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WELCOME BACK SEASON 4 -SC BOOKGAL & FRIENDS PODCAST| HOST PATRICE GRIMBALL | · DA CREW Podcast

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  Speaker 1: UK back. Welcome to the SC Book gall and Friends Chat.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna be talking about the latest and book reviews,
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  Speaker 2: author interviews and life.
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  Speaker 1: Come on in and join us. We're ready, are you.
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  Speaker 3: Joy?
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  Speaker 1: Hey?
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  Speaker 2: Everyone, this is your girl SC Book Gut eight four
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  Speaker 2: three and it is Tuesday night.
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  Speaker 1: See y'all already know what's up.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, we got all kind of fore you back going
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  Speaker 2: on here, and I apologize for that, but we still
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  Speaker 2: gonna make you do what to do.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So welcome to another show, and tonight I have
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  Speaker 1: one of the old comings back and she has a
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  Speaker 1: new book.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so we already have a behind the scenes okay,
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  Speaker 2: and all y'all know that at the end of the show,
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  Speaker 2: I like to do my fun questions, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Can y'all believe she actually thought she was going to
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  Speaker 1: get out of doing the fun questions.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care if your book is a nonfiction book
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  Speaker 2: about mothers, four mothers. I still got some questions for
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  Speaker 2: you book, So you gotta be ready, but you guys.
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  Speaker 2: Returning again is Danny Nicole. She is a published author,
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  Speaker 2: a speaker, mentor, and a coach. She has now written
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  Speaker 2: four publisher books and she can call herself a best
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  Speaker 2: selling author. She was born in Milwaukee. We got to
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  Speaker 2: talk about that.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Nobody from Milwaukee. You the first, but now she lives
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  Speaker 2: in Charlotte. Well, they got all that snow, and she
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  Speaker 2: is also the mother of three beautiful kids. So come
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  Speaker 2: on up, girly, Hey, let's go on.
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  Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question. How much snow did
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  Speaker 1: you guys get?
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  Speaker 4: We got about twelve they say, twelve inches?
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  Speaker 1: A nobody gotta talk about.
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  Speaker 4: No, I left Wisconsin because of the snow. I didn't
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  Speaker 4: come here.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, because we got to talk about that, because
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  Speaker 2: I mean, okay, you guys. I'm gonna sound real, real, real,
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  Speaker 2: real crazy. But y'all know how we say ooh, we
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  Speaker 2: didn't know black people to say, yes, this is Black
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  Speaker 2: History Month.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm being honest and I'm being real.
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  Speaker 2: With y'all, So give me a moment. I never know
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  Speaker 2: black people live in Milwaukee a lot. What is there
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  Speaker 2: should do there?
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  Speaker 1: Nothing?
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  Speaker 2: Oh No, they're famous for cheese and beer.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah people, you right right. So before we go on
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  Speaker 1: it further, tell us a little bit about yourself.
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  Speaker 4: So I am Danny Nicole, and I am from Milwaukee.
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  Speaker 3: Wisconsin.
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  Speaker 4: I live in the beautiful Charlotte in North Carolina, where
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  Speaker 4: it's mostly warm and sunny most of the time. I
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  Speaker 4: am now. I am another of three. Two of them
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  Speaker 4: are adults, one is a child.
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  Speaker 3: They're not all little ones, you know. I have two
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  Speaker 3: adult children.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, you don't look that old to have an adult child.
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  Speaker 3: Two two late in their twenties. Yes, yes, ma'am.
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  Speaker 1: Whatever fountain you you guys, can you bring it down here?
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  Speaker 3: I'm a bottle it up.
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  Speaker 2: I'm about it up for you address after the show.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, I have published four books since we last talked,
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  Speaker 4: and I am a best seller. I can I can
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  Speaker 4: add that to my repertoire. So I'm excited about that.
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  Speaker 1: I know right. I was about to.
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  Speaker 2: Say clock it, but my daughter said, I'm not allowed
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  Speaker 2: to do that. She literally said, Mommy, you are not
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  Speaker 2: allowed to to clock.
