Latest / Real Patriotism / ”Who Needs that Much Money?” — Father James Martin on Billionaires vs Workers
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- 0:00I think we have um you know a corporate
- 0:02class that makes um many hundreds of
- 0:04times more than people on the factory
- 0:05floor uh make. I was a an assembly line
- 0:08worker and I think that's fundamentally
- 0:10unjust.
- 0:11>> Do you remember your first job? What was
- 0:14it? What did you learn from it? About
- 0:16work, about life. Well, my guest today
- 0:19has just written a wonderful memoir
- 0:21about all the jobs that he's had up
- 0:22until the one that he's got right now.
- 0:24He's a Catholic priest. Father James
- 0:26Martin is one of our nation's leading
- 0:28Jesuits and he has written a book called
- 0:31Work in Progress about his journey from
- 0:33dishwasher and factory worker and usher
- 0:36and caddy and what he says is corporate
- 0:38tool. He's a graduate of the Wharton
- 0:40Business School all the way to becoming
- 0:42a priest. And it's a wonderful book not
- 0:45just about his journey but about work
- 0:47itself what we learn from it and about
- 0:50how workers are treated and mistreated
- 0:52in our society. It's a great
- 0:54conversation. I hope you enjoy it. If
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- 1:02That's where you'll see all of my work.
- 1:04And a technical note, we had a little
- 1:06bit of a glitch, maybe more than a
- 1:07little bit, with the camera today. But
- 1:09Father James Martin is such a great
- 1:11storyteller. I think you'll still enjoy
- 1:14this interview with Father James Martin.
- 1:21>> Father James Martin, great to see you.
- 1:23Thanks for doing this. Great to see you,
- 1:25Terry. Thanks for inviting me on.
- 1:27>> Uh you're a guy who who makes news uh
- 1:30both within the Catholic Church and
- 1:32outside the church. But I want to talk
- 1:34about the book that you've got out which
- 1:36does, I think, raise some really
- 1:37important questions for our lives uh at
- 1:41work. And that's kind of the theme,
- 1:43right? Work in progress is the name of
- 1:46your book. And it it's a memoir, right,
- 1:49of the jobs that you've had over the
- 1:52years, uh, from bus boy and usher to
- 1:55factory worker to corporate tool before
- 1:58becoming a Jesuit. And strikes me that
- 2:03the insights that you have looking back
- 2:05on that work and how it helped shape
- 2:08your vocation, your calling to the
- 2:10priesthood, well, that's got a message
- 2:12for all of us. Why why did you write
- 2:13this book and what did you discover
- 2:15about yourself?
- 2:16Well, uh, I wrote it initially just to
- 2:18tell some funny summer job stories. The
- 2:20book really is in two parts. Uh, it's
- 2:22finding work, as you say, in a variety
- 2:24of crazy summer jobs. Bus boy,
- 2:26dishwasher, Usher, factory, caddy, um,
- 2:29all these kinds of things. Um, but then
- 2:32my publisher said, you know, you can
- 2:33expand it a bit and have it be not just
- 2:36about sort of funny summer jobs, but
- 2:38also your um, you know, vocation to the
- 2:41Jesuits and finding God. So it's
- 2:42basically the first part is finding
- 2:43work. The second part is finding God.
- 2:45And along the way I really wanted to
- 2:47share some life lessons that I learned
- 2:50uh in those you know sort of uh labor
- 2:52intensive menial uh hardworking summer
- 2:55jobs. Uh so I think it's um it's a book
- 2:57that people can read if they want some
- 2:59sort of amusing uh you know kind of
- 3:03stories about uh crazy things that
- 3:04happened to me when I was a teenager but
- 3:06also for some life lessons about you
- 3:08know really growing up and being kind
- 3:10and living a good life.
- 3:12and your understanding of what work is
- 3:14in some ways. Work does that those hard
- 3:18jobs that people have and I it feels to
- 3:21me like
- 3:23I'm going to get deep here right away.
- 3:24You're you're a Jesuit so it'll it'll be
- 3:27fine. Uh but it seems to me one of the
- 3:30problems we have in our country, right?
- 3:31One of the one of the issues, one of the
- 3:33things that's driving these terrible
- 3:34divides between us is that not enough
- 3:36people feel seen and respected
- 3:40in their work. And there is a kind of
- 3:44pull up the drawbridge mentality among a
- 3:47certain professional class of people
- 3:48who've made it. and this sense of what
- 3:52do I want to say egalitarianism
- 3:54that when you go to the department store
- 3:57and there's somebody you know checking
- 3:59you out that's that's work and it's as
- 4:02honorable as anything Elon Musk does
- 4:04more maybe what do you think
- 4:06>> I think that's right and I think we have
- 4:08um you know a corporate class that makes
- 4:10um many hundreds of times more than
- 4:12people on the factory floor uh make I
- 4:14was a an assembly line worker and I
- 4:16think that's fundamentally unjust um and
- 4:19one of the things I talk about in the
- 4:20book is how, you know, every job has
- 4:22dignity. Of course, every person has
- 4:24dignity, but they also deserve a just
- 4:26wage and a fair wage. And I think when
- 4:28we have some people who are now, the
- 4:30first trillionaire, Elon Musk, there's
- 4:32something wrong with the system that is
- 4:33like that. I mean, I'm a capitalist. I
- 4:35went to Wharton. I talk about that in
- 4:36the book. But the capitalist went to
- 4:38Wharton business school.
