutes, we're going to bring on a guest.
35:48
I see Roxanne waiting in the studio, but Roxanne, I
35:52
can't see you and we're going to need to see you.
35:54
So if you have a camera, there we go. So
35:56
we'll bring you on in a minute, and we're going
35:58
to hear what your issue is, maybe relates to this,
36:01
and then Mary will do some tapping that will relate
36:03
to everyone. Okay? Before we do, Mary, give me a second.
36:07
I want to share something with everybody real quick. Okay?
36:10
All right. So this is live, and I got to
36:13
tell you, this is the end of September as I
36:15
record this. Quick announcement. October 11th, we are doing a
36:21
charity event to raise money for the Jed Foundation, which
36:25
is all about going into the schools and helping young
36:28
people with mental illness and suicidal ideation to come to
36:32
see how important it is to understand that. I have
36:36
brought through far too many people across the veil who
36:39
completed suicide, so we're on a mission here to get
36:42
people feeling better now and help them understand about life's challenges.
36:49
So a Channeling for Charity event, October 11th, to raise
36:53
funds for the Jed Foundation. Go to my website, SuzanneGiesemann.com,
36:57
and scroll down to the highlights coming up. You'll see
37:00
the link to register in advance for Channeling for Charity.
37:03
We're asking for an initial donation of only $ 15, but
37:07
if you want to really support the Jed Foundation, you
37:10
can give any amount. We just had somebody give a $ 1, 000 contribution.
37:15
I have pledged $ 20, 000 to the Jed Foundation because I
37:19
know our community can do it. So you'll join me
37:21
here in my Zoom room. The link will come to
37:25
you when you register on my website for October 11th. Sanaya,
37:29
my guides, are going to come in. We're going to
37:31
do a channeling session and hear what they have to say,
37:34
not necessarily about the subject of suicide, but whatever the
37:38
collective group needs to hear, and then Sanaya will answer
37:41
questions from all of you. So thanks, Mary. Sorry to
37:45
take the time for that. Oh, absolutely.
37:48
Speaker 2: I'm on board for that myself. I'll definitely donate. Thank you. Yes.
37:52
Speaker 1: I do channeling for charity usually twice a year, and
37:56
it's a very powerful event and serves a beautiful purpose.
38:00
100% of everybody's contributions will go directly to the Jed Foundation.
38:06
All right. So back to Mary, who's talking about... tapping
38:10
for intuition and opening up your intuition, but for anything
38:14
that is blocking you. And we have Roxanne in the
38:16
studio and this is live. So it's always like a
38:20
wild card. Hi, Roxanne. All right. You're muted. So please
38:24
click that microphone down at the bottom. There we go.
38:26
Speaker 3: Hi, how are you?
38:27
Speaker 1: I'm good.
38:28
Speaker 3: This is incredible. I can't wait.
38:31
Speaker 5: I'm excited to join your program in October. I'm a
38:35
therapist and I can see using this with my clients.
38:38
So I'm so excited about this. What came to my
38:41
mind was that I don't trust myself. And this, I
38:46
did not, even as a therapist, I just, it came
38:50
to me. And how I know this is I had
38:55
a somatic therapist once do this exercise with me where
38:58
she said, okay, you stand there, I'll stand here. And
39:01
how close can you get before you're uncomfortable? And the
39:05
first thing I said to her was, can I close
39:07
my eyes? And it was like, I could not even
39:11
trust myself, like, but I can trust spirit. I can
39:15
trust if my eyes are closed, I can trust God.
39:18
And so that comes from I know childhood. And I
39:22
think that me.
39:24
Speaker 3: Being able to trust myself, my body, right, my body,
39:29
I can trust.
39:30
Speaker 1: I think this is a great topic to bring in
39:32
because it's one of those universal things. So Mary, you
39:36
want to jump in and show how to deal with that? Yeah.
39:39
Speaker 2: So take a breath. Just go inside. Eyes open.
39:42
Speaker 1: Let's do it together again because we're healing ourselves.
39:45
Speaker 2: I love that. And just feel how uncomfortable it is.