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  Speaker 1: I said, you know what. They never let us have fun,
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  Speaker 1: never just be hurting all my dreams.
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  Speaker 2: So how how does it feel to be and to
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  Speaker 2: have the title best selling author?
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  Speaker 1: It feels great?
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  Speaker 4: It's uh, I mean the boys. I got it through
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  Speaker 4: one of through the anthology, which is that's how I
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  Speaker 4: got the title best seller. But it feels the same.
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  Speaker 4: I'm just excited to add it now. Two they can
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  Speaker 4: say she's a best selling author. Just sounds so good
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  Speaker 4: when they announce it that way.
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  Speaker 2: Well, Keen, congratulations from us here at sci Book Out
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  Speaker 2: and Friends.
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  Speaker 3: Right, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: So what else have you been up to with this
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  Speaker 1: new book you have? Yes, it is very beautiful, and
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  Speaker 1: thank you. Fever color.
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  Speaker 4: It's a picture, it's beautiful. I like the purple. This
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  Speaker 4: is actually value four of the series. I was honored
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  Speaker 4: to be part of volume three and four with the
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  Speaker 4: Moments for Moms. They're doing the volume five. They just
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  Speaker 4: started recruiting for that. But it was a really it
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  Speaker 4: was a really good experience because I had it's a nonfiction,
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  Speaker 4: so you know, I got to tell the real about
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  Speaker 4: about myself as a mom.
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  Speaker 1: So I think that.
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  Speaker 4: Part was the hardest part is being vulnerable and telling
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  Speaker 4: it's you know, it's not fake, it's not a fiction.
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  Speaker 3: It's the real truth what I've gone through.
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  Speaker 1: As a mom.
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  Speaker 2: I'm still going through some you know, it's the resilience
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  Speaker 2: of motherhood.
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  Speaker 4: There's challenges, there's joys. I had to tell all of that.
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  Speaker 1: So what was the hardest part about telling your story
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  Speaker 1: in this volume. I was nervous.
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  Speaker 3: It was really it was hard to tell the truth.
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  Speaker 4: Not you know, not that I was lying, but you know,
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  Speaker 4: I really had to dig deep and share like a
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  Speaker 4: raw story of my life. And so that was that
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  Speaker 4: was really that's why I did fiction because I.
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  Speaker 3: Can make that up, you know, I can make those
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  Speaker 3: characters up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm not totally understand I guess, you know,
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  Speaker 2: when it comes down to being a mother, I didn't
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  Speaker 2: noticing that I'm starting and I don't know this might
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  Speaker 2: be TikTok algorithm.
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  Speaker 1: Or whatever, but I'm seeing a lot of men.
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  Speaker 2: Are now chiming up as saying, you know what, as
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  Speaker 2: a man, I have to give homish to the mother
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  Speaker 2: because I can walk away, he still.
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  Speaker 1: Won't be there.
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  Speaker 2: And there's a lot of mothers know that, hey, we're
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  Speaker 2: going to be there.
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  Speaker 5: But now on the flip side of that, I'm just
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  Speaker 5: seeing a lot of mothers being like, look, hey, keep
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  Speaker 5: your responsibility.
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  Speaker 1: So how does how do you feel about that? Seeing
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  Speaker 1: that there's this new shift in motherhood.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know how to feel about that.
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  Speaker 2: I you know, things, things change, shifts happen, So I
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  Speaker 2: think that's just just a part of.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to say life.
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  Speaker 4: But you know, just as as as we change, as
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  Speaker 4: the world changes, as you know, people grow up, people
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  Speaker 4: get mature, you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, things has changed. I just know there's in this.
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  Speaker 4: Last book there's a lot of moms who really are
• 10:09
  Speaker 4: out here, strong, strong moms doing their thing. Single even
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  Speaker 4: there's there's some married moms in the book. But being
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  Speaker 4: a mom is still a hard job. There's it's it's rewarding,
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  Speaker 4: but it is challenging and it's gonna always be that way.
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  Speaker 3: You know, you.
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  Speaker 1: I totally understand, totally understand.