- 4:39>> Yes, I did. But the capitalist system is
- 4:42uh not perfect and it's it's wanting.
- 4:44And one of the ways that it is wanting
- 4:46is that it leaves people sort of at the
- 4:48mercy of the profit um motivation
- 4:51completely. And uh you know if it's not
- 4:53in the corporate interest to pay people
- 4:55a just wage, they don't do it. And I
- 4:57think that's that's pretty unjust.
- 4:59>> Yeah. My dad worked for Sears his whole
- 5:02career, you know, from writing copy for
- 5:04the catalog. He he rose to a high level
- 5:07in the company. And I remember at after
- 5:09after he passed which was in the early
- 5:1180s when I was a young man very young
- 5:14just not even out of college. Uh you
- 5:17know I took a look at his his tax
- 5:19returns and this is some years later
- 5:21actually after my mother died and he was
- 5:24making what most top executives and he
- 5:27was top executive of a big company.
- 5:28Sears was one of the top companies in
- 5:30the country in the world you know 30 40
- 5:34times what the average Sears worker
- 5:36made. And today that guy or not at Sears
- 5:40anywhere else and they're mostly guys
- 5:42are making 300 to 400 times. And that
- 5:46sense of respect went right down to the
- 5:49floor. We bought everything. I have nine
- 5:51brothers and sisters. We bought
- 5:52everything at Sears and my mom would
- 5:54troop the the little ones in. I was to
- 5:55at the tail end of the family to get
- 5:57shoes. And there was a fella there was a
- 5:59guy in this in a suit helping us pick
- 6:02out our shoes, stride shoes or whatever.
- 6:06and that was a living wage and he was
- 6:10respected by my mom. They he he loved
- 6:13watching us come in because we were
- 6:14going to buy all those shoes and that's
- 6:17all gone. That sense of what of unity of
- 6:20purpose and of of dignity as you said.
- 6:23>> I think that's gone. And I think the um
- 6:25just what you said Terry, the idea that
- 6:26you would work your whole life for a
- 6:28corporation and that the corporation I
- 6:30mean I worked for GE. I talk about this
- 6:32in the book. The corporation had a
- 6:33responsibility to you in a sense, right?
- 6:36that it was a two-way street that you
- 6:37gave you sacrificed a lot and the
- 6:39corporation would pay you a just wage
- 6:41would give you benefits would you give
- 6:42you job security. Now obviously you know
- 6:45not every company can do that but these
- 6:47days it's more like the wild west you
- 6:49know it's basically you know we can fire
- 6:51you at will we can pay you what what we
- 6:53want and it is at the sort of enrichment
- 6:56of the oligarchs and you know people who
- 6:59are super wealthy and again that's
- 7:00that's just unjust. So I think as I say
- 7:03in the book, you know, profit cannot be
- 7:04the only measure of a success for a
- 7:07company. It is also how much they
- 7:08contribute to the common good, right?
- 7:11Which is a an idea that I think has gone
- 7:13by the wayside.
- 7:14>> It sure has. I was just going to say
- 7:16that that sounds like an alien from
- 7:18another planet talking to contemporary
- 7:20America. All that all that spirit is is
- 7:24gone. I did a charity event once out in
- 7:26Silicon Valley. I did some Alzheimer's
- 7:28Association work. was a an MC, a host of
- 7:31their gallas and and this was on
- 7:34whatever Sand Hill Road, the venture
- 7:37capitalist road of America out in
- 7:39Silicon Valley, some of the richest
- 7:40people in the world, most powerful. And
- 7:42they all got together. Tony Bennett
- 7:44sang. It was great. I got to introduce
- 7:45Tony Bennett. Uh but at the end, as
- 7:48we're all breaking up, the gentleman and
- 7:51ladies were leaving in their in their
- 7:54limos and all that. And one of the women
- 7:56turned to me and she said, "Thank you
- 7:57very much. We never do this here. And I
- 8:00was like, what?
- 8:02You never have a charity gall? I mean,
- 8:04there the parish church, you know, will
- 8:07have a bake sale or bingo to to raise
- 8:09money. And the richest people in the
- 8:11world, and the statistics bear this out,
- 8:14>> don't really give anymore at all.
- 8:17>> Well, you know, it's interesting. Uh
- 8:19people always say, well, it's very
- 8:21complex. You can't understand it. And
- 8:22again, I went to Wharton. I talked about
- 8:24in the book. I I understand the
- 8:26capitalist system. At some point, it's a
- 8:28choice, right? At some point, if you're
- 8:30a billionaire or a trillionaire, it's a
- 8:32choice. How much money you give back,
- 8:33how much money you keep, and who needs
- 8:36that much money? That's that's the key,
- 8:38right? Who needs that much money? And
- 8:39so, um, I think we've reached a point in
- 8:42our society where that's accepted. And I
- 8:45I one of the things I talk about in the
- 8:46book is that we really need to respect
- 8:48again people who work these sort of
- 8:50manual labor jobs. They deserve an
- 8:53income and a living wage and a
- 8:55comfortable lifestyle and health care
- 8:57and benefits as much as any of the uh
- 8:59you know corporate titans do. I mean you
- 9:02know it's interesting Pope Leo talks
- 9:04about that in his new encyclical right
- 9:05that uh that the profit motive cannot be
- 9:08the only measure of success of a
- 9:10business. And you're right, it does
- 9:11sound alien, but really it's I mean for
- 9:13most of our uh sort of um you know
- 9:16post-industrial age that was kind of the
- 9:18idea, you know, certainly in the 50s and
- 9:2060s and 70s that the company would take
- 9:22care of you too.
