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- 0:00Speaker 1: One six, blowing seven light at them from Maya in
- 0:02Speaker 1: New Jersey who texted me and said, shout me out, man.
- 0:04Speaker 1: So there you go, Maya, she's our family friend. Always
- 0:08Speaker 1: tuned in early in the morning. It's Kubby, Christine producer Kristin. Uh.
- 0:12Speaker 1: If you're up early and tuned in early, hit us
- 0:15Speaker 1: up at four, four, three, six three.
- 0:16Speaker 2: Let us know how how you did yesterday?
- 0:18Speaker 1: Too rough weather day? Right, Yes, we all got something,
- 0:22Speaker 1: but I feel like north and west of New York
- 0:24Speaker 1: City really got humbled, you know, Morris County and your
- 0:28Speaker 1: neck of the woods, Christine, North Jersey.
- 0:30Speaker 2: Well, there's pictures, you know, unofficial, and people were posting
- 0:33Speaker 2: in Clifton and it looked like a twister to me.
- 0:36Speaker 2: Looks like we're not in Kansas anymore.
- 0:38Speaker 1: Yeah, they're investigating. I think two that might have touched.
- 0:40Speaker 2: Down, right, not the Clifton one though, but I mean, yeah,
- 0:43Speaker 2: you know, in the area. Yeah, in the we were
- 0:45Speaker 2: just really fortunate. We were fortunate except for like the
- 0:48Speaker 2: phone exploding and scaring all of us, but we were good.
- 0:50Speaker 1: Oh your phone, you get that.
- 0:53Speaker 2: So loud.
- 0:54Speaker 1: I didn't get that, but I've gotten them before, and
- 0:56Speaker 1: they hear the heck.
- 0:57Speaker 2: Out of me, out of me, out of Eric and
- 0:59Speaker 2: Archie was jumping.
- 1:01Speaker 1: Were you under in your neck of the woods? As
- 1:03Speaker 1: Al Roker would say, were you under a tornado? Morning?
- 1:06Speaker 1: Is that what you got?
- 1:07Speaker 2: Like go to the basement now, like that kind of stuff?
- 1:09Speaker 1: Yeah, And did you react or just like we're fine.
- 1:13Speaker 2: I'm like, we're good.
- 1:15Speaker 1: I usually do that too.
- 1:16Speaker 2: I do like, if anything happens, just put Archie in
- 1:18Speaker 2: the bathroom because I know, like that'll hold up, that's safe.
- 1:22Speaker 2: Eric and I were on our own.
- 1:23Speaker 1: I've always heard if a tornado is coming, it sounds
- 1:26Speaker 1: like a freight train. Oh and so I feel like
- 1:29Speaker 1: if I hear that, go to the basement, and I
- 1:32Speaker 1: have at least five seconds I could get.
- 1:34Speaker 2: To the basement. Goodness. Yeah, I don't mean to make
- 1:36Speaker 2: light of it, because it's like really really serious. I
- 1:38Speaker 2: just didn't feel like it was gonna happen like to
- 1:41Speaker 2: us exactly right, you know.
- 1:43Speaker 1: And I'm with you. I'm with you. I've done that.
- 1:45Speaker 1: I mean I think we all kind of just look
- 1:47Speaker 1: at it and go really.
- 1:48Speaker 2: Yeah, but one of these days would be scary.
- 1:53Speaker 1: Yeah, we had one big thunderstorm in East Brunswick, but
- 1:56Speaker 1: that was about it. Certain parts of our area, Scott like,
- 2:00Speaker 1: you know, a little bit North Jersey as we mentioned
- 2:02Speaker 1: in Westchester Westchester flood.
- 2:05Speaker 2: I saw Connecticut as well.
- 2:07Speaker 1: Yeah, but today's a brand new day, looking better weatherwy sunshine,
- 2:10Speaker 1: high eighty five. We could see a thunderstorm in the afternoon,
- 2:13Speaker 1: but nothing crazy. Happy birthday. It's July twenty second, and
- 2:16Speaker 1: I want to kick things off with my dad. My
- 2:20Speaker 1: dad is ninety five years old today.
- 2:22Speaker 2: Happy birthday to your.
- 2:23Speaker 1: Dad, John Fletcher Bryant in Virginia Beach, Virginia. He hasn't
- 2:27Speaker 1: heard me on the radio probably in ten years, because
- 2:29Speaker 1: he doesn't know how to work an app or anything,
- 2:32Speaker 1: and he lives in Virginia Beach, Virginia, so he's not
- 2:34Speaker 1: going to get me on the regular radio. So, Dad,
- 2:38Speaker 1: if you ever end up hearing this, maybe Kristen can
- 2:40Speaker 1: pull this audio and I can send it to him.
- 2:42Speaker 1: But you know what, he didn't even know how to
- 2:43Speaker 1: open it on a computer.
- 2:44Speaker 2: Oh no, you play it up on your phone, like
- 2:48Speaker 2: save it on your phone. You play it for him. Yeah.
