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- 0:03Speaker 1: The glass was still cold seven in the morning, forty
- 0:07Speaker 1: one degrees, and the orange juice sitting on the back
- 0:10Speaker 1: porch of forty one Kellner Drive had not yet lost
- 0:13Speaker 1: its chill. Ronald Brown, fourteen years old, spotted it on
- 0:18Speaker 1: his way past three quarters full pulp style sweating condensation
- 0:24Speaker 1: onto the wooden rail. Inside a juicer sat on the
- 0:28Speaker 1: counter with half an orange resting cutside down, as if
- 0:32Speaker 1: someone had stepped away mid task and intended to return.
- 0:36Speaker 1: Teresa Evans had been missing for eleven days. There was
- 0:40Speaker 1: no forced entry, no sign of struggle, no note, just
- 0:44Speaker 1: a glass of juice that should have been warm hours ago,
- 0:48Speaker 1: left by a woman who, according to everyone who knew her,
- 0:53Speaker 1: did not own a juicer and was not a morning person.
- 0:56Speaker 1: That detail would take investigators months to understand wow, and
- 1:00Speaker 1: when they finally did, the answer was more unsettling than
- 1:04Speaker 1: anything they had imagined. Teresa Evans was twenty eight years old,
- 1:08Speaker 1: and by every visible measure, she had built exactly the
- 1:12Speaker 1: life she wanted. She had grown up in Delwood, left
- 1:15Speaker 1: for four years of college, and come back, not because
- 1:18Speaker 1: she had to, because she chose to Her great aunt,
- 1:22Speaker 1: Norma Jennings, lived eleven miles away at Lakeview Assisted Living
- 1:27Speaker 1: in Caulder. Norma was eighty three and had dementia that
- 1:32Speaker 1: was progressing slowly, but without pause. Teresa had decided, without
- 1:37Speaker 1: anyone asking her, that Norma would not spend those years
- 1:41Speaker 1: without a familiar face. Every Thursday, without exception, she made
- 1:45Speaker 1: the drive to Calder. Her friends knew not to schedule
- 1:48Speaker 1: anything on Thursdays. She worked as a tax preparer, precise,
- 1:53Speaker 1: deadline driven work that suited her. Her colleagues described her
- 1:57Speaker 1: as methodical. Her supervisor, Luferera, would later say she was
- 2:02Speaker 1: the kind of employee who flagged her own errors before
- 2:05Speaker 1: any one else caught. She owned her house at forty
- 2:09Speaker 1: one Kellner Drive outright, having inherited it. She carried one
- 2:14Speaker 1: car alone, no other significant debt. Jenna Paulk had been
- 2:18Speaker 1: her friend since high school. Years later, when investigators interviewed her,
- 2:23Speaker 1: Jenna would say something that stopped them cold. Teresa had changed,
- 2:28Speaker 1: not in an obvious way, in a way that took
- 2:30Speaker 1: Jenna a long time to name. She kept explaining herself.
- 2:34Speaker 1: Jenna said she never used to do that. She'd just
- 2:37Speaker 1: do things. Then suddenly everything needed a reason. Jenna had
- 2:42Speaker 1: noticed it some time in two thousand eighteen. She hadn't
- 2:46Speaker 1: known what to make of it at the time. Teresa
- 2:48Speaker 1: had met Raymond Powell in September of two thousand seventeen,
- 2:52Speaker 1: Introduced through mutual friends Brett and Lisa Navarro. Powell was
- 2:57Speaker 1: thirty six, socially polished, and said he worked in commercial insurance.