39:50
with eyes open and to connect with, you know it's in,
39:55
you know source, right? Okay, let's do it this way
39:59
because I can see you. See how uncomfortable. First, take
40:01
a moment with me and close your eyes and connect
40:03
with source. Okay.
40:05
Speaker 1: All right.
40:07
Speaker 2: Just give me thumbs up when you're connected.
40:11
Speaker 1: Great.
40:12
Speaker 2: Now, very slowly, very purposefully, open your eyes. Look at me. Suzanne,
40:22
what's happening in your body when you do that?
40:26
Speaker 3: I feel a little anxious.
40:28
Speaker 2: Okay, so tap into it. Where's that holding in the body?
40:32
Speaker 3: In my legs, actually.
40:35
Speaker 2: Like you want to run? Oh, maybe. Like that?
40:39
Speaker 3: Like in my feet, yes.
40:40
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like get me out of here, get
40:42
me out of here.
40:43
Speaker 1: Like that.
40:43
Speaker 2: Give it some words. Let's activate it a little more.
40:47
Speaker 1: Like jumpy.
40:48
Speaker 3: Like jumpy, I want to jump out.
40:51
Speaker 2: Okay, great. So breathe into that. Down three inches and
40:54
over three inches. Oh, zero to ten. How high is that?
40:58
How much man do you want to get out?
41:00
Speaker 1: Keep your eyes open.
41:01
Speaker 2: Five. All right, that's not too bad. So even though
41:04
I want to run and escape and jump out of
41:06
this body, like where's the ejector button on this body?
41:09
I accept myself.
41:11
Speaker 1: I accept myself.
41:12
Speaker 2: Yeah, even though I want to escape, I want to run,
41:14
I want to get out of here. You find your words.
41:17
I accept myself.
41:18
Speaker 3: I accept myself.
41:20
Speaker 1: Yeah.
41:20
Speaker 2: Even though I'm really, I want to get out of here.
41:22
Just feel how it's getting, looks like it's getting worse, right?
41:26
Like are you four to five or do you go
41:28
up to about an eight or nine? You look like.
41:31
Speaker 1: Yeah.
41:31
Speaker 2: I think it went to like a seven.
41:33
Speaker 3: Yeah.
41:33
Speaker 1: Yeah.
41:33
Speaker 2: You look like you're getting worse. That sometimes happens. Thank
41:36
you for being a good general. I accept myself.
41:40
Speaker 1: I accept myself.
41:41
Speaker 2: And I'm going to have you say this and I
41:42
want my younger self to know.
41:44
Speaker 1: And I want my younger self to know.
41:46
Speaker 2: It's safe to be here.
41:47
Speaker 3: It's safe to be here.
41:48
Speaker 2: Yeah. Tap here.
41:54
Speaker 3: I got to put my thumb down for that.
41:56
Speaker 2: Yep. We're good. Tap there. And you're just going to say,
42:01
I'm choosing to release the fear of being in my body.
42:05
Speaker 3: I'm choosing to release the fear of being in my body.
42:08
Speaker 2: Completely.
42:09
Speaker 3: Completely.
42:11
Speaker 2: All the roots and origins of it.
42:13
Speaker 3: All the roots and origins of it.
42:14
Speaker 2: And all that it means and does to me.
42:17
Speaker 3: And all that it means and does to me.
42:18
Speaker 2: We could also say, maybe for you, I'm choosing to
42:21
release the fear of trusting my body.
42:23
Speaker 3: I am choosing to.
42:24
Speaker 2: That accurate? If it's not right, you change your words.
42:28
Speaker 3: I'm choosing to release.
42:29
Speaker 5: I'm choosing to trust myself.
42:31
Speaker 1: I'm choosing.
42:31
Speaker 3: No, no, no.
42:32
Speaker 1: I want to release.
42:33
Speaker 2: I'm choosing to release the fear of trusting my body.
42:36
Speaker 3: I am choosing to release the fear of trusting my body.
42:40
Speaker 2: All the roots and origins of it.
42:42
Speaker 3: All the roots and origins.
42:43
Speaker 2: And all that it means and does to me.
42:45
Speaker 3: All the things it does to me.