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  Speaker 3: That's a whole time job by itself.
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  Speaker 1: It is. And and.
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  Speaker 2: I see you guys have the four volumes? Have have
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  Speaker 2: you written any other volumes?
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  Speaker 1: Correct? Yes?
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  Speaker 3: I wrote in volume three?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So let's can you compare writing and volume three
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  Speaker 2: as a mother and writing in volume four as a mother?
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  Speaker 2: Is there a difference between the two or you're still
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  Speaker 2: there as in everything is still the same. Do you
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  Speaker 2: feel a difference between the two volumes and writing?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, I feel there's some growth. So the first so
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  Speaker 4: the volume three, that first one that I wrote in
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  Speaker 4: like I said, it was, I was vulnerable. I had
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  Speaker 4: to be vulnerable, and I had to share my experiences.
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  Speaker 4: So in that first volume, I was a little more nervous.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't really know what to expect or how to
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  Speaker 4: culminate my feelings and really share my role as a mother.
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  Speaker 4: But then the second book or the fourth volume, I
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  Speaker 4: felt like I grew a little more and I came
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  Speaker 4: to understand and that my story could reach. My story
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  Speaker 4: resonates with other moms. It can resonate, and that's I'm
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  Speaker 4: understanding that. You know, others will will learn from from it.
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  Speaker 4: They're just gonna learn, They're gonna learn from me from
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  Speaker 4: my story. And it's okay. It's okay to share that
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  Speaker 4: vulnerable side of you as a mother because the audience
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  Speaker 4: are moms and they know exactly what you're feeling, and
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  Speaker 4: they're going to understand where you're coming from. So I
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  Speaker 4: grew a lot and I matured a lot from that
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  Speaker 4: book to now.
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  Speaker 2: You know, and I totally totally understand where you're coming from,
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  Speaker 2: because you never know that mother that is sitting in
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  Speaker 2: that corner reading your book and they say, I am
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  Speaker 2: here at where you were in this book, and your
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  Speaker 2: your words.
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  Speaker 1: Encourage them to keep going.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I'm very happy that my best friend, she's
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  Speaker 2: a mom and our girls get along.
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  Speaker 1: And there's some days I call her.
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  Speaker 6: Like, hey, girl, looking here, you got bail money on
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  Speaker 6: the side because one of these two about to have
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  Speaker 6: me in a hole, you know, and she's able to
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  Speaker 6: talk to me.
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  Speaker 1: And it's it's.
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  Speaker 2: It's that that mommy loved, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I feel that that comes through in this book.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, it does.
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  Speaker 4: And I also so I formed a community. I don't
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  Speaker 4: have sisters. So growing up, I was a twin. I
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  Speaker 4: had a twin brother he passed it'll be fifteen years
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  Speaker 4: this year. But I didn't have sisters. So this I
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  Speaker 4: have best friends and that. But this, this community of
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  Speaker 4: moms has really been.
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  Speaker 3: A healing for me.
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  Speaker 4: And we we just connect and although we're it's virtual
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  Speaker 4: right now, and you know we're we're in the group
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  Speaker 4: on Facebook together, but we really connect and we reach
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  Speaker 4: out to each other and we encourage each other.
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  Speaker 2: Uh.
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  Speaker 4: And that's and that's why I joined in the beginning,
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  Speaker 4: and that's why I'm still with this this next volume,
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  Speaker 4: because it's just the sisterhood and the community of moms
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  Speaker 4: coming together and sharing their experiences.
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  Speaker 2: So tell me what is the strongest part or the
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  Speaker 2: biggest strength.
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  Speaker 1: Of a mom or being a.
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  Speaker 4: The biggest strength of being a mom?
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  Speaker 1: Hm hm, the biggest good question, because that.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, the biggest strength. So for me, I guess for
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  Speaker 3: me it.
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  Speaker 4: Would be the standing of especially my younger child. Now,
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  Speaker 4: you know, I I'm learning that that they have a voice,
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  Speaker 4: not not not that they didn't, but you know, I
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  Speaker 4: grew up and I guess I wasn't as free to
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  Speaker 4: express as I let my son do now and I'm understanding.