- 2:50Speaker 1: So Dad's ninety five and they're doing something real special
- 2:53Speaker 1: for him and his favorite watering hole in Virginia beach.
- 2:56Speaker 2: He has a bar he goes to, so Yeah, where
- 2:58Speaker 2: everybody knows his name.
- 2:59Speaker 1: Everybody knows his name, and my sister's picking him up.
- 3:01Speaker 1: He doesn't drive anymore, and they're taking him down for
- 3:04Speaker 1: a three o'clock happy hour. It's a little early five,
- 3:07Speaker 1: not quite five o'clock, more like three o'clock.
- 3:09Speaker 2: Well, yeah, those are our hours.
- 3:11Speaker 1: I'm telling you.
- 3:12Speaker 2: One day I'm going to make the perfect or I
- 3:14Speaker 2: already do perfect. Older man, I had dinner at four eight. Yeah.
- 3:22Speaker 1: And other celebrity birthdays, well other like my dad's a celebrity.
- 3:25Speaker 1: But in other birthday news, George Clinton is eighty five today,
- 3:29Speaker 1: Danny Glover is eighty. Don Henley is seventy nine. Albert Brooks,
- 3:34Speaker 1: comedian seventy nine. John Leguizamo from the Odyssey, which was
- 3:38Speaker 1: the big movie this past weekend, is sixty six. David
- 3:42Speaker 1: Spade is sixty two. And if you're Stele writing today,
- 3:45Speaker 1: let us know at four four, three six three light.
- 3:49Speaker 3: More Covey and Christine and a great music variety you
- 3:51Speaker 3: expect next on light at them?
- 3:53Speaker 1: Do you remember my joke from yesterday? Christine? Let's see
- 3:56Speaker 1: how good your memory is. What's Michael Jackson's favorite beverage.
- 4:04Speaker 2: You do it better.
- 4:05Speaker 1: No, you do it really good too. I'm telling you
- 4:07Speaker 1: that's a that's a good one. Don't christ don't give
- 4:09Speaker 1: me that look like that joke is awful. That's a
- 4:12Speaker 1: darn good dad joke. All right, here we go.
- 4:16Speaker 2: I need to tell you two cents.
- 4:18Speaker 3: Co's two pretty cool things.
- 4:22Speaker 2: If that wasn't cool enough, here's something else for you.
- 4:28Speaker 1: When you were doing road trips back when you were
- 4:30Speaker 1: a kid, did you ever do like a thousand bottles
- 4:33Speaker 1: of beer on the wall, or a million bottles of
- 4:35Speaker 1: beer on the wall?
- 4:36Speaker 2: Maybe a hundred, but okay, okay, Well, there is a
- 4:39Speaker 2: group trying to do thousands of bottles.
- 4:42Speaker 1: Thousands of beer drinkers around the world are joining WhatsApp
- 4:46Speaker 1: group chats with an ambitious goal to collectively drink one
- 4:49Speaker 1: million beers and to hit the milestone. Members upload photos
- 4:54Speaker 1: of their cold ones, which are then tallied in a
- 4:57Speaker 1: master spreadsheet. And because WhatsApp has a strict ten twenty
- 5:00Speaker 1: four member limit, anybody getting getting in on the challenge
- 5:04Speaker 1: has a bit of heavy lifting to do. So you know,
- 5:06Speaker 1: only one twenty four members, You need to post a
- 5:09Speaker 1: lot of beer picks to reach a million.
- 5:11Speaker 2: You can do it.
- 5:12Speaker 1: But so far the original WhatsApp group has chugged just
- 5:16Speaker 1: over one hundred thousand beers and is on pace to
- 5:19Speaker 1: reach the million beer goal by twenty thirty four.
- 5:23Speaker 2: Wow, So this is gonna take them a little while.
- 5:25Speaker 1: Thousands of people trying to reach a million bottles of beer.
- 5:29Speaker 2: They will do this.
- 5:30Speaker 1: I will get back to you in.
- 5:31Speaker 2: Twenty thirty four. I'm part of the group.
- 5:33Speaker 1: All right, give me a cool thing, Christine.
- 5:35Speaker 2: Oh, I love this one. So there is a magical
- 5:38Speaker 2: Mystery tour and it is what it sounds like. It's
- 5:41Speaker 2: a Beatles tour that's done in Liverpool and England, where
- 5:44Speaker 2: they were originally from. So the bus is going through town.
- 5:48Speaker 2: Bunch of Beatle fans on the Magical Mystery Tour bus
- 5:52Speaker 2: pull up to a red light and who is legit
- 5:55Speaker 2: sitting in his car at the same red light Paul McCartney.
- 6:00Speaker 2: Not only is Paul McCartney in the car at the
- 6:02Speaker 2: red light and waving to the tour bus, he holds
- 6:05Speaker 2: up his cell phone and he's talking to Ringo's Star.
- 6:08Speaker 1: What are the chances?
- 6:09Speaker 2: So these people their minds must have been blown?
- 6:12Speaker 1: Talk about cool? Yeah, I mean this resonates has pretty cool.
