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- 0:00Good morning. We are in Los Nina.
- 0:02You're there some crustadi gimmel Aquinas bisula.
- 0:08Someone who gets married is kind of a bisula boiled BI Las
- 0:10mitzvah. But gomer BI also perish me out.
- 0:14He should do do the BIS mitzvah, Bolo BIS mitzvah.
- 0:19It's Taco cola mitzvah and he should be gomer BI also in
- 0:24parish me out. It's called BIS mitzvah.
- 0:27There's even a a bracha and I mentioned Evan Azar, sag sag
- 0:36eggos something whatever that if a person finds you know as well
- 0:42and she is a pasula. So there's a bracha on Pasulin.
- 0:46Uncle Ponim, a lot of people say without sharing, because it has
- 0:51to be has to be borrower. If it's really borrower, you can
- 0:53do it. If a person, you know, a person
- 0:55can do it. Uncle Ponim Gomerby also perish
- 1:00me out and he's allowed to be Gomerby also perish me out
- 1:02because the kid is over here, the Shiloh over here is that
- 1:05she's bleeding, right? So since it's not done neither,
- 1:09it's not done neither. So they are so, so we say that
- 1:13therefore he can, he can be going.
- 1:17We're still Mahmir. We'll see in a second.
- 1:21But he could be, he could be Gomerby also.
- 1:23Then he's parish Miat. You feel very, very high.
- 1:27Yeah, he's allowed to be. Doesn't have to, right.
- 1:30The point, the finish. The point is, is that he can be
- 1:32Porsche. That's the that's the finish was
- 1:35supposed to be. We saw in Kufpe, Was it Kufpe?
- 1:41I think we saw that. So as a woman is porous,
- 1:44neither. So then he has to stay.
- 1:49He has to stay in position. He can't move.
- 1:52And then Porsche remains. We hear the finishes.
- 1:54He can be Porrish Afilohi, Kitana Shilohi as mana, even if
- 2:02she's a mana Leroy and she still hasn't seen and you know she
- 2:09checked afterwards and didn't find any down to Mea Shimmer was
- 2:18that we're Glazer and all dumb right There was even even we are
- 2:23the Chloe more guys there as she said she should sit ship in the
- 2:26Keem Uncle Ponim, but they were there, but they were Makos to
- 2:32finish. If for BLS mitzvah they were
- 2:35Mako and even if she didn't see them, if he was going to be if
- 2:38he was going to be a for Hipposhe Frazera and therefore
- 2:45alpha PK in the should be Maharlavi.
- 2:48It should be killing in Labra Saddam.
- 2:51There are those who are may kill If she didn't see any for sure
- 2:55she didn't see she didn't see any time at all.
- 2:58We're not foolish for composition for zero, However
- 3:02inaugural hockey in low Gomer be a Raqqa Arriba with over on
- 3:06Saddam in Bali. Be a mamish.
- 3:08Sir, please push me and have official over on Saddam.
- 3:11However, if he was, if he did a full a full beer, then
- 3:18afterwards, yes, be perish me mana and then and then she's
- 3:24after then she's Tamaya afterwards.
- 3:28So the finish is in the Rama is that we we we make you'll add
- 3:34add what's hara shadows? What is hara?
- 3:38So the hara and all in in Shas and Shas and play scheme means
- 3:46it's just the the just putting the Atari in the tip of the tip
- 3:51in and that's what's called that is what's called horror will be
- 3:57hive by riots and hive, whatever Aqua name Gumarbia.
- 4:02The simple chat is is is is is out of self.
- 4:07Is is is is is pretty all you know out of self.
- 4:12The question is, is what about if it's in the middle, It's not
- 4:16out ourselves, it's not whatever.
- 4:18So the police can say that once there's a once there's a once
- 4:23the part, a little bit of the GID goes in.
- 4:26So then, so then we are then we are Makhmir.
- 4:31That's that's passed, that's considered a Kumar BIA where we
- 4:35don't, you know, even though it seems like, you know, there's,
- 4:37there's a deal one way or the other.
- 4:39But the point is, is we're only Maikil by Hara.
- 4:42Anything beyond that, we're not Makil.
- 4:44And and then he has to be polished.
- 4:47He has to be polished after that and polished from her.
- 4:53The and we say you don't say great, you have to Polish me out
- 4:56also means, you know, they could finish, finish the the BS
- 5:02mitzvah properly and and everything.
- 5:04You just mean after that then he has to be polished Alcopani
- 5:11well, ball Nefesh Yakhshlat's emotional least least Kaik
- 5:15Bettinaikis and a ball nefesh should be careful not to play
- 5:20around, not not to play around. But what does this mean?