- 3:02Speaker 1: He was the kind of person who made a room
- 3:04Speaker 1: feel warmer when he entered it. He remembered details, the
- 3:07Speaker 1: name of Norma's favorite nurse, the street where Teresa had
- 3:11Speaker 1: grown up, the specific anxiety she felt every April when
- 3:14Speaker 1: tax season peaked. He was attentive in a way that
- 3:18Speaker 1: felt earned. By October, he was texting regularly. By December,
- 3:23Speaker 1: they were spending weekends together, and by the early months
- 3:27Speaker 1: of twenty eighteen, something had begun to shift so gradually
- 3:31Speaker 1: that there is no single moment anyone can point to
- 3:34Speaker 1: and say there, that is where it started. But it
- 3:38Speaker 1: had started. The evidence would later make that clear. What
- 3:42Speaker 1: no one understood yet, not Teresa, not Jena, not Norma
- 3:47Speaker 1: in her fog, was that the life Teresa had built
- 3:51Speaker 1: so carefully was already being quietly, methodically taken apart, not
- 3:57Speaker 1: from the outside, from within her own sense of what
- 4:00Speaker 1: was real. The shift began with Norma. Teresa had visited
- 4:04Speaker 1: her great aunt every Thursday for years, Lakeview Assisted Living
- 4:09Speaker 1: eleven miles out on the Calder Road, a drive she
- 4:12Speaker 1: knew the way she knew her own kitchen. Norma was
- 4:15Speaker 1: eighty three deep into dementia, and often she didn't recognize
- 4:19Speaker 1: Teresa at all. Teresa went anyway that said something about
- 4:24Speaker 1: who she was. Around March of twenty eighteen, the visits
- 4:28Speaker 1: started changing, not because Teresa stopped wanting to go. Something subtler.
- 4:33Speaker 1: Howell would mention in passing that Thursday traffic was bad,
- 4:37Speaker 1: that Norma seemed agitated after visits had the staff said
- 4:41Speaker 1: something that maybe spacing them out would actually help Norma settle.
- 4:46Speaker 1: None of it was a command. None of it was
- 4:48Speaker 1: even advice. Exactly, it was reflection planting, a question dropped
- 4:53Speaker 1: at the right moment, in the right tone, by someone
- 4:56Speaker 1: Teresa trusted completely. By spring of twenty eighteen, Teresa was
- 5:01Speaker 1: going monthly instead of weekly. By fall less than that.
- 5:04Speaker 1: Jenna Paulk watched this happen and didn't have words for it. Yet.
- 5:08Speaker 1: What she had was a feeling that Teresa kept arriving
- 5:12Speaker 1: at conversations already amid explanation, as if she'd rehearsed a
- 5:16Speaker 1: defense for choices she hadn't been challenged on. She never
- 5:20Speaker 1: used to do that, Jenna told investigators. The observation sounds small.
- 5:25Speaker 1: It wasn't. Then came November of twenty eighteen, Teresa withdrew
- 5:29Speaker 1: eleven thousand dollars from a CD account that had belonged
- 5:33Speaker 1: to her grandmother. She wired it to a bank forty
- 5:36Speaker 1: miles from Dellwood. The account receiving it had been opened
- 5:40Speaker 1: six weeks earlier. It was in Powell's name. At work,
- 5:43Speaker 1: when her supervisor, Luferra noticed she seemed distracted, Teresa described
- 5:48Speaker 1: it as a property investment with a partner. She said
- 5:51Speaker 1: it easily. She believed it. The account in Powell's name
- 5:55Speaker 1: had no property connected to it. It never did. Here
- 5:59Speaker 1: is the thing about that wire transfer. Teresa didn't experience
- 6:03Speaker 1: it as a loss in her memory. She had made
- 6:06Speaker 1: a sound financial decision freely with someone she trusted. That
- 6:10Speaker 1: memory was intact. That is what made the next step possible.
- 6:15Speaker 1: In January of twenty nineteen, Teresa added Powell to her
- 6:19Speaker 1: personal checking account. Around the same time a shared calendar
- 6:24Speaker 1: went up organized, clean, color coded. Powell set it up,
- 6:29Speaker 1: and sometime in the weeks that followed, Teresa's original paper calendar,
- 6:35Speaker 1: the one she'd kept for years, disappeared from its usual spot.
- 6:39Speaker 1: She stopped looking for it. The digital version was right there.
- 6:44Speaker 1: Eight months of Thursday visits to Norma were deleted from
- 6:47Speaker 1: that calendar, not marked, canceled, not rescheduled, deleted. On March
- 6:53Speaker 1: fifteenth of twenty nineteen, Teresa asked for her house key back.
- 6:57Speaker 1: She'd lent it to Powell months earlier. He returned one.