- 6:15Speaker 2: Oh, this is this is awesome. So apparently he was
- 6:18Speaker 2: in his hometown to present actor Stephen Graham with a
- 6:22Speaker 2: Companionship Award at the Liverpool Institute for Performing Arts, which
- 6:25Speaker 2: is like one of his causes, one of the places
- 6:28Speaker 2: that he helps to fund. So that's why he was
- 6:31Speaker 2: in town. He saw the bus and he definitely played along.
- 6:33Speaker 1: I love it. More variety from the eighties through today.
- 6:36Speaker 3: Next more Covey and Christine and the great music variety
- 6:39Speaker 3: you expect. Next on light at Them.
- 6:41Speaker 1: It is hump day. A lot of people are doing
- 6:44Speaker 1: their summer travel. We're right in the middle of it.
- 6:46Speaker 1: Maybe you're going to the airport right now. We're not
- 6:49Speaker 1: trying to stress you out.
- 6:50Speaker 2: You probably already are.
- 6:52Speaker 1: You probably already are. And there are airports that will
- 6:54Speaker 1: legit stress you out.
- 6:56Speaker 2: Yeah, and guess where they're located. Let me guess, Oh,
- 6:59Speaker 2: right here at home.
- 7:00Speaker 1: I'm pointing at it right now. Could it be Newark?
- 7:02Speaker 2: Could be that a way? That a way for us
- 7:04Speaker 2: in Manhattan? Point in each direction?
- 7:06Speaker 1: What makes a stressful airport?
- 7:08Speaker 2: Well? Delays, parking costs, How to travel between the airport
- 7:12Speaker 2: and the city center, so we're not number one on
- 7:17Speaker 2: the list. I think they should be. But O'Hare in Chicago,
- 7:20Speaker 2: and I've yet to go there, would you agree, Paul
- 7:22Speaker 2: Cuvey Brown to.
- 7:23Speaker 1: Me, they're all the same at this point. O'Hare is
- 7:25Speaker 1: so close to like, you know, that big it's a
- 7:27Speaker 1: big city, so it's kind of similar.
- 7:29Speaker 2: It's the same thing going on as than the next
- 7:32Speaker 2: three LaGuardia, JFK, Newark, right, boom.
- 7:35Speaker 1: Boom boo, Chicago in there, it's the same. And Denver, Denver, Okay.
- 7:40Speaker 2: Denver's on the on the top five list. And by
- 7:43Speaker 2: the way, there's still like flights canceled today, right or
- 7:46Speaker 2: like they're still trying to make up.
- 7:47Speaker 1: They're trying to make up for yesterday.
- 7:48Speaker 2: Yesterday.
- 7:48Speaker 1: You know what I did, because I'm kind of a
- 7:50Speaker 1: you know, I'm an aviation geek. I went on my
- 7:52Speaker 1: United app yesterday and just for the heck of it,
- 7:54Speaker 1: I typed in lax to Newark. Oh and there was
- 7:58Speaker 1: four planes in the air and two were diverting.
- 8:01Speaker 2: Oh wow.
- 8:02Speaker 1: One was going LA and had to divert to Houston
- 8:05Speaker 1: because the weather was already coming in. They just said, hey,
- 8:07Speaker 1: just hang out in Texas for a while and then
- 8:10Speaker 1: the other one was in Philly. Wow, so yeah they
- 8:14Speaker 1: were diverting. So yeah, they're making that up today. Now
- 8:17Speaker 1: can we stress you out more?
- 8:19Speaker 2: Why not?
- 8:20Speaker 1: It's funny you have that article because I'm reading an
- 8:22Speaker 1: article about lost luggage and it's one of our biggest fears.
- 8:25Speaker 1: When you're flying. Yeah, and the airline, you know, they
- 8:28Speaker 1: lose your luggage. So what do you do? Here are
- 8:30Speaker 1: tips for how to prepare, be proactive, and how to
- 8:33Speaker 1: reduce reduce the risk. So fly NonStop if you can.
- 8:37Speaker 1: Is the most common cause of lost luggage is changing planes,
- 8:41Speaker 1: so try not to change planes. If you can do NonStop,
- 8:44Speaker 1: Open your bag and take pictures. This will make it
- 8:47Speaker 1: easier to file the claim for lost items. Use a
- 8:51Speaker 1: tracker like an Apple air tag, which we do, our
- 8:54Speaker 1: family does. That you'll be able to find your bag
- 8:56Speaker 1: more easily. If they do lose it, you can show
- 8:59Speaker 1: them on your phone. Hey it's right here. Yeah, hang
- 9:02Speaker 1: on to that check bag tag. The airline will have
- 9:05Speaker 1: a much easier way of tracking that down. And also
- 9:09Speaker 1: a lot of times it's in your app. Now you
- 9:10Speaker 1: don't have to hold onto that physical piece of paper.