- 5:22This will play around with with girls.
- 5:25What does this mean? So they say the Chad is is that
- 5:28since we say that hara he doesn't have to be punished.
- 5:33So he decide the Hudson decides to listen.
- 5:35You know, you know, we just got married.
- 5:38We're going to go ahead and, you know, and she's going to be
- 5:41Asura for seven days. So we'll do the chica saver.
- 5:45We'll do a little bit of horror for a few days and then, you
- 5:49know, have some fun and then, you know, and then and then
- 5:52we'll just, and then she'll be Asura.
- 5:54Ross says it's not Asur, but all that fish.
- 5:58And then some teachers tell them tell them you know not to do
- 6:03that now again, also Hara means even if she even even even if
- 6:08you well, actually, if you didn't break it could be if you
- 6:11even didn't didn't break the Basilim.
- 6:14Well, hushes. She broke it a little bit hushes
- 6:15for you know, her mother says now go the hockey.
- 6:18Hell, if you you know. So even if he did, if he sorry,
- 6:21if he did more than hara and didn't and didn't break the
- 6:23Basilim, I think, but the Maisa I think that there were still
- 6:27Mahmir. Because The thing is, is that
- 6:30with that that's what the Ramos says, even though there's no
- 6:35dam, there were we're Macrikism, Shamakifo Shukla Zera.
- 6:40Maybe there was a tipas dam and we didn't see.
- 6:43So, so do you know? So The thing is also with Hassan
- 6:46Khala, you know, the first time often they don't know what's
- 6:49going on. Was it a gummar via?
- 6:51Was it not a gummar via? Yeah, no, they they don't they
- 6:54don't really often they don't understand and you know, every
- 6:59you know, and they have to often they have to call their they
- 7:02call a call a Rav class and teacher.
- 7:04Yeah. Is this also is this motor What
- 7:06Ashiya Sura and often it takes an hour.
- 7:09They often it doesn't. They're not successful the first
- 7:11time. Often I heard a joke once and
- 7:15said it said, you know, the mission says Nice and Basila are
- 7:17by yummy, but he doesn't. It doesn't takes 2 weeks a day.
- 7:27It sometimes just takes time and they don't really know what's
- 7:30going on. So therefore, whatever each each
- 7:34case, yes, they have to ask a personal Shiloh to a competent
- 7:37Rev or the Hudson teacher or whatever it is to ask obviously.
- 7:45Well, obviously an Almana Grusha and there's no Dom so they don't
- 7:49have they don't have to be. They don't have to be polished
- 7:53afterwards because it's not it's only official Dom Sulin.
- 7:56There is something about not something about is an Indian not
- 8:01to be not to not to have an MPs mitzvah Almana the first night.
- 8:06Some say it says shouldn't do it on Chavez right.
- 8:09And there seems to be some mini probably based on it's probably
- 8:12based on Ruach of the ball. I don't know.
- 8:14It's all all weird stuff sometimes that it's a minute.
- 8:20Well, I thought you're getting there first.
- 8:21You're getting married acid for a long trial.
- 8:23I'm just bringing them in and go.
- 8:25I don't know. That's that's an interesting.
- 8:28That's an interesting point. Also.
- 8:30The question is what about the pasula?
- 8:31What should she do about padikas because she doesn't want to
- 8:34break her pasulin. So there are the best yes, it
- 8:37discusses it and he says I should be on the McGee until she
- 8:40has to do Padika and as far as as far as she can go without
- 8:43breaking the Pasulin here there's Araya.
- 8:47That woman does the pedico. We'll see Khusan evolve asked me
- 8:49out for him to stop him and you know all as far as possible.
- 8:53But you know, if a woman can only do she has to do as far as
- 8:57she can do. She has very short fingers.
- 8:59Let's say whatever the whatever the reason is, it's you know,
- 9:05from here we see that since it's it's OK by by a Basula and she's
- 9:09Vada Anita, because you know, before she's they break the
- 9:13Basula from before that that the bidikas can be done, you know,
- 9:18even even a little bit, as long as it goes inside to check for
- 9:22to check for them. Vitsvika, she tastes like Batara
- 9:27and she has to do a hesitateyra Vititit don't call Shiva and she
- 9:32has to wait call Shiva. She only has to wait four days,
- 9:36four days. She doesn't have to wait the
- 9:38five days we'll see includes an evolve.
