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Your Boundaries Aren't Hurting People — They're Revealing Who Was Benefiting From You Having None

In this episode we’ll talk about:

Why setting boundaries so often gets confused with hurting people — when what's really happening is that boundaries are exposing dynamics that were never sustainable in the first place, and why the discomfort others feel is not the same thing as harm being done to them

The specific way that a lack of boundaries quietly benefits certain people in your life — and why the loudest resistance to your new limits almost always comes from the ones who were quietly gaining the most from your old lack of them

Why the people who genuinely love you will adjust to your…

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