- 9:13Speaker 1: It's in the app, which is very helpful, and then
- 9:16Speaker 1: file acclaim immediately. If your bag is gone, go to
- 9:19Speaker 1: the lost luggage desk before you leave the airport. They'll
- 9:22Speaker 1: deliver to your home or vacation spot, and if it's
- 9:25Speaker 1: truly lost, they'll compensate you up to forty seven hundred dollars.
- 9:30Speaker 1: I don't have my glasses on. Is that forty seven hundred? Yeah?
- 9:32Speaker 2: For oh wow, hundred. So it's a lot of souvenirs.
- 9:36Speaker 1: To me. You're making money if that happens, right, because
- 9:39Speaker 1: who has forty seven hundred dollars worth of stuff?
- 9:41Speaker 2: I don't. I still don't want to lose my stuff though,
- 9:43Speaker 2: but yes, yeah, I never have that much. I think
- 9:46Speaker 2: the hardest thing for me would be again, well it
- 9:49Speaker 2: would stink if you're going on your vacation and you
- 9:51Speaker 2: don't have your stuff, but coming home, if you do
- 9:54Speaker 2: have any special souvenirs, those are the things I worry
- 9:56Speaker 2: about the most, true, like please let them come back
- 9:58Speaker 2: and come back in one piece. I usually a bubble
- 10:00Speaker 2: wrap in there.
- 10:01Speaker 1: But you don't care about the clothes too much. No,
- 10:03Speaker 1: I don't need those right now.
- 10:03Speaker 2: Now. I'm okay, Yeah, I can buy more underwear.
- 10:07Speaker 3: More covey and Christine and the great music variety you
- 10:09Speaker 3: expect next on Light at Them.
- 10:11Speaker 1: Well, this story comes up once a year and at
- 10:14Speaker 1: least we have to tackle it again. But it's a
- 10:16Speaker 1: good conversation, it always is. It gets me thinking, it's
- 10:18Speaker 1: light f M. Cubby, Christine, producer Christen just I'm gonna
- 10:21Speaker 1: get right to it. Christine, do you wash new clothes
- 10:25Speaker 1: before wearing them?
- 10:26Speaker 2: Absolutely, you're a yes, I'm a big.
- 10:29Speaker 1: Yes, I'm a sometimes yes. You got a quick from you.
- 10:34Speaker 1: Kristen's a yes, yes, baby clothes. We do it, okay,
- 10:37Speaker 1: but for me, I don't always.
- 10:39Speaker 2: But have we learned since we've had the last discussion,
- 10:43Speaker 2: because we're told, Kubby that there could be chemical residue
- 10:47Speaker 2: and shipping dust on the clothes, and you don't if
- 10:50Speaker 2: you're buying it from a store, you don't know who
- 10:52Speaker 2: tried it on.
- 10:53Speaker 1: Yeah, I know all those And you think about how
- 10:56Speaker 1: long it's been in a factory, maybe.
- 10:58Speaker 2: Because you've been exposed.
- 11:00Speaker 1: You mentioned shipping dust, but how long was it on
- 11:02Speaker 1: that shelf in the warehouse before it got in the
- 11:05Speaker 1: plastic bag? If you're buying jeans for.
- 11:06Speaker 2: Example, or what about do you know like now ordering
- 11:10Speaker 2: so much stuff off of Amazon. You ever get something
- 11:12Speaker 2: that's shrink wrapped and you open it and the smell
- 11:15Speaker 2: is you.
- 11:16Speaker 1: Don't know if it's a bad smell or a good
- 11:17Speaker 1: smell or.
- 11:18Speaker 2: I feel like I shouldn't be breathing this, So don't
- 11:20Speaker 2: you feel like you need to wash it? I?
- 11:22Speaker 1: Yes, you're right, but sometimes I'm too lazy, and I'm
- 11:24Speaker 1: just like, ah, you know what, I'll wash him after
- 11:26Speaker 1: I wear him today. And I'm mainly thinking of jeans.
- 11:29Speaker 2: For some reasons. Yeah, and Eric would make a good couple,
- 11:32Speaker 2: the odd couple. Yeah, well, because he does the same thing,
- 11:35Speaker 2: the big thing. I think the last time we got
- 11:37Speaker 2: hung up on this, you and I was because Eric
- 11:40Speaker 2: had gotten like a box of underwear for his birthday
- 11:43Speaker 2: or you had gotten one, and he just like yay
- 11:46Speaker 2: and put him on. And it's like, no, you wash
- 11:49Speaker 2: those first, And you agreed with Eric, You're like that,
- 11:51Speaker 2: just wear him.
- 11:51Speaker 1: A lot of times I'll buy new underwear and I
- 11:54Speaker 1: know I should probably wash him first, but I'm like,
- 11:56Speaker 1: what could happen? Like if I wear them all day
- 11:59Speaker 1: and they haven't been watched brand new, what's the worst
- 12:03Speaker 1: that can happen? I know, technically, if I want to
- 12:05Speaker 1: be really safe, wash it.
- 12:07Speaker 2: You guys are just so different. I don't know, I mean, guys.
