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0 - Why Couples Drift Apart Without Noticing (Podcast Trailer) · Daily Relationship Tips: Practical Relationship Skills That Help Couples Reconnect

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  If
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  you
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  and
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  your
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  partner
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  have
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  been
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  feeling
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  more
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  like
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  housemates
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  than
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  lovers
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  lately,
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  if
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  you're
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  arguing
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  about
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  the
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  same
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  things
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  over
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  and
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  over
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  or
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  you've
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  stopped
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  arguing
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  altogether
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  and
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  somehow
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  that
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  feels
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  worse.
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  If
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  the
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  spark
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  has
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  faded
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  and
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  you're
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  not
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  quite
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  sure
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  how
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  or
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  when
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  it
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  happened,
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  or
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  maybe
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  you
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  love
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  each
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  other
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  deeply
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  but
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  you
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  can't
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  remember
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  the
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  last
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  time
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  you
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  really
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  felt
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  in
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  love,
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  this
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  podcast
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  is
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  for
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  you.
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  I'm
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  Alastair
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  Dwes
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  and
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  I've
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  spent
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  30
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  years
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  as
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  a
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  relationship
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  coach
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  working
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  with
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  over
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  15,000
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  couples
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  I've
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  sat
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  with,
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  couples
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  on
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  the
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  brink
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  of
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  separation
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  and
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  couples
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  who
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  just
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  wanted
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  to
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  feel
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  a
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  little
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  closer.
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  And
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  the
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  one
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  thing
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  I've
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  learned
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  in
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  all
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  that
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  time
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  the
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  couples
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  who
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  stay
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  happy
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  and
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  genuinely
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  in
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  love
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  long
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  term
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  aren't
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  doing
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  anything
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  complicated.
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  They're
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  just
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  doing
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  the
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  small
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  things
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  consistently.
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  Simple
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  habits
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  that
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  keep
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  them
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  close,
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  connected
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  and
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  in
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  love.
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  That's
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  what
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  about.
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  Not
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  long,
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  Just
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  one
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  practical
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  tip
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  per
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  episode.
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  Something
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  Something
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  something
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  you
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  start
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  today.
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  We'll
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  cover
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  everything
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  from
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  how
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  to
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  appreciate
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  each
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  other
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  properly,
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  to
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  keeping
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  the
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  spark
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  alive,
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  to
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  handling
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  conflict
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  without
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  it
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  tearing
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  you
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  apart,
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  to
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  staying
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  genuinely
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  connected
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  Every
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  about
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  minutes.
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  Long
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  enough
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  to
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  actually
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  help,
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  short
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  enough
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  to
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  listen
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  to
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  on
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  the
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  way
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  to
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  work.
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  And
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  every
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  tip
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  comes
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  from
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  of
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  with
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  real
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  Not
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  research
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  not
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  theory,
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  just
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  what
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  Because
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  here's
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  what
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  I
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  know
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  after
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  three
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  decades
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  of
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  doing
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  this
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  work.
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  Most
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  relationships
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  don't
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  fail
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  because
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  people
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  stop
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  loving
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  each
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  other.
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  They
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  drift
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  because
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  people
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  stop
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  doing
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  the
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  small
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  things.
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  A
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  kind
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  word,
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  a
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  genuine
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  moment
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  of
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  connection.
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  The
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  little
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  habits
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  that
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  say
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  you
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  still
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  matter
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  to
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  me,
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  those
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  small
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  things
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  done
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  consistently
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  add
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  up
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  to
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  something
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  extraordinary.
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  The
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  good
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  news?
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  They're
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  easy
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  to
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  start
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  again.
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  You
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  don't
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  need
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  a
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  big
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  just
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  need
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  one
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  small
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  step
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  today.
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  that
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  sounds
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  hit
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  together.
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