- 9:25>> And that that's gone. So that's that's
- 9:27factory worker helped contribute to that
- 9:29insight. How about caddy? What tell me
- 9:31about your caddying days.
- 9:32>> I was the worst caddy ever. I was really
- 9:35a terrible caddy. Most of the book uh
- 9:37not to get too serious, most of the book
- 9:38is not a critique of capitalism. Most of
- 9:40the book is kind of I was struck by
- 9:42>> fun summer fun summer job stories. Um
- 9:44yeah, I cattied at the Philadelphia
- 9:46Cricut Club, a very uh sort of Tony um
- 9:49you know high-end uh country club
- 9:51outside of Philadelphia and I did not
- 9:54golf before. And so as a result when
- 9:56people ask me for what club to use, I
- 9:58wasn't always the best person to ask. So
- 10:01I tell some crazy stories about that. I
- 10:03learned a lot about what it's like to be
- 10:04on the receiving end of kind of
- 10:06humiliation, too, because, you know, I
- 10:08was working with I was, you know,
- 10:09catting for a lot of these rich, you
- 10:11know, lawyers and doctors and
- 10:13businessmen, and they weren't always
- 10:14nice to a 16-year-old kid from a public
- 10:17school outside of Philly. So, I learned
- 10:19a lot about uh being mean, or rather not
- 10:23being mean. Uh, one of the lessons I
- 10:25learned in the book is when I'm sort of
- 10:26mistreated as a bus boy or a caddy or an
- 10:28assembly line worker, how often I would
- 10:30say to myself, I'm never going to treat
- 10:32somebody like this, you know, never. And
- 10:34that was as effective as a year's worth
- 10:37of homalies on being kind to people.
- 10:40>> That's great. And it it seems to me that
- 10:44getting to a point where you as you do
- 10:47because I've and we'll we'll get into
- 10:49this a little bit later. You know, we
- 10:50we've had we've known each other for
- 10:52more than 10 years. Um
- 10:55it seems to me that getting to the point
- 10:57where your response to certain
- 10:59situations,
- 11:01it leans toward decency, towards being a
- 11:04good human being, a good guy. There's a
- 11:08discipline. And I I remember watching
- 11:11Pope Francis who whom you were close to
- 11:14um you know as he went around the square
- 11:16at St. Peter's and and I remember the
- 11:19fellow with the very disfiguring disease
- 11:23of of his face and u Pope Francis
- 11:26hugging him. It's a famous famous
- 11:28picture and I I thought wow you know
- 11:30most people recoil
- 11:32and he seemed to be taking joy in the
- 11:35moment and I thought that's a that's not
- 11:38that doesn't come naturally that it's a
- 11:41commitment
- 11:43a practice. I think that's right. That's
- 11:45a really interesting sort of
- 11:46philosophical uh question because uh not
- 11:49to get too philosophical but Aristotle
- 11:52as you probably know said that you know
- 11:53you can practice virtue and then it
- 11:55eventually becomes a habit right you
- 11:57practice good things and eventually
- 11:59you're sort of conditioned that way um
- 12:02you know I remember that uh that
- 12:03encounter with that man with that
- 12:04disfiguring skin disease and I would
- 12:06think you know in a sense you know Pope
- 12:08Francis probably felt a normal human uh
- 12:11kind of aversion to that But he knew
- 12:14what to do because he had kind of, you
- 12:16know, practiced that way of Jesus for
- 12:18his whole life. But it is, it's, you
- 12:20know, I think Christianity is pretty
- 12:21tough, you know. I mean, it's hard to be
- 12:23nice to the poor and give to the poor
- 12:25and care for the sick and forgive
- 12:27people, right? And pray for your enemies
- 12:29and love those who persecute you. That's
- 12:31that's kind of tough. So, but I think
- 12:33the more we practice it, you know, as
- 12:35Aristotle would say, the more becomes
- 12:36that these habits become a virtue and it
- 12:39just sort of becomes part of who you
- 12:41are. And now I mean I would never think
- 12:43ever ever ever of like you know
- 12:45mistreating someone who was you know a
- 12:47bus boy or a caddy or a dishwasher or
- 12:49anybody you know someone on the subway
- 12:51or you know anybody and I think that's
- 12:54just kind of ingrained in a person you
- 12:56know the longer they you they understand
- 12:57that this is what Jesus asks and also
- 13:00you know as Aristotle would say the
- 13:01longer you practice these habits they
- 13:03become virtues
- 13:05>> it makes the world a a better place. All
- 13:08right. So, usher. Do you see a lot of
- 13:10movies? What What kind of ushering were
- 13:12you?