- 12:11Speaker 1: Guys are No, you're right, men, I don't know what
- 12:14Speaker 1: it is.
- 12:14Speaker 2: You're not thinking about this. I don't like. There's some
- 12:17Speaker 2: responses this. Actually, like they did a Reddit pull, so
- 12:19Speaker 2: it's not just us talking about this. And I like
- 12:22Speaker 2: this person who says, I work in a clothing store.
- 12:24Speaker 2: I've seen how they come in. I've seen the people
- 12:26Speaker 2: who try them on wash them.
- 12:29Speaker 1: See I hear that, and I think, Okay, from now on,
- 12:31Speaker 1: I'm going to wash. But what's going to happen in
- 12:33Speaker 1: two days? I'll forget about this particular story and not
- 12:36Speaker 1: even think about it. But then I read people saying
- 12:39Speaker 1: they got a bad skin rash one time by not
- 12:41Speaker 1: washing it before wearing, and they never made that mistake again.
- 12:44Speaker 2: Yeah, here's a person who said, severe allergic reaction to
- 12:47Speaker 2: brand new genes. Sometimes the jeans have a really strong
- 12:51Speaker 2: smell too, and it's hard to get that out of there.
- 12:53Speaker 2: My legs were itchy, swollen and red for weeks. So yeah,
- 12:57Speaker 2: must wash. I worked retail for so long saw people
- 13:01Speaker 2: wipe things on clothes. Oh my goodness, that's the one
- 13:04Speaker 2: I'm seeing. I'm not repeating it.
- 13:06Speaker 1: Picking their nose and trying on gas. Yeah, four four
- 13:11Speaker 1: six three. Simple question, do you wash clothes that are
- 13:15Speaker 1: brand new before wearing them for the first time? Four
- 13:19Speaker 1: four three six three will get the numbers and the
- 13:22Speaker 1: results coming out. All right, what do you have coming
- 13:24Speaker 1: up in the news.
- 13:24Speaker 2: We're gonna check out the headlines and technically, I mean
- 13:27Speaker 2: physically who needs more sleep? Men or women?
- 13:30Speaker 1: We'll find out next.
- 13:31Speaker 3: More Covey and Christine and the great music variety you
- 13:34Speaker 3: expect next on Light at.
- 13:36Speaker 1: Them July twenty second. Christine has everything you need to know.
- 13:39Speaker 1: Good morning Christine, and.
- 13:39Speaker 2: Good morning Covey. So the National Weather Service is going
- 13:42Speaker 2: to survey the storm damage in New Jersey and see
- 13:45Speaker 2: if these were actual tornadoes that touched down yesterday in
- 13:48Speaker 2: Stanhope and Troy Hills. I mean from video, it certainly
- 13:51Speaker 2: looked like it did. US. Flooding is still an issue,
- 13:54Speaker 2: especially in Westchester County. We still have parts of the
- 13:56Speaker 2: Bronx River Parkway and saw Milbriver Parkway closed off because
- 14:00Speaker 2: of flooding. And here in New York, sadly, the death
- 14:03Speaker 2: toll link to the Legionnaire's disease outbreak has risen to five.
- 14:06Speaker 2: That's on the Upper east Side. City health officials saying
- 14:09Speaker 2: that fifth person has died from legionnaires. Meanwhile, the widow
- 14:13Speaker 2: of one of the other victims is filing a lawsuit
- 14:16Speaker 2: against the building where they had lived. Secretary of War
- 14:20Speaker 2: Pete Hegsath faced pointed questions in the Senate yesterday about
- 14:23Speaker 2: the Iran wars timeline and Tehran's military capabilities. Several Democratic
- 14:29Speaker 2: senators pressed his past statements that Iran's missile program was
- 14:33Speaker 2: functionally destroyed after the regime just attacked US military base
- 14:38Speaker 2: in Jordan. Tropical Storm Bertha is now moving towards Louisiana.
- 14:44Speaker 2: Looks like Bertha has New Orleans inner sites. And no
- 14:48Speaker 2: one won last night's Megan Million. So the jackpot is
- 14:51Speaker 2: seven hundred forty three million for Friday Powerball tonight five
- 14:55Speaker 2: hundred and sixty seven million. In sports, the Mets beat
- 14:58Speaker 2: the Brewers for nothing, and the Yankees game pushed to
- 15:01Speaker 2: today's doubleheader. Now double bit, you need separate tickets because yeah,
- 15:06Speaker 2: they just saw the weather coming and said, uh, I'm
- 15:08Speaker 2: not going to do it, and who needs more sleep?
- 15:11Speaker 2: And I'm talking technically, physically, biologically, it's us Covey, it's women,
- 15:17Speaker 2: men or women. On average, women need fifty two minutes
- 15:20Speaker 2: more of sleep per day than men.
- 15:23Speaker 1: Why can't they just say everybody?
- 15:25Speaker 2: Why does it have to Because I'm just I'm just
- 15:28Speaker 2: pointing it out, just like I need co go rest.
- 15:32Speaker 1: Well, she actually gets three more hours more than me.