- 7:02Speaker 1: It fit the lock, the door opened. Teresa had no
- 7:05Speaker 1: reason to look closer. Locksmith Tom Vega would later examine
- 7:09Speaker 1: the back door strike plate. The scoring was fresh, the
- 7:13Speaker 1: blank was undersized, a substitute, not a copy. Powell had
- 7:18Speaker 1: returned a key that worked well enough to prevent suspicion.
- 7:22Speaker 1: He kept the original. April fourth, two thousand nineteen, Teresa
- 7:27Speaker 1: made her last Thursday visit to Norma Jennings at lake
- 7:30Speaker 1: View Assisted Living. Norma did not recognize her that day.
- 7:35Speaker 1: Teresa sat with her anyway for forty minutes, then drove home.
- 7:39Speaker 1: The following Thursday, April eleventh, she didn't come. The staff
- 7:43Speaker 1: noted it Norma's primary nurse left a message. Teresa did
- 7:47Speaker 1: not call back. Five days later, on April sixteenth, at
- 7:51Speaker 1: approximately seven in the morning, Ronald Brown, fourteen years old,
- 7:55Speaker 1: cutting through on his bicycle, found a glass of orange
- 7:59Speaker 1: juice sitting on the porch of forty one Kellner Drive.
- 8:02Speaker 1: The temperature that morning was forty one degrees The glass
- 8:07Speaker 1: was three quarters full, cold, still showing condensation inside. The
- 8:12Speaker 1: back door was unlocked. On the counter a juicer a
- 8:16Speaker 1: half orange, resting cutside down. Teresa was not there. Deputy
- 8:21Speaker 1: Craig Hollis arrived, documented the scene and noted the single
- 8:25Speaker 1: detail that would pull at investigators for weeks. Teresa was
- 8:30Speaker 1: not a morning person. Neighbours confirmed it she did not
- 8:34Speaker 1: own a juicer. She had never owned one. A receipt
- 8:38Speaker 1: would later surface. The juicer had been purchased on April fifteen,
- 8:42Speaker 1: the day before with cash at a store on Fenner Boulevard.
- 8:47Speaker 1: The purchase was Powell's. He had brought it to the house.
- 8:51Speaker 1: This is the moment the case stopped being about a
- 8:54Speaker 1: missing woman and became something else entirely. The juice glass
- 8:59Speaker 1: was not a message. Investigators would eventually conclude Powell heard
- 9:03Speaker 1: the bicycle Ronald's bicycle and left through the rear before
- 9:07Speaker 1: the boy reached the porch. The glass, the half orange,
- 9:11Speaker 1: the unlocked door. None of it was theater. It was
- 9:14Speaker 1: failure of timing. Powell had been inside the house of
- 9:18Speaker 1: a woman who had been gone for nearly two weeks,
- 9:21Speaker 1: and he had left in a hurry. Teresa, at that
- 9:25Speaker 1: moment was already in Fenwick, two hours north, in a
- 9:28Speaker 1: rented room, in a state that forensic psychologist Amy Barry
- 9:32Speaker 1: would later spend fourteen months trying to document. Barry's term
- 9:36Speaker 1: for it was systematic autobiographical replacement. The target's own memory
- 9:42Speaker 1: of choosing, of deciding, of acting freely had been reconstructed
- 9:47Speaker 1: so completely that she became, in Barry's words, her own
- 9:51Speaker 1: most convincing alibi. Theresa had left on her own. That
- 9:56Speaker 1: was the part no one expected picture, the first version
- 9:59Speaker 1: of events that seemed to hold together. Powell was a
- 10:02Speaker 1: financial predator, opportunistic, skilled calculating. He had seen Teresa's house,
- 10:08Speaker 1: her stability, her grandmother's c D account, and he had
- 10:12Speaker 1: moved on it. The calendar deletion, the key swap, the
- 10:16Speaker 1: wire transfer. Each looked like a piece of a financial scheme.