42:47
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm choosing to release the fear of trusting.
42:50
Speaker 3: I am choosing to release the fear of trusting.
42:54
Speaker 2: All the roots and origins of it.
42:56
Speaker 3: All the roots and origins of it.
42:58
Speaker 2: And all that it means and does to me.
43:00
Speaker 3: And all that it means and does to me.
43:02
Speaker 2: Okay. Now we're going to tap. So your eyebrows up here.
43:07
The side of your eyes. You stay with the body,
43:13
that wanting to run away feeling. Under your eyes. Under
43:17
your nose. And your lips. Collarbone. Under your arms. Poke around.
43:28
This one should be tender on you. And under your chest.
43:36
Both sides. We're going to do both sides of the body, okay?
43:40
If you can, you can use both your hands.
43:42
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. Okay.
43:47
Speaker 2: And then fingers up here at the top of your head.
43:49
And the back of your hand. Head straight. Close your
43:58
eyes and open your eyes. Yeah. Head straight. Look down
44:04
in one corner. And then look down in the other corner.
44:10
Head straight, roll your eyes all the way around in
44:12
one way, and then in the opposite direction. Make sure
44:17
you get all the numbers of the clock out. And
44:20
then hum.
44:23
Speaker 1: One, two, three, four, five.
44:26
Speaker 3: One, two, three, four, five.
44:27
Speaker 2: And then hum. You're clapping again, Ira. Side of your eyes.
44:40
Under your eyes. Under your nose. And your lips. Under
44:48
your arms. Poke around. This baby should be tender. We're
44:51
doing two rounds here. Under your chest. Okay. Fingers up
44:58
here at the top of your head. All right.
45:04
Speaker 1: All right.
45:04
Speaker 2: Let's do it again. Take a deep breath through your
45:07
body and tell me what's happening.
45:12
Speaker 3: I actually feel release, like real release.
45:19
Speaker 2: Okay. So now take a breath. Keep your eyes open.
45:24
Speaker 1: Do it this way.
45:25
Speaker 2: Close your eyes and tap into your intuition again. And
45:31
then very slowly and consciously open your eyes and look
45:34
out your eyes. Tell me what's happening now.
45:41
Speaker 3: I feel safe.
45:44
Speaker 2: You feel more here?
45:45
Speaker 3: Yes.
45:47
Speaker 1: Yeah.
45:48
Speaker 2: You're here. Like integrated. You're integrated. Exactly. Now, this is
45:54
what's really important as a therapist, as a mother, as
46:00
somebody who serves other people, to be in your body
46:05
and emanating this out your eyes. The eyes are important
46:10
to be fully here. Many of us like to leave
46:13
the body, or we have to leave it when the
46:16
body's being hurt or something. We learn how to get out.
46:18
Kids can always get out. They're real good at it. Okay?
46:22
We get out, but then we're not in.
46:24
Speaker 3: Right.
46:26
Speaker 2: But to truly serve in this dimension, you've got to
46:28
be here.
46:29
Speaker 3: Yes.
46:31
Speaker 2: So if you want to be a therapist, so to
46:32
be a real good therapist, you can really read and
46:36
be into it. I mean, I can't be your therapist
46:38
with my eyes closed.
46:39
Speaker 1: Okay? Okay.
46:40
Speaker 2: I can't be a mother with my eyes closed. Like,
46:41
what should I do for my kid?
46:43
Speaker 1: I don't know.
46:43
Speaker 2: My eyes are open.
46:44
Speaker 1: Right.
46:45
Speaker 2: I haven't been here. So that's the key.
46:49
Speaker 1: Okay.
46:49
Speaker 2: And so really what you want to do is exactly
46:52
what you did. We triggered you up. Then we did
46:54
the tapping.
46:56
Speaker 1: And then we'd see.
46:57
Speaker 2: Now it could have taken two rounds, three rounds, four.
46:58
It doesn't matter how long it takes.
47:01
Speaker 1: Right.
47:01
Speaker 2: And you may need to do another one. And you
47:03
may need to do this practice with somebody right there
47:07
with you versus we're on a– podcast.