- 15:35Speaker 1: I see that to her all the time.
- 15:36Speaker 2: Maybe go should let you rest.
- 15:38Speaker 1: She has the harder job too. She has a harder job.
- 15:41Speaker 3: More Covey and Christine and the great music variety you
- 15:44Speaker 3: expect next on light.
- 15:45Speaker 1: At them pump day. Weatherwise much better than yesterday. Cloudy
- 15:49Speaker 1: this morning. I think we'll see sun later and high
- 15:51Speaker 1: of eighty five. There could be a thunderstorm in the afternoon,
- 15:54Speaker 1: but nothing crazy like yesterday. Although I want to tell
- 15:56Speaker 1: you something real quick that was kind of cute. Yesterday, Christine,
- 15:58Speaker 1: my four year old son Miles all day kept saying,
- 16:01Speaker 1: there's a tomato.
- 16:02Speaker 2: Watch, Oh, watch over flying tomatoes, look.
- 16:05Speaker 1: Out for flying tomatoes. For some reason, he kept turning
- 16:08Speaker 1: a tornado watch into tomato watch, and it was very endearing.
- 16:11Speaker 2: Kind of sounds like more fun.
- 16:12Speaker 1: Yes, all right, you know how you're like such a
- 16:18Speaker 1: good friend, and sometimes you feel like you're always prepared
- 16:21Speaker 1: with just the right thing to say. And I'm not
- 16:23Speaker 1: talking to you, Christine. I'm talking about some people that
- 16:25Speaker 1: just always just seem to be helpful and say the
- 16:28Speaker 1: right things. Well, there are some common phrases that you
- 16:32Speaker 1: may think are nice, but they're coming across condescending. And
- 16:37Speaker 1: we have that right here. There's an expert talking about it.
- 16:40Speaker 2: Yes, a communication expert and psychotherapist Elizabeth Crane says a
- 16:45Speaker 2: few phrases that you may be using that come off
- 16:47Speaker 2: as condescending or patronizing, and one of them is, oh,
- 16:50Speaker 2: how cute. Now, when you talked about Miles, Yes, he's
- 16:54Speaker 2: legit cute and what he said is cute, But to
- 16:57Speaker 2: an adult, she said, it could come off as belittling.
- 17:01Speaker 2: It's also not appropriate or helpful to label things like
- 17:04Speaker 2: some someone's understanding of something or effort to try to
- 17:08Speaker 2: do something as cute.
- 17:09Speaker 1: Okay, so that cute, you try cute. So we have
- 17:13Speaker 1: a big meeting with our boss today. If she says
- 17:15Speaker 1: somewhere during the conversation, oh, how cute, cubby.
- 17:17Speaker 2: Yeah that might not be good. Yeah, Oh that's a
- 17:20Speaker 2: red flag. Okay, when you say, well, actually, so what
- 17:24Speaker 2: usually follows is some sort of man explaining or something
- 17:27Speaker 2: that doesn't need to be explained to that person.
- 17:29Speaker 1: Well, actually, well actually.
- 17:32Speaker 2: It's almost like you're telling them what they said is wrong.
- 17:36Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I'm trying to think of something similar
- 17:39Speaker 1: to that. It's almost like, oh my gosh, what's there's
- 17:42Speaker 1: a phrase that happens all the time, like I don't
- 17:45Speaker 1: want to, I don't want to. I can't think of it.
- 17:47Speaker 2: Yeah, it's sometimes people are just airing the grievances, you know,
- 17:51Speaker 2: they just want to be heard, and you don't have
- 17:52Speaker 2: to well actually them, you could just you know it,
- 17:55Speaker 2: just actually just be there for them. You can say
- 17:57Speaker 2: to the person you're trying your best, but it sounds
- 18:01Speaker 2: like that's a low expectation, and are surprised that the
- 18:03Speaker 2: person you're talking to managed to even get to that level.
- 18:07Speaker 1: Kristen says that a lot to me. I'll be like,
- 18:08Speaker 1: you know what, I wasn't very good in that last segment,
- 18:11Speaker 1: and she's like, eh, you know you're trying.
- 18:12Speaker 2: You tried your best.
- 18:14Speaker 1: I really, ah, I am trying, but sometimes it's just
- 18:17Speaker 1: the wheels fall off.
- 18:17Speaker 2: I've had people say that to me. Okay, so now
- 18:20Speaker 2: I know you just need to. Now, that could be
- 18:24Speaker 2: that you're implying that the other person's current direction is wrong.
- 18:28Speaker 2: They're going the wrong way, and you're going, you know what,
- 18:29Speaker 2: you just need to.
- 18:31Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't I don't know why. I don't have
- 18:33Speaker 1: a problem with that though, you just need to. Well
- 18:36Speaker 1: to me, they're trying to help me.
- 18:37Speaker 2: More if you take it that way, if you're open
- 18:39Speaker 2: to it.
- 18:40Speaker 1: Yeah, but it could be condescending.