- 10:20Speaker 1: With a defined exit. He takes what he can, She
- 10:24Speaker 1: spirals into confusion, he disappears. That version fit the evidence
- 10:29Speaker 1: on the surface, it fitted well enough that early in
- 10:32Speaker 1: the investigation it was the working frame. But that version
- 10:36Speaker 1: collapsed the moment Amy Barry sat down with Teresa in
- 10:40Speaker 1: June of twenty nineteen. Barry documented something that a straight
- 10:44Speaker 1: financial fraud does not produce. Teresa's reversed memory of the
- 10:49Speaker 1: account adding sequence. She was certain she had asked Powell
- 10:53Speaker 1: to join the account, not the other way around. Was
- 10:56Speaker 1: not a gap or a distortion. It was a replacement.
- 11:00Speaker 1: The original event had been overwritten, not forgotten. Text back
- 11:04Speaker 1: ups showed Powell had initiated account related conversations eleven times,
- 11:09Speaker 1: Teresa had initiated zero, and yet her memory of her
- 11:13Speaker 1: own agency in that decision was total and genuine. The
- 11:17Speaker 1: financial conduct was real, but it was the delivery mechanism,
- 11:21Speaker 1: not the goal in itself. Now picture the second version
- 11:25Speaker 1: not a predator who wanted money and used psychology to
- 11:29Speaker 1: get it, but a predator who wanted the psychology itself.
- 11:34Speaker 1: The financial extraction was evidence of how far the replacement
- 11:37Speaker 1: had progressed. The wire transfer was not the theft. The
- 11:41Speaker 1: theft was Teresa's confidence in her own memory. The storage
- 11:45Speaker 1: unit in Alton, rented in Powell's mother's name, held three
- 11:50Speaker 1: things that made this version irreversible. Teresa's original house key,
- 11:56Speaker 1: a handwritten ledger tracking every transaction involving her account with dates, amounts,
- 12:01Speaker 1: and marginal notes. Wilo k rivalerin Esso's documentals fue escalafrant,
- 12:08Speaker 1: and a folder of documents belonging to a woman named
- 12:11Speaker 1: Patrice Delgado. Delgado was forty one. She had been reported
- 12:16Speaker 1: missing in twenty fourteen, found alive, her savings emptied. Powell's
- 12:22Speaker 1: name had never appeared in that case file, but his
- 12:25Speaker 1: documents were in the folder, and when investigators pulled a
- 12:29Speaker 1: preserved coffee cup from the Delgado case archive and ran DNA,
- 12:34Speaker 1: the profile matched Powell. The same profile matched an unresolved
- 12:39Speaker 1: fraud and coercive control case from twenty ten in Harriet Falls,
- 12:44Speaker 1: involving a woman named Connie Bergstrom. Powell had never appeared
- 12:48Speaker 1: in any database connected to Bergstrom, not once until then.
- 12:53Speaker 1: Three women, three separate jurisdictions, three cases with no visible
- 12:59Speaker 1: threat between them until one storage unit, one DNA match,
- 13:05Speaker 1: and one forensic psychologist's fourteen month report made the thread
- 13:11Speaker 1: impossible to miss. Judge Francis Lowe would cite the calendar
- 13:15Speaker 1: deletion and the key substitution, specifically at sentencing, not as
- 13:21Speaker 1: isolated acts, as evidence of a deliberate, sustained pattern, the
- 13:25Speaker 1: kind of pattern that does not improvise, the kind that
- 13:29Speaker 1: refines itself across years and women and towns. Teresa Evans
- 13:34Speaker 1: was found in June of two thousand nineteen a rented
- 13:38Speaker 1: room in Fenwick, two hours north of Delwood. She had
- 13:41Speaker 1: been there for weeks alone, in a state of near
- 13:45Speaker 1: total disorientation. She had not been held, She had not
- 13:49Speaker 1: been locked in. She had walked to that room in
- 13:53Speaker 1: a fog so complete that she had not known for
- 13:56Speaker 1: a long time that the fog was not her own.
- 13:59Speaker 1: When Amy Barry first interviewed her, Teresa described the sequence
- 14:03Speaker 1: of events in their relationship the way Powell had narrated
- 14:07Speaker 1: them to her. She believed she had asked to be
- 14:09Speaker 1: added to the account. She believed the wire transfer had
- 14:12Speaker 1: been her idea, a property investment, a mutual decision, the
- 14:17Speaker 1: thing she and Raymond had discussed together over weeks. The
- 14:20Speaker 1: replacement was still running. The false memory had not yet cracked.