47:10
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
47:11
Speaker 2: You can do it. You can be fully here, fully
47:14
in your power, fully emanating spirit.
47:17
Speaker 1: It's amazing.
47:19
Speaker 3: Thank you.
47:20
Speaker 1: You got it. Amazing. Come on screen. All right.
47:26
Speaker 2: Thank you for coming on.
47:27
Speaker 3: Yeah.
47:28
Speaker 1: That was awesome because it was super relevant to our
47:30
topic because it's all about feeling that inner guidance, tapping
47:34
into intuition. And if there's something blocking that, You're not
47:39
going to trust it. You're not going to be aware
47:40
of it.
47:41
Speaker 2: Right. It's like static on the line. You know, it's
47:43
like you're trying to tap into a station, but she
47:46
opens her eyes and her antenna goes off. Yeah. You
47:49
see what I'm saying? And the minute you're triggered, it's
47:52
like what you do, Suzanne. The minute I'm in pain,
47:55
the minute I know I'm off. Okay. I just quiet
47:58
my body down. We're here in these human bodies that
48:01
got programmed. We have cellular memory. We have ancestral memory.
48:06
We have past life.
48:07
Speaker 1: Who left?
48:07
Speaker 2: Heck knows what's going on. But if you focus on
48:10
the body and just and then reprogram it like I'm safe,
48:13
it's safe to be here, you know, versus I want
48:16
to run away when I think of somebody who the
48:18
body wants to run. What does the body want to do? Mary,
48:21
some of you, some of them.
48:23
Speaker 1: In fact, I got to interrupt you because you just
48:25
said safe to be in your body. You were so
48:27
instrumental to me in your teaching. When I had my
48:30
herniated disc a year ago because I didn't feel safe
48:33
in this body. And I tapped in the shower and
48:35
I tapped when I could sit in my meditation chair.
48:39
And so beneath physical pain is often stuck energy from
48:45
old stuff. Exactly. Yeah.
48:48
Speaker 2: Yeah. And some of you will want to run like
48:50
she did. But others of you freeze. You go into
48:53
a freeze response. That's what the brain did when you
48:56
were a kid. And so it's going through that, like
48:59
feeling the freeze. It's safe to exhale. And again, reprogramming.
49:06
It's safe to be in the body. And then you'll watch.
49:10
Life will just shift. And then it's just easier to
49:14
be here on this planet. Kind of crazy to be here,
49:17
but whatever.
49:19
Speaker 1: I agree. I find when I tap afterwards for the
49:22
next few minutes, I can feel a total buzz in
49:25
my body. It's just this instant validation that energy, the
49:29
life force is flowing the way it's supposed to be.
49:32
It's the vibrancy, right? Exactly.
49:35
Speaker 2: Yeah. And the other thing I think about, like we all,
49:39
had to split off in our childhoods. It was too hard.
49:42
Times were just upsetting and people didn't, whatever. And when
49:47
these parts want to come home, these child parts want
49:50
to come home. I have one course, one thing I
49:53
do is called No Part Left Behind. You know, it's like,
49:56
let's bring them here. Then you're this real, you're integrated.
50:01
And she said it. And then your field becomes even
50:07
more impactful on this planet like a field a field
50:11
of love a field of integration you don't even have
50:13
to really open your mouth unless you have a you
50:16
know you're getting paid to do something or something but
50:18
you know mostly it's just you walk in the grocery
50:21
store and your field makes a difference yes your children
50:26
with your your co-workers you don't have to be doing
50:29
she's a therapist you're playing a role so the more
50:32
she can be eyes open and get her intuitive hips
50:35
like And there's no doubt they're coming. I just have
50:38
to be maybe a little bit still, but not have
50:40
to close my eyes. You know? Yeah.
50:43
Speaker 1: Yeah.
50:44
Speaker 2: Now I get it.
50:44
Speaker 1: That's why. So Mary's special event. Have you stopped trusting yourself?
50:48
Really worthwhile. Totally free. The link's down in the show
50:51
notes here. I know I'm going to tune in. And
50:54
then I've taken several of your courses. That's like a
50:57
teaser for a course you're going to be taking. If
50:58
you want to take the course, you'll find out about
51:00
it that night. But otherwise, just another round of tapping
51:03
and figuring out how to tap into your intuition, which is.