- 18:42Speaker 2: Again, like I said, sometimes sometimes we just we want
- 18:45Speaker 2: to complain and we just want you to listen. If
- 18:48Speaker 2: you say, oh, well, that's not a big deal, I mean,
- 18:50Speaker 2: come on, you're saying that that's not important. It's important
- 18:53Speaker 2: to that person.
- 18:54Speaker 1: Right, the problem right they brought up to you.
- 18:57Speaker 2: Yeah, discontinue their experience and feelings on the matter. So
- 19:00Speaker 2: if it's a big deal to them, it is just Yeah,
- 19:03Speaker 2: and you wouldn't understand.
- 19:05Speaker 1: See that's just straight up rude.
- 19:07Speaker 2: I think so too. But you're implying that the other
- 19:09Speaker 2: person isn't smart enough to know what you're talking about.
- 19:13Speaker 1: Now, Again, these sayings are bad in everyday life, but
- 19:16Speaker 1: especially like at work.
- 19:18Speaker 2: Yeah, and also if you're trying to be there for
- 19:20Speaker 2: someone and listen to them again, Like if you come
- 19:24Speaker 2: back with one of these, you wouldn't understand things.
- 19:28Speaker 1: That's oh, I know, that's like if.
- 19:30Speaker 2: You want to come at someone, I go with that.
- 19:34Speaker 3: More Covey and Christine and the great music variety you expect.
- 19:38Speaker 3: Next on Light at Them pretty good Trivia lightm Trivia Battle.
- 19:44Speaker 1: Hump Day edition of our Trivia Battle Christine, let me
- 19:47Speaker 1: introduce to you who's on Team Covey. Okay, we have
- 19:50Speaker 1: Lindsay from Mamuth on the phone. Lindsay, good morning. I
- 19:53Speaker 1: know you've played before, but remind us what you do
- 19:56Speaker 1: him running. I'm going to intern in Ner City and
- 20:00Speaker 1: I'm on.
- 20:00Speaker 3: My way to work.
- 20:01Speaker 1: Thanks for the reminder, Lindsay. Who's on team Christine?
- 20:04Speaker 2: Hillary from West Hampstead, Good morning, Hillary.
- 20:06Speaker 1: Good morning.
- 20:07Speaker 2: Hi. What do you do?
- 20:09Speaker 1: I am a school psychologist in a developmental preschool on
- 20:12Speaker 1: Long Island. Well, and are you working during the summer?
- 20:15Speaker 1: Are you off?
- 20:17Speaker 2: I am working? Okay?
- 20:21Speaker 1: The size says it all. Well, Lindsay, good luck, Hillary,
- 20:24Speaker 1: Good luck. You both are going to get three questions
- 20:27Speaker 1: and the best out of three wins. Here we go,
- 20:29Speaker 1: Lindsay and Team Cubby. So college football training camps will
- 20:33Speaker 1: open next week. What school won the national championship in
- 20:37Speaker 1: college football last season? Do you remember? Was it A Indiana?
- 20:41Speaker 1: B Kansas or C Vanderbilt? Uh? Indiana? It was Indiana
- 20:48Speaker 1: and you were on the board one nothing, Lindsay.
- 20:50Speaker 2: Okay, Hillary. Josh Hartnett starred in the big screen thriller Trap.
- 20:55Speaker 2: Who directed it? A Jordan Peel? B M. Night Shamalon
- 21:00Speaker 2: see Christopher Nolan. I'm gonna go with a A Jordan Peele. Yeah, nope,
- 21:08Speaker 2: I'm sorry, it's B. M. Night Shyamalan. Sorry.
- 21:11Speaker 1: All right, over to Lindsay. All right, Lindsay, July's birthstone
- 21:15Speaker 1: is the ruby? Which of these stones is also red?
- 21:19Speaker 1: Is it a garnet? B Amethyst or C Sapphire? Hey?
- 21:28Speaker 1: Garnet and you're up to nothing, Lindsey, Pressure on Hillary.
- 21:33Speaker 2: Okay, Hillary, we've got this in chess. How does a
- 21:36Speaker 2: bishop move a forwards or backwards B in an L shape?
- 21:41Speaker 3: Ce?
- 21:42Speaker 2: Diagonally?
- 21:44Speaker 1: Boy, I need the one about the garnet, but you
- 21:47Speaker 1: and me both.
- 21:50Speaker 2: I'm gonna say diagonally and you'd be correct. You got it.
- 21:54Speaker 1: Hillary in the game. Still, Uh, it is two to one,
- 21:57Speaker 1: but Lindsay can win it if you get this right, Lindsay,
- 22:00Speaker 1: The Real Housewives franchise expands overseas on Bravo. In which
- 22:06Speaker 1: city are they in a Hong Kong, be Sydney or
- 22:09Speaker 1: c London. They are going to London.
- 22:14Speaker 2: That is correct.
- 22:16Speaker 1: Wow, Lindsay, three for three pulls out.