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  Speaker 3: He does have a voice.
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  Speaker 4: He really does have some personality, personality and things he
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  Speaker 4: wants to engage in. And I need to listen and
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  Speaker 4: understand more and not just throw the book. But I'm
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  Speaker 4: the mom or you know, I'm the adult, and that's
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  Speaker 4: that the kid. The kid got he got something to
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  Speaker 4: say and and I really need to sometimes listen instead
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  Speaker 4: of just speaking and thinking, okay, whatever, it's really not whatever,
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  Speaker 4: like it really has something to share and it's okay.
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  Speaker 1: So you know, mommy, the mommy, I'm learning that too.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna tell you guys, I have a twenty
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  Speaker 2: three year old son and I have a ten year
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  Speaker 2: old daughter.
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  Speaker 1: H difference.
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  Speaker 2: The difference is like understatement, and I have to find
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  Speaker 2: and even my son me with that, I find.
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  Speaker 1: Myself like, who are you talking to?
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  Speaker 2: But then I have to remember that you know, things
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  Speaker 2: have changed, you know, we have to really hear our
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  Speaker 2: kids out, give them that that moment to be able
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  Speaker 2: to express themselves, but then also be able to be
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  Speaker 2: like like I tell my daughter, you can express yourself
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  Speaker 2: and you could be respectable with Yes, absolutely respects of
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  Speaker 2: you coming at me in the wrong way, believe you me,
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  Speaker 2: I'm coming back, but we're But what my son, who's
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  Speaker 2: twenty three, it was like, I an't asked you that,
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: you know, but I realized that you know, what you're
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  Speaker 2: saying is sloly correct, that we have to.
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  Speaker 1: This generation needs our ears more than they need our hands.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, you know, it's weird to say that because you know,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know about you, but I'm a child from
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  Speaker 2: the South. That's all I'm gonna say. To understand, you know,
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  Speaker 2: because you don't want nobody getting no trouble. Plus right, Okay, lord,
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  Speaker 2: I just want to get to the gate and see her.
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  Speaker 1: Right, m You're back and I'm back.
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  Speaker 2: All right, We're cool now, Okay, So what would be
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  Speaker 2: the biggest takeaway.
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  Speaker 1: You wanted to give to mothers. When you're reading moments
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  Speaker 1: from Moms Volume four.
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  Speaker 3: I would say, give yourself grace.
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  Speaker 4: I had to learn that and I still and I
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  Speaker 4: have to still remind myself of that.
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  Speaker 3: You're not perfect. You know, you're you're gonna make mistakes.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, you're you're you're human.
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  Speaker 4: But the difference is when you make the mistake, don't
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  Speaker 4: stay there, you know, get back up and keep moving
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  Speaker 4: because your child is watching you. And although you've you've
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  Speaker 4: made the mistake, you know things might have failed, but
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  Speaker 4: you keep going.
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  Speaker 3: You keep going, and you keep moving and don't give up.
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  Speaker 2: Ooh that part, don't give up, you know. I had
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  Speaker 2: to realize that trying to be supermom was hurting me
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: more in the end and hurting her more in the
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  Speaker 2: end than I thought it was.
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  Speaker 1: Helping. I wasn't able to go to one her award
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  Speaker 1: ceremony and she was like, it's okay, you can see
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  Speaker 1: the war when you get home. Yeah. I was like,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: are you sure. She's like yeah. But then I forgot that.
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  Speaker 2: I had this village of other moms who was like, hey,
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: we know she wasn't there, So we took a picture
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: of her and her ward for you.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, thank you.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: You know, so it's okay to to not be the
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: way to answer in your chest all the time.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: Yes, I thank you.
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  Speaker 2: I thank you for telling me that that great smart
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  Speaker 2: is is very important.
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  Speaker 1: So you know I'm about the actually right.
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  Speaker 2: No, what.
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  Speaker 1: Are you ready? Okay? Drum roll? Okay, all right, So
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: we're gonna start off real good. Okay, okay, who.