- 9:40She has to wait four days. We'll pass the Linois Ayam
- 9:43Kamishi Lishimusha. Alright, that's usually wait
- 9:46till she doesn't shouldn't she shouldn't do it until the Oh no,
- 9:54that's especially with the Knights of we're not we're not
- 9:56Makhalik. The Knights of the mission says
- 9:584 days. The Knights of we're not Makhali
- 10:00because once you start making things confusing, it gets
- 10:04confusing plus and Paulo and everything and it's not not
- 10:09metallic because it says then because we pass give No Eva.
- 10:14Behold didn't either. We're we're we're you know we're
- 10:20not we're knowing we're knowing. Wait one second.
- 10:27Wait. I said it wrong.
- 10:29Yeah, we'll see that really. Really by no.
- 10:31So we have to wait by. Sorry.
- 10:33My mistake. She only.
- 10:35She does get 4 days. My mistake, She does get 4 days.
- 10:39I got it wrong. Yom Hamishi means she could
- 10:41starve a regular woman. It's Yom Shishi.
- 10:44Yeah, that's it. Sorry.
- 10:45My my apologies. OK.
- 10:48But now you're holding a needle. I mean, hakaka Ella.
- 10:50She needs a Gamora. Also Lalisha in Almitasa.
- 10:53It's also for him to lie down and sleep on her on her bed.
- 10:56I feel 'cause she ain't a mimita.
- 10:57You know, when she's not there. Resumable to Lalisha.
- 10:59But it's Amita Akasha. Amda Meyerzlo.
- 11:03He is allowed to sleep in the bed after she gets up.
- 11:07I feel a bit Southern shared. I'm a love.
- 11:09He's allowed to stay, to stay, to stay in the bed, Although,
- 11:14you know, I guess it would be, you know, nicer for him to get
- 11:18up and not kick his wife out of the bed.
- 11:19But you go to that one. But who knows?
- 11:22I don't know. I'm not getting involved in the
- 11:24in the costing teacher. I don't know what they teach
- 11:26upon him. So I think with anything else,
- 11:32let's move on Lettuce, olive, your lettuce.
- 11:39I feel the raw Saddam to make an either, even if she doesn't see
- 11:45dam she's the American either Ben y'all the high Ben y'all the
- 11:50Mace, whether the baby was alive or Mace.
- 11:52I feel Nafil, even a Nafil. The comment that you made to
- 11:57Malsa and how Yala Mace is full full term stillborn and
- 12:05Nashville is is earlier is you know, and we'll see.
- 12:10We can't even make Tumasa Akshav is Manazek call her Yoldos
- 12:13'cause she was yoldos Bazov any any yolettes.
- 12:19It's a whole Sulgya there. It's a whole Sulgya as she was
- 12:23yolettes Bazov with three hosts least for Shiva Nakim.
- 12:27And she has to she has to cancel Shiva Nakim.
- 12:30Nim says Aimersha, your lettuce Zakhar Yoshava Shiva loleda.
- 12:35A woman who gave birth to a Zakhar has to wait Shiva Loleda,
- 12:39the Shiva inakim and then Shiva Nakim the Ziva or your lettuce,
- 12:45the Cava Yoshava Shiva 1 when the cava has to wait two weeks
- 12:50or later, the Shiva Nakim, the Ziva and this applies by anayful
- 12:57as well. That anayful.
- 13:00If they could tell what it is, then then we'll we'll see.
- 13:04But the vice said that they they wait.
- 13:07Let's see this moment first that then they then then he they have
- 13:10to she has to wait 7 for herself heard and two weeks were in The
- 13:15Cave and then do and then and then then then Shiva Nakim
- 13:19again. Normally and normally women
- 13:22women leave for much longer, but if they didn't, this would be
- 13:28the dim and they feel it could be that you won't be that long.
- 13:30So they have to be they have to be.
- 13:32Knowing this, you may later shame Shiva Lizar for your
- 13:35dollar in The Cave. I know Ross of the hen early in
- 13:38the serious Zeva they she did not see any Dom at all.
- 13:41Then it's either for serious Zeva of Shivan Hakeem, the in
- 13:46shaman Shivan Hakeem is Sofia dialed in The Cave.
- 13:49If she finished Shivan Hakeem and the and you know, you dialed
- 13:53from The Cave or ASU Asura AD the El Tesla, she she can't go
- 13:57to the mixer until Delta Slav in terms of clothing.
- 14:00The also the Tila and then she was developed beforehand.
- 14:04She doesn't her Tuila doesn't you know, doesn't work.