- 13:12>> I was a movie theater usher at the
- 13:14Cinema on the Mall um in Plymouth
- 13:16Meeting, Pennsylvania in I guess the
- 13:18summer of 1977,778
- 13:2179 somewhere around there. I say it in
- 13:23the book a little more precisely. Uh
- 13:26yeah, I um I tore tickets and saw movies
- 13:28like The Goodbye Girl, The Cat from
- 13:31Outer Space, uh The Revenge of the Pink
- 13:33Panther. Not the best movies ever, but I
- 13:35also made I talk about in the book how I
- 13:37made bags and bags and bags of popcorn.
- 13:39That was one of my duties. And uh let me
- 13:42just say after you read the book, you
- 13:44will never want to eat movie popcorn
- 13:45again. There is so much
- 13:48>> so much awful stuff poured into that uh
- 13:51that you know like animal fat and you
- 13:53know flavoring and all this kind of
- 13:54stuff. But uh yeah, and I also changed
- 13:57the movie marquee, the big sign out
- 13:59front um uh after the last movie
- 14:02theater. That's the last movie would
- 14:03end. You would go out there at 9:00 in
- 14:06the pitch dark and you would put these
- 14:07big foot high letters on this sign. And
- 14:10if you think about it, you're in front
- 14:11of this bright brightly lit sign which
- 14:13meant that every gnat and fly and moth
- 14:15>> from the tri-state area came in and bit
- 14:19you and flapped on you. And so anyway,
- 14:21it was I learned a lot in that job.
- 14:24>> Well, that's that's the virtue of uh of
- 14:27having hard work when you're when you're
- 14:29young, right? I think my my first job
- 14:31was a dishwasher
- 14:33>> in a restaurant
- 14:34>> and you know you're a low man on the
- 14:36totem pole when you're when you're the
- 14:38dishwasher in a restaurant and it was
- 14:40actually surreptitious. So I was in high
- 14:43school and my my dad didn't want he came
- 14:46from very poor background and did well
- 14:48and so he didn't really want his kids to
- 14:49work in high school. is your job is to
- 14:51get good grades. That I didn't do very
- 14:53well. But uh I got caught and after a
- 14:57few weeks at washing dishes at the at
- 14:59this diner. But I that is hard work. I
- 15:02mean and you commit to eight hours a
- 15:05day. It wasn't eight hours. It was like
- 15:06a few hours a day and you can't get out
- 15:09of it. You're stuck there in the summer
- 15:11because it was a summer job sweltering,
- 15:14smelling, and um you learn.
- 15:17>> It is hard work. I worked at a place
- 15:19called the Ice Cream Inn. This is 50
- 15:21years ago in the summer of 1976. Uh, and
- 15:24we were all about the bicesentennial
- 15:26back then. But here's my question to a
- 15:28fellow dishwasher. How many dishes and
- 15:29glasses did you break?
- 15:32>> Uh, plenty.
- 15:32>> I did too.
- 15:33>> Plenty. I mean, a whole tray of glasses
- 15:35that I remember.
- 15:37>> Yes.
- 15:38>> Let's hear about that. Were you carrying
- 15:39them and then dropped them or tripped or
- 15:40what?
- 15:41>> I was pulling them down the down the
- 15:43belt, right? And I hit the side of the
- 15:45belt and over they went and uh I'm sure
- 15:48you can still hear the noise in your
- 15:49head, right?
- 15:51>> Yeah.
- 15:51>> Yeah. No, I I learned a lot. That was
- 15:53that was my first, as my parents said,
- 15:55real job. Bus boy, dishwasher at the ice
- 15:57cream in because I got a I got a
- 15:58paycheck for that. Before I was a paper
- 16:00boy and a lawn mower, but this is the
- 16:02first job. And I felt, you know, you
- 16:03also feel proud. You know, as 15 years
- 16:05old, you got your working papers and you
- 16:07have your bus boy smok and uh you're
- 16:10like, this is a real job. And and it it
- 16:12gives you a sense of, you know, a sense
- 16:14of meaning in a in a way. I I really
- 16:16look back on that as as a job I learned
- 16:18a lot about hard work and showing up and
- 16:20just doing your work on time.
- 16:23>> Yeah. And and walking around money and
- 16:25that's really what I was after at 16 or
- 16:27whatever it was.
- 16:29>> And uh and when it was taken away from
- 16:31me because I was supposed to be studying
- 16:33rather than making money um I was
- 16:36disappointed. I was very disappointed.
- 16:38>> Well, my parents were the opposite. It
- 16:39was very funny. The two epigraphs at the
- 16:41beginning of the book are my dad saying
- 16:43uh in response to my complaining, "Of
- 16:46course that's not fun. Why do you think
- 16:47they call it work? If it were if it were
- 16:49fun, they'd call it play." And my mom,
- 16:51that was the other epigraph, uh which
- 16:54is, "Well, you're not going to sit
- 16:55inside all summer. That's for sure." So,
- 16:58they sort of forced me to work from age
- 17:01like 14 and on.
- 17:03>> I think that's much healthier. I
- 17:05actually think that's much healthier. I
- 17:06think my dad had some shame or he was
- 17:08>> his family was put out on the street
- 17:09during the depression and he was the
- 17:11oldest and dad disappeared for a while
- 17:13and and I think and he never I never
- 17:15heard that until after he died.