51:07
It's an essential skill.
51:08
Speaker 2: It's not a luxury item. Okay, guys, it's just not
51:12
a luxury item anymore. Like that jewelry in this is,
51:15
this is, this is like essential in this day and
51:19
age with all the chaotic and you know, it's just
51:22
so easy and all the energy's lying around and the
51:24
fear and the, this and that. How do I stay aligned?
51:29
Speaker 1: I'm not going to, we're not going to do any
51:30
more tapping. So those of you in the waiting room, sorry,
51:33
I'm being guided by spirit that our, Group one that
51:36
we did together and then the one example without Roxanne
51:38
was enough to show everybody the value of this and
51:40
how it worked. But Mary, you do these free events
51:43
every week, Tapping Tuesdays, right?
51:45
Speaker 2: Oh, yes, yes. So when the pandemic happened in 2000
51:50
or 2020, whenever 2000 is to me, 2020, I just
51:55
kept thinking, Suzanne, how can I know this and not
51:58
share it with the world? I just couldn't. So I
52:00
started a Zoom thing. And we called it Tapping Tuesday
52:03
at 2 Eastern Time. So it's every Tuesday at 2
52:06
unless I'm traveling or teaching like you. And people come
52:10
from all over the world.
52:12
Speaker 1: Come on.
52:13
Speaker 2: Thousands have signed up for it all over the world.
52:16
And we all come together. People will raise their hands
52:18
and I'll start working with them. You never know what's
52:20
going to happen on that thing. And I can't stop myself.
52:23
I do it pretty much every week.
52:25
Speaker 1: I love it.
52:26
Speaker 2: It goes for an hour. Everybody gets a healing. And
52:29
somebody will go. And inevitably they.
52:32
Speaker 1: Have your issue.
52:33
Speaker 2: Like it's like inevitable, like, okay, I guess we're working
52:36
on mothers right now, or we're working on the fear
52:38
of maybe this like hers, you know, it's a group energy.
52:42
It's so powerful. And the truth is when you tap
52:47
in a group, the research shows that your cortisol level
52:50
lowers like 43, 47%, something like that in one hour
52:54
of group tapping.
52:55
Speaker 1: Okay. So how are y'all feeling right now? Compared to
52:58
how you felt an hour ago. Because we've been sitting
53:00
in this group energy. We tap together. Do you feel
53:03
more relaxed? That's just the nervous system resetting, which is beautiful.
53:10
Speaker 2: And if you don't, it's okay.
53:11
Speaker 1: By the way, if you feel more relaxed, if you
53:13
love this show, please click subscribe, right? If you're new
53:17
to this, that pushes it out to more people so
53:19
that more people find this channel because we try to
53:21
bring things that will help you. Tune in more to spirit.
53:25
Tune in more to your own intuition. So please subscribe.
53:29
Speaker 2: Yeah.
53:30
Speaker 1: But meanwhile, what have we not talked about, Mary?
53:35
Speaker 2: Let's see. Intuition. If we look at intuition, you always
53:38
want to use the tapping first before you then ask
53:43
the question. Because you want to get your question, then tap,
53:48
and then ask your question.
53:50
Speaker 1: Of your own higher self. So when you want to
53:52
tune into intuition, you're telling us, do some tapping first. Now,
53:56
is that tapping with a specific purpose? Or can we
53:59
just tap to feel more open?
54:01
Speaker 2: You can tap for anything. You maybe want to tap for,
54:06
I'm choosing to ease my fear of knowing this answer.
54:09
Speaker 1: Oh. Somebody reached out to me the other day because
54:13
they got some bad news. And I said, they wanted
54:16
a session on the spot. I need help. And I
54:19
just said, let's breathe. The answer, you already know the answer.
54:23
The answer is right within you. When you breathe and
54:26
open up, you can get it. She wrote back and said,
54:28
I knew you were going to say that. Of course
54:31
I was. So, okay, that's beautiful. So tap to take
54:36
away the fear of getting the right answer.