- 14:10You know, La Maisa now, like I said, nowadays it doesn't work
- 14:14and and you know, I can't imagine a woman going, you know,
- 14:18going to mikvah, you know, so shortly after, after Latha for
- 14:23even without bleeding, she's you know, whatever I know that says
- 14:27that by Bris. She says why is the Bris on the
- 14:30OR she says why is Bris on the 8th day?
- 14:33So the for the parents could be the simple because they could
- 14:35they have to feel they could be together.
- 14:39I don't understand it, but Alpha funny was different, I guess
- 14:42things things were different. Women were much stronger back
- 14:46then than they are now. I'll go over Ashish Shiva.
- 14:48But we're saying here that the minimum time to wait for Azahar
- 14:53is 14 days, seven days, seven days.
- 14:55Of course, Zahar is 7/7 and then seven days, right.
- 15:00And for for the cable, it would be 21 days.
- 15:03Yeah, 21 days Correct Shiva little Zachary doll in The Cave
- 15:07in the terrace of by the Miyad the Akasha suffer Shiva Nakim
- 15:11because of her also she was she she did some ship in The Cave
- 15:14and she didn't go see anymore meal ish McCain is she know
- 15:18again she ain't are buying the Zachary that our place is genoic
- 15:22that they're not terrible toy car buying the Zahra Shwan and
- 15:25The Cave in because it's also for Zahra.
- 15:28It's brought down and talking is the thing that people have to
- 15:32should pay attention to that the on the 40 on the young 40 the
- 15:37light of the 41st night or the 81st night.
- 15:40They're not supposed to be they're they're supposed to be
- 15:42parish. It's in the Gamar.
- 15:46So therefore the the minute was to wait all the whole time until
- 15:49then ain't in the hot here. They're not with Shinago.
- 15:53The Hafner and I talked about down in the that there was a lot
- 15:57of kilos. Kilos is Friday.
- 15:59Who, who, who are have that mini to be to be Makhmir.
- 16:03I don't know which one is brought.
- 16:04I saw it brought down. But again, everything to see the
- 16:07see the mini and like the remote says, welcome to the hack where
- 16:11they should be Makhmir, any new place or any you know, if you
- 16:18don't have a specific meaning, then for care.
- 16:20It shouldn't be basketball. You know, it shouldn't it
- 16:22shouldn't wait that long unless obviously, you know, the
- 16:26everybody, everybody say that, you know, the women, women a
- 16:29week afterwards and that could die for a husband to push to
- 16:32push the wife. It causes it's going, you know,
- 16:36resentment, this whatever push the wife an extra, you know, the
- 16:40first second, you know, whatever.
- 16:41It'd be a little bit pain what they say they say, you know six
- 16:46weeks. I think something like that.
- 16:48They didn't say six weeks. You know, obviously she wants to
- 16:51something else, but I'll come on him a mimic in the hacker Clawl
- 16:55Rakhmiya Shiva Lasaka redoubled in the cava with suffer Shiva
- 17:00Nakim with Tara Sabayla immediately after these these
- 17:04Shuri and then she could do Shiva Nakim ABBA Imhalzer Verasa
- 17:09field tipa Stumpka cargo afterwards if she's if she sees
- 17:12any any blood at all. To me, I thought government
- 17:14there Isa Dantar who out of buying Azaka even though there
- 17:20Isa it's done to her until 40 or 80 for a partial a minute before
- 17:26you say she ain't boiling Madame Toya.
- 17:27We're not we're not we're not boiling Madame Toya anymore
- 17:30because we're not Mahalik anything any time we're hack
- 17:34mere and therefore and therefore we are therefore we're koshish
- 17:46days. I'm a palace.
- 17:51So a woman who had a navel was suffer by Yum.
- 17:55She had a navel. She let's say she did a
- 17:57pregnancy test and she was late. She did a test and then she said
- 18:06she was positive and then and then a few days later she had a
- 18:11heavy, had a heavy period. They say sometimes have a have a
- 18:15heavy period. It could be it's a, it's an,
- 18:18it's an Apollo. It's no, you're right.
- 18:23I don't know how they knew, but she knew again, it could be that
- 18:29if she was late and she normally sees her 25 days and something
- 18:33when she's late, she was colitiish for it and but it was
- 18:36tough Harpoin. She had a very, she had a heavy
- 18:39period, which they say is a Simon.
- 18:40It could be an unusually heavy period.
- 18:43It could be a Simon that there was a Vlad, that there was a
- 18:45pregnancy. Yeah, but any concessions the
- 18:53Vlad she doesn't have to be worried about a Vlad about
- 18:56concessions, which neither I feel or also she just thought
- 18:59she neither even if she didn't see right, right, right, right.