- 17:17>> He never mentioned it.
- 17:18>> So he didn't want you to have to do
- 17:20manual labor like he did.
- 17:22>> Yeah. But I think it's it's good for
- 17:24young people. It's good.
- 17:26>> Well, and as I say in the books
- 17:28>> Yeah. As I say in the book, the number
- 17:29of people the percentage of young kids
- 17:31that are doing that these days has
- 17:32declined dramatically since the 60s and
- 17:3470s. And I think a lot of them, you
- 17:36know, they want Yeah. they want more
- 17:38kind of unpaid internships and whatnot
- 17:40to, you know, which makes sense. I mean,
- 17:41in terms of uh applications to college
- 17:44and whatnot, but when I was growing up,
- 17:46uh I think I'm a little older than you
- 17:47are. When I was growing up, everyone
- 17:49worked and you just that's what you did
- 17:51during the summer. And so this this uh
- 17:54book was kind of a it's a it's also a
- 17:56sort of a portrait of a vanishing age,
- 17:57too.
- 17:59>> Yeah. Yeah. As you say, that that's
- 18:01changed a lot of kids. Uh where I am
- 18:04right now, a lot of the kids are doing
- 18:07sports all summer long at a very highly
- 18:09competitive level. If they if they think
- 18:11that they've got a shot at some college
- 18:12money, they're going to be on these
- 18:14travel teams flying around the country
- 18:16for tournaments. And uh and that's a
- 18:18that's hard, but it's not the same
- 18:20thing. And um I like the idea I'm going
- 18:24to make my younger children here work
- 18:26when they come.
- 18:27>> Now they're going to blame me for the
- 18:29rest. They're going to blame me for the
- 18:30rest of their lives.
- 18:32That's true. That's true. You know, I
- 18:35want to shift gears a little bit and and
- 18:36back to uh your priesthood and service
- 18:40in the church. And you mentioned Pope
- 18:41Francis and you did you had a huge I I
- 18:44don't know if our viewers know this. I'm
- 18:46sure many who will see you will want to
- 18:49listen to you. But for those who are
- 18:50just kind of tuning in on a regular
- 18:52basis, you had a big you're major figure
- 18:55in the Catholic Church and a
- 18:56controversial one. But I want to ask
- 18:58about Pope Francis who who was your
- 19:02partner in this effort that to change
- 19:04the church in some ways or to change its
- 19:06approach in some ways. What was Pope
- 19:07Francis like?
- 19:08>> A wonderful guy. And I would not to not
- 19:10to correct you or put you on the spot. I
- 19:12would say I was his partner. He wasn't
- 19:14my partner. I was helping him. Uh he was
- 19:16great. I I would say the most important
- 19:20thing to know about Pope Francis that he
- 19:21was a very kind person. He was just a
- 19:23really nice guy. And uh you know I only
- 19:27met with him one-on-one maybe five or
- 19:29six times and then I participated in the
- 19:31senate that he asked me to be be a
- 19:33delegate to. Always kind, funny as hell.
- 19:37um you know even through a translator
- 19:39very relaxed and just uh very free as we
- 19:42would say in the Jesuits very free just
- 19:44a just a really kind person and uh you
- 19:48know uh emotional I would say at times
- 19:50and uh you know didn't mind sort of
- 19:54mixing things up as he said in the
- 19:55church I want to cause a mess a lot of
- 19:57people accuse him of making too much of
- 19:59a mess but I really think a very saintly
- 20:01person I was really privileged to know
- 20:03him and the times I spent with him
- 20:05one-on-one were huge huge huge grace and
- 20:08blessing in my life.
- 20:10>> He he was um and I covered him a couple
- 20:13of times on the trips and that's where
- 20:14we first met when he came to to America.
- 20:17Um and I remember thinking as he took
- 20:20the questions and answered them that the
- 20:22press gave me had a press conference on
- 20:24the plane as Pope's will on their last
- 20:27leg of a foreign trip and I did that a
- 20:29few times.
- 20:30>> I remember thinking he he's a natural
- 20:32man. Other words, he's without artifice.
- 20:36as much as well I mean I know a lot of
- 20:38people would disagree with that given
- 20:39the nature of his governance of the
- 20:40church but he seemed to me to be you ask
- 20:43him a question you got an answer
- 20:44>> absolutely and I think that you know
- 20:45that got him in trouble you know a lot
- 20:47of times because he would sort of shoot
- 20:48from the hip I think pope Leo is a lot
- 20:50more measured I would say he's still
- 20:52pretty he's still very spontaneous more
- 20:54spontaneous than I thought he would be
- 20:55when he was elected but Francis was
- 20:58really
- 20:59>> you know he just would be very honest
- 21:01with people and I think that really
- 21:03upset people because they were used to
- 21:05Pope hopes being a little more I would
- 21:06say circumspect uh and reserved and and
- 21:09tacetern but Francis was not uh and he
- 21:12would say things to me I I still have
- 21:14not been able to repeat them publicly
- 21:16that were just so funny and uh I'll I'll
- 21:19share them with you uh at another time
- 21:22uh but just very blunt and very honest
- 21:24and and also he was very smart. He knew
- 21:26exactly what was going on in the church
- 21:28and in in in you know political spheres
- 21:31and this is a very smart guy. So, I
- 21:33really loved him and was grateful for
- 21:37his support. I work with LGBT Catholics.