54:40
Speaker 2: Or getting the answer you don't want to get. Because
54:44
once you get the answer and the knowingness, Now you
54:48
have to, then the fear of taking action on the knowingness,
54:51
like what I know. That's like another level of it.
54:54
You know, do you really want to know? And you
54:56
could even ask yourself, do I really want to know?
54:58
And there'll be a voice inside going, no, I don't.
55:01
And it's okay.
55:02
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you're not happy. Like example, you're not happy
55:06
in your job and in your career. You want to change,
55:09
but you don't want to change. So you're going to
55:11
ask your intuition, what should I do? What is the best?
55:14
We don't like that word should, right? What is the
55:15
best next move for me? And you already know, right?
55:19
Speaker 2: You know. But you want to go, are you sure?
55:22
And then the fear that, and sometimes the fear is
55:27
the unknown. Now remember, the brain doesn't like what it
55:30
doesn't know. The brain likes what it knows. Like if
55:33
somebody sits in your chair at the dinner table, you're like,
55:36
get out of my chair. This is my chair. You know,
55:38
like the brain codes different and is wrong. So don't
55:44
expect to be calm about what you do. The brain doesn't,
55:47
it doesn't want to do something different. Like, you know,
55:50
you move to a new house and you're still, the
55:52
car's still going to the old, like it takes the
55:54
brain a while. There's always a leap. That's why they
55:57
call it a leap of faith. There's always because the
56:00
brain's not on board for change.
56:04
Speaker 1: So let's get back to that issue of this is
56:05
such a great topic of being afraid to hear the
56:07
answer and acting on it. So we want to engender
56:12
that feeling of fear, right?
56:14
Speaker 2: Well, it's there. I don't know if we want it.
56:17
Speaker 1: No, but I mean, we want to make sure we
56:18
feel it because that's what we're trying to heal, what
56:21
you feel. So what would be the setup phrase for that?
56:26
Speaker 2: So for that, you would just feel it.
56:27
Speaker 4: First, just feel it. You would just say, even though
56:30
I'm afraid of knowing. Even though I'm afraid of, of taking, or,
56:34
or because sounds like, I don't know if I can
56:37
handle that. Even though I'm afraid that I can't handle it.
56:41
Speaker 2: Okay. And, and, and remember, you're only going to get
56:45
with intuition, like the next step. All of us want the,
56:48
you know, the whole map and then we're going to
56:50
go here and then this money's coming and then I'm
56:52
going here and then I'm sure to be successful. It
56:55
doesn't work like that on earth. Okay. Things have to
56:57
kind of line up like, you know, you get like another,
57:01
but the, the, trust that i can handle whatever comes
57:06
the next step i can't somebody will come to help
57:09
me with this i can ask for help see most
57:13
of us are you know i you don't have to
57:15
walk this planet alone it wasn't made for that it's
57:20
not the contract contract is we have guidance we have
57:23
this and they'll line somebody else this will happen and
57:26
if you look at your life all of us And
57:28
you look back at sometimes the worst things that you
57:31
didn't want to have to do, but it got, you know,
57:34
it happened. Ended up down the road. Oh, I'm so
57:37
glad that marriage ended. All right. Or that was a
57:39
good thing for me. That really jumped me to another.
57:42
You can find something. And you did handle it. Not
57:45
to mention we all navigated our childhood, which is with
57:48
no car and no credit card. So like we didn't
57:50
have options as kids. That's a childhood thing. What if
57:53
I can't? It's too much. What if this happens again?
57:56
So it's kind of like the what if file. You know,
57:59
you can make a whole what if file, but just
58:01
you really just want to notice in the body there's
58:03
resistance and then tap on that so you can get
58:06
clarity on it.
58:08
Speaker 1: So what I just heard when the guides grabbed me
58:10
there is that we do become like our own therapist
58:14
for the things we can handle. And your own intuition
58:18
is guiding.
58:19
Speaker 2: You to what's stuck. So trust that.
58:22
Speaker 1: When if you feel maybe I should work on this,
58:25
there's that should. It's likely because your intuition is saying, yeah,
58:29
we're ready to clear this out. Exactly. By the way,
58:32
when you start rubbing hair again, there's no tenderness here anymore.