- 14:24Speaker 1: Barry spent fourteen months reconstructing what Teresa's own records showed.
- 14:30Speaker 1: Text logs from Powell's phone he had initiated account related
- 14:34Speaker 1: conversations eleven times, Teresa had initiated none. Bank records showing
- 14:40Speaker 1: a wire to an account opened six weeks earlier, forty
- 14:43Speaker 1: miles away in Powell's name, only a calendar back up
- 14:47Speaker 1: showing not canceled visits, but deleted ones eight months of
- 14:52Speaker 1: Thursdays gone. The term Barry used in her report was
- 14:56Speaker 1: systematic autobiographical replacement, by which a person's memory of their
- 15:02Speaker 1: own agency is rewritten incrementally until the target becomes, in
- 15:06Speaker 1: Barry's words, her own most convincing alibi. Teresa had not
- 15:11Speaker 1: lost her mind. Her mind had been methodically relabeled by
- 15:14Speaker 1: someone who understood exactly which levers to pull and when
- 15:18Speaker 1: to stop. Powell's attorney contested Barry's framework at sentencing. He
- 15:22Speaker 1: argued it was not an established legal standard. Judge Francis
- 15:26Speaker 1: Lowe overruled the objection and cited it in her decision anyway,
- 15:30Speaker 1: specifically naming the calendar deletion and the key substitution not
- 15:34Speaker 1: as isolated acts of fraud, but as components of a
- 15:38Speaker 1: sustained behavioral architecture, the kind Lowe said that does not
- 15:43Speaker 1: improvise the kind that learns. In November of twenty twenty,
- 15:48Speaker 1: Powell was sentenced to nine years two counts of criminal fraud,
- 15:52Speaker 1: two counts of coercive control, one count of identity fraud
- 15:56Speaker 1: connected to the shared account. Additional charges in the Delgado
- 16:00Speaker 1: and Bergstrup cases were pending at the time of filing.
- 16:03Speaker 1: Patrice Delgado Connie berkstruck two names that had never shared
- 16:08Speaker 1: a case file, two women in different cities, different decades,
- 16:13Speaker 1: whose lives had been quietly disassembled by the same hands.
- 16:17Speaker 1: The DNA from a preserved coffee cup in Delgado's archived
- 16:20Speaker 1: case file connected Powell to both. He had spent ten
- 16:24Speaker 1: years operating between jurisdictions, between names, between the spaces where
- 16:29Speaker 1: no one was looking for a pattern, because no single
- 16:32Speaker 1: case was large enough to demand one. The ledger in
- 16:35Speaker 1: the storage unit was meticulous, dates, amounts, marginal notes in
- 16:41Speaker 1: Powell's handwriting. It was, in its own way, a record
- 16:45Speaker 1: of everything he had built and dismantled, every transaction that
- 16:50Speaker 1: represented not just money moved, but memory overwritten. He had
- 16:55Speaker 1: kept it that fact investigators noted suggested he did not
- 16:59Speaker 1: expect to be found, or that he needed to remember,
- 17:02Speaker 1: for reasons of his own, exactly how far each one
- 17:06Speaker 1: had gone. Teresa's original house key was in that unit too.
- 17:11Speaker 1: She had asked for it back in March of two
- 17:13Speaker 1: thousand nineteen. Powell had returned a key, an undersized blank
- 17:19Speaker 1: cut close enough to turn the lock part way, but
- 17:22Speaker 1: scored with fresh marks on the strike plate that a
- 17:25Speaker 1: locksmith named Tom Vega would later document in assigned report.
- 17:29Speaker 1: Powell had kept the original He could have returned any time.
- 17:34Speaker 1: The house on Kellner Drive had been opened to him
- 17:37Speaker 1: on his terms all along. In July of two thousand nineteen,
- 17:41Speaker 1: Teresa Evans walked back into Lakeview Assisted Living in calder
- 17:45Speaker 1: It was a Thursday. Norma Jennings was eighty three. She
- 17:49Speaker 1: had dementia. She may not have known how long Teresa
- 17:53Speaker 1: had been gone, or why, or what had happened in
- 17:56Speaker 1: the months between, but Teresa knew, and she came back.