- 21:39He was always extremely supportive. At
- 21:42one point, I'll tell you a funny story.
- 21:43The first time I met with him in his uh
- 21:45office in the Vatican, I was going on
- 21:48and on about LGBT Catholics and this and
- 21:51that because I thought maybe I'll never
- 21:52see him again. And uh halfway through I
- 21:55realized, oh my gosh, I'm kind of
- 21:57dominating this conversation.
- 21:59Maybe he wants to ask me something else
- 22:01like you know about the church in
- 22:02America or the Jesuits or something my
- 22:04religious order. So I said to him
- 22:06through a translator, "Holy Father, what
- 22:08can I do for you?" Meaning, you know,
- 22:09can I do you want me to answer any
- 22:11questions or something? And he said,
- 22:13"You can continue your ministry in
- 22:15peace. That's what you can do for me."
- 22:17Just really beautiful. So it was a real
- 22:19kind of benediction for me. Um and you
- 22:23know, that didn't mean he agreed with
- 22:24every single thing I did. I didn't run
- 22:26it by him, but it was a real sort of
- 22:29blessing for me to hear that from him.
- 22:30So really, I I really miss him. But I
- 22:32think Leo is doing a great job.
- 22:34>> Well, I want to get to Le, but I want to
- 22:36ask about that ministry because
- 22:38it it's it's touched a lot of people,
- 22:40right? you you're trying to your work as
- 22:43I understand it and let me just capture
- 22:44it if I can is to is to find a space for
- 22:48LGBT people in the Catholic Church, a
- 22:52space where their uh spiritual
- 22:56aspirations and lives can be welcomed
- 22:58without changing church doctrine or or
- 23:01whatever. uh but more living up to the
- 23:04calling that we all have as people and
- 23:07certainly as Christians to welcome the
- 23:09stranger to reach out to people we don't
- 23:12know to uh judge not lest lest we be
- 23:16judged and I'll tell a little story the
- 23:18one of the first times we met um so I'm
- 23:21I'm a divorced and remarried Catholic so
- 23:24that has put me uh in you know an
- 23:27awkward place in some ways and yet I I'm
- 23:30I'm a Christian and and uh and love the
- 23:33church in my way. And I remember talking
- 23:34to you because we were I just met you
- 23:36and you said and this is what a good
- 23:38priest does I think and I'm going to
- 23:39brag on you a little bit here is I you
- 23:43were just kind of waiting for the the
- 23:46occasion to get underway and he said so
- 23:48what's going on with you and I was going
- 23:50on with me right so I I told you and you
- 23:53and you said well do you and I said I
- 23:55kind of I kind of miss going to church.
- 23:57He says, "Well, do you uh do you want
- 23:59to?" And I said, "Yeah." He said, "Well,
- 24:00you should you should go. You should go.
- 24:02You should that's that's not a reward
- 24:04for goody goody two shoes. It's a well,
- 24:07Francis should call it a hospital. The
- 24:08church should be a hospital for people
- 24:10who are wounded on the battlefield of
- 24:11life, which I was at the time." And that
- 24:14kind of changed my life. I It brought me
- 24:16back to something very important to me.
- 24:19And I know other people, mutual friends,
- 24:22who have connected with you in the same
- 24:24way, feeling because of who they were,
- 24:26whether they're gay or like me or
- 24:28whatever, left out.
- 24:30And that's the kind of work you're
- 24:33doing, right?
- 24:34>> Yeah, I'm trying to I mean, because
- 24:36that's the kind of work that Jesus did.
- 24:37I'm not comparing myself to him, but
- 24:39he's our model. And uh, you know, as far
- 24:41as the Eucharist goes, Pope Francis, I
- 24:43probably quoted this to you, said, "It's
- 24:44not a prize for the perfect." you know,
- 24:47it's medicine for people who need it,
- 24:49right? And who who approach it? We we go
- 24:51to confession and and but you know, who
- 24:53approaches the communion line, you know,
- 24:56with, you know, in a perfect state of
- 24:58grace, right? I mean, unless Jesus or
- 25:01Mary are going up, right? They're not.
- 25:03So, we're all in different ways
- 25:05imperfect. But yeah, what what we try to
- 25:07do um in our outreach ministry is to
- 25:09reach out to people, especially LGBTQ
- 25:11people who feel excluded or ignored or
- 25:14rejected in their own church, right? And
- 25:16this is what Francis did. Francis kept
- 25:18saying the church is for totos or
- 25:21tootiot toti for everybody. And Leo has
- 25:24repeated that. And uh so yeah, it's the
- 25:27it's the work of Jesus. It's the work of
- 25:29going out to people on the margins who
- 25:30feel left out or excluded and bringing
- 25:32them in in inside. this that's what
- 25:34Jesus did his whole life and that's what
- 25:36we try to do.
- 25:39>> So Pope Leo uh the first Chicago pope uh
- 25:44the first American pope but I prefer to
- 25:45think of him as someone who's born and
- 25:47raised and his parents and grandparents
- 25:48were born and raised in uh Chicago in
- 25:50the Chicago area. He's the first Chicago
- 25:52pope. But what what's your impression?