58:36
That's right. Because curly hair is very sore at the
58:39
beginning of the show. But everybody, check it out now.
58:41
After a couple rounds of tapping, doesn't it feel better?
58:44
You've cleared out.
58:44
Speaker 2: Some stuff, some gum. And this is a neural lymphatic,
58:48
meaning the lymph that goes to the brain. Okay. Okay.
58:52
So when you focus on something and then you do this,
58:55
your brain just can move again. Versus going into this
59:01
phase of fear that got programmed in your childhood when
59:05
you made a mistake. You didn't just make a poor choice.
59:08
We didn't get programmed like that.
59:12
Speaker 1: Well, if you want to dive in more, your book
59:13
is right across the room. You gave it to me
59:15
in person last year, but tell everybody that.
59:18
Speaker 2: The book was called the energy of belief. And that's
59:20
all about how to use tapping, um, for beliefs. The
59:24
same as what we're really doing here. Um, My newest
59:29
work is parts integration work that I'm teaching to therapists.
59:33
I have a different active course for that. So anybody
59:35
interested in that, just email me at, go to my website, maryseitz.com.
59:39
Just send me an email. If you're a therapist and
59:41
you want to learn how to integrate parts, I have
59:43
a huge course I just launched really recently and you
59:47
can get into for that. That's a, that's a, that's
59:52
just email me on that. I'm like, you know, so.
59:55
Speaker 1: So if you joined us halfway through and you find
59:57
us acting like a bunch of monkeys. Exactly. We're a ballerina.
1:00:03
It looks silly, but I can tell you it works.
1:00:07
It heals physical challenges, emotional, and what are all spiritual
1:00:12
challenges or blockages of the life force. So tapping works.
1:00:15
It's like somebody that wrote to me and said, I'm
1:00:17
a physicist. I don't believe in chakras. You can't prove them.
1:00:21
And I said, yeah, but if you focus on each
1:00:23
one and visualize it being clear, how do you feel afterward?
1:00:27
So just like you may not know which of your
1:00:29
chakras is a little bit blocked, so you do all seven.
1:00:35
So you may not know which of your energy meridians
1:00:38
is blocked, but the tapping sequence that Mary took us
1:00:41
through clears everything.
1:00:44
Speaker 2: And plus the eye movements. A lot of EFT doesn't
1:00:49
use eye movements. As I said, the original version has
1:00:52
the eye movements, and that's what I use. You do.
1:00:55
Speaker 1: Yeah. And it's in your book, and it's on your website. Yeah.
1:00:58
And it's happening Tuesday. So, Mary, awesome stuff you've shared
1:01:01
with us today. Thank you so much.
1:01:04
Speaker 3: Yeah.
1:01:05
Speaker 1: Good to be back with all of you. Mary, appreciate
1:01:09
you coming on the show.
1:01:10
Speaker 2: Thanks for having me. It's so great to be here
1:01:12
with all of you. I just wish you all the
1:01:14
very best. Many blessings. Many blessings.
1:01:16
Speaker 3: Very much.
1:01:17
Speaker 1: Indeed. Indeed. All right, everybody, if you want to know
1:01:19
where you can meet up with me next time, online
1:01:22
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up again, like the Channeling for Charity October 11th. It's
1:01:33
going to be an awesome, powerful event hearing directly from
1:01:37
my guides in an extended session with Q & A
1:01:41
for an outstanding purpose. So I'll be talking that up
1:01:44
in the next couple of weeks. Let's see, next week
1:01:47
is a live Q & A with my assistant Christy
1:01:51
coming on to lead a specific topic of questions. We
1:01:56
haven't determined what the topic is yet, but all the
1:01:58
questions are going to be more advanced questions from all
1:02:01
of you that we've gathered and haven't yet answered. So
1:02:04
mark your calendar for next Sunday, 9 a.m. Pacific time,
1:02:09
where this community of loving Awakened Way members gathers. We're
1:02:13
so happy that you're part of our community. The love
1:02:16
is palpable. I love you all, and we'll see you
1:02:19
back here next week. Bye-bye.