- 19:12I've got a wish EF Sharleb Sikhasaki ever below dam because
- 19:15of the EFFF obesique and sukaver below dam.
- 19:17We had this before with Afghan minion de Miala Aquashesafra
- 19:20Zionekim were terrorists and the Afghan mini is we're not.
- 19:26It's not called a Vlad until 40 days.
- 19:28There is and because of this, there are those plays game mark
- 19:32city ship play scheme who are who are more Mako?
- 19:34Who are Mako within 40 days? If they for whatever reason,
- 19:40whatever it's a skittish they they some some Cesar place can
- 19:43say that it's better, you know, instead of instead of you know,
- 19:49if that's if the pills are on the birth control is instead of
- 19:53instead of having to do Berry, you know, the Berry diaphragm,
- 19:57whatever the whatever the thing was down there.
- 19:59They don't usually do it. But Akhopani, it's better to go
- 20:02ahead and not be over and ship what they say ship was there all
- 20:05of a Tala and to do and to do Apollo's in 40 days.
- 20:09There are place schemes to say that no, that's but if you it's
- 20:15the tradition. I know Amesha was very against
- 20:17that. Let's just chef place scheme.
- 20:19And so I'm also they don't. Yeah, it says from the first,
- 20:24from the, you know, first, you know, from the from the
- 20:26beginning that they have as a dinner of as a dinner of law, as
- 20:30a dinner of even though here we say until 40 the gender can
- 20:34change and all these things and we, you know, can dive until 40.
- 20:37But Uncle pun him, it still has a din of a Vlad and and
- 20:43therefore you can't just do Apollo.
- 20:46You know there are there are certain, you know, certain
- 20:49situations and certain things. You know, whatever every place
- 20:53can deal with it. You know that you know, Apollo,
- 20:55it's better to do it before before 40.
- 20:58I'll go panning. But but right here, right here,
- 21:04as long as it's before 40, we're not that she need that Papa
- 21:08here, at least if she's made pills.
- 21:16Something that looks doesn't look like a regular Vlad.
- 21:18It looks like some other, you know, weird creature could mean
- 21:22doggy or like little bugs. It's own pieces and they're
- 21:27called surahs. Any surahs, Vlad or sheer or
- 21:30Sheila or like the placenta or the sack comes out or Katika
- 21:36Shikaruha or like a torn piece. The H by SVH by Edson, but they
- 21:41opened it up and they saw there was a bone inside.
- 21:43Actually, we said before Katifa. We just it's Dom, it's boss, who
- 21:46knows what it is, but we found the bone inside after Shano
- 21:50Bikin. But Sue Rice now we don't know
- 21:52what all the different sewers for sheshes, the Vlad being
- 21:55Kalashev and Hakima Sokhi dollar young in Tablo Kodam.
- 21:59Well, it's love if she went ahead and we and since we don't
- 22:02know if this is offer in a cave, she has to wait 14 days, right?
- 22:06Apollo if we have no idea since she has to wake me suffered 14
- 22:09days and she can't be Tuvallis until Altas Vaa below.
- 22:12Also Trila should her Trila is doesn't work after. 40.
- 22:17Days of pregnancy. This is after 40 days, yeah, few
- 22:20months in whatever. So she didn't see them, let's
- 22:26say, let's say she, let's say she saw that she bled.
- 22:29She she she bled for two days, 235 days, right?
- 22:33And now and now she doesn't she's been the king day 12.
- 22:37She can't be tavellas until until the till the eltas vote
- 22:41because of hushes in The Cave. The hushes that it was in The
- 22:44Cave and she has to wait two months later of of of yeah,
- 22:48yeah, Dal yalda Vlad hai akaki pila shillya.
- 22:54And if afterwards she if she gave birth and then another
- 22:59shillya came out, but she. Has to wait. 14.
- 23:06Days she has to wait 14 days, 714 days because of the scratch
- 23:10the cable, right, but. We're not saying that she has
- 23:14to. Wait, 14?
- 23:16No, we're saying that. Yeah, she.
- 23:21Didn't wait 14 days as. Soon as she.
- 23:23Stopped. If she stopped bleeding, she can
- 23:25count. She she can count shipping the
- 23:26keem. She can count.
- 23:28She can count shipping the Keem. Just she can't do Twila until
- 23:33that's that. That's the thing.
- 23:35Yeah, OK, That's the thing. OK, so let's we'll we'll stop.