- 25:55>> I knew him a little bit before the uh
- 25:57conclave that elected him. I had sat at
- 26:00the same table with him for two weeks at
- 26:02the Senate, this big multi-year
- 26:04gathering of Catholics, and I was very
- 26:07impressed with him from the get-go. Um,
- 26:09I think the word that describes him the
- 26:12best, and of course, I'm not his best
- 26:13friend. I don't know him that well. Uh,
- 26:15but from my interactions with him, uh,
- 26:18is reserved. He's very reserved. Um,
- 26:21after he was elected, um, I mean, I was
- 26:24very excited because I knew him. I'll
- 26:25tell you a funny story if I can, Terry.
- 26:27I was so excited. Um, you know, I was
- 26:30helping out and uh uh on a on a TV
- 26:33station and I came back to my Jesuit
- 26:36community and I was so excited. I said,
- 26:38"I can't believe it. He was at my table
- 26:40at the Senate and one of the Jesuits
- 26:42said, "No, you were at his table at the
- 26:44Senate,
- 26:46like putting me in my place." Um, so
- 26:49after the election, I ran into an
- 26:51Augustininian, a member of the same
- 26:52religious order that uh, Pope Leo
- 26:54belongs to. And he said, I said,
- 26:57"Congratulations. He's this Augustinian.
- 27:00He was an American." And I said, "Do you
- 27:02know him?" And he said, "Who, Bob?" And
- 27:04I said, "Yes, Bob." Uh, he said, "I
- 27:06know. I've known him for 40 years." I
- 27:08said, "What's he like?"
- 27:09>> He said, "He's very kind. He's very
- 27:12smart. He's a great listener. We elected
- 27:15him prior general the first time uh
- 27:17because we liked him. We elected him the
- 27:19second time because he did a good job,
- 27:20right? But I'll never forget this. He's
- 27:23no pushover.
- 27:25And that's what stuck with me. So kind,
- 27:28prayerful, thoughtful, smart as
- 27:31anything. Uh but not a pushover. And
- 27:34then some a cardinal recently described
- 27:36him to me like this with this word which
- 27:38I really like. He's not just uh
- 27:41sympathetic. He's not just a good
- 27:42listener, but he is curious,
- 27:46which I love. I mean, he's interested
- 27:48when he meets people. He's curious about
- 27:50people. He's curious to to understand,
- 27:51you know, how things work and what
- 27:53people's points of view are. I frankly
- 27:55think it was a brilliant choice, you
- 27:57know, motivated by the Holy Spirit. And
- 27:59I I frankly think that I don't think he
- 28:01has set a foot wrong. I mean, I think
- 28:03he's done an amazing job. I think his
- 28:05new encyclical is great. And I I just
- 28:06think the world of him. And he's he's
- 28:10doing this at a moment of high tension
- 28:12and and in danger in some ways for the
- 28:16church because I would say in some ways
- 28:18the the moral conflict in the world
- 28:22right now in some ways at the governance
- 28:24level
- 28:25I mean the two polar opposites are
- 28:28president or two Americans. President
- 28:29Trump who has a way of you know
- 28:32transactional. He's not super you know
- 28:34interested in the morality of things.
- 28:36What's in it for him? He glorifies
- 28:38himself. He lies all the time. He's a
- 28:40bully. He's uh, you know, deporting
- 28:42people in ways that violate the law and
- 28:45their dignity and rights. And here's
- 28:48Pope Leo speaking out like no Pope has.
- 28:51Two Americans having this big debate.
- 28:56>> Well, I would say presending, you know,
- 28:58any critique of of President Trump. I
- 29:00would say that Pope Leo is also trying
- 29:03not to be political. I mean, you'll
- 29:05notice, as I'm sure as a journalist,
- 29:07that he only mentions, you know,
- 29:09President Trump's name when he's asked
- 29:11like, "What do you think about what
- 29:12President Trump did?" Otherwise, he's
- 29:14talking just about the gospels. He's
- 29:16talking about migrants and refugees.
- 29:17He's talking about welcoming the
- 29:18stranger. He's talking about human
- 29:19dignity. In his recent encyclical, he's
- 29:22talking about, you know, privileging
- 29:23human dignity over in the time of AI.
- 29:26So, he's rarely political. He's rarely
- 29:28saying, I'm now going to focus on this
- 29:30particular incident or person, you know.
- 29:33Uh so I think he's he's basically just
- 29:36preaching the gospel which is his that's
- 29:38his job.
- 29:40>> It can be pointed though.
- 29:42>> Yes. Yeah. I mean he's not as as as this
- 29:44Augustinian said he's no pushover. And
- 29:47he also look I think one of the
- 29:49interesting elements of uh Leo's papacy
- 29:53is that people in the United States can
- 29:55no longer say as they did under Francis
- 29:57and maybe even under Benedict and John
- 29:59Paul he doesn't understand the United
- 30:01States. So we really don't have to take
- 30:03him seriously. Or well actually in the
- 30:06Italian or Spanish that means something
- 30:07different. Here you have a pope who is
- 30:09an American who speaks obviously you
- 30:12know perfect English and when he speaks
- 30:14people understand him and when he speaks
- 30:17people know that he knows what he's
- 30:18talking about.