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  Speaker 2: Is the best TV mom?
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: You're starting off easy?
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: The oh, Claire Huxtable.
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  Speaker 1: You go with Claire? Okay?
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: Why Claire?
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  Speaker 4: I've always loved Claire Huxtable. I grew up in that era,
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  Speaker 4: so the the hux was just that that was a
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  Speaker 4: great family image, especially for African Americans. And Claire was
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  Speaker 4: just smooth. She didn't raise she didn't have to raise
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  Speaker 4: her voice to make a point she had to look, you're.
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  Speaker 1: Right, but you know what. I like Claire.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: But you know, my only problem with Claire was did
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: anybody ever see Claire make a meal?
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: No? Exactly cook.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: I see Cliff cook a couple of times. I saw
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: the old cook when Saundra.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: Was having the babies.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I do all the episodes of Yes, Yes,
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  Speaker 2: I have never seen Claire cook.
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  Speaker 3: No she didn't, No, but she fly all the time, live, fly, dressing,
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  Speaker 3: fly hair, just the mean air character. Just but she
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: didn't play either.
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  Speaker 2: Now she had to look for you, especially when Vanessa went,
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  Speaker 2: we'll see the wretched and have the big.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: She went to see the wretched. Yes, yes, when she.
• 22:25
  Speaker 7: Yelled go to bed, I wasn't going to go to
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  Speaker 7: bed for Vanessa.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Right, So.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: If I had to answer that question, and you're gonna
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: laugh at me, I wanted Harriet Winslow, not light skin Harriet.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: I want darskin Harriet season one and season two Harriet
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  Speaker 2: awful whatever.
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  Speaker 1: It was a Steven the bel Air.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, yes, she actually did cook some meals. See
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  Speaker 2: that's why trust her.
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  Speaker 1: She actually cooked meals.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, yes, what did she do?
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  Speaker 1: What was it? We got the best TV. Remember she
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: was the elevator operator.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, okay, yeah, because she had lost her y'all,
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: don't don't don't fold me, okay, TV kid, she had
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: lost her job and she was trying to get the
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: new job and something about she didn't have the right recommendations.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: I remember that episode. Okay, okay. We watched TV that
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: we had. We didn't have social media, we didn't have apps,
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: and we had pulls some TV back then.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Yes, not the stuff y'all have nowadays.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: I can barely look at a TV show with my
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: daughter without telling her to close her eyes or going
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: the room and.
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  Speaker 1: Go downstairs and give me something to drink until I work.
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  Speaker 2: You know, So we have the television mom. Yes, best movie, Mom?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, best movie, Mom, I don't know. No, we'll see.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Oh, I got one, you got one.
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: I got soul Food Green.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: Oh, so food, Granny, So you can beat Soul Food Green.
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: That's a good one movie, mom, I really I have.
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: I have favorite movies. But the mom, I don't you
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: stole me on that one?
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: I never.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: M hm oh when I got another one?
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: Okay, oh, she just start everybody straw The one had
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: everybody in a choke hold.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: Oh, it had me.
• 25:20
  Speaker 4: It had me in a choke hol It had me
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: in a choke hold for like a whole two days.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Let you questioned that that's great.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: Let's not that's great, But let's I'm gonna pivot off
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: of that for a second. How did you feel as
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: a mom when you finished looking at that?
• 25:40
  Speaker 4: I I could it resonated, It remnated a lot. I
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: just I felt like I was in the movie with her.
• 25:50
  Speaker 4: I was just right about righting, like I could have
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: been her sidekick, like that's I was just I was
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: just crying up storm.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: To think that there are mothers that are at that point.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: I was just going through the movie like okay, you know,
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: she just wanted to gett your check. And then when
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: they say that the at the end of the movie
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: was like mind blown.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: Like yes, like I called, I was like, you can
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: get that bad, can get that.
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: Bad like as it was just like any we could
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: get We could be there at any moment the way
• 26:36
  Speaker 4: life happens.
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: And I know it's that.