- 22:18Speaker 2: Yes, sorry, Hillary, but you were great and you know
- 22:22Speaker 2: you can play again. Right, Thank you, thank you, thank everybody,
- 22:25Speaker 2: Thank you so much, thank you well, Lindsay, congrats you're
- 22:29Speaker 2: going to see Wanted, a soulful, dangerous new musical coming
- 22:33Speaker 2: to Broadway this fall. And also a one hundred dollars
- 22:36Speaker 2: gift card to John's Pizzeria of Times Square.
- 22:39Speaker 3: Awesome so much.
- 22:40Speaker 2: I'm so excited.
- 22:41Speaker 3: I look Broadway more Covey and Christine and the great
- 22:44Speaker 3: music variety you expect next.
- 22:46Speaker 1: Sunlight FM, good morning, thank you for choosing us. We
- 22:49Speaker 1: are light a FM. Cubby Christine Producer Kristen hump Day,
- 22:52Speaker 1: July twenty second, three hours commercial free about to kick off.
- 22:55Speaker 1: Variety from the eighties through today. You'll hear Shakira coming up.
- 22:59Speaker 1: You'll hear Michael Jack coming up. You'll hear Bond Jovi,
- 23:02Speaker 1: You'll get Taylor Swift. In the next half hour with
- 23:05Speaker 1: Elizabeth Taylor and we actually were just talking about Taylor
- 23:08Speaker 1: Swift off the air and we think something's up or
- 23:12Speaker 1: somebody's really good at security.
- 23:14Speaker 2: I have just so many questions. So she was married
- 23:16Speaker 2: July third.
- 23:17Speaker 1: Yeah, we've been what two and a half weeks now.
- 23:19Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not a single picture, nothing, nothing on Instagram,
- 23:24Speaker 2: like from Taylor, not one official photo from the wedding.
- 23:29Speaker 2: Because you're so right, I feel like we've been waiting patiently.
- 23:33Speaker 1: And we know they did a great job with security
- 23:36Speaker 1: checking your phone, not taking your phone into the wedding, right,
- 23:40Speaker 1: And I get.
- 23:41Speaker 2: The whole okay, Like maybe she wants that to be
- 23:43Speaker 2: private and just for them in the one thousand people
- 23:46Speaker 2: that were there. I get that, yes, But I would
- 23:48Speaker 2: think Taylor would have said something like, hey, you know,
- 23:51Speaker 2: not releasing pictures because this is private, this is just
- 23:54Speaker 2: for us.
- 23:55Speaker 1: I don't know, either one picture of them as a couple, yeah,
- 23:58Speaker 1: or a statement saying here's why you haven't seen any games.
- 24:02Speaker 1: And that's why again I stand my ground. There is
- 24:06Speaker 1: going to be something happening, I think in the next
- 24:07Speaker 1: few months, and they're going to release a picture and
- 24:10Speaker 1: then they're going to either spin it as if it
- 24:13Speaker 1: was a leak or you're you could see more on
- 24:16Speaker 1: Disney plus a big wedding. I know everyone else says
- 24:20Speaker 1: it's not happening.
- 24:21Speaker 2: I still think it's going on direction not know why.
- 24:23Speaker 1: I think that's going to happen. It's going to be
- 24:26Speaker 1: in the next six months.
- 24:28Speaker 2: Well it better be soon, because we move on pretty
- 24:31Speaker 2: fast in this world.
- 24:32Speaker 1: You know, you want pictures, darn it?
- 24:34Speaker 2: I just yeah. And I think was it Chris was
- 24:37Speaker 2: it you are who did her gown? Who said when
- 24:40Speaker 2: Taylor's ready, she'll be releasing pictures like we would see
- 24:43Speaker 2: it the designer that she had to her gown. But
- 24:46Speaker 2: Jason Kelcey, you know, because they've got the podcast. He
- 24:49Speaker 2: was talking about Travis Kelcey and saying he's always been
- 24:52Speaker 2: able to carry a tune and he did a great
- 24:54Speaker 2: job singing to Taylor at their wedding reception. So apparently
- 24:58Speaker 2: there were wedding duets. I mean, that's like the little
- 25:01Speaker 2: tidbits that we're getting here and there. Wow, and her ex,
- 25:05Speaker 2: you know, Matti Heally was she just went out with
- 25:07Speaker 2: him for a few weeks. From what we know, guy
- 25:09Speaker 2: got a whole album out of him. He got married
- 25:12Speaker 2: and we saw his pictures.
- 25:20Speaker 1: Well, I can't I still can't believe that the World
- 25:22Speaker 1: Cup is done, the whole two hundred and fiftieth birthday
- 25:25Speaker 1: celebration's done. Water's wedding is done.
- 25:27Speaker 2: Nicks are taking a rest.
- 25:29Speaker 1: Right to talk about I know, this football season in
- 25:32Speaker 1: school coming.
- 25:33Speaker 2: We were so busy in Manhattan for so long, and
- 25:36Speaker 2: now wow, everybody went home.
- 25:38Speaker 1: Right, it's finally kind of yeah, quiet, it's quiet. Hey,
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