- 30:19>> So I think he I think he's very
- 30:21effective uh particularly on the
- 30:23American scene.
- 30:25>> Yeah, it's fascinating to watch and
- 30:26watch people's responses to him. I I'm
- 30:28going to wrap this up but with a a kind
- 30:30of big picture question on on this
- 30:33crisis that we're having in our country
- 30:35and in many places around the world
- 30:37about how to live together in a
- 30:39political society um and recognizing
- 30:42each other as even across political
- 30:45divides as as fellow humans and brothers
- 30:49and sisters and all the rest of it. Uh
- 30:52that seems to have degraded a lot. Now,
- 30:56my own operating theory of American
- 30:59politics is still that the best kept
- 31:02secret in American life is that most
- 31:04people are still normal. They actually
- 31:06don't want a raging face eating debate
- 31:11or or tearing the country apart. But it
- 31:14does feel like those louder voices are
- 31:16the ones that are driving events. And I
- 31:18wonder how you feel as somebody whose,
- 31:20you know, job it is to try to call on
- 31:22our better natures. You feel optimistic.
- 31:24think you feel pessimistic, you feel
- 31:26depressed, you feel how do you feel
- 31:28about the way things are going in our
- 31:29country?
- 31:29>> I think you're right that most people
- 31:31are normal. I'm going to quote you on
- 31:32that. I think that's true. Uh but I
- 31:34think that the the the debate and the
- 31:37discussion, if you will, uh in the
- 31:39country has become really coarssened. I
- 31:41think a lot of that is because of social
- 31:43media, you know, because people can
- 31:44feel, you know, uh cloaked by anonymity.
- 31:47I do think it's happened in the last,
- 31:49you know, 10 or 15 years for various
- 31:51political reasons. We have various
- 31:53people on the political scene who speak
- 31:54coarsely. Um but I think there are
- 31:57certain things we can do to you know
- 31:59counteract that. First we can give
- 32:01people the benefit of the doubt right?
- 32:03We can kind of assume the best with
- 32:05people. Uh we can um try to be friends
- 32:08with people uh who are on opposite
- 32:10divides. And also it's very easy to just
- 32:12avoid ad homonym or sort of personal
- 32:15attacks. I think that's just a very
- 32:16simple thing to do. We we disagree with
- 32:18the argument not the person. we say, "I
- 32:20don't agree with that argument." Not,
- 32:21"You're a terrible Christian, you're a
- 32:23demon, you're a bad Christian, you're a
- 32:24heretic." Um, but I think it's it's, you
- 32:28know, it's it's part of for a Christian,
- 32:30it's part of what we're supposed to do.
- 32:32We're supposed to, you know, Jesus says,
- 32:34"Love our enemies and pray for those who
- 32:36persecute you." And that's just part of
- 32:38being a Christian. And I think more
- 32:40broadly, it's just part of being a good
- 32:42person. So,
- 32:43>> yeah. And it does it does remind me of
- 32:45something Michelle Obama said. You you
- 32:47mentioned try to try to be friends. just
- 32:49try to, you know, reach across and
- 32:50actually find common interest uh beyond
- 32:52your differences. I live in a purple
- 32:55congressional district, more or less.
- 32:57And u and a lot of the folks around here
- 32:59voted for Trump. I went to Vegas not
- 33:01long ago that my wife, one of my wife's
- 33:04friends and her friend uh they turned 40
- 33:07and so off we went with husbands and
- 33:10wives for a couple of days in Vegas. And
- 33:13um it was and both of them were, you
- 33:15know, had voted for Trump over the years
- 33:17and it was great. And what Michelle
- 33:18Obama likes to say is it's hard to hate
- 33:20up close.
- 33:21>> That's great. You know, when I was at
- 33:23the Senate, there were people from all
- 33:24over the world, all over the church,
- 33:26from, you know, liberal, conservative,
- 33:28uh, you know, left, right, even though
- 33:30we don't use those terms in the church.
- 33:32And one of the lines I liked was from
- 33:35St. John Paul II who said, "A effective
- 33:38collegiality precedes effective
- 33:40collegiality." In other words, a effect
- 33:42of being friends and getting to know
- 33:45people is uh, you know, a requirement
- 33:48for any sort of discussion, you know, on
- 33:51difficult topics. A effective
- 33:52collegiality precedes effective
- 33:54collegiality. So, I think that trying to
- 33:56become friends with people that you
- 33:57disagree with is is really key. And
- 33:59also, frankly, um, it's much more
- 34:02relaxing. I mean, there are people I
- 34:03know who are really to the right of me
- 34:06in the church who I'm friends with, and
- 34:08it just makes the conversation a lot
- 34:10more relaxing. and even dare I say fun
- 34:12at times because you can, you know, you
- 34:14can disagree and have fun and get into
- 34:16heated conversations really while
- 34:18respecting the other person's dignity.
- 34:21>> Well, that's a great bit of advice for
- 34:24us. Uh, and Father Jim Martin, I really
- 34:26appreciate you doing this. Good luck.
- 34:28The book is called Work in Progress.
- 34:31Father James Martin is the author. It
- 34:34sounds like a lot of fun. I'm going to
- 34:35finish it over the next couple of days.
- 34:36Thanks for doing this.
- 34:37>> My pleasure. Thank you, Terry.