- 18:01Speaker 1: That one act, unremarkable to any one who did not
- 18:04Speaker 1: know the cost of it, was the clearest measure of
- 18:07Speaker 1: what had been taken and what had survived. What Powell
- 18:11Speaker 1: had targeted was not Therese's money, though he took that too.
- 18:15Speaker 1: He had targeted the map she used to understand herself,
- 18:18Speaker 1: her relationship to time, to routine, to her own decisions.
- 18:22Speaker 1: He had spent eighteen months replacing the landmarks on that
- 18:25Speaker 1: map with ones he had placed there carefully, one at
- 18:29Speaker 1: a time, while she believed she was reading her own handwriting.
- 18:34Speaker 1: The glass of orange juice on the porch and forty
- 18:37Speaker 1: one Kellner Drive had not been a message. It had
- 18:40Speaker 1: been a mistake, the result of failed timing, a bicycle
- 18:43Speaker 1: heard on the street, a rear exit taken in haste.
- 18:47Speaker 1: But the glass became something else in the investigation. It
- 18:51Speaker 1: became the moment the method slipped. A cold glass at
- 18:54Speaker 1: forty one degrees sitting in front of a house where
- 18:58Speaker 1: a woman had been missing for a level days poured
- 19:01Speaker 1: twenty minutes before a fourteen year old boy found it
- 19:05Speaker 1: on his way to school. Powell had built an architecture
- 19:08Speaker 1: designed to leave no exterior trace. That glass was the
- 19:12Speaker 1: one seene. There is something that does not resolve cleanly
- 19:15Speaker 1: in this case, even with a conviction, even with nine years.
- 19:19Speaker 1: It is the question of what Teresa lost that cannot
- 19:22Speaker 1: be entered into a ledger The eleven thousand dollars can
- 19:26Speaker 1: be recovered or not. The eighteen months can be named
- 19:31Speaker 1: and documented. But the experience of not trusting your own memory,
- 19:36Speaker 1: of looking at a decision you made and not knowing
- 19:38Speaker 1: whether the hand that made it was yours, that does
- 19:41Speaker 1: not have a line item. Amy Berry's framework gave it
- 19:44Speaker 1: a name, the law gave it a sentence. Neither one
- 19:48Speaker 1: gives it back. What the record shows is this, Teresa
- 19:52Speaker 1: Evans was not a woman who fell apart. She was
- 19:55Speaker 1: a woman whose reality was systematically disassembled by someone who
- 19:59Speaker 1: had done it before and before that, and had refined
- 20:02Speaker 1: the method each time. She had no criminal record, no
- 20:06Speaker 1: history of crisis, no unusual vulnerability. She was meticulous and
- 20:11Speaker 1: rooted and careful. Powell chose her because of those qualities,
- 20:17Speaker 1: not despite them. The more ordered a person's inner life,
- 20:20Speaker 1: the more precisely it can be re ordered by someone
- 20:24Speaker 1: patient enough to learn its architecture. The Bergstrom case from
- 20:28Speaker 1: twenty ten remained open, the Delgado charges were pending. The
- 20:33Speaker 1: full scope of what Powell had done across three women
- 20:36Speaker 1: and three jurisdictions had not yet been fully adjudicated at
- 20:40Speaker 1: the time of this reporting. What was certain was that
- 20:43Speaker 1: he had operated for at least a decade in the
- 20:45Speaker 1: silence between cases, and that silence had been exactly the
- 20:49Speaker 1: tool he needed. Teresa resumed her Thursday visits. That is
- 20:54Speaker 1: what the record says. It does not say what those
- 20:57Speaker 1: visits cost her, or how long it took before a
- 21:00Speaker 1: Thursday felt like hers again. But she went back. In
- 21:04Speaker 1: a case built entirely on the systematic replacement of one
- 21:09Speaker 1: woman's sense of herself, that return to a familiar room,
- 21:13Speaker 1: to a familiar face, to a ritual that had always
- 21:16Speaker 1: been hers is the only answer that belongs entirely to
- 21:21Speaker 1: Teresa Evans. This show is made by Obo Media