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: I'm I'm I'm a woman of faith and I believe
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: in God, and I know, I know Jesus has to
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: come down sit next to me, because sometimes I'd be
• 26:52
  Speaker 4: willing to act.
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: Out, but I was like he must he God know,
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: let me help her out, let me.
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: So she won't go off the deep end because it's
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: it's close.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: Where you can h And what would you say to
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: a mother that is at that point? What advice would
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: you give to them?
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: But because I've been there, it hasn't been that extreme.
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: But because I've been there, I would I would just
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: encourage him.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: Don't give up.
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: Just keep holding on and keep the faith because it's
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: gonna work out. It just you know, just don't give
• 27:40
  Speaker 4: up because it's hard. It's it's it's hard. And that movie,
• 27:46
  Speaker 4: just like I said, it was two whole days. I
• 27:49
  Speaker 4: was still on that movie, like it had me thinking
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: about my past and when when my older two were younger,
• 27:55
  Speaker 4: and and a few things I went through that was similar,
• 28:00
  Speaker 4: you know, with the paychecks just not adding up and
• 28:02
  Speaker 4: the bills just keep coming, and it's like you don't
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: so you don't feel like you have anyone.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: That really can understand. So that it was great.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: It was a really good movie.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: I remember being at that point.
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: And I do have sisters, but you know, I used
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: to and I still do.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: And this is a bad thing that I do.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: I keep things to myself, so y'all don't judge me,
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: but this is what I have done in the past.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: When I'm really.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: Going through and it's that midnight hour and you know
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: everybody is sleeping and you can't just find somebody. I
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: have literally doubted my own number and talked to my
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: voicemail m M and I talked to my voicemail and
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: I talk it all the way through, and I really
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: felt better after way. I knew nobody was on the
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: other end of the phone. But the fact is, every
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: thing that was in me, that was bothering me, I
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: was able to.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: As they say, purge it out.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: Yes, So in the midnight moms, when you you prayed
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: and you don't stand and you you.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: You just need that one extra thing. Yeah, I've done.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: That's good.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: It was, it was I was yeah, and I can't
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: feel better, you know, sometimes I have.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: To get it out right. Okay, one more question. Okay,
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: you can choose anyone to play you as a mother?
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: Mm hm who would it be? And why did you
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: choose them?
• 29:49
  Speaker 4: If I could choose anyone, Okay, she's gonna be young
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: because I have to that youthful love.
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: Okay, off right off the top of my head.
• 30:06
  Speaker 4: And just because I saw her in the movie with
• 30:10
  Speaker 4: method Man, I would choose Kelly Rowland.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: She said, Method Man. I'm sorry, did you see did
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: you see?
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: Did you see the movie?
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: I am planning on looking at that this weekend. Isn't
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: that the It's on Prime.
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: I just watched it.
• 30:30
  Speaker 4: It's great, You're gonna love It's it's good.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: It's good.
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: I couldn't see them two together. It was just it's
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: really good they have. It's a really good chemistry.
• 30:41
  Speaker 4: I didn't at first I was thinking about it was
• 30:44
  Speaker 4: like them two, it's great. They had a really good
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: chemistry on set. So I would choose her only because
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: I think she's a great actress. I think she would
• 30:56
  Speaker 4: do that part justice. And then that the man would
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: have to be my man, the guy who play he'd
• 31:06
  Speaker 4: have to play to the love interest.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: We'll see by that.
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna hey, I'm putting out Hey, I don't
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: need you outside the three clock for man.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: We clocked now for Common.
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: We're gonna meet at noon, So you know, I gotta
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: be mean something by met the man and Common.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: It's just.
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: That.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, for sure.
• 31:40
  Speaker 7: None like who ever thought the one all I needed
• 31:47
  Speaker 7: to get died with the bad I don't know what
• 31:50
  Speaker 7: that thing you had in your eye met the man
• 31:51
  Speaker 7: that was really scary in that video to this.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: Beautiful bean.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: You know. Yeah, yes, I'm sorry, that's all right, I'm
• 32:03
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• 32:20
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